WEBVTT - Ep 311: A Stock Split Holiday

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown ambition.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey mana yes to this shirt. It's a dress. I

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna say, this is a frock. It's a frock.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a frock and a half for frock's sake. This

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<v Speaker 3>is from the Target. I'm sony.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this a tap of line? No? Not to you right? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, not tabsline. This is from one of their

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<v Speaker 3>capsule collections. It's a black designer. I want to say

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<v Speaker 3>his first name is Chris. Okay, but every once in

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<v Speaker 3>a while I see a beautiful black woman in the

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<v Speaker 3>wilderness wearing their shirt, and I just dress and I

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<v Speaker 3>just want to be like Target. No, but it's just

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<v Speaker 3>no one wants you to just run up on them

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<v Speaker 3>and talk about Target.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really cute. The frock is crocking you. Hey, you

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<v Speaker 2>very much.

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<v Speaker 3>You know. I do what I can. I do what

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<v Speaker 3>I can. Hew you doing on this Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually had therapy this morning, so I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'd go like, oh no, but it was good,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was always good. Honestly, Doctor Green is always amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, sometimes you just don't feel like dealing.

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<v Speaker 2>With like like the stuff you have to deal with.

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<v Speaker 3>My therapist called me out. She's like, if you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to cancel the night before, you know, let's let's let's

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<v Speaker 3>make this a twenty four hour and advance thing. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, my, I don't think I'm gonna want

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<v Speaker 3>to talk tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she called me out.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, doctor Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it just was like yeah, because sometimes and I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly was thinking, I'm like maybe I should cancel.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, do you want to cancel? Why? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>You just don't feel like talking and dealing with the real,

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<v Speaker 1>the real deal. That's okay to say it, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>not canceling. And I didn't, and I'm glad that I didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, really a really good therapist gives you

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<v Speaker 1>something to think about. And said, huh, I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>about it that way for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like we don't want to save money. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>I want to like go to brunch and not save money.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I'm like, that's the therapy financial emergency fund. Thing,

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<v Speaker 3>Like therapy is the emergency.

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<v Speaker 2>Fund for y'all brain.

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<v Speaker 3>It is do your tithing, do your contributions, show up

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't want to show up. But thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for that transparent moment. No, I've been in a this

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<v Speaker 3>has been a day of sewing for me. Man.

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<v Speaker 2>So whenever I like have a.

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<v Speaker 3>I to be here with the needle and thread with

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<v Speaker 3>whose free time? Nah, No, just whenever I have a

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<v Speaker 3>busy day. Now, I go back to that analogy of

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<v Speaker 3>like you're in your season of sewing that you talked

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<v Speaker 3>about before, and I'm like this, I was sewing today,

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<v Speaker 3>so so just a bunch of a bunch of stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>but exciting stuff. I had to look at my calendar

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<v Speaker 3>and I do like a pep talk for myself, like Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we can get through this. Also, let's look at the meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>This is exciting stuff. This is like interesting stuff, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>But you reminded me that I didn't even remember today

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<v Speaker 3>was a holiday. It was Amazon stock split day.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, Okay, the girls are going up in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the group chat.

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<v Speaker 3>So I have a group around in any good group chat.

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<v Speaker 1>And my sister's girl like, you know, if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>keep it like it's literally just me and my four sisters.

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<v Speaker 1>And so my sister Karen was like, don't forget today

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon had their stocks split.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it twenty to one. It's huge, so you can.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a share of Amazon, right, I mean this is Monday,

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<v Speaker 3>we're taping this, and obviously stocks change, but what's it

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<v Speaker 3>that like one twenties one something right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like one twenty four?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, well in the one twenties, because to

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<v Speaker 1>your point, it is and who even knows. It's literally

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<v Speaker 1>like fluctuating all over. But maybe we should explain what

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<v Speaker 1>a stock split is.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you explain it?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I feel like I don't always understand entirely other

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<v Speaker 3>than it's just like, oh, it's more affordable for people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it's not the same less you're the No,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting less money or more money. Ye, it's

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<v Speaker 1>literally let's just say you have a two to one

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<v Speaker 1>stock split and you have one hundred dollars worth of

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<v Speaker 1>stock of like we're just saying, you know, Brown Ambition stock,

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<v Speaker 1>because why not? Right, So if one hundred if one stock,

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<v Speaker 1>you have one stock of Branhambision is worth one hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>If we did a two to one stock split, then

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<v Speaker 1>you would have two stocks, each worth fifty dollars a piece.

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<v Speaker 1>So you still own one hundred dollars worth of stock.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just split into two separate sections. So there's two reasons. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of reasons why companies like to do this

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<v Speaker 1>is that one Amazon was in the thousands. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>remember what it was, and I should have checked them

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<v Speaker 1>what it was before the two to one's the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>to one stock split. It was literally five figures for

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<v Speaker 1>one Amazon stock, which is a lot of money, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so one of the reason why they do a

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<v Speaker 1>stock split is that now people who could not afford

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<v Speaker 1>mostly everybody you know, to buy stock for one thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars plus can most more likely afford to buy a stock,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for one hundred and twenty something dollars. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting like a bigger piece of the company.

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically just like you're getting a fractional share you know,

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<v Speaker 1>of this company you know. So that's one, and then two.

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<v Speaker 1>What it allows is that if more people you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how stocks and anything that you sell works is that

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<v Speaker 1>the higher the demand, the more valuable thing becomes. Now

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<v Speaker 1>people who normally were like, I can't buy Amazon are

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<v Speaker 1>rushing to buy Amazon. And the hope is that the

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<v Speaker 1>stock will go back up and creep back up from

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<v Speaker 1>one to twenty something to two hundred to three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and beyond. So Amazon is going to be worth more

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<v Speaker 1>money in the end, and like you to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to get in on the groundish level.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like giving everyone another shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally, it's like, so, yeah, so you know that obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do your homework. We're not here to

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<v Speaker 1>say go buy Amazon. That's not what this is at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just to know that there is a stock split,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the very least it's a great opportunity for

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<v Speaker 1>you to do a little studying and say, ooh, let

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<v Speaker 1>me see how you know this is cute? So it's

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<v Speaker 1>one twenty something today. So if we say this is Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>the what is it the six mandy?

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<v Speaker 2>When is the sixth?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, ma'am right, so June one of the sixth, twenty twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time you listen to this, where's the stock now?

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<v Speaker 1>As a matter of fact, why don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You tweet us?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we give use some tweets, just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>the stock price is this today? At what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>DBA podcast on Twitter BA podcast, And so why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you tweet us and say to you know, the stock

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<v Speaker 1>price when I when I check today is thought. Matter

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<v Speaker 1>of fact, let's mark the time exactly what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that'll be really interesting to say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, day to day what the stock is looking like,

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<v Speaker 1>because we get to practice like understanding, like you know

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<v Speaker 1>how stocks go up and down.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me see Amazon. Well, actually it's called alphabet. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not Amazon, right, No, that's Google. You know that's Google.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at me. Meanwhile, girl, I'm like, may let me

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<v Speaker 2>make sure actually brought Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't be crazy if I bought.

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<v Speaker 3>To Wait, who's the sister who helps you before you

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<v Speaker 3>press this?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, so it is one twenty five, one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and twenty five dollars and forty cents. That's what it

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<v Speaker 1>is right now, A hundred twenty five cents. Let us

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<v Speaker 1>know the day you listen, whatever day you're listening, say

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<v Speaker 1>I just checked the Amazon and it's now currently this.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that'll be exciting to see, like the shift.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I mean this is I will tell y'all

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<v Speaker 3>point blank, I am not the one to give you

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<v Speaker 3>specific stock advice. I'm the dumb dumb who bought Peloton

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<v Speaker 3>like in the pandemic and because you know, we had

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<v Speaker 3>Terry on Terry Agioma from she what's her name? Trade

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<v Speaker 3>and travel. We had her on and we I got

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<v Speaker 3>so excited, and she's like, again and again, if you don't,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't, don't trade stocks without having a plan and

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<v Speaker 3>how important your plan is and all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I never had no plan. It was very apparent to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I still have those shares of Peloton. They are probably

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<v Speaker 3>worth like, I don't know, four dusty fruit loops from

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<v Speaker 3>the bottom of my purse right now, that's probably what

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<v Speaker 3>they were. Yeah, I'm still an index I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 3>an index fund gal. But I am like to your point,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I feel like at a certain point I will

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<v Speaker 3>be ready. I'll be d need to put together a plan.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to like get my crap together. But in

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<v Speaker 3>the meantime, I'll watch you spend your money and sounds.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean because honestly, the last time I

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<v Speaker 1>purchased the stock split let me see what it was,

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<v Speaker 1>it did really well because I listened to you know, my.

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<v Speaker 2>Gurroom aka Carol. Yes, I was like, I always ask Carol,

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<v Speaker 2>so what do you do? Tesla stockspood? What it was Tesla?

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<v Speaker 2>And also was it Google? It might have been Google see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm like, how do I even check? I'm such

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<v Speaker 1>a but it was honestly, I'm not as well. It

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do, you know, Like I mean, obviously everything is

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<v Speaker 1>down now, but I had purchased Tesla. Yeah, so when

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<v Speaker 1>I purchased Tesla, it was they had a stock split

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<v Speaker 1>and it was still pretty pricey. It was four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and forty four dollars and eighty nine cents when I

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<v Speaker 1>purchased Tesla during their stocks wood, and now Tesla is

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<v Speaker 1>seven hundred and ten dollars, you know, because Tesla's on

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<v Speaker 1>the up and doub we'll see because you know, Elon

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<v Speaker 1>just be talking when I mess on Twitter, So go down,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but I will say because I purchased it

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<v Speaker 1>during the stock split, you know, like basically, it's back

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<v Speaker 1>where it was before. And then at the time it

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<v Speaker 1>was something else. It wasn't Amazon was oh it was Apple.

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<v Speaker 1>Apple did a stock split around the same time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I purchased Apple at that time for one twenty seven

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<v Speaker 1>And now Apple is so not a tremendous jump up,

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<v Speaker 1>but still so. But I because the time I could

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<v Speaker 1>not have afforded whatever Apple was at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the Apple was four.

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<v Speaker 1>To one, and I want to say Tesla was two

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<v Speaker 1>to one then that they split basically like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the stock split was half and half, I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know Amazon was like in the Amazon

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<v Speaker 1>Apple was four to one. So yeah, So the thing

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<v Speaker 1>I like about stock splits is that most financial folks

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you that typically a company is going to

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<v Speaker 1>split stocks only when they're feeling optimistic, because usually don't

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<v Speaker 1>find failing companies do so. So it might be an

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<v Speaker 1>indication that they're feeling like things are going good, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they have something new that's coming out, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a but here's the thing, like, we know

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<v Speaker 1>how men are with their optimism. That doesn't necessarily mean

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<v Speaker 1>anything just because someone is optimistic, but just keep that

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<v Speaker 1>in mind that, like you know, someone a company can

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<v Speaker 1>feel optimistic, but that doesn't mean that it ends up

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<v Speaker 1>panning out. But just know that usually it's a sign

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<v Speaker 1>of optimism, which might be a sign that the company

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<v Speaker 1>is is feeling strong and good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that, and thanks for reminding me that there's

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<v Speaker 3>a bright side. I did get some Apple stock and

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<v Speaker 3>my husband and we got Apple and some Tezzi even

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<v Speaker 3>though oh teslah elon Musk I just want just let

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<v Speaker 3>me enjoy my car. Just let me enjoy my good

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<v Speaker 3>contribution to the environment and feel smug at stop lights

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<v Speaker 3>when people try to raise me and I beat him

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<v Speaker 3>every time because that car is damn fast.

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<v Speaker 2>But Elon is ugh.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even keep track of the bs or reach

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<v Speaker 3>coming out of his his his world, his tweets. So

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<v Speaker 3>for the and for those of y'all who who who

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<v Speaker 3>have I think we've every time we kind of mentioned

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<v Speaker 3>Tesla every once in a while, get like a DM

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<v Speaker 3>to Brian Ambisson podcast on ig plug about the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that the company has been accused of racism in a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of ways. So they've been hit with like severaldiscrimination

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<v Speaker 3>lawsuits and even potentially being flagged by the whole state

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<v Speaker 3>of California for you know, in their I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what the status is of that, but it's some problems

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<v Speaker 3>over there. And that was like back in February twenty

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<v Speaker 3>twenty two, just.

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<v Speaker 2>To light after reading about that's one. But when it

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<v Speaker 2>came to light, basically.

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<v Speaker 3>When it came to light, yes, of course, So this

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<v Speaker 3>has been the experience of workers potentially for years. But

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<v Speaker 3>then he's just like trying to buy Twitter. And then

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<v Speaker 3>what pissed me off the most was last week when

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<v Speaker 3>he sent out that was it a tweet or an

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<v Speaker 3>email that his staff has He's like, get back to

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<v Speaker 3>the office or else minimum of forty hours per week

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<v Speaker 3>and what he said something about like or.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretend to work someplace else, Yeah, which I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 2>a douche.

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<v Speaker 3>While you pretend to work while you're just tweeting out

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<v Speaker 3>of your anus. Girl, Like, uh, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>get back my tussle, y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I have.

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<v Speaker 3>No? But it's just like I feel like another toxic

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<v Speaker 3>you get when you create these deities, these demigods. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like in the corporate world, this is what happens.

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<v Speaker 3>And I mean you've got Jeff Bezos flying off on

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<v Speaker 3>a dick shape rocket to the moon, you know, spending

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<v Speaker 3>billions of dollars on it. And now you've got Musk

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<v Speaker 3>swinging it around on the Internet and just making a

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<v Speaker 3>fool of himself. And we sort of give them these

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<v Speaker 3>platforms to do it on, you know, by just treating

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<v Speaker 3>them like they are, yeah, deities on this earth, and

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<v Speaker 3>we create these giants and then they get to swing

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<v Speaker 3>and do whatever they want to do and cause chaos

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<v Speaker 3>and create turmoil, and you know, I think we're reaping

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<v Speaker 3>what we.

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<v Speaker 1>So I get Yeah, honestly, my husband for buying his memoir,

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<v Speaker 1>he bought Elon mus has a memoir.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that's not entirely true. I bought him the

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<v Speaker 3>memoir for his But.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing you can again, I'm further problem.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you can learn from different people. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's a lot of business men and women

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<v Speaker 1>who I might not agree with all their philosophy or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's something to still be learned sometimes is to

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<v Speaker 1>learn how not to do that and how not to

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<v Speaker 1>be that way, so that I don't think like you

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<v Speaker 1>know that's and you're right. You know, when you have

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<v Speaker 1>wealth and power, you know, the rules don't apply. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember reading an article about this person became a wealth

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<v Speaker 1>planner on purpose just to see the privilege that the

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<v Speaker 1>uber wealthy have. So he became, like, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>wealth planner, and sometimes they, like he said, he remembers

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<v Speaker 1>like one of his first weeks on the job, his

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<v Speaker 1>boss was like, we have to fly to Switzerland to

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<v Speaker 1>meet with one of our clients. You can come with

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<v Speaker 1>us so you can see how you know, we interact

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<v Speaker 1>and he gets to the private plane that's what they're

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<v Speaker 1>flying out of. He said, oh my god, I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>my passport. I have to run back home. And his

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you don't need it. He's like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're flying to Switzerland. I name my passport and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, you don't need it. You'll see there's

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<v Speaker 1>no checks, no balances, no nothing. They landed, nobody asked

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<v Speaker 1>for his passport. Nobody asked for anything. Those rules don't

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<v Speaker 1>apply to the uber ro key. Imagine flying to a

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<v Speaker 1>whole other country from the United States and flying back

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<v Speaker 1>and not being asked for your passport. All these arbitrary

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<v Speaker 1>rules they come up with for us, they don't apply

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<v Speaker 1>to the uber wealthy. And that's why you see them

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<v Speaker 1>behave like children, because it's like, you know, your two

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<v Speaker 1>year old is like, the rules don't apply.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's who you're talking to. I run this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like children don't have the same rules as

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<v Speaker 1>adults do, and therefore they act out but their children.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like people are some of these uber

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<v Speaker 1>wealthy folks are out of them, out of touch the

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<v Speaker 1>way regular people have to navigate life, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>think that they can say whatever, and it changes literally

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<v Speaker 1>the landscape of the economy. Like Elon Musk can tweet

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<v Speaker 1>something about remember he tweeted the thing about like those

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<v Speaker 1>corn you know, he sent us something on snel about

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<v Speaker 1>doge coin and it's which is a cryptocurrency, and it

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<v Speaker 1>made that coin shoot up in value and so and

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't care. He thinks it's funny and so to.

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<v Speaker 2>Just go yeah high.

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<v Speaker 3>He also has this thing about and there is something

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<v Speaker 3>that I learned about Elon actually learned from him that

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<v Speaker 3>to point, but he has this this feeling. You can

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<v Speaker 3>tell from what he says that he has this moral

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<v Speaker 3>high ground because he's created Tesla, which is an electronic

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<v Speaker 3>electric vehicle, and like solar panels, and you know, has

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<v Speaker 3>done so much for climate change. And he pitched a

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<v Speaker 3>hissy fit on Twitter because have you heard of socially

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<v Speaker 3>responsible investing or esg's And wait, what does it stand for?

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<v Speaker 3>ESG funds? So there are these this yeah, this class

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<v Speaker 3>of we got when we opened Rio's brokerage brokerage account,

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<v Speaker 3>we gave him a socially responsible like ESG. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we invested in him in that particular fund. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>basically like we talk about index funds and ETFs, which

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<v Speaker 3>are basically like a little menu of not a little

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<v Speaker 3>but sometimes they can be every company or the top

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<v Speaker 3>five hundred companies. With ETFs, it can be tied to

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<v Speaker 3>a certain sector. So with ESG funds, you have investment

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<v Speaker 3>firms trying to come up with like a list of

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<v Speaker 3>companies who have socially responsible policies, good environmental impact, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>are basically have some kind of like moral fiber and

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<v Speaker 3>goodness about them, and it's all very arbitrary, and there's

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<v Speaker 3>been controversy about them in the past, like is this

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<v Speaker 3>actually a smart way to invest? Like do these companies

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<v Speaker 3>actually perform better? And as investors, you know, who want

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<v Speaker 3>to feel good about what they're buying, like me, I

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<v Speaker 3>want to get my son something that I can be

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<v Speaker 3>proud of, and I just kind of blindly say, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this must be the good companies to invest in. But

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's actually been found that they don't perform,

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<v Speaker 3>Like these actual funds are not now that we have

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<v Speaker 3>some historical data, are not performing that great compared to

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<v Speaker 3>other even potentially lower cost, lower fee funds.

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<v Speaker 2>And I did learn that.

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<v Speaker 3>Because ELI pitched a hissy fit because they Tesla got

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<v Speaker 3>kicked out of one of these funds. And that's what

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, just because your your product does some good.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the the idea that now you are

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<v Speaker 3>not responsible for what happens at the company that creates

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<v Speaker 3>your product, that to me is where we need to

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<v Speaker 3>hold them accountable. Yes, so I'll be very very interested,

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<v Speaker 3>and I will be watching and I may hit the

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<v Speaker 3>refund button or exchange button on the car. Who knows,

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<v Speaker 3>depending on how these lawsuits turn out, because that's just

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<v Speaker 3>not I don't I don't want to condone that, and no.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, no good. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have like a little update because a few

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<v Speaker 1>of you hit me up. I had like the last

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<v Speaker 1>of my calls with like some of my former employees

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<v Speaker 1>and they just went really well, I have to say

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<v Speaker 1>I have the same Yeah. So it just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it was hard for sure, but ultimately,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's why the things I'm learning with doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Green is like girls say the hard thing now says,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can live, you know, because I walk around

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<v Speaker 1>like is it have you ever watched Charlie Brown?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I'm familiar.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, right, there's like there's one character is that Lionus.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a character that walks from with like a cloud

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<v Speaker 1>over his head. I don't know the character.

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<v Speaker 3>That can describing E or is that ere either welln't

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<v Speaker 3>even winning the Pooh whatever, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know right one of these characters, I'm a most

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<v Speaker 1>positive in Charlie Brown that walks around with like a

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<v Speaker 1>cloud over his head. But I feel like it's a

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<v Speaker 1>cloud of dirt either way. There's a sadness cloud that

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<v Speaker 1>there's an anxiety cloud that I will live with because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to avoid having, you know, the hard conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am now finally saying I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>live with that cloud.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm all, I don't what.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I've been it feels so good like she

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a really good activity and this is for

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<v Speaker 1>you to try as well. Well you don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>hard trouble with the hard conversations. But one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things she said, she said, how do you feel now

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<v Speaker 1>pre conversation about the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know what level of anxieties are

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<v Speaker 2>giving you?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said probably you know ten being the highest

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<v Speaker 1>one being I'm chill, I said probably a seven, like

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<v Speaker 1>it was really like making me like, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>And she said, so, how do you anticipate feeling when

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<v Speaker 1>you have the conversation even if it doesn't go as

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<v Speaker 1>well as you'd like or whatever, like and maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>still sad about it, whatever, Like what level of anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you're likely to carry based upon historical

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<v Speaker 1>data of how you navigate? I was like, uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably get down to maybe like a three or four

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, well, I like those odds. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're carrying around a seven, and the way to get

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<v Speaker 1>to a three or four is through this door of

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<v Speaker 1>this one conversation, you know. And so it just really

0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:46.359
<v Speaker 1>helped me to visualize, like, have the conversation and you

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<v Speaker 1>can drop from a seven to a four, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you get to dissipate this cloud of anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>that you're walking around with. And so it's just been

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<v Speaker 1>like I've really been not just what I told her

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<v Speaker 1>today during therapy, I was like, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to just hear the good advice. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>put it to work and put it to use, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what is the point of all of this? Like I

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<v Speaker 1>have to practice the things. And so that's what I've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing is really practicing like oh it's hard, it

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<v Speaker 1>sucks practice anyway, And when I tell you, I am

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<v Speaker 1>just that much closer to what I deem to be free,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning like not carrying around the baggage of things past.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't mean that things have not happened. There hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been trauma or whatever, but I'm not carrying around.

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<v Speaker 2>The weight of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know that, I'm like able to acknowledge this

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<v Speaker 1>is the thing that has happened, this is how I

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<v Speaker 1>felt about it, but I've done something about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm able to move forward, and so like it just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like really because I know I was really emotional

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<v Speaker 1>during that time, and thank you guys for like you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, writing back and you know, offering me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like support and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just was like it was just me venting

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it's good to also see like that

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<v Speaker 1>part of entrepreneurship that's not you know, like sunshine and lollipops,

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<v Speaker 1>that it's hard, but then look on the other side,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you do the hard thing and you get

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<v Speaker 1>this feedback that was like, you know, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>really great to hear from folks and let them know

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<v Speaker 1>that I hear and feel them and to offer up

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<v Speaker 1>any condolences that I can.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, as a friend, that makes me very happy because

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<v Speaker 3>I just yeah, I mean you can tell And if

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<v Speaker 3>you guys aren't you want the whole backstory, go check

0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:20.360
<v Speaker 3>out that episode. It was a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the actual title was the Other Side of Entrepreneurship. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you're always so candid like and it's a

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<v Speaker 3>gift to you work through certain things. But closure is

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<v Speaker 3>always good. Yeah. It doesn't always work. It doesn't my

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<v Speaker 3>whole like bull in a China shop thing, like talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't always go over so well, just ask my husband.

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<v Speaker 3>But when both people are willing to talk and you

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<v Speaker 3>can like come together and get through it, that's a

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful freaking thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm glad what you brought up for me when

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<v Speaker 3>you talked about how Elon Musk is like a toddler

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<v Speaker 3>was Oh man, I was laughing so hard at the

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<v Speaker 3>royal family they had like the I don't know some

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<v Speaker 3>part for the Queen this WEEKA did you see the

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<v Speaker 3>videos of what's the baby? Uh? Prince William's son Louis

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<v Speaker 3>or Lewis whatever, where he is legit. I I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>take the hat and the fancy dress off of Kate Middleton,

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<v Speaker 3>put her in some ath leisure and a top nott

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<v Speaker 3>and she could have been any mom and mom in

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<v Speaker 3>the world trying to shut her kid up.

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<v Speaker 2>She's looking at him and the look, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>the purson lips that you give and that.

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<v Speaker 3>Look of like I see what you're doing him. I

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<v Speaker 3>know she was like, you want to time out?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like he made this face. I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what that is. Because kids were so smart, They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we had a fancy place.

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<v Speaker 1>The strange she's using her we're outside voice, the power lace. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just, honestly, it's nice to just see that.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter, I don't care how much money you have,

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<v Speaker 1>how much influence, how much whatever. Yo, Toadler is gonna Patler.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah, I've never felt and honestly, and he didn't,

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<v Speaker 3>and he stopped showing up.

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<v Speaker 2>Two events had the baby comely.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to endear the royal family to the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Just let Kate Middleton be a struggling momb Yeah in

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<v Speaker 3>heels at an event, trying to keep her kids in line.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the Levity also.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out to the Queen. I guess she's, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a great lady, crazy white.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I.

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<v Speaker 3>Am like, Yeah, I'm just glad, you know, Mega Markle

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<v Speaker 3>got out of there, and you know, her babies are cute,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm happy for her. She showed up. She put

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<v Speaker 3>a hat on for them. You know, that was more

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<v Speaker 3>than she ever had to do. And and we we

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<v Speaker 3>wish her. Well, that's that's all I want to say.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well should we take a quick break and

0:23:56.040 --> 0:24:02.800
<v Speaker 3>come back with brown booth brown break? Yes, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>we are back. It's not a boost a.

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<v Speaker 2>Break right now. It's time to boost up. Break up,

0:24:09.400 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 2>boost up, break up. Boost ah break oh boomoo to break.

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<v Speaker 2>What you're gonna do? Man, you gonna boost?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm feeling a boost a mystic today. I want

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<v Speaker 3>to boost. I could, I could have done a break,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm gonna do the positive side. I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 3>a boost. For the jobs report that came out on Friday,

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<v Speaker 3>the Labor Department release some job numbers and they were

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<v Speaker 3>extraordinarily good. And I say this to all the people

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<v Speaker 3>who have been anxious and reading, you know, choice headlines

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<v Speaker 3>about how they have been layoffs recently. We've seen them

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<v Speaker 3>at CNN Plus and we've talked about Peloton earlier that

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<v Speaker 3>was early better. We've seen them at like payment app Klarna,

0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:53.399
<v Speaker 3>and how these layoffs are hitting tech especially hard. But

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<v Speaker 3>nearly four hundred thousand jobs were added in May, and

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<v Speaker 3>unemployment continues to be really really freaking low, like three

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<v Speaker 3>point six percent, which is among the lowest rates we've

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<v Speaker 3>had for decades now. So I say all this to

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<v Speaker 3>say we going to be all right, right. There are, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>there are layoffs, there are some hiring freezes, but the

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<v Speaker 3>job market is definitely still healthy. And I also feel

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<v Speaker 3>like there's and I hear this from clients all the

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<v Speaker 3>time too, you know, everyone's talking about how there's so

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<v Speaker 3>many jobs and how you know companies can't find anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>But then why am I not getting calls back? And

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<v Speaker 3>why am I not getting through these interviews and or

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<v Speaker 3>finding the job that I want to find? And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like everyone, like the people's standards for what we want

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<v Speaker 3>out of employers has risen as it should have risen

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<v Speaker 3>so so high that those jobs with the with the

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<v Speaker 3>benefits and the hybrid work schedules, with the flexible work schedules,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, with the unlimited PTO. Those are not that

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:58.680
<v Speaker 3>they're necessarily fewer further between, but more people want them

0:25:58.680 --> 0:26:00.880
<v Speaker 3>now because now they see how the other half is living.

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<v Speaker 3>They're on hashtag career talk on TikTok and seeing right.

0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:07.959
<v Speaker 3>So it's more competitive and it will continue to be competitive.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think you just have to like adjust your

0:26:10.200 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 3>expectations the job. There are jobs out there, but think

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:17.080
<v Speaker 3>about like your particular industry and which jobs you are

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 3>going after, and then like adjust your mindset to maybe

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:24.280
<v Speaker 3>have to hold on, you know, and push through and

0:26:24.320 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 3>stay optimistic even if it feels like, Okay, the job

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:30.959
<v Speaker 3>that I want so badly and that everyone's telling me exists,

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<v Speaker 3>hasn't you know, come yet. They're out there. They're really competitive,

0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:40.160
<v Speaker 3>but largely this whole you know, this whole storyline about

0:26:40.200 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 3>how I know that we are, you know, edging toward

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 3>recession and all of that, but the job's numbers were

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<v Speaker 3>extremely optimistic.

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<v Speaker 1>So and if you're needing help, hello, we have our

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<v Speaker 1>very own career coach manadrab right here.

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<v Speaker 2>Get you some They want to hire you, Mandy, How

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<v Speaker 2>could they hire you. Mandymoney dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>You know I've had and I turned my baby business

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<v Speaker 3>turned one this weekend.

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:07.399
<v Speaker 2>Okrat, that's a booze girl. I forgot about that. I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I wrote it down. Yeah, I turned one. Bandy Money

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 3>turned one. I cannot believe that's from the day that

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<v Speaker 3>I got my LLC.

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy with an Eye. Just you know, so Mandy with

0:27:18.640 --> 0:27:21.640
<v Speaker 1>an eye, Mandy Money not spell my name. Then worry listening, Well,

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:23.240
<v Speaker 1>you know they might be new people. They put a

0:27:23.280 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Mandra money dot com. No, No, but for real, if

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you're like, especially now more than ever, you really want

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>to hone your like skills about how to negotiate, how

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:33.760
<v Speaker 1>to find the right job.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we have Mandra. That's what she'd be doing.

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:40.080
<v Speaker 2>That's why we have Manda. Go get you some.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so damn grateful to be doing this. I feel

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:47.040
<v Speaker 3>so good about like, I know I'm doing what I'm

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:49.720
<v Speaker 3>supposed to be doing, the women that I'm helping, the

0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:53.160
<v Speaker 3>feedback that I'm getting, it's just all it's all happening.

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:55.679
<v Speaker 3>And I feel like too. I get to be optimistic

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:59.360
<v Speaker 3>because I see the success happen every day. I see

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 3>the struggles. But then I get to see people succeed too,

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 3>So that's why I'm always like, I know, I've seen

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.639
<v Speaker 3>people struggle. I've also seen what happens when you just

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:09.199
<v Speaker 3>keep at it and you keep working and do not

0:28:09.280 --> 0:28:11.400
<v Speaker 3>settle for less, you know, career wise.

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so if you want some tuppy bird Andy

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<v Speaker 1>money dot com and then it'll be in our show

0:28:16.440 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>notes her her website, just in case you forget how

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>to spell her name. Yeah, I wouldn't do two quick boosts,

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:25.280
<v Speaker 1>so boost number one.

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<v Speaker 2>So one the other day was like, well, your skin

0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:27.240
<v Speaker 2>is looking great.

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Tip two black owned skincare businesses that save my skin.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all know, Well maybe you might not know because

0:28:34.440 --> 0:28:36.760
<v Speaker 1>you're new, But I came back from Jordan like less

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<v Speaker 1>than a month ago, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was sunburn because I don't know

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 1>what sunburn feels like. But I had floated in the

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Dead Sea, which was amazing. It's filled of it's thirty

0:28:49.400 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>percent or thirty three percent salt, so you can't you

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:54.200
<v Speaker 1>can't sink because it's so buoyant.

0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 2>Everyone floats.

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>And then what they do is there's like minerals that

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<v Speaker 1>like literally there's the mud it's like clay from the

0:29:00.120 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 1>dead sea. You're supposed to put it all over your body.

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>It's supposed to like rejuvenate your skin.

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<v Speaker 2>Child. I did it, and then I put it on

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<v Speaker 2>my face, and I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, it's not a little itchy. But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. I was about to be doing it the

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<v Speaker 1>next day.

0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 2>I was fine.

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>The day after that, I looked like like my worst

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>nightmare when I was thirteen. I broke out so badly.

0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't just like literally broke out with pimples

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and I don't get pimples. It was also dry patches

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 1>all over my face because I do get like a

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>little bit of eggemund during like transitional season, just a

0:29:34.760 --> 0:29:36.520
<v Speaker 1>little maybe like a little on my arm, but hardly

0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:37.520
<v Speaker 1>any like a little patch.

0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 2>My whole face was a patchy, rashy, pimply mess. It was.

0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 1>I really was like, what have I done to myself?

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:47.680
<v Speaker 1>And I didn't know what to do and I was

0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 1>so arry.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie. What have I done? What have

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 2>I done?

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<v Speaker 3>So when I got out there and you take the

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<v Speaker 3>body water mud and you put it on your face,

0:29:58.960 --> 0:29:59.600
<v Speaker 3>oh my god.

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 2>They say it's funeral.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I got back to the States, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like two skincare brands that like saved my face. One

0:30:08.840 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 1>my butter Bar. So I use my butter Bar anyway,

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:14.280
<v Speaker 1>like just regular day to day. But their stuff is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you can only use one product because it's not cheap,

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>it's the melon in, which is like I don't like

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:23.000
<v Speaker 1>it's like a serum, but it's like, oh so rejuvenating.

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>But like I also used they have like an under

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>eye like like oil roller thing that's really great. I

0:30:28.680 --> 0:30:32.479
<v Speaker 1>also like their their facial cleanser that's really great. And

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:34.520
<v Speaker 1>so that was like, you know, that was like my

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>base of what you normally do. But then my friend

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>of mine, she's got this brand called Puka Poka Puka

0:30:42.520 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>and a Dawn her name is, and she's awesome. She's

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<v Speaker 1>had Pooka for like I don't know, probably like twenty

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 1>something years from now. But so Dawn actually has ms

0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 1>and what she notices that she would get flare ups

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 1>and she started to look at the products she was

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:01.120
<v Speaker 1>putting on her body and she was like, my skin,

0:31:01.240 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Your skin is the largest largest organ on your body.

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 1>So I am you know, like ingesting these things through

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:10.000
<v Speaker 1>like lotions and soaps, and so she starts making some

0:31:10.120 --> 0:31:12.000
<v Speaker 1>for herself and then her friends were like, oh my gosh,

0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 1>can I have some? So she made it as gifts

0:31:13.920 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>and then a business was born. But I have to

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 1>say that I went back to using my regular my

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>butter bar stuff. But then Puoka is what really like

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.520
<v Speaker 1>reset my skin? They have like this, She's got like

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:29.719
<v Speaker 1>this shade butter bomb o MG. Literally I would do

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 1>with the kids on I saw this on TikTok. They

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:34.800
<v Speaker 1>call it slugging, where you like basically coat your whole

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>face with vasoline, which I don't know you agree from basoline,

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:39.720
<v Speaker 1>but basically where you be. You know, you look like

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 1>you're five years old and you're going off the kindergarten.

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Your mother just put all the bacoline on your face.

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 1>But I was using her Puokah shade butter like cream

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:49.720
<v Speaker 1>to do that. Like every night, I would just like

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.520
<v Speaker 1>coat my face. And after a week a girl look

0:31:52.520 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>at me, Now.

0:31:52.880 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Look at it, Look at this, Look at this, look

0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:54.920
<v Speaker 2>at this, look at this.

0:31:55.440 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 1>You can't see but gallowing. Yeah, so thank you. So

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Pooka is Poka go support and then my butter Bar.

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 1>Two black owned women own skincare brands that are amazing

0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and I love them, and then a quick boost is

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:16.040
<v Speaker 1>in my neighborhood. So I live in a similar neighborhood

0:32:16.040 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 1>to you, Mandy, mostly black and brown folks, little enclave.

0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 1>It's called Forest Hill and Newark, New Jersey. It's beautiful

0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:27.440
<v Speaker 1>historic homes and every time a house goes up for sale,

0:32:27.520 --> 0:32:29.920
<v Speaker 1>we all hold our breath to see who want to

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 1>move on in, because honestly, it's the nicest neighborhood in Newark.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have to say eighty to ninety percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the time it's another person of color, and I'm like,

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:40.240
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, thank you, thank you. Today I went

0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>to like not today. Yesterday, my sister and I went

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<v Speaker 1>to an open house down the street, beautiful historic home

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<v Speaker 1>that was built in like nineteen oh eight or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and almost everybody who was in there to go see

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 1>the house. We met a couple from Brooklyn and someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>They were all people of color, and they were asking

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<v Speaker 1>me about the neighborhood. I was like, see, I love

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>it here. Like I can walk with my black hoodie

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 1>on in my my sweatpants and I don't have to

0:33:05.680 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 1>be like like if I was walking in Montclair, like

0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 1>which is like two towns over but not nearly as

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 1>black and brown. I would be mindful to show my

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 1>face to be like, look, I'm not quote unquote dangerous,

0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 1>which is so sad. But in Forest Hill, I don't

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 1>have to do that. I could walk with my hoodie

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:24.040
<v Speaker 1>on and people are like, hey, good morning, good morning.

0:33:24.080 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Is this and it just feels so good. And I

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 1>just worry that we were going to lose that because

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of homes went up for sale and like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, eighty nine percent eighty to ninety percent at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, it's been another person of color, and I

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>just love that that, like, because I want to be

0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>able to feel safe in my own neighborhood where I

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 1>can be fully black, you know, like when Durell was here,

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>he would roll up to the house, you know, playing

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>his music and no one's calling the police like on you.

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 1>It's just like where as I'm hearing in other surrounding

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<v Speaker 1>cities that are super nice, but there's an issue. You know,

0:33:57.280 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>there's an issue in the school system where it's like

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>your child is being aggressive, which is code for black

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 1>because you're the only black tip in that school system.

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 2>We're here in Newark, Newark has some of the best

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:09.200
<v Speaker 2>schools in the state of New Jersey.

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.960
<v Speaker 1>And so Alyssa, my stepdaughter gets to go to Science

0:34:13.040 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>High School, what is one of the top schools in

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 1>the state of New Jersey, and she takes physics, chemistry

0:34:19.360 --> 0:34:22.840
<v Speaker 1>all the same time, geometry and trigonometry, and her class

0:34:22.920 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 1>is full with other black and brown smarties, you know.

0:34:26.480 --> 0:34:28.400
<v Speaker 1>And so I just love that for her, and I

0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:29.000
<v Speaker 1>love that for.

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:31.319
<v Speaker 2>Us, And so that's just a boost that, like, you know,

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:33.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't mind.

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:37.920
<v Speaker 1>The problem with gentrification is that one it devalues the

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 1>current property because the people who live there are black

0:34:41.200 --> 0:34:43.359
<v Speaker 1>and brown, and as soon as you push them out,

0:34:43.760 --> 0:34:46.840
<v Speaker 1>then the property is now worth more by nature of

0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:49.799
<v Speaker 1>quote unquote those people don't live here anymore, let's be real,

0:34:50.360 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 1>you know. And then all of a sudden, all the

0:34:52.080 --> 0:34:54.120
<v Speaker 1>resource and the money and everything else comes flooding back

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 1>into the neighborhood. And I'm like, no, if folks came

0:34:58.200 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>in and you were able to continue to share in

0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 1>the development and the growth of a neighborhood, I would

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:06.040
<v Speaker 1>have no problem with that. But that's not what happens.

0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 1>And so I'm just really glad to know that, Like

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, that forest Hill is maintaining. You know, it's

0:35:13.800 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 1>it's level of community, honestly, and I love living here

0:35:17.560 --> 0:35:19.680
<v Speaker 1>and so that was my boost.

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:24.279
<v Speaker 3>That's so on topic for me because my neighborhood, like

0:35:24.520 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 3>I talked about, Fred's historically black, and like, there is

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 3>this friction because there have been a lot of some

0:35:33.880 --> 0:35:36.759
<v Speaker 3>developers moving in and fixing up homes and then flipping them,

0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 3>and the elders of the community are quite quite protective

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 3>and there's been you know, they're like, I'm I feel

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:48.560
<v Speaker 3>like I'm in the middle of it right now, kind

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 3>of seeing how how both sides are playing out and

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 3>not like at the same time wanting like loving new neighbors,

0:35:55.520 --> 0:36:00.040
<v Speaker 3>but also understanding their fear and their paranoia. And I

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.000
<v Speaker 3>mean not to diminish it, but no, they're there their

0:36:02.040 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 3>fear and the protectiveness of the community, yea, and I

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:08.360
<v Speaker 3>and I get it, and I feel like, man, I

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 3>guess I'm I was one of those Manhattan Nites who

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:13.040
<v Speaker 3>moved on over here too, in my own little way

0:36:13.360 --> 0:36:16.919
<v Speaker 3>sort of kind of gentrifying. But it's interesting and I'm

0:36:16.960 --> 0:36:19.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I think what they want to know from us,

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 3>the younger people in the neighborhood is just like that.

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:25.880
<v Speaker 3>We are also committed. So you mentioned like the community

0:36:25.920 --> 0:36:28.239
<v Speaker 3>and I'm I'm hopefully we're going to have like a

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:32.040
<v Speaker 3>community meeting to talk and to listen to one another

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:36.200
<v Speaker 3>and to because it's gotten heated sometimes when people are like,

0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, we had this this this neighborhood lists serve.

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 3>I asked to not be on it. I just it

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:44.360
<v Speaker 3>was too much. From my husband, there's something juicy and

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:48.359
<v Speaker 3>Rikuale Dell we but yeah, it's like, oh we saw

0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:50.680
<v Speaker 3>you know, a new family or a new developer, and

0:36:50.840 --> 0:36:53.240
<v Speaker 3>the developer was like a woman, you know, a family,

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 3>not a developer. Yeah, but it's like I get what

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:59.640
<v Speaker 3>you're saying. It's like to protect the community but also

0:36:59.680 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 3>have at the same time those yes, those two things

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:04.759
<v Speaker 3>progress so in conflict sometimes because.

0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Literally it's like when people moved to Brooklyn and then

0:37:07.360 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 1>tried to shut down the West Indian Day Parade, It's like,

0:37:10.760 --> 0:37:12.759
<v Speaker 1>what you know what I mean, that's what I mean, Like, oh,

0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 1>it's so loud. I'm like, yes, yes, that's what it

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>sounds like when the parade is here in Brooklyn once

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:21.160
<v Speaker 1>a year. I just and that's what I'm just that's

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:23.959
<v Speaker 1>the frustration. It's like to move in and then say

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:27.839
<v Speaker 1>change to fit me, you know, or to move in

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:30.960
<v Speaker 1>and say now your house is worth something, you know.

0:37:31.200 --> 0:37:34.120
<v Speaker 2>So I'm just like no, I plus tude. The truth is,

0:37:34.160 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm worried about my safety.

0:37:36.000 --> 0:37:37.959
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I don't want to have to worry about walking

0:37:38.000 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 1>around and having the police called on me, and like,

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, because I've seen that with my friends who

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>live in like other cities, you know, where they're not

0:37:45.360 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>welcomed and like you can't even walk your damn dog

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 1>and You're like.

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 2>I live right here.

0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Oh you're one of the safe ones. Nah,

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that, bruh. We're not doing that, not

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:58.240
<v Speaker 1>up in here. And so I'm just like, yeah, I

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I just you know, I'm excited about, like you know

0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:03.480
<v Speaker 1>that that's happening. Like I said, I welcome other people

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 1>to come and move here, but not to change the

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:12.080
<v Speaker 1>fabric of like it is safe to be here, it

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:15.000
<v Speaker 1>is safe to live here. I can be fully black,

0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:17.319
<v Speaker 1>which might mean like we have so many a lot

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:21.480
<v Speaker 1>of Latina Latino families that live here, and like you know,

0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 1>on Saturday, I know, okay, you're gonna play music and

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:28.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be fake meranking in my house, and no

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:29.839
<v Speaker 1>one's gonna be unless you take it to three four

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 1>o'clock in the morning, Mama, then no one's gonna be

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:32.879
<v Speaker 1>calling the police on you.

0:38:32.880 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 2>You know. You know that, like you just want that

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:38.640
<v Speaker 2>feeling of like that. I don't think.

0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:41.000
<v Speaker 1>It's almost like being a woman that men don't understand

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>what it is as a woman. You're like, Okay, I'm

0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:45.240
<v Speaker 1>walking back to my car. Okay, do I have my keys?

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Do I have my You know, that's what it's like

0:38:47.920 --> 0:38:51.640
<v Speaker 1>to be black in a space where you know you've

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:54.120
<v Speaker 1>been made to feel unwelcome. It's like, Okay, do I

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:57.280
<v Speaker 1>look intimidating? Okay, I shouldn't wear a black hoodie today,

0:38:57.400 --> 0:38:59.919
<v Speaker 1>even as a woman, you know. And I'm just like, yeah,

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:01.360
<v Speaker 1>I prefer not to live that way. I'd like to

0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:05.839
<v Speaker 1>I'd like to feel free and not feel like I

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:07.799
<v Speaker 1>have to make everyone else feel safe even though I'm

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:09.719
<v Speaker 1>not doing anything in my own neighborhood.

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 2>And so cause I had considered.

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>Moving to like a Montclair or whatever, and I spoke

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 1>to some folks that live there, and when they tell

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.200
<v Speaker 1>me the challenges, I'm like, all that's for a nice house.

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 1>N Nah, I'm good, you know, like I'll stay here

0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 1>where Like that's just not the case, you know, I

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:27.640
<v Speaker 1>could be myself and you know, maybe it's not like

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>as fancy as over there, but I mean, like quality

0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:32.160
<v Speaker 1>of life is great here.

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 2>So but here's to safe spaces.

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