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Speaker 2: It was too late. Whoa little too late?

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Speaker 1: So I twenty eight male have been dating my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Sarah twenty six female for just over a year now.

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Speaker 3: And while I.

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Speaker 1: Love her, and while I love her, there's one thing

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Speaker 1: that's been eating at me since the very beginning.

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Speaker 3: And it's not her. Uh who got him.

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Speaker 1: Her relationship with her male best friend, Jake twenty seven male.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's the one being eaten.

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Speaker 3: But this comes from Okay Bandacoot.

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Speaker 1: Twenty see forty nine from the rsash Okay storytime Suber

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Speaker 1: hopefully a big fan we'll see. So Jake has been

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Speaker 1: Sarah's ride or die since college, and I knew from

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Speaker 1: the start that they were close, but what I didn't

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Speaker 1: realize was how much it would impact our relationship. I've

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Speaker 1: always tried to be the chill, trusting boyfriend. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be the guy who's threatened by a platonic relationship.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, it's gotten to the point where I feel

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Speaker 1: like I am the third wheel in my own relationship.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that doesn't sound like you're be that guy. It

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Speaker 4: sounds like you might be onto something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough. By the way, do you want to

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Speaker 1: blake Ith?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, give me the worm, give me the wor.

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Speaker 2: Cup.

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Speaker 4: I'm the one with the sunglasses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So okay, Jack and Sarah are practically inseparable.

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Speaker 2: No, what is that supposed to mean.

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Speaker 3: They hang out multiple times a week.

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Speaker 1: That's what that means, dinners, movie nights, spontaneous late night drives,

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Speaker 1: and I am usually not invited. If I try to join,

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Speaker 1: it's awkward, like I'm crashing their private, joke filled world

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Speaker 1: that I'm not a part of it stings, but I

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Speaker 3: The sake of keeping the peace. But then things started

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Speaker 1: Jake texture constantly even when we're together on dates, and

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Speaker 1: it's not just casual stuff either.

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Speaker 3: He calls her babe and sweetheart.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, okay, okay, I understand, sweetheart, but babe.

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Speaker 4: You're not babing my girl in front of me, dude. No,

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Speaker 4: we're having a conversation about that outside.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can say sweetheart if you feel pity

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Speaker 2: for her, like sweetheart, Oh my god, oh my god.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, she didn't know,

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Speaker 4: she didn't no, she didn't. That's gotta be a joke.

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Speaker 4: Is that actually mom?

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Speaker 5: Mom?

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Speaker 2: Mom, Hey, hia's mood.

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Speaker 4: I told you to be chill. That is the opposite.

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Speaker 4: Will one hundred dollars donation is not chill.

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Speaker 2: That is very the I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, thank you, dude. Is that actually your mom?

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Speaker 4: By? It might be I don't know, Oh my god, guys,

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Speaker 4: I mean my cousin's already in here. She probably yeah,

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Speaker 1: Dobbie is in the chat for the coolest mom of

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Speaker 1: all time without.

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Speaker 2: She's probably like, I'm glad he's working. Wow, stay working?

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Speaker 4: Well, there was any chance I had at anonymity on

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Speaker 4: this thingever.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to our life, my friend, Oh my gosh, yep, wow,

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Speaker 1: just wait till you get to say some level.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh my gosh. He'll he has no secret there.

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Speaker 1: My man has literally no secrets. His life is true.

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Speaker 1: His life is not an open book. His life is

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Speaker 1: alive stream.

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Speaker 4: I might as well just lean into it now everyone

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Speaker 4: knows who my mom is.

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Speaker 1: To start a secret, let's go, oh man. But anyways, guys, WS,

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Speaker 1: I need more WS for his mom used.

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Speaker 4: To go to you. Does your mom know W Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she knows w lingo mom. W

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Speaker 2: Us up with your No, No, don't stop it, don't

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Speaker 1: Let's go anyway, shout to Dakota's Bob. Yeahik, yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: go anyways. Back to this crazy story. So, when I

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Speaker 1: And that's and they're like best friends and they spend more,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'd be like, I think this is a conversation,

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Speaker 4: don't even have I have it with your girlfriend? Him?

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Speaker 4: Like this is like, why are you? Why are you

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Speaker 3: It's and she so far she clearly doesn't like so far.

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Speaker 2: If my girlfriend's doing this and her friend looked like Dakota,

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Speaker 2: I'd be pised. Bro, Dude, I'd be I'd be livid.

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Speaker 3: Angry dimples with dimp with dimpy. That sounds crazy, oh man.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, So then there was the night that I stayed

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Speaker 4: over at her place and woke up at two am

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Speaker 1: She was giggling like a scrolgle no and whispering so

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Speaker 3: Me you know, I just love you.

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Speaker 2: Really, It's okay.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't know when I.

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Speaker 1: When I asked her about it the next morning, she

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Speaker 3: But what about me?

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Speaker 1: Am I just background noise while she stays emotionally telled

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Speaker 1: to this guy?

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Speaker 3: Great question, Opie?

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Speaker 2: Am I just a podcast that goes on in the

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Speaker 1: See, I'm the podcast in this relationship. But who's donating

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Speaker 3: Okay? Who spins the wheel for me? Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: The final straw came last weekend.

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Speaker 1: Sarah and I had been planning a very special weekend

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Speaker 1: getaway for our one year anniversary, something we've been looking

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Speaker 1: forward to for months, But out of nowhere, Jake invites

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Speaker 3: Sarah asked me.

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Speaker 1: If we could postpone her anniversary trip so she could

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Speaker 1: go with Jake instead, because it's both a band they

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Speaker 4: You know what else, they both absolutely love each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: what are you serious? John would do this for Kanye

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Speaker 4: in a second, though, what dude for Kanye?

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Speaker 1: You guys are Oh my god, that's absolutely false, absolutely false.

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Speaker 4: I have some advice already, be like yeah, babe, that's

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Speaker 3: She gets back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, completely lose her number, like absolutely, there's no need

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Speaker 1: Holy whoa another thirty Let's go with it from that

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Speaker 1: Black Magic Girl from put us over the Top with

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Speaker 1: five gifted memberships, Let's freaking go love to see it.

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Speaker 1: Five new family members so I was floored our anniversary,

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Speaker 1: something we've been planning for months, could be rescheduled for Jake.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was like I didn't even matter. I told

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Speaker 1: her this was too much and asked to set some

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Speaker 1: more hanging out one on one all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and no more being her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you two have to break up okay that panomody

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Speaker 1: were setting up, and no more prioritizing him over our relationship.

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Speaker 3: She blew up at me and said, you're so right.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, what was I thinking? Just kidding? She

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Speaker 3: called me controlling and insecure.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: She even said, you knew Jake was part of my

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Speaker 3: Now? Why are you trying to change me?

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Speaker 4: This? Oh?

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Speaker 3: This is who I am?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 4: Why aren't you inviting me to the concert at least?

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 3: Literally literally? Why not?

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Speaker 1: Why not all get bare minimum get concert tickets together?

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Speaker 3: Yah, the barest of minimum?

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Speaker 4: Like, let's go to I like music. I'm a human

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Speaker 4: being high that you date apparently, I guess, But no, baby, listen,

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Speaker 4: you're my meat bag.

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Speaker 1: You're there when I need someone to cuddle up with.

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Speaker 1: But Jake is Jake, you know what I mean? Like

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Speaker 1: Jac's yes, I'm a meat bag, your meatbag.

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Speaker 2: Okay, is just.

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Speaker 3: Conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 2: She lives with him, She is just using him because

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Speaker 4: For everyone in the chat, hobosexual is when you just

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Speaker 2: Have a roof over your head, which is great.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's.

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Speaker 3: That person.

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Speaker 2: What do you do with the job thing?

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Speaker 3: Like the joping?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like like I work for this job so I

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Speaker 2: so you can live in the house that they provide.

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Speaker 2: That's my situation. Job bosexual. I'll think, I'll think.

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Speaker 3: Work, it will work. Shopping.

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Speaker 1: But things got worse. Things got worse, Lace and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: They didn't get better. When Jaco apparently told her that

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Speaker 1: I was being toxic and trying to manipulate her, how

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Speaker 1: dare he? Sarah is siding with him, saying that I'm

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Speaker 1: overreacting and that nothing has ever happened between them. She's

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Speaker 1: now furious with me for giving her an ultimatum when

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Speaker 1: all I really asked were for When all I really

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Speaker 1: asked for were some boundaries that would make me feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm her boyfriend and not just a side character

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Speaker 1: in her life with Jake, bro is so down bad

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Speaker 1: it is just wow.

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Speaker 4: Sucks, man, I ask him for you know, I've it

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Speaker 4: sucks when you're in a relationship and you feel like

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Speaker 4: you're getting dunked on every day, like I've been there.

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Speaker 2: That sucks.

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Speaker 4: And he eats at you.

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Speaker 3: Tea for Christ says Jake the Snake. Dude, it rhymes

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Speaker 3: for a reason.

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Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, Jake the Snake, pump the brakes on,

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Speaker 4: Jake the Snake.

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Speaker 3: Come on, pump them, pump them.

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Speaker 1: But now Sarah's given me the silent treatment, and I'm

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Speaker 1: starting to feel like I'm I'm somehow become the villain

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Speaker 1: in my own relationship. Am I losing my mind here?

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Speaker 1: I'm not asking her to drop Jake completely, just prioritize

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Speaker 1: So Reddit, Am I the a hole for asking my

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Speaker 3: But big d Dakota, I like that one talk to me.

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Speaker 4: Uh clearly, Like, look, I think we've all had like

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Speaker 2: WHOA yeah, but uh.

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Speaker 4: Like, regardless of how close you are with somebody, right, Like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's I mean, that's what it feels like.

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Speaker 4: It feels like they just want to date each other

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Speaker 3: Literally just stop torturing him and just do that.

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Speaker 2: What if Jake just comes out as gay and he's

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Speaker 3: The great question?

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Speaker 1: And and he was just knacking on Sarah to get

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Speaker 3: Now we're cooking Jake. Now we're cooking.

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Speaker 4: The secretly homosexual snake. He's trying to take your man, dude.

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Speaker 4: Now we're flipping this around. He's for you, mister Steel,

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Speaker 2: I hope, I really hope. So I need I need

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Speaker 3: Well, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, redd it.

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Speaker 3: I'm back with an update. And let me just say

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a good sign.

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Speaker 1: We're on the right, Yes, lock in lock the FN.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I want to thank you for the

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Speaker 1: you guys, I had made up my mind.

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Speaker 3: I was done being.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 3: There we go, and there we go.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you gotta take a walk, Sometimes you gotta take

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Speaker 3: But what happened next surprised me. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: You see, Saturday night, Sarah came over to talk. I

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Speaker 1: She had canceled the concert plans with Jake. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: She said that after our last conversation, she realized how

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Speaker 3: She had been.

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Speaker 1: She told me she had been selfish, that she had

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm do we stir away from the breakup conversation.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'll give her I'll let her explain herself at least,

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Did she see reddit post?

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Speaker 3: Is she read it? Host?

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Speaker 2: Did she see you reddit post?

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Speaker 2: I am suspicious.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's another good theory.

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Speaker 2: I am suspicious because who's the leak? I don't there

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Speaker 1: Yeah, OPI tried to set the boundaries of fir and

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Speaker 1: He's like, I just asked for some boundaries. Yeah, that

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Speaker 3: New golden rule. That's John's golden rule. Everything you just said.

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Speaker 2: It was my point that you just made it year old.

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Speaker 3: You are literally so right.

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Speaker 2: It's like Riley's point, but this is not my golden rule.

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Speaker 2: I'm branding it right now. That is literally what I

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Speaker 2: just did. No Coca Cola me, please, please, please call

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Speaker 2: me out. But what happened to the Coca Cola guy?

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Speaker 2: He made the Coca cola and he was a bad businessman,

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Speaker 2: so then they sold it and then they branded it

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Speaker 2: for Co Coca. That is actually what happened.

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Speaker 4: That's true, and I am suspicious.

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Speaker 1: Ye, well, I was honestly shocked. Part of me didn't

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Speaker 1: It fell surreal, like a last minute effort to save

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Speaker 3: But she seems sincere.

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Speaker 1: She apologized not just for the concert, but for all

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Speaker 4: The biggest red flag to me in this is that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how could you not?

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Speaker 2: Like it's just it's just insane.

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Speaker 4: It screams like she's like desperate about like trying to

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Speaker 2: Right, because sorry, another point, you would see like little

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Speaker 4: Ridend A.

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Speaker 3: Goyle friend. Well, it was emotional.

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Speaker 1: She was crying, and I could see how much it

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Speaker 3: It felt like she was choosing me. But here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, as much as I accepted her, as much as

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Speaker 1: I told her that while canceling the concert was a

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Speaker 1: and Trunt's and trust, once broken is hard to rebuild. Amen, brother,

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Speaker 2: Probably canceled it because maybe they planning on going to

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Speaker 1: I digress, but it was a roller coaster of emotions.

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Speaker 1: There are moments where I felt like maybe we could

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Speaker 1: I can imagine Sarah seemed to think that there were

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Speaker 3: Something that both of us wanted to fight for. She

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Speaker 1: She cried again, begged me not to go, and said

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Speaker 1: I can't shake the feeling that it's too little, too late.

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Speaker 1: But you can always shake the feeling that you need

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Speaker 1: to take your finger and golick our profile to join

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Speaker 4: It's just so smooth. I'm gonna I'm falling out of

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Speaker 1: Smooth as butter. But before we wrap up the story,

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Speaker 1: do you leave?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: One hundred percent? Because I don't believe. I don't buy

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Speaker 3: It's just so he's gone through so much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah of her, like the gaslight Again, this was not

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Speaker 2: I would laugh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like that's your wild for even trying to say that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, after she called you toxic and manipulative.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, No, it's it's over. It's like and you're

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Speaker 4: better off because this person is clearly like she thought

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Speaker 4: she could have like the you know, have the cake

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Speaker 4: and eat it too. Yes, And now it's you know,

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Speaker 4: something's fallen apart here on the Jake the snake side,

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Speaker 4: and she's like, oh, well, I guess maybe if I

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Speaker 4: get up both of you, can I just have one?

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Speaker 2: Please?

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Speaker 4: Can I just please have you?

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Speaker 2: Please? Please stay?

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Speaker 1: And it's like, no, dude, what what double proved to

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Speaker 1: a break so I can I need was us to

450
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Speaker 1: think And then she's crying like no, no, don't do it,

451
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 1: like like let's stay together please, Like I swear I

452
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: can change. It's like, hey, you should be considerate, Like, hey,

453
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 1: you know what, you tell me what you need, and

454
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm here to provide because I want you to feel

455
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Speaker 1: comfortable and like rebuild the trust. So like, yes, absolutely,

456
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Speaker 1: whatever you want to do and whatever your decision you make,

457
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 1: I'm here for it, and I just want you to

458
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Speaker 1: be happy. That's what you say if you're really like,

459
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Speaker 1: if you're really trying to like you.

460
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Speaker 4: Know, yeah, like not just basically a word barf, like yeah,

461
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 4: just being like well please like please, like you're so

462
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 4: right and I was so wrong and everything that you've

463
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 4: ever said is right and I love you and everything's great.

464
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Speaker 4: Please like like that's felt so genuine, babe.

465
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Speaker 2: I wonder what they really said about Jake. I had long,

466
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 2: deep conversations, but they kind of went over the jag part.

467
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Speaker 3: Jake is a snake, but also does he have one.

468
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Speaker 2: Yes the question or does he like them?

469
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Speaker 1: Which, by the way, by the way, we still have

470
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Speaker 1: a chance to prove our theory. The story is down

471
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Speaker 1: over yet Oh wow, okay yo, let's find out. So

472
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Speaker 1: I always care about Sarah, but this whole situation has

473
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Speaker 1: made me realize how important it is to be with

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Speaker 1: someone who values you and respects you from the beginning,

475
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Speaker 1: someone who doesn't make you feel like you think you

476
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: have to compete for their attention. You all think she

477
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: might have cheated on me with Jake. So read it,

478
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Speaker 1: I ask should I give for another chance or should

479
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Speaker 1: I go with you through the breakup? And by the way,

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Speaker 1: Jake was in love of me. Just kidding, by the way,

481
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Speaker 1: by the way from Jake's apartment, this is he's in

482
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Speaker 1: love with you, Okay, uh yeah, No, Absolutely go through

483
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Speaker 1: with the breakup.

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Speaker 4: It's for all the reasons we just said. It's Paul,

485
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Speaker 4: for the best. It is absolutely for the best. You

486
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Speaker 4: can't stay with somebody you can't trust like that, and

487
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Speaker 4: it's like.

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Speaker 2: They were disrespect too.

489
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Speaker 4: It's like you gotta, you gotta at the very least,

490
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Speaker 4: what you're doing by separating like that is the right move, right,

491
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Speaker 4: Like you can there's no way that you can actually

492
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Speaker 4: figure out how to make this decision if you are

493
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Speaker 4: still like in the proximity of this person after they've

494
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Speaker 4: disrespected you so thoroughly, and like it sounds like you're

495
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Speaker 4: already leaning towards breakup, which I think everyone in this

496
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Speaker 4: room would agree is completely reasonable and probably the best

497
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Speaker 4: course of action that you could take. So yeah, we

498
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Speaker 4: support you fully.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Poll It's like the one person in there is like

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Speaker 4: his girlfriend, we got one vote she got on the stream, dude.

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Speaker 1: That would actually be so we we've actually never had

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Speaker 1: We've had people who've written the stories, like on the

504
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Speaker 1: stream and stuff, but never like a a rand them

505
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Speaker 1: like secondary person be like, oh.

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Speaker 2: I object that was me. You guys are being rude.

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Speaker 3: It's like, uh no, you're just a maniac dude.

508
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Speaker 4: But we have a we have a spinny wheel to spin.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'll be ready to spin that wheel. I know

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Speaker 3: it fifteen more.

511
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Speaker 4: And everyone gets to pick what accent I talk in forever.

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Speaker 4: Now here you go, hell Wolf, I am big d.

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Speaker 2: Oh. Yeah I had. I imagine you turned like Indian

514
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Speaker 2: for the rest of your life.

515
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Speaker 4: I had a just forever permanently.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I would have voted for that. Yeah,

517
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Speaker 2: I wish.

518
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Speaker 4: See I have a really good Indian, like Jenner realized

519
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Speaker 4: Indian accent that I can't do because it's like it's

520
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 4: like it's super offensive now.

521
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Speaker 2: To do it. Just do it, just do it.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't ever we're just any accent I do. It never

523
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Speaker 4: comes from a place of hatred in my heart. I

524
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Speaker 4: think I think white people are the worst out of

525
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Speaker 4: all of the people on the earth. Were the most boring, lame.

526
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Speaker 2: People that exist.

527
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Speaker 3: One great thing.

528
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Speaker 4: They got tigers in India. Can you live in a

529
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Speaker 4: place where tigers just walk around? Do?

530
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Speaker 3: We got yachts and lake Tiger King.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got documentaries on Dad put numbers on the

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Speaker 2: bar in prison for like the rest of his life though. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's like them in the cage boom. He's like,

534
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Speaker 1: you're my brother, I will.

535
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Speaker 3: Live your experience.

536
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Speaker 2: Let me be in a zoo too.

537
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Speaker 3: There we go.

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Speaker 1: We got some donoss uh. Jenna, thanks for the ten

539
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Speaker 1: bucks on the donal link. Finally caught my first live

540
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Speaker 1: I listened to your podcast daily. It's literally my white

541
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Speaker 1: noise to sleep. Love you all, he yet, let's freaking

542
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Speaker 1: love you, Jenna.

543
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Speaker 2: Let's go, we love all of you back.

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Speaker 1: Heck yeah, Lisa, Lady of Rage, thanks for thirty bucks

545
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Speaker 1: on the on the dono.

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Speaker 4: Like, let's freaking go. I've decided that John is invited

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Speaker 4: to the cookout. Hey, that's a big honor. I accept

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Speaker 4: that honor.

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Speaker 1: I accept, and I'm bringing banana pudding with the wafers.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you're gonna pull Jack Harlow and bring Hennessy.

551
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 3: No, I'm not bringing Hennessy to the cookout.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely like you did it that you can't jump. Oh,

553
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Speaker 2: I need to watch the remake of that. It's pretty good.

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Speaker 4: I want to watch the original first and then watch

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Speaker 4: the remake. Act.

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Speaker 3: I want to watch the original. Yeah, I never see

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Speaker 3: I never.

558
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Speaker 2: It's not that good really, the one. It's a cult

559
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Speaker 2: it's a cult classic type deal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm anyways, yeah, lo check it out.

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Speaker 2: Was that?

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Speaker 3: I think that was?

563
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Speaker 2: Yeah? That let me let me refresher because I think there.

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Speaker 1: Were oh yeah, oh, here we go, Amy from a

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Speaker 1: swamps based on five bucks.

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Speaker 3: It's missed to steal your man.

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Speaker 4: It's mister steal your man.

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Speaker 3: There we go.

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Speaker 1: That was so much better, Jenna, thanks for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 1: I already read that, but shout out to you again.

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Speaker 4: Heck yeah, donation from anonymous oh ten dollars. I hope

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Speaker 4: you like the blankets. Thank you, we do love them,

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Speaker 4: and then shout out to technically this is not mine,

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Speaker 4: this is Sofia's blanket. But because I've also been worm

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Speaker 4: on stream, that's true. I felt it was I felt

576
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Speaker 4: it was appropriate to have the worm blanket.

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Speaker 1: And again shout out to this is a free sponsor.

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Speaker 1: That is perfectly acceptable. Shout out again to uh Starlight Minky.

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Speaker 1: If you want some freaking fire fire fire blankets, hit up,

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Speaker 1: hit up. These are dude guys. Look at look how

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Speaker 1: soft they actually are. Look how so office is okay?

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Speaker 1: See I'm not I'm not the biggest due geenero to

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Speaker 1: run it.

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Speaker 4: I would anytime you get a blanket with this like

585
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Speaker 4: fur on it, did you just want to run it

586
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Speaker 4: through the through the wash, like maybe like once or twice,

587
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Speaker 4: just to get all the extra flues off because it

588
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Speaker 4: does fly. They do fly a little bit, but it's

589
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Speaker 4: it's fresh, So throw it in the dryer. Get to

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Speaker 4: get all those loose hairs out.

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Speaker 3: Of Gotta love it.

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Speaker 1: Dakota, you want to hit us with some YouTube super

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Speaker 1: ted don't. Oh yeah, let's go, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Oh wait, we got Dakota's mom whoops.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and donation from literally I'm Dakota's mom for

596
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Speaker 4: one hundred dollars. Everyone say time, mom, mom, Well now

597
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Speaker 4: she's all your mom.

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Speaker 3: That might be my favorite dono of all time.

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Speaker 2: The best one donations.

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Speaker 3: We've had some crazy ones.

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Speaker 4: My mom, I love you, thank you, I love you,

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Speaker 4: and I will call you later.

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Speaker 2: At Miss I saw some chat.

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Speaker 4: So there was a comment in the chat that it

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Speaker 4: was like talking about like, well, maybe if you talk

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Speaker 4: to your mom more and like actually picked up her

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Speaker 4: phone calls, she wouldn't have to donate one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: To get you to talk to her.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, she is definitely gonna screenshot that again.

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Speaker 3: It will live in the group chat for years.

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Speaker 4: It's not that's not how just business. She doesn't have

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Speaker 4: to do a Hey, mom, donate that directly to my

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Speaker 4: bank account next time and then we'll talk.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 4: I love you, okay, all right? From uh oh, I

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Speaker 4: think we did that one and we said by the

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Speaker 4: rewild beear.

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Speaker 2: Uh layla.

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Speaker 4: Lay uh to Mona five babies from from Miss Mona,

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Speaker 4: thank you for donating the gifting the five story Time babies,

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Speaker 4: and that black magic Girl also gifted five Okay, story

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Speaker 4: Time black girl magic, that black girl Oh did did

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Speaker 4: not say magic? You said, uh that black magic girl,

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Speaker 4: that black girl magic.

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Speaker 2: Guess who has just let it now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you r.

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Speaker 4: You figured out how to make dyslexia contagious. Thank you,

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Speaker 4: thank you.

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Speaker 3: He has low key infected me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just do the service to the world.

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00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 4: Now they have a new thing to figure out how

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Speaker 4: to fix your contagious dyslexia.

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Speaker 3: There we go, We're just next vandemic. Okay, let's go.

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Speaker 3: So you ready, let's do it? Or are we ready? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Are we ready?

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Speaker 4: This is a juicy one, folks. My husband cheated on me.

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Speaker 4: He got furious when I asked him if I could

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Speaker 4: cheat back.

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Speaker 3: Whoa whoa?

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I thirty two female, recently became a mom to a

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Speaker 4: beautiful three month old baby girl. I live in a

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00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 4: big Indian joint family and I feel really blessed with

645
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 4: how much love and support I've received from my in laws.

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00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 4: My husband thirty two male, my in laws, my two

647
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 4: brothers in laws and three sister in laws and.

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Speaker 2: A few teenage nieces all live under the same roof laws.

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Speaker 4: That is a big family under the same roof. My

650
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 4: in laws truly treat me like their daughter. My husband

651
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 4: and I have been married for a few years and honestly,

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Speaker 4: I thought we were solid. By the way. This comes

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Speaker 4: from User Fair Hospital eighty sixty on the r slash

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Speaker 4: okay storytime subreddit. So the trouble started during one of

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Speaker 4: our family's regular dress up nights, a fun little tradition

656
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 4: we have where everyone in the family dresses up and

657
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 4: spends the evening together, laughing, taking pictures, and just enjoying

658
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 4: each other's company. I especially love these nights because of

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00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 4: my nieces. They're teenagers, and it's always a blast seeing

660
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 4: how excited they get about picking out outfits and having fun.

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Speaker 2: Cute, Yeah, that's what.

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00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 4: They just pick out outfits and they have fun, typical

663
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 4: niece behavior. However, during this particular dress up night, my

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00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 4: mother in law pulled me aside. She seemed a little uncomfortable,

665
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 4: but told me there was something I needed to seat.

666
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 4: She showed me some WhatsApp messages that my husband had

667
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 4: mistakenly sent to her instead of another woman.

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Speaker 2: Ay yo, they had the same name. Sorry, babe, uh

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Speaker 2: you know that?

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Speaker 4: That That the panic that he felt after he realized

671
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 4: that he sent that to his mom instead instead of

672
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 4: like his A fair partner.

673
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: Rate this one through ten Yeah, oh no, oh god,

674
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: oh god.

675
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 4: He sent the Optimus Prime text shot, oh and the

676
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,959
Speaker 4: Oscar for sound mixing. Goes to John the cockle bots

677
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 4: roll up. Oh okay, well I did he did it, folks,

678
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 4: he did it? Okay, so yes, w mother in law

679
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 4: he sent this. He had sent the messages thinking they

680
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 4: were going to this woman, and they were clearly romantic

681
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 4: and suggestive. From the way the messages were worded, it

682
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 4: was obvious he had been having an affair with her.

683
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 4: My mother in law said that she probably deleted the

684
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 4: messages for him instead of for everyone and didn't notice.

685
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 2: So he's dumb too. Oh I see, I see.

686
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,479
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not that familiar with WhatsApp she's talking about.

687
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 4: He he deleted the wrong messages. He thought he deleted

688
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 4: what he did not delete.

689
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway.

690
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

691
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 4: When I confronted my husband, he didn't deny it.

692
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 2: Oh okay, bold, Yeah I did it. In fact, he

693
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 2: admitted that he had been cheating on me.

694
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did it.

695
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 4: What hurt me the most was how he tried to

696
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 4: justify it. He said that men have needs, and because

697
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 4: I was pregnant and then recovering after child birth, he

698
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 4: wasn't kidding what he needed from me. Throw this man

699
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 4: into the sun. We've already now this will be the

700
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 4: third person we've thrown into the sun. Throw this guy

701
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 4: into the sun, dude.

702
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: Oh but it's but it's what is it, Riley, It's

703
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 1: like the most of it is the most unless you

704
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: have cancer then that's the second most.

705
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: Time. But I think whenever he said he didn't get

706
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 2: what he needed, he needed his mom. So that's why

707
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: he picked someone but his mom. Oh my god, and

708
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 2: he just needed mommy attention as you were becoming a

709
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: mommy jinks.

710
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna attempt to center myself and prevent a nuclear

711
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 4: meltdown like what happened yesterday when I was reading some

712
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 4: ridiculous stuff. Okay, he claimed he being the man who

713
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 4: deserves to be thrown into the sun, claim that it

714
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 4: was just physical and meant nothing. It felt like he

715
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 4: was just brushing off my feelings, as if what he

716
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: did was no big deal, just because it wasn't emotional

717
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 4: for him. But it was a huge deal for me. Yeah, rightfully.

718
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 4: So your husband cheated on you while you were pregnant

719
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 4: and recovering.

720
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, what.

721
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 4: I was shattered here. I was still recovering from childbirth,

722
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 4: physically and emotionally exhausted from taking care of our newborn child,

723
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 4: and he was running around behind my back. I was

724
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 4: angry and hurt beyond words, and in the heat of

725
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 4: the moment, I lashed out. I asked him, if it's

726
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 4: just physical, should I go find someone else too?

727
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: Yes? Totally fair?

728
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 4: Wow. I wanted him to understand how it felt be

729
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 4: on the receiving end of a betrayal.

730
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: He got furious.

731
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 4: He stormed out, claiming I was being disrespectful and that

732
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 4: I went too far by suggesting I could cheat on

733
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 4: him in return.

734
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 2: What what? Oh, You're just trying to find something. I

735
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: think he's gonna use this to try to divorce. You

736
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 2: said you're gonna cheat on me?

737
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 4: What you You cheated openly admitted to cheating. But he's

738
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:21,720
Speaker 4: gonna use it in the divorce.

739
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: I see it.

740
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 4: He literally openly was like, yeah, I did.

741
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 2: I did that.

742
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 4: Right now, he's gonna be like my wife made it.

743
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 4: My wife told me she wants to cheat on me

744
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 4: because I cheated on her, and that was just like what.

745
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 4: I can't believe I married that woman. There's a statement,

746
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 4: throw yourself into the sun, build a rocket, pilot it

747
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 4: to the sun. Okay. Now, now here's where things get complicated.

748
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 4: My in laws are all on my side. They are

749
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 4: furious with what my husband has done, and they have

750
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 4: made it clear that they do not support his behavior.

751
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 4: They've been incredibly supportive of me and our baby, which

752
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 4: I deeply appreciate. They are even on my side if

753
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 4: I decide to divorce him.

754
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: Nice.

755
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 4: However, when I talked to my own mother about this,

756
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 4: she told me I took things too far by saying

757
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 4: I cheat on him.

758
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 6: Wait wait a second, Oh no, no, no, you said

759
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 6: it to the wrong mom.

760
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: Yo, you said it to the wrong mode. Yo.

761
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: That actually might come true.

762
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: Bro, I think you're right.

763
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: That would be That would be the greatest conspiracy theory

764
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 1: proved true of Okay, storytime mystery without a doubt, Okay,

765
00:38:58,920 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: without a doubt.

766
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, here we go, folks, All right, here we go.

767
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 4: She said I should have handled it differently, without stooping

768
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 4: to his level. But that wasn't the only thing she

769
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 4: told me. Apparently, my mom had known about the affair

770
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 4: for a while. She had seen my husband with this

771
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 4: other woman at some point, but didn't tell me because

772
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 4: she didn't want her granddaughter to grow up without a father.

773
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 4: I'm devastating, dude. Not only did my husband cheat, but

774
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 4: my own mother kept it from me. I understand she

775
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 4: had her reasons, but I feel completely betrayed by the

776
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 4: people closest to me.

777
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

778
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: Man, that's come on, your immediate family member, your partner,

779
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 2: and your mom doing this.

780
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 3: To you, dude. And I think Mom's like both moms betrayed, betrayed.

781
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't want my daughter to have to have

782
00:39:53,480 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 4: a stepmother grandmother. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. She's like, that's

783
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 4: I don't think yeah, hmmm, yeah.

784
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: Maybe it's trickle truth. And she because that's I mean,

785
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: listen that theory.

786
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 3: That's a bomb. That's crazy.

787
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: The mother in law the second something happened, she showed.

788
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 2: But now this mom is like, oh yeah, I knew

789
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: for a little bit. Yeah, that's that's absurd.

790
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 4: Why you did not bring up, like the betrayal is

791
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:24,959
Speaker 4: so so real?

792
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 2: How she she saw them in public? Is that how

793
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 2: she knew? Yeah?

794
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 4: And I call that baloney, big baloney sandwich for that. Okay,

795
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 4: let's let's let's uh continue on now. My husband is upset,

796
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 4: claiming that my comment about cheating on him was out

797
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 4: of line. Yeah, my comment not the actual act of cheating, dude,

798
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 4: even though it was made in the heat of a

799
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 4: moment fueled by his betrayal. My mom also seems to

800
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 4: think I went too far, even though she knew about

801
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 4: his affair and chose to stay silent. Yeah, you should

802
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 4: stay silent forever about your opinions on anything now. Mother

803
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 4: not shout out to my mom though, for being cool.

804
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 4: So here, I am trying to make sense of everything.

805
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 4: My in laws are on my side, my husband is

806
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 4: mad at me, and my mom thinks I should have

807
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 4: kept my cool? Am I the a hole for asking

808
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 4: if I could cheat on my husband after finding out

809
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 4: he cheated on me? Should I have handled this differently?

810
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 2: Note?

811
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 4: I never want to cheat. It was just to make

812
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:36,280
Speaker 4: him understand how crazy he sounds. You know how I feel.

813
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 4: I think I think it's pretty clear. I feel you

814
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 4: are not the a hole and it is in fact

815
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 4: your stinky, stinky a hole husband who should probably be

816
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 4: your ex husband. Now, like, keep his family and relieve him.

817
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like for real?

818
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's this, it's it's absurd. Yeah, you can go

819
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: live with my mom now we're family swamp.

820
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

821
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 4: Now, I can't do the Indian accent now because now

822
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 4: if I did, it would be actually derogatory, because I

823
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 4: want to. I want to insult this man. I want

824
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 4: to insult him with every fiber of my being.

825
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: Please, if you're Indian, give him the past when we

826
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 2: can do this.

827
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to.

828
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 4: I don't want anything to get mixed him.

829
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 2: Please.

830
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 4: And I'm not insulting it because he's an Indian man.

831
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 4: I'm insulting him because he sucks and he just so

832
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 4: happens to be Indian.

833
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is Indian families.

834
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 3: He didn't know that one of the chances. Yeah, I

835
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 3: had to blow my nose for a second side.

836
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, this guy sucks and deserves it, deserves divorce

837
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 4: and honestly, like he deserves to get cheated on. But

838
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 4: you're a much better person than him, and you wouldn't

839
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 4: even do that.

840
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, so respect to up again.

841
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: She's just like, I'm just trying to show you how

842
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: ridiculous it sounds like I'm not, you.

843
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 4: Know, Yeah, And you see how you immediately were like,

844
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 4: I can't. It's so unbelievable that you even even say that.

845
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 4: It's like, dude, you you doing?

846
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: You did it?

847
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 4: Dude, that's crazy to pass. And he's like, I can't

848
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 4: do it?

849
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 2: Can I do it?

850
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do it. I'm doing it. So she's like,

851
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 4: you know, that's imagine doing it. And he's like, but

852
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 4: you do not have the shame needs as I do.

853
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 4: You do not have the same mayor needs as me.

854
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 4: I have different needs than you. You are just pregnant

855
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 4: and gross.

856
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

857
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 4: Gross, You're gross, dude. You're gross. You're gross, dude. You're

858
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 4: gross dude with a great now ex wife. I hope

859
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 4: because you don't deserve.

860
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: Her, dude this stream.

861
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 4: And I really hope Quasar Queen is an Indian.

862
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: We can.

863
00:43:58,400 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: Only hope.

864
00:43:59,040 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: That was pretty good.

865
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 1: I underproof from the discord you've hit to go to anxiety.

866
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 4: Okay, now there is an update, folks, We have an update.

867
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: Oh oh my god. Hey everyone.

868
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 4: It's currently three thirty five am and I cannot sleep.

869
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 4: I'm lying here in my in law's house and the

870
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 4: only ones who seemed to be sleeping are the kids.

871
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 4: I just needed to share what's been happening since my

872
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 4: last post. First of all, thank you all for the

873
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 4: support of comments. They've really helped me feel less alone

874
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:39,240
Speaker 4: in this mess. So after I posted my original message

875
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 4: at one in the morning, oh so this is like

876
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 4: like two three hours.

877
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 2: Later, yeah, oh wow, Yeah, you're right.

878
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 4: I I couldn't shake the feeling of guilt that was

879
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 4: swirling inside of your guilt what my mother keeps insisting

880
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 4: that my husband's cheating was a one time mistake and

881
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 4: I should just stay for the sake of our But

882
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 4: I know deep down that it's so much more complicated

883
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 4: than that. Finding out about the affair was a blow

884
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 4: I never saw coming, especially during our family dress up

885
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 4: night when my mother in law pulled me aside to

886
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 4: tell me and also, dude, yeah, being like it's just

887
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 4: a one time thing. The fact that he literally was like, yeah,

888
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 4: I cheated on you, and I was right to do

889
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 4: it because I have needs gross and you're just gross

890
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 4: right now. When you're not so gross, then I won't

891
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 4: cheat on you anymore. Is that somebody you want to

892
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 4: be your like lifelong partner, like that you trust forever?

893
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 3: Like what do they also they have a daughter together?

894
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: Yes, dude, you do not want that man to obviously

895
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: whatever supplit custody or whatever, but like I would get

896
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: custody of the kid, find a real man to be

897
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: her like full full time father or whatever.

898
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 4: That's you do not want that guy to be the

899
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 4: male role model. Yeah, the soul role model for her.

900
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 4: Absolutely absolutely not, absolutely not.

901
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: So.

902
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 4: Since then, my in laws have kicked my husband out

903
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 4: of the house, and they've been incredibly supportive.

904
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 3: Let's go w in laws.

905
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,479
Speaker 4: That's rare, rare.

906
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 2: I think i'd be dropping the in laws at that

907
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: point because they're family, my parents. Okay, yeah, gotcha. What

908
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:27,439
Speaker 2: did you think?

909
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 3: That was?

910
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 2: Nothing?

911
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 3: Nothing?

912
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: Nothing? Wait, no, explain I'm confused.

913
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 4: Nothing. Don't worry about it. I think I think, don't

914
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 4: don't worry about it. We're moving on. They really treat me.

915
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 4: I just thought your Tennessee issuing there.

916
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: Let's just say you wouldn't be invited to the cookouts.

917
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 4: We're just we're moving on. We're moving on.

918
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Okay, someone will explain it. I don't think

919
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 2: they're like, okay, I'm sorry if I said anything wrong.

920
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 2: I was just trying to make a You did it,

921
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 2: You did it? Okay, thank god? Um jeez.

922
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 4: Okay, going back back to the top. Since then, my

923
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 4: in laws have kicked my husband out of the house.

924
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 4: They've been incredibly supportive. They treat me like family, which

925
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 4: is a relief because my own dad was more of

926
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 4: a ghost in my life than an actual father. It's

927
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 4: hard to explain how grateful I am for their support

928
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 4: during this chaotic time. They've stepped in and made it

929
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 4: clear that they're on my side, which has been comforting.

930
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 3: Wow.

931
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 4: But I cannot shake the feeling that I need to

932
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 4: figure out who his affair partner is. Yeah, because it's

933
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 4: your mind. Yes, Oh, I have this nagging suspicion that

934
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 4: it might be my best friend Tara, as I saw

935
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 4: him use that name in some of the texts he

936
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 4: accidentally sent my mother in law. Yeah, sneaking suspicion. That's

937
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 4: I don't think there's anything sneaky about it. You literally

938
00:47:55,520 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 4: saw her name. Uh. The thought makes me sick. I

939
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 4: don't want to believe it, but it's hard to ignore.

940
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 4: In the morning, I plan to have a serious talk

941
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 4: with my husband, but I also need to talk to

942
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 4: a lawyer about divorce and custody. Smart. I've worked hard

943
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 4: to build my own career and finances so I know

944
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 4: I can support myself and my daughter, but it's still

945
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 4: scary to think about what the future holds. Future do

946
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:29,240
Speaker 4: be scary, folks, The future do be scary. I'm trying

947
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 4: to remind myself that I deserve better than this. My

948
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 4: mother's voice has been echoing my head in my head,

949
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 4: urging me to think about my daughter, but I need

950
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 4: to prioritize my own happiness too. Staying in a relationship

951
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 4: built on lies and betrayal isn't healthy for any of us,

952
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 4: and I want my daughter to grow up in a

953
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 4: loving environment, not one where her parents are constantly at odds.

954
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: Mom.

955
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 4: I also need to confront my mother about the fact

956
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 4: that she knew about my husband's cheating and did not

957
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 4: tell me. She claims she didn't want my daughter to

958
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 4: grow up without a father, but I feel betrayed. I

959
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 4: have to set boundaries and make it clear that I

960
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 4: need her support not just for my daughter's sake, but

961
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 4: for my own sanity or Now. I'm staying with my

962
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 4: in laws, who have really embraced me during this time.

963
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 4: It feels nice to be part of a family that

964
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 4: genuinely cares for me. I think it's important for my

965
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 4: daughter to have a relationship with them, especially since my

966
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 4: own family wasn't really a father figure in my life,

967
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 4: or my own father wasn't really a father figure in

968
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 4: my life. Yes, hold on to the family. They have

969
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,280
Speaker 4: your back, they have your daughter's back. They are good

970
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 4: to go, totally. Thank you for being here for me

971
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 4: and for all your kind words. They mean more than

972
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 4: you know. I'll keep you all updated as things unfold,

973
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 4: and I hope to find the strength to navigate this storm.

974
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 4: There is another update. There is a second update, and

975
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 4: let me see is there a Let me scroll and

976
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 4: let me just see.

977
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 2: Is there a third one? Know that there is just Okay,

978
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 2: you're on the final update, goy.

979
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: So all all we know. All we're going to see

980
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: is in. This is up next.

981
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 3: That's it.

982
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 4: This is the the crescendo, so to speak. Okay, we

983
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 4: we have experienced the rising action. We are at the

984
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 4: the climax of the story, oh God, and we will

985
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 4: then be at the falling action and the resolution and

986
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 4: the narrative, the narrative arc. I'm a dorc.

987
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 2: Let's go, let's do it.

988
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 4: Update number two. Hello everyone. It is nine am now,

989
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 4: and the events of this morning have left me feeling

990
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 4: completely drained.

991
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: So like God, it's just like mere hours from we

992
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: went from like what like.

993
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: Nine pm to one am to nine am.

994
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, we went from like one am to three thirty

995
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,879
Speaker 4: am to now nine am. The same geeze so this

996
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 4: is six hours removed from like our previous Okay, I

997
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 4: cannot believe how much has happened in just a few hours,

998
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 4: but I wanted to share the latest update with all

999
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 4: of you. Your comments and support have been a lifeline

1000
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 4: for me. I can't thank you enough for your words

1001
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 4: of encouragement. So earlier this morning, my husband actually had

1002
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 4: the nerve to show up at my in laws home

1003
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 4: with the side check what.

1004
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 3: Herself?

1005
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 2: I still can't get over it? Who does that?

1006
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 3: Dude?

1007
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 4: Can we get a noose? Can we get a Can

1008
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 4: we build another son to throw this guy into one

1009
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 4: in tattoo the second one? Yeah, the second. We need

1010
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 4: to go to tattooing and throw this guy into the

1011
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 4: second son. Actually, give this guy to the Tuscan Raiders.

1012
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 4: Let's be real, give him, give him to the.

1013
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 2: Star Wars.

1014
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, give him and him over. You'll get a you'll

1015
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 4: get good trade for this for this guy.

1016
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 2: Oh god, dude, So.

1017
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 4: I cannot get over this? Who does that? He knew

1018
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 4: how devastated I was, and yet he thought it was

1019
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 4: a good idea to bring her here to our home,

1020
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 4: like it was no big deal. And get this, it

1021
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 4: wasn't my best friend Tara, but her name was also Tara.

1022
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 2: What are the yards?

1023
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: That's pretty crazy.

1024
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 4: Riley was so holding out for that to be like,

1025
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 4: that's my mom's name.

1026
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, dude, I mean just Concy.

1027
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 2: Another conspiracy theory.

1028
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 4: This is a fake Tara covering for her mom. It

1029
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 4: all felt like some kind of twisted joke. My father

1030
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 4: in law was absolutely livid. As soon as my husband

1031
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 4: and his new girlfriend stepped foot inside. My father in

1032
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 4: law did not hesitate. He kicked both of them out

1033
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 4: on the spot. Let's go, it's on site, it's on

1034
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 4: squire space, get out click. I would do the voice,

1035
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 4: but get out your best I already got my one

1036
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 4: pass and you know it's he doesn't know anyway. The

1037
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 4: fury in his voice was something I've never heard before,

1038
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 4: and honestly, I was glad to see it. My in

1039
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 4: laws have been nothing but supportive since this whole mess started,

1040
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 4: and I'm incredibly grateful to have them on my side.

1041
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 4: But what really hit me hard was my husband's reaction

1042
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 4: towards our daughter. He didn't even look at her, didn't

1043
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 4: ask about her, didn't show an ounce of affection. It

1044
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 4: was like she just didn't exist to him.

1045
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 2: Anymore.

1046
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 4: And that just shattered me. How could he be so cold?

1047
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 4: How could he just walk away from his own child

1048
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 4: without a second thought. It was as if the affair

1049
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 4: had flipped a switch, him turning off any remaining love

1050
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 4: or care he had for our family.

1051
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 2: Okay, do you think he was super overwhelmed? The family

1052
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 2: was already kicking him out. He didn't even have a

1053
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 2: chance to think about the daughter.

1054
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 4: He's about to be overwhelmed when I find him and

1055
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 4: challenge him to a fistfight. Uh oh, are you serious?

1056
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 4: This guy needs? This is what that guy needs? That Like,

1057
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 4: seldom do I condone a beatdown on a guy for

1058
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 4: him to learn a lesson. But you need to I

1059
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 4: don't know, maybe you'll knock whatever's like loose in his

1060
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 4: brain like back into the correct spot, like I think,

1061
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 4: you know, and you know who needs to do it

1062
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 4: his own dad. He needs to be the dad that

1063
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 4: like goes.

1064
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 2: You know, Daddy said no, no, no, no, talk to me.

1065
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 2: The daughter needs to do it.

1066
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 3: Because he's not.

1067
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 2: He's like all this is abatage's your attention.

1068
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 4: I don't even want to imagine that. He's like the

1069
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 4: dad's like, son, you picked the belt. Uh that's right.

1070
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 4: You're never too old, buddy. Yeah, that's yeah, never too

1071
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 4: old buddy. Yeah pick wisely, Nah, dude, it's not you

1072
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,959
Speaker 4: need like an r k O out of nowhere type

1073
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 4: situation here by the daughter, but yeah, by the daughter.

1074
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:24,720
Speaker 2: Yeah dude.

1075
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 4: Truly, that would truly be the most r k O

1076
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 4: out of nowhere moment that could ever happen. The father

1077
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 4: gets r k O by his own infant daughter.

1078
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 3: Truly.

1079
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 4: Shout out to all the w W fans in the

1080
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 4: chat who know what I'm talking about, and for everyone else,

1081
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 4: I apologize.

1082
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 3: What is a h r k O.

1083
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 4: Is the a trademark move of one Randy Orton?

1084
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 2: Ye, who would pull the r k O out of nowhere? Yeah,

1085
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 2: so he would have like, imagine this someone's head and

1086
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 2: it'll do this.

1087
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1088
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 2: Then yeah, it was like a yes face smash like

1089
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 2: and it was always.

1090
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 4: Watch out, watch watch out, and then Brandy Orton's in

1091
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 4: the ring doing r KO. If anyone has heard like

1092
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 4: the popular meme audio of like that some guy going

1093
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,800
Speaker 4: watch out, watch out, watch out, that is a reaction

1094
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 4: to a Randy Orton RKO. Anyway, to get back to

1095
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 4: the story, after that awful confrontation, my father in law

1096
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 4: took matters into his own hands. Let's go immediately contacted

1097
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:35,240
Speaker 4: a lawyer to begin the process of removing my husband

1098
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 4: from the family's inheritance. Instead, he's planning to put our

1099
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 4: daughter's name in his place. Dude, that is exactly what

1100
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 4: w dad, That's exactly what I'm talking about.

1101
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1102
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 4: That decision floored me. I never expected my in laws

1103
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 4: to go to such lengths to protect us, but they've

1104
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 4: made it clear that they see me as their own

1105
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 4: daughter and we'll do everything they can to make sure

1106
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 4: my daughter and I are taken care of.

1107
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 2: Nice.

1108
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 4: It's overwhelming, but I am deeply touched by their support.

1109
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:07,760
Speaker 2: Wow.

1110
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 4: I mean, that's definitely got to be overwhelming, but like

1111
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 4: in a in a positive.

1112
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: Way, Yeah, for sure, for sure. Yeah.

1113
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: It's almost like it's almost like when someone does something

1114
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 1: so nice for you and it's like not embarrassing, but

1115
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: you're just like, I don't know how to thank you,

1116
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

1117
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 3: That kind of.

1118
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially when life has been so pushing crap at

1119
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 2: you and then a very nice thing happens. Gosh, you

1120
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 2: go from the valley to the mountain so quickly you

1121
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 2: get whiplashed. Yeah, that's true.

1122
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 4: Whosh. Continuing on, as for the divorce, things have moved quickly.

1123
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 4: I managed to speak with my friend's dad, who's a lawyer,

1124
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 4: and he walked me through what to do next. Since

1125
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 4: divorces in India can take anywhere from six to eighteen months,

1126
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 4: he recommended creating a legal agreement with my husband to

1127
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 4: cover the interim period.

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00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

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00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 4: This agreement has several important clauses, all designed to protect

1130
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,479
Speaker 4: me and our daughter until the divorce is finalized. Here's

1131
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 4: what we've put in place. Oh wow, living arrangements. I

1132
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 4: will continue to live with my in laws until the

1133
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 4: divorce is complete. This ensures that I'm in a safe

1134
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 4: and supportive environment and there won't be any more drama

1135
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 4: or accusations about infidelity. Two no access to our daughter.

1136
00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 4: My husband will not be allowed any contact with our

1137
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 4: daughter during this period. Three monthly financial support. My husband

1138
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 4: is required to provide a fixed monthly amount to support

1139
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 4: me and our daughter while I have my own job

1140
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 4: in finances. This will help cover the extra costs of

1141
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 4: raising our daughter and ensure that we're not struggling during

1142
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 4: the divorce process. Four behavioral clauses. My husband also agreed

1143
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 4: to have some behavioral clauses, including not bringing the side

1144
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 4: chick anywhere near our home or child, and maintaining a

1145
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 4: respectful distance from me and my family. This was important

1146
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 4: because I don't want to deal with his drama while

1147
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 4: I'm trying to move on.

1148
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm praying that they use sidechick in the actual contract. Yeah,

1149
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: that'd be sick, that'd be awesome.

1150
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 4: Side chick. Yeah, that she who shall not be named,

1151
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 4: henceforth known as side check number five. Legal fees. He

1152
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 4: also agreed to cover a portion of my legal fees

1153
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 4: for the divorce. I've worked hard for my career, but

1154
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 4: every bit helps in situations like this, especially with how

1155
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 4: long and expensive divorces can be.

1156
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 2: Wait, so he just signs this.

1157
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is like the inter like an interim agreement

1158
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 4: that they have while the divorce is pending. And I'm

1159
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 4: sure he signed it while like his dad was like like.

1160
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 2: Covering over him.

1161
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 4: Listen, Buco, you're gonna sign this, you know, if you

1162
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 4: want to walk out of here intact, I'm sorry.

1163
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 2: Uh, but like what if he doesn't sign it, does

1164
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 2: that make it harder?

1165
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 4: I think he did. No, it doesn't make the divorce harder.

1166
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 4: It's I mean, but like.

1167
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 2: You have no reason to sign it. If someone I mean,

1168
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 2: I know, the dad's like you better sign it. But

1169
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 2: other than that, nothing legally that is true.

1170
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 3: But I've never heard of this.

1171
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 4: I'm not familiar with how divorce proceedings work anywhere, and

1172
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 4: this is in India, so I'm extra unfamiliar here. But

1173
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 4: I would assume it's got to have some positive benefit

1174
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 4: for him, because it's like, by signing this agreement, it

1175
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 4: is like on paper, it looks like he's being reasonable

1176
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 4: and he's like trying to make up and cater like

1177
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 4: to their wishes and be good. Now yeah, okay, yeah,

1178
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 4: so then if he follows those maybe he gets a

1179
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 4: little cushier like thing in the divorce.

1180
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: Right like she can she can absolutely bring down the hammer.

1181
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: But it's like, okay, if he's if he likes it's

1182
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 1: like getting off early for good behavior away.

1183
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:33,439
Speaker 4: Kind of yeah, it's like maybe if you can prove

1184
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 4: that you're not a complete you know, anyway I see it.

1185
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 4: Here's the shocking part. No, my husband signed the agreement

1186
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 4: without any argument.

1187
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 3: That is shocking, no fight, no pushback, all right.

1188
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 4: He just signed it and he walked away like he

1189
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 4: couldn't care less. As he handed the papers back to

1190
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 4: the lawyer, he sneered at me and said, get out, scoffs.

1191
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 4: It was like he didn't even see me as a

1192
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 4: person anymore. I had spent years building a life with

1193
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 4: this man, and now all I could see was someone

1194
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 4: who wanted me gone as quickly as possible, like I

1195
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 4: was the problem. I'm still in shock at how easily

1196
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 4: he threw everything away, our marriage, our daughter, our life together.

1197
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 4: His total lack of remorse is mind boggling, and the

1198
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 4: fact that he's already moved on with someone else, proudly

1199
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 4: flaunting her in front of his family makes it clear

1200
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 4: than me, clear to me that he never really cared

1201
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 4: about it. He's treating this like it's just a bump

1202
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 4: in the road, and now he can go on living

1203
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 4: his new life without any guilt. I can't help but

1204
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 4: feel betrayed on so many levels. Yeah that's reasonable, Yeah,

1205
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 4: that's a reasonable feeling. This man was my partner, the

1206
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 4: father of my child, and someone I trusted completely. Now

1207
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 4: I'm realizing just how deep his betrayal goes. I guess

1208
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 4: I was holding on to some hope that maybe he

1209
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 4: would at least show some regret, some concern for what

1210
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 4: he did. But after this morning, it's obvious that's never

1211
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 4: going to happen. But you know what always happens, what

1212
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 4: us going.

1213
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 5: Live every weekday at three pm. Mostly just tap our

1214
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 5: profile and you can join that live do it. So

1215
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 5: here I am sitting in the home of people who

1216
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,439
Speaker 5: feel more like my real family than he ever did.

1217
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 5: And I'm so thankful for my in laws, especially my

1218
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 5: father in law, who immediately took charge of the situation

1219
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 5: and did everything he could to ensure my daughter and

1220
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 5: I will be okay. I've already started looking into divorce proceedings,

1221
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 5: and with the agreement signed, I feel like a little

1222
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 5: more at peace, knowing I have some security until this

1223
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 5: process is over. Thank you again for all your kind

1224
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 5: words and advice. I honestly don't know how I would

1225
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 5: have made it through the last twenty four hours without

1226
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 5: this community. I'll keep you updated his things progress, but

1227
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 5: for now I'm focusing on staying strong for my daughter

1228
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 5: and building a new future, one that doesn't involve a man.

1229
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 4: Who was willing to walk away from everything. And let's

1230
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 4: be honest, he should walk directly into the sun.

1231
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 3: That is correct, disintegrate so painfully, not.

1232
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 4: Even like the Weezer song an island in the sun,

1233
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 4: not even an island walk into the sun, No island.

1234
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 1: We need a special sun that like like, uh, he

1235
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: burns more slowly and painfully, though he can't just like

1236
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: get the benefit of instantly disintegrating, yeah painlessly, you know.

1237
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, we need to develop a new new way to

1238
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 4: keep people alive longer, just so he can suffer as

1239
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 4: much as possible.

1240
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 3: I like this.

1241
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 2: This song goes like walking on a chip, but it's

1242
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 2: the opposite of.

1243
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 4: That one walk in walking on a dream goes oh yeah,

1244
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 4: being flown into the sun.

1245
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: And you know what's funny that I think I cannot explain.

1246
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: I think it's called Empire of the Sun is or

1247
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: something like that is the name of the real.

1248
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: I mean, Empire the Sun, just walking to the sun.

1249
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 3: Shure there.

1250
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 2: Not sure that.

1251
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 3: You know of me, but I'm not gonna ignore what's

1252
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 3: in front of me.

1253
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, we got right now.

1254
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 3: I see Oh some quick, don what are we gonna say?

1255
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 3: Uh oh no, uh uh.

1256
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: The timers running down, so we're gonna try and squeeze

1257
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 1: in one more bus for these do'nots.

1258
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 3: Certifiably.

1259
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: Gen takes it in five bucks to Coda that rank

1260
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: was beautiful and john' riley laughing, ship's kiss, Yes, beautiful.

1261
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 3: And then where am I starting right here? Boom, ugly

1262
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 3: old bank.

1263
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: Welcome to tonight, Welcome in you, Justine mandalo Uh, thanks to

1264
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: twenty seven s k uh throw her in the uy.

1265
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 1: Scot A k a largest star, A nice.

1266
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 2: Great but is it the star that burns the hottest?

1267
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 2: That's the question.

1268
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 3: Alyssa Monday, thanks for gifting a membership.

1269
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1270
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 1: And then of course Scary Harry, thanks for gifting the

1271
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: five Manburg ships.

1272
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 4: Five new babies, live babies.

1273
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 2: Are we on? We're on three? Three?

1274
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 4: All right, boys and girls were ready, here we go.

1275
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 3: Let's give it to them. Let's give it the people

1276
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 3: what we want.

1277
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 1: Riley, let me know when I'm ready and all I'm

1278
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: gonna rip it four to people.

1279
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 4: Hydrate yourselves, everybody, Hi, stay out there.

1280
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's what I'm talking about.

1281
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: Jellyby said, we need the lowest temp one. Don't want

1282
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: them to get out too quickly without some suffering. That

1283
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: is exactly what we're the lowest temperature son, lowest temperature son.

1284
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about, a slow cook slow cooker, but.

1285
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: Probably like all sons are probably so hot, right, Like

1286
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 1: if it's a sun.

1287
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 4: I think there's like, isn't there like a cold one

1288
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 4: like a neutron star that burns cold or something.

1289
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 2: Neron, gim me neutron.

1290
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: Husband and mom, you know that our landlord worked on

1291
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: that movie.

1292
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 2: Of course I knew that.

1293
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you're lying.

1294
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm Jimmy neutral.

1295
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 3: Of course, look at him? All right? Were ready, big dog?

1296
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? I rip it?

1297
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 4: Wait wait, wait, wait, Angela Connelly wants me to do

1298
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 4: a Scottish accent for her birthday, So I'll do it.

1299
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 4: I'll do the Scottish. I'll think if it's right, but

1300
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 4: I'll do it all right, and that's all you get.

1301
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: Oh and then Caitlyn my camp in black hole. Then

1302
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 1: he gets ripped to shreds.

1303
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 4: Oh, yes, spaghettified in the black hole.

1304
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 3: I like.

1305
01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: I liked the way worth. I like what's being talked about.

1306
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm liking these ideas.

1307
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 4: And then you're not bad, husband and mom into Oh

1308
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,080
Speaker 4: he's scooty, you scooty.

1309
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: Throw them in, throw them in, all right, let's do it,

1310
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 1: my best friend hooked up.

1311
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 3: With a take in Groovesman. Wait a second, oh s three?

1312
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 3: What am I on?

1313
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 2: No? No, no, no?

1314
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 4: Or were we on the third story of that?

1315
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1316
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 4: I thought, oh, I thought that was the third story

1317
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 4: I went to there.

1318
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 2: I can do that one. I can do that one.

1319
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: No, I can go to one. You're on what let's

1320
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 3: let's finish.

1321
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 4: Let's finish the one we were on for sure?

1322
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah? Nine fifty Is that nine fifty?

1323
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 4: We're on nine fifty one?

1324
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 3: I got you?

1325
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 2: Are we? Yeah?

1326
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 3: I got you?

1327
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 4: So we did do all three?

1328
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Speaker 3: Perfect?

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01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 2: Okay, cool? Yeah, we're starting three.

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01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 3: All right, it's been a long stream, that's true.

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01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend won't stop talking about being trans am.

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01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 3: I the a hole for ghosting them.

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01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 2: One more time.

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01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 1: Sorry, yep, my friend won't stop talking about being trans am.

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01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: I the a hole for ghosting them.

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01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 3: Sounds like it.

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01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 4: This sounds pretty suspicious.

1339
01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 3: Sounds pretty suspicious.

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01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: So this is a throwaway because my friend is also

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01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 1: a editor. A little back story. I moved to a

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01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 1: new country a little over a year ago. This was

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01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: when I met my friend Kara. We became good friends

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01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: very quickly, and I appreciate the fact that she was

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01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 1: a friend in a new place where I.

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01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,919
Speaker 3: Knew no one. A year on for meeting her, we've

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01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 3: only gotten closer.

1348
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not how I expected this time to start.

1349
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 1: Well, this comes from throwaway DKWTDD from our side shokey

1350
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: store times out it So. Kara is a trans woman

1351
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:26,639
Speaker 1: who began the process of transitioning almost a year before

1352
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 1: I met her, but she was still very new to

1353
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: the lifestyle her words not mine when I met her.

1354
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 1: Because of this, a lot of things we spoke about

1355
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 1: initially in our friendship were very centered around her transition

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01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 1: and first steps in an openly queer life. She admitted

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01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 1: there weren't a lot of people she could speak to

1358
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:47,720
Speaker 1: about this, and she enjoyed finally having someone hear her out.

1359
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:51,680
Speaker 1: While I genuinely enjoyed learning about Kara's POV and experiences.

1360
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 1: While I genuinely enjoyed hearing about Kara's POV and experience

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01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 1: as a trans woman, I also encouraged her to share

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01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,719
Speaker 1: other things with me, such as her taste and music

1363
01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 1: are and in general what she likes to do for fun.

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01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:09,559
Speaker 3: All of which were very queer. We're here and we're queer. Yeah,

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01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 3: so we often go to a lot of events together.

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01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 1: We hung out at our city's Pride festival, and we

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01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: see each other a couple of times a month for

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01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 1: drinks or general hanging out. I wanted to be someone

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01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: she could she could celebrate herself an identity with, and

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01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:30,200
Speaker 1: I think I accomplished that. The problem is, I think

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01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: that identity dominates her friendship. Now when we hang out,

1372
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:37,839
Speaker 1: Kara will insist on listening to her kind of music,

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01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:41,799
Speaker 1: lots of indie rock, queer artists and sapphic bands.

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01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 3: Do we know what that is?

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01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 4: I've heard that means Chat and producer Riley s a

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01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 4: pp h I C.

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01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm sure Chat will not do, and a lot of

1378
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 1: which I don't really vibe with. But I never say

1379
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: no and don't complain when she does.

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01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 2: It's a subgenre of music or band that includes a

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01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 2: queer woman.

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01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 3: Hey, oh, let's go so gay music. Yeah. If there's

1383
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 3: one thing you know about me, what is it?

1384
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 2: Riley? He hates the gays.

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01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 1: I rock with the gays, lie rock gay. I didn't

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01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 1: even think about that so many layers so, but I

1387
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: never said no and don't complain when she does. However,

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01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:30,679
Speaker 1: when I play my type of music, dad rock rap, afro, soul,

1389
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:35,720
Speaker 1: R and b opie sounds. She may listen to one

1390
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: or two songs before changing into her music again, claiming

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01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: she wants to show me a new.

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01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 3: Artist slash song.

1393
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:43,640
Speaker 2: Yeah that you know.

1394
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 3: It's like, oh yeah, look look you dude.

1395
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 2: John does this every time I'm be playing a song,

1396
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 2: He's like, no, I need to listen to Kanye right now.

1397
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, John, come on, what is this? We gotta

1398
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 2: listen to some of most in Kanye the Kid.

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01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 4: I've never heard John play a Kanye song.

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:00,759
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, sorry? Because the only places Drake.

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01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 1: Another lie so many laws. We should have done an

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01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 1: Oka Raps episode on it more, But I digress. So

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01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 1: I let her vent to me about her frustrations with

1404
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 1: her work and struggles in her romantic life. I even

1405
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 1: sat with her and let her cry on my shoulder

1406
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,559
Speaker 1: when she broke up with her most recent partner, spending

1407
01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: two hours consoling her. However, when I try to speak

1408
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: to her about my frustrations, she seems to get this

1409
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 1: glassy look in her eyes, and she'll murmur a few

1410
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 1: affirmations before changing the topic to her experiences because it

1411
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: reminds her of something she went through.

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01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:37,360
Speaker 2: Oh, Yeah, I love that.

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01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 4: I was you know what that reminds me about something

1414
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 4: about me?

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01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: You know, Like, let's can we just like awkall about

1417
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,799
Speaker 1: me for a second. I know we just like stopped

1418
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 1: like sixty seconds ago, but like I think we need

1419
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 1: to like circle back to.

1420
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 4: About to me, back to me, Yeah, to me, to me.

1421
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,719
Speaker 2: Okay, So I got the sapphic music wrong. It's sapphic

1422
01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 2: music is a sub genre in and bedroom pomp that

1423
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 2: often features female singer slash songwriters and lyrics about queer

1424
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 2: or lesbian love.

1425
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:09,600
Speaker 3: Let's go Okay, I rock with it.

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01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:13,520
Speaker 1: There are just a few of many one sided experiences

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01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 1: I've had. These are just a few of one of

1428
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: many one sided experiences I've had with Karen. I know

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01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 1: she's a good person, and I know it's unfair, but

1430
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: I've started to resent her and her quote unquote queerness.

1431
01:12:26,479 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 1: As someone who's recently discovered and accepted my own by

1432
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:33,640
Speaker 1: slash pan sexuality, I understand how important someone's identity is

1433
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 1: to them, and I would never want to be someone

1434
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 1: who makes others shrink themselves to make myself be seen

1435
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 1: or heard.

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01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:41,080
Speaker 3: But I've caught.

1437
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: Myself thinking things like enough with the trans talk or

1438
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: another lesbian indifferent.

1439
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:52,680
Speaker 4: I'm sorry that is that is funny objectively.

1440
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 2: For that to be your gripe.

1441
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 4: Just another lesbian indie band. Everyone here we go of

1442
01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 4: all the problems you can have in the world, dude,

1443
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 4: it's honestly hilarious.

1444
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 3: Also, Grandma's got a potty mouth with the tubs.

1445
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 4: She's trying to get us here for another one.

1446
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 1: T We're close, We're close, and then Scary's hair with

1447
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:14,719
Speaker 1: five five.

1448
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:17,559
Speaker 3: But I'll keep going. I'll keep going. So I really

1449
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 3: hate that I feel this way. I don't want to hate.

1450
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

1451
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to hate who my friend is or

1452
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: despise the thing she likes, believes it, or relates to.

1453
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:24,799
Speaker 3: How can I tell.

1454
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: Her this without her thinking that I'm a giant transphobe

1455
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 1: and shunning her identity.

1456
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 3: How can I fix this?

1457
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 2: PS?

1458
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate all views and comments. I'd especially love

1459
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 1: the trans and queer people in the sub to wait

1460
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 1: in on this as well, and I would like to

1461
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 1: second this with our chat with our queer community chiming

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01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 1: in and sharing their thoughts as well, which I would

1463
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 1: love to know.

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01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's huge. That's a good green flag being

1465
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 4: like this person clearly doesn't just hate trans people. Yes,

1466
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 4: clear they like please trans people?

1467
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:52,439
Speaker 3: Tell me?

1468
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 4: How do I word this properly to not offend my

1469
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 4: friend who I just kind of can't stand.

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01:13:57,439 --> 01:14:00,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Ezekiel says, this isn't about being gay or trans.

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01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 1: The friend is just being self centered. Yeah, we we're

1472
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 1: curious on more of your comments.

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01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, so what happened and dull they did it before?

1474
01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:16,520
Speaker 2: Keeping there, we keep.

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01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: Going going, so but yeah, so it does seem to me,

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01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:27,600
Speaker 1: and would it be fair? Dakota in your uh straightest

1477
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: of white Man takes hold.

1478
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,360
Speaker 4: On way to straight white Man is talking. Everyone be quiet,

1479
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 4: so basically be like.

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01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 1: Hey, I like, I'm so glad that you've got to

1481
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 1: go to this journey. I'm so glad I've got to

1482
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:45,759
Speaker 1: support you see this journey, and I'm not gonna stop

1483
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 1: supporting you in this journey. But like I do feel

1484
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 1: that like I'm never able to like, you know, share

1485
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: things about my life or like kind of like have

1486
01:14:57,160 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 1: any space in in this So I will be continuing

1487
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: to support you, but I might need some space just

1488
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: because it feels like I'm pouring in a lot and

1489
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 1: you know, not really getting much anything.

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01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:17,320
Speaker 4: I think I think maybe, like you know, just bringing

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01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 4: it up in a way where it's not even about

1493
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 4: like all you talk about is being trans Yeah, it's

1494
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 4: really more like you don't seem to like know anything

1495
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:28,840
Speaker 4: about me, because whenever I try to talk about what

1496
01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 4: I'm going through or anything in my life, it always

1497
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 4: inevitably ends up going back to your life or something

1498
01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 4: that happened to you. So it's like, I feel like

1499
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 4: I know all this stuff about you, and I've been

1500
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,520
Speaker 4: there for you, and like I am familiar with your experience,

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01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,440
Speaker 4: but I feel like you might not even know me. Yeah,

1502
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,360
Speaker 4: and then be like do you feel like that's true? Yeah,

1503
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 4: and then just then put the ball on their court,

1504
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 4: like you know what could also be true.

1505
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 1: I could see that because I think earlier it said

1506
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:58,559
Speaker 1: like she didn't really have anyone to talk to, like

1507
01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:02,680
Speaker 1: it's got to be such an insanely isolating spirit experience.

1508
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 1: So she's like, finally I have someone who's gonna like

1509
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 1: hear me out, and maybe it's just like the case

1510
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 1: where it's the only outlet.

1511
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:11,599
Speaker 3: And so every time she.

1512
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 1: Kind of just like, oh my gosh, this is what's

1513
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:15,599
Speaker 1: been going on with this, and you know, and maybe

1514
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 1: she's like, you know what, like I didn't even mean

1515
01:16:19,200 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 1: to her realize it, but I act maybe I accidentally

1516
01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 1: did that, and and I didn't leave space for you

1517
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,680
Speaker 1: when when you were here, the one person who was

1518
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 1: like kind of being being the person I could come

1519
01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: to to talk about this experience, I don't.

1520
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 3: I can't talk to anyone else about That's.

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01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I feel like that's actually a great point, Like, yeah,

1522
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 4: she might have accidentally just put this label on op

1523
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:43,559
Speaker 4: of like, oh, this is the person I can talk

1524
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 4: to about everything. Yeah, and then without realizing it, for like,

1525
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 4: you know, a year was basically just using Opede event

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01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 4: all of their stuff energy Vampire, Energy Vampire, shout out

1527
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 4: what we do in the shadows? What was that comment

1528
01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 4: from Avery? My ex best friend slash x Roomy definitely

1529
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 4: dominated her friendship with her weaponizing her psychology education and

1530
01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 4: her trauma as well. But that doesn't make me hate

1531
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:20,719
Speaker 4: psych majors and people with trauma. Kind of sounds like good, yeah,

1532
01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 4: confirmed hates all psychologists and with trauma.

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01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 3: Watch so everybody.

1534
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1535
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: No, I think I think that there is a way

1536
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 1: to approach this conversation and also a possible world where Uh,

1537
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 1: She's like, hey, you know what, Yes, Like I do

1538
01:17:42,320 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 1: want to make space for you, and I didn't.

1539
01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to do that. Please share, share more

1540
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 3: in chat in the comments.

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01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 1: I want to hear from the queer community on your

1542
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 1: perspective and if you've seen or been in a situation

1543
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 1: like this, very curious to hear thoughts.

1544
01:17:57,160 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 3: But we haven't had it. We haven't had it.

1545
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:00,920
Speaker 2: We have another.

1546
01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 3: So this post really blew.

1547
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 1: Up, and I can't thank everyone enough for taking the

1548
01:18:05,439 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: time to comment and share your thoughts and advice.

1549
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 3: Thoughts I had thoughts.

1550
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:12,760
Speaker 1: I thought i'd address a few things that I've been

1551
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:16,759
Speaker 1: seeing in the comments a lot. Is Kara neurodivergent? Short answer,

1552
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. She told me before she suspected that

1553
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,559
Speaker 1: she might be on the autism spectrum, but has never

1554
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:25,120
Speaker 1: tested for it. She is a little awkward naturally, and

1555
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 1: has told me it's harder for her to make friends before.

1556
01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:30,720
Speaker 1: But I never really considered that had to do with

1557
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 1: her being neurodivergent, though it very well could be. Maybe

1558
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 1: Kara is trying to relate to me by talking about herself.

1559
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 1: I'm ninety nine percent sure this is the case and

1560
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: is a big reason why I made the post. I

1561
01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: felt guilty for having negative feelings result from what I

1562
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 1: assume is her trying to do a good thing. Have

1563
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:54,160
Speaker 1: I ever voiced these feelings to her? Well, I have

1564
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: said things like I don't really want to listen to

1565
01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,679
Speaker 1: that kind of music right now, or I don't really

1566
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 1: want to talk about this. She seems to hear me

1567
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 1: out initially before eventually sooner rather than later, switching back

1568
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:06,599
Speaker 1: to her kind of music or her kind of topic.

1569
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,680
Speaker 1: But admittedly I have never voiced how this reaction has

1570
01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 1: upset me or made me feel before. So again, maybe

1571
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:16,920
Speaker 1: it's like she doesn't fully understand. Possibly, Yeah, what are

1572
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 1: the ages here too?

1573
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 4: I don't know, great question, because this is definitely something

1574
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 4: I feel like early twenties is very prominent. Yeah, people

1575
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 4: don't really understand to the level of dismissal that they're

1576
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 4: giving somebody by just sort of railroading their own stuff

1577
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 4: into the conversation or the moment, Like I might have

1578
01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:39,360
Speaker 4: been guilty of that.

1579
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I might have been guilty of that.

1580
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,479
Speaker 2: So Op is male, twenty seven and the friend is

1581
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:46,519
Speaker 2: twenty five female.

1582
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:49,439
Speaker 1: Okay, so they're they're they're a little that's you're kind

1583
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:50,720
Speaker 1: of generally kind of.

1584
01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 4: Know now that you're doing that when you're doing it

1585
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 4: at by twenty.

1586
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:59,560
Speaker 2: Five, yeah, yeah, probably maybe your brain's not fully developed.

1587
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 4: But like twenty five, like that's that's it, right, I

1588
01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 4: think that's like I think's it ranges, but it's typically

1589
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:08,080
Speaker 4: like I think twenty five to twenty seven is when

1590
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 4: your brain stops.

1591
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 2: No, did you feel like the day you turn twenty

1592
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 2: six at your brain started clicking? Right?

1593
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

1594
01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:17,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, they had turned twenty six or twenty five. My

1595
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 4: brain's supposed to be clicking, right.

1596
01:20:18,680 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 3: My brain at twenty six was great.

1597
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 4: You wait, you guys, hear the clicking noise in your

1598
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 4: head too? Yeah, it sounds like a car blinker just

1599
01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:34,080
Speaker 4: never goes away.

1600
01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 1: Old squad, let's go, and then I have people pleasing tendencies.

1601
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:40,719
Speaker 2: I agree.

1602
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 3: This is something I've struggled with for years.

1603
01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: I've gotten better at it as i've gotten older, but

1604
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 1: I still carry a lot of trauma and fear of

1605
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 1: abandonment from some negative experiences resulting from my voicing emotions

1606
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 1: and setting boundaries. But this isn't an excuse, but I

1607
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:58,519
Speaker 1: do think it's something that OPI should maybe share with her,

1608
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: Like Hey, I I didn't want to share this because

1609
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: you know, I've had these experiences and I've have this

1610
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 1: thinking a reaction, so I should have shared it sooner.

1611
01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 1: But and you know, Opie's from thinking a little. Yes,

1612
01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 1: share it, but you don't need to be that hard

1613
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 1: on yourself.

1614
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 3: But I digress.

1615
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 2: I digress.

1616
01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:16,559
Speaker 1: I'm going to do what a lot, what a lot

1617
01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:19,519
Speaker 1: of people are recommending, and speak to her about how

1618
01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 1: I've been feeling. I've realized that my problem was never

1619
01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: about her gender identity, queerness, or lifestyle. In fact, even

1620
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 1: though I don't vibe with a lot of her music,

1621
01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:30,599
Speaker 1: I've discovered some artists and songs that I really enjoy

1622
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:33,679
Speaker 1: things to Kara, and her sharing her experiences has genuinely

1623
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:36,599
Speaker 1: brought my mind and thought process about the world. I

1624
01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 1: don't want her to stop sharing those things with me.

1625
01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 1: My problem was feeling like my interests and emotions weren't

1626
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 1: heard or seen as much as hers. To Dakota's point,

1627
01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 1: but it's not Kara's responsibility to sense or voice my

1628
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:49,800
Speaker 1: feelings for me.

1629
01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 3: By the way, you can voice your feelings to us

1630
01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 3: every single weekday of.

1631
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:56,679
Speaker 1: Three PMPSD by tapping our profile and joining the live,

1632
01:21:56,760 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 1: you could talk to us like chat is right now?

1633
01:21:59,439 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 4: So what do you.

1634
01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:02,760
Speaker 2: Do it?

1635
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:06,519
Speaker 1: We'll be hanging out but over the weekend, so I'm

1636
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 1: going to try and bring it up to her then

1637
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:10,800
Speaker 1: and hopefully it goes well and maybe I'll even post

1638
01:22:10,800 --> 01:22:13,240
Speaker 1: an update later. I don't see what as of right now,

1639
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:14,559
Speaker 1: but thank you read it for all of your kind

1640
01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 1: words and your help.

1641
01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 2: I'll check check.

1642
01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:21,240
Speaker 3: Do we think real quick? Is that a good uh

1643
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 3: ending for now?

1644
01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 4: I mean I think so. It's like, if this person

1645
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 4: is not changing, you gotta be prepared to like be

1646
01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:34,880
Speaker 4: like all right, well, I guess this isn't somebody I

1647
01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 4: really want to have. I mean not even one. It's like,

1648
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 4: this is one I can't have that deep of a

1649
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,040
Speaker 4: friendship with because it's so one sided.

1650
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't.

1651
01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 1: Like there's literally zero if there's like zero or two

1652
01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:49,760
Speaker 1: percent room for you, it's like it's not it's not.

1653
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 4: It's not a friendship that is a monologue.

1654
01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 2: If it's all give, give, give, and no take, let

1655
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,160
Speaker 2: me tough the give and take.

1656
01:22:59,280 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, I bet you give give give the ball away

1657
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:04,480
Speaker 4: when you play basketball, dude.

1658
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I assist my partners.

1659
01:23:06,360 --> 01:23:08,920
Speaker 4: Oh okay, yeah, you turn it around around.

1660
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 2: I don't turn over like you do, but turnovers.

1661
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 4: But that wasn't clever the way that you segued into that.

1662
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:18,639
Speaker 2: Oh sure, chat was it clever?

1663
01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 3: How many what? Okay?

1664
01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 1: What do we need to do to to to do

1665
01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: like a a member's only bonus or something?

1666
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 4: But we yea, the monkey brain just took over it

1667
01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:38,800
Speaker 4: just absolutely no way.

1668
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 2: What do you want people to see, like like me balling?

1669
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 3: How many likes does the stream need to get?

1670
01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,799
Speaker 1: Or like what yeah, to to record you and Dakota

1671
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:48,000
Speaker 1: and then posting.

1672
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 4: That, oh what playing basketball? Posting me losing because I'm

1673
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:52,719
Speaker 4: doing this just.

1674
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:55,720
Speaker 2: To be annoying. We need he's better, he's better than me.

1675
01:23:56,920 --> 01:24:00,799
Speaker 3: Some sort of goal. We need some kind of a goal.

1676
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:02,639
Speaker 4: To see me get absolutely cooked.

1677
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:04,280
Speaker 3: Ten thousand likes on this live stream?

1678
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 2: Yeah do that? Or wow? Five thousand, two thousand, two thousand,

1679
01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 2: two thousand sounds good?

1680
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:14,560
Speaker 1: Two thousand, two thousand thousand, last two thousand likes, and

1681
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 1: we will record a game between the This is when

1682
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:18,800
Speaker 1: you get for talking.

1683
01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:19,760
Speaker 4: Smash trapped on the.

1684
01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 2: Boy pants?

1685
01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's what you do, right.

1686
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 2: You know what?

1687
01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:28,760
Speaker 4: Honestly, how many springs are in the basketball to make

1688
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 4: it so bouncy.

1689
01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 2: Dude, you don't know what I'm doing.

1690
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,760
Speaker 4: You haven't seen that. No, dude, that was Ali. That's

1691
01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:46,240
Speaker 4: a reference to Ali g Sasha Baron Cohen was interviewing

1692
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 4: Kobe Bryant in character. Oh asked how many springs were

1693
01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 4: in the basketball, and you see Kobe immediately be like,

1694
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:55,559
Speaker 4: why am I here?

1695
01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:59,200
Speaker 3: That's doing that's a legendary.

1696
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:03,200
Speaker 2: Honestly, if you guys, uh, don't donate anymore and let

1697
01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 2: me go to my basketball game early, I will post

1698
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 2: a video of me playing against him.

1699
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:07,680
Speaker 3: There we go.

1700
01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 4: That's what I need to go to your basketball game early.

1701
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:11,080
Speaker 4: It doesn't start.

1702
01:25:10,800 --> 01:25:12,600
Speaker 2: Well, I gotta warm up if you after this, we

1703
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:14,880
Speaker 2: go warm up, and then we can just like, you know,

1704
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:18,519
Speaker 2: do that. Okay, I could instagram, well, okay, we could

1705
01:25:18,520 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 2: instagram live it. Okay, that's fine.

1706
01:25:25,320 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 4: He's gonna be.

1707
01:25:28,600 --> 01:25:32,320
Speaker 1: That. You brought yourself here. You brought yourself here.

1708
01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:35,360
Speaker 2: Do you have shorts on? Yeah? You got basketball shoes?

1709
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1710
01:25:37,479 --> 01:25:40,080
Speaker 4: No, I don't think those are basketball shoes. Those are

1711
01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:41,240
Speaker 4: more like running shoes that I have.

1712
01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 2: Oh, that's that's basketball shoes. Okay. Cool.

1713
01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:45,520
Speaker 3: When you're a real baller, all shoes are basketball.

1714
01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 4: There's no ankle supporting those shoes. Who cares my ankles are?

1715
01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 2: Well? Okay, we couldn't instagram live it. I can't. I

1716
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:56,920
Speaker 2: mean my buddy Kid may be there and I'll just

1717
01:25:56,960 --> 01:25:57,720
Speaker 2: like video it.

1718
01:25:58,520 --> 01:25:59,439
Speaker 4: You mean kid, the kid?

1719
01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:02,920
Speaker 2: I know? Yeah, dude, you guys just beat me up. Well,

1720
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:04,720
Speaker 2: he's gonna video and I'm gonna like beat you.

1721
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 1: Bounces the ball, his like strong beefy arms will cause

1722
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 1: the ball to just like sink a crater in the ground.

1723
01:26:11,280 --> 01:26:14,479
Speaker 2: He is pretty strong. You know what. Don't donate anymore

1724
01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:16,680
Speaker 2: and we will go after this live stream and I

1725
01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:18,960
Speaker 2: will go in and stram live or some live into it.

1726
01:26:19,360 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 4: Lying keep donating.

1727
01:26:22,360 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 1: No, well, Dakota, you know it's one thing you could

1728
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 1: do to get the people going.

1729
01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:30,639
Speaker 2: Gets the people going.

1730
01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:33,559
Speaker 3: It's provocative. What is this next story?

1731
01:26:34,040 --> 01:26:34,960
Speaker 2: What song is that from?

1732
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:41,680
Speaker 4: It's Stepbrothers off It?

1733
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:45,760
Speaker 2: I love this blanket. I can't wait to cuddle with

1734
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:52,440
Speaker 2: my girlfriend in this blanket. Uh babe, I see a sausage?

1735
01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 4: You do.

1736
01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:58,240
Speaker 3: Cut this guy over?

1737
01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 2: He was the gab ghoul? Was he together?

1738
01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:03,240
Speaker 4: Is that?

1739
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 2: And you blanket? Okay? Okay, well one second, one second,

1740
01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna beat you so bad.

1741
01:27:16,200 --> 01:27:18,479
Speaker 4: I don't know, bro, you know what, I haven't played

1742
01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:21,280
Speaker 4: in a year, probably more.

1743
01:27:22,400 --> 01:27:25,599
Speaker 2: I think I got it. It's gonna be is gonna

1744
01:27:25,640 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 2: kill me.

1745
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:30,000
Speaker 4: Beginner's luck back to like I'm I've it's been so

1746
01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:31,440
Speaker 4: long since I've played basketball.

1747
01:27:32,400 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 2: I have beginner's luck again.

1748
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 3: Exactly.

1749
01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 4: I'm gonna hit like fifteen three pointers in a row.

1750
01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 3: Let's go.

1751
01:27:37,520 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 2: We're doing it after the stream. Everyone he's following me. Okay,

1752
01:27:42,240 --> 01:27:42,759
Speaker 2: all right.

1753
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 4: We're good.

1754
01:27:43,920 --> 01:27:44,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

1755
01:27:46,360 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 4: My friend created a fantasy about my brothers for clout.

1756
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,680
Speaker 4: I told her to stop.

1757
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:55,680
Speaker 2: M alan boys.

1758
01:27:55,840 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 4: It's just a little fantasy.

1759
01:27:57,880 --> 01:27:59,280
Speaker 2: It's just a little fantasy.

1760
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:05,040
Speaker 4: Part one, by the way, Okay, uh hi all first

1761
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:08,559
Speaker 4: time posting, so sorry for any mistakes. I seventeen female,

1762
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 4: have eight older brothers. Without getting into too much detail,

1763
01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 4: there's a few adoptions and half siblings in the mix,

1764
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:16,559
Speaker 4: but I'm close to all of them, and while my

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01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 4: life can be crazy sometimes I wouldn't trade them for

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01:28:19,040 --> 01:28:19,479
Speaker 4: the world.

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01:28:19,600 --> 01:28:23,360
Speaker 2: Oh crap, wait, I forgot Dons. Oh you forgot Donum. Sorry,

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01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 2: we're gonna we're gonna take a pause and then we're

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01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:25,320
Speaker 2: gonna come back.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, oh.

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Speaker 3: Little We're back.

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01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 2: We got black.

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Speaker 4: Thank you Grandma's Party Mouse again you Grandma Scary Sherry,

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01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 4: Scary Sherry. Thank you, Josephine. No, Riley, I am not

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01:28:42,200 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 4: talking about the music. Saffics are part of the queer community.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, I thought I infitted someone whenever I gave

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01:28:48,880 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 2: the wrong explanation to the saffis.

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Speaker 3: We re we re researched.

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Speaker 4: We Thank you, Josephine, Donald McGregor ten dollars. Thank you

1780
01:28:57,640 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 4: for ten dollars, Donna McGregor. I missed watching the lives.

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Speaker 4: It is great to be back. I love you, John

1782
01:29:02,479 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 4: and Riley. Nice to meet you, Dakota. Nice to meet

1783
01:29:05,160 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 4: you too, Donna, I love you.

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01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:09,880
Speaker 2: Nice to meet you too. I hope one day maybe

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01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:15,439
Speaker 2: you'll love me. Never Amy d with the five dollars,

1786
01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:16,280
Speaker 2: don No, thank you.

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01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:18,760
Speaker 4: I've been listening to the podcast for a year and

1788
01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:20,720
Speaker 4: I am joining the live stream for the first time.

1789
01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:24,479
Speaker 4: Thanks for the laughs, love y'all. Thank you, love you too,

1790
01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:29,000
Speaker 4: Amy Things for popping in. And Derek Sipe with the

1791
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:33,479
Speaker 4: three dollars and twenty six cents. Everyone views friendship differently.

1792
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:37,800
Speaker 4: That is true, well said very well, well, said Derek Sypes. Well,

1793
01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:40,559
Speaker 4: it was like a hemingway very very well, you know,

1794
01:29:41,160 --> 01:29:45,720
Speaker 4: right on it to five dollars anonymous. Uh oh wait,

1795
01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:48,559
Speaker 4: we're starting at the bottom. Alyssa Monday for five dollars.

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01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 4: Love you guys and the hole Lokay storytime family. I

1797
01:29:51,439 --> 01:29:53,840
Speaker 4: watch you every day and I'm happy to see how

1798
01:29:53,920 --> 01:29:57,840
Speaker 4: far you've come since the purple background. Thank you much,

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01:29:57,920 --> 01:30:01,160
Speaker 4: love to everyone too, back to it back five dollars

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Speaker 4: donations from anonymous. Heayo, who knows who did that, but

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01:30:05,320 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 4: we love you, Thank you very much. Just now from Donna,

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01:30:09,760 --> 01:30:13,640
Speaker 4: fifteen dollars. I just noticed the donation link instead of

1803
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:17,800
Speaker 4: super chat. Oh and she did you double it up?

1804
01:30:18,120 --> 01:30:18,400
Speaker 2: Wow?

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01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 4: Did he got did it get doubled up? Or is

1806
01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:21,519
Speaker 4: that just our chat doing that? Oh that's just a

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01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 4: check there we go. Okay, yes, thank you, don appreciate that.

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01:30:26,680 --> 01:30:29,000
Speaker 4: And that's yeah, that's the donot link.

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01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:30,640
Speaker 2: Is the best way to do that.

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01:30:30,800 --> 01:30:31,599
Speaker 3: Yes, that's correct.

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01:30:32,160 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 2: Everything. I refreshed everyone. That is the dons that I see, Yes, ekscellente.

1812
01:30:37,800 --> 01:30:38,840
Speaker 3: We got them all right.

1813
01:30:38,880 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 4: Now, let's let's get into this.

1814
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:41,320
Speaker 2: Let's don't wait.

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01:30:41,360 --> 01:30:44,920
Speaker 4: You know what, actually I remember I saw this in

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01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:47,759
Speaker 4: the chat. Somebody donated five dollars.

1817
01:30:47,840 --> 01:30:49,200
Speaker 2: They wanted to see my Trump.

1818
01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 4: They wanted the Trump just for five dollars, and that's

1819
01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 4: what I'm gonna do right now. I walked in and

1820
01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:56,960
Speaker 4: I said, that's what I'm gonna do right now, and

1821
01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:57,920
Speaker 4: I'm doing that right now.

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01:30:58,520 --> 01:31:01,960
Speaker 3: The coda. I think that's enough of that, any of

1823
01:31:02,000 --> 01:31:02,599
Speaker 3: the thought.

1824
01:31:02,520 --> 01:31:06,400
Speaker 4: Shut up, you're stupid, you're dumb, and I'm beautiful, you're ugly,

1825
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:11,480
Speaker 4: Rosie o'donald doesn't look anything like me, and also.

1826
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:13,639
Speaker 3: I'm cool.

1827
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:16,360
Speaker 4: That was my favorite thing that he responded to. Like

1828
01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 4: someone asked him what are you gonna do about the economy?

1829
01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 4: And he was like, I was voted person of the

1830
01:31:20,439 --> 01:31:23,280
Speaker 4: Year in the city actually about twenty five years ago,

1831
01:31:23,760 --> 01:31:25,559
Speaker 4: and people like me here, they like me a lot,

1832
01:31:26,160 --> 01:31:29,960
Speaker 4: and uh moving on to the next question. Well goo

1833
01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:35,479
Speaker 4: uh all right, okay, So to get back into it,

1834
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:42,440
Speaker 4: eight older brothers, lots of funniness with the family relations, adoptions,

1835
01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 4: and half siblings. I wouldn't trade them for the world,

1836
01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:47,479
Speaker 4: though it's also relevant that I don't have either of

1837
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:49,679
Speaker 4: my parents in my life and I have not since

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01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:50,479
Speaker 4: I was eleven.

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01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:51,519
Speaker 2: Okay.

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01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 4: By the way, this comes from user throw away twenty

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01:31:54,280 --> 01:31:56,680
Speaker 4: three on the r slash Okay, storytime soup read it.

1842
01:31:57,120 --> 01:32:01,640
Speaker 4: So the issue involves my close friend, seventeen female who

1843
01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:04,240
Speaker 4: I've known since we were four. For about a year now,

1844
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:08,720
Speaker 4: she's been consistently posting on social media about her best friends,

1845
01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 4: supper hot older brothers, and the terrible tale of how

1846
01:32:14,640 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 4: she ended up in a love triangle with her best

1847
01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:21,599
Speaker 4: friend's brothers. And it's seriously annoying.

1848
01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:26,760
Speaker 2: Yikes, yeah, this is giving. Please tell me. It's like

1849
01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:30,840
Speaker 2: not the Eiffel Tower kind of triangle, and it's and

1850
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:31,680
Speaker 2: it's just like.

1851
01:32:32,720 --> 01:32:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't think it is. I don't think it is.

1852
01:32:35,560 --> 01:32:38,560
Speaker 1: But whatever she ends up writing.

1853
01:32:39,200 --> 01:32:42,280
Speaker 3: That is a different story. That's a different story.

1854
01:32:42,760 --> 01:32:47,520
Speaker 4: I don't like fan fictions written by teenagers. Okay, teenage

1855
01:32:47,560 --> 01:32:50,599
Speaker 4: fanfic is one of the cringiest things to ever exist

1856
01:32:50,720 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 4: during the earth.

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01:32:51,280 --> 01:32:55,080
Speaker 2: We've all made one. Yep, we've all written one. Riley.

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01:32:55,439 --> 01:32:57,280
Speaker 4: If you didn't write one, you had one in your head.

1859
01:32:57,560 --> 01:32:59,280
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know how to, like really read.

1860
01:32:59,120 --> 01:33:01,120
Speaker 4: Didn't know how to write when you were a teenager.

1861
01:33:01,880 --> 01:33:02,280
Speaker 3: I didn't.

1862
01:33:02,439 --> 01:33:02,640
Speaker 2: I did.

1863
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:04,439
Speaker 3: I did make a Harry Potter fan website, but I

1864
01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:05,320
Speaker 3: didn't I didn't write one.

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01:33:05,720 --> 01:33:10,720
Speaker 2: Wait, rather, are you actually dyslexing. Yeah, I didn't know

1866
01:33:10,760 --> 01:33:16,760
Speaker 2: that he's been He's just been like together with it.

1867
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:19,080
Speaker 2: The moment I was like, wait, wait, I didn't pick

1868
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:21,040
Speaker 2: like a fake thing and say, oh I'm gonna run

1869
01:33:21,080 --> 01:33:23,000
Speaker 2: with this. No, I don't know. So people like I

1870
01:33:23,040 --> 01:33:27,880
Speaker 2: think that's who else shows zero divergent thing. And it's funny.

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01:33:28,479 --> 01:33:31,160
Speaker 4: I have a roommate with dyslexia and I do constantly

1872
01:33:31,240 --> 01:33:32,840
Speaker 4: make fun of him about it because that's just the

1873
01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:35,640
Speaker 4: kind of like friendship that we have so constantly just

1874
01:33:36,280 --> 01:33:37,639
Speaker 4: are always digging on each other.

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01:33:38,720 --> 01:33:42,559
Speaker 1: The Dakota hates the dyslexic cred all about it.

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01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:55,800
Speaker 7: Way, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I had to

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01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:55,120
Speaker 7: do it.

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01:33:57,360 --> 01:34:12,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Wow, yeah, they shout. Okay, so.

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01:34:13,600 --> 01:34:17,320
Speaker 4: She my friend, has never really had anything to do

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01:34:17,400 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 4: with my brothers. They know her as my little sister's

1881
01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:21,679
Speaker 4: friend and nothing more.

1882
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:23,000
Speaker 2: So I am.

1883
01:34:23,280 --> 01:34:26,280
Speaker 4: I really don't get where this is all coming from.

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01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:28,760
Speaker 2: Uh.

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01:34:28,880 --> 01:34:32,360
Speaker 4: Over the last few weeks, however, it's gotten so much worse.

1886
01:34:32,800 --> 01:34:36,200
Speaker 4: She'll actively tell stories to people at our school about

1887
01:34:36,240 --> 01:34:40,439
Speaker 4: the steamy romance that is her life, and it's bringing

1888
01:34:40,479 --> 01:34:42,479
Speaker 4: me a lot of unwanted attention.

1889
01:34:44,560 --> 01:34:47,680
Speaker 2: What platform was this put on. That's what I really

1890
01:34:47,720 --> 01:34:49,719
Speaker 2: want to know. What was? What's it called?

1891
01:34:50,640 --> 01:34:52,200
Speaker 3: I wouldn't right.

1892
01:34:55,720 --> 01:34:58,880
Speaker 4: Journal something live journal? Yet live journal, it's on live journal.

1893
01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:02,519
Speaker 4: I've tried to talk to her about it, but she

1894
01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:04,720
Speaker 4: always says that she'd never do anything to hurt me,

1895
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:08,240
Speaker 4: and she's just quote living her life, which doesn't even

1896
01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 4: make sense because this is not this is a fantasy.

1897
01:35:12,160 --> 01:35:14,920
Speaker 4: You're literally not living your life. Yeah, that is not

1898
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:19,479
Speaker 4: your life, dude. I've mentioned it to so many I've

1899
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:24,160
Speaker 4: mentioned it to I've I've mentioned it so many times

1900
01:35:24,960 --> 01:35:27,800
Speaker 4: that I've started to avoid hanging out with her because

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01:35:27,840 --> 01:35:29,639
Speaker 4: I know my brothers will come into it and I'll

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01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:34,200
Speaker 4: have to ask her to knock it off again. Everything

1903
01:35:34,240 --> 01:35:36,640
Speaker 4: came to a head yesterday. We went out with some

1904
01:35:36,720 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 4: friends and four of my brothers dropped us both off.

1905
01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:41,800
Speaker 4: When we got inside, half of the girls in the

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01:35:41,840 --> 01:35:44,519
Speaker 4: group immediately started talking to my best friend about the

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01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:47,360
Speaker 4: good looking guys in the car and whether those were

1908
01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:50,760
Speaker 4: the hot men she was talking about, you know, low key,

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01:35:50,920 --> 01:35:52,840
Speaker 4: I feel like this is just a case where like

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01:35:52,840 --> 01:35:54,880
Speaker 4: Opie's just kind of like it sucks you have hot

1911
01:35:54,920 --> 01:35:58,240
Speaker 4: brothers and like your friends are gonna like talk about

1912
01:35:58,280 --> 01:35:59,120
Speaker 4: how your brothers are hot.

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01:35:59,320 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:36:00,040 --> 01:36:01,360
Speaker 4: I had a friend in high school who had a

1915
01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:04,400
Speaker 4: hot mom. All we did was talk about how hot

1916
01:36:04,400 --> 01:36:06,640
Speaker 4: his mom was. That's real tough, and he had to

1917
01:36:06,680 --> 01:36:09,320
Speaker 4: live with that. That was the burden he had to bear.

1918
01:36:10,280 --> 01:36:12,639
Speaker 2: I'd rather have hot brothers than a hot mom like that, dude.

1919
01:36:12,840 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 4: Definitely, yeah, I think that's I think hot brothers might

1920
01:36:17,000 --> 01:36:17,760
Speaker 4: be easier.

1921
01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:20,639
Speaker 1: Than oh except except hot brothers, as you, Riley, all

1922
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:21,840
Speaker 1: the girls would pick them over you.

1923
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 2: It's happened. Oh it has kind of happened. Oh no,

1924
01:36:27,880 --> 01:36:34,040
Speaker 2: oh no, oh just once or twice. Not everyone in

1925
01:36:34,080 --> 01:36:34,479
Speaker 2: the chat.

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01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:38,600
Speaker 4: We do like Riley, even though we I guess just

1927
01:36:38,640 --> 01:36:39,360
Speaker 4: clowned on him for.

1928
01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:45,240
Speaker 3: Oh, excuse me, I'm mispronouncing the name m b k

1929
01:36:45,600 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 3: or something.

1930
01:36:46,120 --> 01:36:50,320
Speaker 1: Said far as much tar as Riley as dog John

1931
01:36:50,400 --> 01:36:51,400
Speaker 1: about being old.

1932
01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:54,720
Speaker 3: He deserves.

1933
01:36:55,439 --> 01:36:58,000
Speaker 1: Okay, break him for as many times as Riley's dog

1934
01:36:58,080 --> 01:36:58,880
Speaker 1: John for being old.

1935
01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:02,200
Speaker 3: I think that was completely just a fine Breek king

1936
01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:02,920
Speaker 3: speaking facts.

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01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:09,200
Speaker 4: Boom, big facts, big big fags in the Chicks Big Chat.

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01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 3: Thanks for kimming.

1939
01:37:10,920 --> 01:37:14,680
Speaker 4: So anyways, so she gets in there starting and all

1940
01:37:14,680 --> 01:37:16,800
Speaker 4: her friends are asking about are those the hot men

1941
01:37:17,600 --> 01:37:21,000
Speaker 4: that you've been talking about? I snapped and yelled, those

1942
01:37:21,040 --> 01:37:23,880
Speaker 4: are my brothers, and I swear to God Friend's name,

1943
01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 4: if you don't stop using my life to get petty clout,

1944
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:30,400
Speaker 4: I'm cutting you off. Quit living your fantasy through me.

1945
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:35,200
Speaker 4: Do it somewhere else. And I left, which I feel

1946
01:37:35,240 --> 01:37:37,200
Speaker 4: like was really harsh and probably could have waited until

1947
01:37:37,240 --> 01:37:41,280
Speaker 4: we were in private. Yeah, but you're seventeen, so you

1948
01:37:41,360 --> 01:37:44,960
Speaker 4: know fair enough. That's the very seventeen year old thing.

1949
01:37:44,960 --> 01:37:46,120
Speaker 3: To do, to be like this is true.

1950
01:37:46,200 --> 01:37:48,760
Speaker 4: Those are actually all my hot brothers, and you need

1951
01:37:48,840 --> 01:37:52,559
Speaker 4: to stop talking about how hot they are because it's annoying. Yep,

1952
01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:55,120
Speaker 4: and it's I don't think she's trying to get cloud

1953
01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:58,679
Speaker 4: I mean, is she cloudy. I don't think it's about clout.

1954
01:37:58,800 --> 01:38:01,479
Speaker 4: I think it's more about the fantasy of like, oh

1955
01:38:01,600 --> 01:38:04,080
Speaker 4: you're hot, brows like.

1956
01:38:04,520 --> 01:38:05,720
Speaker 3: They talk way they talk.

1957
01:38:06,040 --> 01:38:09,120
Speaker 4: It's just girl stuff right back me up? Girls in

1958
01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:11,920
Speaker 4: the chat? Is this just girl stuff? I never did

1959
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:12,599
Speaker 4: girl stuff.

1960
01:38:15,400 --> 01:38:16,280
Speaker 2: I get help.

1961
01:38:16,720 --> 01:38:17,080
Speaker 3: Sorry.

1962
01:38:18,840 --> 01:38:18,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

1963
01:38:20,240 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 4: She called me out later or she called me later

1964
01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:26,040
Speaker 4: to tell me she wanted space from our friendship because

1965
01:38:26,040 --> 01:38:29,880
Speaker 4: I was becoming jealous, needy and controlling ever since she

1966
01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:34,000
Speaker 4: got close with my brothers, which isn't even remotely true.

1967
01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:36,120
Speaker 4: All of my brothers so far I have told me

1968
01:38:36,240 --> 01:38:38,400
Speaker 4: to just stop being friends with her. But she's been

1969
01:38:38,439 --> 01:38:40,200
Speaker 4: really important in my life for a long time, and

1970
01:38:40,280 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 4: I don't want to ruin what we have. But at

1971
01:38:42,520 --> 01:38:44,360
Speaker 4: the same time, I don't want to keep letting her

1972
01:38:44,520 --> 01:38:45,960
Speaker 4: use my life for her fantasy.

1973
01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:47,080
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

1974
01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:50,479
Speaker 4: I mean, first of all, I don't think you should

1975
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:53,439
Speaker 4: let your brothers determine. Of course, your brother's gonna be like, yeah,

1976
01:38:53,760 --> 01:38:56,599
Speaker 4: that girl's weird to like stop hanging out with her, which.

1977
01:38:56,479 --> 01:38:59,720
Speaker 3: Which mate, maybe is how they is that it?

1978
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:03,880
Speaker 4: But I don't know who knows, uh, I mean, I

1979
01:39:04,000 --> 01:39:06,960
Speaker 4: don't think you're I think maybe you could have handled

1980
01:39:06,960 --> 01:39:10,160
Speaker 4: it better. But like, I don't know, I think maybe

1981
01:39:10,200 --> 01:39:12,880
Speaker 4: instead of cutting this person off, you should just do

1982
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:17,280
Speaker 4: another annoying thing back at them, seeing as you're seventeen

1983
01:39:17,400 --> 01:39:18,160
Speaker 4: and you've known each other.

1984
01:39:18,240 --> 01:39:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, until like.

1985
01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:23,439
Speaker 1: We're going back to high school mentality, like Okay, how

1986
01:39:23,520 --> 01:39:25,360
Speaker 1: can I piss them off worse than they pissed me?

1987
01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:25,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1988
01:39:26,000 --> 01:39:27,840
Speaker 4: And then maybe like once they get annoyed, you can

1989
01:39:27,880 --> 01:39:29,439
Speaker 4: be like, see, this is what it feels like to

1990
01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:33,000
Speaker 4: be annoyed. You annoy me when you make fantasies about

1991
01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 4: like being in a weird love triangle with my brothers,

1992
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:40,320
Speaker 4: Like just can you can you not do that? Can

1993
01:39:40,360 --> 01:39:46,080
Speaker 4: you make them other people at least? And there is

1994
01:39:46,120 --> 01:39:48,080
Speaker 4: a part too, oh but like I mean, what do

1995
01:39:48,160 --> 01:39:49,360
Speaker 4: you think do you think she's being?

1996
01:39:54,160 --> 01:39:54,200
Speaker 6: No?

1997
01:39:54,520 --> 01:39:58,280
Speaker 1: I feel I like it's it's it's uh yeash she

1998
01:39:58,400 --> 01:40:00,720
Speaker 1: had like wetter rapper. She'd be like, hey, didn't mean

1999
01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:03,120
Speaker 1: to like blow up like that or whatever, but like,

2000
01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:04,920
Speaker 1: can you just stop?

2001
01:40:05,720 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 3: Can you just stop? Because this this is too crazy?

2002
01:40:09,000 --> 01:40:12,960
Speaker 4: Talk about how hot her dad is ooh constantly.

2003
01:40:13,840 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, your dad, Your dad does bee stuff. Your dad

2004
01:40:16,560 --> 01:40:20,880
Speaker 2: has bees. That's so interesting and hot. Come on, come on,

2005
01:40:20,920 --> 01:40:22,280
Speaker 2: come on, come on, come on to Cody. You know

2006
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:23,160
Speaker 2: where I'm getting this from.

2007
01:40:23,240 --> 01:40:23,600
Speaker 4: I do know.

2008
01:40:23,640 --> 01:40:26,280
Speaker 2: I do know where you're getting that from. It's from Brigamorny.

2009
01:40:26,400 --> 01:40:29,160
Speaker 4: I will not repeat. I will not repeat where it's from.

2010
01:40:29,880 --> 01:40:34,360
Speaker 4: As justin Royland broke my heart by being a bad person. Also,

2011
01:40:34,720 --> 01:40:37,320
Speaker 4: uh wait, that was an important one. Don't drive these

2012
01:40:37,360 --> 01:40:39,719
Speaker 4: blank don't use heat in these blankets. It's air fluff,

2013
01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 4: air fluff the blankets. It will kill the blankets if

2014
01:40:42,439 --> 01:40:44,680
Speaker 4: you drive them with heat. Yep, just put them in

2015
01:40:44,720 --> 01:40:50,000
Speaker 4: the air fluff cycle air fluff. Don't put the blankets

2016
01:40:50,400 --> 01:40:53,080
Speaker 4: in the dryer on heat like people did.

2017
01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:59,160
Speaker 2: With my hamster. What that's a story for another time.

2018
01:40:59,360 --> 01:40:59,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2019
01:41:00,160 --> 01:41:02,280
Speaker 2: Anyways, that's crazy, but we'll get there.

2020
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:10,799
Speaker 4: What was his name, gurbl Gerbil the hamster. Yeah, okay,

2021
01:41:14,360 --> 01:41:14,960
Speaker 4: probably just.

2022
01:41:15,080 --> 01:41:26,840
Speaker 3: Read it wrong. I'm going crazy today.

2023
01:41:31,560 --> 01:41:35,640
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, he just he just he just it's just

2024
01:41:35,880 --> 01:41:42,599
Speaker 4: mistake anyone with dyslexia. Oh okay, so here's the update.

2025
01:41:42,720 --> 01:41:43,080
Speaker 3: There we go.

2026
01:41:44,400 --> 01:41:52,160
Speaker 2: Wow, first, I haven't got all just hard in a minute.

2027
01:41:53,560 --> 01:41:58,560
Speaker 2: I don't think ever on this podcast. Hi everyone, I

2028
01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:00,640
Speaker 2: have a small update for those you'd like to hear it.

2029
01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 4: And I'd also like to say thank you for all

2030
01:42:02,439 --> 01:42:05,120
Speaker 4: the people who gave me advice and opinions. So the

2031
01:42:05,200 --> 01:42:07,640
Speaker 4: first thing I did was have a proper talk with

2032
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:10,880
Speaker 4: my brothers about everything that's been going on. I showed

2033
01:42:10,920 --> 01:42:12,880
Speaker 4: them the post and all the comments I received, and

2034
01:42:12,960 --> 01:42:15,240
Speaker 4: they took a minute to read them before speaking. One

2035
01:42:15,320 --> 01:42:19,000
Speaker 4: of my brothers, Sam, assured me that they had never

2036
01:42:19,080 --> 01:42:23,519
Speaker 4: been flirty, romantically interested, or smexual with my friend at

2037
01:42:23,520 --> 01:42:25,920
Speaker 4: any point in time. There was never a time when

2038
01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:27,760
Speaker 4: any of them were alone with her for more than

2039
01:42:27,760 --> 01:42:30,920
Speaker 4: a minute not gonna lie. That made everything way easier

2040
01:42:30,920 --> 01:42:32,400
Speaker 4: because I was terrified one of them was going to

2041
01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:35,120
Speaker 4: admit to having done something with her. We also talked

2042
01:42:35,120 --> 01:42:39,120
Speaker 4: about her recent behaviors. I told them about what she'd

2043
01:42:39,160 --> 01:42:40,800
Speaker 4: been saying, and then Sam spoke up.

2044
01:42:42,280 --> 01:42:43,040
Speaker 2: He said.

2045
01:42:44,320 --> 01:42:47,040
Speaker 4: That in the past they had heard my friend intentionally

2046
01:42:47,160 --> 01:42:51,160
Speaker 4: telling people strange things about me in order to make

2047
01:42:51,240 --> 01:42:54,600
Speaker 4: it seem like I wasn't a person you'd want friends with.

2048
01:42:55,040 --> 01:42:58,120
Speaker 4: Oh snake in the grass.

2049
01:43:00,200 --> 01:43:00,519
Speaker 2: Hmmm.

2050
01:43:01,600 --> 01:43:05,200
Speaker 4: They'd overhear these conversations at my house when I wasn't

2051
01:43:05,240 --> 01:43:08,120
Speaker 4: around or doing something and she was waiting for me.

2052
01:43:08,600 --> 01:43:12,400
Speaker 4: Things like she's still clinging, or she's controlling to or

2053
01:43:12,560 --> 01:43:14,040
Speaker 4: even to even telling people.

2054
01:43:14,160 --> 01:43:19,280
Speaker 2: That I'd slept with one of my brothers. This girl is.

2055
01:43:21,120 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 4: Is attention seeking in the clear.

2056
01:43:24,080 --> 01:43:28,599
Speaker 2: Button clear button, and she's seventeen and she has older brothers,

2057
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:32,320
Speaker 2: so like she could be like spreading like lies, getting

2058
01:43:32,360 --> 01:43:33,120
Speaker 2: someone in trouble.

2059
01:43:33,320 --> 01:43:36,280
Speaker 3: I mean, dude, it's already like insane.

2060
01:43:36,840 --> 01:43:44,360
Speaker 4: Yes, some cringe live journal type behavior. Oh god, yeah,

2061
01:43:44,600 --> 01:43:49,400
Speaker 4: secret tumbler type behavior. Yeah, so that hurt a lot.

2062
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:53,639
Speaker 4: You guys are right, she had been isolating me from people,

2063
01:43:54,160 --> 01:43:59,840
Speaker 4: which I didn't even consider that, but yeah, definitely that's

2064
01:44:00,320 --> 01:44:03,000
Speaker 4: like the case. If she's saying all that stuff, she's

2065
01:44:03,040 --> 01:44:08,000
Speaker 4: definitely not trying to get you more friends. After our talk,

2066
01:44:08,080 --> 01:44:09,680
Speaker 4: I needed to get some air, so I went for

2067
01:44:09,760 --> 01:44:12,639
Speaker 4: a walk. My friend ended up calling me and I answered,

2068
01:44:12,920 --> 01:44:15,479
Speaker 4: I know, stupid, but I was hurt and I wanted

2069
01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:18,200
Speaker 4: to know if she had really done those things. Conversation

2070
01:44:19,720 --> 01:44:21,560
Speaker 4: like this, do you want to do?

2071
01:44:22,160 --> 01:44:23,640
Speaker 3: Pund response, Oh yeah, let's do it.

2072
01:44:23,720 --> 01:44:25,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll be her and then you.

2073
01:44:25,280 --> 01:44:27,479
Speaker 4: Be me her.

2074
01:44:28,320 --> 01:44:29,479
Speaker 2: Listen my name.

2075
01:44:29,720 --> 01:44:31,719
Speaker 4: We've been friends for a long time and I don't

2076
01:44:31,720 --> 01:44:34,679
Speaker 4: want to hurt you, but this friendship has become really.

2077
01:44:34,600 --> 01:44:39,280
Speaker 3: Tucksat uh are you serious? Like I know what you've

2078
01:44:39,280 --> 01:44:40,000
Speaker 3: been saying about me.

2079
01:44:40,280 --> 01:44:42,559
Speaker 1: You're a liar and a creep, and the only toxic

2080
01:44:42,640 --> 01:44:45,720
Speaker 1: thing and the only toxic thing about in this friendship.

2081
01:44:45,520 --> 01:44:46,880
Speaker 2: Is you her.

2082
01:44:47,760 --> 01:44:51,760
Speaker 4: I've a literally never line in my life have so

2083
01:44:52,280 --> 01:44:54,519
Speaker 4: I don't know what you think I've set her on,

2084
01:44:54,920 --> 01:44:55,599
Speaker 4: but you're wrong.

2085
01:44:56,280 --> 01:44:57,559
Speaker 2: It's not my fault. Paper.

2086
01:44:57,560 --> 01:45:00,639
Speaker 4: I don't want to be your friend because are where

2087
01:45:00,680 --> 01:45:05,960
Speaker 4: do you literally told people that you're dating my brothers and.

2088
01:45:06,120 --> 01:45:07,479
Speaker 3: That's a grosson really messed up.

2089
01:45:08,200 --> 01:45:10,759
Speaker 4: That's say, this is what I mean. You aren't acting

2090
01:45:10,840 --> 01:45:13,639
Speaker 4: like yourself anymore. I feel like ever since we got older,

2091
01:45:13,880 --> 01:45:16,679
Speaker 4: you started to become obsessed with at Timeshatten. I don't

2092
01:45:16,760 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 4: like this version of you. Oh it's not my best friend.

2093
01:45:21,200 --> 01:45:21,479
Speaker 2: Click.

2094
01:45:22,120 --> 01:45:25,599
Speaker 4: I hung up after that, and now I feel like poop.

2095
01:45:26,439 --> 01:45:29,439
Speaker 4: She was my best friend. I have no idea what

2096
01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:31,519
Speaker 4: to do next, because she hasn't stopped blowing up my

2097
01:45:31,560 --> 01:45:34,080
Speaker 4: phone since the call. I want a blocker, but I just.

2098
01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:34,800
Speaker 2: Can't do it.

2099
01:45:35,160 --> 01:45:37,920
Speaker 4: I feel like an absolute failure. So yeah, that's where

2100
01:45:37,920 --> 01:45:39,760
Speaker 4: I'm at right now. I don't have a clue what

2101
01:45:39,880 --> 01:45:42,040
Speaker 4: I'm going to do next. I want to tell her parents,

2102
01:45:42,120 --> 01:45:45,040
Speaker 4: but what would I even say? Your daughter's edists and

2103
01:45:45,080 --> 01:45:49,519
Speaker 4: my brothers. I literally have no evidence whatsoever, and I

2104
01:45:49,680 --> 01:45:51,960
Speaker 4: don't know what she's told them about me.

2105
01:45:52,240 --> 01:45:52,720
Speaker 2: Who knows.

2106
01:45:53,120 --> 01:45:55,840
Speaker 4: Any advice would be appreciated since my brain isn't working

2107
01:45:55,920 --> 01:45:57,840
Speaker 4: right now and all I've been doing is crying. And

2108
01:45:57,880 --> 01:46:04,559
Speaker 4: there's a part three diving right into part three. Also,

2109
01:46:04,600 --> 01:46:06,960
Speaker 4: I want to just really quickly say that my voice

2110
01:46:07,160 --> 01:46:12,519
Speaker 4: was Lumpy Princess impression Lumpy Space Princess from Adventure Time.

2111
01:46:14,280 --> 01:46:16,519
Speaker 2: And that's all I wanted to say.

2112
01:46:17,880 --> 01:46:18,960
Speaker 3: Congratulations.

2113
01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:24,000
Speaker 4: Okay, so hi me again. I don't actually know if

2114
01:46:24,000 --> 01:46:28,120
Speaker 4: anyone's still interested in what's happening. We definitely are, but

2115
01:46:28,400 --> 01:46:30,600
Speaker 4: I thought i'd update just for those who followed me.

2116
01:46:30,920 --> 01:46:33,320
Speaker 4: Long story short, I took your advice. I called my

2117
01:46:33,479 --> 01:46:36,360
Speaker 4: ex friend and told her the following I don't want

2118
01:46:36,400 --> 01:46:39,880
Speaker 4: you in my life anymore, and that was it. I

2119
01:46:40,000 --> 01:46:42,920
Speaker 4: know some people told me to set her reputation on fire,

2120
01:46:43,000 --> 01:46:47,240
Speaker 4: because why not, it's a good old teenage years yay,

2121
01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:50,640
Speaker 4: But I feel like that would do more harm than

2122
01:46:50,680 --> 01:46:55,280
Speaker 4: good and we love that and if she ever does

2123
01:46:55,560 --> 01:46:57,719
Speaker 4: grow up, I'm sure she doesn't want this whole drama

2124
01:46:57,800 --> 01:47:00,479
Speaker 4: fest to be tied to her forever. The first few

2125
01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:03,439
Speaker 4: days after that phone call were hectic. I couldn't stop crying,

2126
01:47:03,760 --> 01:47:06,519
Speaker 4: which made me feel pathetic, and I overall just felt lost.

2127
01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:09,240
Speaker 4: Hadn't really made friends at school. Most people think of

2128
01:47:09,280 --> 01:47:11,000
Speaker 4: me as a weirdo who dropped her best friend of

2129
01:47:11,040 --> 01:47:13,559
Speaker 4: ten years because she was jealous of her own brothers.

2130
01:47:14,160 --> 01:47:16,160
Speaker 4: So I guess lunch in the bathrooms from now on.

2131
01:47:17,640 --> 01:47:20,760
Speaker 4: But you know, you can tune in to our live

2132
01:47:20,840 --> 01:47:24,160
Speaker 4: stream anywhere, including the bathroom as long as you have

2133
01:47:24,200 --> 01:47:29,439
Speaker 4: an Internet connection. Every weekday at three pm Pacific standard time,

2134
01:47:29,479 --> 01:47:34,759
Speaker 4: you just tap our profile n nice work, sir, Yep, smooth,

2135
01:47:34,880 --> 01:47:38,280
Speaker 4: smooth silk over here. I also got calls from my

2136
01:47:38,360 --> 01:47:41,160
Speaker 4: ex friend's sister who called me some names and ranted

2137
01:47:41,200 --> 01:47:45,400
Speaker 4: about my brothers loved ex friend so much and that

2138
01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:48,479
Speaker 4: I was such a cow for separating them. So I

2139
01:47:48,560 --> 01:47:52,080
Speaker 4: guess she's sticking to her story. God guess her sister's

2140
01:47:52,080 --> 01:47:55,320
Speaker 4: also a fan of the fan fix, So yeah, that's

2141
01:47:55,400 --> 01:47:57,920
Speaker 4: kind of it. I'm just spending time with myself and

2142
01:47:58,160 --> 01:48:00,360
Speaker 4: my bed. I don't know if I'll update again, but

2143
01:48:00,479 --> 01:48:04,120
Speaker 4: for now, that's it. Thanks again everyone, and that is.

2144
01:48:04,160 --> 01:48:05,160
Speaker 2: The end of that story.

2145
01:48:05,320 --> 01:48:06,000
Speaker 3: Time will pass.

2146
01:48:06,320 --> 01:48:09,080
Speaker 1: It sucks, but honestly, going to college soon, you are

2147
01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:10,320
Speaker 1: like graduating high school.

2148
01:48:10,439 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 4: Like yeah, it feels like.

2149
01:48:11,520 --> 01:48:13,439
Speaker 3: A trillion years, but it does.

2150
01:48:13,960 --> 01:48:15,360
Speaker 2: And I remember when I was in high school.

2151
01:48:15,360 --> 01:48:19,000
Speaker 4: It's like I've I've still you know, I've kept in

2152
01:48:19,280 --> 01:48:20,960
Speaker 4: like lose contact with some people that I went to

2153
01:48:21,080 --> 01:48:21,560
Speaker 4: high school with.

2154
01:48:21,640 --> 01:48:23,760
Speaker 2: But like I remember.

2155
01:48:25,000 --> 01:48:27,479
Speaker 4: Like graduating and being like, oh my god, like you know,

2156
01:48:27,600 --> 01:48:30,519
Speaker 4: we're everyone's gonna stay together, Like we're all gonna be friends,

2157
01:48:30,520 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 4: We're gonna text each other every day, like even though

2158
01:48:32,479 --> 01:48:33,479
Speaker 4: world it's like and it's.

2159
01:48:33,360 --> 01:48:35,200
Speaker 2: Like, that's just kind of not what happened.

2160
01:48:35,280 --> 01:48:40,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, you naturally will lose contact with most people, I

2161
01:48:40,520 --> 01:48:44,800
Speaker 4: feel like in your high school sort of life, just

2162
01:48:45,000 --> 01:48:47,960
Speaker 4: over time. And it's I had still some like I

2163
01:48:48,000 --> 01:48:49,439
Speaker 4: have some people that i'd love to hang out with.

2164
01:48:49,560 --> 01:48:51,120
Speaker 4: I mean, like I hate but I haven't seen them

2165
01:48:51,160 --> 01:48:52,160
Speaker 4: in six years.

2166
01:48:53,040 --> 01:48:55,760
Speaker 2: But that's just what happens. And you don't know it.

2167
01:48:56,000 --> 01:48:58,679
Speaker 2: You don't know what happens when it happens. Everybody.

2168
01:48:58,720 --> 01:49:04,280
Speaker 4: I remember thinking this and realizing, like dang, Like there

2169
01:49:04,479 --> 01:49:06,439
Speaker 4: was a time when I was hanging out with my

2170
01:49:06,600 --> 01:49:10,040
Speaker 4: group of friends for the last time, when we were

2171
01:49:10,120 --> 01:49:13,719
Speaker 4: all together in the same room, in the same moment,

2172
01:49:14,640 --> 01:49:16,599
Speaker 4: and it was the last time it was gonna happen.

2173
01:49:16,880 --> 01:49:19,559
Speaker 4: And I didn't know, and nobody else in the room

2174
01:49:19,600 --> 01:49:22,720
Speaker 4: knew either, But that was the last time had it

2175
01:49:22,920 --> 01:49:23,439
Speaker 4: ever happened?

2176
01:49:23,479 --> 01:49:25,519
Speaker 2: Why are you making this sad? Dude? It doesn't have

2177
01:49:25,600 --> 01:49:27,680
Speaker 2: to be sad. It's just it's good. It's better to

2178
01:49:27,840 --> 01:49:29,479
Speaker 2: know about that, I feel.

2179
01:49:29,720 --> 01:49:31,320
Speaker 4: You know, if I would have known that, I would

2180
01:49:31,320 --> 01:49:33,600
Speaker 4: have cherished, like all I mean, cherish your time with

2181
01:49:33,680 --> 01:49:36,160
Speaker 4: your friends always right, this is true. Just know that

2182
01:49:36,280 --> 01:49:38,200
Speaker 4: it's like, you know, especially with high school, it's like

2183
01:49:38,360 --> 01:49:39,760
Speaker 4: there will come a time where y'all will not be.

2184
01:49:39,760 --> 01:49:41,439
Speaker 2: Hanging out well, you know, Dakota.

2185
01:49:42,439 --> 01:49:46,200
Speaker 1: All good things actually must come to an end, including

2186
01:49:46,280 --> 01:49:51,120
Speaker 1: this stream like this stream, guys, if you love us, Oh,

2187
01:49:51,200 --> 01:49:52,000
Speaker 1: do we have any knownice?

2188
01:49:52,400 --> 01:49:52,559
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2189
01:49:52,640 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 4: Do we? We do, Shana, so I'd love you and

2190
01:49:56,880 --> 01:50:00,680
Speaker 4: see you tomorrow, Shauna with a shaw n we love

2191
01:50:00,760 --> 01:50:03,479
Speaker 4: that a And then that is it.

2192
01:50:03,640 --> 01:50:06,320
Speaker 3: I love you all right. If you love us, make

2193
01:50:06,360 --> 01:50:10,840
Speaker 3: sure to subscribe. We love you and see you tomorrow.