WEBVTT - Episode 207 "word is bond" 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:14.200 Hold up, hold up, bowl alert bol alert bowler. Welcome 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:17.680 to The Baller Show podcast, available everywhere you get your podcast. 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:19.720 I go by the name of Ferrari Simmons. A young 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:22.320 girl is your vesty, so so sorry for the list. 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.800 You have a liner, so my mouth is tight? Liner? 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:29.440 Is it clear? Correct? Or so? Who is it with 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:34.720 our liners? Like their individual invisible braces? Then you have 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:40.200 that before? Yeah, I failed, SOW. I'm back again. I'm 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:45.080 motivated this time for damn Lord little pain o ct 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.000 on the ones and two you always are you guys 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.479 ready to get started because BT is skipping work today. Yeah, 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:58.520 I got my seat back. Okay. Update on Damar Hamlin 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:03.280 Uh released from the hospital one week after cardiac arrest 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:05.800 from the Cincinnati. He is now headed to the hospital 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:10.960 locally in Buffalo, New York. For him, he's in good 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.480 spirits and on the way to back to normal health. 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:17.440 That paying attention to that. He's been tweeting too. He's 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:21.720 been tweeting I saw him a meek mill post um man. 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:27.400 This recovery is like literally immaculate. It is a miracle 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:30.160 that he went from one extreme to where he is now. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.600 I think it's super dupe I'm excited for him because 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:38.360 you'all see that the the medical team got their flowers bills, 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:41.440 they brought them out. Um, that was dope. I ain't 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:44.560 gonn lie my humanitarian and I don't know if that's 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:48.280 a word. Uh, antenna is all the way up. I 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:51.120 am so I get so emotional now about stuff like this, 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:54.480 like just because like I saw that ship on TV. 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:59.120 That ship was so like man, he just went from 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.880 lifeless to he's alive. It wasn't for that staff, he 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:07.000 probably would not have been alive right now. We would 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.519 have probably seen a few of the guys. That man 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:13.160 is blast. He is sub blast, So salute to him. 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:17.080 And I think he's on recovery to potentially playing again 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:20.000 one day. Yeah, it depends on the way that this 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:22.919 is going. I don't think so. I think he's done playing, 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:24.679 but I do think that they would give him a 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.880 job in the NFL. Or do you think that he 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:32.440 wants to play again? It's probably definitely. Don't think that 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.640 he would be able to physically, you know, his body 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:37.840 probably couldn't take all that. But I do think that 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.600 he would get a job though. In the NFL. Madden 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:43.720 the video game is removing the CPR celebration that used 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:47.400 to be a celebration. A couple of teams didn't. It's normal. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:51.800 So it has been going on for decades, if you know, 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:55.080 for the players has a long touchdown run a long 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:58.320 interception for a touchdown and they'd be like that they 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:02.120 fake pass out and then the teammate comes and goes who. 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:09.000 So now it's starting to get sensitive and Mad in 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:11.120 the video game has taken out the celebration in the 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:15.000 video game, Yeah, they celebration, they update mad and like 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.440 every year, right and it'll be it'll happen. I'm pretty 0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:19.960 sure it may have the O t A. If it 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:23.400 happens over right now, they'll see it will be an 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.160 update as soon as you log into you account and 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:28.120 may say update features because they will update the celebrations 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:29.720 take it out. I can understand it. I'm just kind 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:31.919 of wondering, like what's going to be left, Like I 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:34.560 like the way that we're going in five years, everything 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:37.520 is going to be inappropriate and sensitive. You can't do this, 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:39.920 like what are they gonna do now? They're just gonna 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:42.120 go and h five each other. You know, you can 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:45.400 barely you can barely even dance now the celebrate the 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:49.080 celebrations in the NFL. It's a lot. Everything's so insensitive 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:55.160 these days. Okay, new Eminem's all female packaging being used 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.880 to raise money for women in music? Did you guys 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:03.280 see this that? Do women in music? No know what 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:08.400 I'm saying that I'm talking about the lesbian Eminem's. Are 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:14.000 we talking about? Wait? What eminem all female packaging being 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:16.479 used to raise money for women in music. Eminem's is 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:20.400 honoring remarkable women with all new candy packaging and funding 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:24.400 for several women empowerment services. Okay, I saw something online 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:29.760 about lesbian Eminem's. How about that one? I just think 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:33.080 this is just maybe I'm delusional, but there's something about 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:39.120 lesbian Eminem's. Nothing wrong with Leslian nothing at all. That's 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:40.360 what I was curious, And I was like, you love 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:47.360 the lesbian Eminem's, Like, uh yeah, I just automatically what 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:50.040 you said Eminem's. I just immediately went to the story 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:53.919 of the lesbian Eminem's. Okay, so last week Mars Eminem's 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:57.440 parent company unveiled candy rappers with with a strong message 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:01.920 supporting women flipping status qu oh um, stuff like that. 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:08.240 With the eminem I think that's amazing I do. Okay, yeah, 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:13.240 I don't think Eminem's no lesbian Eminem. So no. Eminem's 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:17.279 launches Volke female only special edition candy featuring lesbian green 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:23.360 and chocolate Eminem's. Okay, lesbian green, got it part of it? Right? Yeah? 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.240 I think it's just one of the colors in the pack, 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:30.000 that's what you're saying. Yeah, but together they're lesbians. Oh 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:33.680 you're talking about the actual Eminem's are together? Correct? My bad, 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.040 because you know the commercial they're relationship, the whole pack 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:42.160 is lesbian no No, no time out. So there's two 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.520 things going on. We got the eminem for the women, 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:48.760 right with the message and stuff like that music, right, 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:53.520 but also there's a lesbian Eminem because they have the 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:56.680 eminem commercials and content. Well, you know it's the boy 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.560 Eminem's and the girl Eminem's. Now it's it's two girl 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.000 Eminem's that like each other. So that's what she was 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:06.520 talking about, So put it on the screen. Okay, Yeah, 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:13.520 that's confused that Okay. Shout out to Scissors. Her albums 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:19.120 holds off Taylor Swifts for the fourth week at number one. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:24.800 Amazing I just started listening to her first albums, Will 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.000 go ahead. What did the d M say, Ferrari, I 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.920 shot my shot? What saying I am not? I am 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.320 a married man. I'm not repeating what I said. I 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:36.200 did say something in the d M before though, BT 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:39.520 before T she is thick. Did y'all see she? Damn 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:43.599 it broke the internet? Like that girl is sick. She 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.520 posted that that little boody shot. I was like, you 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:51.320 know it's thickers. It a snicker, emin am, this is dope. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:53.320 Though she's definitely dope. She got good vibes to I 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.520 interviewed her back when I was at V one O three, 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.479 uh first and only time actually, and she got good energy. 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:01.560 Many scissor we Love You Want TD is crazy. It's 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:03.640 just I just love it. Shot out to her team too, 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.280 because she always does dope. I remember her. Remember her 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:09.720 song cover was a text message. Yeah, that was a 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:11.880 single before I Hate You. What I really like about 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:13.760 says it's like when you listen to her music, it 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:17.640 is so real, it's so relatable, like and she is 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.680 saying things that maybe some people don't know how to say. 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.080 They're feeling it, but they don't know how to say it. 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.720 Turn on the says the album I love the fact 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.240 that she texts her time. You know how long we 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.520 had to win on this album. Yeah, at least we 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.840 got one long time. At least we got one from 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:38.880 says Rihanna, like what the hell are you doing right now? 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:43.080 And you love Asa Rocket, You're getting ready for the 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:45.800 super Bowl. But after that, what else he's gonna do? 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:48.240 She gave you a song for Black Panthers that is 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.240 not enough And it was a ballot. It was so slow. 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:57.360 Where I want some violence, I want some fist problem. 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:00.440 I want something reread goddamn it, I don't follow you 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:04.840 from Nathaniel, something that I can listen to for a 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:10.440 long time, longer than thirty five minutes her right, He 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:13.720 say an interview that she's like being a mom, so whatever, Yeah, 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:22.000 not so whatever. Facet it okay? Uh, And we just 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:24.920 found out about green lesbian Eminem's Uh did you guys 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:30.480 see Gucci man his wife post receipts of them paying 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.080 for the funeral for Big Scar. First of all, first 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:38.400 and foremost, RP the Big Scar um young guy from Memphis, 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:43.760 Um super dope talent, had had a benefit of talking 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:46.840 to him and um DM me him back and forth 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:51.360 very very early in his career and to see him 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.360 turn up. Gucci Man signed him and he was on 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:58.120 the way of being a big emergent talent. Um to 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:01.000 see him, you know that from a drug over. Those 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:04.560 really hurt um Man Man. That's I heard, you know, 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:07.720 I heard it had to right in front of his girlfriend. Well, uh, 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.080 you know, things are going out. I believe it was 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.680 people saying that Gucci Man didn't pay for the funeral. 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.920 Um and his wife posted the receipts of ten thousand 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:19.719 dollars for the frual and ten thousand dollars for the flowers. 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:24.880 Shout out to Kesha Kor. It just seems so crazy 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:28.360 to me that people would go online and try to 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.880 blast that so and so didn't pay for this funeral. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.560 Let's just be straight up. No one is obligated to 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:40.240 pay for anyone's funeral, Like literally, no one is obligated 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:43.600 to do this for you, for him. That's the reality. 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:46.480 Like we need to do better as a community. There's 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:51.880 life insurance, there's your own family. Like just because Gucci 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:54.280 has money does not mean that he's obligated to do 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:57.800 any of it. But then for someone to at this point, 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.200 it looks like they lied for someone's lie and say 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.520 that he didn't pay for it or didn't contribute or 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:07.120 whatever the case is. And there's receipts, and one time 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.560 of Big Scars Dad, Big Scars Dad did come out 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:14.480 and say that Gucci Man and Company paid and it 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:18.440 was a miscommunication. So who's the person that that put 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.080 it out there that he did? It was one of 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.840 his best friends, that Big Scar the rappers, one of 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.600 his best friends, and he just he or she just 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.960 he tried to pay. And in that part, I don't know, 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.000 but that's that's what was circulating. And then text messages 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:37.240 supposedly from the sister. I don't know how accurate that party. 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.280 So okay, do you guys think this was for cloud? Like, 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:42.760 why go on social media and say that? I know, 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:47.680 the younger demographic, the younger generations zeers like to take 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:50.840 things to the internet. I hated. I was gonna comment. 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:52.800 My only comment on this story was going to be 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:57.800 certain things should be handled off offline. Um, and this 0:10:57.880 --> 0:11:00.440 is something that should have been handled offline. They also 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:04.800 said that Gucci asked for the chain back allegedly. Yeah, 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.199 oh that's why the sister said everything's gonna be buried 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:14.199 with her brother. You know, this is such a sensitive topic, man, 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:20.280 and Scar, we lost we lost somebody and um, he's 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:24.240 not coming back. Um, so to even to ask for 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:28.840 something back that fresh into it, I don't know. You know, 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.760 I don't know, man, Uh. I just know social media 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:35.040 ain't the place for it to be a definite because 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:38.760 it's circulating, still circulating now as we talk. That sucks. 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:42.120 So the sister said that she was going to bury 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:45.800 her brother with the chain. Correct, that will, but I 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:47.719 don't if that happened. I don't know the funeral has 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:51.000 already happened. I'm not sure if that has happened. So 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:54.760 I'm not sure. Okay, let's say that the family kept 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:56.880 the chain. Do you guys think it would be fair 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:00.720 to give it back to Gucci? Good question, I'd say, yes, 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:05.880 what do you think? I don't know. I think it's 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:09.000 a little tricky, like unless Gucci man says you can 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:11.080 keep him, go ahead. I mean, I think it's if 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.480 I feel really indifferent about it because you gave it 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:18.480 to him. It's his now, right like it's his, it's 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:22.040 it's his. So typically what happens when someone passes away, 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:25.880 your family will keep something like that on the flip side. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:30.200 I think Gucci as a CEO is like I don't 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.640 want like I give this to people that are on 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:35.160 my team. I don't want someone who's not on my 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:39.200 team wearing you know, just so I kind of get 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:44.600 that right, Um, tricky place, tricky place, And I don't 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:48.720 And I don't know Gucci man asked for it back. 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:52.160 We know that Kesha said leave my husband alone. No, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:58.839 we know that question of the day, Oh CT, what 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:01.800 you got for us? Lord? Have Marcy had to get 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:05.240 the get the slave out my liners to suck it 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:09.480 out your liners? All right? So Snoop Dogg recently, uh, 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:11.600 I don't know if he posted it or somebody posted 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.400 it to social media. His friends from the eighties and 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.760 you are still friends with them today. It was really 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:21.920 cool that kind of like a Lebron Giames and um 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.120 childhood friends and their schoolst friends now like kind of 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.440 humanizing them, right, Like I think sometimes you think of 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:30.520 like these celebrities or these legends is like they just 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:33.360 moved on left left their old life completely behind. And 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.440 it's like no, actually, like my friends of my friends, 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.160 my career is my career. Yeah, it's a little left. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:41.040 So the question is do you all still have childhood 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:44.520 friends or they're still the test of time. Yeah, definitely 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.240 shout out to my girls. Susie, we actually fell out 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.960 for a couple of years. We didn't talk, and we 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:53.640 reconnected and realized that it was super childish, super petty, 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:57.240 and we just didn't understand each other's perspective perspectives at 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.960 that time, and we were able to talk about it. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.480 Didn't it made sense. I received what she said, she 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.640 received what I was saying, and we agreed that it 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:10.880 was time lost, like unnecessary time loss. So but yeah, 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:13.800 I've known Susie since we were like eleven. We come 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:17.319 from the same culture. We're both from sigilai. Um. That's 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:21.120 my girl. Lover love you, Susie. No, yeah, I've been 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.400 I've been friends with the people I've been friends for 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:27.040 for a very long time. You guys both were at 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:30.800 my wedding, um my rooms coming outside of Jay Rock 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:36.120 uh d C. I've known them since I was eighteen 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:41.760 childhood child. My childhood friends are actually my family members 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:46.200 and my cousins. So yeah, even that you know, like 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:50.360 like elementary school, we were born together. But what I'm 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:52.840 saying like friends that are outside of your family, So 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.400 my friends. You had my friends with my family members 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.680 because we went to school together. So basically, you ain't 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:02.360 got no childhood friends. To the test of time, I 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:05.560 never made friends outside of my cousins like that. Like 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:10.400 I literally my who passed away long lived at Margaret. 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:13.840 She had four boys. That's all my friends. I need 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:19.800 no school. Yeah, but they weren't my best friends. Off 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.000 as you grew, you didn't they like boosters, they just 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.560 fall off because I never made them my best friends 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:29.200 because my cousins were my best friends. I have twin cousins. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.440 You have to see your cousins every year, right and 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:35.480 thanks getting every day my mom and his mom. And 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:38.440 I'm saying, like her years, I never, I never. I 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:43.520 never detoured from that same like I literally hung out 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.720 with my cousins. The only time I had new friends 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:48.360 when I moved to Atlanta and I met su solo, 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:54.480 but I got D C O C T for real 0:15:54.520 --> 0:16:01.000 talk and then like a conversation with your mama's like, yeah, 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:03.720 his friends are his cousins. I agree with that. When um, 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:06.480 you moved to a new place, you you don't you 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.360 just kind of your friends kind of fall off, and 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:12.760 that I'm I'm a product of that, Um, I don't 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:16.000 really talk to you know, and I'm a military brand too, 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:18.680 so you kind of move from It's just like you 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.960 don't really hold on. I mean, I know I got 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:22.880 a sprinkle of people who I talked to, but I 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:25.080 wouldn't say we're friends, you know, because they don't really 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:27.440 know you. They're not in your life every day. You 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.320 don't talk to him. So it's kind of like, how 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.880 do you nurt your relationship, you know with outside of 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:37.080 people who you see all the time. You know. So 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.080 do you think that that moving does it or do 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:42.480 you just think that maybe you're just not aligned. Maybe 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.560 like the new experiences that you're having are just not 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.960 in alignment with what that friendship was. I think sometimes 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.680 life just happens, and you know, life can you know, 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:55.200 make people move exceparate different, separate directions. You grow out 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:59.040 of people. Um. You know, like I had a long 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:05.080 time friend and you know we reconnected, but it's like you, um, 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:06.719 if you don't take time to try to get to 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.440 know that person, then it's like what are we doing? 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:12.760 It's you know, so and it's nothing against that person. 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.960 They probably are great, great people, but um, you just 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:20.639 know you just grow in different directions. Sometimes they like, 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:25.640 I'm literally thinking about my entire life, my time my cousins, 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:28.400 I really didn't have no friends. I was like, damn, 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:30.960 I really don't have no friends. Like the friends I 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.960 started having outside of my cousins were came in high 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:37.959 school and then in college. But even with my cousins, 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:40.919 we all went to the same college together. You know 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:43.199 something I realized I have a problem with And I 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:46.320 realized this a long time ago. I have a problem 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:48.639 of letting go of friendships that I know are no 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.199 longer in alignment for me. And one thing is I 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:58.359 feel I feel guilty. And then I hate when someone says, oh, 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:00.199 you don't want to be my friend an even or 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:02.879 because you're doing all this other stuff. Now you know, 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:05.360 you've got follows, that you have, your radio, you have that. 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:08.879 And the reality is all those things could be true, 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:12.640 but it doesn't change the fact that we're not aligning. Like, 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:14.960 all of those things could be true. I could be 0:18:15.000 --> 0:18:16.879 making new friends, I could be making more money, I 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:20.480 could be having different experiences. All that is true, but 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:24.160 it does not change that we're not connecting the way 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:28.000 that I need us to connect. So I have you know, 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:30.359 we've been talking about things that we want to work 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:33.240 on and all this stuff, and literally I'm just coming 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:36.280 to terms with like I eat ship all the time. 0:18:36.640 --> 0:18:40.000 I will take ship all the time because I'm trying 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.320 to protect someone else's feelings. I don't want to hurt you. 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:44.639 I feel guilty about it, and I'm realizing that, like 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:47.240 I'm getting the shorter end of the stick by doing that. 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:51.840 So now you're choosing yourself like yourself and and I'm 0:18:51.920 --> 0:18:55.480 one who is oppositeed at like I'm always looking to 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:59.560 clean up my life. I'm always doing self analysis, Like 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:02.520 I feel like people be there for who they want 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:04.040 to be there for. You know what I'm saying, if 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:06.800 you take time to like if I actually you guys, 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:08.880 you know how you're doing whatever, like that, I genuinely 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:11.440 care about what how you're doing. It's a it's a 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.840 give and take my situation. But if I feel like 0:19:13.880 --> 0:19:16.960 I'm the only one giving, then I'm going to remove myself, 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:19.719 you know. And that's how I just kind of like 0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:23.240 sometimes like after the year or or so many years, 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:24.919 and I'm just looking like like you look in your 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:26.800 call logue, like I don't even talk to this person 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:30.040 or more, let me just clear this person out. I 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:33.199 don't mind doing that. We all need that. Yeah, I 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:36.760 definitely have learned to protect my feelings for sure, because 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:39.159 before I would beef like you're guarded though, Like do 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:42.840 you feel guarded or is there a difference between being 0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:47.040 guarded and protecting yourself? I don't know, because I'm always 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:49.320 a helper, right, So I always want to help because 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:52.840 for some reason, I just as I've been blessed to 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:55.400 be able to make some money and have some success, 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:58.160 I want other people to have it too. So if 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.879 I'm around you, when you're in my space ace and 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:03.280 I get to know you, I just naturally are going 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:06.719 to help and be happy for you, genuinely. So I 0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:11.280 found myself over extending myself for people that just be like, 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.520 I don't care if you're trying to help me or not. 0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:16.679 I don't want any help. And I kind of was like, no, 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:18.960 but you should X y Z or you know. I 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:22.400 kind of was over doing it and I was like them, 0:20:22.480 --> 0:20:24.760 but I'm doing too much for people. Let me just 0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:28.560 fall back and I help when I can or I 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:31.399 help when it's received, And I just don't do as 0:20:31.440 --> 0:20:33.439 much as I used to be and I feel like 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:36.760 it's an energy thing too. I protect my I like 0:20:36.840 --> 0:20:39.359 to protect my energy. I have to protect myself, you know. 0:20:39.440 --> 0:20:42.959 So it's just like if if you like being in 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:45.639 this business, you come across a lot of self centered 0:20:45.680 --> 0:20:49.680 people who are just hakers for themselves, like a bunch 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:52.720 of sharks, and if they smell blood, you toast, you know. 0:20:53.320 --> 0:20:56.280 Uh So it's like you have to have a guard up, 0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.320 you know. And but sometimes when you talk to people, 0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:02.560 have conversation is with people, um and they kind of 0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:05.240 aligned with your energy, then you're kind of open more 0:21:05.400 --> 0:21:08.320 to receiving or giving a little bit more of yourself. 0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:12.479 I get that good vibes therapy session. Okay, neither that. 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:15.000 We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of The 0:21:15.119 --> 0:21:19.960 Baller Alert Show. Is it love? From the minute I 0:21:20.000 --> 0:21:23.040 met you, baby, I knew I wanted to memory the 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:28.040 love of money money. It's love versus money. They say 0:21:28.080 --> 0:21:29.920 you can't put a price tag on love. I love 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:35.040 you on the ball Or Alert Show that with the 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:38.320 Brother Alert Show, we got love versus money. I gave 0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:40.040 a couple you let me know if they're there for 0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:43.920 the love or it's just business, all right? So I'm 0:21:43.960 --> 0:21:48.440 not sure how many people watch this show, but love 0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:55.040 after lock Up? I didn't love versus Money Monique Robinson 0:21:55.280 --> 0:22:00.399 and Derek Warren Jr's there. I've probably spent about thousand 0:22:00.480 --> 0:22:07.280 dollars on him. Hey man, look for the pushing. You 0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:11.359 know some guys like large women. Um, are you answering 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:14.240 the question right? I'm gonna answer the question. I think 0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.520 I think there are feelings there on both sides. But 0:22:17.600 --> 0:22:22.280 I also think he wouldn't mind getting the hell on 0:22:22.760 --> 0:22:29.960 if something better, uh more economically better approaches him. I 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:35.720 think he's making an economical and emotional decision. That's it. 0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:37.960 I think he likes her. Do you think that he 0:22:38.080 --> 0:22:39.679 likes what she could do for him or what she 0:22:39.880 --> 0:22:42.280 is doing for him? Or I do think that he 0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:45.199 knows what she can do for him and it's beneficial 0:22:45.280 --> 0:22:47.840 for him. I think he I think he made an 0:22:47.880 --> 0:22:51.919 emotional and economical decision. So you think he's there for 0:22:52.000 --> 0:22:54.560 the money. He likes her and he loves the money. 0:22:55.680 --> 0:22:58.199 I think love comes in all different forms, and I 0:22:58.240 --> 0:23:02.320 think that every day show, I think people are are 0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:08.400 being really mean and they're judging. Yeah, I think people mean. 0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:12.840 I think they're talking about her, her physique. I think 0:23:13.359 --> 0:23:17.240 I think that's what they're doing sometimes, you guys, people, 0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:22.520 love is blind. Love is blind. Now I think she 0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:26.479 clearly loves this man. Obviously, you're not doing all of this. 0:23:26.560 --> 0:23:29.159 You're not taking care of someone and being their backbone 0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:33.880 and all this if you don't really love them. For him, 0:23:34.280 --> 0:23:37.679 I think he's trying to grow to love her. Possibly, 0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:41.240