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Speaker 1: This is from Dion and Saint Louis. Dion says, I

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Speaker 1: met my husband in the grocery store. He bagged my

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Speaker 1: groceries and we struck up a conversation. We ended up

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Speaker 1: going out and we secretly dated for months. He's down

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Speaker 1: on his luck, but he's really a great and loving man.

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Speaker 1: My friends and family do not respect him because he

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Speaker 1: doesn't work. I make good money, so he's taking his

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Speaker 1: time to find a good job as a certified electrician.

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Speaker 1: But right now I'm paying his monthly two hundred and

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Speaker 1: eighty dollars in child support. I think he would do

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Speaker 1: the same for me if the tables were turned. Should

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Speaker 1: I put him on a strict timeline to get a job.

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Speaker 1: We've been married for almost a year now.

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Speaker 2: Lady, I'm so cofused.

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Speaker 3: Quit a minute.

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Speaker 4: Where were what.

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Speaker 3: You met this guy? M he was bagging up your groceries?

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Speaker 3: Mm hm, y'all started secretly dating?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: Now he tried to find a job as a certified

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Speaker 3: electricity electricians Where that comes from?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: But you met him he was bagging up your groceries

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Speaker 3: and y'all dated secretly. The reason he was dating them

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Speaker 3: secretly because he was bagging groceries. You ain't want nobody know.

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Speaker 3: Now he'd have told you that he over here he

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Speaker 3: a certified electrician.

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Speaker 4: Where that comes from?

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Speaker 3: What that certification? That's a highly skilled position. Bagging groceries.

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Speaker 3: I bag. I started bagging groceries when I was fifteen sixteen.

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Speaker 4: Picture pack You did that job too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you ain't ain't require nothing. Jesus, the bags, Jesus

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Speaker 3: the groceries. Put these groceries in this bag. Now you

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Speaker 3: get good that after a while. You know to put

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Speaker 3: your cans at the bottle so you don't break eggs

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Speaker 3: and smash. Though that doesn't just good. But a certified

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Speaker 3: electrician where that comes from?

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Speaker 4: Wholenother field set?

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Speaker 3: He paid child support.

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Speaker 4: Two hundred eighty dollars a month. What could it be?

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Speaker 1: He was bagging groceries, working the job while he was

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Speaker 1: working on getting.

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Speaker 4: Trying to find a job electrician.

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Speaker 2: All I know is that schooling or anything. That's a

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Speaker 2: very low child support right there. You ought to be

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Speaker 2: paying that on TAM. That's a very low child to eighty?

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Speaker 3: Why did you all?

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Speaker 1: Her question is her question is should she put him

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Speaker 1: on a timeline to get a job. She says he's

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Speaker 1: looking for a job, and she believes that if the

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Speaker 1: if the tables returned, he would do the same for her.

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Speaker 4: And they've been married for almost a year.

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Speaker 3: Well, wait, when did they get married. When they get married,

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Speaker 3: they were secretly dating because he would bag a grocery.

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Speaker 3: I was dating, I was dating a man I met,

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Speaker 3: I was dating a man I met.

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Speaker 4: And I met my husband in the grocery store. Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: He bagged my grocery.

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Speaker 1: And we struck up a conversation. They ended up going out.

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Speaker 1: They secretly dated for months. He's down on his luck,

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Speaker 1: but he's a really great man. He's a loving man.

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Speaker 1: Her friends and family don't crest him.

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Speaker 3: Who is the secret to hold tom Temmy hold on

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Speaker 3: one second? Go go go ahead, So finish reading.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Her friends and family do not respect him because

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Speaker 1: he doesn't work, but she makes good money, she says,

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Speaker 1: so he's taking his time to find a good job

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Speaker 1: as a certified electrician.

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Speaker 4: That's where the certified electrician comes in.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 4: See, just when did they get married?

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Speaker 1: Doesn't say all this?

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Speaker 4: This crazy, crazy point is they're married. They've been married

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Speaker 4: for almost a year.

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Speaker 3: Were bagging groceries and y'all taking taking a secret.

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Speaker 2: Now you known't nobody.

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Speaker 3: Respect him because he ain't working.

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Speaker 4: He was bagging and groceries.

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Speaker 2: Too, and what all this all the child electricity. He

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Speaker 2: should have been working all his power out of this

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Speaker 2: whole last.

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Speaker 4: He could have been stupid.

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Speaker 3: A time man, Dear, what you're gonna do? You're gonna

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Speaker 3: divorce it?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: This?

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Speaker 4: This is crazy?

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