1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on the don giving 3 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: them like the million buck things in the stubs. Good 4 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: listening to mother for st Please, I don't join joining. 5 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: You gotta turn you're going. You gotta turn to turn 6 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: out turn you got to turn them out, the turnout 7 00:01:46,840 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: of water, the water go. Come come on your tha 8 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: uh huh, I shore will a good morning everybody. You're 9 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, Come on dig me na wanted 10 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show. I gotta tweet 11 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 1: the other day. When Steve Harvey used to get the preaching, 12 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: I used to just turn the radio off. But Noah's different, 13 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: old dude be bringing it. He'd be bringing the truth. 14 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 1: I appreciate that, you know. Man, When I was younger, Man, 15 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: when I when I wanted to do what I wanted 16 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: to do, Man, I just man, I didn't want to 17 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: hear nothing else. I didn't want to hear nothing that 18 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: contradicted what I wanted to do. You know. So it's 19 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: a funny thing man about me. Man I was I 20 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: would hear the truth, I would know it to be 21 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: the truth. But because I had another plan, another mission, 22 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: another goal, another set of dudes. I wanted to get done. 23 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: I didn't want to hear that. You know, it's a 24 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: funny thing, man, It's like it's like when I was 25 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: a little boy and I used to get scared sometime 26 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 1: at night, you know, the booger man. So I thought 27 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: that if I just pulled the blanket up over my head, 28 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 1: that that meant that if I can't see the booger man, 29 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: he can't see me. That's the theory. That's an ostrich, 30 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: you know, sticking his head in the sand, thinking wow, 31 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: if I don't see this dude, he can't see me. 32 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: A lot of Ostriches didn't die with their head stuck 33 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: in the sand. I just didn't want to be one 34 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: of the people that left this world with my head 35 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 1: in the sand. But I just wanted to say, man, 36 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: this morning, that quit talking about change. Y'all listening, because 37 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: because because this is real right here, quit talking about change, 38 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: and let's make a change. You know, man, I don't 39 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: I don't mind giving people advice. I really, I really 40 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: really don't, because so many people along the way have 41 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: handed it to me freely. Man. Some people just saw 42 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: me doing wrong and say, young man, come here, let 43 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: me talk to you for a minute. Some people say, hey, bro, 44 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: look man, I know what you're trying to do it. Man, 45 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: when have you thought about it this way? So I've 46 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: had a lot of favor in my life, a lot 47 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: of grace been shown on me, a lot of mercy, 48 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: A lot of people and came to me, helped me 49 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: a long way. So I don't have no problem with 50 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: this part of what I'm what I'm obligated to do 51 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: in the mornings. But let's quit talking about change, y'all, 52 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: and let's make a change. She changed its growth, and 53 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: it ain't no growth without change. You got people, Man, 54 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: You ever met a person that's just insistent on doing 55 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: it they way? I mean, no body in the building 56 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,799 Speaker 1: think they should go that way. But they're so bone headed. 57 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: Oh this is how I'm gonna do it. But bro, 58 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: listen to me. Man, that ain't high as done. You're 59 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: gonna run into this distance. I'll show you. Hey a minute, man, 60 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: you can't do it that way. Man, If you are 61 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: sick and tired of where you are, then you have 62 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: to change. Change can only come from within. Can nobody 63 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: make you change? Now, we got a penal system in 64 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: place that can make you sit down. If you don't 65 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 1: want to change, we'll sit you down, and we'll restrict 66 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 1: your movement and your communication to the point where if 67 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: you want to continue this foolishness, we're gonna put you 68 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: in this building with a whole lot of people. That's foolishness, 69 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: and y'all just trick each other all day long. But 70 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 1: if you are sick and tired of your situation, pray 71 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: for it. Pray for change, Ask God to help you change. 72 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: Ask God what he wants for you instead of always 73 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: telling God what you want. It's an interesting prayer to 74 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 1: have with God. When you quit going to God with 75 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: your list and check in with God and see what 76 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: his list is. That's a very interesting prayer. If you're 77 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: a praying person, I suggest you try that sometime. It's 78 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: so interesting. Man, do you know what he did for 79 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: me when I started asking God what he wanted for me? 80 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: Instead of telling God all the time. I still tell 81 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: him what I want, but instead of all the time 82 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: going to Him with what I want. You know what 83 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: it did for me. It freed me up. It took 84 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 1: a lot of pressure off. I no longer had to 85 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: think of everything, and what I was thinking of a 86 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: lot of times wasn't working no way. And when I 87 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: opened myself up to what he wanted to what his 88 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: wheel was, Man, do you know how much simpler my 89 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: life got? And do you know how much bigger it got? 90 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you, man, if you pray for 91 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: change and you allow God to help you with the change, 92 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 1: or if you let God just produce the change, the changing, 93 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: you would be amazing. If you've been listening to me, 94 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: especially out in La since I was on the radio 95 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: since two thousand, can't you hear the change? I'm flat 96 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: out telling you that a change has come. But I 97 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: had to pray for the change because I couldn't make 98 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: the change on my own. And then after you pray 99 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: for the change, you gotta work towards your trade change. 100 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: You know it as a faith without works is dead. 101 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: Everybody wants something from God, always want to talk to 102 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: God about something. But then man, ain't ain't, don't, don't 103 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: want to do nothing about it. Faith without works is dead. 104 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: You can't do it that way, man, it just does 105 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: not happen. So so after you didn't pray to God 106 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: about it, what you gotta do. Then is you gotta 107 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: turn around and go hey, man, all right, now what 108 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: is it I got to do? You know, you got 109 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: to do something to bring it about. So after you 110 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: pray for it, work for it, and do something today 111 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: about it. Stop procrastinating. Don't procrastinate, folks. The change can 112 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: start today. Man, I want to change. How about today? 113 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: You know, then you see them same people, Man, I 114 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: want to change. That's next week. How about today? I 115 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: see people years later, Man, I see in the same 116 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: old situation. Man, I'm gonna do so how about today? 117 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: Today is a good day. There's nothing stopping you from 118 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: changing today, nothing except you. You can begin the process 119 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: of change immediately. And change is growth, y'all. And ain't 120 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: no growth without changing. It's a simple thing. And I'm 121 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: talking to you in broad strokes because everybody got something 122 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: about them they need to change. That's why I'm not 123 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: specifically talking about anything. I got some things in me 124 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: didn't need to change so I can grow further. Everybody 125 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: has something about them that they need to change in 126 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: order to grow further and then go further. Now, what's 127 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: stopping you is you won't start the change today. Don't 128 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: hesitate make that change and then I want you to 129 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: watch something. When you change, Watch the difference in you, 130 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: Notice the difference in you, feel the difference in you, 131 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: and guess what you're gonna be different. If you're watching 132 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: for the change, if you're feeling the change, then guess 133 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 1: what you're gonna be different. Man, Watch for the difference, 134 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: feel the difference. You will be different. If you're sick 135 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: and tired of your situation, folks, you can change that. 136 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: But the change is in you. It's a simple decision 137 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: you had to make. I'm gonna change. The change is 138 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: up to you. You can decide to day if you 139 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: want to change, you want to be different. If you're 140 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: sitting behind the wall, I love speaking to the brothers 141 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: and sisters behind the wall. If you're behind the wall, man, 142 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: and you're sick and tired of being behind the wall, man, 143 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: why don't you change? You've thought about that? Change? Man. 144 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: If I get back out there, I'm gonna just do 145 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,119 Speaker 1: the same thing. Stop saying that. Stop breathing that negativity 146 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: into your life. Decide today that you want to change. 147 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: You can do it. Everybody can change. If you don't 148 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: know how to change, pray for it, man, Ask God 149 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: to help you with the change, or you get some movement, 150 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: then partner, you get a whole lot of movement. Then 151 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: all right, let's ride. You're listening show, ladies and gentlemen, 152 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: it is here. It's morning time. It's gratitude time. It's 153 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: attitude time, it's altitude time. If you add thanksgiving to 154 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: those that one thing, gratitude, it changes your attitude, which 155 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: directly affects your altitude. Period. That's it. That's it. It's 156 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 1: a fact. Doesn't matter if you believe in it or 157 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: adhere to it. It's just facts. Start being grateful and 158 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: watch what happened. So today I'm grateful. I invite you 159 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: to do the same. Let's get it on, Shirley Strawberry 160 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: call it for real, Junior, Mississippi Monica. Tommy's out today, Junior, 161 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: what's on your mind? You know what? Uncles, let's say 162 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: right there with this gratitude. You know, I was thinking 163 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: about something, man, I was looking at that like your 164 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: whole career and everything. Oh, had it been moments where 165 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: you had to be grateful and still walk along when 166 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: nobody believed in your dream and your vision? Boy, let 167 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: me speak on behalf of everybody that has ever wanted 168 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: to be in by anybody. Trying to convince everybody that 169 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: you might one day be somebody sound like old Church. 170 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 1: So I'm just a nobody trying to tell live everybody, 171 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: oh about somebody that can save anybody. I'm just a 172 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 1: new body trying to tell everybody about somebody looking saveing anybody. 173 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: And yeah, man, you're gonna go through moments like that 174 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: where you feel alone and difficult, and you're gonna have 175 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: to try to find the motivation that keeps you moving 176 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: when there ain't none surrounding you. It's a lot of 177 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: days like that. That's one of the things that make 178 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: being successful so hard. It's hard to find a support 179 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: on your way to be successful because what happens is 180 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: so many people you've been close to ain't gonna be 181 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 1: on that same success journey you own, and they just 182 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: not gonna understand this different you that can showed up 183 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, and then you get pushed back. 184 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: And it's strange how it comes from family and friends, 185 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: which makes you feel even more isolated. So yeah, man, 186 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: it happens to us all. It's a part of the 187 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: success progress. That's why it's imperative that you have relationship 188 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: with God, because he is the one force that is 189 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: steady and consistent. He never changes. Your old people say, 190 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: hold on the God's unchanging hand because it don't change. Though. 191 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: He don't move. He don't wait solid man, he's solid. 192 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: He that in the clutch, in the crunch. When the 193 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: five storm start, he did do man, when the sunday outside, 194 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: he did say, what you need I get back to you. 195 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: His answer is, I got whatever you need just asked 196 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 1: me for Bring your burdens to me and leave it 197 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: there regardless. That's what you anybody say when you take 198 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: him to God, you leave it right there. He don't 199 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: give it back. He just don't do that. Show glad 200 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: he don't love him. Mercy. All right, great question, great 201 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: answer to all right, coming up at thirty two minutes 202 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll run that prank back with Junior 203 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening all right now. The nephew 204 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: is out today, but it is time to start your 205 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: morning off. Anyway, would run that prank back. Junior is 206 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: in for the nephew. What you got, Junior? Your wife 207 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: gave me this disease, say yo, wife, that he me 208 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: a disease. Running again. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach out. 209 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Dante. Yeah this is who this? Hey? 210 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: How you doing? Man? Um? Just to be certain your 211 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: Dante is married to Tammy? Right? Yeah? Okay? Cool? Cool? 212 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: So listen, man, Uh so you heard about me, you know, 213 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: maybe heard my name before because I used to day 214 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: Tammy way before you guys got married. You know, my 215 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: name is Marcella. So I just want to call and 216 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: say how are you doing? But I need to say okay, yeah, 217 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: I know she mentioned you mentioned y'all used to be 218 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: together before we Yeah, okay, I've heard about you. What's um, 219 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: what's the phone call for? I needed to talk to you, man, 220 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: And I've been holding this back at least four years. 221 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: You know, I haven't said anything. And you know I 222 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: can't hold it no more. Man. I'm going through so 223 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: many issues right now. I just gotta I gotta get 224 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: this thing. I gotta get the grips on this thing 225 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: that I'm going through. But you know, I wanted to 226 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: come to you, man, to man, talk to you about 227 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: this situation. You know, I hate to bring it to 228 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: you like this, but when me and Tammy were together, 229 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: I don't even gonna say when we were together, Tammy 230 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: gave me a disease. Man, So you know I've been 231 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: holding this, you know, And I gotta say I wanted 232 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: to hit you up. I thought about it two years ago. 233 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: I wanted. But like, what do you mean, like she 234 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: gave you a disease? She gave me a disease about 235 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: four plus years ago, this way before y'all got married. 236 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: I'm from understanding y'all been married about three years, right, yeah, 237 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: oh my god. Okay, okay, and you're calling me, you're 238 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: calling me. It gives me the heads up. Ah, man, 239 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: I'm calling because dude, these there, the medical bills and 240 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: all this that's just completely out of control. I can't 241 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: even you know, I can't take care of myself no 242 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: more with this, you know. And I don't feel like 243 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: I have to because she the one that gave me 244 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: to day to see. Okay, So you're calling because you 245 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: want you want me to pay for you want you 246 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: want us to pay for your medical bills. The dude, Like, 247 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: I mean, damn, dude, I mean put yourself in my position, mare, 248 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: I mean what some brothers post with you? You know, 249 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm sitting over here with the disease. Somebody gave me, 250 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: and you know they're going on what they like. Boh yeah, 251 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: but this is so you're calling me telling me my 252 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: wife gave you a disease. First of all, she would 253 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: have told me that. Secondly, now you're telling me like 254 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: I might have some. You gotta be kidding me, Well, 255 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: what did she give you? What disease are you talking about? Man? 256 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: At this point, you know, I don't even want to 257 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: discuss it. I just want to get on board. Let's 258 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: can we get some kind of understanding with the medical 259 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: fields that I can't inside of control. Man, I'm not paying, Okay, 260 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pay for your medical bills, especially when 261 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know what those do you mean what 262 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: you mean she gave you a disease? Man? I'm over. 263 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: You're freaking the out, dude. Dude, I understand, you know, Bro, 264 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: I hope you're good. I really you know, But I'm 265 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: just saying, man, dude, I don't know what to do. 266 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: No mom, Man, I really don't you know, like I, oh, hey, yo, yo, 267 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: you need call me all right? You you talking in circles. 268 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: You're telling me something you have you caught four or 269 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: five years ago. Well, what is it? Some it's so uncheerable. 270 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: What the disease are you talking about? Man, Dude, I'm 271 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 1: all I'm trying, dude, with regardless of what it is, 272 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying to handle the medical fields on it, man, 273 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to do, Dude, Moore, kind of 274 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: medical bills could you have for some you caught for 275 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: years ago, like four years ago, you should have been 276 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 1: able to fix session. What is it? Dude? She gave 277 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: me the disease and now I need somebody to play 278 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: these damn fields. That's all I'm saying to you. All right, 279 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: that's all I'm saying. It's Dante yo. I'm I'm telling 280 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: you what I'm telling you. Marcello's quit playing and tell 281 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: me what the disease this is. It's march Cellus, man, 282 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: It's march Cellus. Okay, I'm telling your name this I'm 283 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: getting here. Ya Ya gave me diabetes? What the diabetes? 284 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: Your wife gave me diabetes? Man? Man, you must be 285 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: come to the hell. You can't. Can't somebody give you diabetes? 286 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: What you mean she gave you diabetes? Man? Your wife cooking, 287 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: was cooking all them cakes and pies, and you know 288 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: all that sugar, you know, and then you cannot Bro 289 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: had me thinking my wife gave you her piece or 290 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: some man. You just don't know how to work out, 291 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: you know how to eat? That's on you, man. I'm 292 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: paying no bills for that diabetes. It's wrong with you. Man. 293 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh so na, No, no, no, it's funny. Yeah, you 294 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: laugh you're laughing at me, don cake, Yeah, I'm laughing 295 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: at you call my phone talking about my wife gave 296 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: you diabetes? Bro, for real? Is livid? Broy, Can I 297 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: say something else? Don't time to take what what you 298 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: want to say? I want to say this, dan Jay, 299 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: you just got frank baby, This nephew till me from 300 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: the sea Harvey morning. So your wife can me got 301 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: me to frank? Folks? Oh damn yo, oh step I 302 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: got you baby, I got you. Wow. Okay, See she 303 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: told me about she told me about Marcello, but I 304 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: never heard his voice. Bro. I was on fire. Oh 305 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: my god. H'm good man, Oh my god. Oh you 306 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: have me some scary dude talking about the disease, especially 307 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: the disease the four years lingering. It's like whoa, oh 308 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: my god, man, I was you know when she got home. 309 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: I was about to be so man. Bro, hey man, 310 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: you gotta tell me this man, Come on, John Jake, 311 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest and I'm talking about 312 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the lane? Y'all funny dude, 313 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: This is Steve Harvey. Morning, Happy New Year. I believed 314 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: you are you eating right? You ain't gonna diet? Now 315 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm worried. Bro. You should catch it like that. Bro, 316 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes I think the nephew just be going 317 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: too far. You don't never know which way pranks going. 318 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: You don't know you franking people's husband. Why Zeno didn't 319 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: come find out? This food got dive which was a 320 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: major relief to the hoosband. Yeah, and it was four 321 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: years ago. All right, thank you Junior in for the nephew. 322 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO Chief Love Officer, 323 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey and the building. Right after this, you're listening 324 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: to show coming up at the top of the hour 325 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: and Maertainment News. Nia Long celebrates with the dance as 326 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: her fiance, Celtics head coach reach the NBA Finals. And 327 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 1: the movie I Saw a Top Gun. Maverick jets to 328 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 1: a new box office record with Tom Cruise in national news. 329 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: The Department of Justice is investigating the Uvalde police response 330 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: to the tragic school shooting. We'll talk about all of 331 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour, but right 332 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: now it is time or ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, 333 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey standing by and ready for your love questions. 334 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 1: Here we go LaTavia and New York says, I'm a 335 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: forty four year old single woman and I haven't had 336 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: sex in three years. I recently met a guy and 337 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 1: he said he's willing to wait until I'm ready. But 338 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: he's fine as heck, and I don't want to lose him. 339 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 1: I know you always say that men don't take time 340 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: off from sex. So is he having sex with someone 341 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: else while he's waiting for me? What do you think? Listen? Listen, 342 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: you don't want to rode in on. Listen at the 343 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,280 Speaker 1: time about you've been single and ain't had sex in 344 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 1: three years? He didn't write us in now you hadn't 345 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 1: met this man and he said he'll weight on you. 346 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: Does that mean he have not having said he never 347 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 1: told you he wouldn't having said he said he'll weight 348 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:27,400 Speaker 1: on you. So you're ready. But in the meantime, everybody 349 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: else ain't in that line. See you got the I'm 350 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: waiting line and you got to come get it line, 351 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 1: and he find us. Heck he not. He not writing 352 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: in sweetie. But that's not your business, though, see you 353 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: you can't. That's not your business. Listen to me. You're 354 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: forty four. You meet a man. I don't care who 355 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 1: you meet. They have a history and the history didn't 356 00:22:56,160 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 1: stop righting itself when they meet you. So of these 357 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: histories are ongoing now he met you. He'll wait on you. 358 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 1: He didn't say he was waiting for sex. He said 359 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: he'd wait on you to you ready, that's all he said. 360 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: You can't get mad at this man for that. Well, okay, okay, 361 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: all right, clo, all right. This one Cllo is from 362 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: Nina and Glendale. Nina says, I started working from home 363 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: recently and out of boredom and the need for some 364 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: extra money, I set up a webcam in my bedroom 365 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: for money. The money is pouring in now and it's 366 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 1: easy work. But I'm fifty five years old. So here's 367 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: my question. Would it be wise to retire early and 368 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 1: become an entrepreneur in the comfort of my own home? Well? 369 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:58,119 Speaker 1: What did you asking me? Fault. I mean really, Look, 370 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: I ain't seen your little videos and now if if 371 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: you know, I may throw you into something if I 372 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: see the videos. So they don't need to asking me, 373 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 1: because I may be, you know, maybe I prefer something else, 374 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And I may say something 375 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: to you that makes the stifle your you know, but 376 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: the money rolling in, so somebody, somebody care about it. Deep. Now, 377 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: if you want to retire work from the comfort of 378 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: your own home, then go ahead. You know, don't ask 379 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: me to advise you on stuff like this. You know, 380 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 1: fifty five to wait until you fifty five to be 381 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: a pown star. I don't know where that comes from, 382 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: you know. I don't know what the regulations are. I 383 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: don't know how successful you. I don't know what you 384 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: call money pouring in. See, that's another thing to see 385 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: money pouring into you. Might be a little bit of 386 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: kind of different money pouring into me. Yeah I might. 387 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 1: I might think it's a leak in the damn where 388 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 1: you considered pouring in. Yeah, you know, so we need 389 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 1: to don't ask me nothing else about this for whatever 390 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: you want to do. Man, congratulations on your new career move. 391 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 1: It's astonishing. Most people don't get into polling at fifty five, 392 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: you know, and I don't know who these people is. 393 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 1: That's just money, just polling in. What is you doing that? 394 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: It's just polling in? I think she's in her bedroom alone. Yeah, 395 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: that's what I mean. Yeah, you and you got to 396 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: be pretty active to hold somebody's attention all by yourself 397 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: and money just polling in? What is you in that doing? 398 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: Something is in there with you. I don't know if 399 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: it's you know, cooking utensils, puppy monkeys, cameraman in there. 400 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: I don't know what. You know, you always go to 401 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: because the monkeys, monkeys act like people. You can't really 402 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: control them, and they're strong. You know, next thing you know, 403 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: you they grab your toeing, pull you down off the bed. 404 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: What happened to the motto? Because that monkey strength different? 405 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Sherylan. I'm trying all right, justin in a 406 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,959 Speaker 1: Chicago says my wife and I have three children, and 407 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: the last boy is not my child. I cheated on 408 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: her and we got a divorce. During that time, she 409 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: got pregnant and the guy deserted her while she was vulnerable. 410 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: I got her to remarry me, but I am still 411 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: resentful that this child isn't mine. I need to work 412 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: on that. So how do I get past this? Wow? 413 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: Hold on, Man, hold on? Frankie Beverley has a song 414 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: out that says, I know I bought it on myself. 415 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,919 Speaker 1: I owe no blame to no one else. And I 416 00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 1: realized I can't get over you. Don't you understand that 417 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: you bought this on yourself? What are you talking about? Bro? 418 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: You cheated on her, Remember which caused you all to 419 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 1: get a divorce. Remember now why y'all was divorced. You 420 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 1: was doing other things too. Remember then the man deserted her. 421 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: Remember then you called her in a moment of vulnerability. 422 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: Remember now you got her back. Now you resent for 423 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,120 Speaker 1: little boy. You got a lot of nerve, though, got 424 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: a lot of nerves at a lot of nerve. Dog. 425 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,919 Speaker 1: If you go back over there, if you've been just 426 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: go back over the things I said. Remember you got 427 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: a lot of nerve, dog. And Plus, here's what all 428 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: you gotta do is, remember, dog, everybody needs somebody. That 429 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: boy needs somebody too. He's been deserted. That's that's your 430 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: cross to bear. It's a lot of men that then 431 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 1: took off other unworthy men's crosses. So that's your cross. 432 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: Whad like a man and be a man to be 433 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,719 Speaker 1: proud of the fact that you a man presenting her 434 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: being resentful for the boy. The boy has nothing to 435 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 1: do with it. The boy is a byproduct of your actions. 436 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: M M. So now as a byproduct of your actions, 437 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: don't you think that comes from consequences with it? So now, Brod, 438 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 1: just do your duty. You're listening hard morning show. In 439 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: sports entertainment news, After the Boston Celtics won the Eastern 440 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 1: Conference Finals by beating the Miami Heat on Sunday, Junior 441 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: well Nia Long shared her joy and support of her 442 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: fiance and Boston's head coach. His name is Emay Euduka Eudoka. 443 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: Okay Emay Eudoka, and Nia posted a video of her 444 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: cheering and dancing punctuated by a high kick, and followed 445 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: up her video with an Instagram post that highlighted her 446 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 1: man taking the Celtics to the finals in his first 447 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: year as head coach. Speechless, patience and purpose, Nia capturing 448 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: the photo. So, Junior and Steve, you all talked about 449 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: the NBA Finals yesterday. Now, who do you all have 450 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: to win it all? This time. Oh well, well we 451 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: got the Wars. You know, I appreciate all that jumping 452 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: and kicking though our girl Nia we love yeah, you know, 453 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: but that's your husband. I like him personally too, but 454 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: these these as the Warriors. You know, I wish him 455 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,479 Speaker 1: well and everything. I hope a good series. But you know, 456 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: m so y'all got the Warriors, both of y'all. You know, 457 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: Steve don't like you don't like Boston. I don't like Boston. Yeah, 458 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 1: oh no, why don't you like that? I forgot because 459 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: they turned over the little black kids school buses, seting 460 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: it Folk. So I ain't had nothing for Boston here 461 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 1: since I don't give a dam about the Patriots red socks, 462 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: none of wait here was this again, seting it Folk? Okay, 463 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: turned to black kids school but so the racist asked 464 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: people up there, I'm not killing about Boston. Only time 465 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,959 Speaker 1: I wanted Boston to ever win anything was when Paul Pierce, 466 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,239 Speaker 1: Ray Allen and Kevin Garnett was up there. Then I 467 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: was pulling for them because I wanted all three of 468 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 1: them to get a ring, and they got one. Right 469 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: after that, We're right on back to hating. Then right 470 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: on back because I really ain't got nothing against the 471 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 1: people of Boston. I really don't, you know. Yeah, we 472 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 1: got love alone, but Boston I'm not gonna be happy to. 473 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: Ok Yeah, I just need to city Hall to pay 474 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: for that, mimoste. Not the people, just city Hall. Want 475 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: one night when everybody at home safe, you know, I 476 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: don't want nobody to get hurt City Hall. Then then 477 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: I'll be even with her. Okay, I'll be even. But 478 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: I need city Hall. It's the only way you turned 479 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: the school busover. I want the building down, and then 480 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: we'll be even. In Boston. Oh like all I like 481 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: walberg Nen, I like all the boys in Boston. Man. Yeah, 482 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 1: all right, well Nia, we still love you too, all right, 483 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: so we're gonna just move on. Ye Carla, you have 484 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: some music news for us. What's up? Girl? Well, let 485 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: me tell you guys. Anita Baker, We love Anita Booth. 486 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: She shot it out Chance the Rapper during her Sunday 487 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 1: night show at the Venetian in La Vegas. After Yeah, 488 00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 1: after she said, Chance the Rapper helped her regained control 489 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: of her master recordings. Take a look right by way 490 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: of music, by way of helping me, yes, helping me 491 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: to get a hole. That's what I'm talking about that. Yeah, 492 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, old school, new school. Some of 493 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: them young boys. A lot of these young boys is 494 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: great businessman man. Yeah. They have found a way to 495 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: stop letting the music business used him the way it 496 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 1: used Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's I don't know what 497 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: he did, but I'm glad he did. Congratulation she was happening. 498 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: Nita Baker Steel got a two boys. Yeah. Yeah. You 499 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: hear her voice. It sounds so beautiful, didn't it. Yes, 500 00:32:55,200 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: we love yeah, and we know she's been battling, you know, 501 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: her for ownership for her recordings for a long time. 502 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 1: So just like you said, Steve, it's so so cool. 503 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 1: Chance the rapper, the business part. These new artists helping 504 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 1: legendary artists, the business part. She has ownership of her 505 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: master recording. So now we could go back and buy 506 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: Anita's greatest hits. Yes, Rapture, cut up in the Rapture, 507 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah. So that's it. That's music news. 508 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: He's on one today. You could have saved Yeah. Uh 509 00:33:43,400 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: fun someone all right, got it? Were rocking? Uh my 510 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 1: favorite female artist. Yeah. Wow, that's saying a lot. That's 511 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: saying a lot all the time for Straight out of Detroit. Yeah, 512 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: uh huh, all right. In other entertainment news, Top Gun 513 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: Maverick uh took off at the box office this weekend. 514 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 1: I saw it. What a great movie, setting a brand 515 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: new record in the process. Um the sequel to the 516 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 1: ninety eight nineteen eighty six blockbuster, which has Tom Cruise 517 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: reprised his most iconic role as Pete Maverick. Mitchell May 518 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 1: then estimated one hundred and fifty six million dollars domestically 519 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: for its four day opening weekend, and that gives the 520 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,720 Speaker 1: film the record for the biggest opening over the Memorial 521 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: Day holiday weekend, overtaking Pirates of the Caribbean at World's End, 522 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:54,280 Speaker 1: which made only one hundred and fifty three million. Okay, 523 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 1: if you can believe that in two thousand and seven. 524 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 1: All right, So congratu dulations Going up, Yeah to Tom Cruise. 525 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: You know I love to do and he looks so great. 526 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 1: He hasn't changed one ounce. All right, coming up in 527 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,319 Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour. You know, June is Black 528 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: Music month, and guess who's here, Roscoe Wallace. Right after 529 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: this you're listening to morning show. All right, So June 530 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: is Black Music Month, and we all know that the 531 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 1: black music is the music of America. Shirley is right. 532 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: June is Black music Month, and we all know that 533 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: black music is the music of America. Our very own junior, 534 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace, he's in fielding baby every day. Yeah, what's 535 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: happened to, Roscoe? This is your month's How are you 536 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: gonna have black here's your mode without my black hand? 537 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: Black music Month. I'm everything that is black music. I'm 538 00:35:54,800 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 1: black mutic damn near white music. I'm everything with going 539 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 1: on everybody. Robert Waller in the building, baby, yeah, bring 540 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: you all. Oh, I'm just hitting clear the out. You 541 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 1: don't bring all the facts out. You everybody know what 542 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,319 Speaker 1: it is, what it is, so so no nobody think 543 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 1: it ain't horn It ain't. You know that. How's your 544 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: copyright trial we have? Oh it took a little bit, 545 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 1: turned on me, turned on me. Oh they wouldn't got 546 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: a bunch of white folk and oh, you know they 547 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: know each other. They played golf together. You know, they 548 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: were all down at the country club with my case 549 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: discussing it in a folsome took golf tournament. You know 550 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: what they say, I ain't got the rights I'm claiming 551 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: I've got that on my had to you know, I 552 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: was suing him for folk trillion trillion with a tear 553 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: yeo yo. So I'm probably gonna had to knock that 554 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 1: down a little bit. Yeah, how much that's too much? Oh, 555 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna try to hit him now for just 556 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: like a billion. Oh yeah, pull back a little bit, 557 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,959 Speaker 1: pulling back, you know, he'll go ahead and go ahead. 558 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 1: Car Well you know, wow, you've been, you know, dealing 559 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: with the trial Silks Sonic Love Strain. You know they 560 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: remade that by confunction. Oh you know I heard that. Yeah, yeah, 561 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 1: think about it. Oh, that's good, that's good. You know 562 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,919 Speaker 1: they're good. They were saying. You know, I still want 563 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,879 Speaker 1: to give credit when credit dude, you know that they 564 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: did a good job. They ain't con function though confunction 565 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: was out there when it was hot, where everybody could say, 566 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 1: Bruno here, he damn didn't only walk who we up again? 567 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 1: He pay weren't up again? Pay little way. You know 568 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 1: all the sound, all this hell, you know, you ain't 569 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: got fool with nobody like that. You know, all all 570 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,760 Speaker 1: all the rappers out here talking, you know, the Bruno 571 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,360 Speaker 1: bas singing, you know, and you find they got that 572 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: little crazy boy with him or answer pack and yeah, yeah, 573 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 1: you know they got him with him. I like it. 574 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 1: But he went wigs to've seen that? Yeah yeah yeah, 575 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 1: what's straight hair? Well? I like it. I like it, 576 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: you know, but you know he from old school. You 577 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: know we've just got out done like that just got me. 578 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: He ain't got nobody, He ain't got nobody. He got 579 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,359 Speaker 1: an old aunt at the beautist alone. Could have done 580 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 1: that for oh okay, because Jodan she jodas she used 581 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 1: to wear a hand to flip, used to look like 582 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:29,439 Speaker 1: sweet polyt pure brand on Underdog? Where old Where has 583 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 1: my underdog? Gol joy? All right, thank you, Roscoe. We'll 584 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: holler back at you. Bye. We're gonna check Steve's voicemail. 585 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four after you're listening Steve Harvey 586 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Time to check your voicemail. Steve and if 587 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 1: you want to leave a voicemail you're out there listening, 588 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,439 Speaker 1: you got something on your mind? Call eight seven seven 589 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: twenty nine Steve and Lee a voicemail. The first one 590 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 1: Steve is a caller. Her name is Lisa from Detroit 591 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 1: High Steve, Lisa from Metro Detroit There was a show 592 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: at the Fox Theater over Memorial Day weekend with Yale, 593 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,879 Speaker 1: Hughesley and League a couple of other people. It got 594 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 1: real tense on that stage and after a while it 595 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: wasn't even funny. Apparently one person was supposed to be 596 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 1: a headliner, the other person thought they were, and it 597 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: showed on that stage. You can see the angry, you 598 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 1: can feel the attention. My question to you is what 599 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: responsibility does the promoter have and a mixed up like that, 600 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,800 Speaker 1: and couldn't entertainers have figured out a better way, maybe 601 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 1: have a conversation, common courtesy or do all things in 602 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 1: a decent order. I want to hear your point of 603 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 1: view thinks. I love you, I love your show, I 604 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: love the crew. Keep doing what you're doing, have a 605 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,239 Speaker 1: great day. Well, first of all, let me address the 606 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 1: promoters here. Promoters are just promoters. They are in hopes 607 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: of buying artists and paying artists that will sell the 608 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,399 Speaker 1: venue out where they can make a profit. He got 609 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 1: the two people he thought could do that. As we 610 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: all saw what ended up happening was that was some discrepancy. 611 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: But as we saw in the contract clearly who the 612 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 1: headliner was dil Hugley and del Hugley went up last. 613 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: That's clear. The marquis outfront stated the same thing. What 614 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:38,319 Speaker 1: was probably done behind the scenes was the management of 615 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 1: the other artists probably told them they were co headlining. 616 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: But as you saw the contract, clearly it was a 617 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 1: one headline for DL. Here's where the problem starts. Under 618 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: no circumstance should the business part of what the contract 619 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 1: says be taken to the stage. That's never a part 620 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: of the business. Those of you who bought tickets came 621 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: to see a show, not to hear a contract dispute. 622 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 1: This wasn't a court of law. This was a comedy 623 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 1: show and it never should have been bought up at all. 624 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 1: If you had a displeasure with your contract, should have 625 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: took it up with your management and the promoter, either 626 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,719 Speaker 1: after the show or before the show. Taking it on 627 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 1: the stage. It's not the time to do that, and 628 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: it add for a poor performance. What's worse is to 629 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:41,359 Speaker 1: do that in front of the next artist before they 630 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: come out. That is not what people are paid to see. 631 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: And I think that the mission was forgot here because 632 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 1: the mission can't be about you. The mission has to 633 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: always be about that person that bought a ticket. That's 634 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 1: the one thing we always prided ourselves was putting on 635 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: great shows, and that's what he wanted to do. And 636 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 1: he said, clearly people paid to see that, and it 637 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 1: was horrible the way it was handled. It wasn't the 638 00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:15,000 Speaker 1: promoter's position. It was the management of each artist to 639 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 1: understand what the contract said. And then if you had 640 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 1: a problem, just don't go out there. But what you're 641 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 1: going out there to tell the audience about stuff that 642 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,959 Speaker 1: they have no idea for. And I'm glad the lady 643 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,959 Speaker 1: called in because that's how a lot of people felt 644 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: that went to that show. Yeah, and it's horrible because 645 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: I mean, DL ain't ever had a problem like that before, 646 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: all the years of the kings to it, we ain't 647 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 1: ever had that problem. We knew who was going up 648 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: before we before we walked in that arena that night, 649 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 1: or we went to the arena and we said, hey, man, 650 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,640 Speaker 1: I ain't feeling good tonight, can you close for me? 651 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 1: Tonight said has closed before. DL has closed before. I've 652 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 1: closed before, Anne Bernie has closed before. And we've switched 653 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:57,600 Speaker 1: it up on nights where we thought the other one 654 00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: just wentn't up to part it. Then I ain't feeling 655 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 1: good close something because closing it's hard, man. Yeah, you 656 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 1: got to go up after everybody that went up, and 657 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 1: it's a lot of thick talk down on that stage. 658 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,759 Speaker 1: When three kings then went up in front of you 659 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: at tall about four inches thick, and it just got 660 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 1: laid and it's hot. Your ass got to come out there. 661 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,919 Speaker 1: You gotta be a bad man to close. So once 662 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: again apologize to the city of Detroit for what happened. 663 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 1: And it was just a fault purely of the artist 664 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: in management and really nothing to do with the promoter. Yeah, 665 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 1: and you know the next work, Yeah, all right, all right, 666 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 1: coming up next, we'll have another prank phone call for today. 667 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: Junior is in for the nephew right after this. You're 668 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:49,320 Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour, 669 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for 670 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,040 Speaker 1: today and the subject is he wants to be seen 671 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 1: and not heard. We'll get into that in just a 672 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 1: little bit, but right now it is time for the 673 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,960 Speaker 1: prank phone call for today. The nephews out for guess 674 00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: who's here, Junior? What you got Junior? All right? The 675 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 1: nephew is here. He probably do it like this. Let 676 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 1: me see what level is stupid. I'm gonna give y'all. Okay, yeah, 677 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: I'm finning be. I'm finning be extra stupid today. Okay, 678 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,759 Speaker 1: just the one I got. Let me go through my 679 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 1: files and look at my files. Got it here? It is? 680 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: Sex is too loud? Okay, Oh is it now? Yeah? Yeah, 681 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,759 Speaker 1: I don't really like all that's loud. Sex, sex is 682 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 1: too loud? Running cant Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach 683 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 1: uh uh you have the wrong number. This is his 684 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 1: wife though, Can I help you? Uh? Yes, ma'am. I'm 685 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 1: calling you from the front desk here at the at 686 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: the Hilton Hotel. Man, I'm called the room a few 687 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 1: times and you guys, you guys haven't answered. So we 688 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,400 Speaker 1: actually went a little further and got the number of 689 00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: connected with the credit card. And you know, I wouldn't 690 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: be calling your number like this. But the people are 691 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 1: complaining about you guys on the floor. Now, you guys 692 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: are staying on and they're saying that the sex is 693 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: too the sex is too loud coming from you. Wait, 694 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 1: wait a minute, what did you say? People are on 695 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: you as floor saying that the sex is too loud 696 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 1: coming from you and your husband's room. Way, What the 697 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,719 Speaker 1: fuck is going on here? I am at home and 698 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: that mother is out of town. So what are you 699 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:35,160 Speaker 1: saying to me? Uh? Did I get you the whole offers? Sure, 700 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,800 Speaker 1: that's just that's just. This is his wife on the 701 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: phone right now. But she said she's at home. That's 702 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: what she's telling me. She tells me she's at home, 703 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: but she's not upstairs. No, she's not upstairs. They were 704 00:45:54,200 --> 00:46:01,560 Speaker 1: doing a different things. What am I supposed to play to? Okay? Okay, man, yes, okay, 705 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:05,719 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What's your limi? Dominique? Okay, Dominique. You know what, 706 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: We won't worry about it. We'll fix it. What do 707 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,279 Speaker 1: you mean don't worry about it? You just caused me 708 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:15,800 Speaker 1: to tell me that basically, my husband is having sex 709 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,640 Speaker 1: with someone at the hotel, and now you're acting like 710 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm just supposed to act like this didn't happen. Hello. Yeah, 711 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,360 Speaker 1: and I did hear you talking to the background? You 712 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 1: heard who I heard you? Okay? Hold on, hold on? 713 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,839 Speaker 1: Can you hold on again? Please? And uh? Where are 714 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 1: you at? Which is this? Which hotel? Is this? Hold 715 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 1: on for a sucker, man, I didn't hit the mute, 716 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,880 Speaker 1: but I didn't hit the whole buddy. No, she heard 717 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: everything we was talking about. I don't know what am 718 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,720 Speaker 1: I supposed to say to it. The guy won't answer 719 00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: the phone, and it's noise coming from the room all day. 720 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: All right, hello, uh yeah, okay, Dominique, Dominique, I want 721 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 1: to apologize. We thought we were called. Apology is not 722 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,320 Speaker 1: gonna do it. I can solve the problem for you. 723 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: Wish your address? Tell me your address. I'm not at 724 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 1: liberty to give that information. This is some bull some 725 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: real bulls. Can you put your manager on the phone 726 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,640 Speaker 1: or something? Um, I mean Lenage is actually in a 727 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 1: meeting right now. I don't Somethinique. I just want to say, 728 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,400 Speaker 1: I just, I truly apologize. I mean I thought I 729 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: was calling the person that was in the room. I'm 730 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,680 Speaker 1: really really you know, I don't know what to say 731 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 1: if there is nothing to say, unless you're going to 732 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,920 Speaker 1: give me your address right now so I could be 733 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 1: on my way over there. What city are you in? 734 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: Don't worry about where I'm ask I can get to 735 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,360 Speaker 1: you and his you know what, I'm gonna call this 736 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:57,400 Speaker 1: mother for myself and he better what okay, where your 737 00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 1: whole situation? Okay? Right now? Okay, but will you await 738 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: because you're gonna metch what I'm gonna lose my job. 739 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,160 Speaker 1: I don't about your job right now? Bro, you told 740 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 1: me that my husband is some other boy in your hotel? 741 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 1: Do you think I care? So? What's your address? Though? 742 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,440 Speaker 1: I could see all my way? Okay, okay, okay, mom, Mom, 743 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,960 Speaker 1: let me just call him. No, no, no, no, my manager, 744 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:26,840 Speaker 1: My manager coming down now. Your manager is available? How convenient? Okay, 745 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 1: So now I don't need to talk. I don't want 746 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,719 Speaker 1: to talk to your manager. Okay. I thought you wanted 747 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: to talk to the manager. I'm pissed off right now. 748 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 1: So either you're gonna give me your address? Can I 749 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,240 Speaker 1: put this is my manager, Tommy? Can I put Tommy 750 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: on the phone? Sure? Hey, Dominique, Yes, this is Tommy. Okay, Tommy, 751 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: what's going on? Your worker called me to tell me 752 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:57,120 Speaker 1: that my husband was having sex in your hotel? Too loud? 753 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 1: And I asked his address and he won't give it 754 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 1: to me. And I'm on my way down there, and 755 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,800 Speaker 1: I'm about to call my husband since he won't answer 756 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 1: your call. And I did hear him talking to you 757 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 1: in the background. Okay, what did you hear who he 758 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 1: was talking to? No? I didn't. Okay, he was talking 759 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 1: to me. But do you know who I am? No? 760 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:20,359 Speaker 1: I don't and I don't really care. But do you 761 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 1: know Tommy at all? Do I know Tommy? Now? You 762 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: know Tommy? No? Okay? Do you know nephew Tommy from 763 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,760 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Do you write you kitty? 764 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 1: How to hear you? That's that's Tommy. I don't like 765 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,759 Speaker 1: I'm not your friend right now, Tommy, and I don't 766 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 1: like to anymore. I just like, come on, come on, 767 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 1: stay funny. It's not funny, Tommy, it's really okay, all right, 768 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to get off the phone. And we're 769 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,360 Speaker 1: all bad terms. Now we got to get back. We 770 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: gotta be a good terms when the phone. Okay, come 771 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:03,640 Speaker 1: on laugh with me, baby, please. Well I don't know 772 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 1: if you'd be laughing if somebody cause you this, but okay, 773 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 1: I wouldn't You have a sister. Your sister name is Lydia? 774 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:17,240 Speaker 1: Am I right? Yes? Lydia is who got me to pray? Phone? 775 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: Call you basic? Oh okay, it's it's really going down, man. 776 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 1: I got something for you at her kill you in 777 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 1: the streets. Tommy, Okay, let me ask you this before 778 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 1: you go. Lease, give me this. What's the baddest radio 779 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: show in the land? Come on, let me ask do 780 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 1: you know Steve Harvey? And that's you? Tommy? You know what, Tommy? 781 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,920 Speaker 1: You used to be my favorite, but now I'm rather 782 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:49,400 Speaker 1: with Steve. You could kiss Mike. Oh, come on, that 783 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:53,440 Speaker 1: it is sex is too loud. Yeah, but she was 784 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: not about that. She was not having that. Yeah, what 785 00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 1: are they in there doing? Wait a minute, my husband? Yeah, 786 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 1: huh huh, what about it now? Yeah? A great job, 787 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,399 Speaker 1: great job, junior. I need I need's all mine because 788 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you about now. Ain't nobody else stupider than me. 789 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to do well. Ain't but one person 790 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: herschel Walker. That's all. This is everything he said. He 791 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 1: wrote it. He wrote it for me to say it. 792 00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying everything Tommy wrote. All of us say yeah. 793 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: Even when he's not here, he he wants all his 794 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: praise and worship, even when he wants credit for yeah boys, brilliant, 795 00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 1: he can crag, he can pray, want credit for Oh 796 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 1: here's another part. July First Club in South Carolina. Yeah, 797 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:51,239 Speaker 1: I come stupid as finest koga center. I not the 798 00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: crowger Koga Center. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, my contracts a headline, 799 00:51:56,640 --> 00:52:04,000 Speaker 1: I'm on that. I'm not sure if it doesn't, don't 800 00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,000 Speaker 1: go out there? Yeah, what's wrong with you? Want? You ain't? 801 00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 1: You don't want? No. I didn't really feel like being 802 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 1: in praise and worshiped together. Oh but I will agree 803 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:19,359 Speaker 1: one thing. Oh my damn contract headline. When you got there, 804 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: you knew who the hell out was. If you better 805 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,759 Speaker 1: know who you said about you follow this if you 806 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: want to, and I'm gonna go out here and do that. 807 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,680 Speaker 1: What would happen? Yeah, if it didn't say that headline, 808 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 1: or what would happen? And the problem? You know, you 809 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,520 Speaker 1: need to get in front of this. You know you 810 00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:43,440 Speaker 1: don't want behind this? Ye? That was my you? You okay, 811 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I let your headline. You're gonna 812 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: wish you happen? Yeah, I still have put it down 813 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 1: thick and hot out there. You don't want this thick 814 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 1: dog black smoke. It's the strawberry letters subject. He wants 815 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,759 Speaker 1: to be seen but not heard. We'll get into it 816 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 817 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,239 Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and 818 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 819 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 820 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,440 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 821 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air pop hoop, just 822 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,879 Speaker 1: like you're going to read this one right here, right now, 823 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. Never know, 824 00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, it's time for the Strawberry Letter. My 825 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:37,360 Speaker 1: good friend Shirley straw Berry. Thank you, junior. Subject he 826 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,880 Speaker 1: wants to be seen but not heard. Dear Stephen, Shirley, 827 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: my husband and I are thirty four and we've been 828 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 1: together for nine years and married for three years. The 829 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: only reason we are married is because I gave him 830 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,480 Speaker 1: an ultimatum after six years of dating. We needed to 831 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: move this thing forward or I was gone. He always 832 00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,960 Speaker 1: had been very full of himself and the his family 833 00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,280 Speaker 1: made him think he was God's gift to the earth 834 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 1: because he has eyes that change color, and he's tall 835 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: and very handsome. He's a natural flirt and I tolerate 836 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: it because I know that if he ever left me, 837 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,280 Speaker 1: the woman would send him right back to me. Here's 838 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 1: the problem. He's not a manly man outside of the bedroom. 839 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 1: He can really show out in that bedroom, but after 840 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 1: that he's like having a child. All he cares about 841 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,840 Speaker 1: is getting the latest trendy clothes, getting the newest watchers 842 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: or sneakers, and keeping his car clean and shiny outside 843 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: looking in. He's got his stuff together, but boy, oh boy, 844 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,080 Speaker 1: is he trifling. He's got a great job and he's 845 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,319 Speaker 1: in a leadership position, but his manager talks to him 846 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 1: like a child and doesn't allow him to speak up 847 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,000 Speaker 1: and make his opinions known. His manager has even told 848 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,040 Speaker 1: him that he's not paid to think. You know. As 849 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,799 Speaker 1: soon as I heard that, I wanted to call his 850 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: job and speak to his manager, but I had to 851 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 1: realize he's my husband and not my son. I want 852 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:05,000 Speaker 1: him to focus less on how clean he is when 853 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 1: he goes to work and more on how he represents 854 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,160 Speaker 1: himself when he is at work. The same thing goes 855 00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,720 Speaker 1: for our marriage. I need him over our finances, upkeep 856 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,880 Speaker 1: of the house, maintenance of our vehicles, all the manly 857 00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,240 Speaker 1: stuff in a marriage. He'd rather be seen than heard 858 00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,760 Speaker 1: in every aspect of his life. It's been nine years 859 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,239 Speaker 1: and I'm done enabling him. Should I keep planning a 860 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 1: life with this man? Or let this one go? Well, 861 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 1: it's funny you should ask that, because you know you 862 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:37,640 Speaker 1: gave him an ultimatum to marry you, and you knew 863 00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:41,320 Speaker 1: all this stuff before you married him. Did you really 864 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,680 Speaker 1: want to marry this guy? Because it doesn't even seem 865 00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,880 Speaker 1: like it. You should be asking yourself why are you 866 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,799 Speaker 1: acting like your husband's mother instead of his wife. Why 867 00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:53,400 Speaker 1: are you so critical of him? If he's as trifling 868 00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:55,279 Speaker 1: in as bad as you say he is, I don't 869 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,920 Speaker 1: understand why you married him in the first place. Again, 870 00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: these are the questions you should be asking yourself. You've 871 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,640 Speaker 1: known him for a very long time, nine years. You 872 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,279 Speaker 1: said he didn't just get like this. He's been like 873 00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: this all along. Another question for you, why are you 874 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 1: trying to change him now? Could it be you're trying 875 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,800 Speaker 1: to make him how you want him to be? For instance, 876 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 1: as far as the household chores go, you want him 877 00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,279 Speaker 1: to take over the finances, but what if he knows 878 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:28,400 Speaker 1: nothing about finances? You want him to up keep the house. 879 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 1: Is he a handyman? If that's not going to happen? 880 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,160 Speaker 1: Get a proper handyman to do that kind of work. 881 00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,600 Speaker 1: If he's not a mechanic and you want more than 882 00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,879 Speaker 1: just gas and car washes, that's not going to happen either. 883 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,839 Speaker 1: I think you need to manage your expectations of this 884 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,279 Speaker 1: man you married and you knew all about before you 885 00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 1: married him. You're his wife, not his mother. Again. You 886 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,960 Speaker 1: can't be calling up to his job checking his boss 887 00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,799 Speaker 1: because of the way he said his boss spoke to him. 888 00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:03,239 Speaker 1: That's for him to do. You said he was a leader, right, 889 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,400 Speaker 1: You said that in your letter, that your husband is 890 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,320 Speaker 1: a leader. Well let him lead. It sounds like he 891 00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:12,840 Speaker 1: wanted desperately to marry him, you know, thinking he would change. 892 00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,719 Speaker 1: He didn't change. He's the same man you dated for 893 00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: six years, and now you're realizing who he really is, 894 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,960 Speaker 1: and that doesn't seem to be good enough for you. 895 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,000 Speaker 1: I would just love to hear his side of the story. 896 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,240 Speaker 1: And one thing he would probably say about you is 897 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:33,320 Speaker 1: that your boss Steve, among other things. Well, you know, 898 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 1: good answer, Shirley, I don't. There's a waste. He wants 899 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:45,000 Speaker 1: to be seen and not heard. Let's go. You're both 900 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:47,560 Speaker 1: y'all thirty four. You've been together nine years, Mann for 901 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,440 Speaker 1: three and then you say you be gave him an 902 00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,120 Speaker 1: ultimatum and eventually he managed. That's how you got him. 903 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: Okay after six years. Then you tell me that he's 904 00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:59,640 Speaker 1: very full of himself and the women in his family 905 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 1: made him think he was he was God's gift to 906 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 1: the earth because he has eyes that change color. Well, 907 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,640 Speaker 1: I bought my grandson and transformer one time, and it 908 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: do the same thing. Transform. My eyes turned red sometime 909 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:22,600 Speaker 1: sometime they blew, you know, but it ain't the best 910 00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,600 Speaker 1: toy he got. Now you got a man that got 911 00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,280 Speaker 1: his eyes that can change color, and you ain't got 912 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:34,760 Speaker 1: the best man they got either. He's tall and very handsome. Okay, 913 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: so you just got a little cute as boy. Guys 914 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:43,360 Speaker 1: have changed your colors. That meany light skinned dog skinned 915 00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 1: people eyes don't change colors. Don't tell you to be 916 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:51,600 Speaker 1: too damn shocker. So day this little yellow ass boy, 917 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: because his little eyes can change. Because the dogs kill people, 918 00:58:55,720 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 1: eyes stayed the same. So no chocolate, man, I'm telling you, Sherley, 919 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: dog people eyes don't change color. It'll be too much. 920 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have been here having coffee with some fine 921 00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,480 Speaker 1: dog skin and chicken in her eye, change color. You 922 00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,280 Speaker 1: gotta get hell up out of here. That polar gay. 923 00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,600 Speaker 1: That's polar gas. She fit to be stepping out to 924 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,480 Speaker 1: TV when you get home. You need to get your 925 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 1: eyes out of this. Yeah, he's a natural flirt and 926 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,320 Speaker 1: not tolerated because I know if he ever left me, 927 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: the woman was sitting him right back to me. Oh 928 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: so you got somebody, don't nobody won't butch you? Who 929 00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,360 Speaker 1: is letter going to hell? Right here? Here's the problem, 930 00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:37,640 Speaker 1: and we're gonna get to this when I come back. 931 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:41,560 Speaker 1: He's not a manly man outside the bed room. What 932 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:48,800 Speaker 1: oh hell, no, we come back? Hold on, yeah, I 933 00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: ain't gun Steve. We'll have part two of your response 934 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,520 Speaker 1: to today's Strawberry letter at twenty three minutes after the hour. 935 00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 1: The subject he wants to be seen but not heard. 936 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 1: We'll get back into that right after this. You're listening, 937 01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,480 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 938 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 1: The subject is he wants to be seen but not heard. 939 01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,640 Speaker 1: So this woman got this man that don't nobody else 940 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: won't seem like to me. They've been together nine years. 941 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 1: She forced him to marry him, but an ultimatum and everything. 942 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,480 Speaker 1: And then you know he thinks he God's gift because 943 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 1: his ass changed colors. Like I said, I bought my 944 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 1: grandson a transform and do the same damn thing, just 945 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,240 Speaker 1: cause his eyes change color. And then we've come to 946 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 1: the conclusion that he must be a little light skin 947 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,120 Speaker 1: and ass boy, a little yellow boy, because dark skinned 948 01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 1: people eyes do not change colors. It'll be too much, 949 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:47,600 Speaker 1: it'll just be shocked. You're sitting over there sipping your coffee. 950 01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: She looking over the edge of the wood, and all 951 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,440 Speaker 1: of a sudden her eyes go green. You got to 952 01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 1: get the hell out of him, because Mike, I said 953 01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:56,960 Speaker 1: the post the guys, you got to get the hell 954 01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 1: out of here. She possessed. And now he's a natural flirt, 955 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: not tolerated because I know if he ever left me, 956 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,520 Speaker 1: the women with sending him right back to me. So 957 01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 1: now you got somebody don't nobody won't, but you we 958 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,280 Speaker 1: left off right here. Here's the problem. He's not a 959 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:17,360 Speaker 1: manly man outside the bedroom. Oh boy, you got a 960 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,640 Speaker 1: man that ain't side and that ain't a man outside 961 01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:24,480 Speaker 1: the bedroom. So now you just got a big old 962 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 1: or big old what they call it, a man child. 963 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 1: You got a man child. Yeah, he a man in 964 01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:36,280 Speaker 1: the bedroom. He baby Hughey out the bedroom. Just got 965 01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,720 Speaker 1: a damn dip on't look like a big ass egg 966 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,919 Speaker 1: with a dive ahole. You had that big giant dunk 967 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 1: named baby Hughett. But he a man child in the bedroom. 968 01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,880 Speaker 1: He can really show out in that bedroom. But after that, 969 01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 1: it's like having a child who won't that After while, 970 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:56,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna understand that you letting a baby climb on you. 971 01:01:57,120 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 1: That's what you're gonna realize in a minute. See right 972 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 1: now that the man child parties being But then he 973 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: baby Huey outside. After while you're gonna realize it's baby 974 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:11,560 Speaker 1: Huey that you're making love to take your dab off. Baby, 975 01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: Come on e here, lay down this water, clean yourself, 976 01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:17,480 Speaker 1: or you come in. That's what it's gonna start getting to. 977 01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,360 Speaker 1: All he cares about is getting the latest trendy clothes, 978 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: getting the newest watchers or sneakers, and keeping his car 979 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 1: clean and shining outside looking in. He got the stuff together. 980 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 1: A boiled boy. He's trifling. He's got a great job, 981 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,160 Speaker 1: and he's in the leadership position. Now listen to this 982 01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,680 Speaker 1: right here. But his matter talks to him like a 983 01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 1: child and don't allow him to speak up and make 984 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:41,040 Speaker 1: his opinions known. His manager has even told him that 985 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: he's not paid the thing. You know, as soon as 986 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:44,600 Speaker 1: I heard that, I wanted to call this job and 987 01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:47,000 Speaker 1: speak to his manager. Okay, so let me get this straight. 988 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 1: So now everybody knows who he is, and everybody knows 989 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:56,000 Speaker 1: who and what they're dealing with, even you. So now 990 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,840 Speaker 1: your boss know who he is, the co workers know 991 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 1: who he is, and you know who he is. But 992 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:05,720 Speaker 1: you don only want stuck with it. But I had 993 01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 1: to realize he's my husband and not my son. Why 994 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:16,360 Speaker 1: do you even have to say that, Yeah, he's my husband, 995 01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,480 Speaker 1: not my son. I want him to focus less on 996 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:21,600 Speaker 1: how clean he is when he goes to work, on 997 01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,200 Speaker 1: more how he represents himself when he's at work, and 998 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 1: the same thing go for our madness. Surely made a 999 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: good point here. I need him over our finance. Suppose 1000 01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 1: he don't know nothing about finance, up keeping the house. 1001 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 1: He probably knows something about that, because you know about 1002 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 1: upkeep of himself, maintenance of our vehicles, all the manly 1003 01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 1: stuff in the marriage, y'all. Keep you keep asking this 1004 01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:46,440 Speaker 1: boy to be a man when he ain't. He's a 1005 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:51,560 Speaker 1: man child. He's baby Hewett. He's a big ass duck 1006 01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:58,720 Speaker 1: with the dive on. Save that he married him. He's 1007 01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 1: baby Hewett. Look up to them old cartoons, Baby Hughey, 1008 01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:05,600 Speaker 1: the big john ass duck with the big ass lips. 1009 01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:12,280 Speaker 1: Put the dipper on. He'd rather be seen and heard 1010 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,840 Speaker 1: in every aspect of his life. He's been nine years 1011 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 1: and I'm done enabling him. Should I be playing in 1012 01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 1: a life with this man? Or let this one go? No? 1013 01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:22,240 Speaker 1: I think the bigger question is is he playing in 1014 01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:26,400 Speaker 1: a life with you? You forced him into marriage. Of 1015 01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,480 Speaker 1: course he did it because here a little boy, Mama said, 1016 01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:32,960 Speaker 1: I got you man, I got you mad. So now 1017 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,760 Speaker 1: Eric Boston told him shut up. He paid the day 1018 01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:39,320 Speaker 1: he shut his ass on here out there washing his 1019 01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:42,720 Speaker 1: car right now, putting some new sneakers on. He cleaned 1020 01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:45,280 Speaker 1: his hell. And here goes him eyes that in the 1021 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 1: change again to this Sunday. What does each color mean? 1022 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,479 Speaker 1: He's Sunday outside seem like if his daytime his son 1023 01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:58,680 Speaker 1: his eyes is a blue turned into a blue Denny 1024 01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:02,600 Speaker 1: to get into the evening, turn moke great. And then 1025 01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 1: at night he just said damn, hezeling like sexy. Then 1026 01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,440 Speaker 1: he come ahead and back to my eyes. And he 1027 01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 1: taught girl he'd be smelling good and he can handle 1028 01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:16,800 Speaker 1: his business in the bid. But then we get through 1029 01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,600 Speaker 1: in the morning. I got to wash him and brush 1030 01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:22,120 Speaker 1: his teeth so he can get it. And then he 1031 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,320 Speaker 1: gonna go down there trying to leave. You better sit 1032 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,720 Speaker 1: down and eat your Mealfo. You go to work and 1033 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,240 Speaker 1: eat your finished show old Mealfo, you go to work. 1034 01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,240 Speaker 1: And then he'd been crying sometime. Then he gonna run 1035 01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 1: out to the house and get into get your backpack. 1036 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,000 Speaker 1: You're gonna leave all his stuff at work. And then 1037 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 1: I got to see them all right here. And then 1038 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 1: I got to go out there and set his GPS 1039 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 1: so he don't get lost on his way to work, 1040 01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 1: you know. And then he go down there to the work. 1041 01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 1: And then he climbed out the car smelling all good, 1042 01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:49,959 Speaker 1: and women be gonna who I like him, but three 1043 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:51,840 Speaker 1: women to send his ass back to the house. And 1044 01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: then Boston told him he can't make decisions on his job. Lady, 1045 01:05:55,560 --> 01:06:00,479 Speaker 1: you want to quit enabling him. Stop all right. Poster 1046 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:05,000 Speaker 1: comments on today Strawberry letter at Steve Murby FM about 1047 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:08,040 Speaker 1: baby here. Y'all get you some damn dafty dump. Get 1048 01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:12,640 Speaker 1: some black Strawberry Letter Day come up in the Daffy 1049 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: gets Shot and Steell come back. The Strawberry Letter Podcast 1050 01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 1: done demand, coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, 1051 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to 1052 01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:28,360 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior is here with Sports Talk. 1053 01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 1: What you got Junior? All right, Shirley, First of all, 1054 01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:32,960 Speaker 1: on two days, like I let him knowing two days, 1055 01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 1: it is going down the kiers Hope five K Running 1056 01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:39,600 Speaker 1: Fun Walk. We'll be happening this Saturday in two days 1057 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:44,720 Speaker 1: at the market Hunt Hill Bridge in downtown did Dallas, Texas. Also, 1058 01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 1: don't forget the day party. We'll start at three o'clock 1059 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 1: at Sandaga over in Deep Ella. Go to Kershope dot org. 1060 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,560 Speaker 1: That's k I E R s Hope dot org. I 1061 01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 1: can't wait to see everybody. Thanks to all the sponsors 1062 01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 1: that's came out this year. We'll have a lot of fun, music, food, 1063 01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:02,200 Speaker 1: everything and going out a lot of gifts, swag bags, 1064 01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:07,720 Speaker 1: venders everything. I everybody get a swag bag when they 1065 01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:12,040 Speaker 1: come down, shirts being there, all kinds of stuff. You know. 1066 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:15,360 Speaker 1: We don't have water bottles for you. We got all 1067 01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:17,560 Speaker 1: kinds of stuff for you. So I'm excited about that. 1068 01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:20,400 Speaker 1: But let's get to it. Uh. In Major League Baseball, 1069 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:23,480 Speaker 1: I find this quite interesting. I really do that San 1070 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:27,960 Speaker 1: Francisco Giants manager Gabe Kapler has resumed his protest of 1071 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 1: the national anthem. Kapitler stayed in the clubhouse with a 1072 01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:34,720 Speaker 1: handful of players. Now, the question is what's sit between 1073 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:40,200 Speaker 1: Colin Kaepernick protests and Gabe Kapler protesting, Because I just 1074 01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: want to say this, they both have the right to protest, 1075 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,080 Speaker 1: but I have yet to hear any backland or why 1076 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:48,200 Speaker 1: he ain't out there for the national anthem because it 1077 01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:54,200 Speaker 1: don't matter again, Gabe Kapler, manager of San Francisco Giants, 1078 01:07:54,520 --> 01:08:02,000 Speaker 1: who is white, okay, and then Colin Kaepernick black? Just okay? Yeah, 1079 01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:08,560 Speaker 1: next next story? I mean for real, I mean, y'all, 1080 01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 1: come on, Yeah, why do we keep acting like it's 1081 01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 1: the same when clearly it's different and we know it? 1082 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and we know it. Yeah yeah, yeah, I 1083 01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 1: know it. That man was robbed of his career because 1084 01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 1: he took a stands yea police killing black men. And 1085 01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 1: then now the vality situation happened. And now he said, 1086 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm not coming out no more. I'm not I'm not standing. 1087 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 1: He did come out for the national anthem on Memorial 1088 01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 1: Day when they had a game to the yet he 1089 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,639 Speaker 1: did come out. So he's saying he's not standing for 1090 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:53,639 Speaker 1: what reason, Julian, He said, gun control, the country reform, 1091 01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,599 Speaker 1: something something got to happen with gun reform. He that's 1092 01:08:56,600 --> 01:09:00,840 Speaker 1: why he said he's not standing. Okay, cool, I'm standing that. Okay, 1093 01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:04,400 Speaker 1: let's see how long that lasts. But you best believe 1094 01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:09,840 Speaker 1: every politician is gonna slam him for that because they 1095 01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:14,760 Speaker 1: brother brother, they tell him out, they money from the NI. 1096 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:20,439 Speaker 1: Every politician gonna slam him for that. So just watch 1097 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,160 Speaker 1: watch how this man you're talking about messing with their money. Now, 1098 01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,400 Speaker 1: Oh you feeling them here and stand you feel the 1099 01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:33,480 Speaker 1: same anthem and everything else. All right, Junior, Thank you always, 1100 01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:35,800 Speaker 1: good point bringing that up. All right, coming up at 1101 01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,599 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll check Steve's voicemail again 1102 01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:42,479 Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, right after this, you're 1103 01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:48,439 Speaker 1: listening show, all right, Steve, time to go to your 1104 01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:50,800 Speaker 1: voicemail once again. A lot of calls today. If you 1105 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 1: would like to leave Steve a voicemail yourself hit him 1106 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:57,160 Speaker 1: up at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. This one 1107 01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 1: is from Tyrone from Beaumont Tech to Steve. See it's 1108 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:04,839 Speaker 1: power on from Bonemont tists. Man, I heard you somebody, 1109 01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,120 Speaker 1: if you kick the salmon, you would go to jail. 1110 01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,280 Speaker 1: But where I'm from and bonemon tists, if you kill 1111 01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:14,000 Speaker 1: a squirrel you're going to jail. Brother, the same thing, 1112 01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,559 Speaker 1: y'all feel how you feel if you kill a squirrel 1113 01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:18,600 Speaker 1: and bonemonch you're going to jail to kill one of 1114 01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:22,280 Speaker 1: bug and then you're gonna have totigious I mean, look, 1115 01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:25,719 Speaker 1: salmon out of season you can't catch them. A deer 1116 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:29,799 Speaker 1: out of season, you can't shoot them. See, this country 1117 01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:34,439 Speaker 1: is so funny. They have species that are on the 1118 01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:39,080 Speaker 1: endangered species list and you're not allowed to kill them. 1119 01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:42,760 Speaker 1: So why is it that human human lives are not 1120 01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:48,160 Speaker 1: considered an endangered speci See, they just don't make no 1121 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:52,880 Speaker 1: dog on sense. Man, it's mandatory jail time if you 1122 01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,920 Speaker 1: take certain animal as it should be. Well, I think 1123 01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,760 Speaker 1: humans should get that same consideration. Excuse me, but we 1124 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 1: thank you Tyrone from Beaumont. This is a chef Chef 1125 01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:09,000 Speaker 1: Paul left a message about grilling. Steve. Hey, Steve, Rob, Hey, 1126 01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,880 Speaker 1: this chef Paul Man. I was listening to your Bobby 1127 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:14,599 Speaker 1: Q tips and everything. Look, this is what also you 1128 01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,479 Speaker 1: need to do. In the middle of your charcoal. You 1129 01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 1: put your can down. Then you know, you get that 1130 01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,960 Speaker 1: baked bean can or whatever that you got, you know, 1131 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,559 Speaker 1: and you fill it up with just some bill in 1132 01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:29,599 Speaker 1: your little season little onion off and then everything look darling, 1133 01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,519 Speaker 1: and you know you made sure that and once it 1134 01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,439 Speaker 1: heat up and you'll be smoking your meat and everything 1135 01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:37,760 Speaker 1: and you coulding like that right there. Man, You're gonna 1136 01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:39,760 Speaker 1: get so much most of them. Real's gonna be the 1137 01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 1: till there is real's folk on. Thank you learning damn 1138 01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:45,000 Speaker 1: butther than the other. The bones don't come about it. 1139 01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,120 Speaker 1: Now you're here and missus Steve, look how you keep 1140 01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 1: on pushing on, Rob because you inspired me every day. Look, 1141 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:52,920 Speaker 1: I want you to come and get some of this 1142 01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:54,800 Speaker 1: Bobby QU once I get this spot over, and I'm 1143 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:56,600 Speaker 1: gonna give you the I'm gonna give you the information. 1144 01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:59,280 Speaker 1: You understand, I do it on my side, on the side, 1145 01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:03,720 Speaker 1: on my own. But hey, when you ybody, I guarantee 1146 01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:05,519 Speaker 1: you man, I smoke with the best of the boat. 1147 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 1: But I'm as an old, little young guy, you know, 1148 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,519 Speaker 1: some man. Chef Paul, you sound like you might be 1149 01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:17,080 Speaker 1: only something. He say, take a can, put beer in 1150 01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:22,720 Speaker 1: it and some onions and garlic, and then put it 1151 01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:26,439 Speaker 1: in the middle of that five. It's gonna heat up. 1152 01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 1: I know that's gonna create moisture. Boister. You know it 1153 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:37,160 Speaker 1: makes sense, Chef Paul, try it. Yeah, I ain't mad 1154 01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,240 Speaker 1: at that, right. That sounds like I don't know if 1155 01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:43,320 Speaker 1: I won't be in it, but I don't know what 1156 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:46,519 Speaker 1: the beer does. But he sounded like he knew what 1157 01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:51,360 Speaker 1: he was talking about. Yeah, garlic, I'm gonna put some 1158 01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:55,599 Speaker 1: other stuff in that show. But that did say that 1159 01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,760 Speaker 1: can trick might be the way to go. Yeah, all right, 1160 01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:03,320 Speaker 1: all right, we have another one. I might have to 1161 01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:09,280 Speaker 1: consider that, all right, because yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, Steve, 1162 01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 1: here's a question from a caller who needs some relationship 1163 01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:16,320 Speaker 1: advice from you. Tis. I'm calling because I recently found 1164 01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:20,839 Speaker 1: out that Mathias Saying has been cheated on him, and 1165 01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:25,120 Speaker 1: after talking to him about it, he feels as though 1166 01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:30,000 Speaker 1: it was a lack of sex, a lack of you know, 1167 01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 1: doing the things that I used to do. When we 1168 01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:35,920 Speaker 1: initially got together. For me, I was kind of going 1169 01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 1: through my whole thing the last ninety days of our relationship, 1170 01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,640 Speaker 1: and for him, you know, and myself, we got to 1171 01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:47,240 Speaker 1: disconnect and I'm just trying to see, you know, should 1172 01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:50,639 Speaker 1: I take him back? Well, here's a deal. I think 1173 01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:52,840 Speaker 1: both of you admitted that there was some type of 1174 01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:56,559 Speaker 1: disconnect after you disgusted with him. So the question is 1175 01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:00,000 Speaker 1: what you do. It's really depends on what you can tolerate. 1176 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 1: Eight Can you continue to look at him realizing what 1177 01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 1: he has done? But I also want you to think 1178 01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:09,840 Speaker 1: about this. That will be several moments in the relationship 1179 01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:14,240 Speaker 1: where they will be some type of disconnect. So is 1180 01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 1: that his solution every time y'all disconnect, he gonna go 1181 01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:21,360 Speaker 1: get somebody else? Sheet See, that's what you have to consider, 1182 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:24,960 Speaker 1: So I would think about that in your decision. All right, 1183 01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:27,679 Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1184 01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,280 Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes. Right after this, you're listening to 1185 01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:36,280 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Carla, you are 1186 01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:38,920 Speaker 1: here with a special treat just in time for summer, 1187 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:42,080 Speaker 1: for the Steve Harvey Nation. Tell us all about a girl. 1188 01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:45,559 Speaker 1: That's right, Shirley, Girl, we just girl in each other. 1189 01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:47,960 Speaker 1: That's my girl, all right. 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That's 1199 01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:33,400 Speaker 1: how me and Shirley, that's how we do it get down. Okay, 1200 01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 1: all right, So here's a question for you, Carlo, though, 1201 01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:41,400 Speaker 1: how are you planning on escaping this summer? I mean, 1202 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:44,679 Speaker 1: we've talked about Vegas. That sounds pretty good, what you think? 1203 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,920 Speaker 1: But you think, girl, yeah, you know, we love Vegas. 1204 01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:52,640 Speaker 1: So let's maybe July. Let's let's do Vegas. But I 1205 01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:54,720 Speaker 1: don't know. My husband said, look at the coins and 1206 01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:58,760 Speaker 1: the budget, we're gonna escape right to that backyard. Oh yeah, 1207 01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 1: you just got the new pool right, it was all 1208 01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:05,520 Speaker 1: on the internet. Yes, right right, I'll be sipping happiness 1209 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:10,480 Speaker 1: in the backyard, Thank you Secrum's Escapes. That's right, Happiness 1210 01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 1: coming up. At thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll 1211 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:16,000 Speaker 1: do a round of would you rather? Right after this 1212 01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 1: you're listening to show? All right, guys, it is time 1213 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:24,559 Speaker 1: to play a round of would you rather? Here we go? 1214 01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:29,240 Speaker 1: Would you rather get away with any lie you tell? 1215 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:31,840 Speaker 1: Any lie you tell you can get away with it? 1216 01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:38,760 Speaker 1: Or would you rather Hey, my whole life goal right there? 1217 01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:46,240 Speaker 1: Baby an I want? Or this is for you junior? 1218 01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 1: Or would you rather detect any lie you here? So? 1219 01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:52,840 Speaker 1: Would you rather be able to get away with one? 1220 01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:57,120 Speaker 1: Or be able to tell a phone? Lying? And yeah, 1221 01:16:57,160 --> 01:17:02,639 Speaker 1: I don't should care someone's lying to you. I can't care. 1222 01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:08,120 Speaker 1: Let I would lie back, don't give a damn Just 1223 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:14,680 Speaker 1: be two liars talking. That's a good conversation too, what 1224 01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:17,559 Speaker 1: el ball we should do that one day? We should 1225 01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:20,639 Speaker 1: lie to each other on a coll just the whole 1226 01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:24,040 Speaker 1: damn thing. I just want to be all mine, be believable. Yeah, 1227 01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:27,000 Speaker 1: it's been my whole goal in life. Anyway, man, Lord 1228 01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:32,120 Speaker 1: thank you Jesus to say this, and she fuldn't believe it. Yes, 1229 01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,360 Speaker 1: she's ready to lighting you too. I don't give a damn. 1230 01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:38,960 Speaker 1: I've been lied to you before. I can handle it, y'all, 1231 01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:42,640 Speaker 1: the one can't handle it. I want the truth. I 1232 01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:45,040 Speaker 1: want to know the truth now. I want what sound good? 1233 01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 1: I love it? I love you too, Thank you, baby, 1234 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:53,759 Speaker 1: see you them? Okay't can't wait, Okay, ain't no problem problem, 1235 01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:58,120 Speaker 1: ain't no problem. Lie to me? Yeah? Oh my god? 1236 01:17:58,160 --> 01:17:59,880 Speaker 1: Oh you the best I ever head? Thank you baby, 1237 01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:07,040 Speaker 1: best out of head? Too? Cool? Great line. Yeah, I 1238 01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:10,200 Speaker 1: love it. You feel the same way. Absolutely, I'm gonna 1239 01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 1: tell you why. I surely because men's research department ain't 1240 01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:14,479 Speaker 1: good at all. We ain't research and nothing to find 1241 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:18,760 Speaker 1: out if it's the truth, No, it be true. We 1242 01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:21,920 Speaker 1: don't care a lot of a lot of now whatever. 1243 01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 1: All right, Well here's another one. Would you rather never 1244 01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:29,680 Speaker 1: pay for taxes? We never pay for gas? You were 1245 01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,599 Speaker 1: gonna say that, Yeah, yeah, I'm about to hell out 1246 01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:37,599 Speaker 1: this gas. Hey. Hey, hey, I don't give a damn 1247 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:40,280 Speaker 1: of gas. It's thirty dollars a gallon. If I could 1248 01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:46,439 Speaker 1: just get out of a yeah, all right, would you 1249 01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,479 Speaker 1: rather be a star of a small movie or be 1250 01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,519 Speaker 1: an extra in a really big movie like Top Gun, 1251 01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:59,080 Speaker 1: Maverick or something walking around Ain't got no hey, let's 1252 01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:07,800 Speaker 1: Top Gun with small last line. You're on the floor 1253 01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:10,599 Speaker 1: your part, all right, one last one if we have time? 1254 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,559 Speaker 1: Would you rather German chocolate cake or cherry hey hey? 1255 01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:19,240 Speaker 1: Or cherry pie? Because you know why, because it's hard 1256 01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:22,920 Speaker 1: to find a good cherry path. Oh, because I know 1257 01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:27,160 Speaker 1: that's what your favorite? Anybody night slide in my DM? 1258 01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:32,559 Speaker 1: Are you saying all right? All right? That's today's round? 1259 01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,920 Speaker 1: If would you rather? Thanks? Guys coming up at forty 1260 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, our last break of the 1261 01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,799 Speaker 1: day and some closing remarks from the one in elite 1262 01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:46,200 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this you're listening to show. All right, guys, 1263 01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:50,200 Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day. And uh, 1264 01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:52,800 Speaker 1: you know it's been a good day. It's been a 1265 01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:58,240 Speaker 1: good day. Yeah, this on weekday, Yeah, going by past Yeah, 1266 01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:05,600 Speaker 1: thank the Lord for that break on Monday we had yes, 1267 01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:11,320 Speaker 1: thank you? So um Steve, you have some clothing for us. 1268 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:15,920 Speaker 1: You know, I was thinking of something the other day. 1269 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:23,320 Speaker 1: I heard something online and it really affected me profoundly 1270 01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,720 Speaker 1: and it made me sit down and ponder and really 1271 01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:30,760 Speaker 1: think of the goodness of God and all that God 1272 01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:35,679 Speaker 1: has done for me. And I think about my life, 1273 01:20:36,120 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 1: my legacy, that when my life is over, what I 1274 01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:42,679 Speaker 1: would like to be said about me. And I discovered 1275 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:46,919 Speaker 1: it's not about the comedy. It's not about the TV shows, 1276 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:51,080 Speaker 1: the awards, none of that. It's it's about much deeper. 1277 01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:54,360 Speaker 1: It's really about what I'm hoping to accomplish from here 1278 01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:58,320 Speaker 1: on out. And it's not about my shows or anything 1279 01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:04,840 Speaker 1: like that. It's about the legacy. It's about trying to 1280 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:09,320 Speaker 1: make an imprint in the world in which I live in. 1281 01:21:09,880 --> 01:21:12,120 Speaker 1: And I'm not going to change the world. I'm not 1282 01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 1: that egotistical that one man changes the world, because it 1283 01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 1: has to be a collective effort. It's a huge world. 1284 01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:21,160 Speaker 1: It's eight billion people here. It's no one person that 1285 01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:27,479 Speaker 1: can change the entire world. Jesus came to change and 1286 01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:30,360 Speaker 1: to save, and he was sped upon and hung on 1287 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:34,519 Speaker 1: the cross. So but he had a lasting effect though, 1288 01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:38,160 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that thirty three years he was here was, 1289 01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:42,200 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, what an impact he had. Na I'm 1290 01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:46,479 Speaker 1: not Christ, Let's be clear about that. Nobody is but 1291 01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:50,479 Speaker 1: I do want to have an impact. And I was 1292 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:58,000 Speaker 1: listening to somebody online and they said, what makes this 1293 01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 1: world great is that when old men plant trees the 1294 01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:13,200 Speaker 1: shade in which they will never sit in, good people 1295 01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:17,720 Speaker 1: do things for other people. And I'm thinking about my 1296 01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:21,759 Speaker 1: life that I'm actually in the process of planting trees 1297 01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:25,920 Speaker 1: and the shade of which I will never sit in. 1298 01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,840 Speaker 1: I won't get to sit under some of these trees 1299 01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:33,759 Speaker 1: that I'm planting, but I want to plant them because 1300 01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:37,280 Speaker 1: I want to do something for somebody coming behind me, 1301 01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:44,240 Speaker 1: for my grandchildren, for other people's young men, for other 1302 01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:49,040 Speaker 1: young people's children. And that's why I've gotten to in 1303 01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:52,160 Speaker 1: my life. And that thing that I saw online, it 1304 01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:56,640 Speaker 1: affected me so profoundly, man, And the lady said, that's it, 1305 01:22:56,920 --> 01:23:00,519 Speaker 1: that's the end. She said, A society grows great when 1306 01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:03,680 Speaker 1: old men plant trees in the shade in which they 1307 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:08,360 Speaker 1: know they will never sit in. That's deep, man, that 1308 01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:10,880 Speaker 1: you can get to that point now, I understand when 1309 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 1: you're younger that that's not the mission, because you got 1310 01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:19,599 Speaker 1: to first get yourself under a tree somewhere. You understand 1311 01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:22,040 Speaker 1: the whole thing in life is for somebody to create 1312 01:23:22,120 --> 01:23:25,679 Speaker 1: some shade for themselves. No oldbody wants to live under 1313 01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:29,800 Speaker 1: the blare of the sun continuously, So you have to 1314 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:34,320 Speaker 1: do that. When you're younger, you're trying to you're trying 1315 01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:36,519 Speaker 1: to create a tree, man, that you can get under 1316 01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:38,640 Speaker 1: the shade. You know, you want to build a retirement 1317 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:40,880 Speaker 1: plan for yourself so you can get under the shade. 1318 01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:45,320 Speaker 1: But when that's done, what you're gonna do. And I'm 1319 01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:47,439 Speaker 1: at that phase of my life, man, where oh God 1320 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:50,639 Speaker 1: continues to give me grace and mercy that will allow 1321 01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:53,320 Speaker 1: me to act the way I've been acting and to 1322 01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:56,880 Speaker 1: be able to shine the way I've been shine. And 1323 01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:00,680 Speaker 1: I want to keep planting trees on which under the 1324 01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:04,200 Speaker 1: shade I know I will never sit, but that somebody 1325 01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:08,120 Speaker 1: after me can enjoy the shade of that treatment. As 1326 01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:12,120 Speaker 1: just being a good person, man, and how good are 1327 01:24:12,160 --> 01:24:14,880 Speaker 1: you gonna be? I'm just asking the question because we 1328 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:18,040 Speaker 1: all have the ability to be good within our own right. 1329 01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:21,880 Speaker 1: This ain't a conversation about rich people. This is a 1330 01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:25,960 Speaker 1: conversation towards good people and some of the best people 1331 01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:29,040 Speaker 1: I know. Hey, rich at all? I swear to God 1332 01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:32,280 Speaker 1: to some of the best people I know. I can't 1333 01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:35,600 Speaker 1: even tell you how much they make. Some of the 1334 01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:39,840 Speaker 1: biggest inspirations in my life have been from common people 1335 01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:45,080 Speaker 1: who have done some uncommon things. They have been my 1336 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,800 Speaker 1: greatest inspiration. Marl Luther King was not a rich man. 1337 01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:56,640 Speaker 1: He affected me profoundly. Profoundly. Man. Now that are some 1338 01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:59,520 Speaker 1: men who have made a success out of themselves financially 1339 01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:02,760 Speaker 1: that ever affected me. But my greatest effect in my 1340 01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:07,920 Speaker 1: life was not by rich people. My father, Slick Harvey, 1341 01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:13,400 Speaker 1: Lord ha Mercy poor his entire life. The greatest effect 1342 01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:17,560 Speaker 1: on me, ever, this dude made me man. If it 1343 01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:19,719 Speaker 1: wasn't for this dude right here, I'm not here today. 1344 01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:23,679 Speaker 1: My father was that type of man. He was really 1345 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,360 Speaker 1: the best man I ever knew. I didn't know a 1346 01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,120 Speaker 1: stronger dude than him. And when he passed, I couldn't 1347 01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 1: believe it, because the strongest dude I know. When I 1348 01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:34,160 Speaker 1: got the news, I fell on my knees. Man, I 1349 01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:36,639 Speaker 1: remember the day I got the phone call. I fell 1350 01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:40,160 Speaker 1: on my knees on my ranch in Texas. My brother said, 1351 01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:46,320 Speaker 1: Daddy gone, what Daddy. It was a totally different reaction 1352 01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,760 Speaker 1: than when my mother passed. My mother it just crumbled 1353 01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:52,360 Speaker 1: me because she was dear to me. But my father. 1354 01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:54,639 Speaker 1: I just never thought none would happened to this dude, 1355 01:25:54,960 --> 01:26:00,080 Speaker 1: I just really did. But he planted some trees in 1356 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,920 Speaker 1: my heart and in my life of which he knew 1357 01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:05,519 Speaker 1: he would never sit under the shade in it. And 1358 01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:07,960 Speaker 1: he made me who I am. That's who I'm trying 1359 01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:10,360 Speaker 1: to be. That's who you should try to be. Plant 1360 01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,639 Speaker 1: some trees in which you would knows never sit under 1361 01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:15,600 Speaker 1: the shade. That makes you a good person. Y'all have 1362 01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:17,840 Speaker 1: a great thing. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God. He'd 1363 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:22,200 Speaker 1: love to hear from you. Okay, I'll let you. For 1364 01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:25,640 Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 1365 01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:29,160 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1366 01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:33,080 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1367 01:26:33,240 --> 01:26:37,240 Speaker 1: fm dot com. You're listening to show