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Speaker 1: Let's do it. This is the Benn and Ashley I

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with our radio. Season four has begun.

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Speaker 1: I've been I'm Ashley and congratulations been on four seasons.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, what a surprise. So excited about it and

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Speaker 1: I don't want this to end anytime soon. And Ashley,

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Speaker 1: we have made it through the roughest part of the podcast.

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Speaker 1: We have literally for the last few months just bought

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Speaker 1: time talking about our lives and rumors around vaterination and

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Speaker 1: pop culture, just to get to this day and this

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Speaker 1: moment because it's January. Are okay? So after after watching

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Speaker 1: the first episode, I kind of cringe singing January. I

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Speaker 1: don't think we should be. I don't think we should

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Speaker 1: I was all about the cute little term, but now

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Speaker 1: after watching it, I just don't know if Ari should

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Speaker 1: on in February? Yeah, well it is February as well.

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Speaker 1: We will start those promo ads soon or what even? Mark? Right? Well,

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Speaker 1: there's Mari's good to see. I see you can have

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Speaker 1: a debt with the Bachelor. Here's the deal. Okay, Um,

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Speaker 1: it's it's season for episode one of the Almost Famous Podcast,

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Speaker 1: Ari season as a Bachelor started today and as a result,

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Speaker 1: we wanted to give you this podcast as quickly as possible.

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Speaker 1: And so Ashley's in studio in Los Angeles, Easton's they're

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Speaker 1: helping her out. Amen Taho. I'm in Denver. We don't

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Speaker 1: with us as we talk on and only the four

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Speaker 1: of us dummies. We're willing to work on New Year's Day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we just watched the episode East Coast feed. Um, we're

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Speaker 1: Do you like the spoilers like as they're going before

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Speaker 1: finales when people see that we post like congratulations so

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Speaker 1: and so on Instagram and they're like, you spoiled it.

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Speaker 1: I used to like you and then you made this

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Speaker 1: you ruined my life like this. I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you guys, come on, then get off the computer. If

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Speaker 1: it's going to ruin your life. Hey, actually I got

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Speaker 1: it here. I mean, you are the expert, let's jump

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Speaker 1: into it. Uh, we did just watch our first episode.

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Speaker 1: First episodes, personally, to me, are the f flute worst.

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Speaker 1: They're long, and they're boring. Thank you. Uh, They're not

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Speaker 1: Can we just get your your professional breakdown from the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor expert herself on what you thought in the first

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Speaker 1: episode of our season. Yes, I gave you a little

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Speaker 1: preview before by saying that I don't think we should

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Speaker 1: I think that it's going to be the girls. I know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he came across a little cold, a

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Speaker 1: Is that, from what I heard about Ari, he is

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Speaker 1: right now he's saying, I'm not in this to be famous.

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Speaker 1: many of us, if you meet us in real life.

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00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 1: Were so different. And I always say that I used

427
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: to watch American Idol like hardcore, and whenever I was

428
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: watching the show, you know, they make characters out of

429
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 1: them too, and I'd be like, Oh, I don't like

430
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: so and so. I really can't stand so and so.

431
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 1: And then on the American Idol tour that summer, I

432
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 1: would meet that so and so, and I would love them.

433
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,199
Speaker 1: So we're just talking based on their caricatures on the

434
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: show right now. We're not trying to bring them down

435
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 1: as people. I'm definitely trying to bring him down. That's

436
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 1: the only reason I'm here. I don't know what else

437
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: you're doing. Okay, So we've talked about the people that

438
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: kind of uh made you aware a little nervous. Now

439
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: let's talk about the women you like. We talked about

440
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: beck Guy. I think we can both agree she's going

441
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: to be a major player in this time. And there

442
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: are right. There are two beccas. One the short haired

443
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: Becka her name is spelled bizarrely, it is b e

444
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: k a H. And then the other one is Becca

445
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 1: k Um. We were talking about the short haired back guy.

446
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 1: I know that just from what I saw, I believe

447
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: in the first episode she's going to be around a while.

448
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: And I like her. I mean, I think she's gonna

449
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: be intriguing. She's interesting, and she seems like a different

450
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 1: personality than what we usually get on this show. So

451
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: who else kind of made you interested? Ashley Well, I

452
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 1: love Bibiana. She seems she seems to like be like me.

453
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: She's like not going to be able to deal with

454
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,679
Speaker 1: any bs. I feel like she's gonna be like, no,

455
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: this is the way things are. She's gonna keep it real. Um. Yeah.

456
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: I like to bean A to a ton and she's beautiful.

457
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: I just think she's going to have an issue on

458
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: this show because she is so straightforward and she doesn't

459
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,439
Speaker 1: settle for anything that's not authentic that when she speaks up,

460
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: I think it's going to come off as very forceful

461
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: and very loud, and as a result, I think be

462
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: Beyana might not be shown in the best like just

463
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: kind of based on her reaction to things that go

464
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: on on the show. Okay, so that's exactly how I

465
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: feel like I relate to her because I think that

466
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of those feelings that she's

467
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: going to feel are going to be maybe amplified on

468
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: TV in a way that she didn't intend them to

469
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 1: look interesting. Yeah, I mean that's it. I mean amplified

470
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: or not they been. And so I just think a

471
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: personality type like Viviana, Um, it could just could come

472
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: off different. But I like her on Night one a lot.

473
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 1: Um actually give if not like from my opinion, like

474
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: the produced girl there, she's gorgeous. Um, let's see, we

475
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: have liked a cuple of Rebecca, the one that proposed.

476
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 1: You know what's so interesting is that that Becca. The

477
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: first time I watched it, because I have watched it

478
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: twice now, um, it made me cringe. I was like,

479
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: I can't believe she's doing this. And then the second

480
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: time I watched it, I thought she did that very

481
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: awkward thing with a lot of poise and a lot

482
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: of confidence, and I think she actually pulled it off

483
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 1: not that bad, I mean the whole nice, awkward like

484
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: I think it was great again. I hope that like

485
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: if you know, when I was back to I was

486
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: excited when women would would do something different. And I

487
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: thought that took thought it had it made her confident

488
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: and it's it's something to be remembered by. Um. Yeah,

489
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: it's it's that whole night talk where you're literally pulling

490
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: up in a car with a bunch of other girlfriends

491
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: who are dating the same guy, and that guy is

492
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:09,959
Speaker 1: standing there and you have to get out and like

493
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: say hi to him and then walk inside of mansion

494
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 1: your late on him, like the whole set of Salkward.

495
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: So just play with it a little bit. Tia was

496
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: the twenty six year old girl who went up to

497
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: him and said, um, this is a little weener. I

498
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: hope you don't have one of these already absolute best

499
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: interest that was and he like, okay, this so again,

500
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: Ari's nervous. It's a huge night for him. He's taking

501
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: it very serious. He should. It sounds like he's a

502
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: great dude. Um, I thought this was one that like,

503
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: that was his moment to show us his personality that

504
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: he has one, and he completely failed in that. No,

505
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 1: that's what I became concerned. That's when I became whatever.

506
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: What did he do? He was just like, Oh, ha,

507
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: don't worry, I don't yeah, okay, I don't care who

508
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: you are. I don't care how conservative you are whatever.

509
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: Like that was so witty and it was funny and

510
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: it wasn't like crude or whatever. Like when she made

511
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 1: that joke, all he had to do was laugh a

512
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: little bit, like, loosen up, buddy. I hope he takes

513
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: a cute couple of deep breaths, realizes that he has

514
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: a lonceon Lifetime shot to find his wife amongst a

515
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: bunch of beautiful women, but also understand that hey, like,

516
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: laugh a little bit, show us who you are, and

517
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: show us that you are the funny guy that Sean

518
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: claims you are. And I was waiting for that this

519
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: whole episode and I didn't see it. Ben. That was

520
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: so perfectly put like if you are Chris sauls are

521
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: Nick if a girl came up to you guys and

522
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: did that, you'd be peeing your pants. Oh it's so good,

523
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 1: it's absolutely great. I mean it made me, It made

524
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: me I wrote down in my notes I have I

525
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: have notes myself. Actually, um, that is that literally made

526
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: her my my favorite contestant uh starting at night one.

527
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 1: Based on that, I want to tell you because I

528
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: think these couple these will surprise you. I'm not great

529
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: at picking my favorite contestants, obviously, because all of my

530
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: favorite contestants to go home other than one night, one way,

531
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding what who else? So the one that

532
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: didn't go home, I want to talk about her, I

533
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: really intrigue. I find her very attractive. Um the the

534
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: woman who owns the restaurant. She is so striking, like

535
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: insanely attractive. When she walked out, I was like, that

536
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: is like, that might be one of the most beautiful

537
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: woman I've ever seen. I totally agree, And he doesn't

538
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: seem to be like ooing over her like the way

539
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: we are. Yeah, why why? Why is that means? Do

540
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: I not remember that you do something weird tonight on

541
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: the episode that I know? Not remembering? No. I think

542
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: Ari has a type, and I think that type is

543
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: Emily Emily Maynard, and I feel like that that like

544
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: ethnic exotic look may not be his thing. I think

545
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: he likes an all American Chica. That being said, her

546
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: opening line was also super cute, and he didn't really

547
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: respond to that either. She said, I have a lot

548
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: of would you say, I have a lot of spice

549
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: in my life, but I need some salt and pepper?

550
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: How cute? So great? And I mean and then she's like, yeah,

551
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 1: that's the thing. And I saw Ari's Night one. I

552
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: would give him. I gave Nick. I think a B

553
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: maybe B plus. I would give Ari a c. UM.

554
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: I thought, I think he's gonna be a fine back

555
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: because I think he's going to really try to find somebody,

556
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: and I think this piece is only going to get better.

557
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: But as I'm grading Night one, I just felt like

558
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: he he didn't make it fun for me to watch,

559
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: which isn't his job is to make it fun for

560
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: me to watch, but it is his job to make

561
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: it fun to the women who are there. And so

562
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: I hope that the things we weren't seeing was that

563
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: he's laughing and being playful with these women. See if

564
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: he was my bachelor and I had to go talk

565
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: to him night one, I feel like I would have

566
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: been so careful, um and so self conscious about everything

567
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: I came out of my mouth, because he just he

568
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: definitely seems very transparent and like if he's feeling you,

569
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: he's going to feel you. But like if he thinks

570
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: that you said something weird, he's going to be a

571
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: little judgy. Yeah, yeah, that's the thing. And so he

572
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: and I could never date because I say something, I

573
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: love you so much. Okay, here's and I think the

574
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: second woman that I here that I'm gonna say, I

575
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: need to have told me if she went home or not,

576
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: because I couldn't quite figure it out and I couldn't

577
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: find anything. Um, and I didn't rewind it because I

578
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: didn't want to take the time. But I like Jessica

579
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: a ton out of the limo, and she went home

580
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: on night one, which is so weird to me because

581
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: I thought she was calming, she was confident, she wasn't nervous,

582
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: she had a good interaction with him. She's beautiful. What

583
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: about Jessica? How did she get on the limo? Was

584
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: it just like a woman in the red dress? Yeah,

585
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: the woman in the red dress who said that her

586
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: father had met Ari. That was kind of her sitting

587
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: scene was my father and me Ari. I thought maybe

588
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: my father would get to meet like my dad died. Yeah, yeah,

589
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: that was heartbreaking, that's the way. And and for me,

590
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: it was just weird that she wasn't there any longer,

591
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: and I have her down as my favorite other than

592
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: the restaurant on night one. You would think that he'd

593
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: let that poor girl go at least a week and

594
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: get to know her. She seems to me, I don't

595
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: remember home or not. No, she did. She definitely went home.

596
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: I remember watching him being like, oh dang, very sad. Exit.

597
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: Now just makes me question who I was at home

598
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: one night one? Um, that could have been you know,

599
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: my future wife question before we do our first commercial,

600
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: do they take your watches away? They don't take your

601
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: watch away. Know, they don't take your watch away, but

602
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: because so few girls do watch, um, you wear watches?

603
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,479
Speaker 1: Like I'm always asking what time it is? And for

604
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: some reason, I only know why I care time it

605
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: is and I tell you what time it is. Yeah,

606
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: they'll tell you so they'll be like it's five am.

607
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: Just I like to know, like right exactly if it's

608
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: getting too late. That's what I like to know. And

609
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: I like to know how much time I have to

610
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: get ready. Yeah, I mean on night one, you really

611
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: don't we say? You know? We said it now. For

612
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: last few seasons that we've been a part of this podcast,

613
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: you don't want to know what time it is on

614
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: night one, because, as we saw at the end of

615
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: the episode, it literally starts at seven o'clock at night,

616
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: it when it's dark outside, and it goes until like

617
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: mid morning, like ten o'clock in the a m Am, Ashley,

618
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: trust me, I know it was two am. I was

619
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: walking back into my my hotel room where I was

620
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: living as the bachelor after doing all of my interview. Okay, goodbye.

621
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: So by the time you got back to your room, yes, yes, see, Ashley,

622
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: don't correct me about being a bachelor. I don't know.

623
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. UM. So I get back to the

624
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: room at ten a m. Only to find myself sleeping

625
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: on the most precious comfortable mattress I've ever ever laid on.

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Speaker 1: really do. I mean that I sleep on a sleep

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Speaker 1: number every night. I have for the last few years.

639
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Speaker 1: My number actually asked me before the podcast what my

640
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Speaker 1: number is? And and for all you out there, that's

641
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Speaker 1: kind of the firmness that you like. Your mattress is

642
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Speaker 1: a seventies. So if you want to sleep like me, uh,

643
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Speaker 1: set your sleep number to a seventy. It's really great.

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647
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Speaker 1: It's the perfect bed for couples. That's sad. That's sad.

648
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: But why is that sad? Because you have a couple.

649
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Speaker 1: Don't laugh at you. Then you're like, so cute today

650
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Speaker 1: they're doing spect They're so smart. They actually think your

651
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Speaker 1: every move and automatically adjust to you stay sleeping comfortably

652
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: throughout the night. They even have adjustment first snoring. My

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Speaker 1: question to you are out there listening, does your bed

654
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Speaker 1: do bad? I don't think so. So if you're listening

655
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656
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657
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663
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Speaker 1: Say you, actually, I do sleep on a sleep Number.

664
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: I think they're great. Uh. I like the ability to customize.

665
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: I like the ability um that when you are laying there.

666
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: You know if on one night I like a firm

667
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: on the other side, I like get soft. I can

668
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: just roll over a couple of times in my nice

669
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: king Sleep Number bed and I can get the best

670
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: of both worlds when out ask me get up and

671
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 1: out of the covers. Uh. You said it soft and hard,

672
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: Well you can. Yeah. So like say one night, actually,

673
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: I'm laying in my sleep Number bed and I'm like

674
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,439
Speaker 1: my baccord, I need something a little firmer. I'm gonna

675
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: set that left side to the eight range. Okay, but

676
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: my strategy here before I go to bed at night

677
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: is I want to set the other side about a

678
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: thirty to forty rage just in case I wake up

679
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: in the middle night. I'm like, oh man, this is

680
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: two firm. I don't have to mess with anything. I

681
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: could roll over. That's lovely, It's absolutely amazing. That's the

682
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:18,959
Speaker 1: benefit of not having a person to sleep left. Hey,

683
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: there's there's a couple. At least you can also star

684
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: under the sheets. That's a good point. Okay. The last

685
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: woman that I want to say that I really liked

686
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: that I stay went home, but I don't know for

687
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 1: sure because it kind of cut out and didn't really

688
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: show her exit interview was Brittany. Brittany was the one

689
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: that did the drive around the driveway with the two cars.

690
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: Did she go home one night one travelway with two cards?

691
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: Why am I like blinking on this? Remember they had

692
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,479
Speaker 1: a car race? Oh that's right, that's right. I can't

693
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 1: remember who went home, me neither, because you know, I

694
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: don't ever remember that first row ceremony. The girls I

695
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: go home because you have to. Anyway, I really like Brittany.

696
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: She's the one that drove around the driveway. I think

697
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: she's stunningly beautiful. I mean she had the first kiss

698
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: with Ari. Everybody's freaked out, but that was like a peck, right,

699
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what is the last time, Okay, Amy,

700
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: if you had a peck right now in your life.

701
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: I said, I could a text messaging, you know, Oh

702
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:25,240
Speaker 1: my god, because I remember I'm like a lip kisser,

703
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: so I always have pecks. That's why they mean nothing

704
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: to me. They're so oh yeah. Amy like kisses her

705
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 1: colleagues on the lips. Sometimes it's like text mean nothing.

706
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: You gotta like it's got to be something for me

707
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: to really Okay, So those are my favorite. I have

708
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,439
Speaker 1: to mention pitstop girl, pitstop girl and she go home

709
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: the one who said, like, smell me, I've been I

710
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: bet you that was the best pitch stop you've ever had. Yeah,

711
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: that's awful. I have a weird thing with smells. Um.

712
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but like bodily odor is,

713
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: I mean I could accept it. I mean we all

714
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: got it, we all we all have it, but I

715
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: don't like want you to push it on me. Like

716
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of I save a weird thing

717
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: where like I won't hear anybody else's deodor it. Yeah,

718
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: I just think there's like a level of decency. But like,

719
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 1: even if you smell good, I know that, like you're

720
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: smelling good because you're covering up some uh something underneath,

721
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I just don't like that. That was

722
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: That was absolutely horrible. There's no way, in my opinion,

723
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: he could be physically attracted to somebody that he smelled

724
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 1: the pits up. I don't smell the pits of any

725
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: girlfriends I've had. Like, okay, I'm going on anyway. Don't know.

726
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: I love this. I love it you. I never knew

727
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: you had to passion. There's like a secret passion for

728
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: undercover hate for these sls. Yes, don't make me smell

729
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: your pits. Um. Just if if anybody out there that's

730
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, if we happen to go on

731
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: a day or for hanging out in public, or if

732
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 1: if you see me somewhere, don't ask me to smell

733
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: anything of yours. Um, this is not a place that

734
00:38:56,239 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: I need to go to with you. Interesting all right, Well, yeah,

735
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: totally makes sense. I'm so glad I've learned something more

736
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: about you today. Oh, actually we have a lot of

737
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 1: talking to do for the next couple of years. Um, hey, Ben,

738
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: should we move on and talk about us? Yeah? In

739
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: one second, so to sum it up, No, I'm not

740
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: done yet. Um no, just just sumb it up for

741
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: all the listeners out there. I mean, this is a

742
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: big day for us. We do have a factulors reason

743
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: to talk about. Again. I think this podcast there will

744
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: be a lot of fun because we are gonna get

745
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: the inside scoop. We're gonna get the details of the

746
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: juicy gossip behind the scenes. We're gonna hopefully talk to

747
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: Ori at some point this season because he is the

748
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 1: man on a mission to find love. But we need

749
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: to break down every episode, and so actually I'm gonna

750
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: give you three minutes. I'm gonna set my timer. Um,

751
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: and if you could just tell us summarized in three

752
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: minutes or less, the first episode your thoughts and will

753
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: move on to what in the heck our life is doing? Okay, wow,

754
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: this is big? Yeah, start now, all right, So we

755
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: start with Emily. We have to talk about how he

756
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: just loved Emily, and then we have all the race

757
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: car driver puns. It's going to last the entire season.

758
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna be constantly reminded that Ari was some low

759
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: tier race car driver. Sorry, that was the last time

760
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: he was in love. Then Sean and Catherine come back

761
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: and pour them. Hopefully next year they'll have a break.

762
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: Then we get our packages. Their standouts are Becca the

763
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 1: twenty two year old nanny with the short hair, Um,

764
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: Chelsea the twenty nine year old Portland's mom. There are

765
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: so many cliches in these packages. Everybody is so ready

766
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: to fall in love with Ari, even though they have

767
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: not met him yet. Um Ari starts out. He's a

768
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: little awkward, a little robotic, a little cold. Um, he's

769
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: very He's taking this process so so seriously. Um, let's

770
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: see as far as the entrances that stood out. We

771
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: got Tia with the little wiener. We got um Crystal

772
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 1: with her focusing on love and health and fitness and

773
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: having that sexy, annoying voice. And then we have Becca

774
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: in the red car who says a perfect line that

775
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: she goes, I may be young, but I still appreciate

776
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: something classic. Then, oh my gosh, Um, we have some entrances.

777
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: They're very prototypical. We get it, we get it. Now

778
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: we're moving on and Ari's talking to the girls. He's

779
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: again seeming to be a little serious, and but the

780
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: girls doesn't matter because they're all obsessed with him per usual.

781
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: And Chelsea is a steeler. She she's very aggressive, she's

782
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: not rubbing the woman the right way. And then there's

783
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: a first kiss. There's a first kiss with a girl

784
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: named who Jessica Brittany. Okay, I was gonna say Jessica

785
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: got left home? Um, two minutes was too long. I'm mom,

786
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm almost done. Yeah, yeah you should. Uh, I think

787
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: you have a minute left. I have two things I

788
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: want to in the last minute. Yeah, my My two

789
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 1: comments to summarize this year. One is, I have a

790
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: hard time believing he was that in love with Emily. Um.

791
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: I I kind of felt cringe worthy that whole time

792
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: during that first couple of minutes of the episode. I

793
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: really would like to talk to Ori if they did

794
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: you really love Emily that much? Was she really your

795
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: last love? Um? And if she was, then I can

796
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: tell that he'll take this season so serious because he

797
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: felt something um with her. My second thing is and

798
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: and tell me if I missed it, Amy, I know

799
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: you watched it as well. You guys need to tell

800
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: me but this might be the first season that I

801
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 1: remember that Chris Harrison did not open it up by

802
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: saying this will be the most dramatic Statchelor's season ever.

803
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't remember him saying it. You cannot remember him. Yeah,

804
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: so I wonder what the means or if we'll get

805
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,879
Speaker 1: that at some point. But there was no typical Chris

806
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: Harrison letting us know that this will be the most

807
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: dramatic Bachelor season of all time. Yeah, so I did

808
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: pick up on that. Um, Okay, moving on. We have

809
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: a few things, uh in fascination we need to talk about. Um,

810
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: just to touch on. We we get a ton of

811
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: emails and I my Twitter was blowing up this week

812
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: asking us to talk about this. Obviously, UM, we're friends

813
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: with Peter. Uh. And Peter was in the news a

814
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: little business week. One of his ex girlfriends came out

815
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,800
Speaker 1: um claiming um that he went on the back flat

816
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: for all the wrong reason. She had text messages to

817
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: prove it. Um. She came out publicly to say this Astley,

818
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: I personally am looking at this situation and I read

819
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: through the text and I have taught to Peter. UM.

820
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him because nothing I have no

821
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: idea why an ex girlfriend would be dis vindictive and

822
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: this full towards him. I mean she's literally trying to

823
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: ruin him as a person. Um anyone do that, by

824
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 1: the way, it's really it makes you look awful too.

825
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't make it. It's absolutely terrible. I mean they

826
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 1: were dating at the time, right, So, Um, she was

827
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: probably a little jealous, upset that he was, you know,

828
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: going on the show, or they had broken up before

829
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: he gone on the show, But she was probably upset

830
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,280
Speaker 1: with him, jealous because her boyfriend, who was good looking

831
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 1: and smart and talented and she knew was probably gonna

832
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: go pretty far on the show, who's going to be

833
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: you know, uh famous, And so as a results, she

834
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,919
Speaker 1: chooses to take it into her own hand by trying

835
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: to ruin him. Now, Okay, this is where we should

836
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: should be very clear. Did Peter go on the batchlut

837
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 1: for all the right reason? I'm sure he didn't. Nobody does.

838
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: Um the should he have said the things in the

839
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: text much as he said, like, Hey, I'm gonna use

840
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: my charm, good look and whatever else to win over America. No,

841
00:44:55,640 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: that's incredibly competed and just very unattractive and terrible to

842
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: say as a person about yourself ever, But okay, he

843
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: said it, so are we're gonna really try to ruin

844
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: him and his character by saying this and bring us

845
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: to attention. I think that's where this huge mistake is,

846
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: if she chose to speak about a private matter publicly

847
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: just because her boyfriend's a public figure. I have a question,

848
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: do you care if he went on for the right

849
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: reasons or the wrong reason? No? I don't think I care, because,

850
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: like we say all the time, regardless of your reasons,

851
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: once you're actually there and you actually meet someone, you're

852
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: not going to fake it. Like I don't think anybody

853
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: who fell in love in the end of this process

854
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: has ever been like you know what, I didn't really

855
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: feel anything acted the entire saying. Now, that's never the case.

856
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: They went on on a whim, like they got a

857
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: call or their friends submitted him, so I just did it. Yeah,

858
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: it's not like that's that much different. No, No, I

859
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 1: mean honestly, it's kind of like my scenario, or at

860
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: least I can relate back to my my story in

861
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: this in this whole process is I went on to

862
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: the Bachelor and Bachelor hoping to find something. Okay, that

863
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 1: was that was about it as as credible or as

864
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: some fear as I could get. Is I just hope

865
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: something good happens out of this for me. I hope

866
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: that I find love, or I hope that I make

867
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 1: a ton of friendship. I just hope that I look

868
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: back on this process and say I'm glad I did it. Um.

869
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 1: And I think that's the way most people go into

870
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: the show. If he wanted the show saying I'm definitely

871
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 1: gonna fall in love and I'm definitely gonna pursue this one,

872
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: I think that would be even weirder. Yeah, I would

873
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: make a bigger deal about that. Um. So with this

874
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: being said, UM, did he make a mistake by by

875
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 1: saying some of the things he did in the text?

876
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: Of course he did. Is it enough for her to

877
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 1: now say to go out publicly and and call him out?

878
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: And here here is the ironic part of this, Actually,

879
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: and Amy and I think this is what drives me crazy,

880
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: um about life in general. And we've all been guilt, right,

881
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: But she says in these text messages, when they're texting

882
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: back and forth the Peter, she says, you're just going

883
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: on to be's famous. He's going, I'm trying to enhance

884
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 1: my career. I'm trying to you know, get in my

885
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: name out there and all this stuff. And she's like, well,

886
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: I would never do anything like that. I have a

887
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot more uh whatever, she

888
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 1: has a lot more hoping herself or what do you

889
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 1: want to say? You should never just go on something

890
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: to be famous and to get attention. Well, what heck

891
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: did she do? She blew attention. I know it is compredibly,

892
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: incredibly hypocritical of her and a Chad and I hope

893
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: that we can all take a second when when we're

894
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: angry or jealous or feeling a certain way about somebody,

895
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: take a step back and realized that doing anything vindictive

896
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 1: is never the right response. And for her, in my opinion,

897
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't know her, and I probably will never mean

898
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: it for her. I just it discredits a lot for me. Yeah, yeah,

899
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: I agree. I didn't I didn't listen it. I don't

900
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: really care or why he went on, because I genuinely

901
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: think he was like surprised by how much he sort

902
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: of liked Rachel and the kind of impacted him. Yeah,

903
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: he's definitely a change man because of it. In a

904
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,479
Speaker 1: good way. I'm sure you know him. He's a really

905
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 1: nice guy. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. I mean insteading out his

906
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: his Instagram feed and his Twitter and his emails and

907
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: his text or whatever, I was just getting blown up.

908
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,479
Speaker 1: His family's probably hearing about it, and he's getting questioned

909
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: as a person, which is just sad. And here's the thing.

910
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: Maybe let me just play like another scenario. Maybe he

911
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: said some of those things to the girl sort of

912
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: make her feel differently. Field kind of like, Luke, I'm

913
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: just doing this for my career. Don't worry about it.

914
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 1: I don't mean to hurt you. Probably what he did,

915
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 1: that's what wasn't I did that. I'm gonna be alb

916
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: be straight honest. I did that. Yeah, was some guy

917
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: that I really liked before I went to go do

918
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. Um, when I came back, he was like,

919
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: why do you do that? I was like, well, you know,

920
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: it's a good exposure and you know, I want to

921
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 1: get into broadcasting. And then and then that made him

922
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: feel better about it all. Yeah, I mean, that's it.

923
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: That's it. There's a there's a lot of reasons why

924
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: you say he did Was it right that he didn't no, um,

925
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: but it's it's sad that now he is being questioned

926
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,479
Speaker 1: as a person because of this um and so we

927
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: we we had to talk about it. We're gonna get

928
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: tony of emails about it, you know. One of our

929
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: thoughts on it, My thought is the actually spot on,

930
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: like who knows why he said it, but he said it,

931
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 1: And it's if he really was acting that whole season,

932
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 1: if he was really there the whole time to act. Um,

933
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: he's a great actor and somebody out there needs to

934
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: hire him for for some kind of role because that

935
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: was incredible because I especially that exit on his half,

936
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: Sparks would need to hire him. Oh my gosh, that

937
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: was I was saying at home. I was dripping off

938
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: bike clothes. He was dripping off. It was amazing. The

939
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: lesson be careful what you text to, who you really

940
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,720
Speaker 1: got to know, who you can trust. Oh yeah, Also,

941
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: let me just throw that out there so that people

942
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: won't get mad at me that. When I did come

943
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: back and I did talk to the guy about my roasening,

944
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: he was like, did you like him? Did you kiss him?

945
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, I liked him, but I kissed him.

946
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: It was like all a great experience that you know,

947
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: you're not worried about it. Okay, I just wanted to

948
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,919
Speaker 1: throw that out there. I know, I know you wanted

949
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: to throw that out there. And you guys really know that,

950
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: like I really love love to we're not worried about it. Yeah. Hey,

951
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: everybody out there listening, I just want you to just

952
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Speaker 1: send a lot of hate mail to ask you right

953
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: now just thinking that shot all this in check. Please.

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956
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961
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962
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1022
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Speaker 1: I don't know about that. But final segment, This has

1023
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: been an obviously a long podcast. Uh wait, it should

1024
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: be at night one, which is a long night. Um,

1025
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: let's actually let's read through two emails from our beautiful

1026
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: listeners and we can get some good responses. Okay, man,

1027
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: there's this girl doing some detective work. I don't even

1028
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: know if it's gonna fly because okay, okay, let's do it.

1029
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: Let's do it all right, Hi, Ben, Ashley and Amy.

1030
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: I am from Utah, so naturally, when I heard that

1031
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: there was two girls from Utah on our season, I

1032
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: started snooping their social media accounts. I thought, you guys

1033
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: might want to know something interesting I found. So mcel

1034
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: cooper is the this girl they showed on the Sneak

1035
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: Peak special. She was photographing a couple they were getting married. Well,

1036
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: she's twenty three and she's already been divorced. She was

1037
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 1: married to Josh Monday and if you look up the

1038
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: Monday family, you'll see that they are a very wealthy family,

1039
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: and Josh has several brothers whose wives also have quite

1040
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: a large amount of Instagram followers. Um, what I think

1041
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 1: is interesting is that Josh Monday has been liking and

1042
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:31,720
Speaker 1: commenting like the emoji the raised the roof, like praise emoji,

1043
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 1: the praise emoji on Michel's Instagram post recently. Remember this

1044
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 1: is his ex wife, and then she liked his comment

1045
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: on the photo. I'll attach a picture of what I'm

1046
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: talking about, but I just think it's super shady. Congrats

1047
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: on three seasons, and I absolutely love the podcast. Her

1048
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: name is Ashley. Thanks ash Um. Yeah, I guess my

1049
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 1: only email is thank you for listening. And you are

1050
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: you have a lot of time on your hands. But

1051
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: I mean, that's great. It's something that I, uh, I

1052
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: never even would have thought about looking into. Uh. Is

1053
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,959
Speaker 1: that weird actually too for the next husband to be

1054
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: still commenting on his ex life pictures. I would think so,

1055
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,240
Speaker 1: But I guess depends on it depends on the status

1056
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 1: of which they broke up. You know, maybe they are

1057
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: good friends. That definitely happens. I'm going to feed into

1058
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 1: your thoughts, ash and say that the season long preview

1059
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 1: suggests that there's a guy that comes back into the

1060
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: picture and he's like, I'm here to get my girl,

1061
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: I'm here to get her back, blah blah. That seems

1062
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: like we can fit in Mr Josh Monday into that scenario. Mm,

1063
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: that could be And wow, Okay, this is podcast gold.

1064
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: If we have a listener, do the investigative word and

1065
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: find out about this guy and he is the guy

1066
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: that comes onto the season, that would be incredible and

1067
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 1: actually have to bring you on just to celebrate you

1068
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 1: and and as a detective. Thanks and Um, we should

1069
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: mention that maybe they're not actually divorced, maybe they're separated

1070
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: and he's coming back together. That seems tricky, and it

1071
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: seems like if that was a I would just Adould

1072
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: Advisor to not come onto the Bachelor because he knew

1073
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: that would be a story lot. I know. I truly

1074
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: think that there's part of the contract that says that

1075
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: you can't be married at all. I think you have

1076
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: to be formally divorced. Well, that seem fair, Hey, Astley, Uh,

1077
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: two more emails, h Thick, pick one out here? Okay, here,

1078
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go with one without even reading it first.

1079
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: It's from anonymous, so that must mean it's juicy. Oh no, hey, Ben,

1080
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: and I actually love your podcast, and I have a

1081
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: funny story for you. When I was pregnant with my

1082
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:00,919
Speaker 1: now four year old son, Ari was Oh I thought

1083
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: his name was Ari. When I was pregnant with my

1084
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: now four year old son Are It was the Bachelorette.

1085
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: It was on the Bachelorette. I loved him so much.

1086
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: I just thought he was such a good guy and

1087
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: so handsome too, that I thought, if my baby ended

1088
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: up being a boy, I would like to call him Mari.

1089
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: So I was right lo and behold, I had a

1090
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: son and we named him Ari because of Ari on

1091
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. At I was so excited he was coming back,

1092
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: and of course I remembered him because my son is

1093
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: named after him. Anyways, here's my Ari, four years old.

1094
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: Who knows, maybe he'll become a contestant one day. Thanks

1095
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: for a great podcast. Okay, so that was more of

1096
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: a comment. That's very funny, very funny. That's wow. I

1097
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: don't blame her because there's even watching the bach Room myself. Um,

1098
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 1: their names that come through um that I've never heard

1099
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: before that are unique in a beautiful yeah baby, that

1100
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: kind of stuff, And so I could see where you'd

1101
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: be watching, Like Ari, I've never thought about that name before,

1102
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: but I'm, you know, having a baby. That seems like

1103
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: a great name to name my son. But how I mean,

1104
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: how crazy is it that now, like this little guy's

1105
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: life is completely you know, marked, and he's named Are

1106
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: based on The Bachelor. That's that's just so weird to me,

1107
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: so funny, but also I kind of like the name

1108
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: are for a guy too? What about what about for

1109
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 1: a girl? From my own girl? Are you? I mean?

1110
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: I think you can go book. Oh oh yes. I

1111
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: was like, you want me to announce my children's names

1112
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: in the future. I was like, I can't give those away.

1113
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to buy stealing. I know you have them,

1114
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: I know, I know you know I have them. Um,

1115
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: so yeah, anyways, thank you for writing in anonymous. We

1116
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: appreciate you listening and great name choice. I got an

1117
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 1: email here. Actually I'm going to read out loud from Lauren.

1118
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: I've been in and I've been in an off relationship

1119
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: for seven years now, and I found myself recently questioning

1120
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:50,959
Speaker 1: it at all. We have the same group of friends,

1121
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: and our families give along great after We love his

1122
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: personality and feel so comfortable around him, but can't help

1123
00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 1: but wonder if I'm only focusing on the comfort of

1124
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: knowing he'll always be there for me. That's a huge

1125
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: line because this is so typical in relationship. It says,

1126
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: I can't help, but wonder if I'm only focusing on

1127
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: the trumport of knowing he'll always be there for me.

1128
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: I know we're still young. I'm twenty three, he's twenty four,

1129
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: and that there's so many other people out there. I

1130
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: put him in the friend zone multiple times and he

1131
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: just keeps holding on. I'm not good at being hard

1132
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,479
Speaker 1: on people, and it kills me to break his heart,

1133
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: but I think it's what is best for us. Any opinions, Uh, Laurence,

1134
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: thank you for that email. This first off, I want

1135
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 1: to say that you're your ability to analyze the situation

1136
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 1: is amazing. I mean you just just in this paragraph alone,

1137
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 1: I think you're touching on a lot of the stuff.

1138
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: To ask you and I would say back to you,

1139
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: but Aston, what do you think I was actually just

1140
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: gonna say that exact thing. I was like, if you

1141
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: go back and reread your paragraph, I think you have

1142
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: your answer there. I think you're probably time to just

1143
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: like put a total halt to it. And it's probably

1144
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: one of those relationships where we're not gonna be able

1145
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: to be friends with him for quite some time afterward,

1146
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: because you guys have gone into that zone and then

1147
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: come out a few times. I just don't Yeah, I

1148
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: don't know. I this is tough. I mean I remember

1149
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: Ali Fantaski are wonderful guest. On the last episode of

1150
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: season three, UM was on and she she said something

1151
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: in our interview with her that you know, she's always

1152
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: been the type of person that stayed in relationships too long,

1153
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: that she just holds onto it for too long when

1154
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: she knew that she should have gotten out, um And,

1155
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: and it ends up being pretty detrimental to both people

1156
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: and to any type of relationship in the future. And

1157
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: so my advice would be, if you're feeling this way

1158
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: you are young, maybe maybe life will bring you back

1159
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: together with him. Maybe you just had to take a

1160
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 1: break away to realize how much you actually care about him,

1161
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: and that that comfort that you think you there's the

1162
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: only thing that you're holding onto is actually like true

1163
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 1: love and and that's a different kind of comfort that

1164
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: you could deal with anybody else. And so I would

1165
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 1: recommend that just from what you read here, take a

1166
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: step away. It's going to be really hard, but you

1167
01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: need to do that. It just it sounds like you're

1168
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: already there mentally um And that you're not. You're you're

1169
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,439
Speaker 1: so far gone that you're not going to get back

1170
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:07,439
Speaker 1: to a healthy place of this relationship. And then, uh,

1171
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: understand that you have a little bit of time to

1172
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: find yourself and and meet other people, but you know,

1173
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: don't discount the thought that maybe one day life will

1174
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: bring you back together. That that is still a possibility. Um,

1175
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: but for right now, it just sounds like you need

1176
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: to take a break, that this relationship is no longer

1177
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: the best thing. I feel like a lot of couples

1178
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 1: who have been together for so long at such a

1179
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:29,479
Speaker 1: young age, like they usually come to this point where

1180
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: they are like, I need to discover what else is

1181
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: out there and whether or not like you are my

1182
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: one and I just found you early or yeah. I

1183
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: mean like I think I think you need that space

1184
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 1: and self discovery, and I think it's very typical for

1185
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 1: these couples to get back together. So even if it's

1186
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: scary right now, just just you'll know you'll figure it

1187
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: out eventually. Yeah, definitely, I mean, uh so, Laurence, thanks

1188
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: for right Non. I mean I think this is there's

1189
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 1: not a lot to stay here. You said almost all

1190
01:02:55,600 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: of yourself. Um, but my advice to you would be

1191
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: to to walk away, but to try to hold onto

1192
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: any dignity and hold onto that relationship. It sounds like

1193
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: you have something good there, um, but just maybe not

1194
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: romantically right now. Um. Okay, our last email it's from Karina,

1195
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: but I just finished listening to episode fourteen. Uh and

1196
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 1: you put a collar a collar was on who was

1197
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: dumped during a best man speech. How awful. I feel

1198
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: so bad for her. However, it also about me thinking

1199
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 1: how how bad my dad's speech was that my own wedding,

1200
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: and how it's such an interesting topic we can all

1201
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: relate to sitting through some pretty uncomfortable speeches at weddings. Right, So,

1202
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: if you're looking for a topic for a podcast, whether

1203
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 1: it's on the Almost Papers podcast or the I Don't

1204
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 1: Get a podcast, I think this is a good one. Yeah,

1205
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: shout out to you. So here's the funny part, and

1206
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: this this emaie is just kind of funny. I think

1207
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 1: it's good because if you're wondering why my dad beach

1208
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 1: are so awful, it's because during his beach you count

1209
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: of time having sex with my mom where my brother

1210
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: and I walk in mid act. That a really sore

1211
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: spot with you. Actually, I can tell never happened. It's

1212
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 1: never happened, but it's a fear. If that story isn't

1213
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 1: bad enough on its own, let me add that my

1214
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 1: parents are divorced and aren't really friends. I was reliated

1215
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 1: and basically locked myself in the back room crying for

1216
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: a while. At my own way is pretty tragic, and

1217
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: it still makes my print skin crawl thinking about it.

1218
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: Just so i'd throw that idea your way. I also

1219
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: want to just let you guys know how much I

1220
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: love your podcast and to keep up the good work respectually.

1221
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: That is thank you, Visus. That's hilarious, tom Amy. Have

1222
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: you ever happened to you? Have you ever walked in

1223
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 1: on your parents? Yeah? I had to ask you guys

1224
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: this question. Thanks for taking the words out of my mouth. No, no, no, no,

1225
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 1: no time right now? Why why is it such a

1226
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: bad nightmare? Oh my god, Ben, come on now? Why

1227
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 1: see that? Oh? I don't know. It's the most disturbing

1228
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: that you you know. I actually we don't have to

1229
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: go up on a tangent here. I actually have a

1230
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 1: buddy of one of my best postest friends who, uh this,

1231
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: this I think is worse walked in on his ram parents.

1232
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: That's a lot less disturbing to me, honestly, because I

1233
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: think it'd be more funny. Like I think it's kind

1234
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: of hysterical because you just don't have the same sort

1235
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: of like relationship. It's just you're so much more removed. Hey,

1236
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: you weren't there. You don't know, maybe there's maybe they're

1237
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: doing some wild stuff. Maybe they were very interesting non

1238
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: elderly position. That is a hilarious email, though, I mean,

1239
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: how terrible. And I hope that everybody out there listening, Um,

1240
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: if you're playing on getting married anytime soon or in

1241
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: the future, I just hope that your speeches and the

1242
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: whole night goes magically, or if all has failed, you

1243
01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: have a really good story to tell afterwards, which sounds

1244
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Speaker 1: Happy New Year, everybody. I've been been and I've been Ashley.

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