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<v Speaker 1>Hoping and we talk back where we encourage you to

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<v Speaker 1>hustle hard, laugh, ladder, and always keep it cute. So

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<v Speaker 1>grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>go down.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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<v Speaker 3>Back, big nasty throat nigga. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, AJ.

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<v Speaker 2>Holiday, y'all is stair Bama. I love y'all the season

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<v Speaker 2>changing my ship cut off?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's dry and wet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you to AJ. How you doing how?

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<v Speaker 3>And I love your back?

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<v Speaker 2>How's your weekend? Well?

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<v Speaker 3>My weekend was, uh, I did go outside this weekend? Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>If y'all want to tell dinners and stuff I do eat.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants to be like, I ain't do nothing. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 2>I did do something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because it's not like super eventful. You know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying. I'm going to Miami this weekend, so I'll

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<v Speaker 3>have maybe for next week. I have some things to

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<v Speaker 3>tell you guys Miami. I'm one of my friends from well,

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<v Speaker 3>she's a friend of a friend, like my first home

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<v Speaker 3>girl I met when I moved to Saint Louis. This

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<v Speaker 3>is her friend I met through her. She executive produced

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<v Speaker 3>this movie called July seven. It's about the assassination of

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<v Speaker 3>the Haitian president in twenty one or twenty two. I

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<v Speaker 3>know the United States did does shit, but anyway, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's gonna be a lot of Haitians out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I presume it's a black tie event. Oh yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>sit and my dress doesn't fit. Bitch, been trying to

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<v Speaker 3>starve herself for a day, just only got one day.

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<v Speaker 2>Well bring me back in Haitian girl, You do not.

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<v Speaker 3>Want one of them niggas men. First of all, his

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<v Speaker 3>mama gonna do some centrea on you something.

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<v Speaker 2>I want one of them niggas with a side of

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<v Speaker 2>black rice. They're black rice.

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<v Speaker 3>Is good, black rice. It is good. I had black

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<v Speaker 3>rice for the first time last year. I have used

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<v Speaker 3>black rice to do my hair. You know, you do

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<v Speaker 3>like the rice wash. I bought black rice to do

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<v Speaker 3>that because it has like a lot of antioxidants and

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<v Speaker 3>shit like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Mh.

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<v Speaker 3>But that fucking black rice is good, so good. It's good, nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>His mama made it for me one time many years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, I think I could be Haitian.

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<v Speaker 2>He could, Mary Haitian.

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<v Speaker 3>What you had going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all? Oh? What did I do this weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I went to see the Hot Boys Tour. Lil Wayne

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<v Speaker 2>and the Hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Boys back that ass up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gud, y'all, if this show is coming to

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<v Speaker 2>your city, please go see it. I had so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going from sweet to sweet, drinking up Nigga's.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds about right.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good old negro, y'all. But I paid

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<v Speaker 2>for it the next day because I had to fly

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<v Speaker 2>back to New York in the morning. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>not built like I used to, Like I used to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to drink and then get up and function

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<v Speaker 2>the next day.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that shit been over for me. I really

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<v Speaker 3>have to plan them type of nights because I already

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<v Speaker 3>know I'm gonna be in the house down bad the

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<v Speaker 3>next day.

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<v Speaker 2>The next day, all day. That's how you know liquor

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<v Speaker 2>is poison.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, your body literally be like did stop?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? It feels so good while you're doing it, though, because.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd be feeling stupid while everybody else drunk and you

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<v Speaker 3>just sitting there looking at them being stupid and drunk,

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<v Speaker 3>Like you gotta join them or else, like you might

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<v Speaker 3>hit somebody, like get your drunk ass away from me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not about going to have some drinks tonight. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, nah, you ain't never over it. Relax,

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<v Speaker 2>you drinks Sunday. You didn't drink Monday because you was

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<v Speaker 2>hurting from Sunday. Did you drink on too day? Relaxed,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Wednesday. Just be sober. But it's like wine night

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<v Speaker 2>at this spot and everybody's going and I kind of

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<v Speaker 2>want to go, but I'm not going to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Not the wine night. Wine makes me feel depressed. And

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even be depressed. It just makes me feel

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<v Speaker 3>extremely mellow. I don't like it. Oh just down, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying. It's not you need up, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like a little little man. I might have to mix

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<v Speaker 3>it right with little little whoa got it. Let's get

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<v Speaker 3>in the stupid internet news man, all right?

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<v Speaker 2>I love this one. Glorilla calls Duke Dennis medium ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was a video and he was like he

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<v Speaker 2>heard the song and he heard his name and he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, wait, is she talk about me? In that

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<v Speaker 2>first part where she says she like niggas medium ugly,

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<v Speaker 2>she wouldn't talk about me in that part, but she was.

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<v Speaker 3>He definitely was, so hold on, what's the legs?

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<v Speaker 2>It?

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<v Speaker 3>Says Gloria Raps that she likes her partners tall and

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<v Speaker 3>grimy and mixed with a little bit of ugly, before

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<v Speaker 3>seconds later calling out the popular streamer with the line,

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<v Speaker 3>Duke Dennis, what's up with you? Is a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>Tonni's fine. He's a nice looking boy. Is he not

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<v Speaker 3>a nice looking man?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's good looking. He's medium ugly, he's handsome.

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<v Speaker 3>Is he medium ugly?

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<v Speaker 2>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what medium ugly is?

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<v Speaker 2>When I think of medium ugly, I don't think of

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<v Speaker 2>like ugly for real. I think like kind of right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just a little bit like not too manicured.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I think of who do I think of?

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<v Speaker 3>Like it? Just Alba is like medium ugly? Like it

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<v Speaker 3>just Alba is not Like I can't even say he's

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<v Speaker 3>not super aesthetically pleasing, because he is. You know, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's just all in cumbersing of all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>The aura word.

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<v Speaker 3>For your encumbensing. Encumbersing, y'all tell me what it is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I know what I'm trying to say anyway, But like

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<v Speaker 3>the whole his aura like energy everything, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying, makes them this fine ass medium ugly, And

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<v Speaker 3>I think just medium ugly means.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, yeah to me too, because I feel like Aaron

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<v Speaker 2>Pierre is not medium ugly. He's just beautiful. He's just

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<v Speaker 2>like pretty. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even think he's cute at all. See, that's

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<v Speaker 3>the thing. So it's.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's like pretty either. No, he got that

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<v Speaker 2>was pretty as he got all these beautiful like.

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<v Speaker 3>All encompassing there you go, Google.

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<v Speaker 2>I like words, man, uh so, but Skepta is just

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<v Speaker 2>fine as hell. He's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl the google him too right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I am I adore him?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So is he a medium ugly? A hood fine?

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<v Speaker 3>Is hood fine a thing? I think? I think hood

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<v Speaker 3>fine is also a thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Hood fine?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like niggas in Miami and.

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<v Speaker 2>Me them ugly and hood fire and be kind of

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<v Speaker 2>similar though, because it's just kind of like a little rough, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, a little rugged.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh. They got a picture of them together, how about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, train, This is.

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<v Speaker 3>A picture of Skeptic and Aaron here together, and both

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<v Speaker 3>of these niggas was in the club. I am definitely

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<v Speaker 3>picking Skeptic I think men behaved a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>when light skin niggas was in. These dark skinned niggas,

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<v Speaker 3>you thinking they bad bitches many more than the light

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<v Speaker 3>skinned niggas did.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you when that shit started, Wesley Snipes

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<v Speaker 2>kicked that ship off. Wesley Snipes kid the dark niggas

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<v Speaker 2>thinking bitches down hill.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever since then, Wesley Snipes.

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<v Speaker 2>Wesley Snipes then came motherfucking Moore's chestnut and it was over.

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<v Speaker 3>Diggs ass, Yeah, what's that movie? I just seen a

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<v Speaker 3>clip of it with Wesley Snipes and Along changing places, right,

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<v Speaker 3>not changing places?

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<v Speaker 2>It was uh ah, God, damn Wesley Snipes and Nia alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not Along, excuse me, not you along to violate

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<v Speaker 3>them dis ap paary acts. Oh yeah, okay, I saw

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<v Speaker 3>a clip like from a part of that movie the

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<v Speaker 3>other day and that ship was so fucking triggering how

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<v Speaker 3>he was gassedlighting the fuck out of her. Did you

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<v Speaker 3>do you remember seeing that?

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<v Speaker 2>You remember that movie that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I have to see it again.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's watch that movie this week. Can come back talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it next week.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's do it. Everybody watched Disaperiodics. We're going I'll

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it on the shu.

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<v Speaker 3>You know Terry McMillan had that's in a chokehold as

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<v Speaker 3>fucking kids, Yeah she did.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no reason that we should have been reading that

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<v Speaker 2>type of literure.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think we probably have a better perspective of it,

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<v Speaker 3>or different perspective now as adults too. We'll have a

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<v Speaker 3>different lens.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like just watching like waiting to exhale as a

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<v Speaker 2>grown woman versus when I watched it as a Child's

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<v Speaker 2>just such change lens. Yeah, oh, and nothing has changed

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<v Speaker 2>in thirty years. We're going through the same exact shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Ain't nothing changed. So y'all like fine hood fine or

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<v Speaker 3>medium ugly niggas? I think we all like medium ugly anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>I prefer speaking of medium ugly. What happened?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I don't want to know nigga who thinks

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<v Speaker 2>he better than me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, be in the bathroom and the mari longer than you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like doing it. I hate listen as much as

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<v Speaker 2>I love Drake. I hate how he do that little

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<v Speaker 2>potty lip thing. Stop doing that?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Drake thinking a bad bitch all day.

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<v Speaker 2>He just posted a new PITCHU, and I'm like, damn

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<v Speaker 2>motherfucking fine, And I don't even you know, red Bones

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<v Speaker 2>ain't really my type, but him and that ty Lepley,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, ty Lepley is like ty Lepley has a different

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<v Speaker 3>His look is different though, like he is fine and

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<v Speaker 3>he has a grunge look at the same time. And

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<v Speaker 3>he's not pretty though he's just fucking gorgeous. He's not pretty,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, Like he's not a pretty light skin nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>He might be light skin, but still a dark nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Drake is just light skin.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, here we go, brothers.

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<v Speaker 3>No no. But speaking of medium ugly and ship, which

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<v Speaker 3>y'all think about Neil, Neil is technically medium ugly. He

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<v Speaker 3>take the hat off right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he's I feel like his personality might be

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<v Speaker 2>a little medium ugly too, because he's just been some

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<v Speaker 2>bad stuff coming out about him. I mean, I don't listen.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're in the parly lifestyle and you can afford,

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<v Speaker 2>you can have as many bitch as you can afford,

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<v Speaker 2>as far as I'm concerned, as long as everybody is

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<v Speaker 2>in the know. But I just hate that. I just

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<v Speaker 2>always associated Neo with a gentleman, you know, like the

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<v Speaker 2>dun correct.

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<v Speaker 4>Bad stuff, those hats and suits and the year of

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<v Speaker 4>the Gentleman album, and I thought he was a family man.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's just all that's how you just never you

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<v Speaker 2>think you know a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so he actually speaks on telling his kids about

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<v Speaker 3>his poly relationship. He continues to double down against any

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<v Speaker 3>anyone criticizing criticizing his embrace of polyamory, it says, following

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<v Speaker 3>his divorce in twenty twenty two, when his ex wife

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<v Speaker 3>Crystal Renee accused Neo of infidelity, the forty five year

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<v Speaker 3>old singer had and spotted out in public with multiple

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<v Speaker 3>partners and spoken about his perspective on dating. So he

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<v Speaker 3>has multiple girlfriends. Now, everybody know each other, everybody on

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<v Speaker 3>vacation together. Everybody looking like they be having a great

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<v Speaker 3>time with him.

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<v Speaker 2>They look pretty happy. But well, remember what was that rapper?

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<v Speaker 2>He had, like a couple girls and his harem rapper.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like kind of fat, he had a big

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<v Speaker 2>old but.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh then they got to Texas what's the name? Two times?

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<v Speaker 3>Two times?

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of times that didn't work out though you

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<v Speaker 2>saw high that ended sadly like that, Just like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard, first of all, getting three bitches to get

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<v Speaker 2>along with each other for over years.

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<v Speaker 3>Just impressive they were getting along them niggas. Be Those

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<v Speaker 3>are the men that have high tolerance for like headaches

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<v Speaker 3>and bullshit. They it's like that, like they just are

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<v Speaker 3>able to function in that type of toxicity. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>I am actually happy he's finally living in his truth

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote unless y'all human's favorite shit to say, living

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<v Speaker 3>in the truth, which is some bullshit. But yeah, now

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<v Speaker 3>he's not lying to women at least, like he has

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<v Speaker 3>all these women that knows know what they're getting into

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<v Speaker 3>and they are signing up for it, right, so they

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<v Speaker 3>have all full control and all consent for the bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>Unlike his ex wives. He had the first wife have

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<v Speaker 3>a damn tie her tubes, telling her he didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>any more children. That he left her, then married Crystal Renee,

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<v Speaker 3>had two kids with her, cheated on her with a stripper,

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<v Speaker 3>and got that bitch pregnant too. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. Just not the year of the Gentleman.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing all this while making their songs. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so sick of love songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, should listened.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they ain't never lie.

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<v Speaker 2>It's scary out here, that's like why Sometimes I be thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>like should we all pick one person? I think as

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<v Speaker 2>a woman, it seems like you're be getting the short

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<v Speaker 2>end of the sticks sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, men created marriage so they can all somebody,

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<v Speaker 3>so everybody would have a chance at getting pussy. That's

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<v Speaker 3>what I believe. Okay, just lock lock in a female

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<v Speaker 3>whoever you can lock in, lock her in. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I mean, like before that, they would be

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<v Speaker 2>clubbing bitches over the head to get their pussy.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like, man, I don't think that's happening. Not

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<v Speaker 3>the most black people.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you have humanity came about? You know, like

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<v Speaker 2>continue to speak humanity.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been humans, this human for a very long time.

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<v Speaker 3>There's another group of people who are kind of young

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<v Speaker 3>on the planet now. They might have been in kieves

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<v Speaker 3>and knocking bitches over the fucking end. We have we

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<v Speaker 3>have cultures where women were like real life metriarchs, Like

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<v Speaker 3>we was running shit and men did what we told

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<v Speaker 3>him to do. So all thezulus, Yeah, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>different tries, a lot of different cultures. Yeah, we're getting

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<v Speaker 3>back there too, were getting back there right now. That's

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<v Speaker 3>why the niggas be fighting us so hard because they

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<v Speaker 3>know it's coming. The moa arc is coming back. Furthermore,

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<v Speaker 3>of speaking on medium ugly, what you think about Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a medium ugly day. What did you think about

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<v Speaker 3>Cruci possibly dating Dionne Sanders.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm here for it. I'm a fan of dion Sanders.

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<v Speaker 2>I like his energy is very strong masculine energy. And

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<v Speaker 2>I know if it's true, he is kneeling Kruci little

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<v Speaker 2>self to the bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I like that for her because I know he

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<v Speaker 3>probably like real healthy, he gets up and joll every morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Nigga got good heart health. That ship wrong, bitch. I

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<v Speaker 3>know it's strong. It looked like it gets strong.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's probably like very like like uh, very like

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<v Speaker 2>not bossy, but like that's a grown man, Like you're

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<v Speaker 2>not playing with Leon Sanders. Like she probably had to

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<v Speaker 2>be a little baby that Listen. I don't see them together,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't seem like she was like a man that

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<v Speaker 2>much more sure than her.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm probably tired.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm probably wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's what happened. You just listen, get somebody who

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<v Speaker 3>ain't playing no more games? Ship they tired. They don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to do much. They won't lay the fuck down

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<v Speaker 3>to Yeah, aplication, take some yacht trips.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I got invited to Barbados next week, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to decide to do. I don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Go. I'm so jealous. I'm going to Barbados this year.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm jealous. If you go, you ever been? I know

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<v Speaker 3>I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Live there Wednesday to Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not long enough. I need nine days. I ain't

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<v Speaker 3>got expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta go to school. That's where I have to

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<v Speaker 2>be after it, like they're going to be gone. But

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<v Speaker 2>I can't. I can't go. I already paid those classes,

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<v Speaker 2>so I got to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Barbado's expensive as hell too.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, But yeah, I don't know. We'll see, We'll see

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<v Speaker 2>if I go.

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<v Speaker 3>Go, man, go for me. I'm going this year for sure,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm gonna take a long trip if I got

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<v Speaker 3>to go by my fucking self.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we have a baddie. It's the last week of it, there.

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<v Speaker 3>Is, y'all. But you know, Black history is all year.

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<v Speaker 3>Black history is American history. And you know, I was

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<v Speaker 3>having a little back and forth with a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 3>a very close friend of mine about this the other

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<v Speaker 3>day when I saw the headline, because man, I swear

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<v Speaker 3>all I get is negative hairline and negative political headlines

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<v Speaker 3>all the time. Remember how to tell you Tammy. But

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't just you. I mean in that day, I mean,

0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.040
<v Speaker 3>motherfuckers was slamming me. And it's like, I feel like

0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:11.040
<v Speaker 3>people be trying to get you on it. Ah got

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<v Speaker 3>you look at this hat. This is your voto for

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<v Speaker 3>type shit. No it's not internal. No, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't think it's internal because I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>that people were critiquing any other president as much as

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<v Speaker 3>the current president. People were not the Shade Room and

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<v Speaker 3>nigga when the Shade Room have did the Shade Room

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<v Speaker 3>post about Biden Son Smith of coke and shit instead

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<v Speaker 3>of coke off a stripper butt and have an underage

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<v Speaker 3>girls and a and a uh yeah, none of that

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<v Speaker 3>shit ever happened. I don't know about done embezzling all

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<v Speaker 3>type of money in Ukraine. Whedon saw none of those headlines,

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<v Speaker 3>the things that are now coming out in the news,

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<v Speaker 3>which is why he pardoned his entire family. But those

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<v Speaker 3>were never headlines on black media. So what I would

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<v Speaker 3>like to see is some of the positive things, especially

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<v Speaker 3>when it's pertaining to black people.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, I hear anything positive black.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So Alice Marie Johnson, I don't know if y'all

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<v Speaker 3>have ever heard of her, but just recently Trump appointed

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<v Speaker 3>her to be pardons are So this is a newly

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<v Speaker 3>creative position in one of his kind, you know, in

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<v Speaker 3>American history. So, she's an American justice reform advocate and

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<v Speaker 3>former federal prisoner. She was convicted in nineteen ninety six

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<v Speaker 3>for her involvement in Memphis cocaine trafficking organization and sentenced

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<v Speaker 3>to life in prisonment. Now they're saying she was aheaded organization,

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<v Speaker 3>but she had never been in jail a day in

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<v Speaker 3>her life, pride to being convicted and sentenced to life

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<v Speaker 3>in prison. So she in twenty eighteen, June twenty eighteen,

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<v Speaker 3>after serving twenty one years in prison, she was released

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<v Speaker 3>by the She was released from the Federal Correctional Institution Aliceville,

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<v Speaker 3>wherever that is. And then she did get clemency from

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<v Speaker 3>Trump as well, And I think Kim Kardashian helped with data.

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<v Speaker 3>And so since then, since she's been out, she's been

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<v Speaker 3>you know, working on prison reform. She's helped other people

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<v Speaker 3>gain their freedom as well. So last week February twentieth,

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty five, Trump named her as his administration's pardons

0:20:15.320 --> 0:20:18.200
<v Speaker 3>are And I think that's great news as much black

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<v Speaker 3>people as we.

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<v Speaker 2>Have more parts are exactly so.

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<v Speaker 3>She would be she'd be working, you know, with the

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<v Speaker 3>Department of Justice, and it is exactly what it is,

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<v Speaker 3>just like you have the borders are the person who's

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<v Speaker 3>who was in charge.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's pretty much taken Kim Kardashian job because that's what.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Kim Kardashian was just the face because she's a

0:20:38.760 --> 0:20:43.400
<v Speaker 3>big name, right. There's people who Kim Kardashian was working with,

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<v Speaker 3>like different organizations that do this shit like they you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying, they help people get pardons all

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<v Speaker 3>the time. But Kim Kardashian, you know, she's been helping

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<v Speaker 3>because of who she is.

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<v Speaker 2>Why not definitely was the prior.

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<v Speaker 3>She was the face of a partner. Yeah. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, whoever we got put in place to help.

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<v Speaker 2>This black woman. I always support black women, black women

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<v Speaker 2>doing great things. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Alice Marie Johnson, and she is a

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<v Speaker 3>baddie and a Jeminiah.

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<v Speaker 2>We salute you. You're a baddie who talks back.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, y'all, So I know we were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>who the hell was we talking about anyway, y'all? Oh

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<v Speaker 3>when we were talking about neo ass side bitches, name bitches,

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<v Speaker 3>new bitches, Baby Mama is all ship?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is red blue bitches?

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<v Speaker 3>This week we want to know, you know, because the

0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:49.480
<v Speaker 3>side bitches be be thinking that they be women. Let's come, okay,

0:21:50.320 --> 0:21:57.119
<v Speaker 3>side women, the side women, the extracurricular activity women. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>my one I The the thing I hate to see

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<v Speaker 3>them say is don't ask me, actual man, bitch, who

0:22:05.200 --> 0:22:08.520
<v Speaker 3>are you talking to? And then the main you know,

0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:10.600
<v Speaker 3>the main who thinks she's entitled to all the things

0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:13.840
<v Speaker 3>like who's really winning? Who's the main chick versus the

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<v Speaker 3>side chick for this this week's episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's winning that fight?

0:22:18.400 --> 0:22:29.200
<v Speaker 3>Like who's you ever't been a side chick? All right, y'all, were.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna get into that conversation when well, give it.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome, and we talk about podcasts, and today we're delving

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<v Speaker 3>in a controversial topic with relationships. Okay, main chick versus

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<v Speaker 3>side chick? Who winning does anybody win.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody wins when the family fuse. Okay, you ain't family

0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 2>if you're the sidebitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Now according to who that's true? Now, side bitch be

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<v Speaker 3>turned into the main fast.

0:23:00.680 --> 0:23:04.640
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. We saw

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:09.240
<v Speaker 2>that movie The Family that Praise God, you these movies,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was, but don't give me the Lion.

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<v Speaker 2>So it had Alfree Woodard in it. I can't think

0:23:17.600 --> 0:23:19.399
<v Speaker 2>of that white lady's name, but she's in it. She

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<v Speaker 2>was amazing and Sonata Lathan okay, and she played the

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<v Speaker 2>side chick to.

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<v Speaker 3>L Oh what happened? That was a rumor.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about that. So, yeah, she played

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<v Speaker 2>the side chick to the Kiff Cart that was his name,

0:23:43.800 --> 0:23:48.440
<v Speaker 2>the white guy who was Yeah, and she had the car,

0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:50.680
<v Speaker 2>she had all the money. She had like three hundred

0:23:50.720 --> 0:23:53.880
<v Speaker 2>thousand in her savings. But it did not end well

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:54.280
<v Speaker 2>for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't she get pregnant?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, my son is a Kiff Card. But I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how true that was because they never really

0:24:02.200 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 2>went back into that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I definitely remember the movie now, see.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, she was like side bitch extraordinary, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's let's define the roles, right, what are the

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<v Speaker 3>roles of the main chick?

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<v Speaker 2>You would say everything everything important, Like all right, she

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<v Speaker 2>gives the kids, she's with the family, she nurtures, like

0:24:28.240 --> 0:24:31.760
<v Speaker 2>she feeds the family. She is his one and only

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to it, like it'll be like him

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<v Speaker 2>and her when it's all over. That's the main chick.

0:24:36.560 --> 0:24:38.840
<v Speaker 2>That's the one that everybody knows about. That's the one

0:24:38.840 --> 0:24:43.880
<v Speaker 2>who takes the family portraits. That's his main. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the main So that's the wife. Well, not necessarily because

0:24:49.480 --> 0:24:50.560
<v Speaker 2>it could be a girlfriend too.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we'll talk about it from both both aspects, like

0:24:54.600 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 3>a married man would a side or married woman would

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<v Speaker 3>a side. And then like the boyfriend girlfriend okay, because

0:25:02.600 --> 0:25:05.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like with boyfriend girlfriends, like if you ain't married,

0:25:05.040 --> 0:25:06.160
<v Speaker 3>like you like fair game.

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you like you can't post somebody for you're a homewrecker.

0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 2>You fucking my boyfriend. No, he's out here choosing right

0:25:16.200 --> 0:25:18.640
<v Speaker 2>if that's your husband. Now, now you got to let

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:19.840
<v Speaker 2>the stand on my boyfriend.

0:25:20.040 --> 0:25:22.200
<v Speaker 3>Really don't suit in the state of North Carolina.

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean sometimes like we will look at a girl

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<v Speaker 2>crazy if she messing with somebody man and maybe they

0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:28.240
<v Speaker 2>not married though.

0:25:28.359 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 3>The celebrity world, I look at all the people crazy,

0:25:30.640 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 3>like if you fucking we all know that's that lady husband.

0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:35.880
<v Speaker 2>Are her boyfriend there? Yeah?

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:39.840
<v Speaker 3>Why are you on him? And then you talking crazy that.

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:45.040
<v Speaker 2>Ship with Jello Jello ball and Nikki Baby. That hurt

0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:45.560
<v Speaker 2>my feeling.

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:48.600
<v Speaker 3>We know that. That's so why you why you on him?

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:51.320
<v Speaker 3>That's why I like, I love Sweetie. I like Sweetie

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:53.200
<v Speaker 3>a lot man what she do, but I just did

0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:55.920
<v Speaker 3>not like seeing Sweety on little baby lap, like you

0:25:56.000 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 3>know that's Jada way the old man. Yeah, it's just

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:04.359
<v Speaker 3>why are you doing that? Chicken headish anyway? And it

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 3>was so what's the world is?

0:26:05.520 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 2>But they wasn't married though, so it's not married, but

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 2>they are publicly that if his laugh is open, do

0:26:12.359 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 2>he does she know his lap open?

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 3>But see, this is why I say women also have

0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:19.640
<v Speaker 3>to take accountability. The owners does not just fall on

0:26:19.680 --> 0:26:21.920
<v Speaker 3>the man. Like, yes, the home record is the motherfucker

0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:25.760
<v Speaker 3>that's in the home. But if you intentionally and knowingly

0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:27.480
<v Speaker 3>engage with a man knowing.

0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:29.879
<v Speaker 2>That you reationship, you're just as culpable.

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.520
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying. You can now I've definitely

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 3>been on some ask him, don't asks me type ship.

0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:39.399
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying. With a boyfriend situation at work,

0:26:39.640 --> 0:26:41.400
<v Speaker 3>Ain't that the same shit? Huh?

0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Ain't that the same ship? Though?

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:46.080
<v Speaker 3>You know how I find out like because most men,

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 3>like you don't know, they're not going to tell you

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:50.160
<v Speaker 3>that in a relationship. Now, all of a sudden, somebody

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 3>randomly calling your cell phone. So when a person does that,

0:26:52.600 --> 0:26:57.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm never gonna let you feel like you got to live. Sorry,

0:26:57.440 --> 0:26:59.200
<v Speaker 3>I might cuss him out, but you don't got no

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:01.840
<v Speaker 3>love when you call him, Okay, because you're coming to

0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 3>me as a woman, and I'm coming as a sniper

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:08.400
<v Speaker 3>every time period. Okay, So saidebitches. So side bitches don't

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:10.639
<v Speaker 3>have like pictures with family, and they don't be on

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:16.359
<v Speaker 3>vacation with the Sometimes, yes, a lot with the sidebitch.

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.919
<v Speaker 2>I mean sometimes the family like the sidekick better than

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 2>they like the man.

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 3>And they waiting for her to get the hell up

0:27:22.960 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 3>out of there.

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:27.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a slippery slopes, it really is. It's it's

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:28.440
<v Speaker 2>real nasty.

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:31.240
<v Speaker 3>I feel like when women cheat, like we actually have

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:35.920
<v Speaker 3>side men like because only because men play the side

0:27:35.960 --> 0:27:38.640
<v Speaker 3>better than women. Yeah, when women play the side y'all

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:42.800
<v Speaker 3>calling this man's wife, y'all, popping up places, y'all getting

0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:46.000
<v Speaker 3>pregnant y'all in the video, Like Diddy, it's a woman

0:27:46.040 --> 0:27:48.960
<v Speaker 3>with a man, is like he really playing his role.

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Right because he don't want the responsibility of being mad

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:54.120
<v Speaker 2>all the time? You know what? That mad?

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? He I think side chicks don't want the man

0:27:58.560 --> 0:28:01.800
<v Speaker 3>all the time either, like do acquire him? The relationship

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 3>oftentimes soils typically.

0:28:05.359 --> 0:28:08.040
<v Speaker 2>You know what, when it's a younger woman and an

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 2>older man, I think that dynamic is like I don't

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:13.840
<v Speaker 2>want him for real. I just want the bag right

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:16.520
<v Speaker 2>he doing, he takes me out, I have fun. I

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:20.120
<v Speaker 2>don't want her responsibility. But when they're peers, when they're

0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 2>about the same age, that woman might want that man

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 2>for real, you know, like he's gonna leave her for

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:28.479
<v Speaker 2>me energy. Yeah, And that's just the biggest mistake as

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:31.560
<v Speaker 2>far as I'm concerned. Don't ever want to take a

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:32.960
<v Speaker 2>man from out of a home.

0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:36.479
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because side pitches be cooking for niggas like you tripping?

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 2>Why are you cooking for are? Like? Because trying to

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 2>do all the things that the wife isn't, you know,

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 2>or the main chick isn't. That's what they're trying to

0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 2>fill that space.

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:49.000
<v Speaker 3>And I just feel like if he's gonna be a

0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 3>side girl, it's like a fun position, right, business trips,

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 3>you know, you with him, things like that, like and

0:28:57.360 --> 0:29:02.760
<v Speaker 3>you just always shut the fuck up and quiet, don't talk. Girl,

0:29:03.000 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 3>Cholston got some drama going on. It's a girl and

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:08.240
<v Speaker 3>there she They put it all on you on Facebook.

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 3>How they went and beat up the husband's girlfriend who

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 3>apparently they used to have threesomes with, but he chose

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 3>the other person.

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what happened with Stevie j and Mimi and Joscelyn

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 2>her name.

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 3>They used to these three sons together.

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:27.640
<v Speaker 2>That's what I That's what I thought, like they had

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 2>like an intimate fum relationship. And then he kind of

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 2>went another direction.

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.360
<v Speaker 3>No, these are real life ratchets, Like I'm gonna sing

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:37.760
<v Speaker 3>you this Facebook video because the bitch got her stucking

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 3>still hanging off. It was her her daughter, which is

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 3>a young adult. His mama, His mama was there because

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 3>it happened at her house. And he likes the wife better.

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 3>I mean, she likes the wife better. But they all

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 3>jumped the girlfriend.

0:29:51.840 --> 0:29:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's that's fucked up. He chose yeah, instead of jumping.

0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:00.960
<v Speaker 3>But the girlfriend was talking shit online, well maybe rebuttal

0:30:01.040 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 3>online to the girls talking She like, I'm not about

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.040
<v Speaker 3>to just shut the fuck up all the time while

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 3>you talking shit to me just because you supposedly the

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:11.040
<v Speaker 3>wife like he obviously is out the door.

0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Was it a real wife, like were they legal years?

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't think. I mean, I don't think the sor shit.

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I think she should be quiet. I don't think she

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 2>should be arguing. But you don't really have a lyric

0:30:23.960 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 2>to stand on. This woman has a valid reason to

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 2>be angry with you, but.

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:29.080
<v Speaker 3>She came in as a unicorn, so you invited that

0:30:29.080 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 3>shit into your relationship. And then maybe y'all cucies ain't matchup,

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:35.960
<v Speaker 3>and he chose the unicorn.

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 2>Is it always just about Cucci? I don't think it's

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 2>always just about Cucci.

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 3>So I heard that he's making and I don't even

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 3>know these people. Girl, This is just what I heard

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 3>to the grapevine, Like he he's actually even trying to

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 3>change his life for this girl. She's a little younger

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 3>than the one he's married to. The wife obviously is

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 3>super ratchet, right, But I think they all kind of remedial. Also,

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it sounds like a.

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:04.400
<v Speaker 2>Very remedial situation. But there are times where men will

0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:06.120
<v Speaker 2>have a wife and been with her for a long

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.760
<v Speaker 2>time and then trade her in for a new model.

0:31:10.200 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 2>That happens. It'll start as like just an affair and

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:17.840
<v Speaker 2>then becomes the the side becomes the main because she's

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 2>more youthful, makes him feel younger, makes him feel more alive.

0:31:21.840 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 3>Well, my mom is a prototype, because that's swear of God.

0:31:24.320 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 3>All my daddy girlfriends and current wife, they're younger than

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 3>my mama, but they look like my mama.

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:38.480
<v Speaker 2>Like, that's really like a younger version of you. That's

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 2>so hurtful.

0:31:40.520 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 3>They didn't really win the winner. Okay, I'm not paying

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 3>on bills with Nigga. That's the way to work. Why

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:48.680
<v Speaker 3>you got this, old man?

0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Is there perks of being a side chick? Though? Are there,

0:31:51.440 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 2>like really perks?

0:31:52.600 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 3>They're suppose it's supposed to be about perks. You're not

0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:57.800
<v Speaker 3>supposed to be falling in love and all this shit,

0:31:58.400 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 3>but people do it.

0:31:59.240 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 2>So how do you how do you stop from like

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 2>you don't be delusional? I'm like such a hopeless romantic.

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I could like survive in that type

0:32:09.320 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 2>of relationship me because I'm a fall in love.

0:32:13.640 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna fall in love because I match energy.

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 3>So if I don't feel you falling in love with me,

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm not just going.

0:32:19.080 --> 0:32:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I can't you think the niggas don't love their side

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:24.240
<v Speaker 2>nigga be acted up at home being mean to his

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 2>wife because him and his side bitch having a bad day.

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 3>Remember that. I was like, you'll be surprised how me,

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 3>but just have relationship issues with your nigga right?

0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 2>Why you so sad?

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 3>Baby? I gotta nobody like that man got you.

0:32:42.080 --> 0:32:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Getting your nigga tad because his side bitch hurting his head.

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.200
<v Speaker 3>Dog. I used to be like, listen, don't like my

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 3>space is zenned out. My whole life. Wherever I'm at

0:32:51.240 --> 0:32:55.320
<v Speaker 3>is zen It's quiet, it's smell good, it's clean, it's

0:32:55.400 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 3>fun over here. Don't bring that bullshit that you got

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:01.040
<v Speaker 3>going on at the house, your baby mama and the

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 3>kids and all that shit. And now you're coming over

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:06.160
<v Speaker 3>here mad, disturbing my piece. I ain't do nothing to you, yeah,

0:33:06.200 --> 0:33:09.400
<v Speaker 3>but obviously you need an outlet right quick. And now

0:33:09.440 --> 0:33:11.680
<v Speaker 3>you're coming to my house with the bullshit. So I've

0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 3>in my twenties. I definitely spent some years in a

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:18.600
<v Speaker 3>situation like that, and I did not know about the

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 3>other person initially, but you already fall in love. Yeah,

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:23.680
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying. So it's hard to get

0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:26.000
<v Speaker 3>out of there. But you got too, bitch. I had

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 3>to move, Yeah, I don't know, like relocate.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I think, all right, so I'm single, and i've

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.600
<v Speaker 2>been single for a minute now, but I'll be feeling

0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 2>like if I had because I'm kind of stuck in

0:33:39.560 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 2>my waist a little bit, if I had a man

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:45.760
<v Speaker 2>in the home all the time. I already told you

0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 2>I might want him to have a side, bitch, so

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 2>he could just like get on my face a little bit.

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 2>Not right away, but after ten years, after ten years

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 2>looking at this nigga day in and day out, like damn,

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 2>ain't nobody check it for you? God Dad, Well, like

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm the import person who like you, I get me

0:34:06.400 --> 0:34:11.120
<v Speaker 2>a break, nigga go to her house at the while,

0:34:11.200 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 3>Really care no more, but I just better not I'll

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:15.640
<v Speaker 3>find out about it. You be, just just don't let

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:18.160
<v Speaker 3>me find out if you're out here outside, because the

0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 3>minute I find out like I don't have patience for

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 3>finding out no more. Yeah, but if you're doing it

0:34:23.160 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 3>and I don't know more, part to you, bro, and

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 3>if she okay with the amount of time that you

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 3>give her, Hey, man, y'all do y'all think, just don't

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:30.240
<v Speaker 3>bring me nothing.

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:32.800
<v Speaker 2>After two years, I'm feeling like I might be feeling

0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:35.120
<v Speaker 2>like that. I might just be saying that I might

0:34:35.160 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 2>be heartbroken if I found out my man was doing that.

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:40.680
<v Speaker 2>But the way, how is my life right now? I

0:34:40.760 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 2>know that that space would make me happy, but like

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, time away, So maybe I probably need like

0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 2>an open situation, but not at first, just maybe like

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:56.759
<v Speaker 2>later seeing the same person day after day after day

0:34:56.960 --> 0:34:58.919
<v Speaker 2>for a year after year after year.

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 3>That don't sound crazy, It is crazy. I'm living it

0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:03.800
<v Speaker 3>right now.

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Too much pressure when I'm home alone.

0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and he don't even get on my nerve and

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.280
<v Speaker 3>none of that shit. Like I really really be chilling,

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 3>like we have a little I can count how many

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:16.360
<v Speaker 3>times we like had a little back of forth. You

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:19.080
<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying that Nigga told me, Hey, he

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:21.000
<v Speaker 3>told me to shut the fuck up the other day. Now,

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 3>I was pissed about that.

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:23.600
<v Speaker 2>You probably needed to.

0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 3>Like, because he was really shuffling trying to get the

0:35:28.160 --> 0:35:30.240
<v Speaker 3>fuck out of the house, and I just was still

0:35:30.320 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 3>going at him, sounding like my mom heard my mama voice.

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 2>Come up my body, bitch.

0:35:34.000 --> 0:35:37.359
<v Speaker 3>Because you know, I was mad about the equipment. If

0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 3>I let you hold something dog like, take care of it,

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:43.239
<v Speaker 3>you know. So it's not about the things. It is

0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:45.719
<v Speaker 3>what is your value system?

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:49.200
<v Speaker 2>Our value systems don't it was it was an accident.

0:35:49.560 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 3>It looked like he was changing oil with my fucking

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 3>cable and that nigga, don't fix that car, okay, So yeah, like,

0:35:55.880 --> 0:35:57.759
<v Speaker 3>take care of my things, treat your ship, how to

0:35:57.800 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 3>fuck you ever you want to. But when it comes

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 3>to my things, don't touch him. And then he gets mad.

0:36:01.640 --> 0:36:03.719
<v Speaker 3>When I asked him how to touch my things, he

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 3>told you to because he was shuffling at the door.

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:08.400
<v Speaker 3>I said, yeah, you' trying to hurry up to get

0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:10.239
<v Speaker 3>out the house in it. He shut the fuck up.

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 3>That's the rude.

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Hell.

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:17.600
<v Speaker 3>Know, well I should have not It's okay to shut

0:36:17.680 --> 0:36:20.439
<v Speaker 3>up something, No, because I be shutting up a lot.

0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:22.919
<v Speaker 3>So when I do yell and I get mad, it's

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:27.680
<v Speaker 3>because I have already shut the fuck up twenty times over. Yeah, okay,

0:36:28.000 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 3>so now you're gonna get this.

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:31.360
<v Speaker 2>But once you get to a space where nigga is

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:35.360
<v Speaker 2>verbally telling you to shut the fuck up, maybe just shut.

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:37.360
<v Speaker 3>Up, or maybe take accountability and say, you know what,

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 3>you're right, my bad. I do care about more shit

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 3>than sneakers. I do. I do care about you know,

0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:47.359
<v Speaker 3>your cables and things.

0:36:47.480 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 2>I think probably by that point you had already driven

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 2>it home and now you was just like because I.

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 3>Didn't get a response from him, that was the first

0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 3>response with shut the fuck up anywhere?

0:36:58.000 --> 0:37:01.400
<v Speaker 2>Going to work, don't nobody, No, we might have just

0:37:01.400 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 2>got off though.

0:37:02.800 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 3>No, for real, the nigga had just just got off, right.

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:07.319
<v Speaker 2>I had a long day at work. Whatever, talk about

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 2>a motherfucker.

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:09.760
<v Speaker 3>I don't be on it. I don't be on nobody

0:37:09.800 --> 0:37:11.920
<v Speaker 3>hit that bad. So if I get on your ass,

0:37:12.200 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 3>you deserve it, okay. And I was already fucking aggravated

0:37:15.640 --> 0:37:18.920
<v Speaker 3>at your ass too. So it's one thirty PM and

0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:20.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm tidy. Humans.

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, she wants to be on her period

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 2>day might have been, Yeah, it was given. It was

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:29.719
<v Speaker 2>given period energy.

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so a period.

0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 2>She was like, I don't have the bandwidth for any

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:36.320
<v Speaker 2>more of this today. I'm done.

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:39.160
<v Speaker 3>I still did the work though I did Okay, yeah,

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 3>that's all that matter. I would not have been able

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:42.880
<v Speaker 3>to do that if we kept going to circles and

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.520
<v Speaker 3>then I just calculate time different because I know my bullshit.

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:49.760
<v Speaker 3>Some people don't know they bullshit. I know our bullshit

0:37:49.840 --> 0:37:52.280
<v Speaker 3>as a team, so I know how long it takes

0:37:52.360 --> 0:37:55.040
<v Speaker 3>us to do things. So I'm calculating that in my mind.

0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like you did it this time. I

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 2>absolutely did.

0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:01.239
<v Speaker 3>I absolutely knew he wasn't going to have time for

0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 3>some next shit. Now we happened to because of our bullshit.

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:07.399
<v Speaker 2>I knew it would play out just like.

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 3>How shut up by?

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:09.319
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying.

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

0:38:10.239 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 2>Like we're gonna have a break. I was like, yeah, okay.

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:23.279
<v Speaker 3>So supposedly the main chick is public. Okay, they have

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:29.839
<v Speaker 3>the official title, the social Recognition Emotional Investment. But I

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.360
<v Speaker 3>feel like the man loves the side it's been on.

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:33.960
<v Speaker 3>How long she've been around. I feel like you sleep

0:38:33.960 --> 0:38:36.680
<v Speaker 3>in anybody long enough, you be around anyone long enough,

0:38:36.719 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 3>you are going to develop feelings for them, right, you

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.400
<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying. You may not be about to

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 3>discard your entire family for this person, and some people have.

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 3>Kevin Hart, for example, he didn't discard his family, but

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:48.960
<v Speaker 3>he you know his wife.

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:50.840
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think they had already broken up before.

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 3>This is why, this is why Tory Hart always be

0:38:55.280 --> 0:39:00.760
<v Speaker 3>like because remember his current wife, what's her name? Yeah,

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:04.719
<v Speaker 3>that's somebody else. Even anyway, Kevin hart current wife, I

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:07.440
<v Speaker 3>remember her putting like up online like how long they

0:39:07.480 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 3>had been together, and the ex wife commented, oh, okay,

0:39:11.640 --> 0:39:15.600
<v Speaker 3>that's interesting, So y'all been together eight years, so it

0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:20.480
<v Speaker 3>overlapped their marriage. M Yeah. Absolutely. She was a side

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 3>chick and he married her so.

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 2>And had made a family.

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I mean, if he didn't want to have

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 3>the hard conversation.

0:39:27.160 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 2>I will always tell women not to play that role.

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:32.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't think like nine times out of ten is

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 2>not gonna end well unless you're just in it for

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:39.040
<v Speaker 2>the perse. But if you're looking for the man to

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 2>leave his family and be with you nine times out

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:43.440
<v Speaker 2>of ten, that's not gonna happen.

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:46.279
<v Speaker 3>And then you also keep him how you get him right?

0:39:46.400 --> 0:39:48.320
<v Speaker 3>You know? So now you you don't expect that to

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:51.120
<v Speaker 3>happen to you when he's ready to swap it out right.

0:39:51.920 --> 0:39:53.520
<v Speaker 3>I just saw this post, and I don't know if

0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:56.439
<v Speaker 3>this was real. I thought I believe it was real.

0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:57.839
<v Speaker 3>But it was a woman and she was saying how

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:01.080
<v Speaker 3>it was a white woman. She was saying how she

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 3>fell in love with this man and he had a wife,

0:40:04.560 --> 0:40:07.880
<v Speaker 3>and basically he told the wife, I'm in love with

0:40:07.960 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 3>somebody else. I'm no less in love with you, though,

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:12.919
<v Speaker 3>and I want y'all to meet.

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 2>And then how did that go?

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:18.759
<v Speaker 3>He brought them in to the table together. They both

0:40:18.800 --> 0:40:21.680
<v Speaker 3>they had conversations and they I guess neither one of

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:25.600
<v Speaker 3>them wanted to leave, so they now they're just yes,

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.360
<v Speaker 3>but like still separate though, Like he has a girlfriend

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:32.479
<v Speaker 3>and a wife and he eventually left both of them

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:33.560
<v Speaker 3>for somebody else.

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 2>And I you see, you can't listen. You can't please them.

0:40:39.400 --> 0:40:40.000
<v Speaker 3>You cannot.

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.160
<v Speaker 2>That's why I say it's important to set boundaries and

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:44.280
<v Speaker 2>not do things just to please your man.

0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:44.800
<v Speaker 3>Exactly.

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:47.440
<v Speaker 2>You can't just just be doing things to please your man,

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:50.399
<v Speaker 2>because you will find yourself in the bottom of a poll.

0:40:50.480 --> 0:41:01.600
<v Speaker 3>Up YOA says, may get cheated on but gets social recognition. Yes, duh, yeah,

0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 3>of course. So the one of the UH pro cons

0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:09.359
<v Speaker 3>to being a main chick is that you may get

0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:12.719
<v Speaker 3>cheated on, right, You can't get cheated on as the.

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:18.120
<v Speaker 2>Side right because you already the cheat right and the cheat.

0:41:18.840 --> 0:41:22.399
<v Speaker 3>So the side check is the second option may get

0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 3>treated better than the main, but without commitment.

0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:28.120
<v Speaker 2>You got me sitting up in the house with these

0:41:28.200 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 2>kids all day and you out gallivan with some bitch

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:31.680
<v Speaker 2>and a casino.

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no stress over there. Over here, you gotta be

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:39.520
<v Speaker 3>a husband, you gotta be a daddy, all the things.

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 3>So now this is your like fun time outlet over here.

0:41:43.800 --> 0:41:45.640
<v Speaker 2>I can understand why a man would want that.

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and some say, you know, I think a lot

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:51.319
<v Speaker 3>of wives they may not admit it. They may not

0:41:51.360 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 3>admit that maybe the side made their.

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:55.160
<v Speaker 2>Their relationships better better.

0:41:56.000 --> 0:42:01.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I just can't be there because I'm

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:03.959
<v Speaker 3>gonna want somebody else too, Like you're not gonna want

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:07.920
<v Speaker 3>me to be your sivage because your sivage got a nigga.

0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, no, that's not true. Some people, like two married

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:15.400
<v Speaker 2>people will cheat together, like they'll be each other's side,

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:19.879
<v Speaker 2>and it makes it easier because the side doesn't need

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:23.480
<v Speaker 2>you for the other things. Like so sometimes women want

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:26.480
<v Speaker 2>that man to be their man, and he can't be

0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:29.280
<v Speaker 2>their man because he's already somebody else's. But they already

0:42:29.280 --> 0:42:31.360
<v Speaker 2>got a man at home. They don't need him for

0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 2>all of that shit, you see what I'm saying.

0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:37.560
<v Speaker 3>So that makes it that's why it's easy for women

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:40.160
<v Speaker 3>to have a side than men. Yeah, women be over

0:42:40.200 --> 0:42:43.839
<v Speaker 3>there waiting on the man. So that's why she got

0:42:43.840 --> 0:42:46.399
<v Speaker 3>too much time to think, go get you a man,

0:42:47.160 --> 0:42:50.040
<v Speaker 3>right while being the side. Maybe you tell him, maybe

0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:50.520
<v Speaker 3>you don't.

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:52.560
<v Speaker 2>So when I was in Europe, I had this client

0:42:52.680 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 2>and her she had like got her a side nigga,

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:58.480
<v Speaker 2>a younger like she was in her fifties. She looked

0:42:58.520 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 2>really really good though. She took me really good care

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:03.040
<v Speaker 2>of herself, and she had like a thirty something year

0:43:03.120 --> 0:43:07.480
<v Speaker 2>old side guy. And she was expressing that she didn't

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:11.839
<v Speaker 2>really want to ever cheat on her husband, but her

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:16.279
<v Speaker 2>husband had let herself go so badly. She had been

0:43:16.360 --> 0:43:19.200
<v Speaker 2>on him about, you know, taking care of himself, and

0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:21.759
<v Speaker 2>he just was getting fat and now his dick wouldn't work.

0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:24.360
<v Speaker 2>And she said they had not had sex in three years,

0:43:25.239 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 2>and she like took making him go to the doctor,

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 2>the doctor.

0:43:28.120 --> 0:43:28.880
<v Speaker 3>And she's healthy.

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's very in the gym and everything, and she

0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:34.560
<v Speaker 2>was like, the doctor would tell him what to do

0:43:35.040 --> 0:43:39.920
<v Speaker 2>to help, like, you know, promote better penal function, and

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 2>he just wouldn't do none of the stuff. So she's like,

0:43:42.560 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I waited three years for him to try to get

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:47.840
<v Speaker 2>it together, and he just won't do it. He's just

0:43:47.880 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 2>not motivated to take care of himself, and I can't

0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 2>do it for him. So I would and got somebody

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:53.279
<v Speaker 2>who could fuck me.

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or maybe he needed enough, maybe they I think

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:00.680
<v Speaker 3>sometimes I just saw this and said it, either you

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.719
<v Speaker 3>want to cross mountains with your partner, or there'll be

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:07.440
<v Speaker 3>the mountain you gotta cross. Right, So sometimes people be

0:44:07.600 --> 0:44:10.360
<v Speaker 3>in uh, this state of depression whatever it could be

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 3>this other person, maybe she's no longer for him obviously, right,

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 3>she really should have just left.

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:16.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I say.

0:44:16.840 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 3>I mean, but leave and then he probably would get

0:44:19.280 --> 0:44:21.880
<v Speaker 3>somebody that would motivate him in a different way, you

0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:24.160
<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying. Right, It was just complacent in something.

0:44:24.200 --> 0:44:27.000
<v Speaker 2>But I also think like they had so much together

0:44:27.080 --> 0:44:27.960
<v Speaker 2>at that point.

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:30.479
<v Speaker 3>That staying together because of responsibility, and they.

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:33.880
<v Speaker 2>Got kids, you know that aren't out of high school yet,

0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 2>so it wasn't as easy to just be like, oh,

0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:39.360
<v Speaker 2>let's just separate, you know, and they got all that

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:45.359
<v Speaker 2>financial you know, endeavors together, so it's cheaper the keeper

0:44:45.640 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 2>or killing the keeper. What No, don't kill but listen,

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:54.360
<v Speaker 2>we like when we're talking about a woman doing it,

0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:56.160
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, oh, now I understand that. As soon

0:44:56.200 --> 0:44:57.880
<v Speaker 2>as we talk about a man doing it, I'm like

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:00.840
<v Speaker 2>that bastard that fucking right.

0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:05.000
<v Speaker 3>So who really has the power in these relationships? Because

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:09.279
<v Speaker 3>the side bitch got the power to piss you off, right, Like,

0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:12.759
<v Speaker 3>who's really getting like good treatment the man?

0:45:14.480 --> 0:45:16.799
<v Speaker 2>The man is getting the best of everything. Yeah, he

0:45:16.840 --> 0:45:20.360
<v Speaker 2>gets to go have his fun and have fourn a

0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 2>kid with this girl who is fun time. He don't

0:45:24.000 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 2>have to worry about responsibilities with hers, just his outlet.

0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:28.600
<v Speaker 2>And then he gets to go have a family with

0:45:28.680 --> 0:45:32.240
<v Speaker 2>this other person and build generational wealth and have a family.

0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:34.760
<v Speaker 2>You know, like you just winning on both sides.

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:38.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so basically then nobody's winning between the main.

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:43.280
<v Speaker 2>And Yeah, they don't win at all, you know, I don't.

0:45:43.040 --> 0:45:45.439
<v Speaker 3>Know, I feel like I know the main isn't. Well,

0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:47.960
<v Speaker 3>she could win if she divorces and takes all the

0:45:48.000 --> 0:45:51.120
<v Speaker 3>things that may be a way of winning she doesn't

0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 3>win the relationship and then the side. I mean, if

0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 3>she can actually play the role as a side and

0:45:56.840 --> 0:45:58.640
<v Speaker 3>get all the things, you know what I'm saying, people

0:45:58.640 --> 0:46:01.440
<v Speaker 3>be getting intuition, paid, all types of shit if you

0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:03.200
<v Speaker 3>could be a proper side bitch.

0:46:03.320 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 2>But I guess it depends on how you define winning,

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:09.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, like, because why isn't the main winning, Especially

0:46:09.480 --> 0:46:12.319
<v Speaker 2>if like this man takes care of her, She don't

0:46:12.320 --> 0:46:14.280
<v Speaker 2>have to want for nothing, don't have to worry about

0:46:15.080 --> 0:46:19.040
<v Speaker 2>like responsibilities outside of like nurturing the family and taking

0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:20.960
<v Speaker 2>care of the kids. I'm making it seem like.

0:46:20.880 --> 0:46:23.920
<v Speaker 3>That that is a lot of shit responsibility while you

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 3>round here gallivanting. Absolutely not.

0:46:32.600 --> 0:46:37.600
<v Speaker 2>I would love to sit home, go to pilates in

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:42.400
<v Speaker 2>the morning with my hot yoga and then cook a

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:44.920
<v Speaker 2>meal and then take care of the kids, and that

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:48.000
<v Speaker 2>would be my only responsibility. Women are doing that and

0:46:48.160 --> 0:46:51.879
<v Speaker 2>maintaining full time jobs and having it, you know, wear

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:55.759
<v Speaker 2>all these different hats at the same time. So I mean,

0:46:56.400 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 2>if you're gonna have a side bitch, you need to

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:01.319
<v Speaker 2>be able to take care of me. Ain't nothing worse

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 2>than a nigga having a side bitch who ain't got

0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:04.359
<v Speaker 2>no money. You know.

0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:11.319
<v Speaker 3>That now those who got it's not even for those men,

0:47:11.680 --> 0:47:14.279
<v Speaker 3>but they doing it, I know the most. No, but

0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:17.160
<v Speaker 3>who is allowing that though?

0:47:17.719 --> 0:47:17.959
<v Speaker 4>Right?

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:21.520
<v Speaker 3>Because he don't even got enough money already for the

0:47:21.560 --> 0:47:24.839
<v Speaker 3>woman he has. And now you gotta lie to your ass.

0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 2>And go to their house to pick him up.

0:47:26.880 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 3>Not you really gotta cook for this nigga because he

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:30.800
<v Speaker 3>can't eat otherwise, right.

0:47:33.280 --> 0:47:34.800
<v Speaker 2>You the side bitch and you picking them up for

0:47:34.880 --> 0:47:35.200
<v Speaker 2>the house?

0:47:35.400 --> 0:47:38.080
<v Speaker 3>Man may be having options. Man, So when these niggas be,

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 3>these in cels be on these podcasts, dog, they don't

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:42.920
<v Speaker 3>have nothing to do with women. Why you ain't getting pussy,

0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:47.800
<v Speaker 3>get some charisma, get some smell good, get a haircut,

0:47:47.840 --> 0:47:50.680
<v Speaker 3>get a hairline. Get It's because somebody want to give

0:47:50.719 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 3>you some kucci. Okay, it just may not be the

0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:56.080
<v Speaker 3>kuchie you think you're supposed to have access to. And

0:47:56.120 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 3>I think that's that's why they be fucking mad, because yeah,

0:47:59.880 --> 0:48:02.440
<v Speaker 3>you you you might can't get the ten you know

0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:06.880
<v Speaker 3>they like the number uh rate women. It's this post

0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to find. And I don't know if I

0:48:08.880 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 3>uh if we talked about this on the show or not.

0:48:12.040 --> 0:48:16.319
<v Speaker 3>Where the girl basically the husband was saying how he

0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:18.799
<v Speaker 3>had been cheating on his wife for a while, and

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:22.640
<v Speaker 3>then he stopped cheating, and then three years later she

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 3>basically gave him some divorce papers, like I'm leaving, I'm

0:48:27.680 --> 0:48:29.640
<v Speaker 3>in love with somebody else, and I'm marrying that person.

0:48:30.760 --> 0:48:33.040
<v Speaker 2>Did we talk about that? No, we did not. Girl,

0:48:33.680 --> 0:48:35.680
<v Speaker 2>what's good for the goose is good for the game. Yeah.

0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:38.719
<v Speaker 3>So he he had been with his wife for a

0:48:38.760 --> 0:48:42.239
<v Speaker 3>while and he admitted that he had cheated on her.

0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:46.240
<v Speaker 3>She knew, yeah, uh huh. He said he kept getting

0:48:46.280 --> 0:48:46.920
<v Speaker 3>caught cheating.

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:49.240
<v Speaker 2>Okay, life around.

0:48:49.320 --> 0:48:51.960
<v Speaker 3>Yes, And he said that his child, which is not

0:48:52.040 --> 0:48:56.760
<v Speaker 3>her child, and then their child together was basically happy

0:48:56.960 --> 0:49:00.560
<v Speaker 3>for the mom. So it's here. It's so. It says

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:03.040
<v Speaker 3>my wife and I have been married for twenty years.

0:49:03.120 --> 0:49:05.040
<v Speaker 3>I will admit that I have cheated on her. Throughout

0:49:05.040 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 3>the years. She caught me each and every time. I

0:49:07.760 --> 0:49:10.479
<v Speaker 3>got tired of being caught, so I stopped. Two years ago.

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:14.439
<v Speaker 3>At dinner with our family Saturday night, my wife comes out,

0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:18.279
<v Speaker 3>gives me divorce papers and tells me she's leaving. Why

0:49:18.320 --> 0:49:20.919
<v Speaker 3>would she want to leave me? I changed for her,

0:49:21.200 --> 0:49:24.400
<v Speaker 3>I changed for her. Good boy. I had a nigga

0:49:24.440 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 3>tell me that shit.

0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:26.480
<v Speaker 2>I give all my bitches up for you.

0:49:26.680 --> 0:49:27.680
<v Speaker 3>I didn't tell you to do that.

0:49:27.760 --> 0:49:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I just told you you.

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Couldn't do this and that nigga, you could have chose

0:49:31.239 --> 0:49:34.439
<v Speaker 3>that anyway. So he was like, I changed for her

0:49:34.680 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 3>exclamation point. We raised children together, we have a home together,

0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:41.080
<v Speaker 3>and I was planning on surprising her with a new car.

0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:44.960
<v Speaker 3>Apparently my son, who was not her son, knew about it.

0:49:45.360 --> 0:49:48.279
<v Speaker 3>Our daughter knew about it, and they had the nerve

0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:51.440
<v Speaker 3>to fucking congratulate her. She told me that she was

0:49:51.640 --> 0:49:54.320
<v Speaker 3>She has been in a relationship for the last three years,

0:49:54.560 --> 0:49:56.840
<v Speaker 3>and she decided to marry this guy. At first, I

0:49:56.880 --> 0:50:00.399
<v Speaker 3>thought it was a joke because her routine has never changed. See,

0:50:00.440 --> 0:50:02.400
<v Speaker 3>women know how to do the ship and that's love,

0:50:03.560 --> 0:50:06.439
<v Speaker 3>he said. Dinner is on the table at the same

0:50:06.480 --> 0:50:10.359
<v Speaker 3>time every night. She ain't miss a beat. Okay, men,

0:50:10.560 --> 0:50:11.799
<v Speaker 3>y'all not coming home.

0:50:13.480 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Like like scared right now, Like.

0:50:17.600 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 3>You better beat me.

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:20.799
<v Speaker 2>You can have a signed nigga, especially if you know

0:50:20.880 --> 0:50:22.279
<v Speaker 2>you ain't treating her right.

0:50:22.680 --> 0:50:23.440
<v Speaker 3>We are cats.

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:25.680
<v Speaker 2>You can't cheat over and over and over again. I

0:50:25.719 --> 0:50:27.840
<v Speaker 2>think there'll be no karma.

0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:32.719
<v Speaker 3>Exact, he said. I don't know how. Excuse me, he said,

0:50:32.760 --> 0:50:34.759
<v Speaker 3>I don't know when and how she had time and

0:50:34.840 --> 0:50:37.439
<v Speaker 3>cheat on me, and I did not know. I will

0:50:37.520 --> 0:50:40.239
<v Speaker 3>not leave her. I would not let her leave this

0:50:40.320 --> 0:50:43.600
<v Speaker 3>marriage easily. He says. She would have to leave with

0:50:43.719 --> 0:50:47.919
<v Speaker 3>absolutely nothing. My question is how does she do all this?

0:50:48.239 --> 0:50:49.240
<v Speaker 3>And I didn't know.

0:50:50.440 --> 0:50:52.479
<v Speaker 2>Because while you was out doing you, she was doing

0:50:52.480 --> 0:50:56.040
<v Speaker 2>her too. We was making love to you.

0:50:56.040 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 3>You can making love like what you thought. You know

0:50:59.200 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying, Oh.

0:51:01.000 --> 0:51:03.920
<v Speaker 2>What about that show Pee Valley, which I can't wait

0:51:03.920 --> 0:51:06.640
<v Speaker 2>for it to come back on. Don't do that and

0:51:06.680 --> 0:51:08.920
<v Speaker 2>that's a good show. We miss you, Uncle Clifford. But

0:51:10.680 --> 0:51:12.839
<v Speaker 2>where the wife? She was the doctor, and she was

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:16.640
<v Speaker 2>married to Andre. Andre was the politician. And he went

0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:18.520
<v Speaker 2>back to Chuck Lisa and he was trying to like

0:51:18.719 --> 0:51:22.560
<v Speaker 2>revitalize Chuck Lisa and things like that. And he started

0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:28.600
<v Speaker 2>messing with the stripper Autumn Autumn Night and oh yeah, yeah,

0:51:28.680 --> 0:51:31.680
<v Speaker 2>and he had affair with Autumn Night. And he came

0:51:31.760 --> 0:51:35.080
<v Speaker 2>home and his wife was in there fucking another doctor

0:51:35.200 --> 0:51:35.920
<v Speaker 2>in they house.

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:39.520
<v Speaker 3>Wasn't she a unicorn in a relationship?

0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:43.160
<v Speaker 2>No? Okay, No, he was in Chuck a Lisa. His

0:51:43.200 --> 0:51:47.319
<v Speaker 2>wife was in Atlanta, I believe, okay, And he went

0:51:47.360 --> 0:51:49.879
<v Speaker 2>to Chuck Lisa and he met autumn night, and then

0:51:49.880 --> 0:51:52.239
<v Speaker 2>they started having an affair. And I think they only

0:51:52.320 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 2>ended up really having sex one time, you know, but

0:51:55.280 --> 0:51:57.319
<v Speaker 2>they were like, you know, it was a build up.

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:00.359
<v Speaker 2>But then he came home to his wife. He had

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:02.480
<v Speaker 2>been gone for a long time, and when he came home,

0:52:02.840 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 2>his wife had another doctor in the house having sex

0:52:06.640 --> 0:52:10.080
<v Speaker 2>with him. And my friend was like, oh, she fucked

0:52:10.120 --> 0:52:10.520
<v Speaker 2>up for that.

0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:12.439
<v Speaker 3>Well in the house.

0:52:12.560 --> 0:52:15.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in the house that the like, don't bring no

0:52:15.640 --> 0:52:18.960
<v Speaker 2>you can fuck around get killed for that. Yeah, don't

0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:22.040
<v Speaker 2>in your house. That's crazy, Like you just don't give

0:52:22.320 --> 0:52:26.480
<v Speaker 2>you got you give zero fucks. But what's good for

0:52:26.520 --> 0:52:28.680
<v Speaker 2>the goose is good for the gain. They're like, if

0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:31.040
<v Speaker 2>he was home instead of out in Chuck A. Lisa

0:52:31.080 --> 0:52:35.040
<v Speaker 2>having sex for the strip girl, his wife probably would

0:52:35.040 --> 0:52:38.360
<v Speaker 2>have been involved with him and not with this other person.

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:40.240
<v Speaker 2>You left space for that exactly.

0:52:40.560 --> 0:52:43.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Oh when you got too much time and think

0:52:43.480 --> 0:52:44.520
<v Speaker 3>all type of shit happened.

0:52:44.600 --> 0:52:48.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah right now that house. Now, don't do that, anybody.

0:52:48.960 --> 0:52:50.920
<v Speaker 2>Do not. If you decide that you want to have

0:52:50.960 --> 0:52:54.799
<v Speaker 2>a side relationship, do not bring them in your home.

0:52:54.880 --> 0:52:55.279
<v Speaker 2>Whether you.

0:52:56.960 --> 0:53:02.920
<v Speaker 3>Probably still now, I got shit, missed it bags.

0:53:03.280 --> 0:53:05.480
<v Speaker 2>You did that video like I'll bet my side big house,

0:53:05.480 --> 0:53:09.200
<v Speaker 2>and I got his wife shoes off. She had shoes

0:53:09.239 --> 0:53:13.120
<v Speaker 2>that looked like Monica.

0:53:11.840 --> 0:53:15.320
<v Speaker 3>Be fun li you on my life.

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:17.600
<v Speaker 2>That's dangerous.

0:53:18.960 --> 0:53:21.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So this nigga, he want to know how she

0:53:21.360 --> 0:53:24.480
<v Speaker 3>did it. She did it because she she The reason

0:53:24.520 --> 0:53:26.520
<v Speaker 3>how she was able to do is because she actually

0:53:26.760 --> 0:53:31.600
<v Speaker 3>cared about your fucking feelings until she didn't anymore. Because

0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:35.920
<v Speaker 3>obviously you was fucking cartwheeling doing the douggie and the

0:53:36.120 --> 0:53:39.680
<v Speaker 3>fucking trip out on her heart for years and kept

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:42.200
<v Speaker 3>getting caught. So you were being sloppy and a lot

0:53:42.239 --> 0:53:43.560
<v Speaker 3>of times you don't even gott to look for shit

0:53:43.680 --> 0:53:46.200
<v Speaker 3>like men. Really, Just like the other day, I was

0:53:46.280 --> 0:53:49.080
<v Speaker 3>hiding behind the island at the house, hiding from Dasha

0:53:49.480 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 3>and she and she like crept up. I'm waiting for

0:53:52.960 --> 0:53:55.040
<v Speaker 3>her to come in front of me. I look behind me.

0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:58.799
<v Speaker 3>This is how sneaky women are. Okay, we're gonna we're

0:53:58.800 --> 0:54:02.880
<v Speaker 3>gonna bury all ship buried, the ship ticket to the grave,

0:54:03.040 --> 0:54:05.360
<v Speaker 3>and men will literally leave the ship on the table

0:54:05.440 --> 0:54:07.960
<v Speaker 3>for to see. I remember this nigga had condoms and

0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:11.240
<v Speaker 3>movie tickets in his trash can. I didn't I didn't

0:54:11.239 --> 0:54:13.040
<v Speaker 3>go through his trash can look for these things. They

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:14.840
<v Speaker 3>were at the top and I just was throwing something

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:18.680
<v Speaker 3>in the trash can. So this weekend you was fucking

0:54:18.719 --> 0:54:19.719
<v Speaker 3>and taking a bitch to the.

0:54:19.680 --> 0:54:23.919
<v Speaker 2>Movies, right. I remember I found a condom in the

0:54:23.960 --> 0:54:30.319
<v Speaker 2>bed and he was like, he let his homeboy come

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:30.680
<v Speaker 2>over there.

0:54:30.760 --> 0:54:31.760
<v Speaker 3>It's always the homeboy.

0:54:31.760 --> 0:54:33.840
<v Speaker 2>You got a five bedroom house. Why did they fucking

0:54:33.920 --> 0:54:37.920
<v Speaker 2>your bedroom? Why wouldn't they? Yeah, just just telling me

0:54:38.040 --> 0:54:39.960
<v Speaker 2>like you lying in my now you're playing in my

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:42.480
<v Speaker 2>face because the lies are stupid. It don't make no sense.

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:45.120
<v Speaker 3>This wasn't my man, right, this is my whole nigga.

0:54:45.160 --> 0:54:47.200
<v Speaker 3>We was having we had sex and now we about

0:54:47.239 --> 0:54:50.000
<v Speaker 3>to go to sleeping ship. Hide as hell. Something wrapping

0:54:50.040 --> 0:54:56.080
<v Speaker 3>around my fucking toes underneath to cover fannies. What a

0:54:56.160 --> 0:55:03.959
<v Speaker 3>low mucus in it too? I still want to sleep.

0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:05.759
<v Speaker 3>This ain't my nigga. I mean, what you expect you

0:55:05.880 --> 0:55:08.600
<v Speaker 3>he fucking somebody else, but goddamn sheet.

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:11.040
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. You're laying in the sheet like the

0:55:11.120 --> 0:55:13.959
<v Speaker 2>disrespect of putting me. But you never know how many

0:55:13.960 --> 0:55:16.360
<v Speaker 2>business have been because I don't even know if niggas

0:55:16.400 --> 0:55:17.680
<v Speaker 2>watch they don't.

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:18.680
<v Speaker 3>They don't, So you be.

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:22.239
<v Speaker 2>Laying in a woman's sweat spot off.

0:55:22.600 --> 0:55:24.319
<v Speaker 3>Remember we did Poor Minds, and I was like, I

0:55:24.440 --> 0:55:27.560
<v Speaker 3>buy men's sheets. It's not because I'm worrying about hooping

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:31.480
<v Speaker 3>fucking on the sheets. I like nice linens. I want

0:55:31.480 --> 0:55:32.800
<v Speaker 3>to feel comfortable in your.

0:55:32.680 --> 0:55:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Ship, right, So I'm gonna do all the things right

0:55:35.480 --> 0:55:39.760
<v Speaker 2>because you might buy him. He still might somebody.

0:55:39.800 --> 0:55:41.719
<v Speaker 3>Now you fucking on my sheet. Oh he has good

0:55:41.760 --> 0:55:53.000
<v Speaker 3>tasting linen, exactly, these thousand count cotton organic cotton. Nobody's winning.

0:55:53.200 --> 0:55:54.959
<v Speaker 3>I agree with you when you say the man man

0:55:55.040 --> 0:55:58.759
<v Speaker 3>is winning. It's just about perspective. It's subjective who the

0:55:58.800 --> 0:56:03.160
<v Speaker 3>actual winner is. You start throwing kids in there, sh'it

0:56:03.280 --> 0:56:06.560
<v Speaker 3>get fucking messy, because we do know that men get side.

0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:10.640
<v Speaker 3>Bitch is pregnant all the time because you're not using

0:56:10.640 --> 0:56:13.839
<v Speaker 3>the condom with her, you know, well you should be, yeah,

0:56:13.840 --> 0:56:16.560
<v Speaker 3>but oftentimes they're not looking with somebody for a whole year.

0:56:16.600 --> 0:56:19.560
<v Speaker 2>You're still using the condom. Girl, If it's somebody on

0:56:19.600 --> 0:56:22.240
<v Speaker 2>the side of your relationship, you should not be having

0:56:22.400 --> 0:56:23.319
<v Speaker 2>unprotected yea.

0:56:23.320 --> 0:56:24.960
<v Speaker 3>And that's why your wife trying to figure out, why

0:56:25.040 --> 0:56:29.759
<v Speaker 3>the hell exactly? Yeah, we be knowing. Even if you

0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:31.839
<v Speaker 3>don't say nothing, we ain't caught you. Our body tell

0:56:31.960 --> 0:56:40.080
<v Speaker 3>us you're cheating. Fuck nigga anyway, Damn fuck nigga anyway. Yeah.

0:56:40.160 --> 0:56:43.840
<v Speaker 2>So, by social standards, the main is always gonna be

0:56:43.880 --> 0:56:47.759
<v Speaker 2>the one that women champion, Like, we're always gonna be

0:56:48.280 --> 0:56:50.160
<v Speaker 2>on her side. And now we're gonna be like, this

0:56:50.239 --> 0:56:53.440
<v Speaker 2>is the one he chose. The other woman is, you know,

0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:57.680
<v Speaker 2>conspiring with this man, and people can get hurt, you know.

0:56:58.760 --> 0:57:00.839
<v Speaker 2>The one who's in the dark is the one who

0:57:00.840 --> 0:57:02.240
<v Speaker 2>can ultimately be hurt.

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:02.480
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:57:02.640 --> 0:57:06.520
<v Speaker 2>So I identify with that more and I side with

0:57:06.560 --> 0:57:09.600
<v Speaker 2>that more. However, when we talk of terms of winning,

0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:14.000
<v Speaker 2>nobody wins when the family fuse, the man wins. He's

0:57:14.000 --> 0:57:16.680
<v Speaker 2>the winner. Yeah, and that's it.

0:57:16.880 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 3>Stay off these people, husband, man, that's not gonna stop

0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:23.400
<v Speaker 3>because you don't want nobody on yours. This is what

0:57:23.200 --> 0:57:25.200
<v Speaker 3>that That's why I don't fuck with people husbands, because

0:57:25.240 --> 0:57:27.280
<v Speaker 3>I might. I might beat your ass up about mine.

0:57:27.520 --> 0:57:30.120
<v Speaker 3>I listen, might beat your ass up about my husband.

0:57:30.120 --> 0:57:31.560
<v Speaker 3>I might pull up to your house.

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Prior to ten years of my marriage. Don't fuck with.

0:57:37.800 --> 0:57:40.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm the ten years. Call me first, let me see

0:57:40.160 --> 0:57:42.480
<v Speaker 3>if I like you girl? What you're doing it on Saturday?

0:57:43.240 --> 0:57:49.720
<v Speaker 2>Can you can? I can go? Thank you girl. I

0:57:49.720 --> 0:57:53.480
<v Speaker 2>would see y'all some money now that aspiring.

0:57:53.120 --> 0:57:55.840
<v Speaker 3>The man conspiring with the side right.

0:57:56.600 --> 0:57:57.959
<v Speaker 2>Got it about the house?

0:57:58.080 --> 0:58:02.720
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