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Speaker 1: for me, I met this girl one time, too good

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Speaker 1: I was like, that is way too good to be true.

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Speaker 1: Daddy issues when you need them. I know it sucked. Guys. Yea.

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Speaker 1: Mary is on the phone with us and she thinks

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Speaker 1: be true. His name is Ray, and that's who she

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Speaker 1: wants us to call today. Hi, Mary, how are you hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Thanks, how are you good? Thank you for

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Speaker 1: your email. Appreciate it. So why don't you tell us

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Speaker 1: a little bit about Ray, the guy that you want

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Speaker 1: to call today? Okay, thanks, I appreciate it. I'm nervously,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad. I don't know it. Okay. So I met

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Speaker 1: you know, so he didn't notice. And I actually timed

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Speaker 1: his back and he said, Hey, my name's Mary. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: too good to be true. A great smile like that

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Speaker 1: that's a smile, right, but anything else is in place.

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Speaker 1: He's never been divorced. He doesn't speak badly about women

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Speaker 1: or his mom. He m great job. I'm so used

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Speaker 1: You know, he's a gentleman. He pulls a chair out

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Speaker 1: do you normally go out with? Mary? Musicians and guys

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Speaker 1: who have really interesting that nothing gets musicians. I don't

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Speaker 1: The way that you described everything about him. That's good, though,

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Speaker 1: maybe you don't know what it's right being a woman.

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Speaker 1: the first day. I don't mind that it's not on on

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Speaker 1: Ask me if I've gone every day? Yes? Yeah, Why

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Speaker 1: hang on rooking jubil in the morning. We're in the

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Speaker 1: middle of a second date. Update and if you're just

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Speaker 1: There we go. Hello, Hey, I was looking for Ray. Yeah, hey, Ray,

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and you recently went out on a date

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Speaker 1: Why you got to get back to charity? Why would

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're doing someone a favor by considering

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Speaker 1: You just know it. Mary. Did you hear what he

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Speaker 1: like I said, I told you guys, he's an amazing guy.

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Speaker 1: He's rare. And you know, Ray, it was an honor

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Speaker 1: to more, you'll you'll figure it out. Like I did Mary.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that you want to do to work up

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