Speaker 1: Frooking Jebels second dat day. You know one thing that
Speaker 1: dudes do all the time online as they lie about
Speaker 1: their height? Oh yeah, and as somebody who's six foot four,
Speaker 1: it really bothers me. You know, he's like nobody ever
Speaker 1: believes you. Wonder why. And Nathalie, who's on the phone
Speaker 1: for a Seconday Update today, I guess she runs into
Speaker 1: that problem a lot. What's up, Nathalie? How are you
Speaker 1: hey good? How are you all good? I'm annoyed for
Speaker 1: you being a super tall guy myself. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: you get it. Yeah, definitely he's really short. He's looking
Speaker 1: up to his mic. Yeah, exactly. So you have problems
Speaker 1: with the guys lying to you about their height all
Speaker 1: the time. Are you tall? I am? Yeah, I'm five ten. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's not super tall. I mean it's tall, it's not
Speaker 1: crazy tall. Do you have like some requirement where you'll
Speaker 1: only date a guy over however many feet? Niches? I
Speaker 1: prefer that they're taller than me, so at least six
Speaker 1: foot yeah, okay. A lot of girls think that way too. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I know my best friend who's six with tall. She
Speaker 1: always wanted to date someone like six four. She ended
Speaker 1: up marrying someone five ten. So I'm just saying, keep
Speaker 1: your options open. You never know. There's just something about
Speaker 1: it that it makes me feel feminine when I can
Speaker 1: look up at the guy. Well, most of my life
Speaker 1: I've dated women that were taller than me, and I
Speaker 1: always thought it was funny when they had to been
Speaker 1: down to kiss me. But I can see how that
Speaker 1: would be a little awkward sometimes for you. So the
Speaker 1: guy that you want to call today, was he tall
Speaker 1: enough for you? Yeah? He was? Okay, what's his name?
Speaker 1: His name's Jacob, Jacob, all right, and where did you
Speaker 1: meet Jacob? So we did meet over social media. He
Speaker 1: was really easy to talk to, and of course we
Speaker 1: talked about his height and he said he's six four
Speaker 1: and IZZI he is, actually Yeah, like, I bet you're
Speaker 1: pretty good at like being able to spot who's lyne.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I can, but sometimes I can't and they show
Speaker 1: up and I just think, oh my god, why did
Speaker 1: you lie to me? Like I obviously know now that
Speaker 1: you were lying. It's just a bad first start. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: this guy at least met your high requirements. What did
Speaker 1: you guys do for your date? So we met up
Speaker 1: at a bar just for a drink, and I mean,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, when he walked in, not only was
Speaker 1: he told, but he was he's gorgeous. We had such
Speaker 1: a great time. We were laughing, we were telling a
Speaker 1: bunch of different stories. Yeah, it was really good. Maybe
Speaker 1: when you're describing it, your smile sounds like it got bigger,
Speaker 1: like you have a huge crush on this guy. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh. Yeah, I was just smiling. So what happened
Speaker 1: on your date? I mean, it was going great, and
Speaker 1: they had some line dancing that they were playing on
Speaker 1: the TVs, and we just started talking about line dancing.
Speaker 1: I told him how good I was at it, that
Speaker 1: I loved going line dancing, and in fact, he actually
Speaker 1: likes to line dance and have gone before. Really yeah,
Speaker 1: so we actually decided to go right away. He said,
Speaker 1: why don't we get out of here and go to
Speaker 1: the spot down the street and we'll go line dancing.
Speaker 1: That's so cute. Was that? Why you think you're not
Speaker 1: getting to call back? You're not actually good at line dancing?
Speaker 1: Now you're the liar. Well, we actually didn't go line
Speaker 1: dancing there. The line was really really long and it
Speaker 1: just wasn't moving. So he suggested that we go back
Speaker 1: to his spot, and he said, why don't we just
Speaker 1: go watch line dancing music or movies and we could
Speaker 1: line dance in my place. I've got beers, you know,
Speaker 1: I got the whole set up up there. So that's
Speaker 1: what we decided to do. He has a whole setup
Speaker 1: for line dancing. Yeah, that's weird. You shouldn't be wanting
Speaker 1: to call him back. Anybody else a whole line dancing
Speaker 1: set up at their places definitely suspect. I mean he
Speaker 1: didn't have a line dancing studio or anything. That's a
Speaker 1: disappointment if you asked me, so, how did that go?
Speaker 1: I mean, did you guys just line dance tonight away?
Speaker 1: I mean we did a little bit, but it really
Speaker 1: kind of went more into like a pants party, pants
Speaker 1: on party. We all knew that was going now dance Like,
Speaker 1: I'm surprised you did any dancing at all. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not set up for this. Yeah, if you wanted to
Speaker 1: come back here in line dance, that's fine, but no
Speaker 1: funny business lady. Yeah, this cowboy doesn't do that. On
Speaker 1: the first date, you mosey on out of my apartment,
Speaker 1: spit in your tattoo that's in the corner. So got
Speaker 1: you guys hooked up? Then we did. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: we didn't go all the way. That's not usually something
Speaker 1: that I do on the first date, but you know things,
Speaker 1: things got fun and we had a good time, and
Speaker 1: I did say the night, oh you did, I did. Yeah.
Speaker 1: What was it like in the morning? Wonderful. You know,
Speaker 1: I had to get up in the morning pretty early,
Speaker 1: so I kind of screwed it out. But he made
Speaker 1: sure to get up and walk me to the door,
Speaker 1: and yeah, everything seemed fine. So I was really excited to,
Speaker 1: you know, talk and go on it on another date. Okay,
Speaker 1: so everything goes good. You can't think of anything that
Speaker 1: were wrong. I mean I did think maybe maybe was
Speaker 1: I a little drunker than I thought, and I wasn't
Speaker 1: that great at line dancing, I don't know, or or
Speaker 1: maybe he's just a guy that likes to hook up
Speaker 1: once and then goes to you, which I think is
Speaker 1: not very cool. Yeah, so I mean, if that's the case, honestly,
Speaker 1: I will put him on blast. I think that that's rude.
Speaker 1: I think it's not cool to just go someone like that,
Speaker 1: especially if it's just you're trying to get like a
Speaker 1: hook out. Out of out of something. If you're that
Speaker 1: kind of guy, I wouldn't mean I put him on blast,
Speaker 1: like like out on social media, like I'll call him out. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're gonna yelp review him or something if I'll do
Speaker 1: that too. Well, we'll play a song and then come
Speaker 1: back and find out if something did go wrong with
Speaker 1: your second at update after this. All right, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: thank you? All right, hang on looking jubil in the
Speaker 1: morning date. Well, howdy, partners and partner at Folks and
Speaker 1: Cows looking to get poked. No, I don't know how.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not very good at country stuff.
Speaker 1: But anyway, Nathalie is on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: day up date today and she wants to call us
Speaker 1: dude named Jacob. They went line dancing because they're both
Speaker 1: big fans of line dancing, I guess, and they actually
Speaker 1: weren't able to get into the place they wanted to
Speaker 1: go too, so they end up going back to his
Speaker 1: place because he said, oh, I'll throw on some country
Speaker 1: music videos and we can line dance together in my apartment,
Speaker 1: and then that turned into the pants dance, which actually
Speaker 1: she's probably the no pants dance anyway, they messed around
Speaker 1: a little bit, they didn't hook up all the way,
Speaker 1: but now he's not calling her back and she's trying
Speaker 1: to figure out why. Okay, Nathalie, are you ready to
Speaker 1: give Jacob a call? Yeah? I I just want to
Speaker 1: figure this out. I want to know if it was
Speaker 1: something I did, because I want to correct it. It's
Speaker 1: really hard to find tall guys. She's so desperate. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't even care what his personality was like, but really,
Speaker 1: you really liked this guy. And it does seem, from
Speaker 1: your description, pretty baffling as to why he's not been
Speaker 1: you a call back. Yeah. I have no idea. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial his phone right now and see if
Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone. If he's not
Speaker 1: doing ranching around, yeah, they do it the cowboys with
Speaker 1: their lassos and whatnot. So if he's doing that, then
Speaker 1: he's probably busy, you know. But if not, then we'll
Speaker 1: get him on the phone. Okay, Okay, all right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, I'm gonna speak to Jacob. Please? Is
Speaker 1: he Jacob? What's up? Man? How are you? Um? Bye?
Speaker 1: Who is this? Good question? This is a jewel from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the morning. Uh partner, Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what that is. It's it's
Speaker 1: it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Okay. Uh yeah, So still don't know what
Speaker 1: that is, do you? No? All right? The reason I'm
Speaker 1: calling you today is because we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show. It's called the Second Up. That's or if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 1: end up not calling them back after, they can email
Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: what happened or what went wrong basically, and we got
Speaker 1: an email about you from this girl named Nathalie. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: starting to make sense now, or no, you mean a
Speaker 1: little more explanation? No, yeah, what okay? No? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: so you went out on a date with a girl
Speaker 1: named Nathalie, right, yeah, yeah, Well she told us about
Speaker 1: your date and said that she thought everything went great.
Speaker 1: But now you're not calling her back, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And she wants to know why. That's why we're on
Speaker 1: the phone. People do this, Yeah, yeah, we do it
Speaker 1: like a lot. Surprisingly. I mean, but you gotta think
Speaker 1: about it. People are getting ghosted left and right, and
Speaker 1: I mean that's what she feels like you did to her,
Speaker 1: and she has no idea why. Her description of the
Speaker 1: date sounded pretty dreamy. Why don't you guys just tell
Speaker 1: her that, you know you couldn't get a hold of me,
Speaker 1: don't lie, Thank you very much. Can you give us
Speaker 1: any kind of reason, though, I mean, it'd be better
Speaker 1: if we could at least tell her we got some
Speaker 1: sort of answer from you, you know, I mean she
Speaker 1: was cute. I mean it was a fine date for
Speaker 1: most of it. Um. Yeah, the way you describe it
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like it though. No, I mean we were
Speaker 1: having a good time, she's cute, and we have common interests,
Speaker 1: and yeah, it sounds like you should never call her again.
Speaker 1: Well okay, Um, it's just there is something happened during
Speaker 1: the night that just freaked me out and just doesn't
Speaker 1: seem like a good fit. It's like nothing personal. It's
Speaker 1: just you know, not for me. Okay. So if it's
Speaker 1: nothing personal, just not for you, why don't you let
Speaker 1: us know so we can tell her she really liked you.
Speaker 1: She's just like curious. Well she she she pulled out
Speaker 1: a gun on me. Nothing but big deal, No big deal.
Speaker 1: She just pulled a gun on me, Like a real gun,
Speaker 1: not like her finger and thumb. No, yeah, a real gun.
Speaker 1: We were waiting in line to go to this line
Speaker 1: dance in place, and and everything was going great till
Speaker 1: then and then all of a sudden, she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we can't go here. And I thought maybe like her
Speaker 1: x was in line or something, but I was like,
Speaker 1: what is it? And she pointed to a sign and
Speaker 1: it said no guns, okay, And You're like, at first,
Speaker 1: I thought she was like pulling my leg right, but
Speaker 1: then she reached into her purse and you know, sort
Speaker 1: of discreetly pulled out this gun and like pointed it
Speaker 1: at me. All right, she said, you ended up back
Speaker 1: at your place? Is that how she's like taking me
Speaker 1: back to your place right now? Yeah, we're leaving. Uh no,
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know. I that was probably my bad.
Speaker 1: Like you know, you do things like when you're so
Speaker 1: she pulled out the gun and pointed it at you.
Speaker 1: So she was like showing me the gun, and she
Speaker 1: just like covered me with the barrel. See. I grew
Speaker 1: up with guns. My dad haunts. I grew up hunting.
Speaker 1: I don't own any guns anymore, but like the way
Speaker 1: I was taught is you treat every gun like it's floated,
Speaker 1: and you never point a gun at anything you don't
Speaker 1: want to destroy. Yeah, I'm just gonna say someone hasn't
Speaker 1: taken gun safety because you would never do that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So when she covered me with the barrel, I like
Speaker 1: flinched and shifted out of the way, and they're going
Speaker 1: to say another Essays word, which I would have done
Speaker 1: in my pants right there too. Someone put a gun
Speaker 1: on me on a date. So I mean, like, I
Speaker 1: just don't get how you went from that being so
Speaker 1: scared and then immediately inviting her back to your house
Speaker 1: though Yeah, I mean I just freaked out and I
Speaker 1: was like I should probably get home, and she was like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: we can go home. So it was less of an
Speaker 1: invite from me you to go back to your place,
Speaker 1: and more she just kind of invited herself. And then
Speaker 1: she has a gun, so you're gonna let her come over?
Speaker 1: Say yeah, well, and she said this other thing like
Speaker 1: when it happened, she was like, don't freak out. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna shoot you unless you piss me off. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that's a joke. I don't know. Like then
Speaker 1: it like my gut sank, and so when she invited
Speaker 1: herself over, I didn't say no. Yeah, and then she
Speaker 1: was there, so you had to make out with her.
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. I mean we did stuff,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't that into it. Yeah, that's happened to
Speaker 1: me a lot when someone's told me at gunpoint, I
Speaker 1: will do anything. But it's a fun game sometimes if
Speaker 1: you embrace it. Anyway, Hey, Jacob, thank you for being honest. Man,
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Now I need to be honest with
Speaker 1: you because Natalie is actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Natalie's on
Speaker 1: the other line, Natalie, are you there? Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Is there any reason why you didn't bring the gun
Speaker 1: up to us when we first talked to you? Honestly,
Speaker 1: it was like thirty seconds of our date, Like it
Speaker 1: wasn't a huge big deal or anything, so I just
Speaker 1: didn't even think about it. Yeah. Well it may have
Speaker 1: seen like thirty seconds to you, but it felt like
Speaker 1: that gun was on me forever. Jacob, I told you,
Speaker 1: it wasn't even loaded. I mean, a girl got to
Speaker 1: protect yourself, doesn't she. But no, who are you protecting?
Speaker 1: Yourself from I mean, I'm a single lady out like
Speaker 1: you never know what could happen. Things happen out on
Speaker 1: the street, and you just got to be prepared. I
Speaker 1: just sounds like you can't. You don't even handle it correctly,
Speaker 1: like I would recommend maybe mace. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: you have mace as well. I have guns, and I
Speaker 1: have a couple other things that I can make sure
Speaker 1: that I protect myself, like to carry out a store.
Speaker 1: Like I said, a girl who got to protect herself.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't see anything wrong with that, Okay,
Speaker 1: but maybe like when you're out by yourself, but you're
Speaker 1: you're out with people, you're not like right, Listen, Jacob,
Speaker 1: I don't know you. It was our first day. You
Speaker 1: never know what's going to happen. And at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, if something were to take place to
Speaker 1: both of us and I could protect you, right, Okay? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just don't get bringing a gun on a date.
Speaker 1: That's uh. Listen. I'm licensed and registered to have and
Speaker 1: carry a to fealed weapon, and I think that that's okay.
Speaker 1: And it sounds like what you're saying you've been around
Speaker 1: guns yourself too. I mean Why are you so scared
Speaker 1: around them? Because you're pointing them at him? It sounds
Speaker 1: like you're not handling it right at all. I think
Speaker 1: he's being dramatic. Yeah, it sounds like it. Yeah, that's sensitive.
Speaker 1: You know, gun pulled on you one time? You want
Speaker 1: to go out again? Yeah, Jacob, would you like to
Speaker 1: go out on another date when an athlete will pay
Speaker 1: for it if she leaves the firearms at home? Yeah? Uh?
Speaker 1: Are you feeling scared to answer at all? I just
Speaker 1: don't have a good feeling about you know, if she
Speaker 1: wants to to her a gun like that should be
Speaker 1: her thing, and I don't want to like tell her
Speaker 1: that she can't bring a gun on a date and
Speaker 1: then like feel like she's doing that for me or resentful.
Speaker 1: You know that's nice. I just think it's not a
Speaker 1: good fit. You're He's not trying it. He doesn't want
Speaker 1: to change you, Nathalie. I had a good dealing about you,
Speaker 1: But now that I'm hearing all this, I actually think
Speaker 1: that's probably better. Anyways, you couldn't even face me to
Speaker 1: tell me that about the gun. I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: and I'm definitely still putting you on blast. Oh well, hey, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds like a threat right there. We just talked about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't use that choice of words with a gun
Speaker 1: on blest, Like with a gun, what are you? What
Speaker 1: are you talking about? I'm going to do a blast
Speaker 1: on social media, you little That's what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: No second tape, but Natale at least you know why.
Speaker 1: And and Jacob, hopefully you find a girl that it's
Speaker 1: a little more of your speed. Yeah, as long as
Speaker 1: someone doesn't point a gun at me on a date, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think we'll have a good time. Well, good luck
Speaker 1: with that even existing. Yeah, broken jupil in the morning.