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Speaker 1: I need to give her an answer. Let's do a

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Speaker 1: really makeing it hard for me to root for you,

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Speaker 1: You said, you wanted final say on anyone who might

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Speaker 1: Let's have a call with her tomorrow and get her

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Speaker 1: because of your negligence in communicating. When are you free

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Speaker 1: I also felt disrespected because when she decided to leave

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Speaker 2: This is priority number one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, you're frustrating as soon

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Speaker 1: She then berated me for not responding in a timely

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Speaker 3: She literally admitted to being petty and intentionally not yes, like, it's.

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Speaker 1: So different if you were like, oh, I literally have

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Speaker 1: Come on, I messaged her about the girl in the group.

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Speaker 1: I called the girl, but stopped responding individually to Megan.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really vibe with Lucy, but at this point

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Speaker 1: wouldn't pay her rent anymore. So I agreed that Lucy

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Speaker 1: all I can do. If you like Lucy great, Please

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, yeah, be cannot have a more rent for

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Speaker 1: When she was trying to get someone to take it.

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Speaker 1: When Lucy reached out, the listing was seven hundred dollars,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Lucy and I resigned the lease, and I thought

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Speaker 1: Basically, her proposal was that, because we both paid one

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Speaker 2: She brought him the big g in this.

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Speaker 1: I would not want to live with either of these people.

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Speaker 1: I know people who do like this situation. I could not.

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Speaker 1: It's just like I want to talk to you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Of Now, I'm get to do it right in your face.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends who like to smoke it,

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Speaker 1: Ohp you just doesn't do communication.

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Speaker 3: This is true.

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Speaker 1: I'm finding out throughout the story. Op, you just literally

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Speaker 2: This is yes.

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Speaker 1: Tyler says, oh, you just avoids everything but work.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how she speaks. She speaks through her art.

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Speaker 1: He's through her performance performance. Ye yie, this drove me crazy.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't say anything. But I didn't passive aggressively

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Speaker 3: I didn't move her weed jar in different places, just

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Speaker 1: Said, you have two options. Either you should have said

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Speaker 1: It imitates art imitates life, That's.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying, because then she could invite Megan and

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Speaker 1: You're being attacked on.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on. I don't like this.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I don't. I don't want to know. I don't

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Speaker 3: I mean it is a little like it's getting creepy now.

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Speaker 2: It's getting creepy because when we were reading downstairs to John, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Guys, there's no Megan's on this list.

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Speaker 2: But then about the whistle goes whoop about the whistle.

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Speaker 3: But then see what you think you're safe, right answer,

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Speaker 3: We don't even need to invite to Megan because someone

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're talking to them until two am, you

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Speaker 1: They always tell people my name.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're just go different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, commit to the bit all right? Sorry about that

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Speaker 1: She came outside and tapped on my car window to

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Speaker 1: The fridge is always full of her food, and you

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Speaker 1: it easily if she had just asked. But I just

440
00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,720
Speaker 1: said I'll clean out a cabinet and left for work.

441
00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,000
Speaker 1: I had a panic attack in front of a couple students,

442
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,840
Speaker 1: which and during planning period, I called my mom to

443
00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,440
Speaker 1: make a plan. When I got home, Lucy wasn't there.

444
00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,719
Speaker 1: I cleaned out a whole cabinet of plates and mugs

445
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,639
Speaker 1: and things and put it in a box that just

446
00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:24,080
Speaker 1: stayed on my bedroom floor until I moved. I extensively

447
00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,840
Speaker 1: cleaned the kitchens and living room, removed pretty much any

448
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:31,080
Speaker 1: decoration slash non essentials that showed any personality, and put

449
00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: them in my room. I started packing moving boxes that night.

450
00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,520
Speaker 1: I was the most depressed I've ever been in my life,

451
00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,679
Speaker 1: and I hated my life so much. I knew I

452
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,800
Speaker 1: had to just leave the second it was possible. After

453
00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,320
Speaker 1: the school year ended, I finished packing up my boxes

454
00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,000
Speaker 1: and I moved out all my stuff at the end

455
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,160
Speaker 1: of May, so technically still had two months on lease.

456
00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,080
Speaker 1: I kept paying my more than half of the rent,

457
00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,639
Speaker 1: but drove for three days across the country with a

458
00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,600
Speaker 1: suitcase and my cat to my parents' house. I stayed

459
00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,800
Speaker 1: there almost the whole summer, but because of my financial

460
00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,000
Speaker 1: time to the house and a slight worry that we

461
00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,840
Speaker 1: won't get the security to pause it back if I'm

462
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,600
Speaker 1: not there to make sure the house stays nice, I

463
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,560
Speaker 1: was still doing pretty bad mentally. As the summer was ending,

464
00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,879
Speaker 1: I came back to town and texted her, telling her

465
00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,879
Speaker 1: that on the day before our move out check, I

466
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:15,840
Speaker 1: would come to do a final clean and take the

467
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,200
Speaker 1: box of cleaning supplies that I left. I asked when

468
00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,200
Speaker 1: she would be moved out so I could go without

469
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,680
Speaker 1: being in her way, and she said around five pm.

470
00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:24,919
Speaker 3: You did it like the no. You gotta go like

471
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:29,520
Speaker 3: way before, way before. What if it's an absolute yes?

472
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 3: And now you dude, oh.

473
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:36,399
Speaker 1: Pee, oh pee, what are you doing? I was staying

474
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,199
Speaker 1: at my dad's house and had to drive two and

475
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,520
Speaker 1: a half hours to get there. I arrived around five

476
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,320
Speaker 1: pm and she was not out of the house. In fact,

477
00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:45,880
Speaker 1: it didn't look like a single box was even packed.

478
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,800
Speaker 1: I asked why she wasn't done yet, and she said

479
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,080
Speaker 1: because it's raining and her boyfriend only had a truck

480
00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:51,720
Speaker 1: to move her out and we had to check out

481
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: and nine am the next morning and I had a

482
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,639
Speaker 1: two and a half hour drive, so I told her

483
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,919
Speaker 1: I just work around her stuff and sorry that I

484
00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 1: can't do the final sweep. She said, I wasn't allowed

485
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,399
Speaker 1: to open my door. What the hell? She said that

486
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 1: since I left my cat left behind fleas. I had

487
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,960
Speaker 1: gotten rid of the fleas. I will admit they're awful

488
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 1: to deal with. They were probably some in the house

489
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 1: when I left. Say peace, oh pee, there's probably a few.

490
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 1: Please pee, oh pee. You're a bad roommate. You're a

491
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:30,160
Speaker 1: bad roommate, but she said she'd been vacuuming and bug

492
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,920
Speaker 1: bombing and trying desperately to get rid of them. There

493
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 1: were no animals in the house for the last two months,

494
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,160
Speaker 1: so I feel like fleas should be dealt with.

495
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, girl, dude, I had a friend who

496
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,199
Speaker 3: they got fleas. It was like one of those like

497
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,399
Speaker 3: four apartment complex. It was super small. They had like

498
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: one shared you know, washer dryer unit, and some crazy

499
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 3: lady with unkept uncleaned got fleas in the washer dryer.

500
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,679
Speaker 3: Then it got in everyone in the apartment complex, and

501
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,359
Speaker 3: he said it was He said it was so insanely

502
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 3: difficult to get rid of.

503
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, please, are very difficult.

504
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

505
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 1: Anyways, I told her I had to get home. I

506
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,680
Speaker 1: couldn't wait around for her to pack and move out.

507
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 1: From start to finish, it was already five pm. She said, well, sorry,

508
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,880
Speaker 1: but it's not my fault. You waited until the last

509
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:19,439
Speaker 1: possible minute to deal with this, which is true. This

510
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 1: is true me. I'm not the one who hasn't started packing.

511
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 1: I moved out my stuff in May. She also said

512
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: that there was furniture that Megan left behind. She had

513
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 1: advertised the room as furnished that she was not going

514
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 1: to deal with. I drive a really small two door car.

515
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: I cannot fit multiple furniture pieces into it, just because

516
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 1: she decided she didn't want the stuff that had been

517
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 1: left in her room for her to use as furniture

518
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 1: via the agreement with Megan bro I was angry, but

519
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 1: when I get overwhelmed, I just get emotional and cry,

520
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: so this is a theme of the story. So I

521
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 1: went to sit in my car while she went to

522
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: rent a U haul or something. I called my uncle,

523
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: who came over with this truck and we just loaded

524
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: all megan stuff in the back in the rain and

525
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 1: took it to Goodwill slash the dump the next day,

526
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 1: based on how it fared in the rain, I wiped

527
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 1: down and swept my room slash bathroom, but her stuff

528
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 1: was still everywhere in the common spaces. By the time

529
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: I finished waiting for my uncle to arrive and then

530
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: dealing with Megan's old stuff and the cleaning, it was

531
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: around eleven PM. I had to be up at six

532
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 1: am the next morning in order to come back to

533
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: turn in my key the next day, so I left

534
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: and prayed that Lucy would effectively clean when she finish

535
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: getting out her stuff. This would be a good time

536
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: for you to maybe call your landlord and say, hey,

537
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: we need another day. Is that okay, We're having a

538
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: little bit of a tough time move and everything out

539
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: in a timely manner.

540
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 3: Is that okay, Sophia, You're forgetting one very important key thing.

541
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: Oh that communicating.

542
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 3: That takes communicator, its connect I have to talk. I

543
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 3: can't go give us someone. That's what I want to do.

544
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 3: I just want to like just make mouth movements with

545
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: no noise coming out. But instead of that, you're telling

546
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 3: me I have to use my vocal chords to form

547
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 3: words and sentences that make sense, to go back and forth.

548
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 3: I'm not going to do all that. Nope, too hard,

549
00:22:58,920 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 3: I can't do it.

550
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 1: She did not. Not only did she not deep clean anything,

551
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: she left behind multiple pieces of furniture and bags of trash.

552
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: We did not get back our security debus it the

553
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: whole thing.

554
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 3: Oh dude.

555
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 1: We also owed money after that because they had to

556
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: hire people to haul away stuff, deep clean and repaint

557
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: because of how much she smoked in the house, and

558
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,199
Speaker 1: to get rid of the fleas. I admitted that the

559
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: fleas could have been my.

560
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: Bad might have been me, oh be well, I mean,

561
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 2: didn't Lucy let.

562
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: Out Lucy let out the cat totally or bad? But

563
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: you can get fleas off of a cat if you

564
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: actually do it.

565
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, Or you could have communicated, hey, you let the

566
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 2: cat out, Lucy, could you pay for like the flea

567
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: medication or like get rid of the fleas? You did

568
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: this it was an inside cat and again this involves communication,

569
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 2: but that's step one.

570
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 1: Also, I'm sorry, like we know that Lucy's you know,

571
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: a bit of a problem. Yeah, so why wouldn't you

572
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 1: go and check that this was all being moved out?

573
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 1: Like it's that you have to do it, but do

574
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: it so that you don't have to pay a.

575
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 3: Thousand dollars exactly, Like don't like put things off on

576
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 3: other people. It's like, okay, yeah, yeah, it should be

577
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 3: pretty much everything we've seen here their responsibility. But it's

578
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: like if you don't do it, if they didn't do it,

579
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 3: and if you don't come in and check, all you're

580
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 3: the only person you're you're hurting is yourself.

581
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like when you know people aren't going to

582
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: do things, then you need to step up and do it.

583
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: And you can't complain that it wasn't done when you

584
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: had time to fix it, Like, obviously they're the ales

585
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: for these things, but like, come on, come on.

586
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: Come on.

587
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: Because we didn't get the security deposit back, I didn't

588
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: get any money back to cover the money Megan owed

589
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: me for the rent last four months, so I was

590
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: out two thousand dollars. I'm lucky that even though I'm

591
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: a teacher, not the best paid of professions, I don't

592
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: have any dependence or anything, and I was able to

593
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: stay with my parents for free over the summer, so

594
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: it didn't catapult me into financial ruin. Things have been

595
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: a little tighter than I like the last couple of months,

596
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 1: but I'm fine, And oh my god, I'm fine with

597
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: you guys joining us live every weekday at three PMPST.

598
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: Just tap our profile. I'm not and there is a

599
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: little bit left of this story.

600
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 3: Oh the kid that keeps giving.

601
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Lady Jade Master says, oh, he must

602
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: have really bad anxiety because they are a wreck.

603
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

604
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: Indeed, Laurie says, Ohpi, the fleas were your problem. Yeah, man,

605
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: oh man, I literally like op. He made so many

606
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: mistakes in the story, so many mistakes I.

607
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 2: Was gonna say, well, it's funny when John's not there.

608
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: I think everyone here is just his everyone seeing that.

609
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: No, everyone hears something. Yeah, But the only reason I'm

610
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: like riding on Opie is because it's from their perspective.

611
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, the only person we can talk to.

612
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, the only person we can talk to, and the

613
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 1: person who was consistently kind of made it seem like

614
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: nothing is their fault. Yeah, Like obviously you know, Lisa

615
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: and Megan for different reasons, but like Opie's the one

616
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: here who's standing in front of us and being like

617
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: it's their fault. I did nothing wrong. How could they

618
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: do that to me? And yet over and.

619
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 3: Over just and you know, like in Meghan's defense, Megan

620
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 3: did say like, Okay, hey, I you know I was

621
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 3: one to do this, so let me, uh like try

622
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 3: to find someone like do this, you know again. Megan

623
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 3: had other things that went back on the word on

624
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 3: the payment and stuff, but like she did try to

625
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: stay on top of it. She did try to like

626
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 3: communicate a lot where op did like zero almost zero.

627
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: I feel like Megan owes me the thousand dollars, Come on, girl,

628
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: I feel like she doesn't. I don't like Megan, but

629
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 1: I feel like she doesn't.

630
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 3: Also, like, once again op is making a decision, like

631
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 3: if she's gonna start coming after Megan for the thousand dollars.

632
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: Should have done that way sooner, should have.

633
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 3: Done it way sooner. And you're I feel like you're

634
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 3: only setting yourself up for more headaches and like frustration.

635
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 3: The same way you could have gone in earlier to

636
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 3: clean headaches and frustration, you could have been involved in

637
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 3: the roommate finding process headaches, Like op just keeps putting

638
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 3: herself in these situations where.

639
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: If you wanted Megan to pay the three hundred dollars

640
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: a month, say hey, no, you still need to pay

641
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: for that because you undercharged the room.

642
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 3: Come on.

643
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 2: My favorite thing is op just keeps pointing the finger

644
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 2: at everyone else. It's like they did it, they did it.

645
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: She's not taking I guess these were my bad but

646
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 2: they still did it.

647
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: Yes, nothing is Opie's fault.

648
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 2: It's a flea's fault.

649
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 3: It's a flea.

650
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 2: It's not my fault. It's the cat's fault now, which

651
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 2: is Megan's fault. So it's ultimately Megan's fault.

652
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 3: Put a finger at a mirror.

653
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 1: My family and friends say she should pay the other

654
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars of the security deposit because she was

655
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: the one who vetted Lucy.

656
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 2: I think the story broke Sophia.

657
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: It did it did? I hate this person and swore

658
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Speaker 1: she's a responsible and nice roommate. Okay, just real quick.

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Speaker 1: You can never tell if someone's actually a responsible a

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Speaker 1: nice person unless you live with them. Again, Like, I

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Speaker 1: don't like Megan, she is an angle, But Megan cannot

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Speaker 1: tell whether or not this person is a good roommate

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Speaker 1: from a couple interactions. That's just how like living with

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Speaker 1: anyone that you don't know or even that you do

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Speaker 1: know is a risk.

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Speaker 3: You can't guarantee me that this person will be perfect,

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Speaker 3: even though you just met them a few days ago

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Speaker 3: and like talked to him for like an hour. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you can't give me a thousand percent guarantee.

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Speaker 2: I met him on the internet.

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Speaker 1: I trust it, but I just don't want to deal

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Speaker 1: with it anymore. I know that she would just yet

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Speaker 1: the way she wants to and blame me for all

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Speaker 1: of it. I know there are parts of this that

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Speaker 1: I could have absolutely handled better. But at least it's over,

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Speaker 1: thank God. Thankfully. I'm now living with my cat and

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Speaker 1: previously mentioned best friend in an apartment that I can

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Speaker 1: afford by myself. Oh, the cat is your best friend? No,

679
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Speaker 1: that I can afford by myself when they move out

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Speaker 1: for graduate school. Oh no, no, okay, you are living

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Speaker 1: with a human person. Ah okay, And I'm much happier

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Speaker 1: in my life than a few months ago. I can't

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Speaker 1: believe I wrote this much about it, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like it's an outlet to explain my side of the

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Speaker 1: situation and feelings to make it almost I'm sure she's

686
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Speaker 1: not redit on Reddit or anything, but it felt good

687
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Speaker 1: to type it all out and hope that maybe one

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Speaker 1: day she'll understand how she made me feel. Also, if

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Speaker 1: I was really in the wrong in any of these situations,

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Speaker 1: I would love to know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, tell them you were, Yeah, tell her yeah.

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Speaker 1: And almost all of the situations, I feel like I

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Speaker 1: handle it to the best of my ability and try

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Speaker 1: to be understanding. But it truly was the worst year

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Speaker 1: of my life, so I might have been unable to

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Speaker 1: see if my behaby of yours were causing any of

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00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: the tension. Wow, I can't believe I wrote that much.

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Speaker 1: Peace Out and that's the end of that story.

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Speaker 2: So you ended Girl Scouts see ya?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: So this is just three people I would hate to

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Speaker 1: live with, three people I would never want to leave.

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Speaker 3: So, like, truly, honestly, is this just the like the

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Speaker 3: Olympic Game for worst room?

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Speaker 1: Three of the worst roommates?

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Speaker 3: I have to ask? Can we can we rank them

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Speaker 3: really quickly? Like who's the worst?

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Speaker 1: Okay, hmmm, Right, it's tough this question.

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Speaker 2: How do we rank the three? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like, the thing is that I really hate Op.

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Speaker 3: I really hate Op low key both of them on communication,

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Speaker 3: it was absolutely the worst because eventually the two of

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Speaker 3: them not the best way ever, but.

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Speaker 1: They think were the worst of communication.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Megan Lucy right, Lisa.

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Speaker 1: Lucy and Meghan were the worst of communit. I feel

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Speaker 1: like the only bad things that we heard about Megan.

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Speaker 1: I mean not as a person. She seemed like she

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Speaker 1: had a lot of problems as a person, but like

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Speaker 1: roommate wise, it seems like she broke the lease but

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Speaker 1: gave a month at advance and.

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Speaker 3: Was paying, but then later went back on that. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I would say maybe.

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Speaker 1: Put Meghan in the middle.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Megan number two.

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Speaker 1: I think Megan's number two.

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Speaker 2: Megan is so then it's like Lucy.

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Speaker 1: Or Ope in the first spot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have my ranking.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's your ranking?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Op's number one? I mean Opie, you just oh.

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Speaker 1: He's the worst because she made me read the story.

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Speaker 3: The seven thousand plus word story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, am I the worst?

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Speaker 1: Also, we did get like little bits nuggets and stuff

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Speaker 1: about op admitting that she was really messy. I just

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Speaker 1: want to like she glossed over that. But she did

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Speaker 1: not deny any of the messy allegations.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you my reasoning why again, op is number

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Speaker 2: one because OPI just didn't do anything here. Yeah, She's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna be petty. I'm petty. I'm not

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Speaker 2: gonna figure this out. She took no initiative to find

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Speaker 2: a roommate really until the very end where she's like

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Speaker 2: stressing herself out like Megan had her thing, and Meghan's sure,

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Speaker 2: but Opie was the constant denominator of just like, you're

747
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Speaker 2: doing this to yourself. Yeah, you're shooting yourself in the foot.

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Speaker 2: Someone said in the comments, You're like, you're shooting yourself

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Speaker 2: in the foot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think in terms of maybe worst roommate just

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Speaker 1: in general, like you know, if I were just experiencing

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Speaker 1: them in the wild. It would be Lucy, Meghan Op

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Speaker 1: in that order. But in terms of whom I hate it,

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Speaker 1: it's Ope, Megan Lucy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like it seemed like Lucy was like

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Speaker 3: more annoying to like actually live with day to day,

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Speaker 3: which is frustrating. But then I really hate like and

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Speaker 3: again I get it, but like I do hate like Meghan,

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Speaker 3: just like leaving Ope to like that's why.

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Speaker 1: I think she's just second for me.

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Speaker 3: I think, I think, I think I'm OPI Meghan, Lucy.

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Speaker 3: They're kind of tied though. Meghan and Lucy are tied

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Speaker 3: because like abandoning you is and then living with the

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Speaker 3: person that suck sucks. There we go.

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Speaker 2: But that's there, you have it.

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Speaker 1: That's the end of that story, the end.

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Speaker 2: I think. Sofia is broken.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna a little bean break.

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Speaker 3: We're about to see. But how about we sign off

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Speaker 3: the good people?

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Speaker 2: Guys, give the good people what they want.

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