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Speaker 2: Rise the Honorable Judge kikilik.

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Speaker 1: Man, Right, Jiki, what's the case?

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Speaker 3: All right, let's step in the courtroom. The gabble has

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Speaker 3: been hit. It says, hey, Kiki, am I wrong for

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Speaker 3: refusing to be my family's help fund. I'm thirty three

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Speaker 3: years old and I survived a very serious truck accident.

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Speaker 3: After surgeries, rehab and losing my job, I received a

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Speaker 3: seven figure settlement. I paid my medical bills, I bought

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Speaker 3: a modest home. I invested and saved money in case

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Speaker 3: I develop future medical issues. But the problem is my

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Speaker 3: family knows that I have that I have this money,

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Speaker 3: and they keep asking my sister's behind on rent. My

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Speaker 3: brother's car is about to be repossessed, and my mom

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Speaker 3: says that this is my moment to step up since

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Speaker 3: I don't have kids and I got lucky.

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Speaker 1: They even put out, you got lucky by getting hit

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Speaker 1: by a truck.

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Speaker 3: Right, like, girl, what they're lucky?

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Speaker 1: You're lucky your daughter's still alive. That is what you're

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Speaker 1: lucky about. Yeah, alright, sorry.

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Speaker 3: They even put my mom up to ax for fifty

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Speaker 3: thousand dollars in a group chat so that I can

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Speaker 3: help everyone get ahead. I said no, and now I'm

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Speaker 3: being called selfish. I've gotten cut out of family events

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Speaker 3: and I feel like I'm being iced out. I'm scared

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Speaker 3: that once I give up some money it won't stop.

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong for protecting my settlement instead of saving

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Speaker 3: my family?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys are the jury. By the way, eight

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Speaker 2: one three five, you can call text the same number.

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Speaker 2: Judge Kicky, What say you?

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Speaker 3: I say you are not wrong? I say you are

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Speaker 3: not wrong. You know, I think it's very rude and

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Speaker 3: inconsiderate of your family to count your pockets first of all,

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Speaker 3: and then just assume that because you don't have children,

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Speaker 3: that you have all this extra income to pay their

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Speaker 3: bills and do things for them. Like I think you

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Speaker 3: got a seven figure settlement. You've seemed like you've made

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Speaker 3: some very responsible choices with the money, And I think

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Speaker 3: that that's You're right, that is your prerogative. You don't

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Speaker 3: owe anyone anything. If you want to help your family out, sure,

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Speaker 3: that's kind, that's being nice. But if you have a

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Speaker 3: family that you know will take advantage of you, you

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Speaker 3: are not wrong, in my opinion, for protecting yourself and

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Speaker 3: your investments. I don't think she's wrong.

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Speaker 2: You've got some real nerve thinking you're entitled to someone's

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Speaker 1: Hit by a rock.

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Speaker 3: She got lucky? What how do you get lucky?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't actually be hit by a truck. Like, no,

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Speaker 3: I got a settlement to help me continue my life

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Speaker 3: after surviving this car wreck. And she made a good point.

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Speaker 3: She put money aside because she could possibly develop future

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Speaker 3: medical issues. She may not be able to go back

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Speaker 3: to work. What do I look like paying for your

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Speaker 3: bills when you're able body and can go to work?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Like? This may need to last me the rest of

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Speaker 2: my life, right because issues could arise to your point,

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Speaker 2: and then so I may need this. I got paid

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Speaker 2: a lot of money obviously because something really bad happened

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Speaker 2: to me. And if I give it all away, well

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Speaker 2: that defeats the purpose. Then what am I gonna do

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Speaker 2: if I, for whatever reason, can't go back to work

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Speaker 2: for further treatment or whatever else.

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Speaker 1: It is no, huhuh. You didn't win the lottery.

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Speaker 2: And even if you did win the lottery, you don't

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Speaker 2: have to give it all to everybody else. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you might share, but like again, this isn't the lottery. No,

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Speaker 2: something bad happened to you, and now you're setting yourself

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Speaker 2: up for future success or at least you know, sort

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Speaker 3: But yeah, and even if I went to work and

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Speaker 3: you the right to count my affairs then my money

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Speaker 3: and tell me what.

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Speaker 1: To do with it.

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Speaker 3: Correct.

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Speaker 1: Man, you got lucky, You got hit my truck, You

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Speaker 1: got lucky.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Hey Delaney, how you doing? Good morning?

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Speaker 5: I'm well, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right? So what do you think Key

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Speaker 1: Key's Court.

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Speaker 2: Basically, there's this woman got a huge settlement from an

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Speaker 2: accident that she was in, and now her family's coming

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Speaker 5: It's ridiculous and expected, honestly.

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Speaker 2: And you don't have to give anybody but any money,

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Speaker 2: right like you don't have to You're not They're not

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Speaker 5: They're absolutely not. And the fact that they're asking for

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Speaker 5: fifty k and not just a little bit of help,

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Speaker 5: it's really.

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Speaker 2: What about the help that she needs? I mean again,

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Speaker 2: where did this money come from? It came from the

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Speaker 2: results of an accident where you almost lost you. I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming for that kind of payout you could have

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Speaker 2: lost your relative and you're worried about how it benefits you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I don't like it absolutely. I mean they don't know

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Speaker 5: the long term damage, they don't know what she'll need

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Speaker 5: in the future, thinking about right now them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Delaney, have a.

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Speaker 7: Good day, Thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Eight five five three five Jamie Hi, Jamie Hi, Gream,

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Kiki's Court.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 7: I agree with Keky. You know, the same thing happened

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Speaker 7: to my mom. She got into a car accident, she

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Speaker 7: got hit by a truck and she won this you settlement.

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Speaker 7: But you know, no one's title makes them entitled to

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Speaker 7: your money. I agree with her. She if she wants

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Speaker 7: to put a little something aside, great, but otherwise, you

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Speaker 7: know what, she owes them nothing and they should know.

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Speaker 8: Dad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough. I don't really mix money and friends

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Speaker 2: and family. I mean, I think the only way that

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Speaker 2: I would be willing to do that is if I

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Speaker 2: could give it as a gift.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if if I really were in a financial

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Speaker 2: any expectation whatsoever that I would get it back slash

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Speaker 2: be resentful at why you're asking or how you spend it.

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Speaker 2: The problem is I don't have money like that, so

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Speaker 2: I really can't do it really right, you know, and

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Speaker 2: I mean right.

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Speaker 7: And the same thing happened with my mom. I mean,

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Speaker 7: no one, no one expected her to get a handout

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Speaker 7: from her. You know, every once in a while she'd

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Speaker 7: be like, you know what, this is the only time

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Speaker 7: in my life I'll probably ever have money. Here's maybe

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Speaker 7: you know, a hundred bucks to go spend something on yourself.

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Speaker 7: But I mean, no one expected anything, and we wanted

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Speaker 7: her to save that for, like this woman said, future

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Speaker 7: bills or future medical issues that maybe came from the accident.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Jamie, have a good day.

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Speaker 7: Thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: By I mean to your point, like God forbid.

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Speaker 2: She goes back to work, it to life back in order,

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Speaker 2: and then there's some long standing you know, issue or

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Speaker 2: something arises, right, and then she can't work anymore. But

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Speaker 2: she's given all the money to her family because there's

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Speaker 2: a bunch of money grubbing, you know, greedy people who

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Speaker 2: are able bodied.

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Speaker 1: By the way, that's my thing.

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Speaker 3: The entitlement is crazy, and they're all coming forward.

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Speaker 2: It's not just like one who's in a bad spot.

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Speaker 2: They're all coming for it. Hey Milton, welcome Milton. You

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Speaker 2: heard Kiki's court. You're in the case. What do you think, man.

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Speaker 6: I think she should use that as a tool for

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Speaker 6: lack of love for her. She went through that tragic

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Speaker 6: event and that's just what she got from enduring that.

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Speaker 6: So how does them come with their hands out because

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Speaker 6: they know that she got that from that tragic event.

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Speaker 6: I'll use that as a reason to get away from

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Speaker 6: them because it shows that they don't that they don't

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Speaker 6: have much love for her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna use the money.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna build a I'm gonna build a moat around

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Speaker 2: my house with alligators in it. I'm gonna put alligators

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Speaker 2: in the moat. You can't even put a gate and

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Speaker 2: a moat and you can't even come over. This is

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Speaker 2: what it's gonna be. That's what I'm doing with the money. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: thanks an agreement with you. Thank you, Milton, have a

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Speaker 2: good day. You can have hungry alligators in there.

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Speaker 3: It's so unfortunate how money can like divide a family.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you go through something horrific and now you're

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Speaker 3: losing your family you know, attached to it because of

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Speaker 2: And it's unfair because again, like I might need this, right, Kendra,

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Speaker 2: how you doing?

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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm doing great, Kendra. You heard this? What do

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Speaker 1: you think?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Tell me.

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Speaker 4: I think that they should not be feeling entitled to

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Speaker 4: her money given her situation. Like, y'all are grown adults.

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Speaker 1: If you're like, y'all are grown.

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Speaker 4: Like, figure out your own situations that y'all have going on.

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Speaker 4: Because if I did not have this money, what she

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Speaker 4: was going.

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Speaker 1: To do then, right, right, right right.

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Speaker 2: You need to approach this like it doesn't exist, because

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Speaker 2: it's not yours and it's not yours to dip into.

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Speaker 2: So how are you going to fix your own problem

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Speaker 2: that you said she didn't cause? Now if she owed,

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Speaker 2: if she owed people money and now she comes into it,

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Speaker 2: I might argue that now would be the time to

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Speaker 2: repay some folks if there's extra, after she covers her

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Speaker 2: medical bills or whatever else. But that will be the

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Speaker 2: only time I would say that she would be entitled

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Speaker 2: that anyone will would be entitled to her money. This

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Speaker 2: isn't a chance for you to pay off your bills.

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Speaker 4: Too, right, And they ain't my kids, y'all too. They

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Speaker 4: made my key and I'm nothing him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you, have a good day. Glad

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Speaker 2: you called Amanda? Good morning? Hello, Hi Amanda. What do

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Speaker 2: you think Kiki's court? Basically, it's a it's a woman

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Speaker 2: who was in an accident and got a big settlement

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Speaker 2: and now all little family, all little family. I know,

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Speaker 2: we're trying to get their little grubby hands in this money,

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Speaker 2: but she might need it because she got paid the

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Speaker 2: lot because she was injured.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I totally agree with her that she should not

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Speaker 8: through the exact same thing. Yeah, and our family is

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Speaker 8: kind of assuming that when everything is all done, that

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Speaker 1: That is so crazy, Like why would why would they think?

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Speaker 1: I mean how much? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Again, this isn't the lottery. I mean, if you got

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Speaker 2: but you know, you might need this money. Maybe your

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Speaker 2: has to last for the rest of your lives exactly.

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Speaker 8: And we have four kids on top of it, So like,

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Speaker 1: Now that's not right.

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Speaker 3: I don't have four dependents, okay, common everything. Now do

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Speaker 2: I don't understand that this isn't the Nigerian prince that

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Speaker 2: you related to So if you give the Social security

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Speaker 2: and routing information that you get paid a billion, that's

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Speaker 2: not what this is. So yeah, I mean I'm waiting

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Speaker 2: for mine. I've been giving my routing information nowt for

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Speaker 2: a long time. It hasn't come yet. But apparently I'm

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Amanda, have a good day.

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Speaker 8: Thank you you can a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: Were surprised by that fact. But I'm still still waiting

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Speaker 2: when I get the transfer, don't you worry. I only

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Speaker 2: had to hey, fifty grands for the processing too, so

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Speaker 2: you know I'm supposedly got a hundred millions comings.

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Speaker 1: It's exciting.

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Speaker 9: Hey Dana, Hey, how you guys doing.

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Speaker 1: Dana, So you've been in this situation? What happened?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I got to a really bad car accident. Literally

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Speaker 9: had eight months of rehab, all sorts of things. Long

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Speaker 9: my immediate family wasn't really asking for a handout. I

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Speaker 9: just to be nice, I gauge each of my immediate

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Speaker 9: family members, my brothers, my parents, one thousand dollars each,

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Speaker 9: just as a thank you for supporting me through the

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Speaker 9: rehabit all, not a couple of friends that all of

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Speaker 9: a sudden this happened. That happened, their life's turned upside down.

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Speaker 9: And same thing. You're like, well, you don't have kids,

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Speaker 9: you know you could afford a little bit of this,

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Speaker 9: and that. I said, you know what, because I don't

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Speaker 9: because I can't move well because I have permanent neck damage,

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Speaker 9: are you going to be there to help me get

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Speaker 9: washed and to get dressed and everything else. Right, No,

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Speaker 9: I don't have kids to help me. You have kids

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Speaker 9: that can help you with your situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this might have to last you a long time.

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Speaker 2: And again, like you were saying, you did something nice

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Speaker 2: time away from other things. I don't think you're obligated

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Speaker 2: something nice for them.

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Speaker 1: Great. Now we're done, and and but they will yeah, I.

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Speaker 9: Mean, and they're still there to support me. But some

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Speaker 9: of my other quote unquote friends walked away. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 9: I guess you're know my friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that that's messed up.

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Speaker 2: You know, your friend gets run over by a truck,

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Speaker 2: but like, why didn't I get something out of the deal?

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Speaker 3: You start thinking about what you can pay off with

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Speaker 3: her settlement.

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Speaker 1: Let's stop it right now. I don't like.

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Speaker 9: Its in my money. It's growing really nicely.

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Speaker 2: And you know you well, I'm glad you're okay, Dana

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Speaker 1: I love you too. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Valencia, Valencia. You're gonna come with the other. You got

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Speaker 2: another take on this, I would like to hear it.

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Speaker 4: I okay, So I come into some money, and you know,

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Speaker 4: I have siblings, and why not help them.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying I don't think they should.

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Speaker 4: Be entitled, but I will help them.

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 3: I have all this money now, why not help, you know,

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Speaker 3: help them out a little bit.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: That's that's my take on it.

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Speaker 2: You know, do we know how much she got. I

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Speaker 2: don't know that it matters because the entitlements the issue here.

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Speaker 2: It's not her unwillingness to give it. It's it's her

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Speaker 2: unwillingness to give it under these circumstances. But I think

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Speaker 2: we all agree on but we don't know how much

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Speaker 2: money it was. Figures, She says, seven figures.

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Speaker 3: Figure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, seven figures is a lot, you know it.

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Speaker 2: But it's not that much, Valencia, it's not that much

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Speaker 2: if that money has to last the rest of her life,

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Speaker 2: that you know, I realize. We hear seven figures and

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Speaker 2: You'd be hanging on to every penny because you don't

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Speaker 2: know how long it has to last. Yeah, and you know,

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Speaker 2: because they don't have any money, because they're trying to

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Speaker 3: And it starts off with fifty thousand, and then next

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Speaker 3: time it's can you give me seventy thousand? Then it

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Speaker 1: You say yes, Yeah, it's pretty so much money?

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Speaker 3: How that works?

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Speaker 4: I definitely agree. So how about you know, I think

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Speaker 4: if I was in that situation, let me just give

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Speaker 4: what I would like to give me right, don't tell

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Speaker 4: me a price of what I want, of what you

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Speaker 4: need me to give. Let me just help you, you know,

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Speaker 4: on my own. I wouldn't be selfish, you know. I

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Speaker 4: think it's a tab itself. Was just to have, you know,

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Speaker 4: seven figures. And then you got your sisters who's here struggling,

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Speaker 4: you know, just help her.

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Speaker 1: Out a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Don't give me a price.

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Speaker 4: But hey, I can't help you with this is what

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Speaker 4: I have. I don't have what you want, but I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you have.

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Speaker 2: No you're a decent person. I'm a skeptic, so to

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Speaker 2: call you here, let's see, Melissa. I hope you I

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Speaker 2: hope nothing bad ever happens to you. But I do

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Speaker 2: hope you get paid because I got some bills to pay.

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Speaker 2: Have a good day. I'm glad you called. No, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't want anything bad to happen to you. But

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Speaker 2: if you ever win something, you know, a couple of

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Speaker 2: credit cards, you could help me with car payment, well,

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