1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly an iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everybody, 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: Happy Monday. I felt like that was appropriate. We're scrubbing in. 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's like a little bit tired this Monday. 4 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: Sometimes the energy is high. Sometimes it's a little more 5 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: like Monday feeling. 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: When you rage like you guys did on Saturday night. Monday, 7 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: you did too. 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: I was there Houston. I don't know if you heard, 9 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: but we did a collective group Facebook live. 10 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 3: Thanks for the invite. 12 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: Are you? 13 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 2: A lot of people were mad that they didn't know 14 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 2: that was going to happen, but it really was just 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 2: a spur of the moment. 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: Marco's like y'all should do because Tanya came over and 17 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: helped me clean, which we'll get to that in a 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: little bit. But how did it start? 19 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 4: Why did you text me? 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: Tanya had told me that on Saturday she was not 21 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: going to leave her bed. She was literally going to 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: do nothing except lay in bed, watch TV, go to 23 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: the bathroom, return to her bed all of Saturday cocooning. 24 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: So I texted her Saturday night, how is your cocooning going? 25 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: She was bond that I'm actually at Becca's. It been 26 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: here for five hours cleaning. You should do a Facebook 27 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: live and the rest is history. 28 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: Yes, and it was a great, great time had by all. Yeah, 29 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. I mean we didn't. We accomplished a lot. 30 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: Tony tried a lot, Tonya tried. Well, I'm talking about 31 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: just the Facebook live. Tanya tried a buttered pop tart. 32 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and. 33 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: Thoroughly enjoyed it. 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 4: Thoroughly enjoyed it. 35 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 2: I was a little kind of surprised by Tanya's eating 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 2: because for so long now it was like the best 37 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: night ever. 38 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: Honestly, I was like, this is so fun to have 39 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: her over here, and it's like a normal friend who's 40 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 1: like eating snacks. 41 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: She's like, you're gonna take him away from it. 42 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: I got I ordered from the grocery store, like a 43 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: pack of Reeses, like but like you know how you 44 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: buy the Reese's packages and there's two cups in there. 45 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: I bought like a six pack of those packages. And 46 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: Tanya comes like this, SIT's on the couch with the 47 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: package and she's like are these Like whose are these? 48 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 4: I'm like, I just got them Roy, because who has 49 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 4: like normal size? 50 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 2: That's not common. 51 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: I know, like even I know that it's not common, 52 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: but you know, I was. I was like, this looks good. 53 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: Like that's one of our rules in the house, like 54 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: we don't allow candy in the house, sugary cereal in 55 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: the house, soda in the house, because I it's not there, 56 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: you're not going to consume it. 57 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 4: Same with my house. When I go to Becca's, it's like, 58 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 4: you know. 59 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: And Becca, honestly, my pantry looks like a child's dream. 60 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 4: Literally, the she has those cookies that have they're like 61 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: regular chocolates of cookies with the rainbow sprinkle, like the 62 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,559 Speaker 4: rainbow like Eminem's. 63 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: Wow she has. 64 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 4: I'm just trying to like the plethora of options. 65 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: Like lots of chips, lots of cheese. 66 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 4: Its was like a lot of chip and chesus but 67 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 4: you had like regular like chip chip chips. 68 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: But it was like an hour Facebook Live. You never 69 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 2: stopped home, and then on. 70 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: The Facebook Live and she's like, do you have any popcorns? Yeah? 71 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 4: That was my that was my day. Yeah, No, I've 72 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 4: got back on Sunday. 73 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 2: Okay, chea day Yeah yeah, okay cool. 74 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: She went for it, and I like really enjoyed it personally. 75 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: But I just have to say, so I've been I'm 76 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm a very hygienically clean person, but I'm a very 77 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: messy person. 78 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 4: So like what, it's very accurate. 79 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: I can like I like, I won't get into my 80 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: bed unless I've had a shower, so like hygienically I'm 81 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: a freak. Yeah, my space is disastrous because it looks 82 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: like you know. 83 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 4: The cartoon with the Tasmanian Devil that literally looks like that. 84 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's because I get a lot of 85 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: stuff sent to me and it's like good products. So 86 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: then I feel like I can't get rid of this, 87 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: so I just need to keep it in my room 88 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: because maybe I'll see it and use it, even though 89 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: I know I'm not going to use it. 90 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 4: I think what it comes down to with you is 91 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 4: like normally a normal person gets a package, they like, okay, 92 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 4: open the package, they throw away the box, they take 93 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 4: all the stuff outside, and then they like put it 94 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: in a place. You just leave all the boxes of 95 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 4: the stuff and then just like shove it in corners. 96 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 4: So like literally I think we threw away maybe a 97 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 4: hundred boxes that were just in your room. It was 98 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 4: a lot, but I just all all the stuff has 99 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: is in packages, so it's like you know, like it's 100 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 4: in a box, but then everything is like in its 101 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 4: own box. So I mean it was just. 102 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: But we did it did Like I almost feel like 103 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: I can't even live in my room. It's so clean. 104 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to mess anything up. 105 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 4: I know, I want you to keep it like that 106 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 4: for a little I'm gonna try. 107 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my best. 108 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: Was the most disturbing thing you found in her room? 109 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 4: Nothing disturbing? 110 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I saying, I'm not like, I mean, 111 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: it's dusty, probably, but yeah, like I didn't she was 112 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: like coughing, it sneezing, but like what don't. 113 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 4: You always have like the black lung, Like there's like 114 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 4: dust everywhere. 115 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: But I just wanted to praise you because not a 116 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: lot of people would have done that. And I'm very 117 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: much appreciate it. 118 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 4: I love I secretly loved it. I would say the 119 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 4: most disturbing thing is Becca has like a hundred perfumes. 120 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, that's not disturbing, Like I like 121 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: to smell good, but nothing. 122 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 4: Gross really nothing gross in your room. Just just so 123 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 4: much stuff, so much stuff. Yeah, yeah, like don't even 124 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 4: get me started. I really wanted to go in the 125 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: closet and start like, because all her this is just 126 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 4: a personal thing, but all her hangers are kind of 127 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 4: like like this, Like I like a hanger just like 128 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 4: this on the radio. Hangers just like life lay flat. 129 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 4: Everybody has like the same hanger. Becca's got like different 130 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 4: wired ones, like plastic ones. They are all like left 131 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 4: in my eyes. 132 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: I think that's more normal than what you're talking about. 133 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 4: Oh, people don't have night normal. 134 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: I don't think people have consistent hangers. Easton, Do you 135 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 2: have consistent hangers? I don't. I don't either. 136 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: I mean, in imperfect world, I'd love to have matching 137 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: hangers spelt one, yes. 138 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 4: If you bought, If you bought a ton of felt hangers, 139 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 4: it would make me happy. 140 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: Especially in the closet that we hang them all for me, 141 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: I will. 142 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 4: Throw it all the ones that are bent out of 143 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 4: weird shade. Yeah, do that such an eyesore. 144 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: I can't wait for our next cleaning adventure. 145 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 4: Like I had to stop at one point and go, 146 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 4: how detailed are we going to get in this room? 147 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Like are we going to 148 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 4: go full in? Or like fifty to fifty? And I 149 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 4: decided fifty to fifty for now. 150 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: I've never seen Tanya in like a bossy, bossy position 151 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: like that, Like Tanya is always the one that's kind 152 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: of like, oh whatever, Like it was interesting. 153 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 2: Took charge. 154 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like a little bit nervous or something. 155 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: Because I didn't want to throw anything away without her approval. Sure, 156 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 4: so I needed her to go through different. 157 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: Now take the trash out, and I'm like, okay, yes, ma'am. 158 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 2: It was literally exactly love. It's probably what you needed. 159 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: Totally, It's exactly what I needed. And it was exactly 160 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: how it was when my mom was out here helping 161 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: me clean out my office. 162 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 4: Have you shown your mom? 163 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 1: I haven't. But my biggest regret was that I didn't 164 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: take it before phot though, because the after is like beautiful, 165 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: but you can't even you can appreciate it, but you 166 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: really can't appreciate it. 167 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 4: No, you can't progress that was made. 168 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: It's like a makeover, but you don't get the first. 169 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 4: Bed stands, Like you couldn't even tell that she had 170 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 4: bed stands because they was like covered in things and like. 171 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: You know, like what's on your bed? What do you 172 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 2: need that handy? 173 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: She just had like machines and it's just like I 174 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: know it's like a facial thing. 175 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 2: Not we're getting into a weird area now. 176 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: Machine like a like a thing that you do on 177 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: your skin, like a a skincare routine. 178 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 179 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: But and then I had like a ton of vitamins. 180 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: I think you threw most of those away, yes, and 181 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: then I also just had stuff like clothes underneath the 182 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: night stands because. 183 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: I don't like you don't have you put them under 184 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: the night stand it's a good spot. You threw away 185 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: her vitamins that seems intrusive. 186 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: These were not good, but yeah, she was like going 187 00:07:55,280 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: through dents kind of. I love one. I know. 188 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 4: I was looking through the ingredients. It's like high fructose 189 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 4: carls like bye, well. 190 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: I can't I like really struggle swallowing pills. It's like 191 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: a mental block I have, And so I have to 192 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: get to like chewable vitamins, and I think most of 193 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: those have stuff that's like not good for you. 194 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 2: Technically we should try it. Butters, sometimes I'm so glad. 195 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: I was so nervous when she took the bite of 196 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: the pop dark because I was like, if she doesn't 197 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: like this, I'm gonna be so upset. 198 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: The look on your face of anticipation was very very 199 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 2: It was delightful. 200 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: Wait, I want to someone wrote me today and told 201 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: me that today's the tailor for me news who I 202 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: think I've mentioned her before, shout out to Taylor told 203 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: me that today is the anniversary of Derek's death, Like 204 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: today is the day that Derek died on Grey's Anatomy. 205 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 4: We should do something special. 206 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: What can we do? Well, light a candle? Maybe candle? 207 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just. 208 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna light a candle, told the Menora candles. Yeah, 209 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: that was a tough day. Do you remember where you were? 210 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 5: Sure? 211 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 4: Do facetimed you? 212 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 5: Oh? 213 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you like binge watch. I was in Mississippi 214 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: with my mom. But a very good episode, very good 215 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: and okay. 216 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 4: Give him the eulogy he never got. 217 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 2: Perhaps, are you sorry? 218 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: You start? Okay? Wait? What's light the candle? 219 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 4: Lighter? 220 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: Oh? 221 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: Sorry? But you and your mom were crying? 222 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom was like my mom wasn't crying, but 223 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: she looked down at the couch and I was like 224 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 1: literally saw like uncontrollably salt sobbing. She's like, are you okay? 225 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think so. Actually to say, we 226 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: don't have a lighter. 227 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: So we had a lighter but that whole episode where 228 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 2: he was like his brain was going and he was 229 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: thinking of all the things that doctors are doing wrong, 230 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 2: trying to say interesting. 231 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was interesting, but it was like torturous to watch. 232 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: But I'm super excited about them having season fifteen or whatever. However, 233 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: I'm mixed feelings because the past few episodes have been. 234 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: Real bad speaking of tortures to watch. The pot smoking 235 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: episode was not a fan. 236 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 4: I was not a fan twelve again. 237 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't love it. 238 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 1: It was bad. 239 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 2: I mean, a lot of our Facebook group thought it 240 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 2: was very funny when they were doing you know that thing, 241 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: and that was like. 242 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: Decently those maybe the highlight there were. 243 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: A few laughs, but no, you know, the only thing 244 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 2: I found interesting was Joe trying to save that person's bowels. 245 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 2: It's the only thing I thought. 246 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: This shows you how the episode we'd. 247 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 2: Switched another story, I'd be like, oh, back to these 248 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 2: folks again. 249 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: I know That's how I felt too. I'm like, I 250 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: thought we were getting back into the fields of grays 251 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: and then they threw that in there and. 252 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 4: No one has a kid now, I know. 253 00:10:52,640 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: Why is he still on the show? Owen has a kid, 254 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 1: like it's that easy, Like they're just he goes to 255 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: the office the next day. Yeah, here's a. 256 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 2: Kid, and then are he and gonna fall in love 257 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 2: again raising this kid? Because that's kind of where it's. 258 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so just like done with him. I need 259 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: him to exit. 260 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: And yeah, we we know it's renewed for season fifteen. 261 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: We're like yay. 262 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: That's the thing though, But I was like yay, but 263 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: it wasn't that enthusiastic. It was more like, oh, okay, yeah, 264 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: because it's. 265 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 2: An Arizona Capneralist season fifteen. 266 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I should probably just more Owen, Oh, 267 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: are you thinking about your eulogy over here? She's kind 268 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: of been quiet, like half heartedly into. 269 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: The doctor Derek Sheppard eulogy. 270 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 4: Okay, So thank you guys for gathering here today in 271 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 4: remembrance of doctor Derek Shepherd. I have fond memories of 272 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 4: doctor Shepherd, more of it as an onlooker, but still 273 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 4: have hit me in the heart just the same as 274 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 4: if I knew him. Derek, you were an amazing father. 275 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 4: You were an amazing husband to Addison and Meredith. To 276 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 4: be quite To be quite honest, I just want you 277 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 4: to know that your faith, in your commitment and your 278 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 4: your love for people, you know, it gave me faith 279 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: in men. And I just that's like a really nice thing, 280 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 4: you know, like I've I lost faith in men for 281 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 4: a little bit, and you brought it back to me 282 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 4: at a time when I really needed it. And I'm 283 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 4: so sad you are gone way too soon. You were 284 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 4: gone way too soon, and I just want you to 285 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 4: know that your legacy will live on forever in my 286 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 4: heart and that I am looking for my Derek Shepherd 287 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 4: in life and may you rest in Wow. 288 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: I mean that was stunningly beautiful. 289 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 4: I don't know if we need claps, because I'll give 290 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 4: you the candle now. Oh well, you say you really 291 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 4: hit the nail. 292 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you like really took over and did a long, 293 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: full eulogy. 294 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 4: You just said it. 295 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: I agree. You're the first love of my life, maybe 296 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: the only love of my life that I've ever had. 297 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: The way the way you looked at Meredith when she 298 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: walked in the bar, or when you saw her in 299 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,680 Speaker 1: the bar, is the way that I want to be 300 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: looked at one day. And your death has scarred me 301 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. 302 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 4: It actually might be why you have some issues it. 303 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: Might be, and we'll miss you, only love you, and 304 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 1: we're sorry that you didn't get the funeral in the 305 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: eulogy that you deserve the respect. 306 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, three years ago today, Derek Shepherd. 307 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: People are like, that's the weirdest thing that's happened on 308 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: the podcast Switching Gears majorly, what what are we switching? 309 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: I want to talk about mod Clothes. 310 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 4: Okay. 311 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,719 Speaker 1: Modcloth is a new clothing company that I actually just 312 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: ordered clothes from. 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But rather than read 361 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 2: you the email us if Kaitlin tell us all about 362 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 2: her friend who's getting married. Caitlin is on the line. 363 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: Now, Hi, Caitlin. H Hey, guys, how's it going. 364 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 6: It's going good, y'all. 365 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: We're great. We have the whole well, the whole crew 366 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: except for Amy, but Easton, Mark, Tanya, Becca, We're all here. 367 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 6: I'm so touched. 368 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 7: This is awesome. 369 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: Where are you from. 370 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 6: I'm in Alabama? 371 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 8: Oh I here? 372 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: Girls? 373 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 4: About your girlfriend? 374 00:16:57,120 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, well she's not best friend, best friend in kindergarten 375 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 6: and she's getting married in two weeks and she's so excited, 376 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 6: but she's getting so nervous and we just me and 377 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 6: are the best friend, her sister. Her sisters are red 378 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 6: and we're like, we love the podcast. Listen every week. 379 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 6: You guys are awesome and we relate so much to 380 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 6: both of the all none of us and decide who 381 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 6: we are, and she we just she's getting nervous, and 382 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 6: I thought this would be awesome. She love it so much. 383 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 6: I actually work with her and I was just talking 384 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 6: to her. I was like, call of me, So it's 385 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 6: so excited. 386 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 2: Before we die. Do you want to have a plan? 387 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 2: Do you want to pretend to be somebody else? 388 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 5: So she doesn't, well, I actually have a plan. 389 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, tell us her. 390 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 6: So we got our other friends like, she's not going 391 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 6: to answer because she doesn't answer with numbers, and so 392 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 6: our other bestrin actually said hey, because she just applied 393 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 6: for a job. She said, hey, I put you down 394 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 6: for a reference. We're going to call it one thirty. 395 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 1: Can you answer? 396 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 2: Okay? So so she's should say so are. 397 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 4: We pretending we're pretending to be a job? 398 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 2: Yeah? What's your what's her friends then that that said that, okay, 399 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 2: so your friend Savannah a woman in Savannah put you 400 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: down as a reference on a job application. A couple 401 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 2: of questions, quession, and then if one of the questions 402 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: beat do you listen to scrubbing in with? 403 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 6: So perfect? I'm so gladded. 404 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So do we like the guy she's marrying. We're 405 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: happy about this? Love him? Yeah? 406 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 7: I don't know if I got pictures. 407 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 6: They know each other forever. So they played like t 408 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 6: ball and soccer together a little. 409 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: Yes, perfect, Okay, Okay, let's we're ready to let's do it. 410 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, are you gonna take this? Take it? 411 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 5: Is this? 412 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 2: Sometimes better at this? Pretending you're too honest? 413 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 414 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 2: Here should we go? Laurel? Yeah, like Laurel, Like Laurel Canyon. 415 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 5: Hello, Hi is this Laurel? 416 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 4: Hi Laurel. My name is Tiffany. I am calling because 417 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 4: you are listed as a reference for said Savannah. Yes, yes, 418 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 4: that is our girl. I had a couple of questions 419 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 4: for you. 420 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 2: Okay. 421 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 4: So, on a scale of one to ten, how hard 422 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 4: of a worker would Savannah be? 423 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: Oh? 424 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 5: I mean I would definitely high tend she I was 425 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,679 Speaker 5: actually go on vacation with her this past weekend, and 426 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 5: she took off she had off guy. But I mean 427 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 5: she brought her laptops and her separate business phone and 428 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 5: all that, and she was hating her emails on the 429 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 5: way down and all kinds of stuffs. But I would 430 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 5: definitely say that Savannah is a really hard worker and 431 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 5: she puts one hundred percent into everything she does. 432 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 4: Wow, Laurel, that is a braving review. I marked that 433 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 4: down as a ten plus on our she another question 434 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 4: about Savannah does she listen to podcasts? 435 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 5: Does she listen to podcasts? Yeah, yes she does. We're 436 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 5: all currently obsessed with one, and that is this girl 437 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 5: that you see on the back floor does with her 438 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 5: friend that we all talk about that and listen to that. 439 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 5: I think she listens to the other ones. 440 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:19,679 Speaker 1: Laurel, what you go ahead? This is Becai and Tanya. Laurel, 441 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: are you there? 442 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 4: Hello? 443 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 1: Hello? O? Get here? She's just like out of. 444 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 7: Horror perfect. 445 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: Where did you go? Where'd she go? 446 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 6: She literally just. 447 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: So perfect, so good. 448 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 4: Really give Savannah a really good one. 449 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: Wow. I like to put her as a reference. 450 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: How nice that she thought of this podcast? 451 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 1: Oh, I was like, oh, what is she going to say? Ashley? 452 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 5: I was like, why would you put me as a reference? 453 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 7: I'm not a good reference. 454 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 8: He's back, Laurel's back, can you hear me? 455 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, we loved you for a sec. No. 456 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 5: I don't know why she should put me as a reference, 457 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 5: but I just rolled with it. 458 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think I might add you as 459 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: a reference to like anything I ever do. 460 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 5: Wait, can somebody come me with hearing? 461 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: So, Mark, do you want to say? 462 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 2: Sure? Caitlin, your friend Kaitlyn emailed us and wanted to 463 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 2: surprise you because you know, you're kind, You're little stressed 464 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 2: out about your wedding. You want it to be perfect, 465 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 2: and so she thought this might be a fun little 466 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: thing to kind of relax you and excited. 467 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 5: Oh my god, this could not be real. 468 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 1: We heard that you have an amazing fiance and every 469 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: all your friends love him. 470 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 5: So yeah, he is great. 471 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Laurel, how do we get one of those? Yeah? 472 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 7: I don't know. 473 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 5: I really don't know. I can't think straight right now, 474 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 5: because well, I didn't know if I should have said 475 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 5: that we were listening to a podcast about somebody from 476 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 5: the Bachelor, and if that was professional, but it's our 477 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 5: favorite podcast, So like, I didn't know what else to say, 478 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 5: but I was like trying to I'm trying to get 479 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 5: you some more listeners. 480 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,400 Speaker 1: We really appreciate you truly. 481 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,360 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, him since you were little kids. 482 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. Yes, So we we have a t 483 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 5: ball picture together where we're sitting next to each other 484 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 5: like our game pictures. And then we're also on the 485 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 5: same like Little Rex League soccer team when we were eight. 486 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 5: So it's just we've known each other our entire lives. 487 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, maybe that's the end. Maybe it's somebody from 488 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 2: your childhood. 489 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: You need to go through your childhood photos and see 490 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: who we can find. 491 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 2: What is soccer as a kid and of that stuffs. 492 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 4: All girls and that's like all girls. 493 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 5: I am. I just really Sam and catch my bra. 494 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 7: We love you so much. 495 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 5: Like yesterday we were all the way back from the 496 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 5: beach and like me and it was herchelt. 497 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah time, where'd y'all go? 498 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 5: We went to see Sad. We're from Alabama, so it's 499 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 5: only like four hours from there. 500 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: Yeah where in Alabama? 501 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 5: So I currently live in Birmingham. I just moved here, 502 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 5: Mason and I did. But before that we're from like 503 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 5: Talladega where the race track is. Oh yeah, like Talladegan. 504 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,959 Speaker 5: I but that's where we're from. But yeah, we were 505 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 5: on the way back and Caitlin and already listened to 506 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 5: the podcast and Savannah and Taandler had it and we 507 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 5: were like, we'll listen to it again. 508 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, what you're talking about last week's Yeah, it was 509 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 1: so funny. 510 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 5: The nail salon story. 511 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 7: Oh my god, so dead. 512 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 5: It was hilarious. 513 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 6: Dead. 514 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 4: Wait, let's do a little what's the word a listener? 515 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 2: Uh? 516 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 4: Review? What would you like to see more of on 517 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 4: the podcast? 518 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:57,239 Speaker 5: Oh? 519 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, great, Tanya see. 520 00:23:58,760 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 5: Here, I don't know. 521 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 6: Oh, we love's anatomy talk. 522 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 7: So that's a good one. 523 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, we're big Gray fans. I'm trying to think. 524 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:09,639 Speaker 1: I don't know. 525 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 5: Y'all do great jobs covering all different kinds of topics. 526 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 1: I think y'all are the best. We're calling you every day. 527 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 5: We'll give you, we'll give you so many compliments we 528 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 5: may Yeah, yes it is. It's so close. I'm freaking it. 529 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: It's going to be amazing. It's going to be the 530 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 1: best day of your life. And that's not going to 531 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: stress about. 532 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 4: Congratulations, pure bliss. 533 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 5: Thank you. I'm getting married in second Oh wow, I 534 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 5: forgot to mention that. Yeah, she didn't tell you that, 535 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 5: but isn't about her so cute? 536 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 4: Wait are your fiance's friends Yeah, we're all what they 537 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 4: met through us before. But so it would be my 538 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,479 Speaker 4: dream if beck and I got married, Like I wouldn't 539 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 4: say month apart, but maybe like six months apart. 540 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: That was so cute. It would be fine. 541 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 2: I found the picture of Laurel and Mason when they're 542 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 2: kids together. Look at that? Is that the sweetest thing? 543 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 5: That is? 544 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: So? I hope that's framed somewhere. 545 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 5: I don't know if he was calling me a loser, 546 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 5: we're just saying that than for Laurel for now. 547 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 6: Exactly what it is. 548 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is. This is one of my 549 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: favorite phone calls. Y'all are so sweet, so fun. 550 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for listening. 551 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 5: I'm still thinking, by the way, I'm not able to 552 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 5: finish for today, I'm going to be distruction. 553 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 1: Well, y'all are the best. Thank y'all for listening to 554 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 1: the podcast. 555 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 5: Thank y'all for having a podcast that's like just I 556 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 5: look forward to it every week. 557 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: So nice, fine, thank you good advice. That's good advice. 558 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 1: Oh wow, thank you, we really appreciate it. Okay, thank 559 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: you so much. Congrats on the weddings. Thank you have 560 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: an amazing week. 561 00:25:58,760 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 7: Thank you so much. 562 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 4: You love you girls. 563 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: Those like just are so fun. Those are one of 564 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,360 Speaker 1: my favorite things to do. You're really good. 565 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you. 566 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 1: I had to put I had to put my mic 567 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 1: on silent because I started I was laughing so hard. 568 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm like bad at that stuff. I get so anxious 569 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: and nervous that I'm like. 570 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 2: Anybody that's good. 571 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't expect you to be great at it, 572 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: and you like have done well like the past two times. 573 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 4: Thank you. I'm trying to be more mature. 574 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: Prank calling. 575 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 4: Or taking my job seriously your job? 576 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I want to talk about bioclarity before we 577 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: get to emails last stuff. As we all know, I 578 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: would say, majority of the time the questions I get 579 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: on Instagram or whatever is about my skin. I think 580 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 1: people always want to find something that they can use 581 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 1: on their skin that's good and clean and works well. 582 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 1: And so bioclarity is a three step system. They have 583 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: the cleanser, they have the restore gel, they have the 584 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: hydrate moisturizer, and then they have the flora lux which 585 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 1: is like a form of chlorophyll, which is in the plants, 586 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: and I always say it takes away the redness if 587 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: you have like a I don't know, redness on your 588 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 1: face or whatever. It calms it. 589 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 4: But now they have two skincare routines, So depending on 590 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 4: the kind of your kind of type of skin, because 591 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 4: you know, we all have different type of skin. There's 592 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 4: the Clear Skin routine, which is basically cleansed, treat, restore, 593 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 4: and then there's the Essentials routine, which is cleanse, restore, hydrate. 594 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: Okay, So the Clear Skin routine is best for oily 595 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 1: combination or blemish prone skin, okay, and then the Essentials 596 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 1: routine is I think best it's just normal, normal, dry, 597 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: dehydrated skin. 598 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, because when you have acne, you're doing like a 599 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 4: lot more like intense treatment on your skin versus if 600 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 4: your skin's just dry. 601 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 6: Right. 602 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 603 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like my skin is so dry from the desert. 604 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: Went to the desert yesterday for a day. 605 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 2: My skins did one day at Coachella. 606 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: I did like an hour at Coachella. 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That's bioclarity dot com and inter 622 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: code Becca. 623 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 2: All right, we have Chelsea on the line and she 624 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 2: emailed us, but she has a funny story to tell us. 625 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 2: And here she is, Chelsea. 626 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, how are you good? 627 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 2: How are you? 628 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: We're great. We are interested to hear this story about 629 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: the airdrop situation. 630 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 7: Well, me and my friends listen to you guys' podcast, 631 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 7: and like I'm in a five year relationship, so like 632 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 7: I don't have good information for my friends to like 633 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 7: pick up guys. So I think it's so funny when 634 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 7: Tanya gives us her like her suggestion you guys. And 635 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 7: so I was like, so, we were working at gala 636 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 7: and we got an escort talent down on the teal 637 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 7: carpet and I was the guys, Deane's going to be here, 638 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 7: and I said, what better way than to airs the 639 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 7: stealthy of yourself with your phone number. I love it. 640 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: That is for me, by the way. 641 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 7: I was like, guys, if Tanya can do it at 642 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 7: a farmer's market, we can do it at a gala. 643 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 7: Come on. 644 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 5: Fine. 645 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 7: So then I like found him and like I text 646 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 7: my friends and said I have seen Anglert. He's in 647 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 7: this room, come now and so but they were like escloring, 648 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 7: so they couldn't do it. And I was like, fine, 649 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 7: I'll meet him, like break the ice. I'll be fine. 650 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 7: So then the gala started and we got to sit 651 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 7: like and the seats right behind his table, and I said, guys, 652 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 7: like you're in air drop distance, like do it now 653 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 7: during the show and then he'll just start looking for you. 654 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 7: And so we we got like the perfect photo, like 655 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 7: we put my friend's phone number on, but his air 656 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 7: drop was off. How are we supposed to do it? 657 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:51,479 Speaker 1: Air drops off? Well yeah, well, let we'll let him 658 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: explain why that happened. Hey, Chelsea, oh. 659 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 9: My god, I just walked in the studio. 660 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 6: Hey, how are you? 661 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: You liked me? 662 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 7: You told me you were going to put your air 663 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 7: drop on. 664 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 2: I did not tell you. I did not lie to you. 665 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 9: I turned the air drop on. And I also remember 666 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 9: telling you how bad of an idea that was. 667 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: I did not approve of it. 668 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 9: If I was randomly walking around and someone just offered 669 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 9: me an air drop, I would definitely decline it. 670 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 7: Girl at the gala, come on, I mean. 671 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 2: Like, this is the picture she was going to send you. 672 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: That's the picture with the sunglasses on. You wouldn't have 673 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 2: accepted that you like to have a good time. 674 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 9: I could have sworn. I remember meeting you, and I 675 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 9: could have sworn. I turned my air drop on to 676 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 9: accepted by everyone. 677 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: Let's go for it. 678 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 7: His air drop on and it didn't even pop up. 679 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 9: And I was like, he lied, Maybe the service was spotty. 680 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: You guys didn't come on. 681 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 7: My airdrop was on and it showed up. 682 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: Here's the deal, I I no, no, I'm sorry. I 683 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 1: have to agree, you know, on this one. I'm not 684 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: accepting an air dropper. You guys I met so. 685 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 4: I was at WE day last week and I was 686 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 4: air dropping a girlfriend a photo of mine and I 687 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 4: saw this guy pop up and his air drop name 688 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 4: was like sexy b or something. I literally had a 689 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 4: three sixty turned around. I was like, sexy be and 690 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 4: this guy is sitting on this instrument and raised his 691 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 4: hand and goes, that's me. 692 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:26,719 Speaker 1: Were you into him? 693 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 4: No, I wasn't into him, but still. 694 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 7: We were in a galla with celebrities and like, so, 695 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 7: if you're telling me, like Monye Coleman was trying to 696 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 7: air drop you a photo team, you want to accept 697 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 7: it at the end of day, I never know my 698 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 7: friend was a celebrity. 699 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 9: I respect and I appreciate the hustle and especially the 700 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 9: ingenuity and the uniqueness of that. 701 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 7: I tried, man, we tried. 702 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 9: I respect you so much for it. I'm sorry for 703 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 9: not accepting it. 704 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm just so. 705 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 7: Happy to Helor. 706 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,719 Speaker 1: I'm just like so happy that this went full circle 707 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: with like Dean walking in as we were calling you 708 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: and then I know, wow, thing, Yeah, just. 709 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 7: This is great. 710 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 4: You know what I always say. 711 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 7: Plan We didn't even know you were coming, and I said, guys, 712 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 7: we need to use Kanya's like idea. It's gonna work. 713 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 7: It worked for her, the farmer's working, right, come on, 714 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 7: didn't work, but. 715 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 4: The answers always know unless you try. 716 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 2: Yes, that is a great quote right there, Thank. 717 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: You, but I still don't think it's our best. 718 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 2: I would accept it. I've been married twenty years. If 719 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 2: somebody sent me a random aired I'd accepted just out 720 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 2: of first curiosity, just like goofiness. 721 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 9: Yesterday, someone offered to share an album with me, uh, 722 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 9: some weird name like a Katie something, and I one 723 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 9: hundred percent, without even thinking about, just declined it. That 724 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 9: just is not something that like. It wasn't even just 725 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 9: an air drop. It was like a full photo album. 726 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 9: They're like, hey, do you want to share this? 727 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 4: That seems intrusive because then that sucks your storage. 728 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: Such your store. 729 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't need you to get in my JPEGs and. 730 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 2: You got it. 731 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: Go with your gut. 732 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 2: Thanks, Chelsea. 733 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 5: Have a good day. 734 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,240 Speaker 4: By Chelsea. 735 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 2: By the way, we told the story about the time 736 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,399 Speaker 2: Tanya connected her phone to her computer and uploaded all. 737 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 1: One of my favorites. Amy's in the building. It's one 738 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: of her favorites to this day. 739 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 2: iHeartMedia. Can't use Dropbox because of because of me and 740 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 2: my nudes. The entire company's Internet slowed because of her. 741 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 2: All right, let's do some emails. This is a tough 742 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 2: one and I don't know what to tell for Ashlan. 743 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 1: Here. 744 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 2: Ashlin is getting married soon and she and a group 745 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 2: of three other girls. There are four of them. They 746 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 2: were inseparable. That was in high school. When six years 747 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 2: later they drifted apart a little bit during college. She's 748 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 2: still really close to two of them. Harley talks to 749 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 2: the third. So she asked the two of them to 750 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 2: be bride'smaids, not the third. The third was devastated, and 751 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 2: now the second one says, Look, I don't feel comfortable 752 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 2: because of your lack of communication with friend number three. 753 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 2: I also don't want to be a bridesmaid in your wedding. Oh, 754 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 2: she says, I'm extremely hurt. How do I proceed? I 755 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 2: feel like she's choosing a friend three over me, even 756 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 2: though this decision is only about me and her friendship. 757 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 2: And my fiance is amazing. He's the love of my life, 758 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 2: and I know the wedding's gonna be perfect, even these 759 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 2: bumps are in the road. But what do I do 760 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 2: about this bridesmaid situation? 761 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 4: Here's the deal. 762 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: I totally I mean I would be so hurt by 763 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: this too. Like, I totally get the feelings are valid. 764 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:30,879 Speaker 1: It's gonna suck. 765 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 2: However, I. 766 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 1: Feel like you don't want that in your Like you 767 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: don't want to have to worry about that drama or 768 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,839 Speaker 1: that pressure on your wedding day. Like your wedding day 769 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 1: should be happy and exciting and all the people that 770 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 1: want to be there and are supporting you in your marriage. 771 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: You don't want someone there who's like going back and 772 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 1: forth about feeling guilty of being a part of that. 773 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 4: I mean, my piece of advice is quality over quantity. 774 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,839 Speaker 4: If you have one amazing bridesmaid is better than one 775 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 4: amazing bridesmaid and a janky one. Yeah, and as you 776 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 4: get older, you learn the beauty of edit and edit 777 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 4: this friend out. I'm sorry, Like, first of all, it's 778 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 4: rude to accept an offer to be a bridesmaid and 779 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 4: then decline it. I think that is the rudest thing ever. Yes, 780 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 4: and so telling of her character. So I would just 781 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 4: say bye bye, bye to the second friend and keep 782 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 4: the one bridesmaid. And I know it sucks and your 783 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 4: feelings are going to be hurt, and you can't like 784 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 4: there's something we can say to like take the bright away. 785 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 4: But I think it's a blessing in disguise. 786 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 2: I think that's excellent advice. Yeah, I agree, you move on, 787 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 2: you feel it with people who want to be there. Yeah, 788 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: Anonymous emails us. So her mom took her brother to 789 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 2: the family orthodontist, and the family orthodontist started asking all 790 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 2: these questions about our anonymous emailer here. And when mom 791 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 2: told orthodontists that, no, my daughter isn't dating anybody, because 792 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 2: that's what the orthodonists asked, the other DNAs said, Oh 793 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 2: my gosh, my son would be so perfect for your daughter. Now, 794 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 2: Anonymous exactly. I know the first paragraph of this. I 795 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 2: was a little nervous too. The Sun is on Facebook 796 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 2: and Anonymous found him and he's very attractive and he 797 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 2: has a French bulldog, and she's really obsessed with French bulldogs. 798 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 2: So she's really excited about this guy. But now nothing 799 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 2: has happened. 800 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: So what do I do? 801 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 2: Can I reach out to the Sun? Is that weird. 802 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: She wants to add him on Facebook and Instagram. She 803 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 2: feels like it's fate, but she was raised in the South, 804 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 2: where girls don't make the first move. But I'm not 805 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 2: sure I can resist this. 806 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 1: When she says, you're weird. 807 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 4: Thing that you just mouth he made with that was 808 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 4: so weird. 809 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: Iologize, unfortunately or fortunately fortunately, I don't know. I struggle 810 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: with this because like, he's the one who asked about her, 811 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 1: So why hasn't. 812 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 2: He well, his dad asked about her. Technically, Oh so 813 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,800 Speaker 2: he might not even he might be completely oblivious or 814 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 2: have no interest, or be seeing somebody and his dad 815 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 2: didn't know. Like, there's a lot of variables here. 816 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 1: What do you think? 817 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 2: I think? I always say go for it, but then 818 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 2: Tony gives me a look because she doesn't like you 819 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 2: to go for it. She likes but wait, hold on. 820 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: Tony goes back and forth. 821 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:11,799 Speaker 4: Her taught her. 822 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 1: I saw, She's like, seize the day or come get me. 823 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 1: There's no like she hasn't solidified which side she's on. 824 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 2: I love I love a pursuit. I love you going 825 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:23,800 Speaker 2: after this guy. I love it. 826 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 1: My only thing is that I because he might not 827 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: even know the situation or that. 828 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 4: You're alive or like, then you really have to preface 829 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,719 Speaker 4: it with your dad talk to my mom. 830 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I would, if anything, I would 831 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: add them on Facebook or Instagram and then see if 832 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 1: he sees you, and then maybe, I don't know. 833 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 3: I think you should go for it because I think 834 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 3: the uh my dad was talking to your mom kind 835 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 3: of thing is like the great it's a great icebreaker, and. 836 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,879 Speaker 1: They were talking about us and thought that we could 837 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 1: be we could we should meet. 838 00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 3: Just cold message this guy. I don't even add him 839 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,440 Speaker 3: just then. 840 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,440 Speaker 2: I don't mind an Instagram mat I think that's a 841 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 2: little subtle and might kind of, you know, prod him 842 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 2: a little bit to say something like a couple of photos. 843 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 4: Why can't we go back to the horse's mouth and 844 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 4: go have her mom talk to the orthodontist and say, hey, 845 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,240 Speaker 4: my daughter's really interested, here's her number, here's her handle 846 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 4: or whatever, and have the mom what. 847 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 2: If she like what climbing around a family tree? 848 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 4: We don't have to. All great relationships start on swings. 849 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:34,959 Speaker 1: Oh my god, shirt, there you go. All great relationships 850 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:35,920 Speaker 1: start on swings. 851 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 4: Monkey, We're just monkeys going from branch to branch here 852 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,280 Speaker 4: and that's what this is what's going to have to happen. 853 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 4: This is what this is what started it, the mom 854 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 4: and the orthodonost so put it on. 855 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 1: That confused like start on swings. Like I keep thinking 856 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:48,320 Speaker 1: about that. 857 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 4: I've had people that like wanted to set me up before, 858 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 4: and like remember the girl that wanted to set me 859 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 4: up with the magician? Yeah, and we all do it 860 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 4: never went anywhere, But it's not for me. It's them. 861 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 4: They wanted to set me up. So let them take 862 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 4: the ball and. 863 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 2: If it's meant to be, it'll happen. 864 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're saying, don't make moves. 865 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 4: I don't think she should make the move. I think 866 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 4: she should give her tell her mom, Hey, next time 867 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 4: you go see the orthodontist, give him my number, here's 868 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 4: my name, and give him my Facebook info, give him whatever. 869 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 4: Say I'm interested, and then have them do it. 870 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 1: There you go there. 871 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't amy as a question. 872 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 8: Well really I know the answer with Tanya. But Becca, 873 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 8: have you ever had your mom or dad try to 874 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 8: set you up? No, My papa, my grandpa used to 875 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 8: try to set me up all the time when I 876 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 8: was like twenty, and I'd be like, I don't know, papa, but. 877 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 1: Your parents never try. No. I think they like know 878 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: that I'm so difficult and picky that they're like whatever, she'll, she'll, 879 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,399 Speaker 1: she knows you, she likes. 880 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 6: Yeah. 881 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 4: It's weird because mine only did it once and it 882 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 4: was a solid dude. The doctor guy, Yeah, I would 883 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 4: have totally dated him. He was not interested in mena. 884 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just thought of this. 885 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,320 Speaker 8: Have you ever told the story on this show of 886 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 8: your friend's parents that set her up with the guy 887 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 8: on the train. It's like the best story ever. 888 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, to get them on. I feel like that's 889 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: a good story. That is a great story. That's the 890 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 1: wedding you officiated. 891 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 4: That's the wedding officiated. 892 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:22,360 Speaker 8: Because for anyone who like me, said no, no Papa, 893 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 8: sometimes that's a mistake. Because of Tanya's story. 894 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,359 Speaker 1: Actually that that brings us full circle. I would I agree. Now, 895 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: I would say tell your mom to go tell the orthodontis, like, hey, 896 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: my daughter saw your son. She's interested, like, pass on 897 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 1: her information. 898 00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 2: Are we going to hear the story or no. 899 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 1: Story? 900 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 4: Ever? I almost feel like I should say it for her. 901 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 4: But okay, so my girlfriend officiated her wedding. Her name 902 00:41:54,840 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 4: is Macy Caitlin Kraeger. Yeah, she's from Tennessee. She was 903 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 4: she was single at the time, and this guy, Rob 904 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 4: was just on a train. They were I don't even 905 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 4: know where. I think they were like in Germany or something, 906 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 4: and they ended up sitting next to Macy's parents, who 907 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,439 Speaker 4: were traveling as well, and somehow they got to talking. 908 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 4: Rob is a chatty, chatty guy, like he's friendly and whatever, 909 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,399 Speaker 4: so he started talking to Macy's parents on this train. 910 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 4: They ended up figuring out that he was moving to Chicago, 911 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 4: where Macy resides. So her parents were like, oh, our 912 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 4: daughter lives there, she can show you around. Let's get 913 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,479 Speaker 4: you know. I can't remember if they got his info 914 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,879 Speaker 4: or they gave him her info or whatever. But Rob 915 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 4: and Mazy end up connecting, and I remember Mazy in 916 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 4: the beginning was like, oh, like my parents are like 917 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 4: I have to show this guy around, like you know 918 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:52,120 Speaker 4: what I mean, cut too. They meet, fall love, get married, 919 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 4: still married, wow, thriving like it's so good. And it 920 00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 4: all happened because her parents put there, put them in 921 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 4: the middle of the equation, and this could. 922 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 2: Happen for the anonymous and the Orthodonist's son I. 923 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: Met them the first time I met you in Vegas, Yes, exactly. Yeah, 924 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,800 Speaker 1: they were in town in Vegas and I was like, 925 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, my friend. She was like so excited 926 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 1: to see them. Not so excited. 927 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 4: Or that goes, but it was my first time meeting him. Oh, 928 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 4: that was my first time meeting him. 929 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,760 Speaker 1: And then she officiated lovely. 930 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, are you still ordained? 931 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 1: Yeah? 932 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 4: I think you're ordained for life? 933 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:26,479 Speaker 2: Oh nice? 934 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, yeah you are. 935 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,279 Speaker 1: I thought you have to renew it. 936 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,879 Speaker 4: No, I think it's like till death for life. Wow, 937 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 4: I can appreciate your wedding. 938 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna really consider you. Actually. 939 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 2: Alyssa recently moved with her boyfriend. It was a thoughtful situation. 940 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 2: They carefully thought about it. It made the most sense 941 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 2: for them save money for their future home and wedding. However, 942 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 2: growing up in a Christian household, living with a boyfriend 943 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 2: is a big no no, and therefore I have not 944 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 2: told my parents about it. I thought Beca might have 945 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 2: some insight on this because she had a similar upbringing 946 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 2: to mine. Should I tell my parents to deal with 947 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 2: the backlash or keep it to myself? They love my boyfriend, 948 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,879 Speaker 2: this could change their opinions my boyfriend is twenty five, 949 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 2: I'm twenty four. 950 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 1: I mean I used to have way stricter thoughts on 951 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 1: this where I was like, I'd never I don't agree, 952 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 1: like I think you wait till you're married. But now 953 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, you know, I think if you're 954 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: in that place, I personally wouldn't want to do it, 955 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 1: just because I want to have that I think we've 956 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,200 Speaker 1: talked about this before, like I want to have that 957 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:28,480 Speaker 1: time to my like last months being single, Like even 958 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,880 Speaker 1: if I'm engaged and having my own I love my 959 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,399 Speaker 1: space and I want to like really embrace that before 960 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: I decide to get married. So that's my personal take 961 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: on it now. But I also think that if you're 962 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 1: in a place and you feel like you're like ready 963 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: to take that step and move in together, then I 964 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't hide that because I mean, what are the they're 965 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,399 Speaker 1: gonna Are they not going to come over one day 966 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:52,600 Speaker 1: and be like why is all their stuff together? 967 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, hiding things is never twenty sixteen, Like. 968 00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 1: Not like that's so twenty sixteen as all just saying yeah, wow, 969 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 1: you're on a good one. 970 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,800 Speaker 2: It's like not a thing like I hate everything that 971 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 2: year that was such a year for hiding things. 972 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just saying it's like a thing of the past, 973 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:09,959 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like you don't tell people 974 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 4: your age, you don't, you know what I mean. Like 975 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 4: now it's just like transparently to live your life. 976 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: Like if you if you don't have a problem moving 977 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,400 Speaker 1: in with your boyfriend and it's what you want to do, 978 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: then like you made that decision for that reason, so 979 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,360 Speaker 1: own it. And even if it's awkward for like months 980 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 1: to a year, they're going to get over it. 981 00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 2: You're going for a few weeks and there's things. 982 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 4: If it's not this, it's gonna be something else. Right 983 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 4: for me, it was like my religion. But like my 984 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,799 Speaker 4: parents are all for me living with my significant other 985 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 4: before proposal or marriage. They're like all about that. I 986 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,480 Speaker 4: think they're just like make it happen times a dicken, 987 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:49,240 Speaker 4: whatever it takes. 988 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:58,960 Speaker 2: Tanya, I was very touched by Caitlin's email, and I 989 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 2: think you guys will be too. But the first part 990 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,279 Speaker 2: of it is a question. She's twenty three, living in 991 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,719 Speaker 2: her first apartment by herself. She parks in the third 992 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 2: floor and she says a super cute guy drive past 993 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 2: her when she's leaving her vice versa. She's tried to 994 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,200 Speaker 2: park next to his truck, but she's never an end 995 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 2: in face to face. Do you have any tips, Tanya? 996 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 2: I thought about using your air drop trick, but the 997 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:17,800 Speaker 2: reception in the garage is terrible. 998 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,040 Speaker 1: Don't do the air drop. 999 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 4: Now the air drop trick is really making some It 1000 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 4: really is resonating. 1001 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 2: But before we get to the advice there, she said, ps. 1002 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,160 Speaker 2: I made my mom listen to the podcast on a 1003 00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 2: road trip to Florida, and now she's all caught up. 1004 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 2: We talk every week about the latest podcast. So I 1005 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 2: owe y'all a huge thank you for providing a way 1006 00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,359 Speaker 2: to bond me and my mom. I couldn't get through 1007 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 2: this without crying. I truly am so grateful. 1008 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,800 Speaker 1: Oh that makes me want to craw, isn't That's sweet? 1009 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 2: M Yeah, So how do we get Kaitlin to meet this? 1010 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:46,359 Speaker 6: Oh? 1011 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 2: Beccainya her little teary right now? 1012 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 1: Really sweet? That's just so nice. It's like that's I mean, 1013 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: this podcast is so fun and we like obviously take 1014 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,800 Speaker 1: it serious, like and love it. It's so lighthearted and fun. 1015 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: But like I hear things like that and I'm like, wow, 1016 00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 1: that's really how they make an impact on people's life, and. 1017 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 4: It's like we're all we're like in a community of people, 1018 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:13,480 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like we're like actually like 1019 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,759 Speaker 4: doing life with people. And it's like so weird that 1020 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 4: like so cool. 1021 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:24,640 Speaker 1: Okay, oh all right, unexpected. 1022 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,800 Speaker 4: Caitlin, I'm like, not even on my periods. 1023 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:28,880 Speaker 1: He did you cried? 1024 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 9: What did you cry? 1025 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: Oh? Care to share? Baba Goanna? Tanya found? But I 1026 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 1: found like the last thing I cleaned, Like, there was 1027 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 1: one thing under my nightstand. I picked it up and 1028 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 1: it was a card and it was from Robert for 1029 00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 1: my birthday. And it was like the sweet I mean, 1030 00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 1: it was like the sweetest card. And I read it 1031 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I was like, he's so sweet. 1032 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,360 Speaker 1: And she reads it and I would give it her. 1033 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 1: She's like cry. She's like, it wasn't even to me. 1034 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,360 Speaker 4: I'm a letter to me and I'm sobbing, like crying 1035 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 4: reading this. 1036 00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 1: It's so nice. 1037 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it seems superfluous now, but she's trying 1038 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 2: to meet this guy in the in the parking garage. 1039 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 2: Do have any advice for. 1040 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Okay, yes, okay, yes, Why don't we 1041 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 4: leave a little note on the car cute. I like that, Yeah, 1042 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 4: and leave your Instagram handle. I know this sounds so cheesy, 1043 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 4: but that way he can look you up, getting to 1044 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 4: see what he's working with, and then you know, if 1045 00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,839 Speaker 4: he reaches out he really wants to like go out 1046 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,839 Speaker 4: with you. And if he doesn't reach out, it got 1047 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,600 Speaker 4: blown away in the wind and a terrible rain. 1048 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,880 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's he's just not that into you stuff. 1049 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 1: We're not doing that anymore. 1050 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:38,879 Speaker 2: What is the note? 1051 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 1: The note says, hey, I know I see it. We 1052 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 1: pass each other all the time. I'm always hoping. 1053 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 4: Or just wanted to say, Hi, I'm your neighbor. Would 1054 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 4: love to get a drink if you're If you're game, 1055 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:53,880 Speaker 4: I don't see a ring on your finger. 1056 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 1: No, raame. It's like I would just leave a key 1057 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,000 Speaker 1: little note and be like, Hi, I'm I'm Caitlin, and 1058 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 1: I and your one of your neighbors and I just 1059 00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,919 Speaker 1: want to say hi. Maybe we can get together sometime 1060 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:05,720 Speaker 1: if you're available. 1061 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 4: Here's my Instagram. 1062 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:08,640 Speaker 2: Here's what you do, Here's what you do. 1063 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 3: You say, Hey, I'm really sorry about this, but I'm 1064 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 3: afraid there's been an accident. You slammed into my heart 1065 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 3: here's my here's my insurance Instagram handle. I'm fully covered. 1066 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: Really funny. 1067 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 4: It's actually really funny. 1068 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,359 Speaker 1: I like I would. I would be like, I'm looking 1069 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: this guy up me too. There you go. Thank you. 1070 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:38,680 Speaker 1: That was such a sweet I. 1071 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 4: Need, we need Caitlin to keep us posted. So please 1072 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 4: send us photos of this note and let us know 1073 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 4: if you guys end up going out and you and 1074 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 4: your mom, yeah, I wish we knew your mom's name. 1075 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,319 Speaker 2: And I wanted to be one more here because Christiana 1076 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 2: emailed us, she's such a Becca. This might be extreme Becca, 1077 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,680 Speaker 2: this might be two becka for Becca question, why is 1078 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,759 Speaker 2: it necessary to share the bed when you get married 1079 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 2: or move in together. I'm just saying it seems a 1080 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 2: whole lot less comfortable. I mean, if I want to 1081 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 2: cover hog, then I want to cover hog. If my 1082 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 2: body wants to go spread eagle, well, then by golly, 1083 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 2: I want to be able to sleep spread eagle. If 1084 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 2: my significant other snores, nah ah, honey, I don't want 1085 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 2: to leave beauty sleep over that nonsense. Don't get me wrong. 1086 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 2: I will love my significant other. It has nothing to 1087 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,120 Speaker 2: do with that. It's just like, can I love them 1088 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:29,839 Speaker 2: for the seventeen hours, I'm not sleeping. I could also 1089 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 2: choose to sleep in the same bed some nights, you know, 1090 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 2: for reasons, but like, would it also be acceptable to 1091 00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,120 Speaker 2: not do it every night? Throw this out to a 1092 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,120 Speaker 2: few friends and they shunned the idea and told me 1093 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 2: I would scar my husband and any future children. Asking 1094 00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 2: for a friend, it's me, I'm the friend. Love you, guys. 1095 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to be friends with her so bad. 1096 00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 1: I've had this conversation so many times with people, and 1097 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 1: every time I'm judged so hard that I've like just 1098 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,399 Speaker 1: quit bringing it up because I'm like, I'm not saying 1099 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 1: we never sleep in the same bed, but I'm not 1100 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,879 Speaker 1: opposed to having an extra room where I'm like, hey, 1101 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my own space tonight and you're gonna 1102 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 1: have your own space tonight. I can't imagine that every 1103 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:12,160 Speaker 1: guy is like just wanting to cuddle every night. Yes, 1104 00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 1: and I don't think so. 1105 00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,400 Speaker 4: Not a cuddle. It's not like you just like are 1106 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 4: a constant like forking every night, but like here spooning. 1107 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, It's not like you're like a chad like 1108 00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 4: glued to each other's sides the whole night. But like 1109 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 4: sleeping with your significant other, that's like so special. 1110 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think you can do that, like three 1111 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:38,879 Speaker 1: nights and separate four nights. I'm just saying I think 1112 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,480 Speaker 1: that if you actually one of my friend No, no, no, 1113 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: you're most people are agree with you. But I had 1114 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 1: a friend and she posted a Instagram story the other 1115 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,360 Speaker 1: night and there were she and her husband were in 1116 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 1: a hotel room and there was two like full beds 1117 00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 1: in it, and she was like sleeping in separate beds tonight. 1118 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, Wow, this is goals for. 1119 00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,440 Speaker 5: Me and she. 1120 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if people still say that, but she 1121 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:04,200 Speaker 1: was like he asked. He was like, hey, I mean, 1122 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: can we just sleep in separate beds tonight? And honestly 1123 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,120 Speaker 1: that if he brought it up, my feelings would probably 1124 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 1: be hurt. 1125 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go, so flip that around. 1126 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,520 Speaker 1: I would just like to have a conversation and be like, hey, 1127 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not feeling one percent and I 1128 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 1: don't want to get too sick. So you. 1129 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 4: Three nights a week the rest of your life. 1130 00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 1: I get it, And I like understand that because I'm 1131 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,879 Speaker 1: in my head, I'm like, I see where that would 1132 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,560 Speaker 1: hurt feelings either way on either side. However, I know 1133 00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: both parties would be like that at some point would 1134 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:38,799 Speaker 1: be like that's great. 1135 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. Then you go on a business trapping a hotel 1136 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,400 Speaker 2: and you get a whole bed, You're like, oh yeah, and. 1137 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,840 Speaker 1: You miss them. You're like, oh, honey, I miss you? 1138 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 4: How much room? 1139 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 5: I head? 1140 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, this would be perfect for you, but you're not here, 1141 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 1: so it's all mine. 1142 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 3: I know Alison would love to sleep in a separate 1143 00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 3: bed because she's like five four and I am six 1144 00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,239 Speaker 3: to two, and I I I'm pretty wild and when 1145 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 3: I sleep there's a lot of a lot of action 1146 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 3: going on. And we just bought we bought a really 1147 00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:14,160 Speaker 3: big bed. Yeah, there's like separate hemispheres now, which is I. 1148 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 4: Feel like the key to is healthy marriage is a big, 1149 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 4: big bed and two bathrooms. 1150 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:24,240 Speaker 1: Right, I'm all about that. But I want to say, Christiana, 1151 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't want I think this is what I'm hoping 1152 00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,840 Speaker 1: for people like you and me, that we meet someone 1153 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 1: that we are so excited to get into bed with 1154 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: every night and can't wait to see them after a 1155 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,000 Speaker 1: long day of being at work and doing our own thing, 1156 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,840 Speaker 1: and we can't wait for those hopefully ten hours of 1157 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 1: sleep together, and that's what I'm hoping for us. So 1158 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,480 Speaker 1: keep the faith. Don't let the people judge you if 1159 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 1: you have this feeling, because I'm right there with you, sister. 1160 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 2: All right, before we wrap, shout out to the Facebook group. 1161 00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 2: It is scrubbing in with Beccatelly on Facebook. They've been 1162 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 2: doing the wedding hashtags on there. 1163 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:02,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. 1164 00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:03,400 Speaker 2: It is great. 1165 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:04,840 Speaker 1: I wish I had a There's. 1166 00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,520 Speaker 2: So many great ideas that people come up with. 1167 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:08,839 Speaker 1: So creative, so clever. 1168 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 4: And did you see the cute San Diego meet up 1169 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 4: that they'd had. 1170 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:14,400 Speaker 2: Five girls got together in San Diego, first ever scrubbing 1171 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 2: and meet ups. 1172 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 1: It just makes me so happy. 1173 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 2: That is nice. I want to get their name so 1174 00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 2: we can shout them out. 1175 00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:20,840 Speaker 1: Are you get them right now? 1176 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:21,880 Speaker 2: I'm going to look it up right now? 1177 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 1: Okay. 1178 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,640 Speaker 2: Also, Brandy wanted to know how to get her husband 1179 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,880 Speaker 2: to listen to the podcast you posted that, and my 1180 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 2: answer is you don't. I think this is your thing 1181 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,880 Speaker 2: with your friends or whatever they do. 1182 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 1: You really want them involved, let them listen to the 1183 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: fart story. I'll suck anyone write in that is true. 1184 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 2: Let's see Shout out to Brie Williams. 1185 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,359 Speaker 1: All right, well, shout out to Brie and the five, 1186 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: the other four girls who got together. We loved it. 1187 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing it. 1188 00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 2: Let us know if those are happening. 1189 00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 1: I know I was gonna say, if you meet up 1190 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 1: with each other, text with each other through the Facebook group, 1191 00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,160 Speaker 1: post pictures, we want to see it all. 1192 00:54:59,320 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1193 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: So fun, such a fun community. 1194 00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:01,560 Speaker 4: I love it. 1195 00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,360 Speaker 1: So I cannot say enough about how much I love it. 1196 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 4: I know, I really enjoyed our Facebook live on Saturday. 1197 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,560 Speaker 1: I know we'll have to do that regularly. We'll like 1198 00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,640 Speaker 1: let people know now so that it's not a surprise 1199 00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 1: on a whim. 1200 00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so when's the next one. If you're gonna let 1201 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:14,800 Speaker 2: them know. 1202 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm not a good plan. This is hard, you know, 1203 00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: it's hard. I know that that's what we need to do, 1204 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 1: but realistically, yeah. 1205 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 2: It was the middle of the night in the East Coast. 1206 00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 2: It was just spur of the moment. But you had 1207 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:27,839 Speaker 2: like almost three hundred people in there. 1208 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 1: Oh wait, yeah, we had a good view. Yeah, and 1209 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 1: we posted it so it's like still up there right, 1210 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can see it. 1211 00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah cool. 1212 00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:38,160 Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for our emails. I wish. We 1213 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,520 Speaker 1: have so many emails that we don't get to get to, 1214 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,720 Speaker 1: but keep sending them in. That's scrubbing in at iHeartMedia 1215 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,719 Speaker 1: dot com. Continue to post on the Facebook group anything else? 1216 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 4: I know, I feel like we missed something, but I 1217 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:51,840 Speaker 4: guess I'll just have to table it. 1218 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,400 Speaker 1: We have another one next week, all right, and I 1219 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:58,920 Speaker 1: can't wait. I can I literally cannot wait. I already 1220 00:55:58,960 --> 00:55:59,439 Speaker 1: miss y'all. 1221 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,360 Speaker 4: I'm really him too, And I'm really impressed with our 1222 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 4: Derek Shepherd eulogy. I'm proud of that. 1223 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:03,839 Speaker 2: That was nice. 1224 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1225 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 1: I was sitting there listening and it felt like like 1226 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,399 Speaker 1: you've thought about it before. 1227 00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:12,359 Speaker 4: He is still very missed, very miss and very much 1228 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:13,399 Speaker 4: alive in all of our hearts. 1229 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,160 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, sure is okay. So thank y'all so 1230 00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 1: much for scrubbing in today. We love y'all. Have an 1231 00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:24,880 Speaker 1: amazing week, have an amazing day, life being nice to 1232 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 1: each other. Time of death twelve seventeen, I was like, wait,