WEBVTT - Episode 337: Fever D*ck (Feat. Just Pam) 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:06.000 What's epics left Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm g MacGuire, 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:10.959 I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Aden Comedian, just pain, just Pam. 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:13.240 Last time was a guest host that she was, but 0:00:13.360 --> 0:00:18.880 today you aren't the guest. We loved your honesty last 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:23.320 time too great. I'm so glad I'm here for this 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:27.040 round because I totally missed you last Oh that's yeah. 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.600 I probably had to work or fight or something. I 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.680 don't know, but yeah, I think you were sick, and 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:34.600 I think you got sick that week. I think that 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.600 was the reason they called me, because you yeah, you 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:47.599 being sick, maybe not being sick. But I'm happy here 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.519 had COVID. I just want to know you had. What 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:54.360 was the experience like for you? A been I have fever. 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:58.480 I was down for like a week, and I definitely 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.160 lost my taste and smell after the words. How long 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:04.360 ago was this in July? How long did you not 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.720 tasting smell for like four days? It was very weird, 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:12.400 definitely weird, but I wasn't bad. I felt sicker before, 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:16.119 like years ago when I used to get the flu um, 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.399 But yeah, I got all the symptoms, it just wasn't 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:22.520 like severe. Thankfully got to just Pam, how is your stint? 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:26.160 Mom was bad? Yeah? I had everything, but of course 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:27.840 I still have my taste buds. I was like, if 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:32.480 you don't take these ships, the first thing is to god. 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:34.679 I was. I was really sick. I was sick for 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:38.039 about a week. Um, I had fever, I had a 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:41.800 really bad cough, but I was still eating out. I 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:45.680 didn't get that. But helloo was that? That was in August? Okay, damn, 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:49.160 so you got July August? What was it the delta 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:52.480 you had delta? No, I haven't. You haven't had You 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:54.640 haven't tested positive at all. I haven't. And you know 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:59.160 when you was taking a thousand for beyond the Pole 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:01.520 all of last year year, well half of last year. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.720 I had this test three times a week, and he 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.400 was in Atlanta where everybody was outside. That's I think 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:14.360 we got her immunity INTA. But no, I didn't. I 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.519 have negative blood type. I don't get sick. I get 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:20.079 sick like once every three or four years. But oh type, 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.600 I have old negative blood type. Okay, yeah, so you 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:26.200 know it's the rarest we can give to everybody. No 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:29.639 one can give to us. But because of that I 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.320 think my immune system is good. Like literally, when I 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:35.640 start feeling sick, I'll drink orange juice for like a day, 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.160 and then I feel better the next day. Now, if 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.760 you're loving somebody, if you're in a relationship and they 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:43.799 get COVID, are you gonna go and take care of them, 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:50.040 even knowing that you might get it too. I think 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.919 I was gonna ask, like, do we live together? Because 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:57.440 if you live with someone, then you if I will, yeah, 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:00.400 I will be extra cautious. But I was kind of 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:07.560 like the sex from the Bad I made it somebody 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:12.400 who was exposed to COVID and he um. He was like, well, 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:15.919 I was exposed to COVID, so I'm gonna quarantine for 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:18.640 a few days in our quarantine and what I'm but 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.280 he didn't end up having it. But had he ended 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:22.880 up having that, you would have probably had it. Well, no, 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:25.200 you got the super bloods. Yeah, I just I don't know. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.640 But I took the chance, right and you didn't. Okay, 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:31.880 getting sick clearly she was a friend of mine. Want 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:36.600 to be pissed, full blown, like to the max hundred 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:42.080 and five fever, sweat chills, and I was there from 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:45.480 the call um tested positive all the way to the 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:49.840 tested negative. As a friend, good friend, uh just your 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:54.640 friends or friend friend, this friend of mine, friend sometimes 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:59.760 friend friend friend, and you went to the very gonna 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:04.600 do that just for a friend. Very four more than 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.880 the crazy part was I had just got out of 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.720 the hospital, so my got out in the hospital. I 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:13.080 went to his house to for him to like help 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:18.040 me out my friend, and the doctors is like, you 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.840 cannot catch COVID. You're gonna die. I was like, got you. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.200 So I was at his house and then his family 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.359 started calling him like, yo, we just tested positive. And 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:31.120 I'm like, oh, ship, but I've been over here. We 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:34.200 went and took a test, was perfectly fine, came back. 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:40.280 I was fine, he was fine. Pregnancy my my test 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:44.200 came back negative, came back positive. So now I'm like 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:48.680 the next day when we woke up, you know, he 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:52.480 woke up in a sweat hundred people. Couldn't walk from 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.560 the couch. I couldn't leave them. You know what I'm 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:57.159 saying that he couldn't even walk from the couch to 0:04:57.279 --> 0:05:01.000 the bathroom like without me, like it bad and I 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.680 just couldn't. I couldn't walk away. He was like, you 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:09.039 can go I was like, but I think that's the 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.000 hard thing, right, if you see somebody that's right sick, 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.719 I could obviously want to be cautious, but you still 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.640 feel bad because sometimes they can't even fully take care 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:21.400 of themselves. I'm definitely that girlfriend that if my boyfriend 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.280 is sick, I'm gonna go be with him, whether I'm scared, 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:26.960 shouldn't get it or not. Finitely. One time I was 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:29.560 with somebody a couple of years ago and he had 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:33.760 strep throat. He got it from his kids and were 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:37.159 making out of everything. I didn't even care what she 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:43.719 and I didn't get it. Yeah, what's funny. What's funny 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:47.480 is that I didn't get that strap throat when um 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.599 when he had it. But the next following winter a 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.360 year later, I got struck throat. So I feel like 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.720 that's a virus and it like stood in the background 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:00.200 ready to come out and flared up. I got real 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.719 sick the next year. That's the last time I was 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.200 really sick. Okay, now let me ask you this, what 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.960 if your friends say with somebody you were sleeping with 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:10.320 was sick, would you have sex with him during that 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:13.000 time if he wanted to. I think she probably did 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:24.400 during that time. When you say it happened, I mean 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.560 did it happened, because you know, I thought I'm about 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:34.839 the doctor told me gone. So I was like, we 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.000 didn't have mask. We was literally sleeping in the same Yeah, 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.920 I don't think a mask wouldn't matter. That were like sleeping. 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.719 I wasn't so afraid to like leave because he was 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:48.120 so bad and you love him. He cool like that, 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:55.200 you love him? Yeah, but didn't have a fever. I didn't. 0:06:55.560 --> 0:07:00.279 It was hot. It was, yeah, like he had because 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:06.440 you know what you're doing it you put it, you 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.680 put it in your mouth and like, no, she said 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.600 the warmth, That's what I was going to Actually, did 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:15.760 you feel the wine or vagiant? It was like smith morning. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:21.640 I'm gonna say exactly nice. But I think it would 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.800 feel good in the back of your throat. And the 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:31.880 schools like what do you call a little but would 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.840 you change the positions? Like if you know he has 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.679 COVID or you just gonna listen it down? That should 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:41.280 be big spoon, little school, not smugging them with a pillow, 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:45.840 you know what. I was kind of being safe. Okay, 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:51.840 so you smell them that can't breathe, But it's interesting 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.920 because guys do like to have sex while they're sick. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:56.640 Do you like to have sex while you're sick, like 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.800 if you're under the weather, because I feel like that's 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.960 not something I'm interested in. What I'm saying. It depends 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:04.280 how sick I am. If I'm like sick in bed 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:07.040 and I can't get up and I feel weak and fatigued, no, 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.000 But if like you kind of have like a mild 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:14.720 small call for you know, something super light, maybe, But 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.280 if I'm down bad, I don't even I just want 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:20.240 to be on time. I caught a stomach virus and 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:25.400 I never listen to It's crazy. I caught a stomach 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.880 virus and I was throwing up. I couldn't keep anything down. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.880 Everything I would throw up, not even water. Everything was 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:34.080 getting thrown up. And I never thought that I would 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.000 like to have sex when I was sick. But I 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.360 ended up like my boyfriend at the time came and 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.320 he started eating my pussy like to make me feel better. 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:46.439 And it worked. It worked. It was really good. Honestly, 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:51.480 after the sex, I felt better twenty minutes. That wasn't 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:57.000 I wasn't. I wasn't. You know, girls don't ship. I 0:08:57.000 --> 0:09:02.679 don't know what you're talking about. But I didn't. But 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.160 I was throwing up, and I remember we had sex 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:07.880 and I felt better for a little while. You know, 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:11.920 they say orgasms can be healing. Yes, the headaches. Yes, 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:17.319 I'm sick, not sick. He's like, you can't possibly be 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:23.040 horny right now? Like yes, I am, like, there's nothing 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.360 wrong with me. It was wrong with you, like so sick, 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:29.400 not sick. Monday's Tuesday's right. You like to have sex 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.760 like um, every day? If I could? All right, that's 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:40.319 everybody's good. Yeah, that's good even on your period. Had 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.360 anybody tried the cup thing you put in you for 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.000 him period? I did years ago. I didn't like it. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:50.240 It seems superlated, but not to have sex. Did you 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.000 have sex with it on your period? I was cooking. 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:58.840 Can you imagine to have sex with that in because yeah, yeah, 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:03.679 you got to put all will go everywhere, too messy, 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.040 I think, yeah, yeah, when you pull it out, the 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:09.920 blood is on your hands. Yeah, I started it is 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:11.120 to see. I don't know if I could do it, 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.199 because you want to like cook it out, like you 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.000 put it in there like thing you pinch it in 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:17.680 the middle and then you put it in and then 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:19.199 when you pull it out, you gotta like and it's 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:24.400 really cup fully and look. But if you have long 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.400 nails and you have to like put you put your 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:28.240 you know what I'm saying, You scratch you inside of 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.800 a vagina. That's actually why my nails is short and 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:34.559 not sharp anymore, because you scratch inside. Sometimes I'll be 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:37.600 in the shower, like cleaning myself, and I would scratch myself. 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:41.920 I noticed long nails too, same same saying that. Don't laugh, 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.079 just paim. You don't clean in your vachina, Yes, but 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:47.640 it's still funny. You know, when you're in the shower, 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:50.959 you got to open your butt hole. You got to 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:59.800 get in there between the boley. I don't never mind. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:03.240 Do you use a different wash cloth for your face 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:08.160 and for your body? Oh my god, just here you go. 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:10.839 You use the same wash cloth that you use the 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:15.199 fingure tell you I use one wash cloth, same I do. 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:18.160 I washed my eyes with the same wash I wash 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:22.079 my face first. No, I washed my face first. It's 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:24.320 just a natural habit for me to brush my teeth 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.600 and wash my face at the same time. So you guys, 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:30.760 so just can let's get back to this. So you 0:11:30.840 --> 0:11:33.120 put your finger in the wash club sticking up your butt, 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:36.280 and then you wash your face with that wash club. Yes, 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:47.800 that is exactly right here you're cleaning it again, so yeah, no, 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.679 But I mean I want my man to be able 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:51.920 to put his face in my pussy where I put 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:54.520 my that's right. One. I wanted to put his face 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:56.920 in my ass too, Right Where did I put it 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:01.880 on my face? I watched my face with my bare hand. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.640 Me too, though, But when I if I use it, 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:11.199 if it's one rag, it's one ragot me too, you know. 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:13.439 And that's what I'm saying. I use all of that 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:18.080 and I use them on my face. We're not very hygienic. 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:23.559 Huh whatever. Okay, so I do use the loofer, right, However, 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:27.800 we're not wrap the loofer around it scratches because you 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:31.200 can't put a loof up your But now you tell me, Okay, 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.280 I was doing the minute. I said, this is a 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:36.400 little intense, but I mean I felt like it was 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:40.640 quickly right, right, So technically I don't use the same 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:42.480 wash cloth because I don't use a loop on my 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:50.160 I to think about it, I did not just as 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.679 a comedian, right, and you always do these posts female 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:55.280 comedians are funny. How hard is it for you when 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:57.360 you're dating a guy? You're around men all the time, 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:00.800 you know, plastic cup boys and all that that naive 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:05.000 man stain and the heart everybody isn't intimidating to date 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:09.440 you knowing that you're always around men. M hm, yes, 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:12.640 because I mean I travel a lot and then, um, 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:16.960 the people that I'm around sometimes intimidate the person from 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:20.280 you know, like I have a partner that I'm always 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:23.439 like with and they'd be like, you knows going on 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:25.439 with you and your partner whatever? I black, it's my 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.120 partner whatever. So it is sometimes, So how do you 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:36.000 handle it? Just suck everybody, keep everybody happy. Everybody said 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:39.760 some ship my DM was like ridiculous, No, it was 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:43.079 in a bad way. Somebody it demmed me after the 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:47.439 last lip service and was like, quote unquote, bitch stopped playing. 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.120 You know you want this dick. I was like, I 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:52.560 don't even know you. I see you on lip service. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:57.120 I was like, oh my god, I didn't even check you. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:03.600 Let me see a DM lip service. Lip service be having. 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:05.679 I'm sure we all can attest to this, that lip 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.599 service be having our d ms looking real crazy, you know. 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:10.559 And I can always tell who has a little dick 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:14.319 in the kinds because when we talk about that, like, 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:16.599 guys be so mad when you'd be like, yeah, you 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:18.640 know what I mean, a little dick, and then guys 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:24.080 be like see y'all hose that's exactly because they'd be 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.520 so big. And He's like, every time somebody leave a 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:30.320 comment like that, I'm even when you talk about height, 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:33.720 like conversations about how I've seen comments, like you could 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:37.760 tell it because you're telling you like, that's right. If 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.240 you got a big dick, you like, that's right, don't 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:43.080 a little dick. But I'm good on the road. I am. 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:46.400 I don't. I am, And them are like, oh big brothers. 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:50.840 Like so when I'm on the road is literally all business. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:52.880 I'll be like, Okay, after the show, I go back 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:55.760 to my room. I don't um. Sometimes we do after 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.600 parties and stuff, but I'll be up under them like 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:03.160 like Mitch More, I'm like, I don't know, you know, 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:05.320 so I just kind of stay close to them. And 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:09.800 then what's the groupy situation like for you? For me? Yeah, 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:17.760 because to you, I'll have groupies, thank you very much. 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.240 He wasn't a groupie. He was a weird though. That 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:27.080 was like he just came home. Yeah, that's what it 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:31.680 sounded like, like not really groupies. No, you never had 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:33.200 people like come up to you after the show like 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.960 so yeah, first of all, I did one show one 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:38.360 time and I was standing towards the end of the 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.760 stage and the man ran up to the stage and 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:46.920 he put his face right here. I was like, oh shit, wait, no, 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:53.720 stop keep going wait this guy not the head but 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:56.600 and he walked back over his wife and his wife 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:59.200 was looking at me like wife. Yeah. I was like, 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:04.720 that was weird ship that I was. Was he drunk? 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.440 I don't know. I was stuck they was what did 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:13.000 his wife saying? She sent them? I just kept I 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:20.760 kept you thought she was. But that's hite, the weird 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:23.440 ship having on stage. But would you try to, like 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:25.080 if it was a couple they wanted you to join? 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:30.040 Um No. If a couple was like I want you 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.640 to join, no, you hesitated too long. I would have 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.960 to be the person like, hey, I want you to join. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:39.200 Maybe that I do that, but you could yeah, I'd 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.440 be like no. I was in Mexico one time with 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:47.200 a friend of mine. Come on you okay, friend with 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:50.120 a friend and this were just sitting on the beach 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:52.760 and this girl walked up and was like, oh, y'all 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:54.480 look cute couple. And we looked at each other and 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:58.880 she was like, y'all do threesomes? Oh, And I'm like right, 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:01.600 it was so red them. I was like I made 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:04.720 her face and she was like, oh my bad, and 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.160 she like walked away. And then I turned and looked 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.399 at him. He was looking like bit like he's like, 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:14.200 do we It was so weird, Like I was like, 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:18.399 it was just random alway, she was just was she okay? 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:21.240 Like it was she you know, somebody know. It was 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:23.240 just so caught off guard that I don't even think 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:26.560 he was like hold up, where you going? I still 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:30.280 would have been stuck like this bitch like she probably 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:34.119 been up and down this beach all day and we 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.879 don't even know her, Like I don't even know she 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:42.280 put her finger in the washcloth. No, it was weird. 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:45.240 It was weird. So you know, I would not swing 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:48.040 with somebody. All right, Well it's a new year, right, 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:53.560 so to start this year off, I want to see 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:57.840 each Why are you looking at me? Like I thought 0:17:57.840 --> 0:17:59.959 it would be a nice time for us to apologize 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:02.320 to a guy from the past who we did. You 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:05.160 don't have to say his name, but talk about something 0:18:05.240 --> 0:18:07.440 that you did and why you want to apologize for it. 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.480 You're just gonna throw this on me like this, and 0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:19.800 I'm start with you. Why you want to apologize to him? 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.840 This is a meeting that we were wrong, Okay, it's 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.879 accountability in the new year. But we're gonna admit we 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:29.480 was wrong and ask for forgiveness. I don't have to 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:33.200 say the name. Don't say the name, okay. So I'm 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:37.760 sorry for using you for a place to live on 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.399 some of my apartment was done, and then dumping you 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:44.520 right before the holidays. You didn't deserve that. You didn't 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:48.199 deserve that. You're a good person and I still got 0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:50.880 mad love for you. God bless your hope. Everything is okay, 0:18:50.920 --> 0:18:53.600 and I hope you found a nice girlfriend. O That 0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:56.040 sweet was acute at least? No, he was good looking, 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:58.920 a very good and bad So why didn't you like him? 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.400 I can't talk about it too much because we're gonna 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:05.399 They already know who they are. I think you know 0:19:05.520 --> 0:19:09.720 who I'm talking about. G you know who I'm talking about, 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:12.200 and you know it's somebody who I got mad love for. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:14.760 I know for a very long time. He and I 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:17.200 have just had our ups and downs. We just don't 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:20.440 match for a long term thing. We have good sexual 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:25.440 chemistry and that's about it. Yeah, okay, so he gets 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:29.520 it right. But that was nice of me. Okay, g 0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:33.240 who even apologize to I wonder about it. This is 0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:36.080 a recent abo, this is a fresh apology. I want 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:40.240 to apologize to you, sir, for telling you that I 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:43.800 no longer um want to be friends with benefits because 0:19:43.880 --> 0:19:46.040 I am in love and committed to my new relationship. 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:47.840 I'm sorry that they hurt your feelings, but I hope 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:52.119 you understand. And that was honest of you. Because He's like, 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:53.480 what's up? You've been friending on me, and I'm like, 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:56.160 listening here, bro, here's the real situation. Like I ain't 0:19:56.160 --> 0:19:58.080 even gonna play with you, like I ain't gonna string 0:19:58.160 --> 0:19:59.680 you along. I don't even want to give you the 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:02.320 wrong impression. We might have had this back then, but 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.359 my life has changed and this is the direction that 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:06.920 I'm going in, and I hope you understand that. I 0:20:07.000 --> 0:20:12.040 wish you were. I'm proud of you. Know what the 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:21.560 topic is. I'm just feeling. Okay, who do you want 0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:26.760 to apologize to? Um? So nice of all, I guess 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:32.080 I apologize to my ex my last relationship. UM, we 0:20:32.200 --> 0:20:34.719 had a lot of good times, but we also had 0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:37.239 a lot of difficult times. And I think it is because, um, 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:41.359 we were both growing and our relationship definitely showed us 0:20:42.240 --> 0:20:44.880 things that we needed to work on individually in order 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:48.000 to be a better team. And you know, I just 0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:51.000 apologize if I ever hurt you in any way and 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:54.080 made you feel bad. I definitely experienced a lot of 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:58.120 personal growth and that's helped me become a better friend, 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:01.280 a better daughter, a better you, like just everything, a 0:21:01.359 --> 0:21:04.240 better me. So, you know, just starting the year off 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:08.399 apologizing and being accountable and you know, ability just WI 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:20.280 should everybody love and happiness. Oh my god, I want 0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:24.560 to apologize for dropping the air conditioner on the hood 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:28.879 of your brand new out of the second floor window. 0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:32.920 You could have killed someone. Sairly didn't break the movie, No, 0:21:33.160 --> 0:21:40.000 it crushed the hood of that bitch through the hood. Stop. Okay, honesty, 0:21:40.720 --> 0:21:46.320 what she was going to apologize for you on the window? 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:48.919 That ter apology? She got a hundred other things she did. 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:54.159 You did it on purpose? Yeah, she said from a 0:21:54.280 --> 0:21:57.720 second story window that was on the second floor. That 0:21:57.880 --> 0:21:59.360 was a hard phone. I was like, you don't want 0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:04.119 to help me? He was like, nah, say less. He 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:07.960 was like pe crashed right on the car. He ran 0:22:08.040 --> 0:22:11.360 over to the windsow what it looked, looked up, looked 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:18.920 at me, and I was likery, did you pay for it? 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:29.280 I'm just kidding me crazy pology from state phone. Okay, 0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:31.800 my apology is there was a guy that I went 0:22:31.840 --> 0:22:34.520 out with a couple of times, and I just go 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:37.680 to him and didn't even give an explanation. I think 0:22:37.720 --> 0:22:40.560 that was whack, Like, you know, I should have a 0:22:40.680 --> 0:22:42.240 long and this was a while ago, and he sent 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:45.399 me a long email. Actually, when I worked at Serious, 0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:47.760 he worked right across the street from me, and so 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:49.800 I would see him sometimes when I left the building, 0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:52.480 and I was always like I would always have to 0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:57.040 go outside and look around and make I could have 0:22:57.160 --> 0:22:59.440 just been like, you know, you're cooling everything, but I 0:22:59.560 --> 0:23:02.399 just like completely ignored. I'm an avoider, so I just 0:23:02.560 --> 0:23:06.320 ignored his ghosted his emails and text messages. He even 0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:08.000 sent me a message like what happened? I don't know 0:23:08.040 --> 0:23:11.600 what I did wrong? And he didn't really do anything wrong. 0:23:12.320 --> 0:23:16.479 I just didn't. You said what you do it all 0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:21.399 the time. Well, that's nice apologizing. Yeah, you know, And 0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:23.400 it was so long ago. I have no idea where 0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:25.040 he is and what he's doing. But I do feel 0:23:25.200 --> 0:23:26.480 like now that I look back at it, I could 0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:28.399 have just he was like, at least let me know, 0:23:28.720 --> 0:23:31.159 Like you think that's fair to let somebody know what 0:23:31.280 --> 0:23:33.200 they did wrong. Did you have like a like you 0:23:33.240 --> 0:23:35.240 do you have like a thing with him? No? We 0:23:35.320 --> 0:23:37.920 went out twice. That was I feel like, unless we 0:23:38.000 --> 0:23:40.600 are actually a thing, I don't owe you an explanation. 0:23:40.720 --> 0:23:43.119 Unless we really like our thing, I'll just be like 0:23:43.160 --> 0:23:45.080 I don't talk to you no more. Listen. And sometimes 0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:47.040 whatever it was that made you feel like it wasn't 0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:48.560 going to work out might have hurt his feeling. So 0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:51.160 you probably spirit him. Yeah. I tried to apologize you guys, 0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:59.920 just um, I try to make it good. I don't 0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:02.639 about you. But that is a good question because I 0:24:02.680 --> 0:24:05.600 feel like that happens often, like both men and women 0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:09.239 will get ghosted, right, So is that the appropriate thing 0:24:09.320 --> 0:24:12.400