1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I'm really trying to 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: be at a vacation mode. But the problem with that 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: is then it's noon and I'm like, who wants a cocktail? 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 2: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 5 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down Podcast. 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 3: Tie dog, I look tired. 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: Oh you're tired. 8 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: Well, here's what you're doing. You are catching up. Although 9 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't know why you're not sleeping. She just aerin 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: just before we jumped on here. She just said she's 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: not sleeping very well. As we enter our first official 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: week of being off, why do you think you're not sleeping? 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 4: Well, the story is still an issue, and we've talked 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 4: to a lot of people about like getting the surgery 16 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 4: for him to help it. 17 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 3: It's just not great. And I it's. 18 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 4: Funny the more and more you're talking to couples in 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 4: the streets, the more and more people deal with this, 20 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 4: and people sleep in other rooms and I'm not doing 21 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 4: that yet, and I kind of. 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: Don't want to do that. 23 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that. 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: I don't want it. 25 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: So for those of you that don't know, you. 26 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 3: Don't want to get surgery is a snore. 27 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: Steve also is a snore. He uses this stuff called 28 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: I hate the. 29 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: Name, it's terra. I'm going to call it the name. 30 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: He just has this tape that he puts over his 31 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: mouth that actually is very helpful. I totally noticed when 32 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: he doesn't use it, So that's fine, but I get it. Man, 33 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: snoring is so especially it's like once once you know 34 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: what's happening. And the elbows, it's also not fair for 35 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: them either, like just being like shoving at night every 36 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: five seconds. All right, Well, what's the surgery consists of? 37 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: Is it really invasive? 38 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think about it. 39 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 3: Well, I know, but I just feel bad. 40 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 4: Like so, he's obviously broken his nose several times he 41 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 4: went and got checked out and or like you know, 42 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 4: playing your sport, and this is a common thing with 43 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 4: you guys. And we just picked some cracks in his 44 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 4: nose and that would help him breathe a little better. 45 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 3: So I don't know. 46 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: It sounds easy, but it's also kind of like a 47 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 4: semi not a nose job, but it's like a deviated 48 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: septum crack in your note. I don't even know. I'm 49 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 4: probably speaking out a tune. He broke his nose. I 50 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 4: don't know, so we'll see. 51 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: I just I'm getting at the sleeping in other rooms 52 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: sing and I'm not either. This is when I didn't 53 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: like the people I was with. I was always advocating, like, 54 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I actually want my own house. I don't 55 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: even want to live in the same house as the 56 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: person that should have been the first fucking sun I 57 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: didn't like the person. 58 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 2: I like sleeping. 59 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: I want to like I like sleep like Steve and 60 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: I like sleep like fully together. 61 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: It's almost annoying. 62 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: It's like leg over each other, like I'm like, oh yeah, 63 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 1: I like sleeping, and I feel safer too that way. 64 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. I wouldn't want to sleep in another room. 65 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 4: I just also feel like there's so much time we 66 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 4: spend a part with our jobs, like six months out 67 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 4: of the year that yeah, I'm not interested in the 68 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: not sharing beds or sharing a room, so whatever, we'll 69 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 4: figure it out. I just need to sleep. I need 70 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 4: to sleep. 71 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: You also have a child, your schedule? What time do 72 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: you wake up every morning with him? So he goes 73 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: to bed seven to seven, which is amazing. I usually 74 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: like to be up by like six six thirty so 75 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: I can be ready to go for him and if 76 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: there's anything I need to get done before I do. 77 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. 78 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: I mean we were never people that like we because 79 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: I mean I don't have a baby, but dogs like 80 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: dogs need my dogs. 81 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 2: Like around six. 82 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: Thirty, I hear willis like trancing around with us. 83 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, like he wants to go out. 84 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: I've never been a person that like really slept in, 85 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: but yeah, once you have a kid, like that's a 86 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: whole difference, like you're up. 87 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 3: It's over. 88 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: And I don't know about Steve, but Jarrett can really 89 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 4: sleep in, Like he can sleep in till eleven or 90 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 4: twelve if you leave him alone. 91 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: We talked about this the other day at the super 92 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: Bowl when we're tiptoeing around to get ready for the 93 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: super Bowl because podcast plus ones over there we're sleeping in. 94 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: Also this if I have to hear one more day 95 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: about this podcast. I went to go get coffee in 96 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: town today and sweet Erica, who works at the coffee 97 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: shop owns the shop, goes I. 98 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: Heard Steve is starting a podcast. 99 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: I go, no, he's not actually starting a podcast, But 100 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: I swear to God these two and there's deep centers 101 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: allicle today that Taylor Swift is the guest. Okay, relax, 102 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: see Jared, you guys are adorable. If you actually do this, 103 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: then I'll win the lottery. There's no way they follow 104 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: up on this, but anyways, it's over all. 105 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: Right, it's sober. 106 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: We are in our first Okay, let's we just mentioned 107 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: we have been off for a week now. 108 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: We talked to the other day on the phone. We 109 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: were just acting, not acting. 110 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: We were discussing how the super Bowl felt like a 111 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: month ago. So it's a week back into re entry. 112 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: I am full ranch mode. You're giving yourself a minute 113 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: and a beat to relax with your husband. 114 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 2: I love that. 115 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: And then when people this is what I love, like, 116 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: oh well it's the off season, what are you gonna do? 117 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: And I'm like, We're already back doing stuff in two weeks, 118 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: you and I. And that's where I need to remind 119 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: myself that we are very lucky. We have opportunities and 120 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: like great things. We're looking forward to going to Tampa 121 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: and all that stuff. But I'm really I don't know 122 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: about you, but I'm really trying to like be in 123 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: a vacation mode. But the problem with that is then 124 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: it's noon, and I'm like, who wants a cocktail? 125 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: And I'm like saying, oh, it's more being you told 126 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 4: me to put Bailey's in my coffee. I know I 127 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 4: had a beer at lunch today. I just I'll talk 128 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 4: about it. 129 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: There is a Corge light in my coffee. I want 130 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: a coffee right now with Baileys. But I I work 131 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: so hard on working out. It makes me happy and 132 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: all that I have taken a beat off, but it 133 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: is now like comfort food and beer and wine and tequila. 134 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 4: Girl, I'm mixed in a salad today and I thought 135 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 4: I was like so proud of myself. 136 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: I know we're gonna let ourselves have at least two 137 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: weeks of doing whatever we want and not feeling guilty 138 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: about it. 139 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 2: I think that's the other thing. 140 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: And I don't know if you guys listening do this 141 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,679 Speaker 1: where it's like I feel guilty if I'm just being 142 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: much lazy, or if you don't work out, or if 143 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: you're going to have a drink at nine am or whatever. 144 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: And I need to stop thinking like that, because we 145 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: do work hard. We throw ourselves into our fashion, and 146 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: so we need to like not feel bad if we're 147 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: going to. 148 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 4: Do it now, I know, but I really am like 149 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 4: getting after it. 150 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah true. 151 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 4: My getting after it is two drinks at dinner, like 152 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 4: a drink at lunch, and I'm just like, this is crazy. 153 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 3: I not me. 154 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: Like, here's the problem with being home home on the 155 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,799 Speaker 1: range out here is that because I'm actually doing stuff, 156 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: like we're putting together or like building this other little 157 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: like shed thing, we're doing all this eff so like 158 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 1: you're doing work. So I'm cracking open the fricking beers 159 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: or the twist. I'm gonna tell you, ever have one 160 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: of those twisted teas. This is not an ad, but 161 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: I wish it would. 162 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: I feel like it'd be too sweet for me. 163 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,799 Speaker 2: Oh okay, well I love me some twisted tea. 164 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: It's half whatever it is, must be vodka maybe, or 165 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: it's like it's like an ornold palmer with vodka. 166 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: I guess it's what it is. It is so good. 167 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 2: And here's the problem. 168 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: You throw some of those back and you don't realize 169 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: you're getting twisted until all of a sudden you're. 170 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: Like, whoa here am I? 171 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 172 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 2: No, seriously, but it's good. 173 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: And that's the fun part too, where it's like when 174 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: you're out working and you're like, I don't know. I 175 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: feel like somehow I'm justifying instead of just sitting around, 176 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: So fuck it, I'm not gonna feel guilty. 177 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: So yeah, re entries going well, although I gotta tell you, 178 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 2: here's the only thing. 179 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: He's going to hear this and I don't care or 180 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: there's gonna be a headline that he then sends to me. 181 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: How about when we talked about not getting married. His 182 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: friends are so funny. They send him these headlines like 183 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: Carissa turns down proposal to Stephen Canderry and I'm. 184 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: Like, okay headline. 185 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, well my friends, you know. I'm like, Steve, 186 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: you didn't actually propose. Relax, okay, But we are just 187 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: here by it. I feel like we're on Survivor and 188 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: him and I are the only people on the island, 189 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: and I'm going to kill each other first me some Tommy. 190 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: But at some point it's like every day for two weeks, 191 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: just the same person I put down right and one 192 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: week down. I haven't been alone, like by myself, Like 193 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: I want to watch the shows. Like the other day 194 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: I turned on the Kardashians and he walked in and 195 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: go and walked out and I'm like, no, I want 196 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: to watch what I want to watch. I don't want 197 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: to be judged for the shows the music. And that's 198 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: like I was listening to like Cameron Marlowe this new 199 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: country or is it not new? 200 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: But he's a country singer. 201 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: I like you, and he goes, oh god, you have 202 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: every song on repeat, and I'm like, you're on repeat. 203 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: You are on repeat every day my life. Go find 204 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: something else to do. I need a loan time. 205 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 2: And I love him so much, but I'm like, so, 206 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 2: how's it going. 207 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 3: I get it. I feel like we are trying. 208 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 4: You're treading lightly over here because I was in such 209 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 4: a mood at super Bowl, not like pissed off or anything. 210 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 3: But it's like, hey, don't piss me off. 211 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 4: I need to get out of my way. So I 212 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 4: feel like both sides are treading lightly to kind of 213 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 4: it's like it's what you posted of your dogs the 214 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 4: other day, kind of playing with each other and being. 215 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, like which one's gonna go? 216 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: Or it's like are we on the verge of like 217 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: we're playing or we're about to get in a fight, 218 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: Like which one is it? Because that's the thing I know, 219 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: I said it last week. But like sweet Steve and 220 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: Jarrett have been they know during the season, they know 221 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: during the season, like we always have that, like we're working, 222 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: we're working, and now in our even limited time off, 223 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: we're not working, so we don't really have the excuse 224 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: to be like leave us alone or be bitchy. 225 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 226 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: AnyWho, So re entry is going great. It actually is fine. 227 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: I just need to like re entry, this is this 228 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: is my hour. Did you ever have that? Did your 229 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: parents ever do this when you were growing up? My 230 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: mom used dous all the time that I'd have to 231 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: go into my room and have quiet time for an hour. 232 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 3: Like I talked to her, I love it alone. 233 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: She's like, go use your imagination, go play dolls, go 234 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: play barbies, like leave me alone for an hour. 235 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: And I feel like maybe I my child steed the. 236 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 3: Way a person needs it they do. 237 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: He walks in with his laptop and I'm like, WHOA, 238 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: not that much alone time? 239 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 240 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 3: AnyWho? 241 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: Oh my god, all right, everybody get it together. Okay, 242 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: we have some great headlines that we would love to 243 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: rip through because welcome to our off season. 244 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 2: We actually get to pay attention to things other than sports. 245 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: Although the first headline still involves one of our favorites, 246 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: Saquon Barkley gives each of his linemen a truck full 247 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: of beer. Earlier this week, Barkley and Jalen Hurts form 248 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: by the Tonight Show. Saquon told Tonight's show that if 249 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: he was going on the show, his offensive linement needed 250 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: to come as well. I also need to interject here. 251 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: Did you see that clip where he pulled the ball 252 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: boy out? 253 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: I know you. Did you have the parade? 254 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: I think the dream it's everything right For those of 255 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: you that don't know what I'm talking about, Seque's going 256 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: and high fiving people that were at the parade in Philly. 257 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: He recognizes the ball boy and he's like, wait, why 258 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: are you not here? Obviously the boy was probably like 259 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed to go over there. He lifts him 260 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: up and then puts him, you know, in with them 261 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: to celebrate, and it's just so sweet. So the gist 262 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: of this is that saque wouldn't go on The Tonight 263 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: Show without his offensive line and then gifts them bud 264 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: light loaded with ninety cases of beer each. You know, 265 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: it's just great because think about that, like, it's so 266 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: easy for people to be individuals, and he's not. He's 267 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: like my success. I think he also said that he 268 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: if there was ever I don't maybe he didn't say it, 269 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: but if there was ever a statue directed of him, 270 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: that he'd want it to be with his offensive linemantal. 271 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: I just love it. 272 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 3: I just love him. I loved as part of this, 273 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 3: Go bud light. This was so cute. You just said it. 274 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 4: In ninety cases of beer, with each case holding twenty 275 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 4: four cans. That's twenty one hundred and sixty cans, or 276 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 4: nearly one for every yard Barkley gained in the regular season. 277 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 4: Go credit, Like that was so cute. Wait, though, did 278 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 4: you see from that parade? I couldn't get enough of it. 279 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 4: I adore that team. Howie Roseman gashed in the head, 280 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 4: Oh my god, because the fans were probably throwing them beers, 281 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 4: like that's the way to do. I know when the 282 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 4: parades that they had for this Stanley Cup, like they're 283 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 4: trying to throw the guy's. 284 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: Beers and then they chug them and it's. 285 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 4: Like, gosh, oh my god, that was like a severe gash. 286 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 4: And then Cooper de Jean got one too. 287 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: I think, oh did he I didn't see that one, 288 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, Howie Roseman, what did g And then he 289 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: also was like fuck it and just continues to like. 290 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 3: Leave for this team. 291 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 2: That's gonna be a nice scar. Oh that's a good story. Though. 292 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 2: I got hit in the head at the Super Bowl 293 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 2: parade from a beer. 294 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 4: Did you see the fan that was just vomiting over 295 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 4: like some sort of like security line and was still 296 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 4: doing the. 297 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 3: Chant as he was puking, Like. 298 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: I didn't. 299 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 4: But that's fantiords Man, so so good. All right, this 300 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 4: is a good one. Lay it scrolled down. Okay, what 301 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 4: is phobo? Experts reveal how to battle the latest anxiety 302 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 4: inducing trend. I seem to have every sort of anxiety 303 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 4: inducing trend. Forget fear of missing out. The latest anxiety 304 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 4: inducing trend is phobo fear of a better option. In 305 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 4: other words, people are constantly. 306 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: Oh, Chris, I don't know this word. Where are we ruminating? 307 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 2: Yep? 308 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 3: We get it on the what if, the anxiety that 309 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 3: something better will come along, which makes it undesirable to 310 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 3: commit to existing choices when making a decision. 311 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. 312 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 3: Do you have to make yourself nuts doing it? 313 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 314 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: I've been reading that book that Mel Robbins book that 315 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: everyone's reading, which there's a reason that everyone's writing it. 316 00:13:55,720 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: It's called let Them. The premise is if you're not. 317 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: Invited to a party and everybody else's let them, let 318 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: them have their party. Like, don't spend energy on things 319 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: that you can't control. It was an idea that she 320 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: was talking about. Her son was going to prom and 321 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 1: or whatever homecoming and he didn't have a restaurant booked, 322 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 1: and he didn't have the car booked, and he didn't 323 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: have a carissage for his day. He didn't have all 324 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: these things, and she was like freaking out about it, 325 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: and finally her daughter says to her, like, let him, 326 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: Like if he doesn't have a reservation, like then he's 327 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: not going to have a reservation. Or if he doesn't 328 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: have a carssage, then he's not going to have one. 329 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: Like the mom's anxiety over her kid not having stuff 330 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: is not going to make it better. If anything, the 331 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: kid was like, Mom, leave me the fuck alone kind. 332 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 2: Of a thing. 333 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: So that idea in life that it's like, if you 334 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: don't have and I'm really really trying to do this, 335 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: I need to practice what it is that I preach 336 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: in terms of like Steve is so laid back about 337 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: stuff and he doesn't stress. He doesn't stress over the 338 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: small stuff. And I didn't even know that I was 339 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: a micromanager until you get around somebody that's not and 340 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: his ability to do it so uh, like the aforementioned 341 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: projects that we're working on, I'm like, yeah, but if 342 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: we don't do this now and then and then if 343 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 1: it rains, and it's just like and he's like okay, 344 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: then it rains and it gets wet, like what's the 345 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: big deal? Like I worry about things that I can't control, 346 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: and I'm trying to be better about that because I 347 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: do feel like I stress about stuff that I don't 348 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: need to and I don't. It's getting more and more. 349 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: I used to be super laid back, and now it's 350 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: just like this. I don't know, it's because he's so 351 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: way back. Yeah, I want to you know, who I 352 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: want to be. I want to be the person that's 353 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: like what fuck it? And I and I. 354 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: Know really like off fuck it though, like who are people? Okay? 355 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 3: But and I love Steve, it's just about to be 356 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: something so terrible. 357 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 4: Give me an off fuck it person that's I'm not 358 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 4: saying this about Steve, So get that out of the way, 359 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 4: because he is off fuck it. 360 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 3: But he's also really really, really really motivated. 361 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 4: Who is an absolute awe effort and it's super. 362 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 3: I know, no, I know, I know who, I know. 363 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: It's like finding it's striking that balance. You want to name, 364 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: you want to name, you want to name? Send a 365 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: fucking rella. Anybody knows, pretty woman, stay with us. 366 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 4: I mean, I'll give a guy that's super laid back, 367 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 4: but it's suber successful and Travis Kelsey, Michael. 368 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: Street hand, Oh yeah, Eron, did you have a clip 369 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: that I posted of him? 370 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: So we were you know how send that to me? 371 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 2: I will. 372 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 3: What was happening? I saw it quick. 373 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: So the side. 374 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: Agents here is during the Super Bowl, So all of 375 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: us are in a green room, right, So we're at 376 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: obviously we're at the stadium because the boys are going 377 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: to go out and do uh uh halftime. So we're 378 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: all back in the green room and there's like two 379 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: rows of chairs. So all the boys in the front, 380 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: Terry Howie, Jimmy Gronk, Us in the back, Charles Jewels, shregs. 381 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: Like. 382 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: I had this moment and I took this picture of 383 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: like all of them sitting there. I never take for granted, 384 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: like you know, and I don't know if Jimmy is 385 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: retiring or what he's doing, but like, I just have 386 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 1: these moments where I'm like, these are people that like 387 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: I are my family, are your family, and just sitting 388 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: there and watching maybe what could be our last super 389 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 1: Bowl altogether. 390 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, I just like got a little emotional. 391 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: But I have this thing where when I'm doing updates 392 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: and I see Aaron come on, I always film it, 393 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: like I just become a proud friend and like film 394 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: it and I just want to like support her. So 395 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: I had my phone out to film you doing your 396 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: halftime hit, and Stray had just walked over and he 397 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: was like eating his hamburger and he saw me filming, 398 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: and so he like gives Aaron these like air kisses 399 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: and then does this like little dance thing basically just 400 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: like also saying how proud of you he was, and 401 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: it was really sweet. But anyways, I don't know why 402 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: we brought the oh because that's. 403 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 4: Successful and success laid back and super lazy he is, 404 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 4: but he isn't like not I don't know, he's not 405 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 4: laid back with his success. I mean, he's never not working. 406 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 4: I know how laid back that is. 407 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 2: But he makes it look he makes it look effortless. 408 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 3: Effortless. 409 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 1: Maybe that's why we think it's you know, I mean, 410 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: I think that's with anything. I guess that's even with athletes, 411 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 1: when they make things look so easy, but you know 412 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 1: how much work goes into it that I don't know. 413 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: This is a whole like tangent, but I don't know. 414 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: I just I want to be that person that doesn't 415 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,719 Speaker 1: stress about all the little things. I don't because it's 416 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: also fucking annoying, like if I used to sleep, yeah, 417 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: or like if I'm if I hear myself bitch about 418 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: these little things, if I'm my partner, you know those 419 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: things where they're like, fuck, she's nagging again, or she is. 420 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: It's like, I don't want to be that person. I 421 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: want to be the person that like when Steve goes 422 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 1: away and let's whatever, a guy with the boys, and 423 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: he's like, hers is so chill, she didn't care. 424 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 2: He ain't saying that about me. Uh uh. He's like, 425 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 2: oh fuck, what's she good? And I know he doesn't 426 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: talk a ship. 427 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 3: First weekend away I ever had with Jarrett. He was like, God, 428 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 3: you're so easy going. 429 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 2: I was like, got it fooled? That's it the book? 430 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 3: I know? 431 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 2: Should we try it for a week? 432 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 4: I need to calm down. I do I pen the name, 433 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 4: I just do. I just am like, here's an example. 434 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 4: And I don't know if this is OCD or what 435 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 4: the hell it is, but like, we had friends staying here. 436 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 4: If it was you staying here, it'd be the same way. 437 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 4: It was very concerned about the air temperature because they 438 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 4: made a big deal about how they had to It 439 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 4: wasn't a big deal, but they stated they like it 440 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 4: at sixty eight, they sleep good at sixty eight. 441 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,959 Speaker 3: I'm like, worried all fucking night. What if it's at 442 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 3: sixty eight? 443 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: Your people so though, well, that's because you want to 444 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,919 Speaker 1: make sure you put and I don't say this is like, 445 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 1: you know, because you're gonna be. 446 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 2: Like, oh you you are. 447 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: You want to make sure that everybody else is happy 448 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: before you are, which is of great quality. 449 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 2: But at the same tim like there is a little bit. 450 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 1: Of that, like, hey, if they're uncomfortable, they can change 451 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: the THIRDO stat I've been one of your guest twelve years. 452 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: You can know you can change what I'm saying. You 453 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: can change the temperature. They're adults, they. 454 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 3: Know how it works, so there's a. 455 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 2: Little bit of that. Maybe I will. 456 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you this book and read a little 457 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: bit of it, and even if you just absorb some 458 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 1: of it, because I'm I'm really trying because it's something 459 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 1: I want. 460 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:28,360 Speaker 2: To be better. 461 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 4: At and I need to be better at it, especially 462 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 4: with a kid, because interesting, he's got a cold again 463 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 4: and it's a whole thing, Like God, this has been 464 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,199 Speaker 4: two weeks, but there's no fever, and he's got to 465 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 4: just write it out and I'm like, you know, in 466 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 4: the middle of the night checking on him and things 467 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 4: like that, Like I got. 468 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 3: To calm down. 469 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: Well, let's have for She's very busy and very popular, 470 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: but I'm going to throw out a request to sweet 471 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: mel Robbins and I would love for her to give 472 00:20:55,720 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 1: us some tips and tricks on this, because tips and tricks, Yeah, 473 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 1: because I think, you know, it would benefit both of us. 474 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: And he also too, like I don't want to change 475 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 1: everything about myself, but that's one thing I don't like 476 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: about myself. Just high strung agree, moving right along. We've 477 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 1: been happily married for seventy five years. Here's our secret 478 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: to everlasting love. This headline goes on to say the 479 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,679 Speaker 1: secret is learning when to keep your mouth shut. Trudy 480 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: and Alan Tomlinson. Another thing I'm not good at. I 481 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: can't help myself even if I want to, and I'll 482 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: keep it shut for a minute. And then I finally like, oh, 483 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: this was me yesterday. I couldn't I couldn't help myself. 484 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: We went in state, so we had renovated this the 485 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: guest house up here, so I was like, we should 486 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: go up and see, like if the water works, like 487 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: you know, whatever. 488 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: So when there are guests it's comfortable. 489 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: I want to take a shower, and the shower's fucking freezing, right, 490 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: And isn't that the worst? It's not the worst, but 491 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: isn't it So? Yep, you spend money, you want something 492 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: to work. I need to not give an s I know. 493 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 1: So I so I'm like fuck it. I'm like, Okay, 494 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: the water. I don't know why it doesn't work. It 495 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 1: turns out I had to light the pilot. The whole 496 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: thing is like whatever, but I don't want to fucking 497 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: do that. This is the part that I struggle with. 498 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: I am even though I don't look like it right now, 499 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: because I look like a boy. I want to be 500 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: the woman in the relationship. I want to say to him, 501 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: you go fix it, go light the pilot. Why am 502 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 1: I underneath the house? 503 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: You know? And I did it? 504 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 3: I said, do what you underneath the house? Doing that 505 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 3: where it's the house. 506 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 1: Is gonna blow up because I'm down there trying to 507 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: find a pilot Like you're the guy, Go be the guy. 508 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 509 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: When it comes to certain things, I'm like, taking out 510 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: the trash, that's a boy job. There's some jobs that 511 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 1: are boy jobs, folding clothes, all this. 512 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: I don't care. You guys can make this a fucking headline. 513 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: I don't care. 514 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: I full close because I think that's as more of 515 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: a like, you know, thing that I can do. Because 516 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: Steve doesn't like it, I'll do that, But I ain't 517 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: crawling underneath the goddamn house to fix the pilot light. Anyways, 518 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: I digress. So I just took a shower. I'm like, fine, 519 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: I'll make it a cold plunge. I'll make this a 520 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: whole experience. I'll just take a whatever feel I felt fantastic. Afterwards, 521 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: he goes down to take a hot shower. I couldn't 522 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: help myself. He came back up and I go, oh, 523 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,400 Speaker 1: you couldn't just take I go you cold plunge every day, 524 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,199 Speaker 1: but you couldn't just do that. I also couldn't keep 525 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: my fucking mouth shut. He goes, no, I wanted to 526 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: go take a hot shower? Is that okay with you? 527 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, why did I have to say something? 528 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: Why do I have to say something? Just shut up? 529 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: It had nothing to do with him. He wanted a 530 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: hot shower. I was fine with the cold shower. Just 531 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: shut up, Carissa. I couldn't help myself. 532 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 3: Did you like the pilot? 533 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: No, because it was his job and he didn't even 534 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: go do it cold. Yeah, which because until he crawls 535 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 1: his ass underneath this house, things are going great. I 536 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: love it. There's so but it's true though, keeping my 537 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: mouth shut. That's a good seventy Also, you've been happily 538 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: married for seventy five years. How did you get married 539 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: at fifteen? That's fantastic. Good for you. 540 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 4: Guys, Carissa, here we go, my boyfriend laughs. Ambition is 541 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 4: not tirebreaker. I was caught at at least the work day. 542 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 4: He prefers to nap. I'm already annoyed because I can't nap. 543 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 4: My partner and I have different ideas of what it 544 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 4: means to work hard. I was raised by parents who 545 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 4: encourage me to put my nose to the grindstone every 546 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 4: minute of every day. My boyfriend, however, views work as 547 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 4: a means to an end. If he completes his work 548 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 4: in less than forty hours, he spend the rest of 549 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 4: the workday doing whatever he pleases. Often he'll just take 550 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 4: a nap. Who is he, George Costanza? That's crazy, Well 551 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 4: he can just take a nap. 552 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, am absolutely not, absolutely not. I'm be so attractive 553 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 1: at all. I've had to don't want ryan and look 554 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 1: like this. I mean, honestly, there's nothing more unattractive to 555 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: me than people that don't work hard. Get that you 556 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: can take a beat, enjoy your vacation, have a moment. 557 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: But I used to say to one of my exes, 558 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: there's a Monday, bro, Like, what do you mean? Because 559 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: his whole thing was like this proverbial vacation that he 560 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: was on, Like it was just like does on the 561 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: nose and so relaxed, bro. 562 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 2: And it's like, hey, there's a Monday. 563 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: Does on the on the nose mean as you're a surfer, 564 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: but like nose, this is the. 565 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 2: It was like you gotta like a baby putting your 566 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 2: toes in your nose. 567 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 1: What's the yoga pos where they're like happy baby feet. 568 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 2: That just comfy to do that? 569 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: I get that's good. No, absolutely not. I I am 570 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 1: someone and you're the same way. We are probably workaholics, 571 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 1: which is why we're high strung and you need to 572 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: fucking chill out sometimes. 573 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 2: But laziness, there is. 574 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: No, no, no part of that anymore for me. 575 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:00,880 Speaker 2: Uh. 576 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: I didn't wait too many scholarships for some losers that 577 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: I was with, and I. 578 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 2: Thought, oh, you know what, they just don't want to work. 579 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 2: It's they enjoy life. Mark. 580 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,120 Speaker 1: You can enjoy life and work and there's a healthy balance. 581 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: I believe in that, like you and Jarrett like we'll 582 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: take vacation together, and Steve and I do like, that's fine, 583 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 1: you don't have to twenty four seven three sixty five, 584 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: but you've got to have work ethic or else. Sorry, no, 585 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 1: because then you just get resembful. Well, this sweet girl's 586 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: like outworking and he's taken a nap. I'd like to 587 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 1: take a nap? 588 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 3: What job? 589 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: Let's you take a nap if you're t to carry Bradshaw. 590 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 1: If you're tired, you take a napa. You don't move 591 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: to napa. 592 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 3: That's a goody. Last we this is interesting. You hit it. 593 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 1: Work wife Valentine's cards spark heated debate about appropriateness of 594 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: workplace relationships. 595 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,719 Speaker 2: Ooh now viral TikTok. 596 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: A woman shopping for Valentine's cards this week expresses shocked 597 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,959 Speaker 1: to find cards addressed to a work wife or work husband. 598 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: The cards read for my work wife or husband on 599 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: Boundin's day, I've finally found someone just as inappropriate as me. 600 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 3: I like it. 601 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 2: I do too. In fact, I wish I would. 602 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 4: I I would give I got him from my west 603 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 4: husband's plural because you have you have more than one, and. 604 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: So do I. 605 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a polygamist. I mean, I've got so many 606 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 2: work husbands at this point. Thanks Kevin. 607 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 4: When he's getting on United and none of us have 608 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 4: status on United, he brings all of us. He goes, 609 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 4: these are all my wives and some of them are 610 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 4: men too. 611 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 3: So it's fine. 612 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 2: And you know what's so great? 613 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: So a shout out to Rachel Burkhardt and to Jared 614 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: Stole and to Stephen Candary that when you're getting up 615 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 1: and making a list, Melissa Whitworth, when you're getting up, 616 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: Toby Gonzalez, the list goes on. 617 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 2: When you're getting up and making. 618 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 1: A speech about your crew and how amazing they are, 619 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: and you reference Kevin, your work husband, and then Rachel's 620 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: sitting right there. 621 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,239 Speaker 2: She knows what this is. 622 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 1: She knows all of these people that were lucky enough 623 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: to work with, and they're significant, they're plus ones. 624 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 2: Hence the podcast. 625 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 1: You either have to get on board or you don't, 626 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: and you can't be sensitive about it because there's no 627 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: confusion about where the lines are here. But it is 628 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,640 Speaker 1: a term of endearment that we spend so much time 629 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: with these people that yeah, I don't I don't have 630 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: any problem with this, but I guess if you're insecure 631 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 1: in your relationship, like I again have been with insecure 632 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: people and if I would have said work husband, they 633 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: would have ah lost their shit. So I think it's 634 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: about the security of your relationship. 635 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:34,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, Jared is so grateful for Kevin Burkhart, for Rich Gross, 636 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 4: Casey Garland, Rich Russo, and they have all my work 637 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 4: husbands on here because they hear a lot and they 638 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 4: take care of me and vice versa. Like it's very 639 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 4: much a family and it's funny. I was just talking 640 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 4: to Tom Brady about that yesterday and like our crew 641 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 4: and you know, just what it's like. 642 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 3: And he was really sweet. He said, you know, I. 643 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 4: Guess when I started this, I didn't realize it was 644 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 4: so much like a family. And he's like, we really 645 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 4: have a great group. I'm like, oh my god, like 646 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 4: those dinners we go to all of us and coach, 647 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 4: you know, in the in the other room coming in 648 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 4: and you know, Aaron, I got to tell you that 649 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 4: outfit is great and they're so sweet and it is 650 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 4: such a family. And I don't know, I've been other places, 651 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 4: but I just with Fox and our group and how 652 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 4: we really truly it is no bullshit, love each other 653 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 4: and take care of each other. Yeah, And it's like 654 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 4: if somebody's got something, we all know about it and 655 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 4: how can we help. You know, somebody says something funny, 656 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 4: we're all there championing them to say something else funnier, 657 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 4: because like it's hilarious when one of us is on one. 658 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 4: So yeah, it's a really really special thing. But Jarrett 659 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,479 Speaker 4: is very grateful for my work husbands because they have 660 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 4: to deal with the nonsense. 661 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say he's probably relieved so he doesn't have 662 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: to listen to me a bitch most of the time. 663 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 4: But yeah, but you're my work wife too, Like I 664 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 4: call you, I'm like, can I just talk to you 665 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 4: about something? 666 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: If you're lucky enough to have people that you know, again, 667 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: you're spending that much time on the road with, and 668 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what profession. There's a lot of people 669 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: business people that travel on the road together, and. 670 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, you spend more time away than you do at home. 671 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know, I get it. 672 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: I mean if you don't have if you've never been 673 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: on the other side of that though, Like I'm not 674 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 1: a gel you're not a jealous person either, Like I'm not. 675 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 2: Trusting I trust you. That's bit me in the ass before. 676 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 1: I've had people cheat on me, and so I think 677 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: there's also that moment where you're like, maybe I'm too trusting, 678 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: But I also here's my thing on that not trying 679 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: to go down a rabbit hole of bit cheating. Going 680 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 1: back to Mel Robbins, if the person's going to cheat 681 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 1: let them. I'm gonna let Harma find out. And if 682 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: I find out, you're going to be six feet under. 683 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: And I don't even mean that physically, just in my mind, 684 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: you're dead to me, like keep moving on. So if 685 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: you want to take that risk, and you want to 686 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: risk a good thing, Steve or you know whatever, like. 687 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 2: Go for it. 688 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 1: I just don't have the time or energy to like, no, 689 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 1: be going through your phone or worried about that, Like 690 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 1: think about how much I'll speak for myself. I used 691 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: to worry about that shit all the time, and I'm like, no, 692 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: if they're gonna cheat me worrying about it, Like fine, 693 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 1: then whoever you're cheating with, you can have him because 694 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: he's a piece of shit. 695 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 2: So like you go for it. 696 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: I just don't think like that's where I should spend 697 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: my energy. But that also comes with age. 698 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,719 Speaker 4: I told you, But there's also women that are you know, 699 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 4: like our age, that do worry about that because they're probably. 700 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 3: With totally real cheaters, you know, totally. 701 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 4: If there's any relationship I should be worried about, it's 702 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 4: shir it's with Steve Penderry. I mean, there's just so 703 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 4: many plans and professions we're doing and I don't know 704 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 4: anything about it. I have to read about it, so 705 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 4: you have a lot of explaining to do, sir. 706 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I. 707 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,959 Speaker 4: Miss so I'm not gonna lie. I do miss them 708 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,880 Speaker 4: a lot. I miss you. 709 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 3: I like the time away is great, but it was 710 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 3: so funny. 711 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 4: I just saw home and it was a Sunday, and 712 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 4: I said, you know, well, we can't keep away from 713 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 4: each other on a Sunday. 714 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: You know. 715 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yeah, but I do. I miss 716 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 3: my guys. 717 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 4: I know some of them just work dayturna five hundred, 718 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 4: so I got to check in. 719 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, I miss those guys. 720 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 1: I saw Myers yesterday because I just saw the highlights 721 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: because there was a rain delay, so I didn't see 722 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 1: the race. 723 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 3: But oh yeah, they are rain delays. 724 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: Chris Myers. Can I just speaking of another work Husard. 725 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: Chris Myers is one of the funniest people I've ever 726 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: speaking of people we miss. 727 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 2: I love him. 728 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: And for those of you listening to the podcast and 729 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 1: you're like, what's happening in these people? Chris Myers is. 730 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: He does football, he does NASCAR, he does the dog Show. 731 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: If you've never seen Chris Myers, call a Westminster dog show. 732 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: You're missing out in life, but you are. Yeah, it's 733 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,959 Speaker 1: all good. We have a lot of things to be 734 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: thankful for. So to recap we need to calm down. 735 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: We need to not stress about things we can't control. 736 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: We need to prioritize some personal space. 737 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 3: And the major casting our meeting. 738 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 1: Gonna yep, we're gonna meet Taylor Swift in the way 739 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: that we want. It needs to be under our terms 740 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 1: and conditions and something she'd agreed to, which is a 741 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: good time, privacy and who gives a fuck? 742 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: And I need to get you some sleep. 743 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 3: I know, I'm gonna have a cup of coffee. What 744 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,479 Speaker 3: watching right now? 745 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 2: A way to sleep? 746 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 4: I know, Well it's four o'clock. What should I be 747 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 4: watching right now? 748 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 3: Like? What am I watching? What do I to dive into? 749 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,479 Speaker 4: I want the I want our people to let me know, 750 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,959 Speaker 4: like what do they recommend? I do need to I 751 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 4: do need to catch up on Salt Lake. I guess 752 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 4: Beverly Hills. The people staying here are huge fans of 753 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 4: the Summerhouse. I've never done that before. 754 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 2: I'll tell you a good show to watch. Paradise. 755 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: Paradise, It's honest, It's on Hulu and it's Sterling Brown 756 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: and he was in it's the same guy that wrote 757 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: This is Us and Rounds the actor and this is 758 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: Us and he's an m incredible It's I. I although 759 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: I like to binge something and it's only the like 760 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: come out every week episode, So I need to like 761 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: take a few weeks off and then jump back into 762 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: it because I like. 763 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 3: When I have a notice just came out. 764 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, we are you into that? I am? I am. 765 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: I was really into season one. Season two lost me 766 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 1: a little bit. But I can dive right back in. 767 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 3: Sure. Okay, it's like a whole new cast, whole new season. 768 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: Great, all right, but yeah, calm down, community, What else 769 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: should we be watching. I need some binge worthy series 770 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 1: one that maybe have a few seasons that like I 771 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 1: just don't even know about. 772 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got. 773 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 4: To finish The Bear. I never finished that season. We 774 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 4: started it in the summer, and we need to finish it. 775 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: The Crown. 776 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,879 Speaker 1: I never finished the Crown, you told me, Yeah, so good, 777 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: so good. 778 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 3: I missed the Crown, all right, Yeah, let. 779 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 2: Us know, Yeah, let us know. I love you. You 780 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 2: look so cozy, comfy and adorable. I love you. I 781 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 2: miss you. 782 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 1: I'll see you in a couple of weeks. And you, guys, 783 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: thank you for listening. Also, if you have heard anything 784 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,280 Speaker 1: on this podcast that you have thoughts to, comments and concerns, 785 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: please give us some feedback in our questions because it 786 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 1: really means a lot. You guys, ask us questions and 787 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,760 Speaker 1: ask us to answer them. I would love some feedback 788 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 1: on how we can like work on the things that 789 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 1: Aaron and I. 790 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 2: Want to work on. 791 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: Zipper zipper, zipper and calming down and I don't know, 792 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: just living life, living our best life. I'm going to 793 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,240 Speaker 1: go on another cocktail because fuck it, you know I'm. 794 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 3: Going to put a cocktail in my coffee. 795 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 2: No, that's not true, all right, I love you, I 796 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 2: love you. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a 797 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:32,760 Speaker 2: production of iHeartRadio. 798 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio apps, Apple Podcasts, 799 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.