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Speaker 1: What's epics left Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm g MacGuire,

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Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Aden Comedian, just pain, just Pam.

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Speaker 1: Last time was a guest host that she was, but

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Speaker 1: today you aren't the guest. We loved your honesty last

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Speaker 1: time too great. I'm so glad I'm here for this

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Speaker 1: round because I totally missed you last Oh that's yeah.

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Speaker 1: I probably had to work or fight or something. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, I think you were sick, and

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Speaker 1: I think you got sick that week. I think that

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Speaker 1: was the reason they called me, because you yeah, you

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Speaker 1: being sick, maybe not being sick. But I'm happy here

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Speaker 1: had COVID. I just want to know you had. What

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Speaker 1: was the experience like for you? A been I have fever.

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Speaker 1: I was down for like a week, and I definitely

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Speaker 1: lost my taste and smell after the words. How long

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Speaker 1: ago was this in July? How long did you not

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Speaker 1: tasting smell for like four days? It was very weird,

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Speaker 1: definitely weird, but I wasn't bad. I felt sicker before,

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Speaker 1: like years ago when I used to get the flu um,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I got all the symptoms, it just wasn't

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Speaker 1: like severe. Thankfully got to just Pam, how is your stint?

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Speaker 1: Mom was bad? Yeah? I had everything, but of course

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Speaker 1: I still have my taste buds. I was like, if

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Speaker 1: you don't take these ships, the first thing is to god.

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Speaker 1: I was. I was really sick. I was sick for

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Speaker 1: about a week. Um, I had fever, I had a

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Speaker 1: really bad cough, but I was still eating out. I

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Speaker 1: didn't get that. But helloo was that? That was in August? Okay, damn,

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Speaker 1: so you got July August? What was it the delta

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Speaker 1: you had delta? No, I haven't. You haven't had You

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Speaker 1: haven't tested positive at all. I haven't. And you know

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Speaker 1: when you was taking a thousand for beyond the Pole

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Speaker 1: all of last year year, well half of last year.

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Speaker 1: I had this test three times a week, and he

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Speaker 1: was in Atlanta where everybody was outside. That's I think

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Speaker 1: we got her immunity INTA. But no, I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: have negative blood type. I don't get sick. I get

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Speaker 1: sick like once every three or four years. But oh type,

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Speaker 1: I have old negative blood type. Okay, yeah, so you

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Speaker 1: know it's the rarest we can give to everybody. No

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Speaker 1: one can give to us. But because of that I

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Speaker 1: think my immune system is good. Like literally, when I

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Speaker 1: start feeling sick, I'll drink orange juice for like a day,

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Speaker 1: and then I feel better the next day. Now, if

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Speaker 1: you're loving somebody, if you're in a relationship and they

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Speaker 1: get COVID, are you gonna go and take care of them,

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Speaker 1: even knowing that you might get it too. I think

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Speaker 1: I was gonna ask, like, do we live together? Because

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Speaker 1: if you live with someone, then you if I will, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will be extra cautious. But I was kind of

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Speaker 1: like the sex from the Bad I made it somebody

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Speaker 1: who was exposed to COVID and he um. He was like, well,

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Speaker 1: a few days in our quarantine and what I'm but

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Speaker 1: he didn't end up having it. But had he ended

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Speaker 1: up having that, you would have probably had it. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: you got the super bloods. Yeah, I just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But I took the chance, right and you didn't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: getting sick clearly she was a friend of mine. Want

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Speaker 1: So I was at his house and then his family

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Speaker 1: sick the next year. That's the last time I was

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Speaker 1: really sick. Okay, now let me ask you this, what

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Speaker 1: if your friends say with somebody you were sleeping with

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Speaker 1: time if he wanted to. I think she probably did

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Speaker 1: did it happened, because you know, I thought I'm about

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Speaker 1: the doctor told me gone. So I was like, we

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Speaker 1: It was hot. It was, yeah, like he had because

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Speaker 1: put it in your mouth and like, no, she said

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Speaker 1: the warmth, That's what I was going to Actually, did

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Speaker 1: you know what. I was kind of being safe. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you smell them that can't breathe, But it's interesting

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Speaker 1: I never listen to It's crazy. I caught a stomach

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Speaker 1: Everything I would throw up, not even water. Everything was

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Speaker 1: And it worked. It worked. It was really good. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. I wasn't. You know, girls don't ship. I

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Speaker 1: they say orgasms can be healing. Yes, the headaches. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm sick, not sick. He's like, you can't possibly be

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Speaker 1: horny right now? Like yes, I am, like, there's nothing

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Speaker 1: not sick. Monday's Tuesday's right. You like to have sex

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Speaker 1: everybody's good. Yeah, that's good even on your period. Had

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Speaker 1: anybody tried the cup thing you put in you for

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Speaker 1: It seems superlated, but not to have sex. Did you

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine to have sex with that in because yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got to put all will go everywhere, too messy,

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah, when you pull it out, the

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Speaker 1: because you want to like cook it out, like you

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Speaker 1: I noticed long nails too, same same saying that. Don't laugh,

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Speaker 1: just paim. You don't clean in your vachina, Yes, but

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Speaker 1: Do you use a different wash cloth for your face

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Speaker 1: fingure tell you I use one wash cloth, same I do.

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Speaker 1: I washed my eyes with the same wash I wash

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Speaker 1: my face first. No, I washed my face first. It's

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Speaker 1: so just can let's get back to this. So you

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Speaker 1: and then you wash your face with that wash club. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that is exactly right here you're cleaning it again, so yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: But I mean I want my man to be able

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Speaker 1: my that's right. One. I wanted to put his face

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Speaker 1: on my face? I watched my face with my bare hand.

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Speaker 1: Me too, though, But when I if I use it,

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Speaker 1: if it's one rag, it's one ragot me too, you know.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. I use all of that

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Speaker 1: Huh whatever. Okay, so I do use the loofer, right, However,

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Speaker 1: we're not wrap the loofer around it scratches because you

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Speaker 1: can't put a loof up your But now you tell me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was doing the minute. I said, this is a

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Speaker 1: wash cloth because I don't use a loop on my

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Speaker 1: I to think about it, I did not just as

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Speaker 1: a comedian, right, and you always do these posts female

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Speaker 1: comedians are funny. How hard is it for you when

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Speaker 1: it would be a nice time for us to apologize

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that they hurt your feelings, but I hope

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Speaker 1: you understand. And that was honest of you. Because He's like,

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Speaker 1: You could have killed someone. Sairly didn't break the movie, No,

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Speaker 1: it crushed the hood of that bitch through the hood. Stop. Okay, honesty,

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Speaker 1: made him take me to this super expensive steakhouse. It's

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Speaker 1: even know each other well enough for me to like

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00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: look stupid in front of you like that, and I

425
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: would have did it, except he got up there and

426
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 1: he let me pick his song, so I picked Thong

427
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,239
Speaker 1: song because he thought that would be funny for him.

428
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 1: He was like, we were yeah, we were in Korean

429
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: town like exactly background and other people that were there

430
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: like doing karaokee, but like, oh wow, and I'm not

431
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: getting what I'm saying. Impressed and this is why I

432
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: would I aloud thought that I was gonna go and

433
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: have fun and kill something beyond and I wanted to

434
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: as bad as I sing right right nothing that's fun,

435
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: paradizing and ship. He was probably trying to impress. He

436
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: was probably trying to impress you to let you know

437
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: that he can see suit backfired and that's crazy. I

438
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: would have been so annoying. He s I'm like, I'm sorry,

439
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: I gotta work in the morning. And they were like

440
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: tourists coming up and like oh my god. Like I

441
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: was like, okay, taking picture. They thought they were taking

442
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: a picture. So see, that's that's tough though, because he probably,

443
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: like g G said, intentionally tried to like her finance

444
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 1: nerdy and that's probably what was tripping him out more.

445
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: After he goes to him and it's like wait, I

446
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: thought I put my best suit on, show him skin.

447
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 1: He was swiveling and everything. It was like he was

448
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: the one a lot now. But anyway, I'm sorry, she's

449
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: know she's not work. Go No, we're not we're not ghosting. Yeah,

450
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: just oh no, you're so ride or die. That's why

451
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm surprised. I'm ride a dog. I can't goost the

452
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: rider dig but right, okay, because I feel like if

453
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: unless we actually have some sort of a thing, right, yeah,

454
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't know where I live, You

455
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: don't know I'm breaking up with my family, gunbirds, you

456
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: don't know anything, right, So I don't feel like I

457
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: owe you an explanation. Just after three Texas, I don't respond.

458
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 1: Stop calling, and we call oh hit me like, so

459
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: what's going on? Good morning, princess and grand like my god, yep,

460
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: right in the crotch. Okay. Anyway, I don't know what

461
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 1: about saying all right, so, is there ever a time

462
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: that it is so you're saying it is appropriate to

463
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: ghosts at certain times? Do you guys agree with that?

464
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: Even you look like you don't belie that. Um, I

465
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: feel like I've definitely ghosted. So I can't be hypocritical. Um,

466
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: but growth, Yeah, I don't know. I think like it

467
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: depends on how how often we've spoken, Like you said,

468
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: you know, if it was just like one text or whatever,

469
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: two or three texts, like you don't really know me

470
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: that well. But I think for me, I'm trying to

471
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: move more intentionally, especially with dating, Like I'm single right now,

472
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: like I've been for a while. Um, and I think

473
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: just focusing on myself and intentionally trying to find somebody that,

474
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: like I can really connect and build something with. So

475
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: I just want to be accountable and I also want

476
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: to just be responsible. You know, anybody did that to you? Yeah,

477
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: I mean it's happened. It's happened to me, and it's

478
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: definitely not a good feeling because sometimes you're like, what

479
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: what the fun did I do? Like, what really did happen?

480
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: Like an explanation in your mind is like could have

481
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: been this, that, this that you know, but do we

482
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: really want an explanation? No? No, But yeah, case by case,

483
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: if you like somebody and you're really curious as to

484
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: what happened because I was really fucking with you, and

485
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: then maybe they could just be like, look, this is

486
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: not working for me or have a situation. I respect that,

487
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: you know, but it depends on the situation because levels

488
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: to ghosting like where Angela did, going out and having

489
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: dates and then not hearing from someone that's you know,

490
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: that's a tricky. Yeah. But when if you meet somebody

491
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: and you give them your number and then you don't

492
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: really respond to them, because that turn off if you

493
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: just go on to like a first date with somebody,

494
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: what are some things that would turn you off immediately? Um,

495
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: I don't know about first date, but before we get

496
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: to the and this has actually happened to me, I

497
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: was immediately turned off because now you know, like in

498
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: this new era of social media, guys will ask for

499
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: your Instagram instead of your phone number. So this guy,

500
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: I asked for my Instagram and he followed me, and

501
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: I clicked on his page and it was like a

502
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: meme page. There was like one picture of him. It

503
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: was like all straight means and I'm like, are you

504
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: a catfish? Are you? Like? But who is me? He

505
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: was just posting other people just random random just a

506
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: boy and like a boy. Yeah, like just like random

507
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: pictures of like celebrities and stuff, just like yeah, that's

508
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: a little This tells me nothing about like social media

509
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: is supposed to be a representation of who you are,

510
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: what you're into. And yeah, probably like two or three thousand,

511
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: but he was following like more people than he was

512
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: probably following like seven to eight thousand, and I just

513
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,479
Speaker 1: glanced at his page and I blocked them with media, like, bro,

514
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: are you're a fake page? Right? Literally? Are you? And

515
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: like what if you see him leaving comments on celebrities

516
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: pages that don't know him, like gone or someone that

517
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: takes someone that takes picks where everybody they meet but

518
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: doesn't know them, like to take a picture with every

519
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: celebrity word you don't know big brog bro. We like,

520
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: for me, it's bragging. I don't like men that bragg

521
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: name drop. If your name dropping bragging that's to me

522
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: is like like I hear you, but I don't hear you.

523
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that. That's a turn off

524
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: for me. And before we continue, I do want to

525
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: congratulate you Avian. I know you've been you moved to

526
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: l A now she's tending to the little girl moved

527
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: to l A and you've been making some big moves.

528
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: So I just want to shut you out. Actually was

529
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: working here in engine room, and then she started producing,

530
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: and then you ended up talking about what you started doing.

531
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: So I, you know, I was assistant studio manager here

532
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: for like five years, and I was you know, producing

533
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: for a long time even before that. I even knew

534
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: Angela before when she was working here, when I was, yeah,

535
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm managing a boutique. Um. But then you know, I

536
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: got a placement with Vory on his last album, the

537
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: songs called York Way, and then I was doing sound

538
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: design for DJ Khaled's podcast on Amazon Radio, Amazon Music. UM,

539
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: I did a campaign with Timberland, like you know, the

540
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: producer and Ye for Native Instruments and Beat Club, and

541
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: then I recently did a campaign with Boccardi and boy

542
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: Wanda highlighting female producers. So I released a single as

543
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: an n f T feature in Nickamore and then we

544
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: put it on DSPs. So it's it's been a journey

545
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: than for a little while, and I just want to

546
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: make sure that we acknowledge things that you've It's been

547
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: a journey and I'm grateful, you know, even just being

548
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: in this space learning from you guys. You guys have

549
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: always embraced me just even helping you guys behind the

550
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: scenes and you know, co hosting. Like I've just learned

551
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: a lot and really just took a lot of gaming,

552
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: and you know, I just I just want to work.

553
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: I just want to like not your creativity, your other

554
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: creative side of the selling hustle and to hobby into

555
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: a hustle, right, yeah, just designing my own clothes too.

556
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: I made these pants, you know, just really trying to

557
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: just trying to be creative and just doing what I

558
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: love and taking it to the next level. Yeah. Just

559
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm just glad that I can create whenever I want,

560
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: you know, and and as much as I want, and

561
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: right exactly because it's it's not easy to do that,

562
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: you know. But I've definitely, you know, been blessed and

563
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: grateful to have good people around me. And they guys

564
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: that I used to talk to try to like hey,

565
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: big head, but I'm off that I don't I don't

566
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: go backwards and like once I'm I'm like turned off

567
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: for not interested. I'm turned off and not interested, you know.

568
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: I'm I have a different mindset, I have a different

569
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: hustle now, I have different like a different vision. So

570
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: I'm looking for somebody that can match that, you know,

571
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: And I'm not in a rush either because I'm still

572
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: focused on myself, but it's everything before that getting He's

573
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: a young and too, so it's good to see you

574
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: making all those moves. I think where you are ten

575
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: years yeah, I know, I'm excited. Thank you, and just PM,

576
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: let's talk about you congrats because I've been watching your

577
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: come up to thank you a Jersey girl. Yes, so

578
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: let's talk about what you have going on now too,

579
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: because we want to make sure we give you your

580
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: props as well. I have been torn with the Plastic

581
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: cup boys for about five years now. Who you think

582
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: is the most irritable one on there? Like that? So

583
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: if you have to say which one of the Plastic

584
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: cup boys is always irritated, always irritated you. But I

585
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: just had to put that out there, yes now even then. Actually,

586
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: he actually did Our Lives show in l A. If

587
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 1: you guys remember, he was talking about his bad acne

588
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: from when he was younger. So if I had the pick,

589
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: she said, pick, he was really going hard for you

590
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: to be all lip service too. Damn you don't want

591
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: to change you love. You know he's gonna hear this

592
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: he knows you already knows the answer. All right, which

593
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: man has the biggest ego? They're gonna love this Chester

594
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: the comedian, biggest ego, who had who was the most sensitive? Sensitive? Damn?

595
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: Just say down now, even though he's not a plastic

596
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: to my money. I want my money back money he's

597
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: playing cards one Well, he didn't take your money, then

598
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: he won your money. He took my money. Do you

599
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: think you shouldn't have taken it? Like you shouldn't have

600
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: taken that is kind of I just got millions question too.

601
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: Down up be spending money like you ain't nothing. I

602
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: don't know if you ever been out with down now listen,

603
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: he spends money like it ain't ship took my couple

604
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: of dollars. I was trying. I was trying to play

605
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: for a dollar hand. He fought hours the hand. I

606
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: was like ship man. And you know what's so funny.

607
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: He had a little Christmas dinner. He was like, oh,

608
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: we all go out to dinner, right, We went to

609
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: Brooklyn chap House. You know I love Brooklyn chap House.

610
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: Shout out to them. And he went and he paid

611
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: for everything for everybody. I was ordering mad drinks because

612
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: I knew he was paying. I was little crazy. We

613
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: was doing shots, like another round of nineteen forty two.

614
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: You know how you do that with someone else's doubles.

615
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: That bill came and you know whatever, so done how

616
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: he acts like it's nothing. And then I was like,

617
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: you know, showing all the food on the table to

618
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: drinks and then I put it in our look at dot. Now,

619
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I spend all the millions he

620
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: just got already and he was like over the post.

621
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: But now I love done that. We're gonna get him

622
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: to come up here again. Yeah, because he's got his

623
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: Netflix special coming out. We should have The last time

624
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: we had him, we were remote, right, Oh yeah, he

625
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 1: did do every month when I had to leave you

626
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: up because you know he don't stop. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

627
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: yes exactly. You did have some Yeah, y'all stayed on

628
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: for like two more years on the zoom ones for sure.

629
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: Now just saying you like I was saying you always do.

630
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: The female comedians are funny, So talk to me about, like,

631
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: what are some of the biggest obstacles you have as

632
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: a female comedian. Um, A lot of the shows that

633
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: outside of you know applies to cut boys, because um,

634
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm only with them when they're you know, when they're

635
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 1: on tour. There. Sometimes I can't make certain tour dates.

636
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: And you know, because I work a regular job too.

637
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm an operations manager at a flooring company. Okay,

638
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: I needs. I'm about to quit, you you know, and

639
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: you're like, wait before, you just don't allow me the

640
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: time that I need. You need to show ladies and

641
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: stuff like that. So um, it's just like when I

642
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: do local shows, you know, it's like ten men, one female,

643
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like so many guys,

644
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: and then they might throw a female on just to

645
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 1: be like, yo, we gotta put a female on the flyer,

646
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 1: we gotta put a female on the line up or whatever. Um.

647
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: And it's been shows where they put me on the

648
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: line up with all men, and when I went up

649
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,959
Speaker 1: after me, the men was like, bitch, like we can't

650
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: follow that. You know what I'm saying, because now I

651
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: feel like I gotta go ten times hard. Yeah, I

652
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: get off stage, I'm like dripping sweat, and they're looking like, damn,

653
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: why you have to go so hard? I'm like, cause

654
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: I have to, you know, Like I just have to

655
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 1: because it's always, you know, it's gonna always be that

656
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: ten men, one female, ten men, one female. So I

657
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: just feel like, as a female comedian, there's not a

658
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: big enough platform for funny females, funny black females. Yeah,

659
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: because you know, I go to comedy shows all the time,

660
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: and a lot of times there's no women right on

661
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: their If you see a woman is not normally a

662
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: black woman either, right, So, and then sometimes when I

663
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: do see black females, you know, sometimes it's like the

664
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: stereotypical content. You'd like, damn, like you know, use you know,

665
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: use your platform, show them something different. And that's what

666
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: I try to do in my comedy. In my sets,

667
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: I try to show them something different that they're not

668
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 1: gonna expect. Like I'm a I'm actually a certified Zooma instructor.

669
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm just see right. But when I when I say

670
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: that on stage, they'd be like, which where, like know

671
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,399
Speaker 1: for real? I really do? You know? So it's things

672
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: that I talk about in my life that they would

673
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: never expect, especially like as like a plus size woman.

674
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: So I give them something that's not the normal. H

675
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: walked up the steps and I can't breathe No, you're

676
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: not gonna talking about eating how you eat? Asked how

677
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 1: that was just last episode? Right? Last episode you ever

678
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: discussed that? I probably haven't. That could be funny. But

679
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: ain't nobody having to drink after you or sharing a blunt?

680
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: That's all right? How is it like having sex conversations

681
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: around a lot of men, like in the male dominated space?

682
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: It's not weird because I think sometimes I have the

683
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: mindset of a male, like I don't think I think

684
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: like a typical female. So when they'd be having conversations

685
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: about like stuff like that, I'll be with you, damn right,

686
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: maybe looking like damn like Pam is with us, you know.

687
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: So if they're right, they right. If they're wrong, they're wrong.

688
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: But some situations from a female perspective, I'd be like,

689
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: this bitch is tripping, you know, And I tell them that.

690
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: So I don't ever feel weird? Can you keep it? Really? Like?

691
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: Let's say your friends are the guy and he's cheating

692
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: on his girl and you know her. Would you be

693
00:40:55,520 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: like you gotta chill? Yeah, am I trying to suck him?

694
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: But your friends with his girlfriends with his girlfriend and

695
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: you know that he's going to out of cheating, So

696
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: are you gonna tell him? But am I still trying

697
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: to suck him to where my more friends with? You

698
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: know her through him, but me and him, gang, you

699
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't say nothing to him. Me and him, I'm loyal

700
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: before anything, not that you're not loyal, but as part

701
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: of loyalty, you wouldn't tell him like, like, you got

702
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: a good women. You know she is if she's doing

703
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: everything she's supposed to do as a female. But I

704
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, like if they fucking sucking, licking,

705
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: tricking whatever it is they want to do, and I

706
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: feel like it's a great fit, and I'm like, yo,

707
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,320
Speaker 1: you're bugging like that she she a good one. But

708
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 1: if I feel like she's not, then I'm gonna be like,

709
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: she's not the one for you, right, you know? So

710
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't like that, you know

711
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Because when I'm into somebody and I'm

712
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: like committed to somebody, I'm like all in, you know

713
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I try not to leave room for

714
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: other females to get in, you know what I'm saying.

715
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: So I don't just try to hit them sexually or mentally,

716
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm like sexually, mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, like I try

717
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,959
Speaker 1: to hit them through all angles because if I don't,

718
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: if I leave one one, you ain't gonna say that's

719
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: the truth. You don't think men sometimes it's cheat Like

720
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: even if they can't get everything, they're going to cheat regardless,

721
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: because I have come to that conclusion that they are

722
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: going to cheat regardless, and I hate that I've come

723
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: to that conclusion. But if you can mentally understand the

724
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: I guess the mindset of a man and how he thinks,

725
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, damn, Like, it doesn't matter what

726
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:42,720
Speaker 1: I do, you know, it's always gonna be something prettier,

727
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 1: something ask that's fatter or this is and it's like

728
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: their visual you know what I'm saying. So they're always

729
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: gonna find some shit attractive. But I'm a firm believer

730
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: in I just suck this bitch, that's it. I believe

731
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: that that's the thing that you can really fuck this

732
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: bitch walk away and be like I don't even remember

733
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: her name, you know what I'm saying. So it's again,

734
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: it's a loyalty thing before anything. Now, if your wife

735
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: in this bitch, it's different. You know what, I'm saying

736
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: that you'll be okay with a guy being with you

737
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: and just sucking somebody. I'm not saying I'll be okay

738
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: with it, but I have one choice, lean with it

739
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: or rock with it. So if I lean with it,

740
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: I got more leeway because now I could be like,

741
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 1: instead of you lying and manipulating to try to sneak

742
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: out with this bitch, what if I want to go

743
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: out to dinner on Tuesday, but you have set this

744
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: whole little lie up for you enthusie to go out

745
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: on Tuesday, right, But now I'm like, but damn, baby,

746
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to go out to dinner with you tonight.

747
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: He could be like, all right, I'm gonna tell this

748
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 1: bitch tomorrow because now I know and I kind of

749
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: have to understand the verses. If he lying about it,

750
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: he don't give a fuck. He's leaving to go see

751
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: you too, Susie, because he had the lie, cheat and

752
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: still just to get a date with her. So I

753
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,479
Speaker 1: feel like it puts you at an advantage a little

754
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: bit because you have more say so in what he does.

755
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: But I feel like they're going to do it anyway

756
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: if that's your man though, like your boyfriend, like it's

757
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: the worst. How often would you tolerate that? Right? Because

758
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: I feel like if you give a man a pass,

759
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: you're gonna always have to give him a pass. I

760
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: don't give a pass. I ain't because then basically another

761
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: girl because it's over because I'm gonna get old to you.

762
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: I I don't find at yeah, and then it never happened,

763
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: and then it never happened. So like I said, you

764
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: lean with the rocket, I could be like, yo, out

765
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: of sight, out of mind, I don't ever want to

766
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: see it. Or I could tell him like, you know,

767
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: I don't want you cheating if you sloppy and I

768
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: feel like you're cheating on but that's when they're sloppy.

769
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes guys have to be like, first

770
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: of all, they have to get gone through what they

771
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: went through. But I think sometimes fair will make a

772
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: guy not cheat, like if he fears that like you'll

773
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: leave him if you find out, or it depends on

774
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,839
Speaker 1: the guy. I feel like there definitely are men out

775
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: there who don't cheat, and but they're definitely men out

776
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: there who haven't experienced that growth and get tempted too

777
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: much and just always need to be out there. I

778
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: feel like that if you find if you catch your

779
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 1: man with a girl and you laugh him slide, he's

780
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:30,959
Speaker 1: gonna keep it right election, Maybe I think every relationship

781
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: no bullshit that I think I've been in, every single

782
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: person has done some bullshit. I can't think of one

783
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:42,240
Speaker 1: relationship where the person did not cheat. I got cheated

784
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: on so bad that I thought I was about to

785
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: get married. Literally I don't know size my finger, and

786
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: all this ship he was with the church. I was

787
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: about to be the mother. I'm about to do gospel

788
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: like he gholstedt me. This is why everybody was everybody's

789
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: sucking getting ghost kid because rightbody? So I mean I

790
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 1: was like I was involved with his kids. I was

791
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: like taking his kids in school, like we was a thing, right.

792
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: And then we were supposed like go on a trip.

793
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, yo, I'm gonna call you when

794
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: I get to work to find out which train you

795
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: want to catch. He was like, okay, call them, no answer?

796
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: What text them? No answer? Called him the next day,

797
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: no answer, And I'm like this nigga died. What the fun?

798
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: You don't want to send those messages like yo, fuck confused?

799
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: So I ended up, like calling him from my job.

800
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: He picked up, so he picked up and I know

801
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 1: he's a game he so of course I'm like hello,

802
00:46:55,760 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: and he was like what's up literate? So now I'm

803
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: on the other phone the end of the phone like

804
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: and I was like you telling me what what you me?

805
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: What's up? This nigga said, Yo, I decided to be

806
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: with Cashanna and that's just where I'm met with. Definitely

807
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: there I was plutching pearls. I didn't even have by

808
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 1: the ball. Did you know moment No, he said with

809
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: I have no idea that I wouldn't said that. Probably

810
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: was like on a Thursday. I went back to church

811
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: on Sunday. Here he was next to Coshana front row.

812
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: Did he see you saw me? Now, I gotta be

813
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: in church with the church finger trying to play it

814
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: off like front of me. I want you can't fight

815
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: in church? Yeah you need what is him? Is him

816
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: Disha Dickshina know who you were, but it's him going

817
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: to church and having you in case why he was

818
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 1: like the whole son of the pastor. And I was like, yes,

819
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: this story gets worse and that's like my kids, my

820
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: kids father of a b but my kids. Father. I

821
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: remember him telling me I'm going to Atlanta for the weekend.

822
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm cleaning up the table. Like

823
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: a week after. I see his birth certificate on the

824
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: table and that ship had a stamp on it. That's

825
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: a Dominican Republican import, Dominican Republic export. I was like,

826
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: birth certific remember back in the day. So I went

827
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: up to him, like you want to y'all? He said, ayo,

828
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: the airport made a mistake. I said, you know, if

829
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: somebody really don't give anything, this crazy, this is why

830
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: I will be casper at this moment, he said. Abody said,

831
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: you ever heard of the city of in the York

832
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: called Atlantica? Like Atlantic, not Atlanta? This is why? Why

833
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: have you cheated? No, I'm not cheating. So you've never cheated.

834
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: I only cheated when I knew. Yes you have though

835
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 1: not you know because you say this all the time

836
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: that you know when it's over, you already made happy,

837
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: relationship is already over. So she was just like me,

838
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, either all the way in or all the

839
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 1: way out. I don't have a middle right, So it's

840
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: like I'm patient, I'm in, I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm

841
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: trying because I know when I let go, I'm all

842
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: the way letting go. Are you bendictive? Like if you

843
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: move on? Do you want them to see the ship?

844
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: I don't block them on social media. I'm gonna see

845
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 1: this good ship. I'm block you, and then you're gonna

846
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: have to look for me somewhere else. And he actually

847
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: came to a show. He came to a show at

848
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: um Stress Factor in New Brunswick, and all of a sudden,

849
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: this nigg is super supportive the show. He's trying to

850
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: hold my pocketbook and ship. I was like, okay, now,

851
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: did you know he was there before you went on stage?

852
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: Could you think that would have thrown you up a little?

853
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: I saw him when I got on the ledge. He

854
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: was at the front, he was back and I saw

855
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: him and I made a joke and I made a

856
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: joke about him. Yeah, he probably loved it. I didn't

857
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,720
Speaker 1: told you why he went to the show, No he didn't.

858
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: Did he hold your purse? He would? And it was

859
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: like a bunch of men trying to take pictures with me,

860
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: and they was, oh, girl, you know you were so beautiful,

861
00:50:54,000 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 1: And I was like, grossies like I just didn't give

862
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: him the time of day. And it's a lot of

863
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: people like you are asking from my past that all

864
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: of a sudden are now, oh you're super supportive or

865
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: now you're so interested in me and what I'm doing,

866
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like, ah, you really not. You know, you're

867
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: just interested now because you see what I'm doing, you

868
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 1: see you know my growth, and you see how I'm moving,

869
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: But you're not really you know. That's why the biggest

870
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: turn off of me is when I meet a guy

871
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden he'd be like, yeah, you know,

872
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: girl always wanted to be a comedian. I'd be like

873
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: every time, like so now it's like they're trying to

874
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: out funny me, but I don't really be trying to

875
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: be funny. I just do you have to have like

876
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: joke ideas during sex where something's happening and it'd be funny.

877
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: I've had I've had to go to the bathroom what

878
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: just the stace because something happened it was so funny, Like,

879
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, trying to think because that's the worst

880
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: time to laugh. If you have a funny thought when

881
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: you're having sex and some ship funny happens and you

882
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: want to laugh. It's always when a funny thought comes

883
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: to me during sex, I'm like, we really me at

884
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: him one of my friends, but me and him are

885
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: like the same level of goofy. So if like something

886
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 1: can happen like right at the end and were just

887
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: sitting there dying laughing, and it happens all the time.

888
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: So it's like I can't even pinpoint one thing that

889
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: could be the stupidest thing, but we both find it hilarious.

890
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: And I don't that still though, when you could laugh together, yea,

891
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: we begin rolling like times I don't win in there

892
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: after sex, like bringing in right. Have you guys ever

893
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 1: been like in a situation where you're having sex and

894
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: something happens and you're like, oh, this is gonna be

895
00:52:51,160 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: a good lip service topic we got talking about, Oh

896
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 1: my god, that's good. That's I mean, And that's what

897
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: it is. I think you gotta be able to laugh

898
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: at yourself, you know, and laughing situations and think how

899
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: you could use that for something in life. Use your

900
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: own experiences, because it is like therapy, A lot of experiences.

901
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: I was in therapy Manafact got so much ship Girl

902
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: Come By did it hell. My therapist was like, I

903
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: cancel my benefits. My therapist gave me a personal number,

904
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: like if you ever in the area. She was like,

905
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to a show. She was like, bitch,

906
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: I can't believe all this ship could happen on one person.

907
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,479
Speaker 1: I'd be like, that's why i need to be on stage,

908
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: and that's why I'm on stage as much as I can.

909
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 1: Like I literally was on stage. I was on a

910
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: zoom call, remember like when COVID like had just hit

911
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: last year, and I'm on a zoom call with the

912
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: hospital with my mom right and I'm literally zooming with

913
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: my mother, who is like They're like, yo, this might

914
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: be the last call or whatever. I'm on my way

915
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: to a show. At the fact, I was with Naim

916
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: and them, Um we were somewhere and literally was like

917
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: a hung up with my mother. As soon as I

918
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: hung up, they were like coming to the stage, just

919
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: pay them. And I had to be out there life, hey, hey, hey,

920
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: you know, like just mad energy and ship like that.

921
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: But inside I was up here like my mom is

922
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: about to die, Like, but I couldn't let anybody on

923
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: stage and know that. So when they found out, they

924
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 1: was like, Pam, you know, we had no idea what

925
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: you were going through, what you were dealing with. And

926
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, because my job is for you not to know,

927
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, if you came to

928
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: see comedy and you came to laugh, my job is

929
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: to make you laugh, you know, not to be caught

930
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: up there in my personal ship. Because if that's the case,

931
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: I'll be here right now. I feel like in some

932
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 1: ways comedy has evolved, um beyond just being funny though,

933
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: because it is a lot of commentaries, like a lot

934
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 1: of social commentary, a lot of personal stories, and everything

935
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: doesn't have to always be only funny. What do you

936
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: think about that? It's true? You know they say some

937
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: of the best comedians are the best storytellers because you know,

938
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: anybody could write a joke, but it could be a

939
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: universal joke, like we all talked about niggas with small dicks,

940
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: could be the same for all of us, and for

941
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: some people that's not funny. And I can tell you

942
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: who those people are. Everybody. If you see somebody leaving

943
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: a comment on lip services page is mad about the

944
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: small dicks shrimp under their sp It's just like I

945
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: don't know. It's just like I don't even remember the

946
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: question I was. I was saying, how sometimes you're saying storytellers, right, So,

947
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 1: like I said, anybody could write a joke, you know.

948
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: But like I said, if me and us female comedians

949
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,240
Speaker 1: both went up there and we both started talking about

950
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: sex or like I said, dudes with small dicks, Like

951
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: I said, we've fall into the stereotype. And they're like, oh,

952
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 1: we heard this. Every time a female up people, she's

953
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: talking about the same stuff. But if I tell a

954
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: story that's specific to we can't nobody repeat that church.

955
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: If I want to put that Coshana ship into a joke,

956
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: can't nobody else put that same thing into a joke,

957
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: such a specific name that might have been. So it's

958
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: like I think by doing that, it makes you unique

959
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: as a comedian. It makes you stand out, you know,

960
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: it makes your content not the same, you know, and

961
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: it makes people want to see Like I want to

962
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: see her show, Like I want to come out to

963
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 1: you know, Kansas City this weekend and watch the Plastic

964
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: Cup Boys at the Kansas City Improv because I want

965
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: to see her jokes. Not saying it makes them want

966
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 1: to see it. So I feel like I'm working in entertainment.

967
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,399
Speaker 1: A lot of people, with our emotional things and our

968
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: personal problems, we always have to put it in the background.

969
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: And a lot of people don't realize that. There's been

970
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: so many times that I've been through nasty breakups and

971
00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 1: I have to come and record the show and so

972
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 1: about relationships. How many times I'll be in the back

973
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: stressed out and come on like I'm span You know

974
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's it's like, kudos to you for

975
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: doing that in such a hard situation. And Jessica, and

976
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: you know, I always say this, and I tell you this,

977
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: I think you're amazing. And we are going to have

978
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: you on as a you know, fill in the host

979
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: as regularly as we possibly can. So we appreciate you

980
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: for that. And do you want to make a resolution

981
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: for lip service moving forward? In two? We are not

982
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: going to talk about guys and small dicks anymore. They

983
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: get so mad and we have to stop doing that.

984
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: We want to be more inclusive. I thinks are made

985
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: to be broken anyway. But if you want to be inclusive,

986
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: you got to talk about the little dick. That's what

987
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't joke about big dicks, because that's

988
00:57:51,360 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: nothing a joke about. You don't with with exactly, and

989
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: because big that that's all they had to be as big, right,

990
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: all right, Well, maybe forget that resolution, kiddy. It's too

991
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: many of them out there. Like them a little more love, yes,

992
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: not criticism. They do, and they they're good for say things. Look,

993
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: they know I have some friends who definitely had sex

994
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: with men with and they said that they were pleased.

995
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: They're easier to suck. It's know, some women prefers smaller penises.

996
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: We are not good. Don't right here like little? She said,

997
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 1: She like like when the balls is bigger than the dick,

998
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: there's always gonna be there's always gonna be somebody for somebody. Yeah,

999
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 1: there's always gonna be a person for everybody. So if

1000
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 1: you got a little dick, there's somebody out there for you.

1001
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: Like we haven't seen the many Corner Children's commercial. Definite

1002
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: small penis will fly. I'm definitely seeing the lip service comments.

1003
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: And they'd be bothered, so you know you could tell

1004
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 1: they'd be so alright, well, anyway, that's lip service before

1005
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 1: we get in trouble. Yeah, exactly. The heart at tech alright,

1006
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: Jess Camp again, thank you so much. Kansas City, Yes,

1007
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: Kansas City. This weekend Kansas City improv with plastic cup Boys.

1008
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: Come check us out if you're in the area. Alrighty

1009
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: shout out to that bank. I love y'all right service, Danielle.

1010
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: I want my money, but