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Speaker 1: Fiance breaks up with me and ruins his own life.

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Speaker 1: This is okop, home of the craziest true stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm John, this is Sam, and let's dive into it.

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Speaker 1: This is from user throwaway. The man seven says last week,

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Speaker 1: my twenty seven female fiance twenty nine mail we'll call

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Speaker 1: him Mason disgusting to head.

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Speaker 2: Broke up with me because nice. Oh, I thought I

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Speaker 2: had a job. But I don't broke up with.

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Speaker 1: Me because I told him that I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: leave my job and move a car across a country

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Speaker 1: so he could become a streamer.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that is a profession, thankfully.

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Speaker 1: Right, I hear there are lots of people that tune

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Speaker 1: into certain people's live.

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Speaker 2: Stream like the okop livestre check it out. Gosh, if

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Speaker 2: only we were last doing this right now, right what

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Speaker 2: I mean? We can stop, joker.

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Speaker 1: I make very good money here in Minneapoli. My family

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Speaker 1: is here, and I love the scenery of the area

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Speaker 1: outside of the city. Of course, I don't know why,

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Speaker 1: of course, but okay, my ex was basically a stay

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Speaker 1: at home boyfriend. He worked only twenty hours a week

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Speaker 1: as a barista at the Starbucks. That is literally a

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Speaker 1: five minute walk from our apartment. Hey, he's trying to

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Speaker 1: make the dream a come alive. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know it's he's part time barista, the part time streamer.

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Speaker 1: He's full time creative. That's that's an latte art stream

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Speaker 1: art art. Yeah yeah, that's what we do, right, that's

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Speaker 1: what we do.

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Speaker 2: We just stream. I guys don't know, but we're actually

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Speaker 2: baristas on the side exactly.

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Speaker 1: This is all part of our method acting screen plame,

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Speaker 1: very la.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't get it.

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Speaker 1: I work as a natal intensive care unit nurse, so

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Speaker 1: basically taking care of we little babies. Stream it Nope, lame,

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Speaker 1: and I made good money, so I was never worried

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Speaker 1: about our financials. What worried me was that, despite Mason

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Speaker 1: having a biology degree, he was quote unquote never able

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Speaker 1: to get a full time biology job. I think he

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Speaker 1: was never even looking in the first place. I told

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Speaker 1: Mason that I would be happy to help him help

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Speaker 1: him pay for his master slash PhD program he was

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Speaker 1: supposedly interested in doing, but he never put in the

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Speaker 1: work to do any research into it.

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Speaker 2: Or to apply to it.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like Mason has a case of uh, mommy will

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Speaker 3: do all of my stuff for.

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Speaker 2: Me, Yeah, super quick? Do we break up or not?

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Speaker 2: At this point he was like a freaking skunk man.

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Speaker 2: Is it enough? Is it enough to break up? Though?

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Speaker 2: Breakup or not? At this point?

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Speaker 3: I mean if I think you kind of like say like, hey,

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Speaker 2: Give him a chance and be like, yo, you need

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Speaker 2: to like.

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Speaker 3: But it's actually he hasn't been doing anything at all.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's super thoughtful, but if he's not, like I

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Speaker 1: I feel like the tone I'm getting from if he's

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Speaker 1: not thoughtful enough to apply.

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Speaker 2: To your school. That's an'll degree, you know. Yeah, biology

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Speaker 2: is in demand, probably is it? I don't know. Science,

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Speaker 2: science is always in demand, demand fair enough. They're turning

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Speaker 2: you know, they're turning eggs into and to sperm and

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Speaker 2: sperm into eggs these days. That's kind of disgusting. One

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Speaker 2: of my friends told me that they can do that. Now, wow,

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Speaker 2: well Opie's boyfriend do that. Yeah, do that. Make some

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Speaker 2: sperm money and give it to your lady. You can

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Speaker 2: donate sperm.

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Speaker 1: Donate, donate your sperm, then do science experiments on it

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Speaker 1: through your biology job.

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Speaker 2: Now we're talking. Now we're talking.

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Speaker 1: Now you get to stay in the relationship, but we'll

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Speaker 1: see what actually happens. So instead he was obsessed with

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Speaker 1: the idea of becoming a streamer and moving to Los Angeles.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the beauty of becoming a streamer is

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Speaker 2: But how am I supposed to soak in the streaming? Bob?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Just soaking the content? All the streamers are in La

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard of it?

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Speaker 3: Say I Honestly, I feel like these are actually, these

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Speaker 1: The hilarious thing is this is basically us, but we are.

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Speaker 2: Actually doing it. We're doing it, We're doing We're here

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Speaker 2: right now, so listening to us, Hey, what the heck?

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Speaker 2: Good for us?

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Speaker 3: But Mason has never had time to stream or work

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Speaker 3: on building a social media presence yet that's the kicker. Wait,

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Speaker 3: so he wants to become a streamer, but he hasn't

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Speaker 3: done a stream He's been working twenty hours a week.

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Speaker 3: He is barristaying, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: He dude, he gets off between that playing the games

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Speaker 1: that he would be streaming on. But he has to

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Speaker 1: keep practicing exactly he's practicing pre stream practice. Got to

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Speaker 1: get a good like forty sixty hours in yeah, three

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Speaker 1: hours for your girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: What time's gone?

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Speaker 3: That's today, that's a way, that's a week, that's that's

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Speaker 3: your life.

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Speaker 2: It's over for like twenty hours of that too, that's it.

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Speaker 2: Or you have your girlfriend moved, fly you out to LA,

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Speaker 2: fund your life and then become a streamer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then drop the girlfriend as soon as you're successful.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Now you're talking.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh dude, opis Opie keeps going in.

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Speaker 1: He has literally only two followers on Twitch and the last.

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Speaker 3: Time he streamed was a year ago. Opie, you better

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Speaker 3: be one of those followers. Better supporting, right, make it

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Speaker 3: three Yeah for cigarettes, she has it.

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Speaker 2: If she has it subscribed, that's a red flag. Drop

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Speaker 2: her kid. Yeah, unfollower from her relation doesn't deserve you.

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Speaker 3: If she won't support you when you're at two followers,

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Speaker 2: At a million, that's right now.

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Speaker 1: I paid for everything, the apartment, our groceries, his medication,

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Speaker 1: his pet fish.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, well, let's sick all of that fish, right.

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Speaker 1: All of our dates that I always planned, despite working

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Speaker 1: crazy hours, I was thoughtful, not thoughtful. I was always

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Speaker 2: What god fuck does this guy do it? I just

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Speaker 1: Now, Wow, the only thing he would do consistently is

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Speaker 1: clean his fish tank and turn on the room bab bro.

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Speaker 2: It tells an other robot to do the work. He's delegating.

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Speaker 2: He is delegating. He is, He's a boss, okay, And.

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Speaker 3: You know to be a successful streamer, you gotta delegate, dude.

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Speaker 2: Bosses don't work. That's don't work. They don't work.

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Speaker 1: I'm the problem when I tell him to stop piling

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Speaker 1: the problem when I told him that I was not

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Speaker 1: he's literally done nothing to make his own aspirations come true.

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Speaker 3: You can start from anywhere, literally everywhere.

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Speaker 1: My god, dude sits at home for fifty hours a

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Speaker 1: week in his underwear, eating talkies and playing video games

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Speaker 1: that he isn't even streaming, and expects me to cook

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Speaker 1: I forgot she works as a nurse, or she works

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Speaker 3: She's taking care of babies all day and then she

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Speaker 1: That is like the amount that the stress and everything

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it tumps him. Well, I don't even know why

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Speaker 3: she's with him in the first place. Maybe maybe twelve

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Speaker 3: inches is not coming out of It's not only poking

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Speaker 3: out of the garbage. Ye, well, it is poking out

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Speaker 3: of garbage. Hey, Oh, this big dick garbage man.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we had a fight and he broke

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Speaker 2: up with me.

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Speaker 1: Wow, a king knows his worth, ladies and gentleman, Oh

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Speaker 1: genius move. So I canceled the lease on my apartment

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Speaker 1: and I'm staying with my sister while I go house

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Speaker 1: hunting and deleting every trace of that idiot from my life.

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Speaker 1: He's tried calling and texting me, but I'm done with

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Speaker 1: his leeching. I just wish every other person could see

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Speaker 1: can't believe I'm such a mean, mean girlfriend who won't

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Speaker 1: be my man's mommy, mommy, mommy.

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Speaker 3: Do girls like when they're called mommy? Ah, mama's Mama's

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Speaker 3: answered below? Hey Mama, Hey mama, Hey mama.

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Speaker 2: That's I don't know. Yeah, I feel like mama is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but mama is like he's going, mama's mama's mom

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Speaker 2: Y'all, could you answer below and let us know? I

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Speaker 2: can't imagine that. I can't. I can't. I can't imagine

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Speaker 3: I guess if you're into being like dominated, maybe it's

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's definitely people very into it, for sure, John. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for a fact, it's pure of science, my biology. Breze

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Speaker 1: comes from deleted. Wow, you're such an amazing woman to

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Speaker 1: have supported this man through so much financially, you deserve

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Speaker 1: way better, and maybe it's best you don't marry him. Definitely, yes, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't you want someone with more substance and

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Speaker 2: This whole thing sucks.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry you're going through it, to which op

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Speaker 1: he replied, oh, obviously. But I didn't think it would

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Speaker 1: You can lead someone on, but only for too long. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: only for too long. I thought he was genuinely struggling

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I was working super hard and trying

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Speaker 3: I guess, well, maybe this breakup will be his move

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Speaker 3: to finally grow up. True, hopefully true. Actually I need

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Speaker 3: a ten point yeer. There we go, there we go,

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Speaker 3: there we go. All right, let's seriously so I think

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Speaker 3: that there's an update. Okay, this is my this is

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Speaker 3: my pre update. Conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: I think that he is going to First of all,

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Speaker 1: he won't have any place to live because now the

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Speaker 2: Not just not just a piece. She canceled the lease.

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Speaker 1: She's with literally with her sister now, so the lease

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Speaker 1: is canceled. He's going to get kicked out from the apartment,

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Speaker 1: have nowhere to go, end up on the streets, start

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Speaker 3: And then he just kept hustling and hustling and hustling

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Speaker 2: Be he's boyfriend. Oh, he's going to try.

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Speaker 3: I think that's a solid conspiracy theory. Possible, right, yeah, possible, But.

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Speaker 2: You know what, we're gonna let in the truth. That's right.

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Speaker 1: A while ago, I posted about my ex fiance Mason

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Speaker 3: Having two followers to count of two on Twitter. Update,

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Speaker 2: Sportive, supportive x right.

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Speaker 1: Well, through a friend, I have learned of some shocking developments.

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Speaker 2: He became famous. He became famous. I became famous, Riley,

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Speaker 1: He didn't become famous. He didn't become famous. Okay, for starters,

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Speaker 1: Mason is moving to LA in September.

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Speaker 3: Okay, one week after a breakup, he came out as

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Speaker 3: Bro. What brow.

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Wow, Oh my god, so is this guy now supporting him?

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Speaker 3: Anyway, what is he doing out in Las? I mean,

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Speaker 1: He was just writing on my paycheck while literally effing

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Speaker 2: The side, that is tragic.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I'm guessing it's it's a little unclear if this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I mean, That's what I'm That's what

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 1: Good news is my SDD tests all came back clean.

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Speaker 1: Well though we hadn't had sex in several months before

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Speaker 2: Abstinence.

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Speaker 3: Baby, we love abstinence, that's right. We are big abstinence face.

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Speaker 2: We're all practicing abstinence in this room, correct, But one

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Speaker 4: You mean, Riley, I know from past conversations of two

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Speaker 2: How do you know practicing abstinence because your.

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Speaker 4: Room's are really close to mind? So oh, Lord, expose

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, dude, he got us, He really, he really

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Speaker 1: But it sucks that through all of the struggle and

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Speaker 2: Let's go, oh pee.

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Speaker 1: I've joined a local tennis league, and I have started

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Speaker 1: I am actually a forty female and I just met

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just kidding, whoa, oh, just kidding. Just kidding.

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Speaker 3: I may go on a date with a forty year

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Speaker 1: Life is good but weird sometimes, And that men is

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Speaker 1: the end of the first one. Oh wow, big plot

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just glad that he's been dumped. I

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Speaker 3: don't know, yes, I'm just he sounds like a total

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Speaker 2: Yeah, any anyone that is. Now.

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Speaker 1: It's some people look to people and there's there's a

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Speaker 1: guess when one person, when one person is literally like

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Speaker 3: I feel like op like not should have seen the signs,

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Speaker 2: You were engaged.

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Speaker 1: Thank god they didn't get married. Oh imagine and imagine

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Speaker 2: Were they dating beforehand? Did you do dating for two

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Speaker 3: I think maybe it was a total two year relationship.

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Speaker 1: And but beyond that, she was like, he doesn't contribute

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Speaker 2: She did he did at least, like work at Starbucks

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Speaker 3: So it feels like she just put up with it

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Speaker 3: Like if he didn't say let's just move to La,

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Speaker 3: Because when you're like living with someone, I imagine like

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Speaker 3: And and it's just like he's just like mushed into her.

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Speaker 3: He's like this little parasite. That's just like I think

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Speaker 1: You didn't even have time to think about it. Sit down,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, between working and taking care of him exactly, you

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Speaker 2: Well, God, she's done with it, she's out. What should

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Speaker 2: what should she do next? Uh?

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Speaker 3: I think she should maybe read this next story.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that sounds like the best of it.

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Speaker 2: At least listen to it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ba, men are hitting on my scheduling bot because

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Speaker 2: No? No, I think it it's a real I think

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Speaker 2: it's a real we didn't say the website. We shouldn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, better hitting on my scheduling bot because it has

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Speaker 2: I have a sort of strange situation.

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Speaker 3: I provide consulting services for mostly small business owners. This

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Speaker 3: it's hard to tell. It gives standard salutation and sign

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Speaker 2: Chatbot or anything.

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Speaker 3: Any parts of an email that it receives that don't

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Speaker 3: This man's got a little AI and ail. I bought

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Speaker 3: However, this complete lack of personal type interactions has not

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: It is scheduling appointments with from asking it out on

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: Wow, you're so professional. I really like a professional woman

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Speaker 3: like like I I can't I can't imagine how you

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Speaker 3: Sometimes this happens within the same emails that were used

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Speaker 3: to schedule meetings, and once a man sent an after

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Speaker 3: hour's email from his personal address, which is somehow both

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Speaker 3: creepier and also better with like work life boundaries.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. So far, I have ignored.

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Speaker 3: These incidents and gone on with the professional relationship like

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Speaker 3: nothing happened. Obviously, this would be inappropriate behavior if it

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Speaker 3: was happening to an actual human assistant, and I would

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Speaker 3: deal with it. However, so it's happening to a bot,

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Speaker 3: what am I supposed to do? Obviously the bot doesn't

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Speaker 3: have opinions about the issue. But if one of my

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Speaker 3: employs was asking out women after a very basic scheduling

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Speaker 3: email with absolutely no personal content, I'd probably want to

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Speaker 3: know about it so I could address it, because it's

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Speaker 3: probably happening to real human assistants as well. What are

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Speaker 3: your thoughts? And there is an update? But how can

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Speaker 3: a scheduling bot be getting asked out? That's crazy?

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Speaker 2: That is people are you scheduling with? That's what I know.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like this is happening like decently frequently.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this man must have there's like a ton of meetings. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: maybe it has like one of those little AI like

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Speaker 3: those images where it's like, I'm Sally the AI bought.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I doesn't have like.

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Speaker 4: Like looking flicks pretty. But I didn't say anything. I

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Speaker 4: didn't say anything.

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Speaker 5: You completely missed it. You see what happened? What happened,

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Speaker 5: Sam Biley. I'm not gonna do it. I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Do what I didn't do anything? This guy slighting us?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god? Anyway, what do you do? I mean, well,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to lose the business, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of tough. It's like no one's like.

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Speaker 1: It is op like a one person like consultants or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Consultancy, I mean like always being really affected. Honestly, what

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Speaker 3: I would do is I would be like, hey, like

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Speaker 3: take me out.

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Speaker 2: And then and then send you know, send me a Vemo.

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Speaker 4: If they had no morals, this is what they should do.

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Speaker 4: There's like these guys that scam other guys on snapchat

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Speaker 4: pretending to be women. Do that sell their information and

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Speaker 4: then that Honestly, all right, he hear me out, hear

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Speaker 4: me out. You're the wrong business, buddy. If you are

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Speaker 4: getting so many I guess like nibbles. AI chatbot that's

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Speaker 4: not giving any like moves at all, dude, Spice up

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Speaker 4: the chatbot, that's true. Spice up the chatbot and start

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Speaker 4: collecting money from these.

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Speaker 1: This is a new business that's just sitting right under

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Speaker 1: right in front of you.

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Speaker 2: AI girlfriend, my girlfriend, dude.

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Speaker 3: Via scheduling, Via scheduling, I mean, what is hotter? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: just booking a woman that knows how to schedule.

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Speaker 1: I mean, dude, when your schedule is that tight, dude,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how can you not pretty good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Riley always makes us read the most sexual. This

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Speaker 3: is not even a sexual story.

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Speaker 1: Guys, you're making it sexual I'm giving this back to Riley, Okay,

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Speaker 1: put him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so i'll carry that.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I can carry it yet. It

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Speaker 4: looks better there. I'm like in my Red Flags era

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Speaker 4: that you guys keep reminding me of.

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Speaker 1: You were the one that told us that we're not

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Speaker 1: saying anything that you didn't say to us first.

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Speaker 2: You're right, I'll get out of little soon. Guys, give

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Speaker 2: me like a month or two. He's getting there. He's

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Speaker 2: getting there. So here's the update. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I really enjoyed your response and reading the comments section.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't able to participate. I was particularly slammed at

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Speaker 3: work that day, but it was a great read later

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Speaker 3: in the evening.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this is what I decided to do.

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Speaker 3: I decided to reply to the original center of the

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Speaker 3: most recent sent email and to notify their boss. The

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Speaker 3: other emails were no longer recent enough for me to

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Speaker 3: still be working with those clients, but if they come again,

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Speaker 3: I'll be sure to bring it up before we schedule

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Speaker 3: anything new. I attached the offending email and wrote, I

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Speaker 3: notice the included interaction. While conducting a routine review of

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Speaker 3: recent scheduling emails between my automated scheduling assistant and my

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Speaker 3: clients while you were not actually interacting with a real person.

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Speaker 3: You should know that asking people out on a date

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Speaker 3: after only a very basic professional interaction with no personal

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Speaker 3: details is inappropriate workplace behavior.

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Speaker 2: Which.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if this is not, as I hope, a one

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Speaker 3: time lapse in judgment on your part, please consider the

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Speaker 3: impact this has on women who are simply trying to

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Speaker 3: do their jobs in our reques, fired by their duties

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Speaker 3: to be polite and pleasance. I would like to know

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Speaker 3: if one of my employees was conducting themselves in this

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Speaker 3: way while representing my business. So I have included name

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Speaker 3: on this email and I ce Seed their boss. Then

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Speaker 3: I sat on it for a day to think about

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Speaker 3: if it was too rude. I decided it was significantly

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Speaker 3: more appropriate than asking out and assist it after a

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Speaker 3: basic scheduling email that if nobody ever calls this stuff

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Speaker 3: out very directly, it's not going to get better. Yeah, agreed,

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Speaker 3: and that if it somehow cost me a client, I

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Speaker 3: could afford to lose this one. So I sent it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know it will be I think that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: About an hour later, I got a brief reply from

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Speaker 3: the business owner thank you for the heads up. I'll

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Speaker 3: address this looking forward to our meeting next week. So

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Speaker 3: the next week I went to our meeting, he brought

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Speaker 3: up on his own that he had dealt with the issue.

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Speaker 3: He didn't give specifics, and I did ask, and we

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Speaker 3: had a perfectly nice and professional meeting.

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Speaker 2: And then he asked me out. He's like, now I

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Speaker 2: have the personal you know, we got the chat a

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Speaker 2: little bit. No, so that worked out well.

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Speaker 3: If my scheduling ever ends up in a romance with

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Speaker 3: a client scheduling bot, I'll be sure to send another update.

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Speaker 2: But for now, thank you for the advice and for

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Speaker 2: the humor. Wow. And that's that's a that's a wrap

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Speaker 2: on that one.

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Speaker 3: I do like that. He actually like addressed it because

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Speaker 3: million I was. I mean, like, yes, it's harmless because

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Speaker 3: it's to a bot. But this this, these people are

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Speaker 3: probably doing this to other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as soon as they get the chance, they'll they'll

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Speaker 1: do it to an actual especially like how did they like?

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Speaker 2: Who does that? Though?

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Speaker 1: And that that's the thing, because he was like, was

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Speaker 1: it too much for me to like send it over?

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Speaker 2: But it was like it was way.

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Speaker 1: Too much for dude to to ask the what he

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Speaker 1: thought was the assistant on.

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Speaker 3: A date crazy that ended up doing it? Yeah, one

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Speaker 3: hundred percent, Like who who does do that? Like you

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Speaker 3: gotta be so down bad that you're just like, let

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Speaker 3: me just let me just shoot my shot at this

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Speaker 3: this person who's just scheduling a meeting, Like that's the

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Speaker 3: one thing we have been common.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's your what's your best segue? Pick up? Sew pickup.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the meeting is scheduled for three o'clock.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's pretty good. That's my that's my that's my robot.

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Speaker 3: And then, uh, this guy probably you know what you

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Speaker 3: know what rhymes with clock.

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Speaker 2: Shock?

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Speaker 1: What you'll be in after our first date because I'm

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Speaker 1: so romantic?

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Speaker 2: Boom done. Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Gentlemen, this has been an episode of OKOP. If you

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Speaker 1: love us, make sure to subscribe.

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