1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stump Mom Never Told You? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: From House Step Words dot Com. Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: our two hundred podcast. Oh my god, I'm Molly and 5 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 1: I'm Kristen Kristin. Did you ever think we make it 6 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: two dred episodes? I think we're going to make it 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: to a thousand episodes? Molly A dream big? Right? Just 8 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: can you bring it all home fair enough? Dream big 9 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: or fall asleep? But think back when we started this 10 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 1: podcast so long ago, so long ago, two hundred episodes 11 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: did seem quite far away? It's true, yes, And to 12 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: celebrate two hundred we do. I just kind of want 13 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: to take a break from the normal, normal kind of conversation. 14 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: We have no studies sitting before us, no statistics at hand, 15 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: and I think that's what gonna make this what's going 16 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: to make this podcast all the more special. Absolutely no studies. 17 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: What will we do? Whoa, there's nothing to prove our 18 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: facts and we're just going to sort of talk about 19 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: how we um came up with the idea what goes 20 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: into a typical week of stuff Mom Never Told You? 21 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: And what we've learned from our wonderful listeners, and what 22 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: we can all look forward to in the next two Yeah, 23 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,839 Speaker 1: we sent out messages on Facebook and Twitter asking for 24 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: any questions behind scenes questions, questions about Molly and me 25 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: and how the podcast has totally revolutionized our live I know, 26 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: I've had to hire a bodyguard and is hard to 27 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: go out in public without lots of people stopping me. Um, 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm okay as long as they don't talk, because you know, 29 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: as soon as this voice boy starts ringing in people's ears, 30 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: it's a game over. I mean, it's just nuts out there. 31 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: I am completely kidding. But we got some great questions 32 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: from people that we will um definitely answer and hopefully 33 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: if you guys on inslid look sulfone never told you 34 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: whether you want an inside look or not. Well, I 35 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: want to go back to January of two eight, which 36 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: is uh the month that Kristen and I both started 37 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 1: at how Stuff Works dot com. We started on the 38 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: very same day and then a reroade and I think 39 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: that in those first months of two thousand and eight, 40 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to speak for you, Christen, 41 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: but I feel like we became pretty good friends. Yeah, 42 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: we would go out to lunch occasionally with a group 43 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 1: of people. We would go to trivia nights. Yes. Um, 44 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: so by the time July and August rolled around, I 45 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: feel like we were buds. Yeah, and July and or August, 46 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm not sure exactly which month it was was the 47 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: month that doing a podcast first came up. Yeah, podcast 48 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: became pretty hot here How Stuff Works. Not surprisingly, we 49 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: had the success of other podcasts such a Stuff You 50 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: should Know that a lot of you folks listen to, 51 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: and word troubled down the chain that we were going 52 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: to have a lot more podcasts. So Molly and I 53 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: got together one day and said, hey, girl, let's do 54 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: a podcast. And it didn't take long at all to 55 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 1: come up with the idea of talking about things from 56 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: a women's perspective. Yeah, because what better perspective can we 57 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: give because the guests hit were women, and uh, you know, 58 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: we thought that we would be using a lot of 59 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: articles around how self works dot com. Yes, and uh, 60 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: that's sort of how we pitched the podcast, was the 61 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: female perspective on how selfworks dot com articles. Actually, I 62 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: think the way we put it was how stuff works 63 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: with boobs. That is how we put it. It It was 64 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: we we looked up the original proposal we sent to 65 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: higher ups here and uh, the podcast tone I think 66 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: has definitely evolved from how we originally perceived it to be. 67 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm still amazed that we asked our boss to do something, um, 68 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: just based on it being from quote people with boobs. Yeah, 69 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever used the word boobs. And 70 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: since it's probably what it took a little bit of 71 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: time for this podcast to get off the ground, that's true. 72 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: We thought we sent this email proposing the podcast August six, 73 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: two eight. We did not go live until February two 74 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: thousand nine. But I think that that time of working 75 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: on the podcast is really good for us. And uh, 76 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: we have to thank our producer Jerry and a lot 77 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: of people who are here for helping us find the 78 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: right tone of this podcast. And I think that, you know, 79 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: the issue of women can be kind of tricky for 80 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: some people to wrap their head around. I think that 81 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: there was concerned about whether we'd be either a pregnancy, childbirth, 82 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: childcare podcasts, which we have talked a lot about, or 83 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: if we'd be like this militant feminist podcast we have 84 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: talked a lot about and you know, I think Kirsten, 85 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: I originally saw it as being everything in the middle 86 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: of those two things, right, because what we wanted to 87 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: do is create a podcast that we would want to 88 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: listen to, as you know, young women with jobs, hoping 89 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: to one day get married and have kids but maybe not. 90 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: And that was sort of where we came from. Yeah, 91 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: and I would say that our fin tastic, smart, wonderful 92 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: listeners have helped us along the way to shape our 93 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: voice as well, because you guys are constantly giving us feedback, 94 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: offering suggestions and continually just making me and Molly's smile 95 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: with kind words of praise and keeping us on our toes. 96 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: You know, we um we always want to take sort 97 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: of a neutral perspective on some of the more controversial 98 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: issues we talked about, and we wanted to say, hey, 99 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: we don't have the answer to everything. We have not 100 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: experienced everything that is within the spectrum of personhood yet 101 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: and we hoped that when we started to do episodes, 102 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: people would write in and help us fill in those 103 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: blanks of experience. And I feel that that has been 104 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: fulfilled within beyond our wildest dreams, absolutely. But sometimes the 105 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: interesting thing about all this is that in an attempt 106 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: to provide objectivity. But the interesting thing Molly about attempting 107 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:57,559 Speaker 1: to provide an objective perspective is sometimes the neutral stance 108 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: can be even more controversial than and highly opinionated stand. 109 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: And one episode that does come to mind senal Circumcision. 110 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: That's right. Some people were very upset that we did 111 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: not take a really strong stand about what was right 112 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: and what was wrong. And but you know what, the 113 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 1: way we did that episode was just a presentation of 114 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: all the information we had available to us. And it 115 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: always goes back I think when I'm thinking about how 116 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: we're going to frame an episode to what I would 117 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: want to hear, and I just wouldn't want to be 118 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: preached to. And that's sort of how we made that decision. 119 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: Is you know, we work as journalists and writers during 120 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: the day, and we try and be objective in the 121 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: articles to present on the site, and it seemed only 122 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: fair to bring that same sort of fair mindedness to 123 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: what we were doing on the podcast. So, really fast, 124 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: why don't we walk through how we actually make a podcast? 125 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: Because it's pretty simple to say anyone could do it. Anyone, 126 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: anyone of you could do it except for the part 127 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: where you get like Jerry or a good producer, because 128 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 1: not not comm not anyone can be a Jerry or Tyler. 129 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: We have today Tyler's recording today. And what we do 130 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: is a couple of days into the week, after we've 131 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: settled into our mondays, all right, uh, Molly and I 132 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: will send back and forth some topics. Usually it starts 133 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: with an email along the lines of Hey, girl, what 134 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: sho you want to talk about today or this week 135 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: more like? And we decide on some topics. They might 136 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: be trending topics in the news or just topics that 137 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: we've been burning to talk about for a while. Yeah. 138 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I don't know about you, Christen, but 139 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: I've got this document on my computer that's like seven 140 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: pages long, h of things that I've thought of, things 141 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: our listeners have suggested, interesting articles I see. And what 142 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: I do is when I'm thinking of ideas to propost you, 143 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: when I really want to impress you, UM, I pick 144 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: like the five best, the five that I'm in the 145 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: mood for this week, send him over to you, and 146 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: from that the back and forth we kind of figure 147 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: out what we're gonna talk about. Right. Once we decide 148 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: what usually We record two episodes every week, and so 149 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: Molly will take one episode and do the research for it, 150 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: and I'll take the other episode and do the research 151 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: for that. Then we swap our research so that we 152 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: have then read all of the wonderful studies, documents, reports, articles, 153 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: et cetera that go into each podcast, and then we 154 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: come into this wonderful studio at the house Stuff Works 155 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: offices in Atlanta, Georgia, and we chit chat for a 156 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: little while, and you know, we try not you know, 157 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: one of the mistakes I think we name when we 158 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: first started christian As we talked too much. Before the 159 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: podcast started. We used to kind of rehearse about um 160 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: what we'd say. We never had a script, a fields 161 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: and jokes, but it would definitely be like, Okay, we're 162 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: gonna start here, then we're gonna go here, and we're 163 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: gonna end here. You're gonna laugh here, and uh it's 164 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: just like that. Yeah, that was practiced, and now we 165 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: try and keep that to a bare minimum. I mean, 166 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: it's not like I never see Christen during the week. 167 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: Uh you know, we still we still chat, but uh, 168 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: you know, we're not going to bring up the topic. 169 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: We're discussing because we want to keep most of the 170 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: magic right. We go to the microphone, we go to 171 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: the brake room, we take two shots of whiskey. Then 172 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: we come in and we go for it. And the 173 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: whiskey is hard since we do record at ten thirty 174 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: in the morning. Yeah, but you know what, no pain, 175 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 1: no game exactly. Um So we may only talked before 176 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: we record for about ten or fifteen minutes, and it's 177 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: very bare bones, like this is what I think we're 178 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: gonna talk about, blah blah blah. But a lot of 179 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: times it's just office gossip. It's really when Molly and 180 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: I catch up on what's going on with the health stuff, 181 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: works offices, because you guys, it's a it's crazy here 182 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: where we talked about celebrities a lot. That's true, John 183 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: John Hamm so um. So that's how it happens. And 184 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: then Jerry takes all of our ramblings and pieces it 185 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: together in a wonderful cohesive thing that we like to 186 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: call podcast. Right, and then as you know, they come 187 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: out Mondays and Wednesdays. There we go. So that't it. 188 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: That's the answer to that question. But let's get to 189 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: the juicy stuff. Okay, folks had some good questions they 190 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: wanted to ask us, and I think that we owe 191 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: it to our wonderful listeners to provide some some answer. 192 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: All right, christ and here's a question for you. What 193 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: is the best advice your mother ever gave you? Okay, 194 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: I have the answer to this. And this also deals 195 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: someone with other questions that people have asked about how 196 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: the podcast might intersect with our dating life or with 197 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 1: relationships with men in general, because we talked so much 198 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: about lady lady things. So the best advice my mom 199 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: ever gave me, I would say, or at least the 200 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: advice that's stuck with me the most is she said 201 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: to me. What she said, Kristen, your mom's sassy. She's 202 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: a little sassy. Uh. She do accents to She does 203 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 1: not do an accent, but she does have a very 204 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: distinct accent. But anyway, my mama told me, Honey, if 205 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: you are ever in a relationship with a man, once 206 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: you see is what you get. Okay, don't try to 207 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: change a man because he's only going to change if 208 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: he really wants to. So love him as he is 209 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: is and if not, get out. Wow. Yeah, and have 210 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: you found that that's that's good advice. I find that 211 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: that is incredibly true. And I'm not just saying that. 212 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: She wasn't trying to tell me that men are just 213 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: hardhearted or hard headed oaths who are completely resistant to change. 214 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: But I think it's a good point because a lot 215 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: of times women can get caught up in with this 216 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: sort of savior complex of wanting to mold their partners 217 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: and to some specific ideal, and that is completely unrealistic, 218 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: and you need to if you if you love someone, 219 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: you should accept them, you know, as as they are, 220 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: and hopefully through that if they need to make some 221 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 1: behavioral adjustments, they'll do it on their own. Well, you 222 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 1: alluded to ways the podcast can affect your dating life, 223 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: and you've already touched a little bit of romantic relationship, 224 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: so I was wondering if you want to say anything 225 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 1: else about how being a prominent lady commentator effects dating relationships. 226 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: I think that it's made me more cognizance of maybe 227 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: the minor details of relationships with men, whether that's just 228 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: interactions with guy friends of mine, or if it is 229 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: me um sitting on a date across from a guy, 230 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: watching and waiting for body language mirroring that would signal 231 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: our inherent attraction to each other. We've talked a lot 232 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: about the biology of love and attraction, and sometimes I 233 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 1: have found that, uh, if I get focused too much 234 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: in on the science, it can squelsh the magic a 235 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: little bit. But at the same time, it's also it's 236 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: also comforting away. I just feel like it has given 237 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: me a better and more balanced perspective of how men 238 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: and women interact, appreciating the differences between us and also 239 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: appreciating the similarities. So that's what I would say. Now, Mollie, 240 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: you've been You're playing Barbara Walters right now, it's time 241 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: to turn the tables on you. All right, let's let's 242 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: let's start with your mom's best advice and then get 243 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: to the get to the guy stuff. Well, the best 244 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,359 Speaker 1: piece of advice. I don't know if this is advice 245 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 1: per se, but it's something my mom always said when 246 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: I was upset, and it just always sticks with me. 247 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: And she always said that things happen for a reason, 248 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: And I know that there are a lot of people 249 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: who have trouble with that as an excuse. You know, 250 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: when something really heartbreaking or tragic happens. I think it 251 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,079 Speaker 1: can be really hard to throw that out to someone 252 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 1: who you know, you know, just lost someone. Um, but 253 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: for things like guy stuff or for not getting jobs, 254 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: or for just not getting something I want. I always 255 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: hear that in my head, my mom saying, you know, 256 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: things happen for a reason. And when I look back 257 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: on my life and I think about things that, you know, 258 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: jobs I didn't get or boyfriends that didn't work out, 259 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: it's always because you can see how there are better 260 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: things in store for you. So I think that just 261 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: that sense of optimism that even though you're crushed at 262 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: the moment over something that happened, knowing that you know 263 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: there's something ahead and you can't see it yet and uh, 264 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: and you just gotta wait for it and move yourself 265 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: towards it. That was always just really helpful to hear 266 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: my mom's boys saying that. To me, that's a very 267 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: healthy perspective. And you know what, that's something that mamma 268 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: told me too. Maybe your mom should get together sometime. 269 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: And did your mom listen to the podcast my mom is? 270 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: I don't think my mom has ever listened to a 271 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: single full episode of this podcast. I think she's a 272 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: little scared to hear what she didn't tell me? Not lying? 273 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: All right? Um, what other questions to be your christal? Wait? 274 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait, you just skirted. You just skirted 275 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: the entire clost you asked me about about boys. You're 276 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: not going to get off the hook? Um. You know. 277 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: The biggest I don't know if I notice, Uh, I 278 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: guess the biggest difference the way the podcast affects my 279 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: personal life is just weird. Factoise I drop in conversation, 280 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:55,479 Speaker 1: and this affects both girlfriends, guy friends, boyfriends. It's just, um, 281 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: you know, you just never know what I'm gonna start 282 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: talking about menstrual cups, um, which can be off putting 283 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: to some people. You know the guy his shock glass 284 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: is roughly the same size as a menstrual cup. Did 285 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: you know? And I think that when we were talking 286 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: about this podcast, the number one thing Chris and I 287 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: have learned about as a result of our listeners, mest cups, 288 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: menstrul cups, and the long distance relationships can in fact work. 289 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: That's true. We got more just beautiful stories of blossoming love, 290 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: the transcended oceans, countries, state borders. After that episode, I mean, 291 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: it was incredible. You people are a bunch of a 292 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: bunch of romantics out there. I will say, you know, 293 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: there were days when I'd be kind of grumpy and 294 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: it would just be like ten stories of long distance relationships. 295 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: That works. You fell in love, okay, and then he 296 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: moved he moved from Australia for you. Yeah, but we 297 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: still love them. Don't get us wrong, we love Yeah. 298 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: There is nothing better than hearing that that that love. 299 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: But getting back to dating, um, Chris, and I will 300 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: say that, Um, I learned a lot about what I'm 301 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: interested in as a person as a result of doing 302 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: this podcast, because I did definitely did not start as 303 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: um the person I am now when it comes to 304 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: women's issues, and I feel that any person that will 305 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 1: sit there and listen to me talk about things that 306 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm passionate about, be it not menstrual cups per se, 307 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: but just these issues that I think are so interesting relating, 308 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: you know women. If people don't even want to listen 309 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: to me talk about that on a first meeting, then 310 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: they're done. Yeah, And so I think, if anything, it's 311 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: helped me winn o out losers. That's pretty helpful. Yeah, 312 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: let's say, so, what what else we have? What what 313 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: other burning questions people have. Christinvilmore Right, what are your 314 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: favorite episodes of stuff mom Ember told you? My favorite 315 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: episodes pretty much anything involving Helen Fisher's research the biology 316 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: and anthropology of love and attraction. I think it is 317 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: endlessly fascinating. One of the most recent ones that we 318 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: covered was on the seven year itch slee whether or 319 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: not um married couples really do go through that lull 320 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: where you want to cheat, you want to end things 321 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: and it's over. And research indicates that we have this 322 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: four year window of the honeymoon effect that would translate 323 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: back to and or gatherer times in the time that 324 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: it would take for a couple to get together, make 325 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 1: a baby, and for that baby to grow up enough 326 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: that it can not be quite as vulnerable to the elements. 327 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: Just things like that, things that explain why we are 328 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 1: the way we are, and especially with those issues such 329 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: as love and attraction that are endlessly confounding to me. 330 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: I got four words for you, Kristen, Yes, brain on 331 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: a breakup. Oh man, that's a good one. That was 332 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 1: one where we also use Helen Fisher's research, and I 333 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: have to say, like, I think that might have been 334 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: my favorite one to research. It was just a simple 335 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: study that Helen Fisher had done about how breakups work 336 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: in your brain, as the title implies, and it was. 337 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: I think it was one of the It's definitely one 338 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: of the top five studies I've ever read in terms 339 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: of making me feel not insane, right, And I think 340 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 1: that's always said for the entire podcast, was like, Oh 341 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm not insane. We're gosh, I'm not insane. 342 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: I'm not crazy. You know, it's just your reward or wrong. 343 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: It really is like drug addiction withdrawal. So it's um, 344 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: like you said, anything with Helen Fisher is always great. Um. 345 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 1: My other favorite I do have to say is poop. Oh, 346 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: Lady poop, scoop on Lady poop. Yeah, that was a 347 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 1: good one. Um and uh, when I think when we 348 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: recorded that, all we remembered was the goofy saying poop part. 349 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: But when you go back and listen, that was another 350 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 1: one where we got to use a lot of really 351 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: cool science to explain what goes on inside men and Women. 352 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: Any other favorite episodes, Christen, any other favorite episodes? Um, 353 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: I thought that episodes that turned out differently than I 354 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: thought they would basically when when the research surprised me. 355 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: Some stuff like two's tattoos was fun, men's facial hair, Um, 356 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 1: what else? Sex Edition, Sex Addiction was pretty fascinating, Penis 357 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: size very fascinating. I really liked Ho mack haul Mac. Yeah, 358 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: when you when you basically when the results kind of 359 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: surprise you. And the thing that I like the most 360 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: about researching these podcasts is finding the studies that you 361 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 1: think that no one would have conducted. You would be 362 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: so amazed. Entry um, Kristen, what what sources do you 363 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 1: look at during the week, Like what when you're looking 364 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: for ideas? How do they strike you? Well? I have 365 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: a folder in my in my bookmarks called lady Stuff 366 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: and a lot of my well, my three main four 367 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: main hits would be Jezebel Broadsheet, which is on Salon 368 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: dot com, and then also the Double X from Slate, 369 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 1: and then the New Times Women's Page. And that's probably 370 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: not very surprising to people who listen to the podcast, 371 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: because we're constantly calling out uh different writers, different um 372 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: articles from all of those sites. But I think that 373 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: those those four do a really great job of not 374 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: only reporting on women's issues from all all areas, including 375 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 1: more frivolous things such as celebrity gossip and fashion all 376 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: of that to more hard hitting issues and providing a 377 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: lot of solid analysis. So are there in addition to 378 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: those and only are there any other any other sources 379 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: that you go to kind of your daily daily hits? UM? 380 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: I would say my daily news sources are the ones 381 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 1: you mentioned UM and what else? I like Discover magazine 382 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:50,239 Speaker 1: a lot, live science UM. I always I'm surprised when 383 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: I can plug in a lady topic like um bras 384 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: and find something come up on a really science e 385 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: source like that, But they do UM And then you know, 386 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: when we do our deeper research, we have access to 387 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: databases that pull up those those studies. And how how 388 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 1: much how many hours would you say you read of 389 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 1: um O our our podcast forces Kristen all right, well, 390 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: it depends on the podcast, but I would say I 391 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 1: mean at least at least a few hours every week. 392 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: So well, I know that we've covered the podcast in 393 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: the past. I got a little question for you to 394 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: take it into the future, and old listeners have also 395 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: wondered this as well. What kind of topics would you 396 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: like to see in the future, Anything that you've been 397 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: burning to do, but we just haven't had the chance 398 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: to do yet. Oh well, I gues said, we have 399 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: really a long list of things that we want to 400 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: do in the future. I would say the big ones 401 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: that we know we need to do soon our adoption, um, polyamory. 402 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 1: A lot of people request polyamory, yes, and we're starting 403 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: to get there. We're trying to talk about monogamy a 404 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: little more. A lot of people request podcasts about Playboy. Yeah, 405 00:21:55,800 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: big cultural touchdown on a gray and uh, childbirth. I 406 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: would say that a lot of people write in about 407 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: childbirth and early childhood issues, but I will say looking 408 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 1: back that that is one of the most controversial things 409 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: we can ever talk about. Christen. Whenever we talk about motherhood, 410 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: that's when we get a lot of emails like, you 411 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: guys aren't mothers. You really shouldn't talk about this. It's 412 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: been a tricky That's probably been one of the trickiest 413 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 1: things to get around with this podcast is when we 414 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: talk about pregnancy, childbirth, parenting, etcetera. It's all with a 415 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: caveat of you and I have no offspring and uh, 416 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: and I think that, I mean, we still apply the 417 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: same research analysis we do, but there are people out there, 418 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: and I would probably one too if I had had 419 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: a child, who just believe that we aren't able to 420 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: talk about it at this stage in our life. So 421 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: I think that that does keep us away from some 422 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: of those um motherhood related topics, which is why for 423 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: two thousand eleven you and I should both probably just 424 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,360 Speaker 1: adopt some kids, you know, just for podcast reasons, kind 425 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: of like the whole mech babies that we talked about 426 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: on that episode. Maybe we can, maybe we can snag 427 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,160 Speaker 1: a couple. I feel like that's be an interesting are 428 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 1: meant to just maybe the whole house stuff works dot 429 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 1: Com office. Maybe I could borrow my niece or a nephew. 430 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 1: You know, we do. We are both aunts now, yes 431 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: we are. So see that's something people we have. We 432 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 1: do have children in our lives. We're not just not 433 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 1: just going and completely alone. But as always, I think 434 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: that whatever we do, it's always going to be shaped 435 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: by what listeners want to hear, because we do. We 436 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: read every single thing you guys post on our Facebook, 437 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: on our Twitter, every email we get we read, and 438 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: we always take what you guys take into account, and 439 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: we know that we have the most awesome listeners in 440 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: the world we do this podcast would not be fun anymore. 441 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: I don't think we would have gotten to two hundred 442 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: episodes if we didn't have such awesome listeners. Just completely true. 443 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 1: So with that we want to thank all of you 444 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: and as always, keep the ideas coming. Let us know 445 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 1: what you like and just like going forward from two hundred, 446 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: how can Molly consider this your virtual suggestion box? Just 447 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,719 Speaker 1: send us an email moms at a house stuffworks dot 448 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:02,959 Speaker 1: com for any any tips, any vice, any podcast suggestions 449 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: you'd like to send our way. Send listening to my 450 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: mom stuff at how stuff works dot com and again, 451 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 1: thank you for two hundred episodes. Christine, thank you episode 452 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: some cake. Let's wrap this up the stufp and eat 453 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: some cake or an entire pot Well, I don't know, 454 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: I try I'd like more. 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