1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, This is from DK on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: DK says, I just lost my job, but I'm not 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: upset because it wasn't what I wanted to do and 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: there was no future in it. My parents, though, are 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: freaking out. They want me to beg for the job 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: back or get the first job I can. But I'd 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: rather tap into my savings and take some time to 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: land a gig that actually gets me excited. I know 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 1: that I only have this luxury because they're still letting 10 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: me live at home, but I feel like it's worth 11 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: investing now to build a life I really want. How 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: do I get my old school parents to see things 13 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: my way? 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 2: Okay? Is this a guy? 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: It just says DKA. So I don't. 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: Well, either way, you're not going to get your old 17 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 2: school parents to see it your way. They dug in, 18 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 2: they dug in. The fact that you lost your job 19 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: is not the end of the world. It could be 20 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: a blessing because it can lead to something great. I'd 21 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: say all the time, when a door closes in your face, 22 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: don't stand there beating on the door, walk up the hall, 23 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: all that going back to beg for your job. Na man, 24 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: Just walk up the hall it's some modos. I'm heading 25 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: up the hallway right now, right now, I'm going up 26 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: the hallway, and so you have to look at it 27 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 2: like that. Now, I don't know how you tell them that, 28 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 2: you go, Why do you have to explain it to 29 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 2: them like that. If you're going to dip into your 30 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: savings to wait until you pursue something that you really 31 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: want to do, then't do that. But stop telling them that. 32 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: Just do it because you're gonna be looking for that 33 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: thing that you really want to do, the thing that 34 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: you enjoy doing. And this could be a chance to 35 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 2: reset your life. You know, you didn't lose nothing. You 36 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: didn't like the job. It's okay, Yeah, so just go 37 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: on and focus on getting what you want to do 38 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: and hopefully it's tied to your gift and then you'll 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 2: have a better life. It's better to have a career 40 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: than a job. Okay, My career is something you want 41 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: to do. Like everybody on this show, we have radio careers. 42 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: You know, it's ain't a job. If you want a job, 43 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: you can go do something else. 44 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thanks, great advice. All right, Steve, This 45 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: is from bj BJ, says my ex from two years ago, 46 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: decided to DM my current girlfriend to tell her that 47 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: I'm cheating on her. For the record, I'm not cheating 48 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 1: on my girlfriend. I'm being forced to defend myself against 49 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: something that never existed. The problem is we're now two 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: weeks into this mess and my girlfriend says it's a 51 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: problem if I'm not willing to discuss this. In my mind, 52 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: I have discussed it and I'm done with it. What 53 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: can I do? 54 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: She keeps tripping, Well, you know, your girlfriend is allowing 55 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: your ex to have input in you all's relationship. That's 56 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: not a smart thing on her part. I think your 57 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: girlfriend is going to have to realize why is she 58 00:02:59,080 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: in this? 59 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 1: What is her purpose? 60 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 2: All? She trying to see misery love company so she 61 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: won't see First of all, she thinks, I'm telling you 62 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 2: right now, the ex girlfriend thinks that you, ma'am, are 63 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: the that that this dude's current girlfriend is the reason 64 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: she ain't the girlfriend no more so now she gonna 65 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: make her feel the same thing. She she gonna blame her. 66 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: Your girlfriend has to go, you know. Look, I mean, bro, look, 67 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: you just have to prove it, you know. And but 68 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: your girl gonna have to she gonna have to bag 69 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: up a little bit and understand who the messenger is. Yeah. Yeah, 70 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: you always remember whoever brings you bad news. Focus on 71 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: the person that brought it to you, because what was 72 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: their reasoning for bringing it to you? Always look at that, 73 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: okay fire. 74 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 75 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: I had a girl tell on me one time, you know, 76 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: four d MS was out. She just saw it, said, hey, girl. 77 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: She saw her, she saw your current girl. 78 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw her somewhere. You know, he ain't right. 79 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: I wasn't right for you, right. You know, you just 80 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 2: really have to consider the source whenever you get some information. Man, 81 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: I just did a podcast, the Pivot Podcast, and I 82 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 2: really did something smart on that podcast. And so but 83 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 2: they bought up a rumor or some internet medicine. I 84 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: just had to squash it. 85 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.