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Speaker 2: JR Is on the phone today for our first Date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in
Speaker 2: a second we're going to call her and see if
Speaker 2: you'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date.
Speaker 3: But first, JR. How long has it been since you
Speaker 3: heard from Marie?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: Man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a week now. Okay,
Speaker 3: did you try to hit her up?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I've called a couple of times. I didn't
Speaker 4: leave a voice message every time I called because I
Speaker 4: didn't want to sound crazy or whatever. But she just
Speaker 4: hasn't called back.
Speaker 3: I got nothing. All right, we'll tell us about the date.
Speaker 4: It was awesome, so we mount on the apps. I
Speaker 4: just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,
Speaker 4: she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,
Speaker 4: you know, with her friends. I mean the second we
Speaker 4: started talking, it was like I was telling her about
Speaker 4: I always wanted to ride a horse, but I've been
Speaker 4: like real afraid to try. And she laughed at it,
Speaker 4: you know, but like it was that cute kind of laugh,
Speaker 4: and then she was like really encouraging, and we decided
Speaker 4: that actually our first meeting would be for me to
Speaker 4: go horseback riding.
Speaker 3: Oh that's a cool first day.
Speaker 4: It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She
Speaker 4: was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader.
Speaker 3: She was just.
Speaker 4: So warm and energetic and and I mean she was
Speaker 4: gorgeous too. I just, oh, I can't get it out
Speaker 4: of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,
Speaker 4: we you know, we went home to shower and we changed,
Speaker 4: and then we met up for dinner. And oh my gosh,
Speaker 4: I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking about it.
Speaker 3: It was things, things are going great.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.
Speaker 3: And that's a good sign, really good sign.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. That's usually it's like if you're lucky
Speaker 4: after dinner. You know, this was right away and you know,
Speaker 4: set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,
Speaker 4: you know, we kissed again and I told her that
Speaker 4: I was gonna call her this week with a plan
Speaker 4: for another adventure. You know, it's just to me, this
Speaker 4: is so good.
Speaker 1: So you're really into her. It sounds like the date
Speaker 1: went great. Though to have a two part date and kisses,
Speaker 1: it feels like there's really great momentum.
Speaker 3: What could have gone wrong? You think?
Speaker 4: You know, the only thing that I can really think
Speaker 4: of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,
Speaker 4: sometimes I say the wrong thing at.
Speaker 3: The wrong time.
Speaker 4: You know, I don't mean to, but like we were
Speaker 4: sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like
Speaker 4: an her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,
Speaker 4: she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make
Speaker 4: a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So
Speaker 4: I remember saying like, hey, where are you on OnlyFans
Speaker 4: or something like the you know, how do you afford
Speaker 4: that fancy stuff?
Speaker 3: She It was like the only.
Speaker 4: Point where I forget all that romance.
Speaker 3: Is she looked just like cold and uh.
Speaker 4: Then she kind of played it off, but She's like,
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And there was a
Speaker 4: little awkward moment there. You know, I moved on from
Speaker 4: it and I told her, you know, say I'm mean
Speaker 4: to offend you or anything, and I told her it
Speaker 4: was a joke.
Speaker 3: And that was the only moment that kind of that.
Speaker 5: I can think of. That was like, Oh, is that
Speaker 5: what it was? Did I really ruin.
Speaker 4: It by putting my foot in my mouth again?
Speaker 3: Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land.
Speaker 2: You got to tell that one, right, just right, you
Speaker 2: got to tell that one. Yeah, okay, well yeah, maybe
Speaker 2: that's why she's not calling you back. We'll play a
Speaker 2: song come back and then call her and see if
Speaker 2: she just tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 2: get you another date.
Speaker 4: Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get
Speaker 2: your first day follow up next. Right in the middle
Speaker 2: of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us, Jr.
Speaker 2: Is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Marie,
Speaker 2: and so in the second we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she just he us why she's ghosting him.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, Jarah, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: us up on your situation?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So went on the best first day I've ever had.
Speaker 4: We broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We
Speaker 4: kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out
Speaker 4: of a movie as far as I'm concerned, and I
Speaker 4: may have put my foot in my mouth, but I
Speaker 4: think it went really well overall, and I can't get
Speaker 4: her to get back to me, and I really want
Speaker 4: to go on another adventure with her.
Speaker 1: But your foot in your mouth was there because you
Speaker 1: asked her if she was on only fans because she
Speaker 1: had nice things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was a joke, right right?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 3: Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, speak to Marie please does Hey Marie?
Speaker 3: How are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from
Speaker 3: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Him Marie.
Speaker 3: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victorian.
Speaker 3: Hey how are you? How are you great? Thanks for asking?
Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of the show before? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I love the show?
Speaker 3: Oh? Thanks great. Do you like the first dight follow ups?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yes, congratulations Because this is a first day follow up.
Speaker 2: You're gusting somebody and they emailed us about you. Do
Speaker 2: you know who that would be?
Speaker 5: Yes? Jr?
Speaker 2: Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told us about
Speaker 2: your date. He said he really liked you and he's
Speaker 2: not sure why you ghost see him, do you point telling.
Speaker 5: Us, Oh my goodness, I'm so embarrass Well, I really
Speaker 5: liked him too, but and and the date was great
Speaker 5: and everything, but to be honest, he was asking some
Speaker 5: personal questions and he seemed like he was crying a
Speaker 5: little bit. I couldn't tell if he was joking or not.
Speaker 5: But he, you know, was getting a little too close
Speaker 5: to finding out a secret honestly. And I I just
Speaker 5: don't go out with guys like that, like.
Speaker 3: Inquisitive guys like that. Do you what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know, I like to
Speaker 5: keep my privacy, you know, like my personal business is
Speaker 5: my business.
Speaker 3: Okay, what do you mean by that?
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I just I want a guy that
Speaker 5: like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.
Speaker 5: And I you know, I'm not sure if he's like
Speaker 5: creepy or not.
Speaker 3: You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.
Speaker 5: Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my
Speaker 5: bag that I mean, I'd like to have my stuff
Speaker 5: And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and
Speaker 5: and and and made me think, is that how he
Speaker 5: found me? Is that? Like?
Speaker 1: Is that why he's Okay, so you feel like he
Speaker 1: put two and two together and you're usually low key
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 3: You probably knew have people that want to date you
Speaker 3: because of that.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure
Speaker 5: that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured
Speaker 5: it out and that's why he asked me for a date.
Speaker 5: Ohh whoa, whoa wait a minute, So you you are.
Speaker 2: Only he's on the phone listening and wants to talk
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 5: No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness, old hi. Oh
Speaker 5: my gosh.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I swear I did not know you were on there.
Speaker 4: I was just making a joke.
Speaker 3: That is a bad time joke.
Speaker 5: I thought that you that you for sure knew I
Speaker 5: was on and that's why you asked me out. So
Speaker 5: you really just saw me on the app and and
Speaker 5: genuinely just wanted to go out with me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem so sweet.
Speaker 5: It's one for like who you are. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 5: I'm gonna cry.
Speaker 4: It is cool that you have an only fans.
Speaker 5: You do. You're cool with it. Yeah, I don't care
Speaker 5: about that. I'd never judge you for that.
Speaker 4: You know, I mean, if you want to keep it
Speaker 4: a secret. Maybe you know, don't bring out the fancy stiff.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You were doing so well this moment.
Speaker 5: I like, what can I say?
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: I was so stupid.
Speaker 4: I was just trying to do I danced in person,
Speaker 4: but you guys can't see that, and it was supposed
Speaker 4: to be a joke and I suck at that.
Speaker 3: But you rode a horse, j R. You did that,
Speaker 3: and she was amazing.
Speaker 4: I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marine,
Speaker 4: but he was great.
Speaker 5: It was you were my little You're my hero that day. Marine.
Speaker 3: It was great. You guys are actually really cute.
Speaker 5: Thank you. You are really sweet. Jared and I and
Speaker 5: I do really like you.
Speaker 3: Marie. Would you like to go on another date with
Speaker 3: j R? We'll pay for it really yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my gosh, please please say yes.
Speaker 5: Please say yes.
Speaker 3: I swear already. Whoever, yes, great, Sorry you will. First
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