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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. There's certain professions out there that

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Speaker 1: not swiping right on a hot firefighter? Right, that's me okay?

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Speaker 1: Or something I thought you were going to say no?

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Speaker 2: Or down with the hole.

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Speaker 1: That's more like that. That's what Alex is doing. But

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Speaker 1: she turned her Michael exactly. Or a hunky doctor, yeah

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Speaker 1: that's the classic. Or a sultry child and family therapist.

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Speaker 2: I haven't tell you my problem.

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Speaker 1: Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed? Did

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Speaker 1: you just say abandonment issues?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure

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Speaker 1: of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's

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Speaker 1: talk to him about it. His name is Nick.

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Speaker 3: Nick.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: I am so curious about the profession in here because

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Speaker 4: it's like a milkman.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who is this person that she met and what

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Speaker 1: do they do?

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Speaker 3: Her name is Beca and she's a cop.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she is a.

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Speaker 1: Copy lady.

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Speaker 2: Cops are sexy.

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Speaker 4: They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched,

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Speaker 4: like it's good.

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Speaker 1: Cuffs ready to go at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Honestly just a power that they have.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, there was like license and registration and I'm

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Speaker 4: like five ft ten in single.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick,

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Speaker 1: exactly did you.

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Speaker 2: Meet her while getting arrested or no?

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Speaker 3: We met on the apps?

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Speaker 1: Oh you okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on

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Speaker 3: No? That was her picture? Okay, of course I made

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Speaker 3: a dumb joke. I said, are you a real copper

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Speaker 3: or stripper?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did she like that?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that was a pretty basic joke.

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Speaker 4: So you're already her Yeah, but she responded, isn't that

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Speaker 2: How'd you turn it around?

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Speaker 3: She did have other pictures on there, and there was

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Speaker 2: I thought for sure you were going to make a

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Speaker 3: I think of this opportunity that would have been.

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Speaker 1: No, no, you already took a jab your d bro,

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Speaker 1: what did you do with the coffee?

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Speaker 3: I just was like oh, yeah, you know, are you

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Speaker 1: Then you asked her what's your drink?

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Speaker 3: Right, Like, that's what you have to ask I did,

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Speaker 3: And then she started going off about how she had

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Speaker 3: I'll put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.

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Speaker 2: And this is a cute connection.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this is all the chat leading up to the.

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Speaker 3: Date, all the chat leading up to the date, and

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Speaker 3: so I I recovered and I was like, well, let's

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 4: How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it

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Speaker 3: Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what is it like to go on a date

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Speaker 3: You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I know some people get off of

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Speaker 1: It would feel like a very powerful move though, to

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Speaker 4: And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.

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Speaker 1: Even then you cough as a bad boy at that

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Speaker 1: Did you only have one?

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Speaker 2: Can you mention? Are expiring you and get you?

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Speaker 1: How does it go?

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Speaker 3: That was on my mind. I was like, I can't

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: People like that are in law enforce, like they always

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Speaker 2: That's what happens in the movies.

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Speaker 1: That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her

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Speaker 1: to be like when I need to escape from this day,

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Speaker 1: I know exactly where I need to run. I mean

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I was down with making that happen. So we did.

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Speaker 3: You know, she's a really smart person. We had really

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Speaker 3: good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why

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Speaker 3: It ended with like a really nice hug or let's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the

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Speaker 2: Use one's a stick. Never no one's ever asked that before.

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Speaker 1: So wait, Nick, question, is she the one who suggested

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I throw out a couple of options when we were chatting,

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Speaker 1: Oh was it in like a really shady part of

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Speaker 4: A really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we might actually help solve a c

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Speaker 2: Probably not well.

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Speaker 1: And you know how most cops are when you get

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Speaker 2: Yeah those cops. Yeah, I don't I've ever had that

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Speaker 1: Well, this is going to be a first in a

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Speaker 2: Hoptually they don't run a background check on the show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, with the cops, I've never gotten out of a ticket.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be interesting when we come back,

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Speaker 1: after this second date update. Normally our show is getting

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Speaker 1: cops called on us. Yeah that's true, But today we're

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Speaker 2: So do we just one and ask Rebecca h I

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Speaker 2: think that's how it works.

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Speaker 1: Actually, we actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason for it? Or was the whole

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.

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Speaker 4: But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us

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Speaker 3: I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.

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Speaker 3: I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.

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Speaker 1: At least that's what she wants you to think. Sounds

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Speaker 1: simple reason and you messed up in some way. Let's

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Speaker 1: figure it out. I'm going to dial her number.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna be great options.

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Speaker 1: We are here for the tea, so let's do it.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing it right now.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca.

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Speaker 5: Speaking.

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Speaker 1: Hey Becca, how you doing your officer?

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Speaker 2: I'm honestly kind of nervous.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we're we should really mention that

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Speaker 1: I just want to ask you upfront. Is it okay

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Speaker 5: I'm okay with that.

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Speaker 1: We're allowed to say that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he.

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Speaker 1: Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a

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Speaker 1: different thing, you know, worse.

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Speaker 2: Leazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile.

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Speaker 1: But bottom line is, we wanted to talk to you

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that sign was not good.

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Speaker 1: So Nick reached out to us because he said he

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Speaker 1: curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably

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Speaker 1: You got more resources than the average person.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would

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Speaker 2: Are you saying any light on the date?

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Speaker 5: He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're dating a cop, you have to be honest,

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Speaker 4: especially if it's about well, what can I ask was

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Speaker 5: Right, that's the only thing you looked up, right, I

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Speaker 4: Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed

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Speaker 2: But if it's something we could any of us could

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Speaker 1: We honestly don't have standards. The part the thing that

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Speaker 5: I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll

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Speaker 2: Of first date to bring up though on that, Like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up?

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Speaker 5: I think I was expecting him to tell me if

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Speaker 2: Oh it's not official yet.

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Speaker 4: Like if it's divorce and final and you're done with it,

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Speaker 1: And I think you can list it on your dating profile,

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Speaker 1: Mostly the most traumatized would be yeah, but like, did

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I hinted about it and I shared about

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Speaker 1: Okay, warning, you know, Becca, I think the person who's

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Speaker 1: Has tapped into our phone somehow we did consent to it. Now,

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Speaker 4: Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry, I mean, you wanted

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Speaker 1: Now's the chance Nicky there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here, So what's up.

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Speaker 1: Beccha.

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Speaker 3: You go on dates with people and you look up

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Speaker 5: Do so, Yes, Nick, I'm a cup.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, right, well, we were going to a

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Speaker 5: I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources.

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Speaker 5: And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not.

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Speaker 2: Is okay.

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Speaker 4: I'm actually going to back up on this because I

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Speaker 3: It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.

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Speaker 2: Nig is a common name.

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Speaker 1: Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick

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Speaker 1: and you mix them up?

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Speaker 5: It's one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Really, How do you know that?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you

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Speaker 5: your marriage certificate right now.

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Speaker 1: No, no, wait, you can do that.

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Speaker 2: You got the certificate public record?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look I know how.

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Speaker 5: It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a

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Speaker 3: It, and there's your wife's name.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a text?

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Speaker 2: Nick?

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Speaker 3: Look, here's the deal, if you wait a minute, it

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Speaker 3: was a mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, back at the start. The truth should have been

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would

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Speaker 5: Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best police. We all

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Speaker 3: What else do you know about me? Do you look

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 2: You're still the one defense. You just got outed as

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Speaker 1: I'm curious what you did in college.

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Speaker 3: That sounds fun, a stupid frank with the cow. But

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Speaker 1: It's not her fault now, okay, well I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past.

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Speaker 1: Defense. This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,

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Speaker 2: He's a one that chose to do the radio part.

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Speaker 1: Well, I know, I'm just saying this is a lot sweet.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird

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Speaker 5: I'm not interested. Guys, It's just a no brainer for me.

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Speaker 5: You've got to be honest.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce.

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Speaker 2: It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know she was.

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Speaker 3: Such a good copy.

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Speaker 1: Her interrogation skills their next level, dude. So maybe like

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Speaker 1: a different professional uniform, like a coastguard, they won't look

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Speaker 2: Just be honest. On the next day, why is this different.

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Speaker 1: Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Why do our listeners love

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Speaker 1: it so much when people get busted in a lie?

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Speaker 1: On our second day? Calls text into seven eighty five

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Speaker 1: Who knows that that's true, But we could ask a

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Speaker 2: We're friends now with the I don't know that it's

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Speaker 2: He needs to work out his own mess.

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Speaker 1: If anything, we call ask for help, she'll probably run

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Speaker 1: our names and one of us will get arrested.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope that's a surprised that we're all sitting

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, we all enjoy a good pair of

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Speaker 1: handcuffs around our That's not what I think someone else

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Speaker 1: conversation anyway. Unfortunately that call turned out to not end

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Speaker 1: in a second date. We can't win them all, but

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Speaker 1: we can always try. If you email the show, we'll

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Speaker 1: call that person who's not calling you back and go.

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Speaker 1: Check out all of our second dates wherever you find

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