1
00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,120
Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

2
00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:06,520
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with

3
00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:07,760
Speaker 2: a Ryan Seacrest.

4
00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:14,280
Speaker 3: Hey are those winged cat I looks still in that

5
00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:15,120
Speaker 3: still a hot thing?

6
00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,040
Speaker 2: I think it just depends on your face. Like, if

7
00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,200
Speaker 2: that works for you, then keep doing it.

8
00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,720
Speaker 3: I started seeing them a long time ago. Now I've

9
00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,520
Speaker 3: seeing them everywhere. Winged cat eyes, rocket on, wing cat eyes, Yes,

10
00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:26,920
Speaker 3: I have.

11
00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:29,840
Speaker 2: When what does the occasions I don't remember, probably like

12
00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:31,639
Speaker 2: a jingle ball back in the day, or you know,

13
00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:32,320
Speaker 2: have a fun event.

14
00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:34,760
Speaker 3: The fact that I know what winged cat eyes are,

15
00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,080
Speaker 3: I need to talk to myself.

16
00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:37,760
Speaker 4: I think it's good that you know this.

17
00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,200
Speaker 5: Ye, honey, do you wing cati?

18
00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,040
Speaker 6: I used to back in the day, but I prefer

19
00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,519
Speaker 6: myself with less heavy eye make up.

20
00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,880
Speaker 3: Let me ask the coolest people here right back room,

21
00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,560
Speaker 3: who do you wing cat? I?

22
00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,239
Speaker 7: I do, yes, very lightly though yeah.

23
00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but so it has not jumped the shark yet.

24
00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:58,520
Speaker 3: It's still something.

25
00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,920
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's still something. I think it will always be.

26
00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,520
Speaker 7: I don't think it's ever gonna not be.

27
00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,000
Speaker 5: Like it must have become a trend because I started seeing.

28
00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,319
Speaker 2: How lot maybe, but makeup trends always stay well.

29
00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:09,400
Speaker 4: This depends on your face.

30
00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:10,640
Speaker 5: The eye.

31
00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,000
Speaker 3: It's the window to your soul. So decorate it right,

32
00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,040
Speaker 3: put it decorated?

33
00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:16,200
Speaker 5: Why not?

34
00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:17,640
Speaker 8: All right?

35
00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,759
Speaker 3: Now your eye might be looking up and seeing these

36
00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,280
Speaker 3: air taxis soon. So CS Consumer Electronics Show happen in

37
00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,400
Speaker 3: Vegas and they introduce a lot of new stuff. I

38
00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,000
Speaker 3: never know if it's really gonna happen and how much

39
00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,840
Speaker 3: it's gonna cost, because they always say here's a new TV,

40
00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,920
Speaker 3: and then you can't afford the TV for twenty years.

41
00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,600
Speaker 5: Then it's you know, on sale.

42
00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,959
Speaker 3: So they're talking about air taxis, and this is a

43
00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,480
Speaker 3: city and a region that could benefit from being able

44
00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,760
Speaker 3: to get from place to place in the air sysney.

45
00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,360
Speaker 5: What do we know about the reality of it.

46
00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,600
Speaker 4: It's Hyundai's Supernal.

47
00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,360
Speaker 2: So it's an air taxi that's all electric and it

48
00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,080
Speaker 2: would take off vertically, so you don't need a runway.

49
00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:52,360
Speaker 4: You don't.

50
00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,000
Speaker 2: So it's a helicopter, but it's not a helicopter because

51
00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,480
Speaker 2: the proposal of a helicopter would be just like one

52
00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,280
Speaker 2: big one at the top right. This one has eight

53
00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,760
Speaker 2: This one has eight motors, and they're a drone kind

54
00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,120
Speaker 2: of yes, it's more like a drone like a giant

55
00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,320
Speaker 2: drone and they're saying it's so quiet, it sounds like

56
00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,680
Speaker 2: it's like it's as loud as a dishwasher.

57
00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,040
Speaker 4: When it takes off and lands. Okay, because that's fascinating.

58
00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,239
Speaker 2: And then you can go range between like twenty five

59
00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,000
Speaker 2: miles to forty miles. So picture like rush hour traffic

60
00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,320
Speaker 2: trying to get from Calabasas to downtown or late.

61
00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,320
Speaker 5: It's for the miles so far.

62
00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,559
Speaker 3: It's the direct line and the traffic right to get

63
00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:28,399
Speaker 3: to open exactly.

64
00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,280
Speaker 2: And I think this is the direction in the future

65
00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,720
Speaker 2: for especially big cities like Los Angeles.

66
00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:38,720
Speaker 3: But how do they guard, protect and organize the airspace.

67
00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,320
Speaker 2: That I think they need to figure out what the

68
00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,519
Speaker 2: is it FAA Yeah, yes, yes, that that needs to

69
00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,080
Speaker 2: all get figured out. But they're saying you can, well,

70
00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,720
Speaker 2: you can fit up to four people in the model

71
00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,200
Speaker 2: that they showed. But this would be ready to go

72
00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,520
Speaker 2: by the Olympics in twenty twenty eight, so we're talking

73
00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,720
Speaker 2: four years from now we would be seeing these air attacks,

74
00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:56,560
Speaker 2: if not sooner.

75
00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:58,360
Speaker 5: But where do you get it?

76
00:02:58,400 --> 00:02:59,680
Speaker 3: That's the other part, Like if I have to get in,

77
00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:01,840
Speaker 3: are to get to the air taxi station to get

78
00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:03,320
Speaker 3: in the air plus the cost.

79
00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:04,000
Speaker 5: Is that better?

80
00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,800
Speaker 2: They would have all these different locations of where you

81
00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,960
Speaker 2: can get these taxis from, and most of them are

82
00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:14,480
Speaker 2: gonna be on top of big buildings or parking structures,

83
00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,640
Speaker 2: and so that's gonna really, I think, benefit because they

84
00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:18,680
Speaker 2: don't have to find land.

85
00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,200
Speaker 4: They don't. It's like it's already there, we had it

86
00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,000
Speaker 4: all ready to go.

87
00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but who's driving it? And trust?

88
00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I guess they'll be pilots and all that.

89
00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,720
Speaker 4: But yeah, do we trust it? That's the big question.

90
00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,280
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm looking at this thing. You're right,

91
00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,919
Speaker 3: it looks like a big drone that people can sit

92
00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:34,600
Speaker 3: inside of.

93
00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:35,200
Speaker 1: I like that.

94
00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:35,840
Speaker 5: It's got a lot of.

95
00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,080
Speaker 3: Different propellers or one of those things are on top

96
00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,760
Speaker 3: to make it feel safe and quiet. I just don't

97
00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,920
Speaker 3: know that. I don't know, like you got to. I

98
00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,440
Speaker 3: would like this thing to be running for a couple

99
00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,280
Speaker 3: of years to see how safe it is.

100
00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,320
Speaker 2: That's exactly what Michael said yesterday when I was telling

101
00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:50,840
Speaker 2: him about this.

102
00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,320
Speaker 1: He's, yeah, I don't know.

103
00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:53,600
Speaker 4: It would be the first person.

104
00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,640
Speaker 5: To hop about. I don't want to when does it

105
00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:55,520
Speaker 5: come out. I don't want to do it.

106
00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,680
Speaker 2: That year, not for the only yeah, twenty twenty eight

107
00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:02,440
Speaker 2: Summer Olympics. They really want these operational and running and

108
00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,200
Speaker 2: have this be a total normal thing for us here

109
00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:06,640
Speaker 2: in LA.

110
00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:07,560
Speaker 5: But you can.

111
00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,520
Speaker 3: I mean, if you have these things everywhere, then you're

112
00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,080
Speaker 3: gonna have air traffic because you can't just fly aimlessly

113
00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:14,160
Speaker 3: through the sky.

114
00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,600
Speaker 4: I'm sure there'll be some sort of organization.

115
00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,600
Speaker 2: This to me is a long shot the way I

116
00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,240
Speaker 2: think this is happening, all.

117
00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:22,360
Speaker 5: Right, tany would you take?

118
00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,720
Speaker 7: This's no for me? Definitely no. I don't want to

119
00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,839
Speaker 7: be yes floating around.

120
00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,359
Speaker 3: You can go to space and you go in this

121
00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,080
Speaker 3: little drone. Yeah, and you can get back to us

122
00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:30,560
Speaker 3: and then you.

123
00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,240
Speaker 2: Guys can stay in an hour and a half of

124
00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:33,679
Speaker 2: traffic and I'll get there in ten minutes.

125
00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:39,400
Speaker 3: By the way, I would rather lives fine. Stephanie Corona,

126
00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,280
Speaker 3: thanks for calling in. How can we help you?

127
00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:42,640
Speaker 1: Hi?

128
00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:43,240
Speaker 9: How are you?

129
00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:45,200
Speaker 10: How are you good?

130
00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:45,800
Speaker 1: So?

131
00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,680
Speaker 9: I have a friend group and recently we added a

132
00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:53,599
Speaker 9: new girl into our group chat and me and my

133
00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,839
Speaker 9: best friend we just don't know how to feel about it.

134
00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:01,280
Speaker 9: So she was introduced to us by our her college friends,

135
00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,200
Speaker 9: and we've fung out with her a couple of times

136
00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,360
Speaker 9: and we you know, we've hung out with her, things

137
00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,840
Speaker 9: like that. But I and she's, like I said, she's

138
00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:16,719
Speaker 9: super sweet, super sweet, chilled girl. But I think she's

139
00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:21,320
Speaker 9: been how do I say this, she's been just like

140
00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,520
Speaker 9: we'll talk to her and she'll just throw in these comments,

141
00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,040
Speaker 9: and I think it's just a little too much sometimes

142
00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,800
Speaker 9: whenever we sing out and now we have her in

143
00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,760
Speaker 9: a group chat, so it's.

144
00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,400
Speaker 3: It's a new friend I'm always speaking to candidly. What

145
00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:38,760
Speaker 3: is she doing this a little too much?

146
00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,840
Speaker 11: Give me an example, like one day we were all

147
00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,960
Speaker 11: hanging out and you know, I don't know if I

148
00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,440
Speaker 11: was over sharing, but she just was going in on me,

149
00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,200
Speaker 11: like about me and my boyfriend's relationship.

150
00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,039
Speaker 9: And like I said, I don't really know her. She's

151
00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,280
Speaker 9: very sweet, but I don't really know her that much

152
00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,839
Speaker 9: for her to just you know, come in with those comments.

153
00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,800
Speaker 5: And what were the comments that irked you?

154
00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,120
Speaker 9: The comments were like, oh, well, my boyfriend would never

155
00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:12,120
Speaker 9: do that, or oh your boyfriend this, or your boyfriend

156
00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:15,240
Speaker 9: that your boyfriend should be doing this, Oh, things like that.

157
00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:15,920
Speaker 5: I don't have the.

158
00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,560
Speaker 3: Time for this, but m so, what's the question. Now,

159
00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,600
Speaker 3: I guess the question is how do we deal with her?

160
00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:23,960
Speaker 3: How do we kick her out of the friend group

161
00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,200
Speaker 3: she's messing up the chat box.

162
00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,920
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, now we have her in a in this

163
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,400
Speaker 9: group chat, but I we kind of I kind of

164
00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,320
Speaker 9: me and my other friend we kind of don't want

165
00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,800
Speaker 9: her in it the group chat anymore. And I don't

166
00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,680
Speaker 9: know how to really tell our other friends this because

167
00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,839
Speaker 9: our other friends were the ones that kind of invited

168
00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,400
Speaker 9: her in the group. And like I said, she's she's sweet,

169
00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,800
Speaker 9: but it's just she can be a little too much

170
00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:48,520
Speaker 9: sometimes with her.

171
00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,840
Speaker 6: Why don't you leave that group the way that it

172
00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,920
Speaker 6: is and start a new chain and leave her out

173
00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,000
Speaker 6: and keep both of them going.

174
00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:00,360
Speaker 9: Okay?

175
00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:01,840
Speaker 12: Because I'm like, I don't know.

176
00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,400
Speaker 9: I don't know if I should talk to my other

177
00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,880
Speaker 9: friends about it, the ones that brought her into the group,

178
00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,040
Speaker 9: or to just like, you know, leave it how it is.

179
00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,600
Speaker 9: I'm not too sure. That's why I'm kind of a

180
00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:12,800
Speaker 9: little stuck because my.

181
00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,800
Speaker 3: Friend, here's the thing, like, look, life's too short to

182
00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,920
Speaker 3: let this person come in and be having these kinds

183
00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,080
Speaker 3: of feelings. So I think Tiny's advice is right. Don't

184
00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,280
Speaker 3: respond to that group chat, create a new group chat,

185
00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,720
Speaker 3: she's not in it unless go yeah, yeah, I mean

186
00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,040
Speaker 3: if it were me, I just want to respond to

187
00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,800
Speaker 3: a group chat and not create another group chat and

188
00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,200
Speaker 3: just not deal with the texting bats.

189
00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but when you have to see her in person,

190
00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,280
Speaker 2: it's like a whole other demos.

191
00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,360
Speaker 9: That's the thing. That's why I'm like, I don't know

192
00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:41,400
Speaker 9: if I should tell my friends this, because like I.

193
00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,320
Speaker 3: Can in the new group chat, they say, look, I

194
00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,160
Speaker 3: started in new group one because I'm not so comfortable

195
00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:46,960
Speaker 3: with this new friend and what she's saying. I mean,

196
00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:50,040
Speaker 3: she can't just cozy up and start judging and criticizing

197
00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,200
Speaker 3: my relationship about me and I don't like it.

198
00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:54,920
Speaker 5: Now, I'm here for it, let's go. I mean, it's

199
00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:55,400
Speaker 5: twenty twenty.

200
00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,320
Speaker 2: You could also just be directed her too the next

201
00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,600
Speaker 2: time she says something like that and be like, oh,

202
00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,160
Speaker 2: I appreciate comments like that.

203
00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, but with a little yeah, a little finesse, yeah,

204
00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:06,760
Speaker 3: a little less edge, yeah, a little less edge.

205
00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,200
Speaker 5: On your ten year anniversary. Thank you Stephanie for calling good.

206
00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,640
Speaker 9: Luck, Yes, thank you.

207
00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, And everything is just edit right. Less friends can

208
00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,920
Speaker 3: be better, that's your friends. Fewer of the best, fewer.

209
00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,760
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get this quote, right, higher quality, less volume.

210
00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:21,320
Speaker 7: Nice?

211
00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I agree.

212
00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:29,720
Speaker 3: Higher quality le's volume because it's twenty twenty four. You're

213
00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:35,000
Speaker 3: on a roll this morning, I know, am I no, thanks,

214
00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:35,600
Speaker 3: I don't really know.

215
00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,360
Speaker 5: I just said that. It sounds like I was on

216
00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:38,559
Speaker 5: a roll. I liked that.

217
00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,080
Speaker 3: Oh so I was going to tell you this. I

218
00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,960
Speaker 3: know you are getting some scam calls. I got a

219
00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,520
Speaker 3: scam text. Did you guys get this text from an

220
00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:52,760
Speaker 3: unknown number? And they said, coming to La, do you

221
00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,240
Speaker 3: recommend any great hikes?

222
00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,960
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, so this old buddy.

223
00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, well no, I knew, like no one would ever

224
00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,120
Speaker 3: just out of the blue say come in LA, can

225
00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,760
Speaker 3: you recommend any good hikes to me?

226
00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,960
Speaker 5: I just seems so odd. Again, I feel like it's

227
00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:10,079
Speaker 5: very un brand free for you.

228
00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:11,839
Speaker 7: Yeah, wouldn't, but.

229
00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,439
Speaker 3: They wouldn't say who they are or high or what's up? Bro,

230
00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,440
Speaker 3: like something like that a scam goal for you?

231
00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,439
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it might be legit.

232
00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,240
Speaker 4: Somebody looking for that actually might be like an old

233
00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,800
Speaker 4: friend of yours. Yeah, really coming to LA and trying to.

234
00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,280
Speaker 5: Say hey, it's me.

235
00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,400
Speaker 4: Probably think you have their contacts saved in correct.

236
00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,000
Speaker 3: But see that's the thing I don't have a lot

237
00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,360
Speaker 3: of contacts saved here.

238
00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,600
Speaker 5: Here, here's here it is. It's from what's the area?

239
00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:39,319
Speaker 7: Is there a link?

240
00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:41,400
Speaker 5: I didn't click into it?

241
00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:42,680
Speaker 7: Bro Oh, there is a link.

242
00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:43,880
Speaker 5: I don't know. I didn't click.

243
00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,480
Speaker 4: You didn't even open the town.

244
00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:46,360
Speaker 5: I didn't open the link.

245
00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,360
Speaker 3: It's one line. Hey, here it is. I plan to

246
00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,520
Speaker 3: go hiking in La. Do you have any recommended place?

247
00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,040
Speaker 5: No one sending me that. No one's sending me that.

248
00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:54,800
Speaker 7: I don't know.

249
00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,480
Speaker 4: Fifty fifty you know, go both ways with you.

250
00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,120
Speaker 5: Unless you guys are toying with me over there.

251
00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:00,559
Speaker 7: No.

252
00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:00,719
Speaker 1: No.

253
00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,800
Speaker 2: But the recent scam call that I got made me

254
00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,200
Speaker 2: also question whether it was real or not.

255
00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:07,320
Speaker 5: What'd you get?

256
00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:07,880
Speaker 11: So?

257
00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:12,880
Speaker 2: And I've received multiple of these calls now it was

258
00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,840
Speaker 2: a phone call from someone from jail or prison?

259
00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:16,720
Speaker 11: What?

260
00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

261
00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:21,720
Speaker 4: And I have the audio because it left the voicemail.

262
00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,319
Speaker 3: Before we play it, I need to understand how did

263
00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:25,800
Speaker 3: you It was a voicemail.

264
00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:25,880
Speaker 5: Left for you?

265
00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,640
Speaker 2: It was the call came through and I didn't answer,

266
00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,040
Speaker 2: and then I went to voicemail. And then when I

267
00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,840
Speaker 2: listened to the voicemail, this is what was on it.

268
00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,960
Speaker 2: And it was coming from Santa Clarita, and so I

269
00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,600
Speaker 2: was like, okay, and then I'm like, would I know anybody

270
00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,599
Speaker 2: in jail? I don't know, so Radom and then it

271
00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,800
Speaker 2: just like multiple I've gotten these. This is like the

272
00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:43,480
Speaker 2: fifth one or sixth one that I've received.

273
00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:44,600
Speaker 5: Okay, let's listen.

274
00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:51,720
Speaker 13: Hello, this is a free call from an inmate in

275
00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:56,480
Speaker 13: the North County Correctional Facility. To accept this free call,

276
00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,319
Speaker 13: press zero to refuse this free call, hang up or

277
00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:06,200
Speaker 13: press one was not accept It is scam.

278
00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,360
Speaker 5: It's a scam. I don't know. Maybe someone misled your

279
00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:10,360
Speaker 5: number and.

280
00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:11,600
Speaker 4: Who is Yeah?

281
00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,760
Speaker 2: Multiple times, plus you can't even understand that person's name.

282
00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,920
Speaker 5: Okay, but what are they trying to do?

283
00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:18,760
Speaker 2: I don't know what they would try to do once

284
00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,320
Speaker 2: I got in or accepted or did whatever. But I

285
00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,760
Speaker 2: did number one, copy the number, and I put it

286
00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,360
Speaker 2: in Google. And it turns out that that number has

287
00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,800
Speaker 2: been used for these type of scam calls throughout the

288
00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,120
Speaker 2: whole US. So that's what made me feel a little

289
00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,920
Speaker 2: bit better. But at the same time, it did for

290
00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,440
Speaker 2: the first Then the first time I heard it, I

291
00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,200
Speaker 2: was like, do I know anybody that would be trying

292
00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,960
Speaker 2: to call me? I was like Jojo list in Santa Clarita.

293
00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,800
Speaker 2: I said, would ivy JoJo's first call?

294
00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:46,720
Speaker 1: I feel like he would call.

295
00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,680
Speaker 3: His interesting, who would your first call be? I feel

296
00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,600
Speaker 3: like he would Maybe he didn't want to tell her that. Also,

297
00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,680
Speaker 3: you want to keep it on the l by calling you.

298
00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,440
Speaker 4: That also been through my head.

299
00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,199
Speaker 2: I mean, but then there was multiple times that this happened,

300
00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,199
Speaker 2: and I was like, this seems.

301
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:01,280
Speaker 5: Like a skin.

302
00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,240
Speaker 3: I just think the rule of thumb is anything you

303
00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,840
Speaker 3: have to second guess, you just can't click into or respond.

304
00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:06,680
Speaker 5: Definitely don't click.

305
00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, Like if I get a link that

306
00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,560
Speaker 3: says click this to talk about olive oil, I might

307
00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,040
Speaker 3: be tempted, but I can't.

308
00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:17,880
Speaker 5: I gotta fight the urge. So yeah, if you are

309
00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:18,880
Speaker 5: like us.

310
00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,720
Speaker 3: I could kind of live for the coffee in the morning,

311
00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:23,400
Speaker 3: can't wait to have it, actually get so bummed.

312
00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:24,040
Speaker 5: You know.

313
00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,040
Speaker 3: I am impatient, and I shouldn't. I need to focus

314
00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,120
Speaker 3: on not thinking about the end of stuff, Like on Friday,

315
00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,200
Speaker 3: it's already in my head gonna be Sunday fast. But

316
00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,920
Speaker 3: I hate it when it's over. I don't like it

317
00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,760
Speaker 3: when coffee's gone to have my two cups and it's over.

318
00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,480
Speaker 7: I get kind of bummed too, Like I kind.

319
00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,640
Speaker 5: Of I look through a lens of sadness.

320
00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,600
Speaker 3: And so if you're looking to extend the buzz that

321
00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,880
Speaker 3: you get from your morning coffee, they say skip the

322
00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,000
Speaker 3: second cup and try eating this instead.

323
00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:52,760
Speaker 5: I believe what it is.

324
00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,360
Speaker 4: I have no idea what you're gonna say.

325
00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:57,520
Speaker 5: Grapefruit.

326
00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:59,880
Speaker 4: No, that was not what I was expecting.

327
00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:04,839
Speaker 3: So eating grapefruit or drinking grapefruit juice increases the time

328
00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:09,280
Speaker 3: caffeine stays in your body. Cabbage, broccoli, and brussels sprouts

329
00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,240
Speaker 3: up to how much of that you're eating in the morning.

330
00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,840
Speaker 3: But that does the opposite, that gets it out of

331
00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,079
Speaker 3: your system.

332
00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:16,520
Speaker 5: That canna be good at dinner.

333
00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,720
Speaker 3: But I think, try the grapefruit and see if it works.

334
00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,040
Speaker 3: Good experiment.

335
00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:25,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, how much of it? The whole thing? Yea so tart,

336
00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,520
Speaker 4: I know, some cottage cheese or something with it.

337
00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:32,440
Speaker 3: Some people never change Today's quote of the day. Some

338
00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:36,840
Speaker 3: people never change, and that's their journey. It's not yours

339
00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,439
Speaker 3: to try to fix for them.

340
00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,239
Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacret.

341
00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:47,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's cheeseburger Week in Pasadena one hundred years ago.

342
00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,040
Speaker 3: I did not know. How did I not know this?

343
00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,400
Speaker 3: And we've done the show for twenty years.

344
00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,400
Speaker 4: Listen, we have to know a lot of things, so

345
00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:53,600
Speaker 4: there's only so much space.

346
00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:55,079
Speaker 7: If there is something Ryan would know.

347
00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:57,800
Speaker 5: It does I'm not giving myself a pass on this.

348
00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,840
Speaker 4: Maybe not cheeseburger really, but I like burgers, can like

349
00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:02,400
Speaker 4: the burger.

350
00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:03,880
Speaker 5: One hundred years ago.

351
00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,720
Speaker 3: Think back about one hundred years ago, were we to well,

352
00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,679
Speaker 3: nothing right, you weren't doing a thing. But it was

353
00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,720
Speaker 3: nineteen twenty four and the cheeseburger was invented in Pasadena.

354
00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,240
Speaker 3: Sixteen year old what did you do at sixteen that

355
00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:19,240
Speaker 3: was so memorable? Maybe you took out your car snuck out.

356
00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:24,360
Speaker 3: Sixteen year old Lionel Sternberger Burger was working at his

357
00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:28,680
Speaker 3: Burger was working at his dad's restaurant, the right spot,

358
00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:32,360
Speaker 3: the right spot on Colorado Boulevard and Avenue sixty four,

359
00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,000
Speaker 3: and young Lionel had the idea to put cheese on

360
00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,000
Speaker 3: a hamburger.

361
00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:37,640
Speaker 5: It was a big hit.

362
00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,520
Speaker 3: The spot is now a credit union, but a plaque

363
00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,200
Speaker 3: is on the Wallmarting, this's great to mention.

364
00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:47,040
Speaker 2: That hamburger was here, but not the cheese burger.

365
00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:52,200
Speaker 3: Oh the details, look come on now, Yeah, the hamburger

366
00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:52,560
Speaker 3: was here.

367
00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:53,960
Speaker 5: But he meant it the cheeseburger.

368
00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:00,400
Speaker 3: Now, maybe his dad invented the hamburger.

369
00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,120
Speaker 7: The last name why to go Lionel slapping some cheese

370
00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:03,400
Speaker 7: on that.

371
00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,600
Speaker 3: So anyway, that's how the cheeseburger was invented, But not

372
00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:08,280
Speaker 3: the hamburger.

373
00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:09,120
Speaker 11: Uh.

374
00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,720
Speaker 3: It's not the only food invented in LA. The hot

375
00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,080
Speaker 3: Budge Sunday was invented in nineteen thirteen by Clarence Clifton

376
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,440
Speaker 3: Brown working at Christopher's Confectionery on South Broadway downtown.

377
00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:20,720
Speaker 5: The French dip, you know the French.

378
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,800
Speaker 2: Dep Oh that sounds so nice today because it's all

379
00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,320
Speaker 2: gloomy like a French dip sandwich.

380
00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,200
Speaker 5: Felipees that's well known. Felipes.

381
00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:33,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, the smoothie of course, La La. That makes sense,

382
00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,000
Speaker 3: but it was nineteen twenty six. Julius Freed went on

383
00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:41,360
Speaker 3: to found the mall's Orange Julius, these are foods that

384
00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,280
Speaker 3: were invented in LA. It still exists in malls across America.

385
00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,400
Speaker 3: And one final food invented in LA before we get

386
00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,560
Speaker 3: to Ryan's roses, the cob salad.

387
00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,640
Speaker 4: Oh good salad.

388
00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,840
Speaker 5: I love a cos we do. You gotta be in

389
00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:56,320
Speaker 5: the mood for it.

390
00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:57,320
Speaker 4: But yes, I'm with you.

391
00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,400
Speaker 3: I just like the way it's assembled. And then I

392
00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,760
Speaker 3: mix it up, comes in pods and I mess it

393
00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,800
Speaker 3: all up. And then if I Robert H. Cobb, no

394
00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:09,360
Speaker 3: surprise there. Who ran the brown derbyed Hollywood and Vine.

395
00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,760
Speaker 3: The story goes some Hollywood big shots come in many

396
00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,680
Speaker 3: many years ago, and he grabbed everything he could find

397
00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,360
Speaker 3: in the kitchen and threw it in a bowl and

398
00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:17,360
Speaker 3: made the cob solid.

399
00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:19,520
Speaker 5: I like it.

400
00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,560
Speaker 3: So this is a second date update. I gotta get

401
00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,600
Speaker 3: to know Nick Nick and Woodland Hills. So Nick is

402
00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,320
Speaker 3: a ride share driver and hooked up with one of

403
00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:30,440
Speaker 3: his passengers. Nick, thank you for coming on for a

404
00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,880
Speaker 3: second date update. Is this the first time you've ever

405
00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,560
Speaker 3: hooked up with a passenger of yours?

406
00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:37,360
Speaker 10: Yep, not even close before.

407
00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,160
Speaker 5: Okay, and what made you cross the line this time?

408
00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,200
Speaker 10: Well, so, yeah, I'm a student at Pierce College in

409
00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,160
Speaker 10: Woodland Hills and I drive a ridehair car on the side.

410
00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,560
Speaker 10: You know, just a few weeks ago, a bunch of

411
00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:53,440
Speaker 10: girls from Sea Sun, you know, I give him a

412
00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,480
Speaker 10: ride to a bar just in Ansino, and there was

413
00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:58,080
Speaker 10: four of them. And the thing is is one of

414
00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,280
Speaker 10: them had to sit up front with me, and I

415
00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,520
Speaker 10: tell you, she was like the most beautiful, stunning person

416
00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,560
Speaker 10: I've ever met in my life. And uh so, when

417
00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,520
Speaker 10: I dropped him off at the bar, I told her

418
00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,280
Speaker 10: if they need a ride later, you know, to just

419
00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:15,120
Speaker 10: call me directly, and I gave her my number, so basically, yeah,

420
00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,840
Speaker 10: a few hours later, she actually called me back, and

421
00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,240
Speaker 10: when I got there, it was just her. You know,

422
00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:23,360
Speaker 10: she left her friends at the bar because she said

423
00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,440
Speaker 10: she wanted to see me, so I gave her ride

424
00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,320
Speaker 10: back to north Ridge. That's when we hooked up in

425
00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:31,479
Speaker 10: my car. And you know, I've been texting her since then.

426
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,119
Speaker 10: You know, she hasn't blocked me, but I haven't been

427
00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,119
Speaker 10: getting any responses from her, so you know, I'm starting

428
00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,160
Speaker 10: to get the message that this was just a one

429
00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,120
Speaker 10: time thing for her. But you know, if I could

430
00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:42,320
Speaker 10: get a hold of her, you know, I think this

431
00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:43,760
Speaker 10: would really be something great.

432
00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,679
Speaker 3: So curious to wonder how often this happens with a

433
00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,000
Speaker 3: driver and a passenger.

434
00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,679
Speaker 1: Well, you're giving.

435
00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,399
Speaker 2: Her your number, then that's you know, you're extending that

436
00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:56,960
Speaker 2: chance for it to escalate.

437
00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,480
Speaker 5: So you think she's saw this as a one time thing.

438
00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, Unfortunately, that's the vibe I'm getting or I don't know,

439
00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,359
Speaker 10: Like like you said, it's kind of like weird hooking

440
00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,439
Speaker 10: up with your right chair driver. So I have a

441
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,320
Speaker 10: feeling that's basically the gist of it. She's just kind

442
00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,520
Speaker 10: of you know, I don't know.

443
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,040
Speaker 5: It's fine in the moment, but she does want to

444
00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:18,760
Speaker 5: pursue it. All right.

445
00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,920
Speaker 3: Well, look, I mean, Nick, this is what a second

446
00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:24,479
Speaker 3: date update is for. We've never had this one this

447
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,680
Speaker 3: scenario before, but I guarantee you You've got other righte share

448
00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:29,000
Speaker 3: drivers listening right now.

449
00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,440
Speaker 5: I want to hear how this one goes. So hang

450
00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,720
Speaker 5: on one second. Did she tip you?

451
00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:34,359
Speaker 8: Thank you?

452
00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,400
Speaker 3: I mean, hold on, Nick, this is I really want

453
00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,320
Speaker 3: to get to it fast. Let's come back. We'll find out.

454
00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,960
Speaker 3: Her name is Cynthia. What's up with Cynthia. She's agreed

455
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:51,000
Speaker 3: to come on. Thank you for listening, Thank you for streaming.

456
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:52,919
Speaker 3: If you got to go to work, take us with

457
00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,760
Speaker 3: you on your device, Alexa. Just ask Alexa to play

458
00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:59,959
Speaker 3: Kiss one A two point seven Kiss FM. Don't miss anything,

459
00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 3: and Mark works hard on the podcast. It comes out later.

460
00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:06,000
Speaker 9: Thank you?

461
00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,879
Speaker 5: What times that post? Well, we try to get it

462
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,240
Speaker 5: up for sure by noon every day.

463
00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,040
Speaker 8: Sometimes I'm right there at ten o'clock, sometimes close to eleven,

464
00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:13,680
Speaker 8: depends on.

465
00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,200
Speaker 5: The day, but I do my best to get it

466
00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,199
Speaker 5: up as quickly as possible.

467
00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 3: Well, the deal is if you miss anything or you

468
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,080
Speaker 3: want to hear something again. It's all on a podcast

469
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:24,000
Speaker 3: later called on Airthrone and Seacrest on iHeartRadio. So this

470
00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 3: is a second date update. Nick is with us now,

471
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,280
Speaker 3: and Nick has written to us saying, hey, look, I

472
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,439
Speaker 3: am a ride share driver hooked up with a passenger.

473
00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,399
Speaker 3: She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. But now

474
00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 3: she's ignoring my text. He thinks reality set in and

475
00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,640
Speaker 3: it was a one time thing, and she doesn't really

476
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,440
Speaker 3: want to go back and revisit because of the dynamic

477
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 3: of them meeting in the car and crossing the line.

478
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,640
Speaker 3: And I'm so curious, yeah to know more so, Nick,

479
00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,840
Speaker 3: don't even breathe, Well, breathe, but don't let us hear you.

480
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,399
Speaker 3: I have Cynthia on the phone. She's agreed to come

481
00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,119
Speaker 3: on with us. She does not know you're on the

482
00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 3: other line. Be very quiet, let us find out what's up.

483
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 1: All right, We'll do it.

484
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 3: Thank you, Cynthia, Thank you for holding here. It is

485
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,360
Speaker 3: Ryan SEACRESTY have Tanya Assistanty you're on Kiss FM. How

486
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 3: you doing Hi?

487
00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,560
Speaker 12: I'm okay, thanks super.

488
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,879
Speaker 3: So we're calling you about a transfer you had not

489
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,200
Speaker 3: too long ago with a ride share driver named Nick.

490
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 5: Do you have fond memories that I sat up in the.

491
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,479
Speaker 4: Front seat and then he gave you his number?

492
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 8: Yeah?

493
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 4: I remember.

494
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 3: So when I say, Nick, what do you think about?

495
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 3: Tell me about Nick?

496
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:34,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

497
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 2: My gosh, Oh my gosh.

498
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 11: I mean Nick.

499
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 12: He he's a nice guy.

500
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,360
Speaker 9: I mean, I just I made a.

501
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 14: Mistake, all right, I hoped I hooked up with him

502
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 14: and he was my driver.

503
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,719
Speaker 3: But what's the mistake? What's the whole ro I'm very

504
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 3: interested in this outcome.

505
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 4: I mean that is kind of wildly What is that?

506
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 1: What?

507
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 5: What is the mistake? And what was it that attracted

508
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 5: you to Nick?

509
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 14: I mean, you know, it's just weird, like it was

510
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 14: one night. I wouldn't normally do this, but I thought

511
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 14: he was an interesting guy and I was just really

512
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 14: feeling it that night. And I don't even know him,

513
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 14: so it's just it's not something that I would usually do.

514
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: And was this the reason he wasn't ghost him?

515
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:20,400
Speaker 2: Now?

516
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:22,640
Speaker 5: Was he romantic?

517
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 4: Well?

518
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 14: Look, I just I feel embarrassed about the whole thing,

519
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 14: Like I kind of just wanted to put it in

520
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 14: my past because I don't plan on doing anything like

521
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 14: that again.

522
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 3: Okay, but let me ask you this, Cynthia. I understand

523
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 3: that completely. But if he wasn't your ride share driver,

524
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 3: would you have wanted to see him again?

525
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 14: I mean, he's a sweet guy, and then afterwards he

526
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 14: was like sending me a lot of sweet things.

527
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 8: He was texting me, and I just I didn't know

528
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 8: what to say back. But yeah, I guess yeah, huh.

529
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: But what's so bad about it being ride share drive?

530
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 4: What's about this? What's so bad about this scenario?

531
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 14: This is I don't really know him that well. That's

532
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 14: the thing, Like.

533
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 5: We do.

534
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 3: We kind of love him. I'm gonna tell you why.

535
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 3: Nick is on the phone and I just got to

536
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 3: know him a little bit. Nick say hi to Cynthia.

537
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 8: Hi, Cynthia.

538
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 5: That's your Nick, Cynthia. So here's the deal.

539
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 3: He reached out to us, which is very charming because

540
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 3: he was stumped that you weren't getting back to him.

541
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 3: He was blown away by you and wanted to see

542
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 3: you again and is trying to figure out how can

543
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 3: we look past this fact that you were a passenger

544
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 3: and this is a weird scenario to have met and

545
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 3: is there a way to do that?

546
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 5: I guess that's the question, Nick, right, Well.

547
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 10: Yeah, like so Cynthia, like I get like this is

548
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 10: totally super embarrassing and it's not your style. Well, the

549
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 10: thing is is, it's not my style either. It's not

550
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 10: like I just you know, try to hook up with

551
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 10: you know, passengers all the time. You know, I've been

552
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 10: doing this for a couple of years now, that's never

553
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 10: happened before. I just think that you and I, you know,

554
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 10: it's like we have this you know, undeniable spark and

555
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 10: it shouldn't matter if like we met because I'm your

556
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 10: driver or you know, we could have met at a

557
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 10: grocery store on a dating app or whatever. But you know,

558
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 10: it's like, at the end of the day, we did

559
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 10: meet and I think we have a real connection. So

560
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 10: you know, you know, why don't you let me take

561
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 10: you on a real date this time? You know, maybe

562
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 10: we'll get dinner, you know, some drinks.

563
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,120
Speaker 2: Like I think.

564
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 8: I don't drink.

565
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Well that's totally.

566
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 10: Fine, Like we can get dinner, you know, maybe I

567
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 10: can take you out for some ice cream or something.

568
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 10: I'll walk you know, I'll plan a great night and

569
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 10: you know, you know, with zero expectations, and you know,

570
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 10: it'll just be like a real first date.

571
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 14: I mean, gosh, it's really sweet that you're actually going

572
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 14: through all this trouble to talk to me.

573
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 12: So I appreciate that.

574
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 10: Well, yeah, like, I don't think unless we go on

575
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 10: another day and I'll be able to move on. It's

576
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 10: like I think about you all the time. It's crazy.

577
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

578
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 14: Well, when you put it that way, fine, we'll go out.

579
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 5: Oh all right, it's a match. Yes, victory.

580
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 12: He's so sweet.

581
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: Congratulations Nick, way too get that response. Yeah, I mean beautiful, Well, Cynthia,

582
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 3: good luck, hop it goes well with Nick. He's also

583
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 3: a student. He's doing this on the side, so maybe things,

584
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 3: you know, you could talk about what he's studying, all

585
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 3: that stuff, and good luck.

586
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 4: Okay, tell him what to talk about on their date.

587
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 3: I'm telling saying like he's also a student, he's just

588
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 3: doing this job on the side.

589
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 5: Okay, bye, guys, thankye. I thought she was gonna say no,

590
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 5: I mean I thought she.

591
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 3: Was gonna say, oh, put it that way. No, that's

592
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 3: what I thought she's in the second it's not a

593
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 3: little over the top.

594
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 4: I thought he's wearing his heart on his sleeve.

595
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 5: And I liked that he wants to go on an

596
00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 5: ice cream date.

597
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 4: I missed that part.

598
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was picturing like an ice cream date short,

599
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 3: but it's very cute.

600
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 5: Would you get a cone or a cup?

601
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 4: Cone?

602
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 11: See?

603
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 3: I always want to get a cone, but it drips

604
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 3: down the bottom and a cup's.

605
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 5: Easier to handle, especially on a date.

606
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 8: Yeah.

607
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 5: Cone, That is a second date update, and that's why

608
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 5: we ice.

609
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 7: Cream on the first or second date.

610
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: For On Air with Ryan says, all.

611
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 3: Right, so Rachel says that her boyfriend is invited on

612
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 3: a bachelorette weekend, but he's the only dude going.

613
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,719
Speaker 5: Rachel, thanks for hanging on and coming on with us

614
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 5: this morning. How are you?

615
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 12: Absolutely? I'm good. Ryan, how about you?

616
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 5: I'm solid. Thank you so much for asking.

617
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 3: So your boyfriend was invited on a bachelorette weekend.

618
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 5: What's the story?

619
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 12: Yes, yeah, so it's really sweet. He has a friend

620
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 12: from college who's the girl and they're just like super close,

621
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 12: and then she asked him to be a part of

622
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 12: her wedding party. Sort of as like a bribe man

623
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 12: not you know. So, uh, it's him and a bunch

624
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 12: of girls. We're also bridesmaids, and I'm trying to be cool,

625
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 12: like it's a cool girlfriend and starting, but I'm just

626
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 12: like starting to feel uncomfortable because he's going to the

627
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 12: bachelorette party and a bunch of the girls are single

628
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 12: and like have been like really floating with him part

629
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 12: even though you know they know that he has a girlfriend.

630
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 12: So like, do I ask him not to go on

631
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 12: the bachelorette party because I don't want to be like controlling,

632
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 12: But I'm also like really uncomforty with him going on

633
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 12: those trips.

634
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 5: Interesting. Yeah, I've got.

635
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: A best friend that's a woman who's married. But I

636
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 3: could see, you know, in another life earlier, I could

637
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 3: see her inviting me maybe to something like that. But

638
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: I also could see how that might not feel well,

639
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 3: since you are with him that he's going to be there.

640
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 5: But if you trust him, what's the big deal?

641
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,239
Speaker 3: Well, right, exactly, I mean you know what I mean,

642
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 3: I almost trust him, doesn't trust the other women.

643
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 5: Well, if you trust him, then it's fine.

644
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 3: You need two parties to tango. So if you trust him,

645
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 3: and it's his good friend. Do you want to block it?

646
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 5: I don't know.

647
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I didn't get this is what she

648
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: has to roll the dice and just go with it

649
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 2: and hope that it all works out.

650
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 5: Roll the dice. She trusts a boyfriend because she.

651
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 4: Doesn't sounds like it's not about trust.

652
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 7: It's like it's about maybe you want.

653
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: You want him to make the choice of not going,

654
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: but she doesn't want to tell him that.

655
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 5: But why would he say so if he doesn't go?

656
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 3: What's he's saying, like, I'm gonna I don't want to

657
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 3: go because I want you uncomfortable.

658
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 6: If this situation makes you uncomfortable, making you comfortable, well,

659
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 6: that's a good.

660
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 5: Way to say it.

661
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 3: That's a good way to say it. Can you get

662
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 3: him to say that?

663
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: Can we get him to say that?

664
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 3: Can we get him to say that to you? And

665
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 3: then you can say what you honestly think.

666
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 12: That's just a really good point.

667
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, get him, get him to get those words out

668
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: of his mouth, and then you say, you know what,

669
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: thank you for thoughtfully bringing that up. And since you

670
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 3: did bring that up, yeah I'm uncomfortable.

671
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 12: That's a really good point. Yeah. Yeah, pushing him into it.

672
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 15: Yeah, thank you.

673
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,479
Speaker 5: I mean that's it's a relationship. That's what we do.

674
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 4: Maybe turn the tables to make think about it. If

675
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 4: it were you.

676
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I that's a good one too. All right, Well,

677
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 3: good advice, good advice this morning. Would you want Michael

678
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 3: to do that? Would you be okay with it?

679
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 4: That's so something that would never happen at this.

680
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 3: Pointy Robbie back in the day, what about Robbie.

681
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, if Robbie said some girl was coming on his

682
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 6: bachelor party, I'd be like.

683
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 2: No, but it's he's going He's going on bast party.

684
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 7: So like twelve girl even weirder.

685
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 5: That's what she was. That's what she was talking about

686
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 5: for her boyfriend.

687
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 7: I know, I'm with her. I would think it was

688
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 7: a little odd.

689
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 2: I don't love it depends on how young they are.

690
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: You know, in your twenties you do crazier stuff.

691
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 5: Well, let's see what happens.

692
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 3: Keep us close to Rachel Sarah, good morning, and thank

693
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 3: you keep for having on kids FM. So I just

694
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: want to jump right into why you're calling your pressure

695
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 3: to follow your sister in law on Instagram.

696
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 5: Tell us about that.

697
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, she she called me out at a family dinner.

698
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 8: It was like the most awkward thing ever. I haven't

699
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 8: I've never followed her on social media or anything like,

700
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 8: no no platforms, no acts, no Instagram. And recently we

701
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 8: all got together to see my brother, my sister in law,

702
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 8: and she called me out over dinner like, oh, so

703
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 8: now you'll follow me, right, And it was so awkward

704
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 8: and tense, and I just kind of like laughed it off.

705
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 8: But I honestly do not want to follow her on Instagram.

706
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 8: I do not like her. I don't want to say

707
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 8: like I hate her, but like, I really do not

708
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,719
Speaker 8: like her, and I don't want to see any of

709
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 8: her stuff on social media.

710
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 5: So why don't you like your sister in law? What's up?

711
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: Okay?

712
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 8: I know, well he listen. None of my family likes her,

713
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 8: so it's not like I'm the odd man out of

714
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 8: the black sheep. We just feel like she doesn't contribute

715
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 8: to like my brother's partnership. They have a couple of kids,

716
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 8: and she really doesn't pull her weight in the family.

717
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 8: My brother's always like running around bringing the kids to everything,

718
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 8: and we just from my perspective, I think she doesn't,

719
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 8: you know, support my brother, and it just really irritates me,

720
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 8: So I don't want to see her, you know, getting

721
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 8: her nails done while my brother is like running around

722
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 8: with the kids on social media.

723
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Well this sounds like a bigger issue than Instagram.

724
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 3: The fact that your family doesn't like who he's married to.

725
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 3: Forget Instagram, that's the problem, and what do you do

726
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 3: about that as a family? I know, how could your

727
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 3: brother not see it? And have you guys talked to

728
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: him about it?

729
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 8: We tried to have a conversation with him, you know,

730
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 8: before they got married, and he is just he's so

731
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 8: in love with her, which is really admirable. I'm happy

732
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 8: that he's in love, but he's so blinded by all

733
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 8: of this and he doesn't see that he could you know.

734
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 8: I don't want to say do better, but that he

735
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 8: needs support in his life. And so it's just your right.

736
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 8: Instagram is the tip of the iceberg. But it's the

737
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 8: only control I have in not following her.

738
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 3: You know, well don't because she already I know she

739
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 3: already senses that you guys don't vibe with her, and so.

740
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,959
Speaker 2: If she's asking you to follow her that it's almost

741
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 2: not a cry for help.

742
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 5: But maybe you do it now it's going to be artific.

743
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 5: It's not. It's artificial.

744
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 4: But I've been seen it way past that. Sarah.

745
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: I feel as if you should try to get to

746
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 2: know her and see if you can actually be her friend.

747
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 7: Maybe encourage her to help out more.

748
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then maybe things will change with the way

749
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: she treats her brother and the way the family views her.

750
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 2: If you're the olive branch that kind of welcomes her in.

751
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 2: I know, you got to be the bigger person here.

752
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 3: All right, Well, good luck Sarah with that, and thank

753
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 3: you very much for listening to us. It's one of

754
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 3: two point seven kiss FM. That's a tough one. But

755
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 3: why is the family not like the wife of their

756
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 3: brother son? Yeah, well that's the big issue now, Tania,

757
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: what's the advice you need?

758
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 6: So I was thinking that you could help me because

759
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 6: I feel like this is your wheelhouse. So Robbie and

760
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 6: I are on a little bit of a survivor detox.

761
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 6: We're only allowing ourselves to watch one season at a time.

762
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 4: Well, really starting to become a problem.

763
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 5: Huh. Great self discipline.

764
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you so much. It feels good. It feels good.

765
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 6: But in the interim we're trying to read more, and

766
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 6: so I love self help books. You won't find a

767
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 6: self help book that I don't love. So we started

768
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 6: reading this book. It's called the Magic of Thinking Big,

769
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 6: and it's kind of like one of those books like

770
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 6: here five tips to you know what I mean, Like

771
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 6: it gives you these practical, little, bite sized things. And

772
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 6: Robbie's not so into that type of self help book.

773
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 6: He was like, maybe there's a way that we can

774
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:59,959
Speaker 6: be inspired and motivated by somebody's story by reading somebody's biography,

775
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 6: like reading actual people's life stories. And so I thought

776
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 6: maybe you had some that you could recommend that are

777
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 6: a little aspirational inspirational.

778
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 3: You know what's interesting is that I like bite size

779
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 3: books for me.

780
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 11: Uh.

781
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 5: For example, I'm gonna pull up what's right here on

782
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 5: my desk. Look at this.

783
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 7: That's not cute self care.

784
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 3: It's the size of a wallet book. Yeah, and it's called, uh,

785
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 3: the Little Book of Self Care, And inside it's got

786
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 3: like one thing on a page.

787
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 5: Oh you did for that? You don't seem so excited.

788
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 2: I'm kind of with Robbie, though, I kind of like,

789
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: I'm I like both Tanya, I can do a whole

790
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 2: self care book bite size, maybe like what Ryan's showing you.

791
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 2: But then I also want to read the Barber streisand

792
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: on audible where it's like sixty hours.

793
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 5: On there reading.

794
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 4: Okay, what do you know what I mean?

795
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 3: You know my friend, my friend Lisa said that to

796
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 3: me other day. She goes, I read all the time

797
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 3: while I cook. I'm like, how do you read and cook?

798
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 5: Honestly? Yeah, but that's not reading.

799
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 2: If Barbara Streisan is doing the narrative, I will listen

800
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: to her for sixty hours. I but don't you feel

801
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 2: like that'll be inspirational, like hearing that's her story.

802
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 6: It's like Chris Jenner wrote a book like I'd want

803
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 6: to hear about the thirty and doing the treadmill and

804
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 6: how she does her emails and how she is.

805
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 3: I start, but I don't finish a lot of things. Well,

806
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: series books, binge, watching all of that stuff. I mean,

807
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: I'm reading a book about Winston Churchill if that's interesting

808
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 3: to him.

809
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 6: But is that is it like aspirational motivationalspiration history?

810
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 5: It could be I don't know, it's history.

811
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, it sounds snoozy.

812
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 5: Well, then don't ask.

813
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: Like my little wallet size, I do like about that

814
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 3: fit in your pocket that is cute.

815
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 4: Let me, let me, is this where you get your

816
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 4: mindful mood?

817
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 7: Yes, it's one of the places.

818
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 3: It's one of the places. Let me shove it up

819
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:46,479
Speaker 3: to random page. Right, Okay, here we go, today's page

820
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 3: one O five. I just opened it up from a

821
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 3: little book that could give your skin a treat. The

822
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 3: silk dress, it's always lurking, unworn at the back of

823
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 3: the wardrobe. Bring it out and wear it. Yes, appreciate

824
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: how the fabric feels against your skin. Revel in the

825
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 3: sense of luxury that fine fabrics bring to your body.

826
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 2: Now is that relatable to you, Ryan, No, so I

827
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 2: would have turned to the next next page.

828
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 3: Treat yourself if time and finances allow, enjoying a massage

829
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 3: probably the finest way to hit your self care. High

830
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 3: Oiled hands, pubbling taught muscles are soothing. They really wrote that,

831
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 3: oiled oiled hands, bubbling muscles.

832
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 5: Oh, it's powerful.

833
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 2: So you know it's so graphic, though, But when you

834
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: really think about massages.

835
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 4: They're so weird.

836
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 2: Strange massage in your naked body, and it is strange.

837
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 5: It's strange. And they always say you don't have to

838
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 5: wear anything.

839
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 7: I know, I never do.

840
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 2: I don't either, but it's like, when what world is

841
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 2: it okay for that to happen?

842
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 3: I mean the way that they or a GOMMI hammock

843
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 3: that sheet around you is like a whole sign.

844
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 5: I know, Mike.

845
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: When I got a couple of massages the other day

846
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: for our anniversary, and it was just like again weird.

847
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 5: I was worried.

848
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: When she'll say, do you want me to stretch you,

849
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, all of a sudden, my legs are

850
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,240
Speaker 3: up in the air. I don't know what else is happening.

851
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 3: Good morning, Elijah, how are you?

852
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 15: Good morning?

853
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 13: How you doing?

854
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 5: What's going on?

855
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 11: Buddy?

856
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 5: I can I help you?

857
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 15: Yeah? So my girlfriend made a vision board and it's

858
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 15: kind of freaking me out.

859
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 2: I'd run fast, excuse and why wait a minute?

860
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 15: So well, look, I don't even think I was supposed

861
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 15: to see it in the first place. She and her

862
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 15: friends got together and did it right after the New Year.

863
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 15: But I was looking for a post it in a

864
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 15: drawer and I found it and it had like a

865
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 15: bride and there was like this enormous diamond engagement.

866
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: Range, all normal things that women usually put on their

867
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: vision boards.

868
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 15: Right, like an expensive car and these island vacations like.

869
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 3: I mean, the vision board is aspirational too, right, It's

870
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 3: supposed to be just that, you know, maybe beyond what

871
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 3: your goals are. But it's a nice thing to aspire

872
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 3: to be.

873
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 4: What's the issue?

874
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean you.

875
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 5: Don't want to get married? Is that the deal?

876
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 15: Here's the thing, here's the thing. I get all that,

877
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 15: But we've only been dating for only five months.

878
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 6: Well, bro, just because she has this vision board doesn't

879
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 6: mean it's you, you know what.

880
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,959
Speaker 15: I mean, Like, it's a vision board for this year,

881
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 15: and I'm not that rich or anything, like, I don't

882
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 15: make that much money.

883
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 5: But what were you?

884
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 3: I guess what we're hearing you say is that you're

885
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 3: feeling some pressure because of her vision board, and that

886
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: pressure has to do with the future of your commitment

887
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 3: to and with her.

888
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, is that what I'm hearing that?

889
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 15: And the finances? I mean, look, am I line of

890
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 15: work I'm telling to be an EMC people like me

891
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 15: don't usually get rich.

892
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 4: Maybe you should make a vision board and then you'll

893
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 4: be rich.

894
00:37:59,560 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 11: You know what?

895
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 6: It doesn't right, No, but I think also too, like

896
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 6: maybe that's worth a discussion that you can have with her,

897
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 6: because if you know, if she has like these fancy

898
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 6: cars and these fancy vacations, maybe there.

899
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 3: Is is that important to her, right, Maybe that's a

900
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 3: good jumping off point to have a real conversation Elijah

901
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: about who you guys are.

902
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 5: It's a great idea, Tonya.

903
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 4: And it might not be that big of a deal.

904
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 2: She might be like, oh, this is just the stuff

905
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 2: that I just cut out of magazine, like it's vacation.

906
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: It's just like I mean, it's like the screensaver on

907
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 3: your phone actually, like you're going to live on that beach,

908
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 3: but you like to look at it exactly. I use

909
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 3: this as a point to talk about what you're really

910
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 3: thinking and feeling here in your relationship at all.

911
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 4: I think you should be. It's beautiful that she wants

912
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 4: to harry you.

913
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 3: It's a healthy exercise to to do a vision board.

914
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,399
Speaker 3: Tanya does it here all the time in life.

915
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 6: I used to put rings and brides since twenty fifteen

916
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 6: on my vision board.

917
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, it took a little while, but she got there.

918
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:53,439
Speaker 5: I got there.

919
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: Thank you and good luck with the mt BRO. Thanks

920
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 3: for saving lives.

921
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 15: Oh absolutely yeah, thank you guys for hearing me out

922
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 15: and give me some advice.

923
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 5: I needed to hear that call anytime.

924
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 3: It is interesting that like, okay, where he thought her

925
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 3: putting those things up is just bad news. Actually it's

926
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 3: great news because he can now have a conversation about

927
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 3: who they really are, like who he is or who

928
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 3: he's looking for, or what and what she really wants

929
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 3: or means by all that.

930
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 4: Yes, and maybe it's just like she wants it.

931
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: Eventually she just doesn't. You know, it doesn't need to

932
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 2: happen this year.

933
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 6: But I probably scared off so many men because I

934
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 6: would keep my vision board in like on my bathroom window,

935
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 6: or i'd keep it in the kitchen, so I thought

936
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 6: every morning I was making my coffee.

937
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 2: So when they'd come over to your house, it would

938
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 2: just be out yep with bridle ring.

939
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 6: And bridled and uh song lyrics.

940
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 5: I mean, we could have helped move the vision board

941
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 5: and this would happen.

942
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacret.

943
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 3: I got Rebecca on the line, So Rebecca, everybody listening

944
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: on this, Rebecca's calling. She says, Uh, you told your

945
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 3: sister in law that you're pregnant, and now what happened?

946
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 8: Oh, it went real bad, Ryan, real real bad. So

947
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 8: I need I need some advice because I don't know

948
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 8: what to do about this.

949
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 3: So you you shared the good news in the spirits

950
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: of celebration, and how could it go bad?

951
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: I know.

952
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 8: So my sister in law and my brother in law's

953
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 8: both my husband's brother and his wife. They've been experiencing

954
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 8: infertility for years, which the whole family has just been

955
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 8: so there every step of the way with them on

956
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 8: the journey. So I know how hard this has been

957
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 8: for them. And you know, when we got pregnant, we

958
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 8: were of course ecstatic, but we wanted to handle the

959
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 8: news really carefully, so we took them out to dinner.

960
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 8: You know, at the end of the dinner, we told

961
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 8: them the good news, and my sister in law stood

962
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 8: up and just told us we were selfish. How could

963
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 8: we do this to her? She can't believe it, she

964
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 8: can't even look at us, and basically stormed away.

965
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 5: Do this to her?

966
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: I mean, you're creating the greatest gift in right, I mean,

967
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 3: it's the most beautiful thing, and selfishly she's acting like that.

968
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 3: What's at the root of that, there's what's deep down

969
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 3: inside there.

970
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 2: It's the fact that she's been struggling with her own

971
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 2: struggles of trying to get pregnant. It's not it's not

972
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: right that she reacted this way, but it is. It's

973
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 2: it's all right, So.

974
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 3: Then we should give her. Then let's understand that, right.

975
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 3: Like I guess, Sisney, you could speak to this more

976
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 3: than anybody. Put yourself in her shoes.

977
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've having to go through that, and I can't

978
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 2: imagine like the years and years and years that they

979
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: have been struggling. But what are you supposed to do,

980
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 2: pause your life and not be able to live your life.

981
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 2: You've got to give her some time. I think that

982
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 2: eventually she's going to come around. The way she reacted

983
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 2: was not the right way, but I don't think that

984
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,399
Speaker 2: it's something to shut her out for.

985
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 4: So give her time.

986
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: Maybe reach out again and say you want to have

987
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 2: some lunch, or let's talk.

988
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 3: Let's I think it's talk in a very what's what's

989
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 3: the right word? Sort of in a very open and

990
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 3: generous way, invite the dialogue with warmth, right for both

991
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: of you, and I just think that's the way to

992
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 3: do it.

993
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: And eventually she's hopefully she's the one that actually reaches

994
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 2: out to you, because she's the one that needs to

995
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 2: probably apologize.

996
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 8: Right, And I love her and I think everything you're saying,

997
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 8: I really wanted you. But she won't even look at

998
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 8: me at family events. So I'm trying to take her.

999
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 3: But you got to think you got to get to

1000
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 3: this conversation a very just like a very compassionate conversation

1001
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 3: with the two of you, to create the dialogue, to

1002
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 3: break the ice, to get to a new place, because

1003
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 3: I think you can get there.

1004
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 6: It's also not about you, like she is just in it,

1005
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 6: in it, in it with herself, and she's projecting these

1006
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 6: you know, like this is a crazy hard thing. So

1007
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 6: she's probably deeply depressed and going through stuff that you

1008
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 6: have no idea and you can't even relate to.

1009
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 5: And so I think can't fix it either.

1010
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 7: Right, I think just give her a little bit of

1011
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 7: grace and sometime.

1012
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 8: Absolutely I think we'll see you know, we'll try and

1013
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 8: meet up for launch. I think that's a great idea.

1014
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 8: And just like you said, I we're all cards on

1015
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 8: the table and just listen.

1016
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 3: Sounds like yeah, with warmth and love, good luck. Thank

1017
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,760
Speaker 3: you for calling and sharing that with us, and congratulations

1018
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 3: to you.

1019
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that.

1020
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 5: It's a great point, Tony.

1021
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 3: You know, when people respond in ways like that, it's

1022
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 3: what they're dealing with, and she's just not conveying it

1023
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 3: in a helpful way, a productive way.

1024
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: Right right on air on Air with Ryan Seacret.

1025
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: All right, this is one question I've always wondered, Sisnytani.

1026
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 3: What's the most common thing you find yourself zoning out

1027
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 3: and staring at.

1028
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 4: A high speed car chase?

1029
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's crazy. How we can't stop.

1030
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything gets put down and I'm just I'm in.

1031
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 5: I do it with my pantry. I just stare at stuff.

1032
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 7: Oh my, I do that all the time, and I

1033
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 7: can't make a decision.

1034
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 4: Open the fridge.

1035
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 5: Ye, take good care.