1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: Fred Show, Adam, good morning, Welcome to the show. How 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: are you. I'm doing pretty good? 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 2: Spread calling because I had an awesome date and I 5 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: need a little bit of help from him. 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened on this day? Because it's waiting 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: by the phone, So I assume the awesome date resulted 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: in this woman not responding to you or reaching out 9 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: to you, or there's some kind of a communication issue. 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: So am I right about that? I haven't heard from her. 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: It's been about two weeks. 12 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: Since that's onn Okay, so what happened? Start to finish, 13 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 1: how did you guys meet? Tell us about the date, 14 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: and then where things are now? 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 2: Okay. Her name is sam Samira, and I met her 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: on Bumble and we're not for like a cute little 17 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: dinner day after I got her number, and she's funny, 18 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: it's just fun to be around. And best of all, 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 2: she was even in person. 20 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: Okay, this is all good. Yeah, And like you. 21 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: Know, she was a little bit quiet or shy, but 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 2: like I kind of accept that for a first date. 23 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: Okay. So the conversation was I mean, maybe a little 24 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: strained or everyone's kind of nervous or I don't know, 25 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: maybe not as open as it might be as you 26 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: got to know one another. You're saying, yeah, like. 27 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: I don't think there was anything bad about the conversation, 28 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 3: but like I think, just personality wise, she's a little 29 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 3: bit shyer. 30 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: Oh all right, So she's a little shy, and it 31 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: can be awkward for people meeting each other for the 32 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: first time. So you get through that. But you thought 33 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: the day was a success overall. 34 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 3: You know, we ended the date with a hug, and 35 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 3: I thought I'm here probably before and now before calling me, 36 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 3: but I haven't heard back from them. 37 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's where we come in. We're gonna call 38 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: us Samira. We're gonna see if we can get her 39 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: on the phone. You'll be on the phone as well. 40 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna ask some questions at some point. You're welcome 41 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: to jump in. The hope here is always that we 42 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on, straighten it out, and 43 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: then set you guys up on in this case, a 44 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: second date and pay for all right, all right, let 45 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: me play one song. I'm gonna come back in two 46 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: minutes and we'll get to the bottom of this all right, Adam. 47 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next, Part two of Waiting by 48 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: the phone after this song on the Fred Show. Good morning, 49 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Adam, 50 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: Let's call Samira. You met on the dating app Bumble. 51 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: You went on a date. You admit that it was 52 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: a little strained because you thought she seemed nervous, maybe 53 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: a little shy. But aside from that, you thought it 54 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: was a good date. You were attracted to her, you 55 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: were hoping to see her again. But you have not 56 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: been able to get ahold of her since the date. 57 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: She has ghosted you, and you want to know why. Yeah, 58 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I really love here. Okay, let's call her right now. 59 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: Good luck at him? 60 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 4: Hello? 61 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 1: Hi is this Samira? Yeah, Samira? Hi, good morning. My 62 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the 63 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that 64 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would 65 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we 66 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: chat for it just to second? 67 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: Okay? 68 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much for calling on behalf of 69 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: a guy named Adam who says he met you on 70 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: the dating app Bumble and you guys recently went out 71 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: on a date to you remember. 72 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 5: Him, Yeah, I remember Adam. 73 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, so he called us and told us that 74 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: he was excited to meet you and was attracted to you, 75 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: and he thought the date went well. He did admit 76 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: that he thought you were a little shy, but he 77 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: can't figure out why you haven't called him back or 78 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: reached out to him since the date. And that's what 79 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out for him. So what's your 80 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: side of the story. What happened? 81 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't really. 82 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 5: Want to talk about it's kind of inappropriate for radio 83 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 5: this time. 84 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: Kids are getting going to school. I mean, we can 85 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: be a judge of that. Yes, that's what's kind of 86 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: up to. We'll figure that part out. So why don't 87 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: you tell us what's going on and we'll figure out 88 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: if we can put it on the radio or not. 89 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 6: Oh fine, okay, So I mean we are on the radio, figure. 90 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: Talking about it on the radio. Yeah, come on, you 91 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: gotta trust everyone trusts my judgment around. I have tremendous judgment. Anyway, 92 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: go ahead, Okay. So throughout dinner, Uh, he picked up. 93 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 5: Various food items and he's making this really weird like 94 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 5: eye contact with me, and he was simulating something that 95 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 5: a guy my doodle woman with his mom. 96 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: I had an allergic What kind of food items was 97 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: he was he using to simulate this activity? What the hell? 98 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 6: Anything anything you can like suck on and just be. 99 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 6: It was just too much with the eye contact. 100 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 1: And I didn't think was there I want to know anything, 101 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: I want to know, it wouldn't be like I would be. 102 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: I thought he was doing he was. 103 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 4: I think he's. 104 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: Simulating something he was going to do to her. Oh yeah, 105 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: I thought he was. I thought he was doing what 106 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: he wanted done. Okay, simulating a preview. 107 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 6: When he was sucking on his topsticks and was at. 108 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 5: A mommy and like it was just weird. It was 109 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 5: and he was looking at me like the stare was 110 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 5: just really intense and I try to not think too 111 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 5: much of it and. 112 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 6: The start, but then I realized and he was like 113 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 6: really creepy and to die. 114 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: He's using different items to simulate activities that he was 115 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: hoping to involve himself with and you later, Yeah, definitely, 116 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: I thought. 117 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 6: Really enjoying this. 118 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: I feel like there was like dinner with their parents 119 00:05:52,880 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 1: and what was weird of doing? Police? Let me hold on, 120 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: no Samira Adam is here. I got to get to Adam, 121 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: and I forgot to mention that Adam's here. Adam, whatever 122 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: you've got in your hand, set it down, because I don't. 123 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: I'm worried about what you might be doing with it. 124 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: What what was the thought process here? 125 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 3: Honestly, I just wanted to show some mirror what could 126 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 3: have been in store. 127 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: For a little bit later. 128 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 1: Okay, caln has turned on right now? Wow, my gosh, 129 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: So any food item, no, I should say, no food 130 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: item is safe. Apparently you couldn't just like maybe I 131 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 1: don't know, show her later, take her home and do 132 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,359 Speaker 1: in the privacy of of I don't know, or like 133 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: use your words right right? Why did we have to down? 134 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: The visuals on this are just incredible? So so no 135 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: item on the table was safe and sounds. 136 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 2: Like, I mean, she wasn't even you weren't even across 137 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: the I tied. 138 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: With my tongue. 139 00:06:55,640 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 4: Oh girl, yeah, this man all right, you give grace 140 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 4: to the man with the kink about the breast milk, 141 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 4: but this man gets it pass, you know, like you're going. 142 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: So hard on him. He was just trying to show 143 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: off his skills. So he's okay, Yes. 144 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 4: So let's be protected at all times. 145 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: We need to appreciate me and like this, I see 146 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: all right, So it depends on what the kink is. 147 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: In this case, the man might be very talented, so 148 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: he so bad. Yeah, no, it's it's a little cool. 149 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: It's early, but yeah, I don't know if I've never 150 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: known a man to be able to do that. I 151 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: don't know I've ever known a man that can tie it. 152 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: Can you? Uh, I've never tried. But my brother in 153 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: law can I know that? Oh? How do you? How 154 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: do you know that? Hold on what fashions? And he 155 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: always does it with the stem. His name is Adam Guy. 156 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 157 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: Oh he's cute too, ye though, yeah, let him in law. 158 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: So you were turned off, samra by this this constant 159 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: sort of demonstration of I mean, he thought he was 160 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: showing you his prowess and like what what he was 161 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: going to do later And you're just saying I would 162 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: just want to kind of eat my club sandwich and 163 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: like yeah and drink my old fashion without you sticking 164 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: your tongue in it fishing stuff out. Yeah, it was 165 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: just a little too much for me. 166 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 6: On the like this first day, I just it felt 167 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 6: pushy like he was coming on too strong and I 168 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 6: didn't even really know much so intense. It's like, you know, 169 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 6: maybe later, but it was just off putting. 170 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, all at once, right, Adam, I don't know. I 171 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: think sometimes yes, I was just going to say that 172 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: sometimes less is more at him, you know, or maybe 173 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: better that bumble. Okay, he's a giver, and it's it's 174 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: your loss, he said, Samara. 175 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 5: Just in case you're wondering, sure number find the right match. 176 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: You might get born one night and want to get 177 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: him a ring. See what he's you know, take it 178 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: for a spin. But anyway, that's your right to do that, Adam, 179 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: I guess she's not interested right now. But a man 180 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: like Yeah, have you ever heard a song by Sabrina 181 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: Carpenter called Taste. 182 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 6: It? 183 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: That's this is the man who drives the sam cab 184 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: and takes it. He drives the sad cab to the 185 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: Saven cabin. Yeah, as long as there's that's why he 186 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: listens to George Cherry's there, he's he's good to go. 187 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: He can do his party tricks. Waiting for him over there. 188 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, Adam, you are right, we'll meet, Okay. 189 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: I think he went from disgusting to now. Hold on, 190 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 1: hold on, Yeah, you're a You're a hero, Adam, You're 191 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: a hero to many. Don't you change a thing, my friend. Guys, 192 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: good luck to both of you. I don't even know 193 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: what to say. I really don't. This is two in 194 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 1: a row where I'm somewhat speechless at the end. Good 195 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: luck to you, both of you. 196 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 4: Guys. 197 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: All I think I'll take my skill go there, freaking and. 198 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: All right, I take your talent somewhere else. Cale has 199 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: the Entertainment Report eats next on the French show