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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject we could never be

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Speaker 1: more than friends. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty seven and

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Speaker 1: I've been married for eleven years to my best friend.

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Speaker 1: We met in eighth grade and we've been in love

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Speaker 1: since then. We also had a lot of We also

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Speaker 1: we still hang out with. We went to rival high school,

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Speaker 1: so my wife is not friendly with some of my

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Speaker 1: female friends. I feel blessed that she isn't bothered by

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Speaker 1: me hanging with my female friends. But recently I went

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Speaker 1: if we have sex, she wouldn't stop until I was

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Speaker 1: all hers. That kept me away from her for a while,

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Speaker 1: but then I got upset with my wife in March,

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Speaker 1: Just seeing my friend made me cheer up, and she

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Speaker 1: felt so good pressed up against me. When we hugged,

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Speaker 1: I got really caught up, and we had sex a

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Speaker 1: few times. She reminded me that if we went all

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Speaker 1: the way, she was going to become a problem in

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Speaker 1: so I've stopped going out with my homies. I have

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Speaker 1: given her money and gifts to apologize for whatever she

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Speaker 1: might be going through, but I had to stop sending

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Speaker 1: her things because she might use them against me. Yesterday

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Speaker 1: I tried to smooth things over to see where her

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Speaker 1: afraid of what might come next. She has no reason

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Speaker 1: Am I handling this situation with my friend the right way.

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Speaker 1: Please help. Okay, So here you go. What you did

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Speaker 1: was really, really stupid, and now you want Steve and

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Speaker 1: I to fix your mess.

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Speaker 3: You admit it to starting.

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Speaker 1: It when you said you went too far, when you

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Speaker 1: almost had sex with one of your friends. That's what

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Speaker 1: makes you so trifling as a husband, because you did

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Speaker 1: eventually have sex with this woman, not once, not twice,

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Speaker 1: but you say a few times.

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Speaker 3: So you're going to get what's coming to you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the friend is holding it over your head,

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Speaker 1: the possibility that she might tell your wife, and you

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Speaker 1: but that's yeah, that's dangerous. Are you handling the situation right?

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Speaker 1: You ask, Well, you're giving her gifts and money and

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Speaker 1: all this stuff. But just like life, there are no guarantees.

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Speaker 1: You dug this hole. So you know you gotta deal

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Speaker 4: Man, again, here we are, here we are with this

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Speaker 4: just don't know how many times I have to tell

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Speaker 4: We'll keep going over. I don't even know what this

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Speaker 4: You want to tell us you've been married eleven years

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Speaker 4: to your best friend. Y'all met in eighth grade. Y'all

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Speaker 4: We went to rival high school. So my wife is

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Speaker 4: She not friendly with your girlfriends because she don't know them.

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Speaker 4: They're not her friends. Ain't got nothing to do with

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Speaker 5: Me hanging with my female friends. Oh do you really? Okay?

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Speaker 5: So what are we gonna do in this letter?

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Speaker 4: Let's take advantage of the blessing. Let's use the blessing.

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Speaker 4: Let's let this blessing work for our benefit. I'm so

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Speaker 4: and this has never occurred because all my friends is me, so.

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Speaker 5: This has never occurred her.

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Speaker 4: The first time I almost had sex with this friend,

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Speaker 4: she said, if we had sex, she wouldn't stop until

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Speaker 4: I was all hers, he said, And that kept.

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Speaker 4: But then you and your wife had a fall out

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Speaker 4: And then you said, just seeing my friend made me

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Speaker 4: cheer up. What is it about your friend that when

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Speaker 4: you see them it cheers you up. Well, you want

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Speaker 4: to know what it was. It was her looks, it

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Speaker 4: was whole body, and just seeing my friend made me chill.

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Speaker 4: And she felt so good pressed up against me when

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Speaker 4: we hugged. I ain't never said that about my friend.

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Speaker 4: And me and my homies hug when we see each other,

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Speaker 4: and now one of them felt good pressed up against

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Speaker 4: my God. Matter of fact, our bodies don't really press

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Speaker 5: It's a really shower hug.

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Speaker 4: So now already this female prom this what I'm telling

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Speaker 4: you can't sick.

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Speaker 1: I know. We'll part two of your response coming up,

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Speaker 1: Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters,

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Speaker 1: subject we could never be more than friends.

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Speaker 3: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are part three of today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. This was a good one. The subject we

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me just bring you up speed real quick.

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Speaker 4: Here's a man that's been married for eleven years for

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Speaker 4: his eighth grade level. They've been friends. They whole like

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Speaker 4: they've been married eleven years. He has female friends. He

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Speaker 4: keeps saving, I told you all about this, But he

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Speaker 5: Because they from rival high schools.

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Speaker 4: Well, the rivalry of the high school is because the

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Speaker 4: his girl friends, and they don't know each other. So

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Speaker 4: he says he don't have a problem with that. But

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Speaker 4: then he got sexually involved with one of his friends.

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Speaker 4: How because I told y'all, you can't have opposite sex

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna be a problem, and I'm gonna be a

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Speaker 4: kept him away for a while. Then one night in March,

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Speaker 4: You have sex with your friend. I'd have told y'all

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Speaker 4: about these friends. I have friends. We ain't never had sex.

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Speaker 4: I'll have sex with my friends. We're friends. If you're

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Speaker 5: I know you. I'm friendly towards you.

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Speaker 4: I help you if you need anything, But don't press

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Speaker 4: up against me. Now, I'm just letting you know, don't

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Speaker 5: I ain't that. So Anyway, they.

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Speaker 4: If you sleep with me, I'm gonna be a problem.

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Speaker 4: So he stopped sending her stuff because she might use

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Speaker 5: She told you where her head was at.

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Speaker 4: And now your question is she has no reason to

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Speaker 4: No food, you knew what it was from the start.

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Speaker 4: She was gonna be a problem. Now, he say, Now

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Speaker 4: I'm scared for my life and my man, what now

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Speaker 4: you scared for your life? And your marriage. How crazy

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Speaker 5: Bruh? Quick?

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Speaker 4: Calling her your friend? She your lover, and she told

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Speaker 4: up here and y'all got it together. Please help, No,

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Speaker 4: we not gonna help because you don't need no mad help.

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Speaker 4: You need to stop cheating because you don't know how

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Speaker 4: it is. She told you up front the rules of

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Speaker 1: All Right, Come on Steve Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: We could never be more than friends.

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Speaker 4: This letter is so ignorant to me. Once again, this

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Speaker 4: is a letter about and I have told you all

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Speaker 4: about these opposite sex friends. I've told you about this.

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Speaker 4: I can't count the times. But here we are again.

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Speaker 4: Thirty seven year old man been married eleven years to

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Speaker 5: It was high school sweetheart. They've been in love every since.

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Speaker 4: But he says that and his wife isn't friends with

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Speaker 4: that ain't why she not friends with none of your friends.

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Speaker 4: And then he says, but I feel so blessed that

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Speaker 5: Me hanging out with my female friends. See that is

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Speaker 4: Because she don't know what you and your female friends

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Speaker 4: because she trying to figure out is she supposed to

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Speaker 5: What does these other god tombs for it. You tell a.

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Speaker 4: Woman that she your best friend, then she gonna wonder

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Speaker 4: as soon as you saw her it felt better. What

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Speaker 4: then guess what you said? She felt so good?

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Speaker 5: Pressed up against me when we're.

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Speaker 4: Hug You know, when I see my homies that I've

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Speaker 4: been friends with for fifty years, sixty years, when we

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Speaker 4: few times. She reminded me that if we went all

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Speaker 5: Listen to me.

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Speaker 4: If you run up on me and we do and gage,

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Speaker 4: i'mnna be a proper You know what i'd heard.

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Speaker 5: Listen to me, I'm crazy.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you right now, right now.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna bring down your whole fort if you sleep

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Speaker 4: with me, and the reason you I'm a reason. You

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Speaker 5: You know why don't nobody live here?

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Speaker 4: Because everybody found out how crazed I am. Then you

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Speaker 5: But you kept going over there. I should have heeded

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Speaker 4: Well, since that night, she has not been the same

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Speaker 4: the other female friends and guys. Of course, I've given

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Speaker 5: She going through what she told you she was gonna do.

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Speaker 5: If you come over here and sleep.

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Speaker 4: With me, I'm gonna be a problem, and I'm not

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Speaker 5: Man, you stupid man. Hey man, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 5: Cheating is not what you do. You're not good at it.

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Speaker 5: You're real scary. You don't know none of the rules.

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Speaker 4: You ain't set up, no guidelines, you ain't had a conversation.

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Speaker 4: You just did what the girl told you not to do.

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Speaker 4: You slept with and she said she was gonna be

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you where her head is. She crazy.

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Speaker 4: She told you that I told her that we can

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Speaker 5: Prod.

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Speaker 4: You've already crossed the line of friendship. Why do y'all

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Speaker 5: I told her, I'm not leaving my wife.

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Speaker 4: She took the news so well that I'm afraid of

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Speaker 4: ever leaving my wife. She said, Okay, you know good

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Speaker 4: a whole problem for you, gone back over that tool.

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Speaker 4: She has no reason to be hurt because she knew

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Speaker 5: No, she didn't. You knew what it was from the start.

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Speaker 4: She told you if you sleep with me, I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: She don't do what she says. She said, she promised

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Speaker 4: finn to be. I'm scared for my life. What if

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Speaker 4: she knew what? You're scared for your life?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Am I having this situation with my friend? The right way.

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Speaker 5: She's not your friend. She find to kill you.

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