1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,119 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Saturday's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: and you get to get your chores done finally, because 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: the back to back classic is here. Yeah, your second dates. 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: If we didn't post second dates, there would be so 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 2: many dirty houses out there, there really would be. 6 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And what do you see on the comment 7 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: bord alexis you know? 8 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 3: I think there'd also be a lot of restless people 9 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: if we didn't post either, because Princess said, is it 10 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: bad that this podcast is the only thing in the 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 3: whole world that helps me go to sleep? 12 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: Isn't it wild that people find our voices soothing? 13 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 2: I know we're almost white noise. Yeah, but we're almost 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 2: white noise. 15 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Guys. Yeah, all right, you're back to back classic sirt 16 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: right now. 17 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,919 Speaker 4: If you're a single lady and you're looking to make 18 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 4: the first move and approach a guy at a bar, wow, 19 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 4: what is the right play you drink? 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, make eye contact, say hi. 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 4: And then you could do what Brooke does, open up 22 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 4: her purse and say, hey, I got some free jerky 23 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 4: I bought off a ranger in the street. One sheare stick. 24 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: And she's like everybody knows jerky stands on the side 25 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: of the highway are the best are? 26 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 4: Yes, it has a surprisingly high success rate. Or you 27 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 4: can do it. One of our listeners did when she 28 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 4: saw a cute guy, and even though her move was 29 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 4: a little unorthodox, apparently it worked. You're gonna hear it 30 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 4: in your second date update right after this second date 31 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 4: updated for a date. Would you rather be silently ghosted 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 4: or blatantly canceled on? 33 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: Yikes? I at least you would know if you're blatantly 34 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: canceled on. 35 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I wondering I can make up my own excuse, 36 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 2: like I'm too perfect. 37 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I mean. 38 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 4: You when you're ghosted, there's still that like glimmer of 39 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 4: hope that maybe they got the wrong bar or maybe 40 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 4: they got. 41 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: A rest on their phone broke. 42 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, because they fell down a man hole and they 43 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 4: can't get out. You meant a story for yourself there 44 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 4: that makes you feel good. But today one of our listeners, Jillian, 45 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 4: thought she had a second date locked down until she 46 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 4: got one very strange last minute text calling it off, 47 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 4: and now she's really confused and needs our help. Jillian, 48 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 4: Welcome to the show. 49 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 5: Hi, thank you. 50 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: My interest is so Pete. I don't want to know what 51 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: that text message says that someone wassed. 52 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, so let's start at the beginning of your story. 53 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 4: How did you meet this guy? What's his name? 54 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 5: He named Zach? 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, where did you and Zach meet? 56 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 6: So? 57 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 5: We met at a bar? 58 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: Oh in real life? 59 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 5: In real life? Yeah, I know, right. So it was 60 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 5: like last Friday night. I had been planning on staying in, 61 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 5: like not going out at all that night. 62 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: That's what it always happens, right, I know, right, which 63 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: means that you weren't looking your best. You're probably kind 64 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: of a mess. 65 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 4: But yes, okay, it's a little it's a little harsh. 66 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: No, I don't mean that in a mean way. 67 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 4: I was looking cute, Okay. 68 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 69 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 5: Then I had this like feeling after I got home 70 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 5: from work where I was like, no, you know what, 71 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 5: I actually don't want to have a cozy night and 72 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 5: I want to go do something. 73 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 2: I always have the feeling to go feeling to go 74 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 2: out so fun. 75 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: You're bringing the good energy. 76 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: Okay, so where do you go? 77 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: So? 78 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 5: I called my girlfriend. We go to a bar kind 79 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 5: of by my place, and we're just hanging out and 80 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 5: then I see this guy and I like, I don't 81 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 5: usually make the first move like ever, but I was 82 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 5: kind of like listening to their not listening to their conversation. 83 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 5: But I was at the bar trying to get a drink. 84 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say, but I was 85 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: kind of drunk, so. 86 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 4: I did it. 87 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 5: Right there. They were talking about the movie Wicked, oh, 88 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 5: and I had just seen it and their opinions were 89 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 5: like totally wrong. So I jumped in to tell him 90 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 5: why he was wrong, but also just like to flirt 91 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 5: with him. 92 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 2: And okay, we wrong off back, don't argue about a 93 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: man with Wicked either. 94 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: I just know that there was two guys arguing over 95 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 3: Wicked together. 96 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I already know why he's not 97 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 4: calling you back. 98 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, she was being playful. 99 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 5: Come on, yeah, if you like touch their arm and stuff, 100 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 5: then they love an argument. So anyway, we ended up 101 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 5: talking for a while. We went to another bar together, 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 5: just the two of us. Okay, yeah, well she was 103 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 5: kind of done. She was like, yeah, I came out 104 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 5: for you, so if you're good, like bye, And we 105 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 5: had plans for a second date. We were going to 106 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 5: go to this bar that has ski ball and I 107 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 5: was going to beat him at ski ball and. 108 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: Was gil, Oh my gosh, so you guys even talked 109 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: about where and when and all of it. 110 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, all of it. And so then shere's the crazy part. 111 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 5: That morning that we're supposed to go out, I get 112 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 5: a text from him that says, I'm onto you, dates 113 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 5: off on to you, on you, I'm on to you. 114 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, what does that mean? 115 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 116 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 5: I texted him back and I was like, what are 117 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 5: you talking about? And then he just didn't answer me. 118 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: Does he think that you're in a relationship or something. 119 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: That's the first thing that I think, Oh, yeah. 120 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 4: We should have asked, are you currently with somebody? 121 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 5: No? 122 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 4: No, okay. She's like, yeah, what's wrong with that? 123 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: And that's so strange too, because you don't have any 124 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: Like it's not like you can ask his friends. You 125 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: don't know anybody that he knows, you. 126 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 7: Know, right exactly? 127 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: If you google search your name, is there like a 128 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: weird news article that comes up of somebody who with 129 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: a shared name. 130 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 5: I don't even know if he knows my last name 131 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 5: to google me at all. But also like I don't 132 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 5: think anything crazy comes up. 133 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 4: She's like, my last name is Dahmer. 134 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 8: I don't know. 135 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 4: I swear I paid to have all those articles delete it. Yeah. 136 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 5: My best guess is that maybe one of his friends 137 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 5: like thought I was someone else if they recognized me, 138 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 5: you know, like dark bar. I don't know. 139 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know. 140 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: What that's happened to my friend group before. Really, oh 141 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 2: she was some other girl, bro, never mind, it could be. 142 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: That, like a girl from the dating apps. 143 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 144 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just so bold I know, and that 145 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: you don't follow it up, Like, if you're gonna be accused, 146 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: just tell me what I've been accused of. 147 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just so frustrating, Like I've texted him a 148 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 5: few times being like, hey, I don't even need to 149 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 5: go out again, I just want to know what are 150 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 5: you upset about? And I don't get anything. 151 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,559 Speaker 1: Well, and you need to know for future dates because 152 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: what if other men say the same thing and you 153 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: still don't know what you know? 154 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 3: You're I how you're purposely using him for something? 155 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: Just tell us now. 156 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,239 Speaker 4: At least mass texting him makes you sound super laid 157 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 4: back and chill, so he has nothing to complain about 158 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 4: when we call him now and try and ask him 159 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 4: why he didn't follow through with the second date. That 160 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 4: you had already arranged with him. 161 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: Will we ask him what the hell that text message meant. 162 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 4: To really pile on everything is done wrong. 163 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: In his life and his opinions a wicked suck. 164 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 4: Yeah good, we will beat him into a pulp. Your 165 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 4: second date update coming up right after this second date update. 166 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 4: I can't believe we never caught the nursery rhyme connection 167 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 4: because our listener, Jillian, I met a guy named Zach 168 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 4: Zack and Jill. Zach and Jill. You mean Jack and Jill, 169 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 4: but it sounds it sounds pretty close. 170 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: Okay, someone someone fluggs preschool in this room and it 171 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: was definitely not Zach rhyme Jill. 172 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 4: Okay, sorry for trying to draw a connection. I thought 173 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 4: it was a cute story, right. They met at a bar. 174 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 4: They were drinking pails of white claw together. 175 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: How the n rhyme goes? 176 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, Jill said great to another date, and Zach canceled 177 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 4: last second. Okay, that's where we are today. Like a 178 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 4: total jerk, Zach reached out to Jillian the day of 179 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 4: their second meetup and said, I'm on to you. Date canceled, 180 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 4: So Zach just. 181 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 2: Is fetching a pail of water right now. 182 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: He's rolling down a hill. I think I thought it 183 00:07:59,920 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: was white claw. 184 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 4: I got the nursery right now. The whole thing is confusing, 185 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 4: especially to Jillian, because there was no explanation for what 186 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 4: he meant by I'm on to you. 187 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: It's so accusatory. I mean, the thing is is that 188 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: although Jeff you're calling him a jerk, he thinks she's 189 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: a jerk, is what it sounds like. 190 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, but we don't know why exactly. 191 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 8: I'm on to you. 192 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 2: We'll raise an eyebrow to anybody. Yeah, walk up to 193 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: me and say that right now, I'd be. 194 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: Like, what you feel guilty? 195 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? No matter what am I doing? Yeah. 196 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: My guess is that he's going to be coming in 197 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: hot like a text like that. It's not going to 198 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: be I just thought, what if it's his tagline? 199 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 2: What if he answers it like I'm onto you Hello? 200 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 4: What if that's his thing? Yeah, you probably don't want 201 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 4: to end up with him. Yeah, probably not dial his number. 202 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 4: See how he answers the phone if he picks up, 203 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 4: and hopefully get an explanation. Are you ready? I'm ready? 204 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 4: So that was a question just to myself. 205 00:08:55,200 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 2: I'm ready when he's talking to jeff Okay. 206 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Zach? 207 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 6: Yes, who's speaking? 208 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: Interesting? Hey Zach, welcome to the show. 209 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 6: Uh what is this hello? 210 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 4: Sorry? Sorry for that. She was so flirty with that question. 211 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 4: This is there a radio show. We're called Brooke and 212 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning. This is a segment called second 213 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: Date Update. Okay, you could help us because we have 214 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 4: a listener who you met up with the other night. 215 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 4: Her name is Jillian. 216 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: You guys met at a bar. 217 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 6: Oh my god, are you joking? 218 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: No? 219 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 6: No, yeah, she keeps texting me. 220 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 4: Yes, right, I can hear your confused. Can I tell 221 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 4: you what we know from what Gillian told us? Because 222 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 4: she said, you guys met at the bar the other night, 223 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 4: you hit it off, ended up separating from your friend 224 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 4: group to just hang out one on one, and then 225 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 4: arranged a second meetup. Had it all planned out until 226 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 4: the day of she got this cryptic text from you 227 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 4: saying I'm on to you. 228 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 8: Yeah. 229 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 6: Wow, Okay, so she'd told you a lot. 230 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean, honestly, she has no idea what 231 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: you're referring to in that text message. 232 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 6: Well, I can explain that. 233 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 4: That would be great because she just does not understand 234 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 4: what happened if she did something wrong. We're just trying 235 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 4: to give her some clarity. We asked, are you in 236 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 4: the middle of some awful dealings? 237 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: And she's like, I am not in the midst of evil, 238 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 2: so you know what I mean. 239 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 4: So she has no idea what you're talking about. 240 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 6: Okay. So the day of the next date, I went 241 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 6: back to the bar that we had met at and 242 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 6: the spartender recognizes me and he says, hey, are you 243 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 6: hanging out with Jillian again? Anytime soon? 244 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: Oh? They know her at the bar. Oh, like she's 245 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: a regular or something. 246 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 6: Okay, Well that's what I was thinking. So I say, 247 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 6: what's going on? How do you know her? And he 248 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 6: says that she calls the bar like every night, asking 249 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 6: if there's any cute guys there. 250 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: Oh really, this world just opened up? Are you serious? 251 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: She calls it ahead of time just to see if 252 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: it's worth her time to go down there. 253 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, not just that place. Apparently she does that all 254 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 6: over town. 255 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: How do you know all over town? 256 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 6: Yes, that's what the bartender said. 257 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: So I don't know, are you upset that you were 258 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: the cute guy that the bartender reported on a compliment or. 259 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 4: The fact that she calls the bar every single night 260 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 4: going out. 261 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: There, Like she doesn't go to the bar every night. 262 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 4: Though, unless there's cute guys radio enough. 263 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 2: That's why she decided to go from I'm staying home, 264 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: I'm going out. 265 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: Yes, there's worth you're going out for. 266 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 4: That's a compliment. 267 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 6: She said that to you. 268 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 4: She mentioned that the night that she was going out 269 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 4: and met you, she was considering staying in, but something 270 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 4: changed her mind and she wanted to go out that 271 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 4: night instead. Okay, so it turns out that something was 272 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 4: a phone call to the bar to ask if there's 273 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 4: any good looking guys there, but we didn't know that. 274 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 1: Why does that make you so upset? 275 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 6: Well, I'm just another cute guy at a bar to her. 276 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 6: And it's just kind of shady that she is talking 277 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 6: how spontaneous this whole thing was, when really she kind 278 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 6: of planned the whole. 279 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: It feels like you were deceived a little bit. 280 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 2: It's nice to be the cute guy, but now it's 281 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: like you don't feel special because every night there's another 282 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 2: cute guy, and I just. 283 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 3: Feel like it's weird someone pretends they just met you 284 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 3: randomly when they didn't. 285 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: Acting a bit, Yeah, yeah, exactly. 286 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 6: I didn't feel special at all and pretty weird to me. 287 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: Now you should feel specially you're on a radio show. 288 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, and she calls us every day though she's before ever. 289 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 4: Actually she specifically reached out so that we could get 290 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 4: in contact with you to find this information out. That 291 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 4: should mean something, right, I guess. 292 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 6: I mean, now you have your reason though. 293 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 4: Okay, well, thank you for that, and we're thankful. But 294 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 4: who I think is more appreciative is actually Jillian, who 295 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 4: is on the other line listening to this conversation. It 296 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 4: does soe like she's like always on the other line. 297 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: This is the only one actually making phone calls these days. 298 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 4: Jillian, are you there? 299 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 5: I'm here, And I have quite a bit to say 300 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 5: in response to that. 301 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No. 302 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 5: I'm not sorry. What did I get wrong? 303 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 4: Listen? 304 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 5: First of all, I do not call them every night, 305 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 5: like Friday and Saturday nights, okay, okay, And like, listen, 306 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 5: if I'm at home, I don't want to have to 307 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 5: like put on pants and like make up, and you know, 308 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 5: like just to go to a bar when there's nobody there, 309 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 5: and so I'll call be like hey, is it popping? 310 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 5: There are a lot of guys there, what's going on? 311 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 5: But I was not lying you guys when I said 312 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 5: I almost never approach anybody. 313 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 4: Oh she did mention that to us, Zach. 314 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, are you still there, Zach? 315 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not sure what to believe anymore. I mean 316 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 6: she's saying one thing to you guys, the bartender says 317 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 6: a different thing than me. So I don't know. This 318 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 6: is all kind of shady, dude. 319 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: It would have been such a good pickup line to 320 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: walk up to him and be like, hey, I called 321 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: ahead of time and they said you were here, you're. 322 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 4: Going to go for that? 323 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 5: Well it would Yeah, you're right, Maybe I'll just say it. 324 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I asked for hot guys and they delivered you. 325 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: So tell us how that goes. 326 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 4: Not as romantic to a guy's year as you probably think. 327 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: I don't think anyone's will give he a romance at 328 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: a bar, Jeff, they're just looking to talk. 329 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 4: More clearly, someone who is looking for romance is Zach, 330 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 4: and he feels like he's not special, that he's just 331 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 4: one of many guys. You would have taken any cute 332 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 4: guy at the bar that night, and he just happened 333 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 4: to be there. 334 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 5: That is absolutely not accurate. I can see why he 335 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 5: would think that, but it's it's so true. 336 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 4: And we do appreciate you coming forward, Jillian and actually 337 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 4: admitting that you did this, because I think a a 338 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 4: lot of people would deny it or try to like 339 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 4: be like, no, I've never done that. You told us 340 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 4: you were going to stay in, but you had a 341 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 4: special feeling, and the special feeling was a call to 342 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 4: the bar asking them to scope out hot guys for you. 343 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Which Alexis is definitely picking up. 344 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 3: I think every bar should just start posting who's there online. 345 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 9: That you should feel special. 346 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 5: The bartender said, there were lots of cute guys, but 347 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 5: you were the cutest, and you're the one I talked to. 348 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: Oh look at that stand out. You're a standout cutie, Zach. 349 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 6: It's the strange to pretend like it wasn't all set up. 350 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 4: Well, now that all the information is out there, can 351 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 4: we book ski ball again and actually follow through with 352 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 4: the second date that you had already planned for each other? 353 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: For this misunderstanding, I mean, if anything, Zach, it shows 354 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: what a on top organized woman she is. 355 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, she definitely. 356 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: Got her her life organized. 357 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 4: And if you guys start dating. She'll call the bar 358 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 4: make sure it's all ugly guys. 359 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 9: The next time she goes. 360 00:15:55,560 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: That's a good point since I met you. 361 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, I mean I'm willing to try again. 362 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: Okay. Really wow, that was so heartfelt, Zach. I really 363 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 4: buy it. 364 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 7: I know. 365 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 4: I wonder if this is like setting her up to 366 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 4: get stood up now, because if you actually agree to 367 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 4: meet up with her, we will pay for the date. 368 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 6: Yeah. 369 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: Okay, again, it just feels. 370 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 4: Like very like you're brushing us off in the room. 371 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 4: Feel something weird. 372 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 3: I didn't expect big reactions from men anymore, Zach. 373 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 4: Be honest. It doesn't sound like you're actually gonna call her, 374 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 4: are you? 375 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 376 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 6: Probably not. 377 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 4: Okay. I mean, look now they're both ghosting each other 378 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 4: for each other. Yeah yeah, two ghosts make a right. 379 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: It's not it. 380 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 4: I think it is Zach and Jill. That's how the 381 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 4: fairy tale ends, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. I swear, 382 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 4: sometimes you can just tell when somebody isn't fully into 383 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 4: it and they're just saying yes to go along with 384 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 4: pure pressure. 385 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 1: I wanted him to be in to it, yeah, but 386 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 1: there was something in his voice. 387 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, yeah, sure. 388 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: I mean, he was still the hottest guy in the bar. 389 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he doesn't carry has options. 390 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: I think that. 391 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 4: But if someone's not into it, you don't want to 392 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 4: go along with it. Honey, will you marry me? Fine? 393 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 6: No. 394 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 4: The great thing about it is both of them were 395 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 4: actually honest with us. In the end, she admitted that 396 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 4: she calls ahead to bars to scope cute guys out. 397 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 4: He admits he'll say yes to dates when he doesn't 398 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 4: really care to actually meet up with him. 399 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 3: So many questions for the bars telling her type? 400 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: Does she give photos? Know more about it? 401 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 4: What does she get out of it? She get tipped more. 402 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: It's a guy. It was a guy bar, it still is. 403 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: I have many quesh. He just gets somebody else to 404 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: come to the bar. Bars are always looking for more women. 405 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 4: All the bartenders out there. Make sure you text into 406 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 4: seven eighty five nine two when you have cute eyes 407 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 4: and there's so a Lexus knows where to and when 408 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 4: to go, even if it's nine am. Yes, she'll be. 409 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: Mean to you. 410 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 4: If you need help with your dating life, email the show. 411 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and 412 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 4: go check out all of our second dates. Up where 413 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 4: our podcasts are at Brooke and Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey 414 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 4: in the morning. Hey, kids, today we're all going to 415 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 4: learn the difference between a share and an overshare. Okay, 416 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 4: So I'm going to say something and you tell me 417 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 4: if you think it's a share or an overshare. 418 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 8: Okay. 419 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 4: So I started doing yoga last week and my body 420 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 4: feels great. 421 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 1: Hey, that's a share. 422 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 5: Share. 423 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 4: That's right, that's a share everyone all right, now, how 424 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:52,360 Speaker 4: about this? Now that I'm in yoga, I am so flexible. 425 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 4: I can clean out my ear using my pinky toe. 426 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 4: That would be uh. 427 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: I don't still like it as a share that. 428 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 4: Sent over share, but we don't cheer over shares. We 429 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 4: don't want to do that. If only our listener had 430 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 4: had that lesson before she texted a guy after their date, 431 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 4: we wouldn't even be in this position. But we're gonna 432 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 4: hear about the text that probably said a little bit 433 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 4: too much in your second date update right after this 434 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 4: second date updated. You know, researchers say what you text 435 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 4: a person after a good first date can actually be 436 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 4: more important than the date itself. 437 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean you do look forward to it. 438 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 1: That is not helpful for people who really overthink that text. 439 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 4: Jeff, I'm just saying, Look, for example, if you were 440 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,719 Speaker 4: to text, hey, I had a great time with you tonight. 441 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,199 Speaker 4: Also I accidentally took your fork from the dinner for 442 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 4: a DNA test, that's not good. You might not go 443 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 4: over quite so well. 444 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: So you just leave it as I took your fork and. 445 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 4: You I just said a great night. Just try not 446 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 4: to overthink it. That's all I'm saying. Because one of 447 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 4: our listeners, Carly, says she had a text exchange with 448 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 4: a guy after they went out and it could be 449 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 4: the reason she's not getting called back. Oh now, we're 450 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 4: gonna get to that and talk about the text in 451 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 4: a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to the show. 452 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 7: Hey, everybody, But first Carly, we want to hear the 453 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 7: good part. 454 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and I don't ask this a lot, but 455 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 4: how important is it for you, Carly to get a 456 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 4: second date here with this guy? Is it a like 457 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 4: a lot like yay nay or hay neighbor type of situation? 458 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 1: It's a neighbor, Yeah, that's the media. 459 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 4: Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor? Where are 460 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 4: you on the important scale. 461 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 7: No, No, it's a yay obviously. 462 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,880 Speaker 1: Okay, why would you not do one through ten? 463 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 4: No, that's not as fun as yay. We only do 464 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 4: fun stuff on our show. Okay, So this this guy 465 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 4: is a yay. Tell us about him and how you 466 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 4: two met. 467 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 7: His name is Blaine, and I was at Top Golf 468 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 7: with some friends there for then your party. 469 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: That's great and a great place to meet people. 470 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I never want someone to see me there. 471 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 4: Nobody trying to help you. 472 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys love to show you. I reach around 473 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 1: and just show you how to do it. 474 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 4: Is that what Blaine did for you? 475 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 7: So, like he was there with a group of guys 476 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,360 Speaker 7: and he were in like the next all over. So 477 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 7: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and 478 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 7: like we hit it off. 479 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 4: Cute hit it off. 480 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 8: Well, Charlie, I knew you would fun. 481 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: Okay, I would, but I don't know. 482 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 4: I'm sorry about that. Yeah I already said that joke. 483 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 4: But that's okay, Cary, keep going. So you guys hit 484 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 4: it off? How? 485 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 486 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 7: How he asked me out I thought was kind of 487 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 7: cute because he gave me his number on a golf ball. 488 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 7: He wrote it on there with a sharpie. 489 00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 6: That's cool. 490 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 4: Actually, is it bout that? 491 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: I'm already thinking if you got married, it would have 492 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 1: to all be golf seeing. 493 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 4: Now, oh yeah, this guy isn't even calling her back. Now, 494 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 4: let's not start making the wedding plans and choosing the 495 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 4: plates and everything. 496 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 2: That's true. 497 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 4: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end 498 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 4: up hanging out? 499 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, we said we were going to hang out next Friday, 500 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 7: so we kind of planned that even before we left. 501 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 7: But then we were texting and I was like, I 502 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,199 Speaker 7: wanted to see him sooner, so I moved it up 503 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 7: to Tuesday. 504 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 1: Also, don't waste a Friday night. 505 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 3: That's a good call. 506 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: It's a whole chapel roone song. Waste a weekend. I 507 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: got a guy. 508 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 4: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, okay, so you moved 509 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 4: it up to Tuesday. How did that go? 510 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 5: Yeah? 511 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 7: It was a really good date. I got to know 512 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 7: a lot about him, like where he grew up and 513 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 7: like what's important in his life. And you know he's 514 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 7: into sports and animals. I love animals. 515 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry, were you guys just 516 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: at dinner? Is that what you did on Tuesday. 517 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 7: Yeah, like dinner, drinks. 518 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 4: Okay, cool, way to downplay it, Brooke. 519 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: No, I'm just trying to set the scene. 520 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 4: That's all you did. You just did dinner. 521 00:22:58,800 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 7: Okay. 522 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 4: How'd you feel after that hangout? 523 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 7: I mean I felt great, Like he seems like a 524 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 7: really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing. 525 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 1: How was the kids? 526 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was really good. 527 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 1: She's smiling. 528 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 5: Okay. 529 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 4: You did say the one thing that you're worried about 530 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 4: that could have stopped you from hanging out again was 531 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 4: your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into that 532 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 4: or just read it? 533 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 1: Say just read it. 534 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 4: I don't know how long it is. Just give us 535 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 4: the vibe I think. 536 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. 537 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 7: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will 538 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,199 Speaker 7: ask you about to some expensive place and you're just 539 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 7: not in a place to do that. So I just 540 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 7: wanted to be honest and let him know where I 541 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 7: was at. I did tell him that I was a 542 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 7: little short and I rent this month. 543 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,479 Speaker 1: Oh okay, how did you jump from? That was a 544 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: fun night. 545 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 2: I thought you were just going to say, hey, our 546 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 2: next day, let's not do top golf, maybe something a 547 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: little lighter. 548 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: You know, Wait, didn't he pay for dinner. 549 00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 7: Yeah, he paid for dinner. 550 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 4: Okay, she's just sharing. I think she's trying to like 551 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 4: be honest and be like I'm in a vulnerable place. 552 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: You really get that. I'm just curious how you brought 553 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: it up, Like is it seems so out of the blue. 554 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we were just like talk about date 555 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 7: and then we were talking about like, well, what's you're 556 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 7: week like and what are you doing? And I was 557 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,719 Speaker 7: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so 558 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 7: like it was just sharing like general stuff. 559 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 4: Well, it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when 560 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 4: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all 561 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 4: the guys that you hung out with when your rent do? 562 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: I think, like, I think it's good to be vulnerable 563 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: with people. But I'm wondering if he read it as 564 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: basically an ask for money. 565 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 4: That's how I read it. How did he react to 566 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 4: that text? 567 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 7: He was like really sweet and he did gend me 568 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 7: a little bit of money. I mean like, oh really, 569 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 7: that sounds like he's an amazing guy who cares. I 570 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 7: mean we've been on one date. I wasn't expecting him 571 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 7: to do anything. 572 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 4: He wow, are you taking notes over there? 573 00:24:55,840 --> 00:25:00,120 Speaker 1: But he set you money and then stop talking to you, 574 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: because that's kind of strange. 575 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, what happened after that? 576 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, and then we were supposed to go out again, 577 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 7: and now he's just not responding. 578 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 4: Huh. 579 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: Do you think it regrets the money? He said, like, 580 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: maybe he sent it when he was feeling bad, and 581 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 1: then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man, 582 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: that's kind of a week. 583 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 7: I was no money for the date, and then he 584 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 7: ran out. 585 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 2: I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you 586 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: found a couple hundred box and then they kind of 587 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 2: insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may 588 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 2: be the base of the whole relationship back out right now. 589 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 4: An exchange of money or goods can change the vibe 590 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 4: between two people. 591 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 1: You would know, Jeff, Yeah, I'm. 592 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 4: Very cold after the exchange. I will tell you that, 593 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 4: even though I'm satisfied in the moment. And then let's 594 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 4: just not get into this hand. We need to call 595 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 4: Blaine and figure out where his head is at. That's 596 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 4: the most important. We're gonna come back and do that 597 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 4: with your second date update. Right after this second date update, 598 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,159 Speaker 4: we're in the middle of a second date update with 599 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 4: one of our listeners, Carly, am I saying that right? Carly? 600 00:25:59,080 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? 601 00:25:59,320 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 7: Yeah? 602 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: Do you want to emphasize the why more carle exotic? 603 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:08,239 Speaker 4: It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all 604 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 4: still recovering from some of the information that we learned 605 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 4: about her date with Blaine. 606 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: She shared a lot. 607 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 4: She did all the highlights real quick. They had a 608 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 4: great meet up at Top Golf It's where they met, 609 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 4: had a great get to know you date sessh followed 610 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 4: by kind of an awkward text exchange that involved him 611 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 4: sending our listener Carly money because she admitted she was 612 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 4: short on rent. 613 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: Ah, which is really kind of him. 614 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 4: It is, but it does change the vibe. I mean 615 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 4: me just saying it, Yeah, it does. It feels awkward 616 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 4: to say they exchanged money afterwards, but he did send 617 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 4: her some and then after that did not follow through 618 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 4: with their plans for another date. 619 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: I have a question now, usually don't pipe up this early, 620 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 2: but was it alone? 621 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 4: Like, was this something that you was supposed to pay 622 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:53,360 Speaker 4: you back? 623 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,719 Speaker 2: Or he just gave you the money expecting nothing. 624 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone. 625 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 4: I guess if he's not calling you back. 626 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: Okay, he's the worst loan shark. 627 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, never mind. 628 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe it's just because she didn't send 629 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: him a formal thank you. 630 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 4: Oh I feel like Carl, you must have said thank you? 631 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 9: Right? 632 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,119 Speaker 7: Oh yeah of course. 633 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 4: Okay, So what's running through your head? 634 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 2: Then? 635 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 4: What what's going through your mind before we reach out 636 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 4: to him? 637 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,160 Speaker 7: I don't know, I mean, like it might have made 638 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 7: it weird, but I really like I I don't know. 639 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know. But you also made your rent, right, 640 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: so that's good news. Yeah? 641 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 7: I really like him. So, I mean, like, I does 642 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 7: they really bummed if that's the reason, you know. 643 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, if a guy asked me to 644 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: help pay his rent, I probably wouldn't call him. 645 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 4: Back, didn't husband, Michael, do not ask to ship in 646 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 4: towards This is on you this time. Let's just reach out. 647 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 4: We'll see if Blaine picks up, and hopefully he has 648 00:27:52,480 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 4: an explanation for us. But here we go. Hello, Hey, 649 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 4: is this Blaine? 650 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just Blaine. 651 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 4: Hey man, what's up? It's Jeff. 652 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: Just on a first name basis, Jeff. 653 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 4: I thought he would know. 654 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 1: What has anybody ever known? 655 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 9: Yeah? 656 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,360 Speaker 4: Thanks a lot, I'm sorry. 657 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 9: Who are you? Guys? 658 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook 659 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:27,880 Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning on the show. Yeah, it's 660 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 4: a good thing. We're calling you for a really fun, 661 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,479 Speaker 4: exciting reason because we're doing this segment called second Date Update, 662 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 4: and we got an email from one of our listeners 663 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 4: named Carly, who says she's very disappointed that you two 664 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 4: aren't seeing each other and hanging out again. 665 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 9: Yes, she really liked to Yeah, okay, okay, okay. 666 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: Does that make you Does that make you curious? 667 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 5: You have no, not really. 668 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 9: I mean she's cute, she's fun. I just not interested 669 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 9: in seeing her again. I mean, what else do you 670 00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 9: want me to tell you? 671 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: I get it cute. 672 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 4: A million of those out there, But look, it would 673 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 4: be helpful if we get a little bit of information 674 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 4: for maybe there's more reasoning why. I don't know if 675 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 4: it's too much to delve into this, but I did 676 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 4: hear that the two of you guys kissed at the 677 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 4: end of your date. And usually when that happens and 678 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 4: the lady says she wants to go out again, that's 679 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 4: a pretty exciting thing for a guy. 680 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, I guess at the end of the date. 681 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her, like. 682 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 9: Well, okay, after our date we started texting each other, 683 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 9: she said thanks, I had a good time, and then 684 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 9: we started making plans that She mentioned that she was 685 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 9: going to be short on rent next month. 686 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 4: Whoa, that's that's new information to us. 687 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: We're going to say that. 688 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 3: Okay, any chance you sent her money? 689 00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 9: So I actually did? 690 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: Wo oh, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what 691 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: a generous move of you. 692 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 9: Wow. 693 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 1: So wait, I have a question. Why did you send 694 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: her money? 695 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 9: I felt bad. I mean like I've been short too, 696 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 9: and I just felt like I can help her out. 697 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 9: I'm in a decent spot, all right. I asked her 698 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 9: what her VENMO was and I kicked her two hundred 699 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 9: dollars right away. 700 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 4: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy. 701 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 4: So it's clearly coming to. 702 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her, 703 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: you're not making her feel. 704 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 4: Bad, Like yeah, right, Did that make it weird though, 705 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 4: to give her the two hundred dollars? 706 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 7: Not exactly. 707 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 9: I mean, I'm what I was weird. She was like, 708 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 9: she was very appreciative. She was like, thank you, thank you, 709 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 9: you know, yeah, but then she says, I'm still eight 710 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 9: hundred short. 711 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, that like maybe maybe she was just telling 712 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: you that so that so that you. 713 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 4: Could run her finances. 714 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, before how she already said she couldn't pay her 715 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 3: I don't know, just talking. 716 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 4: And she should follow up with that. 717 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: What was going on? 718 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 4: What was going on with your in your mind? 719 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 9: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a 720 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 9: chick I just met, you know, And I'm thinking about, like, 721 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 9: that's just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole 722 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 9: bad vibe. 723 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's really short on rent. 724 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 725 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, I started thinking, like, does she do this to 726 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 9: other guys? 727 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or 728 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: anything when we talked to her. 729 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, most girls don't at first brook. 730 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: Oh, I think it's pretty honest. 731 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 9: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want 732 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 9: to be involved with. 733 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 4: I think before you make any final decisions on that, 734 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 4: I feel like maybe you need to hear from Carly herself, 735 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 4: because she has been listening on the other line wanting 736 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 4: to talk to you. Hey, yeah, she's waiting for the 737 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 4: other eight hundred dollars. 738 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 1: So she didn't call for that. 739 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kidding. We didn't even know about the eight 740 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 4: hundred dollars deficit. So let's just let Carly talk to 741 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 4: you here. Carl, are you there? Hey? 742 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're a feeling like it's 743 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 7: a big deal to ask a question like I would 744 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 7: you know, I didn't even ask. Its just informing, like 745 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 7: I just told him I was still short. 746 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 8: Are you wait? 747 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: You're putting it out as a vibe, like as an insinuation. 748 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,239 Speaker 9: Like why else would you tell me that after I 749 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 9: just gave you two hundred dollars you know, like why why? 750 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 9: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's 751 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 9: this thing about? Like now I'm going to have. 752 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 6: To go to work? 753 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: What is that what you said? 754 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 8: Carl? 755 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: You're not working? 756 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 9: She actually said to me, I still got the text. 757 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 9: I can read it to you. 758 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's what I wanted to please help, That's what 759 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: I asked her to do. 760 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 4: What did she say? 761 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 5: Well? 762 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 9: No, it says right here. She's like, look, I need 763 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 9: eight hundred dollars more from you or I'm going to 764 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 9: have to go to work. 765 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's way different. 766 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: Why I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with 767 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: this guy. 768 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 7: You have to go to work, I mean, like nobody does. 769 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 7: I don't want to. 770 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 771 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 9: This makes me question everything, like how did she even 772 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 9: get tech top call? You know, did she pay for 773 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,479 Speaker 9: it or somebody else pay for it? 774 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 4: You know you don't have to pay for time golf, 775 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 4: Yes you do. If you're at a birthday party, you don't, Jeff. 776 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you. It's 777 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: the same thing when we go to any group things. 778 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 1: And I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay, believe. 779 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 4: Before they bring the bill. There's nothing that should I'm 780 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 4: just saying, just like everything's don't pay. 781 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: Do not back this up, Curly. This is not good 782 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: for you. 783 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 3: I just don't even you want rent going like a 784 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 3: sugar daddy site dating. 785 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't got to trick people. 786 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 7: You can just be open to yeah. 787 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 4: Or just get a job. 788 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: Why it's just the universal rule of life. 789 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 4: Why even being mean, She went to work, she got 790 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 4: the money, she paid her rent. 791 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 1: She said until next month. 792 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 4: The person that we really need to focus on here 793 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 4: is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming 794 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 4: through for Carly in her time of need and making 795 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 4: her work auditioned out the eight hundred dollars. 796 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 9: Right, yeah, I feel so horrible. 797 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 4: Okay, really wanted to hear because he's no. 798 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 9: I'm not responsible for someone. 799 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 4: Well here's what. You won't have to be responsible for 800 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 4: paying for your next date with Carly because we will 801 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 4: cover that bill for you. 802 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: Is that what you call the beginning, Carly? We're going 803 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: to cover the check. 804 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 4: No, actually, wait, that made me think of something. Carly. 805 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 4: Did you move up the date a few days earlier 806 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 4: so you could ask him for your rent before it 807 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 4: was due. 808 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:18,280 Speaker 1: Friday? 809 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 4: Is that why you changed the day? 810 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 7: Remember that it's a coincidence. 811 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 1: Come on, No, wait, Tuesday is way too specific to 812 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: be a coincidence. 813 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 4: The first of the month, Carly. I am equally parts 814 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 4: disappointed and impressed by you. 815 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 7: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this, 816 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 7: Like we just get on with the gift card thing. 817 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 4: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's 818 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 4: do what you said. Let's ask Blaine would you like 819 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 4: to go out with Carly one more time? On our time. 820 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 9: I'm not feeling it. No, next thing I know this 821 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,959 Speaker 9: is probably gonna be trying to sell me some. 822 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 4: Carly, Do you have some available though, because now at 823 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 4: the time it. 824 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 7: Sounds like no, I don't do crypto. 825 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 6: She. 826 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: Doesn't do any money. 827 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 5: She has Nobody Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 828 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 4: Man, I didn't know that working was optional. 829 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's not, jeff. 830 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 4: We've all been here dedicating her whole life. Yeah, I 831 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 4: didn't know I could do that. I really need to 832 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 4: look on to that. Hold on a second. Hey, Brooks, 833 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 4: I'm a little short on plane money this month. You 834 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 4: rent your clothes, so I'm sure you've got some extra cash. 835 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 4: Question mark. Okay, okay, I'll see how she responds to that. 836 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:42,359 Speaker 5: I don't know. 837 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 4: Hopefully looking at there it is. Look at that she said, yes, No, 838 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 4: I I'm not sending you picks for it. You know 839 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 4: what appropriate? Okay, Okay, No, I'm not brook Stop you're 840 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 4: gonna say you close stop it? 841 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 8: Okay, you know what? 842 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 4: Ready to go? Okay, I'm just gonna send her to 843 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 4: the link to our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey. 844 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 9: Either. 845 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 4: Now, I'm gonna send her the link and my photos 846 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 4: on there. Oh god, oh god, please do not talk 847 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 4: to me ever again. Thank you? All right, the show 848 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 4: is going to. 849 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 8: Be weird moving forward. 850 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 1: Don't said that to me. 851 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 4: There was something in there for you to extra brook 852 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 4: an't want to go check out our podcast where you 853 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 4: get yours at Brooke and Jeff Right. All of our 854 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 4: photos are up on there, and email the show if 855 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 4: you want help. We'll call that person who's not calling 856 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 4: you back.