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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I don't know how many

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Speaker 1: times I've been out looking for a new pair of

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Speaker 1: pants at my favorite store, Hot Topic, And after the

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Speaker 1: girl that's working there measures my in seam, she's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to go out? It happens so often, And

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Speaker 1: that's what happened today. In our second date update, Ramona

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Speaker 1: apparently works in the mall and she met a dude

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Speaker 1: while he was shopping for some pants. I'm guessing it

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Speaker 1: went down exactly how it always goes down when I

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Speaker 1: lived for pants, right, Ramona, Okay, I did not measure

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Speaker 1: his in team. Okay, whatever. Tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about the guy that you want to call today. What's

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Speaker 1: his name? His name is John John and your email

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Speaker 1: said that you met him while he was shopping in

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Speaker 1: your store at the mall. Yeah, and he was shopping

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Speaker 1: for pants. But I didn't measure him. Did you hit

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Speaker 1: on hammer? Did he hit on you? I kind of

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Speaker 1: You know. He was like, clearly he had no idea

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Speaker 1: what he was doing. He does not shop for himself.

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Speaker 1: He didn't even know what size he was, so he

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Speaker 1: needed like a lot of help, and that was kind

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Speaker 1: of fun. And I mean I saw attracted to him

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Speaker 1: right away, But what attracted you to him right away? Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: he's really good looking, so there's that. And I liked

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Speaker 1: the way that he didn't hit on me. I'm so

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Speaker 1: used guys coming in there, and I must get hit on,

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Speaker 1: like twenty five times a day in that store, And

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Speaker 1: like he was really there to buy pants, and I

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Speaker 1: kind of got it. You actually just want clothes is

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Speaker 1: so weird? Get out of my store out? Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I liked it. You sound like he still really like him.

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Speaker 1: I kind of really like it. Yeah, how did you

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Speaker 1: ask him out? I didn't ask him out? You know,

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Speaker 1: I just kept trying to get his attention. So I

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Speaker 1: just kept dropping hints. What kind of hints we know?

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Speaker 1: Like I would say, oh no, those aren't good, why

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Speaker 1: don't you try to sea? And I would pick the

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Speaker 1: ones on the bottom shelf on purpose, so I would

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Speaker 1: have to bend deliver to I knew it. And I

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Speaker 1: knew that every single time a girl bends down to

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Speaker 1: pick up something, she's trying to taunt me, contempt me

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Speaker 1: with her backside. I knew it. No, I think that

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Speaker 1: might be true. A girl is not trying to taunt you,

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Speaker 1: she'll probably squad. Did he pick up on your signals?

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Speaker 1: He went to check out, and when he was leaving already,

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Speaker 1: I sort of went up to him and I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you got those. And I took the receipt

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Speaker 1: out of the bag and I wrote my number on

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Speaker 1: it and I could you know, if you have any

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Speaker 1: problems with the pants, here's my personal number. You can

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Speaker 1: always call me. Right. That's a good that's a good sign.

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Speaker 1: Imagine that though, if he calls you and he really

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Speaker 1: does actually just have a problem with the pants, You're

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Speaker 1: all excited when you pick up the phone, be like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it's him and he's like, yeah, so

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Speaker 1: remember those pants, And there's a little fretting on the end.

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Speaker 1: Could I bring him back in? And then, knowing me,

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Speaker 1: I'd probably fall from him a hard Yeah? Right, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. He still doesn't like me, so obviously he

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Speaker 1: away or text you right away and ask you out? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He texted me like a few hours later, like do

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I'm off in like half hour. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, you were freaking out, weren't you. I mean

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Speaker 1: kind of, but I was also kind of happy that

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Speaker 1: in a mall? Where'd you guys meet up for drinks? No?

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Speaker 1: We did. We left and we went across the way

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Speaker 1: to a restaurant and bar. It was like happy hour

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Speaker 1: he says, So I'm having a really good time and

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Speaker 1: I hate to do this, but I really got to

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Okay, and it was six thirty at night.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean right, It's not like it was

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Speaker 1: but maybe he knew, like if you guys continue to

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Speaker 1: end up being a long night. Yeah, but if I

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Speaker 1: he have well whatever, And then he gives me a

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Speaker 1: great to meet you. And I was like, great, we

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Speaker 1: should do this again and his response was like yeah,

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Speaker 1: again and that was it, and that was it. And

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Speaker 1: that was four days ago. So yesterday I text him, hey,

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Speaker 1: how are the pants? Because I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: funny or whatever, and I thought maybe it would make

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Speaker 1: him response nothing, not one, and so now I'm embarrassed

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Speaker 1: at I even since sat pet and I'm like racking

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Speaker 1: did I say something dumb? Like I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I'm like, I mean, he asked me out,

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Speaker 1: so he left the way. We spent a little time

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Speaker 1: not the way it smells, not you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: you really thought this out. There's a lot of scenarios

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Speaker 1: playing out in your head right now. Days a million

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Speaker 1: miles an hour. We'll play a song, come back, call

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Speaker 1: him and get your second day update. All right, okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you in the morning if you're just tuning in

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Speaker 1: for the second date update. Ramona is on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us, and today she wants to call a guy

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Speaker 1: named John. They met at the mall she works there.

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Speaker 1: He came into her store to buy some pants and

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Speaker 1: then she slid him her number and he texted her

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Speaker 1: later and they had a happy hour together. It was great.

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Speaker 1: And then the date ended and he's not calling her back.

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Speaker 1: So her happy hour has turned into sadness hour. Where

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Speaker 1: you go out and from five to seven at a bar,

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Speaker 1: they serve you nothing but empty glasses, no beverages to enjoy,

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Speaker 1: It's sadness hour for Ramona right now. But we're gonna

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Speaker 1: once had. Ramona, are you ready to see if you

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Speaker 1: can get your happy hour back? I am? Are you

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Speaker 1: tired of sadness hour? I am tired sadness hour. We're

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Speaker 1: about to dial a phone of her right now and

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Speaker 1: see what went wrong again. Ramona has no idea what

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Speaker 1: and then hasn't talked to a really sense, not a word.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to be that bad. I

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Speaker 1: have hoped for you. It's only been four days. He

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Speaker 1: something stupid. I'm book from your mouth to dig years

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Speaker 1: all right here, I go now the phone of her

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Speaker 1: right now and get him on the phone. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to John. Please, speaker John. How are you.

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Wow. I okay, it's nice to

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Speaker 1: meet you. Yeah. Yeah, nice to meet you too. Why

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Speaker 1: are you calling me? I'm actually calling you because one

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Speaker 1: a few questions about something. Huh. Her name is Ramona

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Speaker 1: and you met her at the mall. Oh boy? Wow? Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remember meeting Ramona. Okay, do you remember going to

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Speaker 1: happy hour with her after? Yeah? Okay, Well, Ramona sent

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Speaker 1: Hour or if there's a reason why you're not calling

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Speaker 1: her back. She's a really nice girl. She's pretty attractive too.

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Speaker 1: Um oh, that's a good review. Pretty, she's pretty attractive

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Speaker 1: for me. She's on the okay scale. I mean she is,

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Speaker 1: you know, I just don't want to say anything bad

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Speaker 1: is a reason that you're not calling her back, Yeah

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Speaker 1: there's okay. Well here's how it works. So she emailed

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Speaker 1: But now, trust me, trust me, you're not saying anything

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Speaker 1: about her behind her back, I promise. Okay. Um, So

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Speaker 1: we're talking, we're we're having some drinks, we're paving a

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Speaker 1: red flag? So we were talking and I just happened

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Speaker 1: you know, she's got a dog, named I think Chloe like,

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Speaker 1: oh cool, cool, right on, and then she says, yeahnah

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Speaker 1: and a son in law Clifton. Did you say a

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Speaker 1: sound in law? Yeah, yeah, exactly, like stay with me,

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Speaker 1: stay with me. Yeah, I'm confused, she says, son in law.

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Speaker 1: And so I thought her. I was like, well, wait,

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Speaker 1: I was kind of just asking about, you know, pets.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no no, uh, Clifton's my dog, Like wait,

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Speaker 1: I thought you said that Clifton was your son in law.

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Speaker 1: She goes, he is, And so she pulls out her phone,

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Speaker 1: and I thought she was just gonna show me pictures

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Speaker 1: son in law. Yes, and she and she shows she's

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Speaker 1: it's not the fact that you did that for your dog.

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Speaker 1: What type of person that does that? John? Thank you

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Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't affect him, Like, just because she

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