WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Skunk Spray & Paid Wedding Parties 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:03.320 From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:07.640 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:15.080 Good Wednesday morning. It is August twelfth. Today's National Middle 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:15.760 Child Day. 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:17.040 Cute. 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:19.479 I forgot your say. It was National Play in the 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:23.520 Sand Day. Choo, Miss middle Child Day. If you're a 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:25.880 middle child, you gotta get a day. I don't know 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:27.960 if there's first and that, but middle gets a Day's 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.480 major solar eclipse happening across Europe today ten thirty am 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:38.240 our time, but not seen from our whole state. So uh, partly, Sonny, 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:42.120 Hi's a little eighties, mid nineties and everybody's going back 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:45.879 to school today. Almost. Yeah, it's been drip drab up 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.839 until today. But let me read it today, first day 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:52.600 of school for a lot A B C Unified in 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:59.960 Sorito's acting ad, Summer's over Anaheim Union High School. D 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.000 It's not right that you're going to be in class 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:07.720 at eleven learning a periodic table while others are at 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:16.360 the beach. Potassium is K Beverly Hills Unified, Brea Olinda Unified. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:22.920 Summer was cut short. That's the truth, dude, Where's my 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:30.399 summer gone? Charter Oak Unified Covina back Rancho, Unified film 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.839 are Unified Lake Elson or unified la USD. 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:34.240 The buses are back on the freeway. 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:34.840 That's a big one. 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.080 Lo Salamitos, Unified. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:44.560 Griffins, Monrovia, Moreno Valley, Pomona, San Marino, Saugus, Union South Pass, 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:51.000 see Me Temple, Ventura, Whittier. All y'all didn't have to 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:55.520 go Monday like Annelope Valley. If you start August tenth, eleven, twelfth, 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:57.040 or your summer's been robbed from you. 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.000 Is a cheerlead or work. You got to come back 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:01.440 so soon. 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:05.600 Thank you for respecting the cheerleaders respect Yeah, because it 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:06.520 was year round. 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.840 By the way, the cheerleaders that I've seen on the 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:14.000 college football sidelines, that's the body I want. Six There's 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.680 dudes with their wristbands and their biceps. 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:20.440 That's what I want, right Oh, mirror, mirror on the wall. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.760 Make me a bruined boy. Cheerleader. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:25.080 You have to be able to lift a girl above 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:26.359 your head like this by yourself. 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:36.520 I've tried. Always hurts my shoulder more like a fly 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:39.400 bath and I pack. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.160 Gosh, I love it. 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:44.560 Aren't you a fall? 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:46.760 Pumpkin spice lattes candle. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.320 Yeah, it's not fall Tanya. 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:51.919 We are excited about the clips we cannot see tonight 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:52.800 live in the moment. 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:56.360 It's very The crescent moon is very crescent. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.720 Oh, I love the moon. I'm very much into a 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:00.840 strong maybe I told you. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:02.560 Yeah, it's kind of cute. I'm here for it. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:06.399 Basically, it has to do with like you know, every 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.920 planet has a constellation in front of it. So on 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:14.760 your birthday, on your on your birthday, what constellation was 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:16.280 in front of your planet? 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:17.359 I don't know. 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.040 I have to look it up. Well, you have to 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:23.360 have research this stuff. And then the planets revolved and 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.480 they spinch get around. 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:32.280 Your astrology sign deeply depends on the angle of where 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:33.600 that planet is today. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.320 Every day, where the moon was and all that. 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:38.200 No, not all that, No, I'm being specific, Not all that. 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.600 Yessatically into. 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:48.560 My travels No, because I have been trying to get 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.560 you into this for decades now. 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:55.400 My travels next purchase is going to be a telescope. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.560 Yeah, it is really interesting that you just did like 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.800 a one to eighty on this because you've always been. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.680 Anti It's true, but I needed something to believe in. 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.040 I needed something else. I wanted one more thing to 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:08.600 believe in a good thing. And I found astrology. 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:09.880 What's her sign? 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.279 We're coming back with five hundred dollars in back to 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:20.880 school cash. This is kids, ants send the building? How 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:24.120 can ants get to the fifth floor? I don't understand 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:29.400 the concept the physics of that. These are not flying ants. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:33.120 How many years do they live? What's the lifespan of 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:33.480 an ant? 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:35.200 That's an interesting question. 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:38.120 Chat Claude. Life span of an ant? 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:38.920 I feel like a day? 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:40.840 Well, how do they make it up here? 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:41.520 That's a fly? 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:46.159 Are you sure the flying lives a day? 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:50.159 One of them does. I've just said it very pretty sure. 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.080 So how long does the ant live? And how does 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:54.640 it get up here? 0:04:54.760 --> 0:05:01.520 Queen ants live much longer. Some species queensl twenty plus years. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:03.559 That's how they get up here. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:07.760 Male ants have the shortest life span, usually just days 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:08.680 to weeks. 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:11.560 What a bummer they What a bad stick they got 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:12.120 because they. 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:14.560 Died shortly after mating anywhere? 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:20.080 Want to be good? If I'm gonna go, take me 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:23.000 that way right at the very end. Just take me 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.360 out like that doughnut, and I'm good. 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:28.080 Fifteen to thirty days for flies, by the way, oh, 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.480 not one one. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:37.920 This show makes me happy because. 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.720 Anytime I kill a fly, I'm like, oh, I would 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:40.880 have died soon anyway. 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:46.719 Well, Jordan, are you annoyed by my whistling? I know 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:48.640 that's a pet peeve of yours, but this show makes 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:49.560 me want to whistle. 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:54.240 Oh you can't whistle? 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:55.240 Yes I can. 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.240 That was a lower lip whistle. It's not evenna. No, 0:05:58.320 --> 0:05:59.400 that's too much of a hiss. 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:04.080 No, really, I picture more Cinderella vibes when I know 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:04.600 I hear much. 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:08.720 I had a lot of lip there. I can't do it, 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:10.800 I do Tanya? 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:12.159 Could you do your whistle? 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:12.440 Please? 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:13.279 I don't know how to. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.760 No, there's so much air way, too much close to 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:23.679 the here's my back, let's control. Can't can you whistle? 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:24.640 I'm not very good? 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:32.520 Okay? This isn't you give Ruby her shot? That's all 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:37.839 I could do? In turn? Bella? Can you whistle? 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:39.480 I could try? 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:40.160 No? 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:44.920 Can't you made the motion? Yeah Mechayla? Can you whistle? 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:51.440 I think so that's. 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:49.560 Too much air. 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:51.240 Guys, you're blowing too hard. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:52.080 Mark? 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:52.760 Can you whistle? 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:57.159 Oh? 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:02.560 Zi? There he is right there? Do you have any 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.440 cricket whistles? 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:06.719 A sign of happiness? But in a noise Jordan in 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.560 the back room. She told us yesterday she almost dine 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.720 want to serve a customer at Jersey Mikes because he whistled, 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.280 So to the back room we go. Ruby went out 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:18.840 to dinner with the group and it was check splitting time. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.640 What's the exercise? What'd y'all do? 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:23.200 Well, it was a group dinner. 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:26.480 It was a birthday dinner, so everyone kind of already 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.160 knows we're all gonna split the birthday you know, birthday 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:32.280 girl isn't going to pay. But I feel like this 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:36.040 comes up a lot, like, especially if someone in the 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.440 group isn't drinking as much as other people in the group, 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.720 do you still split the bill evenly? 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:47.160 Do you go in stating the rule, Like, do you 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.200 guys say at the top of the dinner, we're all 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:49.720 gonna split? 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:50.960 Are we good? Split seas well? 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:51.480 We don't. 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:54.240 There's not really like a disclosure. I feel like, normally 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:57.640 we're all on the same page, but there's been times 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:00.200 in the past where it's like different friend groups kind 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:03.920 of mixing, right, It's like my friend's friends and then 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.320 just our like immediate circle. And so that's where I 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.200 feel like it starts to get a little like people 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:11.720 are like, oh, well, I only got two things that 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:13.560 only one drink drinks. 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:15.520 So when it comes to drinks, I feel like if 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.280 there's been multiple rounds and someone is clearly not drinking 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.920 the entire time, you just kind of like they don't 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:22.600 they don't have to pay for that portion if they 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:23.160 didn't drink. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.960 We do that. It's so complicated now the math. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:27.640 Because how do you then factor that in? 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.560 You basically just add a little bit more money to yours, 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:33.560 you know what I mean, like divide it evenly and 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:35.360 then take away take away. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:38.800 Like I feel like going in this to me's addressed 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:40.600 on the way in. It's like, hey, guys, we're all 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.120 gonna are we gonna go splits on this? We are, 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.000 but I'm not drinking. I will calculate that, Like you 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:46.720 kind of need to address it at the top. It 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.119 gets awkward after. 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:49.920 It's definitely happened with me and my friends because there's 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.079 been multiple times where someone's pregnant and they like, we're 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:53.400 now we're not doing it the whole time, and we 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:54.640 all had like six drinks. 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.480 You know, yeah, then that's fair to do. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:58.559 So just like, oh, just pay for your food. 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:00.720 To me, ruby the clearest way to handle is to 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:01.640 address it before. 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:05.599 I've never even thought about, like talking. 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:06.040 About it before. 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:10.480 I feel like you never, we've never had a conversation before, like, hey, guys. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:12.800 Let's go out, let's all meet up. It's a table 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:15.959 of six, let's split. Yeah, I'm not drinking tonight. Okay, 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:17.600 well then we'll give you a pass on that. 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:19.880 But that is a good point actually. 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.160 So you know, it's interesting. You know, more and more 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:27.520 people are not drinking, and it's you know, because people 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:30.240 want to feel good right, not necessarily just for your liver. 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.079 They're just like I want to feel good tomorrow when 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:35.440 I have a full day. So I think like I 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:38.400 fake because when I don't order something, well, you're not 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:39.560 you're not drinking. 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:40.440 What's up? 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:45.960 You're a cleanse? No, So I now just order a 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:50.560 fake drink, or I make a fake drink. I do 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:57.800 sparkling water, some leaf or whatever. They got lime so 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.880 it looks like a cocktail on the thing. And uh 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.560 like if there's mint or anything, it makes it cucumber 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:06.160 or mint or something makes it fresh if I can 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:07.120 find it. 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:09.600 So it tastes like it tastes like a massage with taste. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:10.440 If you drink it right. 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:13.959 You can also order a phony in a grony, but. 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:15.040 Then you have to say it out loud, like I 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.240 got a whisper to the person. So if I make 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.760 them at the house for anybody, I make the mock 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:23.679 and don't you know, tell them talk about well you 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:24.360 don't say you're. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:25.880 A Are you on a cleanse? 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:26.320 No? 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:27.600 Not a clot. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:32.199 I want to tell good tomorrow because also it's Tuesday, 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.400 all right if you it's not, it's Wednesday today. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:36.520 But you know what I'm saying, like it would have 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.439 been last night. Do you have ants in your pants? 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:44.960 I'm going to tell you something you should never do 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:48.160 when you have them. Next it's one of two point 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.040 seven kiss if my quote of the day. But first 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:52.320 coming in a second. But first, do you have ants 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.800 in your home? What do you do when you see 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.400 an ant in your kitchen? 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:57.640 I kill it instantly? 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.559 Oh no, I see you have people to get upset 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:01.040 about that. 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:03.280 Who is saving the ants? 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.360 I have a friend that puts everything with a piece 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:15.360 of paper and a glass over it and slides it. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:14.280 Goodbye. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:18.439 What you should not do is squish the ant. So 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:22.960 squish or squish? What do you guys say squish, squish, squish, 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:24.400 So don't squish these. 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:26.040 Don't kill it? 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:31.160 Well, I think squishing boom. 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:36.160 When you squish an ant, it releases distress pheromones to 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:37.480 other ants in the colony. 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:39.200 Rush to the scene. 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.560 Yes, what starts as one can quickly turn into a 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:47.480 mole hill a mountain of ants. 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:49.160 I almost prefer that because I want to know where 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:50.640 they're coming from. So and then I can put. 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:51.320 The trap over there. 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:55.240 And then so you're sacrificing one to trick them all, 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:56.240 to get them all. 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.160 Come on over, redveric. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.200 Squisher, today's up. 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:08.000 And certainly don't squish ants in your pants. 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:10.719 In your pants, by the way it goes, they get there, 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.120 they lived for thirty years. 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:15.200 I am definitely squishing it and can't it. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.760 I am not squishing that ant in my pant because 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:20.880 the others will come to my I don't want the 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:22.960 whole army of coming into my pants. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.280 And not coming into your pants. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.560 They might, That's what he just said. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:33.560 The pharaomones are screaming, come to my pants. Today's quote 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.120 the Degree taking a selfie. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:40.800 Sorry, I'm taking a picture that says men wearing purses 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.719 and handbags is in style now. 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:48.800 US Today's quote, The degree to which a person can 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:52.120 grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth one 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:57.160 can accept without running away. Aren't you sorry you missed that? 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:00.800 Aren't you sad you miss all? Taking a picture of 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:04.160 a lower third on the news? Did you get your 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:08.800 chirn selfie? Thank you to even keep your attentions impossible? 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.120 One or two point seven Kiss FM, it's almost seven 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.800 o'clock after seven are producer Mikayla. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:18.320 She wanted you to know she is still single. I 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:24.760 told him, I told who everyone everyone paying attention, but 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:31.880 you don't kids TV anyway? What the TV's so tiny's distracted? 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:35.320 They've been on for twenty five years and now you're 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:37.679 just distracted by KTLA. 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:43.400 Relax, They're fine. The TVs just look at us. And 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:46.560 Mikayla has some new actual opening lines she's received from 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:48.400 the dudes on hands and I'm going to read them. 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:51.600 I cannot wait for this. It's coming next. First, Sysney 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:53.240 has the headlines. 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:55.439 Kiss FM Headlines with Sisney. 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:58.520 Well, today's the day. About half a million Los Angeles 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:02.640 Unified School Districts toudents return to class today with new 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:06.120 screen time roles in place. High school students will be 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:10.199 limited to ninety minutes per class per week. The FAA 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:14.920 has hired more than two thousand gamers as air traffic controllers, 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:19.400 betting that their quick thinking and multitasking skills will translate 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:23.400 to the job. Universal Studios Hollywood will install additional sound 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.760 barriers around its new high Fast and Furious coaster after 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:32.680 neighbors complained about excessive screaming during testing, and Palisades Village 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:37.000 will reopen Saturday after more than one hundred million dollars 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.560 in renovations following, of course, the Palisades fire. 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:45.680 So Bella is our intern USC student wants to be 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.640 a publicist for Olivia Dean Rodrigo. 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:53.560 I mean, Olivia Dean's great too. 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:54.840 I think. 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:00.640 Your artists Olivia, Olivia or Sabrina. Take what you can get. 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:08.320 There's no script, you know. Very confident though, mm hmmm, 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.640 because I thought it was Olivia Dean because I played 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:14.360 Olivia Dean before Beab so it was in my head anyway. 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:18.640 So goes to school at USC. What she doesn't know 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:22.120 yet is that everything we talk about goes out and uh, 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:24.640 the person doesn't hear it, but their friends here at 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:27.600 or their family here is it. For example, Sophia. We 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:31.800 talked about her mom for months. Our other intern said 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.080 things that her mom's never heard before to her face, 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:36.040 to the. 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.440 Point where we had to call her mom to tell 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:42.240 her what we were talking about. I don't need to 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.040 meet your mom. She is listening. 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:45.000 She always listens. 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:45.960 Yeah, that's her name. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.960 She has a great taste, always listens to He raised 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:54.120 her listening every year. She was born right, we were here. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:57.160 She was born later. So what's the issue with your. 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:01.560 You were here, you were tony and I came later. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:03.080 Okay, you were. 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:05.640 At San Diego's Channel nine three to three or whatever 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:06.000 it was. 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.640 I was an intern, it was my first year exactly. 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:10.840 You were a Bella of your time. I know I 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:13.560 was so Bella. What's the issue with the roommate? 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:16.800 So I have a roommate who has a boyfriend. They've 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.560 been dating for a year now, and they are constantly 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:24.640 at my place, like even worse, they will cook and 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:27.800 leave dishes out for days and like, obviously I won't 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.040 touch it, because that's not my job to clean up 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.960 after someone else. But I don't know, I guess how 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.280 to bring it up because the school you're starting again, 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.200 and I just like kind of don't want any issues 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:40.720 at the start of the year, So I don't know 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:42.760 what to say to sept these boundaries. 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:47.080 So it's I've we've had this conversation before. This is 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:51.440 a very common situation. And you know, at your stage 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:54.600 in life, a lot of people don't quite fully get 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:58.800 all the etiquettes yet. And that's fair, right, Like you 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:02.360 know your residency, your residence, your apartments, your dorms, whatever. 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.960 Etiquette is something that is learned over time. 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:09.920 However, I do think, and michaela next to you, has 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:13.919 a roommate, and I do think the best way to 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:18.960 handle things with roommates is handle it with some sort 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:22.600 of honest, finessed, well timed conversation. 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:24.960 Timing, See, timing is everything. 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:29.400 Yes, you might want to think about how to say 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:33.040 what you want to say, but using compliments. So along 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:38.119 the way, for example, I'm so happy you found this 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:43.000 great guy nice. I mean, what a good guy he is. 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.959 I love that, Like he's treating you so well, and 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:47.959 you're just I can tell I can see the difference 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:48.199 in you. 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:49.679 So happy for that. I love that. 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:54.919 But just because we're sharing common space here, you know, 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:58.040 and we're obviously sharing the costs of things and the 0:17:58.080 --> 0:17:58.919 cleanup of things. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:03.560 So times occasionally I run into you know, the dishes, 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.360 or he's got his feet up on the chair or 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:07.600 whatever it is. The issue is. 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:12.760 But if you open with something that makes them feel good, 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:15.240 you close with your issue. 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.320 Okay, she's not going to do that. 0:18:19.560 --> 0:18:25.359 I'm like to genuine though, the relationship, No, is that 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:27.919 if you start like that the compliments, that is it 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:29.440 genuine or is it just because you're trying to get 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:30.320 to your point. 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:32.359 You're trying to get to your point, but you make 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:35.520 them sound genuine, you make them sound. 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:38.879 Let me just spare you the time and the energy. 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:43.840 Just do the dishes. Keep doing the dishes. They're they're 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:44.800 going to start to feel bad. 0:18:48.720 --> 0:18:49.160 Use you. 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:52.040 They're gonna expect that you solve the problem. Trust me, 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:54.920 don't care dishes. What would you do? You have this? 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:57.800 So here's the thing. My roommate and I have been 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:00.800 best friends since we were seven, so we're like sisters. 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:04.080 So we treat each other like sisters. But we are 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:06.800 always upfront with each other no matter what. So I 0:19:06.800 --> 0:19:09.720 definitely would say something. But again, there's a way to 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:10.840 say it and listen. 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:13.639 Wait, there's a way, Like when you're the publicist for 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:18.800 Olivia mont you will stay right, you just you'll say 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:22.440 like you'll have to say no a lot, but you say, look, look, 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:25.159 thank you so much for interest in Olivia Coleman. We 0:19:25.280 --> 0:19:27.760 are at this time, we're just not doing that, but 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:30.400 we will keep you on the list and I will 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:35.959 give you a call. And Olivia Colpa sends her best. 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:37.160 I have to like pr train myself exactly. 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:42.720 How do you find love? Actually, I was just reading 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:47.720 I see that that is supermarket somewhere overseas. 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:49.720 Oh yeah, in the pink baskets. 0:19:49.840 --> 0:19:52.520 Yeah, if you pick up a pink basket while you're 0:19:52.520 --> 0:19:55.639 grocery shopping, it sends a message, Hi, I'm single. 0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:57.159 Talk to me, brilliant. I love it. 0:19:57.160 --> 0:19:59.200 If you pick up the other color one means you're taken. 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:00.760 That's great. 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:01.719 So you could do that. 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:05.400 And that supermarket in Sweden, oh wherever it is. 0:20:05.600 --> 0:20:08.600 Finland, Finland. 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:10.920 Sure you could go there, or you could go on 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:16.080