WEBVTT - 97. When Past Debts Come Back to Haunt You 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, just so you know, like each hey, my, my,

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<v Speaker 1>I do jazz hands, and each layer, my hands get

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<v Speaker 1>higher until they're all the way out and my fingers

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<v Speaker 1>are wiggling in the air. I just want to give

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<v Speaker 1>you a visual.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a good visual. And just I know you

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<v Speaker 2>can't see me either, just know that I'm I'm taking

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<v Speaker 2>a knee right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Yeah, let's talk about that. Like that's a

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<v Speaker 1>really great way to open up. Hey, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Ambition, Happy Brown Ambition Wednesday. Yes, So this is one

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<v Speaker 2>of those news stories that seem to be unfolding over

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<v Speaker 2>the weekend, and I would catch a tweet here and there,

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<v Speaker 2>like a like a news alert here and there, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what's happening. I don't really watch football,

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<v Speaker 2>but I remember all like the controversy with Calan Kaepernick

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<v Speaker 2>is how you say his name? I think so he

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<v Speaker 2>refused to he took the knee way back like last

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<v Speaker 2>season during all the you know and protest of police

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<v Speaker 2>violence against black blacks in America, Right, that was why

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<v Speaker 2>he did that then. And then apparently like he hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>been able to he hasn't been drafted this season, Like

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<v Speaker 2>no one wants to touch him and hire him, and

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<v Speaker 2>and then it just sort of like it seemed like

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<v Speaker 2>every day the story escalated and it got bigger and bigger,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's all these there's like these players. Now what

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<v Speaker 2>was a small problem. Trump came out as he does

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<v Speaker 2>with all his free time, to tweet and rally, his

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<v Speaker 2>bass calling. He even at a rally apparently referred to

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<v Speaker 2>people like Colin Kaepernick indirectly as a son of a bitch. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>our president, cool President Doulthart. You know, it's like when

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<v Speaker 2>you think he can't go possibly any lower, he just

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<v Speaker 2>exceeds the expectations.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally like literally you say to yourself, this man

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<v Speaker 1>can't go lower, and he says, get me a shovel.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll show you, like I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna dig this. I'm gonna dig this ditch all over.

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<v Speaker 1>All the way down to Korea and sit with their

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<v Speaker 1>president so we could talk about how we're both nuts

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<v Speaker 1>nuts though, mister man. No, honestly, it's just crazy to

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<v Speaker 1>me because you think to yourself, Okay, with all the

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<v Speaker 1>things that are happening with you know, Hurricane Irma, with

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening in Puerto Rico, with like you know, North

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<v Speaker 1>Korea with just like world events in general, for you

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<v Speaker 1>to take the time out of your busy comb over

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<v Speaker 1>schedule to like make comments about not just the NFL,

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<v Speaker 1>but the NBA. Did you see the comment he made

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<v Speaker 1>to Stephan Curry. No, So, Stephan Curry. You know he's

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<v Speaker 1>a guy with the super cute daughter, right, yeah, super

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<v Speaker 1>cute family. And so I guess they invited him to

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<v Speaker 1>the White House. I don't know if they want a

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<v Speaker 1>championship or whatever. For whatever reason, he was invited and

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<v Speaker 1>he declined. And so because our current president is a child,

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<v Speaker 1>he tweeted him, Stephen Curry, coming to the White House

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<v Speaker 1>is an honor. And because you're hesitating, your your your

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<v Speaker 1>invited is rescinded.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, oh yeah, what He's like, well, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't come to my party. I uninvite you. Yes, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't come.

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<v Speaker 1>To my birthday party. You can't come. We're not even

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<v Speaker 1>present anymore. And You're like, what are you five?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Literally, he has the he has the the temperament

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<v Speaker 2>of a five year old. This is what This is

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing. He's so predictable. This is the same

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<v Speaker 2>thing he did after the CEO of I forget which

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<v Speaker 2>company it was stepped down from his business council in

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<v Speaker 2>the wake of his comments or sorry lack of comments

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<v Speaker 2>after Charlotte'sville, and then that business owner was the CEO

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<v Speaker 2>was followed by a couple of other CEOs and he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys can't leave my business advice col. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>banding the whole thing. There will be no Business Advisory

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<v Speaker 2>Council to leave. I mean, this is just like textbook

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<v Speaker 2>president mango face. Maybe I'll watch sports.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Yeah, I just let Superman give me the recap.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. So now that you know how people

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<v Speaker 1>say like like it was, they'll tell you like when

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<v Speaker 1>you like, if you're a book writer, you're they'll say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you think you know when you're writing the book,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the hardest part. They're like, ah, man, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>easiest part. It's what comes after. So now that we've

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<v Speaker 1>bought the house, it's the what comes after. Oh so,

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<v Speaker 1>so apparently you know so well one like we did. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know that the we haven't exchanged money for

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<v Speaker 1>the house. We had to do a title search, which

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<v Speaker 1>which just was clear today And apparently I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>with the title search, I thought it was just the home,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently there's a title search on you, like who

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<v Speaker 1>do you owe? And I, of course I came back clear.

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<v Speaker 1>But Superman had something from when he was eighteen. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like one hundred and eight bucks, but we have

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<v Speaker 1>to pay that. And it was like, yeah, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know that to what entity, like a public utility or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Something I don't know, Like I was looking through, I

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<v Speaker 1>just knew that it was his. I took a cursory

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<v Speaker 1>glance because his name is it's not common, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of common because its last name is Smith, so

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<v Speaker 1>his first name is semi common ish. So there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot so we had to really dig through, like

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<v Speaker 1>page after it was seventy three pages. I didn't realize that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, wow, So the title searches like

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<v Speaker 1>the property to see if the property has any leans

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<v Speaker 1>on it. It doesn't own anyone the person before you,

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<v Speaker 1>like who owned the property before you, to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>there's no leans that would stop the sale of the house,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you yourself. And I was like what And so,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I came back clear, but he had

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<v Speaker 1>this one hundred and eight dollars. Fine. It looked like

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<v Speaker 1>something from like like it looked like maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a ticket or something from court or something like

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<v Speaker 1>that when he was eighteen, and you know, likely it

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<v Speaker 1>was just moving from place to place and just forgot

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and so it came up in the title

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<v Speaker 1>search and you know, and I was just like, wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously we'll pay one hundred and eight dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>But I thought I didn't even I never knew that

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<v Speaker 1>was something I'd bought a house before. But I guess

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<v Speaker 1>because nothing ever came up under my name, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>something I thought about. And so yeah, so I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay one hundred and eight dollars, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>I get.

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<v Speaker 2>A deal breaker, like who it is?

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<v Speaker 1>Surprisingly like not that it's a lot of money, but

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<v Speaker 1>so I asked her, well, what would have happened if

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<v Speaker 1>he owed, like you know, or like just say if

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<v Speaker 1>we're paying I said, is this because we're paying cash?

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<v Speaker 1>And my realtor was like, no, the bank would have

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<v Speaker 1>actually held up the mortgage until it was satisfied, because

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<v Speaker 1>their worry is that you don't want anyone to have

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<v Speaker 1>to come and say, hey, before this transaction takes place,

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<v Speaker 1>this person or this property or whatever owes me, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, oh, okay, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure I'm saying it incorrectly. I probably could have

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<v Speaker 1>got more detail, I guess because it was one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and eight dollars. I wasn't digging super deep. But it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like we wouldn't be able to get title insurance,

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<v Speaker 1>which means that I guess if later on, ten years

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<v Speaker 1>from now, someone says, hey, there is actually a second

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<v Speaker 1>mortgage on that house. You Oh, we wouldn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay that because we have title insurance. But they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>clear us for title insurance if we didn't pay these

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<v Speaker 1>things off.

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<v Speaker 2>So how much time do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>They said that they want to close by my birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>which is October sixteenth, so we have plenty of time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're like, basically, we have a title company,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're just gonna I called to figure out, like

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<v Speaker 1>what do we do now, because I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know who to pay, like what court to pay

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. So we just give him the eight oh

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and eight dollars or whatever, and then he pays.

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<v Speaker 1>He satisfies the payment, you know, gives us a receipt

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<v Speaker 1>and then we're good to go, so we can have

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<v Speaker 1>title insurance so no one can then come and put

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<v Speaker 1>a lean on the property based upon old debts. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>because we did our due diligence and I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know that, I'm like, woo, mind blown.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, who takes a check from you?

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<v Speaker 1>The title insurance company, so they they run the title search,

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<v Speaker 1>and so everyone is paying the title insurance company. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like our es grow basically, so we paid the deposit

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<v Speaker 1>to instead of instead of getting like a lawyer, we

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<v Speaker 1>decided to go with the title insurance company because we're

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<v Speaker 1>paying cash, so we're not negotiating anything. But I still

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<v Speaker 1>wanted a title search. Like the bank side who we're paying,

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<v Speaker 1>they do a title search, but I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>a title search too on our side to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that this property doesn't have any leans on it. And

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<v Speaker 1>in order for us to have insurance on the title search,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning you did your due diligence, you're no longer liable.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to satisfy whatever it is that we owe

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever it is that either party might own, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we end up owning one hundred eight dollars. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else is free and clear. So I asked, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>do we pay because it says like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey State Court whatever it is. And I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>do we just call them up and pay them? He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you could pay, you know, write a check out, we

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<v Speaker 1>pay them obviously he sent you proof of payment, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we can move forward with the closing of the

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<v Speaker 1>of the sale of the house. And like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I might be said, I know. I was like, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I never because I guess I like, none

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<v Speaker 1>of my friends ever had anything come up, at least

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<v Speaker 1>they never told me, and I've never had anything come

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<v Speaker 1>up in the title search. So it was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's not true. When I fought my first house,

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<v Speaker 1>the man who owned the house had gotten a divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>so in the title search it did show that his

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<v Speaker 1>wife was like co owner or whatever that was, but

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<v Speaker 1>nothing came up on my end. So I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>that that there you might have to pay. But what

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<v Speaker 1>was crazy was there's different iterations of his name, and

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<v Speaker 1>there are people there that like, if you added up

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<v Speaker 1>everything they owed, it was like ten twenty thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, so what if they wanted to buy

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<v Speaker 1>a house and didn't even know they owed all this,

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<v Speaker 1>you could literally just not be able to buy a house,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So it just, you know, really important, and

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<v Speaker 1>that it's just another I guess bullet to say why

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<v Speaker 1>it's so important your credit and stuff. Staying on top

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<v Speaker 1>of your credit and credit report is so important because.

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<v Speaker 2>And you never do think about yourself the buyer being

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<v Speaker 2>because the title social whole point of it, I always

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<v Speaker 2>thought was just to make sure that the people who

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<v Speaker 2>were selling and had the right to sell it.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too, me too honestly that I was like, wait, what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do a little more digging. But I was like, what,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that, and she said yep. So, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, it wasn't much for us, But what if

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<v Speaker 1>it was like he owed, you know, eight thousand dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>what would we you know, I mean, we pay it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it would have been like a huge shock, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like what thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of people who would be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's putting us out of the game, Like there's no.

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<v Speaker 1>Way exactly, That's what I thought to myself. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>look look at you, sir. He was like, it's one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred eight dollars. I'm like still, I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not looking at the date. It's like nineteen ninety eight.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like when you were eighteen. He was like it

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<v Speaker 1>probably with some ticket and I was like whatever, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's come back to haunt you. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just an interesting part of the journey. I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more digging and maybe I'll explain it

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<v Speaker 1>a little better next time. But this is what, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it literally just happened today, So it was like fresh

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<v Speaker 1>on my mind, like what and.

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<v Speaker 2>Would that not show up on his credit report?

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't see it because it's old. It's it's clearly

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of violation. It looks like you might have

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<v Speaker 1>had a ticket or something because it's old to a

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<v Speaker 1>court system, so it didn't show up on his I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, do like parking tickets or whatever tickets show

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<v Speaker 1>up on your own on your credit report.

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<v Speaker 2>Not like the one you get from experience, not that

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<v Speaker 2>I know of, but I know, like you till like

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<v Speaker 2>one time. I remember in college one summer, you know

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<v Speaker 2>how every summer you move out of your apartment or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever I stayed, I had, we all moved out, but

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<v Speaker 2>like the power bill was still in my name and

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<v Speaker 2>it was never shut down. And I had these a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of like missed payments from Georgia Power on my

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<v Speaker 2>credit report that I had to you know, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't supposed to be charged, but they just had

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<v Speaker 2>never cut off service anyway, so I had to. But

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<v Speaker 2>that showed up on my credit report. But I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I thought. That's why I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>because I checked his credit report it didn't show up.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like that tickets, outstanding tickets don't show up

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<v Speaker 1>on your credit report. It just shows up, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>during I don't even know super thorough background checks because

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<v Speaker 1>I've never I mean, I've had tickets that I'd forgotten

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<v Speaker 1>to pay, and I've gotten like, you know, like warnings

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<v Speaker 1>in the mail, like we're gonna take your license, and

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen that on my credit report, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>likely why it was missed. He says. He vaguely remembers, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, I kind of vaguely remember, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so just keeping that in mind that like if you

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<v Speaker 1>have some outstanding like tickets, it looks like most of

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff is legal base, meaning like most of the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that wasn't his, and all the pages that I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of went through, it looked like all of them

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<v Speaker 1>were court related in some way, right, like you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, like if there wasn't anything on there,

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<v Speaker 1>like like I saw a guy, oh, child support, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it was like somebody there was like some forensic something,

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess I don't know if it's oh, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a public defender one where somebody I guess, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>had gotten into trouble and I guess they were charging

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<v Speaker 1>them for the public defender. I don't know. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just really interesting to kind of kind of intrusive. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, that's not even his full mate, like

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<v Speaker 1>like some people had different spellings of his name in

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<v Speaker 1>totally different years. But I was able to see like

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<v Speaker 1>all that they kind of owed, So it was really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting to be like, wow, this is kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>like they would even say, did you live at this address?

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we knew which ones were his. It was

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<v Speaker 1>it had like the last four digits of your social

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<v Speaker 1>the address associated, and then the name, so those three

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<v Speaker 1>things kind of had to match, and it was only

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<v Speaker 1>one for him, and then the rest he was like no, no, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm reading that. This is right. So it's not

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<v Speaker 2>that the city like will send an unpaid parking ticket,

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<v Speaker 2>like report that on your credit. But if they sell

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<v Speaker 2>it to a debt collector, which some cities do for

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<v Speaker 2>like even for the library finds like library finds are

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<v Speaker 2>unpaid yeah, parking tickets, then that collection activity will be

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<v Speaker 2>reported and then maybe you can track it. But that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, you know, part of the process.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, any other like uh, pickups or lessons learn.

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<v Speaker 1>And well we did find that, like and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. Like for an old house, like I said before,

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<v Speaker 1>like the the we have to get the house rewired,

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<v Speaker 1>which could be anywhere from eight to fifteen thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>So but that was something we knew ooh fifteen ou

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but that was something we kind of mentally

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for because I knew that of the four major

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<v Speaker 1>things plumbing, foundation, roof, and electric that at least won

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<v Speaker 1>in a house that's almost one hundred years old, at

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<v Speaker 1>least one of them was going to be something. So

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<v Speaker 1>of all the ones, that's the one I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, Okay, that's less than doing you know, a foundation,

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<v Speaker 1>which we would just have to leave the house. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that's, you know, something that we're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out now, like, so what are we going to do

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<v Speaker 1>as far as fixing up the house. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>it is cosmetic, but some of it is cosmetic, but

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<v Speaker 1>large projects that I want, Like I want a new

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<v Speaker 1>master bath and I want a different a different kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>So the kitchen in the bathroom, they're fine and they're functional.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want it new, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So lead the electric, yes, only the electric is like

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<v Speaker 1>we must do it. Everything else is like paint and

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<v Speaker 1>sanding and you know that kind of stuff. So we

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<v Speaker 1>could technically just pay for the wire and then just

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<v Speaker 1>paint and like sand and stuff ourselves. But I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna live here for a while. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>come home every day. Well, I don't leave the house.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be in the house every day. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in the house every day and saying like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I love my house. So we're trying to figure out,

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<v Speaker 1>like do we go with the contractor or do we

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<v Speaker 1>instead hire different subcontractors to do the actual work itself,

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you hire a contractor, you kind of pay

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<v Speaker 1>a premium because they're going to hire a subcontractor to

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<v Speaker 1>do the work. So we're trying to figure out, like

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<v Speaker 1>what's the best way to move ahead. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend more than sixty thousand dollars to get

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<v Speaker 1>the house to where we want it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm assuming it's all according to my HGTV reachurch.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's exactly why kitchen, right, that's what I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard somebody brothers could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I was thinking that, but then I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking because like downstairs, like I feel so like official

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<v Speaker 1>because downstairs there's only one real wall, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this looks like a load bearing wall. Meanwhile, how would

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<v Speaker 1>I know? But my assumption is it's the only wall downstairs,

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<v Speaker 1>so and it's separating the kitchen from the dining room,

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<v Speaker 1>and the kitchen's a little narrow, so I'd love for

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<v Speaker 1>that wall to be taken down, But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>is that obviously that's going to increase fixing the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, buy a lot and so my concern so

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we kind of are now, like, well, where

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<v Speaker 1>what do we do do we cause there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of work that he can do himself. So we certainly

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<v Speaker 1>will like painting and sanding and stuff so we can

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<v Speaker 1>save money. But he can't renovate a kitchen and he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know how to go totally renovate a bathroom. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to figure out, like what do we

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<v Speaker 1>do because if you have an electrician, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>know where things are going to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and a contractor is like they're sort of like

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<v Speaker 2>the man. They're managing the whole process, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's the one thing I woultn't skimp

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<v Speaker 2>on personally, but you have someone who can sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like has experience, even though husband you know it too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, but no, but I told them for the

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<v Speaker 1>major project, we're getting a contractor. So I guess we're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to figure out, Okay, beside the kitchen in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom is there. I don't necessarily want to hire

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<v Speaker 1>a contractor for the electric work because we could just

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<v Speaker 1>hire an electrician, you see what I mean. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that's where it's like, well, do look at I want

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<v Speaker 1>to hire professionals for all the major things, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't necessarily want the contractor to hire the professionals for

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<v Speaker 1>the for certain things because I'm like, well, we could

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<v Speaker 1>just go directly to that professional themselves and let the

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<v Speaker 1>contractor just work on like maybe two major projects and

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<v Speaker 1>then like if we need a plumber, let's just hire

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<v Speaker 1>a plumber, not the contractor to hire the plumber. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's like more money, you know. So there's a bunch.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm honestly everybody's seen the house. I've brought everybody through,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you know, technically we're not supposed to all

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<v Speaker 1>be in the house because we haven't paid for it.

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<v Speaker 2>But whatever, a house warming. I wasn't invited.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, we've just been walking through, Like, girl, what

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<v Speaker 1>you doing on Saturday? We want to go through doe

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<v Speaker 1>walk through and so like opening the lock box right

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<v Speaker 1>using the key you meanwhile, you're not supposed to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>but why here now I'm just really excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is a private conversation. It's not like thousands

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<v Speaker 2>of people are going.

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<v Speaker 1>To y'all don't know where the house is, you don't like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never sent the address or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And by like challenge accepted, girl, and don't talk like that.

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<v Speaker 2>When the interwebs these days, I know Chinese are probably

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<v Speaker 2>listening the Russians probably listening to us, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm excited though, because I can't wait to have

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to have Thanksgivings and definitely won't have

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<v Speaker 1>a house for me. Of course you and husband are

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<v Speaker 1>definitely invited. It's gonna be fun. It's gonna be like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be down play how exciting it is

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<v Speaker 2>for him, because I'm really trying to drag this out.

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<v Speaker 1>Now get a house.

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<v Speaker 2>We went. We went looking at a couple of two

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<v Speaker 2>neighborhoods that he has liked, has been looking out online

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<v Speaker 2>in Jersey and I was finally like, let's just go

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<v Speaker 2>check out these neighborhoods and see what they're like and

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<v Speaker 2>see what the houses are like. And the neighborhoods are

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<v Speaker 2>Montclair and Maplewood, New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you should have told me, I would have came

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Those are great neighborhoods, honestly, like Montclair from

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<v Speaker 1>what I remember. And I don't know if this is

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<v Speaker 1>still true, but it's one of the it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>interracial it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we saw a few, yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like officially the interracial like capital over or something crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>like the most interracial couples like per capita in the

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<v Speaker 1>city or something like that, something crazy like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I know who lived there are both or both interracial,

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<v Speaker 2>so confirmed, it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great, great, great city. And then Maplewood is

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<v Speaker 1>also an awesome city. You guys would really like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really like Homie, it's really like and it's next

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<v Speaker 1>to Newark and and that that you at the airport

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<v Speaker 1>and travel to the city. All of that stuff is

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<v Speaker 1>really easy. But I'm not gonna lie maple Wood and Montclair,

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<v Speaker 1>especially Montclair Parise.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but not as pricey as the apartments I want

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<v Speaker 2>in Historia and Jersey City. But we're just looking, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's hard. It's hard too. It's hard

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<v Speaker 2>to just look at listings online. You know. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be out there and just kind of see and

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<v Speaker 2>get a feel for towns. But it feels very much

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<v Speaker 2>like going back to my suburban upbringing. And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>in a lot of ways, it's you know, I love

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<v Speaker 2>seeing like kids playing in the neighborhood and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>trees and greenery and you know, kind of like a

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<v Speaker 2>real neighborhood, you know, not like where there's sidewalks and

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<v Speaker 2>it's separate from traffic and it's kind of back in

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<v Speaker 2>like really beautiful old houses, and they're both really beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just it's just too far. There's just so quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, hang out. I'm like, yeah, we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>neighbors for real, because literally New York is like literally

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, maybe like ten minutes if that, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yay, come on, Mandy, it's a now.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly, truthfully, it's actually Jersey City. It's super close

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<v Speaker 1>to NewYork. But you know, it's just very like I

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<v Speaker 1>love like, I love Montclair and because I went to

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<v Speaker 1>Montclair State University, it's got amazing restaurants. You'll love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And that's how we got me there. He'd lure

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<v Speaker 2>me there. It's the promise of dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you where'd you guys eat.

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<v Speaker 2>This restaurant called Raymond's.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, I love Raymonds. Oh my gosh. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we're gonna be housewives together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh shit, I'm gonna be sick again. Was an evil laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have hurt yourself. That's what happens when you

0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:24.840
<v Speaker 2>get booed up and get suburban life. You just want

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<v Speaker 2>to lure everyone else in.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you and I'm like come on in

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<v Speaker 3>turn to barbecue on Saturdays, come on into like to

0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:40.800
<v Speaker 3>like you know, garage sales on Sundays. Resist Now so

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<v Speaker 3>all right, Well, now that we've sick in Jamal and them,

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<v Speaker 3>I know he's like, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It is time, I believe. Don't you have anything else

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<v Speaker 1>for buzzworthy?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think anything else? Well before I before I

0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:58.159
<v Speaker 2>put my foot in my mouth because I haven't I

0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:01.680
<v Speaker 2>missed something, but other than and just my heart goes

0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:06.920
<v Speaker 2>out to Puerto Rico. Yeah, I think, oh, oh, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know anybody who has a parent or a

0:22:09.200 --> 0:22:16.080
<v Speaker 2>grandparent in a nursing home? No, no, or like hospice care. Well,

0:22:16.440 --> 0:22:19.040
<v Speaker 2>I my both my grand or my grandpa said at

0:22:19.040 --> 0:22:21.399
<v Speaker 2>a certain point it was in hospice care. And my

0:22:21.880 --> 0:22:25.159
<v Speaker 2>great uncle is in like an assisted living facility. And

0:22:25.200 --> 0:22:28.199
<v Speaker 2>I just my heart went out to families because there

0:22:28.240 --> 0:22:29.919
<v Speaker 2>was a story in the Times over the weekend that

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<v Speaker 2>came out. It was so heartbreaking. After you know, when

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<v Speaker 2>you put your you put your loved ones in a

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<v Speaker 2>home because for a lot of reasons, there's a lot

0:22:36.760 --> 0:22:39.120
<v Speaker 2>of guilt involved because you wish you could take care

0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:40.679
<v Speaker 2>of them, but it's also a full time job. You

0:22:40.760 --> 0:22:44.440
<v Speaker 2>need help. And you know, these places are expensive, like

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<v Speaker 2>they can cost thousands of dollars a month, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>not the kind of thing that Medicare covers, or sorry,

0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Medicaid covers. And you know, if you haven't invested in

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<v Speaker 2>things like long term health insurance, it's hard to find

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<v Speaker 2>the money. So I understand where so many families why

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<v Speaker 2>you turn to these facilities to help your loved ones.

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:03.600
<v Speaker 2>And if your budget isn't big enough, you may have

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<v Speaker 2>to settle on a less instillar facility. And there's a

0:23:07.760 --> 0:23:11.639
<v Speaker 2>story in uh in Florida, I believe around Miami, the

0:23:11.640 --> 0:23:14.679
<v Speaker 2>Miami area, there was this nursing home, nursing home and

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<v Speaker 2>for three, no, several days after the hurricane swept through,

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<v Speaker 2>this one was Maria. Wait wasn't Maria or Jose or

0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Irma one of these? I think it was Irma Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, probably whichever was.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry anyway, the generators at the nursing care facility went down,

0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:37.679
<v Speaker 2>and the nursing care workers were sort of like they

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<v Speaker 2>They called the governor's hotline. He had given not even

0:23:40.359 --> 0:23:42.640
<v Speaker 2>a hotline, his cell phone number, he'd given his direct number.

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 2>They left a message saying, you know, the generators are down.

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Quality of life is you know, is decreasing. And there

0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:52.119
<v Speaker 2>were other calls made to the power company and to

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 2>another organization that was supposed to be helping with recovery

0:23:55.920 --> 0:24:00.040
<v Speaker 2>efforts and rescue efforts, and somehow nothing got done. And

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:05.000
<v Speaker 2>three days later, several patients died from past Oh my gosh,

0:24:05.040 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 2>and wait they were across the street from a hospital.

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:12.600
<v Speaker 2>Across from the hospital. Yes, so one patient was one

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<v Speaker 2>of the people in the nursing home was taken to

0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:17.680
<v Speaker 2>the hospital with a high, high, high fever and another

0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 2>one was and known what the hospital thought is it's

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<v Speaker 2>a pattern, you know. No, it's just like it's just

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<v Speaker 2>one of those It's one of the most heartbreaking things

0:24:25.359 --> 0:24:28.919
<v Speaker 2>I've ever read. And I just so yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just thought, it's it's sad, and it's it's one

0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 2>of those facilities that you know, isn't the most expensive

0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 2>kind of place, and you know, it wasn't apparently on

0:24:39.000 --> 0:24:41.880
<v Speaker 2>anyone's you know, top of their priority list. And it's

0:24:41.920 --> 0:24:45.600
<v Speaker 2>just so sad that these these grandparents, great grandparents, you know,

0:24:46.359 --> 0:24:48.160
<v Speaker 2>passed away in such a sad way.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I can't even imagine, because I mean, I my

0:24:57.480 --> 0:25:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think my my father's and father passed

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<v Speaker 1>away way before I was born, and my grandfather passed

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 1>away maybe when I was a teenager, and my grandmother

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:11.119
<v Speaker 1>when I was in my twenties and so, but they

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 1>all lived in Nigeria. So the concept of nursing homes

0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:16.680
<v Speaker 1>and all that kind of stuff is kind of it's

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.439
<v Speaker 1>it's not part of typically the Nigerian culture, especially if

0:25:19.440 --> 0:25:22.520
<v Speaker 1>you're inside of Africa. So I can't even imagine. It's

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:26.760
<v Speaker 1>one of the reasons why in like African culture that

0:25:26.800 --> 0:25:30.560
<v Speaker 1>you live in a the way you live in the community,

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:36.439
<v Speaker 1>like each each village is really extended family. So I remember,

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I remember the first time I went to

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<v Speaker 1>Nigeria and I'm in this village and they're like, because

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:43.119
<v Speaker 1>my last name Aliche is so unique in America, and

0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>so my dad was introducing me to people like, oh,

0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:47.639
<v Speaker 1>this is chi k Aliche. I was like, oh my gosh,

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 1>my last name's Alche. And this is John Aliche. Oh

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, my last name's Alcha. My dad was like,

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:56.080
<v Speaker 1>get it together, everyone here is Alchia. I don't know.

0:25:56.280 --> 0:25:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. I was like, wait, everyone, he was

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, and I'm like, wait, everyone, And it was

0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:04.720
<v Speaker 1>such a beautiful oral history because you could meet a

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:07.159
<v Speaker 1>seven year old and they would be like, oh, my

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:12.400
<v Speaker 1>name is Mandy Aliche. My great grandfather and your great

0:26:12.440 --> 0:26:15.960
<v Speaker 1>grandfather were brothers. And then so they could trace everyone

0:26:15.960 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 1>could trace back to how you were both Alich's. And

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:22.480
<v Speaker 1>then my mom lived in a neighboring village and all

0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>of hers were her maiden name, and so that's how

0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:27.159
<v Speaker 1>in that culture you kind of like made sure you

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:29.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't intermarry because you lived within your village, so you know,

0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:32.159
<v Speaker 1>you didn't marry within your village, you know, and so

0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:33.919
<v Speaker 1>it was kind of great, you know. And then plus two,

0:26:33.920 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>because you knew your oral history, you could trace like, well,

0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 1>who is your mother, your mother's mother and mother, so

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 1>you could trace back. So literally, when you like someone,

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 1>your people would sit down and trace their history together

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to make sure there was no overlap before allowing you

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:48.960
<v Speaker 1>to date and marry, which is kind of like awesome.

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:50.360
<v Speaker 1>But I say all that to say that, like, as

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:54.320
<v Speaker 1>a result, my grandparents lived in there, they lived amongst

0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>family always, and so I just can't even imagine, like

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<v Speaker 1>even now that my parents are getting old, my dad

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:02.640
<v Speaker 1>is in his seventies. I always think to myself, like, well,

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>what would we do because I.

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:07.880
<v Speaker 2>Have your sisters and you talked about it.

0:27:08.280 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>No, and we should. You know, my mom is much

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>younger than my dad. My mom is like, you know,

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 1>young TENDERRONI eleven years younger, so you know, but still,

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, she's in her sixties and what I don't know, honestly,

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 1>but it is something that I've thought about because my dad,

0:27:23.760 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>although he's really active in plays tennis and all that

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, still he's in his seventies, and you know,

0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 1>if something were to happen to him, were my mom,

0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I would be like, obviously, come live with me, mommy,

0:27:35.040 --> 0:27:37.119
<v Speaker 1>even though I know she'd work every least nerve in

0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.159
<v Speaker 1>my body, but you know, that's what moms do. But

0:27:39.320 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I would love for her to come live with us.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even imagine putting her in a home only

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:49.400
<v Speaker 1>because of that. I'd be afraid that someone wouldn't look

0:27:49.440 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 1>after her properly. You know.

0:27:51.200 --> 0:27:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're right, it's such a cult. It's a different

0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:55.680
<v Speaker 2>kind of culture in America. Like I feel like, obviously

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 2>there are a lot more normalized nursing homes and assisted

0:27:58.760 --> 0:28:02.000
<v Speaker 2>living facilities and stuff. But everyone I know, you know,

0:28:02.080 --> 0:28:06.359
<v Speaker 2>it's including my husband's family who's Dominican. That's not how

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 2>they operate like you will. They will pack as many

0:28:09.400 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 2>people as possible into a you know, an apartment just

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:13.959
<v Speaker 2>to be together and just to be supporting each other,

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:15.600
<v Speaker 2>which on the one hand is beautiful. On the other hand,

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 2>it's like, Okay, you're on top of each other, and

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:21.199
<v Speaker 2>you know, everyone's sort of in each other's lives. But

0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 2>it's a different it's a totally different way of thinking.

0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, it'll be interesting to seek our parents, aren't

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:30.920
<v Speaker 2>you know that that old it's where we have had

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:33.200
<v Speaker 2>to have those conversations. But it's something I think about

0:28:33.240 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 2>all the time. You know, when my mom, when my

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:37.520
<v Speaker 2>mom got remarried recently, I can't lie when I said,

0:28:37.560 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 2>in the back of my mind, I'm like, okay, good,

0:28:38.840 --> 0:28:41.720
<v Speaker 2>she'll have someone to be there if she gets hurt again.

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:44.160
<v Speaker 2>You know, it wasn't that long ago. I think it

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 2>was two three years ago that she fell on ice

0:28:47.320 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 2>and shattered her kneecap and my sister, thank god, my

0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:52.479
<v Speaker 2>sister was there and I had to fly out and

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:54.760
<v Speaker 2>we had to you know, she couldn't walk for a

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 2>long time, and I remember thinking, God, we you know,

0:28:59.400 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 2>she's on her own. Oh and I just she you know,

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 2>what is she going to do if something worse were

0:29:02.800 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 2>to happen? So I feel like this is just part

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 2>of like adulthood. It's not like we become the parents.

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 2>But it's hard to have these conversations and they and

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 2>it's hard to even know where to start.

0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I should ask.

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Her if she has a will. I don't know. I

0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 2>don't even know if she had the power of attorney.

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 2>I should know these things.

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I know, right, I know, being the financial people that

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>we are, you know, I mean my dad is really uh,

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I know that he had a will, but now that

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>we're like like fully grown, I mean, and I'm sure

0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>he still has a will, but I wonder if it's

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 1>updated because I can remember being like a teenager or

0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 1>whatever him showing us, but I don't know, like what

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 1>it's what it is now. And you're right, power of

0:29:40.520 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>attorning all that kind of stuff, you know, or the.

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 2>Passwords like well your mom know. I think about, well,

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:47.760
<v Speaker 2>my mom has control over everything because she's been on

0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 2>her own for a while. But you know, I if

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:51.520
<v Speaker 2>the husband A lot of times it's you know, if

0:29:51.560 --> 0:29:56.000
<v Speaker 2>the husband, men do on average live shorter lives and women.

0:29:56.120 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 2>So that's why I'm kind of stereotyping this situation. But

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:00.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, if a husband passes away and the wife

0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 2>is left, you know, does she is she empowered? Does

0:30:03.440 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 2>she know where everything is so that you know, she

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:08.080
<v Speaker 2>knows where the how the bills are paid, and where

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 2>the finances are, and where to find the will and

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 2>where to find you know, all the information that she'll need.

0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 2>Because if she doesn't, you know, it's it's it can be,

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 2>it can be all that more stressful to it. Really

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 2>already like said, you know, situation, Yeah, don't worry. I

0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:30.360
<v Speaker 2>have all my information in a Google doc. That's exactly

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 2>what it's called.

0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 1>You know what, it's crazy.

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 2>My financial planner didn't think that was a good plan,

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:35.480
<v Speaker 2>but I think it works.

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>He's like, oh, that's great. So at any moment of time,

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>someone could hack you.

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, we're all hacked now.

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:50.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm just assuming that's true. Leave it to us to

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 1>end BuzzFeed on such an uplifting.

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:54.760
<v Speaker 2>That's why no one wants to talk about it. But

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:56.480
<v Speaker 2>see what I'm trying to do here, I'm trying to like,

0:30:56.520 --> 0:30:59.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, taboo we talk about money, why can't we

0:30:59.600 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 2>talk about and old people? The poor old people. So anyway,

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 2>my heart goes out to people in Miami. Sorry to

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 2>be a downer, but you know, you know, think Thanksgivings

0:31:08.960 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 2>coming up? What better time to sit down and have

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 2>really morbid discussion about wills and powers of attorney with

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 2>your mom and dad.

0:31:25.560 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 1>So it's time for brown break, Brown boost. What you're

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:35.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna do? Are you gonna boost? So? Are you gonna

0:31:35.480 --> 0:31:37.480
<v Speaker 1>break with you? Oh?

0:31:37.520 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a little twist on it.

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I know, I go where Mine's just easy. I am

0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 1>going to boost Acora fabric and fashion. Do you know

0:31:49.960 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>what anchor is?

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Do you? Ankara is a city? A city? Where is

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:56.280
<v Speaker 2>the city? Is it in Nigeria?

0:31:57.280 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe Anchor is the city, but that's

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>not what I mean. Is so Ancora is So it's

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:04.920
<v Speaker 1>usually like Africa.

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:09.920
<v Speaker 2>I've been to Ankara. This is really tragic. I literally

0:32:09.960 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 2>have been there before. All right, continue, Sorry.

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 1>Well, when I'm talking about Acera, I mean, and I

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know where they got the name from, but it's

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>it's basically African print that's typically cut or oftentimes cut

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>in a contemporary manner, so meaning like I just bought

0:32:24.640 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>a bomber jacket, but it's African print. So there I went.

0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I was in Atlanta for an event for Ford in Essence,

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>and there was a woman selling like her fashion designs

0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:37.280
<v Speaker 1>and I was just looking through them, and I was like,

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>it was so cute a bomber jacket but with African print.

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's like this fun funky, like I don't know,

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>it's fun.

0:32:46.680 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 2>A bit more of that. Remember that girl though I

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 2>forget her name, the teenager who like made her prom

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:53.120
<v Speaker 2>dress out of that Kyra.

0:32:52.960 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Or something like that Kai or something like that. Yep,

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 1>And so that's Akora, you know. And so I love

0:32:58.080 --> 0:33:01.400
<v Speaker 1>it because it's like it's you know, as a kid,

0:33:01.600 --> 0:33:03.800
<v Speaker 1>like when I was younger, my mom would like get

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:06.120
<v Speaker 1>us all dressed up in like African guard, but I

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>didn't like it because it was like the cut was

0:33:08.800 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 1>very like, you know, basically old fashioned. And now it's

0:33:12.440 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>like you can represent or even if you're not African,

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>you can still wear it. But it's like fun and funky.

0:33:16.880 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 1>You can get a blazer. I have really cute pencil

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:22.640
<v Speaker 1>like these little pencil skirts that are oncre fashion. So

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I just want to give a boost to that because

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:26.959
<v Speaker 1>it looks so fly and I cannot wait to stunt

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 1>on these hicks out here. No, just joking, y'all, don't

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:31.719
<v Speaker 1>gotta care, but I just can't wait to wear it

0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 1>because it's so cute, and I'm just like everybody should

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 1>love a little bit of anchor because it just adds

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:38.360
<v Speaker 1>a little, a little something extra because you could be

0:33:38.360 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 1>wearing literally like a black turtle that can black jeans

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:43.960
<v Speaker 1>and then my blaze, my bomber jacket, and you guys

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>are gonna think I'm so stylish. Hmm.

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Interesting. I wonder if this is gonna become the same

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 2>thing as like what are the long shirts to Scheky's.

0:33:54.640 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right now.

0:33:56.800 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But then there's like this whole conversation about cultural appropriate,

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, like who can wear a dashiki and who

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 2>can't wear a dashiki? Like they've become so widespread that

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:08.879
<v Speaker 2>you'll see. I remember listening to Another Round one time.

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 2>I love that show, and they were I think it

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:14.359
<v Speaker 2>was Tracy. She's like from Kentucky and she was making

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:17.080
<v Speaker 2>she was talking about seeing like a white guy at

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 2>the Verizon's store, like wearing a dashiki and she's like

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 2>it's gone too far? Where did we drive it?

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:23.239
<v Speaker 1>On?

0:34:24.840 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 3>How far?

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:29.760
<v Speaker 2>How much African ancestry to deny? Can I wear akara?

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:32.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to offend anybody. I probably shouldn't.

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:34.919
<v Speaker 1>No, No, you totally could. I think. I think that's

0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:37.799
<v Speaker 1>what's so special about ankara is that it's purposefully cut,

0:34:38.120 --> 0:34:43.000
<v Speaker 1>oftentimes in this contemporary way, so that way it's it

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 1>it invites like people who might not otherwise wear African

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 1>fabric because you're like, this is a really cute blazer

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>that you know, you know, So it's not like you're

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 1>wearing a galet, which is like a head tie and

0:34:52.760 --> 0:34:56.400
<v Speaker 1>you're like, hey, like you know, and like there's certain

0:34:56.920 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 1>there's head ties where it's tied contemporarily, and there's really

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.839
<v Speaker 1>like cultural head tides where people might feel like which

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:05.839
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind either way, but I get what you're saying.

0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:08.320
<v Speaker 1>But I think that's the purpose of cutting akara and

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:10.440
<v Speaker 1>like stuff that you would normally wear like a pencil

0:35:10.480 --> 0:35:14.359
<v Speaker 1>skirt or like you know, like ankle pants and like,

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:15.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, stuff like that in blazers.

0:35:15.920 --> 0:35:18.399
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, when I wasn't in my friend to lose wedding,

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:21.719
<v Speaker 2>she's Nigerian and shees hey to Lou, but she if

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 2>you were like a close friends, she let you. We

0:35:23.560 --> 0:35:25.479
<v Speaker 2>all wore the same fabric, but we got it cut

0:35:25.520 --> 0:35:27.960
<v Speaker 2>in like modern Like I had a pencil skirt, but

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 2>it was in that it was in the pattern the

0:35:30.200 --> 0:35:31.799
<v Speaker 2>colors that she had for her wedding, and I thought

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 2>it was so cute. I actould Actually I need to

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:34.600
<v Speaker 2>find that skirt.

0:35:34.840 --> 0:35:38.400
<v Speaker 1>But that's what it's called. It's basically like African like

0:35:38.400 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 1>like African like bridesmaids. Basically, so you, you and all

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>your girls were like the same fabric. My sister did that,

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and so like you give your girls a fabric and

0:35:46.120 --> 0:35:49.120
<v Speaker 1>everybody gets to cut it in their own flattering way.

0:35:49.520 --> 0:35:52.400
<v Speaker 1>So that's you're part of her ushaby. Oh, I'm probably

0:35:52.440 --> 0:35:56.600
<v Speaker 1>saying with the wrong inflection. I know there's who are

0:35:56.719 --> 0:36:00.600
<v Speaker 1>carranging cringe away ebos. I know I have the worst

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:01.320
<v Speaker 1>ebo accent.

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:04.959
<v Speaker 2>Me too. I gotta work on that.

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:36:06.560 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I love it, though, beautiful. I'm on nija dot com

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:11.759
<v Speaker 2>looking at some examples right now.

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:13.960
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll get you a little some I start you

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 1>off with a little coin purse.

0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:23.400
<v Speaker 2>Coin first, the starter pack. Yes, okay, I'm actually going

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 2>to break I'm gonna break. I'm really trying to get

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 2>my I'm really trying to get my meal planning down.

0:36:31.239 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 2>So you know, I broke. I had to take a

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 2>break from Green Chef, which I did. I finally, you know,

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 2>they make it really hard to cancel your subscription to

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:41.719
<v Speaker 2>Green Chef. They do not want you to go. And

0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 2>this may be the case for all these meal delivery plans.

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 2>But like you can skip a week, you can go

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 2>to your calendar and say I'm gonna skip this week,

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 2>but then you have to do it. You can only

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 2>do up to four weeks at a time, so you

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 2>have to remember to come back and skip if you forget.

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 2>And thank goodness, I checked my email and I saw

0:36:57.160 --> 0:36:59.959
<v Speaker 2>a reminder because I had skipped the last four weeks

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 2>and it was like, you're a due for a meal

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:03.840
<v Speaker 2>kit next week. You only have twenty four hours to

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:05.399
<v Speaker 2>cancel it. And I quickly canceled. I was like, I'm

0:37:05.400 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 2>done with this. I want to cancel. You have to

0:37:07.600 --> 0:37:09.480
<v Speaker 2>send an email to them. You can't even like do

0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:12.760
<v Speaker 2>it through the website. You have to And the answer

0:37:12.840 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 2>to how do I cancel my subscription isn't any where

0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:17.879
<v Speaker 2>easy to find. It's not in your account settings, It's

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:20.080
<v Speaker 2>not in your profile. You actually have to go to

0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 2>the faq and then find the question how do I

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:25.840
<v Speaker 2>cancel my subscription all the way at the bottom almost

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:29.399
<v Speaker 2>and then email them personally to ask to have your

0:37:29.520 --> 0:37:33.640
<v Speaker 2>subscription canceled. So that was like a mini break. But anyway,

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.839
<v Speaker 2>my my real break is I was like, Okay, we're

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:37.799
<v Speaker 2>going to go to Trader Joe's this weekend. I'm going

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 2>to get I'm going to get like, I'm going to

0:37:40.800 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 2>get some protein, I'm gonna get vegetables. I'm gonna get

0:37:43.239 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I got some spaghetti squash to make, like my favorite,

0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, low carb pasta or whatever. Have you ever

0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 2>had spaghetti squash? Side note, No, I'm not a big

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 2>squash fan, but listen, if you're doing like vegan, I

0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:57.880
<v Speaker 2>don't know, you can't eat pasta right because it has

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 2>eggs in it. Right, Listen, like spaghet squash. It's so cool.

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.800
<v Speaker 2>You cut it in half, you put it in the oven,

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:06.880
<v Speaker 2>and it looks it looks crazy. It looks like the

0:38:06.920 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 2>inside of a pumpkin. You have to scoop the seeds out,

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:11.280
<v Speaker 2>but then you just drizzle olive oil, salt and pepper.

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Put it face down on a pan and for forty

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 2>five minutes and that's it. And then you can take

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:18.319
<v Speaker 2>a fork and you scrape it and it comes out

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 2>like noodles, but it's squashed. It doesn't have any strong taste.

0:38:22.280 --> 0:38:24.279
<v Speaker 2>It's just like a really good and it takes on

0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:26.759
<v Speaker 2>the flavor whatever sauce you put on it, so it

0:38:26.760 --> 0:38:30.560
<v Speaker 2>becomes like a really healthy alternative to spaghetti. So I

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 2>know you should. You should definitely try it. You have

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:38.879
<v Speaker 2>to put in the rotation, but it's so good, you.

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Know I'm gonna try. Because I only don't like squash

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:43.560
<v Speaker 1>because of a bad childhood experience. I carried.

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:47.840
<v Speaker 2>Squash horror story.

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:51.120
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, so i've ever since that, I'm just like,

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't like scratch, even though I probably have not

0:38:53.200 --> 0:38:55.280
<v Speaker 1>Like I like pumpkin, which isn't that a former squash

0:38:55.360 --> 0:38:58.000
<v Speaker 1>who eats pumpkin. I mean it's.

0:39:00.480 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 2>Pumpkin, like a pumpkin pie. That's not real pumpkin.

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 1>No, I've had like there's like there's just Jamaican dishes

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 1>that they have like pumpkin. It's like pumpkin soup and

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 1>pumpkin stew, and I like it. Okay, but yeah, so

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:13.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try. I will try.

0:39:13.360 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 2>It's not really it's fun and it's tasty, but I'm

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:18.319
<v Speaker 2>getting off track again yet again.

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 1>That's what we always Okay, So.

0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:24.000
<v Speaker 2>First it took a mini break. Now sidebar, Now back

0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:26.520
<v Speaker 2>to the mad break. Anyway, We're at Trader Doos. I'm

0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:28.359
<v Speaker 2>getting all these ingredients and I get home. First of all,

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm exhausted from even going to Twitder Joe's. And then

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:33.759
<v Speaker 2>I spend the next three hours I'm gonna I try

0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:36.239
<v Speaker 2>to cook all the food I'll need for lunch during

0:39:36.280 --> 0:39:38.640
<v Speaker 2>the week, because I usually spend like between twelve and

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 2>fifteen dollars a day eating out in New York City

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 2>for lunch or whatever, easily twelve fifteen dollars. So I'm

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 2>trying to cook enough lunch for the week to try

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 2>it out. It took me four hours. Like I didn't

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:55.319
<v Speaker 2>know how much your back could hurt from standing in

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 2>the kitchen all day, cause you're it's not just cooking

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 2>one piece of chicken or two beets like for two people.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:01.959
<v Speaker 2>When you're trying to you need every pot and pan,

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:04.560
<v Speaker 2>like the biggest pans you have. Everything takes longer to

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:07.400
<v Speaker 2>cook when you're cooking into big batches. Maybe I was

0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:09.520
<v Speaker 2>just a little too ambitious with the meal I chose,

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:12.720
<v Speaker 2>but I felt like it was not worth the money

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:16.320
<v Speaker 2>I was saving to spend four hours of my Sunday,

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:20.480
<v Speaker 2>my beautiful Sunday, just just like slaving over a hot stove.

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that cooking can be sird of overrating.

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie some days, I'm just like I

0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 1>remember one time hearing like this radio host saying, look,

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:33.200
<v Speaker 1>my job as the wife is to make sure you eat,

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.280
<v Speaker 1>whether or not I cook it or not, that's my business.

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 2>How I wish my mom was that way too. My

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:42.720
<v Speaker 2>mom would would like know she would have no guilt

0:40:42.920 --> 0:40:45.719
<v Speaker 2>over just slapping down a sack of Taco Bell tacos

0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 2>on like a Wednesday night and being like, this is

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:50.440
<v Speaker 2>all it's gonna happen to night. Kids. Adjust your expectations

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:51.480
<v Speaker 2>all I can do.

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:54.520
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like that's how I mean that I

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 1>do cook because I do enjoy it, but night's where

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, So the good thing about Hopeful do

0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 1>they have a hot whole food market, which I want?

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, so like Friday nights, I just don't cook.

0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>And then I just kind of cook when I get

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>a chance, like today, you know, Superman, for whatever reason,

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:16.160
<v Speaker 1>he decided he wanted meatball subs or palm or whatever

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:18.000
<v Speaker 1>it is. So he made them, which I thought was

0:41:18.000 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 1>so cute for him and Supergirl, and I was like, okay, well,

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you cooked today because Mondays are like my

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:26.959
<v Speaker 1>busiest days, and so he cooks, but typically he cooks

0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 1>very guyish, so today it was like a huge departure.

0:41:30.040 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, look at you get in fancy because

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 1>he has this thing called turkey ronie, which I'm like, uh.

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.040
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, how do you eat meat ball subs?

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>Well, he just WoT, we just like we have the

0:41:38.840 --> 0:41:42.120
<v Speaker 1>ground turkey. So he just seasoned them up and baked them,

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>which I'm not sure IF's the way he's supposed to.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Do it, but I was like, I guess you can

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:50.840
<v Speaker 2>bake the falls. Yeah, And I was like, what's happening, Blond,

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 2>He's like baking.

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:55.479
<v Speaker 1>There's like twelve meet balls. He's like baking them, and

0:41:55.600 --> 0:41:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I guess he went out and went to get like

0:41:57.440 --> 0:42:01.279
<v Speaker 1>that crusty like long bread you know that it's just

0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:02.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna cut them and slice them and then put like

0:42:02.760 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>two or three metcalfs in each and some cheese and

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.759
<v Speaker 1>some sauce, and you know, him and Supergirl will have

0:42:07.800 --> 0:42:10.799
<v Speaker 1>a delicious time, I guess. And so I thought that

0:42:10.880 --> 0:42:16.240
<v Speaker 1>was cute, But usually his his normal fare is very basic,

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:18.520
<v Speaker 1>to say the least, Like, like I said, turkey roni,

0:42:18.560 --> 0:42:23.800
<v Speaker 1>which is just elbow macaroni with ground turkey. It's basically

0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>spaghetti sauce, spaghetti with elbow macaroni and ground turkey, and

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:29.560
<v Speaker 1>like you know whatever, mixed bag of vegetables. And he

0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:32.279
<v Speaker 1>swears that it is the Bob dot com because he

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 1>will make up that of it you could swim in

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:36.399
<v Speaker 1>the I'm like, who was eating all this turkey ronni? Sir?

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 2>So like, I'm putting in the freezer. We'll save it

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:44.239
<v Speaker 2>for later in the back well.

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Whenever he makes turkey roni, I just invite the neighborhood kids.

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 1>They always ko got the door for food anyway. I'm like,

0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:50.719
<v Speaker 1>who wants turkey ronni? They're like, oh, mister drown make

0:42:50.800 --> 0:42:51.440
<v Speaker 1>turkey ronni.

0:42:51.920 --> 0:42:58.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm back to small batch cooking and hanging

0:42:58.160 --> 0:43:00.240
<v Speaker 2>out because I feel like my time is firth money.

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:03.040
<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, what's the point in doing well. I

0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 2>mean there were I remember back in my law three sixty,

0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 2>like Business Insider days, when I would literally get the

0:43:07.239 --> 0:43:10.600
<v Speaker 2>ninety nine cent can of sad Trader joe soup and

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:12.440
<v Speaker 2>I would eat and I would mix it with the

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:14.680
<v Speaker 2>free pretzel rod sticks but used to have in the

0:43:14.760 --> 0:43:17.120
<v Speaker 2>kitchen at Business Insider, and I would nuke it in

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 2>the microwave. And I'm not even like the saddest soups

0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:23.200
<v Speaker 2>like turkey chili, like dog food and like split pea soup.

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:25.759
<v Speaker 2>I can still remember the texture of the split Peace

0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:27.560
<v Speaker 2>soup from Trader Joe's because that's all I could have.

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:29.800
<v Speaker 2>You know, I was so broke, and you know that

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:33.040
<v Speaker 2>that was eight years ago, Amandy, Like treat yourself to

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:35.560
<v Speaker 2>a ten dollars salad. Just do it, Just do it.

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 1>That it is hard to get past that. We should

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:41.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about that and in like one day for our

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:43.400
<v Speaker 1>tips or whatever, like how do you get past the

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:44.680
<v Speaker 1>financial guilt of not.

0:43:44.600 --> 0:43:47.320
<v Speaker 2>Being broken anymore? And like treating Like how do you

0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:49.520
<v Speaker 2>know when it's lifestyle inflation because you don't have to

0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 2>worry about that too, you know, like just because I'm

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:53.440
<v Speaker 2>earning motes, I mean I need to be wilding out

0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:55.600
<v Speaker 2>and like doing you know, getting the bigger apartment, getting

0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:57.759
<v Speaker 2>the bigger you know, car, and not that I'm doing that,

0:43:57.800 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 2>but I think people will run into that problem. And

0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 2>it's it's like, yeah, you want to prevent that, but

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:03.800
<v Speaker 2>also you don't want to be nickel and diming yourself

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:06.319
<v Speaker 2>to death to where you know you're spending half your

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Sunday like I was slaving ye.

0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:15.319
<v Speaker 1>All right, all right, well questions. We have a good

0:44:15.400 --> 0:44:16.000
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0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:19.720
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0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:31.480
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0:44:58.960 --> 0:44:59.640
<v Speaker 1>That's how you pause.

0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, that was a layup. I set it up

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:06.000
<v Speaker 2>for you. You did, Okay, Okay, we have a good question.

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:10.359
<v Speaker 2>So this person, her name is Tiana. She said there,

0:45:10.400 --> 0:45:12.839
<v Speaker 2>I really need to repair my credit, and I don't

0:45:12.840 --> 0:45:15.680
<v Speaker 2>know where to begin. Besides my student loans which are

0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 2>currently in deferment and a voluntary reprocession, I don't have

0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 2>much on my credit report. Negatively, I have a lot

0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:23.960
<v Speaker 2>of inquiries that needs to be removed. But I need

0:45:24.000 --> 0:45:26.319
<v Speaker 2>to find out the best secured card and how to

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:31.080
<v Speaker 2>get some financial freedom. Tiana wants to rebuild her credit.

0:45:32.200 --> 0:45:34.640
<v Speaker 2>Student loans are in deferment, she has a voluntary repo

0:45:35.160 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 2>that's a car repossession. I'm assuming on her credit, she

0:45:38.600 --> 0:45:43.160
<v Speaker 2>has inquiry so it sounds like she's been applying for credit. Yeah,

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:44.919
<v Speaker 2>and she says that needs to be removed. Well, those

0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:45.920
<v Speaker 2>can't be removed.

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I was going to say that.

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:49.359
<v Speaker 2>Point one.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think, well, where you work, Mandy is a

0:45:52.440 --> 0:45:55.480
<v Speaker 1>great place to start. Magnify money for secured cards. That's

0:45:55.480 --> 0:45:56.320
<v Speaker 1>where I send everyone.

0:45:56.320 --> 0:45:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, what's a secured card, Tiffany, Well, a secured car

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:00.839
<v Speaker 2>card is.

0:46:01.640 --> 0:46:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I call it a credit card with training wheels, because

0:46:04.920 --> 0:46:07.840
<v Speaker 1>a secured card is like, hey girl, we don't trust

0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you with our money. So what we're gonna do. What

0:46:10.680 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do is we're gonna take your money about

0:46:13.600 --> 0:46:15.360
<v Speaker 1>five or six hundred dollars and put it in a

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:18.360
<v Speaker 1>money market account, which is just a glorified savings account.

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 1>And then we're gonna give you a card and guess

0:46:20.320 --> 0:46:23.320
<v Speaker 1>what your limit's gonna be that same six hundred dollars

0:46:23.320 --> 0:46:25.880
<v Speaker 1>that we put up. And as you're swiping your card,

0:46:26.000 --> 0:46:28.279
<v Speaker 1>if for whatever reason, you decide to get cute and

0:46:28.280 --> 0:46:30.680
<v Speaker 1>not pay us, we're gonna just take the money out

0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>of your money market account and pay off the card.

0:46:33.840 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I cannot stress enough how important it is that if

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:40.799
<v Speaker 1>you are not ready to make on time payments, do

0:46:41.040 --> 0:46:44.879
<v Speaker 1>not get a secured card like you could, because it's

0:46:44.920 --> 0:46:47.200
<v Speaker 1>already like I equate getting a secured card and was like, m,

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:51.480
<v Speaker 1>you kind of messed up in credit class. So you're

0:46:51.560 --> 0:46:54.400
<v Speaker 1>set to detention, so you have time to redeem yourself.

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:57.440
<v Speaker 1>But if you active a detention, then you might get expelled.

0:46:57.920 --> 0:47:00.319
<v Speaker 1>So if you're not really ready to do, what to

0:47:00.520 --> 0:47:02.799
<v Speaker 1>do right with a secured card? Because what that what

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:05.399
<v Speaker 1>does that say? If you're like, yo, I can't even

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:08.160
<v Speaker 1>pay myself back no one is going to trust you

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:10.080
<v Speaker 1>to pay them back. So that's what I would go

0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 1>to magnify money type in kind of like if you

0:47:13.000 --> 0:47:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like a drop down menu for secured cards,

0:47:16.239 --> 0:47:19.920
<v Speaker 1>and just know that you have to pony up usually

0:47:20.120 --> 0:47:22.919
<v Speaker 1>between like five and six hundred dollars and they'll put

0:47:22.920 --> 0:47:26.200
<v Speaker 1>that up for you and they'll give you the secured

0:47:26.239 --> 0:47:29.239
<v Speaker 1>card for that limit. And also a great place to

0:47:29.239 --> 0:47:31.280
<v Speaker 1>look for a secured card is your bank. Some banks

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:34.040
<v Speaker 1>have secured cards, and sometimes I prefer getting a secured

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:36.799
<v Speaker 1>card directly from the bank that you are actually bank at,

0:47:36.840 --> 0:47:39.959
<v Speaker 1>if they have one. Because like Superman when I met him,

0:47:40.320 --> 0:47:42.560
<v Speaker 1>he had a secured card at his bank, and then

0:47:42.680 --> 0:47:45.319
<v Speaker 1>after meeting him and then helping him like pay like

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:48.160
<v Speaker 1>get his credit like to where it needed to be,

0:47:48.840 --> 0:47:51.359
<v Speaker 1>they actually took the secured cart off his card and

0:47:51.400 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 1>made it a regular card. So the bank, because there

0:47:53.719 --> 0:47:56.080
<v Speaker 1>was already a bank card, he didn't have to reapply

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:58.760
<v Speaker 1>for a regular card. They just basically upgraded him without

0:47:58.800 --> 0:48:01.799
<v Speaker 1>that inquiry, which was great. Even though he thought that

0:48:01.840 --> 0:48:04.440
<v Speaker 1>he won five hundred dollars, he was like, bank, that's

0:48:04.440 --> 0:48:07.319
<v Speaker 1>not five hundred, Mandy, you would have been rolling we're

0:48:07.360 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>at the bank, which is like weird because who goes

0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:11.359
<v Speaker 1>to the bank, but whatever, and I guess he checked

0:48:11.360 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 1>his balance. He was like let's go. I'm like, why

0:48:13.040 --> 0:48:14.959
<v Speaker 1>are we rushing out? He was like this five hundred

0:48:15.000 --> 0:48:17.880
<v Speaker 1>dollars in by account And I was like, sir, like

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:20.040
<v Speaker 1>either way, if it's not your't they gotta come get it?

0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Like what do you think is happening? And so we

0:48:21.719 --> 0:48:23.560
<v Speaker 1>asked the front and like you know, they looked at

0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:25.480
<v Speaker 1>his account. They're like, oh, your security card and you've

0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:27.120
<v Speaker 1>done well with it for like the last six months

0:48:27.160 --> 0:48:29.359
<v Speaker 1>or eight months or whatever, and we made a regular card,

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:31.759
<v Speaker 1>so we just gave you back your security basically. And

0:48:31.760 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I looked at him like you were about to go

0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>out there and trick up your money, your own money.

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, then they need to notify you. See, you don't

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:38.279
<v Speaker 2>get confused.

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:40.480
<v Speaker 1>He was so exciting.

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 2>He was like, we didn't make a withdrawal.

0:48:46.480 --> 0:48:47.600
<v Speaker 1>I know, let's go, let's go.

0:48:47.760 --> 0:48:51.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, what, yeah, how many? How many headlines

0:48:51.040 --> 0:48:53.200
<v Speaker 2>to be? We always see the one like once every

0:48:53.280 --> 0:48:55.560
<v Speaker 2>few or a few months. There's always a headline like

0:48:55.920 --> 0:49:00.279
<v Speaker 2>so and so spent like a multi thousand dollars, you know,

0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.759
<v Speaker 2>mysterious deposited the bank account, and then so and so

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:05.360
<v Speaker 2>got arrested or so and so, you know, get clawed

0:49:05.440 --> 0:49:08.719
<v Speaker 2>back by the bank. You don't Unlike, it's one thing,

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:10.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, recently, I got to pay out from like

0:49:10.960 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 2>an old insurance claim I completely forgot about, and like,

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:15.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to do my due diligence to make

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:18.080
<v Speaker 2>sure that, you know, go back and remember what this

0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:19.719
<v Speaker 2>check is all about or what it was like from

0:49:19.760 --> 0:49:21.920
<v Speaker 2>three years ago. I called them, they said, yes, it's

0:49:21.920 --> 0:49:23.839
<v Speaker 2>a fine to cash it, So I cashed it. But

0:49:23.960 --> 0:49:26.080
<v Speaker 2>like a bank, I don't know. I feel like that's

0:49:26.080 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 2>the one thing if you get a mysterious bank deposit

0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:30.760
<v Speaker 2>that's you don't want to just assume that it's yours

0:49:31.239 --> 0:49:35.080
<v Speaker 2>because it's not. Prallly ain't. But yeah, secured cards. I'm

0:49:35.080 --> 0:49:38.000
<v Speaker 2>going to actually last year for the Liberature Challenge Magnify Money,

0:49:38.080 --> 0:49:40.840
<v Speaker 2>we did like a secured credit card guide right for

0:49:41.000 --> 0:49:44.880
<v Speaker 2>your Liberature participants, So I might just resurrect that and

0:49:44.960 --> 0:49:47.440
<v Speaker 2>put that in the show notes if you're looking for

0:49:47.520 --> 0:49:50.160
<v Speaker 2>a secured card, and also if you're like brand new

0:49:50.400 --> 0:49:54.240
<v Speaker 2>and you just started college or you graduated from college

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:56.120
<v Speaker 2>and you didn't have any credit while you were in college,

0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:58.520
<v Speaker 2>don't have any student loans or whatever, then a secured

0:49:58.560 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 2>card is a good way to build credit, even if

0:49:59.920 --> 0:50:01.840
<v Speaker 2>you like it's not just for people who have bad credit.

0:50:01.840 --> 0:50:04.600
<v Speaker 2>It's also good if you don't have any credit, yeah,

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:05.400
<v Speaker 2>to rebuild it.

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:08.640
<v Speaker 1>And also, what do you think about self Lender? Thus far,

0:50:08.880 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I've liked them.

0:50:10.520 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't have enough about self Lender. I know, I

0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:15.960
<v Speaker 2>know enough to be like, I don't know if I

0:50:16.040 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 2>trust this.

0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Well. I a year ago I started doing a little

0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:21.879
<v Speaker 1>bit of research on them, and a bunch of because

0:50:21.920 --> 0:50:24.800
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of dream Catchers, you know, the budgetiese. The gang.

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:27.680
<v Speaker 1>They started saying signing up on their own. So I

0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, and they would ask me my opinion, and

0:50:29.160 --> 0:50:31.680
<v Speaker 1>I was always like, well, I can't. I can't, you know,

0:50:31.760 --> 0:50:33.880
<v Speaker 1>give a thumbs up to anything that I have not

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:36.560
<v Speaker 1>signed up and use. So I did just to see

0:50:37.000 --> 0:50:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and honestly that's far. I mean, well, my credit score

0:50:39.440 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 1>was pretty good already, so I was a hard gauge,

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:45.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, because I'm in the eight hundreds. But I

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:48.439
<v Speaker 1>certainly didn't drop anything. So the way self Lender works,

0:50:48.440 --> 0:50:52.520
<v Speaker 1>for those of you listening, is that self lender. You

0:50:52.520 --> 0:50:55.000
<v Speaker 1>you sign up for self lender, I always say, borrow

0:50:55.160 --> 0:50:57.560
<v Speaker 1>the smallest amount possible, which is I think it's five

0:50:57.640 --> 0:51:01.320
<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars. But when you're borrowing quote five hundred dollars,

0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:03.439
<v Speaker 1>they're not actually giving you the five hundred. They're putting

0:51:03.440 --> 0:51:05.160
<v Speaker 1>it in that same money market account like we talked

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:08.680
<v Speaker 1>about before, and then you pay it back every month,

0:51:08.800 --> 0:51:11.719
<v Speaker 1>and I think it's like maybe like a forty nine

0:51:11.760 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 1>bucks or whatever it is. And then at the end

0:51:14.239 --> 0:51:16.720
<v Speaker 1>of the year you have paid back the five hundred,

0:51:17.440 --> 0:51:20.320
<v Speaker 1>and then they basically give you that money back because

0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:23.359
<v Speaker 1>you never actually got it. So you're basically putting up

0:51:23.440 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 1>the money. You get that lump sum back, that five

0:51:25.640 --> 0:51:27.920
<v Speaker 1>hundred back, and I think it costs by the time

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:29.400
<v Speaker 1>it's all said and done, it costs like maybe like

0:51:29.440 --> 0:51:31.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I want to say twenty or thirty

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:34.319
<v Speaker 1>bucks or whatever, like that's the quote unquote fee, because

0:51:34.360 --> 0:51:37.800
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be paying the monthly amount plus a little

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:40.040
<v Speaker 1>interest every month, and so it ends up being about

0:51:40.040 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 1>twenty something bucks from what I remember. What I like

0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:45.440
<v Speaker 1>about self lender is that one you know, as you're

0:51:45.480 --> 0:51:48.399
<v Speaker 1>paying the monthly fee or you're paying the monthly, you know,

0:51:48.719 --> 0:51:51.480
<v Speaker 1>the five hundred dollars off in monthly increments, it shows

0:51:51.960 --> 0:51:54.640
<v Speaker 1>for twelve months that you've paid every single month, So

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:56.319
<v Speaker 1>that's what's supposed to raise your credit score. And at

0:51:56.360 --> 0:51:58.040
<v Speaker 1>the end, or you pay it off, you get an

0:51:58.040 --> 0:52:00.160
<v Speaker 1>additional boost because you paid off the debt in full,

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:02.960
<v Speaker 1>even though you technically didn't get that money. And then

0:52:03.000 --> 0:52:05.239
<v Speaker 1>it's a savings tool and that you get that lump

0:52:05.239 --> 0:52:08.960
<v Speaker 1>sum back to you. So thus far, honestly, I've liked.

0:52:08.960 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 1>It's been about a year, so I can confidently say

0:52:11.120 --> 0:52:16.319
<v Speaker 1>I haven't had any negative feedback about self Lender. I

0:52:16.360 --> 0:52:17.880
<v Speaker 1>signed up, and like I said, for me, it's a

0:52:17.920 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 1>little weird because I already had good credit. So I

0:52:20.120 --> 0:52:23.480
<v Speaker 1>definitely have heard people varying degrees of success as far

0:52:23.480 --> 0:52:27.200
<v Speaker 1>as credit score bump. So you know, some people like

0:52:27.239 --> 0:52:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, oh, I've raised one hundred something points and

0:52:29.160 --> 0:52:31.480
<v Speaker 1>some people twenty. So it all depends on like your

0:52:31.480 --> 0:52:34.480
<v Speaker 1>other credit stuff. And what I really like about self

0:52:34.520 --> 0:52:38.360
<v Speaker 1>lenders is there's no inquiry. They don't. You don't get

0:52:38.640 --> 0:52:41.880
<v Speaker 1>approved by self lender based upon your credit history. You

0:52:41.920 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 1>get approved based upon what's called check systems, which is

0:52:44.680 --> 0:52:48.440
<v Speaker 1>basically like the bank's tattletale system. So if you overdraft

0:52:48.440 --> 0:52:51.520
<v Speaker 1>with a bank and don't pay them back or you

0:52:51.600 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>owe the bank money, they will report you to check

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:56.400
<v Speaker 1>systems and they'll basically other banks won't mess with you

0:52:56.480 --> 0:52:59.520
<v Speaker 1>as a result. So self lender just looks there and says,

0:52:59.640 --> 0:53:01.600
<v Speaker 1>have you and reported the check systems and the answer

0:53:01.680 --> 0:53:04.040
<v Speaker 1>is no, then you'll then you can check, then you'll

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<v Speaker 1>you can sign up for self lender, So it's not

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<v Speaker 1>it's not contingent upon your your credit score, credit report.

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<v Speaker 2>So so basically self lender is like a secured card,

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<v Speaker 2>except as an online loan, and you're not like actually

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<v Speaker 2>swiping a card exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's different is that because a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the five or six hundred for the for

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<v Speaker 1>the secured card that you have to put up, so

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<v Speaker 1>self lender doesn't require that. They basically say, hey, Mandy,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna borrow five hundred from us, but we're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give it to you. We're gonna put it up,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're gonna pay it back, and then once you

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<v Speaker 1>finished paying it back, we've got to give your money back.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's so if you don't have the money for

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<v Speaker 1>secured card. It's another option. That's what I like about

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<v Speaker 1>it because not everybody has five or six hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's absolutely true. That's interesting. I actually Magnified Money

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<v Speaker 2>did a review on this right before I started last year,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll post that as well. It'll just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>break down what Tiffany was just talking about how self

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<v Speaker 2>lender works, pros and cons and other ways to build credit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I said a bunch of ways, and that's the word.

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<v Speaker 1>You can also sign up for the Live Riture Challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and Mandy you know, we're integral parts. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I was, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, he was around.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, it's totally free and we partner with Magnify

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<v Speaker 1>Money and then every week you guys get to because

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<v Speaker 1>we had such a good time, we do like me

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<v Speaker 1>and Mandy did like a weekly powow to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the challenge. And so if you go to l RC

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<v Speaker 1>credit dot com, it's totally free, it's awesome, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of Magnified Money like resources and stuff in there.

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<v Speaker 1>So l RC Credit for Literature Challenge dot com And

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to raise your credit score without having

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<v Speaker 1>to pay anybody to help you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's time for Windesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it Wednesday. I did that last week.

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<v Speaker 2>I did, right, you did. But it's still good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's still good Wednesday. Yeah, but I'm bump chain.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be here all night, all right, So when do

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<v Speaker 1>you go first? Because I'm still thinking about my winning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I rewatched Hidden Figures over the weekend because

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<v Speaker 2>it's just becoming it's becoming my favorite feel good movie.

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<v Speaker 2>But I wanted to give a special special shout out

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<v Speaker 2>because Catherine Johnson, who was portrayed by, of course, to

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<v Speaker 2>Roji p Henson in the movie NASA. Oh, I'm pulling

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<v Speaker 2>up the headline now, NASA decided to honor her and

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<v Speaker 2>gave her a dedicate, dedicated a new research facility to

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<v Speaker 2>her after decades of her being a quote unquote hidden figure.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you haven't seen Hidden Figures, you must. You

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<v Speaker 2>must go out and see it right now. It's such

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<v Speaker 2>a good movie. But to Catherine Johnson, who's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how old is she not like a hundred

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<v Speaker 2>or something, just finally getting her dues, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, my win is just brown women because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like right now we're really I mean not that

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't been slaying, but I feel like the all

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<v Speaker 1>the starting to you know, starting to realize, like from

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<v Speaker 1>Rihanna and Fancy Beauty from like you said, hidden Figures

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<v Speaker 1>from like A Girl's Trip. I just feel like there's

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<v Speaker 1>this uptick and trend in like brown girl dopeness that

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<v Speaker 1>we knew, like in our brown girl community. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel as the world is like, hold up, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, we've we've been lit. What we've been lit?

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<v Speaker 1>You just now notice it best kept secret? Yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like, you know that it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it was it Forbes that had that article

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<v Speaker 1>that said the fastest growing group that is that are

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<v Speaker 1>starting businesses, it's black women. And so browness overall is

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<v Speaker 1>just really rocking out. And I just, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>want to give a shout out to my other brown

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<v Speaker 1>sisters out here in this struggle, just trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>cute and fly and maintain life. And we see you

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<v Speaker 1>and and we just enjoy you because we know that

0:56:52.200 --> 0:56:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you make up the majority of our audience. Although we

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<v Speaker 1>love you all, you know, just a little shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to the brown Brown ambition sistars.

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<v Speaker 2>To piggyback, though I feel like it's not just it's

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<v Speaker 2>not just it's it's brown women, but it's also brown

0:57:06.360 --> 0:57:10.080
<v Speaker 2>women supporting brown women. It's like a lot of there's

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<v Speaker 2>just real sense of community and like holding people up

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<v Speaker 2>and letting them shine and shining lights and other people

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just it. It goes against every stereotype out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think of how women interact with one another, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>even at I don't know, I just I just feel it.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the women in my life, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the older I get, become even more important and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>shout out to women helping women. I love that gift

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<v Speaker 2>of like have you seen it with that? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm not even describe it. You know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the women lifting each other up and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so dope. It's like a cartoon. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that gift. I feel like, now you have

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<v Speaker 1>to find an input inside the home. So yeah, now

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<v Speaker 1>it's time to say goodbye to all our family. Bro

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<v Speaker 1>o wn ambitchun. That was good.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I know what the reference is what Nicky

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<v Speaker 2>Girls Club. You told me that one time. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know what it was. Oh yeah, it was the whole thing. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>I know the education of Mandy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a miseducation of Bandy