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Speaker 3: I mean, I can even say that without not wanting

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Speaker 1: Get it. But this time we're shaking things up by

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Speaker 1: doing an alternate version of our infamous second date update.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to hear it to believe it. We're

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Speaker 1: doing it. No spoilers, it's coming up next Second date update.

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Speaker 1: When you go on a date with someone and they

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Speaker 1: suddenly break off all communication, no reasons given, that's called

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Speaker 1: being ghosted, and that's what our second date updates are

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens a lot.

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Speaker 1: You're just learning the term now you're a little behind it,

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Speaker 1: or I guess we'd also accept the term's breadcrumbing, orbiting,

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Speaker 4: It's a thing.

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Speaker 2: You weren't disappointed though, Yeah, it was the.

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Speaker 1: Happiest I've been in the year. But what about the

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Speaker 1: The thing is, we didn't really have an outlet a

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Speaker 1: why our listener Brittany emailed saying the guy that she's

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Speaker 5: So his name is Mark. Okay, we've been dating for

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Speaker 5: That's kind of where we are. We're not the stage

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Speaker 5: Then, yeah, right, Like I've deleted my dating apps, and

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Speaker 5: Starting off awesome, of course, as most new relationships do.

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Speaker 5: But lately we haven't been hanging out as much at night.

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Speaker 1: Like after like a month or so, it's like, all right,

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Speaker 3: No, I think usually it goes the opposite. Usually, if

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Speaker 2: Why are you not just asking him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and like, where at the point where we're like,

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Speaker 2: Even when you guys both stop going on dating sites.

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Speaker 1: But I see what she's doing. She's like considering how

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Speaker 1: Professional confrontational people. I'm a professional comedian lady, I'm not

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Speaker 2: It does not feel like a coincidence. Jeff nay everything else.

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Speaker 1: Can we get her a benefit of least, She's not

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Speaker 2: Her, because the one thing we love is confrontations.

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Speaker 1: We're trying to keep it light here with you, Brittany.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm a little stressed, but I mean I

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Speaker 2: Just remember you're like eight weeks into this thing.

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is this Mark? This is Mark hey Man,

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Speaker 1: Thanks for picking up the phone. We're actually a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We're called Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Mark, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: Sorry I'm laughing because I'm curious how Jeff is going

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Speaker 4: Wait, I'm sorry, what what is happened? I feel like,

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yes, we've been asked to call you by the woman

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Speaker 4: Okay, so Brittany called you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, because she really likes you.

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Speaker 1: But bottom line is, she's noticed some differences. She feels

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe not as interested in her.

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Speaker 2: Because she saw a name pop up on your phone.

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Speaker 1: But in a non confrontational type of way. When you

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Speaker 2: Okay, just tell him, tell him the name.

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Speaker 1: Well I don't know the name, but why doesn't she just.

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Speaker 1: Because she really values this relationship, this blossoming potential relationship

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Speaker 4: No? No, no, I'm only seeing her, but I am technically

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Speaker 2: I've only seen her.

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Speaker 1: No, you need to explain, dude.

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Speaker 4: It's not romantic. It's just I don't have a choice.

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Speaker 2: How are you somehow a victim in this?

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Speaker 4: You don't have a no, no, no, it's just I

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Speaker 4: That's why. That's all.

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Speaker 2: How would she not know that you have a dog

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Well, the thing is I don't have actual custody.

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Speaker 4: I just have visitation rights.

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Speaker 5: What's on a second? Let me let me clarify.

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Speaker 2: Suddenly she's really good at confrontation.

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Speaker 5: No, I just need a little bit of clarification. So

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Speaker 5: what you're saying is that you're ditching me to hang

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Speaker 5: Wouldn't you tell me this? Why have you been hiding this?

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I was going to tell you. I

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Speaker 3: Do you only have visitation rights at night because it's

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Speaker 2: Then you're not hanging out with Britney?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's visitation on Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Nights, so tucking the dog in. You're not going and

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Speaker 4: No? No, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I'm not inviting you to stay the night on Wednesday nights,

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, It's like I don't even go inside. If I

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Like I literally found a chewed up

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Speaker 4: Like what is.

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Speaker 1: I mean well, I mean, Brittany, now that you've heard that,

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Speaker 5: I feel weird because you you lie to me and

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Speaker 4: Which I'm sorry I lied, but I mean it's just

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Speaker 4: you know, it's hard to be a good single dog

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Speaker 3: Oh I think, Brittany, I think you gotta let this

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Speaker 2: It sounds really sweet.

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Speaker 4: Well, I do have to say, I mean, in the

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Speaker 4: just one. I actually share to be two dogs, two

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's a real book. Confused.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember Brittany told us that they were talking

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Speaker 5: Are you gonna say, like, if we got a dog

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Speaker 5: and we broke up, you're gonna have three doggy mommies

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Speaker 1: With dogs and women, that's for sure.

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Speaker 3: I don't know because he's not getting full custody of.

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Speaker 1: These dogs visitation rights.

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Speaker 2: Are you just trying to be a part time dog owner?

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Speaker 4: No? No, I'm just trying to do right by my children,

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Speaker 4: I mean my dog's children.

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Speaker 5: Like, is my life supposed to be doggy stepmom?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 5: Cute?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a French it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 3: That is cute.

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Speaker 4: I mean I would love for you to meet at

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Speaker 4: least one of them at some point soon.

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Speaker 3: Point, at some point, you don't want to rush introducing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Don't traumatize those dogs for the rest of their lives.

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Speaker 5: I mean, they will end up loving me better than

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Speaker 1: So oh, I'm never going to get into a custody battle. Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. This is getting kind of messy.

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Speaker 4: Now, man, this isn't good.

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Speaker 3: Okay to suggest if you guys are going to stay

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Speaker 2: That's for sure.

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Speaker 1: But Brittany, now that the whole situation is laid out,

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Speaker 1: better about the situation? Like, where's your head at?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good, that's kind of sweet.

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Speaker 1: I mean no, it's not a second date update. We're

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Speaker 1: not offering to send them out again. You guys are

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Speaker 2: But why can't we said about a date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why can't you send us on a date.

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Speaker 1: For the dog and then the doggies mom? And like,

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Speaker 1: there's there's too many moving parts in that a dog

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Speaker 1: friendly bar. You two can just go to a free

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Speaker 5: Perfect. Maybe maybe the dog mom will let you take

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Speaker 5: the dog to a dog's part.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, the x I have to put in a

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Speaker 4: request two months ahead of time, so that's gonna be wild.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, okay, well what did you do in that?

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 1: Well, at least we have some clarification. That's what we

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Speaker 5: Thanks so much, thanks for helping with confrontation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a lot still for a couple that's

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Speaker 1: not official. Yes, and we'll come back in a few

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Speaker 1: to figure out where you are with your dogs. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, Brook.

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Now for me, and for I think everybody in the room.

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Speaker 1: That was weirdly kind of sweet to hear that. But say,

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Speaker 1: some people might say, though, it's a red flag that

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Speaker 1: the person you're dating has multiple doggy mama drama and

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was at sweet with one, and then when we

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Speaker 1: I mean, eventually her nights are going to be fully

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Speaker 2: And I really think that he has kind.

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Speaker 3: I guarantee you they're going to email us back in

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Speaker 3: three months and they're going to have a dog, and

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Speaker 2: Gonna be broken up. Oh, it's a cycle. This man's

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Speaker 2: in a psycle. And we didn't even ask him about cats.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or grand baby dogs that he has to deal

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Speaker 2: We gotta spand new Yeah, maybe that's true.

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