Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to yet another motherfucking episode of Horrible. This is Yon.
Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy ba aka pet Sign, Okay, Debt
Speaker 1: bitch ak full corpus a k A Pagan Marco Beach.
Speaker 1: I'm just s wheezy and we are here with Her
Speaker 1: name is Heather, but she's actually black and but also
Speaker 1: a doctor. So we got a doctor in the happy
Speaker 1: only black Heather out there. You're not, I'm not. It's
Speaker 1: so crazy. My cousin, who also grew up in the Bronx,
Speaker 1: is also named Heather because my father from the Bronx.
Speaker 1: There's two Heather from the Bronx and we black. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm excited to have you guys. Um, we did have
Speaker 1: a doctor. We got a few like healthcare professionals here
Speaker 1: on Horrible Decisions. Um. Our last b g way and
Speaker 1: we had on was Dr Christina, and I think before
Speaker 1: that we had on when we've talked about the vagina,
Speaker 1: maybe just Michelle Hope just likes in the industry. But
Speaker 1: I mean, our pussies are changing, they're getting older, so exactly,
Speaker 1: I need vaginary rejuvenation and a conversation about what's going
Speaker 1: on down there. Why do you need vaginal like rejuvenation though, Like,
Speaker 1: why do you need it? Okay? So um, I did
Speaker 1: this TV show called sex Cells, and I went to
Speaker 1: this place called the V Spot and they have this
Speaker 1: menu of all the different things you could do with
Speaker 1: your vagina. A woman from the Real Housewives owned it.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever heard about this place,
Speaker 1: but at the V Spot, yeah, and actually she was great.
Speaker 1: She said the V stood provolva, like you know, and
Speaker 1: she was like, we just want to make sure women
Speaker 1: can take care of their bodies. And she's like, we
Speaker 1: do vegacial vaginal rejuvenation. I went on this fucking thing
Speaker 1: to like tighten my keygels and it was like a
Speaker 1: mile a minute, like electrocuting me. It was fun, though,
Speaker 1: but now I want badgin and rejuvenation because it's like
Speaker 1: I heard, it's a vagacial and they like basically make
Speaker 1: your pussy even tighter. Not yet once I popped the
Speaker 1: baby out, yeah, because I'm like, if you do it
Speaker 1: now and make it too tight and then you're not
Speaker 1: able to do what you actually want to do. I
Speaker 1: wanted to be like Supertan like, oh my god, sorry,
Speaker 1: I can I also ask you before, only only because
Speaker 1: I'm a super fans san and she just brought up
Speaker 1: Real Housewives. Do you watch Mary to Medicine and do
Speaker 1: you like the representation of black women doctors on that show?
Speaker 1: So ay, Gonna Andy, I mean Andy Cohen is someone
Speaker 1: who I appreciate because I'm always entertained and honestly married
Speaker 1: to medicine. I don't think that's a terrible job. I
Speaker 1: think it's honest, it's real and certain respects. Like people
Speaker 1: always expect doctors to be like these people who don't fight,
Speaker 1: who don't drink, who don't curse, and we do all
Speaker 1: those things. So I kind of like showing that side
Speaker 1: of us um and I think it does fine with
Speaker 1: black women because I feel like the black doctors on
Speaker 1: there are are working. I know some of them personally,
Speaker 1: and I know some of them like you know, in
Speaker 1: professional settings, and they are there are people who work,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So doctor, have the can
Speaker 1: you go ahead before we really get into the get
Speaker 1: into the good ship okay, get into the good okay
Speaker 1: of this episode, can you let our audience know what
Speaker 1: type of doctor you are? So I'm an O B
Speaker 1: G y N. So that's an obstetrician kynecologist. You just
Speaker 1: being pussies, basically, that's right, have you? Um? Like, if
Speaker 1: you said you listen to our show before, how do
Speaker 1: you find horrible decisions? So basically the reason why even
Speaker 1: ended up finding your lovely program is that I'm always
Speaker 1: trying to find ways to not shock myself when patients
Speaker 1: come to me with different things. Right, so I want
Speaker 1: to know what people are doing in the streets. So
Speaker 1: they're doing lemon cream pies. Do you know what that is? Well,
Speaker 1: I know what the cream pipe. I guess if it's yellow,
Speaker 1: I'm and is their urine involved? Yeah? Interesting? Inside? Thank
Speaker 1: you for backing us up their interesting. Well you're in
Speaker 1: a starles, So I mean did your the Alabama hot
Speaker 1: pocket episode? No, I did not hear about it. When
Speaker 1: you close your ears, kids ship in a pussy and
Speaker 1: that's not as great. I don't think our listeners do it.
Speaker 1: We do have some Middle America folks now, but I
Speaker 1: feel like they're elevated. But that sounds real down home
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, Like when you're so bored, you just like,
Speaker 1: let me just ship. Let's figure out like different things
Speaker 1: for us to do when you're when you listen to Horrible,
Speaker 1: have you heard us say anything wrong about baginal health
Speaker 1: and if so, you did it like strike of Corby,
Speaker 1: like oh my god, or something that we asked a
Speaker 1: question about where you're like, I need to come on
Speaker 1: the show a few things. But I mean, I feel
Speaker 1: like so when I usually see people the pussy's broken,
Speaker 1: vagina broken, she's said, maybe as dry as hell. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's dry, Maybe it's not smellingthing I thought you're didn't
Speaker 1: insecure pussy. Maybe it's dry as hell. Maybe it really
Speaker 1: spelled pussy, which I don't have. Well, we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into a little bit of the vaginal things later. I
Speaker 1: did want to start off as well, because you are
Speaker 1: also an educator as well as a medical professional. I
Speaker 1: wanted to know for the icebreaker of this episode three ways, um,
Speaker 1: that we have all been failed by sex education. So
Speaker 1: could you share with us three things that we all
Speaker 1: should have learned in sex at early on that most
Speaker 1: of us did not well. One, the vagina should smell
Speaker 1: like a vagina. Okay, that's that part, huge, um, if
Speaker 1: you had to describe it to someone that didn't have
Speaker 1: a nose. What would you say? But if they didn't
Speaker 1: have a nose, would you know what I'm saying? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Because like I actually I agree right, Like I've heard
Speaker 1: that said so many times. Vagina, a vaginas I supposed
Speaker 1: to smell like flowers or water. But what is it?
Speaker 1: How do you describe? I think mine just has a
Speaker 1: natural musk and I like the smell of it, but
Speaker 1: I also don't know how to describe it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't really know how to describe it either, but I
Speaker 1: know what It shouldn't smell like that, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So it's like when you show. We went
Speaker 1: to a live show in Atlanta and they also traveled
Speaker 1: and came to another live show and he literally sat
Speaker 1: next to his girlfriend and said that her vagina smelled
Speaker 1: like salmon, he said, and we were just like, the
Speaker 1: whole audience is just like, oh no, honey, wait at
Speaker 1: the smell? What else would it like? In the present?
Speaker 1: He was talking about her. She was right next to
Speaker 1: him in the past, regardless, she was paying were your
Speaker 1: mask past? What you're telling me? He was talking about
Speaker 1: the business? Who were there? We've talked about? How do
Speaker 1: you just I don't know why it's just not something
Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, like healthy vagina doesn't smell like to
Speaker 1: be honest, even the pride fish don't be smelling that good.
Speaker 1: I mean does like fish just don't smell good. Ever,
Speaker 1: is there any good smelling fish? No? Not really no, no, right,
Speaker 1: I mean salmon with butter and caper is kind of
Speaker 1: be hit And I'd be like, but now you add
Speaker 1: and added, you do it. So I am adding smelling
Speaker 1: kind of good bro legs on my hands. The other
Speaker 1: day and it was nighttime and I was around my
Speaker 1: mom and I got drunk. I was like, I can't
Speaker 1: even master me. Now she's gonna last for days. My
Speaker 1: mom was laughing and she was maybe, well, like scrubby
Speaker 1: with lemon or well, what can we do? And I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't need you to to help me master
Speaker 1: right up. She's like, I know, but you're right. You
Speaker 1: can't put it up there. Then it's really gonna smell
Speaker 1: like no. Okay, So outside of aagina should smell like vagina.
Speaker 1: Give us two more that we should have learned early on. Um. So,
Speaker 1: another big thing is that sex shouldn't hurt. And a
Speaker 1: lot of people get that thought because people talk about
Speaker 1: losing virginity and like so they're like, oh, when you
Speaker 1: lose your virginity, it may hurt. And then some people
Speaker 1: don't realize that that's like not a continual thing. Is
Speaker 1: the cherry popping a real thing for something? Yeah? Right? Like, well,
Speaker 1: I mean I know that. That's That's when even when
Speaker 1: I was looking up sex, smiths like the idea of
Speaker 1: a cherry popping not everyone's cherry pops. Well maybe because
Speaker 1: it did in another way, they say, they say, the
Speaker 1: gym um riding a bike, it could have happened to
Speaker 1: you before. But if I'm not mistaken, everyone has a
Speaker 1: hymen every every but again it's not associated directly with
Speaker 1: sex all the time, which is why when we talked
Speaker 1: about the t I thing, the idea that he was
Speaker 1: checking on his daughter's hymen was just like yours. Do
Speaker 1: you remember a moment where it happened to you or
Speaker 1: you don't know? I don't know exactly. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. I don't And most people don't have
Speaker 1: that experience. You don't either. I remember like vividly, Yeah, bro,
Speaker 1: it went down my leg, the blood it was bad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I must have been like write a whole bunch of bicycles.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're about riding home on a nig. You're like,
Speaker 1: all right, man, but you know what, I have heavy
Speaker 1: periods now, maybe that's why it's actually bleeding the whole time.
Speaker 1: Mandy barely has periods. Maybe you had only because I'm
Speaker 1: one of God's chosen, that's all. Like this three day period,
Speaker 1: You're so lucky. I'm so blessed are yours? Mine are
Speaker 1: like six days? And I'm like, so I have six
Speaker 1: days of bleeding and then the six days before I'm
Speaker 1: like a bit well cry, I'm crying like it's like today, right,
Speaker 1: because I'm I will share. I am definitely in that
Speaker 1: pre period luteal phase. Right. And so today somebody was
Speaker 1: telling me about how they're surprising their grandma and she's
Speaker 1: in her nineties and she hasn't and they haven't seen
Speaker 1: her since before the pandemic. And I'm like, I love
Speaker 1: those videos. Send me a video of that so I
Speaker 1: can cry. And I'm like, who am I? Who the
Speaker 1: hell is? It's weird, but I wanted to I want
Speaker 1: you to SENTI right, I all I want to post this.
Speaker 1: I love the surprise videos. You know, it was like
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm tearing up just thinking about
Speaker 1: this right now. Okay, No, that's way too emotional. And
Speaker 1: what's number three? Give me number three that should learned earlier? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so numbers three is that you shouldn't be cleaning inside
Speaker 1: your vagina, right, and that your vagina and volva are
Speaker 1: two separate things. Why bonus? Why the hell was them
Speaker 1: douches the Summer's eve bullshit? Douches like introduced as something
Speaker 1: that we should do because they got money and so
Speaker 1: they're paying for like things like that, because the seminine
Speaker 1: care industry is a multifillion dollars and so it's a
Speaker 1: very these everybody wants there vagina to smelling flowers. We're
Speaker 1: always the saming that it smells bad. I remember when
Speaker 1: I was like younger I was, I wasn't even having
Speaker 1: sex yet, and I bought a douche, didn't know how
Speaker 1: to use it and never even put a tamp on in,
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, I have to smell good,
Speaker 1: like what if I get fingered tonight, like just dumb ship.
Speaker 1: And I think that, um, the association to the smell
Speaker 1: not needing to smell like like it has to smell
Speaker 1: like something else is the problem. Also when you walk
Speaker 1: down the aisle. I was just in Walgreens, so I
Speaker 1: only use I used something from Hole of Foods. It's
Speaker 1: a natural vaginal wash. I've been using it for like
Speaker 1: four years now. I ran out, had to go to Walgreens,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, there's nothing here, Like I
Speaker 1: literally used water, and like I think whatever plane sofa
Speaker 1: had for just the outside, like I didn't even want
Speaker 1: to touch the lips. I was freaking out because everything
Speaker 1: I looked at had this name Midnight Flower Rose Garden.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, nigga, what if I smell like a
Speaker 1: candle in my pussy? It ain't right. I also think
Speaker 1: the important thing too, I don't think like the important
Speaker 1: like all literally washed my my whole body, and then
Speaker 1: I'll put like I have the little loop up for
Speaker 1: my hand. So I washed my whole body, and then
Speaker 1: once all the soap is gone, then I go in
Speaker 1: with just my bare hands. Because I think a lot
Speaker 1: of people don't understand as well, because I know, as
Speaker 1: black folks be using loofless and wash cloths, the white
Speaker 1: folks don't even use water but or shower at all.
Speaker 1: But the loot stop we have maybe we have thirty
Speaker 1: five and guess what, they still don't shower. It doesn't
Speaker 1: matter if they listen another So I'm helping your new
Speaker 1: white listener. But but no, like even just learning the
Speaker 1: importance again as a fucking adult, Like you shouldn't even
Speaker 1: be using your wash rag to go in there and
Speaker 1: clean the outside because of course it has all of
Speaker 1: your dove soap or whatever you use. And then also
Speaker 1: like a lot of people aren't just read like changing
Speaker 1: out their loofas and watch class every day. So also
Speaker 1: just that bacteria that you washed off, you're now entering
Speaker 1: into your phone in the shower, Like, yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding. I came home after a two weeks, right,
Speaker 1: and I was like, what smells what? And when I
Speaker 1: picked up the loof I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I went the last time I was here, I could
Speaker 1: smell it was smelled old. Imagine if I didn't think
Speaker 1: for a moment, I would have just been scrubbing on
Speaker 1: like oh ship, Yeah, well, let's get into if you
Speaker 1: are listening to us for the very first time today
Speaker 1: because you just love that we brought the education is
Speaker 1: sheet our Vanilla's Ship segment gives you sex in the
Speaker 1: news and for this one girl, we're talking as TVs. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: speaking of which, my panties are so t I'm around,
Speaker 1: but no, babe, I remember like when I was younger,
Speaker 1: my mom was like, don't sit with the wet swimsuits
Speaker 1: and make sure the panties are loose, and they kind. Yes. Well,
Speaker 1: I wanted to let you guys know, don't blame our
Speaker 1: show for this, but this marks the sixth consecutive year
Speaker 1: of record breaking cases of sexually trans minted disease in
Speaker 1: the US. And y'all, I'm about to give you the
Speaker 1: ten states that are the highest in there, and if
Speaker 1: it's your state, you might just want to go get um. Well,
Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen, more than two point five million cases
Speaker 1: of chlamydia, gnarrhea, and syphilis reported, according to the CDC
Speaker 1: Prevention um. The CDC data looked at states with the
Speaker 1: highest cases of chlamydia, gunaria, syphilis, and congenital syphilis. What
Speaker 1: is congenital syphilis. That's a different type of syphilis. So
Speaker 1: that's if your mama has syphilis and gave it to
Speaker 1: you as like when you were as a child, you
Speaker 1: were in utero and your mom had syphilis and you
Speaker 1: got it that way, and could you get rid of that? Um,
Speaker 1: not really, because it causes certain birth defects that you
Speaker 1: have for like the rest of your life. Oh careful
Speaker 1: out there, guys. Is they all have something that's tested
Speaker 1: on women before giving birth. Yep, we test you and
Speaker 1: and we test you and treat you if you're positive.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, oh wow. Ship, my homegirl got canary while
Speaker 1: she was pregnant, and I remember she was freaking out because, um,
Speaker 1: and this is when I was ship in high school.
Speaker 1: I think maybe he might win her second partner. And
Speaker 1: she was so scared and everybody was freaking out about
Speaker 1: it because they didn't know what medicine, what dosage to
Speaker 1: give her. She had a high roots pregnancy. And we
Speaker 1: really need to just keep in mind like the fallopian
Speaker 1: tubes and STDs. People make jokes and I even I
Speaker 1: do about like, oh, I'll just take a pill and
Speaker 1: get rid of it, But like it's a lot of damage,
Speaker 1: especially if you don't catch it. And that's the thing.
Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of women a aren't in
Speaker 1: tune enough with their bodies to even realize a change.
Speaker 1: But also there are so many of these STDs that
Speaker 1: some people may not even see symptoms, Like I didn't
Speaker 1: even get symptoms from sucking COVID. So there's that is
Speaker 1: Sometimes I look at my nigga, like when he came
Speaker 1: back from the cad out, and I'm like, I tell
Speaker 1: you right now, speaking of the class, we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about the ten uh states with the most cases of
Speaker 1: clamidia and you had one out of ten, correct, wueezy.
Speaker 1: Georgia is in there. Um so we have Alaska, Mississippi, Louisiana,
Speaker 1: South Carolina, New Mexico, North Carolina, Georgia, Alabama, New York,
Speaker 1: and Illinois. They that rank the loil actually New Hampshire.
Speaker 1: But also I don't know anyone that lives there. But Alaska,
Speaker 1: we don't know anyone who lives there either. But maybe
Speaker 1: that's what what are they doing? How far any Canadian store?
Speaker 1: Can you really go get a condom? I mean in Alaska? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And if any think they have that accident in Alaska,
Speaker 1: I know I wanted to do it. God, That's why
Speaker 1: I'm having a small community accent. This is not southern.
Speaker 1: This is like we live in a place where we
Speaker 1: don't have stores like that. A condom for I'm gonna
Speaker 1: pull it out and shoot it on her bed one
Speaker 1: of the other things that I actually as well wanted
Speaker 1: to share because this is a motherfucking black ass podcast. Um.
Speaker 1: The CDC data actually illustrates the STD rates were one
Speaker 1: to two times higher for Hispanic and Latino populations, UM,
Speaker 1: and rates for American, Indian, Alaska, Native, Native, Hawaiian and
Speaker 1: other Pacific islander populations were three to five times higher.
Speaker 1: Data also showed You're ready, I was like oodcast now
Speaker 1: the data showed the STD rates were five to eight
Speaker 1: times higher among now now listeners are like and take that, Amanda. UM.
Speaker 1: So the thing is, I have a two part question
Speaker 1: to this. A for the CDC, this says that these
Speaker 1: are all SATs from twenty nineteen UM, and so it's
Speaker 1: one why are these sat almost two years old? So
Speaker 1: you have to understand that different health departments have different
Speaker 1: criteria for how you report these right. So, UM, any
Speaker 1: clinic you go to, private, public, they all have to
Speaker 1: get this data and it takes a while, and it
Speaker 1: depends on what state you're from, because we're talking about
Speaker 1: places like Alaska, We're talking about places like Florida, We're
Speaker 1: talking about what what does that mean? What does that mean?
Speaker 1: Where it may not be centralized, It may not be
Speaker 1: a central type of way that they collect all this data,
Speaker 1: so it takes a while to get all in the
Speaker 1: data for the whole country. Florida is sucking up votes
Speaker 1: for the presidency and our STD stats. Probably what are
Speaker 1: we from there, dude? They're just embarrassing. Floria cannot get
Speaker 1: their ship together. Any place I've ever been to, I
Speaker 1: hate it the Plan Parent and then I go to
Speaker 1: this place called the Center. It's an lgbt Q friendly
Speaker 1: place if you want to have a free test over there.
Speaker 1: I always go when I'm downtown because I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's so easy. There you go, you peanut cup, you
Speaker 1: just need your I D. So this is parked up
Speaker 1: because I'm like giving the place props. At the same time,
Speaker 1: they pick up with no cover, handed it to the
Speaker 1: girl and I was like, Okay, when do I know
Speaker 1: and she was like, well, if we call you, you'll know.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna panic long Like that is the worst me
Speaker 1: A twist top not the question. The second question I
Speaker 1: had for you, based on even how it's been for
Speaker 1: you working during COVID, do you see do you predict
Speaker 1: that those numbers will go down because so many people
Speaker 1: were locked in their homes or do you feel like
Speaker 1: it would also continue to rise. For I think it
Speaker 1: actually might go down to be because I do think
Speaker 1: that people just kind of buttied up and figured it out.
Speaker 1: I mean, but of the people, that's how I got
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. Look at you. It's gone now, but it
Speaker 1: was cute all last. We'll come for you. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: party as long as he left with and you as
Speaker 1: the relationship with. No, Yeah, let's I hope we win.
Speaker 1: We were good and clean whole time. I loved it.
Speaker 1: I loved it for us. Come on, I mean, damn,
Speaker 1: look at us. So yeah, I mean I guess I
Speaker 1: agree as well. Um have you have you had as
Speaker 1: many scares? And also can you talk about where you
Speaker 1: had been? Like where do you work? What part of
Speaker 1: New York? The Bronx, the Boogie. But I'm in Queen's now.
Speaker 1: But I'm in Queen's doing now, I shout out, Cathar,
Speaker 1: let's go. I grew up in park. Now they're speaking,
Speaker 1: I want to say. I want to say, okay, And
Speaker 1: is it private? Is it? So? I worked for the
Speaker 1: public hospital system, so Um, I see any and everybody,
Speaker 1: people who have insurance, people who don't have insurance, people
Speaker 1: who got their immigration paper straight, people who don't. I
Speaker 1: see everybody. How what is the easiest way for uh
Speaker 1: someone that does not have insurance to get access to
Speaker 1: STD testing or what would you recommend? So the free
Speaker 1: clinic works, like the free clinic works, and there's a
Speaker 1: lot of different iterations of free clinics. Right. So, um,
Speaker 1: in the hospital where I am, we have clinic space
Speaker 1: in the hospital and we worked to whatever you know,
Speaker 1: income you have, right so if you don't have money,
Speaker 1: we'll see you. If you, you know, make a little something.
Speaker 1: We have a sliding cli dollars just we need because
Speaker 1: we gotta keep these lights on. I went to a
Speaker 1: free clinic when we first quit our job years ago
Speaker 1: for STD testing, and I had a really shitty experience
Speaker 1: because it was like I waited like six hours to
Speaker 1: be seen, and then once I got seen, they were
Speaker 1: like asking me how much I made my last pace step,
Speaker 1: But then my pay step was too close to when
Speaker 1: I went, and I was like, Nick, I don't have
Speaker 1: a job nowhere. I know what is it? But damn,
Speaker 1: And I mean I couldn't even be seen that day.
Speaker 1: Until they determined that my income was low enough to
Speaker 1: get tested for free, they wouldn't even take the sample.
Speaker 1: And then once they did take the sample, they said,
Speaker 1: if something came back wrong, They're like, well, what do
Speaker 1: you want to test for? I was like, well, I
Speaker 1: want to test for everything. And then they started breaking
Speaker 1: down that goneria cost more, lamidia was cheaper, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: they don't even And we've talked about this on the show.
Speaker 1: We've had a few episodes around her feet, herpie simplex.
Speaker 1: That is an actual test because they assume everyone has
Speaker 1: some some number of it. I think there's eight. If yeah,
Speaker 1: there's eight, there's an eight, And so that's one that
Speaker 1: they will only test you for if you ask, because
Speaker 1: it is a it's a different cost than just the
Speaker 1: basic chlamydia syphilis trick. And there's one more, the basic
Speaker 1: wnoia clamidia. Well, I test everybody for doneria clamidia. UM
Speaker 1: HIV of course will be forget in the HIV and
Speaker 1: it's still out in these streets and black women we
Speaker 1: are still the highest um people getting new cases of HIV.
Speaker 1: It's really really bad. I was gonna go out tonight
Speaker 1: and have some fun and I want to stay in
Speaker 1: the house. Yeah you know. I mean you could go
Speaker 1: out without having sex where you can have sex and
Speaker 1: just like not get h me. I know, but it's
Speaker 1: not worthy. The second abstinence and I've been some good
Speaker 1: lord and like here we go, scarier, bro, I hear
Speaker 1: the coming out really serious. Y'all can joke all you want.
Speaker 1: When you are not fucking and then you start sucking again,
Speaker 1: you almost anxiety on top of like when I'm sucking
Speaker 1: this ship don't come across my mind. But not sucking
Speaker 1: right now, I'm like, oh god, oh now, now I'm
Speaker 1: going to jump into it, like you're more freaked out.
Speaker 1: It's true. That's actually true for a lot of people.
Speaker 1: But the cuddling is kind of like fun and intense,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, because like everybody's respecting like the fact
Speaker 1: that I really don't wan to sun right now. So
Speaker 1: it's like really intense for playing humping, it's nice. It's
Speaker 1: also sweet not unch don't do nothing, because that is
Speaker 1: just like you know, a bitch now your child, Like
Speaker 1: it's kind of fun. Oh my goodness. I want to
Speaker 1: get into our horr derve and of course our horr
Speaker 1: derv segment is where we get a sex tip from you. However,
Speaker 1: one of the things that I ran across in an
Speaker 1: article that I also saw you mentioned on your page
Speaker 1: but also look at you. You ain't even know the outline.
Speaker 1: You mentioned it as one of the things that we
Speaker 1: should learn early on in having sex. So I wanted
Speaker 1: to give a tip to all of the women based
Speaker 1: on this is this actually is an article from Everyday
Speaker 1: Health UM and in included in the description of this episode,
Speaker 1: but it says, why is it so hard to speak
Speaker 1: up about painful sex? Um? So you are actually I
Speaker 1: believe featured in uh discussing this, but painful sex actually
Speaker 1: has a name. It's called that's the name of it.
Speaker 1: Thank you. It was like parunia vaginous smith though you
Speaker 1: you're in the right area because it actually vaginousmis can
Speaker 1: cause this perunia, So bunia unia like a pernia disperonia.
Speaker 1: Let start where disparonia. So I actually wanted to add
Speaker 1: on sound like outside of vaginous smiths, outside of dysperunia,
Speaker 1: which is actually, you know a reason for painful sex?
Speaker 1: What are other reasons as to why a woman maybe
Speaker 1: experiencing painful sex? And then I would like you to
Speaker 1: also share with our audience a tip on how they
Speaker 1: can communicate this sex is just really painful for them.
Speaker 1: So let's start with the first one. What other reasons
Speaker 1: could it be that the sex painful? So I like
Speaker 1: to tell people will split it up into kind of
Speaker 1: sex when the penis is going in in or whatever
Speaker 1: is going into the vagina, and what we call deep dysprunia,
Speaker 1: so like when the penis is deeper, right, Because it's
Speaker 1: really important to know the difference because it can be
Speaker 1: due to different things. So vagin is Smiths, which is
Speaker 1: when your pelvic floor muscles kind of spasm um. That
Speaker 1: usually causes more what we call superficial dysprunia or more
Speaker 1: pain in the vagina and maybe even closer to the
Speaker 1: outer part and so um, the treatments are somewhat different.
Speaker 1: Deeper dysprunia could be due to things like fibrates, endometriosis.
Speaker 1: You could have had um pelvic inflammatory disease or p
Speaker 1: i D in the past and now you have some
Speaker 1: scar tissue in there. Sometimes it can be due to
Speaker 1: sexual trauma you have before. So there's a lot of
Speaker 1: different reasons why you can have deep dysprunia. And sometimes
Speaker 1: you can have both. And I wanted to also add
Speaker 1: um and we'll talk about this in the Horrible Decision,
Speaker 1: but also just you can and get you can tear inside,
Speaker 1: not only from pregnancy, clearly that thing poppy right open,
Speaker 1: but if you're not wet enough, if you're not moist enough,
Speaker 1: there's if there's not enough lubricant, that you can start
Speaker 1: pretty much getting like a rug burn inside your pussy.
Speaker 1: Yes you can, and so that can cause it to hurt.
Speaker 1: So even though you think she moaning it might be
Speaker 1: a pain, it's really painful. So can you give a
Speaker 1: tip to our audience for all the ladies listening, if
Speaker 1: they're with partners that they really love and they really
Speaker 1: do enjoy having sex, but it's also painful and unenjoyable
Speaker 1: at the same time, what tips would you give to
Speaker 1: them in communicating that right. So I definitely just be
Speaker 1: really upfront, like I think what happens is that a
Speaker 1: lot of times we use euphemisms or we're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hurt somebody's feelings, but like, if it hurts you,
Speaker 1: it shouldn't hurt. Additionally, I find there's a lot of
Speaker 1: stigma against using lube like, I don't get why people
Speaker 1: feel like lube is a bad they're supposed to be.
Speaker 1: I want to falling down that if men are celebrating,
Speaker 1: and it's much like the pressure on women for a
Speaker 1: rock hard dick, on men to have a rock hard
Speaker 1: dick that women may be giving or whatever partner. I
Speaker 1: think that particularly with men, even in music, pussy being
Speaker 1: super wet, these are things that you feel like you're
Speaker 1: supposed to naturally happen, right, Like no one feels good
Speaker 1: about having to like, you know, spit on it. You
Speaker 1: want to be super soaked, and I think the experience
Speaker 1: is what someone's going to remember more than if it
Speaker 1: was your pussy they got wet or the loop right,
Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of the day, would you
Speaker 1: rather have broken pussy, dryass pussy for a little bit
Speaker 1: of they didn't sponsor this podcast? Loop true? True? That,
Speaker 1: And I actually agree with that so much because I
Speaker 1: feel like so many people and so many conversations I
Speaker 1: have with especially women as they're getting older, because when
Speaker 1: you're getting older, like when you are going towards menopause
Speaker 1: or whatever, or you have or even people who just
Speaker 1: had a baby, because you're um, your hormones change, you
Speaker 1: can get dryer, and so they're like, oh, what's on
Speaker 1: with me? And it's like, girl, this is life, Like
Speaker 1: this is not you. This is not my greatest life.
Speaker 1: Is that happening to me? I just know it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: Something is always wrong with me. I'm allergic to everything.
Speaker 1: You just that ship is always sucked up. I just
Speaker 1: know when I popped that baby out, then I'll be like, yo,
Speaker 1: pussy got broke when it came out. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: request the C section. Just do you deliver babies? By
Speaker 1: the way, how many times out of ten to the
Speaker 1: ship on the table? Do you want me to truly
Speaker 1: into that? Probably most most time cannot tend but like
Speaker 1: maybe not. And I also want to ask you, and
Speaker 1: this has been no ship. This is another thing that
Speaker 1: I saw in the news article. And I want to
Speaker 1: know your opinion on this because I believe it happened
Speaker 1: here in New York City. Um, there is a crisis
Speaker 1: in which a hospital lost all of their nurses who
Speaker 1: deliver babies due to them not wanting to get vaccinated.
Speaker 1: And so now there's a whole area where they can't
Speaker 1: deliver babies because they're not enough. What are your thoughts
Speaker 1: on that? And at this very moment YouTube is probably
Speaker 1: gonna put the CDC doctor goddamn stamp at the bottom
Speaker 1: of us, but I would like to know your thoughts
Speaker 1: on even that, being that you do deliver babies. Well,
Speaker 1: I think it's really unfortunate actually know that area because
Speaker 1: homegirls have some jobs. So I've been here, there and everywhere,
Speaker 1: and that place is rural as hell, is country as hell.
Speaker 1: They already had access issues with people getting appropriate eccentric care,
Speaker 1: meaning care for pregnancy, for deliveries and things like that.
Speaker 1: The fact that they're closing that down because of it
Speaker 1: is messed up. And these people know each other, all right, Well,
Speaker 1: enough about the goddamn COVID vaccine. Everybody someone asked you that. Yes,
Speaker 1: I have been. I work in the Bronx. Of course
Speaker 1: I've been asked that. And if someone goes down on
Speaker 1: me with COVID, can I get over there? Yeah, they
Speaker 1: have asked. And when you laugh about it, I mean
Speaker 1: I laugh audibly, so they know. I was like really,
Speaker 1: and they're like, yeah, no really, And I'm like, I mean,
Speaker 1: you can't get COVID specifically, and your puzzy but you
Speaker 1: can get COVID kind of body. It is a mucus membrane.
Speaker 1: What's the dumbest sh it someone's asked you? And what
Speaker 1: your opinion? Because they say there's no dumb questions, but
Speaker 1: they're kind of ore. I'm trying to think, if there's
Speaker 1: like dumb, maybe let's just say something that kind of
Speaker 1: like what the fun wear? Mind a little? You're like
Speaker 1: an educator. I say, no question is a dumb question.
Speaker 1: Horrible decisions, I know, but there really aren't any because
Speaker 1: there are people who really don't know. And I don't
Speaker 1: think that it's their fault for not knowing. It's just life.
Speaker 1: And I think it's also you're in a spiral too.
Speaker 1: When you're the doctor, you just start asking yes, and
Speaker 1: people are really nervous. I asked everything. I'd be like
Speaker 1: and I'm getting headaches, but yes. People will be telling me,
Speaker 1: oh and then mate hurt, like are you gonna do
Speaker 1: something about it? No? I'm like, do you want me
Speaker 1: deal or their tea? I'm like, do you really want
Speaker 1: you better know how to work my whole body? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But do you really want me to be filling a cavity? Like?
Speaker 1: I mean, I deal with your vagina, Like do you
Speaker 1: want me to really be doing dental word for you
Speaker 1: when it comes to like the vagina though, right, Like
Speaker 1: it's so close to the asshole, Like when people have
Speaker 1: asshole issues, are they I mean, are you the whole area?
Speaker 1: I mean, there's some asshole things that I can deal with,
Speaker 1: like hemorrhoids I kind of deal with. And then there's
Speaker 1: some conditions when you get older pro lapse. So yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so the uters can come down, your rectum can start
Speaker 1: pro lapsing, and so badder. Well, rosebud is like coming
Speaker 1: out the butt, but there's a way that your rectum
Speaker 1: can start coming out your vagina. Wait excuse me, so
Speaker 1: like to the wrong turn, you're wait, your budhole could
Speaker 1: come out of you will not. Well, So there's the anus,
Speaker 1: which is the body, and then there's a rectum, which
Speaker 1: is above the anus. Right, So that's two where the
Speaker 1: ship come out, and that's inside, right, that's above. So
Speaker 1: the back wall of your vagina shares some real estate
Speaker 1: with the rectum. And if that back wall your vagina
Speaker 1: gets weak, it can kind of pooch out and actually
Speaker 1: your rectum, like it's called the recta seal, it can
Speaker 1: actually pooch into you. Okay, so I have one question
Speaker 1: about that. I have one question about that only because
Speaker 1: of course Future even made it popular with the thumb
Speaker 1: in your butt. But I do know that when I
Speaker 1: have a finger in my ass and a dick in
Speaker 1: my vagina, he can feel his finger in my ask
Speaker 1: is there anything where that could actually like, could he
Speaker 1: puncture that little lining at all? Or is that not
Speaker 1: a I mean he would have to be extremely aggressive
Speaker 1: and probably never cut his nails and again be extremely
Speaker 1: aggressive to puncture it. And I have never seen that.
Speaker 1: Would okay, knock happen? I don't know, I never see that.
Speaker 1: What's the weirdest thing you've seen? So I had antient
Speaker 1: ones who forgot she left the juice like a juicy
Speaker 1: juice box inter vagina. Okay, maybe she was a little
Speaker 1: thirst excuse me. Yeah, I don't know when she put
Speaker 1: it there, and she didn't remember why she put it there.
Speaker 1: I mean, she had some mental illness issues. But she
Speaker 1: was being brought to us, I know, but she was
Speaker 1: being brought to us now and she was like, oh,
Speaker 1: like yeah, because I was pulling out pieces of it
Speaker 1: and I was like, what is this? Like wanted to
Speaker 1: get like a puzzle. You know what. I don't want
Speaker 1: to know what flavor it was. It was great, not
Speaker 1: it was great, don't tell me she was it was
Speaker 1: it was purple drink. I don't know it was, it
Speaker 1: was perfect. I hear all tampons being like left up
Speaker 1: there for a while and tampons are do you recommend
Speaker 1: the obi no string having condoms? Like or do those
Speaker 1: those tampons are they called obi? Yeah? Yeah that I
Speaker 1: remember always seeing that when I was like younger, like, well,
Speaker 1: how does it work? But like they literally even don't
Speaker 1: even have casing. Yeah, you just are those the ones
Speaker 1: that get stuck. No, it's really what happens is people
Speaker 1: forget that they have a tampon in. I feel like
Speaker 1: and maybe they like their period was like that day
Speaker 1: and they were like, okay, let's just put one in,
Speaker 1: and then they go about their lives and they forget,
Speaker 1: and then they start having issues with discharge and smells
Speaker 1: and then they're like wait a minute. They come a
Speaker 1: lot of times they come in and then I do
Speaker 1: the examine. I'm like, I found the reason why you
Speaker 1: have smells. I love them. That's usually at least since
Speaker 1: the last period, and it could be like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I've had a friend with one stuck for just a week,
Speaker 1: but that actually leads us into our whole boch face man. Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all read the title for this week's episode. The horrible
Speaker 1: decision for this week is sense and feels. Okay, so
Speaker 1: the first question that I actually did have. Again, we're
Speaker 1: getting back to sex, but still the gushy gushy medical
Speaker 1: stuff as well. Let's get into it sense and smells.
Speaker 1: First question, Should I have sex if my sense is off?
Speaker 1: Is it healthy? Too, funk through b v yeast or
Speaker 1: any other reason as to why my pussy's smell is
Speaker 1: not normal? One moment. This comes because I was recently
Speaker 1: at a sex club. Again if you join Patreon, it
Speaker 1: was the first time I was at a sex club
Speaker 1: where I walked into a room and I said, there's
Speaker 1: no way she doesn't smell that too, And I was
Speaker 1: just like, everyone in the room was having sex, so
Speaker 1: it's clearly one of the women. And I was just like,
Speaker 1: that's where you could smell it right now, Like that
Speaker 1: is that is where I was just like, sonically, you're
Speaker 1: listening to this, are you? Like? Are and YouTube smell
Speaker 1: the show? But yeah, I wanted to know if there
Speaker 1: was any health concern or reasons why we should not
Speaker 1: have sex if our pussies. Well, so the thing that's
Speaker 1: going on is that your pH is off right, and now,
Speaker 1: especially with something like b V, the bacteria has overgrown, right,
Speaker 1: So the issue is that you can make the situation
Speaker 1: worse because basically it depends on you know, condom usage,
Speaker 1: non condom usage, and your partner. But there's a possibility that.
Speaker 1: Um so when you have b V, your vagina is
Speaker 1: more basic, right, so in terms of acid base chemistry
Speaker 1: and semen is basic. So that means that it can
Speaker 1: make the b V worse and it can actually usually
Speaker 1: make this smell worse. So his colm can make the
Speaker 1: smell worse, so he should pull up if it already
Speaker 1: thinks I mean, but there's also my pre comes, So
Speaker 1: there's that and also too, like that kind of stuff
Speaker 1: can get on a penis, and then you have to
Speaker 1: know like your partners like hygiene is you know, because
Speaker 1: men have pH as well, Oh yeah, and they you know,
Speaker 1: and circumcised uncircumcised two, So there's some of that factor.
Speaker 1: You can get stuck in the forest, kid, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of things that can happen. So I mean the
Speaker 1: answer technically is sure, you can do whatever you want,
Speaker 1: but it's probably not a great idea and it probably
Speaker 1: doesn't feel that great. Now we don't kink shame here, right,
Speaker 1: but we do, like I've given golden showers. We both
Speaker 1: said we really wouldn't be in this gap play. But
Speaker 1: also there's anal sex, so I did want to know,
Speaker 1: are there a lot of bacterial concerns with anal sex
Speaker 1: and golden showers? And is it actually bad for our
Speaker 1: bodies to engage in So in terms of golden showers,
Speaker 1: so urine is usually um sterile, so there tends to
Speaker 1: be no back to her unless you have a U
Speaker 1: T I wait when I ask you like, and this
Speaker 1: is just the thought I have why all the time
Speaker 1: he is sterile, but all my toxins are coming out
Speaker 1: of it. At the same time, what is in the
Speaker 1: p that's making it the jellyfish thing? We're like, what
Speaker 1: is that with the P bro? What is it? This
Speaker 1: is a great question, I like, actually really love this question.
Speaker 1: So in terms of toxins, we're talking about like chemical toxins,
Speaker 1: so that would be like nitrites or nitrogen containing things
Speaker 1: you know, like acidic things. But that's when your P
Speaker 1: hat is probably no. Now that when when when men no,
Speaker 1: they say when men like have the foamy P or whatever,
Speaker 1: Like if your P comes out and it's foamy, it's
Speaker 1: like health like could be healthy. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it can be. I thought, yeah, sometimes it depends it does.
Speaker 1: He's gonna be examining it. But it's more so like
Speaker 1: in terms of like the type fightings you eat things
Speaker 1: like that, that it's a big chemistry. Like I googled
Speaker 1: that because the dude that I slept with, um damn.
Speaker 1: I don't remember how long it was, but I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: this isn't because I was watching him P and I
Speaker 1: remember googling it and I was like, okay, the phone
Speaker 1: cool because I was like, is it is it like
Speaker 1: this starts for men, like I really didn't know. So
Speaker 1: P is terryll. It's it's the sorry you said, it's
Speaker 1: the chemical toxic. It's chemical toxins. So it's not actual
Speaker 1: like bacteria or anything like that. So you could drink it.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah you couldn't. Actually, so usually in places
Speaker 1: let's say you get stranded, I touch, She's gonna same
Speaker 1: places where where do people drink it the most? In
Speaker 1: the middle of nowhere, and they're gonna die. And it's
Speaker 1: an option between drink that dirty like pool water or
Speaker 1: my own piss. I'm gonna drink my own piss. And
Speaker 1: I just said that you're about to drink your piss.
Speaker 1: Us speaking of again, just pH and we talked about
Speaker 1: this earlier. You did a great job without even knowing
Speaker 1: anything we were talking about today. I wanted to know
Speaker 1: outside of our mental concerns regarding just how we think
Speaker 1: our pussies should just be wet. I want to know,
Speaker 1: is loop something that will throw off our pH and
Speaker 1: is loops something that then could also make us smell later.
Speaker 1: That's a great question, and the answer is it can.
Speaker 1: Oftentimes it doesn't, though, because most lubes are formulated for
Speaker 1: the vaginal pH and most loops don't have things that
Speaker 1: should throw things up. However, we're all different, right, so
Speaker 1: some of us are more sensitive than others. So um,
Speaker 1: you may have a reaction to loupe because you may
Speaker 1: have a reaction to certain things in that lube that
Speaker 1: may you don't right. Actually, always at a pretty sensitive pussy,
Speaker 1: Like I said, everything is always wrong with me but um,
Speaker 1: the matter the lube I've used after, I just feel
Speaker 1: not like burning, but a little just like something's there,
Speaker 1: like I'm aware of my vagina, like I notice it.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like tingly like always water, like the oily ones,
Speaker 1: the fucking anything, the natural shade, organic lube, like, no
Speaker 1: matter what. So now the only thing I've done, just
Speaker 1: a little bit differently is the lightest layer and rub
Speaker 1: it into their penis, like that's the only thing I've done,
Speaker 1: Whereas before I might put it on my hands and
Speaker 1: rub it on my vulva. Now it's the opposite if
Speaker 1: I need it. But I mean, it is scary when
Speaker 1: you're just like what works? Or just throw water in
Speaker 1: my mouth and try to get as much spit as
Speaker 1: I can. That's my face. There's that's the best. But
Speaker 1: it can dry out first, yes, yea. And the spit
Speaker 1: has bacteria, that's true. We have the dirtiest mouths of everything.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sucking dig before I fux, so there's
Speaker 1: not really, there's no way around it. I'm gonna hope
Speaker 1: that the onion soup is out of my mouth. But like,
Speaker 1: all right, that's why I was on my mind. So
Speaker 1: the last one in the horror decision has to do
Speaker 1: with fields. Um, and this is because we have a
Speaker 1: lot of kinksters that listening. So this is a question
Speaker 1: for anyone interested in fisting, gaping, double penetration, or size queens. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: my holes ever be tight again? Um most times? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because like so in terms of we're talking about butt
Speaker 1: holes or we're talking so okay, most of these whole
Speaker 1: have muscle around them and um, connective tissue which is collagen, right,
Speaker 1: and so that allows for some level of elasticity, so
Speaker 1: they should be able to stretch and then go back, right.
Speaker 1: So that's why, um, people's vaginas don't stay as big
Speaker 1: as that newborn baby. It goes back. Or is there
Speaker 1: a time frame from that, Like if I suck a
Speaker 1: big dick nigga one night, well a little dick nigga
Speaker 1: know I had the night before? Unlikely? Yeah, like usually
Speaker 1: within a few minutes. So like even looking at after
Speaker 1: that makes things fun. Within a few minutes, you should
Speaker 1: be back to where you were before. So cheaters, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be okay. Yeah. So if people claim they feel
Speaker 1: a difference, they're just trying to like get something out
Speaker 1: of you. It's not necessarily and then they feel anything different.
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Well, before we get
Speaker 1: out of here, I found a homemail that I feel
Speaker 1: like only you could have answered if we're getting into
Speaker 1: the health ship. So this is actually from one of
Speaker 1: our male listeners. Um, yeah, I'm excited about it. So
Speaker 1: it says, hey, y'all a huge fan of the show
Speaker 1: and recently started from the beginning. I've known about Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions for a while now, but never gave it a shot.
Speaker 1: But after Manny started doing her other pod and after
Speaker 1: we created the pod studio, I thought it was trying
Speaker 1: to pay attention to y'all. Jeez, thanks, Like damn, were
Speaker 1: you waiting to see us really proper spot? Maybe because
Speaker 1: visually people like watching it. Maybe it networks too. You're
Speaker 1: being kind, you know. He said, I'm a twenty eight
Speaker 1: year old by his spinnic mail, that's still a virgin.
Speaker 1: I know. That's probably why I took him so long
Speaker 1: to listen. Anyway, Sorry, he said, I have gotten head
Speaker 1: eating pussy and said a lot of vanilla ship, but
Speaker 1: never have penetrated. I have this condition called fimsis not
Speaker 1: sure if you guys know what that is. But basically,
Speaker 1: the foreskin of my dick is too tight. It doesn't
Speaker 1: pull back behind the head, and I'm self conscious about it.
Speaker 1: Some women and men like it, others don't. I've always
Speaker 1: been scared to have sex because I think the foreskin
Speaker 1: will rip when I penetrate. I'm too much in my
Speaker 1: head and affects my ability to get hard when it
Speaker 1: comes down to someone wanting to funk me. I've considered
Speaker 1: getting circumcised, but I'm being a bit and it terrifies me.
Speaker 1: I actually don't mind having foreskin. I just wish it
Speaker 1: was regular and pulled back and forth effortlessly. Also, I
Speaker 1: don't have shregma, and I hate how uncircumcised dick have
Speaker 1: the rep of coming with shregma. I have had for
Speaker 1: years that I know how to clean it. Have you
Speaker 1: guys ever heard of this condition? And if women or
Speaker 1: men actually have that as a kink? Love the show,
Speaker 1: y'all's energy. Keep it going, sincerely, the Riverside guy. Right,
Speaker 1: it's a great one, and I mean in terms of Moses,
Speaker 1: I've heard of it, and a lot of times we
Speaker 1: hear about it when it's actually painful. So not only
Speaker 1: does it like not retract the foreskin, but it actually
Speaker 1: kind of suffocates it, and so it can be sometimes
Speaker 1: a surgical emergency for my colleagues who are urologists where
Speaker 1: they have to like come in and like snippy snip,
Speaker 1: does he can he do the thing where he um,
Speaker 1: you know how like men want to grow their foreskin back,
Speaker 1: Can he like do the stretching to maybe, I mean potentially,
Speaker 1: or he can also get circumcised. Or if there's any um,
Speaker 1: like you know, scar tissue or some sorde of type
Speaker 1: of tissue that's holding up the foreskin from being able
Speaker 1: to be pulled back, there may be techniques they can
Speaker 1: use to kind of free it up a little bit. Now,
Speaker 1: circumcision as an adult for men that maybe even still
Speaker 1: be wanting to consider it now, they lose even more
Speaker 1: of their sensation, correct, because and it's super painful. Insurance no,
Speaker 1: and even actually, did you know that baby circumcision is
Speaker 1: also not covered by insurance? Wait? Serious? Um that I
Speaker 1: don't know because I don't do that, I'm not No.
Speaker 1: I well I heard that it's sixteen dollars on average
Speaker 1: in the country to deliver baby. Yeah, so that's why
Speaker 1: I was like curious, like someone had to throw that
Speaker 1: in there, because that is the option of the parents.
Speaker 1: It is a circumcised not and I know that in
Speaker 1: America people are circumcised, and what do people do and
Speaker 1: it's not um something that has always been the case,
Speaker 1: Like insurance companies did pay for them in the past,
Speaker 1: but many most insurance companies don't because because before the
Speaker 1: thought about circumcising was that it decreases infection, especially things
Speaker 1: like transmission for HIV. That's what they thought, but then
Speaker 1: they did further studies that show that that's not actually
Speaker 1: the case, and it's actually just primarily cosmetic or cultural
Speaker 1: and comic that's what they was. Honestly, I haven't never
Speaker 1: minded uncircumcised penises, but I feel like other women do.
Speaker 1: And just the fact that there's a girl out there
Speaker 1: that could talk about my son's dick in a disparaging way,
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I do it. Really just save him.
Speaker 1: But I'm oh my gosh, I'm a saving from these
Speaker 1: But then in terms of pleasure hearing that men and
Speaker 1: and by the way, someone that has given blow jobs
Speaker 1: to someone who circumcised and uncircumcised, oh my god, uncircumcised
Speaker 1: dudes making way more fucking noise when I sucked their
Speaker 1: dick or even touched them certain ways, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: why are you nodding? Are you uncircumcised? No, no, I'm
Speaker 1: just appreciate over you. That was a head, not like
Speaker 1: like skin. Well, no, I'm circumcised here. I just watched
Speaker 1: the Sex in the City of episode where Charlotte was
Speaker 1: dating a guy who had for skin and he wanted
Speaker 1: to get circumcised, and it was really funny because when
Speaker 1: you said it was painful, they started making out and
Speaker 1: it was like after a surgery and he got hard.
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, like, can you not be like under
Speaker 1: when they do that? Oh no, you're put to sleep.
Speaker 1: Put to sleep for but I mean you wake up,
Speaker 1: somebody cut your foreskin off. It's on your penis. Like
Speaker 1: when I got my tips done right, I didn't feel it,
Speaker 1: but it's still hurt. Sure, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like I was under, but then like I fucking vacuuming,
Speaker 1: Oh man, yeah, that ship I was. That's when I
Speaker 1: knew that the tips weren't mine. Every time I vacuum
Speaker 1: sometimes to this day, really ten years later, I was
Speaker 1: just I'll just notice it. But back then, oh, it
Speaker 1: was pain. I had to get a little step ladder
Speaker 1: to like reach up. It was worth it, though, you're like,
Speaker 1: I loved minute. Who knows where my life would be
Speaker 1: without tips? I don't for you well, and doctor he there.
Speaker 1: You also now have a podcast out educating the Girl
Speaker 1: Rolls and it just launched this month. So if you
Speaker 1: could go ahead and let all of our followers know
Speaker 1: where to find you where they can, because you're really
Speaker 1: active and really good at the ticket taker and I
Speaker 1: don't know how to do that and know what you
Speaker 1: do really good. Your Instagram is so informative. This whole outline,
Speaker 1: by the way, came from her motherfucking instag So can
Speaker 1: you let us know a little bit about your podcast
Speaker 1: name and also where everyone can find you on social media? Yes?
Speaker 1: So my podcast is Dr Heather's Advisory Servix. So yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna be talking about like all things reproductive
Speaker 1: and sexual health. Seriously, It's gonna be like no question
Speaker 1: is left unanswered, no topic is left undiscussed. So um,
Speaker 1: you can definitely hear from me and all of the
Speaker 1: people that I bring on. I'll have other doctors on there.
Speaker 1: I'm just like and like my friends actually like my friends.
Speaker 1: Remember when you had a U t I girl, Come on.
Speaker 1: I love that you're even doing that because that's kind
Speaker 1: of how we started this podcast. Uh Weezy and I
Speaker 1: were just really inviting our friends. My friend Dr Kim
Speaker 1: We we had our first doctor. We were just like
Speaker 1: inviting our friends on. And honestly, even before I launched
Speaker 1: periods this, I was like, I know all y'all got
Speaker 1: pussy stories, so I need so. I love that you're
Speaker 1: doing that, but also bringing other healthcare professionals and then
Speaker 1: could you share also you're a name and where they
Speaker 1: can find you? And do you have a website as well? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do, so you can find me on TikTok on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Add dr Heather Robunda empty Heather, what Erobundaunda? It's like
Speaker 1: like you definitely said it quick, like it was Heather Williams.
Speaker 1: You're like, Heather, Yeah, it's from Nigeria. African. I'm a African.
Speaker 1: If you're from Africa, I'm African because I'm half Jamaican,
Speaker 1: half Nigerian. Cute bullet bullet. We like you. That's your
Speaker 1: I G handle on what's your website or your TikTok?
Speaker 1: And my same my TikTok is the same handle, and
Speaker 1: then um my website is eran mpt Aerobunda m D. Guys.
Speaker 1: All of that information will be in the description of
Speaker 1: this episode, and as always, we are also going to
Speaker 1: leave you guys off with a five minute bonus clip
Speaker 1: from one of our bonus episodes over on Patreon. That's right,
Speaker 1: if you're all caught up, we dropped an additional episode
Speaker 1: every week in one of the episodes each month we
Speaker 1: join you guys on zoom and y'all are able to
Speaker 1: be a part of our conversation and episodes. So if
Speaker 1: you haven't yet, going over to patreon dot com backslash
Speaker 1: hoary bled, this is young It is there again. That
Speaker 1: link is in the description of this bioweesy, do you
Speaker 1: have anything else to get send us out of here? Yes,
Speaker 1: if you are enjoying watching these episodes on YouTube, Mandy
Speaker 1: and I recorded WTF Media Studios, come on down. You
Speaker 1: might have it, Any might have Dave, you might have
Speaker 1: m Well, we have amazing engineers and we now have
Speaker 1: a new studio room. You may have seen it when
Speaker 1: we did our solo episode Come and Funk with us
Speaker 1: Canal Stream Market. All right, well, guys, thank you so
Speaker 1: much again, Dr Heather for joining us. And this has
Speaker 1: been yet another episode of Horror Decisions. It's bonus bitches.
Speaker 1: Welcome guys to another motherfucking town hall of hory. Blade
Speaker 1: just says you olds everybody. Damn this bitches blow drying
Speaker 1: her hair. You'll be doing something random ship on this motherfucker. Um.
Speaker 1: As always, I like to start off by shouting out
Speaker 1: the people that I see who show up in their merch,
Speaker 1: So shout out to Jasmine. Um, who else do I
Speaker 1: see in here? Well? Doing a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: took their video off now that you've didn't scared them, wheezy,
Speaker 1: I mean ship, why not? Like, oh wait, hold on
Speaker 1: main go buttle with the yeah ho shirt? I see you.
Speaker 1: First of all, there's a NIGGI Oh I thought they
Speaker 1: said Carvin Smith. I was like, who ship is he using? It?
Speaker 1: Says Cameron. I was like, you saying, Netflix, nigga give
Speaker 1: us our MANI Um. Anyways, guys, welcome. I'm glad to
Speaker 1: be back with you guys. UM. At this point, Berry
Speaker 1: is definitely about to get blocked. I don't know if
Speaker 1: y'all see his God damn screen, you're not funny berry,
Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I know that you
Speaker 1: have a difficult time getting pussy with those action figures,
Speaker 1: so to cover with my face it makes sense. Why
Speaker 1: now you're gonna use me to help you get pussy.
Speaker 1: I don't mind it. I'm just saying I would do
Speaker 1: the same, Okay, UM, I want to start it off
Speaker 1: with this off the top. I had somebody d M
Speaker 1: me saying that we lost one of the hore Hive
Speaker 1: members on Tuesday. I'm not sure what their name was
Speaker 1: or who they are if Mandy heard this, but if
Speaker 1: anyone wants to unmute themselves and pay respects to a
Speaker 1: horror hiven where we would love to do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I know. Like a few weeks ago, UM,
Speaker 1: quite a few of you guys linked up with each
Speaker 1: other here in New York. UM, and you guys actually
Speaker 1: said that you were able to meet him. He also
Speaker 1: did purchase a ticket to UM the New York Live Show,
Speaker 1: and now of course won't be able to attend one moment.
Speaker 1: I do have his name. UM, there we go. UM,
Speaker 1: can anyone UM explain I do love one thing, how
Speaker 1: much of a community we have formed here? UM, with
Speaker 1: a whore hive. But if anyone would like to say anything,
Speaker 1: or if anyone's heard any updated information, uh, please definitely
Speaker 1: feel free to share. I haven't heard any updated information.
Speaker 1: Someone from the group chat let us know of his passing.
Speaker 1: He was one of the people that I became closest to.
Speaker 1: This is the New York meet up here. Uh. We
Speaker 1: decided to meet up today in his honor. Um. He's
Speaker 1: one of the people that I've came closer to every day.
Speaker 1: It literally spoke to him every day the past month.
Speaker 1: And it was thanks to you guys and his quartery group,
Speaker 1: and I know he would was all here and just
Speaker 1: be our best post south so you guys. So so
Speaker 1: basically we all got up together. UM. The rest of
Speaker 1: the crews coming up in a few were in. Um
Speaker 1: we're in a biggie cafe. So if anybody's still that's
Speaker 1: in New York that still want to meet up with us,
Speaker 1: you know what it is, Um, Barry you still my nemesis, UM,
Speaker 1: but you know it is what it is. Um. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, to his spirit was always a
Speaker 1: great spirit, which which is the significant reason why we
Speaker 1: came up back over here and over in the Biggie
Speaker 1: Cafe because that's where we first met. And I felt
Speaker 1: that this is the best way that we could send
Speaker 1: off and show some love and respect for a person
Speaker 1: that you know, his energy was doping and and and
Speaker 1: quite felt especially when it came to the New York
Speaker 1: this sport. Um he greeted almost everybody that came into
Speaker 1: disport and made sure that everybody was welcome. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to show some love and um damn yeah,
Speaker 1: can you really wants to know if y'all can spell
Speaker 1: his name out in the chat for us, I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to go fund me or anything, Please let us know too.
Speaker 1: We would love to, you know, help towards that shape.
Speaker 1: And I'm like a few blockers away from Visio. I
Speaker 1: was about to actually, uh, is that you super Ugly?
Speaker 1: Are you there? Super? I'm gonna hit you on the
Speaker 1: other discord chat if y'all are still there, I'll go
Speaker 1: ahead and pull up and maybe have one drink with
Speaker 1: y'all tonight. So if anyone were hive um wants to
Speaker 1: pull up to Biggie's, I'll definitely pull up and link
Speaker 1: y'all just for a little bit because I've been drinking
Speaker 1: all day, So I got one drink in me. That's it.
Speaker 1: Um but I do, and um we might. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to see if we can organize something with for Barrious Homecoming. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Alky coming. We know that nigga all over then