1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: My fiance proposed to me, but it turns out the 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: ring is fake. He bought a name brand box off 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: of eBay. Should I stay or should I go? This 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: is Okyop, home of the craziest true stories on Earth. 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm Sophia and Riley. Are you staying? Are you going? 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: If you get a ring. 7 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: Pop, that's your ring ring pop leaving? But it depends 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 2: on how the percentage of how real the diamond is. 9 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: I'm wondering, you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, the 10 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: lab ones that are like ninety nine percent. 11 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: Really, I personally don't I would not care, Like I 12 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: don't need diamonds, you know, Like, I don't care how 13 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: expensive the ring is as long as it like kind 14 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:32,639 Speaker 1: of looks good. 15 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 3: Hear that? 16 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: Boys, she doesn't care about the diamond I. 17 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: Don't care about the diamonds. Also because most dimes diamonds 18 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 1: aren't like ethically mine and I don't like I personally 19 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: don't love the look of diamonds like on most rings. 20 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 2: Like I think, what would you want, like a like 21 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 2: a chocolate diamond. 22 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: Like an emerald? Emerald chocolate diamonds are I actually had 23 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: to do a whole research thing on this, but chocolate 24 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: diamonds are That was a whole kind of like marketing scam. 25 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: They were so Originally chocolate diamonds were like what's the word, 26 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: like not leftovers, but they were just kind of rejects 27 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: of actual diamonds. Yeah, leftovers kind of grab Yeah, but 28 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: they were like rejected diamonds, and they were seen as 29 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: very like not good. Maybe this you should put this 30 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: at the end. But yeah, they were seen as like 31 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: just like not sellable. And then this one company marketed 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: them as chocolate diamonds and were able to sell them 33 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: for like, you know, much much more than they're worth. 34 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 35 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, fun facts, fun facts. 36 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: I love that. 37 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: But I would love like an emerald or like a 38 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: babe or something. I think that would be pretty. But 39 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't really wear rings either. Any who. I know 40 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: a bus what's that? 41 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: I know a cheap ass. 42 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: I know a cheap ass. What does that mean? 43 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 3: Oh? 44 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: I know what cheat? 45 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: A great username? 46 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: I know a cheap ass. Which is gonna be bad? 47 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: Is it? I liked the Shark Parks. 48 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 2: One, but this one has to relate to the story. 49 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. Also I just completely butchered that anyway, Oh, I 50 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: know what you bass? 51 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: It took me so long count on how long it 52 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 2: took her to get that. It's took me long term seconds. 53 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,399 Speaker 1: It took thirty seconds just to be like, oh, we're 54 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: talking about sheep skates. I'm sorry, guys, it's it's not 55 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: not early anymore, but it is early enough that I'm 56 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 1: just I'm not her tea. I did I did you did? 57 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 3: Did you? 58 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: Action like this? Yeah, it's embarrassing anyways. So my fiance 59 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: Mark thirty male and I twenty five female, have been 60 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: together for two years. Two months ago, he asked me 61 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: to marry him, and he gave me a beautiful Cartier 62 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: engagement ring. I was really excited, and of course I 63 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 1: said yes. It was a beautiful ring, and I was 64 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,119 Speaker 1: excited to be marrying the man I loved. 65 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: Okay, what is that kind of ring? 66 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: Look it up. You can't show it to me, so 67 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look it up. 68 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 2: Oh this is so pretty. 69 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, just like a traditional Oh it's like ring we 70 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 1: got wrecked. 71 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: We got an emerald cut and then we got other ones. Okay, 72 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 2: you go guy, that's a good gift. Oh well, it 73 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 2: was fam' given a bit of the day. Yeah, maybe 74 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: it was almost fake. Yeah, I think honestly, just this 75 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: is me, Like, I don't like. I think the problem 76 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: was that he lied about it. I feel like he 77 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: could have been like, hey, I can't afford this ring. 78 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like we don't know, we don't know, 79 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 2: let's find out more. It was a beautiful ring, and 80 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: I was excited to be marrying the man I loved. 81 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: The other day Mark and I worked together, I overheard 82 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: two co workers talking about Mark. Someone mentioned that Mark 83 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 2: makes so much money, but he didn't even give his 84 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: girlfriend a real ring, all this workplace drama the other 85 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: way around, Like Mark doesn't make much money, but he 86 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 2: got her a really expensive ring. 87 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's such a good point, because he can't 88 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: afford it. Apparently. Yeah. The person asked for clarification, and 89 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: it turns out that Mark bought a Cartier box off 90 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: of eBay, then bought a c Z ring to put 91 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 1: in the box. Oh what is that c Z ring? 92 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: Let's look it up. We'll see how much is he? 93 00:03:56,600 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: Okay? C Z ring cost thirteen bucks, fifty bucks, two 94 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty bucks, one hundred and twenty eight bucks. 95 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: What's like the max? 96 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 2: The most I'm seeing right now is like two's sixty Okay, 97 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: that's how must say cost. 98 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 3: What is? 99 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: The Cubic zirconia, also known as cazs, are manufactured gemstones 100 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: that look similar to diamonds. They are colorless gemstones made 101 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: up of crystalline form of zirconium dioxide. Most cazs are 102 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: clear or right. However, their natural colorlessness allows manufacturers to 103 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: color them with coloring agents. Okay, so I think that's 104 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: also what they use when they're like displaying fake diamonds. 105 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: To my knowledge, like if you see in museum's most 106 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: times they won't have actual diamonds on display, they'll have 107 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: the cubic zirconium. 108 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna I'm going to create some animosity 109 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: at the end of the story. 110 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: Okay, let's keep going. I didn't want to believe it 111 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: that I took my ring to a jeweler to get 112 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: a check. My ring is essentially worthless. It isn't anywhere 113 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: near a diamond. Mark is on business right now, I'm 114 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: so upset. I haven't answered any of his calls or texts. 115 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. Am I wrong for 116 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: being this upset? I'm starting to think this is a 117 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: deal breaker. He's so cheap and stingy with his money. 118 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: But at least I thought he'd buy me a good 119 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: ring when I know he can afford it, What should 120 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: I do? That is I think that is a deal break. 121 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's not about it's not. 122 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: About the money. Yeah, it's about the trust, like and 123 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: also that he can afford it, and he's you know, 124 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: like if you can't afford it, that's like totally like, 125 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 1: I don't. 126 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 2: Know, figure it out. 127 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: Also, I feel like it's a conversation that you can 128 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: have with your partner. You can be like, hey, like 129 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: maybe you know this isn't the best. 130 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like, hey, this whole thing about traditional 131 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: wedding rings, it's. 132 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,799 Speaker 1: Just not Yeah, let's give that. I don't know. Maybe 133 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: that's also bad if he comes to heart he's like 134 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: this whole thing with traditional wedding. 135 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 2: Ring, we really need to put a label on it. 136 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that seems of it. Maybe this all seems like. 137 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: A yes, huge one. Would you say, where'd you go? 138 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: I would go? But also I don't think this would 139 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: I think if I were in a relationship with someone 140 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: who knew me, I like I wouldn't want to real 141 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: you know. 142 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: Okay, what have they got? You what you wanted, but 143 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: it was like fake. It was like you dropped it. Okay, 144 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: here's what happened. 145 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: I think only if they lied to me, I think 146 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: that's where it comes. I think if they were like, hey, 147 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: I got you this nice ring and I liked it 148 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 1: and you know it's non tarnishing or something, I'd be 149 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: chill with it. But I think if they were like, 150 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: I got you this, the three thousand dollar ring, and 151 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: just show you how much I love you, and then 152 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 1: I found out that it was fake, that would I 153 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: think that. 154 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 2: Would be like what is a good like ring price? 155 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: Because I thought, like a good ring, they could be 156 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,799 Speaker 2: really expensive ten thousand dollars. 157 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I was just I think. 158 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 2: That's but I think that's reasonable. 159 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,239 Speaker 1: Din Yeah, because I think like a lot of diamonds 160 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: can be up to ten thousand. But I think on 161 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: the cheaper side, it's it can be like a couple thousand. 162 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: Ladies, let us know what how much. 163 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, I've never been engaged. I don't wear rings. 164 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 2: I'm probably gonna buy one for like ten years. 165 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's that is an investment. But again, I 166 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: just I think it's the lie. I think that's the problem. Yeah, 167 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: there are some relevant comments. Big B gives advice for 168 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: what Ope should say to Mark, and they said, quote, Mark, 169 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: let's go get the ring of praise for insurance purposes. 170 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: It's so beautiful. I want to make sure it's protected 171 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: that watches his world birds around him, or so says 172 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: my s O. After I read him, that's so good. 173 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: That's great. I think that's a great Like, oh my god, 174 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: that's so that's so petty, and I love it in 175 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: like a good way. 176 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 2: What if they did that then he like actually got 177 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: it like a good ring. 178 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: Whoh like like they did it, and then either they. 179 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 2: Like he swapped it like last second, Oh. 180 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: He's like, oh look it's it's super expensive. But that 181 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: would be that would be even more annoying. If I 182 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: found out that, you know, he swapped it, I'd be like, 183 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: so you could afford it you were just trying to 184 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: be found. I would be mad. Uh, I can't read 185 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: these names. Re Rah Ray Ray Ra Ray says, hold up, 186 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: he's bragging about tricking you to people at work. That's true. 187 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: How did they know WHOA? That is such a good 188 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: point because I was thinking, I was like, how did 189 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: they find out that Are they all just like really 190 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: good at spotting face? That was my mind. I was like, yeah, 191 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: are they all appraisers? Hold up? Pulled up? He's ragging 192 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: about tricking you to people at work. Lord, have mercy. 193 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: Is this fool stupid? He must be because anyone that 194 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: works in office knows that that stuff spreads like wildfire. 195 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: Not only is he stupid, he's a scammer with your 196 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: respect for your intelligence. That ain't love? Is he seriously? 197 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: Thirty damn years old? Ditches loser? He ain't worth it? 198 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: When he asks you, why tell him you want someone 199 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: that'll take you seriously, not an f and clown. Wow, 200 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: these comments are popping off. Also, what's up with the 201 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: I feel like these thirty year olds are so immature 202 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: in these stories. 203 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm gonna double check. What does your brain start to click? 204 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: When does it's I think it's supposed to be around 205 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: twenty eight for men? Now what is the twenty five twenty. 206 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: Eight fully develop? 207 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: Now? Twenty five? 208 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: Twenty five? 209 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 210 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: Twenty five? What you are five years past being able. 211 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 3: To kick this? Yes? 212 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: Ohh what's female? 213 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: Yow za? Uh fast? Oh there is an update? 214 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: Oh female? Same twenty five? 215 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? 216 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: What I thought it was really you guys. 217 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: Maybe a ways lie, maybe they were just maybe that's 218 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: just like a thing they say. 219 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 2: I don't believe it. 220 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe that's just to allow men. 221 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 2: Oh when Okay, here we got off different website. 222 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 3: Ok. 223 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 2: The mal Uk shows the brain continues to develop after 224 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: childhood and puberty is not fully developed until people are 225 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 2: well until their thirties and forties. What dude, I. 226 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: Don't know a lot of mixed messages. Let us know 227 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: in the comments. If your brain is developed, he should 228 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: know better, he should know better. Regardless. I think even 229 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: if you're twenty five, you should know better. I think 230 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: even at any age. 231 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: Except maybe if you're like under the edge of eighteen. 232 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: Under the age of eighteen, I'll be like, Okay, you're 233 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: like a teenager, but you know after. 234 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: That, like nine, and you want to marry someone, go 235 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: for it. Yeah, give the ring pop, do whatever may. 236 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: Make it informal. Yeah, I want a ring pop. I 237 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 1: haven't had a ring pop for a while. But there 238 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: is an update fast update here. So shout out to 239 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: rap or to the two people that we read. I 240 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: appreciated all of your feedback, but these two had the 241 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: best comments. I agree especially the latter I put her 242 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: plan into motion. This is so sneaky. I love it. Also, 243 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: if you messaged me death threats and abuse, please jump 244 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: off a building. Why are you messaging this person death threats? 245 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 2: Why ring? 246 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: That's so rude. I'm not a selfish or materialistic person. 247 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: I expected honesty from my future spouse, nothing more, nothing less. 248 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: I haven't taken a dime from Mark. Everything night that 249 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: I have was paid for by me. I don't need 250 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: to be with him for his money because I have 251 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: my own. But I do want is consideration and thoughtfulness 252 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: from my partner, not lies. If he had even got 253 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: me something that was made from silver with my breathstone, 254 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: I would have accepted it because at least it came 255 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: from the heart and showed thought behind it. I did 256 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: not in any way, shape or form a demand a 257 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: brand name ring or any sort of ridiculously expensive ring. 258 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: She just sounds like that's she wanted some nice She. 259 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: Just wanted something nice and not to be lied about it, 260 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: like you don't have to. I feel like men like 261 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: have this kind of or a lot of men have 262 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: this kind of idea that you have to, like, you know, 263 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: spend outrageous amounts of money or you know, buy expensive 264 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: things to make a woman happy when it really I 265 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: think it's just time, like you know, giving time and 266 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: honesty and thoughtfulness into what you're giving, like you can 267 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: get I feel like you can you know, make a 268 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: really like you can make something, for example, for a 269 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: birthday gift or something. Maybe she wants something that you 270 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: bought or something. But also you could make like a 271 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: photo album and that would be a really cute presence. 272 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 2: This is an engagement ring. 273 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 3: I know. 274 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: I know. I'm just saying in general, you don't have 275 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: to buy the most expensive thing to impress a woman. 276 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: I think it's what. 277 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 2: We're talking about, like this is not all women myself 278 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 2: an important gift you can give a woman in her life, 279 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 2: I know. 280 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: But even she says, I didn't need the most expressive 281 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: expensive ring. I just wanted something like nice you know 282 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: that show that he cared. Okay, yeah, and also just 283 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: the lying yeah lying. But again this is just me. 284 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: Y'all might have different things to say in the comments. 285 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: Put them in there. What yeah, what how much would 286 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: you want your partner to spend on the ring? What 287 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: type of rings are you looking for? Any who? H 288 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: let's continue with the story. Long story short. I finally 289 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: answered Mark's calls and kept it as calm as I could. 290 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: I told him I wanted to take an insurance policy 291 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: out on the because it was very valuable and I 292 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: was taking it to an appraiser. Mark immediately shut up 293 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: and told me that I shouldn't do that until he 294 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: got back, that he already had a warranty in place 295 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: at the jeweler, and that I shouldn't be making big 296 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: decisions without him. After he stopped spouting off reasons, I 297 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: told him that it was too late. I already took 298 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: the ring to a jeweler and knew that not only 299 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 1: was it a worthless piece of glass, but also silver plated. 300 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: The bastard stammered, and the only intelligent thing that came 301 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: out of his mouth was you took it to a 302 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: real jeweler. Huge fight over finances, selfishness and lying ensued. 303 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: He accused me of being a gold digger, and I 304 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: refuted this by asking him to try and remember the 305 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: last time I ever made him pay for anything or 306 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: buy me anything. He had no answer. I said I 307 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: wanted no part of something based on a lie, and 308 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: hung up. Switched the Facebook status from engaged to single. Oh, 309 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 1: and change the locks on our apartment and gave our 310 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: dog to my sister to make sure he doesn't try 311 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: to keep him. I paid for the dog and all shots. 312 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: He'll have a fun time trying to get in when 313 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: he comes back from his travel. Whoa realized that I 314 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: needed to give. The city had a written letter that 315 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: says he has thirty days to vacate. I'm giving him 316 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: the letter. The second he walks in, we'll give him 317 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: a spare key. If he insists on staying. Darn Whoa, 318 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: that's unraveled quickly. I think, OPI definitely did the right thing, 319 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 1: though you did, like I think, yeah, I think especially 320 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: after his response, Yeah, like I think he could. 321 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 322 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 2: It's only way for him to get out of this 323 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 2: is if he was just like clear, like, hey, yeah, 324 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 2: I actually put all her money on a dale payment 325 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: on a house. 326 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like if I don't know, if there was 327 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 1: some other reason, or if he was just like, hey, 328 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: you're so right, I like, I I didn't think it 329 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: was I don't know. I don't know what he could say, 330 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: but I think apologizing and would be a start. But 331 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 1: he blamed her. 332 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 2: He called her a gold digger. 333 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: Well you're you're a cheap s kid, so. 334 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 2: That's when you off. Yeah in the Yeah, don't call names, 335 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: just be. 336 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: Like, don't call names. 337 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 338 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: It sounds like he didn't really want it. 339 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: It sounds like he didn't even just based off of 340 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: his actions with buying the ring. It sounds like he 341 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 1: wasn't very invested in the rest job. Yeah. And also 342 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: he's spreading men around work too. It wakes relevant comments. 343 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: Some person says, on one hand, it seems silly to 344 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: leave someone of for a ring, but on the other hand, 345 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: this is about so much more than the ring. It's 346 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 1: about his manipulating and lying to you. That's unacceptable. I'm 347 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: glad you found a solution that you're comfortable with. Opie 348 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: says exactly. The ring just brought all the other issues ahead. 349 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: I'm too angry right now to be sad, But there's 350 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: no worse feeling when a man that claims to love 351 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: you it takes joy in manipulating you and bragging about 352 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: what he did to people that know us, both personally 353 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: and in a professional place. Yeah, that's really messed tag 354 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: and they work together. That's so much like it's obviously 355 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: going to come back to her if you're talking about 356 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: it like, I'm wondering if he like like he just 357 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: has no forethought. 358 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 359 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so messed up. And there's one final comment 360 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: from OPI I did love him very much, so, but 361 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: there comes a point where enough is enough, especially when 362 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: it comes to something he knew I took very seriously. 363 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: I can't be disrespected anymore. Thus I'm putting my foot 364 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: down and making sure my decision sticks. Yeah, I think 365 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: OPI did the right thing. 366 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: Snaps, dude, I'm so glad that these women have their 367 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: heads on straight in these stories. 368 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, these two women are like the thinking the most 369 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: clearly out of anyone. 370 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, these come on, just do better your brain development. 371 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this whole thing like when women 372 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: date men who are older than them, it's with the 373 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: expectation that they're going to be more mature. 374 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: They're not. They're not or just not mature at all. 375 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: No, I don't I think men can be mature. I 376 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: think they. I think it's a choice. 377 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 3: WHOA. 378 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: I think it's choice and you have to learn and 379 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: you have to try and grow every day like a plant. Yeah, 380 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: I think yeah, just yeah, sorry, men or trees, you 381 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: have to water them. You have to water yourself. 382 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: They have to water themselves. 383 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: They have to water themselves. They're they're a self contained garden. 384 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: Everyone is a self contained garden. And you have to 385 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: water yourself so that you grow deep. 386 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: Pretty deep for Tuesday at ten am. 387 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, last thoughts, I think, going back to the point about, like, 388 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: you know, not needing expensive things, I think if it 389 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: seems like I think, if you're the type of person 390 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: where like that's something that you want, then your partner 391 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: should respect them too, especially because you were saying this 392 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: is something that is so important and like so fundamental 393 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: to people who are getting married. Yeah, so I think 394 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: it's less about how expensive the ring is and more 395 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: about knowing your partner. And if you don't know your partner, 396 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: then you're doomed from the start. 397 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: I agreed, But. 398 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: These people don't love each other anymore. If you love us, 399 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe We love you and see you tomorrow. 400 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time 401 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 3: for okop relash. 402 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 4: I don't care if you have a drinking problem, get 403 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 4: out of my wedding. 404 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 5: I thought weddings are where drinking problems flourish. Uh, that 405 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 5: is typically I think, I think I've actually heard that 406 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 5: weddings are a safe space for you to get as drunk, 407 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 5: get off your rock er, celebrator love with bust, smooching 408 00:16:58,640 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 5: a bottle of whiskey. 409 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 4: I have, I have a have a semi wedding story 410 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 4: that I will save all all you that stick around to. 411 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: The end, all of you real ones. That's right. 412 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 4: So I twenty five female and getting married. Congrats, congrats. Ope, 413 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 4: my fiance twenty five male, and I have decided on 414 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 4: dry weddings since we don't drink and see no point 415 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 4: in spending money for alcohol. 416 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 5: Makes sense, makes sense. There is an expectation, I think 417 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 5: from some folk of alcohol at weddings doesn't mean you 418 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 5: have to indulge them. 419 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 4: Though yes it does. You are filthy, disgusting human beings. 420 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 4: Howare you you think so. 421 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: Much better than everyone else? 422 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 3: We don't drink. No. 423 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 4: Now, we were debating about getting a cash bar, but 424 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 4: then decided to do noke alcohol at all. Oh so 425 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 4: a cash bar where people have to pay, People can 426 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 4: if they want to, But I think that would be worse. Really, 427 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 4: I think I think having a cash bar where people 428 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 4: have to pay, like just the feeling of yeah, you 429 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 4: go up and you're like hey, and he's like, that'll 430 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 4: be thirty dollars. Yeah, yeah, that does suck. You're right, 431 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 4: I would be I would. I would punch somebody for sure. 432 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, what the hell? 433 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 4: There will be a wide range of other drinks, not 434 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 4: just juice and soda provided. I love how they're like, well, 435 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 4: we'll have more than juice and soda up, Like what else? 436 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 3: What else? Hot choka? Yeah? 437 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 5: Name it? I would love hot chocolate. That'd be great. 438 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 5: You better spend it, like an equal amount then on 439 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 5: a crazy drinks like Peruvian starfruit juice or like a 440 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 5: guava yrbamate very fermented ka. 441 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 3: Now we're talking. 442 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 4: We informed guests via invitations with something that with something 443 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 4: along the lines of you don't have to be worried 444 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 4: about choosing a driver or paying a taxi since everyone 445 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 4: will be able to drive. 446 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 3: Kind of funny. It's funny. 447 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 4: So a friend, twenty six male called and asked if 448 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 4: I was joking about doing the dry wedding. 449 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:06,199 Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? 450 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:12,239 Speaker 5: Uh, I'm a frat star bro and I need that 451 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 5: alcohol to get my frat star energy to make sure 452 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 5: this party is moving. 453 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I said, I wasn't joking. He asked two more times, 454 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 4: and I still said I ain't joking. Then he asked 455 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 4: what was wrong with me? And how is he supposed 456 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 4: to have fun without any drinks? And how is he 457 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 4: supposed to function that night? 458 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 3: Yo? It sounds like you got a problem, mate? How 459 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 3: am I supposed to function that night? 460 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 4: And he added that it was not okay to choose 461 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 4: a dry wedding. 462 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 3: Yo. They are wedding. 463 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 5: They could do whatever they want bad and if it 464 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 5: really means so much for you, get one of those 465 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 5: you know, you know those tiny bottles, those called flask, No, 466 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 5: not the flask like people call them. 467 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: They call flapper nipples. I've recently learned that some people 468 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 3: call them that. Yeah. I was like, what, yeah, I know, 469 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 3: bring some nipples with you? Then I'm right touch those ariolas. 470 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 4: Oh my, now this is where I might have been 471 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 4: the a hole. I told him that I was not 472 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 4: obligated to provide any drinks to him just because he's 473 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 4: not able to have fun without it, and that if 474 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 4: he needed drinks so badly and cannot function without it 475 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 4: for even one night with people, he knew that he 476 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 4: might have a drinking problem and should consider therapy. 477 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 3: To treat it. 478 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 5: Yo, let's catch twenty two kind of setup right there. 479 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 5: It's like, hey, either you're you have a drinking problem 480 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 5: or suck it up. 481 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 4: But bah bah shots have been fired in both directions, 482 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 4: ladies and gentlemen. He flipped out on me, and I 483 00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 4: took his invitation back until he apologized because he used 484 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 4: many slurs on me. 485 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 3: Geez, what come is this friend? What is this friendship? Friendship? Dude? 486 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, slurs, dude. Our friends are divided about 487 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 5: me being the a whole. Some say I was right 488 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 5: and others say I was not right. So reddit, am 489 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 5: I the a whole? Okay? By my opinion? I want 490 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 5: to hear what you guys think too. But like my 491 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 5: opinion is like opia is definitely in the right, right 492 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 5: Like if if if this guy, well, I guess it 493 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 5: depends how he was saying it, maybe it was like 494 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 5: but what if he was like what if he was like, 495 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 5: are you serious? It's not gonna be drink? That's crazy? 496 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 5: Like I can't I would be able to function? Yeah, right, 497 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 5: It's like in the delivery a little bit, It's like, I, dude, 498 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,479 Speaker 5: this is not okay, Like I need it. Then then 499 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 5: you're like, well, you probably have a drinking problem, you know, 500 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 5: And then I think it's fine. So I would say 501 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 5: it depends on how the guy delivered the and delivered 502 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 5: what he's saying. But uh, if we were are to 503 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 5: take it at face value based like on the actual 504 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 5: words he's saying, he's an asshole for sure. Because it's 505 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 5: it's their wedding, so they can do it. They Op 506 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 5: gets to control whatever they want to do, and it 507 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,719 Speaker 5: probably sounds like it's a drinking problem. 508 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 6: Like if you can't function, nobody like like, Op's right, 509 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 6: you can't function one day without alcohol, then you have 510 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 6: a problem. So oh my god, props to Ope for 511 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 6: pointing out a the problem so the friend could possibly 512 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 6: find the solution. 513 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 514 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 4: I think that Op should be ashamed and should create 515 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 4: a river of booze. Those are my thoughts. 516 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:43,959 Speaker 5: John always coming with the clap backs. Yeah, I mean, 517 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 5: I've never been to a wedding without booze and I 518 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 5: don't plan to. Yeah, but like I do, I do 519 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 5: understand just because there's an expectation, people might be like, oh, 520 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 5: but it's really not a big deal. 521 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 3: It is wild when you think about, like what if 522 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 3: they just had like we are they just had a 523 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 3: story with that where they had really I think we 524 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 3: heard a story where that weed. Yeah, that would be 525 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 3: like interesting I. 526 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 4: Think of a bachelotte, but not like out in the 527 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 4: during the ceremony, like because like it's like, oh, all 528 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 4: the glasses and like the wines that imagine there's just 529 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 4: a freaking joint on every single plate. 530 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 5: I saw a Reddit picture where it was like at 531 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 5: the party I'm at, they have a bowl of like 532 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 5: loose joints. 533 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: Do you see that? 534 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 5: It was just like like on each table there's like 535 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 5: loose joints for to pick up I think. But like 536 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 5: also if you're having if you have like an alcohol 537 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 5: party and a weed party would be like totally different things. 538 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 5: That's true, right, Like I wonder what the vibe of 539 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 5: the like the. 540 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 4: Weed leftovers and and like honestly probably better like probably dancing, 541 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 4: more sitting, and probably less like potential drama, you know know, 542 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 4: like drunk uncles or you. 543 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 5: Might have someone getting like too high and like you 544 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 5: having a little yeah you throw up, probably get greened out. 545 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 5: Yeah you can't throw right, I've never thrown up, because 546 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 5: I guess maybe you could, like but I've had there's 547 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 5: like there's a thing called like getting greened out, or 548 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 5: you like throw up and you're like too high. 549 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 3: Interesting, that's never happened to me. 550 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 5: But all right, well we're we're you know, we have 551 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 5: we have a we have a middle ground for o 552 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 5: p to to cross if you're not gonna have booze, 553 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 5: give everyone weed. 554 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 3: Correct, that's it. Forth final offer.