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Speaker 2: Dear Sam, such it has since we started the Okay

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I have a message for you, a delicious

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Speaker 1: story that I think you'll love. Sincerely Sam.

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Speaker 2: But before that fine, divine two minute outbreak must happen,

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Speaker 2: I bid thee farewell. See you in two minutes. Today

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Speaker 2: we're ranking the.

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Speaker 1: Top five worst nice guys of all time, starting with

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Speaker 1: I ruined my friend's relationship with his childhood best friend

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Speaker 1: a tragic rom com, minus the rom fake names alerts.

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Speaker 1: So I, twenty seven female, am friends with the sweetest

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Speaker 1: guy ever. Red Flag Logan thirty one male. We met

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Speaker 2: Robio.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from sugar Ant ninety eight

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Speaker 1: on the r slash Okay Storytimes subreddit. So after a

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Speaker 1: I even gave him to choose your own venture option,

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Speaker 1: like an unwonted sequel. For two years, Zach kept trying

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Speaker 1: Now you can't you see, you can't trust anyone who's

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Speaker 1: Just you know, you know you could trust chat. Chat

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Speaker 1: So Western Dog seventy three forty two says, Okay, look,

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Speaker 1: Should we just put this story in like a solid

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Speaker 3: He claims the reason people and mostly women reject him

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Speaker 1: Dude, dude's you got? You got nothing? You got nothing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't find anything.

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Speaker 2: Open relationship, no way.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I think that might be it.

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Speaker 2: Whatever that means.

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Speaker 3: I'm afraid to find out affable that she has ever

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Speaker 2: Again. This is the brother sliding into the DM.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that is so much worse than the last one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is my brother never wants to

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Speaker 1: That's like an instant, instant worse than the last one.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's like not only is it creepy, but

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Speaker 2: No, we agreed.

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Speaker 3: To not tell him anything because she said she didn't care,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, crepe dude, he's being a creep and

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Speaker 2: It's just like all around, it's a nice guy. It's

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Speaker 1: He got red in the face and my mom said

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Pokemon cards.

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Speaker 1: Come on, he does the Pokemon cards. I'll give him

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that that really gets him out of the nice

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Speaker 1: Maybe he has a holographic charge of guard. Oh, then

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Speaker 1: I gotta If he has a holographic charte guard, I gotta.

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Speaker 1: I gotta give a pass to this guy you might

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Speaker 2: To slide into.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, doctor d Yeah, go on.

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Speaker 2: By the way, you cannot be toxic by listening to

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Speaker 3: You just gotta spotifyable podcasts wherever your favorite podcasts are,

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Speaker 3: and you.

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Speaker 2: Can literally listen while you're doing other things.

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Speaker 1: You while you're working, while you're cleaning, while you're driving,

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Speaker 1: while you're you're pretending to listen to your boss or whatever. Oh,

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Speaker 2: Ever, if you're listening to us at work to ignore

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Speaker 2: your work common below right now? Yeah? Please please? What

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Speaker 4: I'm listening to you while working but then also listening

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Speaker 2: What it means you hacked life? Yeah? Dude, I think

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Speaker 2: I think you? Uh you won? Yeah, you will.

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Speaker 1: Your job is to be a professional chat member. Oh god,

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Speaker 3: We have some relevant comments. A commenter says, does your

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Speaker 3: Opie responds, she doesn't know anything about it, but I

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Speaker 3: like that. She's always taught us to respect women and

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Speaker 3: it to her really well, if she ever finds out

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Speaker 3: Sebastian being a total weirdo with women, she'll most likely

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Speaker 3: being the nice guy because he can totally expose Sebashian

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Speaker 2: Would be even worse. But he's not doing that. He's

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Speaker 1: Well, question here, like, do you think do you think

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's too like unempathetic, but I'm like, I feel

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Speaker 2: But would you do that knowing that your brother would

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Speaker 3: Yogati says. One to be honest, it seems to make

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Speaker 3: But if your brother tends to display such behavior, you're

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Speaker 3: he would be faced with proper boundaries. Sometimes people need

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Speaker 2: On themselves in their situation.

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Speaker 1: That is kind of what I was saying, you know,

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Speaker 1: like it could be the best, honestly, think about it

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Speaker 1: this way, John, Maybe Op's saying something so that guy

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Speaker 1: gets kicked out of the house, would all right, here

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Speaker 1: we go. What happens when you get kicked out? You

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Speaker 1: gotta get a job. Man starts to get a job.

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Speaker 1: All right, Now, he's like employed, he has his own place,

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Speaker 1: He gets rejected. What happens, goes and hits the gym,

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Speaker 1: but you know, like like you know, pigeon friends are

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Speaker 3: And Op responds, as I said, I never really saw

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Speaker 3: I related him with how we didn't speak and how

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Speaker 3: I never thought he had relationship problems, or more like

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Speaker 3: the lack of them. Lack of relationships that is because

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Speaker 3: is head over heels with him. After posting this and

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this guy keeps getting worse. I think

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Speaker 2: I'm now on the previous commenters slash your side. I

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Speaker 1: Also, Kimberly finds it is better to be a self

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Speaker 1: made crap bag than a publicly funded one. I love that,

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Speaker 1: but Josephine says, no, I think it would become worse,

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Speaker 1: like extreme and soul. That would hurt women type bad

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Speaker 1: if he gets kicked out. So I could that polarize

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Speaker 1: I could go, it could go either way. I feel

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Speaker 1: and it got worse. I kind of want to distance

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Speaker 1: our number two from number three. I want to move

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Speaker 1: that just like couldn't take the hint and kept confessing

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Speaker 2: Chat.

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Speaker 1: Let me know if you disagree with me, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna move this.

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Speaker 2: One to four.

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Speaker 1: I agree, just so we got a little bit of space,

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Speaker 1: because oh my god, this guy is radioactive. Everyone, even

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Speaker 1: like the other nice guys, are like, oh well, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be next to that guy.

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Speaker 3: I'm not that nice. So but Jake gives him crap

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Speaker 3: and he stopped coming for his ex girlfriend's exus slash girlfriends.

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Speaker 3: Jake said his plan was to just cut this crappy

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Speaker 3: he's gonna give him crap again. I'll join him so

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Speaker 3: we can talk to Sebastian. I don't think my brother

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Speaker 3: the end of that story. We've locked in at number

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Speaker 3: number two. We've locked in at number two.

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Speaker 2: We've saved. Do we want to change number one?

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00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,160
Speaker 1: I want to leave. I want to leave the little room.

442
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,399
Speaker 1: I want to leave the little room right now.

443
00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:00,200
Speaker 2: But it is. It is bad. It's heating up, is

444
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,840
Speaker 2: he the competition's getting stiffy? Is crazy? Yeah?

445
00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:07,800
Speaker 1: Also, we're ranking the worst, the worst nice guys of

446
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:11,639
Speaker 1: all time. So number one is the worst of the

447
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,359
Speaker 1: worst nice guys. Number two is a little less bad,

448
00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 1: and number five is like the least bad, least worse

449
00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,840
Speaker 1: nice guy. So yeah, we're looking for our terrible, terrible number.

450
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:24,920
Speaker 2: Udo on Number one is the absolute word.

451
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,200
Speaker 4: You put it up in front of your face for

452
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,480
Speaker 4: a second, So get a full screen look at it

453
00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,160
Speaker 4: now and down down a little bit. Perfect there, it is.

454
00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 2: Perfect? All right, all right, that's you, buddy. Let's see

455
00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 2: what the next one on?

456
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,399
Speaker 1: All right, I told my brother he's a creep for

457
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,480
Speaker 1: trying to date our neighbor short distance.

458
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, short.

459
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 1: So my twenty female older brother, Adam thirty eight male,

460
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 1: is one of those men who listens to in cell

461
00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 1: online and says horrendous things about women. Oh man, my parents,

462
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 1: both sixty three, adore him their beloved son and favorite child.

463
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 1: They enabled him through everything and fed his ego three

464
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 1: meals a day. That's the one way to put it.

465
00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,440
Speaker 1: And also this comes from honest manner eleven forty four

466
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 1: on the best of Rutter updates. So my brother and

467
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,119
Speaker 1: I both had the option of our parents paying for college.

468
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 1: I happily took it, while he didn't. He's stuck to

469
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,920
Speaker 1: the family business and lived his life free of everything.

470
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,919
Speaker 1: And honestly, that's okay. He's thirty eight, he's unmarried and

471
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 1: as I said, normal and very much okay.

472
00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 2: Not the problem.

473
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 1: He's never been a loaner or left out. He probably

474
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 1: has had around fifty girlfriends since high school.

475
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 2: To it, now, that's a lot.

476
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 3: Dude, that's making you take a run for your There

477
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,760
Speaker 3: are some numbers, numbers on the brother numbers. I mean,

478
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 3: I guess like if I if I add a decade

479
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 3: and I, yeah, what's your average rate?

480
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? If I added a decade, well, because what if

481
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 2: I got this decade? All right? Oh yeah, so the

482
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 2: last decade.

483
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,240
Speaker 1: It's probably been like seven. Yeah, so so that that's

484
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 1: a lot. That's a lot by his age, I would

485
00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,640
Speaker 1: have been I would have had like fourty teen girlfriends

486
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,639
Speaker 1: if I if I never settled down, which I planned

487
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 1: to do, i'mlike, chat, the chat doesn't think I will,

488
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:06,880
Speaker 1: but I will prove them wrong.

489
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 4: Well, say you took a trip to Bali every month.

490
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 2: Though, Well, then that would be that would be different.

491
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 4: He definitely would have it.

492
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 3: That's not that's not fourteen girlfriends, that's fourteen other wives.

493
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 2: That's true. That's true wives. That's pty wives.

494
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 1: So one night, as we were all having dinner with

495
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: some of our family over because they were visiting, my

496
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 1: brother expressed that he wants to get married soon. I

497
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 1: was so happy for him and immediately smiled. My father

498
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 1: asked to who, and he went, oh, man, this is

499
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 1: the creepiest lie that you can have. Well, she doesn't

500
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,719
Speaker 1: know yet, but I have my eye on this girl

501
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: Ella next door, the blonde one. She's smoking high and

502
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,919
Speaker 1: freaking gorgeous. I bet they were like both walking in

503
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: one time and she was like hi, and he's like.

504
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,880
Speaker 2: I will spend the rest of my life.

505
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 1: With you, and she's like, oh, I'm going side real quick.

506
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 1: The table was filled with a bit of confusion and

507
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 1: some support. I re acted differently. I asked him Ella

508
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 1: next door and reminder Opie's brothers thirty eight. Ella next door,

509
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 1: isn't she nineteen? He seemed confused and asked me what

510
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: the big deal is, to which I applied, she's younger

511
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 1: than me. You were already eighteen when I was born.

512
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: Are you do you want to be her husband or

513
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 1: her father?

514
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 2: Oh? God, daddy oh.

515
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: His response is what made my already insufferable brother look

516
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: worse to me. He said, men get their life together

517
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: and went around my age and successful. We want new

518
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: meat to have children with who carry our line on

519
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: real young women who are fertile. I feel so weird

520
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: reading that, God, God clip, that.

521
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 4: Should just go ahead and do it.

522
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 2: Wow Wow.

523
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: I told him this was weird, creepy, and a twisted

524
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 1: way to talk about women. I got trashed by my parents.

525
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 1: He went on to ask Ella out, and obviously she

526
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: rejected him really quick. We are like twenty five percent

527
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: into this story. Can we make any kind of decision

528
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,719
Speaker 1: yet about this of where this guy falls?

529
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: So what I think, what I think we can definitely

530
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: say is he has the worst like mindset.

531
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: And worst mindset. We haven't seen what he will do

532
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: because yet, but.

533
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: So far, his thoughts I think are worse than anyone

534
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,479
Speaker 1: that we've talked to. Yes, yes, but his actions I

535
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: feel like are not as he hasn't acted yet. Well

536
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: he did, He's I feel like we're building up. He

537
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 1: just he asked out a nineteen year old, right question

538
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 1: to do? That is asking out your nineteen year old

539
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: neighbor and saying this worse than sliding into the DMS

540
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: of your siblings significant other. This is this is so,

541
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: this is this is a rock at a hard place,

542
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: rock and a hard place. Guys, case knows, is it commean?

543
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: On one thousand?

544
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: Like, well, you know what I think. I think his

545
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 3: his actions are about to match his mindset. Yeah, that

546
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 3: number one spot is looking real.

547
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,719
Speaker 1: I think I think mindset is one. But I'm I'm like,

548
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: I feel like he feels like he could be at

549
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: like a three right now. But I feel like he's

550
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 1: going to get worse. We need to make like Gordon

551
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 1: Ramsey and let him cook, Yes, let him cook to

552
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: earn that number one spot.

553
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,479
Speaker 2: I think he's I think he's about to do it.

554
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: Slidy Toad said, sibling is worse. Oh man, Frank the

555
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: Puck says, yes, number one.

556
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: Jac says, my uters has slithered up further in my pot.

557
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: Oh god, all right, Tellima says, let's read on. We're

558
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: gonna read on. But man, we got our choices cut out.

559
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 2: Front, truly. Oh man, this is bad, all right.

560
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: So according to my parents, he was persistent and she

561
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: told him, weren't you like nineteen when I was born?

562
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 2: Weirdo? Thank god.

563
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: Now they suspect that somehow I am the mastermind who

564
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: brainwashed and told Ella to reject him because of what

565
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 1: I said during dinner, since nobody would really reject their

566
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 1: perfect little boy. They are blowing up my phone, waiting

567
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: for me at my job, asking for me at my

568
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: college so that I can fix what I did to

569
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 1: make Let's say no and Maker say yes, that's not

570
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: how it works. No, I've never talked to that girl.

571
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm glad she didn't put up with his bs though

572
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: there is nothing to fix. I've done nothing. My mom

573
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: is asking me to publicly apologize to my brother at

574
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: a little party they're having this weekend, because thanks to me,

575
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: our family has labeled him a creep and it probably

576
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,959
Speaker 1: got to Ella good. I don't want to do that.

577
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: My mom is saying stuff like when I won't be here,

578
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: you'll remember what you did to me. My dad says

579
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: he regrets having a kid so much later than his

580
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 1: first because I have no manners and a embarrassing how

581
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: about the other kid, dude? Also like these parents are

582
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: about to take it like what I'm telling them, it's

583
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: human decency to understand Adam is creepy. But they're calling

584
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: me a hater and demanding I apologize or they'll cut contact.

585
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: Am I thea hole for embarrassing him.

586
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: I honestly don't see how, but I need some insight

587
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: from others. And I'm going to show this post to

588
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 1: my parents since they swear I'm chronically online. There is

589
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: an update post. There is an update post, but oh

590
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: my god. For everyone who's just joining in, we're ranking

591
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 1: the worst nice guys on the internet. The nice guy

592
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: that we read before was a nice guy sibling that

593
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: slid into op's significant other dms with the cringiest pickup

594
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: lines and thirstiest messages and just downride creepy stuff. And

595
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: so we have like a is slipping into your sibling

596
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: significant others dms with creepy messages worse than asking out

597
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: the nineteen year old neighbor that when you're thirty eight

598
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: with this quote again this I'm gonna go this quote

599
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: running back the meat one men get their life together

600
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,120
Speaker 1: and went around. This is not me thinking this, by

601
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: the way, just this is the no one take this

602
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: quote out of context, then get their life together and

603
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: went around. My age is successful. We want new meat

604
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: to have children with who carry our line on real

605
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: young women who are brtle. Wow, Sam, I know you

606
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: thought like that stop that flip it clip is okay? Okay,

607
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: I have in all seriousness, I have the reason why

608
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: which one's worse.

609
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: I have the reason why that one's working. We have

610
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: an update. He kept persisting the other guy.

611
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, he like went crazy, and then

612
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: I guess she eventually blocked in. But it felt like

613
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: there was like a stopping point with his and it

614
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: was just messages versus he's going up to her in

615
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: real life and keep asking you out, keep assing a out,

616
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: keep asking. Yeah, he was persistent, and that's weird. Persistent, irl.

617
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: That is where the creep factor goes to one thousand.

618
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: The safety is a huge concern. The mindset is whack.

619
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 2: The mindset so that I think we should place him.

620
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: Right now the top number one worst nice guy, That's

621
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking.

622
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 2: Okay, it's in order.

623
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 4: I told my brother he's a creep.

624
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: All right, So we're gonna put this at the number

625
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: one spot right now. Yeah, I'm locking here. You do

626
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: the honors. But y'all, I think this one can get worse.

627
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: Right now we're putting at the number one spot. We

628
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: might we might have someone. We have two more stories

629
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: after this, so there might be someone who's worse. We

630
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: have this guy the number one spot. This is creeper,

631
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: given a presentation on how creepy is. But let's get

632
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: into the update. Let's do it all right. So next day,

633
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: I said in the previous posts, I made that post

634
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: a show to my parents because they were saying that

635
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: nobody genuinely agrees with me, and my family was just

636
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: led astray by me. I wrote that very late and

637
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: went to sleep and woke up only a few hours

638
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: later because I had to meet my parents at this

639
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: place near my work before I go to work so

640
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: we could talk. Also, sorry about the chat thing. I

641
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: haven't used read it before, so I accidentally posted with

642
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: a live chat and had no idea what I did.

643
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 1: I was sleeping, my parents informed me that my brother

644
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: had been harassing Ella on social media, making posts about

645
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: her and threatening her boyfriend starting in a relationship. Just

646
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: found out she had one through my parents. I hadn't

647
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: contacted them much the last three to four days, so

648
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: I hadn't really caught up on the drama. They also

649
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 1: asked Ella if she had talked to me, and she

650
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: told them the truth that we've never spoken to each other.

651
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: Ella threatened a restraining order because my brother can't handle rejection,

652
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: so you can imagine how that works when they live

653
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: next door. Her parents are apparently furious, and mine decided

654
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: to ask the priest at our local church for his opinion,

655
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: since he disagreed with their behavior and they're very religious.

656
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 1: They've backed down a bit. However, the real reason my

657
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Speaker 1: parents are mad at me, according to my dad, is

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Speaker 1: the family pride. I honestly don't even want an explanation.

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Speaker 1: My mother told me she still hates me for what

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Speaker 1: I did. My father said that he wants no contact

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Speaker 1: with me for shaming family in front of others and disagree.

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00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: How is o p the one you're saying is shaming

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Speaker 1: your family when you have another son that's literally harassing

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Speaker 1: a young woman.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, out in the luce?

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Speaker 2: How's wrong with your brains?

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Speaker 1: Asked the pastor that, hey, who which of my son

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Speaker 1: should I cut off?

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Speaker 2: Hmmm?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, so he says, poor Ella, I would

671
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Speaker 1: cry if this happens to me.

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00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 2: I would cry. It's happened to me too.

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Speaker 1: I'm already crying, Oh my god, in front of others,

674
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: and disagreed to apologize. But he'll pay for my last

675
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Speaker 1: two years of college because he's done way more for

676
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Speaker 1: my brother financially, and that's only fair in his eyes. Honestly,

677
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: there's nothing more than I need. I didn't even bother

678
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Speaker 1: with the post because they had made up their minds,

679
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: and my mom never liked me much, so I expected

680
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: her to be completely against me. I was already thinking

681
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: about backup plans regarding my college, but I'm glad it

682
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: didn't get to that since the priest disagreed with them.

683
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: To save family pride and repetition, they have given me,

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Speaker 1: my brother and brother a few months to move to

685
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: his own place that will pay for Probably this came

686
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: as a shocker to me. My mom said that if

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Speaker 1: I wasn't jealous of my brother, it wouldn't have come

688
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: to her baby boy leaving the nest at thirty eight.

689
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: I reminded her that he's almost forty, and she started screaming,

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Speaker 1: so my dad had to take her and leave. Afterwards,

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Speaker 1: I went to work, then had to attend two late

692
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Speaker 1: lectures after work. When I came home, I was drained

693
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Speaker 1: for people finding it hard to believe because my parents' reactions.

694
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: Look through the comments of my previous posts. There's people

695
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: who side with my brother and call me all sorts

696
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: of names. So you get the picture. But you know

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00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: you should always up vote and give five stars. It's

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00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: our podcast, Okay story Time that you can listen to

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Speaker 1: wherever you get your podcast. We're talking Apple podcasts, we're

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Speaker 1: story time wherever you get your podcast. But there's another

704
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: relevant update. But I feel like he pretty much locked

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Speaker 1: in his number one production and.

706
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: He's he's right where he belongs. He's locked in.

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Speaker 4: Also, it sucks that the parents are religious, because if

708
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Speaker 4: you are religious, then you need to make your children

709
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 4: arrows very sharp, like straight in pointed arrows, so then

710
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 4: you can send them off.

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00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how it works, that's what we're told to do.

712
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: But also, like the priest was like, y'are crazy. Yeah,

713
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: go back to them, please, please go back to them.

714
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 2: Like about you.

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00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: The Priese is like, dude, like you gotta gottatar under control.

716
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: And all the people who side with my brother because

717
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: they like his perfect woman Ida, just because you try

718
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: to normalize weird stuff doesn't mean it's normal. Plenty were

719
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 1: saying that they didn't understand why I reacted so fast

720
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: in that way. My entire childhood, my brother has been

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00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: an adult, and up until I was a teenager, I've

722
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Speaker 1: never been able to talk to him because of how

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Speaker 1: much older he was. He was always annoyed by my

724
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: presence anywhere because I was a kid. Now, put yourself

725
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: in my shoes it's just weird. It's not sad about

726
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: the no contact situation. I know that it was very

727
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: impulsive to explode in front of others, but I didn't

728
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: want any of the younger people around the table to

729
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: think that's okay, because it isn't. It's objectifying and humiliating.

730
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: I have a job and apartment and plenty of friends.

731
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: I won't be lonely and won't be grieving the fact

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Speaker 1: that my parents don't want me around. It's their choice,

733
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Speaker 1: and that's where that story ends. Yeah, I feel ranked

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Speaker 1: number one of the past three stories for sure.

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Speaker 2: Number one.

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Speaker 1: I mean, let me know if anyone thinks number two

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00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: was worse or number four, you know, unpopular opinion. Maybe

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Speaker 1: we do a quick pull. Have we ranked all of

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00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: them appropriately so far?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

741
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: And again to run it back, we have number one

742
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: trying to date to neighbor. At number two we have

743
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Speaker 1: the guy who is dming all of his siblings partners.

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00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: And number four was the guy who was a childhood

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00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,959
Speaker 1: friend or the childhood friend mutual who was rejected.

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Speaker 2: He didn't really do much. He just kind of was like, Eh,

747
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: you don't but we got two more stories for you.

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00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: Oh, so it could be could all change, everything could

749
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Speaker 1: move around.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna find out if that's what happens. Let's see.

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00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: Am I ready, Riley, go for it. Hey, it's John here, og,

752
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: host of the show. We're gonna get back to these

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Speaker 2: juicy stories. But here's a quick three minutes of ads

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Speaker 2: from our sponsors. I demanded my friend's block a girl

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Speaker 2: because she rejected me. Ohps, the nice guy himself. So

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Speaker 2: this isn't a.

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Speaker 1: Black and white thing, obviously, because I met this girl, Jen,

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Speaker 1: who showed every sign of being into me or flat

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Speaker 1: out saying it, and we hung out enough that I.

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Speaker 2: Actually let her meet my friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh king, Oh my gosh, you are so gracious sweet life.

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Speaker 2: To his inner circle in a sanctum. I gave it

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Speaker 2: to the greatest gift of it. Oh man, we're already

764
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 2: dunking on this guy two sentences in.

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Speaker 3: Now, this girl is apparently off according to my friends,

766
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 3: and while she added them and wanted to hang out,

767
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 3: they were visually not very into this girl.

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Speaker 1: Whatever that means. I kept on living my life though,

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Speaker 1: until I made my move.

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Speaker 2: Okay, by the way, this comes from sweaty Um Slash

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Speaker 2: Okay story. Oh Away. This guy's name is sweaty um.

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Speaker 1: I asked her out and she gave me that friend stick.

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00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: I was surprised and honestly a bit outraged. Y outrage

774
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,280
Speaker 1: when you get rejected, that's the best that's the best response.

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00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 2: It's so healthy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also it'll like change things.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna work.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, if you yell at someone enough, they will

779
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: love you. That's that's the one thing that I want

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Speaker 1: to communicate to the world.

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00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: Clip it, since she had sewn so many signs that

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Speaker 2: she was into me as well. After getting over the

783
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: sort of pissed the heck off a newly rejected stage,

784
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Speaker 2: I texted all my friends basically saying, well, Jen was

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Speaker 2: a total flop. You're all free to unfriend her if

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Speaker 2: you like, since I knew they didn't really care for her. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, oh, you know, when I thought I

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00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: was going to get with you, that was that was great.

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00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: But now that you just aren't into me romantically, I

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00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: have to like blast put you.

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Speaker 2: On blast and get everyone cut you off. Oh god. Yeah,

792
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: he clearly was was into her from a not just

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Speaker 2: for you know, what is that? I don't know what

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00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: the curves, oh the curves I did I did away

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Speaker 2: for you visual for you non visual viewers, So just

796
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: sort of giving them my blessings on something they'd probably

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00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,280
Speaker 2: do anyways. Wow. I followed suit. Of course.

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Speaker 1: The morning after, I woke up to an angry phone

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Speaker 1: call from Jen saying all my friends had blocked her

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Speaker 1: and that I was a petty piece of crap for

801
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: making them cut her off like that. I tried explaining

802
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: my side that they did it quite willingly, but she

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00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: never really stopped being angry. This was Monday, and she's

804
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 1: still giving me death clears when I walk by?

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00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: Walk by? Where where are they both being a class?

806
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 2: Maybe we were talking about school, maybe not, but I

807
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 2: was I was getting some school like college energy, So

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00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:01,879
Speaker 2: could be wrong, could be right?

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Speaker 1: Am I the A hole for telling my friends to

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Speaker 1: unfront her? Knowing them they probably would have done it

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Speaker 1: out of loyalty, especially in this case where they didn't

812
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: like her to begin with. She super pissed, thinks I'm

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00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: the pettiest a hole in the world, it seems, but

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00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: she came out like with a million arguments, so I

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00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: can't even pick one to de bait.

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Speaker 2: Am I the A hole? Let's first answer this question

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Speaker 2: before we get into relevant comments. Yeah, I mean, like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're the a hole.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't have like said blocker because I'm no longer interested.

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Speaker 1: But like, realistically, you're bringing a new partner into a

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Speaker 1: friend group and they just met that person for the

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Speaker 1: first time. They're probably going like you, we're probably side

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Speaker 1: with you or like or at least like they might

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Speaker 1: not put much effort into that new relationship. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't I think you became an a hole by

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Speaker 1: do it, like saying like you should like maybe block her,

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Speaker 1: And I think if you hadn't done that, maybe the

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Speaker 1: effect would have been the same, But yeah, you kind

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Speaker 1: of made yourself an a hole by doing that.

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Speaker 2: The thing that drives me insane is that like he

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Speaker 2: knows what he's doing by telling all the friends. He's like, well,

832
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Speaker 2: they made their own decision by this zone.

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Speaker 1: But it's like, bro, you literally told them like, hey,

834
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Speaker 1: go ahead and unfriender and block or if you went everywhere,

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Speaker 1: of course you know they're probably gonna do that because,

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Speaker 1: like you said, they're friends first. Yeah, I do also

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00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: think it's like I feel like, I mean, I feel

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Speaker 1: like he did what he did was whack. But if

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Speaker 1: I was invited to, like a romantic partner's friend group

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Speaker 1: or something and then was friend zoned. I wouldn't like

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00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: yell at that person for telling her friends to block me.

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00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: I would just be like, all right, I guess like

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00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: I'm not going to try to get into this new

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Speaker 1: friend group totally because you're saving and preserving your personal energy.

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Speaker 1: But also like it's kind of like bro needs to learn. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it is. His behavior is whack. Yeah, I

847
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,280
Speaker 1: don't think it's worth her time to like be friends

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Speaker 1: with these people that are probably like they don't seem

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Speaker 1: like they're great people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's worth worth it. Kere says,

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Speaker 1: but why would they all block her? I'm pretty sure

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00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,959
Speaker 1: he said drop her. Yeah I did not hear block.

854
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: They did on their own, like they he like.

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00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: So.

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00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he he blasted it to everyone. If they

857
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: all blocked her, like, why does he even need to

858
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: announce it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think he's given off nice guy vibes.

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00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: But of the nice guys that we have have gone through,

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Speaker 1: I think he is the least uh, he's the least

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Speaker 1: worst nice guy.

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Speaker 3: I actually want to put him at three the other

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Speaker 3: right because because of his sneaky behavior, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but the other the other guy was like, like

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Speaker 1: he did it consistently, Like so number four, who we

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00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: have at number four? This was the guy that you know,

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like, let's just like I love you.

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Speaker 1: And then she's like, hey, you know, let's let's see.

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00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: Let's hold it up Romeo, let's see how it goes.

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00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: And then she's like, ah, yeah, it's just gonna be friends.

873
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Speaker 1: And then every couple months, like he said, I love you,

874
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: I love you, I love you, like I'm into you,

875
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: and she kept rejecting him, and then was super disrespectful

876
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: to her and so so much so that his longtime

877
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 1: best friend was like, hey, I'm not gonna be friends

878
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: with you anymore. So like for that reason, I feel

879
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: like number four happened over a much longer time, and

880
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: so I think it's I think it's five, but I

881
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 1: would love to know what do you think, John Poll?

882
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: Paul? Three or five?

883
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you think we should put it at three

884
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: or five?

885
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 2: Paul? Let us know, guide us, guide us on the map,

886
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: and we will place where you decide.

887
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: Do we have more to the story? Oh heck yeah, okay, yeah,

888
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: let us know. We're gonna put a pull up three

889
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: or five.

890
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 3: Let's get into it relevant comments Foebel Schmobile says judge,

891
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 3: Jury and executioner. Some people do that with their friends.

892
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 3: Don't wait to ask out someone until you're romantically interested

893
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 3: for long enough for them to become attached to your friendship.

894
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 2: Next time. Oh, and you're the A hole.

895
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: I think that's I think that's great advice and also

896
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: a great stip, like, like, you are also the a hole. Well,

897
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: op responds, maybe, but if you're that touchy, I honestly

898
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: think you'd have to specify that you weren't interested more

899
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: than if you were basically like, oh, just you know,

900
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,399
Speaker 1: you got a make sure you because remembery, He's like, oh,

901
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: she showed me all these signs and all this stuff,

902
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: and it's like, bro, you're just like reading it.

903
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 3: She didn't say anything. You're like reading reading. You gotta ask,

904
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 3: you gotta ask, and you can't assume. That's the most

905
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 3: dangerous thing that happened.

906
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 2: I think. So it's a quick comment that Opie responds.

907
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: So the comment is, first off, unless the and crap

908
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: from above was more than just touching a chest or

909
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: stroking hair, and if she is that touchy with all

910
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 1: our friends? Then why would she think to preempt it

911
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: with Oh, by the way, this is totally potonic, you.

912
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: Know, like, oh, she's kind of handsy with everyone.

913
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: Why would you be like, oh, hey, no, I'm not

914
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: into Second off, you were interested in her, so why

915
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: didn't you specify that you weren't interested? Well, Opie says,

916
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: we hung out enough that I actually let her meet

917
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 1: my friends.

918
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: Seriously, why didn't you ask her how sooner? If you

919
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: hang out with.

920
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 3: Someone long enough in a purely friendlike manner, then you

921
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 3: can't expect them not to just consider you a friend.

922
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: Opie responds with, because who the f was that touchy

923
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 3: with the opposite gender like that? Anyway, it's not about that,

924
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,479
Speaker 3: it's about the unfriending part that she was going nuts over,

925
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 3: not what happened before. So the commenter replies, if she

926
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 3: had treated you badly, then your stance would be justifiable.

927
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: But if she was just nice to you and you

928
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 3: over invested while not actually doing anything about it a

929
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 3: ways down the line, then this situation is of your

930
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 3: own making, which makes you the a hole. And then

931
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 3: a commenter says, what happened before is that you cause

932
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 3: her to believe you were her friend, introduced her to

933
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 3: the friend group in a way, then pretend to like

934
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 3: her because you were interested in her, which they all

935
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 3: already knew.

936
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 2: She just thought she'd made new friends. It's like, oh,

937
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: I made one friend.

938
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: They introduced me to a group right, and then pulled

939
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 3: the carpet from out under her as soon as she

940
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 3: turned you down. Of course, she's upset you and your

941
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 3: friends seem to like her, so from her perspective, these

942
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 3: people who used to like her suddenly unfriended her. Of

943
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 3: course she thinks you turned them against her, and it

944
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: would honestly be more cruel at this point to point

945
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 3: out that they never did what happened before informed her

946
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 3: perceptions of what happened after, And if you'd been more

947
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 3: honest and upfront, then she never would have come to

948
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 3: believe that your friends were her friends. You know, unless

949
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,720
Speaker 3: your friends are a holes, it's generally a good idea

950
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 3: not to try to date people they can't really stand.

951
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: It'll go south eventually. If they are a holes, then

952
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: you just need better friends. She'll get over being angry.

953
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 1: It's been only two days. She probably won't like you

954
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: Slash be particularly friendly towards you, but she won't be

955
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 1: angry about this forever. Just use this as a learning

956
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: experience and we're going to end it there. Yeah, what

957
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: did the poll say? I'm curious. We got twenty five votes.

958
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: One hundred percent of chat voted for placing it at five.

959
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 2: I agree, I can't argue with a unanimous decision.

960
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: I agree for that, but TLDR basically a guy met

961
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: this girl and invited herr to hang out with his

962
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: friend group. They all hung out, and then he asked

963
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: her out because he was like, oh, I like, I

964
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: kind of like her. Then she rejected him, and then

965
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: he told all of his friends like, oh, you should

966
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: probably just like block her and unfront her. And then

967
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: they all unfront her and she's like super pissed and

968
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: she's like, why did you do that? Like I thought

969
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: we were all friends and and that's.

970
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 2: Kind of where it ended. One hundred percent.

971
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: So I think that one is pretty you know, he's

972
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: an a hole. He's a nice guy, but of the

973
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: ones we've read so far, he is the least worst

974
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: nice guy.

975
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: But we do have one more chance for someone to

976
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: usurp our friend new meat, who was trying to date

977
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 2: the girl twenty years younger than This is our final

978
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 2: chance to see if this is the worst nice guy

979
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 2: of all time.

980
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: All right, we got the last worst nice guy, and

981
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: we'll see where he rags. Chantal Schneider says, if I

982
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: was the girl, I would have been upset too.

983
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

984
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: Especially I have that last commenter phrased it. It was

985
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 1: like like this idea that you, you know, you would

986
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: invite this person in in the context of like, oh,

987
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 1: let's all be friends, and then change the context of

988
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,240
Speaker 1: what the relationship is. I feel like that's not cool.

989
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: Frank the Pug says, pretty tame. Overall, I do agree.

990
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,479
Speaker 1: I think this is like an order of magnitude less

991
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: worse than all the other ones, which is why we're

992
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: raking it five. But let's see what this next one is.

993
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,440
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994
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: the stories. But here's three minutes fads from our sponsor.

995
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 1: A girl in my class led me on, then rejected me.

996
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 2: But I'm a nice guy.

997
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm the nicest, So I've got a thing for a

998
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 1: girl in my class, and I'm like ninety nine percent sure.

999
00:43:59,040 --> 00:43:59,959
Speaker 2: She feels the same way.

1000
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 1: After all, we've got a ton in common video games movies,

1001
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: et cetera. She says hi to me and we talk

1002
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 1: every day, or at least we used to. Sure about

1003
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: that problem is her friends are toxic af and keep

1004
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: telling me she's not into me and it's only being

1005
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: nice to be out of politeness. She doesn't really talk

1006
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: to me anymore, only a passing way for greeting, and

1007
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 1: any conversation I try to make with her is cut short.

1008
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: This is obviously due to her friends telling her not

1009
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: to interact with me, probably not because she isn't interested

1010
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: in you, but you know, we'll see. By the way,

1011
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: this comes from deleted on Best of Better to updates

1012
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: about it. So I've asked her out multiple times, but

1013
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 1: she keeps giving me excuses like she's busy or she

1014
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: has to hang out with friend. Dude, Yeah, she's probably

1015
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: just busy or has to hang out with friends. She

1016
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: definitely likes you.

1017
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, of course she's in love with you.

1018
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: She's in love with you, she's just shy about it.

1019
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 1: It's pretty clear her friends are forcing her to hang

1020
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: out with them instead of me because they're jealous of

1021
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: her and want her to stay single. They even force

1022
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: her to tell me she wasn't interested when I straight

1023
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: up asked her to be my girlfriend, they forced her

1024
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: again listen to that. They forced her to tell me

1025
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,240
Speaker 1: that's she wasn't interested. Dude, I feel bad for her. Honestly,

1026
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 1: she must feel like these friends are the only friends

1027
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 1: she'll ever have, and that's why she's so loyal to them.

1028
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 1: I tried telling her that she shouldn't listen to her friends,

1029
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: but she denied that she was and ended up blocking me.

1030
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: Really sad that they're putting her through this? What should

1031
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,919
Speaker 1: I do? As much as I don't want to ruin

1032
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,479
Speaker 1: some of her friendship, it's pretty clare. They're not real

1033
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 1: friends and I'm the only real friend for her. And yes,

1034
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: she's definitely into me, after all, she has no logical

1035
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: reason not to be. We have the same interest, and

1036
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 1: I know she's not shall enough to reject me purely

1037
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: based on looks.

1038
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: I mean, this is like, is it the most egregious

1039
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 2: thing that's happened so far?

1040
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 4: No?

1041
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 3: But this is literally when you look up like nice

1042
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 3: guy in the textbook definition, this is like what it is,

1043
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 3: all right, but.

1044
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 2: Like, really quick, let's give some grace.

1045
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: This guy's seventeen, Like, yeah, he's a nice guy, but

1046
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: he is seventeen, and so he is a child, almost

1047
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: grown child.

1048
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: But uh yeah, man.

1049
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 4: Where does he go? Comment? Where he goes?

1050
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 2: Guys? Yeah yeah, commonest place.

1051
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,479
Speaker 4: I feel like solid three right now.

1052
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: I think we probably need to rearrange.

1053
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: I think there's a rearrange.

1054
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: Car. I think I think we moved foward to three

1055
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: and this guy to four.

1056
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 4: But this is textbook. This is the definition.

1057
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 2: Text hasn't done anything. He hasn't done anything yet. Egregious yet.

1058
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,479
Speaker 4: But this was kind of long.

1059
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: Okay, we got a lot.

1060
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: Tracy Aisen says, number two, you think this guy is

1061
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: worse than the person that was sliding into the DMS

1062
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: of siblings?

1063
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 2: Get out of here. Emily says, not seventeen is old

1064
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 2: enough to know not to be a creep.

1065
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, but he also is. He's on

1066
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: the younger side, he's not thirty eight. Men are dumb,

1067
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 1: very very especially the young ones, especially the young ones.

1068
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: Hopefully they get less goid with age. Title is self explanatory.

1069
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: So this is the update. This girl who I mentioned

1070
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: before from my last post is pretending she doesn't like

1071
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: me what she obviously does. As my last post state

1072
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: and her friends were trying to keep us apart. I

1073
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: guess they have some kind of grudge against me for

1074
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: some reason. They kept telling me to leave her alone,

1075
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: that she isn't into me. I knew they were lying

1076
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: because she never told me that. She expressed interest in

1077
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 1: me by saying hi to me every day, laughing at

1078
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: my jokes, and expressing interest in the same stuff I'm into,

1079
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: such as the Joker movie, Tarantino, and the Smiths.

1080
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 2: Of course that's his favorite stuff.

1081
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: Sadly, she eventually told me she wasn't interested in block

1082
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: me after I asked her out, something her friends obviously

1083
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: made her do. She's still acting like she's not into me, though,

1084
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: although now I feel she's trying to test me to

1085
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: see how far I'll go to be with her. Oh God,

1086
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: I'm trying to express to her that I really do

1087
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Speaker 1: like her and that I'll do anything for her to

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00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: go out with me, but it's not working. What do

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00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: I do for her to get over this charade? And

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00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: it met her obvious feelings for me? An update two,

1091
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: starting to feel like Arthur Fleck, Who the heck is that.

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00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 2: We gonna find out? Chat?

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00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: I swear everyone in my life is out to get

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00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: me first. I get bullied at school for no reason. Other, dude,

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00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: this guy is such a freaking textbook nice guy.

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00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 2: It's like a freakin' oh.

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00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: H God himself, the joker bro bro thinks he is

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00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 1: he he is using this to create his own Joker

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00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: story arc.

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00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: He's using this to create his own Joker story arc.

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00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: Oh god, how do we? I forgot?

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00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: Lt I forgot how we say that in the Japanese.

1103
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, this guy, he's going to turn into a

1104
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,280
Speaker 1: stalker or worse. Yeah, I do feel like he's he's

1105
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: in is like his Yeah yeah me make says this

1106
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: thought process is creepy. I feel like that's what we're getting.

1107
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: But nothing bad, like nothing like terrible has happened yet.

1108
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: But it is Caitlevin Camp And you're right, God villain

1109
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: origin story.

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Speaker 4: Dude, this feels like you in that in Joe from you.

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00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: I was really I was really concerned that you were

1112
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: adding me.

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00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 2: Right now, we're like, what have I done? What have

1114
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 2: I done? Like this? Yes, the show you on Netflix?

1115
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: Okay say that.

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00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: One, thank god? But yeah we got we got an update. Yeah,

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00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: it's it's creepy. It's creepy. So I swear everyone in

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00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: my life is able to get me first to get

1119
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: bullied at school for no other reason being short. When

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00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 1: this girl gives me the illusion that she likes me

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00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 1: just so her friends can bully me for wanting to

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00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: get with her, then she tells me she never liked

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00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: me in the first place, and nothing she was doing

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00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:11,240
Speaker 1: could be considered flirting or genuine want for companionship. Yeah,

1125
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: effing right. You don't constantly laugh at guy's jokes, tell

1126
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: him how you're sure he'll find someone somewhere. That's literally

1127
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 1: her trying to tell you, oh, yeah, you'll find somebody

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00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: else friend and waived him every time you see him

1129
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: if you don't like him, especially if you've got a

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00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: ton in common with him and you two would make

1131
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: a perfect couple. To make things worse, I've been getting

1132
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: bullied on Reddit for asking for advice on how to

1133
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: ask her out. One user even went so far as

1134
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: to call me a monster, saying I deserve to pass

1135
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: away alone. I have no idea what I did to

1136
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: incur the wrath of these trolls, but it's probably because

1137
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: I mentioned I was shorts and they automatically assumed I

1138
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: was an insult. I am a virgin who prefer not

1139
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 1: to be, but I didn't call myself an insult until recently.

1140
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 1: And it's all and it's all the fault of these trolls.

1141
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. All I want to

1142
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: say is I hope I have an Arthur Fleck, a

1143
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: moment where I rise up and become beloved by those

1144
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: like me who have been downtrodden and stepped on their

1145
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 1: entire lives. Not saying I want anything violent to happen,

1146
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: but I genuinely am starting to feel like the Joker.

1147
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: Anyone else feel this way? And there's an update where

1148
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: OPI has turned from a seventeen year old into an

1149
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: eighteen year old.

1150
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: Oh god, he's legal.

1151
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is giving like major major red flags.

1152
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so.

1153
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 4: I mean, does this step into two territories?

1154
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,240
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't something that two territory.

1155
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 4: Of everything.

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00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: I think he's between what we have as four and

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00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: five right now.

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00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 2: He could be three.

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00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: He could be I'm curious what you guys think I'm

1160
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: putting he acts, Yeah, if he if he acts, I'll

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00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: move him to three. Can we see if he acts,

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00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: I'll move into three. Right now, I feel like he's

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00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: between what was the what was number five? Five was

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00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: asking out the girl in college and then like having

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00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:01,239
Speaker 1: all his friends block her, and four is ruined the

1166
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: relationship with the childhood best friend. That's where the mutual

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00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 1: was introduced. Yeah, the mutual was introduced and and basically

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00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: she kind of broke up like that that relationship, not

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00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 1: through any fault of her own, just because that guy

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00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: was like super obsessed with her.

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00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, the stalker territory is. Yeah, I feel like he's

1172
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 2: about to do something, you know what.

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00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: I actually, now that I think about it, I do

1174
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: think it is worse than four because of the mindset.

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00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: So I think it's entering three territory.

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00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,920
Speaker 3: Guy was just kind of like arguing with the friends.

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00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 3: But this guy is like really really really getting deep

1178
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 3: deep deep.

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00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 2: De Yeah, No, I do think we're right. I do

1180
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 2: you think right?

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00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: Although he hasn't done it, I feel like coming from her,

1182
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: she probed thinks too at least.

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00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, if we got her perspective of everything, yeah, because

1184
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 4: we got a mile down from his perspective.

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00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because honestly, four, I think they did. Did they

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00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 3: go out ever? And then she was like, or like,

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00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 3: are they progressed? They just progressed in their friendships?

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00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, they were friends. This guy is even friends

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00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 1: with this girl. Yeah, you're right, you know you're You're

1190
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: totally right. I think I think we're out of three

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00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: right now. If he makes anything, I think we we could,

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00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: we could. If he does anything, I think we could

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00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: push this up to it too. But right now I'm

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00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: saying three and chat. Maybe it seems like we're debating

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00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: between three and four. I see I see some rawrak

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00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: king saying three or four the solitary one. I'm not

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00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: saying one yet. Yeah, but we'll see, we'll see. So update,

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00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: I eighteen male am thinking of cat fishing this girl.

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00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm talking to eighteen female in order for her to

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00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 1: safely confess her feelings to me.

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00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: There's the action. There's the action. We'll see too.

1202
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 4: We'll see it straight to two.

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00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: If it works, god one. If it works, oh god.

1204
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: It reminds me of that TikTok where it's like today,

1205
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 1: I'm trying to cat day. I'm seeing how many times

1206
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: I could catfish the same guy.

1207
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 4: Dude. I saw that one he stole a bunch of

1208
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 4: line by bike scooters and put him in his house.

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00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: Dude's nuts in the guy line bikes, all right, all right,

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00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: Are you guys ready? This is getting We're like only

1211
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: halfway through. I made a few posts on here about

1212
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: this girl I've got a thing for. Basically, she's made

1213
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: it really obvious that she likes me, the way she

1214
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 1: laughs at my jokes and says hi to me. However,

1215
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: her toxic friends are jealous of me and are trying

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00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: to prevent her from dating me. They have forced her

1217
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: to turn down my every advance, even when she's alone

1218
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: and I'm texting her. She denies that it's her friends

1219
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: doing this and that she's really just not interested. But

1220
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: I know, I know she's just covering for them because

1221
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: she feels controlled by them. After all, she's giving obvious

1222
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: signs she likes me, and she has no logical reason

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00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: not to. I figure that I could pretend to be

1224
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: someone else, set up a date with her, and when

1225
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: we're alone together, she can confess her feelings to me.

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00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: Her friends won't know because they think it's somebody else.

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00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: Is this a good idea? No, this is a terrible idea.

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00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 1: At least he's asking, all right, this is unhinge behavior, radish,

1229
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: I agree, But at least he's asking if he should do.

1230
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 2: It, and he hasn't already done it. At least he's

1231
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 2: to keep reading. Please no trolls this time.

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00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: A lot of past posts were invaded by trolls saying

1233
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: dumb crap like loll she does like you or leave

1234
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: her alone. I'm not going to listen to any of that.

1235
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: BS advice up date for quick pull from chat and

1236
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: from the commons. Do you think this guy is going

1237
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: to catfish this person? Oh yeah, that's update four. Short

1238
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: men are the.

1239
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: Most oppressed group in America, but nobody cares. Oh you

1240
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: think he can't get worse and then he does. Dude, dude.

1241
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: I see social justice movements all over social media meant

1242
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: to help oppressed groups, and yet, and yet, and yet,

1243
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 1: there is no.

1244
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,959
Speaker 2: Movement for the rights of short men like myself. Where

1245
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 2: is it?

1246
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: And unlike those groups, short men are actually systematically discriminated against.

1247
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: Whereas it is illegal for a company to not hire

1248
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: someone because of their race or gender, or for a

1249
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: church today save this marriage, it is perfectly socially acceptable

1250
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: and even normalized for a woman to turn us down

1251
00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: currently because of our height, to nothing else. This is

1252
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: is complete and out RBS that should be changed immediately.

1253
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm not saying those other groups don't deserve equal treatment.

1254
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: But I am saying there are people who call themselves

1255
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: fighters for social justice who denied the struggles. How short

1256
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: men need to be called out for the hypocrisy and

1257
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: they think the world revolves around him Martin Luther Short

1258
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: over here, my god, Short or short Short or Shark

1259
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 1: King JR.

1260
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 2: Oh Man.

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00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: Well, if you want to be the king of our world,

1262
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: you should uh listen to our podcasts everywhere you will

1263
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 1: listen to podcasts. Just search Okay story Timing, listen while

1264
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 1: you do other stuff you know, and have us in

1265
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: your ears. Just look up Okay Storytime or Apple podcasts,

1266
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: Spotify every year podcast.

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00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 4: I just put a poll in YouTube chant with four

1268
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 4: options two, three, four, five, put there which one this

1269
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 4: guy should be? In?

1270
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: Which we put one? I've been seeing people say one,

1271
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: But there's no way he's worse one. He can't be

1272
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 1: worse than one.

1273
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 4: Right, forty year old asking a nineteen year old.

1274
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like to the point where there's a restraining order.

1275
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 1: At least this guy hasn't been official yet.

1276
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 4: Like he's just if we get in a restraining order,

1277
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,280
Speaker 4: I'll redo the pull. Yeah, but we're at eighty percent

1278
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 4: to Yeah, sure he did get.

1279
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 1: A there's another relevant update? Oh god, and let's get

1280
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: into it.

1281
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: Oh No.

1282
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: Update five reported for offensive photo multiple times, but Instagram

1283
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: won't take it down. What should I do? The girl

1284
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: who posted it didn't outright say anything offensive about it,

1285
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: and maybe it wasn't even attention by personally found it

1286
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: very offensive. I tried messaging her about it, but she

1287
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 1: refused to listen to me and ended up blocking me.

1288
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: I even tried messaging Instagram admins, but they didn't listen

1289
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: to me either. Do the people who run Instagram only

1290
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: care about offensive things when they can get brownie points

1291
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: for being performative activists? Can this sub help me out?

1292
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure where to post this question, so I

1293
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: figured I post it in the general advice sub And

1294
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 1: there's an irrelevant comment a picture of her kissing her

1295
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: boyfriend and flaunting it in everyone's face.

1296
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 2: Dude, she has a boyfriend now.

1297
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 1: I normally don't get bothered by offensive humor, but this

1298
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: feels specifically targeted towards me. Since I was rejected by her,

1299
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: she shouldn't be able to post this as it is

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Speaker 1: hurtful to me and to other men. She's rejected. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: As I've said before, it's a kid to dangling a

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Speaker 1: delicious steak in front of a starving, homeless man's face.

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00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: If she doesn't have a logical reason why she chose

1304
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: this guy over me or someone else with intelligence, she

1305
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: shouldn't be with him at all, much less be posting

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Speaker 1: about him for the entire world to see.

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Speaker 2: Who is this guy?

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00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: Oh man, he is a lost seventeen year old boy

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00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: looking for help in all the wrong corners of the internet. Uh,

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00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: didn't do any actions yet, he hasn't necessarily done anything,

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00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: but the inside of his mind is a terrible twice

1312
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:56,919
Speaker 1: so bad. Well, he did all right, well, to be clear,

1313
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: he did Texas girl enough to the point where she

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00:57:59,360 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: blocked him.

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00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 2: This is true.

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00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: And yeah, but he's he's the other guy was forty

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00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: and doing this to a nineteen year old in person

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00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: in person and got order and got it like I

1319
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: got a restraining order. So I don't think op And

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00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: this one is number one. There's no way he's number one.

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00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: There's no way he's number one. I agree number two?

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00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: What was number two again? Number two was sliding into

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00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: your chat?

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00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 2: Voted him number one.

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00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: Chat you're saying he's worse than the guy that was

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00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: a forty year old stalking a nineteen year old.

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Speaker 3: Close though, I think I think chat wants the most

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00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 3: recent story we read. They just want that to be

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00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 3: number one, no matter what story it is.

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Speaker 5: Are you serious yet, number one? There's no way the

1331
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 5: next option there? Oh, here we go, here we go,

1332
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 5: here we go. But they say equal with number two. Yeah,

1333
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 5: so come on, guys, you swade the polls. Yeah, all right,

1334
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 5: just to be clear, just be clear, and everyone is voted.

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Speaker 1: I understand, like this guy is not good right inside

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00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: of his mind is bad. Yes, But the story that

1337
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: we read a few months ago was a forty year

1338
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: old man persistently approaching his nineteen year old neighbor to

1339
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: ask her out, to the point where the nineteen year

1340
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: old felt so uncomfortable that she's talked to his parents,

1341
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: which a thirty eight year old is still living with,

1342
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: and said, this guy is stalking me. I need a

1343
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 1: restraining order and literally said, you know, as men get

1344
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 1: older and are more successful, we need fresh meat, new mo.

1345
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: That guy is forty and has the same internal dialogue

1346
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: as OP. Yet we're just like seeing OP of this

1347
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: last story full internal dialogue. So I feel like it is.

1348
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: I feel like this one is worse than sliding into

1349
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 1: the dms of your sibling significant others, but not as

1350
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: bad as the forty year old.

1351
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 2: But come on me if you think otherwise.

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00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 1: Now they've now Chat's changed their tune. Now Chad has

1353
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,479
Speaker 1: changed their tune. Lexisos in law Len says, as a woman,

1354
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:02,479
Speaker 1: I'd rather be pursued by a guy twice my age

1355
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: repeatedly in whatever way may happen with this guy eventually.

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01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 4: Ah, it's a hot take.

1357
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 2: I don't know it's a hot take. I'm in.

1358
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 3: But chat now has said they don't think he's number one, okay,

1359
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 3: but think he's number two. And as a reminder for everyone,

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01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 3: the current number two spot, my brother never does to

1361
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,439
Speaker 3: talk to me again because I told him his looks

1362
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 3: aren't the reason when I run from him. This is

1363
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 3: the guy that was dming all of his siblings' romantic partners.

1364
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 3: Yeah right, So who's worse the uh like pre joker

1365
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 3: right before he becomes a joker, or the brother who

1366
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 3: will slide in every single one of your romantic partners.

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01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 2: Deal.

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01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 1: It's it's also hard because like that brother had the

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01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: same kind of interternal dialogue as this guy, but actually

1370
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: like did something about it.

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01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 2: His internal dialogue is worse internal and he asked he

1372
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 2: does it.

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01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: He's done enough to where this this girl feels uncomfortable,

1374
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: uncomfortable enough to block him. So I think he has

1375
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 1: a worse internal dialogue that we've seen and has done

1376
01:00:56,760 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: enough to block. So I'm gonna say, I'm going to

1377
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: say this last one is at two, and we're gonna

1378
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: move that that guy to three. But I'm curious, and uh,

1379
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: and y'all with fifty two percent of the votes say

1380
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 1: he should be two. Pre joker number two. Bug says,

1381
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: pre joker number two, insidious mindset. This man has insidious mindset.

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01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 2: Holy Molly.

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01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: So there who says this is the start of a

1384
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: stalker story and it'd be so scared?

1385
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 2: Make me? So it's all of these men are number

1386
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

1387
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, honestly, I wish we could put all

1388
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: of them at number one. But uh, we have a

1389
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: final ranking. All right, let's see that ranking. And John,

1390
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: if you want to give our ranking maybe from least

1391
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: worse to most worse.

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01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 2: That's right.

1393
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: So in number five we have I demanded my friend's

1394
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: block a girl because she rejected me.

1395
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 2: That is the guy who.

1396
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 3: Told everyone to in his friend group, and it's starting

1397
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 3: to low key block The girl didn't do anything as crazy,

1398
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,439
Speaker 3: but you know, definitely a nice guy. At number four,

1399
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 3: I ruined my friend's friendship with a child who best

1400
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 3: friend by rejecting him. There was the mutual friend that

1401
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 3: was introduced. He was trying to get all up in

1402
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 3: Opie's grill and then he just got mad that she

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01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 3: wouldn't get with him.

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01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: Right.

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01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 2: Nothing crazy. Number three we were he up here.

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01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 1: My brother never wants to talk to me again because

1407
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 1: I told him his looks don't the reason women run

1408
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,440
Speaker 1: from him, Because that's the brother who is slided in

1409
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 1: every one of his siblings romantic partners dms like hey, no,

1410
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: no girlfriend or boyfriend or husband or wife is safe

1411
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: from this man. At number two, the man we just met,

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01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: our young joker himself, a guy in my class. A

1413
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: girl in my class led me on them rejected me.

1414
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: But I'm a nice guy. Literally the title says it all.

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01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but guys, the number one top worst nice guy

1416
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 3: of all time. I told my brother he's a creep

1417
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 3: for trying to date our neighbor our friend new Meat,

1418
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 3: the forty year old who tried to date the twenty

1419
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 3: year old and got a restraining order.

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01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: You know, and that's just our ranking with a little

1421
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: help from Chat. We love Chat. We really, we really

1422
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: uh we really depend on you Chat for keeping us straight.

1423
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: So let us know if you think we made the

1424
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: right decisions. Is our ranking good or do you disagree

1425
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: with any of our takes?

1426
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 2: Let us know.

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01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,919
Speaker 1: But with that, I think that's where this episode ends.

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01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow.