1 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we're back. 2 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: We're black. 3 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 3: Jazz calls for jazz hands. 4 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: Hey, how are you manage? 5 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 3: Oh you know, I got my struggle, my struggle blush on, 6 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 3: my struggle whip on. We're hanging in there. 7 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 1: I was so proud of myself because I like did 8 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: a little lightbeat for the first time with him. I 9 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: never ever used a tinted moisturizer. You know who put 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: me on the tinted moisturizer you know, no, Cole Walter 11 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: two thousand and three. 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: No, no, I was. I had no idea. I was like, wait, 13 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: what so the Cole Walter cream come up? 14 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: Girl? 15 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: Tell us about BBE cream tips. 16 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: There's a super talk with girl who I love, Nicole 17 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: Walters On Like that's what literally her name on social media. 18 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 2: She had like a TV show. 19 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: Anyway, Nicole has the most beautiful, gorgeous, glowing black skin. 20 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: And I was just like. 21 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: But I just figured, you know, this is just you know, 22 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: this is her look, like that's just and which it is. 23 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 2: She has beautiful skin. 24 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: But she was like that she loves like tinted moisturizer 25 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: because it just helps to give it the all round 26 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: even And I was like, say what now, how did 27 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: I miss out the tinted moisturizer like trend? 28 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, wait what? 29 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: So I'm mosied on down to the Sephora met Zanaiah 30 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: hay Zanaya. She's a like, you know, she works at 31 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: Sephora in Wilbrook Mall in New Jersey. 32 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 2: And she was so nice. 33 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 1: So we tried on all these different tinted moisturizers and 34 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: I tried on this one called Granada from Nars and 35 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: I was like, but Zania, I can't see it, she 36 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: said exactly. 37 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, and so. 38 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: If you're watching on this on YouTube, girl, when I 39 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: say my skin is because I already have decent skin. 40 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: The skin is giving and the and I was like, 41 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: you need a little eyebrow jels like don't play this 42 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: and I but okay, and. 43 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: So that's why my eyeballs are looking laid to the woods. 44 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: Tell us about girl. 45 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 2: I don't remember. I was like, girl, just a few 46 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: years ago, I was still working. I'm sorry giving you. 47 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: So much shit. I deserve it a little bit, though 48 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 3: I know you go on any longer. 49 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I know. 50 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 3: Welcome Tiffany, Welcome of our Lord twenty No one of 51 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 3: you girls have been out here slaying, and I was like, wow, 52 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: look like that. Oh I'm just happy you're happy with 53 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 3: a little pumpkin poppin. I love it. 54 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: You know you have the top in another color, dude, 55 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 2: last time, I sake, you have a good eye. Okay, journalist, 56 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: i'd be playing. 57 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: So did you hear about the Aurora bole Aurora borealist? 58 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: Like that's just north They were supposed to be usable 59 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 1: last night. Did you see any girl? 60 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 3: I got about it like ninety. 61 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 2: No, I did it from New York. You could see that. 62 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: Well, this is like I think, like it's like you're 63 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: out in the country. Well know, I came back. So, 64 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: but every three hundred years or so there's something like 65 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: that that you can see them, not just in Alaska, 66 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: in Ireland and not Ireland Iceland. Those are the two places, 67 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: and so we're supposed to be able to see it 68 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: basically like in the North. So I went outside at 69 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: night to take a look. But you know, with all 70 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: the light, light pollution, pollution, Yeah, so I didn't get 71 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: you know, we're going to get to see but I 72 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: want to see the northern lions. 73 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: That's on my bucket list. I want to go to 74 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: Alaska or Iceland to see them. 75 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like even here it would be neat. 76 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 3: But it's something about I don't know, those places where 77 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 3: you can live in an igloo and then you know, 78 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: like see it through your window. Yeah that sounds magical. Yeah. 79 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: And Rika made me watch Succession last night. I mean 80 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 3: he didn't make me, but like, you know, I was 81 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 3: on the couch and I feel like getting up and 82 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 3: he wanted to watch it. 83 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: I just can't get into you. I know you don't, 84 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: you know, a big TV fan. 85 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 3: But Succession is a show that, like everyone talks about 86 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 3: it wins all the awards, and it's basically like a 87 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 3: version of the Murdoch family, just like this billionaire you know, 88 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 3: multi billionaire family that the dad, the patriarch, owns like 89 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 3: all these you know, this huge company that owns multiple 90 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: companies and the kids are complete trash assholes and people 91 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: are obsessed with it and you just watch them just 92 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 3: kind of destroy each other and be horrible people. And 93 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 3: I'm just like, but why I'm not I'm not in 94 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 3: But they were in Norway. That's why I thought about it, 95 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I want to go to Norway. 96 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 3: So at least I got something out of watching it. 97 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: But anyway, and to what end. 98 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: I was thinking about that this more. I was having 99 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: a very like I don't know what it's esoteric, but 100 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: like experience is warning. I was taking a shower and 101 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: I thought to myself, So, let's just say, you spend 102 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: eighty years working so hard to make all the money 103 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: and have. 104 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: All the but then one day you're not here. 105 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: That's literally what the show's about. Tis it's called yes 106 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: No you hit it ah ahead, and it's like and 107 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 3: then you just see the wolves descend, and in your 108 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: legacy is that you created these shitty humans. 109 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm just see, here's. 110 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: The thing even if like I get it people like, oh, 111 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: I want to create a legacy, But here's the thing 112 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: about having a legacy. You literally are not here, so 113 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like you're not here 114 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: to see it through. You're not here to see if 115 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: the legacy actually shakes out the way you wanted to. 116 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,359 Speaker 1: So I'm not saying that you shouldn't work hard to 117 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: provide for your family and errors and things like that, 118 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: but it's like, I don't know, it's like you've almost 119 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: sacrificed yourself and your goodness and whatever to what end, 120 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: Because no matter how much money people make, it all ends. 121 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: I mean, if Steve Jobs passing away taught us nothing, 122 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: is that money and wealth and access and everything that 123 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: he had at his fingertips. He's not here and he 124 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: was young, relatively speaking, and so it just seemed like 125 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: such a foolish endeavor to spend the time that you 126 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: are here doing not so great things. 127 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 2: So I just was thinking about. 128 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 3: Less You're going to create great humans who can carry 129 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: on and do good with them. That's that's what it's about. Yes, yeah, 130 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: I know what you mean. I know what you mean. 131 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 3: It's like, if you're going to leave the place, leave 132 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 3: what you built with people who are inherently like selfish 133 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 3: and self serving and have their best interests at heart, 134 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 3: then thanks, appreciate you the rest of the world, and 135 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 3: thank you, mister rich guy. You know, so leave things 136 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: just the way they are when you were here. But 137 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: ooh I did, even though I overslept through my nap. 138 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 2: I did. Of course. 139 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 3: I always have time to check Instagram real quick, and 140 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. The first thing I saw is 141 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 3: that Don Lemon just got Acts from CNN. 142 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 2: I knew that was coming, and. 143 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 3: Don Lemon has been there for I know, I feel 144 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 3: like every couple years. It was like a Don Lemon controversy. 145 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 3: But it just reminded me again because his statement, his 146 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: statement came out and he was like, I was stunned. 147 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 3: I had no idea today that I wouldn't be or 148 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 3: there was no indication that I wouldn't be able to 149 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 3: continue the great work that I've done there. And I'm like, yep, 150 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 3: like everybody else, when they decide that you are no 151 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 3: longer serving them and their business needs, they will kick 152 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: your ass to the side. And if you're a woman 153 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 3: of color, a person of color even quicker. So Don 154 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 3: Lemon ain't special. What was it this time? He said 155 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 3: old women were past their prime. That was the last 156 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 3: thing I remember. I knew he was. 157 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: I said, Don, you're about to be on your wheel. 158 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: But he'll be fine, you know, like he'll have a 159 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: podcast by tomorrow exactly. So, but I just welcome. 160 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: I was thinking too, like even like there was this. 161 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: I went live last night on like Instagram for a 162 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: little bit and when I was finished, I like swiped 163 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: through a few stories and one of the stories I 164 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: saw people always got meme, so you know, Jamie Fox 165 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: has been hospitalized. 166 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 2: Reportedly, yes, stroke gone. Reportedly they're saying it's for a stroke. Now, well, 167 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: you know that's. 168 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: What the people say, but who knows, okay, if that's 169 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: true or not. And so they said that he was 170 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: like working on a movie. I think he had two 171 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: more weeks left. And so this is all supposed reportedly, 172 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: this is what you know, this is all from my meme. 173 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: So you know, God take it with the smallest grain 174 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: of smallest sault anyway, that he's working on a movie. 175 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: There's only like two weeks of shooting left, and instead 176 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: of waiting for him to recover, they instead just finished 177 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: with his body double right, And so, like the memes 178 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: purpose was to say that, like, take your rest because 179 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: even if you don't, they will find somebody to replace you, 180 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: you know. And that was just like dark but true, 181 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: but meaning that like sometimes we say that we will 182 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: break ourselves in order to you know, get something accomplished, 183 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: only to find out that like if we. 184 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 2: Just said no, they would figure it out. 185 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: We all, you know, we act like we're the oh, 186 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: y'all be all the people won't figure it out. 187 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 2: They'll figure it out, you know. 188 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 3: Hm, that's the same speech I give to anyone who's 189 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 3: really frustrated or really I'm concerned about leaving their job 190 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 3: for a new opportunity, and they're like, but I've made 191 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: such an impact with the team, but my my, you 192 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 3: know again the word legacy or what I've built here, 193 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 3: and I'm just like, it's going to be okay. People 194 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: have quit before. You have entire prime minister's quitting right now, 195 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 3: like someone Biles left the Olympics and said they're all good. 196 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 3: You know, I think that there's at the same time, 197 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 3: you know, Don Lemon left, it does feel like there's 198 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 3: this you know, we haven't had a chance to talk 199 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 3: about this, but when you were on, when you were 200 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 3: in traveling in March, there was this influencer and now 201 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 3: I'm not going to remember her name, but she kind 202 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: of went viral because she had, you know, built this 203 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 3: huge following, had this very successful business and basically wrote 204 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 3: like I'm kind of done, y'all, I'm going to walk 205 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 3: away from this for a while. 206 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: I think I saw I had send you a message. 207 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, we should have her, which is so ironic 208 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: because she ain't gonna be on. 209 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: Did send me a message? And I was like, wow 210 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: a sidebar, cousin. Yeah, we talked about that later. We 211 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: talked about that, lady. We talk about the later boost. 212 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 3: But but yeah, there have been you know these I 213 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 3: just you know this, these people who are announcing that 214 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 3: they're they are choosing like a different path and they're 215 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 3: just you know, leaving, and it's like, Okay, but your 216 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 3: people and but your followers they rely on you, but 217 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 3: your audience and this, and that they're gonna be fine. 218 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: You know, they'll find another I mean, they'll maybe miss you, 219 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 3: hopefully you'll be missed. But at the same time, it 220 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 3: shouldn't stop you from pursuing whatever it is that like 221 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 3: we deserve, we deserve to pursue what lights us up 222 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 3: and not feel this burden to you know, continue to 223 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 3: do a dog and pony show that we're just not 224 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 3: interested in anymore. 225 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: Girl, When I tell you, that's what I love, That's 226 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: what the life was about last night. That like one 227 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: of the benefits of like taking like a deep break 228 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: from social media is that I didn't feel the urgency 229 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: that social media kind of like you know, so much stuff, 230 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening, and so I get to 231 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: actually just look at my day to day life and 232 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: just enjoy it as it is, not as I wish 233 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: it could be, you know, because we will literally stress 234 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: ourselves out over something we just learned. Like I was like, 235 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: I had never heard of tuloom five years ago, you know, 236 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: of course Mexico, but I never heard of to Loom Mexico. 237 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: And now the girls can't live without Tulum. They can't 238 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: live without Toulu. Everybody go to Loom. I'm like, yeah, 239 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: I didn't even know to Little existed five years. 240 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: Ago, but so media fortieth every bachelor girl but some 241 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 2: of y'all, like I did hear about to Little. 242 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 3: He got a really good press person or social media. 243 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: Girl was tired the tuloom is Tulum was like, actually, 244 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: we're good over here. But I see all that to 245 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: say that, like it became like this destination that you 246 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: must do, but so many people had never even heard 247 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: of it before, and that social media sometimes the world 248 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: we live in now can create urgency where there is now. 249 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: I was talking to my sister Carol the other day 250 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: and my niece Samiliar, who's six. She has to put 251 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 1: a lock on the tablet because they keep downloading games 252 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: and things for a dollar two dollars whatever. 253 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 3: Once Roman downloading a stock market girl. 254 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: This boy told his mother, I want to do a 255 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: summer program where I could do math and build things. 256 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not downloading money the other. 257 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 2: Regulars, right, and he's just out here just you know, 258 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 2: just who knows. It's probably a casino app. Just don't baby, Because. 259 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 1: So she asked a mother, can you cause now that 260 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: Carol has a cold loock on it? Mommy, can you 261 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: put in your numbers? And she said no, And so 262 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: Amelia was like, it's only. 263 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine. 264 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 1: Can imagine the six year old who pays no bills 265 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: because I guess in her mind her birthday just passed. 266 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 1: So she's like, girl, if it's money, you need more 267 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: more more, Yes, exactly we do. And so she was 268 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: like Amelia, no, And the way Amelia I actually had 269 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: to tell Carol, can you check out my niece because 270 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: she sounds like she's being dangled from the top of 271 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: a building and it's scared for her life because the 272 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: way she had a meltdown for something that she did 273 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: not even know existed until five minutes ago. And I 274 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: thought to myself, this is how we're navigating that, you know, 275 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: we can all be like, oh, mim be a good girl. 276 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: But it's like we are all navigating from the space 277 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: of things that we didn't even know existed. All of 278 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: a sudden, there's this urgency and this need. And honestly, 279 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: I was reading an article, I think it was CNBC 280 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: of how it's costing young people their financial future. You know, 281 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: you're spending money on things that you don't you know, 282 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: necessarily even make you happy. You are, you know, telling 283 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: yourself like soft life, which is nothing wrong with that, 284 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: but you have no work experience, you know, like even 285 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 1: this I've always I wanted to talk to about the 286 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: work from home. Do we talk about the work from 287 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: home girlfriend? No, the girl the stay at home girlfriend movement? 288 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, like people I have to skip. I was like, 289 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 3: make sure the algorithm knows I don't want these videos. 290 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: But yes, basically like a kept girlfriend who's like bragging 291 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 3: about it on social media and yes, aesthetic everything. 292 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: But the problem is is that most of these kept 293 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 1: most of these kept girlfriends, they think they're winning because 294 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: most of them are in their twenties and they think 295 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: my boyfriend is taking care of me. All I gotta 296 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: do is BQ, make sure he's good. But the problem 297 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 1: is your boyfriend is out there getting an education, work 298 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: experience all of the end starting to set aside for 299 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: you know. Let's just like assume that he has a 300 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: four one care whatever I work and setting aside money 301 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: for retirement in his twenties and you throughout. 302 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 3: Your twenties dimension social security girl, so you your twenties, 303 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 3: he's that man you know, know eligible. 304 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: Exactly and even if he takes care of it, but 305 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: you have no work experience like you know, or your 306 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: work experience is going to be limited. It doesn't start 307 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 1: into you're thirty or thirty five like everybody knows. Hopefully 308 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: you know the power of compound and interest that it 309 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: would take you if you don't. If you start saving 310 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: at twenty, you don't have to put aside nearly as 311 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: much then if you start saving at forty or thirty 312 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: or something, So you're missing out on all that juicy 313 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: compound interest of that money that you can have set 314 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: aside and invest in. And even if you're like, well, 315 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: he's going to take care of me for life, Let's 316 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: just say your your boyfriend. 317 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 2: Is amazing ends up marrying you. He's awesome. 318 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: I lost the love of my life, and he was 319 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: all those things amazing, awesome. So you cannot control someone 320 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: just literally might not be here, not because they don't 321 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: want to be, because something tragic happens, and then what 322 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: And so I just think that social media is actually 323 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: making people broken, which is really. 324 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, it's just yeah, I mean, it's 325 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 3: tails all this time. There's always going to be a 326 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 3: way for I knew. I guess when we were When 327 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 3: I was a kid, it was the toys or rust 328 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 3: Sunday catalog that thick newspaper came and we'd fight over 329 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 3: who got to get the catalog first, and that would 330 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 3: tell you what toys you wanted, plus commercials, you know. 331 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 3: So like I think it's tail as old as time 332 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 3: and so cheez something trying to I have had, you know, 333 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 3: and I know friends of mine who have two. On 334 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 3: those bad days when the kids are crying over things, 335 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 3: you know, toy a toy. Yesterday, Rio was obsessed with 336 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 3: a dinosaur egg that you can it's basically a piece 337 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 3: of dirt that they saw with the plastic dinosaur inside 338 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: for the low low price of like four dollars per egg. 339 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 3: And I guess he must have seen something on YouTube 340 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 3: because I'm not gonna lie this weekend. 341 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: It was a. 342 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 3: Screen heavy gun weekend, and he's like, I want to 343 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 3: go the Dinosaur egg store. Everything he thinks to the normal. 344 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 3: It's like a store all freaking day and then anyway, 345 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, just my lack of willpower and my husband, 346 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: who never has willpower. He cannot watch this baby cry. 347 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 3: We ended up at Target later in the day and 348 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 3: I immediately found the to I knew where it was, 349 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 3: and Rio meanwhile had to go. He's like, mom, because 350 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 3: I'd never really let him loosen Target, He's usually in 351 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 3: the cart. I'm stuffing snacks in his face to keep 352 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 3: him on that side of the store, and he's like, 353 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 3: there's so many toys and his eyes were just like 354 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 3: so overwhelmed. I'm proud of him because I think it 355 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 3: was almost too much for him to just compute. He's like, 356 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 3: but this and that and you know, and I was like, yes, 357 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: and we came for this one, and aren't you happy? 358 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 3: And do you want me to put this back so 359 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 3: you can, you know, find something to He's like, no, 360 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 3: I really wanted that egg toy. But yeah, I'm like 361 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 3: a lord of mercy trying to it's going to be 362 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 3: a battle, I think for ourselves and for the cheeran 363 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 3: to try to raise ourselves too, just like resist that. 364 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 3: And I think it really comes down to like constantly 365 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 3: checking in with yourself about what brings you joy and peace, 366 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 3: because it's it's so much easier to ignore the other stuff. 367 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 3: And I think that had I not had I not 368 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 3: spent sort of the last decade and you know, living 369 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: in a city of materialism and things, but then really 370 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 3: have like being grounded in what the things that I wanted, 371 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 3: Like I wouldn't have this house, I wouldn't pay for 372 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 3: this wedding. I wouldn't be able to start my own business, 373 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 3: shouts out to twenty two. I'm just like twenty two 374 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: to twenty six year old Mandy does not get enough credit, 375 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 3: hard like for the life that she created for me 376 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 3: now because man, like the smallest things, like you said, 377 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,239 Speaker 3: saving investing that now I'm not able to do as 378 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 3: easily because I don't work nine to five and I'm 379 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 3: figuring out this new thing. I'm not as pressed or 380 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 3: stressed because I'm like, Okay, I made moves in the 381 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 3: first decade of my career that are paying dividends. To me. Now, 382 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 3: So if I don't even do anything, I've done something, yes, 383 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,719 Speaker 3: you know, and it's like what I was always But 384 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,239 Speaker 3: that comes I think from I don't know, maybe these 385 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 3: stay at home girlfriends never saw a single mom be 386 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: broke with four kids trying, you know, and had that 387 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 3: experience of like seeing your mom's credit card or debit 388 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 3: card get declined at a grocery store. And I'm just like, no, 389 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 3: that's what I value. I value security and you know, 390 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 3: instability and independence. And I don't know, they'll have their 391 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 3: they'll have a wake up call one day, I. 392 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 2: Know, but it's going to be an expensive one. That's 393 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 2: the thing. Hope it ain't my kids. I know I'm cheating. 394 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 3: I hope my boys don't grow up keeping a stay 395 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 3: at home girl. And I hope they're like, man, you 396 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 3: need to get a job for your own security. Yeah, 397 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: because you just don't. 398 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: I mean, even if someone is amazing and wonderful on 399 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: all the things, it's just I'm not saying that. 400 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 2: Like, here's the thing, I'm not saying that. 401 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: You know, if you're fortunate that let's just say you're married, 402 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 1: you know, and basically you have a contractual obligation to 403 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 1: do certain things. Fine, if you want to be a 404 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: stay at home mom whatever, and you know, I think 405 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: that's honestly that the work. 406 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 2: That's hard work. Okay, take me to work. 407 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 3: Oh no, you know, no, no, no, absolutely no disrespect 408 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 3: to stay at home moms. 409 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: Like yeah, or stay at home dad, just to stay 410 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: at home parent. That work is the is the work. 411 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,479 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is stay at home girlfriend. 412 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:57,719 Speaker 3: Sits like, you know, like you're your best years. 413 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 414 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 3: I saw a really good I saw a really good 415 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 3: explanation or like a debate from a mom on TikTok 416 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 3: who you know, she has kids and I think she 417 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 3: has four kids, and she shared that she spends five 418 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 3: thousand dollars a month on childcare for her four kids. 419 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 3: And I'm thinking, wow, what a bargain because it is 420 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 3: daycare alone is twenty three hundred dollars a month. 421 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 2: You're like, what about Jesus. 422 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, that's like a two for a two, 423 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 3: you know, because for the cost of that, I'm going 424 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 3: to have two kids in daycare. And of course everyone's 425 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 3: like thinking about the math, Well, do you make that 426 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 3: much money a month? Does it make more sense for 427 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 3: you to just stay at home and take care of 428 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,199 Speaker 3: the kids. And her argument was, I'm not going to 429 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 3: be doing this forever, y'all, Like, they're not going to 430 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,479 Speaker 3: be in daycare for the next twenty thirty years of 431 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 3: my career. And if I leave my career to save 432 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 3: five thousand dollars, you have to understand I'm setting myself back, 433 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 3: Like why is no one thinking of that? Of course 434 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 3: you are. I mean I coach women who are trying 435 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 3: to re enter the workforce, and you can say, is 436 00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 3: you know, we all respect stay at home moms and 437 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 3: all that, but at the end of the day, that 438 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 3: huge resume gap, it does make a difference. It is 439 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 3: hard to come back from. So yeah, you have to 440 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 3: we need more messages like that. You got to think 441 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 3: about yourself long term. 442 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 2: Well, no, that's five thousand dollars, sixty thousand dollars a year. 443 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, she probably lives in Georgia too, And 444 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, that's a bargain. 445 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: I mean, And you're right though, when you really because 446 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,640 Speaker 1: I remember at the time when the both Carols kids 447 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 1: were in in a what's it called it? In preschool, 448 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: it was like, I want to say, twenty two hundred 449 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 1: and twenty three, and you're right, that probably was a 450 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 1: bargain for the both of them, you know, for the 451 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah, you know, and so like and 452 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: I knew she was like, I can't wait too, gets old. 453 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: I can't wait. 454 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 1: Because in Jersey preschool so like, if you go to 455 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: basically like a public preschool, it could be free. So 456 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: that's what she was just I could just get them to, 457 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: you know, preschool then you know, like. 458 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 3: Years of struggle. 459 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: Yes, oh wow, this is why people don't be having kids. 460 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 2: It's so fun now. 461 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,360 Speaker 3: And I'm such a IOK of my husband all the time, 462 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like, why do we pick the one area 463 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 3: of Westchester that doesn't have universal pre K yeah, which 464 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 3: we get to pay for an extra year of daycare, 465 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 3: so he's going to be in there until he's four 466 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 3: almost five. Yeah, anyway, I think, amou it's chances me 467 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 3: out but shout out to I don't even know where 468 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 3: how we got on that subject. But you're crazy if 469 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 3: you're not continuing, I mean, you're short sighted and like 470 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 3: it will bite you in the ass if you're not 471 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 3: continuing to invest in your skill set, in your knowledge, 472 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 3: in your how you can contribute to Society for a book. 473 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:39,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and also just putting putting away money, like you know, yes, 474 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: if you're not putting aside money, chow. So I just 475 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: I want to see my kind of so renovations, you know, 476 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: where I have to. I'm getting a quote now from 477 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 1: I've found a contractor, same people who really helped me 478 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: before Jermaine and Rihanna remain Home and sough. So that 479 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: I told you, it's twenty eight hundred script feet and 480 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: I want to refinish the floors because they're kind of 481 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 1: like a. 482 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 2: Peanut buttery color. 483 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: It's very typical of the time that it was built, 484 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: which is like one hundred years as all blazed and yeah, 485 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: it's not terrible, just not you know, just not the 486 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: vibe I'm looking for. 487 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:14,360 Speaker 2: So Jermaine went to look. 488 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 1: He was like, so, there's about twenty five hundred squipt 489 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: feet the floor to refinish and we're gonna, you know, 490 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: talk to a refinisher. 491 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 2: But it might be upwards of like forty thousand dollars. 492 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I was like, what my cap was twenty 493 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: five thousand? I just said, right, So, like I set 494 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: aside one hundred thousand dollars for renovations. 495 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 2: Carpets coming back. You know, the thing is I can 496 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 2: keep the forest as is. It's not the worst thing. 497 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, I just we've been decy. Hopefully the refinisher 498 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: says something closer to twenty five thousand. But it's just 499 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: like so it's almost like you ask yourself. You know, 500 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm in a space now where it's like, how much 501 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 1: do I invest into this property because I plan on 502 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: staying here for while, and honestly, I'm not looking to 503 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: resell like this property, I plan just like the house 504 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 1: I live in now, it's paid off, y'all know. I 505 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: bought that condo was five point twenty Funny, I paid 506 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,679 Speaker 1: it off in full, like you know, so there's no 507 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: morgage there. So this will just be included into my estate. 508 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 1: And when I'm no longer here, it's part of my trust. 509 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: It goes to my heirs. So I'm not as concerned 510 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 1: about my return quote unquote on investment, although I mean 511 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 1: the way where I live in Jersey, the prices just 512 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 1: keep going up, so I'm sure I'll see a return, 513 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: but I'm not as concerned. But I'm just also like, 514 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 1: we gonna see I'll keep you guys updated about like 515 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: you know, I'll get probably the final quote of all 516 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: the things I want to do, Like the plumbing and 517 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: electric are updated, but I want to like rechange the tile. 518 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: I want to refinish them, the cabinets in the kitchen, 519 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: I want to put some molding, and so there's a 520 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: lot of esthetic things I want to do. 521 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 2: And I'm coming under a one hundred thousand. 522 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 3: We've been to see now, well, I pray for you, 523 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 3: but yeah, I mean that play. So that's all the pictures, 524 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 3: and that had a lot of personality to it. So 525 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 3: I think it is the kind of thing where you're 526 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,199 Speaker 3: not able to really go in there and not like 527 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 3: if you don't, it almost like you're wearing a costume 528 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 3: or someone else. Yes, you know, clothes for a while, 529 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 3: which is good. You know. The whole thing is like 530 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 3: I think you move into a house and it does 531 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 3: feel like you want to start doing things, but the 532 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 3: slower you can go as slow as you need to, 533 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 3: one room at a time. 534 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 2: No, girl, please, I'm not moving into that place. Is done? Okay? 535 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: Oh really, because I'm like a girl where I live 536 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: around the corner, so I'm not in rush like I 537 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: want like I want it to be. I would like 538 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: to move in and not done like all the furniture, 539 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: but like done, like all the renovations, so all the tile, 540 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: all the I don't want anybody in my house stuff. Yes, 541 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: and so then I can get furniture at will. But yeah, 542 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: the plus two, you know, Carol and the kids are 543 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: going to move into this house and just pay. 544 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: I was going to ask, are they in there yet, 545 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 2: because I'm sure she's like when you. 546 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: Move in, girl, she is, she is, and a Milion 547 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 1: is always like, so this is my room, right, I'm like, no, 548 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: this is mommy's room. 549 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 2: She's like whatever. 550 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 3: Girl's explained to her timelines and budgets. 551 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 2: So they're so excited about living here. It's like perfect 552 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: for them. 553 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,239 Speaker 1: They're school, which goes up to eighth grade, is right 554 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 1: down the street, so they're like so excited. 555 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 2: But yeah, so I would. 556 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: Love to get in by you know, August, so the 557 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: kids because school starts in September for Jersey kids, I 558 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: would love for them to be able to move in 559 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 1: by like mid August so they can be settled, you know, 560 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: and you know school starts in September, and then October 561 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: is my birthday, so I would have like a birthday 562 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: party slash housewarming where all the people can come. Yeah, 563 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: and so that way we can celebrate, you know, the 564 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: new house and my renovation and my birthday. So I'll 565 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: be forty four. 566 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 2: Jesus, that's a. 567 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 3: Cool such an that's an auspicious number though, forty four. 568 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 3: Something about that feels lucky. It does. Well, I'm really 569 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 3: excited for you. I don't know when all I don't 570 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 3: know whatever husband went through that this is. I'm like 571 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 3: trying to hide it, but I have so much crap 572 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 3: behind me right now. Husband finally went to the crawl 573 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 3: space and took the baby stuff out, and he's like, I. 574 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:03,400 Speaker 2: Can't do anything right. 575 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 3: What did dude? Always something clean and bell. I'm like, well, 576 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 3: when I said take it out, I didn't mean put 577 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 3: it behind my office where I like, on my office 578 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 3: floor where I have to be on camera. But yeah, 579 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 3: I see stacks of baby clothes and a baby orn 580 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 3: that I have to remember how to do, little little 581 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 3: baby car seat. Oh lord, it's really happening. But before 582 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 3: I get too overwhelmed and start crying again because all 583 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 3: I do is fucking cry. Now, why don't we take 584 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 3: a break, Okay, for a boost and break. 585 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: All right, y'all see in a minute, and we're back. Okay, 586 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: Mandy is not crying. 587 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 3: Before and before husband made me watch Succession last night. 588 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 3: I was he was putting Rio down to sleep and 589 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 3: I would. He came down and I was watching like 590 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 3: Taking three. 591 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 2: It was like Liam Neeson, you know, just. 592 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 3: Because I was like, I can just watch people shoot 593 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 3: each other. I guess like everything we cry, I can't 594 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 3: watch anything. Yeah, I'm just a I'm just an emotional mess. 595 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 3: But we're back in black and brown and were ready 596 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 3: for a vintage section of a vintage segment that we 597 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 3: rarely do. I feel like anymore incentive. 598 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 2: I can't remember. It's all like it's time booster breaking booster. No, 599 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: but there's something before it. If it's like a little entry, 600 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 2: gonna boost, are gonna break, what you're gonna do, what 601 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 2: you're gonna take. 602 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 1: But it's always like but there's like something before, Like girl, 603 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 1: I don't remember what I say in the beginning. Anyway, 604 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna boost, We're gonna record that. We really should 605 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: that way, it's always there. We gotta go grab one of. 606 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,440 Speaker 2: The old one. We could solve so many problems. 607 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,719 Speaker 1: I promise you because the way our our listeners are, 608 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 1: they're like, I like this struggle. 609 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,479 Speaker 3: They're like trying to think of it in their heads, 610 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 3: like what version will be here today? 611 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: I know, like that's not even it to I'm like, girl, 612 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: I don't remember. If you actually remember, you know what, 613 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 1: leave us a voice note. That would be hilarious on 614 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: Instagram so we can get our Oh maybe we'll use 615 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 1: your voice. Leave us a voice note and we can 616 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: shout to you. I'll be like, you know what, this 617 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,159 Speaker 1: booster break is borne to you. 618 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 3: We can't keep though. 619 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 2: I know that's true. That's true. 620 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: I'm all like, yeah, then we'll fly you out anyway. 621 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 3: I would do that sometimes when I was editing, I'd 622 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 3: be like, I'm like, we ain't doing that. 623 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: Are you gonna I'm gonna boost Okay. So mine is 624 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 1: just really simple and easy. So shout out to ra 625 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: Meet Sethi, the first brown person I've ever seen in 626 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: personal finance. It was literally I was in high school 627 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 1: and my sister was in college. My sister Karen, she's 628 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: two years older than me, and she came home and 629 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm reading this book I 630 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 1: will teach you to be rich. And he's hilarious. She 631 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 1: was like, he is a son of immigrants, just like me, 632 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: and it's really helping me get my money together. And 633 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 1: at the time I was like I don care. I 634 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: was like, you know, like sixteen or whatever, and she 635 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: was like, I said. 636 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 2: She was in college. 637 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: But I just remember distinctly remember like her getting his 638 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: book that long ago. And so now it is, I mean, 639 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 1: it is a classic. Especially I'm so glad there's a 640 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: classic by like, you know, a brown person. And so 641 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 1: now Ramat has a news show on Netflix called How 642 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: to Get. 643 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 2: Rich and it's doing so well. 644 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: It's in the top ten, which is amazing on Netflix's 645 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: which is a huge accomplishment. 646 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 3: I've seen it when I go on there, but I 647 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 3: haven't had a chance to tune in here. I haven't 648 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 3: tuned INNY. 649 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: So I watched like the first episode and no verse 650 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: two and so one of them was so good. And 651 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: then we talked about the stay at home parents. So 652 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: it's this guy who was an engineer, but he has 653 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 1: like two kids with his wife. She makes a lot 654 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: of money as I'm like, in a marketing or whatever, 655 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: like two fifty or something like that, and he's a 656 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 1: stay at home dad and the level of disrespect. 657 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 2: Heaped on him, Joe it is. 658 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 1: You have to watch that one by who his wife 659 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: a girl. She basically says that he can't move no 660 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 1: money without tapping her on the shoulder, like he's a baby, 661 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: and she was like, why should he do anything with 662 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 1: the money when I'm making it. 663 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, Si, he's raising the girls. It's really really 664 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 2: I mean. 665 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 3: Men in the sixties street, Yes, and. 666 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 1: That's exactly she's basically giving him. But I just to 667 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: watch it is so cringey because you know, she's basically 668 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: like basically, he was like, the more she makes, the 669 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: less valuable I become. 670 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: I'm like Jesus, so basically like, why are you even here? 671 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 1: You know, I know, I was like, but I mean 672 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: it's a really great commentary on like this is how 673 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: what women have been dealing with since to be beginning 674 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: of time. But honestly, it's just yeah, it just he's like, 675 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 1: you know, like I he said, literally he's an engineer. 676 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: He literally was like, being a stay at home dad 677 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: is literally harder than any engineering job I've ever had. 678 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm so glad that he said that. He was like, 679 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: this is hard. But he's like, you know, but you know, 680 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 1: I get to love on my babies. I love the 681 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: fact that I'm here with them because they're still really young. 682 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 2: He said. 683 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: But I don't like the fact how my wife because 684 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: once she's like running them into credit card dad, she's 685 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: not she's mishandling the money and then he has. 686 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 3: No So that's why she doesn't want him touching it. 687 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 3: Also because she doesn't want to get him too close 688 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 3: to the money. Yes, man, I love that they find 689 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 3: these people. 690 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like her. 691 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna feel better as a wife and a mother 692 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 3: by watching it. And I'll watch it. 693 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 2: Watch it. 694 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: Let's way, so we can chat that out to be 695 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: like chat like I would love to hear from y'all, 696 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: like tweet us, instagram us, Like what do you think 697 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: I haven't watched all the episodes yet, but I've been too, 698 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: just like like I said, just I just love the 699 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: fact that like, cause you know, for me, if you 700 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 1: follow over me, he is sarcastic, He don't care. He 701 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 1: gonna talk terrible about the banks. He is going to 702 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 1: drag MLMs. He is holy holistically himself, unapologetically so. And 703 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: someone he reposted a screenshot of someone saying something to 704 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 1: the fact that, like, I'm so glad they have like 705 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: a dark skinned, hairy Indian on He was like, yes, 706 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: represent us, like and I just thought it was so fun. 707 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I just love the fact that this level 708 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 1: of representation, and it's it's what I love is that 709 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: you know, he's the central character you don't re meeat 710 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 1: goes through. And as a result, his Instagram has blown 711 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: up well over four hundred thousand people. I don't know 712 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: where he was before. His books have sold out everywhere. 713 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,239 Speaker 1: It just really is like a rising tide lifts all 714 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: boats and I love to see it. And so yeah, 715 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: support how to get rich and we could check about it. 716 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 1: You guys can tweet us and we can talk about like, 717 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: you know, your episodes that you like, the ones that 718 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: make you say damn. 719 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 3: You know. So I hope that we get him on 720 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 3: the show soon. I know that I had. I think, 721 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 3: I yeah, I think we're working on that for a minute. 722 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 3: You know, for meat y'all met. 723 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: Before, right, No, I actually never met him person. He 724 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 1: invited me to his I was like, re meet him me. 725 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I want you to come to 726 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: my the screet like you know, the screening party. I 727 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: was like, sure, because I thought we meet it lived 728 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 1: in New York. 729 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 2: I think he does. 730 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: But then I looked. I was like, for meet, this 731 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: is in Hollywood. Bruh, Like I'm not gonna. 732 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 3: Be to make what you don't just like get on 733 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 3: your jet. 734 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 1: But it's always just like some so I don't know 735 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: him personally personally, but like you know, socially, I do 736 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 1: so and he just seems like, you know, like a dope, funny, 737 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: like like very what you see is what you get 738 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: type of guy, which I. 739 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 3: Like, Oh, well, good for him, congrats for me. I'm 740 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 3: want to check out that episode in particular, because again, 741 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 3: I would love to feel better about marriage and motherhood 742 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 3: and all those things. My boost I have a couple 743 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 3: one Tiffany knows, but I'm hopefully going to be announcing 744 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 3: a book now. I've been a little quiet, I think 745 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 3: on the book journey front, because I did. I signed 746 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 3: with an agent like a month or two of no 747 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 3: a couple months ago. And after you get an agent 748 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 3: to kind of take the wheel and get you know, 749 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 3: send good jillions of emails out to publishers and stuff. 750 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 3: I happened, and I told Tiffany this, I was a 751 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 3: little disappointed to hear that some of the feedback has 752 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 3: been focused on my audience, because I mean, y'all know, 753 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 3: I mean, I focus on like women of color, especially 754 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 3: in black women in my work. That's just where my 755 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 3: heart is, and that's some of the feedback has been, 756 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:15,280 Speaker 3: like the audience is a little narrow. But in spite 757 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 3: of all that, I have had a couple of big 758 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 3: publishers interested. So fingers triple dipple crossed that I have 759 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 3: something fun to announce and then I have something to 760 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 3: you know, beyond Beyonce this weekend and like growing a human, 761 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 3: birthing a human, I'll have something else to look forward 762 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,879 Speaker 3: to for the summer and next year. 763 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: Yeah. 764 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,320 Speaker 3: So I'm just proud. 765 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 1: Who really proud of me, Mandy, because you're just like 766 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 1: I was telling Tracy, you know, my publicist. She was like, 767 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 1: did Mandy just I said exactly one thing about Mandy 768 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,879 Speaker 1: is she gonna get it done? You were just like this, 769 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: I think I want to write. And then it was like, 770 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: I need an agent. You did your due diligence, found 771 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 1: the right agent for yourself. You're like, I want to 772 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: have a really good, you know, book proposal. You did 773 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: you do this just found a pro proposal. Coach, you 774 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 1: were a proposal, and I mean literally all like you. 775 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 1: You know, you really inspire me many because I know 776 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: how hard making the tradition, the transition from corporate to like, 777 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, working for yourself. I mean I never doubted 778 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,240 Speaker 1: you because I could spot a winter winter chicken dinner 779 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: and I was like girl, I ultimately, yes, I was 780 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 1: like Mandy, of all the people, not you, because I 781 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: know that you are committed to doing the work required, 782 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: and that's all that's required to be successful. Honestly, certainly 783 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 1: there's luck, certainly there's but the work required means that 784 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 1: you are someone who will continue to do the work 785 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: until until it's done, meaning that like, yes, they're going 786 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,399 Speaker 1: to be you know, short stops and I'm not sure 787 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 1: it stops, but pitfalls and you know, and things along 788 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: the way, but you will do the work necessary to 789 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: bypass those things. And that's really it. That's the magic, sauce. 790 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 1: Are you willing to keep going? That's if you are 791 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: someone who's willing to keep going, then you will see success. 792 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 1: It might take you ten years, it might but are 793 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,080 Speaker 1: you willing to keep going? And so I just know you, 794 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: and so I'm not shocked, you know, or surprised, and 795 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 1: I know that like it's just bigger and better and 796 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 1: greater things. I'm so glad that Corpora didn't work out 797 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: for you, because we need you out here in the streets. 798 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: You are street sold and now you act it with us. 799 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 3: Ah, thanks, Tiff, I receive it. That's that's such a 800 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 3: that's a perfect compliment for me, because that is so true. 801 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 3: I mean, I will I don't like to make big 802 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 3: goals and not have a plan to get them done. 803 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 3: So I'm really good at executing and just getting from 804 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 3: point A to B. And it's been a long journey. 805 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 3: I think this time last year I started looking for 806 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 3: a proposal coach, and I was like, I want to 807 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 3: make this happen. And I finally and it also came 808 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 3: down to me feeling like I finally had the thing 809 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,720 Speaker 3: to say, you know, and I finally had the message 810 00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 3: that I would write. It takes a long time to 811 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 3: write a book, and I don't want to do a 812 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 3: half asked just for it. I'm not doing it just 813 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,320 Speaker 3: to have something out there. I want to do it 814 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 3: because it means something. And so if I'm going to 815 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,879 Speaker 3: spend the next two years souse. That's what they're saying. 816 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 3: Twenty twenty five, y'all, he's getting those books hopefully up 817 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 3: the bookshelf, fingers crossed. I'm painting my nails while I'm 818 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,479 Speaker 3: sitting here because I can't sit here with the bottle 819 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 3: of nail polish and not fiddle with it. Apparently love it, 820 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 3: so they've gone for nothing to yellow. Yeah, well you 821 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 3: can't see it up close, you know how it is 822 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 3: when you do your own nails. But anyway, thank you 823 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 3: so much. Yeah, that's that's really what's about. Because I 824 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 3: this has been a long it's been a I know 825 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 3: it's been a short time. It's been a couple of 826 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 3: years since I launched, but it still has felt like 827 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 3: a very long journey. But it's about believing in yourself 828 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,360 Speaker 3: and just believing in like the fact that if you 829 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 3: map out a plan and you execute that plan and 830 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 3: you don't let your brain get in the way of 831 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 3: stopping you from completing that plan, because that's so often 832 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 3: when it is right, it's like our own self doubt. 833 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 3: It's like, but why me do I deserve? Should I 834 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,880 Speaker 3: be here? What do I have to say that matters? 835 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 3: And I'm at that point where I feel like I 836 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,279 Speaker 3: got some shit to say that matters, and I'm really 837 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 3: excited to say it. So thanks, tiff. I just appreciate that. 838 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 3: That's why, that's why we not just sister friends, be cousins. 839 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes, girl, because that's my other boost. That's 840 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 2: my other boost. 841 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: I have nothing to show for it, but I went back. 842 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 3: I had done twenty three and me forever ago. But 843 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 3: I forgot somehow that I am twenty percent Nigerian. Yeah, 844 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 3: that's and it's not even a question. My people came 845 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 3: from Nigeria. So I texted Tiffany. I was like, so, 846 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 3: by the way, I would like an invite to Thanksgiving. 847 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,360 Speaker 3: I would like Superstanta. I want to be on the 848 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 3: sister List. Whatever the secret clubs are, can I be 849 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 3: in them? 850 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. No, But isn't that cool? 851 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 1: Yes? 852 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 2: It is because you're like forty percent West African? Do 853 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 2: you claim me? I do forty yeah, forty nine, forty seven. 854 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 3: I forget. 855 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 856 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 3: That's a high percentage, oh West African. Yeah, I need 857 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 3: to look at that again because I'm like fifty The 858 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 3: Europeans do got me all. I'm not going to even 859 00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,399 Speaker 3: try to front fifty three form point four. But that's 860 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,359 Speaker 3: because are you black, You still got a little something 861 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 3: in you, you know what I mean? Anyway, I'm fifty three 862 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:09,480 Speaker 3: percent European, it's all, and it's like British and Irish, 863 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 3: and which makes sense because I do know that part 864 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,839 Speaker 3: of my mom's family. But then on the African side, yeah, 865 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 3: post this in the group notes for y'all. Oh, that's right, 866 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,359 Speaker 3: thirty nine point nine percent West African. I'm forty five 867 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,240 Speaker 3: percent Sub Saharan African. But of that forty percent West African, 868 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 3: and then of that twenty percent Nigerian Ghana. Sorry, you're 869 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: in a very very very far away second place as 870 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:40,720 Speaker 3: six percent, and then something about broadly East broadly West African. 871 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,399 Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm very proud of that. I would love 872 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:44,280 Speaker 2: to visit Nigeria. 873 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 1: We got to give you, well, you know you have 874 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 1: the firstborn daughter or no, yes, I am okay, So 875 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 1: we're going to call you. We did this already a 876 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,359 Speaker 1: dase right when you first told me, didn't I give 877 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 1: you a d A d so adeve means so Ada 878 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: is daughter, which oftentimes this is what you'll call, like, say, 879 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: if you were to come in to like you know, 880 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 1: like you and your family were coming and your dad 881 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: was bringing you to, like, I don't know, visit one 882 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:07,319 Speaker 1: of his Nigerian friends. 883 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 2: He thought, oh, this is Ada. 884 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: Which would mean they would instantly know this is my 885 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 1: firstborn daughter. And then Esse and Ebo is king, so 886 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: ada so adase means daughter for king. 887 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 2: So basically princess. So that's what. So we're going to 888 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 2: leave you a dase because you're the firstborn daughter. Mm hmm. 889 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 2: So we call you princess? 890 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,399 Speaker 3: Is a Guanians who named you based on the day 891 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 3: of the week that you're born. 892 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 2: Well, Nigerians do that too sometimes mm hmm. 893 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:31,919 Speaker 3: I was born in the letters day. 894 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what that girl, you know be 895 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 1: no Ebo, but I do. I do know that oftentimes 896 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 1: first or daughters bought us our name a dose, which 897 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: is I always thought was such a pretty name. So 898 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: it's literally very frenetic a d a easy, so literally 899 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: super phrenetic. Ebo is super phrenetic. 900 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 3: So and are you adoce with an A or with 901 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 3: or a dot. 902 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 2: Adochi ado adochi? 903 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm gonna have to find out more about 904 00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 3: my I really do my my little brothers. He really 905 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 3: is pushing for me and my dad and him to 906 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 3: go to do a trip somewhere in Africa. I don't know. 907 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 3: I think he's pushing for Kenya. I don't know where 908 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 3: else were don't have to stop in Nigeria. 909 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: Yesci just out here. We're about to rename brown Bisious. 910 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 3: Oh that's fun, all right, y'all for rocking with us. 911 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 3: I guess by the time this show comes out, we'll 912 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,280 Speaker 3: know if we won the Webbie Girl won. PA feeling 913 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:24,719 Speaker 3: good about it. 914 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 2: I'm feeling good about it. 915 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,759 Speaker 3: Fifty feel printing out a lot of it. You know, 916 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 3: you never know until you know. I might have woke 917 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,480 Speaker 3: up at like five in the morning, Saturday evening morning 918 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:36,840 Speaker 3: whatever to buy a dress. 919 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say, that's right. 920 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: You know. 921 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 2: I think I do have ad dress because I bought 922 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:41,319 Speaker 2: it in Kenya. 923 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: That's right. Because we gonna be black up on that stage. 924 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,359 Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna wear a dress I want in Kenya. Yeah. 925 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 2: Oh, big things popping, but not me. 926 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 3: You better stay in there, a little boy, I need 927 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 3: my four weeks. 928 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 2: On that note, we will talk to you later. 929 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 3: V A Fam bye byby a fam, Hey ba fam. 930 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,279 Speaker 3: We could not do this show without your support or 931 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 3: the support of our team behind the scenes. The Brown 932 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:11,240 Speaker 3: Ambition podcast is produced by Imani Crosby and Dennis Stanplinsky 933 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:12,760 Speaker 3: is our in house tech guru. 934 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,840 Speaker 2: I am your co host Mandy Woodrif Santos, and we 935 00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 2: will see y'all next week. 936 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 3: Ba FAM