WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: It’s a Dog-gone Shame

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I don't know how many

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<v Speaker 1>times I've been out looking for a new pair of

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<v Speaker 1>pants at my favorite store, Hot Topic, And after the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that's working there measures my in seam, she's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go out? It happens so often, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened today. In our second date update, Ramona

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<v Speaker 1>apparently works in the mall and she met a dude

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<v Speaker 1>while he was shopping for some pants. I'm guessing it

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<v Speaker 1>went down exactly how it always goes down when I

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<v Speaker 1>lived for pants, right, Ramona, Okay, I did not measure

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<v Speaker 1>his in team. Okay, whatever. Tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy that you want to call today. What's

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<v Speaker 1>his name? His name is John John and your email

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<v Speaker 1>said that you met him while he was shopping in

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<v Speaker 1>your store at the mall. Yeah, and he was shopping

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<v Speaker 1>for pants. But I didn't measure him. Did you hit

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<v Speaker 1>on hammer? Did he hit on you? I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>had you hit on him. He's really shy, which I liked.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. He was like, clearly he had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what he was doing. He does not shop for himself.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even know what size he was, so he

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<v Speaker 1>needed like a lot of help, and that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. And I mean I saw attracted to him

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<v Speaker 1>right away, But what attracted you to him right away? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's really good looking, so there's that. And I liked

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<v Speaker 1>the way that he didn't hit on me. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>used guys coming in there, and I must get hit on,

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty five times a day in that store, And

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<v Speaker 1>like he was really there to buy pants, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of got it. You actually just want clothes is

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<v Speaker 1>so weird? Get out of my store out? Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it. You sound like he still really like him.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of really like it. Yeah, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>ask him out? I didn't ask him out? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept trying to get his attention. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just kept dropping hints. What kind of hints we know?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I would say, oh no, those aren't good, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you try to sea? And I would pick the

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<v Speaker 1>ones on the bottom shelf on purpose, so I would

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<v Speaker 1>have to bend deliver to I knew it. And I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that every single time a girl bends down to

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<v Speaker 1>pick up something, she's trying to taunt me, contempt me

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<v Speaker 1>with her backside. I knew it. No, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>might be true. A girl is not trying to taunt you,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll probably squad. Did he pick up on your signals?

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<v Speaker 1>He went to check out, and when he was leaving already,

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of went up to him and I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you got those. And I took the receipt

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<v Speaker 1>out of the bag and I wrote my number on

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<v Speaker 1>it and I could you know, if you have any

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<v Speaker 1>problems with the pants, here's my personal number. You can

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<v Speaker 1>always call me. Right. That's a good that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine that though, if he calls you and he really

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<v Speaker 1>does actually just have a problem with the pants, You're

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<v Speaker 1>all excited when you pick up the phone, be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, it's him and he's like, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>remember those pants, And there's a little fretting on the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Could I bring him back in? And then, knowing me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably fall from him a hard Yeah? Right, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. He still doesn't like me, so obviously he

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<v Speaker 1>used the phone number. Did he just call you right

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<v Speaker 1>away or text you right away and ask you out? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>He texted me like a few hours later, like do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to have a drink after work? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I'm off in like half hour. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, you were freaking out, weren't you. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>kind of, but I was also kind of happy that

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<v Speaker 1>it was like right then and I didn't have time

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<v Speaker 1>to freak out. Really it was it made me feel

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<v Speaker 1>relaxed that we were going like right away. So did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go to the food court? Then you work

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<v Speaker 1>in a mall? Where'd you guys meet up for drinks? No?

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<v Speaker 1>We did. We left and we went across the way

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<v Speaker 1>to a restaurant and bar. It was like happy hour

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<v Speaker 1>coming up, so we sat and we talked for like

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<v Speaker 1>a half hour until happy hour hit, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>just got some drinks and it was so fun. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, he totally loosened up after I got a

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<v Speaker 1>drink in him. Really, he was like chit, chattie. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked about like everything. It was so nice, like I

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<v Speaker 1>had such a good time, And how did your date

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<v Speaker 1>end with him? Okay, this is where it gets a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird and I don't know what happened, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been well, okay, I'll just tell you. So after about

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and a half and we had had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of drinks and I really thought we were having fun,

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<v Speaker 1>he says, So I'm having a really good time and

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to do this, but I really got to

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<v Speaker 1>go because I got to get up early for work

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Okay, and it was six thirty at night.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean right, It's not like it was

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<v Speaker 1>nine thirty or ten thirty, because even then I would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought, okay, that's a little early, but sick thirty. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe he knew, like if you guys continue to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out like it's more drinks, you know, it does

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<v Speaker 1>end up being a long night. Yeah, but if I

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<v Speaker 1>would have done it, like if he liked me, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>he have well whatever, And then he gives me a

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<v Speaker 1>hug goodbye, no kiss, just a hug. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>got home and I texted him I had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time and he responded immediately like me too. So

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<v Speaker 1>great to meet you. And I was like, great, we

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<v Speaker 1>should do this again and his response was like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to. And then I never heard from him

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<v Speaker 1>again and that was it, and that was it. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was four days ago. So yesterday I text him, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are the pants? Because I thought it would be

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<v Speaker 1>funny or whatever, and I thought maybe it would make

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<v Speaker 1>him response nothing, not one, and so now I'm embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>at I even since sat pet and I'm like racking

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<v Speaker 1>my brain, like did I talk too much? Or like

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<v Speaker 1>did I say something dumb? Like I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm like, I mean, he asked me out,

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<v Speaker 1>so he left the way. We spent a little time

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<v Speaker 1>together in the store. So it's not the way I look,

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<v Speaker 1>not the way it smells, not you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you really thought this out. There's a lot of scenarios

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<v Speaker 1>playing out in your head right now. Days a million

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<v Speaker 1>miles an hour. We'll play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>him and get your second day update. All right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you in the morning if you're just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for the second date update. Ramona is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us, and today she wants to call a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named John. They met at the mall she works there.

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<v Speaker 1>He came into her store to buy some pants and

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<v Speaker 1>then she slid him her number and he texted her

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<v Speaker 1>later and they had a happy hour together. It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the date ended and he's not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>So her happy hour has turned into sadness hour. Where

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<v Speaker 1>you go out and from five to seven at a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>they serve you nothing but empty glasses, no beverages to enjoy,

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<v Speaker 1>empty plates where appetizers should be, just a napkin, and sadness.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sadness hour for Ramona right now. But we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call John and hopefully get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if there's a chance to salvage what they

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<v Speaker 1>once had. Ramona, are you ready to see if you

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<v Speaker 1>can get your happy hour back? I am? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>tired of sadness hour? I am tired sadness hour. We're

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<v Speaker 1>about to dial a phone of her right now and

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<v Speaker 1>see what went wrong again. Ramona has no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>could have gone wrong. On the date she said, everything

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be fine. The weird thing was at about

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<v Speaker 1>six thirty, after happy hour was over, he said he

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<v Speaker 1>had to leave so he could get up early for work,

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<v Speaker 1>and then hasn't talked to a really sense, not a word.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's going to be that bad. I

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<v Speaker 1>have hoped for you. It's only been four days. He

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<v Speaker 1>could just have been busy or lost his phone or

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<v Speaker 1>something stupid. I'm book from your mouth to dig years

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<v Speaker 1>all right here, I go now the phone of her

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<v Speaker 1>right now and get him on the phone. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to John. Please, speaker John. How are you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Wow. I okay, it's nice to

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<v Speaker 1>meet you. Yeah. Yeah, nice to meet you too. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? I'm actually calling you because one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners recently sent in an email and asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get you on the phone to ask

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<v Speaker 1>a few questions about something. Huh. Her name is Ramona

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<v Speaker 1>and you met her at the mall. Oh boy? Wow? Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember meeting Ramona. Okay, do you remember going to

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour with her after? Yeah? Okay, Well, Ramona sent

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<v Speaker 1>us an email telling us about how she met you

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<v Speaker 1>and how she really enjoyed happy Hour with you. But

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<v Speaker 1>since then, you haven't texted or called her back, so

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<v Speaker 1>she was wondering if we could get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out if something went wrong during happy

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<v Speaker 1>Hour or if there's a reason why you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back. She's a really nice girl. She's pretty attractive too.

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<v Speaker 1>Um oh, that's a good review. Pretty, she's pretty attractive

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<v Speaker 1>for me. She's on the okay scale. I mean she is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just don't want to say anything bad

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<v Speaker 1>about her behind her back, you know. Okay, so there

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<v Speaker 1>is a reason that you're not calling her back, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>there's okay. Well here's how it works. So she emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us because she want us to call you and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why you're not calling her back. So you're really

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<v Speaker 1>not talking behind her back. If you could just tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what the reason is so that we can, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go back to her and say, hey, this is what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just hate the feeling that like

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<v Speaker 1>I might be saying something about her behind her back.

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<v Speaker 1>But now, trust me, trust me, you're not saying anything

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<v Speaker 1>about her behind her back, I promise. Okay. Um, So

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking, we're we're having some drinks, we're paving a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good time, and somewhere in the middle of it,

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<v Speaker 1>I got this this red flag and it just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of made me skeptical, and so I kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>decided against the whole thing. Okay, Well what was the

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<v Speaker 1>red flag? So we were talking and I just happened

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up the topic of pets. I asked her

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<v Speaker 1>if she had an any any pets, and she says, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's got a dog, named I think Chloe like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh cool, cool, right on, and then she says, yeahnah

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<v Speaker 1>and a son in law Clifton. Did you say a

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<v Speaker 1>sound in law? Yeah, yeah, exactly, like stay with me,

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<v Speaker 1>stay with me. Yeah, I'm confused, she says, son in law.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I thought her. I was like, well, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of just asking about, you know, pets.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no no, uh, Clifton's my dog, Like wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said that Clifton was your son in law.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes, he is, And so she pulls out her phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought she was just gonna show me pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of the dog, but she shows me his picture the

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<v Speaker 1>dogs in a tuxedo with the bow and the tails

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. And she's showing me pictures of her dog's

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<v Speaker 1>wedding to another dog. So she has her dog that's

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<v Speaker 1>married to another dog, and she calls that dog her

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<v Speaker 1>son in law. Yes, and she and she shows she's

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<v Speaker 1>scrolling through. She's showing me pictures of like this dog's

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<v Speaker 1>wedding cake, like they had a whole elaborate wedding for it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like wait, like nobody does this, you know, And and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a huge red flag, like I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of west. Hey, that's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of weird. I'll give you that, But why

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<v Speaker 1>is that a reason to not give her a second

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<v Speaker 1>chance at a date or maybe the type of person

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<v Speaker 1>that would arrange a dog wedding? Point taking, point take,

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<v Speaker 1>and John, I, I guess I can understand where you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a little bit. Yeah, I really didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>we would be a very good match. So don't you

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<v Speaker 1>think that she was just using it as like a

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<v Speaker 1>fun excuse to have a silly party. Though, I don't know, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>the pictures look pretty serious. I've seen wedding pictures that

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<v Speaker 1>look kind of like these dog pictures look. And I

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<v Speaker 1>mean seriously, she referred to her dog as her son

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<v Speaker 1>in law. Yeah, I should also tell you, John that

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<v Speaker 1>she's actually on the line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Hi John, Hi Ramona. Okay, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like he's really my son in law. He's

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<v Speaker 1>my dog in law. I just call him my son

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<v Speaker 1>in law like I call Chloe my daughter. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm crazy. It's not like I think he's a person.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he's a dog. I just love him like

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<v Speaker 1>a sin Oh boy, I just can't believe it's such

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal to you, and I can't believe you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't talk to me about it. I mean, tons of

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<v Speaker 1>people do it. It's all over the place work. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that uncommon. Our dog weddings common, Ramona. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to three weddings. Have isn't your own dog

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<v Speaker 1>like getting divorced and getting remarried or is it three

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<v Speaker 1>different dogs. I have been to three dog weddings, including mine,

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<v Speaker 1>so that every altogether. And it's such a fun thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and plus it makes some family living creatures.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's sort of everybody treats their dogs like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my daughter anyway, but this is like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>my family I love. Come on, yeah, see this is

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<v Speaker 1>why I didn't want to go out with you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's absolutely fine if you feel that way about your dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I can't really be a part of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not like I'm into it like my

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<v Speaker 1>friends dogs. Clifton is like the best and he's perfect

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<v Speaker 1>for her. He's like a year older than her, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bigger than her. They're perfect together. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>care about any of that stuff, you know, when I

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<v Speaker 1>have a dog. The dog is just a dog. It's there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to feel like you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't shocks. Honestly, I'm really surprised to hear this come

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<v Speaker 1>out of your mouth. This is not at all the

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<v Speaker 1>person that took me out for that drink, Ramona. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the fact that you did that for your dog.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ecstatic that you did that for your dog. Trust me,

0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.840
<v Speaker 1>are you because you don't sound ecstatic, But it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is is that you went through all of

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<v Speaker 1>that for the dog. All right, it's I'm glad you're

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<v Speaker 1>for you to put that much effort into a party

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<v Speaker 1>for your dog like that. We're just not compatible. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, because if you don't care about living creatures

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<v Speaker 1>and the about dogs and family, then maybe maybe we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're right, you're right, I'm ron. Well, let me

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask John first, Ramona. John, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date with Ramona? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. I don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you anyway, I don't he would you're snop. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell me how I should spend my money, and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have love in your life. No, I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>weirdly on her side on all of it. Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love that you do that, Ramona, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you love dogs. I love them too,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just not going to do that, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>What type of person that does that? John? Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your time. I appreciate this person than Ramona. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for thank you for doing the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you'll find somebody else that's as into their

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<v Speaker 1>dog as you are eventually. Thank you. I do love you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that. Listen if there's another sale second date

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<v Speaker 1>update and you think I'm right for him, will Okay

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<v Speaker 1>and Ramona in the meantime a thing that not many

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<v Speaker 1>people know about me. If there is any infidelity in

0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:09.520
<v Speaker 1>that dog marriage, I do dog divorces, So hit me up, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jewel in the morning text in at seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five to nine two that says that guy's in a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to a lot of dog weddings and they're

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. It's Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, talking,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, about today's second date update. Yah Scar. Ramona

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a guy named John to see why

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't calling her back after they had a date.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't calling her back because during their date she

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<v Speaker 1>kept showing him pictures of her dog and the wedding

0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.520
<v Speaker 1>that she had for it, and referring to the other

0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:43.200
<v Speaker 1>dog as her son in law. And she was really

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<v Speaker 1>into dog weddings. Apparently she's been to three of them,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just creeped him out. He's like a little

0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:49.440
<v Speaker 1>too attached to your dog, so he didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>date her. I don't know. I think it's kind of judge.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it doesn't affect him, Like, just because she

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<v Speaker 1>loves her dog and she's having some fun parties, maybe

0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:00.480
<v Speaker 1>you can get in and get some free alcohol, free food.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a difference between like depreciating your dog and loving

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<v Speaker 1>your dog and then loving your dog a little too yut,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be an extreme dog lover to date

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<v Speaker 1>this chick, you know what I mean? Because people who

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<v Speaker 1>on the tech sport are like, either she's crazy dog

0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:16.960
<v Speaker 1>marriageery kidding, or it's like give her my number. I'm

0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:19.480
<v Speaker 1>all four people who like their dogs, but I've been

0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:21.879
<v Speaker 1>around some people who are obsessed with their dogs. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to work with a dude who his dog was

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<v Speaker 1>sick so he slept at the bottom of the stairs

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<v Speaker 1>with his dog instead of in the bed with his

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<v Speaker 1>own wife. That is strange. That's an obsession. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>the big spoon and the dog is a little spoon,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what you need to do. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna judge. It's not for me sleeping with

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<v Speaker 1>a dog over sleeping in bed with your wife, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is a problem. And texting in seven eight five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two, do you agree that he shouldn't have gone

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<v Speaker 1>out with her because she has dog weddings? Or sorry,

0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:56.359
<v Speaker 1>I had a dog wedding that will probably last forever,

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<v Speaker 1>so congratulations to her. A lot of dog lovers are

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<v Speaker 1>texting in at seven eight five nine two. They want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a dog wedding now, So maybe she started

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<v Speaker 1>a new trend. If you want a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>just email the show and we'll call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back, whom in ninety two point five