Speaker 1: What's epics left Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm g MacGuire,
Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Aden Comedian, just pain, just Pam.
Speaker 1: Last time was a guest host that she was, but
Speaker 1: today you aren't the guest. We loved your honesty last
Speaker 1: time too great. I'm so glad I'm here for this
Speaker 1: round because I totally missed you last Oh that's yeah.
Speaker 1: I probably had to work or fight or something. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, I think you were sick, and
Speaker 1: I think you got sick that week. I think that
Speaker 1: was the reason they called me, because you yeah, you
Speaker 1: being sick, maybe not being sick. But I'm happy here
Speaker 1: had COVID. I just want to know you had. What
Speaker 1: was the experience like for you? A been I have fever.
Speaker 1: I was down for like a week, and I definitely
Speaker 1: lost my taste and smell after the words. How long
Speaker 1: ago was this in July? How long did you not
Speaker 1: tasting smell for like four days? It was very weird,
Speaker 1: definitely weird, but I wasn't bad. I felt sicker before,
Speaker 1: like years ago when I used to get the flu um,
Speaker 1: But yeah, I got all the symptoms, it just wasn't
Speaker 1: like severe. Thankfully got to just Pam, how is your stint?
Speaker 1: Mom was bad? Yeah? I had everything, but of course
Speaker 1: I still have my taste buds. I was like, if
Speaker 1: you don't take these ships, the first thing is to god.
Speaker 1: I was. I was really sick. I was sick for
Speaker 1: about a week. Um, I had fever, I had a
Speaker 1: really bad cough, but I was still eating out. I
Speaker 1: didn't get that. But helloo was that? That was in August? Okay, damn,
Speaker 1: so you got July August? What was it the delta
Speaker 1: you had delta? No, I haven't. You haven't had You
Speaker 1: haven't tested positive at all. I haven't. And you know
Speaker 1: when you was taking a thousand for beyond the Pole
Speaker 1: all of last year year, well half of last year.
Speaker 1: I had this test three times a week, and he
Speaker 1: was in Atlanta where everybody was outside. That's I think
Speaker 1: we got her immunity INTA. But no, I didn't. I
Speaker 1: have negative blood type. I don't get sick. I get
Speaker 1: sick like once every three or four years. But oh type,
Speaker 1: I have old negative blood type. Okay, yeah, so you
Speaker 1: know it's the rarest we can give to everybody. No
Speaker 1: one can give to us. But because of that I
Speaker 1: think my immune system is good. Like literally, when I
Speaker 1: start feeling sick, I'll drink orange juice for like a day,
Speaker 1: and then I feel better the next day. Now, if
Speaker 1: you're loving somebody, if you're in a relationship and they
Speaker 1: get COVID, are you gonna go and take care of them,
Speaker 1: even knowing that you might get it too. I think
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask, like, do we live together? Because
Speaker 1: if you live with someone, then you if I will, yeah,
Speaker 1: I will be extra cautious. But I was kind of
Speaker 1: like the sex from the Bad I made it somebody
Speaker 1: who was exposed to COVID and he um. He was like, well,
Speaker 1: I was exposed to COVID, so I'm gonna quarantine for
Speaker 1: a few days in our quarantine and what I'm but
Speaker 1: he didn't end up having it. But had he ended
Speaker 1: up having that, you would have probably had it. Well, no,
Speaker 1: you got the super bloods. Yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: But I took the chance, right and you didn't. Okay,
Speaker 1: getting sick clearly she was a friend of mine. Want
Speaker 1: to be pissed, full blown, like to the max hundred
Speaker 1: and five fever, sweat chills, and I was there from
Speaker 1: the call um tested positive all the way to the
Speaker 1: tested negative. As a friend, good friend, uh just your
Speaker 1: friends or friend friend, this friend of mine, friend sometimes
Speaker 1: friend friend friend, and you went to the very gonna
Speaker 1: do that just for a friend. Very four more than
Speaker 1: the crazy part was I had just got out of
Speaker 1: the hospital, so my got out in the hospital. I
Speaker 1: went to his house to for him to like help
Speaker 1: me out my friend, and the doctors is like, you
Speaker 1: cannot catch COVID. You're gonna die. I was like, got you.
Speaker 1: So I was at his house and then his family
Speaker 1: started calling him like, yo, we just tested positive. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, ship, but I've been over here. We
Speaker 1: went and took a test, was perfectly fine, came back.
Speaker 1: I was fine, he was fine. Pregnancy my my test
Speaker 1: came back negative, came back positive. So now I'm like
Speaker 1: the next day when we woke up, you know, he
Speaker 1: woke up in a sweat hundred people. Couldn't walk from
Speaker 1: the couch. I couldn't leave them. You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying that he couldn't even walk from the couch to
Speaker 1: the bathroom like without me, like it bad and I
Speaker 1: just couldn't. I couldn't walk away. He was like, you
Speaker 1: can go I was like, but I think that's the
Speaker 1: hard thing, right, if you see somebody that's right sick,
Speaker 1: I could obviously want to be cautious, but you still
Speaker 1: feel bad because sometimes they can't even fully take care
Speaker 1: of themselves. I'm definitely that girlfriend that if my boyfriend
Speaker 1: is sick, I'm gonna go be with him, whether I'm scared,
Speaker 1: shouldn't get it or not. Finitely. One time I was
Speaker 1: with somebody a couple of years ago and he had
Speaker 1: strep throat. He got it from his kids and were
Speaker 1: making out of everything. I didn't even care what she
Speaker 1: and I didn't get it. Yeah, what's funny. What's funny
Speaker 1: is that I didn't get that strap throat when um
Speaker 1: when he had it. But the next following winter a
Speaker 1: year later, I got struck throat. So I feel like
Speaker 1: that's a virus and it like stood in the background
Speaker 1: ready to come out and flared up. I got real
Speaker 1: sick the next year. That's the last time I was
Speaker 1: really sick. Okay, now let me ask you this, what
Speaker 1: if your friends say with somebody you were sleeping with
Speaker 1: was sick, would you have sex with him during that
Speaker 1: time if he wanted to. I think she probably did
Speaker 1: during that time. When you say it happened, I mean
Speaker 1: did it happened, because you know, I thought I'm about
Speaker 1: the doctor told me gone. So I was like, we
Speaker 1: didn't have mask. We was literally sleeping in the same Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think a mask wouldn't matter. That were like sleeping.
Speaker 1: I wasn't so afraid to like leave because he was
Speaker 1: so bad and you love him. He cool like that,
Speaker 1: you love him? Yeah, but didn't have a fever. I didn't.
Speaker 1: It was hot. It was, yeah, like he had because
Speaker 1: you know what you're doing it you put it, you
Speaker 1: put it in your mouth and like, no, she said
Speaker 1: the warmth, That's what I was going to Actually, did
Speaker 1: you feel the wine or vagiant? It was like smith morning.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say exactly nice. But I think it would
Speaker 1: feel good in the back of your throat. And the
Speaker 1: schools like what do you call a little but would
Speaker 1: you change the positions? Like if you know he has
Speaker 1: COVID or you just gonna listen it down? That should
Speaker 1: be big spoon, little school, not smugging them with a pillow,
Speaker 1: you know what. I was kind of being safe. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you smell them that can't breathe, But it's interesting
Speaker 1: because guys do like to have sex while they're sick.
Speaker 1: Do you like to have sex while you're sick, like
Speaker 1: if you're under the weather, because I feel like that's
Speaker 1: not something I'm interested in. What I'm saying. It depends
Speaker 1: how sick I am. If I'm like sick in bed
Speaker 1: and I can't get up and I feel weak and fatigued, no,
Speaker 1: But if like you kind of have like a mild
Speaker 1: small call for you know, something super light, maybe, But
Speaker 1: if I'm down bad, I don't even I just want
Speaker 1: to be on time. I caught a stomach virus and
Speaker 1: I never listen to It's crazy. I caught a stomach
Speaker 1: virus and I was throwing up. I couldn't keep anything down.
Speaker 1: Everything I would throw up, not even water. Everything was
Speaker 1: getting thrown up. And I never thought that I would
Speaker 1: like to have sex when I was sick. But I
Speaker 1: ended up like my boyfriend at the time came and
Speaker 1: he started eating my pussy like to make me feel better.
Speaker 1: And it worked. It worked. It was really good. Honestly,
Speaker 1: after the sex, I felt better twenty minutes. That wasn't
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I wasn't. You know, girls don't ship. I
Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. But I didn't. But
Speaker 1: I was throwing up, and I remember we had sex
Speaker 1: and I felt better for a little while. You know,
Speaker 1: they say orgasms can be healing. Yes, the headaches. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm sick, not sick. He's like, you can't possibly be
Speaker 1: horny right now? Like yes, I am, like, there's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with me. It was wrong with you, like so sick,
Speaker 1: not sick. Monday's Tuesday's right. You like to have sex
Speaker 1: like um, every day? If I could? All right, that's
Speaker 1: everybody's good. Yeah, that's good even on your period. Had
Speaker 1: anybody tried the cup thing you put in you for
Speaker 1: him period? I did years ago. I didn't like it.
Speaker 1: It seems superlated, but not to have sex. Did you
Speaker 1: have sex with it on your period? I was cooking.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine to have sex with that in because yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you got to put all will go everywhere, too messy,
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah, when you pull it out, the
Speaker 1: blood is on your hands. Yeah, I started it is
Speaker 1: to see. I don't know if I could do it,
Speaker 1: because you want to like cook it out, like you
Speaker 1: put it in there like thing you pinch it in
Speaker 1: the middle and then you put it in and then
Speaker 1: when you pull it out, you gotta like and it's
Speaker 1: really cup fully and look. But if you have long
Speaker 1: nails and you have to like put you put your
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, You scratch you inside of
Speaker 1: a vagina. That's actually why my nails is short and
Speaker 1: not sharp anymore, because you scratch inside. Sometimes I'll be
Speaker 1: in the shower, like cleaning myself, and I would scratch myself.
Speaker 1: I noticed long nails too, same same saying that. Don't laugh,
Speaker 1: just paim. You don't clean in your vachina, Yes, but
Speaker 1: it's still funny. You know, when you're in the shower,
Speaker 1: you got to open your butt hole. You got to
Speaker 1: get in there between the boley. I don't never mind.
Speaker 1: Do you use a different wash cloth for your face
Speaker 1: and for your body? Oh my god, just here you go.
Speaker 1: You use the same wash cloth that you use the
Speaker 1: fingure tell you I use one wash cloth, same I do.
Speaker 1: I washed my eyes with the same wash I wash
Speaker 1: my face first. No, I washed my face first. It's
Speaker 1: just a natural habit for me to brush my teeth
Speaker 1: and wash my face at the same time. So you guys,
Speaker 1: so just can let's get back to this. So you
Speaker 1: put your finger in the wash club sticking up your butt,
Speaker 1: and then you wash your face with that wash club. Yes,
Speaker 1: that is exactly right here you're cleaning it again, so yeah, no,
Speaker 1: But I mean I want my man to be able
Speaker 1: to put his face in my pussy where I put
Speaker 1: my that's right. One. I wanted to put his face
Speaker 1: in my ass too, Right Where did I put it
Speaker 1: on my face? I watched my face with my bare hand.
Speaker 1: Me too, though, But when I if I use it,
Speaker 1: if it's one rag, it's one ragot me too, you know.
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. I use all of that
Speaker 1: and I use them on my face. We're not very hygienic.
Speaker 1: Huh whatever. Okay, so I do use the loofer, right, However,
Speaker 1: we're not wrap the loofer around it scratches because you
Speaker 1: can't put a loof up your But now you tell me, Okay,
Speaker 1: I was doing the minute. I said, this is a
Speaker 1: little intense, but I mean I felt like it was
Speaker 1: quickly right, right, So technically I don't use the same
Speaker 1: wash cloth because I don't use a loop on my
Speaker 1: I to think about it, I did not just as
Speaker 1: a comedian, right, and you always do these posts female
Speaker 1: comedians are funny. How hard is it for you when
Speaker 1: you're dating a guy? You're around men all the time,
Speaker 1: you know, plastic cup boys and all that that naive
Speaker 1: man stain and the heart everybody isn't intimidating to date
Speaker 1: you knowing that you're always around men. M hm, yes,
Speaker 1: because I mean I travel a lot and then, um,
Speaker 1: the people that I'm around sometimes intimidate the person from
Speaker 1: you know, like I have a partner that I'm always
Speaker 1: like with and they'd be like, you knows going on
Speaker 1: with you and your partner whatever? I black, it's my
Speaker 1: partner whatever. So it is sometimes, So how do you
Speaker 1: handle it? Just suck everybody, keep everybody happy. Everybody said
Speaker 1: some ship my DM was like ridiculous, No, it was
Speaker 1: in a bad way. Somebody it demmed me after the
Speaker 1: last lip service and was like, quote unquote, bitch stopped playing.
Speaker 1: You know you want this dick. I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't even know you. I see you on lip service.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I didn't even check you.
Speaker 1: Let me see a DM lip service. Lip service be having.
Speaker 1: I'm sure we all can attest to this, that lip
Speaker 1: service be having our d ms looking real crazy, you know.
Speaker 1: And I can always tell who has a little dick
Speaker 1: in the kinds because when we talk about that, like,
Speaker 1: guys be so mad when you'd be like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, a little dick, and then guys
Speaker 1: be like see y'all hose that's exactly because they'd be
Speaker 1: so big. And He's like, every time somebody leave a
Speaker 1: comment like that, I'm even when you talk about height,
Speaker 1: like conversations about how I've seen comments, like you could
Speaker 1: tell it because you're telling you like, that's right. If
Speaker 1: you got a big dick, you like, that's right, don't
Speaker 1: a little dick. But I'm good on the road. I am.
Speaker 1: I don't. I am, And them are like, oh big brothers.
Speaker 1: Like so when I'm on the road is literally all business.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, Okay, after the show, I go back
Speaker 1: to my room. I don't um. Sometimes we do after
Speaker 1: parties and stuff, but I'll be up under them like
Speaker 1: like Mitch More, I'm like, I don't know, you know,
Speaker 1: so I just kind of stay close to them. And
Speaker 1: then what's the groupy situation like for you? For me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because to you, I'll have groupies, thank you very much.
Speaker 1: He wasn't a groupie. He was a weird though. That
Speaker 1: was like he just came home. Yeah, that's what it
Speaker 1: sounded like, like not really groupies. No, you never had
Speaker 1: people like come up to you after the show like
Speaker 1: so yeah, first of all, I did one show one
Speaker 1: time and I was standing towards the end of the
Speaker 1: stage and the man ran up to the stage and
Speaker 1: he put his face right here. I was like, oh shit, wait, no,
Speaker 1: stop keep going wait this guy not the head but
Speaker 1: and he walked back over his wife and his wife
Speaker 1: was looking at me like wife. Yeah. I was like,
Speaker 1: that was weird ship that I was. Was he drunk?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was stuck they was what did
Speaker 1: his wife saying? She sent them? I just kept I
Speaker 1: kept you thought she was. But that's hite, the weird
Speaker 1: ship having on stage. But would you try to, like
Speaker 1: if it was a couple they wanted you to join?
Speaker 1: Um No. If a couple was like I want you
Speaker 1: to join, no, you hesitated too long. I would have
Speaker 1: to be the person like, hey, I want you to join.
Speaker 1: Maybe that I do that, but you could yeah, I'd
Speaker 1: be like no. I was in Mexico one time with
Speaker 1: a friend of mine. Come on you okay, friend with
Speaker 1: a friend and this were just sitting on the beach
Speaker 1: and this girl walked up and was like, oh, y'all
Speaker 1: look cute couple. And we looked at each other and
Speaker 1: she was like, y'all do threesomes? Oh, And I'm like right,
Speaker 1: it was so red them. I was like I made
Speaker 1: her face and she was like, oh my bad, and
Speaker 1: she like walked away. And then I turned and looked
Speaker 1: at him. He was looking like bit like he's like,
Speaker 1: do we It was so weird, Like I was like,
Speaker 1: it was just random alway, she was just was she okay?
Speaker 1: Like it was she you know, somebody know. It was
Speaker 1: just so caught off guard that I don't even think
Speaker 1: he was like hold up, where you going? I still
Speaker 1: would have been stuck like this bitch like she probably
Speaker 1: been up and down this beach all day and we
Speaker 1: don't even know her, Like I don't even know she
Speaker 1: put her finger in the washcloth. No, it was weird.
Speaker 1: It was weird. So you know, I would not swing
Speaker 1: with somebody. All right, Well it's a new year, right,
Speaker 1: so to start this year off, I want to see
Speaker 1: each Why are you looking at me? Like I thought
Speaker 1: it would be a nice time for us to apologize
Speaker 1: to a guy from the past who we did. You
Speaker 1: don't have to say his name, but talk about something
Speaker 1: that you did and why you want to apologize for it.
Speaker 1: You're just gonna throw this on me like this, and
Speaker 1: I'm start with you. Why you want to apologize to him?
Speaker 1: This is a meeting that we were wrong, Okay, it's
Speaker 1: accountability in the new year. But we're gonna admit we
Speaker 1: was wrong and ask for forgiveness. I don't have to
Speaker 1: say the name. Don't say the name, okay. So I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for using you for a place to live on
Speaker 1: some of my apartment was done, and then dumping you
Speaker 1: right before the holidays. You didn't deserve that. You didn't
Speaker 1: deserve that. You're a good person and I still got
Speaker 1: mad love for you. God bless your hope. Everything is okay,
Speaker 1: and I hope you found a nice girlfriend. O That
Speaker 1: sweet was acute at least? No, he was good looking,
Speaker 1: a very good and bad So why didn't you like him?
Speaker 1: I can't talk about it too much because we're gonna
Speaker 1: They already know who they are. I think you know
Speaker 1: who I'm talking about. G you know who I'm talking about,
Speaker 1: and you know it's somebody who I got mad love for.
Speaker 1: I know for a very long time. He and I
Speaker 1: have just had our ups and downs. We just don't
Speaker 1: match for a long term thing. We have good sexual
Speaker 1: chemistry and that's about it. Yeah, okay, so he gets
Speaker 1: it right. But that was nice of me. Okay, g
Speaker 1: who even apologize to I wonder about it. This is
Speaker 1: a recent abo, this is a fresh apology. I want
Speaker 1: to apologize to you, sir, for telling you that I
Speaker 1: no longer um want to be friends with benefits because
Speaker 1: I am in love and committed to my new relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that they hurt your feelings, but I hope
Speaker 1: you understand. And that was honest of you. Because He's like,
Speaker 1: what's up? You've been friending on me, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: listening here, bro, here's the real situation. Like I ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna play with you, like I ain't gonna string
Speaker 1: you along. I don't even want to give you the
Speaker 1: wrong impression. We might have had this back then, but
Speaker 1: my life has changed and this is the direction that
Speaker 1: I'm going in, and I hope you understand that. I
Speaker 1: wish you were. I'm proud of you. Know what the
Speaker 1: topic is. I'm just feeling. Okay, who do you want
Speaker 1: to apologize to? Um? So nice of all, I guess
Speaker 1: I apologize to my ex my last relationship. UM, we
Speaker 1: had a lot of good times, but we also had
Speaker 1: a lot of difficult times. And I think it is because, um,
Speaker 1: we were both growing and our relationship definitely showed us
Speaker 1: things that we needed to work on individually in order
Speaker 1: to be a better team. And you know, I just
Speaker 1: apologize if I ever hurt you in any way and
Speaker 1: made you feel bad. I definitely experienced a lot of
Speaker 1: personal growth and that's helped me become a better friend,
Speaker 1: a better daughter, a better you, like just everything, a
Speaker 1: better me. So, you know, just starting the year off
Speaker 1: apologizing and being accountable and you know, ability just WI
Speaker 1: should everybody love and happiness. Oh my god, I want
Speaker 1: to apologize for dropping the air conditioner on the hood
Speaker 1: of your brand new out of the second floor window.
Speaker 1: You could have killed someone. Sairly didn't break the movie, No,
Speaker 1: it crushed the hood of that bitch through the hood. Stop. Okay, honesty,
Speaker 1: what she was going to apologize for you on the window?
Speaker 1: That ter apology? She got a hundred other things she did.
Speaker 1: You did it on purpose? Yeah, she said from a
Speaker 1: second story window that was on the second floor. That
Speaker 1: was a hard phone. I was like, you don't want
Speaker 1: to help me? He was like, nah, say less. He
Speaker 1: was like pe crashed right on the car. He ran
Speaker 1: over to the windsow what it looked, looked up, looked
Speaker 1: at me, and I was likery, did you pay for it?
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding me crazy pology from state phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: my apology is there was a guy that I went
Speaker 1: out with a couple of times, and I just go
Speaker 1: to him and didn't even give an explanation. I think
Speaker 1: that was whack, Like, you know, I should have a
Speaker 1: long and this was a while ago, and he sent
Speaker 1: me a long email. Actually, when I worked at Serious,
Speaker 1: he worked right across the street from me, and so
Speaker 1: I would see him sometimes when I left the building,
Speaker 1: and I was always like I would always have to
Speaker 1: go outside and look around and make I could have
Speaker 1: just been like, you know, you're cooling everything, but I
Speaker 1: just like completely ignored. I'm an avoider, so I just
Speaker 1: ignored his ghosted his emails and text messages. He even
Speaker 1: sent me a message like what happened? I don't know
Speaker 1: what I did wrong? And he didn't really do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: I just didn't. You said what you do it all
Speaker 1: the time. Well, that's nice apologizing. Yeah, you know, And
Speaker 1: it was so long ago. I have no idea where
Speaker 1: he is and what he's doing. But I do feel
Speaker 1: like now that I look back at it, I could
Speaker 1: have just he was like, at least let me know,
Speaker 1: Like you think that's fair to let somebody know what
Speaker 1: they did wrong. Did you have like a like you
Speaker 1: do you have like a thing with him? No? We
Speaker 1: went out twice. That was I feel like, unless we
Speaker 1: are actually a thing, I don't owe you an explanation.
Speaker 1: Unless we really like our thing, I'll just be like
Speaker 1: I don't talk to you no more. Listen. And sometimes
Speaker 1: whatever it was that made you feel like it wasn't
Speaker 1: going to work out might have hurt his feeling. So
Speaker 1: you probably spirit him. Yeah. I tried to apologize you guys,
Speaker 1: just um, I try to make it good. I don't
Speaker 1: about you. But that is a good question because I
Speaker 1: feel like that happens often, like both men and women
Speaker 1: will get ghosted, right, So is that the appropriate thing
Speaker 1: to do to just say, hey, I'm not I'm cool
Speaker 1: off this? You know? Yeah? Because I actually feel bad
Speaker 1: because I made him take me to the super expensive
Speaker 1: restaurant because this is I really when I was as serious,
Speaker 1: I was broke his back. But I was like, he
Speaker 1: was like, where do you want to go eat? And
Speaker 1: I was like, ship, it's a place that you know,
Speaker 1: you only go when someone takes you there. So I
Speaker 1: made him take me to this super expensive steakhouse. It's
Speaker 1: not even there anymore. And um, then he made us
Speaker 1: go do karaoke. And I think this is what bothered me,
Speaker 1: and y'all might think this is weird. You know how,
Speaker 1: sometimes something weird and small can bother you. So I
Speaker 1: was ready to go home. He wanted to go like
Speaker 1: do karaoke and extend the night, and I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, I was being a trooper. So I went
Speaker 1: and he worked in like finance, but he never told
Speaker 1: me that he used to be in like a band
Speaker 1: or something. And I hate when people who can sing
Speaker 1: when to do karaoke, Like this isn't fair. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that's I would have to. I didn't even know you.
Speaker 1: It was only like two dates ever, so we didn't
Speaker 1: even know each other well enough for me to like
Speaker 1: look stupid in front of you like that, and I
Speaker 1: would have did it, except he got up there and
Speaker 1: he let me pick his song, so I picked Thong
Speaker 1: song because he thought that would be funny for him.
Speaker 1: He was like, we were yeah, we were in Korean
Speaker 1: town like exactly background and other people that were there
Speaker 1: like doing karaokee, but like, oh wow, and I'm not
Speaker 1: getting what I'm saying. Impressed and this is why I
Speaker 1: would I aloud thought that I was gonna go and
Speaker 1: have fun and kill something beyond and I wanted to
Speaker 1: as bad as I sing right right nothing that's fun,
Speaker 1: paradizing and ship. He was probably trying to impress. He
Speaker 1: was probably trying to impress you to let you know
Speaker 1: that he can see suit backfired and that's crazy. I
Speaker 1: would have been so annoying. He s I'm like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I gotta work in the morning. And they were like
Speaker 1: tourists coming up and like oh my god. Like I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, taking picture. They thought they were taking
Speaker 1: a picture. So see, that's that's tough though, because he probably,
Speaker 1: like g G said, intentionally tried to like her finance
Speaker 1: nerdy and that's probably what was tripping him out more.
Speaker 1: After he goes to him and it's like wait, I
Speaker 1: thought I put my best suit on, show him skin.
Speaker 1: He was swiveling and everything. It was like he was
Speaker 1: the one a lot now. But anyway, I'm sorry, she's
Speaker 1: know she's not work. Go No, we're not we're not ghosting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just oh no, you're so ride or die. That's why
Speaker 1: I'm surprised. I'm ride a dog. I can't goost the
Speaker 1: rider dig but right, okay, because I feel like if
Speaker 1: unless we actually have some sort of a thing, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't know where I live, You
Speaker 1: don't know I'm breaking up with my family, gunbirds, you
Speaker 1: don't know anything, right, So I don't feel like I
Speaker 1: owe you an explanation. Just after three Texas, I don't respond.
Speaker 1: Stop calling, and we call oh hit me like, so
Speaker 1: what's going on? Good morning, princess and grand like my god, yep,
Speaker 1: right in the crotch. Okay. Anyway, I don't know what
Speaker 1: about saying all right, so, is there ever a time
Speaker 1: that it is so you're saying it is appropriate to
Speaker 1: ghosts at certain times? Do you guys agree with that?
Speaker 1: Even you look like you don't belie that. Um, I
Speaker 1: feel like I've definitely ghosted. So I can't be hypocritical. Um,
Speaker 1: but growth, Yeah, I don't know. I think like it
Speaker 1: depends on how how often we've spoken, Like you said,
Speaker 1: you know, if it was just like one text or whatever,
Speaker 1: two or three texts, like you don't really know me
Speaker 1: that well. But I think for me, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: move more intentionally, especially with dating, Like I'm single right now,
Speaker 1: like I've been for a while. Um, and I think
Speaker 1: just focusing on myself and intentionally trying to find somebody that,
Speaker 1: like I can really connect and build something with. So
Speaker 1: I just want to be accountable and I also want
Speaker 1: to just be responsible. You know, anybody did that to you? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's happened. It's happened to me, and it's
Speaker 1: definitely not a good feeling because sometimes you're like, what
Speaker 1: what the fun did I do? Like, what really did happen?
Speaker 1: Like an explanation in your mind is like could have
Speaker 1: been this, that, this that you know, but do we
Speaker 1: really want an explanation? No? No, But yeah, case by case,
Speaker 1: if you like somebody and you're really curious as to
Speaker 1: what happened because I was really fucking with you, and
Speaker 1: then maybe they could just be like, look, this is
Speaker 1: not working for me or have a situation. I respect that,
Speaker 1: you know, but it depends on the situation because levels
Speaker 1: to ghosting like where Angela did, going out and having
Speaker 1: dates and then not hearing from someone that's you know,
Speaker 1: that's a tricky. Yeah. But when if you meet somebody
Speaker 1: and you give them your number and then you don't
Speaker 1: really respond to them, because that turn off if you
Speaker 1: just go on to like a first date with somebody,
Speaker 1: what are some things that would turn you off immediately? Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know about first date, but before we get
Speaker 1: to the and this has actually happened to me, I
Speaker 1: was immediately turned off because now you know, like in
Speaker 1: this new era of social media, guys will ask for
Speaker 1: your Instagram instead of your phone number. So this guy,
Speaker 1: I asked for my Instagram and he followed me, and
Speaker 1: I clicked on his page and it was like a
Speaker 1: meme page. There was like one picture of him. It
Speaker 1: was like all straight means and I'm like, are you
Speaker 1: a catfish? Are you? Like? But who is me? He
Speaker 1: was just posting other people just random random just a
Speaker 1: boy and like a boy. Yeah, like just like random
Speaker 1: pictures of like celebrities and stuff, just like yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a little This tells me nothing about like social media
Speaker 1: is supposed to be a representation of who you are,
Speaker 1: what you're into. And yeah, probably like two or three thousand,
Speaker 1: but he was following like more people than he was
Speaker 1: probably following like seven to eight thousand, and I just
Speaker 1: glanced at his page and I blocked them with media, like, bro,
Speaker 1: are you're a fake page? Right? Literally? Are you? And
Speaker 1: like what if you see him leaving comments on celebrities
Speaker 1: pages that don't know him, like gone or someone that
Speaker 1: takes someone that takes picks where everybody they meet but
Speaker 1: doesn't know them, like to take a picture with every
Speaker 1: celebrity word you don't know big brog bro. We like,
Speaker 1: for me, it's bragging. I don't like men that bragg
Speaker 1: name drop. If your name dropping bragging that's to me
Speaker 1: is like like I hear you, but I don't hear you.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that. That's a turn off
Speaker 1: for me. And before we continue, I do want to
Speaker 1: congratulate you Avian. I know you've been you moved to
Speaker 1: l A now she's tending to the little girl moved
Speaker 1: to l A and you've been making some big moves.
Speaker 1: So I just want to shut you out. Actually was
Speaker 1: working here in engine room, and then she started producing,
Speaker 1: and then you ended up talking about what you started doing.
Speaker 1: So I, you know, I was assistant studio manager here
Speaker 1: for like five years, and I was you know, producing
Speaker 1: for a long time even before that. I even knew
Speaker 1: Angela before when she was working here, when I was, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm managing a boutique. Um. But then you know, I
Speaker 1: got a placement with Vory on his last album, the
Speaker 1: songs called York Way, and then I was doing sound
Speaker 1: design for DJ Khaled's podcast on Amazon Radio, Amazon Music. UM,
Speaker 1: I did a campaign with Timberland, like you know, the
Speaker 1: producer and Ye for Native Instruments and Beat Club, and
Speaker 1: then I recently did a campaign with Boccardi and boy
Speaker 1: Wanda highlighting female producers. So I released a single as
Speaker 1: an n f T feature in Nickamore and then we
Speaker 1: put it on DSPs. So it's it's been a journey
Speaker 1: than for a little while, and I just want to
Speaker 1: make sure that we acknowledge things that you've It's been
Speaker 1: a journey and I'm grateful, you know, even just being
Speaker 1: in this space learning from you guys. You guys have
Speaker 1: always embraced me just even helping you guys behind the
Speaker 1: scenes and you know, co hosting. Like I've just learned
Speaker 1: a lot and really just took a lot of gaming,
Speaker 1: and you know, I just I just want to work.
Speaker 1: I just want to like not your creativity, your other
Speaker 1: creative side of the selling hustle and to hobby into
Speaker 1: a hustle, right, yeah, just designing my own clothes too.
Speaker 1: I made these pants, you know, just really trying to
Speaker 1: just trying to be creative and just doing what I
Speaker 1: love and taking it to the next level. Yeah. Just
Speaker 1: I'm just glad that I can create whenever I want,
Speaker 1: you know, and and as much as I want, and
Speaker 1: right exactly because it's it's not easy to do that,
Speaker 1: you know. But I've definitely, you know, been blessed and
Speaker 1: grateful to have good people around me. And they guys
Speaker 1: that I used to talk to try to like hey,
Speaker 1: big head, but I'm off that I don't I don't
Speaker 1: go backwards and like once I'm I'm like turned off
Speaker 1: for not interested. I'm turned off and not interested, you know.
Speaker 1: I'm I have a different mindset, I have a different
Speaker 1: hustle now, I have different like a different vision. So
Speaker 1: I'm looking for somebody that can match that, you know,
Speaker 1: And I'm not in a rush either because I'm still
Speaker 1: focused on myself, but it's everything before that getting He's
Speaker 1: a young and too, so it's good to see you
Speaker 1: making all those moves. I think where you are ten
Speaker 1: years yeah, I know, I'm excited. Thank you, and just PM,
Speaker 1: let's talk about you congrats because I've been watching your
Speaker 1: come up to thank you a Jersey girl. Yes, so
Speaker 1: let's talk about what you have going on now too,
Speaker 1: because we want to make sure we give you your
Speaker 1: props as well. I have been torn with the Plastic
Speaker 1: cup boys for about five years now. Who you think
Speaker 1: is the most irritable one on there? Like that? So
Speaker 1: if you have to say which one of the Plastic
Speaker 1: cup boys is always irritated, always irritated you. But I
Speaker 1: just had to put that out there, yes now even then. Actually,
Speaker 1: he actually did Our Lives show in l A. If
Speaker 1: you guys remember, he was talking about his bad acne
Speaker 1: from when he was younger. So if I had the pick,
Speaker 1: she said, pick, he was really going hard for you
Speaker 1: to be all lip service too. Damn you don't want
Speaker 1: to change you love. You know he's gonna hear this
Speaker 1: he knows you already knows the answer. All right, which
Speaker 1: man has the biggest ego? They're gonna love this Chester
Speaker 1: the comedian, biggest ego, who had who was the most sensitive? Sensitive? Damn?
Speaker 1: Just say down now, even though he's not a plastic
Speaker 1: to my money. I want my money back money he's
Speaker 1: playing cards one Well, he didn't take your money, then
Speaker 1: he won your money. He took my money. Do you
Speaker 1: think you shouldn't have taken it? Like you shouldn't have
Speaker 1: taken that is kind of I just got millions question too.
Speaker 1: Down up be spending money like you ain't nothing. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you ever been out with down now listen,
Speaker 1: he spends money like it ain't ship took my couple
Speaker 1: of dollars. I was trying. I was trying to play
Speaker 1: for a dollar hand. He fought hours the hand. I
Speaker 1: was like ship man. And you know what's so funny.
Speaker 1: He had a little Christmas dinner. He was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we all go out to dinner, right, We went to
Speaker 1: Brooklyn chap House. You know I love Brooklyn chap House.
Speaker 1: Shout out to them. And he went and he paid
Speaker 1: for everything for everybody. I was ordering mad drinks because
Speaker 1: I knew he was paying. I was little crazy. We
Speaker 1: was doing shots, like another round of nineteen forty two.
Speaker 1: You know how you do that with someone else's doubles.
Speaker 1: That bill came and you know whatever, so done how
Speaker 1: he acts like it's nothing. And then I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, showing all the food on the table to
Speaker 1: drinks and then I put it in our look at dot. Now,
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I spend all the millions he
Speaker 1: just got already and he was like over the post.
Speaker 1: But now I love done that. We're gonna get him
Speaker 1: to come up here again. Yeah, because he's got his
Speaker 1: Netflix special coming out. We should have The last time
Speaker 1: we had him, we were remote, right, Oh yeah, he
Speaker 1: did do every month when I had to leave you
Speaker 1: up because you know he don't stop. Yes, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: yes exactly. You did have some Yeah, y'all stayed on
Speaker 1: for like two more years on the zoom ones for sure.
Speaker 1: Now just saying you like I was saying you always do.
Speaker 1: The female comedians are funny, So talk to me about, like,
Speaker 1: what are some of the biggest obstacles you have as
Speaker 1: a female comedian. Um, A lot of the shows that
Speaker 1: outside of you know applies to cut boys, because um,
Speaker 1: I'm only with them when they're you know, when they're
Speaker 1: on tour. There. Sometimes I can't make certain tour dates.
Speaker 1: And you know, because I work a regular job too.
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm an operations manager at a flooring company. Okay,
Speaker 1: I needs. I'm about to quit, you you know, and
Speaker 1: you're like, wait before, you just don't allow me the
Speaker 1: time that I need. You need to show ladies and
Speaker 1: stuff like that. So um, it's just like when I
Speaker 1: do local shows, you know, it's like ten men, one female,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like so many guys,
Speaker 1: and then they might throw a female on just to
Speaker 1: be like, yo, we gotta put a female on the flyer,
Speaker 1: we gotta put a female on the line up or whatever. Um.
Speaker 1: And it's been shows where they put me on the
Speaker 1: line up with all men, and when I went up
Speaker 1: after me, the men was like, bitch, like we can't
Speaker 1: follow that. You know what I'm saying, because now I
Speaker 1: feel like I gotta go ten times hard. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: get off stage, I'm like dripping sweat, and they're looking like, damn,
Speaker 1: why you have to go so hard? I'm like, cause
Speaker 1: I have to, you know, Like I just have to
Speaker 1: because it's always, you know, it's gonna always be that
Speaker 1: ten men, one female, ten men, one female. So I
Speaker 1: just feel like, as a female comedian, there's not a
Speaker 1: big enough platform for funny females, funny black females. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know, I go to comedy shows all the time,
Speaker 1: and a lot of times there's no women right on
Speaker 1: their If you see a woman is not normally a
Speaker 1: black woman either, right, So, and then sometimes when I
Speaker 1: do see black females, you know, sometimes it's like the
Speaker 1: stereotypical content. You'd like, damn, like you know, use you know,
Speaker 1: use your platform, show them something different. And that's what
Speaker 1: I try to do in my comedy. In my sets,
Speaker 1: I try to show them something different that they're not
Speaker 1: gonna expect. Like I'm a I'm actually a certified Zooma instructor.
Speaker 1: I'm just see right. But when I when I say
Speaker 1: that on stage, they'd be like, which where, like know
Speaker 1: for real? I really do? You know? So it's things
Speaker 1: that I talk about in my life that they would
Speaker 1: never expect, especially like as like a plus size woman.
Speaker 1: So I give them something that's not the normal. H
Speaker 1: walked up the steps and I can't breathe No, you're
Speaker 1: not gonna talking about eating how you eat? Asked how
Speaker 1: that was just last episode? Right? Last episode you ever
Speaker 1: discussed that? I probably haven't. That could be funny. But
Speaker 1: ain't nobody having to drink after you or sharing a blunt?
Speaker 1: That's all right? How is it like having sex conversations
Speaker 1: around a lot of men, like in the male dominated space?
Speaker 1: It's not weird because I think sometimes I have the
Speaker 1: mindset of a male, like I don't think I think
Speaker 1: like a typical female. So when they'd be having conversations
Speaker 1: about like stuff like that, I'll be with you, damn right,
Speaker 1: maybe looking like damn like Pam is with us, you know.
Speaker 1: So if they're right, they right. If they're wrong, they're wrong.
Speaker 1: But some situations from a female perspective, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: this bitch is tripping, you know, And I tell them that.
Speaker 1: So I don't ever feel weird? Can you keep it? Really? Like?
Speaker 1: Let's say your friends are the guy and he's cheating
Speaker 1: on his girl and you know her. Would you be
Speaker 1: like you gotta chill? Yeah, am I trying to suck him?
Speaker 1: But your friends with his girlfriends with his girlfriend and
Speaker 1: you know that he's going to out of cheating, So
Speaker 1: are you gonna tell him? But am I still trying
Speaker 1: to suck him to where my more friends with? You
Speaker 1: know her through him, but me and him, gang, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't say nothing to him. Me and him, I'm loyal
Speaker 1: before anything, not that you're not loyal, but as part
Speaker 1: of loyalty, you wouldn't tell him like, like, you got
Speaker 1: a good women. You know she is if she's doing
Speaker 1: everything she's supposed to do as a female. But I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, like if they fucking sucking, licking,
Speaker 1: tricking whatever it is they want to do, and I
Speaker 1: feel like it's a great fit, and I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: you're bugging like that she she a good one. But
Speaker 1: if I feel like she's not, then I'm gonna be like,
Speaker 1: she's not the one for you, right, you know? So
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't like that, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Because when I'm into somebody and I'm
Speaker 1: like committed to somebody, I'm like all in, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I try not to leave room for
Speaker 1: other females to get in, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I don't just try to hit them sexually or mentally,
Speaker 1: I'm like sexually, mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, like I try
Speaker 1: to hit them through all angles because if I don't,
Speaker 1: if I leave one one, you ain't gonna say that's
Speaker 1: the truth. You don't think men sometimes it's cheat Like
Speaker 1: even if they can't get everything, they're going to cheat regardless,
Speaker 1: because I have come to that conclusion that they are
Speaker 1: going to cheat regardless, and I hate that I've come
Speaker 1: to that conclusion. But if you can mentally understand the
Speaker 1: I guess the mindset of a man and how he thinks,
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, damn, Like, it doesn't matter what
Speaker 1: I do, you know, it's always gonna be something prettier,
Speaker 1: something ask that's fatter or this is and it's like
Speaker 1: their visual you know what I'm saying. So they're always
Speaker 1: gonna find some shit attractive. But I'm a firm believer
Speaker 1: in I just suck this bitch, that's it. I believe
Speaker 1: that that's the thing that you can really fuck this
Speaker 1: bitch walk away and be like I don't even remember
Speaker 1: her name, you know what I'm saying. So it's again,
Speaker 1: it's a loyalty thing before anything. Now, if your wife
Speaker 1: in this bitch, it's different. You know what, I'm saying
Speaker 1: that you'll be okay with a guy being with you
Speaker 1: and just sucking somebody. I'm not saying I'll be okay
Speaker 1: with it, but I have one choice, lean with it
Speaker 1: or rock with it. So if I lean with it,
Speaker 1: I got more leeway because now I could be like,
Speaker 1: instead of you lying and manipulating to try to sneak
Speaker 1: out with this bitch, what if I want to go
Speaker 1: out to dinner on Tuesday, but you have set this
Speaker 1: whole little lie up for you enthusie to go out
Speaker 1: on Tuesday, right, But now I'm like, but damn, baby,
Speaker 1: I wanted to go out to dinner with you tonight.
Speaker 1: He could be like, all right, I'm gonna tell this
Speaker 1: bitch tomorrow because now I know and I kind of
Speaker 1: have to understand the verses. If he lying about it,
Speaker 1: he don't give a fuck. He's leaving to go see
Speaker 1: you too, Susie, because he had the lie, cheat and
Speaker 1: still just to get a date with her. So I
Speaker 1: feel like it puts you at an advantage a little
Speaker 1: bit because you have more say so in what he does.
Speaker 1: But I feel like they're going to do it anyway
Speaker 1: if that's your man though, like your boyfriend, like it's
Speaker 1: the worst. How often would you tolerate that? Right? Because
Speaker 1: I feel like if you give a man a pass,
Speaker 1: you're gonna always have to give him a pass. I
Speaker 1: don't give a pass. I ain't because then basically another
Speaker 1: girl because it's over because I'm gonna get old to you.
Speaker 1: I I don't find at yeah, and then it never happened,
Speaker 1: and then it never happened. So like I said, you
Speaker 1: lean with the rocket, I could be like, yo, out
Speaker 1: of sight, out of mind, I don't ever want to
Speaker 1: see it. Or I could tell him like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want you cheating if you sloppy and I
Speaker 1: feel like you're cheating on but that's when they're sloppy.
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes guys have to be like, first
Speaker 1: of all, they have to get gone through what they
Speaker 1: went through. But I think sometimes fair will make a
Speaker 1: guy not cheat, like if he fears that like you'll
Speaker 1: leave him if you find out, or it depends on
Speaker 1: the guy. I feel like there definitely are men out
Speaker 1: there who don't cheat, and but they're definitely men out
Speaker 1: there who haven't experienced that growth and get tempted too
Speaker 1: much and just always need to be out there. I
Speaker 1: feel like that if you find if you catch your
Speaker 1: man with a girl and you laugh him slide, he's
Speaker 1: gonna keep it right election, Maybe I think every relationship
Speaker 1: no bullshit that I think I've been in, every single
Speaker 1: person has done some bullshit. I can't think of one
Speaker 1: relationship where the person did not cheat. I got cheated
Speaker 1: on so bad that I thought I was about to
Speaker 1: get married. Literally I don't know size my finger, and
Speaker 1: all this ship he was with the church. I was
Speaker 1: about to be the mother. I'm about to do gospel
Speaker 1: like he gholstedt me. This is why everybody was everybody's
Speaker 1: sucking getting ghost kid because rightbody? So I mean I
Speaker 1: was like I was involved with his kids. I was
Speaker 1: like taking his kids in school, like we was a thing, right.
Speaker 1: And then we were supposed like go on a trip.
Speaker 1: And I was like, yo, I'm gonna call you when
Speaker 1: I get to work to find out which train you
Speaker 1: want to catch. He was like, okay, call them, no answer?
Speaker 1: What text them? No answer? Called him the next day,
Speaker 1: no answer, And I'm like this nigga died. What the fun?
Speaker 1: You don't want to send those messages like yo, fuck confused?
Speaker 1: So I ended up, like calling him from my job.
Speaker 1: He picked up, so he picked up and I know
Speaker 1: he's a game he so of course I'm like hello,
Speaker 1: and he was like what's up literate? So now I'm
Speaker 1: on the other phone the end of the phone like
Speaker 1: and I was like you telling me what what you me?
Speaker 1: What's up? This nigga said, Yo, I decided to be
Speaker 1: with Cashanna and that's just where I'm met with. Definitely
Speaker 1: there I was plutching pearls. I didn't even have by
Speaker 1: the ball. Did you know moment No, he said with
Speaker 1: I have no idea that I wouldn't said that. Probably
Speaker 1: was like on a Thursday. I went back to church
Speaker 1: on Sunday. Here he was next to Coshana front row.
Speaker 1: Did he see you saw me? Now, I gotta be
Speaker 1: in church with the church finger trying to play it
Speaker 1: off like front of me. I want you can't fight
Speaker 1: in church? Yeah you need what is him? Is him
Speaker 1: Disha Dickshina know who you were, but it's him going
Speaker 1: to church and having you in case why he was
Speaker 1: like the whole son of the pastor. And I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: this story gets worse and that's like my kids, my
Speaker 1: kids father of a b but my kids. Father. I
Speaker 1: remember him telling me I'm going to Atlanta for the weekend.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm cleaning up the table. Like
Speaker 1: a week after. I see his birth certificate on the
Speaker 1: table and that ship had a stamp on it. That's
Speaker 1: a Dominican Republican import, Dominican Republic export. I was like,
Speaker 1: birth certific remember back in the day. So I went
Speaker 1: up to him, like you want to y'all? He said, ayo,
Speaker 1: the airport made a mistake. I said, you know, if
Speaker 1: somebody really don't give anything, this crazy, this is why
Speaker 1: I will be casper at this moment, he said. Abody said,
Speaker 1: you ever heard of the city of in the York
Speaker 1: called Atlantica? Like Atlantic, not Atlanta? This is why? Why
Speaker 1: have you cheated? No, I'm not cheating. So you've never cheated.
Speaker 1: I only cheated when I knew. Yes you have though
Speaker 1: not you know because you say this all the time
Speaker 1: that you know when it's over, you already made happy,
Speaker 1: relationship is already over. So she was just like me,
Speaker 1: I'm like, either all the way in or all the
Speaker 1: way out. I don't have a middle right, So it's
Speaker 1: like I'm patient, I'm in, I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm
Speaker 1: trying because I know when I let go, I'm all
Speaker 1: the way letting go. Are you bendictive? Like if you
Speaker 1: move on? Do you want them to see the ship?
Speaker 1: I don't block them on social media. I'm gonna see
Speaker 1: this good ship. I'm block you, and then you're gonna
Speaker 1: have to look for me somewhere else. And he actually
Speaker 1: came to a show. He came to a show at
Speaker 1: um Stress Factor in New Brunswick, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: this nigg is super supportive the show. He's trying to
Speaker 1: hold my pocketbook and ship. I was like, okay, now,
Speaker 1: did you know he was there before you went on stage?
Speaker 1: Could you think that would have thrown you up a little?
Speaker 1: I saw him when I got on the ledge. He
Speaker 1: was at the front, he was back and I saw
Speaker 1: him and I made a joke and I made a
Speaker 1: joke about him. Yeah, he probably loved it. I didn't
Speaker 1: told you why he went to the show, No he didn't.
Speaker 1: Did he hold your purse? He would? And it was
Speaker 1: like a bunch of men trying to take pictures with me,
Speaker 1: and they was, oh, girl, you know you were so beautiful,
Speaker 1: And I was like, grossies like I just didn't give
Speaker 1: him the time of day. And it's a lot of
Speaker 1: people like you are asking from my past that all
Speaker 1: of a sudden are now, oh you're super supportive or
Speaker 1: now you're so interested in me and what I'm doing,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, ah, you really not. You know, you're
Speaker 1: just interested now because you see what I'm doing, you
Speaker 1: see you know my growth, and you see how I'm moving,
Speaker 1: But you're not really you know. That's why the biggest
Speaker 1: turn off of me is when I meet a guy
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden he'd be like, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: girl always wanted to be a comedian. I'd be like
Speaker 1: every time, like so now it's like they're trying to
Speaker 1: out funny me, but I don't really be trying to
Speaker 1: be funny. I just do you have to have like
Speaker 1: joke ideas during sex where something's happening and it'd be funny.
Speaker 1: I've had I've had to go to the bathroom what
Speaker 1: just the stace because something happened it was so funny, Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, trying to think because that's the worst
Speaker 1: time to laugh. If you have a funny thought when
Speaker 1: you're having sex and some ship funny happens and you
Speaker 1: want to laugh. It's always when a funny thought comes
Speaker 1: to me during sex, I'm like, we really me at
Speaker 1: him one of my friends, but me and him are
Speaker 1: like the same level of goofy. So if like something
Speaker 1: can happen like right at the end and were just
Speaker 1: sitting there dying laughing, and it happens all the time.
Speaker 1: So it's like I can't even pinpoint one thing that
Speaker 1: could be the stupidest thing, but we both find it hilarious.
Speaker 1: And I don't that still though, when you could laugh together, yea,
Speaker 1: we begin rolling like times I don't win in there
Speaker 1: after sex, like bringing in right. Have you guys ever
Speaker 1: been like in a situation where you're having sex and
Speaker 1: something happens and you're like, oh, this is gonna be
Speaker 1: a good lip service topic we got talking about, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's good. That's I mean, And that's what
Speaker 1: it is. I think you gotta be able to laugh
Speaker 1: at yourself, you know, and laughing situations and think how
Speaker 1: you could use that for something in life. Use your
Speaker 1: own experiences, because it is like therapy, A lot of experiences.
Speaker 1: I was in therapy Manafact got so much ship Girl
Speaker 1: Come By did it hell. My therapist was like, I
Speaker 1: cancel my benefits. My therapist gave me a personal number,
Speaker 1: like if you ever in the area. She was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to a show. She was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I can't believe all this ship could happen on one person.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, that's why i need to be on stage,
Speaker 1: and that's why I'm on stage as much as I can.
Speaker 1: Like I literally was on stage. I was on a
Speaker 1: zoom call, remember like when COVID like had just hit
Speaker 1: last year, and I'm on a zoom call with the
Speaker 1: hospital with my mom right and I'm literally zooming with
Speaker 1: my mother, who is like They're like, yo, this might
Speaker 1: be the last call or whatever. I'm on my way
Speaker 1: to a show. At the fact, I was with Naim
Speaker 1: and them, Um we were somewhere and literally was like
Speaker 1: a hung up with my mother. As soon as I
Speaker 1: hung up, they were like coming to the stage, just
Speaker 1: pay them. And I had to be out there life, hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, like just mad energy and ship like that.
Speaker 1: But inside I was up here like my mom is
Speaker 1: about to die, Like, but I couldn't let anybody on
Speaker 1: stage and know that. So when they found out, they
Speaker 1: was like, Pam, you know, we had no idea what
Speaker 1: you were going through, what you were dealing with. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, because my job is for you not to know,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, if you came to
Speaker 1: see comedy and you came to laugh, my job is
Speaker 1: to make you laugh, you know, not to be caught
Speaker 1: up there in my personal ship. Because if that's the case,
Speaker 1: I'll be here right now. I feel like in some
Speaker 1: ways comedy has evolved, um beyond just being funny though,
Speaker 1: because it is a lot of commentaries, like a lot
Speaker 1: of social commentary, a lot of personal stories, and everything
Speaker 1: doesn't have to always be only funny. What do you
Speaker 1: think about that? It's true? You know they say some
Speaker 1: of the best comedians are the best storytellers because you know,
Speaker 1: anybody could write a joke, but it could be a
Speaker 1: universal joke, like we all talked about niggas with small dicks,
Speaker 1: could be the same for all of us, and for
Speaker 1: some people that's not funny. And I can tell you
Speaker 1: who those people are. Everybody. If you see somebody leaving
Speaker 1: a comment on lip services page is mad about the
Speaker 1: small dicks shrimp under their sp It's just like I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's just like I don't even remember the
Speaker 1: question I was. I was saying, how sometimes you're saying storytellers, right, So,
Speaker 1: like I said, anybody could write a joke, you know.
Speaker 1: But like I said, if me and us female comedians
Speaker 1: both went up there and we both started talking about
Speaker 1: sex or like I said, dudes with small dicks, Like
Speaker 1: I said, we've fall into the stereotype. And they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we heard this. Every time a female up people, she's
Speaker 1: talking about the same stuff. But if I tell a
Speaker 1: story that's specific to we can't nobody repeat that church.
Speaker 1: If I want to put that Coshana ship into a joke,
Speaker 1: can't nobody else put that same thing into a joke,
Speaker 1: such a specific name that might have been. So it's
Speaker 1: like I think by doing that, it makes you unique
Speaker 1: as a comedian. It makes you stand out, you know,
Speaker 1: it makes your content not the same, you know, and
Speaker 1: it makes people want to see Like I want to
Speaker 1: see her show, Like I want to come out to
Speaker 1: you know, Kansas City this weekend and watch the Plastic
Speaker 1: Cup Boys at the Kansas City Improv because I want
Speaker 1: to see her jokes. Not saying it makes them want
Speaker 1: to see it. So I feel like I'm working in entertainment.
Speaker 1: A lot of people, with our emotional things and our
Speaker 1: personal problems, we always have to put it in the background.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people don't realize that. There's been
Speaker 1: so many times that I've been through nasty breakups and
Speaker 1: I have to come and record the show and so
Speaker 1: about relationships. How many times I'll be in the back
Speaker 1: stressed out and come on like I'm span You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's it's like, kudos to you for
Speaker 1: doing that in such a hard situation. And Jessica, and
Speaker 1: you know, I always say this, and I tell you this,
Speaker 1: I think you're amazing. And we are going to have
Speaker 1: you on as a you know, fill in the host
Speaker 1: as regularly as we possibly can. So we appreciate you
Speaker 1: for that. And do you want to make a resolution
Speaker 1: for lip service moving forward? In two? We are not
Speaker 1: going to talk about guys and small dicks anymore. They
Speaker 1: get so mad and we have to stop doing that.
Speaker 1: We want to be more inclusive. I thinks are made
Speaker 1: to be broken anyway. But if you want to be inclusive,
Speaker 1: you got to talk about the little dick. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't joke about big dicks, because that's
Speaker 1: nothing a joke about. You don't with with exactly, and
Speaker 1: because big that that's all they had to be as big, right,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, maybe forget that resolution, kiddy. It's too
Speaker 1: many of them out there. Like them a little more love, yes,
Speaker 1: not criticism. They do, and they they're good for say things. Look,
Speaker 1: they know I have some friends who definitely had sex
Speaker 1: with men with and they said that they were pleased.
Speaker 1: They're easier to suck. It's know, some women prefers smaller penises.
Speaker 1: We are not good. Don't right here like little? She said,
Speaker 1: She like like when the balls is bigger than the dick,
Speaker 1: there's always gonna be there's always gonna be somebody for somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's always gonna be a person for everybody. So if
Speaker 1: you got a little dick, there's somebody out there for you.
Speaker 1: Like we haven't seen the many Corner Children's commercial. Definite
Speaker 1: small penis will fly. I'm definitely seeing the lip service comments.
Speaker 1: And they'd be bothered, so you know you could tell
Speaker 1: they'd be so alright, well, anyway, that's lip service before
Speaker 1: we get in trouble. Yeah, exactly. The heart at tech alright,
Speaker 1: Jess Camp again, thank you so much. Kansas City, Yes,
Speaker 1: Kansas City. This weekend Kansas City improv with plastic cup Boys.
Speaker 1: Come check us out if you're in the area. Alrighty
Speaker 1: shout out to that bank. I love y'all right service, Danielle.
Speaker 1: I want my money, but