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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to yet another motherfucking episode of Horrible. This is Yon.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy ba aka pet Sign, Okay, Debt

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Speaker 1: bitch ak full corpus a k A Pagan Marco Beach.

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Speaker 1: I'm just s wheezy and we are here with Her

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Speaker 1: name is Heather, but she's actually black and but also

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Speaker 1: a doctor. So we got a doctor in the happy

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Speaker 1: only black Heather out there. You're not, I'm not. It's

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Speaker 1: so crazy. My cousin, who also grew up in the Bronx,

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Speaker 1: is also named Heather because my father from the Bronx.

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Speaker 1: There's two Heather from the Bronx and we black. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to have you guys. Um, we did have

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Speaker 1: a doctor. We got a few like healthcare professionals here

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Speaker 1: on Horrible Decisions. Um. Our last b g way and

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Speaker 1: we had on was Dr Christina, and I think before

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Speaker 1: that we had on when we've talked about the vagina,

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Speaker 1: maybe just Michelle Hope just likes in the industry. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, our pussies are changing, they're getting older, so exactly,

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Speaker 1: I need vaginary rejuvenation and a conversation about what's going

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Speaker 1: on down there. Why do you need vaginal like rejuvenation though, Like,

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Speaker 1: why do you need it? Okay? So um, I did

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Speaker 1: this TV show called sex Cells, and I went to

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Speaker 1: this place called the V Spot and they have this

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Speaker 1: menu of all the different things you could do with

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Speaker 1: your vagina. A woman from the Real Housewives owned it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever heard about this place,

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Speaker 1: but at the V Spot, yeah, and actually she was great.

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Speaker 1: She said the V stood provolva, like you know, and

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Speaker 1: she was like, we just want to make sure women

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Speaker 1: can take care of their bodies. And she's like, we

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Speaker 1: do vegacial vaginal rejuvenation. I went on this fucking thing

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Speaker 1: to like tighten my keygels and it was like a

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Speaker 1: mile a minute, like electrocuting me. It was fun, though,

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Speaker 1: but now I want badgin and rejuvenation because it's like

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Speaker 1: I heard, it's a vagacial and they like basically make

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Speaker 1: your pussy even tighter. Not yet once I popped the

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Speaker 1: baby out, yeah, because I'm like, if you do it

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Speaker 1: wanted to be like Supertan like, oh my god, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I can I also ask you before, only only because

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives. Do you watch Mary to Medicine and do

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Speaker 1: So ay, Gonna Andy, I mean Andy Cohen is someone

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Speaker 1: who I appreciate because I'm always entertained and honestly married

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Speaker 1: to medicine. I don't think that's a terrible job. I

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Speaker 1: think it's honest, it's real and certain respects. Like people

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Speaker 1: always expect doctors to be like these people who don't fight,

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Speaker 1: who don't drink, who don't curse, and we do all

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Speaker 1: those things. So I kind of like showing that side

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Speaker 1: of us um and I think it does fine with

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Speaker 1: professional settings, and they are there are people who work,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So doctor, have the can

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Speaker 1: you go ahead before we really get into the get

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Speaker 1: into the good ship okay, get into the good okay

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Speaker 1: of this episode, can you let our audience know what

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Speaker 1: type of doctor you are? So I'm an O B

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Speaker 1: G y N. So that's an obstetrician kynecologist. You just

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Speaker 1: being pussies, basically, that's right, have you? Um? Like, if

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Speaker 1: you said you listen to our show before, how do

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Speaker 1: you find horrible decisions? So basically the reason why even

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Speaker 1: ended up finding your lovely program is that I'm always

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Speaker 1: trying to find ways to not shock myself when patients

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Speaker 1: to know what people are doing in the streets. So

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Speaker 1: they're doing lemon cream pies. Do you know what that is? Well,

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Speaker 1: I know what the cream pipe. I guess if it's yellow,

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Speaker 1: I'm and is their urine involved? Yeah? Interesting? Inside? Thank

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Speaker 1: you for backing us up their interesting. Well you're in

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Speaker 1: a starles, So I mean did your the Alabama hot

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Speaker 1: pocket episode? No, I did not hear about it. When

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Speaker 1: for us to do when you're when you listen to Horrible,

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Speaker 1: have you heard us say anything wrong about baginal health

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Speaker 1: and if so, you did it like strike of Corby,

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Speaker 1: the show a few things. But I mean, I feel

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Speaker 1: could you share with us three things that we all

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Speaker 1: of us did not well. One, the vagina should smell

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Speaker 1: Because like I actually I agree right, Like I've heard

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Speaker 1: know what It shouldn't smell like that, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? So it's like when you show. We went

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Speaker 1: the smell? What else would it like? In the present?

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Speaker 1: be honest, even the pride fish don't be smelling that good.

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Speaker 1: I mean does like fish just don't smell good. Ever,

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Speaker 1: Give us two more that we should have learned early on. Um. So,

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Speaker 1: don't realize that that's like not a continual thing. Is

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. I don't And most people don't have

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Speaker 1: all right, man, but you know what, I have heavy

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Speaker 1: like six days? And I'm like, so I have six

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Speaker 1: what's number three? Give me number three that should learned earlier? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so numbers three is that you shouldn't be cleaning inside

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Speaker 1: two separate things. Why bonus? Why the hell was them

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Speaker 1: douches the Summer's eve bullshit? Douches like introduced as something

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Speaker 1: they're paying for like things like that, because the seminine

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Speaker 1: very these everybody wants there vagina to smelling flowers. We're

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Speaker 1: And I think that, um, the association to the smell

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Speaker 1: like something else is the problem. Also when you walk

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Speaker 1: only use I used something from Hole of Foods. It's

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Speaker 1: a natural vaginal wash. I've been using it for like

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Speaker 1: going to jump into it, like you're more freaked out.

423
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: It's true. That's actually true for a lot of people.

424
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: But the cuddling is kind of like fun and intense,

425
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, because like everybody's respecting like the fact

426
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: that I really don't wan to sun right now. So

427
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: it's like really intense for playing humping, it's nice. It's

428
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: also sweet not unch don't do nothing, because that is

429
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: just like you know, a bitch now your child, Like

430
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: it's kind of fun. Oh my goodness. I want to

431
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: get into our horr derve and of course our horr

432
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: derv segment is where we get a sex tip from you. However,

433
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: one of the things that I ran across in an

434
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: article that I also saw you mentioned on your page

435
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: but also look at you. You ain't even know the outline.

436
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: You mentioned it as one of the things that we

437
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: should learn early on in having sex. So I wanted

438
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: to give a tip to all of the women based

439
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: on this is this actually is an article from Everyday

440
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: Health UM and in included in the description of this episode,

441
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: but it says, why is it so hard to speak

442
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: up about painful sex? Um? So you are actually I

443
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 1: believe featured in uh discussing this, but painful sex actually

444
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: has a name. It's called that's the name of it.

445
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. It was like parunia vaginous smith though you

446
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: you're in the right area because it actually vaginousmis can

447
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: cause this perunia, So bunia unia like a pernia disperonia.

448
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 1: Let start where disparonia. So I actually wanted to add

449
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: on sound like outside of vaginous smiths, outside of dysperunia,

450
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: which is actually, you know a reason for painful sex?

451
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 1: What are other reasons as to why a woman maybe

452
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: experiencing painful sex? And then I would like you to

453
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: also share with our audience a tip on how they

454
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: can communicate this sex is just really painful for them.

455
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: So let's start with the first one. What other reasons

456
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: could it be that the sex painful? So I like

457
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: to tell people will split it up into kind of

458
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: sex when the penis is going in in or whatever

459
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 1: is going into the vagina, and what we call deep dysprunia,

460
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: so like when the penis is deeper, right, Because it's

461
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: really important to know the difference because it can be

462
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: due to different things. So vagin is Smiths, which is

463
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 1: when your pelvic floor muscles kind of spasm um. That

464
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: usually causes more what we call superficial dysprunia or more

465
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: pain in the vagina and maybe even closer to the

466
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: outer part and so um, the treatments are somewhat different.

467
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: Deeper dysprunia could be due to things like fibrates, endometriosis.

468
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: You could have had um pelvic inflammatory disease or p

469
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: i D in the past and now you have some

470
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 1: scar tissue in there. Sometimes it can be due to

471
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: sexual trauma you have before. So there's a lot of

472
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 1: different reasons why you can have deep dysprunia. And sometimes

473
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: you can have both. And I wanted to also add

474
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: um and we'll talk about this in the Horrible Decision,

475
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: but also just you can and get you can tear inside,

476
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: not only from pregnancy, clearly that thing poppy right open,

477
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: but if you're not wet enough, if you're not moist enough,

478
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: there's if there's not enough lubricant, that you can start

479
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: pretty much getting like a rug burn inside your pussy.

480
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: Yes you can, and so that can cause it to hurt.

481
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: So even though you think she moaning it might be

482
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: a pain, it's really painful. So can you give a

483
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: tip to our audience for all the ladies listening, if

484
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: they're with partners that they really love and they really

485
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 1: do enjoy having sex, but it's also painful and unenjoyable

486
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: at the same time, what tips would you give to

487
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: them in communicating that right. So I definitely just be

488
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: really upfront, like I think what happens is that a

489
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: lot of times we use euphemisms or we're like, oh,

490
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hurt somebody's feelings, but like, if it hurts you,

491
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 1: it shouldn't hurt. Additionally, I find there's a lot of

492
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: stigma against using lube like, I don't get why people

493
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: feel like lube is a bad they're supposed to be.

494
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: I want to falling down that if men are celebrating,

495
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: and it's much like the pressure on women for a

496
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: rock hard dick, on men to have a rock hard

497
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: dick that women may be giving or whatever partner. I

498
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: think that particularly with men, even in music, pussy being

499
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,479
Speaker 1: super wet, these are things that you feel like you're

500
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: supposed to naturally happen, right, Like no one feels good

501
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: about having to like, you know, spit on it. You

502
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: want to be super soaked, and I think the experience

503
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,679
Speaker 1: is what someone's going to remember more than if it

504
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: was your pussy they got wet or the loop right,

505
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of the day, would you

506
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: rather have broken pussy, dryass pussy for a little bit

507
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: of they didn't sponsor this podcast? Loop true? True? That,

508
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: And I actually agree with that so much because I

509
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: feel like so many people and so many conversations I

510
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: have with especially women as they're getting older, because when

511
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: you're getting older, like when you are going towards menopause

512
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: or whatever, or you have or even people who just

513
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: had a baby, because you're um, your hormones change, you

514
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 1: can get dryer, and so they're like, oh, what's on

515
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: with me? And it's like, girl, this is life, Like

516
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: this is not you. This is not my greatest life.

517
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: Is that happening to me? I just know it's gonna happen.

518
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: Something is always wrong with me. I'm allergic to everything.

519
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: You just that ship is always sucked up. I just

520
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,719
Speaker 1: know when I popped that baby out, then I'll be like, yo,

521
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: pussy got broke when it came out. So I'm gonna

522
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: request the C section. Just do you deliver babies? By

523
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: the way, how many times out of ten to the

524
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: ship on the table? Do you want me to truly

525
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: into that? Probably most most time cannot tend but like

526
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: maybe not. And I also want to ask you, and

527
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: this has been no ship. This is another thing that

528
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: I saw in the news article. And I want to

529
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: know your opinion on this because I believe it happened

530
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: here in New York City. Um, there is a crisis

531
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: in which a hospital lost all of their nurses who

532
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: deliver babies due to them not wanting to get vaccinated.

533
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: And so now there's a whole area where they can't

534
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: deliver babies because they're not enough. What are your thoughts

535
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: on that? And at this very moment YouTube is probably

536
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: gonna put the CDC doctor goddamn stamp at the bottom

537
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: of us, but I would like to know your thoughts

538
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: on even that, being that you do deliver babies. Well,

539
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: I think it's really unfortunate actually know that area because

540
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: homegirls have some jobs. So I've been here, there and everywhere,

541
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: and that place is rural as hell, is country as hell.

542
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: They already had access issues with people getting appropriate eccentric care,

543
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: meaning care for pregnancy, for deliveries and things like that.

544
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: The fact that they're closing that down because of it

545
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: is messed up. And these people know each other, all right, Well,

546
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: enough about the goddamn COVID vaccine. Everybody someone asked you that. Yes,

547
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: I have been. I work in the Bronx. Of course

548
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 1: I've been asked that. And if someone goes down on

549
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: me with COVID, can I get over there? Yeah, they

550
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: have asked. And when you laugh about it, I mean

551
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: I laugh audibly, so they know. I was like really,

552
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: and they're like, yeah, no really, And I'm like, I mean,

553
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: you can't get COVID specifically, and your puzzy but you

554
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: can get COVID kind of body. It is a mucus membrane.

555
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: What's the dumbest sh it someone's asked you? And what

556
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: your opinion? Because they say there's no dumb questions, but

557
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: they're kind of ore. I'm trying to think, if there's

558
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: like dumb, maybe let's just say something that kind of

559
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: like what the fun wear? Mind a little? You're like

560
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: an educator. I say, no question is a dumb question.

561
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: Horrible decisions, I know, but there really aren't any because

562
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: there are people who really don't know. And I don't

563
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: think that it's their fault for not knowing. It's just life.

564
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: And I think it's also you're in a spiral too.

565
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: When you're the doctor, you just start asking yes, and

566
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: people are really nervous. I asked everything. I'd be like

567
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: and I'm getting headaches, but yes. People will be telling me,

568
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: oh and then mate hurt, like are you gonna do

569
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: something about it? No? I'm like, do you want me

570
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: deal or their tea? I'm like, do you really want

571
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: you better know how to work my whole body? Yeah?

572
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: But do you really want me to be filling a cavity? Like?

573
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I deal with your vagina, Like do you

574
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: want me to really be doing dental word for you

575
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: when it comes to like the vagina though, right, Like

576
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: it's so close to the asshole, Like when people have

577
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: asshole issues, are they I mean, are you the whole area?

578
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: I mean, there's some asshole things that I can deal with,

579
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: like hemorrhoids I kind of deal with. And then there's

580
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: some conditions when you get older pro lapse. So yeah, yeah,

581
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: so the uters can come down, your rectum can start

582
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: pro lapsing, and so badder. Well, rosebud is like coming

583
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: out the butt, but there's a way that your rectum

584
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: can start coming out your vagina. Wait excuse me, so

585
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: like to the wrong turn, you're wait, your budhole could

586
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: come out of you will not. Well, So there's the anus,

587
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: which is the body, and then there's a rectum, which

588
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: is above the anus. Right, So that's two where the

589
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: ship come out, and that's inside, right, that's above. So

590
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: the back wall of your vagina shares some real estate

591
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: with the rectum. And if that back wall your vagina

592
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: gets weak, it can kind of pooch out and actually

593
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: your rectum, like it's called the recta seal, it can

594
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: actually pooch into you. Okay, so I have one question

595
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: about that. I have one question about that only because

596
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: of course Future even made it popular with the thumb

597
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: in your butt. But I do know that when I

598
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: have a finger in my ass and a dick in

599
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: my vagina, he can feel his finger in my ask

600
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: is there anything where that could actually like, could he

601
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: puncture that little lining at all? Or is that not

602
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: a I mean he would have to be extremely aggressive

603
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: and probably never cut his nails and again be extremely

604
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: aggressive to puncture it. And I have never seen that.

605
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: Would okay, knock happen? I don't know, I never see that.

606
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: What's the weirdest thing you've seen? So I had antient

607
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: ones who forgot she left the juice like a juicy

608
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: juice box inter vagina. Okay, maybe she was a little

609
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: thirst excuse me. Yeah, I don't know when she put

610
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: it there, and she didn't remember why she put it there.

611
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: I mean, she had some mental illness issues. But she

612
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: was being brought to us, I know, but she was

613
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: being brought to us now and she was like, oh,

614
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: like yeah, because I was pulling out pieces of it

615
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, what is this? Like wanted to

616
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: get like a puzzle. You know what. I don't want

617
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: to know what flavor it was. It was great, not

618
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: it was great, don't tell me she was it was

619
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: it was purple drink. I don't know it was, it

620
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: was perfect. I hear all tampons being like left up

621
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: there for a while and tampons are do you recommend

622
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: the obi no string having condoms? Like or do those

623
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: those tampons are they called obi? Yeah? Yeah that I

624
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 1: remember always seeing that when I was like younger, like, well,

625
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: how does it work? But like they literally even don't

626
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: even have casing. Yeah, you just are those the ones

627
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: that get stuck. No, it's really what happens is people

628
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: forget that they have a tampon in. I feel like

629
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: and maybe they like their period was like that day

630
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: and they were like, okay, let's just put one in,

631
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: and then they go about their lives and they forget,

632
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: and then they start having issues with discharge and smells

633
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: and then they're like wait a minute. They come a

634
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: lot of times they come in and then I do

635
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: the examine. I'm like, I found the reason why you

636
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 1: have smells. I love them. That's usually at least since

637
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 1: the last period, and it could be like, I mean,

638
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: I've had a friend with one stuck for just a week,

639
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 1: but that actually leads us into our whole boch face man. Y'all,

640
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: y'all read the title for this week's episode. The horrible

641
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: decision for this week is sense and feels. Okay, so

642
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: the first question that I actually did have. Again, we're

643
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: getting back to sex, but still the gushy gushy medical

644
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 1: stuff as well. Let's get into it sense and smells.

645
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: First question, Should I have sex if my sense is off?

646
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: Is it healthy? Too, funk through b v yeast or

647
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: any other reason as to why my pussy's smell is

648
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: not normal? One moment. This comes because I was recently

649
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 1: at a sex club. Again if you join Patreon, it

650
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: was the first time I was at a sex club

651
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: where I walked into a room and I said, there's

652
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: no way she doesn't smell that too, And I was

653
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: just like, everyone in the room was having sex, so

654
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: it's clearly one of the women. And I was just like,

655
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: that's where you could smell it right now, Like that

656
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: is that is where I was just like, sonically, you're

657
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: listening to this, are you? Like? Are and YouTube smell

658
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: the show? But yeah, I wanted to know if there

659
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: was any health concern or reasons why we should not

660
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: have sex if our pussies. Well, so the thing that's

661
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: going on is that your pH is off right, and now,

662
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: especially with something like b V, the bacteria has overgrown, right,

663
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: So the issue is that you can make the situation

664
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: worse because basically it depends on you know, condom usage,

665
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: non condom usage, and your partner. But there's a possibility that.

666
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: Um so when you have b V, your vagina is

667
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,280
Speaker 1: more basic, right, so in terms of acid base chemistry

668
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: and semen is basic. So that means that it can

669
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: make the b V worse and it can actually usually

670
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: make this smell worse. So his colm can make the

671
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 1: smell worse, so he should pull up if it already

672
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: thinks I mean, but there's also my pre comes, So

673
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: there's that and also too, like that kind of stuff

674
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: can get on a penis, and then you have to

675
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: know like your partners like hygiene is you know, because

676
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: men have pH as well, Oh yeah, and they you know,

677
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: and circumcised uncircumcised two, So there's some of that factor.

678
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: You can get stuck in the forest, kid, there's a

679
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: lot of things that can happen. So I mean the

680
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: answer technically is sure, you can do whatever you want,

681
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: but it's probably not a great idea and it probably

682
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: doesn't feel that great. Now we don't kink shame here, right,

683
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: but we do, like I've given golden showers. We both

684
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: said we really wouldn't be in this gap play. But

685
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: also there's anal sex, so I did want to know,

686
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 1: are there a lot of bacterial concerns with anal sex

687
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: and golden showers? And is it actually bad for our

688
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: bodies to engage in So in terms of golden showers,

689
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: so urine is usually um sterile, so there tends to

690
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: be no back to her unless you have a U

691
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: T I wait when I ask you like, and this

692
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: is just the thought I have why all the time

693
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 1: he is sterile, but all my toxins are coming out

694
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: of it. At the same time, what is in the

695
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: p that's making it the jellyfish thing? We're like, what

696
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: is that with the P bro? What is it? This

697
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: is a great question, I like, actually really love this question.

698
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: So in terms of toxins, we're talking about like chemical toxins,

699
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: so that would be like nitrites or nitrogen containing things

700
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: you know, like acidic things. But that's when your P

701
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: hat is probably no. Now that when when when men no,

702
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: they say when men like have the foamy P or whatever,

703
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: Like if your P comes out and it's foamy, it's

704
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: like health like could be healthy. I was like, yeah,

705
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: it can be. I thought, yeah, sometimes it depends it does.

706
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: He's gonna be examining it. But it's more so like

707
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: in terms of like the type fightings you eat things

708
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:17,760
Speaker 1: like that, that it's a big chemistry. Like I googled

709
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: that because the dude that I slept with, um damn.

710
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: I don't remember how long it was, but I was like, damn,

711
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 1: this isn't because I was watching him P and I

712
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: remember googling it and I was like, okay, the phone

713
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 1: cool because I was like, is it is it like

714
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: this starts for men, like I really didn't know. So

715
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: P is terryll. It's it's the sorry you said, it's

716
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: the chemical toxic. It's chemical toxins. So it's not actual

717
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: like bacteria or anything like that. So you could drink it.

718
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: I mean yeah you couldn't. Actually, so usually in places

719
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 1: let's say you get stranded, I touch, She's gonna same

720
00:40:53,840 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: places where where do people drink it the most? In

721
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: the middle of nowhere, and they're gonna die. And it's

722
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: an option between drink that dirty like pool water or

723
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: my own piss. I'm gonna drink my own piss. And

724
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: I just said that you're about to drink your piss.

725
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: Us speaking of again, just pH and we talked about

726
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: this earlier. You did a great job without even knowing

727
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: anything we were talking about today. I wanted to know

728
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: outside of our mental concerns regarding just how we think

729
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: our pussies should just be wet. I want to know,

730
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: is loop something that will throw off our pH and

731
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 1: is loops something that then could also make us smell later.

732
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: That's a great question, and the answer is it can.

733
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: Oftentimes it doesn't, though, because most lubes are formulated for

734
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: the vaginal pH and most loops don't have things that

735
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: should throw things up. However, we're all different, right, so

736
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 1: some of us are more sensitive than others. So um,

737
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: you may have a reaction to loupe because you may

738
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: have a reaction to certain things in that lube that

739
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 1: may you don't right. Actually, always at a pretty sensitive pussy,

740
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, everything is always wrong with me but um,

741
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: the matter the lube I've used after, I just feel

742
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: not like burning, but a little just like something's there,

743
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: like I'm aware of my vagina, like I notice it.

744
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like tingly like always water, like the oily ones,

745
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: the fucking anything, the natural shade, organic lube, like, no

746
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: matter what. So now the only thing I've done, just

747
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: a little bit differently is the lightest layer and rub

748
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 1: it into their penis, like that's the only thing I've done,

749
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: Whereas before I might put it on my hands and

750
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: rub it on my vulva. Now it's the opposite if

751
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: I need it. But I mean, it is scary when

752
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: you're just like what works? Or just throw water in

753
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: my mouth and try to get as much spit as

754
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: I can. That's my face. There's that's the best. But

755
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 1: it can dry out first, yes, yea. And the spit

756
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: has bacteria, that's true. We have the dirtiest mouths of everything.

757
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sucking dig before I fux, so there's

758
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: not really, there's no way around it. I'm gonna hope

759
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: that the onion soup is out of my mouth. But like,

760
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: all right, that's why I was on my mind. So

761
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: the last one in the horror decision has to do

762
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: with fields. Um, and this is because we have a

763
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: lot of kinksters that listening. So this is a question

764
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: for anyone interested in fisting, gaping, double penetration, or size queens. Okay, well,

765
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: my holes ever be tight again? Um most times? Yeah,

766
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: because like so in terms of we're talking about butt

767
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 1: holes or we're talking so okay, most of these whole

768
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: have muscle around them and um, connective tissue which is collagen, right,

769
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: and so that allows for some level of elasticity, so

770
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: they should be able to stretch and then go back, right.

771
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: So that's why, um, people's vaginas don't stay as big

772
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: as that newborn baby. It goes back. Or is there

773
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: a time frame from that, Like if I suck a

774
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: big dick nigga one night, well a little dick nigga

775
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: know I had the night before? Unlikely? Yeah, like usually

776
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: within a few minutes. So like even looking at after

777
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: that makes things fun. Within a few minutes, you should

778
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: be back to where you were before. So cheaters, you're

779
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: gonna be okay. Yeah. So if people claim they feel

780
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: a difference, they're just trying to like get something out

781
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: of you. It's not necessarily and then they feel anything different.

782
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Well, before we get

783
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 1: out of here, I found a homemail that I feel

784
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: like only you could have answered if we're getting into

785
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: the health ship. So this is actually from one of

786
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: our male listeners. Um, yeah, I'm excited about it. So

787
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: it says, hey, y'all a huge fan of the show

788
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: and recently started from the beginning. I've known about Horrible

789
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: Decisions for a while now, but never gave it a shot.

790
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: But after Manny started doing her other pod and after

791
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: we created the pod studio, I thought it was trying

792
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: to pay attention to y'all. Jeez, thanks, Like damn, were

793
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 1: you waiting to see us really proper spot? Maybe because

794
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: visually people like watching it. Maybe it networks too. You're

795
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: being kind, you know. He said, I'm a twenty eight

796
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: year old by his spinnic mail, that's still a virgin.

797
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 1: I know. That's probably why I took him so long

798
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: to listen. Anyway, Sorry, he said, I have gotten head

799
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: eating pussy and said a lot of vanilla ship, but

800
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: never have penetrated. I have this condition called fimsis not

801
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 1: sure if you guys know what that is. But basically,

802
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: the foreskin of my dick is too tight. It doesn't

803
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: pull back behind the head, and I'm self conscious about it.

804
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,280
Speaker 1: Some women and men like it, others don't. I've always

805
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: been scared to have sex because I think the foreskin

806
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: will rip when I penetrate. I'm too much in my

807
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: head and affects my ability to get hard when it

808
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: comes down to someone wanting to funk me. I've considered

809
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: getting circumcised, but I'm being a bit and it terrifies me.

810
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: I actually don't mind having foreskin. I just wish it

811
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 1: was regular and pulled back and forth effortlessly. Also, I

812
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: don't have shregma, and I hate how uncircumcised dick have

813
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: the rep of coming with shregma. I have had for

814
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: years that I know how to clean it. Have you

815
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: guys ever heard of this condition? And if women or

816
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: men actually have that as a kink? Love the show,

817
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 1: y'all's energy. Keep it going, sincerely, the Riverside guy. Right,

818
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: it's a great one, and I mean in terms of Moses,

819
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: I've heard of it, and a lot of times we

820
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: hear about it when it's actually painful. So not only

821
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 1: does it like not retract the foreskin, but it actually

822
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: kind of suffocates it, and so it can be sometimes

823
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: a surgical emergency for my colleagues who are urologists where

824
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: they have to like come in and like snippy snip,

825
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 1: does he can he do the thing where he um,

826
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: you know how like men want to grow their foreskin back,

827
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,399
Speaker 1: Can he like do the stretching to maybe, I mean potentially,

828
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: or he can also get circumcised. Or if there's any um,

829
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: like you know, scar tissue or some sorde of type

830
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: of tissue that's holding up the foreskin from being able

831
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: to be pulled back, there may be techniques they can

832
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: use to kind of free it up a little bit. Now,

833
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: circumcision as an adult for men that maybe even still

834
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: be wanting to consider it now, they lose even more

835
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: of their sensation, correct, because and it's super painful. Insurance no,

836
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 1: and even actually, did you know that baby circumcision is

837
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: also not covered by insurance? Wait? Serious? Um that I

838
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: don't know because I don't do that, I'm not No.

839
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: I well I heard that it's sixteen dollars on average

840
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: in the country to deliver baby. Yeah, so that's why

841
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: I was like curious, like someone had to throw that

842
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: in there, because that is the option of the parents.

843
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: It is a circumcised not and I know that in

844
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: America people are circumcised, and what do people do and

845
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 1: it's not um something that has always been the case,

846
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: Like insurance companies did pay for them in the past,

847
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 1: but many most insurance companies don't because because before the

848
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: thought about circumcising was that it decreases infection, especially things

849
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: like transmission for HIV. That's what they thought, but then

850
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: they did further studies that show that that's not actually

851
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: the case, and it's actually just primarily cosmetic or cultural

852
00:48:55,080 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: and comic that's what they was. Honestly, I haven't never

853
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: minded uncircumcised penises, but I feel like other women do.

854
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: And just the fact that there's a girl out there

855
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: that could talk about my son's dick in a disparaging way,

856
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I do it. Really just save him.

857
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: But I'm oh my gosh, I'm a saving from these

858
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: But then in terms of pleasure hearing that men and

859
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: and by the way, someone that has given blow jobs

860
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: to someone who circumcised and uncircumcised, oh my god, uncircumcised

861
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: dudes making way more fucking noise when I sucked their

862
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: dick or even touched them certain ways, and I'm like,

863
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: why are you nodding? Are you uncircumcised? No, no, I'm

864
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: just appreciate over you. That was a head, not like

865
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 1: like skin. Well, no, I'm circumcised here. I just watched

866
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: the Sex in the City of episode where Charlotte was

867
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,479
Speaker 1: dating a guy who had for skin and he wanted

868
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: to get circumcised, and it was really funny because when

869
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: you said it was painful, they started making out and

870
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: it was like after a surgery and he got hard.

871
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, like, can you not be like under

872
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 1: when they do that? Oh no, you're put to sleep.

873
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: Put to sleep for but I mean you wake up,

874
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: somebody cut your foreskin off. It's on your penis. Like

875
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,839
Speaker 1: when I got my tips done right, I didn't feel it,

876
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: but it's still hurt. Sure, you know what I'm saying.

877
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: Like I was under, but then like I fucking vacuuming,

878
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: Oh man, yeah, that ship I was. That's when I

879
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 1: knew that the tips weren't mine. Every time I vacuum

880
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: sometimes to this day, really ten years later, I was

881
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: just I'll just notice it. But back then, oh, it

882
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 1: was pain. I had to get a little step ladder

883
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 1: to like reach up. It was worth it, though, you're like,

884
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: I loved minute. Who knows where my life would be

885
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: without tips? I don't for you well, and doctor he there.

886
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: You also now have a podcast out educating the Girl

887
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: Rolls and it just launched this month. So if you

888
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: could go ahead and let all of our followers know

889
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: where to find you where they can, because you're really

890
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: active and really good at the ticket taker and I

891
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: don't know how to do that and know what you

892
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: do really good. Your Instagram is so informative. This whole outline,

893
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: by the way, came from her motherfucking instag So can

894
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: you let us know a little bit about your podcast

895
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: name and also where everyone can find you on social media? Yes?

896
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: So my podcast is Dr Heather's Advisory Servix. So yeah,

897
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna be talking about like all things reproductive

898
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: and sexual health. Seriously, It's gonna be like no question

899
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: is left unanswered, no topic is left undiscussed. So um,

900
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: you can definitely hear from me and all of the

901
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: people that I bring on. I'll have other doctors on there.

902
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 1: I'm just like and like my friends actually like my friends.

903
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 1: Remember when you had a U t I girl, Come on.

904
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: I love that you're even doing that because that's kind

905
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 1: of how we started this podcast. Uh Weezy and I

906
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 1: were just really inviting our friends. My friend Dr Kim

907
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 1: We we had our first doctor. We were just like

908
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: inviting our friends on. And honestly, even before I launched

909
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: periods this, I was like, I know all y'all got

910
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: pussy stories, so I need so. I love that you're

911
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: doing that, but also bringing other healthcare professionals and then

912
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: could you share also you're a name and where they

913
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,959
Speaker 1: can find you? And do you have a website as well? Yeah?

914
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: I do, so you can find me on TikTok on Instagram.

915
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: Add dr Heather Robunda empty Heather, what Erobundaunda? It's like

916
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 1: like you definitely said it quick, like it was Heather Williams.

917
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 1: You're like, Heather, Yeah, it's from Nigeria. African. I'm a African.

918
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: If you're from Africa, I'm African because I'm half Jamaican,

919
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: half Nigerian. Cute bullet bullet. We like you. That's your

920
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: I G handle on what's your website or your TikTok?

921
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: And my same my TikTok is the same handle, and

922
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: then um my website is eran mpt Aerobunda m D. Guys.

923
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: All of that information will be in the description of

924
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: this episode, and as always, we are also going to

925
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: leave you guys off with a five minute bonus clip

926
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: from one of our bonus episodes over on Patreon. That's right,

927
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: if you're all caught up, we dropped an additional episode

928
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: every week in one of the episodes each month we

929
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: join you guys on zoom and y'all are able to

930
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: be a part of our conversation and episodes. So if

931
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 1: you haven't yet, going over to patreon dot com backslash

932
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: hoary bled, this is young It is there again. That

933
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 1: link is in the description of this bioweesy, do you

934
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,479
Speaker 1: have anything else to get send us out of here? Yes,

935
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: if you are enjoying watching these episodes on YouTube, Mandy

936
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: and I recorded WTF Media Studios, come on down. You

937
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: might have it, Any might have Dave, you might have

938
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 1: m Well, we have amazing engineers and we now have

939
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: a new studio room. You may have seen it when

940
00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 1: we did our solo episode Come and Funk with us

941
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: Canal Stream Market. All right, well, guys, thank you so

942
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: much again, Dr Heather for joining us. And this has

943
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: been yet another episode of Horror Decisions. It's bonus bitches.

944
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:18,720
Speaker 1: Welcome guys to another motherfucking town hall of hory. Blade

945
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,839
Speaker 1: just says you olds everybody. Damn this bitches blow drying

946
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: her hair. You'll be doing something random ship on this motherfucker. Um.

947
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: As always, I like to start off by shouting out

948
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 1: the people that I see who show up in their merch,

949
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: So shout out to Jasmine. Um, who else do I

950
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: see in here? Well? Doing a lot of people don't

951
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,240
Speaker 1: took their video off now that you've didn't scared them, wheezy,

952
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: I mean ship, why not? Like, oh wait, hold on

953
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: main go buttle with the yeah ho shirt? I see you.

954
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: First of all, there's a NIGGI Oh I thought they

955
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 1: said Carvin Smith. I was like, who ship is he using? It?

956
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: Says Cameron. I was like, you saying, Netflix, nigga give

957
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 1: us our MANI Um. Anyways, guys, welcome. I'm glad to

958
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: be back with you guys. UM. At this point, Berry

959
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: is definitely about to get blocked. I don't know if

960
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: y'all see his God damn screen, you're not funny berry,

961
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I know that you

962
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,720
Speaker 1: have a difficult time getting pussy with those action figures,

963
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: so to cover with my face it makes sense. Why

964
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: now you're gonna use me to help you get pussy.

965
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: I don't mind it. I'm just saying I would do

966
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:40,919
Speaker 1: the same, Okay, UM, I want to start it off

967
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: with this off the top. I had somebody d M

968
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 1: me saying that we lost one of the hore Hive

969
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 1: members on Tuesday. I'm not sure what their name was

970
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: or who they are if Mandy heard this, but if

971
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: anyone wants to unmute themselves and pay respects to a

972
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: horror hiven where we would love to do that. Yeah,

973
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: I know, I know. Like a few weeks ago, UM,

974
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: quite a few of you guys linked up with each

975
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: other here in New York. UM, and you guys actually

976
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: said that you were able to meet him. He also

977
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:14,959
Speaker 1: did purchase a ticket to UM the New York Live Show,

978
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: and now of course won't be able to attend one moment.

979
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 1: I do have his name. UM, there we go. UM,

980
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: can anyone UM explain I do love one thing, how

981
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: much of a community we have formed here? UM, with

982
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: a whore hive. But if anyone would like to say anything,

983
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: or if anyone's heard any updated information, uh, please definitely

984
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: feel free to share. I haven't heard any updated information.

985
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: Someone from the group chat let us know of his passing.

986
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 1: He was one of the people that I became closest to.

987
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: This is the New York meet up here. Uh. We

988
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: decided to meet up today in his honor. Um. He's

989
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: one of the people that I've came closer to every day.

990
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: It literally spoke to him every day the past month.

991
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: And it was thanks to you guys and his quartery group,

992
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: and I know he would was all here and just

993
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: be our best post south so you guys. So so

994
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: basically we all got up together. UM. The rest of

995
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: the crews coming up in a few were in. Um

996
00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: we're in a biggie cafe. So if anybody's still that's

997
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: in New York that still want to meet up with us,

998
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: you know what it is, Um, Barry you still my nemesis, UM,

999
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: but you know it is what it is. Um. But

1000
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: at the same time, to his spirit was always a

1001
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: great spirit, which which is the significant reason why we

1002
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: came up back over here and over in the Biggie

1003
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: Cafe because that's where we first met. And I felt

1004
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: that this is the best way that we could send

1005
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: off and show some love and respect for a person

1006
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: that you know, his energy was doping and and and

1007
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: quite felt especially when it came to the New York

1008
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: this sport. Um he greeted almost everybody that came into

1009
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: disport and made sure that everybody was welcome. And yeah,

1010
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 1: I just wanted to show some love and um damn yeah,

1011
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 1: can you really wants to know if y'all can spell

1012
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: his name out in the chat for us, I'm supposed

1013
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: to go fund me or anything, Please let us know too.

1014
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: We would love to, you know, help towards that shape.

1015
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: And I'm like a few blockers away from Visio. I

1016
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: was about to actually, uh, is that you super Ugly?

1017
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: Are you there? Super? I'm gonna hit you on the

1018
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: other discord chat if y'all are still there, I'll go

1019
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 1: ahead and pull up and maybe have one drink with

1020
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: y'all tonight. So if anyone were hive um wants to

1021
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: pull up to Biggie's, I'll definitely pull up and link

1022
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: y'all just for a little bit because I've been drinking

1023
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: all day, So I got one drink in me. That's it.

1024
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: Um but I do, and um we might. I'm trying

1025
00:58:55,560 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: to see if we can organize something with for Barrious Homecoming. Okay, okay,

1026
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: Alky coming. We know that nigga all over then