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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: got a radio show. Do you understand that? I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you God been big in my life. God, God is

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Speaker 1: a gentleman. You know. I want to I want to

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Speaker 1: point that out to you. God is an absolute gentleman.

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Speaker 1: He will not come in unless he's invited. He don't

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Speaker 1: just barge into your life. He gives us the power

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Speaker 1: of choice. You know. If you say you got it,

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Speaker 1: I don't need you. He let you have it. If

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Speaker 1: you say I need you, come see about me. He

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Speaker 1: right there. It's just a real simple thing. Man. So

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Speaker 1: always say to people this, if you've gotten yourself into something,

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Speaker 1: and please know I have I man, and see that.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm so adamant about it because I've gotten

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Speaker 1: myself in some circumstances and positions in my life. But

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Speaker 1: I've been I've I've had some low moments, man, I've

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Speaker 1: had some moments where I did not know what to do.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what was next, I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: I was stuck. I thought a couple of times, well,

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Speaker 1: then I held on to this little thing that my

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Speaker 1: mother kept talking to me about. She said, sometimes when

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Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope, she said,

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Speaker 1: just hope it'll be all right, you know. And what

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Speaker 1: I've learned in my life is that hope. It's the

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Speaker 1: beginning of faith. Hope. It's just is there a possibility

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Speaker 1: out there for me? Me? I sure hope something happened.

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Speaker 1: See hope, hope it's okay, man, Because like I said,

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Speaker 1: for me, the way I've lived my life, hope was

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Speaker 1: just the thought that something could change from me, that

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Speaker 1: just maybe for some reason, I could be saved, I

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Speaker 1: any other direction. Maybe I could quit messing up. Maybe

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Speaker 1: been in that position. But then once I hope a

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Speaker 1: little bit, and then I remember Also my mother, because

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Speaker 1: most valuable lesson I've ever learned in my life. Nothing

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Speaker 1: has been greater in my life than my faith. She

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Speaker 1: taught me to pray. Mamma used to say, when it

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Speaker 1: You know, when you get a point in your life

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Speaker 1: that hope is the beginning of faith. She said. If

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Speaker 1: See hoping a little bit different from me now, I'm

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Speaker 1: pretty sure. Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot

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Speaker 1: then if you pray with some hope and God answers

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Speaker 1: faith confused, like what's your faith? And then they started

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Speaker 1: Faith is the core of all that is happening to

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Speaker 1: if I stay on the right course and believe a

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Speaker 1: They just come. And it comes in a lot of

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Speaker 1: blessings come a lot of ways. But once you tie

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Speaker 1: God can do with you. Man, if you just invite

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Speaker 1: Come on? Why why would you not change? Why would

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Speaker 1: God got some big plans for you. If he didn't,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't keep waking up. You're listening to ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: we are here the beginning of a new day. Thank you, Lord,

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Speaker 1: I shall appreciate it ever, grateful for this opportunity. That's

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Speaker 1: a whole lot of grace. So let's do that. Let's

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Speaker 1: all say thank you, thank you, thank you, Lord. Appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Let it begin. Shirley Strawberry, thank you

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Speaker 1: Lord again. Good morning see Colin Farrell give him all

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Speaker 1: the praise and glory. Amen, Good morning, Cure Spates slash

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Speaker 1: Junior Lord. I can't do it without you. I tried

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Speaker 1: it for a number of years. I really did. I said,

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Speaker 1: know I saw something. Man, you was online. You were

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Speaker 1: talking about forgiveness, and man, you said something. Man that

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Speaker 1: was I never thought about it. You said, once God

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Speaker 1: move past it. I don't do that anymore. I used to.

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Speaker 1: guilt serves no purpose. Yeah yeah, well, and because guilt

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Speaker 1: she said, well, guilt proves that you're human because you

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Speaker 1: you know. Anyway, thanks for that lesson, Steve. We're moving on.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour of

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Speaker 1: time for Ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: in the building right after this, you're listening to all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: time now for Ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Cherry in New Orleans. Cherry says,

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Speaker 1: my co worker has flirted with me for two years,

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Speaker 1: and now that I'm single, I decided to go to

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Speaker 1: because I know him well. He got to my house

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Speaker 1: and his car was filthy and it smelled like feet.

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Speaker 1: I told him how foul it smells, and he suggested

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Speaker 1: we go in my car. I canceled the date and

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Speaker 1: him all last week he called me a goody two

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Speaker 1: shoes and I told him if his car was nasty,

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Speaker 1: his house is probably nasty too. I didn't need to

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Speaker 1: add insult to injury, but I did. Should I apologize

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Speaker 1: or not? Clo Well, you know, if you feel like

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Speaker 1: you should apologize, you shoot it. What's it gonna hurt you?

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Speaker 1: But don't apologize in me and go out with him,

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Speaker 1: because chances are you're probably correct. Now she's calling you

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Speaker 1: goody two shoes. That's that's because you like clean stuff.

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Speaker 1: That makes you goody two shoes. That's that's probably you

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Speaker 1: don't want to be a stinky car. That sounds like

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Speaker 1: Feebee's trif. And he said, well, let's go in your car.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if a man listen to this, If a

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Speaker 1: man is picking you up for the first time, you

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Speaker 1: expect him to just be on his best behavior, put

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Speaker 1: his road. I trust me. If he won't clean his

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Speaker 1: car up and knowing he's going on a date, okay,

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Speaker 1: then what else is he not willing to do it?

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Speaker 1: This is true. He'd been flirting with you. Just leave

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Speaker 1: it at that, going about your business. You're absolutely correct,

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Speaker 1: it's more behind it. First of all, he's not trying

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Speaker 1: of Courts, but right now, Junior is in for the

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Speaker 1: What's going on, Well, it seems like that a lot

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Speaker 1: Dinny is distracting, ma'am. You're distracting everyone from me getting

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Speaker 1: and you ain't gonna you know when you call yourself

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Speaker 1: all right, We're gonna see how where I'm not sitting

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Speaker 1: a few matter fact, first thing, Sidne the morning, I'm

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Speaker 1: going the past. Oh yeah, Deacon you are whatever your

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Speaker 1: name is. I'm gonna telling about it, yad, matter how

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Speaker 1: long you need to lose, I would be talking to

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Speaker 1: pastor myself and letting him know about this situation. You

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Speaker 1: don't talk. You don't we can call pass right around.

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Speaker 1: We just passed. Don't right. You don't talk to pastor.

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Speaker 1: I talk to pastor. The pastor I don't at this church.

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Speaker 1: Fifteen Yes, Like I said, I'm telling you old Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Ge Oh you you feel old Jesus not not not not.

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Speaker 1: See just like this here you see how you calling

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Speaker 1: on him and you standing yeah, because I'm talking on

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Speaker 1: him to Kidney, was just really going to cuss you

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Speaker 1: out right there because you didn't really hit my nerve.

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Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to you, ladies.

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Speaker 1: You say real quick because you're gonna talk to this

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Speaker 1: operator that's his nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got a break by your girl. You're not

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Speaker 1: I'm oh, I'm oh, I'm gonna kill lord up cursing

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Speaker 1: on the part. Okay, Jesus, I got one more thing, baby.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. What is the baddest I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land Harvey Morning.

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Speaker 1: I told y'all she was gonna be seeing by HERR Jesus.

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Speaker 1: She was not playing. She said, I can scream, yell, jump, flip,

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Speaker 1: in this church out Who are you to tell me

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Speaker 1: how to see the send the pews for what I knew,

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Speaker 1: what Jesus brought me out of. Yeah, I'll know my journey,

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Speaker 1: don't testimony. I love it, that's true. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment and national news right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Chrissy Teagan released a lengthy apology

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Speaker 1: on Monday for her toxic tweets against Courtney Stodden, Lindsay Lohan,

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Speaker 1: and others. Chrissie posted, as you know, a bunch of

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Speaker 1: my old, awful, awful, awful tweets resurfaced. I'm truly ashamed

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Speaker 1: of them. As I look at them and understand the

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Speaker 1: hurt they caused, I have to stop and wonder how

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Speaker 1: could I have done that? There is simply no excuse

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Speaker 1: for my past horrible tweets. She also wrote, my targets

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Speaker 1: didn't deserve them, No one does. Many of them needed

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Speaker 1: empty empathy, kindness, understanding, and support, not my meanness masquerading

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Speaker 1: as a kind of casual edgy humor. I was a troll,

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Speaker 1: full stop, and I am so sorry. So this is

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Speaker 1: what happened. Maybe you don't know the backstory about this.

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Speaker 1: Chrissie is referring to. Yeah, Chrissie is referring to Courtney Stotten,

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Speaker 1: who married actor dutt Doug Hutchinson when he was fifty

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Speaker 1: and she was just sixteen years old. They divorced in

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Speaker 1: early twenty twenty after a tumultuous decade together. Stodden has

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Speaker 1: accused her ex husband of taking advantage of her and

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Speaker 1: verbally abusing her. Stotten also has publicly called out Teagan

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Speaker 1: in the past for her abusive tweets, some of which

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Speaker 1: were calls for her to kill herself quite frankly. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Brands like Macy's and Target have distanced themselves from Chrissy Teagan.

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Speaker 1: She publicly apologized via Twitter. Chrissie says she's continuing to

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Speaker 1: work on herself and making amends privately with others. So

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Speaker 1: she's working. It was a long time ago, but it

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Speaker 1: was harsh, it was mean, it was cold with the

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Speaker 1: stuff that she said, and so I guess it's good

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Speaker 1: that she's taking ownership of it now. But a lot

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Speaker 1: of people are saying that she's doing it because because

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Speaker 1: she's losing losing money. Well, it happened a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: She apologized. You have to allow people to get up,

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Speaker 1: you know, you can't just hold people to their mistakes forever.

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Speaker 1: She apologized, and the old the old tweet surfaced again, right,

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Speaker 1: and she's she's going back to apologize again. She can't

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Speaker 1: do no more. Yeah, it may have been horrible at

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Speaker 1: the well, it may have been horrible at the time,

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Speaker 1: and I understand it, and she admitted it. But she's

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Speaker 1: she's asked for forgiveness and she said everything and I resurface.

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Speaker 1: She's apologized again. She can't do nothing else. Yeah, she's apologized.

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Speaker 1: She made a mistake. It was horrible. She said, she

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Speaker 1: wished she had enough. She can't believe she did it.

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Speaker 1: But it's done. Everybody survived it, let her up, so

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Speaker 1: she can move on. Now. Everybody that wants to keep

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Speaker 1: crushing her forward, why she doing it? And all this here?

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Speaker 1: She could be sincerely sorry, right, And you know that's

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Speaker 1: the thing. This is canceled culture, and everybody's ready to

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Speaker 1: just cancel you out like that. And it a heartbeat,

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Speaker 1: and I mean just you know, in a blink of

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Speaker 1: an eye, you're done. You know, there there's no room

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Speaker 1: for redemption and stuff like this, and we all have

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Speaker 1: to remember, you know, about our past. Yeah, and we've

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Speaker 1: all made mistakes and the things that we post live on.

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Speaker 1: That's you know. And give us our trust, passion change.

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Speaker 1: Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who

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Speaker 1: trust passing. That's right. That's the Lard's prayer I say

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Speaker 1: every day, and I try to remember that when people

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Speaker 1: are asking for forgiveness, because she was hard, all of

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Speaker 1: us are going to turn around and need it. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we want people to forgive us, so we have

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Speaker 1: to forgive. You're absolutely right, Steve. All right, it's time

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Speaker 1: for the news, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne trip. President

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Speaker 1: Biden scheduled to meet with Russian President Vladimir Putin and

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Speaker 1: Geneva tomorrow. The presidents already met with the leaders of Estonia, Latvia,

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Speaker 1: and Lithuania to discuss the threat that Russia posts to

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Speaker 1: NATO's eastern flank. A woman was killed in Minneapolis Sunday

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Speaker 1: night by a man who rammed his car into a

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Speaker 1: mixed race crowd protesting the killing June third of a

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Speaker 1: reportedly unarmed black man by sheriff's deputies. Seek me to

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Speaker 1: arrest him on a firearms warrn't. The cops said he

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Speaker 1: had a gun. People near him said he didn't. A

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Speaker 1: local activist named DJ Hooks was there. Court came out

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Speaker 1: of us going seventy or eighty miles an hour. It

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Speaker 1: hasn't got through the first street. It even set up

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Speaker 1: as it got to the car, and they hit the car.

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Speaker 1: They hit the car. Protesters detained the apparent driver until

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Speaker 1: the police arrived and they turned him over to them.

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Speaker 1: I guess not everybody saw or heard of the movie

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Speaker 1: Hidden Figures about those three brilliant Black American women who

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Speaker 1: work for NASA. I say that because two other extremely

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Speaker 1: bright Southern girlstorian salutarian of their high school, West Point

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Speaker 1: in Mississippi, have now been forced to share those positions

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Speaker 1: with two white students whose families complain to the school

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Speaker 1: administrations when the black young ladies earned the honors over

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Speaker 1: their children. So now there are two valedictorians and two salutarians,

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Speaker 1: even though the black children say they took harder and

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Speaker 1: more advanced classes which the two white students did not take.

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Speaker 1: Right wing media has twisted everything, claiming the black girl's

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Speaker 1: honors was supposed to a mistake from the beginning. No

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Speaker 1: one else is saying that, but right wing media is

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Speaker 1: saying that California is opening up today. As of today,

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Speaker 1: masks are no longer required in the Golden State. That's

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Speaker 1: right to say the ape. You do have to take

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Speaker 1: your mask with you because you may go to a

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Speaker 1: store that still prefers to require you with the mask that.

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Speaker 1: Don't fight about it, just carry with you. But generally speaking,

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Speaker 1: today California opening up nasts no longer requiring. Fact today

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Speaker 1: is finally National Dairy Day. Milk in my coffee and

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Speaker 1: in my corn flakes. Now back to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to show. All right, Junior with

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Speaker 1: you guy? Okay, Shirley Well, The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: info at Steve Harvey FM dot com. Sure all right, Junior,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, Happy Father's Day. Well, you know, June

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Speaker 1: is black music mom. And yesterday we kind of talked

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Speaker 1: about Soul to Soul. Remember the group sold to Soul

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Speaker 1: jazzyb and yeah, we were talking about it. Affair, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: off Air, what a what a great group and what

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Speaker 1: great music they had and Carlo you you even said

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Speaker 1: you were in college when that song came out. So yeah, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you're a music lover. June is black music mom. Uh,

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Speaker 1: can we talk about music like for when you were

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Speaker 1: in college or back in your early early twenties? What

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Speaker 1: what kind of music did you love? How did it

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Speaker 1: make you feel? Where were you? And B? I've always

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Speaker 1: like contemporary jazz. But R and B one are the

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Speaker 1: questions on Family Feud yesterday, Yeah, and I little it

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Speaker 1: was named the top five all time best female singers.

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Speaker 1: But almost lost my mind. You were so excited about

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Speaker 1: this question. Huh. Yeah, the number one answer was Whitney Houston. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: number one. Now the first lady answered it. She said

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Speaker 1: Aretha Franklin. She was number two. And then the second

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Speaker 1: person came back and said Whitney Houston and she was

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Speaker 1: number one. After that, I was so hurt. Listen, wait

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Speaker 1: what I was so hurt on this list? Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you say didn't make it? They said Beyonce didn't

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Speaker 1: make it. And I was a little bit stunned. Beyonce

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Speaker 1: didn't make it the top five best female singers. No,

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Speaker 1: because in my estimation, Beyonce is the greatest living female

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Speaker 1: artist all around. Yeah, all around. Yeah, I've seen them

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Speaker 1: all around. Now, Whitney's the best voice. But we could

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Speaker 1: finally have a great point when I look at voices though,

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Speaker 1: But here they had Barber streisand she could say to me, though, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love yes. Celine Dion made the list, Yes, she did.

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Speaker 1: The last one on the was Dolly Park and she

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Speaker 1: wrote I will always love you. She didn't four Wing,

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Speaker 1: not four Whitney. All right, coming up in thirty four

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk about that Delta

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Speaker 1: flight where the off duty flight attendant caused a stir

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Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show, all right, So did

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Speaker 1: you guys hear about this story? Um? And off duty

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Speaker 1: Delta flight attendant disrupted a flight. They were going from

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Speaker 1: LA to Atlanta. This happened Friday night. Steve uh the

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Speaker 1: off duty flight attendant had to be restrained by crew

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Speaker 1: and passengers as the pilot was forced to divert to

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Speaker 1: Oklahoma City, where the man was taken into custody. So

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Speaker 1: he just got unruly, this off duty flight attendant. He

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Speaker 1: assaulted two crew members. I mean, it was just kind

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Speaker 1: of a mess. You know, It's like, what are you doing, sir?

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Speaker 1: And then the pilot asked he got a got on

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Speaker 1: the PA system and asked if there were any passengers

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Speaker 1: on board who could come and help them subdue this passenger.

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Speaker 1: Now right there, that's my moment. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? That's your moment? See, because I've

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Speaker 1: been willing to whoop somebody ask on a plane since

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Speaker 1: I started flying in eighty five that I've known you

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Speaker 1: a while about you know what I meant. Times I've

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Speaker 1: looked over across the al back behind me, us cross

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Speaker 1: from me and wanted to just whoop somebody. Do we

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Speaker 1: have any able body men in here who could come up? Oh,

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Speaker 1: heisty you on the way. No, he won't even finish this.

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Speaker 1: And do you have any able body men who could

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Speaker 1: come up to the front and help up? Sir? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I could help you. I'm here. Yeah, him forward? Is

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Speaker 1: this him right? As soon as he I'm sucker punching.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I see him, I'm hauling off and

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Speaker 1: tagging his ass. Okay, okay, let me ask you, okay,

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Speaker 1: the plane. How do you come out your seat when

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00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: they hear that announced? Excuse excuse you, man, excuse me,

632
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 1: excuse me talking about that. Excuse me. I didn't mean

633
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 1: to hold the hold you had on. Hold, Hey, baby,

634
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: I didn't mean that. Watch your babies, get your babies

635
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: out out held on man, my bad, talk about that

636
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: and hold of geta don't touch me, don't grab me.

637
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm going to the front. I'm right now here. I

638
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: come cap almost back up, back up, six broke. I

639
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: don't need no more death. I don't care how many

640
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: people have been sir, we have enough. You ain't got meat.

641
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 1: Let me get them to the front. Back up. But

642
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 1: my guys didn't tell you this, Steve, that that the

643
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: man was wearing a helmet, he had an elbow pads

644
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: and knee pads, and he was acting strangely. They said, yeah,

645
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: I know what don't matter. We get all that. He

646
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: gonna need all that, Get your peanuts, get your TRIPPI

647
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: you know all this move back move excuse me, I

648
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: got this. Give me that five stingleish up that all

649
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,760
Speaker 1: these knee pads and stuff. I got some for all helmet.

650
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: He said. We got enough people now, but you ain't

651
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: got meat. Ain't got meat. I'm gonna show you how

652
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: to subdue y'all babies out the He got no bicyic

653
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: or hit him and all that exposed. Y'all just let

654
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: me get him dead dog. But I didn't know you

655
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: had wanted to do this for so long. That's what real.

656
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: My life's dream is to win somebody ass on the

657
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: plane and be asked to do it by the captain. Yeah,

658
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:37,720
Speaker 1: you mean I follow orders to fulfill a bucket list dream.

659
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: And you're able bodied, right He asked for able bodied

660
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 1: men to step Able as hell can't keep you from

661
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: the front of that plane. How about more than able?

662
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 1: So that's no, no, no, no, Let me show you

663
00:42:54,360 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: a couple of things. Yeah, I love that's so what

664
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: are you doing so let's throw his ass off the

665
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: plane now. He wanted the door open. Yeah, he come

666
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: unteered the intercom and was telling passengers to get back

667
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: to their seats because oxygen masks were going to be

668
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: required of them. And uh, you know, of course that

669
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 1: created a stir amongst everyone and it became tense and crazy. Yeah,

670
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 1: it's really frightening. Yeah, so thank you. I probably been

671
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: uphoto captain open. All right. Coming up next, Junior is

672
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: in for the nephew with the prank phone call for today.

673
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

674
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

675
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the

676
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: subject what more does he want from me? Wait till

677
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: you hear this, and we will in just a few

678
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: But right now, Junior is in for the nephew. Junior,

679
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: what's your god? Well, the nephew love us a prank

680
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: even though he on vacation. Uh, today's prank is get

681
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: this what love etcetera. Oh okay, yeah, that kind of

682
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: goes with the strawberry letter. It doesn't love, etcetera. I

683
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: think I said it right, you know, I ain't never

684
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: knew how to say etc. That's why I wanted to

685
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: say love etc. I can't say etcetera. Love. There we go,

686
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: let's run it can Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach

687
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: out Kaylin. Kaylin, Uh no, she's not here right now.

688
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: Who's speaking? This is doctor Albert Listen. I was giving

689
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: a call. Are you able to leave a message for

690
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: it for me? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? Would you let her

691
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 1: know her sessions will be on Wednesdays at seventh third sessions.

692
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: What session you're talking about? Session? Well, actually she signed

693
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: up for class. Uh, an eight week class and it's

694
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 1: every Wednesday night at seven thirty. Okay, what classes are

695
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 1: you talking about? What kind of class? This is? Love

696
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: et cetera? Have you heard of us? No? Okay, well

697
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: let me kind of give you a little briefing here.

698
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: Kaylin actually came in and filled out to take some classes,

699
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: and um, we love et cetera. So we teach different things. Uh,

700
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: what is it like a seminar or something? Well, you

701
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: we teach four play intimacy, sensual massages and things like that.

702
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: And she I was actually here when she came and

703
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,280
Speaker 1: filled out the paperwork. She said she wanted to screwce

704
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: up her love life with her husband. Are you her husband? Yeah? Yeah,

705
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a husband. But what I'm saying is is

706
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: it's like a like a joint thing. Am I supposed

707
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: to be there or something? No? No, no, no, no,

708
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: this is actually her wanting to Actually I'm if you

709
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: don't know about it, I'm assuming she wants to surprise

710
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: you and show you some different things. When when she

711
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: finishes her sessions? So when did uh? When when did

712
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: she come in? Like she came in? Where are y'all located?

713
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 1: First of all? Okay, well she actually came mean a

714
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and she filled out the paperwork.

715
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: We're in the downtown area. She filled it out. She

716
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: said she was very excited. She wanted to do some

717
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: different things for her husband. We just asked if she

718
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: gets here a little earlier, probably fifteen minutes earlier, so

719
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: she can shower and put a robe on, and then

720
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: we can we can start class. Who who whoa whoa

721
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: whoa shower? Shower and rose? What's that? What's that for?

722
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you're not you're not upset about this all

723
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: right now? I mean I don't gonna follow with you

724
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: know us, We mean we know. I mean we married couple,

725
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So you know, anything the

726
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: spice spice up the marriage. But you know, as far

727
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 1: as me not being involved in her going out to

728
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: barself and you're talking about taking the bath and robe

729
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: and all the other stuff. Man, she don't need to

730
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 1: be there for no, for no meth like that. Man. Well, no, no, sir,

731
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 1: it's nothing like that. I mean, it's it's it's basically

732
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: a class what people get in touch with her with

733
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: their sensitive side and you get to actually, you know,

734
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: you learn about for a play, what takes you're talking

735
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: about eight weeks? Though eight weeks, sir, you must, you

736
00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: must even how y'all even eight weeks? It's on one

737
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: night a week. It's only on Wednesday, so really only

738
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: have eight sessions eight sessions exactly. Okay, So why why

739
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: did she have to have a role though, I mean,

740
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: why she not? Why she just not showing up at

741
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: the work or whatever. Well, you have to bring your rope, sir.

742
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: Everyone showers and then they put their robe on and

743
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: we we actually coached them through. Here's how fourth play goes.

744
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: Here's the intimacy, here's sensual massaging. No, no, no, no

745
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: fan you get you getting it twisted. What I'm asking

746
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 1: you is you you You're really not explaining yourself enough,

747
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: Like what do y'all do? Like classroom said? If I'm

748
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: in the class, I'm taking a class. There's nobody touching me.

749
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: Ain't no, ain't no cold coming off, a nobody taking,

750
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: no group showers, caring on what you got? What you

751
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: sound like? Having nothing, nothing like that at all. But

752
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: we do come in contact with our sensual side. Now

753
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: we'll have a partner in class. She'll deal with that

754
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: one partner. It's not until the fourth session that we

755
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: really get into some strong physical contacts. Man, what are

756
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 1: you talking about? Are you talking about? You're talking about

757
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: a partner like you're talking about another woman, like some

758
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: of my teammate or something. What you're talking about you

759
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: had another dude? Everyone has the opposite sex partner. Man,

760
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: you gotta be out your mind. Surch even you called,

761
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: why are you even? Why are you even calling me

762
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,320
Speaker 1: with this right here? And if you have to understand,

763
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm I wasn't calling you. I was trying to reach

764
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: miss Kaylin. I don't care who are you trying to reach? Man?

765
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: You call it my house talking about my wife or

766
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: some girl that some partners and they don't get physical

767
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 1: because the fourth session of Karenin will be no physical

768
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 1: at all. Sirt. Basically, your wife is trying to surprise

769
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: you with a good thing. No, no, no, no, no,

770
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: hold on you just hold on, gonna get this straighten

771
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: down real quick. Hold on, wait wait wait, wait, what

772
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: are you what are you doing? I'm gonna call my wife,

773
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: That's what I'm at. What you don't understand she's trying.

774
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: It's not good for you to call. She wants to

775
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: surprise you my wife. You let me handle my wife

776
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 1: the way I want to handle it. You hold on,

777
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: hold on this route. You called me back when you

778
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: get this message, called me back at the house as

779
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: soon as you get to sir. No, yeah, sirch she

780
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: wants to surprise you know. Well we got to eyes already,

781
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: y'all right, the first of all, she ain't gonna be

782
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: coming down to y'all little sessions. And where do y'all say,

783
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: y'all do located that? Again? Well, Love et cetera is

784
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 1: in the downtown area. How much this thing's supposed to

785
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: cost anyway? Well, like I said, she signed up for

786
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: eight sessions. It's it's uh one session per week, it's

787
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars ese sessions. She's already played the eight

788
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, sir. She what she's paid him full to

789
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: do all eight sessions. Man, I know, but she ain't

790
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 1: paid no eight hundred dollars to y'all. She's starting this

791
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: coming when she won't be there. I'm gonna tell you

792
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: that right now. And I and if you, if you

793
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: got any of that money, you got any of my

794
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 1: money down there, you better be coming back with it.

795
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry downtown, y'all Downtown. I work downtown. So

796
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: guess what I don't will be there tomorrow to get

797
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: my money? You love, et cetera is non refundable when

798
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 1: people sign up for these classes. You can't change your

799
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: mind like that. Look, man, that's capawork. Don't don't tell

800
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 1: me about what's not refundable. What's refundable was not refundable.

801
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: If I show up, I'm having my money back right

802
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: in my am. Would it make it? Would you feel

803
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: a little bit more comfortable if I was her part?

804
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: They're doing the sessions? Are you married, sir? Yes, I am?

805
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 1: You are? Okay? So let me have a session with

806
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,280
Speaker 1: your wife about I do a year with your wife?

807
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: My wife, My wife works with other men in the sessions.

808
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: That that's fine. So I'm gonna knock your wife down

809
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: for about a good you know, year or whatever, and

810
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: then we're gonna see how you like about sir, sir,

811
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and forth. We didn't go

812
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: at the fourth. I'm gonna come down there. I don't

813
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: get my mom back, and I'm gonna go out forward.

814
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm with my business. And then don't call this I

815
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: was no more. Don't word about wife. Take a name

816
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: off the little Leger or whatever. Ain't gonna being no

817
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: classes player. We're none refundable. I keep telling you that. Man,

818
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: who do you think? You're waighing your voice here? So

819
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. I keep telling you we're no,

820
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: I'm refundable. Don't tell me it's not refundable. He goes,

821
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: ain'ty sessions yet? No, she has none? You ain't using

822
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: every year? Right, I'm being used the service there. Right,

823
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: But we've already partnered her up. We already have a

824
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:50,320
Speaker 1: partner for her. Can't about that partner? That's the partner.

825
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: Use your wife how about that, Hey, sir quip, bringing

826
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: my wife into bringing my wife into what I'm gonna

827
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 1: bring your wife into what? Maybe the problem is you,

828
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,439
Speaker 1: Maybe you're not doing what you need to be doing

829
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: at all. Then do tumking toon. I'm coming down in

830
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: tomorrow to come get money. You better have my money.

831
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: It's gonna be your please. What am I supposed to tell?

832
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't part of the he gonna get kick too.

833
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: Do you know who her partner is? Part I'm the

834
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: only partner she got. We partnered her up with nephew

835
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, y'all, y'all,

836
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: y'all play some man. That's funny man, Tommy, Tommy? Is

837
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: this time? Is this? Timmy doesn't have your time to

838
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: time me? Look somebody you up? Man, y'all play y'all

839
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: playing it timely? Too much? Man? We got that's that's wrong. Man,

840
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Come on, Drew, talk to me.

841
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio show in the lane? Man? Steve Harvey?

842
00:51:52,600 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: Burn it so bad? What Drew said? It ain't too much? Man,

843
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: somebody gonna miss you uptime. We've been telling him that.

844
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,399
Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude not playing by his wife. Man,

845
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars. Man, we're about gonna come get my money.

846
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: I work downtown, so I'll be around now. Yeah, yeah, okay,

847
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: he tried. It's so hard to understand that food ship.

848
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 1: So if it's a class they're supposed to learning, ain't

849
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: nobody touching me? But Junior, you're not married, but you

850
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: could feel him right? Oh? Still what he was saying,

851
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: it's a class, ain't nobody touching me? What's all the learning?

852
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: You mean the teammate? Wow? Funny, Yeah, that's really crazy.

853
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Junior. Coming up next Strawberry Letters

854
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: subject what more does he want from me? We'll get

855
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

856
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

857
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,

858
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: and more, please please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve

859
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:20,919
Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Who knows

860
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: we could be reading your Strawberry letter. M just like

861
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 1: this one right here, right now? All right, lady the gentleman,

862
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: is time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend

863
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: Shirley strawberry. Thank you, Junior, my good friend. Subject. What's

864
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: more does he want from me? Dear Stephen Shirley. I've

865
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: been with my fiance for three years and we've been

866
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: engaged for almost a year. We've had sex almost every

867
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: night since we met. Since he proposed, He's been wearing

868
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: me out physically. He has raised the bar so high

869
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 1: in the bedroom that I can't keep up. He's doing

870
00:53:56,480 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 1: all kinds of positions and tricks on men lee and

871
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted. He knows I worked two jobs and we

872
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: have a small child to take care of. I am

873
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: trying to help him pay for our dream wedding and

874
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: then we could be as nasty as he wants to be.

875
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: And I've told him that he has read about Karmasutra

876
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: and the art of sensual touch, and he calls himself

877
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: a sexpert, which is a sex expert. The final straw

878
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: was on the other night when I was asleep and

879
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: he started rubbing hot oil all over my back and

880
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: it burned like hell. I was startled and I swung

881
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 1: my arm around, hitting him in the eye by a mistake.

882
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: He went and slept on the couch. The next morning,

883
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: I try to fix things by cuddling with him on

884
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: the couch, and that ended up in us having sex

885
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 1: on the couch and then in the kitchen and finally

886
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 1: in our bed. He literally walked me all around our

887
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: house while we had sex. And this has gotten to stop.

888
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: It has gotten to the point where I am faking

889
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,800
Speaker 1: it so he'll stop. And that's how I want my

890
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: That's not how I want my marriage to be. Then

891
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: he told his daddy, of all people, that I can't

892
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: keep up with him anymore in the bedroom, and his

893
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: daddy called me to say, if I can't please my man,

894
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 1: then someone else will. I'm not supposed to do that.

895
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to. Oh, I'm not opposed to Yeah,

896
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: thank you, Steve. I'm not opposed to that at this

897
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: point because I'm tired of having sex. We are both

898
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: in our late twenties, so maybe he's still immature and

899
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm just seeing it. Should I rethink my wedding plans

900
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:40,840
Speaker 1: if he doesn't stop acting out like this? The question

901
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 1: is to me, how have you spent a whole three

902
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: years with this guy? Not because of the sex, because

903
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: that's what twenty somethings do, But he sounds like, you know,

904
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: a very selfish daddy's boy to me, you said, you

905
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: have a baby and you're working two jobs to help

906
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,919
Speaker 1: him pay for the wedding. Where's the love? Where the appreciation,

907
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: and where's a consideration from him that you might be

908
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: tired some of these days? Okay, you're not a machine.

909
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 1: You have every right to be tired and worn out.

910
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: And the hot burning oil that could have, you know,

911
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: virtue or something pretty badly. You haven't mentioned anything about

912
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: him having a job or anything like that. What does

913
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: he do besides have sex with you every single night

914
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: for three years? And then what is he calling his

915
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 1: dad to tell on you for that? Right there? And

916
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 1: Pops has no right to tell you to call you

917
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: and tell you that someone else can please his son

918
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: as you can't. If you can't, that's not his business, daddy,

919
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: that's not your business. Well, you say you don't want

920
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: your marriage to be like this, but it will because

921
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: this is who your fiance is. Get used to this.

922
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: You've been doing this for three years. What makes you

923
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: think he's going to change when you get married. It's

924
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 1: only fun if both of you enjoy it. And you're

925
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:02,240
Speaker 1: not enjoying it, you're no longer enjoying it. You're too tired.

926
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:04,879
Speaker 1: You have every right to question your future with him,

927
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: because he doesn't care about what you want. He just

928
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: wants his needs fulfilled. The first thing I would do

929
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: is quit my second job. Then maybe you know you

930
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: won't be so tired, and you know, then you guys

931
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: can do it as often as you want or as

932
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: he wont, Steve, This is not my solution for her

933
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: to quit her second job. Yeah, so she won't be

934
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: as tired. What let me just start at the bottom

935
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,479
Speaker 1: of the letter. We're both in our late twenties, okay, said,

936
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: So that means everybody pretty highly active. I mean late twenties,

937
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: who it could be on and cracking. Oh but y'all

938
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 1: been together three years, and y'all been engaged for about

939
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: a year, and y'all have had sex almost every night

940
00:57:53,960 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: since we met. That's three years, almost every night now

941
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: since he proposed. He'd been wearing you out physical this

942
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: a year. He'd raise the boss so high in the

943
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: bedroom that you can't keep up. He doing all kinds

944
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 1: of positions and tricks, and I'm exhausted, and he knows

945
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: I got to work two jobs, and I have a

946
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: small child and we have a small child to take

947
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: care of. I'm trying to help him pay for our

948
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: dream wedding and then he can be as nasty as

949
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: he wants to. And I've told him that. Okay, now

950
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: let me tell you what all he heard was, you

951
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: can be as nasty as you want. That's all he heard. See,

952
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 1: you're dealing with the man with selective hearing, selective caring.

953
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: It's all about him. So when you said, you know,

954
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: I've told him. You know that after we pay for

955
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: our dream wedding and then he can be as nasty

956
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: as he want to. That's all he heard. Now. The

957
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: other problem you got is he had read this book

958
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: about Calmon Calma Sutra and the art of sensual touch.

959
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: Now he a damn sexpert. Well, he hadn't read the book, Shirley.

960
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: And in the book they didn't give instructions as the

961
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: high hot the ore pos to be. You and Hill

962
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: got got a couple lavel your ass, this double ass

963
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: the boy. All right, look he got a welding glove

964
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: on applying the oil. You ain't know that door, all right, Steve,

965
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming

966
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject

967
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: for today's strawberry letter, what more does he want from me?

968
00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

969
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

970
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: What more does he want from me? Is the subject?

971
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: Well this letter, let me get to it. Been dating

972
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: this board three years. They've been engaged one they've had

973
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: sex almost every night, and ever since they got engaged

974
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: a year ago, he'd been wearing how she tied. She

975
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: working two jobs because she's trying to pay for the

976
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: dream wed and help him pay for the dream wed.

977
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: But they got a small child. Now, she told him,

978
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: after we get the dream wed, and you could be

979
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: as nasty as you want to. That's all he heard,

980
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: be as nasty as you want to. So now now

981
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: he didn't read this book about Kama Sutra and he'd

982
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: ordered a sensual touch. Now he didn't. Somebody had told

983
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:54,919
Speaker 1: him in his damn book that heat up some all.

984
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: Now he didn't got a hot plate, plug get up

985
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: in the bathroom, out of sauce, paying out the kitchen,

986
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: and had no tension. He didn't heated this damn all

987
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 1: up to this damn lava. He didn't actually, he didn't

988
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: actually turn this into a McDonald's apple pie bed. Yeah,

989
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: you're in the bed, you sleep. He started rubbing this

990
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: hot ass pie over your back and it burned like hell.

991
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: You swung your arm around, you hit him in the eye.

992
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: So now he man, He goes sleep on the couch.

993
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 1: So the next morning you try to fix things up,

994
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: you go down, you cut it with him on the couch.

995
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: Well that he ended up. Y'all had sex on the couch,

996
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: then in the kitchen, roly in the bed whom he

997
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 1: walked your hands all around the house while we had sex.

998
01:01:56,320 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: And this has got to stop, then, she says. And

999
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: it got to the point where I'm faking it, so

1000
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 1: he'll stop. And that's how, not how I want my

1001
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: marriage to be. Then he told his daddy, of all people,

1002
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 1: I can't keep up with him any more in the bedroom,

1003
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: and his daddy called me to say, I can't please

1004
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: my man as somebody else will to hear the dangerous part.

1005
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to that at this point because I'm

1006
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: tired of having sex. Damn O, look look, little girl,

1007
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: it can't get like this now. They both of the

1008
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: late twenty so maybe he's still immature and I'm just

1009
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: seeing it. Yeah, Yeah, should I rethink my wedding plans

1010
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: he doesn't stop acting out like this. You have to

1011
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: be you have to and you have to tell him

1012
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: this is too much. His daddy called you and told

1013
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: you if you can't please your man, and somebody else will,

1014
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: and you tired as hell appeasing him to the point

1015
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: where you're faking it. It's too much for you. Now.

1016
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: It's this marriage based on love? Or was this marriage

1017
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:11,959
Speaker 1: based on the active sex? Because right now I haven't

1018
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: heard you say I love him. He's the sweetest woman's

1019
01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 1: kindest man. I haven't heard, and it is. He's a

1020
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 1: tremendous father and you're working two jobs to help it

1021
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 1: pay for the job. So I think you need to

1022
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: rethink these wedding plans and slowed us down a little

1023
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: bit and get some type of little agreement worked out,

1024
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: because he just having his way. But the dangerous part

1025
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: is if you don't do it his way. He seemed

1026
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 1: like his dad and already thrown and he got to

1027
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: go some raps to get it, and not even saying

1028
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: in the letter that you don't really even oppose to

1029
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: that well, that's a dangerous thing to say, because why

1030
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 1: would you get married to a man that you know

1031
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: it's gonna be outside of marriage doing what he want

1032
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: to do. She's tired, she's not thinking clearly, st she's

1033
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: too tired. Yes, she's working two jobs and they have

1034
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 1: a small child. Quitting your job is not the answer

1035
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: to this, because you see, because if you quit one

1036
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: of your jobs, so you're not as tired, and you're

1037
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 1: gonna be at the house most for him to have

1038
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: some most sex. The problem is he wanted when he wanted,

1039
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: how he wanted, and whenever he wants. That's your problem.

1040
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with you. You should have

1041
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: a say so in that. And that's putio, That's what

1042
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: it is. And so if you don't have a say so,

1043
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: and if you get married going into it with this

1044
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: after you told him, after y'all have the dream where

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01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 1: you can be as nasty as you want to be,

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01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: you don't think he's gonna pull that back up right

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01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: he getting married, See, it even picked up after he

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01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 1: got after he got engaged, it picked up. There are

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01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 1: a lot of people that thank you property. There are

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01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 1: some men who think women are their property. They don't

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01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: get it. Now. If this is what you all want

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01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: to do, then that's fine. But if it's just what

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01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: he want to do, then Houston, we have a problem.

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01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: Yes we did. But see if you remember this letter

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01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: we had not too long ago. It was about this

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01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: man who didn't work and he was all about sex,

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01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: and you said, remember that letter, and you said, he

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01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: has time to think about those things because he's not working.

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01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: And that's kind of what this is reminding me of

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01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: because she never mentioned if he was working. She only

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01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: mentioned that she was not, even that he's helping her

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01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: out with the kids. So maybe that's why he has

1063
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 1: time to read Karma Sutra and all of that because

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01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: he doesn't have a job. Well, this letter, he doesn't

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01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 1: have anything about love. And he's a great guy and

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01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: he's a wonderful provider. It's none of this. It's about

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01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: one thing and one thing only, And I'm starting to

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01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: be concerned. And that's what the relationship is based on.

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01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: That's all you have is great sex and it's just

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01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 1: great sexx for him because it's too too much of

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01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 1: anything ain't good for you. Drank too much day and water, right,

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01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 1: but three years of that all right, listen post your

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01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM on

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01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on

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01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 1: demand now coming up at forty six minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour of Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior, you ready,

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01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: Junior is here with Sports Talk. What you got, oh, Shirlette, Oh,

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01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 1: we have to give a big shout out to the

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Speaker 1: Atlanta Hawks down into at l pulled off of victory

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01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: last night against the seventy six is one h three

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01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: to one hundred. Uh. You know, Trey young Man is bawling.

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01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 1: You have to watch this, dude, in these playof man.

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01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 1: He had a career high eighteen assists last night, twenty

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01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 1: five and eighteen got him a victory. Man. Everybody's like, well,

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01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: you know, they're not probably gonna beat seven six. I

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01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 1: don't know. They gave a run for their money right now.

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01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 1: Now the game the night though, and wait a minute,

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01:06:56,640 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: what's the count in the Hawks series? Oh? Two? One,

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01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: two to two to two? Serious? Tis Oh my goodness, yes,

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01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, tid y'all can't right, atl We're not

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01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: letting it. They're not gonna They're not going easy. Oh no,

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01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 1: you're not handing it to just the fill up because

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01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 1: they'd sent me six. Is now the game to night

1095
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: up Milwalkee Bucks versus the Brooklyn Nets. They serious. Brooklyn

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01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: has a problem. They do. They have injury. They have

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01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: to have at least two of the big three on

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01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: that floor. And right now, I'm not sure Hardnes is

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01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: ready to come back. Kyrie is out. Man, that was

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01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: a horrible injury. Yeah, he won't be horrible. He is

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01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: in a compression boot and on clutches in game pivotal

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01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: game five. Now he's not playing the night and they

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01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: started treatment around the clock. He's getting twenty four hours

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01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: treatment around on his own his foot, but you know,

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01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: like ice bucket and stimulating it, you know, trying to

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01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 1: get it to get the most of the move. But

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01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 1: he now here's the problem. This is game ain't fine.

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01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 1: If they lose tonight, then they have elimination game in

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01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 1: game six, and we don't know if he's gonna be

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01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:08,640
Speaker 1: able to make it to that to force a game

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01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 1: set the injury that I saw, I don't see how

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01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: he can be ready. But he's young, and they got

1113
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 1: some crazy stuff in the wombs many that can get

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01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 1: him out on the floor, but he won't be one

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01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 1: hundred percent. Not the injury. I saw he turned that ankle. Man,

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01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: it was I couldn't even watch it. And I don't

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01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 1: want him to be injured. I don't want none of

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01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: these guys to be injured. Man. I want to see

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01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: him at day best. You do You know now? This

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01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: is how important Kyrie is to the Brooklyn Dets. Against Milwaukee.

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01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 1: This boy's averaging twenty nine points a game. Now, you

1122
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: gotta find a way to replace that. You just can't

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01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 1: replace Kyrie. No, Kyrie's superstar dog. Yeah he super did

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01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: y'all see the tweet. The one word that Lebron said

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01:08:55,920 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 1: about Kyrie's injury with the up bamb that would fit.

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01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: That would be appropriate, That would be appropriate if you

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01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 1: go down like Kyrie there, and you know what he means.

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01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 1: That's pretty So Harden gonna be a game time decision. Off.

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01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: He said, He's gonna be a game time decision. We

1130
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: don't know if he's gonna play a night, so we

1131
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 1: just have to wait for the game tonight to see

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01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: if he's gonna play in that. But they need two

1133
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:22,760
Speaker 1: or three k D can't do it all by a

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01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: sil that's what we can't do. All right, Junior, thank you.

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01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, will one

1136
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: night stands be a thing of the past? We'll talk

1137
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 1: about it right after this. What you're listening to show

1138
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: there's a question, will one night stands be a thing

1139
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: of the past? Did you ever think you you to

1140
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:52,799
Speaker 1: hear that question in your life? Time? One night? Okay? Well, Junior,

1141
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 1: it's a new survey by dating app Plenty of Fish.

1142
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of that, but it's

1143
01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 1: Plenty of Fish. It's a dating app. It found close

1144
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: to fifty percent of single Americans between the ages of

1145
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: eighteen and forty haven't been physically intimate with someone since

1146
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 1: the beginning of the pandemic. So that's what a year

1147
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 1: and a half? Almost a year and a half? Yeah, um,

1148
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: why what if they've been doing instead? Is the question? Well?

1149
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 1: Virtual intimacy? Okay, this includes video chat, sexting, and phone sex.

1150
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 1: All right, and well huh yeah, I've tried all this

1151
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:35,599
Speaker 1: and you're in the what are you gonna do? By myself?

1152
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta do something, but you know what

1153
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,560
Speaker 1: the the video chat. You have to make sure you

1154
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 1: buy outlets. Just want you to do that, Okay, yeah,

1155
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 1: because I've I've been talking real good and the phone dad,

1156
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: that was I got to do this. Yeah, you gotta

1157
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:57,760
Speaker 1: keep your phone charge of all right. So and while

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01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: forty two percent of the respondent are ready, they're ready

1159
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 1: for some physical intimacy after the pandemic, they're exciting to

1160
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: start excited to start dating again. Excuse me. Nearly the

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01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 1: majority of them planned to continue being virtually intimate as well.

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01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 1: So they're gonna mix it up now, they're gonna be

1163
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 1: virtually intimate and you know, they're gonna start dating again.

1164
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:21,680
Speaker 1: And they're saying maybe that's because some of the participants

1165
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: said the pandemic changed their idea. I love this of

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01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: what intimacy was, putting a higher value on things like

1167
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 1: emotions and intelligence. So, which is a good thing. They're

1168
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:39,799
Speaker 1: just not jumping into bed. But you're older, Steed, you're

1169
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 1: you know, you're a mature man. Yeah, and I can't

1170
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 1: have men and virtual you need that one on one,

1171
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 1: no virtual, But this is for people between the ages

1172
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 1: of eighteen and forty. Yeah, so this is good. You know,

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01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: they're getting to know each other on on a more

1174
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 1: intimate level, you know, And that's good. I mean that

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01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:09,519
Speaker 1: you give it vice Steve ninety day Rules and Women.

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01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: So this is this is one is a step in

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01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:15,560
Speaker 1: the right direction, getting to know something. Yeah, you know,

1178
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: you don't believe it. No, I just don't believe it.

1179
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 1: You don't believe it. Normal, Yeah, but the pandemic changed

1180
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: a lot of things though. This could just during the pandemic.

1181
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 1: But these people acting like it's open. It's a round. Yeah, yeah,

1182
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 1: like the world is open again, right, yeah, it really is.

1183
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 1: I don't see young people reverting back to the pandemic way.

1184
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: That's just not the young people that are produced today.

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01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: It's a different time and culture. Well not according to

1186
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: plenty of fish. Well, all I can tell you that

1187
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:56,760
Speaker 1: video chat, sex and falls that require power out. You

1188
01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: need to have that. That's what you're not getting that first, Shirley,

1189
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,240
Speaker 1: I've done all of this and I'm taking me It

1190
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 1: got good. I said, good, you know I'm going and

1191
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:10,600
Speaker 1: I'll be damn phone that Now. Now I got to

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01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: find a power out of bloodback up. But now she

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01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:17,720
Speaker 1: had to move. Now, So Junior, you're kind of in

1194
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,880
Speaker 1: this age range. So are you put Are you because

1195
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 1: of the video chats and pandemic and all that, are

1196
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: you putting higher value on emotions and intelligence? Hell no,

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01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm going right back out here. I need I need

1198
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:35,720
Speaker 1: a date. I need to see touch. I'm not Yeah,

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01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm not looking at you through the screen for the

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01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: rest of my life, the rest of your life. Now,

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01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 1: I want a date. I want them kissing, hook in,

1202
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,560
Speaker 1: touch in person, not for this screen. I can't that.

1203
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 1: But but that's what they're saying. They're gonna date and

1204
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 1: do that. No, once we start dating, you can put

1205
01:13:53,680 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: this computer up. We're not doing that. No, No, you

1206
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:03,719
Speaker 1: don't call me come over. Don't call me come over.

1207
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: So then what's the first thing you're gonna do? Kiss? Okay,

1208
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 1: all right, ladies, you heard it. We'll have more of

1209
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: today's trending stories coming up, and twenty minutes after, right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 1: All right. So Alex Roderiguez must be saying right now

1212
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: that when it comes to hanging out with X's Jennifer

1213
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 1: Lopez doesn't have the market cornered. Okay, He's like, so

1214
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:42,479
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing, that's what we're doing. He recently

1215
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 1: posted photos of his ex wife and the mother of

1216
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:48,759
Speaker 1: his children, Cynthia Skurtis. They were married from two thousand

1217
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 1: and two to two thousand and eight. They share two daughters,

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01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 1: sixteen year old Natasha and thirteen year old Ella. A

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01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: Rod and Cynthia recently participated in a fifty four day

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01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: fitness challenge, and Alex took to his i G stories

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01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 1: on Saturday to praise his ex and make jokes. He said,

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01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,679
Speaker 1: Cynthia is a world class mommy to our girls. Wrapping

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01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:13,719
Speaker 1: ice though, lol, He shared alongside footage of her helping

1224
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: him ice his leg at the gym. So people are saying,

1225
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 1: because you see j Loo and Ben Affleck out and

1226
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 1: about and they're posting, and you know the paparazzi is there,

1227
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 1: that's why a Rod is doing that? What you think, Stuke,

1228
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 1: if this is what's happening. Too old and too rich

1229
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: to be doing that, Why would you do it? I

1230
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: don't understand that, But you know, I think people are

1231
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,040
Speaker 1: so consumed with how they look in their image. Oh

1232
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 1: she left me for being I can go back and

1233
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 1: get my ex too. I don't even know why he's

1234
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:49,599
Speaker 1: posting that. That's why people are saying what they're saying,

1235
01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:51,880
Speaker 1: that he's only doing it because j Loo did it.

1236
01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:53,960
Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, to break up with them.

1237
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,759
Speaker 1: You know, she was back over there with being you know, quickly.

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01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes later, Yeah, all right, we'll more with Steve

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01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up with thirty three minutes after.

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Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one is from

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01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:57,759
Speaker 1: Cherry in New Orleans. Cherry says, my coworker has flirted

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01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: with me for two years and now that I'm sayle,

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01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:02,800
Speaker 1: I decided to go to dinner with him. I let

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01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 1: him pick me up only because I know him well.

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01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 1: He got to my house and his car was filthy

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01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 1: and it smelled like feet. I told him how foul

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01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: it smelled, and he suggested we go in my car.

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01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 1: I canceled the date and him all last week he

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01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:20,960
Speaker 1: called me a goody two shoes and I told him

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01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 1: if his car was nasty, his house is probably nasty too.

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01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:27,519
Speaker 1: I didn't need to add insult to injury, but I did.

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01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:31,920
Speaker 1: Should I apologize or not clo Well, you know, if

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01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,560
Speaker 1: you feel like you should apologize, you shoot, what's it

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01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: gonna hurt you? But don't apologize at me and go

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01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: out with him, because chances are you're probably correct. Now.

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01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 1: She's calling you goody two shoes. That's that's because you

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01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: like clean stuff. That makes you goody two shoes. That's

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01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 1: that's problem. You don't want to be in a steaky

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01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 1: car that smells like feet. That's trifle. And he said, well,

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01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: let's go in your car. I mean, if a man

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01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:01,679
Speaker 1: is picking you up for the first time, you expect

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01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 1: him to just be on his best behavior, put his

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01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 1: bat for trust me. If he won't clean his car

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01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 1: up and knowing he's going on a date, then what

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01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,759
Speaker 1: else is he not willing to do? This is true,

1278
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:15,400
Speaker 1: he'd been flirting with you. Just leave it at that,

1279
01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: going about your business. You're absolutely correct, it's more behind it.

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01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 1: First of all, he's not trying to impress you. That's

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01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: a problem. Let's take your car. That's a problem. You

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01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 1: goody too tooos because you like clean stuff. That's a problem. Listen, laties, listen, No,

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01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:37,000
Speaker 1: I am all right. Moving on, Sebastian and Los Angeles, says,

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01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:39,839
Speaker 1: I met a beautiful woman, and she's got a roommate

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01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,759
Speaker 1: that's beautiful too. The other night, they had a small

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01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 1: dinner party and invited me. There were several people there,

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01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 1: but I was the only guy they invited. I thought

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01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,760
Speaker 1: I was dating the lady I met first, but her

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01:18:51,840 --> 01:18:54,160
Speaker 1: roommate was sitting in my lap and she even fixed

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01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 1: a plate for me. I'm an old school type of guy,

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01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 1: So should I ask the lady I met first? If

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01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 1: weird day? I'm fifty four. He's so confused. I'm fifty

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01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 1: four and she's thirty. So I need your help. Yeah,

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01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 1: you probably need to go in and ask just say,

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01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 1: hold on, wait a minute, Hold, I'm confused. I come

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01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: over your house and then your roommate is sitting in

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01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 1: my lap and makes me a plate. Now I need

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01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 1: to know, is am I? Who am I dating? Here?

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Speaker 1: All three of us don't. I don't say that. Start over,

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01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: start over, keep that to yourself, but just say, hey, look,

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01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question. I came here

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01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:44,120
Speaker 1: thinking it was you, but then your roommate is sitting

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01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 1: in my lap and fixing me food. So I'm confused.

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01:19:47,520 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 1: Am I to date your roommate? Am I to date you?

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01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I don't understand. Coming up, it is

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01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and and at forty

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Speaker 1: nine minutes after, of course we'll have some closing remarks

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Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to all right, guys, here we are our

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01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. It's been

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Speaker 1: a fun day. Where's Tommy's out? Yeah? Caboing all week islanding, islanding. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know something else? It's really interesting. I was listening

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Speaker 1: to Joel ostein oh I think over the weekend, and

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Speaker 1: of course I can't remember verbating what he said, But

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Speaker 1: I got the gist of what he was saying, and

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01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 1: I kind of gave us some thought over the past

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01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 1: couple of days, and the message kind of really really

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Speaker 1: resignating with me. And he was advising people not to

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Speaker 1: listen to the roar. Our, Oa are the roar. Don't

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01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 1: listen to the roar. And what he was referring to

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01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: was the roar was naysayers, haters, outside chatter. When you

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Speaker 1: are in agreement with God about your plan, when you're

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01:21:17,439 --> 01:21:20,400
Speaker 1: in agreement with your creator about your future, what you're

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01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: gonna do, you've got to learn. And all of us

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01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: have to learn this, myself included, to block out and

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01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 1: ignore the roar, the things that people say about you,

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01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:38,960
Speaker 1: the naysayers, the haters, the family members, your so called

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01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:47,679
Speaker 1: love ones, your friends, blogs, the IG page, the comments section,

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01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 1: your coworkers. You have to ignore the roar. And so

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01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 1: he was equating it to the roar of a lion.

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01:21:57,439 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 1: You know, and I've been to Africa and I've heard

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01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 1: that I've heard lions in the wild, I mean really

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01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:06,639
Speaker 1: really raw, and boyd, they's something else, man. That guttural

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01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 1: roar of a lion is to intimidate other lions and

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Speaker 1: other prey. I mean, not pray, but other cats. Hey,

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Speaker 1: this is my territory. Don't come over here, And so

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01:22:22,640 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 1: they row to signify. If you can hear me, I'm

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01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 1: telling you, this is my territory. Don't come over here. Now.

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01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: Most animals get intimidated by that, you know, especially animals

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01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 1: of prey. They head the other way when they hear that. Okay,

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01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 1: we're getting too close to this, dude. But a lot

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01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 1: of times it's to keep keep other lions out of

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01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 1: their territory. Now, this raw is to intimidate you. The

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01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:56,559
Speaker 1: lion uses it to intimidate, but the row is used

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01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 1: to intimidate you and to block you from your blessings

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01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 1: from God. So, now, if you're in agreement with God

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01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 1: and you're on your way to a certain destiny in

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01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:08,280
Speaker 1: your life, and all of a sudden you hear this

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01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:13,799
Speaker 1: roar from the haters, the blogs, the internet, the co workers,

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01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 1: the rumor meal, the whatever you have, the family members

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01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 1: that don't believe, You've got to learn how to block

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01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: out the roar, because the roar is a trick by

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01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: the devil, and the devil has no new tricks. He's

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01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,639
Speaker 1: been doing the same thing since the beginning of time.

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01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 1: Now he may have some technology attached to it right now,

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01:23:39,400 --> 01:23:42,640
Speaker 1: but the devil ain't got no new tricks. He the

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01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: same dude. He the same low down, no good, trying

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01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:49,800
Speaker 1: to rob you of your destiny dude that he's always been,

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01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 1: and he uses the roar to block you. So now

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Speaker 1: he was using the example of he was saying he

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01:23:58,760 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: was on the safari once and he was talking to

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Speaker 1: one of the guides and they were talking about if

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Speaker 1: you're ever out on a safar and a lion charges,

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01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 1: they tell you not to break out and run because,

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Speaker 1: first of all, the lion can run at fifty miles

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Speaker 1: an hour, so you can't do that, so he said,

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Speaker 1: and if you break and run, you're just gonna die scared.

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01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: But he say the best way to handle it is

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01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 1: to turn and make eye contact with the lion. Now

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Speaker 1: that's hard to do. I mean, we all know that

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01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,759
Speaker 1: you got a lion charge and everything, and you says

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01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:39,799
Speaker 1: turned and run. But the guide was saying, ninety percent

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01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 1: of all lion charges he stops because he just does

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01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: it to see what you're gonna do. Ninety percent of

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01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:52,160
Speaker 1: all charges the lion stops short of attacking because he

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01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 1: just wants to see what you're gonna do. Now, there's

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Speaker 1: ten percent where you know you're a goner, but it's

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01:24:58,400 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 1: ninety percent he stops. If you turn and run one,

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Speaker 1: he keeps coming. So you have to muster up the

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Speaker 1: strength to stand and face the lion and the charging

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01:25:12,600 --> 01:25:15,920
Speaker 1: attack with the roar, to turn around and face him.

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Speaker 1: And that's how you have to deal with the roar

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01:25:18,479 --> 01:25:20,800
Speaker 1: of people in your life. You have to turn around

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Speaker 1: and face him. See, look y'all, you got somewhere to

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01:25:25,600 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 1: go in life, and God has a plan for you.

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01:25:29,360 --> 01:25:31,760
Speaker 1: But in order for you to get there, you're gonna

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01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 1: have to stay focused, and you have to get on track,

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01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:38,439
Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to learn, man, that you have

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Speaker 1: the ability to get there. You just got to stop

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01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:47,920
Speaker 1: paying attention to the roar. You are equipped to be

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Speaker 1: on the battlefield. You are equipped to be in rough water.

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Speaker 1: All of us are ships. There's a saying that says

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Speaker 1: ships are safe important, But ships ain't built to stay

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01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 1: in port. You were built to be out in the water.

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Speaker 1: Get your focus on God and going about your business

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01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:10,560
Speaker 1: and get the life to God has for you. But everybody,

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01:26:10,880 --> 01:26:16,080
Speaker 1: you have to learn to ignore the roar real quick.

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Speaker 1: A bully was at the school one day and he

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Speaker 1: made a list of everybody at the school that he

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Speaker 1: could whoop. And he showed this little bitty boys listing.

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Speaker 1: He said, look at this list right here. Little boy said,

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Speaker 1: let me see the list. He looked on any saw

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01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 1: his name. He said, hey man, you got my name

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01:26:29,120 --> 01:26:30,800
Speaker 1: on the list. He said, yeah, I know. He said,

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01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 1: you know you can't whip me. He said, you ain't

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01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,439
Speaker 1: never jumped on me before. You ain't never whipped me.

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01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:37,600
Speaker 1: You've never jumped on me. You can't whip me. What

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01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:39,920
Speaker 1: you got my name on the list? Fault? The bulley said,

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Speaker 1: hold on, man, I'm sorry. I take it off. You

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Speaker 1: know what he did. He turned around and he faced

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Speaker 1: the row. He was just a lion charging. He took

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Speaker 1: his little took a little boy name off the list.

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01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:51,680
Speaker 1: Little boys said, you ain't never whipped me before. Take

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Speaker 1: my name off your list. Sometimes that's just how you

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Speaker 1: have to be. Y'all have a great day. Ignore the roar,

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01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:00,680
Speaker 1: make him take your name off the list. Y'all have

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Speaker 1: a great date for all. Steve Harvey contests no purchase

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Speaker 1: at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete

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Speaker 1: contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.