1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy melancants and camera judge. Hi, guys, 2 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: welcome to to cheese in a pod from Las Vegas 3 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: at the Heart Radio Music Festival. Last night was a 4 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: little bit of a blur, but I am here and 5 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: I am so excited to be with a very special 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: co host, drew a, Sdora, our favorite from real housewives 7 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: of Atlanta, and then you guys loved her so much 8 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: we had to fly her into Vegas for her hot 9 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: takes on all things Beverly Hills. God, so you're all 10 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: caught up right like. I mean, look at the fact 11 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 1: I look like a mad scientist here with all of 12 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: my notes. It's like chicken scratch. My husband's like you 13 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: have an illness when he sees me like prepping for this. 14 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: It's the workstation. But all right, so let's start off. 15 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: I doing well. I also want to tease that at 16 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: the end of this we're gonna be bringing on our 17 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: husband's Ralph and Edwin we've got some we've got some 18 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: tough questions asked them. It's gonna get spicy. We're also 19 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: going to do a little um tequila tasting and wine tasting. 20 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: Of all, housewife beverages look okay. Oh well, maybe we will, 21 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 1: maybe we won't. Let's get through this recap and see 22 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: what happens Um all right. So we'll start off with 23 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: housewife headlines. Erica Jane dismissed from lawsuit over attorney fees 24 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: and this l a MAG article. Here a judge has 25 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: formerly dismissed Erica Jane as defendant and the lawsuit brought 26 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: by two attorneys against her, as well as her strange husband, 27 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: Tom Girardi and his former law firm, Girardi and keys, 28 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: in a dispute over attorneys millions and Gerardi keys never 29 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: gave their share to a sheldon and fan they were 30 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: suing over for nine thousand dollars l a Superior Court 31 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: Ruan signed a judgment in favor of Jane on Friday, 32 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: affirming his August twenty nine ruling removing her as a 33 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: defendant in the case. Listen, I've got to say first off, 34 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: the fact that the court is working with real housewives 35 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills episode drops on where and I knew that. Well, 36 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: look the president we had, he came from reality. So 37 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: things in America. I mean it's true, like the act, 38 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: that like she was able to put on Wednesday, the 39 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: day that the episode dropped, that this happened. I was like, 40 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 1: that's a little bit of that's a little bit of 41 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: good luck here, but I'm happy for our girl. Like 42 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: I like I said before when we were talking last time, 43 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: that I believe like I've been in that situation. So 44 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: my heart went out to her. So I'm glad the 45 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 1: court ruled. I'm this way. I mean I think there's 46 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: a lot more court suits, a lot more suits to come, 47 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: but I think the fact that every win showing that 48 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: she wasn't a part of it, it's got to feel 49 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: good for her mental state feelings. Absolutely. It's hard to fathom, 50 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, because you're like, well, you were with him, 51 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: that's your husband, like you should know everything, but you'd 52 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: be surprised, you know. I mean, do you know everything 53 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: about your husband? Well, you guys know I don't. You. 54 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: I can't even live. I want to do it. I mean, 55 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: I mean still trying to figure out. Well, he did 56 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: show me recess about Tampa, you know, but there's things 57 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: and now I'm reading the book, so you know I'm learning, 58 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: but I don't know. Is it a mean thing? Maybe 59 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: we'll save those questions. Well, well, we'll dig into the 60 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: husband's later. I mean, let's be honest, like I'm on 61 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: my husband's eye cloud right now. It's just how the 62 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: passwords to the eye cloud. You know what, thirteen years later, 63 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: that's how you get through years. Goals. Um, okay. Then 64 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: this one. You gave shared a little tea on this, 65 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: which I didn't realize. Lisa rennas seeking two million for 66 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hill, season thirteen, demands to be 67 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: the highest paid housewife. Lea's Sorenna is currently renegotiating her 68 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: contract with Bravo, demanding that she'd be the highest paid 69 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: real housewife ever or she won't come back. Here's the thing. 70 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: First off, this is on radar online, which I take 71 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: the articles on radar online with a grain of salt. 72 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: We know that history and yeah, click, but is there 73 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: any other housewives that make two know? Well, I mean hello, 74 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: housewives of Atlanta, Stark Candy, the candy bars. She is 75 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: now crossed the two million dollar mark. Four season, fifteen million. 76 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: Two million, which hold on, what season are you ont? 77 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: We're coming up on season fifteen. No, but you're on 78 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: season three. So like you're you're still spending more than 79 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: you make. I'm still just like in the red a 80 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: little bit actually, like it's really bad where. My husband 81 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: will have a lot to say about that. He's got 82 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: the whole remember I told you the spreadsheet. Yeah, so 83 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: every dime. Next level. People that are like, oh well, 84 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: you take so much. Right, I'm like your first season 85 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: on how that's why if you paid to beyond. Okay. 86 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: So I didn't know that, because you know, I'm an actor, 87 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: so you know where we come from, right. I'm like, 88 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: Glam is taken care of. Like, what are you talking about? 89 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: I make money right. So when I came on the show, 90 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what? I have to pay for 91 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: every like Glam, every day glam clothes. You can't ever 92 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: wear the same thing. And you know in Atlanta it's hot, 93 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: like you can't show up with the same back twice. 94 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: That's just what it is. And I'm like, wait, what? 95 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: So everything is an investment, every and people think that 96 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: when we do events, that you know what I'm saying, 97 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,559 Speaker 1: they give us money. Yeah, don't know. That's our event 98 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: and that's it period. Yeah, no, there. And the only 99 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: thing that's a little bit scute is when they say 100 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: the trips and they're like Oh, it's I crack up 101 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: every time for the setup when it's like my trip 102 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like yeah, my trip. It's like everybody rotates 103 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: whose trip it is. That's the only thing. But yeah, 104 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: you end up, yes, you're you get paid your first 105 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: couple of seasons, but it's so minimal that you end 106 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: up spending more. But do you so, do you think 107 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: that she'll be back? I mean I thought, well, she 108 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 1: had taken like real house with Beverly Hills off her 109 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: instagram page and like it was looking like she was leaving. 110 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: So I'm actually shocked when she's like now I'm coming 111 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: in strong and demanding two million. You know, that's I 112 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: don't know if that's necessarily true that she's doing that. 113 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: I do think that she removed all it. Just this 114 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: is me guessing, but I do think she removed everything 115 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: to kind of as like a you guys better show 116 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: it's actually really going down on this show. Um. But 117 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: I do also know, like you don't want to have 118 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: with Bravo hello, because I'm still looking for me. I know, 119 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: like I'm like, I don't I know one person not 120 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: to mess up to. I'm not even on the show 121 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: anymore and I'm like, would bravo prove this? So many things. 122 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: I mean, we'll see what happens. This is like a 123 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: stay tuned situation. Um, so I don't know. And then 124 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: on Radio Andy show he said a housewife walked out 125 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: of the reunion. I already know who it is. I 126 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: can't say. Come on, but what the t I'm giving 127 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: is that I already know, because it's obviously someone I 128 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: am I know. Is it o g? So it's an 129 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: o G. Okay, so we know that. So if you 130 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: were to guess out here, if you were to guess, 131 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: who do you think? Somebody that I probably have communication with. Oh, Kyle. 132 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, dad, I think wait a minute, I 133 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: looked in your eyes. You're looking down. Okay, look me 134 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: in my eyes. Three Kyle. I think it's Kyle. I'M 135 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: gonna say it's Kyle. I'M gonna say it's Kyle. I 136 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: cannot confirm or deny. I'm gonna text you after I watch. 137 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: But what Hendy said, it is true. Somebody does walk off, 138 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: and I think it's more than once. Well, because I 139 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: feel like kyle is kind of fed up this season 140 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: with certain things. You know what I mean so I 141 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: could see her just I can see it being kyle 142 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: and just be like, you know, you know who's gonna 143 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: be here tomorrow. So you can ask her yourself. But 144 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: I do know that the reunion was in tense, lots 145 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: of tears, lots of drama. Um. And then so post Reunion, 146 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: Kathy Hilton is going off on instagram stories about Renna. 147 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: Here are some of the shots. Uh, I mean the 148 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: fact that she like doesn't even know how to use 149 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: instagram and like rights on people's instagram her phone number 150 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: call me, but like as knows how to do a repost. 151 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: It's hilarious. Lisa Renna. It's the most appalling violent behavior 152 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: I've ever seen. Also Lisa Renna, and it's like her 153 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: flipping out and Renna's attacks Kim Richard's like all the 154 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: she's posting Renna's past behavior. Um, which here's the thing. 155 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: Thou who protests too hard, that you know, this is 156 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: why they pay me the big box, like thou who 157 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 1: who protests too much. Like, I think the fact if 158 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: you're going out of your way to do if you're 159 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: Kathy Hilton and you're going out of your way to 160 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: do reposts, to like dog out Lista Reno when you 161 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: already have the fans on your side. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 162 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: I love it, because Kathy was like not really here, 163 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: like if, like, we've seen the progression of Kathy Hilton, right, 164 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: so I feel like you're seeing, we're seeing the real 165 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: Cathy Hilton come out like she is now. She needs 166 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: to hold like the diamonds. Yeah, I mean because she there's, there's, uh, 167 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: I think. I think when you have too much of 168 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: control over a show, like when you get lawyers involved, 169 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: I personally think your time will be limited. Really, like, 170 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: have you ever Sued Bravo? Well, not Bravo, but I 171 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: did want to see a couple of people on the show. 172 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: You did see that. I wanted to. We didn't, but 173 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to because the reason I felt. I know, 174 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: but you thought I strongly disagree with housewife suing each other. 175 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,319 Speaker 1: You come on a show to to talk ship, but 176 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: my husband, I know. But for me all you want 177 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: my husband. Right, but did he show up to film? 178 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: He's fair game. What about? What about when they talk 179 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: about your husband when he's not even there? Because but 180 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: he's already if you never brought your husband on the 181 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: show and they didn't talk about him. Fine, but he's there. 182 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: He's an active per system and he walks in with 183 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: his shirt off. He does, he does, he does, so 184 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: he I'm sorry. If you that's the same thing, like yes, 185 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: of course kids are off limits, but if your kids 186 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: become a storyline because of something that you've brought them into, see, 187 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I feel like in Atlanta there's 188 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: certain moments that are missed. I feel like in Beverly Hills, 189 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: you guys do corral. You know what I mean, you guys. 190 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: You guys have the heart to know, like, all right, 191 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: my sister is he you're hurting or she's going through 192 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: something real, so we're going to support her in this moment, 193 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: even if I don't like her. I feel like in Atlanta, 194 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: when it came to like my body and my health issues, 195 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: when it comes to children, I feel like with husbands, 196 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: certain things should be off limits. I don't think you 197 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 1: should attack children. I don't. I have women in their 198 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: body and that was something I talked about. Like I'm 199 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: opening up about my healthier my hys directed me and 200 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 1: you guys are still like, you know what I mean, 201 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 1: throwing shade in that and I just felt like some things, 202 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: when it goes below the bell, you kind of get 203 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: need to put people in their place. I do too, 204 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: but I I also think like a lawsuit really isn't 205 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: going to get anybody anywhere. Order. Yeah, I mean Indian, 206 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: I mean they're gonna find because then the problem is 207 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: they're going to find something else and then it's gonna 208 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: Piss you off more, and then when does it stop? 209 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 1: I wish I knew you before, but I didn't. We 210 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: didn't file. So we're gonna hold off. We're gonna hold off, 211 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 1: hold off, because here's the thing, because it's gonna come 212 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: full circle, because I'm you know you're you're messy too. 213 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 1: So that boy, you are going to do something that's 214 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: going to ultimately piss somebody off and it's a waste 215 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: of money. And that's the real reason. Because, you know, 216 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: I did how to apologize a couple of times because 217 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, yeah, let me just 218 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: not and Ralph, I think he did a great job. 219 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: You know, watch the reunion. Tell me Um, but he 220 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: did a good job in setting terre, you know straight. Yeah, 221 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: and ultimately you know who he is, if you know 222 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: the marriage that you're in, you know the relationship you're in. 223 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: I think yes, kids one million percent should be off limits. 224 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: But if kids come up because you've had them somewhere, 225 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: they're gonna come up. You need to come to Atlanta. 226 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: I think you guys would eat me a way. Are 227 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: you serious? I don't know. I feel like they would 228 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 1: be like, Oh God, Teddy's here. I don't know. Well, 229 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: I'll be a pravo con so I'll be grilling all 230 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: of you guys and I'm excited to talk to Sonya. 231 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: Let's yeah, a lot of questions, right? I have a 232 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: lot of questions. Also, I didn't know she was on 233 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: a reality show before for one season. I know, but yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, 234 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: we can't really get into it Atlanta right now. But Um, 235 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hill Star Shari's Zampino dishes on 236 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: all her bravo cast meats. I mean I'm glad she's 237 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: dishing now because she doesn't talk on the show. I oh, 238 00:12:56,360 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: she's trying to find her way. I'm sorry. Yeah, US 239 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: this episode was Hilarious when she signed the card like 240 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: on the gift like she does little funny thing next moments. 241 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: But I need her more and I need, especially my 242 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: friends of I need my friends of fighting for that diamond, 243 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: and I don't think she fought for that diamond. I 244 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: don't think it's coming. Yeah, I was like, does she 245 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: even want to be here? I mean I think, I 246 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: really feel like she was here for Garcea, you know, 247 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 1: like I got your bag, you know, vint to me, 248 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 1: we can kick he or whatever, but in the long 249 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: run I think she'll have to open up a little 250 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: bit more, because she does. I mean I've I've known 251 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: her just from the l a days and she's showing 252 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 1: her true colors. Yeah, I feel like she's being a 253 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: little more reserved, a little more timid, trying to find 254 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: her way because she's she's she's funny. You can definitely 255 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: tell that she's funny. This interview she pretty much says 256 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: Um some of the ladies that I didn't think I 257 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: would like in terms of what characters they were giving and, 258 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: in my opinions, were based on what I saw as 259 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: a fan, which I do like, is she admits to 260 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: being a fan. I hate when housewives come on housewives 261 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: and they're like, I never watched the show, and they 262 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: clearly did. Right Um. So I like that she keeps 263 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: it real. Um, she says. Like with Erica, I actually 264 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: thought she was fun. I had a good time with her. 265 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: I saw her realness from New York, and so I 266 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: love her. And Lisa, Rinna, she's a soap opera star 267 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: and wife of actor Harry Hamlin. I also found her 268 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: to be very nurturing, UM, which I agree with her 269 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: on that. Renna, like, yes, you guys see like Renna 270 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: on Instagram, who goes off the handle, but she is 271 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: a good friend and you know, she kind of breaks 272 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: it down. Then she says something about Kyle, like, you know, 273 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: she who she would not tell a secret or something 274 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: like that, and it's Kyle, because she's like she basically 275 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: produces the show, which is not no, but are you kidding? 276 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: Don't you think she would have edited herself a little 277 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: better the season? Because in Atlanta we have people that 278 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,359 Speaker 1: definitely produce themselves. So well, producing themselves and then producing 279 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: that like people have always like. They love to say, 280 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: oh well, kyle is practically a producer of real housewives. 281 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, absolutely not. She moves story the same way 282 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: that Garcel moves story. See, I got so much to learn. 283 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: I saw the Newbie so I'm like, I think I 284 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: just am a little, probably two out there with everything 285 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: you know there. I think what happens is is you're 286 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: sitting at a dinner and you realize this dinner is 287 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: not going to be shown. I spent five dollars on Glam. 288 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: I spoke about it, I thought on this dress and 289 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: my good time and I realized that nobody gives a 290 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: crap about the weather or what television shows were watching 291 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: and something needs to happen. So we got to move 292 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: things along. So I look at any shipster as they're 293 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: doing a favor to us. Got It by keeping it going. 294 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: Got It. Um. The last thing that I'm seeing is 295 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: Bravo instagram or claims. What was really edited out of 296 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hills. Oh, I didn't read this 297 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: on the rundown prior Um. This is from your mom's 298 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: are watching. So Bravo told the ladies they cannot mention 299 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: the fact that Kathy called the DJ and old effing 300 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: F A G M M GE UH Huh. And then 301 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: on camera and they cut out all the confessionals that 302 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: dealt with it specifically, and it wasn't just Erica and 303 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: Lisa and Diana talking about some of the things Kathy 304 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: says in the club. What we are left with is 305 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: a bizarre cut that makes it seem like the women 306 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: are overreacting about a woman's rant against her sister. No 307 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: wonder every single Bravo site is fawning all over Kathy. 308 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: The truth is not out there never will be. I 309 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: don't know if this is true. I I you know, 310 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: I I know certain things, but I don't know the 311 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: magnitude that goes into but what I can say when 312 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 1: fans like you, you can do no wrong, they love you, 313 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: they want to see the best in you continuously. And 314 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: when fans don't like you, you can do no right. Ever. Well, 315 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 1: that was me first season, so I'm experienced both sides now. 316 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: So very, very true, Um, and I'm loving the fact that, 317 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: you know, people obviously are giving me a second chance. 318 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like some of this is true, 319 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,239 Speaker 1: like do you feel like? We don't know if it's 320 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: true or not, but it sounds like I feel like 321 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: when you see I never want to I was not there. 322 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: I was not personally there, but I think you can 323 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: tell by the level of how upset a lot of 324 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: these women are and also the level that other women 325 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: are going to protect something bad wine and the fact 326 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: that it's happened when they were off camera. And then 327 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 1: people are like if also when they were in the 328 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 1: Sprinter van, why weren't cameras on? I want to point 329 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: out something. When, I don't know if you guys are 330 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: the same, when we break for the night, they don't 331 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 1: leave the cameras in your car. In a sprinter, people 332 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: will steal the equipment. So, like, if you go down, 333 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: they take the cameras out. Well, we all saw that. Well, 334 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 1: in the house at least. Yeah, they left the cameras 335 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: up in the house. Not Not a sprinter, but in 336 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: the house. See, we don't have Beverly Hills doesn't have that. Well, 337 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: you remember the epic stripper. Yeah, Beverly Hills has never, 338 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,360 Speaker 1: never had cameras up, and that if a producer isn't 339 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: their cameras aren't rolling. Yeah, see, that was what was 340 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: so crazy about that season. That was season what thirteen, 341 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,959 Speaker 1: because no one ever in the history experienced that. So 342 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: when the producers left, no one knew that they left 343 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: the cameras and the audio. Yeah, which was crazy. That 344 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: I mean. Well, that's like girls trip. Yeah, I mean, 345 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 1: which that makes for good TV, but also a lot 346 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: of drama, especially it's happening. So we'll never know safe 347 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:38,679 Speaker 1: to say. We'll never know safe. Oh, this is another 348 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: real doozy. So, Shannon Badoer, you watch OSI, of course. Okay, 349 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: so Shannon Badoer's ex husband calls office divorce. Last week, Tam. Well, 350 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: Tam wasn't with me, but last week I reported that 351 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 1: he filed for divorce for reconcilable differences. And then Leslie, 352 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,719 Speaker 1: who one? Why did she have to tag this three times? 353 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: Like why? Why? Why? So she tags it three times 354 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: and she said, my husband filed a request for dismissal 355 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: a few days ago. Now back to your regular scheduled 356 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: performing programming. But then she tagged herself three times, and 357 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: that's solely because she wants to know that anyone that 358 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: picks this up is going to post her name. And 359 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, and listen, I'm as dehydrated as they come, 360 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: but like, that is next level. I'M ANA only tag 361 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: ship once, like three times, but she needs a little water. 362 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but this is what happens. I mean, 363 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 1: but she's never even been on the show and I'm sorry, 364 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: you're not going to be on the show, honey, and 365 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 1: then somebody posted. What is this? Honey? Leslie Badour claims 366 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: her husband, David Badour, has withdrawn his divorce petition after 367 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 1: filing the paper last week, but public information officer for 368 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 1: the Superior Court of California in Orange County tells page 369 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 1: six there hasn't been any requests to dismiss at this time. 370 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: The spokesource and also verified on Wednesday that request was 371 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 1: in the queue to be filed, as there was also 372 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 1: no evidence of the alleged dismissal request in the case 373 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: docket per online records. I need another drink after that, 374 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: like don't you if you're in the world of housewives 375 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,640 Speaker 1: in any capacity and on the public form, people are 376 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: going to sleuth it out, publish records. Just yeah, storyline, 377 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: like it's a giving storyline. Is it giving? Like there's 378 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: you're still not friends with anybody on the current cast. 379 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: You're not coming in, you're taking Shannon spot. People really 380 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: go all out, like it's it's real life. People like 381 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: people want your reality. You don't have to go this far, 382 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: especially when you're not even on the show. But you 383 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: know what, there are people in Atlanta. It's hot like 384 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: people have actually moved in my neighborhood just to have 385 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: a run in with me, to rump to producers, like 386 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: we heard so and so lives in your and I'm 387 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 1: like they do, and I'm like, I just thought she 388 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: was a nice neighbor. So, I mean, I understand, but 389 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: the lengths people go to, it's it's pretty ridiculous to me. 390 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 1: I mean it's a little bit. Now I gotta Watch 391 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: I go to the bus stop. I used to go 392 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 1: out my bonnet and my clear still, like you know, 393 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: and I gotta be fabulous when I go to the 394 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: bus stop just in case this white strip and I'm here. 395 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: All right, let's take a little break and then we 396 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: will talk about the actual episode. Okay, so we are 397 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: back to discuss the actual episode. Now I feel like 398 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 1: the housewife. Headlines is a full time job just putting 399 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: them all together. So going on all the time, so 400 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 1: many everybody doing the most on social media. Um. So 401 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: it starts off with Renna is in shock about what 402 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 1: happened at the club with Kathy, and then Kathy won't 403 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: come out of her room, which to me I was like, 404 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: did she ever come out of the room with she's 405 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: in her room with her fan alone like she that's 406 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 1: this isn't uncommon to me. Um, and then Kyle can 407 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 1: already feel that she's going to take the blame, which 408 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: made me sad. I mean, I think what what we 409 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: have to I have to say as a precursor to 410 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: this is I understand that these two women are sisters. 411 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: They have, you know, a lifetime worth of drama and 412 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: trauma and who knows what else has gone on in 413 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: their relationship. But we've watched, even publicly, just the ups 414 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: and downs of it. But as I review this, I 415 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 1: have to separate the fact that how much I, you know, 416 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 1: Love Kyle and how anyone that hurts her and separate 417 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: the fact that this is her sister. I have to 418 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: look at it just as two cast mates on the show, 419 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: or else I can't even recap it because, um, but 420 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: we saw how upset Kathy was about the eight one 421 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: eight last week and made it all about Kyle, so 422 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: I can only imagine what the next thing was. Yeah, UM, 423 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: then they're they're all crammed on that private jet again. 424 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: Such a set up, such a setup, like you know. 425 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: So it's not surprising, you know, that then we got Erica, 426 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: and Erica comes on and she says Erica tells sutton 427 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 1: she doesn't want to fight with her. When she screams, 428 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: it's out of anger and Sutton cries from being moved 429 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: by Erica. I'm so confused with relationship. I feel like 430 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 1: we've been here before. At this point, I feel like 431 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: I I just want Sutton to be who she is 432 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 1: and her confessionals and scene. But you know what, it's 433 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: really hard because I I relate to sutton. It's hard 434 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: when you feel like you're having a gang up situation 435 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: and I feel like Sutton is often placed in those 436 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: positions where it feels like everyone's coming at her. But 437 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: and so those are unwarranted. I just feel like Sutton 438 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: doesn't always pick the best words and like I feel 439 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: like I understand what she's trying to say just to 440 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: come out that way. So I feel like she's misunderstood 441 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: and I feel like people need just to have a 442 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: little grace and she needs support because I feel I 443 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: could honestly watch and see her crumbling as she feels 444 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: like all this heat come in her way, you know 445 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: what I mean? And that's just what I take. So 446 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 1: when she's in her confessional, she's by herself and she's giving, 447 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 1: but in those moments I just feel like everyone's so 448 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: up and down with her. Yeah, I mean I think ultimately, 449 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 1: and I mean I'm judgmental as well, but I think 450 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: her level of judginess wears off. You know, like what 451 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: what what makes it hard for me is if you're 452 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: on a show where you know that it's to create drama, 453 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,959 Speaker 1: there's nothing worse than being with a housewife that's like, guys, 454 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: let's all get along right now, like you know why 455 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: you're here. You signed up for this job. Not only 456 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: did you not get your dime in your first year, 457 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: you then step chup of your game and now you're here, 458 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: so double down. And I still can't get with that 459 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: because I'm the girl that's like, can we all get along, 460 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,119 Speaker 1: like one time, can we just have fun? And I 461 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: understand it's the assignment right, but it's like a lot sometimes. 462 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 1: I feel like Sutton gets it a lot more right, 463 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: but then you will go have fun. When have we 464 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: seen Sun was she shopping? When, Um, that one time 465 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: with Rena and they went to the fact that you 466 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: have to say that one time, that one time she 467 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: was fun in the three years her and Garzella have 468 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 1: fun her and Garcella have fun moments. I like their 469 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: little key moments. I really do. You know what I'm saying? 470 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 1: I live for their little moment. I love. I love 471 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: Garcella on the show. I do. I loved. I think 472 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 1: she does good show. I I think she's funny all 473 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: the and she will say things and seeing that you 474 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 1: know she's shady and her confessionals and she's funny, but 475 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: she still will. But what I did notice, especially this episode, 476 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: is any time that garcelle admits to being in the wrong, 477 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: she shuts that down real quick. She is and immediately 478 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you're right time because she doesn't want that 479 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 1: storyline about her and she does it very well. I'm 480 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: actually learning mark shut it down forever. She shuts it 481 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 1: down quickly, which is great for her, but also not 482 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 1: great for the fact that we are still on the 483 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: Erica Jane storyline another season. We're two years inter but 484 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 1: it's so much there and it's so juicy and I 485 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 1: I want to I still have so many questions. I 486 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: mean it's never ending. We're just getting started. I feel 487 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: like yeah, so then you know Cathy isn't on the plane. Uh, 488 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: Sutton said she had a breakdown in the club because 489 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: nobody wanted to do the Congo Line Um, which, here's 490 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: the part that I find interesting, is this isn't really 491 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: the truth because it I never heard anything about any 492 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 1: Congo line. I do like that at this moment, Sutton 493 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,120 Speaker 1: is at least owning up to the fact that there 494 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 1: was a breakdown at the club, whereas like crystals, pretending 495 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: she didn't see it. But it was because she went 496 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: up to the DJ and asked him to play Billy Jean, 497 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: and he you know, you know how djs are, especially 498 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: famous djs, when they're in the middle of a set. 499 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: They don't want some random or or even some famous socialite, 500 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, coming and telling them what to play. 501 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: So he said no and that set her off. She 502 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 1: wanted that Vibe, she needed that song, she had moves, 503 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: she wanted to leave on that floor. Yeah, and then, 504 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: you know what they're also not really saying is, because 505 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: people love the narrative to hate Renna is Renna was 506 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: being nice by taking cathy out of the situation, because 507 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: she was blowing up not only on the DJ, on 508 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: everybody involved and flipping out in the same way that 509 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: Renna took Erica out of the situation when she was 510 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 1: losing her ship. I was doing the same thing here, 511 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 1: because you have to also remember this isn't being filmed. 512 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 1: Renna doesn't gain anything from getting her out and like like. No, 513 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,159 Speaker 1: I think. I think that she gains some trust and 514 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: some good points with some people. I can go easy 515 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: on her on the confessionals, well, I don't. I don't. 516 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: I guess I can see that, but I think it's 517 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: more just like one. Renna doesn't really like to stay 518 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: out late in party and to, you know, stuff and 519 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: to like she's seeing somebody come unhinge and she's seeing who, 520 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: somebody she loves, Kyle, getting reamed out at a club because, 521 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 1: once again, the fact that the DJ won't play a 522 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: song that Kathy wants. It's Kyle's fault again, and I'm like, 523 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,479 Speaker 1: are we really is this really an issue? ME, personally, 524 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm like wait, what, this really isn't are we really 525 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: doing this, guys? So the fact that things get that 526 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: ugly over not playing, I mean, you didn't get that 527 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: upset when your husband was accused of cheating on you, 528 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 1: like you thank you. So we're I don't know. You 529 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. I think there's some imbalances here 530 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: and I think the the walls are starting to come 531 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:14,239 Speaker 1: down and I think, yeah, and I think you know 532 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 1: it's a little bit rough, but all the women were 533 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: present except Garcell and Shari were not at the club. 534 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 1: Just want to make that clear, because this wasn't filmed. 535 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: Garcella and Shari saw none of it. However, crystal was there. 536 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 1: So I don't know why, when we flashed forward to 537 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: the end of the episode, Why Crystal is acting like 538 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: she didn't see it happened. Once she was supposed to 539 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: go in the car and couldn't get her cop from 540 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: coach check. She called the sprinter for Renna and Kathy 541 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: and the only thing I can think is crystal's probably 542 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: of the group the most socialite and she doesn't want 543 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: to not get that Kathy Hilton Christmas party and he 544 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: and I felt like since crystal came on the show 545 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 1: she's always been very protective, like of her her family, 546 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: you know, her husband. She's one that's kind of like, 547 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: I want to just remain, you know, clean, as clean 548 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: as but she didn't when it came to Erica. She 549 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: was thrilled to be thrown that immediately into the into 550 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: the fire. Yeah, but I just still, out of all 551 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: the ladies, though, I feel like she's the most clean. Well, 552 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: I think. I don't think she wants to mess with 553 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 1: her relationship with Kathy, but she was a there Um. 554 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: So you see something. The fact that Sutton even admitted 555 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: it a little bit shows how bad it actually was, 556 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: because Sutton's going to tell the truth. One thing you know. 557 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: Sutton's gonna tell it as much as she can. Yeah, 558 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: she's gonna tell it as much as she can. She 559 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: may not go into the detail and maybe maybe there 560 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,719 Speaker 1: was a mention of a Congo line, but that's not 561 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: what I heard from anybody else. Um. Then renaissays Cathy 562 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 1: was saying she would take down the show, Bravo, ruin 563 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: you all and destroy Kyle and her family. It's the 564 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: last thing she does, which what I can't even imagine 565 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: my sister justice being saying something like that about me. 566 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: And where I think people started to get up in 567 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: arms was when and Rena's confessional, she says something along 568 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 1: the lines of like Kathy is jealous because Kyle is 569 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: the more famous one, and people were like no, she's not. 570 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: Everybody knows the name Kathy Hilton. I agree, everybody knows 571 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: the name Kathy Hilton, but here's the difference that people 572 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: aren't actually recognizing. Kathy has been married into the Hilton family, 573 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: started dating him when she was fifteen years old and 574 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: it is a very it's a different situation when you 575 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: marry into a family and they have the money than 576 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: it is when you make your own. So I think, 577 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: in my opinion, Kathy has full, I mean Kyle has 578 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: full financial freedom. Her and Mauricio are self made, whether 579 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: it's through the show or not, and have that financial ability, 580 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 1: whereas you know, I looked up on line and you know, 581 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: there's One Hilton in highland. How many agencies are there? See? 582 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: That's so interesting. That's an interesting perspective because I definitely 583 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: always looked at Cathy as like I don't really care, 584 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: she just has this like nonchalant I'm here, or maybe 585 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm not here and I'm I'm fabulous over here. I 586 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: never thought about the fact that she may actually want 587 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: a desire the spotlight or to have her own independence. 588 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: I mean, did you have to think about it? Like 589 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: I was the most miserable I ever was in my 590 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 1: marriage with Edwin when I didn't have a job and 591 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: I would have he wouldn't. He would come home from 592 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: work and he'd be like what do you do today, 593 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: and I was pissed that he'd even ask me that 594 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: question with the kids. I'd be like I did this 595 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: and that, and he'd be like Oh, would. Where'd you 596 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 1: guys go for lunch? And I'd be like Sushi? Why? 597 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: Like it was so defensive and he wasn't even being 598 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: a jerk, he was trying to talk to me. But 599 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 1: because I didn't have my own financial yeah, I felt 600 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: like I had to like validate myself to him, and 601 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: I get that. So I'm the same way. Like I 602 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 1: definitely because I've been independent my whole life. So obviously, 603 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: when I had children I couldn't work anymore. It was 604 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 1: hard because I became financially dependent on my husband. But 605 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 1: I'm not that type of girl. But I and I 606 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: don't know Kathy, but from the outside I felt like 607 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: she was just like a kept woman. That because I 608 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: do have friends that love being kept. I always thought 609 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: Kathy was a kept woman and she loved being kept. 610 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 1: I think that you can love being kept, but you 611 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: can also admire which then can turn into jealousy that 612 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: it's not that way. I mean you have to understand it. 613 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: There are times, at being an independent woman and making 614 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: my own money myself, that I'm like, this is a 615 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: lot of work, I wish I could. Yeah, always it's 616 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: like if you have straight hair, you want hair. You 617 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 1: want what you don't have, you want. But the tricky 618 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: part is that this is her sister. Yeah, and and 619 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: and Kyle and Marico worked really hard and, whether you 620 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: like it or not, your sister was the beginning of 621 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 1: this show and she wanted you on because she loved 622 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: you and she wanted something that you wanted. It's not 623 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: like Kathy didn't want you. Don't go on that show. 624 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: If you don't want to because you're forced. There's no 625 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: one holding a gun to your head saying you have 626 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 1: to go on the real housewives of Beverly Hills, it's 627 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:23,240 Speaker 1: because you were missing something. Wow, whether you want fame, validation, money, 628 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is. I mean, is that not why you 629 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 1: joined the show? I mean, I definitely I wanted to 630 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 1: do something different from my family, you know, and build legacy, 631 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 1: but there are women that try to find identity on 632 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: the platform. I just never saw Kathy as that. So, 633 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: to your point what you've been saying, it's very it's 634 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 1: a very sticky place because now we are just seeing 635 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: the beginning of what could happen because, like you said, 636 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 1: jealousy and all that. It's not going to end well 637 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: and we're gonna have to watch that. Yeah, I mean 638 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: because I believe the line was Rennas says I have 639 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:59,760 Speaker 1: seen the devil and her name is Kathy Hilton. Um, 640 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: I can't believe you think it, feel it, say it 641 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,359 Speaker 1: about the things Kathy said, like I I you can. 642 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 1: I think that Rena is a good actress. I don't 643 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 1: think she's this good of an actress. I think she 644 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 1: was shook by the things that were said and done. 645 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: And listen, it's not that I have huge issue with Kathy. 646 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: I have huge issue with anybody that pretends to be 647 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 1: somebody that they're not. Like my o C D and 648 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: my like type A, like, I I need to see 649 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,839 Speaker 1: you who who you are. And you know, I joke 650 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: with my husband repeatedly, like he sees everybody as their 651 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: best self. That's me, like he sees the light and 652 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 1: everybody and I I think because of like the way 653 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,800 Speaker 1: I grew up and like I see the worst first 654 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 1: and then you have to earn my trust. You have 655 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: to earn it. That is Ralph. So yeah, type A, 656 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: Ralph's type A in it and the way he was 657 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: brought up, it is a tough thing to trust, but 658 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: I do. I see people's potential always, so I'm always 659 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 1: looking at them as that. So, you know, that's that's 660 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: I can relate to. It went in that in that regard. 661 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: But I just feel bad because, like, at the end 662 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: of the day, Um, you know, this is the spiral 663 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: that we're witnessing and when you put out words like that, 664 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: the devil it's not going to get better anytime soon. Yeah, 665 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,919 Speaker 1: it was. It's pretty brittle. Um, then it's a lot 666 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: about durt playing both sides with Erica and Kyle. How 667 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 1: did you feel about I don't like it. I don't 668 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,280 Speaker 1: like it. I feel like, well, I'm big on loyalty, 669 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: so I was really shocked to even see Kyle and 670 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 1: Durte at it anyway, because Dorit has been super loyal 671 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: and they have been, you know, basically bffs tied to 672 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 1: the hip. So this was different and I'm trying to 673 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: find understanding in in Erica and deret because last season 674 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: we saw derite and Kyle, P K right ICO, and 675 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 1: they were all like teaming injury. was constantly last week 676 00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,799 Speaker 1: talking about the orphans and the victims and the like. 677 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: She she was the one, she was the one leading it. 678 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: But this is I think it's because she really is 679 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: trying to play both sides. She I think this is 680 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,359 Speaker 1: the problem I'm having. I love to read. I say 681 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: this before I say anything negative about her, because she 682 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: is one of my friends. But dried is trying to 683 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 1: be the voice of reason and she's not a voice 684 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: of reason. Don't you know what had to be? Don't 685 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,840 Speaker 1: try to be something you're not like. It's not working. 686 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: It's making you look super messy, super backstabby, to to Kyle, 687 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,799 Speaker 1: you know, untrustworthy. It's just it's not a good look. 688 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 1: So I you know. And then you see this is 689 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 1: you know, Erica starts to make good points, but she 690 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: makes them with the tone in her voice. Is it 691 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: just it makes you sleepy. Hold on, did you did 692 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: you hear the difference in her voice between her first 693 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: season when they did the flashback? Yes, because Carlos King, actually, 694 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 1: I know if you watch this podcast, was speaking to that. 695 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: You know, when she first came in hi, but then 696 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 1: I started thinking. I'm like, Oh, this is when she 697 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: was a Stepford wife. Think about it. She came on 698 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 1: and everything was perfect and this is my great life. 699 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 1: And now she's she's tired. She's tired. She Ain't got 700 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 1: time to put on a show anymore. We it's no 701 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 1: longer expensive to her be her. It's exhausting. She still 702 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: looks good, you know, but on the inside she is sleepy, 703 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 1: tems to go to night. And then she did h 704 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 1: one of those after shows with deride where she definitely 705 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: gave the business a little bit to Garcel. She's like, 706 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,799 Speaker 1: you know, I I don't want to sit there and 707 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: at every event, talk about my earrings and do this 708 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,879 Speaker 1: and Blah, blah blah, especially when it comes to Garcel's 709 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: canceled television show. was like yes, I mean it was canceled, 710 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,399 Speaker 1: but the shade of it all, like I think she's 711 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: gone to the point where she's like, if you can 712 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 1: dish it out, you can take it. Because then when 713 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: she confronted Garce sell and said, listen, you know, we 714 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: we are close, we are friends, not we're clothes, but 715 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: we had a good time together, I thought we'd moved 716 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 1: past this. You didn't mention anything to me about the 717 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 1: real and Garcella knew she'd done up, because then she 718 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 1: didn't even Yep. You're right. Sorry, I mean, but at 719 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:18,720 Speaker 1: the end of the day, when your show gets canceled, 720 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,919 Speaker 1: is that's something that you're like? No, but the fact 721 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 1: that she talked about the earrings on the show and 722 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 1: didn't say anything to Erica when they were I didn't 723 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: necessarily think they were bonding and I didn't believe I 724 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:34,240 Speaker 1: was like they are coexisting, coexisting, which we do, which 725 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,359 Speaker 1: you do, but I don't look at them and get 726 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,359 Speaker 1: this warm fuzzy field. I don't. So I wouldn't even 727 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: have the expectation. Um, then we get to shri adding 728 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,359 Speaker 1: her name to the highlight with highlighter to Garcela's Card 729 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 1: for Crystals Party. But honestly, was the crystals party or 730 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: crystal's funeral? It was the most oppressing birthday. That was 731 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 1: worse than you're the one in Atlanta who had it. 732 00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: Was it Sonia Oh says, Part Day party, the Party 733 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: City Party. It was. It was dreadful. It was dreadful. 734 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 1: It was and I know you can't have music on 735 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 1: housewives but it was like everybody looked like they were 736 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:17,280 Speaker 1: board and uncomfortable and you could tell when Kathy entered 737 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 1: she was nervous. She was like Shit, and then she 738 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: comes over like there Eric's like talking about like I 739 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: went and drove and sat outside my old house and Blah, blah, 740 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: like she's getting emotional, as emotional as Erica gets on 741 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,440 Speaker 1: that end. You know she can yell, but seeing like 742 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 1: that type of emotion, and then Kathy walks up and 743 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: she's like so, do you overline your lip or what 744 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: lip for? It was like that was the comic relief. 745 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,479 Speaker 1: That was probably the best I know. But you don't 746 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 1: think that. That's all part of the that's what that's 747 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: what she's trying to give, as opposed to coming in 748 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: and being like I would feel completely different about the 749 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,160 Speaker 1: situation if she came in and said, Hey, guys, I 750 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 1: was such an ASS soall in Vegas. I wasn't expecting that. 751 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: If I'm an as like after I was an Asshole 752 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 1: in Provence, the next day woke up in a puddle 753 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 1: of shame and said I am so sorry, you guys, 754 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: like I was an asshole. I wouldn't expect it, though, 755 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: not from meant certain things from certain people. You know, 756 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 1: I her to go in and pretend that nothing happened. Well, 757 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 1: that's just I just felt like that was being true 758 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: to self. For me, I wasn't expecting it. She did 759 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 1: exactly what I expected. Right, but do you think that 760 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 1: that's the right way to know? That's not me. But see, 761 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 1: that's not me. But some people, like you said, they're 762 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,879 Speaker 1: not able to be their authentic self and they kind 763 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 1: of and I believe that she's done so many of 764 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: those types of things that people love that she's leaning 765 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:57,360 Speaker 1: into that. Yeahs herself. Yeah, the quirkiness. So I'm like, okay, 766 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 1: here we go again, you know, I'm just waiting for 767 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 1: somebody to call it out. And then at the Twenties Party, 768 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: Renna says she has PTSD. That was yeah, I was 769 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: that's a big word. Um, that's the that's the word, though, 770 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:17,840 Speaker 1: that's the word trauma. Um. And then Crystal Criticizes Sutton 771 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 1: as not being twenties. Um, and then, you know, whatever, 772 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: the energy is off at the entire Party. Um. Then 773 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 1: this is now I need to ask because I don't 774 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:35,479 Speaker 1: want to show my bias, but when crystal comes back 775 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:39,799 Speaker 1: and acts shocked to the group why Renna left when 776 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: one she was just hugging Renna and in that moment, 777 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 1: I know I can tell that you're not fully team Renna, 778 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 1: as you'd gulp your champagne out of a wine glass, 779 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:54,719 Speaker 1: but I can feel it. But she just had the conversation. 780 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 1: You know what happened. You know why she was upset. 781 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 1: So why are you pretending you don't if you're going 782 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 1: to come back and to liver news? Like she sat down, 783 00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 1: like she's like. So she's upset, like she saw a ghost. 784 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: I have no idea why. I'm like, you know exactly why. 785 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: She just told you hello. But back to protecting, right 786 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: to protecting. That's what I I that's what I see. So, 787 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, here we go, here we go, Um, 788 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,640 Speaker 1: and then that's when Renna delivers her line about I 789 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 1: have seen the devil and her name is Cathy Hilton. Um. 790 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: And then something that I've seen online, as people are saying, 791 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: why isn't Renna, Rennyng here like why isn't she going 792 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,600 Speaker 1: off like in her normal terms? And you tell me 793 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,879 Speaker 1: your opinion first. Why do you think Renna isn't going off? 794 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,919 Speaker 1: In this moment? She's removing herself. Yeah, you gotta. I'll 795 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,799 Speaker 1: tell my reason why I want to hear your because 796 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 1: you know, you know them. No, but I want to 797 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:55,280 Speaker 1: hear your unbiased, non hearing Teddy's opinion. I just feel 798 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: like Renna has been in a tight spot and I 799 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: just feel like she's cleaning up. See, I think she's 800 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 1: not rendating because she's also scared. Okay, so we agree. 801 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 1: Oh my God, I'm cleaning up, like you need to 802 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 1: fix something. I think she's not just but not scared 803 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,400 Speaker 1: because of the audience. I think everybody's scared of the 804 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: wrath of Kathy Hilton. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, like the wrath 805 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: of Kathy Hilton is scarier than the wrath of Lisa Rerenna. 806 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,919 Speaker 1: Lisa Renna may go off on her social media, but 807 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: there's like different types of Brath. But then I also 808 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 1: saw Rena watch what happens live and Renault was like, 809 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I mean, she was completely falling 810 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: on the sward and I was like what, because, oh 811 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: my God, I mean, I'm just trying, guys, I mean, 812 00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 1: forgive me forgetting, like no, but it's not that easy, man. 813 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,319 Speaker 1: I think it's hard after a certain amount of years 814 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 1: and you get the heat. It just you know that 815 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: it starts to it starts to happen, Um, and then 816 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 1: what else goes on in this happen if you oh 817 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,959 Speaker 1: to me like Diana. The fact that I'm even saying 818 00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 1: Diana's name now after forty five minutes, so much she's 819 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:05,839 Speaker 1: a part of which I think she's got to be gone, 820 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: right if you're fully edited out of the episodes at 821 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,839 Speaker 1: this point. I was never a Diana fan, though. Yeah, 822 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,759 Speaker 1: and honestly so, Um, but she so I thought you're 823 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,399 Speaker 1: holding up, and I also feel like they're editing her 824 00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,719 Speaker 1: out more too, because the fans were just so. But 825 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: also know what she's doing. A lot of lawsuits. Yeah, 826 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: and that back to your don't if you're a housewife, 827 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 1: don't do laws. Right. Yes, but Diana says Kathy was 828 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 1: raging at the club. She'd never seen her like this. 829 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: Erica just wants Kathy to admit her behavior, apologize and 830 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 1: move on. And then Renna says it got worse. Um, 831 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 1: and then Diana. I actually didn't mind Diana in this moment. 832 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 1: She starts quacking and calling uh, calling Renna a chicken 833 00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 1: for not bringing it up. But you have to remember 834 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: there is backstory between Kyle and Renna and her sisters. 835 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:07,359 Speaker 1: So she's in her in her defense. I don't think 836 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: that Renna thought she was going to go home and 837 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 1: it was going to be to the point that Kathy 838 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: Hilton slamming things, breaking her glasses and losing her ship 839 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: about her sister and after what was allegedly reported to 840 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,799 Speaker 1: be set at the club about the DJ, like all 841 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 1: of those things. I don't think she was ready for 842 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 1: that and I think that you're whenever anything happens off camera. 843 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: I mean even Salt Lake City. Think about that hot 844 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: mic moment. Like I don't think Lisa Barlow really felt 845 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: what she was saying about Meredith. She was losing her 846 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: ship to producers, as we do at times, at which 847 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 1: we all do, but I stn't know that I go 848 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 1: to that level and say those things. But the fact 849 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 1: that there's no cameras, there's no nothing, and Renna had 850 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 1: to take that and carry it on her own Um. 851 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 1: And then, yeah, then Erica fails to eat and about 852 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 1: what happened with Renna and Kathy after the club. And 853 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 1: then Erica said be careful of those who have a 854 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,799 Speaker 1: lot to protect. And then dery says the person who 855 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,800 Speaker 1: will suffer the most is kyle. And Yeah, then previous 856 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 1: for next week are pretty mess hair. Um, the Kyle, Kathy, 857 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:18,800 Speaker 1: you're going to sit down. Can wait. You can see 858 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:23,880 Speaker 1: it in Kathy's face in that moment when she's like Kyle, Kyle, 859 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:28,399 Speaker 1: it's coming out, it's coming out. Um. The tone is 860 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: like don't blow this here or you're gonna pay. I'm scared, 861 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm scared. What, what? What's coming? And then that was 862 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 1: pretty much the episode. I think there was some fill 863 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 1: in this episode and I don't know how much we'll 864 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 1: ever find out. Well, I don't feel like we'll ever 865 00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. I think we won't 866 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 1: get to the bottom of all the things that were 867 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:53,080 Speaker 1: said until the reunion. I think then there'll be some accusations, 868 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:58,560 Speaker 1: but they're still there. Will never be proof. Um, the 869 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 1: questions from hands. All right, so I'll ask you. Would 870 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: you guys agree with Renna that Kyle is more successful 871 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,800 Speaker 1: than Kathy? Lots of people on twitter we're making jokes 872 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: about Kathy Hilton is way richer than Kyle, but I 873 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,799 Speaker 1: took it as in terms of career, which Kyle has 874 00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:18,240 Speaker 1: definitely made a name for herself outside of her husband 875 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 1: much more than Kathy. This is twitter. You guys. I 876 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: did not say this. I already gave my point of view. Disclaim. Honestly, 877 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,959 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, as far as career goes 878 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,239 Speaker 1: in independence, obviously kyle, but I feel like as far 879 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:34,200 Speaker 1: as the wealth, Kathy Hilton, you know, I feel like 880 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 1: they gotta go tea for tea. It's Kathy all day. Well, 881 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 1: we also have to keep in mind we really don't 882 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: know anybody's net worth. It's all network and I was 883 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 1: like I would where showed me the money. I had 884 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,240 Speaker 1: it up and it said sixteen million. I was like, Damn, 885 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,359 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I'd be podcast if I had 886 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,960 Speaker 1: that network. Listen, I would be on a beach somewhere 887 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,839 Speaker 1: with my net sixteen million. And then I started looking 888 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,720 Speaker 1: at Ed when I'm like, what's in your bank account? 889 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:08,919 Speaker 1: Together I was like we're sixteen millions on the Internet. Um, 890 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 1: and then Um Teddy. So I have a question. Are 891 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:19,319 Speaker 1: you privy to Kathy Hilton enjoying a good old I 892 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: have never done a Congo line. I've gone to a 893 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 1: bunch of Kathy's parties and what I have seen that 894 00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 1: she loves doing is prank phone calling and she's prank 895 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 1: phone called the same person for like years, like she 896 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 1: loves it. Everyone sits around and we listen to her 897 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:39,200 Speaker 1: prank phone calling. And she loves Karaoke. So those two 898 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: things I have witnessed. I've never been a part of 899 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 1: a Congo line, but you never know. She's venturing with things. 900 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:50,279 Speaker 1: And then do you. We already talked about that. Um. Oh. 901 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,799 Speaker 1: And lastly, for drew, as someone who has a large team, 902 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 1: how do you know the people around you, especially new employees, 903 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 1: aren't looking for their fifteen minutes? Oh my God, by 904 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 1: the way, drew is here with a team. I mean 905 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: she's got one. She has Ralph here, who we're going 906 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: to get into with Edwin Shortley. She has Ralph here, 907 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 1: and there's an additional person, yes, my good old manager, 908 00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 1: George Robert Fuller. I mean you know, so the team 909 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,759 Speaker 1: is important. You know when they say team work makes 910 00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 1: the dream work, and there's no I in team. Clap 911 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:29,839 Speaker 1: it up for the team, you know. You know what 912 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 1: I'm catching a lot of. I'm about to be sending 913 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,399 Speaker 1: text messages to my manager, like I don't see you here. 914 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,320 Speaker 1: I was laying it myself for KT l a last 915 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 1: not slaying it. You know, it's a good team. I'm grateful, 916 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 1: but it is very, very scary. You know, I was 917 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 1: just having this conversation with candy about, you know, the 918 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,800 Speaker 1: people that will come around and appear to be for 919 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: you and want to be there to help you and 920 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:55,399 Speaker 1: just really get on camera and like completely. So from 921 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 1: what I've learned, you need to actually ask Ralph if 922 00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:03,319 Speaker 1: they're good people, because we trust either we see the 923 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 1: worst in everybody and they see and you guys see 924 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 1: the best. My husband similar, like I have to go 925 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,760 Speaker 1: to job interviews with him and I'm like you're absolutely 926 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,919 Speaker 1: not hiring that person. Like how could you possibly think that? 927 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,880 Speaker 1: That is I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, but 928 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:22,279 Speaker 1: we're all fies put in like processes now, like background checks, 929 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,759 Speaker 1: and like Oh, we gotta, we gotta get into that, 930 00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,399 Speaker 1: because I do have some questions regarding those things. So 931 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 1: on watch what happens live. They do a work the 932 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 1: polls game. Do you think Cathy's meltdown was as bad 933 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: as when it claims? Of course, Garcella Says No. We'll 934 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 1: never know because she wasn't there. And as much as 935 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,759 Speaker 1: I love Garcel as much as I love Sutton. They 936 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:50,880 Speaker 1: pander to twitter. They do. They know what their fans 937 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 1: want and they will be giving on twitter. They will. 938 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: Um Dere says yes, she does think Kathy had a 939 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:03,640 Speaker 1: little bit of the meltdown. Um, and the audience is 940 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:07,359 Speaker 1: saying no, because once again, if you don't see it, yeah, 941 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna you choose your favorite. Um. Should of Garcel 942 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,880 Speaker 1: given Erica heads up about the real dereit says she 943 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,040 Speaker 1: thinks she should have. Garcella Says No. I say no, 944 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 1: you say no, I say I mean you sure just 945 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,360 Speaker 1: got canceled. I'm not running to go and tell but 946 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 1: at this point it had not been canceled when they 947 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,439 Speaker 1: were in Aspen. She had talked about it a week 948 00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:36,080 Speaker 1: prior on the show. Then she goes to Aspen. Has 949 00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:41,280 Speaker 1: that coexisting to Erica, though? I don't see it for Erica. 950 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:43,919 Speaker 1: But that is my point, which is always the point, 951 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,319 Speaker 1: which is fine. Whenever Garcella is talking about Erica, it's 952 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,400 Speaker 1: not out of concern, it's not because she's trying to 953 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,279 Speaker 1: be a friend and not trying to connect, because she 954 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 1: wants she's going to throw her ship around because then 955 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 1: she doesn't have to talk about her own stuff, which 956 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 1: is fine, which I don't mind it, but that's what 957 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,440 Speaker 1: it is, Um. So I say no, what do you say? 958 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: So you say yes, she should have uh, I think 959 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,439 Speaker 1: it's if it's going to come back to bite your masks. 960 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 1: But she shuts it down so quickly when she is confronted. 961 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 1: She's a champ at it. So she doesn't have to. 962 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 1: She don't want to be involved in the drama. She 963 00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:20,839 Speaker 1: can carry it Um. And then people asking about treat 964 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 1: being a flip flopper, stuck in the middle. Then Andy 965 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:28,440 Speaker 1: asked another shady boots question where he says to Garcel 966 00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 1: do you still think that you are closer to Kathy 967 00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 1: Than Kyle and Kathy are? And Garcella says yes. Would 968 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,920 Speaker 1: you also have to imagine the magnitude of this? And 969 00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 1: I also want you to think. Could you image if 970 00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:46,440 Speaker 1: Renna said that? RENNA would be burned at the stake 971 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,880 Speaker 1: like but Garcela can get away with it, just like 972 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:54,880 Speaker 1: Garcela can get away with calling herself iconic. I can't 973 00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: these iconic, I know, but let other people call you iconic. 974 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 1: You call it a self iconic. And she was in 975 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:06,360 Speaker 1: coming to America. So it's like, you know, I get it, 976 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:10,799 Speaker 1: get to wear that crown, that crown around. I live 977 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 1: for a moment. Like, you know, put some respect on 978 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 1: my name. You gotta sometimes let people know. See, I 979 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: am just not that way. I'm happy. Granted, no one's 980 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:21,880 Speaker 1: ever calling me iconic, ever, but like your iconic. Say it, 981 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,720 Speaker 1: say your chest, the Teddy. I. You know I'm messy, 982 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,360 Speaker 1: but I I you'll own the messy, but not I. 983 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,360 Speaker 1: Just I don't like. I also don't call people. I 984 00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 1: also wouldn't like call myself a queen, like I'm just 985 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,759 Speaker 1: not that. I don't have that in me. You got to, though, 986 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,239 Speaker 1: I got to. You gotta Say Your Queen. Say it. 987 00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 1: I can't. Honestly, I'm read. I taking out Rosatia, like 988 00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 1: I can't do it. I'm flushed. But then what we 989 00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:51,920 Speaker 1: the part that we that made me sad, and I 990 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 1: said this on my instagram, was to read's ability to 991 00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:02,000 Speaker 1: completely shade Kyle repeatedly through out. Watch what happens by 992 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,200 Speaker 1: like I want to understand because I know we were 993 00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 1: all hanging out, I mean this year, last year at 994 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,880 Speaker 1: this time, we were in Vegas together watching my dad perform, 995 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,000 Speaker 1: having the best time. So I've seen them at their 996 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 1: closest and I feel like this year you're seeing every 997 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,960 Speaker 1: chance that dreck gets she's throwing kyle under the bus 998 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,480 Speaker 1: and because she knows Kyle's not having the best season. Yeah, 999 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,359 Speaker 1: and I don't and I don't like a strategic to read. 1000 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,760 Speaker 1: I like a you know, like just the free flowing, 1001 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: free flowing making mistakes, never shed a tear to read. 1002 00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: Looking beautiful. But reunion is going to be juicy, because 1003 00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,240 Speaker 1: then we'll understand why she was going so hard. Yeah, because, 1004 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:45,319 Speaker 1: I mean she every chance she got, she she took it. 1005 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,040 Speaker 1: So that's really where we are, and that is so much, 1006 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,400 Speaker 1: so much. Yeah. So that is end of this portion. 1007 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:56,920 Speaker 1: But let's take a little break and then let's talk 1008 00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:11,839 Speaker 1: to the husband. I'm the heavy race. Guys, we were 1009 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:16,600 Speaker 1: just talking. We're here now with Ralph Pittman Jr. Thank you. 1010 00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 1: Not to be confused. Not to be confused, and Edwin 1011 00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:24,799 Speaker 1: Ari Ave just on his own. My husband and we 1012 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,680 Speaker 1: were talking about she's said something. What did you even 1013 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,399 Speaker 1: say that brought it up? Who knows? We're a couple 1014 00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:34,080 Speaker 1: of champagne thing to Tequila, and I said you wouldn't 1015 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,719 Speaker 1: let me drink on the show, but you want me 1016 00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,520 Speaker 1: to drink now. Okay, so I'm going to give you 1017 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,279 Speaker 1: guys a little tea on why he had to stop 1018 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,239 Speaker 1: drinking on the show, which I've never said because I 1019 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,840 Speaker 1: didn't want him to be hated, but now, obviously I 1020 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 1: don't care anymore. I also thought we were going to 1021 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,920 Speaker 1: be perfect back in the day and we're just not. Um. 1022 00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: So our first filmed date, this is gonna make you 1023 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:54,840 Speaker 1: feel better, rough, because I feel like this is some 1024 00:56:54,880 --> 00:57:00,920 Speaker 1: ship you would do our very first film date. You 1025 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:02,880 Speaker 1: know how they give you like talking points, so like 1026 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,760 Speaker 1: talk about if you'd have another baby or talk about whatever, 1027 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 1: and Edwin was so nervous, like and when Edwin gets nervous, 1028 00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 1: he gets into like a full sweat, like he can't 1029 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: play it off. So he's decided he's going to drink Tequila. 1030 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:19,720 Speaker 1: But like, when I say Tequila, it's not like US 1031 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,920 Speaker 1: drinking the champagne right now. It's to the point where, like, 1032 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: I feel like the at this point, you drink. What 1033 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:29,160 Speaker 1: did you drink back then, Cassim goes, you weren't. We 1034 00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:33,880 Speaker 1: weren't nineteen at the time. I remember because you filled 1035 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:37,840 Speaker 1: my nine water. Yeah, because I was pissed and I 1036 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:46,680 Speaker 1: was pissed because she watered down my nine. I was well, 1037 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 1: once you hear what happened, because they saved us, because 1038 00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 1: you know, men just say and you watch all of them, 1039 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 1: don't just say dumb shit like don't say that. So anyways, 1040 00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 1: one of the talking points is when are you going 1041 00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:03,560 Speaker 1: to have another kid? And also, Edwin focusing while filming 1042 00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,840 Speaker 1: is like a real struggle, like so it's like we're 1043 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 1: at a date. Everyone's looking at us and he's like, 1044 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,320 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's just pounding drinks and they're like 1045 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:13,920 Speaker 1: can you get through the talking points? And I'm like 1046 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,440 Speaker 1: you have to ask you have to ask me about 1047 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,240 Speaker 1: the kids. Just asking about the kids, and he's like 1048 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:21,800 Speaker 1: so do you think you want to have any more kids? 1049 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I don't know. I never 1050 00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 1: say never, and he goes, but then you get all 1051 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 1: big word yes, he did. I we have issues having 1052 00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 1: sex because I'm not, as you know, worse where you worse, 1053 00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 1: and I am like sitting there and I'm like what 1054 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,960 Speaker 1: in the hell do I actually do right now? I 1055 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 1: kicked him under the table and I started and I 1056 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:54,000 Speaker 1: was like, because I'm like I've got a lot of 1057 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,960 Speaker 1: this isn't kissing me up because also, like, I've struggled 1058 00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 1: with weight my entire life. I understand. And I was 1059 00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 1: like the fact that one he would think this is 1060 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: a funny thing just and I'm like it's because he 1061 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 1: thinks he's being funny, but he's not funny. Yeah, so, wow, 1062 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:10,440 Speaker 1: that's interesting because that sounds like something my husband actually say, 1063 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 1: because it's the same sentiment. And I'm happy. Do you 1064 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,720 Speaker 1: know that? It's not just you, Mab, but it's like men. 1065 00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:18,840 Speaker 1: They get on camera and I'm like who is this person? Like, 1066 00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 1: quit trying to tell jokes. You're funny to laugh at. 1067 00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 1: You're not a funny person. Yeah, like you're not a comedian, 1068 00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm meanwhile, I'm saying I'm like, Oh my God, 1069 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,720 Speaker 1: it is so hard to film because you say things 1070 00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:33,920 Speaker 1: you can't take it back and it's like why did 1071 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 1: you just say that on camera? And then if you 1072 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 1: fight in that moment, like my my natural response in 1073 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,920 Speaker 1: real life was like go yourself, like what do you 1074 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 1: of course I'm carrying a baby, and like I'm sorry that, like, 1075 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,680 Speaker 1: your penis isn't as turned on by me in that 1076 00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:53,400 Speaker 1: moment your child, because I'm carrying your child and I'm miserable. 1077 00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 1: But Um, and also like don't just the word big 1078 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 1: pisses me off, all the things Um. But instead I 1079 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 1: sat there and I laughed because I was like I 1080 01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:06,560 Speaker 1: don't want to make a big deal of it, and 1081 01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,400 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, if they air this and it's me just 1082 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:13,360 Speaker 1: laughing at my but housewives messed up is if we 1083 01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,680 Speaker 1: would have had car camps that night, they would have 1084 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 1: gotten a whole show, because I got in the car 1085 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 1: and I was like you will never film with me 1086 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:26,919 Speaker 1: again you do that like the my Erica Jane came 1087 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:31,600 Speaker 1: out like and I was like I cannot, absolutely not. 1088 01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,280 Speaker 1: You will never drink on camera again. You are cut 1089 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:38,160 Speaker 1: off like rage. And I waited all season long for 1090 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 1: them to air it and they didn't because I was 1091 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 1: they wanted people to like me my first season and 1092 01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 1: like him. Oh well, that's I would take your hand 1093 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 1: any day. That's the way to start out because, like 1094 01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 1: for us, they were like we're gonna cut every bad thing. 1095 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 1: We're like, we didn't have chance. I know, I knew 1096 01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,360 Speaker 1: you were gonna I knew you were going to go there. Yeah, 1097 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 1: she took the moment and was like yeah, well, yeah, 1098 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,000 Speaker 1: because that was my real response. I mean I had 1099 01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 1: I faked it. I should have, but I didn't know. 1100 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,200 Speaker 1: Like here's the thing, in hindsight it would have been 1101 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 1: a much more because that is things that I think 1102 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,360 Speaker 1: men do say to women in real life. But I 1103 01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 1: was so wanting to be perfect and wanting to give 1104 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:32,400 Speaker 1: the illusion that we were perfect that I was editing myself, Teddy. 1105 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,880 Speaker 1: That's what we're opposites in that. So I've lived the 1106 01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 1: other way and I can't say it's much better on 1107 01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:40,280 Speaker 1: the other side. We literally lived just being so realist 1108 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:41,440 Speaker 1: one like, you know what, there could have been a 1109 01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:44,240 Speaker 1: better way I could have responded, because by me responding 1110 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,960 Speaker 1: in that real way is two seasons of us just 1111 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:51,920 Speaker 1: having storylines of just marital issues upon marital issues. So 1112 01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: oftentimes Ralph has said like could you have responded differently, 1113 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wish I could rewind and be, 1114 01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,120 Speaker 1: you know, take a page out of your book. What 1115 01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:00,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I do have to ask one question. This 1116 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:04,160 Speaker 1: is my one shady question. Okay, what's really for Edwin? 1117 01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,280 Speaker 1: But and if you say yes, you're actually going to 1118 01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:14,160 Speaker 1: be dead, like actually there will be women who kill 1119 01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: episode and I'll be the start, have you ever asked 1120 01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:23,640 Speaker 1: an assistant to give you a massage? No, Rabb how 1121 01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 1: in the right answered. I need to understand, and I 1122 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 1: love you. He does dumb other ships, like even if 1123 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 1: he hurts somebody's message. I'm like you, absolutely do not 1124 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,480 Speaker 1: put a heart Emoji because the heart means, you know, 1125 01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:41,960 Speaker 1: like even the heart a message. No, don't respond to 1126 01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:45,240 Speaker 1: D m. So my question is I need to know, 1127 01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,320 Speaker 1: and you're I need to know that did you have 1128 01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 1: a background and massage therapy? So, so, I never asked 1129 01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 1: her to give me a massage. That never really been asked. 1130 01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 1: Thing ever didn't didn't happen. She Or said she should 1131 01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:11,360 Speaker 1: have given you a massage. So Laham Talk. Sorry, Miss Producer, 1132 01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:15,600 Speaker 1: but the reality is. The reality is is that I 1133 01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,840 Speaker 1: never I never asked her to give me a massage. 1134 01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: That never actually took place. What happened was I was 1135 01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:26,400 Speaker 1: having some real bad back issues. Little literally he could 1136 01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:31,560 Speaker 1: barely walk. He was gonna be hospitalized. So, yeah, instead 1137 01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 1: of asking a professional, so we're not available. So No, no, 1138 01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 1: so she actually so, this is my assistant at the time. 1139 01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: She actually sent a massage therapist to my house that 1140 01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 1: was licensed and she came and gave me a massage. 1141 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: I just could not find one. But my sister. I 1142 01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,520 Speaker 1: never asked my sister to give me a massage. That 1143 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,000 Speaker 1: never happened. So you know, I took care of the situation, 1144 01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,000 Speaker 1: got the massage I needed, got the CBD oil rubbed 1145 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,720 Speaker 1: on me the way I needed to, and I was 1146 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,920 Speaker 1: back in motion. That too. You know, I'm taking care 1147 01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,800 Speaker 1: of business. But then, what is the text that created 1148 01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:05,040 Speaker 1: all the drama? The text that created all the dramas 1149 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 1: when she said that I should have well, she said 1150 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,120 Speaker 1: I should have gave you more a massage, and that 1151 01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,840 Speaker 1: was it. But in your opinion, do you think she 1152 01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,520 Speaker 1: was flirting with you? In my opinion, Oh God, look 1153 01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,560 Speaker 1: at the eyes, Jesus, and I have to say I'm 1154 01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 1: a little bit upset. I never got a visual on 1155 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:27,600 Speaker 1: the show. Can you show me? Okay, yeah, I need 1156 01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:32,840 Speaker 1: visuals of every human being found you fast. I mean 1157 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 1: she's like you know, she can she can find anything. 1158 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 1: And I have to ask you a question. If you 1159 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,440 Speaker 1: were to actually, if she were really to hit the 1160 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,720 Speaker 1: fan with I talked about the Swed one too, would 1161 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: you prefer whoever your husband were to step out with 1162 01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 1: be attractive or unattractive. Oh my God, she better be 1163 01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 1: a bad one. I will be like, oh no, she 1164 01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 1: better be hot. Right, that's hot, that is hot, that 1165 01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:07,959 Speaker 1: is hot. Yeah, English is my second legged bad one 1166 01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 1: is a hottie. She's a yeah, you need a chance, 1167 01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 1: because it's like, I mean, if you do this, is 1168 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,640 Speaker 1: disrespectful to me, like really, see, I'm the opposite. I 1169 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:22,520 Speaker 1: want the person to be slightly dog heinous, because I 1170 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 1: want to know it's just my husband's like insecurity issues, 1171 01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 1: like trying to feed something, and like I want to 1172 01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,720 Speaker 1: be like, well, obviously, like she can't top this. I 1173 01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:35,920 Speaker 1: want to be like, don't degrade me in that way. 1174 01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,920 Speaker 1: But I did read something with all hates when I 1175 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:42,920 Speaker 1: say that women are wife material versus dating material. Not 1176 01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 1: dating material, but like wanna don't sugarcoat it, okay, like 1177 01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,919 Speaker 1: there's a difference between a girl that you just want 1178 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,160 Speaker 1: to f versus somebody, somebody want to marry. Okay, and 1179 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 1: this kisses me typically the girls that I've that I've 1180 01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:59,440 Speaker 1: wanted to F I did not want to marry, but 1181 01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,920 Speaker 1: he'll always like I knew, I knew you were the 1182 01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:05,040 Speaker 1: one because you were wife material. Go kick rocks, Dude, 1183 01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 1: wife material. White material, and I'm like, so the girl 1184 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:11,320 Speaker 1: that I found online that you dated before me, that 1185 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:13,800 Speaker 1: was part of the Texas Round Up. I did not 1186 01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:20,440 Speaker 1: know that round up. Just so you know, like I'm 1187 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:22,800 Speaker 1: you really came up with me, like I was like 1188 01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:26,120 Speaker 1: we were fighting about something back in a million years ago, 1189 01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, and he goes, the reason that 1190 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 1: we got married is because your wife material. You're and 1191 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 1: like he's using as a compliment, but I'm like, I 1192 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 1: also feel like it's not a compliment, like you're not 1193 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:39,240 Speaker 1: saying I'm hot, because life sounds like Yo, she's UH. 1194 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,520 Speaker 1: And then, yeah, wifey, like I'm going to Tuck you 1195 01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,040 Speaker 1: in the bed and medicine. Good night night. But so 1196 01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:49,760 Speaker 1: then I took I took the liberty to Google. Yeah, like, wifey, 1197 01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:55,240 Speaker 1: you were going to go to dinner and you know, 1198 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,920 Speaker 1: it's the worst thing you could say, but what if 1199 01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:01,200 Speaker 1: somebody you want to stay with the then I started quizzing, 1200 01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 1: like who else's wife material? And he'll like name people 1201 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Teddy, that was a set up, though. 1202 01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 1: I'm like not what, like he didn't say Jennifer Lopez. 1203 01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,480 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I want to be like all 1204 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:19,680 Speaker 1: those would be everything. I thought wifey was everything, like 1205 01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 1: j Lo on down. Yeah, you know what I mean. Wife. 1206 01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,520 Speaker 1: He's like, you know, you're you're okay for her to 1207 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: show up to the PTA meeting. Yeah, like, what's the 1208 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 1: worst thing that you have ever said about drew on housewives? 1209 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,040 Speaker 1: His worst thing to me that got aired was everybody 1210 01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,680 Speaker 1: went around and said, what's your favorite thing about your 1211 01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:43,360 Speaker 1: significant other? Do you want to know what Ed one 1212 01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:48,680 Speaker 1: said about me? I was ready for anything, funny, hot, 1213 01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 1: good and bad, any any kind of compliment, and Ricio 1214 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,040 Speaker 1: went first. So of course his was like a love 1215 01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 1: Diet tribe to kyle first, which is I mean I 1216 01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:04,840 Speaker 1: would have gone, but trying to imagine the first possible 1217 01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:08,480 Speaker 1: thing somebody could say about you as a compliment. Okay, 1218 01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 1: he said, Um, she's organized. It is a great quality. 1219 01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:27,280 Speaker 1: It's a great quality's organized. That sounds like a compliment 1220 01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:33,960 Speaker 1: to okay, I'm trying to really compliment all of that. 1221 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,960 Speaker 1: So organized, because why, please, get she plans. Her tripped, 1222 01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:42,320 Speaker 1: she's just planning. Oh, it's not sexy. swoon. She's a planner. 1223 01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:44,559 Speaker 1: I've never been a planner. So she's you know, she 1224 01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,760 Speaker 1: compliments that F and I like that. I think there's 1225 01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 1: a lot of value. And so I can't say that 1226 01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 1: because he says she's not organized. So I wish I 1227 01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:54,360 Speaker 1: was more organized, because he's like, but if he said 1228 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:58,479 Speaker 1: that was your best quality and I can't wait to 1229 01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,560 Speaker 1: go home and make life to my wifee. That's organized 1230 01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: in our organized house, Baby, well organized wife, say, because 1231 01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:12,120 Speaker 1: you said okay, I mean it's not. Doesn't get much better. Yeah, 1232 01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:18,080 Speaker 1: I mean, remember what? I don't know, the one where 1233 01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 1: you're I'm like they what am I? Good? Well, you 1234 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:23,280 Speaker 1: said two disrespectful things, the lunchables being one. Well, tell 1235 01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,240 Speaker 1: me about the lunchables. I forget when he told me 1236 01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:29,439 Speaker 1: I didn't deserve like steaking lobster, but I deserved lunchables. Yeah, 1237 01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: was that supposed to be a joke, because I thought 1238 01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:36,080 Speaker 1: we were having a good time? Said shot to kill. 1239 01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:42,760 Speaker 1: Where is it? Where is it? Laugh so that he 1240 01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:47,240 Speaker 1: doesn't have to like no, no, no, think about it. 1241 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 1: Let me tell you. Let me let you guys in 1242 01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,200 Speaker 1: on something. When you hand, he's trying to sell you 1243 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,880 Speaker 1: on it. So if you see the hand going and 1244 01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:58,080 Speaker 1: he's like, I'm about to sell you, foremost lunchables is 1245 01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:02,320 Speaker 1: not a bad thing at all, and we my four 1246 01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:05,840 Speaker 1: year old, my four year olds for lunch. But I 1247 01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:07,439 Speaker 1: need to know is that the lunchable with like the 1248 01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:11,240 Speaker 1: Turkey and the cheese, or the lunchable ty and Turkey 1249 01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:14,760 Speaker 1: and cheese the best with the pieces like you got 1250 01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: to make it the right way and stack it up, 1251 01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,160 Speaker 1: you know, put piece of cheese Turkey in the middle. 1252 01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:23,840 Speaker 1: You can make it a double. You know. Oh my God, 1253 01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:27,400 Speaker 1: a little. So were you trying to be funny there? Yeah, 1254 01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:30,280 Speaker 1: I thought it was. I don't know, I'm I don't know. 1255 01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:32,840 Speaker 1: My humor sometimes could come across the wrong way, but 1256 01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:35,479 Speaker 1: I did think, you know, it was. I gave drew 1257 01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,720 Speaker 1: this amazing he's adding a lot of words and it's 1258 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:42,439 Speaker 1: a lot of it's a little wordy. I gave drew dry. 1259 01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:45,439 Speaker 1: I gave you this amazing, amazing, amazing dinner where I 1260 01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:48,160 Speaker 1: went all out for I had a Tuxedo on this night. 1261 01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:52,720 Speaker 1: You know, I saw it over it. You know, I 1262 01:10:52,840 --> 01:11:01,760 Speaker 1: mean you guys are experiencing it live. Not It's not gaslighting, 1263 01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:06,400 Speaker 1: but literally. Well, I'm gonna asking about the definition after 1264 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,120 Speaker 1: we don't even know what gains. I just found because 1265 01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:11,760 Speaker 1: guys are so good at it, I looked at the 1266 01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:15,599 Speaker 1: definition I was like, Oh, this is my life. But no, 1267 01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:17,639 Speaker 1: I thought then, you know, I gave her this great 1268 01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:19,880 Speaker 1: night and I just told her that, you know, instead 1269 01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,000 Speaker 1: of the staking laughter and she I should have gave 1270 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:24,639 Speaker 1: her a lunchable. And then it was a lunchable coming. 1271 01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:32,280 Speaker 1: One seems to have understanding on that. You see it right. 1272 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 1: She started crying and was upset. He wasn't crying conseling session. 1273 01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,400 Speaker 1: He brought it up like I had never heard that before. 1274 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:46,200 Speaker 1: It's all the delivery in an hour. I was smiling her. 1275 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,559 Speaker 1: Give it to me, look at me in my eyes 1276 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,880 Speaker 1: and give it to me the way you gave it 1277 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:57,599 Speaker 1: to her. No, you weren't smiling. I know all your 1278 01:11:57,640 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 1: pearly whites today. It was it was just, it was 1279 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,719 Speaker 1: it was just a statement, you know. It wasn't something 1280 01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:05,120 Speaker 1: that was supposed to hurt anyone's feelings or anything like that. 1281 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,640 Speaker 1: It was a throwaway like hey, you know what, I 1282 01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:09,759 Speaker 1: gave you all of this right here at that moment. 1283 01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 1: It probably wasn't the best, you know. So you said, 1284 01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,559 Speaker 1: I gave you all these things that you actually deserve, 1285 01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:23,679 Speaker 1: eligible because it was like all the eyebrows and everything, 1286 01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:28,800 Speaker 1: but which one up? You don't get Botox. I just 1287 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:36,719 Speaker 1: told him that I was going to just stay like that. Okay, 1288 01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,880 Speaker 1: I now need to ask you, guys, what is the 1289 01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:46,920 Speaker 1: definition in your minds of gas lighting? Um, gaslighting? My 1290 01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:53,080 Speaker 1: definition is when you um take some lighter fluid and 1291 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:58,920 Speaker 1: blow up your marriage. To know what is gas? I 1292 01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,960 Speaker 1: never heard of a gas until somebody using on the show. 1293 01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:03,760 Speaker 1: That's not a word that I've ever heard of in 1294 01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:09,960 Speaker 1: my life. Have you heard of it? No, okay, no, sick. 1295 01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 1: This is what I mean. The wink is really a 1296 01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:19,880 Speaker 1: problem for gaslighting. I'll give you an example. When you 1297 01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,960 Speaker 1: Gaso late me, first day of school for the kids, 1298 01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:27,720 Speaker 1: I say you need to be home because they has 1299 01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:32,880 Speaker 1: to do is pilates class, whatever. This Day it was pilates. 1300 01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:36,439 Speaker 1: I remember it. I'll carry it to my grave with rage. 1301 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:40,599 Speaker 1: And I say we're leaving at seven, it's the first 1302 01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:47,400 Speaker 1: day of school. And so I have the kids ready 1303 01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 1: to all the pictures before school, excited, organized. I was 1304 01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:55,800 Speaker 1: gonna working on my sexiness being organized, and I have 1305 01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,080 Speaker 1: them fully ready to do the before school photos. They 1306 01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,000 Speaker 1: hold the thing like all the stuff. It's already annoying 1307 01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:02,679 Speaker 1: to me that he chose this day to go work 1308 01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:04,880 Speaker 1: out in the class when like all of these things 1309 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 1: are happening. But I let it be granted. I had 1310 01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:11,559 Speaker 1: the kids in the car at seven thirty five and 1311 01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:13,479 Speaker 1: the second that he didn't pull in that gate at 1312 01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:16,920 Speaker 1: seven thirty five, I was like out the door, like 1313 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:21,040 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, you go kick rocks because, like, honestly, 1314 01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:26,880 Speaker 1: the selfishness, I cannot but instead of him saying hey, sorry, 1315 01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 1: I was late, which I checked. No, it was seven 1316 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:39,559 Speaker 1: thirty nine. I checked the security footage. Yeah, we have 1317 01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:41,200 Speaker 1: a bone to pick with you guys. You need to 1318 01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 1: have skyline, not vivent. Yes, we love N ambassadors here. 1319 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:56,040 Speaker 1: So anyways, uh, then he calls me and I'm in 1320 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:59,080 Speaker 1: the car with the kids and he's annoyed. He's like 1321 01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:02,639 Speaker 1: why would you, and that is so selfish of you 1322 01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:06,360 Speaker 1: to leave the first day of school and not let 1323 01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 1: me see the kids. I am and I'm like one, 1324 01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm in the car with the kids, so can you 1325 01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:14,000 Speaker 1: kindly not talk to me in this tone and reel 1326 01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:15,720 Speaker 1: it in and realized that you were late. I told 1327 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:19,240 Speaker 1: you the exact time and you weren't here, and then 1328 01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:21,479 Speaker 1: he just went on and on and on, so mad 1329 01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:23,600 Speaker 1: to the point he took my ring light that he 1330 01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:29,240 Speaker 1: knew I needed. You didn't get Patty, that my that was. 1331 01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:33,600 Speaker 1: Why do I always take rings? Why did they do 1332 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,400 Speaker 1: the only one that's like this is my ring light. 1333 01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:38,479 Speaker 1: He doesn't let me even use that's crazy. So not 1334 01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:42,240 Speaker 1: only do I have at that day he took my 1335 01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 1: all my stuff for the podcast, everything. Took it. It 1336 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:50,519 Speaker 1: was mine first of all, but that is so quick. 1337 01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:52,200 Speaker 1: So you were late and then you rose up and 1338 01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:54,000 Speaker 1: then you took the ring light and then he took all. 1339 01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,519 Speaker 1: It was late by two minutes, which means she had 1340 01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:01,759 Speaker 1: like literally deliberately leave. It's testing you and you failed 1341 01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,280 Speaker 1: to test. But the fact is, instead of just saying 1342 01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,519 Speaker 1: gaslighting is instead of saying hey, babe, I'm sorry, I 1343 01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:08,800 Speaker 1: was like, I do think it was a little bit 1344 01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:10,600 Speaker 1: of an asshole move for you to leave at the 1345 01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:12,439 Speaker 1: second maybe you could have called me to see where 1346 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:15,680 Speaker 1: I was. But, truth be told, whether he knows it 1347 01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:17,400 Speaker 1: or not, I have him on find my phone, so 1348 01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:19,639 Speaker 1: I knew exactly where he was and I was like Hey, 1349 01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:22,080 Speaker 1: put me on, I'll do it when he when he 1350 01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:26,360 Speaker 1: isn't looking. I had it. I had a comerce commission 1351 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,680 Speaker 1: like one day Jenn and cut my friend Jen and 1352 01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:30,280 Speaker 1: Kyle and I were hanging out and I was like 1353 01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,679 Speaker 1: get Edwin's phone. It's code is Blah Blah, blah, Blah Blah. 1354 01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 1: Let's get it on there. And then one day he's 1355 01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:36,479 Speaker 1: like why does I why do I have this thing? 1356 01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:40,519 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you're on. Find my phone now, because 1357 01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:43,320 Speaker 1: he knows all the technology stuff ed one doesn't know 1358 01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:45,880 Speaker 1: how to turn it off. But I checked it and 1359 01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:47,320 Speaker 1: then I saw him and I was like whatever, but 1360 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,280 Speaker 1: he never apologized. He went on and on and on 1361 01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:52,400 Speaker 1: for two days and then finally I had to get 1362 01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:54,360 Speaker 1: to the point where I had to cry and say, listen, 1363 01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:57,040 Speaker 1: when I was younger, people didn't show up for me, 1364 01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:59,320 Speaker 1: and now I need to know that, like you're when 1365 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:01,960 Speaker 1: something to port and you have to show up and 1366 01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:04,080 Speaker 1: be on time. And that's who it is. And what 1367 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:07,479 Speaker 1: did you say? Why? Just paid the bill for school. 1368 01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 1: This is gas lighting things. You are wrong. GASLIGHTING is 1369 01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:16,040 Speaker 1: you're wrong on top of your wrong, and you're just 1370 01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:19,680 Speaker 1: the wrong. You're wrong gaslighting. It was a little bit 1371 01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: of the victim on that. I was like, I just 1372 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:24,840 Speaker 1: paid for this damn school. So anyway, see, you see, 1373 01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:29,720 Speaker 1: that's justification when you're wrong. Don't. Don't women gaslight US also, though, 1374 01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:32,200 Speaker 1: because for some reason I feel like in this moment here, 1375 01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:36,240 Speaker 1: the gaslighting is coming. That's not the topic of the table. 1376 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:40,080 Speaker 1: I think the women as well. You know all the time. 1377 01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 1: Really well, no, because we're gaslighting is when you're trying 1378 01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:47,479 Speaker 1: to pretend that something is different than what it is. 1379 01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:50,439 Speaker 1: We're being transparent and the fact that we are saying 1380 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 1: y'all are doing the wrong thing. We're not trying to 1381 01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:55,400 Speaker 1: stuggarcoat it. It was wrong for her to send a 1382 01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:57,160 Speaker 1: message and you know, there's a certain things you have 1383 01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:59,360 Speaker 1: to own. I think the owning and the following on 1384 01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,960 Speaker 1: the sport is it's missing. So didn't you just guess 1385 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:08,080 Speaker 1: like me yesterday? Why? I know we're running out of time, 1386 01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:10,040 Speaker 1: but we need we need really trying to remember. What. 1387 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:12,000 Speaker 1: What do I want to know? Yes, that we got 1388 01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:14,840 Speaker 1: along all day. Yes, we were eight day. We did, 1389 01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 1: but like you know, so your responsive. Go ahead. No, no, 1390 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:23,280 Speaker 1: you got it. You think about what you tell me, 1391 01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:27,400 Speaker 1: because you got it. Dr Teddy's here, reporting for reporting, 1392 01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:31,720 Speaker 1: here for duty. Really, I really don't remember. So you gasolate. She, 1393 01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:33,760 Speaker 1: guess likes me a lot, you know, every time you 1394 01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:37,880 Speaker 1: make an excuse about why you're late or not on time. 1395 01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:40,599 Speaker 1: If we're doing things, you create this whole entire song 1396 01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:44,240 Speaker 1: and a dance. And you're saying yesterday about the flight. Yes, 1397 01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:50,200 Speaker 1: you gaslate me, though, because you made it all about 1398 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:53,040 Speaker 1: something else, when it really was all that moment in 1399 01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:56,559 Speaker 1: the car. What do you say? Go ahead, we only 1400 01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,960 Speaker 1: have two minutes left. So so we missed our flight yesterday. 1401 01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 1: It wasn't my fault. My make my makeup and people 1402 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:05,320 Speaker 1: on the team. They were late, which kind of then 1403 01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:08,280 Speaker 1: pushed us behind and my mom had surgery and I 1404 01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:09,680 Speaker 1: had to take her to the doctor. So the day 1405 01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:13,120 Speaker 1: just kind of fell behind. Um. So, yeah, so he 1406 01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,000 Speaker 1: got mad because when we got in the car, so 1407 01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 1: he was telling the driver, who doesn't even know us, 1408 01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:21,479 Speaker 1: like yeah, it's a wife, a woman, let me tell you, man, 1409 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:24,519 Speaker 1: she's making us missed our flight, and I'm sitting there 1410 01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:26,080 Speaker 1: like let's keep a positive attitude. I think we can 1411 01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:28,240 Speaker 1: still make it, you know, and I did a prayer, 1412 01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:32,559 Speaker 1: like let's touch and agree, but we didn't make that's 1413 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:37,120 Speaker 1: that's why I went taking self at the airport, in 1414 01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 1: the airport. Yeah, Tequila shots, actually. So, so, you both 1415 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,200 Speaker 1: are a touch of gaslighters. Say. I'm not a gaslighter, 1416 01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:48,720 Speaker 1: I'm a manipulator. Oh well, I look at these definitions. 1417 01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:53,040 Speaker 1: I am aware of my behavior, but I am intentional 1418 01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 1: with my words, like I think he he's not intentional. 1419 01:19:57,360 --> 01:20:00,600 Speaker 1: He his intent when he's upset, which rebably happens like 1420 01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:03,800 Speaker 1: once every six months, is to say something that like 1421 01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:06,080 Speaker 1: he will forget and then that night he'll come in 1422 01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 1: and I'm like no, no, I'll carry this around for 1423 01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:14,920 Speaker 1: months understanding. Yeah, so, but like I'll never, I'll never hit, 1424 01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:17,439 Speaker 1: I'll never hit below the belt and say something that 1425 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 1: I can't take back. He will, and then I'll be like, 1426 01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I mean this is another podcast 1427 01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,920 Speaker 1: called a couple's therapy that you're gonna have to all join. 1428 01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:33,960 Speaker 1: But guys, we gotta go for a little tequila tasting. 1429 01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:38,719 Speaker 1: You can follow us over on Tiktok to find out 1430 01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:44,040 Speaker 1: which housewife beverage is our favorite. will be blindfolded, so 1431 01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 1: no bias here. Thanks true for day. Thank you for 1432 01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:51,360 Speaker 1: having me. Thank you, rob what's your new book called? 1433 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:56,360 Speaker 1: The step in parenting? Um, you guys have to get 1434 01:20:56,360 --> 01:20:58,320 Speaker 1: it Edwin. If you were to have a book, what 1435 01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:07,160 Speaker 1: would you call it awkward pod. I really want to 1436 01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:10,600 Speaker 1: know now. So many things came to my mind. I 1437 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:15,559 Speaker 1: like that you filter, but nothing was appropriate. Well, cheers, guys. 1438 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 1: Less please download our new single already now? That's a 1439 01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:28,479 Speaker 1: good note. We're working together. Produced by can you see 1440 01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:31,720 Speaker 1: the line of it? He produced it. Um, Oh God, 1441 01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:45,559 Speaker 1: the lyrics. Hey, already? No, it's already. No, no, now 1442 01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:48,160 Speaker 1: you got to go downloaded to hear the rest. Download it. 1443 01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:50,680 Speaker 1: Join in you, guys. Thank you so much. We had 1444 01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:52,120 Speaker 1: so much fun and now we're heading to the I 1445 01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:55,360 Speaker 1: heart radio music festival, where we'll be nice and sloppy 1446 01:21:55,479 --> 01:22:00,120 Speaker 1: after all of our H