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Speaker 3: We do a lot of dating segments on this show,
Speaker 3: trying to help out single people, but dating with kids
Speaker 3: that's a whole different beast.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that very often.
Speaker 3: I know Brook's been trying it out on the side
Speaker 3: for months. Never seemed more tired entire life my husband
Speaker 3: and that's it, among others. But one of our listeners
Speaker 3: says he is a single dad and he's proud of it. Unfortunately,
Speaker 3: that could also have been his downfall and the reason
Speaker 3: he's not getting a call back. And even he admits
Speaker 3: that it was a mistake. What happened? You're gonna hear
Speaker 3: it in your second Date Update Zaddy edition coming up
Speaker 3: next Second Date Update talking. There's a message here.
Speaker 4: My best friend you're not getting So it's a jam
Speaker 4: first of all record and I'm playing.
Speaker 3: This old school song because we've got a very special
Speaker 3: a caller on the phone for a second date update.
Speaker 3: He's a proud single dad on the hunt for romance.
Speaker 3: This song is about the kid's best friend, his dad.
Speaker 2: A dog.
Speaker 3: Way to kill. Like the vibe of the segment before
Speaker 3: we even started, because we got the single dad on
Speaker 3: the line right now hoping to get a second date.
Speaker 3: His name is Gig. Sorry, is that right? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Gig Gig.
Speaker 3: That's a unique name.
Speaker 2: Have you heard that song before?
Speaker 6: Gig Man?
Speaker 5: I have.
Speaker 3: It's his ring tone, Gig, Welcome to the Daycare of love.
Speaker 3: Tell us about tell us about your dating life. Bro.
Speaker 5: Awesome, guys, thanks for having me. First off, Man, this
Speaker 5: is a good time.
Speaker 2: Man Es, that's sweet. Gig, thank you what's going on?
Speaker 2: Did you meet somebody you liked?
Speaker 3: Gosh?
Speaker 5: Okay, let me tell you about it.
Speaker 7: Okay, so.
Speaker 3: Sorry you started, Jeff, you meet recently?
Speaker 5: I met Gabriella. I met her online?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: What initially attracted you to her? So?
Speaker 5: I have two kids, right, okay, and I'm a single dad.
Speaker 5: I got fifty to fifty custody with them. But let
Speaker 5: me tell you, I'm a fun dad.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: I like to do fun things.
Speaker 3: With them, you know what I mean, like all the
Speaker 3: cool stuff, happy hour, cool dad.
Speaker 8: No, I bet you just like take them out to
Speaker 8: do actual activities and stuff that they like.
Speaker 5: Right, yes, exactly. So when I went out, I went
Speaker 5: out with Gabriella. Right, I'm not a huge romantic dinner.
Speaker 9: Type of guy.
Speaker 5: So I booked two tickets to the Children's Museum for.
Speaker 2: Our day the children. Wait, did you bring your kids
Speaker 2: with you on the first day?
Speaker 5: No? No, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: I was like, bro, like, do we have to pretend
Speaker 2: that's fun?
Speaker 3: I should have told you why he's not calling. I
Speaker 3: think all of our expressions changed. Okay, Well you're funny man.
Speaker 3: Where where did you really go with Gabriella.
Speaker 8: So we went to dinner and we did go carts. Yeah,
Speaker 8: we went to the outdoor track and because I've been
Speaker 8: there with my kids many times, and let me tell you,
Speaker 8: it is a blast.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's super fun.
Speaker 1: Did you go to those ones where you actually have
Speaker 1: to like wear a jumpsuit and like the helmets.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah it was yes. Okay, let me tell
Speaker 5: you this leg Yeah, this guy he legitimately rolled out
Speaker 5: of his car. The ambulance came and it was yeah,
Speaker 5: it was. It was a whole deal. As I'm telling.
Speaker 2: You, like, someone was severely injured while you were there.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, but he was good.
Speaker 5: He was good, and they picked him up. He gave
Speaker 5: us the thumbs up from afar.
Speaker 1: He was like, actually had a car race.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, was that a moment between you two.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So after that, after they you know, clear up that
Speaker 5: little scene. We finished our laps and we high five
Speaker 5: and we hug, we do we cheered, you know, we
Speaker 5: went across the street, we grabbed some food. It was cool. Man.
Speaker 5: The thing is, though, the thing that I worry about most,
Speaker 5: it's like, it's God's keep me up at night.
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Is that I just I don't think I asked her
Speaker 5: enough questions. Oh yeah, you da, That's what I think
Speaker 5: it is, you know, because during the day we saw
Speaker 5: the connection. You know, there's such a strong connection that
Speaker 5: I wanted to share about my kids.
Speaker 2: Oh so you talked about your children a lot. Is
Speaker 2: she a mom?
Speaker 7: She's not.
Speaker 5: No, she has not a mom. She does not have
Speaker 5: any kids. But you know, she did say that she's
Speaker 5: open to the idea of dating someone with kids. Okay,
Speaker 5: so we did get into that a little bit.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, I mean I could see that, Regrett,
Speaker 1: and you're a high energy guy, and you're at a
Speaker 1: higher energy place like you're probably.
Speaker 3: Just amped up, just nearly witnessed somebody die trying to
Speaker 3: fill the awkwardness.
Speaker 2: When you guys went to dinner, were you able to
Speaker 2: connect there?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did.
Speaker 5: We talked quite a bit, actually, but you know, I
Speaker 5: wish I would have got to know her a little
Speaker 5: a little bit more.
Speaker 3: Okay, we have a whole lifetime to get to know
Speaker 3: them if this ends up working. So I would you
Speaker 3: yourself up about it too much? Yeah, you're a lot
Speaker 3: of time, So tell us tell us about how the
Speaker 3: date ended.
Speaker 5: We jove separate right, And I walked her to a
Speaker 5: car and you sat there for a moment, and I
Speaker 5: honestly thought she's gonna kiss me on the lips. I
Speaker 5: thought I was going to close the deal right there. Really, yeah, man,
Speaker 5: I'm telling you it was.
Speaker 7: It was something.
Speaker 1: You can feel it, right, Like I can tell you
Speaker 1: around kids a lot, because you even say it like
Speaker 1: a kid, dude, a kiss like on the list. Wow, Corona,
Speaker 1: if you were, if you were feeling it, how come
Speaker 1: you didn't go in for a kiss?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 7: Man?
Speaker 5: Because I wanted her to do the first move.
Speaker 3: King, I like that, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Probably didnt happened?
Speaker 3: Then? What did happen?
Speaker 5: I'm sad to say she kissing on the cheek. There's
Speaker 5: a little little bit peck on the cheek.
Speaker 3: Okay, I've never heard this before, but is it possible
Speaker 3: to be a bad cheek? Kiss her your cheek? She
Speaker 3: kissed him, That's what I'm saying. Maybe his cheek was yeah.
Speaker 5: Well I did come from the race track, so you know,
Speaker 5: could have been dirty.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Well, we're gonna find out for sure.
Speaker 3: Let's come back. We'll call Gabriella and we're going to
Speaker 3: ask her why she doesn't want to go out with
Speaker 3: an awesome single dad named Jay.
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying your energy, Gabe.
Speaker 3: I am yeah, not listening to you said that much.
Speaker 3: You're going to come back refocused. Second, right after this
Speaker 3: second date update, we've been talking to a single dad
Speaker 3: named Gig. G I G I love the music intros.
Speaker 2: This one not a daycare Jeffrey, Well.
Speaker 3: I'm just playing the music that Gig would feel most
Speaker 3: comfortable hearing in his daily life.
Speaker 2: He went an adult date.
Speaker 3: That's the thing he's not getting. Everybody can relate. He's
Speaker 3: not getting a callback from his date Gabriella because they
Speaker 3: did a race track restaurant, ended with some hot cheek
Speaker 3: kissing action, and you could just tell from talking to
Speaker 3: him a little bit that he's a good guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I also want to say the other reason I'm personally
Speaker 3: pulling for you, Gig, is that he told us early
Speaker 3: on in the call he felt like he didn't ask
Speaker 3: his date Gabriella enough questions about herself. I think that
Speaker 3: takes a lot to admit that, especially from a guy
Speaker 3: faving himself accountable for his own words.
Speaker 1: I think even recognizing it is you know that's.
Speaker 3: The so did you forget his name again, it's Gig.
Speaker 2: I think Gig would look I mean, I think Gabrielle.
Speaker 1: Would looks but Gig, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: of course, yeah, maybe she didn't feel that way, maybe
Speaker 1: she didn't notice, but maybe.
Speaker 2: There's something else terribly that went wrong. And I just
Speaker 2: you know that happens a lot on these So I'm
Speaker 2: just trying to set him up. There's a positive guy.
Speaker 3: There's no way we're gonna find out he's some awful,
Speaker 3: horrible person.
Speaker 10: No.
Speaker 1: I just like to, you know, like set people up
Speaker 1: for the worst, hope for the best.
Speaker 3: What we really need right now is some BG big
Speaker 3: gig energy. I like it. The Gig knows what that's about.
Speaker 3: Let's call Gabrielle to see what she has to say.
Speaker 3: Here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Gabriella.
Speaker 5: Yeah, who's my name?
Speaker 3: Is Jeff from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning that you're on right now with the
Speaker 3: entire Brook and Jeffrey crew.
Speaker 6: Bye.
Speaker 10: Okay, all right, all right.
Speaker 3: Fun, Yeah, we have something fun that we want to
Speaker 3: talk to you about. A date that you went on
Speaker 3: the other night with a guy named Gig.
Speaker 5: Did you already talk to him or.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you didn't say which one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's only one Gig that we know, and we
Speaker 3: did talk to him a little bit. Heard about your guys' hangout.
Speaker 3: He's reaching out to us right now to do this
Speaker 3: is called a second date update, because we're trying to
Speaker 3: help him figure out if anything went wrong that day.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean obviously there was reason.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, Well, I mean just can you tell us overall,
Speaker 3: like what did you think of Gig?
Speaker 10: I mean, the date was fine, especially in the beginning,
Speaker 10: Like he has a lot of energy. I don't know
Speaker 10: if you guys noticed that, but it's like it's a
Speaker 10: little intense.
Speaker 2: Wasn't it too much for you?
Speaker 1: I know that like sometimes when people can't turn it off,
Speaker 1: that it can actually become exhausting at some point us energetic, overwhelmed.
Speaker 3: He was very positive when we talked to him.
Speaker 10: Definitely definitely, definitely positive. Okay, And I think it's wonderful
Speaker 10: that he loves being a father. I do not have children,
Speaker 10: but I open to dating people with children. I respect it,
Speaker 10: all of it, but it was it was a lot.
Speaker 10: We spoke about them. The majority of our conversation.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that wasn't too much for you.
Speaker 10: Then what happened was too much for me.
Speaker 2: Oh there was an incident.
Speaker 10: Yes, So I went to the bathroom and when I
Speaker 10: came back, he was just like, two people want to
Speaker 10: meet you, and I was like what and so he
Speaker 10: like pulled out his cell phone and his two sons
Speaker 10: are are on FaceTime and you meet my kids.
Speaker 3: Okay, well we did not know that there were a
Speaker 3: FaceTime call with his children.
Speaker 2: Did that happen? When where were you guys when.
Speaker 10: That happened in the restaurant?
Speaker 2: That's with no warning, no warning?
Speaker 10: And also like, how many dates do you do? That's
Speaker 10: on this is our first date?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but what if the kids called they happened
Speaker 1: to be on the phone and he didn't. He didn't
Speaker 1: say like meet my date, meet my the lady I'm
Speaker 1: going to take home tonight, right like.
Speaker 10: They said meet my girlfriend or something. I couldn't remember
Speaker 10: what he said, but I.
Speaker 2: Was like, meet my friend, are you she yeah? You sure?
Speaker 2: It wasn't meet my friend.
Speaker 10: And I'm not one hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 10: But it doesn't matter. Like if his kids called during dinner,
Speaker 10: that is fine. You want to step outside, you want
Speaker 10: to talk to your children.
Speaker 7: That's fine.
Speaker 3: I mean, did what were you saying to his kids
Speaker 3: during the FaceTime? How did that go?
Speaker 10: I didn't know what to say, so I just was like, oh,
Speaker 10: it's nice to meet you, and you know, I don't
Speaker 10: I don't want to be mean to children.
Speaker 2: But I was.
Speaker 3: You never want to hear the phrase I don't want
Speaker 3: to be mean to children.
Speaker 2: But wait, how long were you on FaceTime.
Speaker 3: With the kids?
Speaker 10: I mean I made it short and sweet, and I
Speaker 10: was hoping he'd kind of get the hint. But eventually
Speaker 10: I was like, okay, like I'm going to eat.
Speaker 8: So it wasn't the amount of time you spent on
Speaker 8: the phone with the kids.
Speaker 3: It was just the fact that he kind of sprung
Speaker 3: the kids on you.
Speaker 10: Yeah, also like it is our first date, Like is
Speaker 10: that something he often does?
Speaker 5: I would never hear that.
Speaker 3: I don't even think that. I know you're not a
Speaker 3: big fan of having things sprung on you all of
Speaker 3: a sudden, but unfortunately I need to tell you the Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's not the kids top it actually is on the
Speaker 3: other line right now.
Speaker 7: Serious, Hey, I honestly I don't see what the big
Speaker 7: deal is?
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
Speaker 7: I take my kids to my dates. I mean, that's
Speaker 7: part of my life.
Speaker 2: You always do that?
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying, Gabe, that Gig god like.
Speaker 2: Gabri Lag Sorry, Gig, Gig. Is this something you do
Speaker 2: every time?
Speaker 5: You know I'm not the same to say I do
Speaker 5: it every single date?
Speaker 3: You do that on purpose? Like to gauge there, that
Speaker 3: doesn't seem you.
Speaker 8: I just think it's a little ridiculous to have to
Speaker 8: wait six seven months to meet the woman that I'm dating.
Speaker 10: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: There's probably some healthy things in there that you may
Speaker 1: want to talk to, like a family therapist to find some.
Speaker 3: You not recommend our show insulting what you say, Gig,
Speaker 3: we apologize. I think you're fine and you don't need
Speaker 3: any therapy. You're a great dad. Keep talking to Gabriella.
Speaker 5: Gabrielle, listen, listen. I didn't even tell you this, but
Speaker 5: since like I got you on the phone, they both
Speaker 5: really like you. They rated you a seven.
Speaker 3: Five rating rating system of day.
Speaker 7: Gabriella, that's huge. D I ever do that?
Speaker 3: That's the rat.
Speaker 7: I really don't want to talk about what I'm rated.
Speaker 10: I really don't.
Speaker 11: I don't know if that's healthy and it's I mean,
Speaker 11: it's not what Gig is rating you.
Speaker 3: That's what his kids are raising. You know, we got that.
Speaker 3: Don't hold it against Gig. What his kids? What's the scale?
Speaker 3: Like they're rating in a hotness?
Speaker 2: Or is this like maybe.
Speaker 11: I don't want to know their children. They shouldn't be
Speaker 11: raiding people like I don't like Gig. You sound like
Speaker 11: a really positive guy. But maybe that's something you take
Speaker 11: out of your repertoire.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, that might be some fair advice
Speaker 3: for once from Brooks. The other thing, it's like, Dad,
Speaker 3: she's a fwee. I don't like them. Yeah, okay, but
Speaker 3: I think overall, Gabriella, what he's trying to say, they
Speaker 3: really like you. He's just trying to involve you in
Speaker 3: his life because that's the type of fun guy that
Speaker 3: he is really close.
Speaker 8: Speaking of liking you, my five year old son, Eli, Yeah,
Speaker 8: five year old son.
Speaker 5: He made you an ashtray at school?
Speaker 2: Is that amazing?
Speaker 3: Does she look like a smoke girl?
Speaker 5: Is this a joke?
Speaker 2: What school? Is he going to?
Speaker 5: Clay It's a little clay pot. You can do it
Speaker 5: as a candy dish.
Speaker 2: If youf you're not, it's just let's call it that
Speaker 2: to him as well. I mean, okay to the five
Speaker 2: year old.
Speaker 3: I feel a lot of positive vibes at least coming
Speaker 3: from our side and from Gigs side. We just need
Speaker 3: a yes from Gabriella now going on a second date,
Speaker 3: a date.
Speaker 10: That we would pay for absolutely, come on, yeah.
Speaker 3: Gig, I'm sorry man, Like, I know there's definitely a
Speaker 3: match out there for you, it's just not Gabriella.
Speaker 2: And also like maybe it's like.
Speaker 3: Enough, We've got enough, Like you want to.
Speaker 1: Get rid of the race eating system in the ash trays,
Speaker 1: Jeffrey shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Be part of.
Speaker 3: I get what's going on? Gig. Can you have your
Speaker 3: kids go online and rate Brooks what they think of her?
Speaker 5: To date.
Speaker 2: His kids?
Speaker 6: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Okay, let me open up the email. What and Brooks
Speaker 3: score according to get.
Speaker 2: Healthy?
Speaker 3: Okayt say this out. Let's just say we're lucky you
Speaker 3: and him didn't go out.
Speaker 2: Gig and the kids all need a time out.
Speaker 3: Okay, need a time out. Not the cool it seemed
Speaker 3: to be on his side at the beginning until the
Speaker 3: whole rating thing happened. Do you really think it's that
Speaker 3: bad he's involving his kids. Yes, I actually.
Speaker 2: Think it's worse.
Speaker 1: I was trying to be like somewhat soft on him
Speaker 1: because I think his intentions are good.
Speaker 2: It's very damna, Jean.
Speaker 3: Everybody does dating a little bit differently.
Speaker 2: A little differently too, And I'm.
Speaker 3: Sure that there's people on the text board right now
Speaker 3: who want to go out with Gig and wouldn't mind
Speaker 3: being rated by both of his children on the first date.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, beat it out. See point five. That's the
Speaker 3: high score right now. Text in if you want to
Speaker 3: beat its Brook and Jeffrey in.
Speaker 6: The morning, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: When you end a first date with someone and there's
Speaker 3: no kiss, but you have that looming question in your mind,
Speaker 3: wondering am I going to be going out with this
Speaker 3: person again? Oh yeah, let's say you're in the middle.
Speaker 3: How do you find out what they're thinking? Oh no,
Speaker 3: that's actually tapping their phone. I think that's a leak
Speaker 3: like surveillance. Yeah, we're not doing that yet. One of
Speaker 3: our listeners came up with a little trick that forces
Speaker 3: the guy in a polite way to reveal where his
Speaker 3: head is at.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 3: We've never heard this on the show before. You're gonna
Speaker 3: hear it for the first time, and then we'll find
Speaker 3: out if it actually worked. In your second date update.
Speaker 3: Right after this second date updated, got an email from
Speaker 3: a woman named Monica who said she can't believe she's
Speaker 3: not getting another date with lips like these. That was
Speaker 3: all I had to read before I told our producer
Speaker 3: to contact this woman right now. Monica, use those lips
Speaker 3: to say hello to the Brook and Jeffrey family.
Speaker 2: Hello, you sound luscious.
Speaker 1: Yes, luscious lips fer lady too much.
Speaker 3: He's like, hi everyone. Yeah, what do you mean lips
Speaker 3: like these from your email?
Speaker 9: I mean they are very beautiful, full natural.
Speaker 2: I love your confidence coming into this.
Speaker 3: But that sounds like it's been a little bit shook
Speaker 3: because this guy isn't calling you back. What's his name?
Speaker 9: Yeah, name was Nick.
Speaker 3: So tell us about Nick and how you met.
Speaker 9: Yeah, we met on one of the apps, of course,
Speaker 9: but we'd started to meet up for some drinks.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you do any lip prep before a first date? Maybe? Well?
Speaker 9: I actually was working and I was an hour late.
Speaker 12: Oh, I was stuck at work.
Speaker 9: But I did let him know.
Speaker 1: In advance, like in advance enough where he wasn't sitting
Speaker 1: at the restaurant suic or.
Speaker 3: Right before the hour mark.
Speaker 7: Happened about twenty minutes before.
Speaker 9: I thought I was going to get out there because
Speaker 9: you know where we were going. It's near where I
Speaker 9: work and everything, so I thought I was going to
Speaker 9: be there.
Speaker 11: But okay, such, that's not like the worst it could be.
Speaker 3: Well, what was nick reaction when you said you're running
Speaker 3: an hour behind?
Speaker 12: Well, it wasn't.
Speaker 9: I just said I was running late.
Speaker 12: He said he'll see there, and then it turned into an.
Speaker 1: Hour, so he was sitting there waiting for me.
Speaker 12: I told him that it was work deadline. He said,
Speaker 12: take your time.
Speaker 9: I understand. I'll be here.
Speaker 1: Because say that, you know, like he actually waited an
Speaker 1: hour for you.
Speaker 9: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 3: Man, was the date awkward? Like was he upset at all?
Speaker 9: If he was, he didn't say anything or didn't look
Speaker 9: like it. So yeah, so we.
Speaker 12: Had our good conversations some he ordered sushi.
Speaker 9: And then the night was still kind of young. So
Speaker 9: I was like, well, around the corner, there is this
Speaker 9: really good spot to go dancing.
Speaker 12: He seemed excited because he was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 12: I haven't done that years.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he seriously was excited to go out dancing.
Speaker 2: You don't believe a man likes to dance, Jeffrey, you
Speaker 2: love dancing.
Speaker 3: After after he waited an hour, they had dinner and drinks,
Speaker 3: and then he's like, I never dance, but I guess
Speaker 3: this time I will.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 9: I don't think that he was making it up. He
Speaker 9: seemed like he was genuinely interested in doing it.
Speaker 3: He's a good liar.
Speaker 2: Okay, forget how good her lips are.
Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, he'll follow those. Anyways.
Speaker 1: Wait, was it like a club type of dancing or
Speaker 1: was it like country or Latin?
Speaker 9: No, it was in a hotel, you know, probably had
Speaker 9: like a little lounge area.
Speaker 7: But once we.
Speaker 12: Got there we sat down, there was like fire pits,
Speaker 12: you know.
Speaker 9: It was a whole vibe.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so like more romantic than what I pictured
Speaker 1: in my head, like with fire pits and stuff.
Speaker 3: I was picturing like poles going up.
Speaker 7: No, I would not take him to the club.
Speaker 3: Okay, so did you actually dance at this dance?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Like I got up and started dancing. He decided he
Speaker 9: didn't want to dance, even though I trying to coax
Speaker 9: him up, but needed.
Speaker 3: Maybe as stupid question. Were other people dancing too? Or
Speaker 3: was it just you can imagine the fire pits and everything.
Speaker 9: You know, I am a person.
Speaker 7: I will watch to my own drum.
Speaker 2: That's me, okay. And then you show up to a
Speaker 2: place and nobody else Dan.
Speaker 6: If you ever hung out.
Speaker 3: With Brook out while, then you know what this is like.
Speaker 6: Did how can you not.
Speaker 2: Move your body when there's good music? I mean? Did
Speaker 2: I have no shame in my dancing game?
Speaker 3: Well? Maybe maybe that could have been a little bit
Speaker 3: awkward for him to just be sitting there while you
Speaker 3: were the only person in the entire room dancing, Or
Speaker 3: maybe it.
Speaker 2: Was awkward that and that's why he didn't.
Speaker 1: But you would think that, wouldn't he be impressed by
Speaker 1: her confidence and her like zest for life?
Speaker 3: You're really hoping for that, d Brook You.
Speaker 9: Don't really think that somebody would want to live that?
Speaker 3: Okay, live your life like No, it's good. You were
Speaker 3: leading the charge on having fun that night. How did
Speaker 3: you two end it?
Speaker 12: Well, I go him back to where his car was
Speaker 12: and I gave him a hug.
Speaker 9: But I showed him my phone. It was his profile
Speaker 9: picture from the dating app, and I was just like, well,
Speaker 9: what do I do with this?
Speaker 2: Oh that's a funny question.
Speaker 9: Do I delete or do I keep? Make them?
Speaker 3: Tell you? He's like delete it? What did he say?
Speaker 9: He said? Do whatever you like that?
Speaker 1: I don't know what was your vibe? Did that feel
Speaker 1: like a good answer to you?
Speaker 12: I mean I wasn't sure.
Speaker 9: And then he just got this car and rolled out.
Speaker 3: Well, he could be trying to play hard to get
Speaker 3: where it's like, yeah, you know, do whatever you want,
Speaker 3: so hard to get he's not even calling.
Speaker 1: Her, And you'll say, some men don't know how to
Speaker 1: play the line.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Maybe he just like was nervous and
Speaker 3: he didn't know what to say. That's why he had
Speaker 3: to get out.
Speaker 2: He didn't say, don't call it radio stations.
Speaker 3: If he didn't want that, he should have set the
Speaker 3: boundaries early on. So we're gonna call him whether he
Speaker 3: likes it or not. Practically try and get those ellips
Speaker 3: A second date updated after this hold on second date update.
Speaker 3: Doesn't every romantic movie end with the dude hopping in
Speaker 3: his car, peeling out and yelling do whatever you want.
Speaker 10: I don't care.
Speaker 3: They should end that way. It'd be way more realistic,
Speaker 3: because that's what happened to one of our listeners, Monica,
Speaker 3: who showed up an hour late to her date with Nick,
Speaker 3: but once she finally arrived, they had a good time,
Speaker 3: that is till the end of the night, when he
Speaker 3: kind of hopped in his vehicle, left in a hurry,
Speaker 3: and didn't seem very enthusiastic about meeting up another time. Yeah, Brooke,
Speaker 3: didn't your husband come home late smelling like sushi and
Speaker 3: fire pits recently? Or is that just the new scent
Speaker 3: from old spice?
Speaker 1: An he doesn't eat sushi, say he only likes really
Speaker 1: bland chicken breast.
Speaker 2: I know it's not him.
Speaker 3: We'll rule that one out. Yeah, I'm not sure what
Speaker 3: went wrong with Nick, Monica. Do you have any theories?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 9: I actually really thought that everything was great, Okay, I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean maybe we're reading too far in Jeffrey into
Speaker 1: that do whatever you want line, because it could have
Speaker 1: been like it depends on tone, right, could be like
Speaker 1: do whatever you want, like you know, like I it
Speaker 1: wasn't like that, or it could have been his hair,
Speaker 1: do whatever you want, whatever you need.
Speaker 3: Let me out.
Speaker 2: It's aye a lot.
Speaker 3: Of emotions that could have been. We have no idea.
Speaker 3: We got to just reach out to Nick and see
Speaker 3: where his head is at. You ready, Monica, It could
Speaker 3: just be his thing. We call him and he picks
Speaker 3: up and he's like, do whatever you want. Yeah, his catchphrase,
Speaker 3: let's find out. I'm gonna dial his number. Here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 3: is this Nick?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: Yes, you don't have to be afraid. We're just a
Speaker 3: friendly neighborhood radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: Coming.
Speaker 3: Don't fear us. What This is a segment that we're doing.
Speaker 3: It's called a second Date Update, and we're reaching out
Speaker 3: because you went out with one of our listeners the
Speaker 3: other night named Monica.
Speaker 2: Remember Monica with the good lips?
Speaker 7: I mean I remember Monica.
Speaker 3: She remembers you too, and she had a great time
Speaker 3: hanging out with you the other night. Was thinking that
Speaker 3: there was going to be another date that came from it,
Speaker 3: but it hasn't happened yet. So really we're trying to
Speaker 3: help her figure out if there's a reason for.
Speaker 7: That she thought there was going to be another date.
Speaker 3: Cool Wow, whoa waiting?
Speaker 2: Cool Wow?
Speaker 3: We hear the ton We're okay, We're good. We're kind
Speaker 3: of optimistic for her, but we don't know what the
Speaker 3: reason is. If there is one, maybe you could help
Speaker 3: help us understand, because.
Speaker 1: It sounds like it should be really obvious to.
Speaker 2: Her and it's not.
Speaker 7: I mean, I assume you talked to her. I don't
Speaker 7: know what she's told you.
Speaker 2: She did say she was an hour late. Is that?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Yees, she was over an hour late.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you waited.
Speaker 7: I was there early. I was already there when she
Speaker 7: texted me.
Speaker 2: You were there twenty minutes early? Because she said she
Speaker 2: texted twenty minutes. Don't do that.
Speaker 7: Oh no, yeah, I got there early because it's a
Speaker 7: busy place. Parking's kind of tough. I wanted to be comfortable.
Speaker 7: I wanted to be ready when she was there.
Speaker 2: Okay, that is really thoughtful.
Speaker 3: But she did ask you to get there twenty minutes early,
Speaker 3: so you can't blame it on her.
Speaker 11: This is why you're not supposed to be You can
Speaker 11: not about the hour, not the hour to one.
Speaker 1: Yes, it does sound from her description that you guys
Speaker 1: were able to move past that.
Speaker 2: I mean, she definitely felt bad.
Speaker 7: You know, I get it. Stuff happens, so I thought,
Speaker 7: you know, I'd give it a shot. See how things go?
Speaker 3: Okay, right, How was the rest of the date after
Speaker 3: she got there?
Speaker 7: Well, you know, pretty quickly I regretted not ever talking
Speaker 7: to her on the phone beforehand. For moment one. The
Speaker 7: vibes are just real bad.
Speaker 3: Okay, it was the attitude.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 7: Well, she comes in hot, She's like, sorry, I'm late.
Speaker 7: You should know. I never eat after six?
Speaker 2: Oh is it after six?
Speaker 7: Wait?
Speaker 2: Is it after six?
Speaker 7: At this point, it's around seven, Like we planned on
Speaker 7: getting dinner at six. Okay, I think she eats all
Speaker 7: my food?
Speaker 2: Well wait, what what do you mean?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'd already ordered it because she was like, I'm
Speaker 7: on my way, and I was like, fod'll be here
Speaker 7: ready for her?
Speaker 2: Oh no, And.
Speaker 7: She's like, no, I'm not gonna eat any of it,
Speaker 7: and then proceeds to eat all of it.
Speaker 1: She'd I mean, but the good news is you weren't
Speaker 1: ordering for just yourself right when you put the order in.
Speaker 2: When she was arriving, you were planning on her.
Speaker 7: Read Yeah, I was planning out her eating roughly half
Speaker 7: of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, eat faster than keep up? Wait, what do you
Speaker 2: mean how about you? She eat?
Speaker 7: She ate all of it? She ate my half, she
Speaker 7: ate her hat. There was also the wine.
Speaker 3: She drank all the wine.
Speaker 7: The waitress came up and asked if she would like
Speaker 7: a drink. She doesn't even look at the server, and
Speaker 7: it's just like, give me a cab. That's what she yelled.
Speaker 7: She'll give me a cab, like a cabernet.
Speaker 3: Okay, what's wrong with that?
Speaker 7: The server then asked what kind, and she just goes
Speaker 7: give me the best waves her hand and goes give
Speaker 7: me the best expenses. Later, she's like, let's do another.
Speaker 7: Oh wow, And I'm like, no, I think you're done.
Speaker 7: I think you're cut off at three.
Speaker 2: Oh god, did it work for her?
Speaker 7: It was getting so expensive?
Speaker 9: Oh my god, I've heard enough of this little Oh.
Speaker 7: Okay, you are lying.
Speaker 3: Hold on, Monica, whoa man? Slow down a little bit, Nick,
Speaker 3: I need to inform you, just real quick. That's Monica.
Speaker 3: She's been quietly waiting on the other line to jump
Speaker 3: in and talk to you.
Speaker 9: Seething should be the other answer. I've been over here
Speaker 9: seating because he is a liar. I ate everything.
Speaker 8: Really, you had not one iota of that sushi.
Speaker 9: You didn't have a couple of cocktails, your damn self.
Speaker 3: Are you okay, Monica? You know I appreciate your passion.
Speaker 3: Let's let Nick respond to you.
Speaker 7: Nick, Monica, as always, that's a pleasure something which specifically
Speaker 7: I made up from that story because I'm pretty sure
Speaker 7: I told the truth. I didn't make up anything.
Speaker 9: You had no sishi, You had no sishi.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you ate all of it. I didn't have time
Speaker 7: to eat.
Speaker 9: Any other There is no shame in that over there,
Speaker 9: major painting. Okay, Yeah, I'm just shoveling it in.
Speaker 2: I think it's fine. Like maybe you just were so
Speaker 2: excited about the date you just weren't paying attention to.
Speaker 9: His knees whatever, he had some food. Okay, he's making.
Speaker 2: Out that the whole time.
Speaker 7: She also thought I was ugly.
Speaker 2: Now, I don't believe you. There, she told you ugly
Speaker 2: to your.
Speaker 9: Face, right, yeah, like I would call you ugly.
Speaker 7: But yeah, I'm calling a radio ship because I one
Speaker 7: in another date.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: You you couldn't believe anybody would message me on my
Speaker 7: dating purpose?
Speaker 3: Who did you?
Speaker 10: I mean?
Speaker 9: Yeah, he said he would get a lot of messages.
Speaker 7: I was a little shocked.
Speaker 3: But wait, you think it's a bad profile pic.
Speaker 1: I mean a man who waits an hour for a
Speaker 1: date probably doesn't have a lot of other options.
Speaker 7: Oh, I mean.
Speaker 2: That is I mean that is a dig.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry we're focusing so much on the negatives here.
Speaker 3: There must have been some positive things that you liked
Speaker 3: about the date.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I remember one thing would happen on the date.
Speaker 7: And as I asked if a medical assistant was the
Speaker 7: same as a nurse, and you just told me to
Speaker 7: Google it's ask questions. I mean, that's what Google is
Speaker 7: there for. You said your job was as a medical assistant,
Speaker 7: and I was making conversation.
Speaker 9: I made a conversation back Google it.
Speaker 2: I kind of like that. I might steal that too.
Speaker 3: Someone's like your personality, you know, like what is that
Speaker 3: You're like? Google it.
Speaker 2: I wish more than anything, I was a table sitting
Speaker 2: next year table on a first day. I'm watching the
Speaker 2: whole dancing at the club happening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't even get it to the dances.
Speaker 6: I'm good.
Speaker 2: Love it was a hotel lobby for Nick.
Speaker 3: All right, So this this whole call is kind of
Speaker 3: getting away from us here. We we were hoping that
Speaker 3: after like the hour long bounce back, that we could
Speaker 3: maybe salvage this, and there's still a chance I'm.
Speaker 9: About to go out with him.
Speaker 10: I'm going to go out with liars.
Speaker 3: Well, he's not a liar. He's an ugly liar, at
Speaker 3: least according to Monica.
Speaker 7: So we should give him your word, your words.
Speaker 5: I didn't say that.
Speaker 3: I know what was said.
Speaker 7: You did.
Speaker 3: You did all I can do. All I can do
Speaker 3: here is offered to send you guys out on another date.
Speaker 5: And I'm good.
Speaker 1: We figured Monica, you are a spirited woman and I
Speaker 1: appreciate you.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 9: I've already had some kissers anyway, so it doesn't.
Speaker 3: Matter you've been kissing.
Speaker 10: Us.
Speaker 3: Ask him for this.
Speaker 9: I got a roster, I am got NBA.
Speaker 7: You gotta have a st bottle.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, just got from the team. Nicky been
Speaker 3: bench dude. I'm sorry, man.
Speaker 7: How will I ever get over it?
Speaker 6: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning?
Speaker 3: Does anybody else think Monica is going to look back
Speaker 3: at this as the one that got away?
Speaker 2: You're the only one, are you sure?
Speaker 12: Think?
Speaker 2: Ye?
Speaker 3: Here's a man who allows you to be as late
Speaker 3: as you want, eat all of the sushi on the plate,
Speaker 3: drink the best wine in the entire establishment. And then
Speaker 3: she puts down his dating profile.
Speaker 2: Wow on it. But he didn't tell her. He was
Speaker 2: like super passive aggressive about it.
Speaker 3: That's as polite as you can get as a man.
Speaker 3: You don't tell her exactly what you're thinking.
Speaker 2: Keep up the drink the wine, buddy.
Speaker 3: Yes, if Monica really does have a roster, I wonder
Speaker 3: when we're going to be hearing from her power forward
Speaker 3: or her shooting guard next, Like, who knows.
Speaker 2: I don't know that she's ever going to come back
Speaker 2: for our help.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she really enjoyed her so.
Speaker 3: I bet you what. She takes a center oft for days.
Speaker 3: He eats the most, so he's probably the most fun
Speaker 3: to go out with because they're big. They're huge. Yes,
Speaker 3: she sounded pretty fired up by it, so I just
Speaker 3: hope she doesn't take it out on the rest of
Speaker 3: her team. But you can today. Yeah, take your dating
Speaker 3: struggles out on us. We don't mind. We'll call that
Speaker 3: person who isn't calling you back and go check out
Speaker 3: all of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts
Speaker 3: at Brook and Jeffrey