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Speaker 1: Hi, my little Valentines. It's Lala, Kent and rand And

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Speaker 1: this is give them La La with Randall and today

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Speaker 1: is the day of love.

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Speaker 2: Are you proud of me?

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Speaker 3: You didn't make the joke. Yeah, you remembered my name again.

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Speaker 2: I just want to make sure you're proud of me

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Speaker 2: that I didn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you you. So today is a

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Speaker 1: special day because it is Valentine's Day. But a lot

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Speaker 1: of people sit there and they're like, oh, fuck, Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a lover, and I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day is really about like having a significant other.

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Speaker 1: For me, it's always been my little brother Easton's birthday.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Lala, that's very specific for the rest of us

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Speaker 2: that are romantic, right, it is about Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: Have a significant other.

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Speaker 2: It's not about your brother Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: It's his birthday. I think that's more special.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Well, if people know you, which most people are

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Speaker 2: listening probably do, they know that You're family is the

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Speaker 2: most important thing on the planet. But for the rest

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Speaker 2: of us on planet Earth, Valentine's Day is a romantic

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Speaker 2: lover's day and By the way, I want to tell

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Speaker 2: you that it is the greatest day on the planet.

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Speaker 2: You get to shower, spoil your lover with unlimited, unlimited things, roses,

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Speaker 2: sexy things, surprises.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like just another day for La La. Okay, well

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Speaker 1: that just sounds like an every day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you're an exception.

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, but you're whom like I'm sure a lot

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Speaker 1: of chicks that are listening to this are going to

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Speaker 1: be like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Randall Emmett. He's making Valentine's Day about lovers.

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Speaker 1: Like, if you think about it, most people are like,

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Speaker 1: fuck Valentine's Date.

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Speaker 3: No sort of a reminder that you.

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Speaker 2: Don't like it. I don't like where this is going.

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Speaker 2: First of all, this is not acceptable.

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Speaker 3: You're so romantic, though, I don't like it, but.

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Speaker 2: Stop saying it's like because there's a lot of Okay,

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Speaker 2: let me say something. When I was single, like when

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Speaker 2: dinosaurs roam the earth. Okay, I remember Valentine's Day, and

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Speaker 2: you know what, I still didn't have that attitude, like

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Speaker 2: like fucked balance. You know what I did.

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Speaker 3: You're not a girl. Okay, keep going, but you're not

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Speaker 3: a check Keep going, but you know.

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Speaker 2: What I did? I spoiled my mother. I did things

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Speaker 2: like that. All I'm saying is this, you don't have

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Speaker 2: you're single.

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Speaker 3: Then you we're saying the same thing, Randall.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But for me, it's like even when I was

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Speaker 2: in college and I was like broke no money, Like I, okay,

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Speaker 2: this is a true story. I sold one of my TVs.

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Speaker 2: My roommate was not happy I sold the TV. True

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Speaker 2: story was a plasma. It's a plasma. I sold this

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Speaker 2: and I cooked a whole romantic dinner in my dorm

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Speaker 2: so there you go. So oh no, that was like

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Speaker 2: double steak and there was like a.

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Speaker 3: Big potato, and oh you sold the TV to.

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Speaker 2: Make to get all that shit and be able to

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Speaker 3: That is so sad.

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Speaker 2: See most people say that's romantic, Tim.

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Speaker 3: I would never know, Tim, who the hell is giving?

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Speaker 1: Did you at least get Poonani after If you're giving

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Speaker 3: One freaking dinner.

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Speaker 2: I probably bought a card. I don't remember. It was

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Speaker 2: a long time ago, but it was.

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Speaker 3: That's Randall Emmont for you though. That's what he does.

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Speaker 1: He's like, if I have to sell something to just

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Speaker 1: give a chick one nice dinner, that's what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so lucky to have you. I would never

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Speaker 2: No, you would. You would. You would let us starve.

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Speaker 3: To death because vale you reach.

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Speaker 2: It in your pocket. I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I actually have something really romantic planned I do

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Speaker 1: for to nice. It's not like it's not I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you you guys, Randall, if you bang on the table

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Speaker 1: one more time.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to bang.

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Speaker 2: But it's pretty funny.

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Speaker 3: Pull it together, rookie. No banging on the table.

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Speaker 1: No listen, listen. My little brother's birthday is February fourteen,

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, and for me today is like super emotional

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Speaker 1: because it's just another day that like, my brother's by

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Speaker 1: himself on his birthday, meaning he doesn't have his dad.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but your brother has a girlfriend, a serious girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: And I talked to him today and he is, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's happy. You're not like you're creating something that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 2: Your brother is very excited today, and I talked to him,

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Speaker 2: I said, you're I woke up next to your sister

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Speaker 2: your dad. That I do know. I know that your

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Speaker 2: dad not being here, Daddy's girl. I got that part.

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Speaker 2: I get well, And I'm so older. Brother's not happy.

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Speaker 3: I know the life Easton's great.

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Speaker 1: It's me the thought of, like, oh, his birthday, dad,

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Speaker 1: And and as you get older, you're like not hanging out

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Speaker 3: It sucks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but let's talk about your Valentine's Day. Let's just

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Speaker 2: talk about positivity.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Let's talk about what I got.

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Speaker 1: I got so much candy all over my closet and

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Speaker 1: then I got three cards, not just one that told

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Speaker 1: me how much Randall Emmett loves me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you. So can we talk about the uplifting

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Speaker 2: part about Valentine's Day, not the negative? And you also

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Speaker 2: got to give you gotta got You also got a

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Speaker 2: pre Valentine's Day gift this week? Did you forget about that?

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Speaker 3: Wait? So was was the Chanel bag?

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, slash happy Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 3: Is that what it was? I mean, I think it's great.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't know that it was double meaning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm moving on for this whole thing. You know

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Speaker 2: what you make Valentine like. I actually want to go

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Speaker 3: Because that's what we all killed Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we're going to also have We're surprising each

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Speaker 3: Which neither one of us bow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got a little like Tim I meant like

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Speaker 1: Randall's forty eight. I'm twenty nine. I still need bomb chicken. Wow, Wow,

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Speaker 1: time I'm wearing wan Gerie.

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Speaker 3: I got us a sexy game.

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Speaker 2: You got my attention?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi over here Valentine's Dinner. Get out of here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you stopped me here like.

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Speaker 1: The one the one time that it's like we don't

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Speaker 2: Like I want to ask you this, ask your producer

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Speaker 2: tim what he did for his girl this morning? Would

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Speaker 2: you do?

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Speaker 3: What did you do for your wife this morning?

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Speaker 4: Tim, Well, we celebrated last night, but tell us, Tim share.

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Speaker 4: We went to a place called Black Market Liquor Bar

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Speaker 2: You got drinks, got drung. I did even get drunk.

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Speaker 4: But we had a couple a couple of coppa cocktails,

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Speaker 4: you know, vomitos, rappid doos, that's what they call them

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Speaker 4: at the Black Market Liquor Bar.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that you get lucky.

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Speaker 1: After no comment, Good for you, Tim, Producer Timmy Banks.

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Speaker 2: Have I Timmy went at it. I'm very happy.

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Speaker 3: I'm also very excited. Yeah you're gonna have fun tonight,

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Speaker 3: I promise.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your heart's going to be racing. I've got the

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Speaker 1: a little too cardiac arrest. Okay, So today I also

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Speaker 1: want to celebrate Valentine's Day by preaching self love. Our

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Speaker 3: Fucking respect this bitch so much.

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Speaker 1: We went toes for like a couple of years, and

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Speaker 3: And now that bitch is in my mother effing wedding.

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Speaker 1: She's a brides maid, Katie freaking caloney wait, and.

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Speaker 2: Her husband is a groomsman. How cool is that? But

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Speaker 2: here's the thing, you know what, I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: A signet on a tangent about how much I loved Katie.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but but I just want to say if you

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Speaker 2: just think it's important that either you're showing love. If

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Speaker 2: But I want to say one thing. Katie and Tom.

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Speaker 2: But other than that, then we'll get to that. Don't worry, Katie,

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Speaker 2: and I think that's a misinterpretation, like me, like I'm

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Speaker 2: that as, oh, Randy's an asshole, Randall's Randy's just super error.

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Speaker 2: But I think that when people are truthful, and I

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Speaker 2: I tell you why, it's my favorite part. Tell me

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Speaker 5: So I was just wondering for Laala, when you're filming

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Speaker 6: You, guys.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's not that hard to talk talk about

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Speaker 1: you know. So, No, that part's not hard. My favorite

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Speaker 2: I honestly, and this is not a cop out. I

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you don't think all of it's funny?

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Speaker 3: What about like, let's get it Pop and Daddy?

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Speaker 2: Fine, Okay, we're going to other plant. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: And this is why I love him, because he's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not changing. I'm sorry. My mom tried at a

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Speaker 3: Everyone should give up. Yeah, Okay, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: You just brought back a few moments that I could

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Speaker 3: Right, Let's move forward to the next voicemail.

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Speaker 6: Hey, my name is Hillary. I love you guys on

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Speaker 6: the show. I'm really that Rand is on the show.

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Speaker 6: I think he's a pretty cool guy. I also like

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Speaker 6: his voice. Anyways, question for you, Laala. You know Katie

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Speaker 6: And also love your pod show.

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Speaker 1: Bye Okay, I love this voicemail. And here's why. Let's

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Speaker 1: be very clear, Katie was nasty to me. Whila was

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Speaker 2: because that's life, that's what happens. People don't it's a misunderstanding.

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Speaker 2: I think you misunderstood her, she misunderstood you. Today, when

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Speaker 3: It is. I can't even fathom doing that to her again.

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Speaker 3: Yes about that time.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: We have the infamous bad Bitch Katie Maloney shorts and

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Speaker 1: the mother effing building, and the building today is Sir restaurant.

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Speaker 3: All began. We're literally sitting in the VIP and this

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Speaker 2: Favorite part of Katie Welcome the Mothership. Hi, we're so

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Speaker 2: it's like hanging out. It's like we're like, we could

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Speaker 4: Yeah eleven years a yeah, years ago, a lifetime.

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Speaker 4: I came here for dinner one time and I loved it,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so great. So he calls you says

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Speaker 4: Yeah, come in, and so I, yeah, I started training.

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Speaker 4: But me, krist and Stacia looked at each other. We're like,

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Speaker 2: That's what they do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you basically ran. So from that point on you

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Speaker 3: Can't go in in and now they know for damn sure,

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Speaker 2: in Hollywood? You know we're big fans. So I thought, yeah,

440
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 2: all right, I thought that. I thought, I just think

441
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,160
Speaker 2: it's cool to hear like the origins, because I don't

442
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 2: think people really know, like ten eleven years you've been

443
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 2: at this, that's a career, that star.

444
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,120
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it's a long time.

445
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 2: I know.

446
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,119
Speaker 1: But how amazing that the place that she really wanted

447
00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 1: to work at because it was chic, and then like

448
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 1: that was going to be her life story, like the

449
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 1: place I really wanted to work, just decided to do

450
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 1: a TV show with my friends and it was a

451
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 1: huge success. And now we're buying houses and whatnot.

452
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 2: It's insane. Not my houses, I mean giving you a

453
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 2: life that the origin of this place. You know. Obviously,

454
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:50,919
Speaker 2: your personality, the cast personality, you know, creates the success

455
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 2: of the show. But it is pretty cool that we're

456
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 2: sitting here in the place where you were taking orders

457
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 2: at a restaurant. Now you're, you know, a superstar.

458
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Speaker 4: I think it's it's crazy because in LA we all

459
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 4: take jobs at restaurants just as it means to an

460
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 4: end to hopefully end up on TV in another capacity.

461
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 4: You never think that taking a job at that restaurant

462
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 4: is going to put you on TV. You know what

463
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,119
Speaker 4: I mean. It's right, it's very Yeah, it's crazy.

464
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 1: Crazy, yeah, because that same type of it all starts

465
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: with I went to sir just to have dinner.

466
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 3: It's the same thing with me.

467
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: I went to sort of just simply have dinner, and

468
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 1: then all of the sudden, you know, the OG's welcome

469
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: me onto the cast. And five years completed a lot

470
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: of rough patches, and then it's like the best time

471
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 1: ever However, a lot of things come with being on

472
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 1: a reality TV show because people think they can talk

473
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 1: to you a different way than they would obviously talk

474
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: to Jennifer Aniston, you know, yeah, and Katie knows a

475
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: lot about that. So what is it like when you

476
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: you know, you went to the Oscar brunch, you looked

477
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: chic af and I saw that you posted something that

478
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 1: someone had commented this is this year?

479
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 3: This just happened. I wanted to physically assault the person

480
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 3: that she's going to tell.

481
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 8: You, so I want to Oh yeah, So myself, Saucy

482
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 8: Brittany and then Tom Jacks and bo we got invited

483
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 8: to the E had like a pre Oscar brunch.

484
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Speaker 4: It was like a show that they had worth like

485
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 4: all kinds of different segments and maybe dictionary so like,

486
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 4: so the thing was like a brunch. Like I wasn't

487
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 4: supposed to dressed, like I'm going to the Oscars. I

488
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 4: was like, okay, well, let me just wear So I

489
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 4: wanted to wear something that was like Parisian chic and

490
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 4: like you know, Chanelle Carrie Bradshaw. So I yeah, I

491
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 4: put on a skirt that I got from Paris. Okay,

492
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 4: with a little like cute blazer and everything, and like Saucy.

493
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 4: I sent a picture of Saucy. She goes, oh my god, yes,

494
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 4: it's like cool. They didn't think anything of it, and

495
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,159
Speaker 4: then Brittany posted a picture of it, and then of

496
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 4: course all the comments were dominated just by everyone hating

497
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 4: on my outfit, which I'm used to it. People don't like,

498
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 4: how do you.

499
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 2: Deal with it? How do you deal with that? Because

500
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: you're such a nice person. I know you for a

501
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: long time. Now, how like when this first started, I

502
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 2: got a lot of mean comments about my weight and

503
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 2: things like that. I mean, she knows, and like I

504
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 2: flipped out in the beginning. Now I've turned it out.

505
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,719
Speaker 2: But you've been doing this for ten years. So how

506
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 2: do you take it? Does it put you into a

507
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: like retreat or does it make you attack or do

508
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: you just not give a shit?

509
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 4: It depends on what they're saying, what they go in for.

510
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: Well, the comment that you circled and reposted on your institutions,

511
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 1: let's talk about that.

512
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 4: So this person she had said, I don't think it's

513
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 4: so much of the outfit. It's about the fact that

514
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 4: she gained weight, and if she was in shape, the

515
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:49,640
Speaker 4: outpha wouldn't look bad.

516
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: Oh that's gross.

517
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 4: It's also her personality and her I feel bad for

518
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 4: her husband because she probably never had sex with him.

519
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 4: I mean, she just what she just went like for

520
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 4: it all. And I really tried. I've gotten to I've

521
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 4: just I try to not look at the comments because

522
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,239
Speaker 4: I know what's there and if I go look at them,

523
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 4: it will it will affect me. It will affect me

524
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 4: because I have I have yes, I have a thick skin.

525
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 4: And I try to remind myself that these are strangers.

526
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 4: I don't know them, their opinions.

527
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: Really strangers in a dark room, who are who will

528
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: never come out of that room? Right, it's all hide

529
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 2: behind a screen because but at the same time, you're

530
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 2: a human being.

531
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 4: But I'm a human being, of course. But I saw

532
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 4: this one and it just like really stood out to

533
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 4: me as just being exceptionally evil. Wow, And I just

534
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 4: was like no, And so I just decided that I'm

535
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 4: just like you know what, I just I'm just gonna

536
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: go ahead and just put this on my story. Good

537
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 4: good for you, because I just think this is disgusting

538
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 4: and inappropriate and I don't care who gets mad at me.

539
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 4: I just think that I want all my followers, right.

540
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: And maybe and maybe that'll distract some people from not

541
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 2: saying shit like that.

542
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: Did you get a lot of people in the DMS

543
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 1: that were like, I can't believe someone would.

544
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 4: Say that to you. Oh yes, yeah, no I And

545
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 4: of course I have a lot of people that were like,

546
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 4: don't listen to that. I think you look awesome and

547
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 4: you know, and I appreciate that love and support, but

548
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 4: it's just, you know, I didn't cry about that, you know,

549
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,880
Speaker 4: it was It wasn't like I was like sad and oppressed.

550
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 4: It was just more like, wow, like this person is

551
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 4: a monster.

552
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. I have had people say really horrible things

553
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 2: like that, even worse like I should die or things

554
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, and I blasted a few of them.

555
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 2: I just think the fact that people think they can

556
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: just spew anything because their own miserable life, it's just

557
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: not they.

558
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 4: Think they can say it to me because of the

559
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 4: horrible things I've said to other people. They think I

560
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 4: deserve it because I'm not a nice person, or because

561
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 4: I've said mean things to Lalla or to you know,

562
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 4: I got James fired, and they backed me into this

563
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 4: corner of like, well, I can't say anything because I've

564
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 4: done and said this, I know, but.

565
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 2: Don't make a right exactly.

566
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: It's not a tit for tat. But let's let's make

567
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 3: something very clear.

568
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: When people are watching us on television, everyone involved.

569
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 3: On the show is going toes with each other.

570
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: If Katie's going toes with someone, it's because they've said

571
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: something on the show. It's definitely a tit for tat

572
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: type of thing. But as an outsider, you watching the

573
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: show are not Captain save the weakest link, No, And

574
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 1: they think that that's okay, and they want to talk

575
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: to you about your behavior in certain scenes, and it's like, okay,

576
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: but let's remember how long we film. Let's remember that

577
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: these scenes are cut into an hour long episode, and

578
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: it's not your job to say anything except sit your

579
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: ass on the couch and enjoy your fucking Tuesday night.

580
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 4: You were not there, like these people were not there.

581
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 4: Just because they're watching something on TV does not mean

582
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 4: that you were there and that you can speak on.

583
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 2: By the way, come on, and in all respect to that,

584
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: I've seen you guys all have your moments, but at

585
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 2: the end of the day, I've also seen I'm sorry,

586
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: let's not do that again. We can be better than that.

587
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: I've seen it from all of you guys, not just Jack's.

588
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 2: I've seen it with Tom. I've seen it. So the

589
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: part that these people saying these things, they don't see

590
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: the part where it's like, hey, I love you, I

591
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: made a mistake, let's be better. And none of these

592
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 2: people on the internet when they say this shite ever,

593
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you an well.

594
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 4: I feel like they do see that they've seen my apologies.

595
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 4: They've seen apologies with me a lot that they just

596
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 4: don't want to remember those.

597
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: They want to go to the bad stuff.

598
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

599
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 2: And I'll say one of the things I've gone after

600
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: people on the internet who've come after me, and a

601
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 2: lot of times they'll flip their whole tune and say, oh,

602
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know you're a real person or favor Yeah

603
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 2: I didn't know you. I thought this was like somewhere.

604
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, so, wait, that makes it okay that you

605
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: could talk. So I feel for you guys, because you

606
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 2: guys have it that times where I want to ask

607
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 2: one thing, this this fall that I that I heard

608
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 2: about that I never had a real conversation with you about,

609
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 2: can you just tell me what happened? Because I know

610
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: it's a big deal in your life, and yeah, this

611
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 2: was traumatizing on every level. I just what, how did

612
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 2: this all happen?

613
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 4: Okay, so it actually happened right around the time I

614
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 4: got hired here. It was like right when I finished

615
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 4: my training here and I was supposed to start my shift.

616
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 4: So the night before I was supposed to start my

617
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 4: first shift here, I was hanging out with my friends

618
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 4: at one of their apartment buildings on the roof, and

619
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 4: it was very chill. It wasn't like I was going

620
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 4: wild or anything. That I sat on an old skylight.

621
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 4: It was a big, massive, old skylight and I sat

622
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 4: on it and it broke. I fell twenty five feet

623
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 4: and landed on a staircase and had brain injury. I

624
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 4: broke my collarbone, I broke my jaw pretty much all

625
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 4: my ribs on my right side. Oh my, I didn't

626
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 4: remember anything. I don't remember following.

627
00:28:58,240 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't remember. No.

628
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 4: I think it's traum an, Thank God.

629
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: Okay, wake up, you're in the hospital.

630
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 4: I see you.

631
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, how many days before you come out of it? Oh?

632
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 2: I mean right away?

633
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 5: Then?

634
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 4: Not right away? But yeah, like I woke up and

635
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 4: my mom was.

636
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 2: There and oh my god, I can't.

637
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 4: I have some family there and everyone is like terrified,

638
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 4: and I'm just like, what's Yeah, They're explaining to me

639
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 4: what happens because I want a morphine. I'm like, what's

640
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 4: up everybody? And everyone's like, oh my god, and I'm

641
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 4: just like thanks for coming.

642
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: I mean you thought it was like a little party

643
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 2: just to hang out.

644
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, when you're on the morphine, how.

645
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 2: Long are you in the hospital before to recover?

646
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 4: I was there for like three three to four days before.

647
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 4: They like because when you when you have a brain injury,

648
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 4: they want to make sure that the bleeding stops right.

649
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 4: And they also had to wire my jaw shuts because

650
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: it was was that. How long was that I had

651
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 4: my jaw wire? Chef for like six weeks?

652
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 2: When you say shut okay, because I hear this.

653
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 3: All West sipping, sippin'.

654
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: Uh you never had a piece of hard food.

655
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 4: No, I could not chew.

656
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: I lose my ship. I thought it was.

657
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 4: It was awful. I was awful, and I had to

658
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 4: have a titanium plate. I screwed to my job because

659
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 4: it was not healing.

660
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: This is by far the worst story in a long time.

661
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 2: That is horrible.

662
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was.

663
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: This is horrible. Yeah wow wow.

664
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: But after you said something to me that was really interesting.

665
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: And this was like a couple of weeks ago. But

666
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: we were at your house and you were like, I

667
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: don't after my accident, I didn't feel like myself. You

668
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: were like, I used to be cool. I like I

669
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: used to be chill and cool. Yeah.

670
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 3: I was like, well to me, you're still chilling cool.

671
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: Like what did you feel like it affected after that

672
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: your day to day life and how.

673
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 3: You felt about certain things.

674
00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean traumatic brain injuries can alter your personality

675
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 4: for sure.

676
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

677
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 4: So yeah, I feel like I was someone that was

678
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 4: very easy going and very relaxed and very like just

679
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 4: like it's all good, you know, and so so yeah,

680
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 4: now I feel like I do sometimes get angry a

681
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 4: lot faster.

682
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: I spie quicker.

683
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah right.

684
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 4: Short refuse is a lot shorter, but.

685
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 2: More about specific things or just it can just happen,

686
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 2: meaning are the things that trigger yours it just like

687
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: you just you used to have more.

688
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 4: Patience exactly, Okay, Yeah, yeah, I just I feel like

689
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 4: my tolerance for things, it's just it's just not that.

690
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you notice that that happened after your ecology

691
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: A lot.

692
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of yeah, just there was there. It

693
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 4: was just like a shift and sort of getting use

694
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 4: to being inside my head again and sort of it

695
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 4: just it's weird where it's hard to describe. It's really

696
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 4: hard to articulate because it's it was the process of

697
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 4: figuring things out and still almost figuring it out and

698
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 4: trying to remember things in my memory even like it's weird.

699
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 4: I can I can remember things from a million years ago,

700
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 4: and then there's some things just like a complete black

701
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 4: I don't remember like sections of my life right, which

702
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: is weird.

703
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: Before we go to break, because we're gonna take a

704
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 2: break real quick, I just want to ask how long

705
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: before you were mobile again, your jaw wasn't wired shot

706
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: where you started to feel like yourself again? How how

707
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: many weeks? How many months? Year?

708
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 4: I mean, But so this happened November ninth. I was

709
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 4: able to like sort of come back to work and

710
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 4: be back in the like the beginning of January.

711
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 2: That's a serious I'm shocked, but it was.

712
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: I still was like healing. I still had in my

713
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 4: face and I still like had dental stuff. I had

714
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 4: to do there was still you know, and then and

715
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 4: then came like the emotional and like mental, Yes you

716
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 4: had that's what I was gonna ask.

717
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to have major PTSD. H Okay for sure.

718
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 2: Well I'm glad you're here because that's insane and God,

719
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: thank god you're able to sit here and talk about it,

720
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: because I'm sure a lot of people who sustain that

721
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: kind of fall.

722
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 4: Could don't get to.

723
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, we're back with the amazing Haiti and

724
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 2: La la, both of you.

725
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 3: We're back.

726
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: So I want to get back into after your fall,

727
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: the PTSD that you experienced after because there was a

728
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: time that you and I were being bougie on a

729
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: yacht somewhere and I was like, do you want to

730
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: jump off the top with me?

731
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 3: And you were like, I don't take risks like that.

732
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: I like, I'm good.

733
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I it's not like a fear of heights thing,

734
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 4: but I feel I after my accident I went through

735
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,959
Speaker 4: with the PTSD, there was a lot of like survivor's

736
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 4: guilt because yeah, there's a lot of people who went

737
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 4: through a similar thing who weren't as lucky, who can

738
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 4: realized who didn't survive. And so when I've sat there

739
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 4: for a long time, I'm like, well, why was I

740
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 4: so lucky? Like why why?

741
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 3: Which is which?

742
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 4: Which is kind of morbid in itself, But you can't

743
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 4: help but have those thoughts.

744
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 2: And I was lucky one of their people in wheelchairs exactly.

745
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 4: And so you want to think like, oh, well, I

746
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 4: guess that means I'm destined for something, But you don't

747
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 4: think like that. It's a very weird, hard thing to

748
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 4: get sort of comfortable with and gets your head.

749
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 2: You're in a dark place for a long time after that,

750
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 2: just because you were trying to the struggle of just

751
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 2: the PTSD or were you.

752
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 4: It was like it was it would come and go.

753
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 4: Because I was so happy and excited to get back

754
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 4: into my life, and because I was, I went to

755
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 4: Vegas to like heal my grandma, My grandparents lived there,

756
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 4: so like that's why I went and saw an oral specialist.

757
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 4: And so yeah, it was more comfortable there than being

758
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 4: in my apartment here with no one to help me.

759
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 4: So yeah, I was so excited to come back to

760
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 4: la and be with my friends and come back to

761
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 4: my job to get exactly. And so I was so

762
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 4: focused on that that once I came back, I was like,

763
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 4: oh gosh, like this is weird, and I feel like

764
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 4: my life didn't feel quite like my own anymore. And

765
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 4: I was like I was, you know before I wanted

766
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 4: to do acting, and I was like, not even sure

767
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 4: I wanted to do that anymore, because I was like,

768
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 4: life is so uncertain that I want to feel like

769
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 4: I can do something that in your what you thought

770
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 4: matter is something that I was in control of. That's when, yeah,

771
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 4: you have to go out on auditions and it's so subjective.

772
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 4: It's like I can't. I'm not like I want to do.

773
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 4: So I then was like, you know, I've always been

774
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 4: interested in working in like the music industry, so that's

775
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 4: when I decided I wanted to go and try to

776
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 4: get you know, an internship at a record label. And

777
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 4: I just I kind of started to switch gears so

778
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 4: slowly over time, but like I just like really started

779
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 4: like kind of focusing my attention that way. But but yeah,

780
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 4: over time, like you do, like it would come in

781
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 4: like waves of being like sort of depressed and in

782
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 4: a dark place and not understanding, and also there's a

783
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 4: lot of like new thoughts and feelings and frustrations and yes,

784
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 4: having like that short fuse all of a sudden and

785
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 4: not and not feeling happy all the time like I

786
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 4: was just I was so easy going, always so like

787
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 4: I mean I was. I was always sassy and always like.

788
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 2: A little like yeah, but that's that's makes you.

789
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 4: I was always like me, but now there was like

790
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 4: a little bit of a dark darker to me.

791
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 2: But that's I think what I'm most attrigued by this

792
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 2: whole thing, because I can't imagine. I was just trying

793
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 2: to think through while you're talking about the whole thing,

794
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 2: like and I fell, I'm in the hospital. I don't

795
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 2: think I'd ever be the same now. Would Would there

796
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 2: be parts of Randall that you'd still know? Of course?

797
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, but I think there's a piece of myself

798
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: that I'm going to lose when I fall off. When

799
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: I fall, you know, like that, and then it's never

800
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: going to come back. But what do I become then?

801
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 2: How do I I don't know. I just I'm very

802
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: intrigued by this because I just think it's such a

803
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: life altering chip.

804
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 4: It is omen when you're twenty four, I think, Yeah,

805
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 4: when I was twenty four and you're face with mortality

806
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 4: in that way you shouldn't. You shouldn't be thinking about

807
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 4: that kind of stuff when you're that age. You should

808
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 4: be like, I have my whole life ahead of me.

809
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 4: But here I am being like, okay, well maybe if

810
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 4: I don't have my whole life ahead of me, right,

811
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 4: And I all of a sudden like I better figure

812
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 4: something out. And there's pressures and there's thoughts in my

813
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 4: head that I never wanted to have, and just trying

814
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 4: to figure it all out at one time was really consuming.

815
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 2: And I'll tell you, I'll say this last thing about mortality.

816
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 2: It's like I understand that because at twenty four I

817
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: thought I would live forever, and at forty eight having children.

818
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: The minute I had kids, I definitely start thinking about

819
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 2: the clock. I mean tim you know, right, So once

820
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: you have kids, you know you start thinking, oh my god, Okay,

821
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 2: they're gonna graduate, I'm gonna be this age, they're gonna

822
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,479
Speaker 2: be in college, they're going to have babies at this age,

823
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 2: and will I even be around at that age. So

824
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: for you to say that, I can understand now it

825
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 2: makes more sense to me. At twenty four, you should

826
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 2: never be thinking about that shit. So the fact that

827
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 2: you fell from a building and we're in the hospital

828
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: trying to possibly going to die. That makes sense. I

829
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: think why your life was changed for the next you know,

830
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life, and I think at

831
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: twenty four you should never have to face that. Yeah,

832
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 2: but I also kind I said, one last second, I'd

833
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 2: be quiet. I promise you no, I promise I'll shut

834
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 2: up ever face. But I think that when you have children,

835
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: the uplift from this is I think, obviously you're always

836
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: going to be a great mother, but now I think

837
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: you'll really, you know, just cherish every second, every second

838
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: because you've been in a place at twenty four that

839
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: you should have never been in. And now even you

840
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, like, you know, she's going to

841
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 2: be a great mother no matter what. But I think

842
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: you'll cherish every second, every minute.

843
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 3: Because yeah, she has a different outlook right right, because.

844
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 2: You had to face that shit at an asia. Shit

845
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: never have face.

846
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 4: I think sometimes, yes, well, thank you, use just time

847
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 4: is going to mean something different to you than it

848
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 4: would mean every parent.

849
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 2: When you have a child, you face your mortality because

850
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: you start adding up the clock and it's the worst

851
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: thing you ever do as a parent, because you start

852
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 2: going there seven. Got No, it's not it's not depressing.

853
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 2: You know what it does. It makes you when they're

854
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: screaming the back room, or they're or they're terrorizing the

855
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: living room. It just makes you go, you know, when

856
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 2: I'm lucky to have this most that's all perspective. Yes,

857
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: it's not a depressing thing. It's just like, Okay, I'm

858
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 2: gonna suck it up when I've lost all patients and

859
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 2: I need five minutes to myself, you know, and Laala,

860
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: you know, has to face that now is a step mom.

861
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,959
Speaker 4: But it's a lot of work.

862
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, do I want to be a biological parent?

863
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 2: I don't know. Please, but but I'll tell you it's

864
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 2: I just think that, you know, you had to have

865
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 2: that perspective way earlier than you're supposed to, and I

866
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 2: think that's what I've realized now. And I give you

867
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 2: a lot of props for getting through that stuff.

868
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: What about so you were left with some scars on

869
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: your face, which, by the way, every time I see no,

870
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: you don't notice them unless she points.

871
00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 2: Them out, Okay, and then yes, yeah, I never.

872
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 3: They're barely they're pretty badass. I will say, thank you.

873
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm like that though I know that was.

874
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

875
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 4: One thing when I was when I was going through

876
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 4: like the whole healing process, was that they're like, do

877
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 4: you want to see plastic surgeon for your scars because

878
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 4: you know that you might leave a mark. And when

879
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 4: I was, you know, pursuing acting at the time, that

880
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 4: was something that maybe would have been important. I was

881
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 4: just like, No, these are badass, I'm going to keep them.

882
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 4: Like as Tina fe has a cool scorse, I was like,

883
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 4: this is like distinguished and this is like it's like

884
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 4: a battle scar.

885
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 3: It really was.

886
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 4: So Yeah, when you're.

887
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: Putting your makeup on, I know it's been a while

888
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: since this has happened to you, are they like do

889
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: you still look at them and remember like, Wow, I

890
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: fucking survived something that I got very lucky, I mean

891
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 1: a different type of fall. It could have ended very differently.

892
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: Do you ever look at your scars and you're like,

893
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: I remember that, and I do you get what I'm saying?

894
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I don't know if I don't know

895
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 4: if it's like I don't know if I had like

896
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 4: take a I don't know if it's like that, I

897
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 4: like have a moment with myself when I do that,

898
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 4: but I think it's when I do see it. It

899
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 4: is because I see it every day. That is, it

900
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 4: is a reminder every day. So whether i'm whether it's

901
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 4: like a conscious thing, it's subconsciously for sure.

902
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I've always wondered that.

903
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: I've never asked you that question before because I have

904
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: like this dog bite on my leg and I remember

905
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: it happened like before I went into junior high, and

906
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 1: junior high is very intimidating, and it was really ugly

907
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: and people were like, eh, you have such a disgusting

908
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: birthmark on your leg, and I'm like, well, I was

909
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: like attacked by a dog. But still every time I

910
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 1: see it, I'm like, I remember all of those things

911
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: and how self conscious I was, and now I think

912
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: it's like the cutest thing ever.

913
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: I know.

914
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 4: I love scars. I think, yeah, I do too. We're

915
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 4: so weird.

916
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 2: Awkward, Okay, awkward. I'm done with the scars out. Now

917
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 2: you're gonna want to go have a scar. I'm done

918
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 2: with that scar on your body.

919
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 3: Have mercy, okay.

920
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: Question, We're about to get married, yes, following your footsteps.

921
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:07,439
Speaker 2: Any advice going into the final stretch because we're getting

922
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: pretty close. And what was it like right after for you?

923
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 2: Was there anything different? Did it feel different?

924
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: So just yeah, because you and Thomas were together for

925
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: a long time before you got married, to have an answer.

926
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh god, I don't remember, you know.

927
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 4: To one of those crazy is that this year Tom

928
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 4: and I will have been together for a decade.

929
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: Ten years, so together ten years?

930
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 4: Yes, year? So yeah, I mean, wells you know, it's

931
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 4: I have this really strange, funny analogy that after you

932
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 4: get married, it's it's weird. It's like, you know, you

933
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 4: have the iPhone, but they have the iOS update. Yes,

934
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 4: so it's like so it's like you get married and

935
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 4: then it's like dios update happens. It's still the same phone.

936
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 4: But it's like, you know, but that is amazing. So

937
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 4: it's like, you know, it's that is one of the best.

938
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe there's like some new features and make it right,

939
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 7: maybe like it runs, it runs a little faster, runs,

940
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 7: a little faster functions, you know, but it's still the

941
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 7: same device.

942
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 4: It's still you know, yeah, same apps.

943
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 3: Probably one of the things I've ever heard.

944
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: Do you feel the same way? So I don't. It's

945
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 2: the same la la, but it's got a bunch of

946
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: different features.

947
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 4: Well maybe you know, it's just it maybe runs a

948
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 4: little faster, like the bugs have maybe been worked out.

949
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 4: I like it just it feels like it feels just

950
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 4: a little more like permanent in a good way. Like

951
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 4: you feel like the the the questions, the doubts kind

952
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 4: of go away because like you just feel like this

953
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 4: is my person for life, right, the rest of your

954
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 4: life gets to start finally, and that's there's nothing better

955
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 4: about that.

956
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: So Shartzy Schortzy said something so cute. When we went

957
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: to Florida for New Year's you guys were in a tiff.

958
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: Randall and I had already had our tiff, and it

959
00:43:59,680 --> 00:43:59,959
Speaker 1: was your.

960
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it moves, it moves around the group.

961
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 3: Yes, And you were off talking to Randall, talking him

962
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 3: off the legend.

963
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: I was talking short of well shorts. He wasn't even

964
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: on the legend be team work, I was. I was

965
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: talking to him and he was like, here's the.

966
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: Thing, Lollie, that's my bub. We've been together ten years,

967
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 3: Like we do this ship. It's like, come on, Bub,

968
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 3: we're all good. Ten years.

969
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: I like.

970
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 3: You stuck with me, dude. We've been doing this for

971
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 3: ten years.

972
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 2: We're like, yeah, oh my god, I just you know what,

973
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 2: I'm not talking to her, I'm not talking to him.

974
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 2: It's like, I feel like when we walked down the aisle,

975
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 2: and it's just kind of the little things maybe peel

976
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 2: away a little.

977
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 3: Did you cry when you walk down the aisle?

978
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 4: No, Tom and I did a first look.

979
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 2: Oh we did.

980
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,760
Speaker 4: So we did our photos and everything before the ceremony.

981
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 4: But so he and I did our photos first. So

982
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 4: he and I did a first look together where.

983
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 2: It's just right when you saw him there.

984
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So it was just it was just he

985
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 4: and I together and we had that special moment. But

986
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 4: then when he did his vows, it was like, oh god,

987
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 4: water works.

988
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: Then oh god, okay. I was like, what about him too?

989
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 4: Yes, and he was crying through his vows, you know.

990
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 4: And then and then I had to do my vows

991
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 4: after him, and I was trying to read through mine

992
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 4: and I couldn't even I was just mine were horrible

993
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 4: compared to him. And I started like winging it halfway through,

994
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 4: and I.

995
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: Was like, wait, how does that feel when you're in

996
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,800
Speaker 2: that moment if the other person like digs a little deeper?

997
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's his top? What I've read.

998
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 4: I know, I knew I was going to be better anyway,

999
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 4: already know this. We're going to be Yeah, and I

1000
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 4: should have.

1001
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 2: Going to be five star because I've worked on it

1002
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: for nine months now. Oh yeah, I've edited, re edit.

1003
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: I'm on like version number.

1004
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 3: When did you write yours?

1005
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 4: Like the day of gang?

1006
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 2: But really, why don't we read him out?

1007
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 4: I just think I just think that. I mean, I

1008
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 4: just was like, I just I want to love you forever.

1009
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 4: But that's it, Like I just you know, I.

1010
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 3: Love that you don't want to love it. And then

1011
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 3: bub went and got Bubba tattooed on his ass. Well

1012
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 3: that was before wow, So it was commitment from the jump.

1013
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 3: But here's a great thing, you know, Bubba tattooed on it.

1014
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 2: I don't need to know. How would I know that

1015
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 2: you would.

1016
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: Watch vander Pump Rules. You're not a true blue fan.

1017
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: Tom's never pulled down his pants for you.

1018
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 4: He does that. You haven't seen it?

1019
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 2: Maybe I remember it.

1020
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: I think show I couldn't get tattooed on your ass.

1021
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: There's no fucking chance you're.

1022
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 4: When you all the times that you've literally tried to

1023
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 4: bet him money to get your name tattooed on his

1024
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 4: ass or whatever.

1025
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 2: He's agreed.

1026
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,479
Speaker 4: By the way, I know, I know I've gotten phone

1027
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,760
Speaker 4: I've gotten the phone calls. But you he's never mentioned

1028
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 4: that he has it tattooed. No, I don't believe it.

1029
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,800
Speaker 2: I really, I really don't remember this, and maybe on

1030
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 2: the show I do remember it, like back in the day.

1031
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 2: I'm talking about like six seven years ago. This happened right,

1032
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 2: like in the beginning of the show.

1033
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 3: No, well, it was probably like season five I.

1034
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 2: Think now when you were on the show.

1035
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was on the show because yeah, because Sandoval

1036
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 3: got the bacon a.

1037
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,959
Speaker 1: It's okay suddenly forgetting things that are very important, It's okay, okay.

1038
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 2: Last last few questions, I think. So you have the

1039
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 2: wine right or the which.

1040
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 4: Is a wee hoop, which is a weeho wine.

1041
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 2: Do you want to tell us about That's how it

1042
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 2: started and and then what's going on.

1043
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 4: With Yeah, so myself and Kristens Naci started which is

1044
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 4: a whole wine. It's called potion. Well, we have Potion

1045
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 4: number one, which is Peano grasio.

1046
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: I love, that's my favorite, and post number two.

1047
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 4: Which is a rose like that, and they're available on

1048
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 4: Knocking Point Knocking Point knocking Point dot com, which is

1049
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 4: it's a wine club, but you can buy it all

1050
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 4: a card, so you can buy, you can buy by

1051
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 4: the case, you can subscribe because they've got amazing wine.

1052
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 4: So it's some from walla wall Washington as well, and

1053
00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 4: they've got Washington is really great wines. But it's delicious.

1054
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: It is it is when I was I don't even

1055
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: think I got to taste it because I got sober

1056
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: before it came out, though even the Pinacre show, I

1057
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: think so I smelled it.

1058
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: Have smelled it smelled, it smelled great.

1059
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 2: Up. I just I think Katie should bring to our

1060
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 2: wedding some of this uh which is wee Hawaiian so

1061
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: I could really just get lit.

1062
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 3: Are you ready to commit to that?

1063
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 4: Hey? Yes, hell yeah?

1064
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 3: I love it all right, Katie Maloney, I want you

1065
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 3: to do one thing before you leave.

1066
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: With the people that are out there who struggle with

1067
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: mean people saying things negative about their body, what.

1068
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 3: Would be your best piece of advice for them?

1069
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 4: My best piece of advice would be to remember your

1070
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 4: own worth and that other people don't get to decide

1071
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 4: that for you. That every day that you get to

1072
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 4: wake up and look in the mirror and say, bitch,

1073
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 4: you are the ship and that you're worth it because

1074
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 4: you in the day like it is your relationship with

1075
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 4: yourself that matters, and that you were like you were

1076
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 4: going to be like the most important relationship that you have.

1077
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 4: And to tune out the noise. It's just it is

1078
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 4: just noise, after all, and even though it can be loud,

1079
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 4: you just have to just tune it out. Take inventory

1080
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 4: of your life, what's important, what brings you value, and

1081
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 4: invest in that and continue to reinvest in that.

1082
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 3: Oh that's amazing. Thank you so much, best Katie Baloney,

1083
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 3: I love you so much. Thank you, baby, you love

1084
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 3: the La La my love.

1085
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: I just wanted to call and tell you that you

1086
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 2: and your boot Randal are the shit.

1087
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 5: We love listening to you guys, and you guys have

1088
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 5: a kick ass pods casts so far.

1089
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 2: So please please please keep it up.

1090
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 6: I'm addicted already. Bye.

1091
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: Thank you, my loves to everyone who has already left

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