Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we're back.
Speaker 2: We're black.
Speaker 3: Jazz calls for jazz hands.
Speaker 2: Hey, how are you manage?
Speaker 3: Oh you know, I got my struggle, my struggle blush on,
Speaker 3: my struggle whip on. We're hanging in there.
Speaker 1: I was so proud of myself because I like did
Speaker 1: a little lightbeat for the first time with him. I
Speaker 1: never ever used a tinted moisturizer. You know who put
Speaker 1: me on the tinted moisturizer you know, no, Cole Walter
Speaker 1: two thousand and three.
Speaker 2: No, no, I was. I had no idea. I was like, wait,
Speaker 2: what so the Cole Walter cream come up?
Speaker 1: Girl?
Speaker 2: Tell us about BBE cream tips.
Speaker 1: There's a super talk with girl who I love, Nicole
Speaker 1: Walters On Like that's what literally her name on social media.
Speaker 2: She had like a TV show.
Speaker 1: Anyway, Nicole has the most beautiful, gorgeous, glowing black skin.
Speaker 2: And I was just like.
Speaker 1: But I just figured, you know, this is just you know,
Speaker 1: this is her look, like that's just and which it is.
Speaker 2: She has beautiful skin.
Speaker 1: But she was like that she loves like tinted moisturizer
Speaker 1: because it just helps to give it the all round
Speaker 1: even And I was like, say what now, how did
Speaker 1: I miss out the tinted moisturizer like trend?
Speaker 2: And I was like, wait what?
Speaker 1: So I'm mosied on down to the Sephora met Zanaiah
Speaker 1: hay Zanaya. She's a like, you know, she works at
Speaker 1: Sephora in Wilbrook Mall in New Jersey.
Speaker 2: And she was so nice.
Speaker 1: So we tried on all these different tinted moisturizers and
Speaker 1: I tried on this one called Granada from Nars and
Speaker 1: I was like, but Zania, I can't see it, she
Speaker 1: said exactly.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, and so.
Speaker 1: If you're watching on this on YouTube, girl, when I
Speaker 1: say my skin is because I already have decent skin.
Speaker 1: The skin is giving and the and I was like,
Speaker 1: you need a little eyebrow jels like don't play this
Speaker 1: and I but okay, and.
Speaker 2: So that's why my eyeballs are looking laid to the woods.
Speaker 3: Tell us about girl.
Speaker 2: I don't remember. I was like, girl, just a few
Speaker 2: years ago, I was still working. I'm sorry giving you.
Speaker 3: So much shit. I deserve it a little bit, though
Speaker 3: I know you go on any longer.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: Welcome Tiffany, Welcome of our Lord twenty No one of
Speaker 3: you girls have been out here slaying, and I was like, wow,
Speaker 3: look like that. Oh I'm just happy you're happy with
Speaker 3: a little pumpkin poppin. I love it.
Speaker 2: You know you have the top in another color, dude,
Speaker 2: last time, I sake, you have a good eye. Okay, journalist,
Speaker 2: i'd be playing.
Speaker 1: So did you hear about the Aurora bole Aurora borealist?
Speaker 1: Like that's just north They were supposed to be usable
Speaker 1: last night. Did you see any girl?
Speaker 3: I got about it like ninety.
Speaker 2: No, I did it from New York. You could see that.
Speaker 1: Well, this is like I think, like it's like you're
Speaker 1: out in the country. Well know, I came back. So,
Speaker 1: but every three hundred years or so there's something like
Speaker 1: that that you can see them, not just in Alaska,
Speaker 1: in Ireland and not Ireland Iceland. Those are the two places,
Speaker 1: and so we're supposed to be able to see it
Speaker 1: basically like in the North. So I went outside at
Speaker 1: night to take a look. But you know, with all
Speaker 1: the light, light pollution, pollution, Yeah, so I didn't get
Speaker 1: you know, we're going to get to see but I
Speaker 1: want to see the northern lions.
Speaker 2: That's on my bucket list. I want to go to
Speaker 2: Alaska or Iceland to see them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like even here it would be neat.
Speaker 3: But it's something about I don't know, those places where
Speaker 3: you can live in an igloo and then you know,
Speaker 3: like see it through your window. Yeah that sounds magical. Yeah.
Speaker 3: And Rika made me watch Succession last night. I mean
Speaker 3: he didn't make me, but like, you know, I was
Speaker 3: on the couch and I feel like getting up and
Speaker 3: he wanted to watch it.
Speaker 2: I just can't get into you. I know you don't,
Speaker 2: you know, a big TV fan.
Speaker 3: But Succession is a show that, like everyone talks about
Speaker 3: it wins all the awards, and it's basically like a
Speaker 3: version of the Murdoch family, just like this billionaire you know,
Speaker 3: multi billionaire family that the dad, the patriarch, owns like
Speaker 3: all these you know, this huge company that owns multiple
Speaker 3: companies and the kids are complete trash assholes and people
Speaker 3: are obsessed with it and you just watch them just
Speaker 3: kind of destroy each other and be horrible people. And
Speaker 3: I'm just like, but why I'm not I'm not in
Speaker 3: But they were in Norway. That's why I thought about it,
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I want to go to Norway.
Speaker 3: So at least I got something out of watching it.
Speaker 3: But anyway, and to what end.
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that this more. I was having
Speaker 1: a very like I don't know what it's esoteric, but
Speaker 1: like experience is warning. I was taking a shower and
Speaker 1: I thought to myself, So, let's just say, you spend
Speaker 1: eighty years working so hard to make all the money
Speaker 1: and have.
Speaker 2: All the but then one day you're not here.
Speaker 3: That's literally what the show's about. Tis it's called yes
Speaker 3: No you hit it ah ahead, and it's like and
Speaker 3: then you just see the wolves descend, and in your
Speaker 3: legacy is that you created these shitty humans.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm just see, here's.
Speaker 1: The thing even if like I get it people like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to create a legacy, But here's the thing
Speaker 1: about having a legacy. You literally are not here, so
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like you're not here
Speaker 1: to see it through. You're not here to see if
Speaker 1: the legacy actually shakes out the way you wanted to.
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying that you shouldn't work hard to
Speaker 1: provide for your family and errors and things like that,
Speaker 1: but it's like, I don't know, it's like you've almost
Speaker 1: sacrificed yourself and your goodness and whatever to what end,
Speaker 1: Because no matter how much money people make, it all ends.
Speaker 1: I mean, if Steve Jobs passing away taught us nothing,
Speaker 1: is that money and wealth and access and everything that
Speaker 1: he had at his fingertips. He's not here and he
Speaker 1: was young, relatively speaking, and so it just seemed like
Speaker 1: such a foolish endeavor to spend the time that you
Speaker 1: are here doing not so great things.
Speaker 2: So I just was thinking about.
Speaker 3: Less You're going to create great humans who can carry
Speaker 3: on and do good with them. That's that's what it's about. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 3: I know what you mean. I know what you mean.
Speaker 3: It's like, if you're going to leave the place, leave
Speaker 3: what you built with people who are inherently like selfish
Speaker 3: and self serving and have their best interests at heart,
Speaker 3: then thanks, appreciate you the rest of the world, and
Speaker 3: thank you, mister rich guy. You know, so leave things
Speaker 3: just the way they are when you were here. But
Speaker 3: ooh I did, even though I overslept through my nap.
Speaker 2: I did. Of course.
Speaker 3: I always have time to check Instagram real quick, and
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. The first thing I saw is
Speaker 3: that Don Lemon just got Acts from CNN.
Speaker 2: I knew that was coming, and.
Speaker 3: Don Lemon has been there for I know, I feel
Speaker 3: like every couple years. It was like a Don Lemon controversy.
Speaker 3: But it just reminded me again because his statement, his
Speaker 3: statement came out and he was like, I was stunned.
Speaker 3: I had no idea today that I wouldn't be or
Speaker 3: there was no indication that I wouldn't be able to
Speaker 3: continue the great work that I've done there. And I'm like, yep,
Speaker 3: like everybody else, when they decide that you are no
Speaker 3: longer serving them and their business needs, they will kick
Speaker 3: your ass to the side. And if you're a woman
Speaker 3: of color, a person of color even quicker. So Don
Speaker 3: Lemon ain't special. What was it this time? He said
Speaker 3: old women were past their prime. That was the last
Speaker 3: thing I remember. I knew he was.
Speaker 2: I said, Don, you're about to be on your wheel.
Speaker 3: But he'll be fine, you know, like he'll have a
Speaker 3: podcast by tomorrow exactly. So, but I just welcome.
Speaker 1: I was thinking too, like even like there was this.
Speaker 1: I went live last night on like Instagram for a
Speaker 1: little bit and when I was finished, I like swiped
Speaker 1: through a few stories and one of the stories I
Speaker 1: saw people always got meme, so you know, Jamie Fox
Speaker 1: has been hospitalized.
Speaker 2: Reportedly, yes, stroke gone. Reportedly they're saying it's for a stroke. Now, well,
Speaker 2: you know that's.
Speaker 1: What the people say, but who knows, okay, if that's
Speaker 1: true or not. And so they said that he was
Speaker 1: like working on a movie. I think he had two
Speaker 1: more weeks left. And so this is all supposed reportedly,
Speaker 1: this is what you know, this is all from my meme.
Speaker 1: So you know, God take it with the smallest grain
Speaker 1: of smallest sault anyway, that he's working on a movie.
Speaker 1: There's only like two weeks of shooting left, and instead
Speaker 1: of waiting for him to recover, they instead just finished
Speaker 1: with his body double right, And so, like the memes
Speaker 1: purpose was to say that, like, take your rest because
Speaker 1: even if you don't, they will find somebody to replace you,
Speaker 1: you know. And that was just like dark but true,
Speaker 1: but meaning that like sometimes we say that we will
Speaker 1: break ourselves in order to you know, get something accomplished,
Speaker 1: only to find out that like if we.
Speaker 2: Just said no, they would figure it out.
Speaker 1: We all, you know, we act like we're the oh,
Speaker 1: y'all be all the people won't figure it out.
Speaker 2: They'll figure it out, you know.
Speaker 3: Hm, that's the same speech I give to anyone who's
Speaker 3: really frustrated or really I'm concerned about leaving their job
Speaker 3: for a new opportunity, and they're like, but I've made
Speaker 3: such an impact with the team, but my my, you
Speaker 3: know again the word legacy or what I've built here,
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, it's going to be okay. People
Speaker 3: have quit before. You have entire prime minister's quitting right now,
Speaker 3: like someone Biles left the Olympics and said they're all good.
Speaker 3: You know, I think that there's at the same time,
Speaker 3: you know, Don Lemon left, it does feel like there's
Speaker 3: this you know, we haven't had a chance to talk
Speaker 3: about this, but when you were on, when you were
Speaker 3: in traveling in March, there was this influencer and now
Speaker 3: I'm not going to remember her name, but she kind
Speaker 3: of went viral because she had, you know, built this
Speaker 3: huge following, had this very successful business and basically wrote
Speaker 3: like I'm kind of done, y'all, I'm going to walk
Speaker 3: away from this for a while.
Speaker 2: I think I saw I had send you a message.
Speaker 2: I'm like, we should have her, which is so ironic
Speaker 2: because she ain't gonna be on.
Speaker 1: Did send me a message? And I was like, wow
Speaker 1: a sidebar, cousin. Yeah, we talked about that later. We
Speaker 1: talked about that, lady. We talk about the later boost.
Speaker 3: But but yeah, there have been you know these I
Speaker 3: just you know this, these people who are announcing that
Speaker 3: they're they are choosing like a different path and they're
Speaker 3: just you know, leaving, and it's like, Okay, but your
Speaker 3: people and but your followers they rely on you, but
Speaker 3: your audience and this, and that they're gonna be fine.
Speaker 3: You know, they'll find another I mean, they'll maybe miss you,
Speaker 3: hopefully you'll be missed. But at the same time, it
Speaker 3: shouldn't stop you from pursuing whatever it is that like
Speaker 3: we deserve, we deserve to pursue what lights us up
Speaker 3: and not feel this burden to you know, continue to
Speaker 3: do a dog and pony show that we're just not
Speaker 3: interested in anymore.
Speaker 1: Girl, When I tell you, that's what I love, That's
Speaker 1: what the life was about last night. That like one
Speaker 1: of the benefits of like taking like a deep break
Speaker 1: from social media is that I didn't feel the urgency
Speaker 1: that social media kind of like you know, so much stuff,
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening, and so I get to
Speaker 1: actually just look at my day to day life and
Speaker 1: just enjoy it as it is, not as I wish
Speaker 1: it could be, you know, because we will literally stress
Speaker 1: ourselves out over something we just learned. Like I was like,
Speaker 1: I had never heard of tuloom five years ago, you know,
Speaker 1: of course Mexico, but I never heard of to Loom Mexico.
Speaker 1: And now the girls can't live without Tulum. They can't
Speaker 1: live without Toulu. Everybody go to Loom. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know to Little existed five years.
Speaker 2: Ago, but so media fortieth every bachelor girl but some
Speaker 2: of y'all, like I did hear about to Little.
Speaker 3: He got a really good press person or social media.
Speaker 1: Girl was tired the tuloom is Tulum was like, actually,
Speaker 1: we're good over here. But I see all that to
Speaker 1: say that, like it became like this destination that you
Speaker 1: must do, but so many people had never even heard
Speaker 1: of it before, and that social media sometimes the world
Speaker 1: we live in now can create urgency where there is now.
Speaker 1: I was talking to my sister Carol the other day
Speaker 1: and my niece Samiliar, who's six. She has to put
Speaker 1: a lock on the tablet because they keep downloading games
Speaker 1: and things for a dollar two dollars whatever.
Speaker 3: Once Roman downloading a stock market girl.
Speaker 1: This boy told his mother, I want to do a
Speaker 1: summer program where I could do math and build things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not downloading money the other.
Speaker 2: Regulars, right, and he's just out here just you know,
Speaker 2: just who knows. It's probably a casino app. Just don't baby, Because.
Speaker 1: So she asked a mother, can you cause now that
Speaker 1: Carol has a cold loock on it? Mommy, can you
Speaker 1: put in your numbers? And she said no, And so
Speaker 1: Amelia was like, it's only.
Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine.
Speaker 1: Can imagine the six year old who pays no bills
Speaker 1: because I guess in her mind her birthday just passed.
Speaker 1: So she's like, girl, if it's money, you need more
Speaker 1: more more, Yes, exactly we do. And so she was
Speaker 1: like Amelia, no, And the way Amelia I actually had
Speaker 1: to tell Carol, can you check out my niece because
Speaker 1: she sounds like she's being dangled from the top of
Speaker 1: a building and it's scared for her life because the
Speaker 1: way she had a meltdown for something that she did
Speaker 1: not even know existed until five minutes ago. And I
Speaker 1: thought to myself, this is how we're navigating that, you know,
Speaker 1: we can all be like, oh, mim be a good girl.
Speaker 1: But it's like we are all navigating from the space
Speaker 1: of things that we didn't even know existed. All of
Speaker 1: a sudden, there's this urgency and this need. And honestly,
Speaker 1: I was reading an article, I think it was CNBC
Speaker 1: of how it's costing young people their financial future. You know,
Speaker 1: you're spending money on things that you don't you know,
Speaker 1: necessarily even make you happy. You are, you know, telling
Speaker 1: yourself like soft life, which is nothing wrong with that,
Speaker 1: but you have no work experience, you know, like even
Speaker 1: this I've always I wanted to talk to about the
Speaker 1: work from home. Do we talk about the work from
Speaker 1: home girlfriend? No, the girl the stay at home girlfriend movement?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like people I have to skip. I was like,
Speaker 3: make sure the algorithm knows I don't want these videos.
Speaker 3: But yes, basically like a kept girlfriend who's like bragging
Speaker 3: about it on social media and yes, aesthetic everything.
Speaker 1: But the problem is is that most of these kept
Speaker 1: most of these kept girlfriends, they think they're winning because
Speaker 1: most of them are in their twenties and they think
Speaker 1: my boyfriend is taking care of me. All I gotta
Speaker 1: do is BQ, make sure he's good. But the problem
Speaker 1: is your boyfriend is out there getting an education, work
Speaker 1: experience all of the end starting to set aside for
Speaker 1: you know. Let's just like assume that he has a
Speaker 1: four one care whatever I work and setting aside money
Speaker 1: for retirement in his twenties and you throughout.
Speaker 3: Your twenties dimension social security girl, so you your twenties,
Speaker 3: he's that man you know, know eligible.
Speaker 1: Exactly and even if he takes care of it, but
Speaker 1: you have no work experience like you know, or your
Speaker 1: work experience is going to be limited. It doesn't start
Speaker 1: into you're thirty or thirty five like everybody knows. Hopefully
Speaker 1: you know the power of compound and interest that it
Speaker 1: would take you if you don't. If you start saving
Speaker 1: at twenty, you don't have to put aside nearly as
Speaker 1: much then if you start saving at forty or thirty
Speaker 1: or something, So you're missing out on all that juicy
Speaker 1: compound interest of that money that you can have set
Speaker 1: aside and invest in. And even if you're like, well,
Speaker 1: he's going to take care of me for life, Let's
Speaker 1: just say your your boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Is amazing ends up marrying you. He's awesome.
Speaker 1: I lost the love of my life, and he was
Speaker 1: all those things amazing, awesome. So you cannot control someone
Speaker 1: just literally might not be here, not because they don't
Speaker 1: want to be, because something tragic happens, and then what
Speaker 1: And so I just think that social media is actually
Speaker 1: making people broken, which is really.
Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, it's just yeah, I mean, it's
Speaker 3: tails all this time. There's always going to be a
Speaker 3: way for I knew. I guess when we were When
Speaker 3: I was a kid, it was the toys or rust
Speaker 3: Sunday catalog that thick newspaper came and we'd fight over
Speaker 3: who got to get the catalog first, and that would
Speaker 3: tell you what toys you wanted, plus commercials, you know.
Speaker 3: So like I think it's tail as old as time
Speaker 3: and so cheez something trying to I have had, you know,
Speaker 3: and I know friends of mine who have two. On
Speaker 3: those bad days when the kids are crying over things,
Speaker 3: you know, toy a toy. Yesterday, Rio was obsessed with
Speaker 3: a dinosaur egg that you can it's basically a piece
Speaker 3: of dirt that they saw with the plastic dinosaur inside
Speaker 3: for the low low price of like four dollars per egg.
Speaker 3: And I guess he must have seen something on YouTube
Speaker 3: because I'm not gonna lie this weekend.
Speaker 2: It was a.
Speaker 3: Screen heavy gun weekend, and he's like, I want to
Speaker 3: go the Dinosaur egg store. Everything he thinks to the normal.
Speaker 3: It's like a store all freaking day and then anyway,
Speaker 3: I don't know, just my lack of willpower and my husband,
Speaker 3: who never has willpower. He cannot watch this baby cry.
Speaker 3: We ended up at Target later in the day and
Speaker 3: I immediately found the to I knew where it was,
Speaker 3: and Rio meanwhile had to go. He's like, mom, because
Speaker 3: I'd never really let him loosen Target, He's usually in
Speaker 3: the cart. I'm stuffing snacks in his face to keep
Speaker 3: him on that side of the store, and he's like,
Speaker 3: there's so many toys and his eyes were just like
Speaker 3: so overwhelmed. I'm proud of him because I think it
Speaker 3: was almost too much for him to just compute. He's like,
Speaker 3: but this and that and you know, and I was like, yes,
Speaker 3: and we came for this one, and aren't you happy?
Speaker 3: And do you want me to put this back so
Speaker 3: you can, you know, find something to He's like, no,
Speaker 3: I really wanted that egg toy. But yeah, I'm like
Speaker 3: a lord of mercy trying to it's going to be
Speaker 3: a battle, I think for ourselves and for the cheeran
Speaker 3: to try to raise ourselves too, just like resist that.
Speaker 3: And I think it really comes down to like constantly
Speaker 3: checking in with yourself about what brings you joy and peace,
Speaker 3: because it's it's so much easier to ignore the other stuff.
Speaker 3: And I think that had I not had I not
Speaker 3: spent sort of the last decade and you know, living
Speaker 3: in a city of materialism and things, but then really
Speaker 3: have like being grounded in what the things that I wanted,
Speaker 3: Like I wouldn't have this house, I wouldn't pay for
Speaker 3: this wedding. I wouldn't be able to start my own business,
Speaker 3: shouts out to twenty two. I'm just like twenty two
Speaker 3: to twenty six year old Mandy does not get enough credit,
Speaker 3: hard like for the life that she created for me
Speaker 3: now because man, like the smallest things, like you said,
Speaker 3: saving investing that now I'm not able to do as
Speaker 3: easily because I don't work nine to five and I'm
Speaker 3: figuring out this new thing. I'm not as pressed or
Speaker 3: stressed because I'm like, Okay, I made moves in the
Speaker 3: first decade of my career that are paying dividends. To me. Now,
Speaker 3: So if I don't even do anything, I've done something, yes,
Speaker 3: you know, and it's like what I was always But
Speaker 3: that comes I think from I don't know, maybe these
Speaker 3: stay at home girlfriends never saw a single mom be
Speaker 3: broke with four kids trying, you know, and had that
Speaker 3: experience of like seeing your mom's credit card or debit
Speaker 3: card get declined at a grocery store. And I'm just like, no,
Speaker 3: that's what I value. I value security and you know,
Speaker 3: instability and independence. And I don't know, they'll have their
Speaker 3: they'll have a wake up call one day, I.
Speaker 2: Know, but it's going to be an expensive one. That's
Speaker 2: the thing. Hope it ain't my kids. I know I'm cheating.
Speaker 3: I hope my boys don't grow up keeping a stay
Speaker 3: at home girl. And I hope they're like, man, you
Speaker 3: need to get a job for your own security. Yeah,
Speaker 3: because you just don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, even if someone is amazing and wonderful on
Speaker 1: all the things, it's just I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2: Like, here's the thing, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1: You know, if you're fortunate that let's just say you're married,
Speaker 1: you know, and basically you have a contractual obligation to
Speaker 1: do certain things. Fine, if you want to be a
Speaker 1: stay at home mom whatever, and you know, I think
Speaker 1: that's honestly that the work.
Speaker 2: That's hard work. Okay, take me to work.
Speaker 3: Oh no, you know, no, no, no, absolutely no disrespect
Speaker 3: to stay at home moms.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, or stay at home dad, just to stay
Speaker 1: at home parent. That work is the is the work.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is stay at home girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Sits like, you know, like you're your best years.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I saw a really good I saw a really good
Speaker 3: explanation or like a debate from a mom on TikTok
Speaker 3: who you know, she has kids and I think she
Speaker 3: has four kids, and she shared that she spends five
Speaker 3: thousand dollars a month on childcare for her four kids.
Speaker 3: And I'm thinking, wow, what a bargain because it is
Speaker 3: daycare alone is twenty three hundred dollars a month.
Speaker 2: You're like, what about Jesus.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, that's like a two for a two,
Speaker 3: you know, because for the cost of that, I'm going
Speaker 3: to have two kids in daycare. And of course everyone's
Speaker 3: like thinking about the math, Well, do you make that
Speaker 3: much money a month? Does it make more sense for
Speaker 3: you to just stay at home and take care of
Speaker 3: the kids. And her argument was, I'm not going to
Speaker 3: be doing this forever, y'all, Like, they're not going to
Speaker 3: be in daycare for the next twenty thirty years of
Speaker 3: my career. And if I leave my career to save
Speaker 3: five thousand dollars, you have to understand I'm setting myself back,
Speaker 3: Like why is no one thinking of that? Of course
Speaker 3: you are. I mean I coach women who are trying
Speaker 3: to re enter the workforce, and you can say, is
Speaker 3: you know, we all respect stay at home moms and
Speaker 3: all that, but at the end of the day, that
Speaker 3: huge resume gap, it does make a difference. It is
Speaker 3: hard to come back from. So yeah, you have to
Speaker 3: we need more messages like that. You got to think
Speaker 3: about yourself long term.
Speaker 2: Well, no, that's five thousand dollars, sixty thousand dollars a year.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, she probably lives in Georgia too, And
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's a bargain.
Speaker 1: I mean, And you're right though, when you really because
Speaker 1: I remember at the time when the both Carols kids
Speaker 1: were in in a what's it called it? In preschool,
Speaker 1: it was like, I want to say, twenty two hundred
Speaker 1: and twenty three, and you're right, that probably was a
Speaker 1: bargain for the both of them, you know, for the
Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah, you know, and so like and
Speaker 1: I knew she was like, I can't wait too, gets old.
Speaker 2: I can't wait.
Speaker 1: Because in Jersey preschool so like, if you go to
Speaker 1: basically like a public preschool, it could be free. So
Speaker 1: that's what she was just I could just get them to,
Speaker 1: you know, preschool then you know, like.
Speaker 3: Years of struggle.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh wow, this is why people don't be having kids.
Speaker 2: It's so fun now.
Speaker 3: And I'm such a IOK of my husband all the time,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, why do we pick the one area
Speaker 3: of Westchester that doesn't have universal pre K yeah, which
Speaker 3: we get to pay for an extra year of daycare,
Speaker 3: so he's going to be in there until he's four
Speaker 3: almost five. Yeah, anyway, I think, amou it's chances me
Speaker 3: out but shout out to I don't even know where
Speaker 3: how we got on that subject. But you're crazy if
Speaker 3: you're not continuing, I mean, you're short sighted and like
Speaker 3: it will bite you in the ass if you're not
Speaker 3: continuing to invest in your skill set, in your knowledge,
Speaker 3: in your how you can contribute to Society for a book.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also just putting putting away money, like you know, yes,
Speaker 1: if you're not putting aside money, chow. So I just
Speaker 1: I want to see my kind of so renovations, you know,
Speaker 1: where I have to. I'm getting a quote now from
Speaker 1: I've found a contractor, same people who really helped me
Speaker 1: before Jermaine and Rihanna remain Home and sough. So that
Speaker 1: I told you, it's twenty eight hundred script feet and
Speaker 1: I want to refinish the floors because they're kind of
Speaker 1: like a.
Speaker 2: Peanut buttery color.
Speaker 1: It's very typical of the time that it was built,
Speaker 1: which is like one hundred years as all blazed and yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not terrible, just not you know, just not the
Speaker 1: vibe I'm looking for.
Speaker 2: So Jermaine went to look.
Speaker 1: He was like, so, there's about twenty five hundred squipt
Speaker 1: feet the floor to refinish and we're gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: talk to a refinisher.
Speaker 2: But it might be upwards of like forty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I was like, what my cap was twenty
Speaker 1: five thousand? I just said, right, So, like I set
Speaker 1: aside one hundred thousand dollars for renovations.
Speaker 2: Carpets coming back. You know, the thing is I can
Speaker 2: keep the forest as is. It's not the worst thing.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just we've been decy. Hopefully the refinisher
Speaker 1: says something closer to twenty five thousand. But it's just
Speaker 1: like so it's almost like you ask yourself. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm in a space now where it's like, how much
Speaker 1: do I invest into this property because I plan on
Speaker 1: staying here for while, and honestly, I'm not looking to
Speaker 1: resell like this property, I plan just like the house
Speaker 1: I live in now, it's paid off, y'all know. I
Speaker 1: bought that condo was five point twenty Funny, I paid
Speaker 1: it off in full, like you know, so there's no
Speaker 1: morgage there. So this will just be included into my estate.
Speaker 1: And when I'm no longer here, it's part of my trust.
Speaker 1: It goes to my heirs. So I'm not as concerned
Speaker 1: about my return quote unquote on investment, although I mean
Speaker 1: the way where I live in Jersey, the prices just
Speaker 1: keep going up, so I'm sure I'll see a return,
Speaker 1: but I'm not as concerned. But I'm just also like,
Speaker 1: we gonna see I'll keep you guys updated about like
Speaker 1: you know, I'll get probably the final quote of all
Speaker 1: the things I want to do, Like the plumbing and
Speaker 1: electric are updated, but I want to like rechange the tile.
Speaker 1: I want to refinish them, the cabinets in the kitchen,
Speaker 1: I want to put some molding, and so there's a
Speaker 1: lot of esthetic things I want to do.
Speaker 2: And I'm coming under a one hundred thousand.
Speaker 3: We've been to see now, well, I pray for you,
Speaker 3: but yeah, I mean that play. So that's all the pictures,
Speaker 3: and that had a lot of personality to it. So
Speaker 3: I think it is the kind of thing where you're
Speaker 3: not able to really go in there and not like
Speaker 3: if you don't, it almost like you're wearing a costume
Speaker 3: or someone else. Yes, you know, clothes for a while,
Speaker 3: which is good. You know. The whole thing is like
Speaker 3: I think you move into a house and it does
Speaker 3: feel like you want to start doing things, but the
Speaker 3: slower you can go as slow as you need to,
Speaker 3: one room at a time.
Speaker 2: No, girl, please, I'm not moving into that place. Is done? Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh really, because I'm like a girl where I live
Speaker 1: around the corner, so I'm not in rush like I
Speaker 1: want like I want it to be. I would like
Speaker 1: to move in and not done like all the furniture,
Speaker 1: but like done, like all the renovations, so all the tile,
Speaker 1: all the I don't want anybody in my house stuff. Yes,
Speaker 1: and so then I can get furniture at will. But yeah,
Speaker 1: the plus two, you know, Carol and the kids are
Speaker 1: going to move into this house and just pay.
Speaker 2: I was going to ask, are they in there yet,
Speaker 2: because I'm sure she's like when you.
Speaker 1: Move in, girl, she is, she is, and a Milion
Speaker 1: is always like, so this is my room, right, I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: this is mommy's room.
Speaker 2: She's like whatever.
Speaker 3: Girl's explained to her timelines and budgets.
Speaker 2: So they're so excited about living here. It's like perfect
Speaker 2: for them.
Speaker 1: They're school, which goes up to eighth grade, is right
Speaker 1: down the street, so they're like so excited.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I would.
Speaker 1: Love to get in by you know, August, so the
Speaker 1: kids because school starts in September for Jersey kids, I
Speaker 1: would love for them to be able to move in
Speaker 1: by like mid August so they can be settled, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know school starts in September, and then October
Speaker 1: is my birthday, so I would have like a birthday
Speaker 1: party slash housewarming where all the people can come. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so that way we can celebrate, you know, the
Speaker 1: new house and my renovation and my birthday. So I'll
Speaker 1: be forty four.
Speaker 2: Jesus, that's a.
Speaker 3: Cool such an that's an auspicious number though, forty four.
Speaker 3: Something about that feels lucky. It does. Well, I'm really
Speaker 3: excited for you. I don't know when all I don't
Speaker 3: know whatever husband went through that this is. I'm like
Speaker 3: trying to hide it, but I have so much crap
Speaker 3: behind me right now. Husband finally went to the crawl
Speaker 3: space and took the baby stuff out, and he's like, I.
Speaker 2: Can't do anything right.
Speaker 3: What did dude? Always something clean and bell. I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: when I said take it out, I didn't mean put
Speaker 3: it behind my office where I like, on my office
Speaker 3: floor where I have to be on camera. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I see stacks of baby clothes and a baby orn
Speaker 3: that I have to remember how to do, little little
Speaker 3: baby car seat. Oh lord, it's really happening. But before
Speaker 3: I get too overwhelmed and start crying again because all
Speaker 3: I do is fucking cry. Now, why don't we take
Speaker 3: a break, Okay, for a boost and break.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all see in a minute, and we're back. Okay,
Speaker 1: Mandy is not crying.
Speaker 3: Before and before husband made me watch Succession last night.
Speaker 3: I was he was putting Rio down to sleep and
Speaker 3: I would. He came down and I was watching like
Speaker 3: Taking three.
Speaker 2: It was like Liam Neeson, you know, just.
Speaker 3: Because I was like, I can just watch people shoot
Speaker 3: each other. I guess like everything we cry, I can't
Speaker 3: watch anything. Yeah, I'm just a I'm just an emotional mess.
Speaker 3: But we're back in black and brown and were ready
Speaker 3: for a vintage section of a vintage segment that we
Speaker 3: rarely do. I feel like anymore incentive.
Speaker 2: I can't remember. It's all like it's time booster breaking booster. No,
Speaker 2: but there's something before it. If it's like a little entry,
Speaker 2: gonna boost, are gonna break, what you're gonna do, what
Speaker 2: you're gonna take.
Speaker 1: But it's always like but there's like something before, Like girl,
Speaker 1: I don't remember what I say in the beginning. Anyway,
Speaker 1: we're gonna boost, We're gonna record that. We really should
Speaker 1: that way, it's always there. We gotta go grab one of.
Speaker 2: The old one. We could solve so many problems.
Speaker 1: I promise you because the way our our listeners are,
Speaker 1: they're like, I like this struggle.
Speaker 3: They're like trying to think of it in their heads,
Speaker 3: like what version will be here today?
Speaker 1: I know, like that's not even it to I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: I don't remember. If you actually remember, you know what,
Speaker 1: leave us a voice note. That would be hilarious on
Speaker 1: Instagram so we can get our Oh maybe we'll use
Speaker 1: your voice. Leave us a voice note and we can
Speaker 1: shout to you. I'll be like, you know what, this
Speaker 1: booster break is borne to you.
Speaker 3: We can't keep though.
Speaker 2: I know that's true. That's true.
Speaker 1: I'm all like, yeah, then we'll fly you out anyway.
Speaker 3: I would do that sometimes when I was editing, I'd
Speaker 3: be like, I'm like, we ain't doing that.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna I'm gonna boost Okay. So mine is
Speaker 1: just really simple and easy. So shout out to ra
Speaker 1: Meet Sethi, the first brown person I've ever seen in
Speaker 1: personal finance. It was literally I was in high school
Speaker 1: and my sister was in college. My sister Karen, she's
Speaker 1: two years older than me, and she came home and
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm reading this book I
Speaker 1: will teach you to be rich. And he's hilarious. She
Speaker 1: was like, he is a son of immigrants, just like me,
Speaker 1: and it's really helping me get my money together. And
Speaker 1: at the time I was like I don care. I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, like sixteen or whatever, and she
Speaker 1: was like, I said.
Speaker 2: She was in college.
Speaker 1: But I just remember distinctly remember like her getting his
Speaker 1: book that long ago. And so now it is, I mean,
Speaker 1: it is a classic. Especially I'm so glad there's a
Speaker 1: classic by like, you know, a brown person. And so
Speaker 1: now Ramat has a news show on Netflix called How
Speaker 1: to Get.
Speaker 2: Rich and it's doing so well.
Speaker 1: It's in the top ten, which is amazing on Netflix's
Speaker 1: which is a huge accomplishment.
Speaker 3: I've seen it when I go on there, but I
Speaker 3: haven't had a chance to tune in here. I haven't
Speaker 3: tuned INNY.
Speaker 1: So I watched like the first episode and no verse
Speaker 1: two and so one of them was so good. And
Speaker 1: then we talked about the stay at home parents. So
Speaker 1: it's this guy who was an engineer, but he has
Speaker 1: like two kids with his wife. She makes a lot
Speaker 1: of money as I'm like, in a marketing or whatever,
Speaker 1: like two fifty or something like that, and he's a
Speaker 1: stay at home dad and the level of disrespect.
Speaker 2: Heaped on him, Joe it is.
Speaker 1: You have to watch that one by who his wife
Speaker 1: a girl. She basically says that he can't move no
Speaker 1: money without tapping her on the shoulder, like he's a baby,
Speaker 1: and she was like, why should he do anything with
Speaker 1: the money when I'm making it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, Si, he's raising the girls. It's really really
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 3: Men in the sixties street, Yes, and.
Speaker 1: That's exactly she's basically giving him. But I just to
Speaker 1: watch it is so cringey because you know, she's basically
Speaker 1: like basically, he was like, the more she makes, the
Speaker 1: less valuable I become.
Speaker 2: I'm like Jesus, so basically like, why are you even here?
Speaker 1: You know, I know, I was like, but I mean
Speaker 1: it's a really great commentary on like this is how
Speaker 1: what women have been dealing with since to be beginning
Speaker 1: of time. But honestly, it's just yeah, it just he's like,
Speaker 1: you know, like I he said, literally he's an engineer.
Speaker 1: He literally was like, being a stay at home dad
Speaker 1: is literally harder than any engineering job I've ever had.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that he said that. He was like,
Speaker 1: this is hard. But he's like, you know, but you know,
Speaker 1: I get to love on my babies. I love the
Speaker 1: fact that I'm here with them because they're still really young.
Speaker 2: He said.
Speaker 1: But I don't like the fact how my wife because
Speaker 1: once she's like running them into credit card dad, she's
Speaker 1: not she's mishandling the money and then he has.
Speaker 3: No So that's why she doesn't want him touching it.
Speaker 3: Also because she doesn't want to get him too close
Speaker 3: to the money. Yes, man, I love that they find
Speaker 3: these people.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like her.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna feel better as a wife and a mother
Speaker 3: by watching it. And I'll watch it.
Speaker 2: Watch it.
Speaker 1: Let's way, so we can chat that out to be
Speaker 1: like chat like I would love to hear from y'all,
Speaker 1: like tweet us, instagram us, Like what do you think
Speaker 1: I haven't watched all the episodes yet, but I've been too,
Speaker 1: just like like I said, just I just love the
Speaker 1: fact that like, cause you know, for me, if you
Speaker 1: follow over me, he is sarcastic, He don't care. He
Speaker 1: gonna talk terrible about the banks. He is going to
Speaker 1: drag MLMs. He is holy holistically himself, unapologetically so. And
Speaker 1: someone he reposted a screenshot of someone saying something to
Speaker 1: the fact that, like, I'm so glad they have like
Speaker 1: a dark skinned, hairy Indian on He was like, yes,
Speaker 1: represent us, like and I just thought it was so fun.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just love the fact that this level
Speaker 1: of representation, and it's it's what I love is that
Speaker 1: you know, he's the central character you don't re meeat
Speaker 1: goes through. And as a result, his Instagram has blown
Speaker 1: up well over four hundred thousand people. I don't know
Speaker 1: where he was before. His books have sold out everywhere.
Speaker 1: It just really is like a rising tide lifts all
Speaker 1: boats and I love to see it. And so yeah,
Speaker 1: support how to get rich and we could check about it.
Speaker 1: You guys can tweet us and we can talk about like,
Speaker 1: you know, your episodes that you like, the ones that
Speaker 1: make you say damn.
Speaker 3: You know. So I hope that we get him on
Speaker 3: the show soon. I know that I had. I think,
Speaker 3: I yeah, I think we're working on that for a minute.
Speaker 3: You know, for meat y'all met.
Speaker 1: Before, right, No, I actually never met him person. He
Speaker 1: invited me to his I was like, re meet him me.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I want you to come to
Speaker 1: my the screet like you know, the screening party. I
Speaker 1: was like, sure, because I thought we meet it lived
Speaker 1: in New York.
Speaker 2: I think he does.
Speaker 1: But then I looked. I was like, for meet, this
Speaker 1: is in Hollywood. Bruh, Like I'm not gonna.
Speaker 3: Be to make what you don't just like get on
Speaker 3: your jet.
Speaker 1: But it's always just like some so I don't know
Speaker 1: him personally personally, but like you know, socially, I do
Speaker 1: so and he just seems like, you know, like a dope, funny,
Speaker 1: like like very what you see is what you get
Speaker 1: type of guy, which I.
Speaker 3: Like, Oh, well, good for him, congrats for me. I'm
Speaker 3: want to check out that episode in particular, because again,
Speaker 3: I would love to feel better about marriage and motherhood
Speaker 3: and all those things. My boost I have a couple
Speaker 3: one Tiffany knows, but I'm hopefully going to be announcing
Speaker 3: a book now. I've been a little quiet, I think
Speaker 3: on the book journey front, because I did. I signed
Speaker 3: with an agent like a month or two of no
Speaker 3: a couple months ago. And after you get an agent
Speaker 3: to kind of take the wheel and get you know,
Speaker 3: send good jillions of emails out to publishers and stuff.
Speaker 3: I happened, and I told Tiffany this, I was a
Speaker 3: little disappointed to hear that some of the feedback has
Speaker 3: been focused on my audience, because I mean, y'all know,
Speaker 3: I mean, I focus on like women of color, especially
Speaker 3: in black women in my work. That's just where my
Speaker 3: heart is, and that's some of the feedback has been,
Speaker 3: like the audience is a little narrow. But in spite
Speaker 3: of all that, I have had a couple of big
Speaker 3: publishers interested. So fingers triple dipple crossed that I have
Speaker 3: something fun to announce and then I have something to
Speaker 3: you know, beyond Beyonce this weekend and like growing a human,
Speaker 3: birthing a human, I'll have something else to look forward
Speaker 3: to for the summer and next year.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I'm just proud.
Speaker 1: Who really proud of me, Mandy, because you're just like
Speaker 1: I was telling Tracy, you know, my publicist. She was like,
Speaker 1: did Mandy just I said exactly one thing about Mandy
Speaker 1: is she gonna get it done? You were just like this,
Speaker 1: I think I want to write. And then it was like,
Speaker 1: I need an agent. You did your due diligence, found
Speaker 1: the right agent for yourself. You're like, I want to
Speaker 1: have a really good, you know, book proposal. You did
Speaker 1: you do this just found a pro proposal. Coach, you
Speaker 1: were a proposal, and I mean literally all like you.
Speaker 1: You know, you really inspire me many because I know
Speaker 1: how hard making the tradition, the transition from corporate to like,
Speaker 1: you know, working for yourself. I mean I never doubted
Speaker 1: you because I could spot a winter winter chicken dinner
Speaker 1: and I was like girl, I ultimately, yes, I was
Speaker 1: like Mandy, of all the people, not you, because I
Speaker 1: know that you are committed to doing the work required,
Speaker 1: and that's all that's required to be successful. Honestly, certainly
Speaker 1: there's luck, certainly there's but the work required means that
Speaker 1: you are someone who will continue to do the work
Speaker 1: until until it's done, meaning that like, yes, they're going
Speaker 1: to be you know, short stops and I'm not sure
Speaker 1: it stops, but pitfalls and you know, and things along
Speaker 1: the way, but you will do the work necessary to
Speaker 1: bypass those things. And that's really it. That's the magic, sauce.
Speaker 1: Are you willing to keep going? That's if you are
Speaker 1: someone who's willing to keep going, then you will see success.
Speaker 1: It might take you ten years, it might but are
Speaker 1: you willing to keep going? And so I just know you,
Speaker 1: and so I'm not shocked, you know, or surprised, and
Speaker 1: I know that like it's just bigger and better and
Speaker 1: greater things. I'm so glad that Corpora didn't work out
Speaker 1: for you, because we need you out here in the streets.
Speaker 1: You are street sold and now you act it with us.
Speaker 3: Ah, thanks, Tiff, I receive it. That's that's such a
Speaker 3: that's a perfect compliment for me, because that is so true.
Speaker 3: I mean, I will I don't like to make big
Speaker 3: goals and not have a plan to get them done.
Speaker 3: So I'm really good at executing and just getting from
Speaker 3: point A to B. And it's been a long journey.
Speaker 3: I think this time last year I started looking for
Speaker 3: a proposal coach, and I was like, I want to
Speaker 3: make this happen. And I finally and it also came
Speaker 3: down to me feeling like I finally had the thing
Speaker 3: to say, you know, and I finally had the message
Speaker 3: that I would write. It takes a long time to
Speaker 3: write a book, and I don't want to do a
Speaker 3: half asked just for it. I'm not doing it just
Speaker 3: to have something out there. I want to do it
Speaker 3: because it means something. And so if I'm going to
Speaker 3: spend the next two years souse. That's what they're saying.
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty five, y'all, he's getting those books hopefully up
Speaker 3: the bookshelf, fingers crossed. I'm painting my nails while I'm
Speaker 3: sitting here because I can't sit here with the bottle
Speaker 3: of nail polish and not fiddle with it. Apparently love it,
Speaker 3: so they've gone for nothing to yellow. Yeah, well you
Speaker 3: can't see it up close, you know how it is
Speaker 3: when you do your own nails. But anyway, thank you
Speaker 3: so much. Yeah, that's that's really what's about. Because I
Speaker 3: this has been a long it's been a I know
Speaker 3: it's been a short time. It's been a couple of
Speaker 3: years since I launched, but it still has felt like
Speaker 3: a very long journey. But it's about believing in yourself
Speaker 3: and just believing in like the fact that if you
Speaker 3: map out a plan and you execute that plan and
Speaker 3: you don't let your brain get in the way of
Speaker 3: stopping you from completing that plan, because that's so often
Speaker 3: when it is right, it's like our own self doubt.
Speaker 3: It's like, but why me do I deserve? Should I
Speaker 3: be here? What do I have to say that matters?
Speaker 3: And I'm at that point where I feel like I
Speaker 3: got some shit to say that matters, and I'm really
Speaker 3: excited to say it. So thanks, tiff. I just appreciate that.
Speaker 3: That's why, that's why we not just sister friends, be cousins.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes, girl, because that's my other boost. That's
Speaker 2: my other boost.
Speaker 3: I have nothing to show for it, but I went back.
Speaker 3: I had done twenty three and me forever ago. But
Speaker 3: I forgot somehow that I am twenty percent Nigerian. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's and it's not even a question. My people came
Speaker 3: from Nigeria. So I texted Tiffany. I was like, so,
Speaker 3: by the way, I would like an invite to Thanksgiving.
Speaker 3: I would like Superstanta. I want to be on the
Speaker 3: sister List. Whatever the secret clubs are, can I be
Speaker 3: in them?
Speaker 2: I don't know. No, But isn't that cool?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: It is because you're like forty percent West African? Do
Speaker 2: you claim me? I do forty yeah, forty nine, forty seven.
Speaker 3: I forget.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: That's a high percentage, oh West African. Yeah, I need
Speaker 3: to look at that again because I'm like fifty The
Speaker 3: Europeans do got me all. I'm not going to even
Speaker 3: try to front fifty three form point four. But that's
Speaker 3: because are you black, You still got a little something
Speaker 3: in you, you know what I mean? Anyway, I'm fifty three
Speaker 3: percent European, it's all, and it's like British and Irish,
Speaker 3: and which makes sense because I do know that part
Speaker 3: of my mom's family. But then on the African side, yeah,
Speaker 3: post this in the group notes for y'all. Oh, that's right,
Speaker 3: thirty nine point nine percent West African. I'm forty five
Speaker 3: percent Sub Saharan African. But of that forty percent West African,
Speaker 3: and then of that twenty percent Nigerian Ghana. Sorry, you're
Speaker 3: in a very very very far away second place as
Speaker 3: six percent, and then something about broadly East broadly West African.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm very proud of that. I would love
Speaker 2: to visit Nigeria.
Speaker 1: We got to give you, well, you know you have
Speaker 1: the firstborn daughter or no, yes, I am okay, So
Speaker 1: we're going to call you. We did this already a
Speaker 1: dase right when you first told me, didn't I give
Speaker 1: you a d A d so adeve means so Ada
Speaker 1: is daughter, which oftentimes this is what you'll call, like, say,
Speaker 1: if you were to come in to like you know,
Speaker 1: like you and your family were coming and your dad
Speaker 1: was bringing you to, like, I don't know, visit one
Speaker 1: of his Nigerian friends.
Speaker 2: He thought, oh, this is Ada.
Speaker 1: Which would mean they would instantly know this is my
Speaker 1: firstborn daughter. And then Esse and Ebo is king, so
Speaker 1: ada so adase means daughter for king.
Speaker 2: So basically princess. So that's what. So we're going to
Speaker 2: leave you a dase because you're the firstborn daughter. Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: So we call you princess?
Speaker 3: Is a Guanians who named you based on the day
Speaker 3: of the week that you're born.
Speaker 2: Well, Nigerians do that too sometimes mm hmm.
Speaker 3: I was born in the letters day.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what that girl, you know be
Speaker 1: no Ebo, but I do. I do know that oftentimes
Speaker 1: first or daughters bought us our name a dose, which
Speaker 1: is I always thought was such a pretty name. So
Speaker 1: it's literally very frenetic a d a easy, so literally
Speaker 1: super phrenetic. Ebo is super phrenetic.
Speaker 3: So and are you adoce with an A or with
Speaker 3: or a dot.
Speaker 2: Adochi ado adochi?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm gonna have to find out more about
Speaker 3: my I really do my my little brothers. He really
Speaker 3: is pushing for me and my dad and him to
Speaker 3: go to do a trip somewhere in Africa. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think he's pushing for Kenya. I don't know where
Speaker 3: else were don't have to stop in Nigeria.
Speaker 1: Yesci just out here. We're about to rename brown Bisious.
Speaker 3: Oh that's fun, all right, y'all for rocking with us.
Speaker 3: I guess by the time this show comes out, we'll
Speaker 3: know if we won the Webbie Girl won. PA feeling
Speaker 3: good about it.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling good about it.
Speaker 3: Fifty feel printing out a lot of it. You know,
Speaker 3: you never know until you know. I might have woke
Speaker 3: up at like five in the morning, Saturday evening morning
Speaker 3: whatever to buy a dress.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say, that's right.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: I think I do have ad dress because I bought
Speaker 2: it in Kenya.
Speaker 1: That's right. Because we gonna be black up on that stage.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna wear a dress I want in Kenya. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, big things popping, but not me.
Speaker 3: You better stay in there, a little boy, I need
Speaker 3: my four weeks.
Speaker 2: On that note, we will talk to you later.
Speaker 3: V A Fam bye byby a fam, Hey ba fam.
Speaker 3: We could not do this show without your support or
Speaker 3: the support of our team behind the scenes. The Brown
Speaker 3: Ambition podcast is produced by Imani Crosby and Dennis Stanplinsky
Speaker 3: is our in house tech guru.
Speaker 2: I am your co host Mandy Woodrif Santos, and we
Speaker 2: will see y'all next week.
Speaker 3: Ba FAM