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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocusa dot com.

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Speaker 2: JR Is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we're going to call her and see if

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Speaker 2: you'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date.

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Speaker 3: But first, JR. How long has it been since you

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Speaker 3: heard from Marie?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a week now. Okay,

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Speaker 3: did you try to hit her up?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I've called a couple of times. I didn't

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Speaker 4: leave a voice message every time I called because I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to sound crazy or whatever. But she just

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Speaker 4: hasn't called back.

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Speaker 3: I got nothing. All right, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 4: It was awesome, so we mount on the apps. I

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Speaker 4: just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,

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Speaker 4: you know, with her friends. I mean the second we

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Speaker 4: started talking, it was like I was telling her about

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Speaker 4: I always wanted to ride a horse, but I've been

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Speaker 4: like real afraid to try. And she laughed at it,

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Speaker 4: you know, but like it was that cute kind of laugh,

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Speaker 4: and then she was like really encouraging, and we decided

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Speaker 4: that actually our first meeting would be for me to

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Speaker 4: go horseback riding.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a cool first day.

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Speaker 4: It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She

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Speaker 4: was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader.

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Speaker 3: She was just.

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Speaker 4: So warm and energetic and and I mean she was

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Speaker 4: gorgeous too. I just, oh, I can't get it out

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Speaker 4: of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,

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Speaker 4: we you know, we went home to shower and we changed,

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Speaker 4: and then we met up for dinner. And oh my gosh,

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Speaker 4: I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking about it.

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Speaker 3: It was things, things are going great.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: And that's a good sign, really good sign.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. That's usually it's like if you're lucky

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Speaker 4: after dinner. You know, this was right away and you know,

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Speaker 4: set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,

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Speaker 4: you know, we kissed again and I told her that

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Speaker 4: I was gonna call her this week with a plan

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Speaker 4: for another adventure. You know, it's just to me, this

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Speaker 4: is so good.

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Speaker 1: So you're really into her. It sounds like the date

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Speaker 1: went great. Though to have a two part date and kisses,

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Speaker 1: it feels like there's really great momentum.

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Speaker 3: What could have gone wrong? You think?

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Speaker 4: You know, the only thing that I can really think

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Speaker 4: of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,

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Speaker 4: sometimes I say the wrong thing at.

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Speaker 3: The wrong time.

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't mean to, but like we were

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Speaker 4: sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like

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Speaker 4: an her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,

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Speaker 4: she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make

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Speaker 4: a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So

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Speaker 4: I remember saying like, hey, where are you on OnlyFans

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Speaker 4: or something like the you know, how do you afford

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Speaker 4: that fancy stuff?

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Speaker 3: She It was like the only.

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Speaker 4: Point where I forget all that romance.

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Speaker 3: Is she looked just like cold and uh.

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Speaker 4: Then she kind of played it off, but She's like,

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And there was a

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Speaker 4: little awkward moment there. You know, I moved on from

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Speaker 4: it and I told her, you know, say I'm mean

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Speaker 4: to offend you or anything, and I told her it

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Speaker 4: was a joke.

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Speaker 3: And that was the only moment that kind of that.

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Speaker 5: I can think of. That was like, Oh, is that

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Speaker 5: what it was? Did I really ruin.

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Speaker 4: It by putting my foot in my mouth again?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land.

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Speaker 2: You got to tell that one, right, just right, you

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Speaker 2: got to tell that one. Yeah, okay, well yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: that's why she's not calling you back. We'll play a

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Speaker 2: song come back and then call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she just tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up next. Right in the middle

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Speaker 2: of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us, Jr.

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Speaker 2: Is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Marie,

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Speaker 2: and so in the second we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she just he us why she's ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Jarah, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So went on the best first day I've ever had.

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Speaker 4: We broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We

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Speaker 4: kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out

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Speaker 4: of a movie as far as I'm concerned, and I

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Speaker 4: may have put my foot in my mouth, but I

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Speaker 4: think it went really well overall, and I can't get

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Speaker 4: her to get back to me, and I really want

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Speaker 4: to go on another adventure with her.

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Speaker 1: But your foot in your mouth was there because you

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Speaker 1: asked her if she was on only fans because she

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Speaker 1: had nice things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was a joke, right right?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 3: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, speak to Marie please does Hey Marie?

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Speaker 3: How are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from

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Speaker 3: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Him Marie.

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Speaker 3: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victorian.

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Speaker 3: Hey how are you? How are you great? Thanks for asking?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of the show before? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I love the show?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Thanks great. Do you like the first dight follow ups?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yes, congratulations Because this is a first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: You're gusting somebody and they emailed us about you. Do

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Speaker 2: you know who that would be?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Jr?

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Speaker 2: Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told us about

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Speaker 2: your date. He said he really liked you and he's

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Speaker 2: not sure why you ghost see him, do you point telling.

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Speaker 5: Us, Oh my goodness, I'm so embarrass Well, I really

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Speaker 5: liked him too, but and and the date was great

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Speaker 5: and everything, but to be honest, he was asking some

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Speaker 5: personal questions and he seemed like he was crying a

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Speaker 5: little bit. I couldn't tell if he was joking or not.

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Speaker 5: But he, you know, was getting a little too close

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Speaker 5: to finding out a secret honestly. And I I just

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Speaker 5: don't go out with guys like that, like.

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Speaker 3: Inquisitive guys like that. Do you what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know, I like to

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Speaker 5: keep my privacy, you know, like my personal business is

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Speaker 5: my business.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I just I want a guy that

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Speaker 5: like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.

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Speaker 5: And I you know, I'm not sure if he's like

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Speaker 5: creepy or not.

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Speaker 3: You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.

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Speaker 5: Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my

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Speaker 5: bag that I mean, I'd like to have my stuff

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Speaker 5: And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and

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Speaker 5: and and and made me think, is that how he

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Speaker 5: found me? Is that? Like?

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Speaker 1: Is that why he's Okay, so you feel like he

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Speaker 1: put two and two together and you're usually low key

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 3: You probably knew have people that want to date you

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Speaker 3: because of that.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 5: that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured

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Speaker 5: it out and that's why he asked me for a date.

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Speaker 5: Ohh whoa, whoa wait a minute, So you you are.

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Speaker 2: Only he's on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 5: No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness, old hi. Oh

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Speaker 5: my gosh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I swear I did not know you were on there.

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Speaker 4: I was just making a joke.

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Speaker 3: That is a bad time joke.

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Speaker 5: I thought that you that you for sure knew I

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Speaker 5: was on and that's why you asked me out. So

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Speaker 5: you really just saw me on the app and and

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Speaker 5: genuinely just wanted to go out with me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem so sweet.

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Speaker 5: It's one for like who you are. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna cry.

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Speaker 4: It is cool that you have an only fans.

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Speaker 5: You do. You're cool with it. Yeah, I don't care

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Speaker 5: about that. I'd never judge you for that.

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Speaker 4: You know, I mean, if you want to keep it

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Speaker 4: a secret. Maybe you know, don't bring out the fancy stiff.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You were doing so well this moment.

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Speaker 5: I like, what can I say?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: I was so stupid.

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to do I danced in person,

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Speaker 4: but you guys can't see that, and it was supposed

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Speaker 4: to be a joke and I suck at that.

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Speaker 3: But you rode a horse, j R. You did that,

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Speaker 3: and she was amazing.

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Speaker 4: I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marine,

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Speaker 4: but he was great.

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Speaker 5: It was you were my little You're my hero that day. Marine.

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Speaker 3: It was great. You guys are actually really cute.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. You are really sweet. Jared and I and

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Speaker 5: I do really like you.

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Speaker 3: Marie. Would you like to go on another date with

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Speaker 3: j R? We'll pay for it really yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my gosh, please please say yes.

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Speaker 5: Please say yes.

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Speaker 3: I swear already. Whoever, yes, great, Sorry you will. First

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Speaker 3: day follow up