1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: you need any advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: and more, submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. All right time, Let's 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: buckle up, Let's hold on tight. We gotta fe you. 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter subject, why is her husband so insecure? Dear 7 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am happily married and my wife and 8 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: I have two kids. The problem is I have a 9 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: female friend from college. My female friend is also married 10 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: with two kids, and she lives in another state. We 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: hardly ever see each other, but we do keep in touch. 12 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: Over fifteen years ago, she and I had sex. My 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: wife knows we were intimate in the past because we 14 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: all went to the same college. The other day, I 15 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: was talking to my friend on the phone. We chatted 16 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: about reality TV shows. I congratulated her on her anniversary, 17 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: and we talked about our children. We didn't talk about 18 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: any thing that we couldn't discuss in front of our spouses. 19 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: My wife is cool, but she's no fool. She knows 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: she has nothing to worry about. My friend's husband is 21 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: nuts so cool, he got upset and called my house. 22 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: He spoke to my wife about my friendship with his wife. 23 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she 24 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: was not. I think he should talk to his wife 25 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: instead of calling my house and texting me. I shouldn't 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: have to deal with all of the FU and F 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: your family texts, he sends me. I know, so I 28 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: cut my friend off completely. I changed my number and 29 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: blocked her on social media. My wife told me but 30 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: that this lady is my friend, so I should not 31 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: just cut her off like that. What do you think 32 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: is cutting her off the right thing to do. If 33 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: my wife doesn't have a problem with our friendship, why 34 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: should he. I don't understand why her husband is so upset, 35 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: is so insecure. It doesn't matter whether he's insecure or not. 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: He has a problem with you talking to his wife, 37 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: simple as that he does not like it. And that 38 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: is the bottom line. Whether your wife is okay with 39 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: it and she's cool with it or not, he has 40 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: a problem with it because you don't know what's going 41 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: on in their house. You don't know what she's telling him. 42 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: You don't know if he knows that you guys had 43 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: a prior relationship you know, than intimate relationship in college. 44 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: All that is probably messing with him and he doesn't 45 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: want that to ever happen again. He doesn't like the 46 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: fact that another man is talking to his wife. You 47 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: gotta give him that you did the right thing. I'm 48 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: in agreement with you. Cut it off. That's the best 49 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: thing to do. Sorry that you're friends, but she'll have 50 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: to understand that if she's truly your friend, that it's 51 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: best for her marriage, and it's best for your marriage 52 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: as well. Even though your wife is cool with it. 53 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: Just cut it off. Form a bond with your wife. 54 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: If you need to talk about TV reality shows, you 55 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: guys talk about that. Whatever you guys need to talk 56 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 1: about it, do it with your wife. I mean, it's 57 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: it's just dangerous ground when you form friendships with the 58 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: opposite sex because it can lead to other things. It 59 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: doesn't always do that, but it can lead to other things. 60 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: And that's I think what her husband is talking about. Yeah, 61 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: like I said, he may be insecure, but it really 62 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Stop talking to his wife. And you've done that, Steve, 63 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: I can't leave this letter. I mean, dude, what's wrong 64 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 1: with you now? Doc Man and man let's take Sherlly 65 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: out of this for a minute. You should just wrote 66 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: this letter, Dear Steve, to drag Sherley into this fault. Man, 67 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: we're talking about the problem between you and another man. 68 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: What you're talking to Sherlly about this fault? What you're 69 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: talking to your wife about it? Fault? The problem between 70 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: you and another man? Damn doc, How old are you 71 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: and this fifteen years ago? You're in college. You ate 72 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: to you in your late thirties. Of me and thirties, 73 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: at least you're thirty five. You've got to be nuts. 74 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: Let me tell you why. I'm happily married, my wife 75 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: and I got two kids. Now you say, right him 76 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: this why note the problem is I have a female 77 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: friend from college. Right, so, now, what's the rest of 78 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: the letter? Fault? You already know what the problem is, 79 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,839 Speaker 1: but you're gonna write us this letter. Come on, man, 80 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: you're for real. You open the letter with I'm happily 81 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: married my wife, we got two kids. The problem is 82 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: I got a female friend from college. Well, damn that 83 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: on the problem. We got to alleviate the problem. My 84 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: female friend is also married with two kids. She liveing 85 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: in another state. We hardly get to see each other. 86 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: Don't are you listening to yourself? We hardly ever see 87 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: each other see each other for what I'm just asking 88 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: this just a question. What did you see each other 89 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: from what you're talking on the phone? What you need 90 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: to see each other? Fault? But we do keep in touch. 91 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: Here we go over fifteen years ago. She and I 92 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: had sex up to my wife knows we were intimate 93 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: in the past because we all went to the same college. 94 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: What you're trying to tell me, though, that the reason 95 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: you had sexual hood because all I went to college together. 96 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: You know how many chicks I went to college with 97 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: I wanted and I couldn't get. So if that was 98 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: the rule because we went to college together, you know 99 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: how much sex out of hand when we in college. 100 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: Come on, all in college? Yeah, if that was it, 101 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: I could go down to the list of girls I 102 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: was in little within college and gave me the time 103 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: of day. But we was in college with cats. According 104 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: to the letter. The other day, I was talking to him, 105 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: my friend on the phone. We chatted about reality shows. 106 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: I congratulate on Anniversity. We talked about our cheerity. We 107 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: didn't talk about anything. We couldn't discuss them front oursepouses. 108 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: But the key to this whole thing is we didn't 109 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: talk about nothing. We could discuss them one ouse front 110 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: spouse wasn't no phone. No. My wife is cool, but 111 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: she's no food. She knows she has nothing to worry about. 112 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: My friend's husband is not so cool. He got upset 113 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: and called my house. He spoke to my wife about 114 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: my friendship with his wife. He was hoping my wife 115 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: would be upset, but she was not. You don't you 116 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: don't understand this. See br you calling his wife? Hit figure, 117 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: I can call your wife. See once you're talking to 118 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: the man wife. The man got the right to talk 119 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: to your wife. You see that? That's all this is 120 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: this faul. I'd have seen this played out a lot 121 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: of time. Yeah, and any of you getting married by 122 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: dude talking to your wife? Are you over there talking 123 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: to his wife? That's how this work. Now, I think 124 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: he should talk to his wife instead of calling my 125 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: house and texting me. You're looking he whipping your ass 126 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: holding right there? Better be lucky just the texting and talking. 127 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: Ain't got your ass out and discuss your ass? You're 128 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: listening show all right? Steve Back to the Strawberry letters 129 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: subject why is her husband so insecure? And this was 130 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: written by a man, and this man didn't wrote in 131 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 1: here where he opened the letter that I'm happily married, 132 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: my wife and I got two kids. The problem is 133 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: I have a female friend from college. Okay, we've identified 134 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: the problem. You know, it's a problem. You out of 135 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: line on this one. Now she's married, she got two kids, 136 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: she lived in another state. Y'all hardly ever see each other, 137 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 1: but we do keep in touch. Over fifteen years ago, 138 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: she and I had sex. We were intermitted in the 139 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: past because we all went to Saint College. What I 140 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: can name the kicks. I went to college and we 141 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: didn't have sex. The name Bernice berneath Paul in the 142 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: suber Bernie. I thought you was trying to give me 143 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: the trick that hesitate, hesitated, hesitated. But let me say this, Steve, 144 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: let me ask no. I ain't no, ask me nothing. 145 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: I can't ask you a question, head. Because you know 146 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: a lot of people there are two schools of thought 147 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: of us. A lot of people think that you can 148 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: have a friendship with a member of the opposite sack. 149 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: You didn't already had sex with him. That ain't friends. No. 150 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: Fifteen years ago, I don't give a damn if there 151 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: was fifty years ago you had sex with him, you 152 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: didn't elevated the friendship to somewhere else. Yeah, it is 153 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: somewhere Since you wanted it, then what's stopping you from 154 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: wanting not? You do remember having sex with her, don't you? Yes? 155 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: Because you mentioned it in the letter, yes and not. 156 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: Her husband got a problem with it. My friend husband 157 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: is not so cool. He got upset and called my house, 158 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: spoke to my wife, beut our friendship with his wife. 159 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she 160 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: was not not listening to this part. I think he 161 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: should talk to his wife instead of calling my house 162 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: and texting me. No, no, partner, See you call his wife. 163 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: This man now has the right to call your wife. 164 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: That's how this work. Ain't. No, you can't call my 165 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: wife no more, but you steady calling mind? Hold up, pardoner. 166 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: That ain't how this work? Can you text it? You 167 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: can't text my girl and I can't text your girl. 168 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: How this gonna work? He's talking about this texting, though, 169 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: I'm surprised it's just text. What about what he's saying? 170 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: If you and your family, where's the ass for me 171 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: and this left. That's what that's just listen, that's mixed. 172 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm reading this matter. I don't see ass with me 173 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: here nowhere anywhere. Because once you tell me, if me 174 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: and my family here it comes, then we got to 175 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: get to doing what you're saying. I don't understand this 176 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: right here. But he's so damn stupid. So then he 177 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 1: says he don't understand all the FU and F your 178 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: family texts here. He wanted you this Jesus called warning shot. 179 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: Hey man, F you and F your families. Now the 180 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: F your family means you interfering with mine. Yeah, yea. 181 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: So now since you don't give a damn by home, 182 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: I'm running mine over here. I can't possibly care how 183 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: you running yours over there. I'm telling you this dude 184 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: is clean, the dude that's insecure, it is clean. And 185 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: you better think the lord is just Texan one more time. 186 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: Where it's the water and where is the ass in 187 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: this letter? Because ninety percent of the men I know, 188 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: I know, and maybe I know the wrong type of men, 189 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: But the ninety percent of the men I know, it's 190 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: already than elevated this here looking in different cities. Yeah, 191 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: because we try to find somewhere to meet right now now. 192 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: So I cut my friend off complete because you know 193 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: why you cut him off completely, because you know the 194 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: man that fired the warning shot, So you don't cut 195 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,599 Speaker 1: your free and off completely. I changed my number in 196 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: block tern social media that he was right here. My 197 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: wife told me that this lady is my friend, so 198 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: I should not just cut off like that. What do 199 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: you think your wife gonna get your ass? Yeah? And 200 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: I see this is why a woman have to step 201 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: up and be a woman. Now, See, real women have 202 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: to Women have a different responsibility than men. Real women go, okay, 203 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: let me keep my husband out of danger. Let me 204 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 1: keep him out of harm's way. That's why a lot 205 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: of women don't come home with news to their husband 206 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: about something a man saying too or something that a 207 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: man saying to him at a party, because she know, 208 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: I gotta protect my husband because just because the man law, 209 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: he gonna go down here and do something this lady. 210 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 1: So now this is where your wife need to stop 211 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: all this. I don't see why you can't be her 212 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: friend because she ignant too. Now both of y'all gonna 213 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: ask people that's married together, and somebody gonna get their 214 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: ass on igness so and both of them. Now it's 215 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: cutting her off the right thing to do. If my 216 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: wife doesn't have a problem with our friendship, why should he? 217 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 1: Why should he have a problem with it because you 218 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: screwed his wife. The whole reason he got a problem 219 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: with you is because you screwed his white Yet well 220 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: back in the day, she wasn't his wife. I don't 221 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: give a day. We find out once we know who 222 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, Oh but now y'all talking. So now 223 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: we automatically got to wonder what he talking about? And 224 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: why are you listening? Because eventually all this talking lad 225 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: up till y'all was in bed together. And if you 226 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: don't think that this man want to sleep with you again, 227 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: you got to be thinking that I'm crazy because I 228 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: want to sleep with Yeah, that's gonna be my question. 229 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: Is it because he thinks they could possibly get together again? 230 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: That's the only reason we talk? Why are we talking? 231 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 1: You mean to tell me? And all these conversations you think, 232 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: remember that time they ain't go This ain't about the 233 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: reality shown and they got that anniversary all right, Listen, 234 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Email us, Instagram US 235 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: Short thoughts on Today's Strubberry Letter. At Steve Harvey f M. 236 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.