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Speaker 1: Hoping and we talk back where we encourage you to

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Speaker 1: hustle hard, laugh, ladder, and always keep it cute. So

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Speaker 1: grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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Speaker 1: go down.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 3: Back, big nasty throat nigga. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, AJ.

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Speaker 2: Holiday, y'all is stair Bama. I love y'all the season

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Speaker 2: changing my ship cut off?

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Speaker 3: You know it's dry and wet.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I love y'all.

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Speaker 2: I love you to AJ. How you doing how?

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Speaker 3: And I love your back?

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Speaker 2: How's your weekend? Well?

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Speaker 3: My weekend was, uh, I did go outside this weekend? Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 3: If y'all want to tell dinners and stuff I do eat.

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Speaker 2: She wants to be like, I ain't do nothing. Oh wait,

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Speaker 2: I did do something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's not like super eventful. You know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. I'm going to Miami this weekend, so I'll

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Speaker 3: have maybe for next week. I have some things to

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Speaker 3: tell you guys Miami. I'm one of my friends from well,

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Speaker 3: she's a friend of a friend, like my first home

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Speaker 3: girl I met when I moved to Saint Louis. This

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Speaker 3: is her friend I met through her. She executive produced

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Speaker 3: this movie called July seven. It's about the assassination of

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Speaker 3: the Haitian president in twenty one or twenty two. I

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Speaker 3: know the United States did does shit, but anyway, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so it's gonna be a lot of Haitians out there.

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Speaker 3: I presume it's a black tie event. Oh yeah, and

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Speaker 3: sit and my dress doesn't fit. Bitch, been trying to

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Speaker 3: starve herself for a day, just only got one day.

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Speaker 2: Well bring me back in Haitian girl, You do not.

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Speaker 3: Want one of them niggas men. First of all, his

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Speaker 2: I want one of them niggas with a side of

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Speaker 2: black rice. They're black rice.

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Speaker 3: Is good, black rice. It is good. I had black

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Speaker 3: rice for the first time last year. I have used

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Speaker 3: black rice to do my hair. You know, you do

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Speaker 3: like the rice wash. I bought black rice to do

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Speaker 3: that because it has like a lot of antioxidants and

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Speaker 3: shit like that.

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Speaker 2: Mh.

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Speaker 3: But that fucking black rice is good, so good. It's good, nigga.

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Speaker 2: His mama made it for me one time many years ago,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, I think I could be Haitian.

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Speaker 2: He could, Mary Haitian.

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Speaker 3: What you had going on?

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Speaker 2: Y'all? Oh? What did I do this weekend?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I went to see the Hot Boys Tour. Lil Wayne

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Speaker 2: and the Hot.

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Speaker 3: Boys back that ass up.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gud, y'all, if this show is coming to

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Speaker 2: your city, please go see it. I had so much fun.

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Speaker 2: I was going from sweet to sweet, drinking up Nigga's.

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Speaker 3: Sounds about right.

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Speaker 2: It was a good old negro, y'all. But I paid

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Speaker 2: be able to drink and then get up and function

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that shit been over for me. I really

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Speaker 2: The next day, all day. That's how you know liquor

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, your body literally be like did stop?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It feels so good while you're doing it, though, because.

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Speaker 3: You'd be feeling stupid while everybody else drunk and you

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Speaker 3: hit somebody, like get your drunk ass away from me.

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Speaker 2: It's not about going to have some drinks tonight. But

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Speaker 2: you drinks Sunday. You didn't drink Monday because you was

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Speaker 2: hurting from Sunday. Did you drink on too day? Relaxed,

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Speaker 3: Not the wine night. Wine makes me feel depressed. And

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Speaker 3: it right with little little whoa got it. Let's get

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Speaker 3: in the stupid internet news man, all right?

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Speaker 2: I love this one. Glorilla calls Duke Dennis medium ugly.

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Speaker 2: So it was a video and he was like he

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Speaker 2: was like, wait, is she talk about me? In that

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Speaker 2: first part where she says she like niggas medium ugly,

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Speaker 2: she wouldn't talk about me in that part, but she was.

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Speaker 3: He definitely was, so hold on, what's the legs?

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Speaker 2: It?

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Speaker 3: Says Gloria Raps that she likes her partners tall and

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Speaker 3: grimy and mixed with a little bit of ugly, before

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Speaker 3: seconds later calling out the popular streamer with the line,

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Speaker 3: Duke Dennis, what's up with you? Is a lot of

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Speaker 3: Tonni's fine. He's a nice looking boy. Is he not

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Speaker 3: a nice looking man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's good looking. He's medium ugly, he's handsome.

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Speaker 3: Is he medium ugly?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: Is that what medium ugly is?

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Speaker 2: When I think of medium ugly, I don't think of

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Speaker 2: like ugly for real. I think like kind of right,

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Speaker 2: it's just a little bit like not too manicured.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I think of who do I think of?

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Speaker 3: Like it? Just Alba is like medium ugly? Like it

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Speaker 3: just Alba is not Like I can't even say he's

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Speaker 3: not super aesthetically pleasing, because he is. You know, I

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Speaker 3: think it's just all in cumbersing of all the things.

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Speaker 2: The aura word.

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Speaker 3: For your encumbensing. Encumbersing, y'all tell me what it is. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I know what I'm trying to say anyway, But like

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Speaker 3: the whole his aura like energy everything, you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, makes them this fine ass medium ugly, And

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Speaker 3: I think just medium ugly means.

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Speaker 2: Man, yeah to me too, because I feel like Aaron

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Speaker 2: Pierre is not medium ugly. He's just beautiful. He's just

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Speaker 3: I don't even think he's cute at all. See, that's

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Speaker 2: I think he's like pretty either. No, he got that

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Speaker 2: was pretty as he got all these beautiful like.

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Speaker 3: All encompassing there you go, Google.

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Speaker 2: I like words, man, uh so, but Skepta is just

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Speaker 2: fine as hell. He's not.

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Speaker 3: Girl the google him too right now.

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Speaker 2: I am I adore him?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So is he a medium ugly? A hood fine?

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Speaker 3: Is hood fine a thing? I think? I think hood

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Speaker 3: fine is also a thing?

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Speaker 2: Hood fine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like niggas in Miami and.

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Speaker 2: Me them ugly and hood fire and be kind of

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Speaker 2: similar though, because it's just kind of like a little rough, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, a little rugged.

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Speaker 2: Yeah hmm.

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Speaker 3: Oh. They got a picture of them together, how about that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, train, This is.

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Speaker 3: A picture of Skeptic and Aaron here together, and both

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Speaker 3: of these niggas was in the club. I am definitely

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Speaker 3: picking Skeptic I think men behaved a little bit more

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Speaker 3: when light skin niggas was in. These dark skinned niggas,

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Speaker 3: you thinking they bad bitches many more than the light

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you when that shit started, Wesley Snipes

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Speaker 2: kicked that ship off. Wesley Snipes kid the dark niggas

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Speaker 3: Ever since then, Wesley Snipes.

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Speaker 2: Wesley Snipes then came motherfucking Moore's chestnut and it was over.

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Speaker 3: Diggs ass, Yeah, what's that movie? I just seen a

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Speaker 3: clip of it with Wesley Snipes and Along changing places, right,

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Speaker 3: not changing places?

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Speaker 2: It was uh ah, God, damn Wesley Snipes and Nia alone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not Along, excuse me, not you along to violate

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Speaker 3: them dis ap paary acts. Oh yeah, okay, I saw

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Speaker 3: a clip like from a part of that movie the

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Speaker 3: other day and that ship was so fucking triggering how

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Speaker 3: he was gassedlighting the fuck out of her. Did you

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Speaker 3: do you remember seeing that?

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Speaker 2: You remember that movie that?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: I have to see it again.

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Speaker 3: Let's watch that movie this week. Can come back talk

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Speaker 3: about it next week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's do it. Everybody watched Disaperiodics. We're going I'll

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Speaker 2: talk about it on the shu.

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Speaker 3: You know Terry McMillan had that's in a chokehold as

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Speaker 3: fucking kids, Yeah she did.

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Speaker 2: There's no reason that we should have been reading that

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Speaker 3: And I think we probably have a better perspective of it,

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Speaker 2: Yes, like just watching like waiting to exhale as a

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Speaker 2: just such change lens. Yeah, oh, and nothing has changed

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Speaker 2: in thirty years. We're going through the same exact shit.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nothing changed. So y'all like fine hood fine or

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Speaker 3: medium ugly niggas? I think we all like medium ugly anyway.

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Speaker 3: I prefer speaking of medium ugly. What happened?

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Speaker 2: I said, I don't want to know nigga who thinks

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Speaker 2: he better than me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, be in the bathroom and the mari longer than you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like doing it. I hate listen as much as

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Speaker 2: I love Drake. I hate how he do that little

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Speaker 2: potty lip thing. Stop doing that?

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Speaker 3: You know, Drake thinking a bad bitch all day.

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Speaker 2: He just posted a new PITCHU, and I'm like, damn

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Speaker 2: motherfucking fine, And I don't even you know, red Bones

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Speaker 2: ain't really my type, but him and that ty Lepley,

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Speaker 2: Oh my.

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Speaker 3: Now, ty Lepley is like ty Lepley has a different

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Speaker 3: His look is different though, like he is fine and

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Speaker 3: he has a grunge look at the same time. And

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Speaker 3: he's not pretty though he's just fucking gorgeous. He's not pretty,

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Speaker 3: you know, Like he's not a pretty light skin nigga.

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Speaker 3: He might be light skin, but still a dark nigga.

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Speaker 3: Drake is just light skin.

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Speaker 2: Oh, here we go, brothers.

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Speaker 3: No no. But speaking of medium ugly and ship, which

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Speaker 3: y'all think about Neil, Neil is technically medium ugly. He

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Speaker 3: take the hat off right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's I feel like his personality might be

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Speaker 2: a little medium ugly too, because he's just been some

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Speaker 2: bad stuff coming out about him. I mean, I don't listen.

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Speaker 2: If you're in the parly lifestyle and you can afford,

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Speaker 2: you can have as many bitch as you can afford,

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Speaker 2: as far as I'm concerned, as long as everybody is

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Speaker 2: in the know. But I just hate that. I just

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Speaker 2: always associated Neo with a gentleman, you know, like the

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Speaker 2: dun correct.

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Speaker 4: Bad stuff, those hats and suits and the year of

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Speaker 4: the Gentleman album, and I thought he was a family man.

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Speaker 2: And it's just all that's how you just never you

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Speaker 2: How do you have humanity came about? You know, like

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Speaker 3: We've been humans, this human for a very long time.

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Speaker 3: of speaking on medium ugly, what you think about Uh,

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Speaker 3: Cruci possibly dating Dionne Sanders.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm here for it. I'm a fan of dion Sanders.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I like that for her because I know he

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Speaker 2: And he's probably like very like like uh, very like

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Speaker 2: but I'm here for it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like that.

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Speaker 2: You don't seem like she was like a man that

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Speaker 3: But I'm probably tired.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's what happened. You just listen, get somebody who

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Speaker 3: to Yeah, aplication, take some yacht trips.

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Speaker 2: You know, I got invited to Barbados next week, and

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Speaker 3: Go. I'm so jealous. I'm going to Barbados this year.

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Speaker 2: Live there Wednesday to Sunday.

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Speaker 3: That's not long enough. I need nine days. I ain't

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Speaker 2: I gotta go to school. That's where I have to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Barbado's expensive as hell too.

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Speaker 2: Do we have a baddie. It's the last week of it, there.

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Speaker 3: Is, y'all. But you know, Black history is all year.

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Speaker 3: it wasn't just you. I mean in that day, I mean,

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Speaker 3: you look at this hat. This is your voto for

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Speaker 3: I really don't think it's internal because I don't think

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Speaker 3: shit ever happened. I don't know about done embezzling all

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Speaker 3: She would be she'd be working, you know, with the

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Speaker 2: So she's pretty much taken Kim Kardashian job because that's what.

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Speaker 3: Well, Kim Kardashian was just the face because she's a

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Speaker 3: big name, right. There's people who Kim Kardashian was working with,

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Speaker 3: like different organizations that do this shit like they you

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Speaker 3: the time. But Kim Kardashian, you know, she's been helping

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Speaker 2: Why not definitely was the prior.

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Speaker 3: She was the face of a partner. Yeah. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: This black woman. I always support black women, black women

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Speaker 3: Her name is Alice Marie Johnson, and she is a

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Speaker 2: We salute you. You're a baddie who talks back.

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Speaker 3: All right, y'all, So I know we were talking about

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Speaker 3: who the hell was we talking about anyway, y'all? Oh

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Speaker 3: when we were talking about neo ass side bitches, name bitches,

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Speaker 2: Oh is red blue bitches?

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Speaker 3: This week we want to know, you know, because the

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Speaker 3: side bitches be be thinking that they be women. Let's come, okay,

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Speaker 3: side women, the side women, the extracurricular activity women. You know,

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Speaker 3: my one I The the thing I hate to see

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Speaker 3: them say is don't ask me, actual man, bitch, who

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Speaker 3: like who's really winning? Who's the main chick versus the

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Speaker 2: Who's winning that fight?

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Speaker 3: Like who's you ever't been a side chick? All right, y'all, were.

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Speaker 2: Gonna get into that conversation when well, give it.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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Speaker 3: Welcome, and we talk about podcasts, and today we're delving

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Speaker 3: in a controversial topic with relationships. Okay, main chick versus

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Speaker 2: Nobody wins when the family fuse. Okay, you ain't family

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Speaker 2: if you're the sidebitch.

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Speaker 3: Now according to who that's true? Now, side bitch be

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Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. We saw

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Speaker 2: So it had Alfree Woodard in it. I can't think

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Speaker 2: was amazing and Sonata Lathan okay, and she played the

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Speaker 3: L Oh what happened? That was a rumor.

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Speaker 2: the side chick to the Kiff Cart that was his name,

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Speaker 2: the white guy who was Yeah, and she had the car,

440
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 2: she had all the money. She had like three hundred

441
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 2: thousand in her savings. But it did not end well

442
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 2: for her.

443
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 3: Didn't she get pregnant?

444
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: She said, my son is a Kiff Card. But I

445
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: don't know how true that was because they never really

446
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 2: went back into that.

447
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I definitely remember the movie now, see.

448
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 2: But yeah, she was like side bitch extraordinary, you know.

449
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 3: So let's let's define the roles, right, what are the

450
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 3: roles of the main chick?

451
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 2: You would say everything everything important, Like all right, she

452
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 2: gives the kids, she's with the family, she nurtures, like

453
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: she feeds the family. She is his one and only

454
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 2: when it comes to it, like it'll be like him

455
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: and her when it's all over. That's the main chick.

456
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: That's the one that everybody knows about. That's the one

457
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 2: who takes the family portraits. That's his main. Yeah, that's

458
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 2: the main So that's the wife. Well, not necessarily because

459
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 2: it could be a girlfriend too.

460
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll talk about it from both both aspects, like

461
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 3: a married man would a side or married woman would

462
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 3: a side. And then like the boyfriend girlfriend okay, because

463
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 3: I feel like with boyfriend girlfriends, like if you ain't married,

464
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 3: like you like fair game.

465
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you like you can't post somebody for you're a homewrecker.

466
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: You fucking my boyfriend. No, he's out here choosing right

467
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 2: if that's your husband. Now, now you got to let

468
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: the stand on my boyfriend.

469
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 3: Really don't suit in the state of North Carolina.

470
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes like we will look at a girl

471
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: crazy if she messing with somebody man and maybe they

472
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 2: not married though.

473
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 3: The celebrity world, I look at all the people crazy,

474
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: like if you fucking we all know that's that lady husband.

475
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 2: Are her boyfriend there? Yeah?

476
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 3: Why are you on him? And then you talking crazy that.

477
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: Ship with Jello Jello ball and Nikki Baby. That hurt

478
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: my feeling.

479
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 3: We know that. That's so why you why you on him?

480
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: That's why I like, I love Sweetie. I like Sweetie

481
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 3: a lot man what she do, but I just did

482
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 3: not like seeing Sweety on little baby lap, like you

483
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 3: know that's Jada way the old man. Yeah, it's just

484
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 3: why are you doing that? Chicken headish anyway? And it

485
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 3: was so what's the world is?

486
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: But they wasn't married though, so it's not married, but

487
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: they are publicly that if his laugh is open, do

488
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 2: he does she know his lap open?

489
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 3: But see, this is why I say women also have

490
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 3: to take accountability. The owners does not just fall on

491
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 3: the man. Like, yes, the home record is the motherfucker

492
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 3: that's in the home. But if you intentionally and knowingly

493
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: engage with a man knowing.

494
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 2: That you reationship, you're just as culpable.

495
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You can now I've definitely

496
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 3: been on some ask him, don't asks me type ship.

497
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. With a boyfriend situation at work,

498
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 3: Ain't that the same shit? Huh?

499
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: Ain't that the same ship? Though?

500
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 3: You know how I find out like because most men,

501
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: like you don't know, they're not going to tell you

502
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 3: that in a relationship. Now, all of a sudden, somebody

503
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 3: randomly calling your cell phone. So when a person does that,

504
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 3: I'm never gonna let you feel like you got to live. Sorry,

505
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 3: I might cuss him out, but you don't got no

506
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 3: love when you call him, Okay, because you're coming to

507
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 3: me as a woman, and I'm coming as a sniper

508
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 3: every time period. Okay, So saidebitches. So side bitches don't

509
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 3: have like pictures with family, and they don't be on

510
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 3: vacation with the Sometimes, yes, a lot with the sidebitch.

511
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes the family like the sidekick better than

512
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: they like the man.

513
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: And they waiting for her to get the hell up

514
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 3: out of there.

515
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a slippery slopes, it really is. It's it's

516
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 2: real nasty.

517
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 3: I feel like when women cheat, like we actually have

518
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 3: side men like because only because men play the side

519
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 3: better than women. Yeah, when women play the side y'all

520
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 3: calling this man's wife, y'all, popping up places, y'all getting

521
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 3: pregnant y'all in the video, Like Diddy, it's a woman

522
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 3: with a man, is like he really playing his role.

523
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 2: Right because he don't want the responsibility of being mad

524
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 2: all the time? You know what? That mad?

525
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? He I think side chicks don't want the man

526
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 3: all the time either, like do acquire him? The relationship

527
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 3: oftentimes soils typically.

528
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: You know what, when it's a younger woman and an

529
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 2: older man, I think that dynamic is like I don't

530
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 2: want him for real. I just want the bag right

531
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: he doing, he takes me out, I have fun. I

532
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 2: don't want her responsibility. But when they're peers, when they're

533
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: about the same age, that woman might want that man

534
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 2: for real, you know, like he's gonna leave her for

535
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,479
Speaker 2: me energy. Yeah, And that's just the biggest mistake as

536
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: far as I'm concerned. Don't ever want to take a

537
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: man from out of a home.

538
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, because side pitches be cooking for niggas like you tripping?

539
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: Why are you cooking for are? Like? Because trying to

540
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 2: do all the things that the wife isn't, you know,

541
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 2: or the main chick isn't. That's what they're trying to

542
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: fill that space.

543
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 3: And I just feel like if he's gonna be a

544
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 3: side girl, it's like a fun position, right, business trips,

545
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 3: you know, you with him, things like that, like and

546
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 3: you just always shut the fuck up and quiet, don't talk. Girl,

547
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: Cholston got some drama going on. It's a girl and

548
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: there she They put it all on you on Facebook.

549
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: How they went and beat up the husband's girlfriend who

550
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 3: apparently they used to have threesomes with, but he chose

551
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 3: the other person.

552
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened with Stevie j and Mimi and Joscelyn

553
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: her name.

554
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 3: They used to these three sons together.

555
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 2: That's what I That's what I thought, like they had

556
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: like an intimate fum relationship. And then he kind of

557
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: went another direction.

558
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 3: No, these are real life ratchets, Like I'm gonna sing

559
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 3: you this Facebook video because the bitch got her stucking

560
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 3: still hanging off. It was her her daughter, which is

561
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 3: a young adult. His mama, His mama was there because

562
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: it happened at her house. And he likes the wife better.

563
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 3: I mean, she likes the wife better. But they all

564
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 3: jumped the girlfriend.

565
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's that's fucked up. He chose yeah, instead of jumping.

566
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 3: But the girlfriend was talking shit online, well maybe rebuttal

567
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: online to the girls talking She like, I'm not about

568
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 3: to just shut the fuck up all the time while

569
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 3: you talking shit to me just because you supposedly the

570
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 3: wife like he obviously is out the door.

571
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: Was it a real wife, like were they legal years?

572
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: I don't think. I mean, I don't think the sor shit.

573
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: I think she should be quiet. I don't think she

574
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: should be arguing. But you don't really have a lyric

575
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: to stand on. This woman has a valid reason to

576
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 2: be angry with you, but.

577
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 3: She came in as a unicorn, so you invited that

578
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 3: shit into your relationship. And then maybe y'all cucies ain't matchup,

579
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 3: and he chose the unicorn.

580
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: Is it always just about Cucci? I don't think it's

581
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: always just about Cucci.

582
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 3: So I heard that he's making and I don't even

583
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 3: know these people. Girl, This is just what I heard

584
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 3: to the grapevine, Like he he's actually even trying to

585
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 3: change his life for this girl. She's a little younger

586
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 3: than the one he's married to. The wife obviously is

587
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 3: super ratchet, right, But I think they all kind of remedial. Also,

588
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 3: I don't know, it sounds like a.

589
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: Very remedial situation. But there are times where men will

590
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: have a wife and been with her for a long

591
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: time and then trade her in for a new model.

592
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 2: That happens. It'll start as like just an affair and

593
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: then becomes the the side becomes the main because she's

594
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: more youthful, makes him feel younger, makes him feel more alive.

595
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 3: Well, my mom is a prototype, because that's swear of God.

596
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 3: All my daddy girlfriends and current wife, they're younger than

597
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 3: my mama, but they look like my mama.

598
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: Like, that's really like a younger version of you. That's

599
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 2: so hurtful.

600
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 3: They didn't really win the winner. Okay, I'm not paying

601
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: on bills with Nigga. That's the way to work. Why

602
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 3: you got this, old man?

603
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: Is there perks of being a side chick? Though? Are there,

604
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 2: like really perks?

605
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 3: They're suppose it's supposed to be about perks. You're not

606
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 3: supposed to be falling in love and all this shit,

607
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 3: but people do it.

608
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: So how do you how do you stop from like

609
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 2: you don't be delusional? I'm like such a hopeless romantic.

610
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: I don't think I could like survive in that type

611
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: of relationship me because I'm a fall in love.

612
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fall in love because I match energy.

613
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: So if I don't feel you falling in love with me,

614
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 3: I'm not just going.

615
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 2: I can't you think the niggas don't love their side

616
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 2: nigga be acted up at home being mean to his

617
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 2: wife because him and his side bitch having a bad day.

618
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 3: Remember that. I was like, you'll be surprised how me,

619
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 3: but just have relationship issues with your nigga right?

620
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 2: Why you so sad?

621
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 3: Baby? I gotta nobody like that man got you.

622
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: Getting your nigga tad because his side bitch hurting his head.

623
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 3: Dog. I used to be like, listen, don't like my

624
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 3: space is zenned out. My whole life. Wherever I'm at

625
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 3: is zen It's quiet, it's smell good, it's clean, it's

626
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 3: fun over here. Don't bring that bullshit that you got

627
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 3: going on at the house, your baby mama and the

628
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: kids and all that shit. And now you're coming over

629
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: here mad, disturbing my piece. I ain't do nothing to you, yeah,

630
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: but obviously you need an outlet right quick. And now

631
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 3: you're coming to my house with the bullshit. So I've

632
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 3: in my twenties. I definitely spent some years in a

633
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 3: situation like that, and I did not know about the

634
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 3: other person initially, but you already fall in love. Yeah,

635
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it's hard to get

636
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 3: out of there. But you got too, bitch. I had

637
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 3: to move, Yeah, I don't know, like relocate.

638
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think, all right, so I'm single, and i've

639
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 2: been single for a minute now, but I'll be feeling

640
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: like if I had because I'm kind of stuck in

641
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 2: my waist a little bit, if I had a man

642
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: in the home all the time. I already told you

643
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: I might want him to have a side, bitch, so

644
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: he could just like get on my face a little bit.

645
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 2: Not right away, but after ten years, after ten years

646
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: looking at this nigga day in and day out, like damn,

647
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: ain't nobody check it for you? God Dad, Well, like

648
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 2: I'm the import person who like you, I get me

649
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 2: a break, nigga go to her house at the while,

650
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: I don't.

651
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 3: Really care no more, but I just better not I'll

652
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 3: find out about it. You be, just just don't let

653
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 3: me find out if you're out here outside, because the

654
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 3: minute I find out like I don't have patience for

655
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 3: finding out no more. Yeah, but if you're doing it

656
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 3: and I don't know more, part to you, bro, and

657
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 3: if she okay with the amount of time that you

658
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 3: give her, Hey, man, y'all do y'all think, just don't

659
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 3: bring me nothing.

660
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 2: After two years, I'm feeling like I might be feeling

661
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: like that. I might just be saying that I might

662
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 2: be heartbroken if I found out my man was doing that.

663
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 2: But the way, how is my life right now? I

664
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 2: know that that space would make me happy, but like

665
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: you know, time away, So maybe I probably need like

666
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 2: an open situation, but not at first, just maybe like

667
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: later seeing the same person day after day after day

668
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,919
Speaker 2: for a year after year after year.

669
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 3: That don't sound crazy, It is crazy. I'm living it

670
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 3: right now.

671
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: Too much pressure when I'm home alone.

672
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he don't even get on my nerve and

673
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 3: none of that shit. Like I really really be chilling,

674
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 3: like we have a little I can count how many

675
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 3: times we like had a little back of forth. You

676
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying that Nigga told me, Hey, he

677
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 3: told me to shut the fuck up the other day. Now,

678
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 3: I was pissed about that.

679
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: You probably needed to.

680
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 3: Like, because he was really shuffling trying to get the

681
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,240
Speaker 3: fuck out of the house, and I just was still

682
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 3: going at him, sounding like my mom heard my mama voice.

683
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: Come up my body, bitch.

684
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 3: Because you know, I was mad about the equipment. If

685
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 3: I let you hold something dog like, take care of it,

686
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 3: you know. So it's not about the things. It is

687
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 3: what is your value system?

688
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: Our value systems don't it was it was an accident.

689
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: It looked like he was changing oil with my fucking

690
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 3: cable and that nigga, don't fix that car, okay, So yeah, like,

691
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 3: take care of my things, treat your ship, how to

692
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 3: fuck you ever you want to. But when it comes

693
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 3: to my things, don't touch him. And then he gets mad.

694
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 3: When I asked him how to touch my things, he

695
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: told you to because he was shuffling at the door.

696
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, you' trying to hurry up to get

697
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 3: out the house in it. He shut the fuck up.

698
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: That's the rude.

699
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: Hell.

700
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: Know, well I should have not It's okay to shut

701
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,439
Speaker 3: up something, No, because I be shutting up a lot.

702
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 3: So when I do yell and I get mad, it's

703
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 3: because I have already shut the fuck up twenty times over. Yeah, okay,

704
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 3: so now you're gonna get this.

705
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 2: But once you get to a space where nigga is

706
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 2: verbally telling you to shut the fuck up, maybe just shut.

707
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 3: Up, or maybe take accountability and say, you know what,

708
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 3: you're right, my bad. I do care about more shit

709
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 3: than sneakers. I do. I do care about you know,

710
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 3: your cables and things.

711
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 2: I think probably by that point you had already driven

712
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: it home and now you was just like because I.

713
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 3: Didn't get a response from him, that was the first

714
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 3: response with shut the fuck up anywhere?

715
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: Going to work, don't nobody, No, we might have just

716
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 2: got off though.

717
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 3: No, for real, the nigga had just just got off, right.

718
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 2: I had a long day at work. Whatever, talk about

719
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 2: a motherfucker.

720
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 3: I don't be on it. I don't be on nobody

721
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 3: hit that bad. So if I get on your ass,

722
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: you deserve it, okay. And I was already fucking aggravated

723
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 3: at your ass too. So it's one thirty PM and

724
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 3: I'm tidy. Humans.

725
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: I was like, she wants to be on her period

726
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 2: day might have been, Yeah, it was given. It was

727
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: given period energy.

728
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 3: Okay, so a period.

729
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't have the bandwidth for any

730
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 2: more of this today. I'm done.

731
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 3: I still did the work though I did Okay, yeah,

732
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 3: that's all that matter. I would not have been able

733
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 3: to do that if we kept going to circles and

734
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: then I just calculate time different because I know my bullshit.

735
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 3: Some people don't know they bullshit. I know our bullshit

736
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 3: as a team, so I know how long it takes

737
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 3: us to do things. So I'm calculating that in my mind.

738
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: But I feel like you did it this time. I

739
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: absolutely did.

740
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: I absolutely knew he wasn't going to have time for

741
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 3: some next shit. Now we happened to because of our bullshit.

742
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 2: I knew it would play out just like.

743
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: How shut up by?

744
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

745
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

746
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: Like we're gonna have a break. I was like, yeah, okay.

747
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 3: So supposedly the main chick is public. Okay, they have

748
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 3: the official title, the social Recognition Emotional Investment. But I

749
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 3: feel like the man loves the side it's been on.

750
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 3: How long she've been around. I feel like you sleep

751
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 3: in anybody long enough, you be around anyone long enough,

752
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 3: you are going to develop feelings for them, right, you

753
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. You may not be about to

754
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 3: discard your entire family for this person, and some people have.

755
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 3: Kevin Hart, for example, he didn't discard his family, but

756
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 3: he you know his wife.

757
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 2: Well, I think they had already broken up before.

758
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: This is why, this is why Tory Hart always be

759
00:38:55,280 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 3: like because remember his current wife, what's her name? Yeah,

760
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 3: that's somebody else. Even anyway, Kevin hart current wife, I

761
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 3: remember her putting like up online like how long they

762
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 3: had been together, and the ex wife commented, oh, okay,

763
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: that's interesting, So y'all been together eight years, so it

764
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: overlapped their marriage. M Yeah. Absolutely. She was a side

765
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 3: chick and he married her so.

766
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: And had made a family.

767
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I mean, if he didn't want to have

768
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: the hard conversation.

769
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: I will always tell women not to play that role.

770
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 2: I don't think like nine times out of ten is

771
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 2: not gonna end well unless you're just in it for

772
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 2: the perse. But if you're looking for the man to

773
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 2: leave his family and be with you nine times out

774
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 2: of ten, that's not gonna happen.

775
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 3: And then you also keep him how you get him right?

776
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 3: You know? So now you you don't expect that to

777
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 3: happen to you when he's ready to swap it out right.

778
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 3: I just saw this post, and I don't know if

779
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 3: this was real. I thought I believe it was real.

780
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 3: But it was a woman and she was saying how

781
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: it was a white woman. She was saying how she

782
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 3: fell in love with this man and he had a wife,

783
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 3: and basically he told the wife, I'm in love with

784
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: somebody else. I'm no less in love with you, though,

785
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 3: and I want y'all to meet.

786
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 2: And then how did that go?

787
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 3: He brought them in to the table together. They both

788
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: they had conversations and they I guess neither one of

789
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 3: them wanted to leave, so they now they're just yes,

790
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 3: but like still separate though, Like he has a girlfriend

791
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,479
Speaker 3: and a wife and he eventually left both of them

792
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: for somebody else.

793
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 2: And I you see, you can't listen. You can't please them.

794
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 3: You cannot.

795
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 2: That's why I say it's important to set boundaries and

796
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,280
Speaker 2: not do things just to please your man.

797
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 3: Exactly.

798
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 2: You can't just just be doing things to please your man,

799
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 2: because you will find yourself in the bottom of a poll.

800
00:40:50,480 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 3: Up YOA says, may get cheated on but gets social recognition. Yes, duh, yeah,

801
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 3: of course. So the one of the UH pro cons

802
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 3: to being a main chick is that you may get

803
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 3: cheated on, right, You can't get cheated on as the.

804
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: Side right because you already the cheat right and the cheat.

805
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 3: So the side check is the second option may get

806
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 3: treated better than the main, but without commitment.

807
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 2: You got me sitting up in the house with these

808
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: kids all day and you out gallivan with some bitch

809
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: and a casino.

810
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, no stress over there. Over here, you gotta be

811
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: a husband, you gotta be a daddy, all the things.

812
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: So now this is your like fun time outlet over here.

813
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: I can understand why a man would want that.

814
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and some say, you know, I think a lot

815
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 3: of wives they may not admit it. They may not

816
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 3: admit that maybe the side made their.

817
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: Their relationships better better.

818
00:41:56,000 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I just can't be there because I'm

819
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,959
Speaker 3: gonna want somebody else too, Like you're not gonna want

820
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 3: me to be your sivage because your sivage got a nigga.

821
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: Well, no, that's not true. Some people, like two married

822
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 2: people will cheat together, like they'll be each other's side,

823
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: and it makes it easier because the side doesn't need

824
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 2: you for the other things. Like so sometimes women want

825
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 2: that man to be their man, and he can't be

826
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 2: their man because he's already somebody else's. But they already

827
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 2: got a man at home. They don't need him for

828
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: all of that shit, you see what I'm saying.

829
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 3: So that makes it that's why it's easy for women

830
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 3: to have a side than men. Yeah, women be over

831
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 3: there waiting on the man. So that's why she got

832
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 3: too much time to think, go get you a man,

833
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 3: right while being the side. Maybe you tell him, maybe

834
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 3: you don't.

835
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 2: So when I was in Europe, I had this client

836
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: and her she had like got her a side nigga,

837
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 2: a younger like she was in her fifties. She looked

838
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: really really good though. She took me really good care

839
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: of herself, and she had like a thirty something year

840
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: old side guy. And she was expressing that she didn't

841
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 2: really want to ever cheat on her husband, but her

842
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: husband had let herself go so badly. She had been

843
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 2: on him about, you know, taking care of himself, and

844
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 2: he just was getting fat and now his dick wouldn't work.

845
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: And she said they had not had sex in three years,

846
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 2: and she like took making him go to the doctor,

847
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: the doctor.

848
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 3: And she's healthy.

849
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's very in the gym and everything, and she

850
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 2: was like, the doctor would tell him what to do

851
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: to help, like, you know, promote better penal function, and

852
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: he just wouldn't do none of the stuff. So she's like,

853
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: I waited three years for him to try to get

854
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 2: it together, and he just won't do it. He's just

855
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: not motivated to take care of himself, and I can't

856
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 2: do it for him. So I would and got somebody

857
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 2: who could fuck me.

858
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, or maybe he needed enough, maybe they I think

859
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 3: sometimes I just saw this and said it, either you

860
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 3: want to cross mountains with your partner, or there'll be

861
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 3: the mountain you gotta cross. Right, So sometimes people be

862
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 3: in uh, this state of depression whatever it could be

863
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: this other person, maybe she's no longer for him obviously, right,

864
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 3: she really should have just left.

865
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I say.

866
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 3: I mean, but leave and then he probably would get

867
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 3: somebody that would motivate him in a different way, you

868
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Right, It was just complacent in something.

869
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: But I also think like they had so much together

870
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: at that point.

871
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,479
Speaker 3: That staying together because of responsibility, and they.

872
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 2: Got kids, you know that aren't out of high school yet,

873
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 2: so it wasn't as easy to just be like, oh,

874
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 2: let's just separate, you know, and they got all that

875
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 2: financial you know, endeavors together, so it's cheaper the keeper

876
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 2: or killing the keeper. What No, don't kill but listen,

877
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: we like when we're talking about a woman doing it,

878
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, now I understand that. As soon

879
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 2: as we talk about a man doing it, I'm like

880
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 2: that bastard that fucking right.

881
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 3: So who really has the power in these relationships? Because

882
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 3: the side bitch got the power to piss you off, right, Like,

883
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 3: who's really getting like good treatment the man?

884
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 2: The man is getting the best of everything. Yeah, he

885
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 2: gets to go have his fun and have fourn a

886
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 2: kid with this girl who is fun time. He don't

887
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 2: have to worry about responsibilities with hers, just his outlet.

888
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 2: And then he gets to go have a family with

889
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,240
Speaker 2: this other person and build generational wealth and have a family.

890
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,760
Speaker 2: You know, like you just winning on both sides.

891
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so basically then nobody's winning between the main.

892
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 2: And Yeah, they don't win at all, you know, I don't.

893
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 3: Know, I feel like I know the main isn't. Well,

894
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 3: she could win if she divorces and takes all the

895
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 3: things that may be a way of winning she doesn't

896
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 3: win the relationship and then the side. I mean, if

897
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 3: she can actually play the role as a side and

898
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 3: get all the things, you know what I'm saying, people

899
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 3: be getting intuition, paid, all types of shit if you

900
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 3: could be a proper side bitch.

901
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 2: But I guess it depends on how you define winning,

902
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 2: you know, like, because why isn't the main winning, Especially

903
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 2: if like this man takes care of her, She don't

904
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 2: have to want for nothing, don't have to worry about

905
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 2: like responsibilities outside of like nurturing the family and taking

906
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 2: care of the kids. I'm making it seem like.

907
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: That that is a lot of shit responsibility while you

908
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 3: round here gallivanting. Absolutely not.

909
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: I would love to sit home, go to pilates in

910
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: the morning with my hot yoga and then cook a

911
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 2: meal and then take care of the kids, and that

912
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: would be my only responsibility. Women are doing that and

913
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,879
Speaker 2: maintaining full time jobs and having it, you know, wear

914
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 2: all these different hats at the same time. So I mean,

915
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: if you're gonna have a side bitch, you need to

916
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 2: be able to take care of me. Ain't nothing worse

917
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 2: than a nigga having a side bitch who ain't got

918
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 2: no money. You know.

919
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 3: That now those who got it's not even for those men,

920
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 3: but they doing it, I know the most. No, but

921
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 3: who is allowing that though?

922
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:17,959
Speaker 4: Right?

923
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 3: Because he don't even got enough money already for the

924
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 3: woman he has. And now you gotta lie to your ass.

925
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: And go to their house to pick him up.

926
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 3: Not you really gotta cook for this nigga because he

927
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 3: can't eat otherwise, right.

928
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 2: You the side bitch and you picking them up for

929
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 2: the house?

930
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 3: Man may be having options. Man, So when these niggas be,

931
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 3: these in cels be on these podcasts, dog, they don't

932
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 3: have nothing to do with women. Why you ain't getting pussy,

933
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 3: get some charisma, get some smell good, get a haircut,

934
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 3: get a hairline. Get It's because somebody want to give

935
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 3: you some kucci. Okay, it just may not be the

936
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 3: kuchie you think you're supposed to have access to. And

937
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 3: I think that's that's why they be fucking mad, because yeah,

938
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 3: you you you might can't get the ten you know

939
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 3: they like the number uh rate women. It's this post

940
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 3: I'm trying to find. And I don't know if I

941
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 3: uh if we talked about this on the show or not.

942
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 3: Where the girl basically the husband was saying how he

943
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 3: had been cheating on his wife for a while, and

944
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 3: then he stopped cheating, and then three years later she

945
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 3: basically gave him some divorce papers, like I'm leaving, I'm

946
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 3: in love with somebody else, and I'm marrying that person.

947
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: Did we talk about that? No, we did not. Girl,

948
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 2: what's good for the goose is good for the game. Yeah.

949
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 3: So he he had been with his wife for a

950
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 3: while and he admitted that he had cheated on her.

951
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 3: She knew, yeah, uh huh. He said he kept getting

952
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 3: caught cheating.

953
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 2: Okay, life around.

954
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 3: Yes, And he said that his child, which is not

955
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:56,760
Speaker 3: her child, and then their child together was basically happy

956
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: for the mom. So it's here. It's so. It says

957
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 3: my wife and I have been married for twenty years.

958
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 3: I will admit that I have cheated on her. Throughout

959
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 3: the years. She caught me each and every time. I

960
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,479
Speaker 3: got tired of being caught, so I stopped. Two years ago.

961
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 3: At dinner with our family Saturday night, my wife comes out,

962
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: gives me divorce papers and tells me she's leaving. Why

963
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,919
Speaker 3: would she want to leave me? I changed for her,

964
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 3: I changed for her. Good boy. I had a nigga

965
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 3: tell me that shit.

966
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 2: I give all my bitches up for you.

967
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 3: I didn't tell you to do that.

968
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 2: I just told you you.

969
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 3: Couldn't do this and that nigga, you could have chose

970
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,439
Speaker 3: that anyway. So he was like, I changed for her

971
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 3: exclamation point. We raised children together, we have a home together,

972
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 3: and I was planning on surprising her with a new car.

973
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 3: Apparently my son, who was not her son, knew about it.

974
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 3: Our daughter knew about it, and they had the nerve

975
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 3: to fucking congratulate her. She told me that she was

976
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,320
Speaker 3: She has been in a relationship for the last three years,

977
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 3: and she decided to marry this guy. At first, I

978
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 3: thought it was a joke because her routine has never changed. See,

979
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 3: women know how to do the ship and that's love,

980
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,439
Speaker 3: he said. Dinner is on the table at the same

981
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 3: time every night. She ain't miss a beat. Okay, men,

982
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 3: y'all not coming home.

983
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 2: Like like scared right now, Like.

984
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 3: You better beat me.

985
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 2: You can have a signed nigga, especially if you know

986
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 2: you ain't treating her right.

987
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 3: We are cats.

988
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: You can't cheat over and over and over again. I

989
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 2: think there'll be no karma.

990
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 3: Exact, he said. I don't know how. Excuse me, he said,

991
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 3: I don't know when and how she had time and

992
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,439
Speaker 3: cheat on me, and I did not know. I will

993
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 3: not leave her. I would not let her leave this

994
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 3: marriage easily. He says. She would have to leave with

995
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:47,919
Speaker 3: absolutely nothing. My question is how does she do all this?

996
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,240
Speaker 3: And I didn't know.

997
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 2: Because while you was out doing you, she was doing

998
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 2: her too. We was making love to you.

999
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 3: You can making love like what you thought. You know

1000
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Oh.

1001
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 2: What about that show Pee Valley, which I can't wait

1002
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: for it to come back on. Don't do that and

1003
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 2: that's a good show. We miss you, Uncle Clifford. But

1004
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: where the wife? She was the doctor, and she was

1005
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: married to Andre. Andre was the politician. And he went

1006
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 2: back to Chuck Lisa and he was trying to like

1007
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 2: revitalize Chuck Lisa and things like that. And he started

1008
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: messing with the stripper Autumn Autumn Night and oh yeah, yeah,

1009
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: and he had affair with Autumn Night. And he came

1010
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 2: home and his wife was in there fucking another doctor

1011
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: in they house.

1012
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 3: Wasn't she a unicorn in a relationship?

1013
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 2: No? Okay, No, he was in Chuck a Lisa. His

1014
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 2: wife was in Atlanta, I believe, okay, And he went

1015
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 2: to Chuck Lisa and he met autumn night, and then

1016
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 2: they started having an affair. And I think they only

1017
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: ended up really having sex one time, you know, but

1018
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 2: they were like, you know, it was a build up.

1019
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 2: But then he came home to his wife. He had

1020
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: been gone for a long time, and when he came home,

1021
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 2: his wife had another doctor in the house having sex

1022
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 2: with him. And my friend was like, oh, she fucked

1023
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: up for that.

1024
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:12,439
Speaker 3: Well in the house.

1025
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the house that the like, don't bring no

1026
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 2: you can fuck around get killed for that. Yeah, don't

1027
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 2: in your house. That's crazy, Like you just don't give

1028
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 2: you got you give zero fucks. But what's good for

1029
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: the goose is good for the gain. They're like, if

1030
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 2: he was home instead of out in Chuck A. Lisa

1031
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 2: having sex for the strip girl, his wife probably would

1032
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: have been involved with him and not with this other person.

1033
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,240
Speaker 2: You left space for that exactly.

1034
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh when you got too much time and think

1035
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 3: all type of shit happened.

1036
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 2: Yeah right now that house. Now, don't do that, anybody.

1037
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 2: Do not. If you decide that you want to have

1038
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 2: a side relationship, do not bring them in your home.

1039
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 2: Whether you.

1040
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 3: Probably still now, I got shit, missed it bags.

1041
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 2: You did that video like I'll bet my side big house,

1042
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 2: and I got his wife shoes off. She had shoes

1043
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 2: that looked like Monica.

1044
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 3: Be fun li you on my life.

1045
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: That's dangerous.

1046
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 3: Yeah. So this nigga, he want to know how she

1047
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 3: did it. She did it because she she The reason

1048
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 3: how she was able to do is because she actually

1049
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 3: cared about your fucking feelings until she didn't anymore. Because

1050
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 3: obviously you was fucking cartwheeling doing the douggie and the

1051
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 3: fucking trip out on her heart for years and kept

1052
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 3: getting caught. So you were being sloppy and a lot

1053
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 3: of times you don't even gott to look for shit

1054
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 3: like men. Really, Just like the other day, I was

1055
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 3: hiding behind the island at the house, hiding from Dasha

1056
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 3: and she and she like crept up. I'm waiting for

1057
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 3: her to come in front of me. I look behind me.

1058
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 3: This is how sneaky women are. Okay, we're gonna we're

1059
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 3: gonna bury all ship buried, the ship ticket to the grave,

1060
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 3: and men will literally leave the ship on the table

1061
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 3: for to see. I remember this nigga had condoms and

1062
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,240
Speaker 3: movie tickets in his trash can. I didn't I didn't

1063
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 3: go through his trash can look for these things. They

1064
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 3: were at the top and I just was throwing something

1065
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 3: in the trash can. So this weekend you was fucking

1066
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 3: and taking a bitch to the.

1067
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,919
Speaker 2: Movies, right. I remember I found a condom in the

1068
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 2: bed and he was like, he let his homeboy come

1069
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 2: over there.

1070
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 3: It's always the homeboy.

1071
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: You got a five bedroom house. Why did they fucking

1072
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: your bedroom? Why wouldn't they? Yeah, just just telling me

1073
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 2: like you lying in my now you're playing in my

1074
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 2: face because the lies are stupid. It don't make no sense.

1075
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 3: This wasn't my man, right, this is my whole nigga.

1076
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 3: We was having we had sex and now we about

1077
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 3: to go to sleeping ship. Hide as hell. Something wrapping

1078
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 3: around my fucking toes underneath to cover fannies. What a

1079
00:54:56,160 --> 00:55:03,959
Speaker 3: low mucus in it too? I still want to sleep.

1080
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 3: This ain't my nigga. I mean, what you expect you

1081
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 3: he fucking somebody else, but goddamn sheet.

1082
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 2: That's the thing. You're laying in the sheet like the

1083
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,959
Speaker 2: disrespect of putting me. But you never know how many

1084
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 2: business have been because I don't even know if niggas

1085
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 2: watch they don't.

1086
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 3: They don't, So you be.

1087
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 2: Laying in a woman's sweat spot off.

1088
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 3: Remember we did Poor Minds, and I was like, I

1089
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 3: buy men's sheets. It's not because I'm worrying about hooping

1090
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 3: fucking on the sheets. I like nice linens. I want

1091
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:32,800
Speaker 3: to feel comfortable in your.

1092
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 2: Ship, right, So I'm gonna do all the things right

1093
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 2: because you might buy him. He still might somebody.

1094
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 3: Now you fucking on my sheet. Oh he has good

1095
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 3: tasting linen, exactly, these thousand count cotton organic cotton. Nobody's winning.

1096
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:54,959
Speaker 3: I agree with you when you say the man man

1097
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 3: is winning. It's just about perspective. It's subjective who the

1098
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 3: actual winner is. You start throwing kids in there, sh'it

1099
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 3: get fucking messy, because we do know that men get side.

1100
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 3: Bitch is pregnant all the time because you're not using

1101
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 3: the condom with her, you know, well you should be, yeah,

1102
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 3: but oftentimes they're not looking with somebody for a whole year.

1103
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 2: You're still using the condom. Girl, If it's somebody on

1104
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,240
Speaker 2: the side of your relationship, you should not be having

1105
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 2: unprotected yea.

1106
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 3: And that's why your wife trying to figure out, why

1107
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 3: the hell exactly? Yeah, we be knowing. Even if you

1108
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,839
Speaker 3: don't say nothing, we ain't caught you. Our body tell

1109
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 3: us you're cheating. Fuck nigga anyway, Damn fuck nigga anyway. Yeah.

1110
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 2: So, by social standards, the main is always gonna be

1111
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 2: the one that women champion, Like, we're always gonna be

1112
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 2: on her side. And now we're gonna be like, this

1113
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 2: is the one he chose. The other woman is, you know,

1114
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 2: conspiring with this man, and people can get hurt, you know.

1115
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:00,839
Speaker 2: The one who's in the dark is the one who

1116
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:02,240
Speaker 2: can ultimately be hurt.

1117
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 3: You know.

1118
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 2: So I identify with that more and I side with

1119
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 2: that more. However, when we talk of terms of winning,

1120
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: nobody wins when the family fuse, the man wins. He's

1121
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 2: the winner. Yeah, and that's it.

1122
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 3: Stay off these people, husband, man, that's not gonna stop

1123
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 3: because you don't want nobody on yours. This is what

1124
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 3: that That's why I don't fuck with people husbands, because

1125
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 3: I might. I might beat your ass up about mine.

1126
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 3: I listen, might beat your ass up about my husband.

1127
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 3: I might pull up to your house.

1128
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 2: Prior to ten years of my marriage. Don't fuck with.

1129
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 3: I'm the ten years. Call me first, let me see

1130
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 3: if I like you girl? What you're doing it on Saturday?

1131
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: Can you can? I can go? Thank you girl. I

1132
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: would see y'all some money now that aspiring.

1133
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 3: The man conspiring with the side right.

1134
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:57,959
Speaker 2: Got it about the house?

1135
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 3: That is real love? Okay? All right, y'all. So if

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Speaker 3: All right? Go ahead?

1141
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1142
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1145
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1146
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1147
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