WEBVTT - Episode 308: Vacation Mode 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.160 I don't know about you, but I'm really trying to 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.920 be at a vacation mode. But the problem with that 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:08.600 is then it's noon and I'm like, who wants a cocktail? 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:12.040 Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:19.760 Welcome everybody to the Calm Down Podcast. 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.880 Tie dog, I look tired. 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:25.360 Oh you're tired. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:28.960 Well, here's what you're doing. You are catching up. Although 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:30.720 I don't know why you're not sleeping. She just aerin 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.720 just before we jumped on here. She just said she's 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:36.080 not sleeping very well. As we enter our first official 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:38.800 week of being off, why do you think you're not sleeping? 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:39.680 I don't know. 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:42.440 Well, the story is still an issue, and we've talked 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.239 to a lot of people about like getting the surgery 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.480 for him to help it. 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:50.159 It's just not great. And I it's. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:52.199 Funny the more and more you're talking to couples in 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:54.480 the streets, the more and more people deal with this, 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.480 and people sleep in other rooms and I'm not doing 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:58.560 that yet, and I kind of. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:00:59.480 Don't want to do that. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:00.960 Yeah, I don't like that. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:02.000 I don't want it. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:04.600 So for those of you that don't know, you. 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.679 Don't want to get surgery is a snore. 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:11.520 Steve also is a snore. He uses this stuff called 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:12.000 I hate the. 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:14.200 Name, it's terra. I'm going to call it the name. 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:16.399 He just has this tape that he puts over his 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:20.720 mouth that actually is very helpful. I totally noticed when 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:23.920 he doesn't use it, So that's fine, but I get it. Man, 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.720 snoring is so especially it's like once once you know 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.760 what's happening. And the elbows, it's also not fair for 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:34.319 them either, like just being like shoving at night every 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:36.880 five seconds. All right, Well, what's the surgery consists of? 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:37.760 Is it really invasive? 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:38.640 I don't know. I think about it. 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:40.679 Well, I know, but I just feel bad. 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:43.520 Like so, he's obviously broken his nose several times he 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.280 went and got checked out and or like you know, 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:47.440 playing your sport, and this is a common thing with 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:50.880 you guys. And we just picked some cracks in his 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:53.080 nose and that would help him breathe a little better. 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:54.520 So I don't know. 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:56.840 It sounds easy, but it's also kind of like a 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:59.440 semi not a nose job, but it's like a deviated 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.680 septum crack in your note. I don't even know. I'm 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:04.640 probably speaking out a tune. He broke his nose. I 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:06.280 don't know, so we'll see. 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.680 I just I'm getting at the sleeping in other rooms 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:11.560 sing and I'm not either. This is when I didn't 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:13.880 like the people I was with. I was always advocating, like, 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.799 oh yeah, I actually want my own house. I don't 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:16.919 even want to live in the same house as the 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.480 person that should have been the first fucking sun I 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:19.200 didn't like the person. 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:21.400 I like sleeping. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:23.720 I want to like I like sleep like Steve and 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.920 I like sleep like fully together. 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:26.920 It's almost annoying. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:30.320 It's like leg over each other, like I'm like, oh yeah, 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.239 I like sleeping, and I feel safer too that way. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.200 I don't know. I wouldn't want to sleep in another room. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:38.080 I just also feel like there's so much time we 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.480 spend a part with our jobs, like six months out 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.720 of the year that yeah, I'm not interested in the 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:46.760 not sharing beds or sharing a room, so whatever, we'll 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:49.000 figure it out. I just need to sleep. I need 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:49.800 to sleep. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:54.640 You also have a child, your schedule? What time do 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.799 you wake up every morning with him? So he goes 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:01.080 to bed seven to seven, which is amazing. I usually 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:05.600 like to be up by like six six thirty so 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.320 I can be ready to go for him and if 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:09.440 there's anything I need to get done before I do. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:11.720 Yeah, that's crazy. 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:13.720 I mean we were never people that like we because 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.080 I mean I don't have a baby, but dogs like 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:17.120 dogs need my dogs. 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:17.919 Like around six. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:21.800 Thirty, I hear willis like trancing around with us. 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:23.079 Yeah, like he wants to go out. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.760 I've never been a person that like really slept in, 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.040 but yeah, once you have a kid, like that's a 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:29.799 whole difference, like you're up. 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:30.560 It's over. 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.680 And I don't know about Steve, but Jarrett can really 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:38.280 sleep in, Like he can sleep in till eleven or 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:39.720 twelve if you leave him alone. 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:41.760 We talked about this the other day at the super 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.720 Bowl when we're tiptoeing around to get ready for the 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:49.120 super Bowl because podcast plus ones over there we're sleeping in. 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.920 Also this if I have to hear one more day 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:53.880 about this podcast. I went to go get coffee in 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.440 town today and sweet Erica, who works at the coffee 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:57.960 shop owns the shop, goes I. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:59.480 Heard Steve is starting a podcast. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:03.360 I go, no, he's not actually starting a podcast, But 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:06.360 I swear to God these two and there's deep centers 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:10.560 allicle today that Taylor Swift is the guest. Okay, relax, 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.760 see Jared, you guys are adorable. If you actually do this, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.960 then I'll win the lottery. There's no way they follow 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:21.520 up on this, but anyways, it's over all. 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:22.400 Right, it's sober. 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:25.320 We are in our first Okay, let's we just mentioned 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:26.640 we have been off for a week now. 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.000 We talked to the other day on the phone. We 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:29.680 were just acting, not acting. 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:32.359 We were discussing how the super Bowl felt like a 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.920 month ago. So it's a week back into re entry. 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.480 I am full ranch mode. You're giving yourself a minute 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.719 and a beat to relax with your husband. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:41.480 I love that. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:44.240 And then when people this is what I love, like, 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:45.760 oh well it's the off season, what are you gonna do? 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.719 And I'm like, We're already back doing stuff in two weeks, 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:51.359 you and I. And that's where I need to remind 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.920 myself that we are very lucky. We have opportunities and 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.040 like great things. We're looking forward to going to Tampa 0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:59.120 and all that stuff. But I'm really I don't know 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:02.280 about you, but I'm really trying to like be in 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.840 a vacation mode. But the problem with that is then 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.000 it's noon, and I'm like, who wants a cocktail? 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.080 And I'm like saying, oh, it's more being you told 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.480 me to put Bailey's in my coffee. I know I 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:16.120 had a beer at lunch today. I just I'll talk 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:16.400 about it. 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.599 There is a Corge light in my coffee. I want 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:24.039 a coffee right now with Baileys. But I I work 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.800 so hard on working out. It makes me happy and 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.920 all that I have taken a beat off, but it 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:34.839 is now like comfort food and beer and wine and tequila. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.320 Girl, I'm mixed in a salad today and I thought 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:38.680 I was like so proud of myself. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.479 I know we're gonna let ourselves have at least two 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.920 weeks of doing whatever we want and not feeling guilty 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:45.240 about it. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:46.000 I think that's the other thing. 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:47.520 And I don't know if you guys listening do this 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.679 where it's like I feel guilty if I'm just being 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.599 much lazy, or if you don't work out, or if 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.000 you're going to have a drink at nine am or whatever. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:57.520 And I need to stop thinking like that, because we 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:00.599 do work hard. We throw ourselves into our fashion, and 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:03.600 so we need to like not feel bad if we're 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:03.800 going to. 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:08.600 Do it now, I know, but I really am like 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:10.279 getting after it. 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:11.800 Yeah true. 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:14.720 My getting after it is two drinks at dinner, like 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.960 a drink at lunch, and I'm just like, this is crazy. 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:18.640 I not me. 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.480 Like, here's the problem with being home home on the 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:24.799 range out here is that because I'm actually doing stuff, 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.480 like we're putting together or like building this other little 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.560 like shed thing, we're doing all this eff so like 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:33.280 you're doing work. So I'm cracking open the fricking beers 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:34.760 or the twist. I'm gonna tell you, ever have one 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:36.760 of those twisted teas. This is not an ad, but 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:37.400 I wish it would. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:39.520 I feel like it'd be too sweet for me. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.799 Oh okay, well I love me some twisted tea. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:47.240 It's half whatever it is, must be vodka maybe, or 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.400 it's like it's like an ornold palmer with vodka. 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.880 I guess it's what it is. It is so good. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:54.479 And here's the problem. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:56.520 You throw some of those back and you don't realize 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.640 you're getting twisted until all of a sudden you're. 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:00.440 Like, whoa here am I? 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:01.680 Yeah? 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.560 No, seriously, but it's good. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:05.400 And that's the fun part too, where it's like when 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.039 you're out working and you're like, I don't know. I 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.720 feel like somehow I'm justifying instead of just sitting around, 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:12.040 So fuck it, I'm not gonna feel guilty. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.560 So yeah, re entries going well, although I gotta tell you, 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:17.400 here's the only thing. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.480 He's going to hear this and I don't care or 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.360 there's gonna be a headline that he then sends to me. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.160 How about when we talked about not getting married. His 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.760 friends are so funny. They send him these headlines like 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:30.360 Carissa turns down proposal to Stephen Canderry and I'm. 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:31.880 Like, okay headline. 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:35.120 He goes, yeah, well my friends, you know. I'm like, Steve, 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:40.520 you didn't actually propose. Relax, okay, But we are just 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:43.000 here by it. I feel like we're on Survivor and 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:45.240 him and I are the only people on the island, 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.760 and I'm going to kill each other first me some Tommy. 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:54.200 But at some point it's like every day for two weeks, 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:59.000 just the same person I put down right and one 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:03.280 week down. I haven't been alone, like by myself, Like 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.200 I want to watch the shows. Like the other day 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.160 I turned on the Kardashians and he walked in and 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.760 go and walked out and I'm like, no, I want 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:12.320 to watch what I want to watch. I don't want 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.040 to be judged for the shows the music. And that's 0:08:15.040 --> 0:08:17.160 like I was listening to like Cameron Marlowe this new 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:18.480 country or is it not new? 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:19.280 But he's a country singer. 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:20.920 I like you, and he goes, oh god, you have 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:23.040 every song on repeat, and I'm like, you're on repeat. 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:26.400 You are on repeat every day my life. Go find 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:28.560 something else to do. I need a loan time. 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:34.800 And I love him so much, but I'm like, so, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:35.360 how's it going. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:40.880 I get it. I feel like we are trying. 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:46.120 You're treading lightly over here because I was in such 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:49.800 a mood at super Bowl, not like pissed off or anything. 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.440 But it's like, hey, don't piss me off. 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.520 I need to get out of my way. So I 0:08:55.559 --> 0:09:00.840 feel like both sides are treading lightly to kind of 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.480 it's like it's what you posted of your dogs the 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.679 other day, kind of playing with each other and being. 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:07.800 Like yeah, yeah, like which one's gonna go? 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:09.720 Or it's like are we on the verge of like 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:11.600 we're playing or we're about to get in a fight, 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:13.440 Like which one is it? Because that's the thing I know, 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.400 I said it last week. But like sweet Steve and 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:20.320 Jarrett have been they know during the season, they know 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:22.760 during the season, like we always have that, like we're working, 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:26.680 we're working, and now in our even limited time off, 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:28.920 we're not working, so we don't really have the excuse 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.280 to be like leave us alone or be bitchy. 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:34.280 Yeah. 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:37.800 AnyWho, So re entry is going great. It actually is fine. 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:42.440 I just need to like re entry, this is this 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.520 is my hour. Did you ever have that? Did your 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:46.160 parents ever do this when you were growing up? My 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:48.040 mom used dous all the time that I'd have to 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.200 go into my room and have quiet time for an hour. 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:52.960 Like I talked to her, I love it alone. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.800 She's like, go use your imagination, go play dolls, go 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:58.080 play barbies, like leave me alone for an hour. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:01.560 And I feel like maybe I my child steed the. 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:05.040 Way a person needs it they do. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.760 He walks in with his laptop and I'm like, WHOA, 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.200 not that much alone time? 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:10.839 You know what I mean? 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:14.360 AnyWho? 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:27.319 Oh my god, all right, everybody get it together. Okay, 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:30.520 we have some great headlines that we would love to 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.280 rip through because welcome to our off season. 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.360 We actually get to pay attention to things other than sports. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:38.280 Although the first headline still involves one of our favorites, 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.880 Saquon Barkley gives each of his linemen a truck full 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:43.480 of beer. Earlier this week, Barkley and Jalen Hurts form 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:46.000 by the Tonight Show. Saquon told Tonight's show that if 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:48.880 he was going on the show, his offensive linement needed 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:51.760 to come as well. I also need to interject here. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:53.720 Did you see that clip where he pulled the ball 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:54.280 boy out? 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.640 I know you. Did you have the parade? 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:01.680 I think the dream it's everything right For those of 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:03.679 you that don't know what I'm talking about, Seque's going 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:05.920 and high fiving people that were at the parade in Philly. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.480 He recognizes the ball boy and he's like, wait, why 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:10.800 are you not here? Obviously the boy was probably like 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.160 I wasn't allowed to go over there. He lifts him 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:16.240 up and then puts him, you know, in with them 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:19.560 to celebrate, and it's just so sweet. So the gist 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:21.679 of this is that saque wouldn't go on The Tonight 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:24.480 Show without his offensive line and then gifts them bud 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:28.720 light loaded with ninety cases of beer each. You know, 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:32.240 it's just great because think about that, like, it's so 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.880 easy for people to be individuals, and he's not. He's 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:40.160 like my success. I think he also said that he 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.400 if there was ever I don't maybe he didn't say it, 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:46.120 but if there was ever a statue directed of him, 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.679 that he'd want it to be with his offensive linemantal. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:49.760 I just love it. 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:52.200 I just love him. I loved as part of this, 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.520 Go bud light. This was so cute. You just said it. 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:57.160 In ninety cases of beer, with each case holding twenty 0:11:57.200 --> 0:12:00.600 four cans. That's twenty one hundred and sixty cans, or 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.840 nearly one for every yard Barkley gained in the regular season. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:07.400 Go credit, Like that was so cute. Wait, though, did 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.760 you see from that parade? I couldn't get enough of it. 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:14.080 I adore that team. Howie Roseman gashed in the head, 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:18.240 Oh my god, because the fans were probably throwing them beers, 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:20.000 like that's the way to do. I know when the 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:22.720 parades that they had for this Stanley Cup, like they're 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:23.760 trying to throw the guy's. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.040 Beers and then they chug them and it's. 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:28.600 Like, gosh, oh my god, that was like a severe gash. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.880 And then Cooper de Jean got one too. 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.160 I think, oh did he I didn't see that one, 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:34.880 but yeah, Howie Roseman, what did g And then he 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.079 also was like fuck it and just continues to like. 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.240 Leave for this team. 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:44.200 That's gonna be a nice scar. Oh that's a good story. Though. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:46.679 I got hit in the head at the Super Bowl 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:47.800 parade from a beer. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:51.920 Did you see the fan that was just vomiting over 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.720 like some sort of like security line and was still 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:55.120 doing the. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:56.679 Chant as he was puking, Like. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:00.920 I didn't. 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:06.000 But that's fantiords Man, so so good. All right, this 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:09.000 is a good one. Lay it scrolled down. Okay, what 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:13.560 is phobo? Experts reveal how to battle the latest anxiety 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:17.640 inducing trend. I seem to have every sort of anxiety 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:22.319 inducing trend. Forget fear of missing out. The latest anxiety 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:26.040 inducing trend is phobo fear of a better option. In 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.320 other words, people are constantly. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:32.000 Oh, Chris, I don't know this word. Where are we ruminating? 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:33.800 Yep? 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.200 We get it on the what if, the anxiety that 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:39.760 something better will come along, which makes it undesirable to 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.800 commit to existing choices when making a decision. 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:45.640 I don't know. 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:48.280 Do you have to make yourself nuts doing it? 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:49.440 Yeah? 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.800 I've been reading that book that Mel Robbins book that 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.240 everyone's reading, which there's a reason that everyone's writing it. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:14:00.000 It's called let Them. The premise is if you're not. 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.800 Invited to a party and everybody else's let them, let 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:06.480 them have their party. Like, don't spend energy on things 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:10.199 that you can't control. It was an idea that she 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:13.280 was talking about. Her son was going to prom and 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.800 or whatever homecoming and he didn't have a restaurant booked, 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.440 and he didn't have the car booked, and he didn't 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.120 have a carissage for his day. He didn't have all 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:21.880 these things, and she was like freaking out about it, 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.720 and finally her daughter says to her, like, let him, 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.880 Like if he doesn't have a reservation, like then he's 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:28.320 not going to have a reservation. Or if he doesn't 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.040 have a carssage, then he's not going to have one. 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:33.600 Like the mom's anxiety over her kid not having stuff 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:35.120 is not going to make it better. If anything, the 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.120 kid was like, Mom, leave me the fuck alone kind. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:37.360 Of a thing. 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.440 So that idea in life that it's like, if you 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.160 don't have and I'm really really trying to do this, 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.560 I need to practice what it is that I preach 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:49.320 in terms of like Steve is so laid back about 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.960 stuff and he doesn't stress. He doesn't stress over the 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.960 small stuff. And I didn't even know that I was 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:59.560 a micromanager until you get around somebody that's not and 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:04.400 his ability to do it so uh, like the aforementioned 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:06.200 projects that we're working on, I'm like, yeah, but if 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:07.600 we don't do this now and then and then if 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.040 it rains, and it's just like and he's like okay, 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:10.880 then it rains and it gets wet, like what's the 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:14.280 big deal? Like I worry about things that I can't control, 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:17.720 and I'm trying to be better about that because I 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.960 do feel like I stress about stuff that I don't 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:23.560 need to and I don't. It's getting more and more. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:25.880 I used to be super laid back, and now it's 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.920 just like this. I don't know, it's because he's so 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:32.200 way back. Yeah, I want to you know, who I 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:34.520 want to be. I want to be the person that's 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:38.320 like what fuck it? And I and I. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:42.880 Know really like off fuck it though, like who are people? Okay? 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:46.080 But and I love Steve, it's just about to be 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:47.640 something so terrible. 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:51.520 Give me an off fuck it person that's I'm not 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.880 saying this about Steve, So get that out of the way, 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:55.000 because he is off fuck it. 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:58.600 But he's also really really, really really motivated. 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:03.840 Who is an absolute awe effort and it's super. 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:07.440 I know, no, I know, I know who, I know. 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:10.200 It's like finding it's striking that balance. You want to name, 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:12.400 you want to name, you want to name? Send a 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:16.120 fucking rella. Anybody knows, pretty woman, stay with us. 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:19.720 I mean, I'll give a guy that's super laid back, 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:27.480 but it's suber successful and Travis Kelsey, Michael. 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:31.920 Street hand, Oh yeah, Eron, did you have a clip 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:33.720 that I posted of him? 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:36.280 So we were you know how send that to me? 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:37.080 I will. 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:38.560 What was happening? I saw it quick. 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:40.800 So the side. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:44.880 Agents here is during the Super Bowl, So all of 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:46.880 us are in a green room, right, So we're at 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:48.760 obviously we're at the stadium because the boys are going 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:53.400 to go out and do uh uh halftime. So we're 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:55.680 all back in the green room and there's like two 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.320 rows of chairs. So all the boys in the front, 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:03.000 Terry Howie, Jimmy Gronk, Us in the back, Charles Jewels, shregs. 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:03.080 Like. 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:05.639 I had this moment and I took this picture of 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.480 like all of them sitting there. I never take for granted, 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:10.520 like you know, and I don't know if Jimmy is 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:12.919 retiring or what he's doing, but like, I just have 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:15.359 these moments where I'm like, these are people that like 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.399 I are my family, are your family, and just sitting 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:20.720 there and watching maybe what could be our last super 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:21.480 Bowl altogether. 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:23.120 I don't know, I just like got a little emotional. 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:26.760 But I have this thing where when I'm doing updates 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.600 and I see Aaron come on, I always film it, 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:31.720 like I just become a proud friend and like film 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.159 it and I just want to like support her. So 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.440 I had my phone out to film you doing your 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:39.000 halftime hit, and Stray had just walked over and he 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:41.280 was like eating his hamburger and he saw me filming, 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:44.600 and so he like gives Aaron these like air kisses 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.080 and then does this like little dance thing basically just 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:50.119 like also saying how proud of you he was, and 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:52.520