WEBVTT - and Katie Maloney

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, my little Valentines. It's Lala, Kent and rand And

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<v Speaker 1>this is give them La La with Randall and today

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<v Speaker 1>is the day of love.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you proud of me?

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't make the joke. Yeah, you remembered my name again.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to make sure you're proud of me

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<v Speaker 2>that I didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of you you. So today is a

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<v Speaker 1>special day because it is Valentine's Day. But a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people sit there and they're like, oh, fuck, Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a lover, and I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day is really about like having a significant other.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it's always been my little brother Easton's birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Lala, that's very specific for the rest of us

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<v Speaker 2>that are romantic, right, it is about Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a significant other.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not about your brother Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>It's his birthday. I think that's more special.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Well, if people know you, which most people are

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<v Speaker 2>listening probably do, they know that You're family is the

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<v Speaker 2>most important thing on the planet. But for the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of us on planet Earth, Valentine's Day is a romantic

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<v Speaker 2>lover's day and By the way, I want to tell

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<v Speaker 2>you that it is the greatest day on the planet.

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<v Speaker 2>You get to shower, spoil your lover with unlimited, unlimited things, roses,

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<v Speaker 2>sexy things, surprises.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like just another day for La La. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>that just sounds like an every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, you're an exception.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, but you're whom like I'm sure a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of chicks that are listening to this are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, Randall Emmett. He's making Valentine's Day about lovers.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, if you think about it, most people are like,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck Valentine's Date.

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<v Speaker 3>No sort of a reminder that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't like it. I don't like where this is going.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, this is not acceptable.

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<v Speaker 3>You're so romantic, though, I don't like it, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop saying it's like because there's a lot of Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let me say something. When I was single, like when

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<v Speaker 2>dinosaurs roam the earth. Okay, I remember Valentine's Day, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I still didn't have that attitude, like

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<v Speaker 2>like fucked balance. You know what I did.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not a girl. Okay, keep going, but you're not

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<v Speaker 3>a check Keep going, but you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What I did? I spoiled my mother. I did things

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<v Speaker 2>like that. All I'm saying is this, you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to have a partner in bound. And it's like, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're single.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you we're saying the same thing, Randall.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But for me, it's like even when I was

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<v Speaker 2>in college and I was like broke no money, Like I, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a true story. I sold one of my TVs.

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<v Speaker 2>My roommate was not happy I sold the TV. True

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<v Speaker 2>story was a plasma. It's a plasma. I sold this

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<v Speaker 2>TV for like maybe sixty bucks. And I was able

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<v Speaker 2>to hire a friend for ten bucks. And when I

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<v Speaker 2>and I cooked a whole romantic dinner in my dorm

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<v Speaker 2>room to this girl that I really liked at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>so there you go. So oh no, that was like

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<v Speaker 2>double steak and there was like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Big potato, and oh you sold the TV to.

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<v Speaker 2>Make to get all that shit and be able to

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<v Speaker 2>get flowers. I couldn't afford anything.

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<v Speaker 3>That is so sad.

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<v Speaker 2>See most people say that's romantic, Tim.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never know, Tim, who the hell is giving?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you at least get Poonani after If you're giving

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<v Speaker 1>up a plasma for.

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<v Speaker 3>One freaking dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably bought a card. I don't remember. It was

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<v Speaker 2>a long time ago, but it was.

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<v Speaker 3>That's Randall Emmont for you though. That's what he does.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, if I have to sell something to just

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<v Speaker 1>give a chick one nice dinner, that's what I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm so lucky to have you. I would never

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<v Speaker 3>do that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you would. You would. You would let us starve.

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<v Speaker 3>To death because vale you reach.

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<v Speaker 2>It in your pocket. I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I actually have something really romantic planned I do

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<v Speaker 1>for to nice. It's not like it's not I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you you guys, Randall, if you bang on the table

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<v Speaker 1>one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to bang.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Pull it together, rookie. No banging on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>No listen, listen. My little brother's birthday is February fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day, and for me today is like super emotional

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<v Speaker 1>because it's just another day that like, my brother's by

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<v Speaker 1>himself on his birthday, meaning he doesn't have his dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but your brother has a girlfriend, a serious girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 2>And I talked to him today and he is, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's happy. You're not like you're creating something that doesn't exist.

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<v Speaker 2>Your brother is very excited today, and I talked to him,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, you're I woke up next to your sister

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<v Speaker 2>and she has tears in her eyes, and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>please call her because it is an emotional date for

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<v Speaker 2>your dad. That I do know. I know that your

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<v Speaker 2>dad not being here, Daddy's girl. I got that part.

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<v Speaker 2>I get well, And I'm so older. Brother's not happy.

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<v Speaker 3>I know the life Easton's great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's me the thought of, like, oh, his birthday, dad,

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<v Speaker 1>And and as you get older, you're like not hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with your family as much. You know, everyone like starts

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<v Speaker 1>getting boyfriends and girlfriends, and I'm like just another bird

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<v Speaker 1>birthday that he's like grown and we're not together.

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<v Speaker 3>It sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but let's talk about your Valentine's Day. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>talk about positivity.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Let's talk about what I got.

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<v Speaker 1>I got so much candy all over my closet and

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<v Speaker 1>then I got three cards, not just one that told

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<v Speaker 1>me how much Randall Emmett loves me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you. So can we talk about the uplifting

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<v Speaker 2>part about Valentine's Day, not the negative? And you also

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<v Speaker 2>got to give you gotta got You also got a

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<v Speaker 2>pre Valentine's Day gift this week? Did you forget about that?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait? So was was the Chanel bag?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sorry, slash happy Valentine's Day?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what it was? I mean, I think it's great.

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<v Speaker 3>I just didn't know that it was double meaning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm moving on for this whole thing. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what you make Valentine like. I actually want to go

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<v Speaker 2>home now and just bury my head in the pillow.

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<v Speaker 3>Because that's what we all killed Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and we're going to also have We're surprising each

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<v Speaker 2>other tonight, we said with romantic gestures.

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<v Speaker 3>Which neither one of us bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I got a little like Tim I meant like

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<v Speaker 2>a romantic dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Randall's forty eight. I'm twenty nine. I still need bomb chicken. Wow, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>time I'm wearing wan Gerie.

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<v Speaker 3>I got us a sexy game.

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<v Speaker 2>You got my attention?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi over here Valentine's Dinner. Get out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you stopped me here like.

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<v Speaker 1>The one the one time that it's like we don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to sit there and be like, hey, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have kids, should we?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I want to ask you this, ask your producer

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<v Speaker 2>tim what he did for his girl this morning? Would

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<v Speaker 2>you do?

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<v Speaker 3>What did you do for your wife this morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Tim, Well, we celebrated last night, but tell us, Tim share.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to a place called Black Market Liquor Bar

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<v Speaker 4>in Studio City.

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<v Speaker 2>You got drinks, got drung. I did even get drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>But we had a couple a couple of coppa cocktails,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, vomitos, rappid doos, that's what they call them

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<v Speaker 4>at the Black Market Liquor Bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so that you get lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>After no comment, Good for you, Tim, Producer Timmy Banks.

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<v Speaker 2>Have I Timmy went at it. I'm very happy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm also very excited. Yeah you're gonna have fun tonight,

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<v Speaker 3>I promise.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, your heart's going to be racing. I've got the

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<v Speaker 1>paramedics on call just in case, you know, he has

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<v Speaker 1>a little too cardiac arrest. Okay, So today I also

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<v Speaker 1>want to celebrate Valentine's Day by preaching self love. Our

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<v Speaker 1>guest today is one of my best friends in the

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<v Speaker 1>entire world. We did not start off on the greatest foot,

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<v Speaker 1>and some people like an understatement, but because of that, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Fucking respect this bitch so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We went toes for like a couple of years, and

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<v Speaker 1>neither one of us like really caved until both of

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<v Speaker 1>us were like, you know what, let's apologize. And since

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<v Speaker 1>that day, which happened on the reunion oh season five, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we both apologized.

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<v Speaker 3>And now that bitch is in my mother effing wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a brides maid, Katie freaking caloney wait, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Her husband is a groomsman. How cool is that? But

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<v Speaker 2>here's the thing, you know what, I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so Look, I think what you were trying

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<v Speaker 2>to say in the beginning of this podcast self love

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<v Speaker 2>and self love, like ye, and I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just say this, I agree with you if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have.

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<v Speaker 1>A signet on a tangent about how much I loved Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but but I just want to say if you

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<v Speaker 2>have a significant if you don't have a significant lover,

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<v Speaker 2>like you can have self love and have the greatest

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<v Speaker 2>volunte to day. A lot of my friends tonight are

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<v Speaker 2>going to go out together in a big group, go

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<v Speaker 2>have fun, blasted out da da. I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's equally as fun, And then next year they'll probably

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<v Speaker 2>be in love and different kind voluns, I say, I

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<v Speaker 2>just think it's important that either you're showing love. If

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<v Speaker 2>it's your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be an other adulge yourself. I think as

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<v Speaker 2>long as you're extra love is what I care about today.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to say one thing. Katie and Tom.

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<v Speaker 2>Over these years, and I don't think a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people know this about us, but I mean we travel

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<v Speaker 2>with them, they become really good friends to both of us.

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<v Speaker 2>And Katie I think is probably one of the most

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<v Speaker 2>grounded people I know, Like she doesn't really escalate. If

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't like a hotel room, for sure, she'll check

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck out of that room and leave us hanging.

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<v Speaker 2>But other than that, then we'll get to that. Don't worry, Katie,

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<v Speaker 2>we got that coming. But other than that, I swear

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<v Speaker 2>to you Katie and Tom now I know why they're

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<v Speaker 2>together because Tom is like my kind of center. Like

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<v Speaker 2>if I hang out with Tom, I always feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay. He just makes you feel like life is

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<v Speaker 2>not that serious. And Katie, I think, just brings you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of the same ground in his She just keeps

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<v Speaker 2>it in perspective and she always tells it like it is,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that's a misinterpretation, like me, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a bull in a China shop, and people will take

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<v Speaker 2>that as, oh, Randy's an asshole, Randall's Randy's just super error.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that when people are truthful, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think Katie is very truthful but beyond sensitive as well,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that's a misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, like you say, you know, yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know Katie when cameras are off right and when she's

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<v Speaker 1>in a very vulnerable and sensitive place and what she

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<v Speaker 1>deals with on a day to day basis and still

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<v Speaker 1>like goes out into the world and freaking kills it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think is definitely an inspiration to many many people,

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<v Speaker 1>especially women.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that I'm excited to have Katie here

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<v Speaker 2>on this to sit with us, because I think people

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<v Speaker 2>really will get to know Katie the way you know Katie,

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<v Speaker 2>the way I know Katie. And look, Katie's a badass.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Katie says it how it is, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>a Katy. She's very vulnerable like you, Yes, you both,

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<v Speaker 2>I know I know the both.

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<v Speaker 1>I know both Katies. I know when you go toes

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<v Speaker 1>with her, she don't fuck around. That's why I love her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know that she's like the sweetest and that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's my goal today.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I think that's.

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<v Speaker 3>See the real Katie Maloney.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that was a great intro. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that before we bring Katie out here, I think we

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<v Speaker 2>got to go to the voicemails real quick, because I

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<v Speaker 2>love this is.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite favorite part of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell you why, it's my favorite part. Tell me

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<v Speaker 2>because every voice when we do, they they'll DM me right,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I get to repost it like I'm cool,

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<v Speaker 2>like somebody knows me, so I get it any following. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>every So if we did like two voice, two voicemails,

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<v Speaker 2>I get two new followers. So I'm very excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. The important thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Should we listen to our first voicemail? Yep, Okay, thank guys.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was just wondering for Laala, when you're filming

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<v Speaker 5>your interviews, is it hard to always talk in the

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<v Speaker 5>present tense, because obviously using your interviews after everything happens,

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<v Speaker 5>and I feel like I would always want to talk

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<v Speaker 5>in the past tense. And for Randall, what do you

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<v Speaker 5>think Lala's most funny moment on Vandard Pump was thanks love.

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<v Speaker 6>You, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I love this voicemail.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not that hard to talk talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the past in the present because all of these things

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<v Speaker 1>really happen. So when they're asking you about these things

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<v Speaker 1>in the interviews, I started getting wound up again.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck that bitch when she said that to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's it's almost like therapy those interview sessions. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for the free therapy, guys. I feel great now,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So, No, that part's not hard. My favorite

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<v Speaker 1>part of the question is what's your favorite vander Pump

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<v Speaker 1>moment of La La Kent.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, let's talk about me some more.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly, and this is not a cop out. I

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<v Speaker 2>actually like all of it. I just think you're funniest shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do you even think BJ's for the pj's.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you don't think all of it's funny?

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<v Speaker 2>That one is not. That was not my favorite?

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<v Speaker 3>What about like, let's get it Pop and Daddy?

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<v Speaker 2>Fine, Okay, we're going to other plant. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>give you general landscape, Like what I love about you

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<v Speaker 2>on your show, honestly is that you are pretty authentic.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether I like it or not, you are as real

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<v Speaker 2>as it gets. Like Lala here, Lala at home, Lala

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<v Speaker 2>on the show doesn't change. There's no other gear. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not like, oh, we're going to Laala on TV, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know Lala in the office and in life,

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't have other gears. So that's the respect I

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<v Speaker 2>always give you. So it's hard like I would never

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in the four years we'll be going out,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd never try to edit you. There are a few

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<v Speaker 2>things like that line or two I wish you had

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<v Speaker 2>never said, but I don't really have a say over

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<v Speaker 2>things that come out of your mouth. So yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>whole past.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is why I love him, because he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Lala. You cannot censor someone who's almost thirty. This

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<v Speaker 1>is who I am, whether you like it or not,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not changing. I'm sorry. My mom tried at a

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<v Speaker 1>young age. It didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone should give up. Yeah, Okay, that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>You just brought back a few moments that I could

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<v Speaker 2>let go. So let's move forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Let's move forward to the next voicemail.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, my name is Hillary. I love you guys on

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<v Speaker 6>the show. I'm really that Rand is on the show.

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<v Speaker 6>I think he's a pretty cool guy. I also like

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<v Speaker 6>his voice. Anyways, question for you, Laala. You know Katie

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<v Speaker 6>was really brutal and really disgusting a couple seasons ago,

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<v Speaker 6>just the nastiness and the attacking and the pointing fingers

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<v Speaker 6>about your relationship. And I'm just wondering how you guys

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<v Speaker 6>made up. And I know that you're really really close

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<v Speaker 6>right now, so would love to hear all about that.

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<v Speaker 6>And also love your pod show.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye Okay, I love this voicemail. And here's why. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>be very clear, Katie was nasty to me. Whila was

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<v Speaker 1>nasty to Katie. I made comments about I body shamed,

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<v Speaker 1>which still to this day is the most embarrassing moment

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had on vander Pump Rules. I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>her relationship as well. I said things that were absolutely inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>and I respect her for not punching me in the face,

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<v Speaker 1>because if someone said the thing about you and I

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<v Speaker 1>that I said to about Schwartzy, I would have decked them.

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<v Speaker 1>So people love to talk about, oh but Katie did

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<v Speaker 1>this to you, and it's like, okay, but let's switch this,

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<v Speaker 1>let's think about what I also did to Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I also think, just to add to close

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<v Speaker 2>this out, I agree with all that. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>that Katie didn't know you at the time. She didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know our relationship at the time because I wasn't anywhere around.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that you didn't know Katie. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think the two of you through time became best friends

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<v Speaker 2>because that's life, that's what happens. People don't it's a misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you misunderstood her, she misunderstood you. Today, when

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<v Speaker 2>we're on vacation in places, I'm like, it's like you

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<v Speaker 2>guys have known each other for twenty years.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can't even think of a time that we

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<v Speaker 1>It's very hard to look back at that time.

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<v Speaker 3>It is. I can't even fathom doing that to her again.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So I think I think we should have Miss

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Maloney Schwartz join us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes about that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>We have the infamous bad Bitch Katie Maloney shorts and

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<v Speaker 1>the mother effing building, and the building today is Sir restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>All began. We're literally sitting in the VIP and this

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<v Speaker 3>is my.

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<v Speaker 2>Favorite part of Katie Welcome the Mothership. Hi, we're so

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<v Speaker 2>it's like hanging out. It's like we're like, we could

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<v Speaker 2>be anywhere right now. But exactly, I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>because it is odd, at least for me, that we're

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<v Speaker 2>here where it all started. You started, Just to refresh,

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<v Speaker 2>you started here eight years ago?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I started. I got hired here in two thousand

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<v Speaker 4>and nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah eleven years a yeah, years ago, a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, it just tell me what that was like in

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<v Speaker 2>a nutshell, just what happened? How did you get here?

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<v Speaker 2>And then how did you get on the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I came here for dinner one time and I loved it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, I want to work here. I

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<v Speaker 4>mean it's it's I mean, it's such a cool place

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<v Speaker 4>to come and have dinner and I like the vibe

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<v Speaker 4>and I just wanted to work here and I might

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<v Speaker 4>Giarma the first time I came, and of course he's like,

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<v Speaker 4>here's my card, like if you never need anything, And

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<v Speaker 4>so I like emailed him and I was like are

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<v Speaker 4>you hiring? And he's like, we'll bring your resume and

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<v Speaker 4>they were hiring and I was like, okay, well even

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<v Speaker 4>if it's in like three months, from now, like, give

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<v Speaker 4>me a call, and I swear almost three months of

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<v Speaker 4>the day he called me and I was working on

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<v Speaker 4>my other job and I was like, wait, what was that?

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<v Speaker 4>What was that Barney's beanery?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is so great. So he calls you says

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<v Speaker 2>come in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, come in, and so I, yeah, I started training.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Now how long is it from the time you

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<v Speaker 2>started training to the time A you met Tom and

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<v Speaker 2>b you got on the show. This's all happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so it was probably that was October two thousand

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<v Speaker 4>and nine. I met Tom. I would say, June May,

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<v Speaker 4>June of twenty ten.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, okay, wow, you were brand new.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when there's a show come into life? How

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<v Speaker 2>does that happen?

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<v Speaker 4>That was probably two thousand and twelve to the pilot

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<v Speaker 4>and all of that, and.

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<v Speaker 3>What did they say?

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<v Speaker 1>They just like came into the restaurant. They were like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna film you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, So how so I started working here before the

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<v Speaker 4>Real Housewives started all of that. So we thought because

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<v Speaker 4>this was before the lounge had opened, so they called

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<v Speaker 4>a meeting. We thought it was going to be a

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<v Speaker 4>meeting about the lounge and what was going to happen

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<v Speaker 4>and just sort of sort of that kind of information

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<v Speaker 4>and we got here and they're like, so we want

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<v Speaker 4>to do a show here about you guys. It was

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<v Speaker 4>a whole it was like, this whole staff was here

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<v Speaker 4>and they're like, if anyone's not interested, you can leave.

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<v Speaker 4>Those of those of you who are interested stay.

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<v Speaker 3>Did a lot of people leave?

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, some people left?

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<v Speaker 7>Really yeah, wow, oh they fucked us.

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<v Speaker 4>But me, krist and Stacia looked at each other. We're like,

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<v Speaker 4>we got this.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what they do.

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<v Speaker 3>They do. Got this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you basically ran. So from that point on you

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<v Speaker 2>start filming. Yeah, and then when's like the first time

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<v Speaker 2>you realize, oh my god, I'm recognizable? Like when does that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I always ask my actor friends in my movies,

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<v Speaker 2>I always say like, there's people don't like to ask

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<v Speaker 2>that question, But when is the first moment where you

0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:18.840
<v Speaker 2>walk outside and somebody comes up to you goes, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, Katie, we're a fan, Like do you remember

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<v Speaker 2>even that moment?

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of people would look at me and ask

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<v Speaker 4>me like, did you go to this high school? Like

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<v Speaker 4>everyone thought I like they just recognized me from somewhere

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<v Speaker 4>and then they're like, oh, never It was a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of things they couldn't place me. Yeah, and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so it just was it sort of slowly.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopped slowly and then the show and then and then

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<v Speaker 2>the show explodes and you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't go in in and now they know for damn sure,

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't go to high school with her, they know

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<v Speaker 3>she's Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I guess it was when I guess it

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<v Speaker 4>was when other like celebrities started recognizing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, because because Hollywood, which is great, which is

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<v Speaker 2>great because half of my industry. Obviously, even before I

0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:01.200
<v Speaker 2>met Lala, like we were all like, oh my god,

0:20:01.240 --> 0:20:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Vanner Purple is the best show. They go crazy, they

0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:06.720
<v Speaker 2>do crazy. No, I mean, you guys, how many people

0:20:06.880 --> 0:20:09.280
<v Speaker 2>in Hollywood? You know we're big fans. So I thought, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, I thought that. I thought, I just think

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<v Speaker 2>it's cool to hear like the origins, because I don't

0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:16.040
<v Speaker 2>think people really know, like ten eleven years you've been

0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:17.800
<v Speaker 2>at this, that's a career, that star.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, it's a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But how amazing that the place that she really wanted

0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:27.080
<v Speaker 1>to work at because it was chic, and then like

0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:32.320
<v Speaker 1>that was going to be her life story, like the

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<v Speaker 1>place I really wanted to work, just decided to do

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<v Speaker 1>a TV show with my friends and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>huge success. And now we're buying houses and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 2>It's insane. Not my houses, I mean giving you a

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<v Speaker 2>life that the origin of this place. You know. Obviously,

0:20:46.720 --> 0:20:50.919
<v Speaker 2>your personality, the cast personality, you know, creates the success

0:20:51.000 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 2>of the show. But it is pretty cool that we're

0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:56.040
<v Speaker 2>sitting here in the place where you were taking orders

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<v Speaker 2>at a restaurant. Now you're, you know, a superstar.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's it's crazy because in LA we all

0:21:02.760 --> 0:21:05.399
<v Speaker 4>take jobs at restaurants just as it means to an

0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:08.960
<v Speaker 4>end to hopefully end up on TV in another capacity.

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<v Speaker 4>You never think that taking a job at that restaurant

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<v Speaker 4>is going to put you on TV. You know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean. It's right, it's very Yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy, yeah, because that same type of it all starts

0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:23.840
<v Speaker 1>with I went to sir just to have dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the same thing with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to sort of just simply have dinner, and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of the sudden, you know, the OG's welcome

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<v Speaker 1>me onto the cast. And five years completed a lot

0:21:34.680 --> 0:21:37.320
<v Speaker 1>of rough patches, and then it's like the best time

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<v Speaker 1>ever However, a lot of things come with being on

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<v Speaker 1>a reality TV show because people think they can talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you a different way than they would obviously talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Jennifer Aniston, you know, yeah, and Katie knows a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about that. So what is it like when you

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you went to the Oscar brunch, you looked

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<v Speaker 1>chic af and I saw that you posted something that

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<v Speaker 1>someone had commented this is this year?

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<v Speaker 3>This just happened. I wanted to physically assault the person

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<v Speaker 3>that she's going to tell.

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<v Speaker 8>You, so I want to Oh yeah, So myself, Saucy

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<v Speaker 8>Brittany and then Tom Jacks and bo we got invited

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<v Speaker 8>to the E had like a pre Oscar brunch.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like a show that they had worth like

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<v Speaker 4>all kinds of different segments and maybe dictionary so like,

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<v Speaker 4>so the thing was like a brunch. Like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>supposed to dressed, like I'm going to the Oscars. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, okay, well, let me just wear So I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to wear something that was like Parisian chic and

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, Chanelle Carrie Bradshaw. So I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>put on a skirt that I got from Paris. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>with a little like cute blazer and everything, and like Saucy.

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<v Speaker 4>I sent a picture of Saucy. She goes, oh my god, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like cool. They didn't think anything of it, and

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<v Speaker 4>then Brittany posted a picture of it, and then of

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<v Speaker 4>course all the comments were dominated just by everyone hating

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<v Speaker 4>on my outfit, which I'm used to it. People don't like,

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<v Speaker 4>how do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Deal with it? How do you deal with that? Because

0:23:09.359 --> 0:23:11.000
<v Speaker 2>you're such a nice person. I know you for a

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<v Speaker 2>long time. Now, how like when this first started, I

0:23:14.119 --> 0:23:16.359
<v Speaker 2>got a lot of mean comments about my weight and

0:23:16.400 --> 0:23:19.159
<v Speaker 2>things like that. I mean, she knows, and like I

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<v Speaker 2>flipped out in the beginning. Now I've turned it out.

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<v Speaker 2>But you've been doing this for ten years. So how

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:27.200
<v Speaker 2>do you take it? Does it put you into a

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<v Speaker 2>like retreat or does it make you attack or do

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<v Speaker 2>you just not give a shit?

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<v Speaker 4>It depends on what they're saying, what they go in for.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the comment that you circled and reposted on your institutions,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about that.

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<v Speaker 4>So this person she had said, I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 4>so much of the outfit. It's about the fact that

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<v Speaker 4>she gained weight, and if she was in shape, the

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<v Speaker 4>outpha wouldn't look bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's gross.

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<v Speaker 4>It's also her personality and her I feel bad for

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<v Speaker 4>her husband because she probably never had sex with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she just what she just went like for

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<v Speaker 4>it all. And I really tried. I've gotten to I've

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<v Speaker 4>just I try to not look at the comments because

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<v Speaker 4>I know what's there and if I go look at them,

0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:17.920
<v Speaker 4>it will it will affect me. It will affect me

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<v Speaker 4>because I have I have yes, I have a thick skin.

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<v Speaker 4>And I try to remind myself that these are strangers.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know them, their opinions.

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<v Speaker 2>Really strangers in a dark room, who are who will

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<v Speaker 2>never come out of that room? Right, it's all hide

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<v Speaker 2>behind a screen because but at the same time, you're

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<v Speaker 2>a human being.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm a human being, of course. But I saw

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<v Speaker 4>this one and it just like really stood out to

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<v Speaker 4>me as just being exceptionally evil. Wow, And I just

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<v Speaker 4>was like no, And so I just decided that I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just like you know what, I just I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 4>go ahead and just put this on my story. Good

0:24:51.880 --> 0:24:54.400
<v Speaker 4>good for you, because I just think this is disgusting

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 4>and inappropriate and I don't care who gets mad at me.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think that I want all my followers, right.

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:05.320
<v Speaker 2>And maybe and maybe that'll distract some people from not

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 2>saying shit like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get a lot of people in the DMS

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:09.880
<v Speaker 1>that were like, I can't believe someone would.

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<v Speaker 4>Say that to you. Oh yes, yeah, no I And

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:13.960
<v Speaker 4>of course I have a lot of people that were like,

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:16.200
<v Speaker 4>don't listen to that. I think you look awesome and

0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:18.639
<v Speaker 4>you know, and I appreciate that love and support, but

0:25:18.720 --> 0:25:23.399
<v Speaker 4>it's just, you know, I didn't cry about that, you know,

0:25:23.520 --> 0:25:25.880
<v Speaker 4>it was It wasn't like I was like sad and oppressed.

0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:28.359
<v Speaker 4>It was just more like, wow, like this person is

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<v Speaker 4>a monster.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah exactly. I have had people say really horrible things

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:36.000
<v Speaker 2>like that, even worse like I should die or things

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:38.160
<v Speaker 2>like that. Yeah, and I blasted a few of them.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think the fact that people think they can

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<v Speaker 2>just spew anything because their own miserable life, it's just

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 2>not they.

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<v Speaker 4>Think they can say it to me because of the

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:52.200
<v Speaker 4>horrible things I've said to other people. They think I

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:55.639
<v Speaker 4>deserve it because I'm not a nice person, or because

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:59.119
<v Speaker 4>I've said mean things to Lalla or to you know,

0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:01.680
<v Speaker 4>I got James fired, and they backed me into this

0:26:01.840 --> 0:26:05.200
<v Speaker 4>corner of like, well, I can't say anything because I've

0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:06.639
<v Speaker 4>done and said this, I know, but.

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:09.240
<v Speaker 2>Don't make a right exactly.

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:11.960
<v Speaker 3>It's not a tit for tat. But let's let's make

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 3>something very clear.

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 1>When people are watching us on television, everyone involved.

0:26:18.119 --> 0:26:20.640
<v Speaker 3>On the show is going toes with each other.

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 1>If Katie's going toes with someone, it's because they've said

0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 1>something on the show. It's definitely a tit for tat

0:26:26.880 --> 0:26:31.080
<v Speaker 1>type of thing. But as an outsider, you watching the

0:26:31.200 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 1>show are not Captain save the weakest link, No, And

0:26:36.680 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 1>they think that that's okay, and they want to talk

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:41.960
<v Speaker 1>to you about your behavior in certain scenes, and it's like, okay,

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 1>but let's remember how long we film. Let's remember that

0:26:45.280 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 1>these scenes are cut into an hour long episode, and

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:51.919
<v Speaker 1>it's not your job to say anything except sit your

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:54.320
<v Speaker 1>ass on the couch and enjoy your fucking Tuesday night.

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<v Speaker 4>You were not there, like these people were not there.

0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 4>Just because they're watching something on TV does not mean

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:03.760
<v Speaker 4>that you were there and that you can speak on.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, come on, and in all respect to that,

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 2>I've seen you guys all have your moments, but at

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, I've also seen I'm sorry,

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.119
<v Speaker 2>let's not do that again. We can be better than that.

0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 2>I've seen it from all of you guys, not just Jack's.

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.159
<v Speaker 2>I've seen it with Tom. I've seen it. So the

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:22.440
<v Speaker 2>part that these people saying these things, they don't see

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 2>the part where it's like, hey, I love you, I

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:27.560
<v Speaker 2>made a mistake, let's be better. And none of these

0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:29.960
<v Speaker 2>people on the internet when they say this shite ever,

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you an well.

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 4>I feel like they do see that they've seen my apologies.

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.480
<v Speaker 4>They've seen apologies with me a lot that they just

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 4>don't want to remember those.

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:40.040
<v Speaker 2>They want to go to the bad stuff.

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly.

0:27:41.119 --> 0:27:42.880
<v Speaker 2>And I'll say one of the things I've gone after

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 2>people on the internet who've come after me, and a

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:47.679
<v Speaker 2>lot of times they'll flip their whole tune and say, oh,

0:27:47.720 --> 0:27:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you're a real person or favor Yeah

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you. I thought this was like somewhere.

0:27:53.200 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, so, wait, that makes it okay that you

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 2>could talk. So I feel for you guys, because you

0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:01.120
<v Speaker 2>guys have it that times where I want to ask

0:28:01.160 --> 0:28:04.480
<v Speaker 2>one thing, this this fall that I that I heard

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 2>about that I never had a real conversation with you about,

0:28:07.560 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 2>can you just tell me what happened? Because I know

0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 2>it's a big deal in your life, and yeah, this

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:15.199
<v Speaker 2>was traumatizing on every level. I just what, how did

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 2>this all happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so it actually happened right around the time I

0:28:19.680 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 4>got hired here. It was like right when I finished

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 4>my training here and I was supposed to start my shift.

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:25.800
<v Speaker 4>So the night before I was supposed to start my

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.439
<v Speaker 4>first shift here, I was hanging out with my friends

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 4>at one of their apartment buildings on the roof, and

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 4>it was very chill. It wasn't like I was going

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:37.520
<v Speaker 4>wild or anything. That I sat on an old skylight.

0:28:37.560 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 4>It was a big, massive, old skylight and I sat

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 4>on it and it broke. I fell twenty five feet

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 4>and landed on a staircase and had brain injury. I

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 4>broke my collarbone, I broke my jaw pretty much all

0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 4>my ribs on my right side. Oh my, I didn't

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:58.240
<v Speaker 4>remember anything. I don't remember following.

0:28:58.240 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember. No.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's traum an, Thank God.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wake up, you're in the hospital.

0:29:03.680 --> 0:29:04.120
<v Speaker 4>I see you.

0:29:04.400 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how many days before you come out of it? Oh?

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:08.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean right away?

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 5>Then?

0:29:08.880 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 4>Not right away? But yeah, like I woke up and

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 4>my mom was.

0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:15.520
<v Speaker 2>There and oh my god, I can't.

0:29:15.680 --> 0:29:18.720
<v Speaker 4>I have some family there and everyone is like terrified,

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 4>and I'm just like, what's Yeah, They're explaining to me

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 4>what happens because I want a morphine. I'm like, what's

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:30.440
<v Speaker 4>up everybody? And everyone's like, oh my god, and I'm

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:32.719
<v Speaker 4>just like thanks for coming.

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean you thought it was like a little party

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:36.480
<v Speaker 2>just to hang out.

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, when you're on the morphine, how.

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 2>Long are you in the hospital before to recover?

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 4>I was there for like three three to four days before.

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 4>They like because when you when you have a brain injury,

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 4>they want to make sure that the bleeding stops right.

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:55.520
<v Speaker 4>And they also had to wire my jaw shuts because

0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 4>it was was that. How long was that I had

0:29:57.920 --> 0:29:59.960
<v Speaker 4>my jaw wire? Chef for like six weeks?

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 2>When you say shut okay, because I hear this.

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 3>All West sipping, sippin'.

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Uh you never had a piece of hard food.

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 4>No, I could not chew.

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I lose my ship. I thought it was.

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 4>It was awful. I was awful, and I had to

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 4>have a titanium plate. I screwed to my job because

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 4>it was not healing.

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 2>This is by far the worst story in a long time.

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 2>That is horrible.

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was.

0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 2>This is horrible. Yeah wow wow.

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>But after you said something to me that was really interesting.

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>And this was like a couple of weeks ago. But

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 1>we were at your house and you were like, I

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:42.720
<v Speaker 1>don't after my accident, I didn't feel like myself. You

0:30:42.800 --> 0:30:44.800
<v Speaker 1>were like, I used to be cool. I like I

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 1>used to be chill and cool. Yeah.

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 3>I was like, well to me, you're still chilling cool.

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Like what did you feel like it affected after that

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:54.480
<v Speaker 1>your day to day life and how.

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:55.760
<v Speaker 3>You felt about certain things.

0:30:56.560 --> 0:31:01.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean traumatic brain injuries can alter your personality

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 4>for sure.

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I feel like I was someone that was

0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 4>very easy going and very relaxed and very like just

0:31:08.080 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 4>like it's all good, you know, and so so yeah,

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 4>now I feel like I do sometimes get angry a

0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 4>lot faster.

0:31:16.760 --> 0:31:18.480
<v Speaker 2>I spie quicker.

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right.

0:31:20.200 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 4>Short refuse is a lot shorter, but.

0:31:22.600 --> 0:31:25.720
<v Speaker 2>More about specific things or just it can just happen,

0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 2>meaning are the things that trigger yours it just like

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 2>you just you used to have more.

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 4>Patience exactly, Okay, Yeah, yeah, I just I feel like

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 4>my tolerance for things, it's just it's just not that.

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:41.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you notice that that happened after your ecology

0:31:41.480 --> 0:31:41.840
<v Speaker 3>A lot.

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a lot of yeah, just there was there. It

0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:46.080
<v Speaker 4>was just like a shift and sort of getting use

0:31:46.720 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 4>to being inside my head again and sort of it

0:31:50.600 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 4>just it's weird where it's hard to describe. It's really

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 4>hard to articulate because it's it was the process of

0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 4>figuring things out and still almost figuring it out and

0:31:59.400 --> 0:32:03.960
<v Speaker 4>trying to remember things in my memory even like it's weird.

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:06.360
<v Speaker 4>I can I can remember things from a million years ago,

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:08.360
<v Speaker 4>and then there's some things just like a complete black

0:32:08.480 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember like sections of my life right, which

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 4>is weird.

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 2>Before we go to break, because we're gonna take a

0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:15.080
<v Speaker 2>break real quick, I just want to ask how long

0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:19.480
<v Speaker 2>before you were mobile again, your jaw wasn't wired shot

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 2>where you started to feel like yourself again? How how

0:32:21.720 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 2>many weeks? How many months? Year?

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 4>I mean, But so this happened November ninth. I was

0:32:28.840 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 4>able to like sort of come back to work and

0:32:32.560 --> 0:32:35.120
<v Speaker 4>be back in the like the beginning of January.

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 2>That's a serious I'm shocked, but it was.

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.920
<v Speaker 4>I still was like healing. I still had in my

0:32:44.080 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 4>face and I still like had dental stuff. I had

0:32:46.800 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 4>to do there was still you know, and then and

0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:54.360
<v Speaker 4>then came like the emotional and like mental, Yes you

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 4>had that's what I was gonna ask.

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you had to have major PTSD. H Okay for sure.

0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 2>Well I'm glad you're here because that's insane and God,

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 2>thank god you're able to sit here and talk about it,

0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 2>because I'm sure a lot of people who sustain that

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:09.400
<v Speaker 2>kind of fall.

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 4>Could don't get to.

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:23.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, we're back with the amazing Haiti and

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 2>La la, both of you.

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 3>We're back.

0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:28.760
<v Speaker 1>So I want to get back into after your fall,

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:32.640
<v Speaker 1>the PTSD that you experienced after because there was a

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>time that you and I were being bougie on a

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 1>yacht somewhere and I was like, do you want to

0:33:37.240 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>jump off the top with me?

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 3>And you were like, I don't take risks like that.

0:33:42.000 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 3>I like, I'm good.

0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:47.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I it's not like a fear of heights thing,

0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 4>but I feel I after my accident I went through

0:33:50.920 --> 0:33:53.959
<v Speaker 4>with the PTSD, there was a lot of like survivor's

0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 4>guilt because yeah, there's a lot of people who went

0:33:57.120 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 4>through a similar thing who weren't as lucky, who can

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:04.840
<v Speaker 4>realized who didn't survive. And so when I've sat there

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:06.200
<v Speaker 4>for a long time, I'm like, well, why was I

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 4>so lucky? Like why why?

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:09.439
<v Speaker 3>Which is which?

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.680
<v Speaker 4>Which is kind of morbid in itself, But you can't

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:13.839
<v Speaker 4>help but have those thoughts.

0:34:14.239 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 2>And I was lucky one of their people in wheelchairs exactly.

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 4>And so you want to think like, oh, well, I

0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 4>guess that means I'm destined for something, But you don't

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 4>think like that. It's a very weird, hard thing to

0:34:25.040 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 4>get sort of comfortable with and gets your head.

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:29.960
<v Speaker 2>You're in a dark place for a long time after that,

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:32.360
<v Speaker 2>just because you were trying to the struggle of just

0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:34.319
<v Speaker 2>the PTSD or were you.

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:36.360
<v Speaker 4>It was like it was it would come and go.

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.879
<v Speaker 4>Because I was so happy and excited to get back

0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 4>into my life, and because I was, I went to

0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:47.480
<v Speaker 4>Vegas to like heal my grandma, My grandparents lived there,

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 4>so like that's why I went and saw an oral specialist.

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:52.920
<v Speaker 4>And so yeah, it was more comfortable there than being

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:54.600
<v Speaker 4>in my apartment here with no one to help me.

0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:56.719
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I was so excited to come back to

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:58.759
<v Speaker 4>la and be with my friends and come back to

0:34:58.880 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 4>my job to get exactly. And so I was so

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:05.759
<v Speaker 4>focused on that that once I came back, I was like,

0:35:06.080 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 4>oh gosh, like this is weird, and I feel like

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 4>my life didn't feel quite like my own anymore. And

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:14.399
<v Speaker 4>I was like I was, you know before I wanted

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 4>to do acting, and I was like, not even sure

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to do that anymore, because I was like,

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:20.320
<v Speaker 4>life is so uncertain that I want to feel like

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 4>I can do something that in your what you thought

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 4>matter is something that I was in control of. That's when, yeah,

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 4>you have to go out on auditions and it's so subjective.

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 4>It's like I can't. I'm not like I want to do.

0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 4>So I then was like, you know, I've always been

0:35:36.640 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 4>interested in working in like the music industry, so that's

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:41.920
<v Speaker 4>when I decided I wanted to go and try to

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:44.719
<v Speaker 4>get you know, an internship at a record label. And

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:46.560
<v Speaker 4>I just I kind of started to switch gears so

0:35:46.680 --> 0:35:48.720
<v Speaker 4>slowly over time, but like I just like really started

0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:53.000
<v Speaker 4>like kind of focusing my attention that way. But but yeah,

0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 4>over time, like you do, like it would come in

0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:58.239
<v Speaker 4>like waves of being like sort of depressed and in

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:01.320
<v Speaker 4>a dark place and not understanding, and also there's a

0:36:01.360 --> 0:36:04.759
<v Speaker 4>lot of like new thoughts and feelings and frustrations and yes,

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:07.680
<v Speaker 4>having like that short fuse all of a sudden and

0:36:07.840 --> 0:36:11.120
<v Speaker 4>not and not feeling happy all the time like I

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 4>was just I was so easy going, always so like

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 4>I mean I was. I was always sassy and always like.

0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:18.160
<v Speaker 2>A little like yeah, but that's that's makes you.

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:21.480
<v Speaker 4>I was always like me, but now there was like

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.840
<v Speaker 4>a little bit of a dark darker to me.

0:36:24.360 --> 0:36:26.800
<v Speaker 2>But that's I think what I'm most attrigued by this

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:29.919
<v Speaker 2>whole thing, because I can't imagine. I was just trying

0:36:29.960 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 2>to think through while you're talking about the whole thing,

0:36:32.120 --> 0:36:35.399
<v Speaker 2>like and I fell, I'm in the hospital. I don't

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:37.680
<v Speaker 2>think I'd ever be the same now. Would Would there

0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 2>be parts of Randall that you'd still know? Of course?

0:36:40.000 --> 0:36:42.960
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but I think there's a piece of myself

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:45.719
<v Speaker 2>that I'm going to lose when I fall off. When

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:47.520
<v Speaker 2>I fall, you know, like that, and then it's never

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 2>going to come back. But what do I become then?

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:52.839
<v Speaker 2>How do I I don't know. I just I'm very

0:36:52.920 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 2>intrigued by this because I just think it's such a

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 2>life altering chip.

0:36:57.000 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 4>It is omen when you're twenty four, I think, Yeah,

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.120
<v Speaker 4>when I was twenty four and you're face with mortality

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:06.200
<v Speaker 4>in that way you shouldn't. You shouldn't be thinking about

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 4>that kind of stuff when you're that age. You should

0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 4>be like, I have my whole life ahead of me.

0:37:08.960 --> 0:37:12.319
<v Speaker 4>But here I am being like, okay, well maybe if

0:37:12.320 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 4>I don't have my whole life ahead of me, right,

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:15.760
<v Speaker 4>And I all of a sudden like I better figure

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:19.040
<v Speaker 4>something out. And there's pressures and there's thoughts in my

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:22.279
<v Speaker 4>head that I never wanted to have, and just trying

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:25.920
<v Speaker 4>to figure it all out at one time was really consuming.

0:37:26.080 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 2>And I'll tell you, I'll say this last thing about mortality.

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:31.080
<v Speaker 2>It's like I understand that because at twenty four I

0:37:31.200 --> 0:37:35.560
<v Speaker 2>thought I would live forever, and at forty eight having children.

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 2>The minute I had kids, I definitely start thinking about

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 2>the clock. I mean tim you know, right, So once

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 2>you have kids, you know you start thinking, oh my god, Okay,

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:46.399
<v Speaker 2>they're gonna graduate, I'm gonna be this age, they're gonna

0:37:46.400 --> 0:37:48.479
<v Speaker 2>be in college, they're going to have babies at this age,

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:50.880
<v Speaker 2>and will I even be around at that age. So

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:53.680
<v Speaker 2>for you to say that, I can understand now it

0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:56.400
<v Speaker 2>makes more sense to me. At twenty four, you should

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.719
<v Speaker 2>never be thinking about that shit. So the fact that

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 2>you fell from a building and we're in the hospital

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:05.040
<v Speaker 2>trying to possibly going to die. That makes sense. I

0:38:05.080 --> 0:38:07.640
<v Speaker 2>think why your life was changed for the next you know,

0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:09.200
<v Speaker 2>for the rest of your life, and I think at

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:11.200
<v Speaker 2>twenty four you should never have to face that. Yeah,

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:13.920
<v Speaker 2>but I also kind I said, one last second, I'd

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:15.680
<v Speaker 2>be quiet. I promise you no, I promise I'll shut

0:38:15.760 --> 0:38:18.400
<v Speaker 2>up ever face. But I think that when you have children,

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 2>the uplift from this is I think, obviously you're always

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 2>going to be a great mother, but now I think

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:28.600
<v Speaker 2>you'll really, you know, just cherish every second, every second

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:30.239
<v Speaker 2>because you've been in a place at twenty four that

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 2>you should have never been in. And now even you

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying, like, you know, she's going to

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 2>be a great mother no matter what. But I think

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 2>you'll cherish every second, every minute.

0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:41.880
<v Speaker 3>Because yeah, she has a different outlook right right, because.

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:43.399
<v Speaker 2>You had to face that shit at an asia. Shit

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 2>never have face.

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:48.399
<v Speaker 4>I think sometimes, yes, well, thank you, use just time

0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:50.960
<v Speaker 4>is going to mean something different to you than it

0:38:50.960 --> 0:38:52.320
<v Speaker 4>would mean every parent.

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 2>When you have a child, you face your mortality because

0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:57.560
<v Speaker 2>you start adding up the clock and it's the worst

0:38:57.640 --> 0:38:59.359
<v Speaker 2>thing you ever do as a parent, because you start

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:05.200
<v Speaker 2>going there seven. Got No, it's not it's not depressing.

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 2>You know what it does. It makes you when they're

0:39:07.120 --> 0:39:10.440
<v Speaker 2>screaming the back room, or they're or they're terrorizing the

0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 2>living room. It just makes you go, you know, when

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:16.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm lucky to have this most that's all perspective. Yes,

0:39:16.960 --> 0:39:19.279
<v Speaker 2>it's not a depressing thing. It's just like, Okay, I'm

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.800
<v Speaker 2>gonna suck it up when I've lost all patients and

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.760
<v Speaker 2>I need five minutes to myself, you know, and Laala,

0:39:24.880 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, has to face that now is a step mom.

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:29.959
<v Speaker 4>But it's a lot of work.

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:33.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm like, do I want to be a biological parent?

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Please, but but I'll tell you it's

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:39.880
<v Speaker 2>I just think that, you know, you had to have

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:42.440
<v Speaker 2>that perspective way earlier than you're supposed to, and I

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:44.480
<v Speaker 2>think that's what I've realized now. And I give you

0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 2>a lot of props for getting through that stuff.

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:50.440
<v Speaker 1>What about so you were left with some scars on

0:39:50.560 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 1>your face, which, by the way, every time I see no,

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:56.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't notice them unless she points.

0:39:56.560 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 2>Them out, Okay, and then yes, yeah, I never.

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:03.960
<v Speaker 3>They're barely they're pretty badass. I will say, thank you.

0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:05.759
<v Speaker 3>I'm like that though I know that was.

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:40:06.120 --> 0:40:07.879
<v Speaker 4>One thing when I was when I was going through

0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:11.320
<v Speaker 4>like the whole healing process, was that they're like, do

0:40:11.360 --> 0:40:14.440
<v Speaker 4>you want to see plastic surgeon for your scars because

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 4>you know that you might leave a mark. And when

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:18.160
<v Speaker 4>I was, you know, pursuing acting at the time, that

0:40:18.280 --> 0:40:19.960
<v Speaker 4>was something that maybe would have been important. I was

0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:23.399
<v Speaker 4>just like, No, these are badass, I'm going to keep them.

0:40:23.480 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 4>Like as Tina fe has a cool scorse, I was like,

0:40:26.520 --> 0:40:28.440
<v Speaker 4>this is like distinguished and this is like it's like

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:29.359
<v Speaker 4>a battle scar.

0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 3>It really was.

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:34.160
<v Speaker 4>So Yeah, when you're.

0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Putting your makeup on, I know it's been a while

0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:39.080
<v Speaker 1>since this has happened to you, are they like do

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:41.840
<v Speaker 1>you still look at them and remember like, Wow, I

0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 1>fucking survived something that I got very lucky, I mean

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:49.360
<v Speaker 1>a different type of fall. It could have ended very differently.

0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever look at your scars and you're like,

0:40:52.040 --> 0:40:54.640
<v Speaker 1>I remember that, and I do you get what I'm saying?

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't. I don't know if I don't know

0:40:56.520 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 4>if it's like I don't know if I had like

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.800
<v Speaker 4>take a I don't know if it's like that, I

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:02.800
<v Speaker 4>like have a moment with myself when I do that,

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 4>but I think it's when I do see it. It

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:08.440
<v Speaker 4>is because I see it every day. That is, it

0:41:08.600 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 4>is a reminder every day. So whether i'm whether it's

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:14.120
<v Speaker 4>like a conscious thing, it's subconsciously for sure.

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:16.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah, I've always wondered that.

0:41:16.040 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I've never asked you that question before because I have

0:41:18.800 --> 0:41:21.520
<v Speaker 1>like this dog bite on my leg and I remember

0:41:21.760 --> 0:41:24.000
<v Speaker 1>it happened like before I went into junior high, and

0:41:24.080 --> 0:41:26.879
<v Speaker 1>junior high is very intimidating, and it was really ugly

0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and people were like, eh, you have such a disgusting

0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>birthmark on your leg, and I'm like, well, I was

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:34.400
<v Speaker 1>like attacked by a dog. But still every time I

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:37.840
<v Speaker 1>see it, I'm like, I remember all of those things

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:39.719
<v Speaker 1>and how self conscious I was, and now I think

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:40.960
<v Speaker 1>it's like the cutest thing ever.

0:41:41.480 --> 0:41:41.680
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 4>I love scars. I think, yeah, I do too. We're

0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 4>so weird.

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Awkward, Okay, awkward. I'm done with the scars out. Now

0:41:52.520 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna want to go have a scar. I'm done

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 2>with that scar on your body.

0:41:57.160 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 3>Have mercy, okay.

0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:02.680
<v Speaker 2>Question, We're about to get married, yes, following your footsteps.

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:07.439
<v Speaker 2>Any advice going into the final stretch because we're getting

0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 2>pretty close. And what was it like right after for you?

0:42:10.520 --> 0:42:12.280
<v Speaker 2>Was there anything different? Did it feel different?

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>So just yeah, because you and Thomas were together for

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 1>a long time before you got married, to have an answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh god, I don't remember, you know.

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 4>To one of those crazy is that this year Tom

0:42:24.680 --> 0:42:27.600
<v Speaker 4>and I will have been together for a decade.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten years, so together ten years?

0:42:30.320 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 4>Yes, year? So yeah, I mean, wells you know, it's

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 4>I have this really strange, funny analogy that after you

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:42.040
<v Speaker 4>get married, it's it's weird. It's like, you know, you

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 4>have the iPhone, but they have the iOS update. Yes,

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:47.840
<v Speaker 4>so it's like so it's like you get married and

0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:50.800
<v Speaker 4>then it's like dios update happens. It's still the same phone.

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 4>But it's like, you know, but that is amazing. So

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:55.919
<v Speaker 4>it's like, you know, it's that is one of the best.

0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:59.440
<v Speaker 7>Maybe maybe there's like some new features and make it right,

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 7>maybe like it runs, it runs a little faster, runs,

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 7>a little faster functions, you know, but it's still the

0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:08.840
<v Speaker 7>same device.

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<v Speaker 4>It's still you know, yeah, same apps.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably one of the things I've ever heard.

0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:20.359
<v Speaker 2>Do you feel the same way? So I don't. It's

0:43:20.400 --> 0:43:22.800
<v Speaker 2>the same la la, but it's got a bunch of

0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:23.680
<v Speaker 2>different features.

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:26.360
<v Speaker 4>Well maybe you know, it's just it maybe runs a

0:43:26.400 --> 0:43:28.839
<v Speaker 4>little faster, like the bugs have maybe been worked out.

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:33.080
<v Speaker 4>I like it just it feels like it feels just

0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:35.000
<v Speaker 4>a little more like permanent in a good way. Like

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:39.879
<v Speaker 4>you feel like the the the questions, the doubts kind

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:42.640
<v Speaker 4>of go away because like you just feel like this

0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:45.080
<v Speaker 4>is my person for life, right, the rest of your

0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:48.520
<v Speaker 4>life gets to start finally, and that's there's nothing better

0:43:48.600 --> 0:43:49.040
<v Speaker 4>about that.

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 1>So Shartzy Schortzy said something so cute. When we went

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<v Speaker 1>to Florida for New Year's you guys were in a tiff.

0:43:58.040 --> 0:43:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Randall and I had already had our tiff, and it

0:43:59.680 --> 0:43:59.959
<v Speaker 1>was your.

0:44:00.840 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it moves, it moves around the group.

0:44:02.520 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 3>Yes, And you were off talking to Randall, talking him

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<v Speaker 3>off the legend.

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I was talking short of well shorts. He wasn't even

0:44:08.000 --> 0:44:09.759
<v Speaker 1>on the legend be team work, I was. I was

0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:11.640
<v Speaker 1>talking to him and he was like, here's the.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing, Lollie, that's my bub. We've been together ten years,

0:44:14.080 --> 0:44:15.799
<v Speaker 3>Like we do this ship. It's like, come on, Bub,

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 3>we're all good. Ten years.

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:18.319
<v Speaker 1>I like.

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:22.279
<v Speaker 3>You stuck with me, dude. We've been doing this for

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:22.879
<v Speaker 3>ten years.

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:26.600
<v Speaker 2>We're like, yeah, oh my god, I just you know what,

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:28.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking to her, I'm not talking to him.

0:44:28.800 --> 0:44:31.760
<v Speaker 2>It's like, I feel like when we walked down the aisle,

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 2>and it's just kind of the little things maybe peel

0:44:35.320 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 2>away a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you cry when you walk down the aisle?

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<v Speaker 4>No, Tom and I did a first look.

0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:42.319
<v Speaker 2>Oh we did.

0:44:42.440 --> 0:44:44.760
<v Speaker 4>So we did our photos and everything before the ceremony.

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:47.560
<v Speaker 4>But so he and I did our photos first. So

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 4>he and I did a first look together where.

0:44:49.320 --> 0:44:50.640
<v Speaker 2>It's just right when you saw him there.

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, So it was just it was just he

0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:55.400
<v Speaker 4>and I together and we had that special moment. But

0:44:56.120 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 4>then when he did his vows, it was like, oh god,

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:00.520
<v Speaker 4>water works.

0:45:00.560 --> 0:45:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Then oh god, okay. I was like, what about him too?

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 4>Yes, and he was crying through his vows, you know.

0:45:08.719 --> 0:45:10.320
<v Speaker 4>And then and then I had to do my vows

0:45:10.360 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 4>after him, and I was trying to read through mine

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:15.520
<v Speaker 4>and I couldn't even I was just mine were horrible

0:45:15.560 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 4>compared to him. And I started like winging it halfway through,

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 4>and I.

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:22.160
<v Speaker 2>Was like, wait, how does that feel when you're in

0:45:22.200 --> 0:45:25.800
<v Speaker 2>that moment if the other person like digs a little deeper?

0:45:26.440 --> 0:45:28.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what's his top? What I've read.

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:30.360
<v Speaker 4>I know, I knew I was going to be better anyway,

0:45:30.360 --> 0:45:32.640
<v Speaker 4>already know this. We're going to be Yeah, and I

0:45:32.680 --> 0:45:33.040
<v Speaker 4>should have.

0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:35.320
<v Speaker 2>Going to be five star because I've worked on it

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 2>for nine months now. Oh yeah, I've edited, re edit.

0:45:38.360 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm on like version number.

0:45:39.320 --> 0:45:40.320
<v Speaker 3>When did you write yours?

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:42.359
<v Speaker 4>Like the day of gang?

0:45:44.480 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 2>But really, why don't we read him out?

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 4>I just think I just think that. I mean, I

0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:54.839
<v Speaker 4>just was like, I just I want to love you forever.

0:45:55.000 --> 0:45:57.799
<v Speaker 4>But that's it, Like I just you know, I.

0:45:57.920 --> 0:46:00.799
<v Speaker 3>Love that you don't want to love it. And then

0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:03.640
<v Speaker 3>bub went and got Bubba tattooed on his ass. Well

0:46:03.680 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 3>that was before wow, So it was commitment from the jump.

0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 3>But here's a great thing, you know, Bubba tattooed on it.

0:46:10.280 --> 0:46:11.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to know. How would I know that

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:13.400
<v Speaker 2>you would.

0:46:13.239 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Watch vander Pump Rules. You're not a true blue fan.

0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Tom's never pulled down his pants for you.

0:46:19.600 --> 0:46:22.040
<v Speaker 4>He does that. You haven't seen it?

0:46:22.200 --> 0:46:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I remember it.

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 3>I think show I couldn't get tattooed on your ass.

0:46:27.200 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 2>There's no fucking chance you're.

0:46:29.440 --> 0:46:32.480
<v Speaker 4>When you all the times that you've literally tried to

0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 4>bet him money to get your name tattooed on his

0:46:35.640 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 4>ass or whatever.

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:36.840
<v Speaker 2>He's agreed.

0:46:36.880 --> 0:46:39.479
<v Speaker 4>By the way, I know, I know I've gotten phone

0:46:40.200 --> 0:46:42.760
<v Speaker 4>I've gotten the phone calls. But you he's never mentioned

0:46:42.920 --> 0:46:46.680
<v Speaker 4>that he has it tattooed. No, I don't believe it.

0:46:47.160 --> 0:46:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I really, I really don't remember this, and maybe on

0:46:49.880 --> 0:46:51.839
<v Speaker 2>the show I do remember it, like back in the day.

0:46:51.960 --> 0:46:55.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about like six seven years ago. This happened right,

0:46:55.239 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 2>like in the beginning of the show.

0:46:56.520 --> 0:46:59.200
<v Speaker 3>No, well, it was probably like season five I.

0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:00.839
<v Speaker 2>Think now when you were on the show.

0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:04.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was on the show because yeah, because Sandoval

0:47:04.560 --> 0:47:05.799
<v Speaker 3>got the bacon a.

0:47:09.440 --> 0:47:13.959
<v Speaker 1>It's okay suddenly forgetting things that are very important, It's okay, okay.

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Last last few questions, I think. So you have the

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:20.800
<v Speaker 2>wine right or the which.

0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:22.239
<v Speaker 4>Is a wee hoop, which is a weeho wine.

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:23.880
<v Speaker 2>Do you want to tell us about That's how it

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:26.120
<v Speaker 2>started and and then what's going on.

0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:31.800
<v Speaker 4>With Yeah, so myself and Kristens Naci started which is

0:47:31.840 --> 0:47:34.359
<v Speaker 4>a whole wine. It's called potion. Well, we have Potion

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:36.640
<v Speaker 4>number one, which is Peano grasio.

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:38.640
<v Speaker 2>I love, that's my favorite, and post number two.

0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:41.759
<v Speaker 4>Which is a rose like that, and they're available on

0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:45.600
<v Speaker 4>Knocking Point Knocking Point knocking Point dot com, which is

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 4>it's a wine club, but you can buy it all

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:48.840
<v Speaker 4>a card, so you can buy, you can buy by

0:47:48.920 --> 0:47:52.879
<v Speaker 4>the case, you can subscribe because they've got amazing wine.

0:47:52.920 --> 0:47:56.279
<v Speaker 4>So it's some from walla wall Washington as well, and

0:47:56.440 --> 0:48:00.800
<v Speaker 4>they've got Washington is really great wines. But it's delicious.

0:48:01.120 --> 0:48:04.200
<v Speaker 1>It is it is when I was I don't even

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:05.920
<v Speaker 1>think I got to taste it because I got sober

0:48:06.040 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 1>before it came out, though even the Pinacre show, I

0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:10.120
<v Speaker 1>think so I smelled it.

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:12.960
<v Speaker 3>Have smelled it smelled, it smelled great.

0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 2>Up. I just I think Katie should bring to our

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:19.279
<v Speaker 2>wedding some of this uh which is wee Hawaiian so

0:48:19.360 --> 0:48:20.600
<v Speaker 2>I could really just get lit.

0:48:20.680 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 3>Are you ready to commit to that?

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:23.319
<v Speaker 4>Hey? Yes, hell yeah?

0:48:24.040 --> 0:48:27.840
<v Speaker 3>I love it all right, Katie Maloney, I want you

0:48:27.880 --> 0:48:29.040
<v Speaker 3>to do one thing before you leave.

0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 1>With the people that are out there who struggle with

0:48:33.719 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>mean people saying things negative about their body, what.

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 3>Would be your best piece of advice for them?

0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:45.879
<v Speaker 4>My best piece of advice would be to remember your

0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:50.360
<v Speaker 4>own worth and that other people don't get to decide

0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:53.320
<v Speaker 4>that for you. That every day that you get to

0:48:53.600 --> 0:48:55.799
<v Speaker 4>wake up and look in the mirror and say, bitch,

0:48:56.400 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 4>you are the ship and that you're worth it because

0:48:59.480 --> 0:49:01.800
<v Speaker 4>you in the day like it is your relationship with

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 4>yourself that matters, and that you were like you were

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:08.400
<v Speaker 4>going to be like the most important relationship that you have.

0:49:08.960 --> 0:49:11.120
<v Speaker 4>And to tune out the noise. It's just it is

0:49:11.280 --> 0:49:13.840
<v Speaker 4>just noise, after all, and even though it can be loud,

0:49:14.560 --> 0:49:16.920
<v Speaker 4>you just have to just tune it out. Take inventory

0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:19.880
<v Speaker 4>of your life, what's important, what brings you value, and

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:22.480
<v Speaker 4>invest in that and continue to reinvest in that.

0:49:22.760 --> 0:49:27.400
<v Speaker 3>Oh that's amazing. Thank you so much, best Katie Baloney,

0:49:27.480 --> 0:49:29.600
<v Speaker 3>I love you so much. Thank you, baby, you love

0:49:29.640 --> 0:49:31.680
<v Speaker 3>the La La my love.

0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:34.279
<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to call and tell you that you

0:49:34.480 --> 0:49:37.799
<v Speaker 2>and your boot Randal are the shit.

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:41.600
<v Speaker 5>We love listening to you guys, and you guys have

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:44.560
<v Speaker 5>a kick ass pods casts so far.

0:49:44.600 --> 0:49:46.279
<v Speaker 2>So please please please keep it up.

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:48.160
<v Speaker 6>I'm addicted already. Bye.

0:49:48.760 --> 0:49:51.399
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, my loves to everyone who has already left

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<v Speaker 1>us epic messages.

0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:55.759
<v Speaker 2>And keep them coming because we love hearing from you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Call us anytime at eight six six La La Pod.

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<v Speaker 3>That's eight six six Lala pie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, thank you for listening.