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Speaker 1: This is John. This is your og okay storytime podcast hosts, and.

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Speaker 2: We have some rocking stories for you coming up.

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Speaker 1: But before you rock out with your socks out, I

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Speaker 1: got a quick chewning an ad break from a sponsors

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Speaker 1: keeping the show rocking and rolling.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend kept dumping me because our zodiac signs aren't compatible.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, oh god, John, there's some stuff we need

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Speaker 2: to address for the people.

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Speaker 1: It's true.

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Speaker 2: We've been getting a lot of comments over the last

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Speaker 2: couple months. Oh yes, one singular thing unites them all

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Speaker 2: is that where seven John?

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Speaker 3: Where they?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're to answer that right now, right here.

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Speaker 1: We've been not around for some super awesome reasons and

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Speaker 1: super cool things, and been not around for some less

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Speaker 1: awesome things, but we're gonna get into all of that

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Speaker 1: in today's episode.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And like some of the good reasons, which we'll

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Speaker 2: talk about later, is we've been expanding the team right

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Speaker 2: like it started with, just like Riley and then Sophia

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Speaker 2: came on. Now we have all these other people. We'll

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Speaker 2: get into those introductions later. A lot of really cool stuff,

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Speaker 2: which means, you know, there's a lot of work in

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Speaker 2: doing that. So John and I have been behind the

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Speaker 2: scenes more to manage all of that, which has still

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Speaker 2: been fun. Like you know, we talk about this stuff

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Speaker 1: Much speaking of things behind the camera so many of

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Speaker 1: you know, which, by the way, thank you to everyone

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Speaker 1: who reached out to me and everything during this time.

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Speaker 1: But as you guys know, had a five year relation

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Speaker 1: relationship that ended earlier this year and God said not enough.

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Speaker 1: So right after that, my dad actually had a really

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Speaker 1: bad stroke. It was crazy, flew out the same day.

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Speaker 1: He was ninety five percent paralyzed, couldn't talk, still can't talk.

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Speaker 1: He's doing better, but it was just kind of an

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Speaker 1: insane experience. I went back home for like basically two

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Speaker 1: just one of the most the most insane thing that's

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Speaker 1: ever happened to me in my life. Lots of spiritual

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Speaker 1: learnings and growth, but as you can imagine, for the

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Speaker 1: past couple of months, I've been basically not doing anything

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Speaker 1: other than that. So thank you all again for all

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Speaker 1: of your kind messages and support during that time. But

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Speaker 1: you know, again, just wanted to come on and explain

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Speaker 1: kind of what's what's been going on, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, yeah, And I mean like we've been seeing the

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Speaker 2: like how much support that you have been giving John

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Speaker 2: to this hard time. We've all been supporting each other

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Speaker 2: through this hard time. And again, it's like when you

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Speaker 2: watch a show, you only see what when when we're here,

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Speaker 2: But there's so much stuff that's going on behind the scenes.

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Speaker 2: I think people love to like speculate like Osam and

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Speaker 2: John hate each other or whatever. No it's not true. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're like they're actually not the same room because and

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Speaker 2: it's it's it's just like life is life is complicated,

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Speaker 2: and we've been doing this show for so many years

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Speaker 2: and we have to adapt, and that's what we're doing now.

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Speaker 2: And I think also like as the show grows, we're

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Speaker 2: also exploring our own creativity individually too. So we have

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Speaker 2: look like to create together, but we also have some

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Speaker 2: things that we've been developing on the side. Johnny, want

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Speaker 2: to talk a little about what you've been up to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, So I started doing music. I actually have

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Speaker 1: a song coming out tomorrow yeeha about the breakup actually,

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Speaker 1: so you know what it is topically relevant?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want to get those juicy details.

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Speaker 1: How about you, Sam, You've been cooking up but some stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, I started a show called cook for Me,

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Speaker 2: where if you've seen those videos where it's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: It's been so much fun. But like, just because we're

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Speaker 2: Okay Storytime universe. So there's all of these different things

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Speaker 4: Doing the twelve hour stream, having like awesome guests come on.

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Speaker 4: We've been doing her character streams like IRL streams like crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So yes, sir, Yeah, which is show? Seems like you

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Speaker 2: guys have been loving. Yeah, we might, we might have

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Speaker 2: this thing started? But John, want to introduce yourself?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Hello, I am John. Me and Sam started the

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Speaker 1: show four years ago after being fun fact dropped from

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Speaker 2: Yeah they dropped forever rude the day when they said

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Speaker 2: they never cancel shows. Yeah, it's our show.

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Speaker 1: God to love it. So we said we'll we'll be

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Speaker 1: And yeah, it's been guys, what a crazy ride it's been.

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Speaker 1: And just thank you for not only supporting me and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, they hang around all the time whenever

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Speaker 2: But yeah, let's, uh, let's reintroduce everyone a little bit. Riley,

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Speaker 2: how did you get involved in Okay story Time?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: I found them on TikTok and it was like the

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Speaker 2: After Riley, we had Sophia join, who unfortunately is not

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Speaker 2: we'll talk about in a little bit. But should we

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Speaker 6: I blame Christian for all that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Christian, who still has not made an appearance.

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Speaker 5: I'm the one who introduced Christian to partying in college.

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Speaker 5: I can't say thank you enough that Sam, John and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, out of all table.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just a silly guy, and that.

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Speaker 6: Another silly goofy guy.

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Speaker 2: Yep, let's get Dakota La Coda, it's.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so Dakota, how did you get into the mix

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Speaker 7: It started when I met Kean at the age of nineteen,

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Speaker 7: And I was like, I was like, I was like actually,

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Speaker 7: Never had met Sophia before, sat down and just like

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Speaker 2: and we didn't want to stop there. No, how could

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Speaker 6: So I started dating Riley.

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Speaker 8: was just always like, oh my gosh, Angie, I want

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Speaker 6: My wife is a great costume.

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Speaker 2: And then from Angie, do we get our second girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: But we didn't stop there, we cut it, We cut

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Speaker 1: Do it three to one.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend kept dumping me because our zodiac signs are

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Speaker 7: Now, you can't listen to a woman, by the way,

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Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Throwaway Adam, And if

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Speaker 2: I'm Savannah, I'm Vincent, I'm Dakota.

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Speaker 5: I'm Angie, I'm Kean, I'm Carly, I'm and also I'm Sophia.

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Speaker 2: I think you should go to your partner first about problems.

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Speaker 7: Ye what if instead of liking you, I don't like

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Speaker 6: You all saw you should all break up and move.

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Speaker 2: All right, So then you can only tell your enemies

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Speaker 7: I like that, and then take the opposite of your

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Speaker 2: Boom, there we go. Instead of trying to resolve things

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Speaker 2: Dog quite often, which doesn't give me a lot of

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Speaker 4: Because if you're gonna talk to me about stuff and

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Speaker 6: I we have to break up.

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Speaker 2: A break up? We got a break up? Sounds go

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Speaker 2: to break up. I was really surprised because our fights

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Speaker 1: This man is so allergic to cooking he gets strangers

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Speaker 6: You remember laying, dude, push me?

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Speaker 6: I think that's crazy.

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Speaker 5: Wait, is anyone here a Leo?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not a Leo, and that's a cheap excuse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed. Every time we fight, he would say stupid

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Speaker 7: Well, you know what, Biologically a crab and a lion

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Speaker 2: He then blamed our little fight on our signs incompatibility

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Speaker 5: People in the chat are saying, oh, yeah, I dated

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Speaker 7: This is just the pitfall of listening to a woman

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Speaker 1: Important caveata. My question is where's where's the sit down

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Speaker 2: It's turned into a little polycole Yeah, oh god, but

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Speaker 1: Take Chataki, I mean, eat chaitaki.

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Speaker 2: Do you really want to be with someone so gullible

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Speaker 1: Yes, convenient excuse.

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Speaker 2: He's pretty stupid to fall for it, especially like this.

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Speaker 2: what are everyone's predictions? Again? This is two months later?

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Speaker 2: What is everyone predictions?

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Speaker 8: Well, if we look at the stars and if we

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Speaker 8: I think it'll mean they'll will break up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but what do you think pregnant pregnant? Oh that

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Speaker 3: And then what's the baby' zodiac sign gonna be?

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Speaker 2: Oh dang, if it's not compatible, you gotta rowed into

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Speaker 7: They're pregnant with twins and they're going to be uh Jerminis.

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Speaker 3: What do you think I'm hoping that they break up

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Speaker 10: I don't think it's gonna work out. I understand where

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Speaker 10: I used to like be really really into it, but like, I,

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Speaker 10: what do you know all of it? What do you mean.

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Speaker 6: Who's in charge of it?

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Speaker 2: The elders, the move Carly, what do you.

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Speaker 6: Think I think he's with the front ooh Kean.

443
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Speaker 5: I was gonna say, I guarantee you. The friends said

444
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Speaker 5: it's in our alignment that you sleep with me and

445
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Speaker 5: you cheat on your partner.

446
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Speaker 2: And wow, we got an update two months later, so

447
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Speaker 2: let's get into it. We are not good together anymore,

448
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: which is a good thing. But we didn't break up

449
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Speaker 2: right awaytirst. I ended up continuation you'd get brain first.

450
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Speaker 7: No, I said, she got pregnant.

451
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Speaker 2: Similar, Yeah, I ended up comfronting my boyfriend about his

452
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Speaker 2: friend her input in our relationship and him seeking validation

453
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Speaker 2: from her. As many of you have guessed, there was

454
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Speaker 2: much more to their friendship than I knew about. I'm

455
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Speaker 2: not sure how far they went to this day, but

456
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Speaker 2: to the people that were saying that they're using this

457
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Speaker 2: whole zodiac incompatibility as an excuse.

458
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Speaker 1: You were right, I'm not happy until there's a baby.

459
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Speaker 2: We took a break at first because when I decided

460
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Speaker 2: that I wanted to end things on my own terms,

461
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Speaker 2: my now ex boyfriend switched the narrative to a little switcheroo.

462
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Speaker 2: Surprising enough, he decided he's not ready to let me

463
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Speaker 2: go and that he will cut out his friend if

464
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Speaker 2: it meant we would stay together, and I was stupid

465
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Speaker 2: enough to believe him. Me so bad, so accurate. One

466
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Speaker 2: week later, I've decided that I will give my boyfriend

467
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Speaker 2: another chance. We decided on new boundaries. We love boundaries,

468
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Speaker 2: and everything was going smooth for two weeks. That's until

469
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Speaker 2: I noticed that my boyfriend is being suspicious with his phone,

470
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Speaker 2: taking it with him even when he's taking a bath.

471
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Speaker 1: Mmm, good old bath phone.

472
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Speaker 2: One time he forgot to mute his phone and I

473
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Speaker 2: heard the Facebook messenger signal coming from the bathroom while

474
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Speaker 2: he was supposedly taking a bath. I never checked his

475
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Speaker 2: phone before. Oh, you know where we're going. You know

476
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Speaker 2: where we're going, and I wasn't planning to, so I

477
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Speaker 2: just asked him to show me his messages. I guess

478
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Speaker 2: He was surprised because I never was the type of

479
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Speaker 2: check what he's up to, so he got quite defensive.

480
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Speaker 2: But I'm planning on getting up or sorry, giving up.

481
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Speaker 2: I wasn't planning on giving up.

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Speaker 6: Gotten down the hatches.

483
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Speaker 2: We had a whole argument about me not trusting him,

484
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Speaker 2: to which I agreed that I don't and he should

485
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Speaker 2: just show me his phone so we can be done

486
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Speaker 2: with it, and he did. Guess what. I found out

487
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Speaker 2: that he's still in contact with the astrology obsessed friend,

488
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Speaker 2: and their conversations aren't exactly friendly banter.

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Speaker 11: I'm imagining like dirty talk, but all in like zodiac

490
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Speaker 11: Yeah terminology, give me one.

491
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Speaker 3: I'm on the cusp. I'm on the cusp.

492
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Speaker 2: Stuff.

493
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Speaker 1: My claw.

494
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Speaker 2: Finding out led even more of an argument in which

495
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Speaker 2: my boyfriend admitted to cheating on me with his friend,

496
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Speaker 2: but he blamed it of being a cancer.

497
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Speaker 1: My friend, you are cancer.

498
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Speaker 3: Keon called that.

499
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Speaker 2: And him being a leo again, and then proceeded to

500
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Speaker 2: tell me that the only reason why he was fighting

501
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Speaker 2: to stay with me because as a cancer, I'm very

502
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Speaker 2: homely and living with me is great.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I don't like this guy.

504
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Speaker 6: Only is a crazy drop.

505
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Speaker 7: Yeah, you're built for being at home and looking like

506
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Speaker 7: you're a maid.

507
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very homely.

508
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Speaker 8: If I if I keep my my cancer wife to

509
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Speaker 8: stay at home, then I can get my scorpio side chick.

510
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Speaker 2: But I don't give him the thrill that his Sagittarius

511
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Speaker 2: friend is giving him. There's another relevant updates, but let's

512
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Speaker 2: take a moment and discuss. Is your zodiac sie an

513
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Speaker 2: excuse to be a terrible person?

514
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Speaker 7: Yes, only if it's uh, you know me, which is

515
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Speaker 7: usually how people who really believe in astrology think.

516
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Speaker 6: There we go, just yeah, this is actually.

517
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Speaker 2: All for me and always has been, Savannah, someone who

518
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Speaker 2: believes in astrology. What do you think?

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Speaker 10: Yes, guys, I don't think it's a good excuse to

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Speaker 10: h say, like, you know, all of this is the

521
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Speaker 10: reason for me doing this. Honestly, it's just like who

522
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Speaker 10: you are, so it it.

523
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Speaker 1: The stores have a little bit to do, like they do,

524
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Speaker 1: I think like.

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Speaker 10: They do kind of like go with personalities, Like I

526
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Speaker 10: can see some of it, but like I'm not gonna

527
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Speaker 10: be like, oh, well, I do this because I'm a

528
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Speaker 10: sad serious you know, I have to.

529
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Speaker 6: That's just that's what Detris. It's who I am.

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Speaker 1: The big Dipper says, cheat today on it.

531
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we got a little bit more to this story.

532
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Speaker 2: So yeah, I kicked him out. I'm on the lease anyways.

533
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Speaker 2: And when he tried to argue to let him stay

534
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Speaker 2: for a few days until he finds his own apartment,

535
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Speaker 2: I told him that as a cancer, I'm not sure

536
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Speaker 2: I can control my emotions and won't unlive him in

537
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Speaker 2: his sleep.

538
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Speaker 1: Let's go.

539
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Speaker 2: That's how my ax became my ex. What I've learned

540
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Speaker 2: from this is avoid anyone who believes in astrology as

541
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Speaker 2: a romantic partner, to be more wary of my future

542
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 2: partner's friendships, as many things may not be what they seem.

543
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 2: And that is where that story ends.

544
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Speaker 1: Wow audience studio audience class, studio audience class. Yeah, oh

545
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Speaker 1: ow Ow.

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Speaker 7: My absolute favorite thing to do to anyone who's like

547
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 7: a devout, absolute believer in astrology being facts is just

548
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 7: asking like who's the one who made it?

549
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 6: Like who who's in charge?

550
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Speaker 7: Who interprets Who's like, oh, that's the star, But who

551
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 7: who got the message from the stars?

552
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: The stars tell you stuff. It's like it's like physics,

553
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 2: who got the message from gravity?

554
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Speaker 1: I don't know the stars? Newton that guy has a name.

555
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 2: Isaac Newton interpreted it from the stars. He's just looking

556
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Speaker 2: at Isaac Newton's basically an astrologer.

557
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Speaker 7: Whoa let's yeah, see now this is exactly my point.

558
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Speaker 2: But that is where that story ends. Everyone else is

559
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Speaker 2: clearing out. This is a John and Sam ending episode.

560
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Speaker 2: Not ending, but just we're gonna end this episode with

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Speaker 2: the boys. But everyone say goodbye and we'll see you

562
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Speaker 2: in a little bit.

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Speaker 11: Bye.

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Speaker 2: Sam. Here og host, We're gonna get back to these stories.

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Speaker 1: First, I broke my girlfriend's heart by siding with my ex.

567
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Speaker 2: Oh no, don't be a side piece siding with your X.

568
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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Trigger warning, physical altercation. So I feel

569
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: as though I betrayed my boyfriend. On his birthday this Saturday,

570
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 1: I was out in town with my boyfriend of nearly

571
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Speaker 1: a year and a half and his friend celebrating his

572
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Speaker 1: twenty third birthday. Evening was going well until at one

573
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Speaker 1: point we bumped into my ex. He was my first love.

574
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Speaker 1: Oh and we were together for a few years.

575
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Speaker 2: Dang, that's some chemistry.

576
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 1: Usually that's chemistry, that's time all the wrong ingredients.

577
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Speaker 2: Yes, yep, that's rough.

578
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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Throwaway Leads twelve and

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Speaker 1: if you want to submit your own stories, go to

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Speaker 1: the r slash okay storytime subreddit. I'm John, I'm Sam,

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Speaker 1: I'm Riley, and we're here to give you good advice

582
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Speaker 1: goofly and we don't have all the answers. We only

583
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Speaker 1: know what we do, so let us know what you

584
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 1: do in the comments. But Opie says, uh, he was

585
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: never happy with how we ended the X was he

586
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: was very wasted and began speaking inappropriately. I will let

587
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 1: your minds imagine what words were being said. My boyfriend

588
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,239
Speaker 1: and his friends were into the pub and when we

589
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 1: were outside of it, and I spent two minutes talking

590
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: to my ex before going back in. My boyfriend seemed

591
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: unbothered by the situation, but mentioned that he was glad

592
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: that he's gone. We stayed in the same pub for

593
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Speaker 1: about another hour before moving off up the town towards

594
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Speaker 1: another We got to the other pub and my ex

595
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 1: was there with his friend. Is trailing heiling X.

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Speaker 2: I feel like just put a little uh, a little

597
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Speaker 2: fine my my friend's tag, Oh yeah, just y.

598
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Speaker 1: We get a drink and we're just chilling in the

599
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Speaker 1: smoking area. My boyfriend was obviously a bit uncomfortable with

600
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Speaker 1: how my ex was looking at me whilst we were chilling,

601
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: also maybe by the fact that he followed.

602
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Speaker 2: You guys also see him go from like across the

603
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 2: way just like rubbing his hands like a little fly

604
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 2: to land on that girl.

605
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: Give it that.

606
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 2: You know? Oh yeah, am I doing a fly?

607
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 3: Well?

608
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 4: No, no, no, you got yeah yea ye yah yeah

609
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 4: yah yah yah yeah yeah.

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00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: It's like it's like, yeah, that's a very essential fly, right,

611
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: My goodness, that's what they do. Dang, I was getting freaky.

612
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 4: But then add like three more legs.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, that's I mean, maybe only two.

614
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Speaker 1: That's getting me too excited over here. Now, At some

615
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: point my ex wanders over and begins speaking inappropriately again

616
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Speaker 1: and putting his hand on my back. But and was

617
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Speaker 1: it with.

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Speaker 2: His fly his fly? Hands with hands or you know,

619
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Speaker 2: you know, three hands.

620
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Speaker 1: My boyfriend asked him to move along, and my ex

621
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Speaker 1: doesn't take this well, he shoves my boyfriend and hits

622
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Speaker 1: him in the face. Well, that is definitely not taking it.

623
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 2: Well, what is this guy doing?

624
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Speaker 4: Bro?

625
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Speaker 1: What is Where's call the freaking bouncer?

626
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 2: What's going on?

627
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: My boyfriend seemed instantly enraged.

628
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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, this random dude is like petting your

629
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Speaker 2: girlfriend like a fly and trying to mess you up.

630
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Speaker 2: I would be enraged and freaking whapsuit.

631
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Speaker 1: Yeah that's fair. Now this scared me as I have

632
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Speaker 1: not seen him like this before my boyfriend knocked him down.

633
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Speaker 2: I mean, hey, we never like physical violence for me

634
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Speaker 2: right now, no, I mean, like honestly like physical violence

635
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Speaker 2: and ever they answer, but like, oh man, just sometimes

636
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Speaker 2: it's just so sweet when you got it coming, when

637
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Speaker 2: you got it coming, and that you you get you

638
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Speaker 2: get the come in that when you got it coming

639
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Speaker 2: and it came.

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Speaker 1: You've been looking at too many flames, sir.

641
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Speaker 2: When you when you're coming anyway, like it's good.

642
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Speaker 1: It's very good. Now this is where I can see

643
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Speaker 1: that I fed up big time. Once his friends pull

644
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Speaker 1: my boyfriend back from the fight, I ran to my

645
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Speaker 1: ex on the floor and was checking if he was

646
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Speaker 1: okay and wiping the red from his nose. I sat

647
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Speaker 1: there for maybe another twenty to thirty minutes, giving him

648
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Speaker 1: a drink and checking him over. Once he was back up.

649
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Speaker 2: He wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

650
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Speaker 2: wait wait girl wait wait? The girlfriend is spending twenty

651
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Speaker 2: to thirty minutes with the guy that just got dropped.

652
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Speaker 1: I gotta give him a drink, I XO. Yeah, I

653
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: gotta pat him down with you know, like the steak

654
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Speaker 1: on the eye, like a cartoon.

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Speaker 12: You know what, the guy that started this all, No

656
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Speaker 12: gotta make you leave with your man's It was then

657
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Speaker 12: that I looked around for my boyfriend and I couldn't

658
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Speaker 12: find him anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Not only was she with him for twenty three but

660
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Speaker 1: she was so locked into him or so even know that,

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Speaker 1: that to me is the most Yeah.

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Speaker 3: W whoa?

663
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: So my friend said he left with his friends almost

664
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: as soon as I went towards my ex on the

665
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: ground and apparently looking heartbroken.

666
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 7: Yeah.

667
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: I was meant to be staying at his place that night,

668
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: and I got a taxi back there, but there was

669
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: no one home. It's been three days and I haven't

670
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: even been able to get a hold of him, and

671
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: I think she's still at his house. What's going on?

672
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: I got a hold of his friend, who said some

673
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: pretty unpleasant stuff but probably deserved. I feel as though

674
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: I betrayed him on his birthday.

675
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 2: Birthday, bro, No, not his birthday. Oh what a present? Man?

676
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: I feel terrible. I've been crying pretty much constantly since,

677
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: and don't know what I can do to make this

678
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: up to him or to fix our relationship. I'd imagine

679
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: probably nothing at this point. Well, we do have some

680
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: relevant comments, but I'm gonna ask for one extremely relevant

681
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: comment from Samuel Donner on what your thoughts are.

682
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean to do right now. So my thoughts

683
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: right now. I mean, I feel like he shouldn't have

684
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 2: punched the other guy. I think that was a move.

685
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: I also feel like ope should have said something with

686
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: the whole back thing. It feels like the boyfriend had

687
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: to step in, and it's like I feel I've been

688
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: in situations where I've had like ex partners be a

689
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: little bit inappropriate with other people, and it's like it's

690
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: always like a whack move to be the boyfriend being like,

691
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 2: shive away from my girl. Like ideally your partner should

692
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: say that, and if your partner says that, you enforce it, right.

693
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, And two look they arrive at the second location

694
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: and they see him there. Why is it not like

695
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: immediately op going and being like why did you follow me?

696
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

697
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, this guy is trying to create a

698
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: scene or something. Yeah, and then to like, you know,

699
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 2: seeing if he's okay. I think maybe for like thirty seconds, Yeah, yeah,

700
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: is okay because you shouldn't you know, you shouldn't be

701
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: punching people, but like thirty minutes to the point where

702
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: you forget your boyfriend's even there and don't know where

703
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: he is, Like yeah, I mean I feel like there's

704
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: There was a couple sequences of Op choosing her ex

705
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: over her boyfriend's feelings throughout the night and maybe she

706
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 2: wanted to feel a little backpat you know.

707
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also too, like it is like to inn

708
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: ope's fairness, what an incredibly awkward situation to be and

709
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: like it's never fun to be like go away, like

710
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? And like, you know, having

711
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: to like really shut someone down, especially when they're just

712
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: continuing to bowldoze over your boundaries, following you to a

713
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: second friaking location. But it's like at the yeah, it's

714
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: it's it's to tell them go away. Yeah, you know

715
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: the bounce.

716
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like she wasn't really putting out any boundaries.

717
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 4: Yes, I would like to see the other side of it,

718
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 4: because we're only getting o p side of it, and

719
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 4: it may be a little nicer. You know, was there

720
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 4: any like body language?

721
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 2: Oh, like you're saying, like, is Opie hiding stuff about

722
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: how she was interacting? I I feel like yeah, I

723
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 2: feel like like potentially, Yeah.

724
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 4: How did he know where she was? Does she still

725
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 4: share a location.

726
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: With that's actually great?

727
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 3: Yeah?

728
00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: How how did he know?

729
00:34:59,560 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 2: Well?

730
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: We got some relevant comments here, Doctor Sdo says, could

731
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 1: you clarify your reasoning for going to help the instigator

732
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: of the violent act? Was it because you felt sorry

733
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: for your ex or that you didn't like how violent

734
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: it became? Or was it because you didn't want to

735
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 1: see anyone hurt physically x or otherwise? I think you

736
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: can take some time to reflect on this and try

737
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: to communicate clearly on why you did your action, and

738
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: let your partner have agency in what to do next.

739
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: I like that whether or not he lets us go

740
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,760
Speaker 1: or breaks up with you, this should be his decision.

741
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: On a separate note, I hope you will be well

742
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: soon and lean on support from family and friends during

743
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: this tough time.

744
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 2: Edit.

745
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: My apologies, but I could have clarified. I didn't mean

746
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: for this post to diminish Opie's actions, but we can

747
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: both be empathetic and critical of her actions at the

748
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: same time. I'm sure in some way she's posting to

749
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: vent her own frustrations at the situation, and I doubt

750
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 1: that piling on would be any more useful. Hope that

751
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: clears things up, and I wish people well, and Opie

752
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: responds spoiler alert, this was downvoted. Let's see why, Opie says. Initially,

753
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 1: it was just instinct really was injured, whereas my boyfriend

754
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: was physically fine, which again I think is fair like

755
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 1: the kind of inaction. My boyfriend is much bigger and

756
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: my ex was rather wasted. But then I stayed a

757
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: little longer because I felt sorry for him. A lot

758
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: of people saw, and if very few were laughing, I

759
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: can see now how it was a mistake, But in

760
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: the heat of the moment, I'm not really sure what

761
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: came over me.

762
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, sometimes you make a mistake that ends

763
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 2: a relationship. Yeah, it is what I I It wasn't

764
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 2: like this is not like the worst thing that she

765
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 2: could do saying, but it definitely I don't know, it

766
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 2: feels like you're not like rocking with your partner exactly

767
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 2: my default, you know.

768
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're you still have feelings or there's still something

769
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: there with the X. Yeah, where your initial feeling is

770
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 4: to go to them instead of your partner.

771
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,959
Speaker 2: Kelsey Jade says he had his hand on her back.

772
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: So you guys are a lot nicer than me, because

773
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: I would kneel need bail money. Yeah, I mean I think, uh,

774
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: I think the thing that it sounds like is Hannah

775
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: on back. She didn't say anything. The boyfriend had to

776
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 2: go in. I don't think she was like, I don't

777
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 2: think she was was was speaking up. Yeah, it doesn't

778
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 2: sound like it at least.

779
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, we have an update. There's more

780
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: to the story. Okay, So just to clarify, I am

781
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: one hundred percent sure I have no romantic feelings for

782
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: my ex. I had been friends with him since we

783
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: were little kids because our parents were friends. In the

784
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: heat of the moment, whilst wasted, I went to help

785
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: a longtime friend rather than my ex, If that makes sense.

786
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: I know I still friends. I don't know if their

787
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: friends like post this thing, but I.

788
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 2: Really friends in that moment, like like like leading up

789
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: to that, like at post being exes, were they friends.

790
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: It's a good question. It doesn't doesn't really.

791
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: I mean, a longtime friend maybe complicates it a little bit.

792
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, family friends, family.

793
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: Friend complicates it a little bit, a lot of it,

794
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 2: I'd say, yeah, I feel like that's interesting context.

795
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 4: Just growing up your family friends and the parents are like, oh,

796
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 4: you guys would make a great couple. You guys are

797
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 4: so cute together, and then they dated.

798
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: I read recently that if you grow up with someone

799
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: between the ages it's like seven and eleven, you have

800
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 2: a way less chance of being actually attracted to them.

801
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 2: So like it's meant as like a defense mechanism is

802
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: against like like being too inshual. But like, uh, but

803
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: if you're like if your parents are always like, oh,

804
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 2: you should get together with blah blah blah, and they're

805
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: always making them hang out between like those ages, they

806
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 2: won't be interested in each other.

807
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 3: Interesting.

808
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: The science of not doing what Sam just said censored,

809
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: Opie says, I know that is no excuse and doesn't

810
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: change the situation, but I just thought i'd let you know.

811
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: I went by his house again earlier and have written

812
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: what I could below. Please know that I am not

813
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: after sympathy or any advice at the stage. I'm just

814
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,439
Speaker 1: giving the update. I came round to my boyfriend's house

815
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: a couple of hours ago. When he answered the door,

816
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 1: he looked utterly defeated. I almost started crying the moment

817
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: I saw him like that. He invited me inside and

818
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: we sat down on the sofa. He'd been drinking and

819
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 1: watching a film, which was still playing in the background.

820
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: We sat on the sofa for a while in silence.

821
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't even sure where to start. After a while,

822
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: he just asked why I did that to him through tears.

823
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: I explained that at the time, I viewed helping my

824
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: ex merely as helping a longtime friend and not my ex.

825
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 1: I was scared and shocked about the situation. I never

826
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: meant to hurt him so much, and I feel terrible

827
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: about it. I apologize profusely.

828
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 4: Okay, are we giving her a second chance?

829
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 2: I mean the family friend thing. I would love to

830
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 2: know from you guys, like, does the family friend thing

831
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 2: complicate it? I'm curious if you think so? What do

832
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: you think? John?

833
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: I'm curious also more on op and the current boyfriend's

834
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: history too, and like, is this a one time, like

835
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 1: weird lapse in judgment because it's It's not like stories

836
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, yeah, my boyfriend does X a

837
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 1: million times? Should I break up with them?

838
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 3: Like?

839
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: Is this a one time thing and a total lapse

840
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: of judgment?

841
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 6: Perhaps?

842
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

843
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: I'm I'm curious on how their whole dynamic looks.

844
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 2: Yeah hmm, yeah, I'm really curious if you guys, what

845
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: you guys think about?

846
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: Yes, let us know in the comments type in the chain.

847
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: But eventually, after I asked him to please say something,

848
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: he explained how I betrayed him and humiliated him in

849
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 1: front of his friends. What he was only trying to

850
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: defend me. He asked me how I could do that

851
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: to him, and although he tried to hide it by

852
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: looking at the TV, I could see him crying, which

853
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: is something I've never seen him do, not looking good.

854
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: Words can't even describe the way I felt in that moment,

855
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: seeing what I had caused, I just wanted the ground

856
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: to swallow me up. Ooh that is hope. He's a ope.

857
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: He's a pretty good writer. If anything, just you know,

858
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: take all that relationship. Yah, exactly into writing, but out

859
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: of book. We talked for a while longer, and he

860
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 1: continued drinking heavily. I urged him to take it easy,

861
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: but he ignored me. He explained how he still loved

862
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: me but still couldn't believe that I would do him

863
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: like that. He said he's not sure that is something

864
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: he can forgive. I again apologized and begged for forgiveness,

865
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 1: saying I would do anything, but he said he didn't

866
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: want to talk about it anymore. Right now, we have

867
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: a little bit left of the story. But Sam, I've

868
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: I've got someone I want to kick.

869
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: Kick at you here, yeah, kick me, kick me.

870
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm just like and look, the boyfriend at the end

871
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: of the day, everyone and the boyfriend included, has every

872
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: right to be like, hey, look, this hurt me to

873
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: such a level. This is just what I feel and

874
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: it's just not there for me anymore. And I and

875
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: I want to leave, but I don't know, like just

876
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: him continuing to drink and I don't know there was

877
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: something about that, and it seems like he's also been

878
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: locked up house for days doing that. I don't know.

879
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: I mean, like, obviously, like this coping mechanism isn't great,

880
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 2: but I don't think that makes him like at fault

881
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 2: for anything other than being self destructive.

882
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think. I don't think there. Do you

883
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: think they're gonna make it? We're almost at the end

884
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: of the story.

885
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't think so, Lucy Pieces,

886
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 2: I don't think these two should be together. He's not

887
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: okay with her still having her ex in her life,

888
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 2: and this drinking and crying thing doesn't sit well with me.

889
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, man, he's hurt, he's hurt,

890
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 2: he's hurt. I feel like that is not completely fair.

891
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: But I will say to that is self destructive though.

892
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: And there and there is I think just a big

893
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: misalignment happening, which is like this seems to be for

894
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: Opie's boyfriend, like the line in the sand, which I mean,

895
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: look at the.

896
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: End of the day, if you got sand castle.

897
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: You know so exactly. And sometimes there's a rowdy kid

898
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: that just comes on and.

899
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: Just stamps all over it, stops it.

900
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: So put your bets in now. Comment if you think

901
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: they're going to stay together or not. I say no.

902
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: I think Sam says no as well. Yes, what do

903
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: you say, Riley?

904
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 4: It's a little bit in me that they may stay together.

905
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: Oh wild card, But this is the only second chance.

906
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: This is it this? Is it?

907
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: Just one?

908
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: Just one? Okay, we'll see if they get it, Opie says.

909
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: We continued watching the film and both of us cried

910
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: a bit more. A short time later, he fell asleep

911
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: next to me. He's currently asleep on my chest.

912
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:56,959
Speaker 3: Wow.

913
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: What the heck? What?

914
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: No part of me wants to think that maybe he's

915
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: willing to forgive me, But deep down I just think

916
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: he's just sleeping like this subconsciously. Whilst I hope we

917
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: can work through this, I completely understand if he is

918
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: unable to forgive me. I love this boy dearly and

919
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: can't believe I broke his heart like this. Honestly, I

920
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 1: don't know what's next. I guess only time will tell.

921
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 1: We'll have to speak more about this when he's sober.

922
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: But as you've all pointed out, it's probably over. But

923
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen's story isn't over because we have an

924
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: update number two.

925
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 2: They definitely got back together. There's another update, right.

926
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 4: He slept on there like, come on, you're if yous,

927
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 4: Come on, I'm doubling down on No, actually I'm.

928
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: I'm I'm moving over more to Riley.

929
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 1: Okay, dude, Like.

930
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 4: You're not gonna want to sleep on their chest.

931
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, dude, you may might sleep on their lap

932
00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 2: the chest, dude, not the two glorious pillows.

933
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what let's watch on the place to be

934
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: built in pillows. You know what I mean. It's just

935
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: a it's just a comfortability thing.

936
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 2: You know. You can't argue with that.

937
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: Anyways, we've got number two.

938
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,439
Speaker 2: The thighs might be like also, I feel like that's

939
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 2: a little bit more comfy.

940
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 4: It depends on the built in pillows. Sometimes the bum

941
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 4: is like it really just depends on the manufacturer.

942
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, on the brand, I guess will question really quick. Yeah,

943
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 2: do you sleep like this? Or do you sleep like this? Oh?

944
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,479
Speaker 1: Wow? See I was thinking hand sideways, down on one,

945
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 1: down on one, because then I wish to form your

946
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: face of memory film.

947
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 2: But why not? Like I feel like if you go

948
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: in the middle, they support.

949
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 4: Okay, it's true, I'm doing in the middle, but face first.

950
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: And that, ladies and gentlemen, is the correct answer. Let's go,

951
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: oh baby, okay, let's see. Let's see what happened. Update

952
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: number two. We had breakfast this morning and then he

953
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: told me to leave again and go no contact with him?

954
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: Whoa dude, I whiplash.

955
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: Who cooked it?

956
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 3: Though?

957
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: Man just bounced off those little little milkshakeing.

958
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 4: But I wouldn't know who cooked Did he cook it

959
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,760
Speaker 4: or did she cook it? And then said no contact?

960
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 2: Oh like he ate? I was like that was delicious.

961
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: See she's literally sitting there while she's eating a pancake,

962
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: just like finished.

963
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 3: So I can tell you.

964
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 1: He said it was unforgivable, which is fair enough, not

965
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: exactly unexpected.

966
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think we called it. We called it.

967
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 2: I was hopeful just for the drama get back together. Sure,

968
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 2: the drama. Yeah, but it makes sense.

969
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 1: But that's it, Ladies and gentlemen. That's literally all she wrote.

970
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 2: And we got one more story for this episode. Ready

971
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 2: to jump INTI. This is an r slash okay storytime

972
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 2: subreddit Original Family. This is from the fam.

973
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: Hey, sean og host, we're gonna get back to the stories,

974
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: but a quick three minute break of ads from our sponsors.

975
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: My ex dump me because I wasn't comfortable with his

976
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 2: female best friend.

977
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: Time to get uncomfortable.

978
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: So hey, I need to have some outside perspective. My

979
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: ex boyfriend broke it off. I'm okay, I feel like

980
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 2: it was coming for a while, but let me tell

981
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: you a little bit about the relationship. By the way,

982
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 2: this comes from que Protection forty ten and if you

983
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: want to submit your own stories, go to the r

984
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 2: slash okay storytime subreddit. I'm Sam, I'm John, I'm Riley,

985
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 2: and we're here to give you good advice goofly, but

986
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 2: we don't have all the answers. We only know what

987
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:40,959
Speaker 2: we would do, So let us know what you would

988
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 2: do in the comments. Hello, My ex has this female

989
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 2: friend whom he has known for nine years. That's long.

990
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: While they're very close and in the beginning, I was

991
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 2: accepting of it. After all, they've known each other for ages,

992
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: it's not the physical part I was actually worried about.

993
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm in fact pretty sure they haven't physically been together

994
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: because she is much younger and way out of his league.

995
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 2: My problem was that I would always come second. If

996
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 2: she asked him to do something, he would change his

997
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: plans for he sometimes it's yeah, okay, that's yeah. If

998
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 2: she needed to share something, he would immediately go. He

999
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: would wake up and check if she had texted him.

1000
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 2: He would take care of her pets, which is fine,

1001
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 2: but not mine. They would text all the time. I

1002
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 2: haven't checked his phone ever, but he has shown me

1003
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: the messages. Nothing was really spicy related, but the general

1004
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: tone was I want this, and he would oblige what

1005
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 2: he would suggest, helping her with everything without her asking,

1006
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: and she was a constant presence at his place. We

1007
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 2: only spent weekends together, but at least one of those

1008
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 2: two nights she would be invited for dinner or we

1009
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: would be at her place. It would also spend some

1010
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 2: week evenings alone. After a year and a half, he

1011
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 2: was completely dismissing the idea that we could ever live together.

1012
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: I didn't press I just mentioned that someday I wanted

1013
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 2: it to happen, which seems like a normal thing to plan.

1014
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 2: I feel like that's normal. The moment I said this,

1015
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: it made him feel uncomfortable. He became extremely defensive. I

1016
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 2: was literally shocked. I'd never seen him so upset. She

1017
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 2: was going through something at the time, and he told me, now,

1018
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 2: I can't even help my friend because of your insecurity.

1019
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 2: I promised. I did not scream or shout or anything

1020
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 2: like that. A month past, I got really angry for

1021
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 2: another reason and brought this back up. During that whole month,

1022
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: I feel like we should understand why you got angry.

1023
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 2: I got angry for another reason and then just brought

1024
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: back up the old.

1025
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 1: Flames, which to really quickly say like not to say

1026
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: like oh, yell your partner and stuff, but like it's

1027
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 1: okay to get angry at a thing that causes anger

1028
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: and frustration.

1029
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, as long as it's not like

1030
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 2: directed at people, you know, yeah, or at least it's

1031
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 2: contained a little bit. During that whole month, he was

1032
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 2: very cold to me and didn't want to talk. I'm

1033
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: a person who talks things over. If I have a problem,

1034
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 2: I just say it. So I literally had a meltdown.

1035
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: I was so upset. His point of view is that

1036
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 2: I don't listen to him. I just twist things. But

1037
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: if you wouldn't talk to me, I fill in the blanks.

1038
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm a big time overthinker and he knows this. Then

1039
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 2: not listening is me forgetting things he has told me,

1040
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: or sometimes not paying attention to details, which I admit

1041
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: is true. Seeing some red flags here.

1042
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not that I don't listen.

1043
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 2: I just jump you out. Yeah. I rarely pay attention

1044
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 2: to details and forget things. Anyway, we did try to

1045
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,240
Speaker 2: fix things, but apparently he had enough and broke it off.

1046
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 2: He accused me of being self centered and called me toxic.

1047
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 2: I honestly have no problem with anyone having female or

1048
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 2: male friends. It wasn't that to me. He was emotionally

1049
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 2: cheating on me, which hurts. I feel like, if he's

1050
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 2: sharing problems about your relationship to the partner, I would

1051
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 2: say that would be emotional cheating. Or if he's investing

1052
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 2: in that person more than you, that was yeah.

1053
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: Because if she's like I always come second, like if

1054
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: something's happening, like I'm like, I'm supposed to be relationship wise,

1055
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: like your top priority. Like that's just that's a sucks.

1056
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:52,720
Speaker 2: Yeah you should you should, that should be your top priority.

1057
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 2: Instead of getting reassurance, I got accusations. There's another relevant update.

1058
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 2: But John, what do you think about the situation? Are

1059
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 2: you seeing red flags on either side? What do you think?

1060
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it sounds like she does so I was like,

1061
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: it's not that I don't listen.

1062
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 2: I just don't listen. Hey, maybe this is okay. This

1063
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 2: isn't okay, storytime fan member, So maybe they just doesn't

1064
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 2: okay storytelling exactly.

1065
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: You know, Hey, in that case, completely acceptable. But and

1066
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: then what was the other thing that he said. Yeah,

1067
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: I was like, he just broke it off toxic, self centered.

1068
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: I mean, again, this is a okay, okay fam member here,

1069
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: So I don't know if I would jump exactly to

1070
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: that just off of what we known't here, but yeah,

1071
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,959
Speaker 1: it just it seems like there's a misalignment. And again,

1072
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: it would just suck to be in a relationship and

1073
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: always feel like, man, there's someone constantly being prioritized over.

1074
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is it doesn't feel good. And Ronan k

1075
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 2: running qu says something interesting, Dude, it's turtlenecking pretending to

1076
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 2: be a BFF because he got friend zoned. Oki is

1077
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 2: right to get out of there. Got to prioritize your partner.

1078
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 2: I think that's that. I could totally see that being

1079
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 2: a thing.

1080
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like his response should be like, okay, man,

1081
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: let me let me really and think if I am

1082
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: maybe over prioritizing versus just like you're toxic, you're very

1083
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: like attack exactly.

1084
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we got a little bit more of the story.

1085
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 2: So I discussed this with my therapists, which my ex

1086
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 2: doesn't believe exists because his therapist apparently told him you

1087
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 2: put yourself in this situation, needed to deal with it. Well.

1088
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 2: Mine said, this person is definitely more attached to his

1089
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 2: friend than he is to you. My ex doesn't believe

1090
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 2: any therapists would say that. I actually think we've been

1091
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,439
Speaker 2: telling very different stories. And he thinks I'm twisting things

1092
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: and overreacting. Why would I do that? I don't know.

1093
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Speaker 2: It's not like I wanted to feel this way. I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry this is long, but I just need to know

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Speaker 2: if this was just my insecurity or if there's something

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Speaker 2: else here. The relationship is over, so the only thing

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Speaker 2: I'm after is closure. Yeah, I mean I think I

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Speaker 2: don't think you were perfect in this story by any means, right,

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Speaker 2: Like I think, like, uh, like the bringing up this

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Speaker 2: fight when another fight happens, Like, I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: a good idea. The not listening not great, But like

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Speaker 2: that doesn't mean the problems in your relationship aren't not real.

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Speaker 2: And I think it seems like what your therapist said

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Speaker 2: is right. I think he is attached to this girl

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Speaker 2: more than he is you. The idea, the thing about

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Speaker 2: him like her being out of his league. I think

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Speaker 2: it might be the turtle necking thing where it's like

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Speaker 2: he's interested in her and because like she's like, nah,

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Speaker 2: he'll just be bff. But he always has feelings, which

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Speaker 2: is why like he's prioritizing her over you, which is

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Speaker 2: not good. Not a move, not a move. But that

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Speaker 2: is where this story and this episode ends there it is,

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Speaker 2: so we'll see you around. There will be other episodes

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Speaker 2: with Sam and John, but again we're mostly gonna be more.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be We're gonna We're gonna be doing a

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Speaker 2: lot of the behind the scenes work, expanding this podcast,

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Speaker 2: expanding the shows that we do. You can check John

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Speaker 2: where they can. Can they see your music stuff.

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Speaker 1: John at John the Rapper on all platforms.

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Speaker 2: Check it out and you can see some of my

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Speaker 2: stuff Samuel Donner wherever you get your social media, and

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Speaker 2: we will be popping in and will be creating more shows.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna see more exciting stuff all in this Okay

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Speaker 2: storytime ecosystem. It's gonna be really fun. But if you

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Speaker 2: love us, make sure to subscribe, We love you and

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