1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all bat all at all? 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 3: So given them back a million bush. 4 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to me, I don't joy Joy. 5 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: You gotta do turn love you. 6 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: Turn, you. 7 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 3: Gotta turn. I got to turn the mouth. 8 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out, 9 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: turn ald the money. 10 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 3: Looking come come out? 11 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: You think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You 12 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: are listening to the voice one and only Steve Harvey 13 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Come on, y'all. I said that 14 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: a little bit wrong this morning, but I'm tired. I 15 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: just came out to gim I'm a little out of 16 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: sorts right now, but it's okay. I'll pull it together. 17 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: But let me tell you something, man, I got a 18 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: clear cut message for you today. I really do you know. 19 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: As I've gotten older, I've began to take some supplements. 20 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: And supplements are to help your body in things that 21 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: it doesn't produce as much as it used to. Supplements 22 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: are designed to help you replenish what's been depleted in 23 00:02:56,120 --> 00:03:02,119 Speaker 1: your body as supplements. Now, now, people, I can tell 24 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: you can speak a lot more aggressively and a lot 25 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: more knowledgeable on this subject. But just giving you just 26 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: a brief overview of my understanding of it. Now, if 27 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: you've been living your life for a while, supplements are 28 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: necessary for most of us now. Also, if you've been 29 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: living your life for a while spiritually, you may need 30 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: some supplements because you've just been at it for a while. 31 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: You done got wolled down a little bit. You're tied. 32 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: Some people around you ain't changing. Some people around you draining. 33 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: It's just life just keeps on coming. Life don't ever 34 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: get no easier. It just you become more knowledgeable about 35 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: how to handle it. It does not get any either easier. 36 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: You continue to lose love ones, you continue to have 37 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: to confront the challenges. It's just that over course of 38 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: time you become experienced and you can handle them better. 39 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: But life don't get no easier. But spiritually you get 40 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: a little bit worn down. Well, you need some spiritual 41 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: supplements too. And I'm just gonna flat out tell you, 42 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 1: the more God that you can replenish yourself with, the 43 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: higher the dosage of God that you are willing to 44 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: put into your spiritual self, the possibilities then become limitless. 45 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: You actually have the ability to make a conscious decision 46 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: to supplement your body, and you have a conscious decision 47 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: to supplement your spirit. You can do both. So what 48 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: I did was, I could just tell you what I did. 49 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: I was taking all these supplements. I started taking supplements 50 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: while I was about forty five. I think that's when 51 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: I began. I was thinking about it one day and 52 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: I just went, wow, Man. I started talking to some 53 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: knowledgeable people. I found out I needed these things. But 54 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: then spiritually, man, I started supplementing myself too. I started 55 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: praying some more. I started trying to gain a little 56 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: bit more knowledge and wisdom and understanding from scriptures and 57 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: just try to make sense of all of it, you know, 58 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: just make a little bit more sense out of my life, 59 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: make sure that I was on the right path. As 60 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: a matter of fact, get on the right path, find 61 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: out my real purpose and my mission in life. And 62 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: nobody can do that for you. That's something that you 63 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 1: have to want to do. But I started supplementing my 64 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: spiritual side of my life and supplementing my body. Now 65 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 1: I happen to be right now about in the best 66 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: shape I've ever been in. Technically, I can assure you 67 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: though I am in the best shape spiritually, I have 68 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: ever been in. Now my body has looked better, it 69 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: really has. I mean, come on now, and where I 70 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 1: am in life, at the stage with the years I've 71 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: been walking this earth. Man, I'm cool, but spiritually I'm 72 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: in the best shape I've ever been in. And what's 73 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: done for me, y'all is it's gave me a peace 74 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: and a calmness. You know it used to be, man, 75 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: I used to fight so hard against people who attack me. Now, Man, 76 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: it ain't that serious to me because now I have 77 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: a full understanding that if I come under attack, that 78 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: God is with me, because that's a promise he made. 79 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: That's Isaiah fifty four seventeen. That's any weapon formed against you, 80 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 1: any weapon formed against you, you shall not prosper. You can't. 81 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: You can't come and get me. I'm not here for 82 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: you to take down because you didn't put me here. 83 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: So why would I feel a person bringing me down 84 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: when they're not the reason that I'm here. So when 85 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: you attack me, you have to be careful because I 86 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: ain't ever by myself. I formed a relationship with the 87 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: most high that I can rely on for protection, for coverage, 88 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: and for peace. A lot of times when things used 89 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: to stress me out how to run this, how to 90 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: handle this, how to deal with that. You know, fame 91 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: is rough man, and then you put that together with 92 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: some business, and you put that together with your family. 93 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: You got a lot of stuff you're trying to tend to. 94 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: I have a peace of mind about it now because 95 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: I have someone who provides me with a sense of 96 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: understanding and calmness that lets me know that this too 97 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: shall pass. That it ain't just a saying that I 98 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: heard old people say that. It ain't just something my 99 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,559 Speaker 1: mama used to tell me. It's something that can really 100 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: happen once you get in understanding, this too shall pass. 101 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: This is just another piece of life that you are 102 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: now better equipped to handle. I'm telling you what's done 103 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: for me. Millions of people out there hear me, man 104 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: has done the same thing for them. I'm telling it 105 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: new to some people, but it's some people that show 106 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: enough understand what I'm saying. And then if you have 107 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: known this but kind of forgot it, it's time for 108 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: some supplements. So when you get like that, and now 109 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: you find yourself in a situation with a disease or something, 110 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: you gotta do something. Nah, you gotta start juicing all 111 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: your greens. You gotta start detoxing your body. You gotta 112 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: start purifying the system. See, the human body has always 113 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: had a way to repair itself if you just give 114 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 1: it a chance. Your mind has always had a chance 115 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: to repair itself if you give it a chance, and 116 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: your spirit always has a chance to repair itself, if 117 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: you give it a chance. It's the only way I 118 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: can maintain at this level, and it's the only way 119 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: I have any chance of going further. I have to 120 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: increase my dosage of spiritual supplements. I got to talk 121 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: to God a little bit more. I got to pray 122 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: a little bit more. I got to understand his word 123 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 1: a little bit more. That's all I'm telling you. Man, 124 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: If you do that, if you just pray more, if 125 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: you just studied a little bit more, man, just try 126 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: to get and understanding, ask him to help you understand. 127 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: It will open up the possibilities of your life into 128 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: a realm you never could have imagined. I'm telling you 129 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: that's real. 130 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 5: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 131 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, let me have your attention. Please, 132 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: it's here again. It has arrived more importantly you in it. 133 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: It's called today, It's called the present. I think they 134 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: call it the present because it's a gift from God. 135 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: It's a new opportunity we all been invited in. Man, 136 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: you gotta take advantage of this. What a blessing it 137 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: is to be alive today. I didn't do it properly 138 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: this morning. I didn't stop and thank God this morning 139 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: like I was supposed to. Something happened really as soon 140 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: as I woke up, and I had to deal with it. 141 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: But right now I'm saying, thank you God. I show 142 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: appreciate this man. I appreciate this life. I appreciate the 143 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: measure of health that I have. Thank you for my family. 144 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: Thank you for your wings of protection. Thank you for 145 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: honoring me. Thank you for giving me grace and mercy. 146 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: Thank you for everything you do for me. I don't 147 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: have enough time on this show to tell y'all what 148 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: all he's done for me. We be over here all day. 149 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: It's Steve Harp, Marti Show, Shelley Strawberry, Calin Frail, Mississippi, Monica, 150 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: and the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior still out. 151 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 1: So what's going on? Everybody? 152 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 5: Hey, Steve. 153 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, good. Yeah, I like hot out here lately. Huh. 154 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 6: I like when you wake up like that grateful and 155 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 6: you forgot. It's okay if you forgot, you could do 156 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 6: it now. 157 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 5: I like that. 158 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah I did. I did forget. Something happened, phone ring, 159 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: and I had to deal with some stuff and got 160 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: up and brush my teeth, was dealing with it, and 161 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: next thing you know, I'm on the ass saying, hey, 162 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: you gotta be grateful. Hey, you ain't. Yeah, you know. 163 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 1: I was sitting up been telling everybody about how good days, 164 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 1: and I went to her. I said, hey, man, you 165 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: ain't get busy. Tell him in front of everybody. That's okay? 166 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: It hot lately? 167 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 6: Who Lord, Thank you Lord for everything right food, it's 168 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 6: been hot. 169 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, And this has been the words of my 170 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: late great mother. Mm hmm. If you keep on, hell 171 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: gonna be hotter than this. 172 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 5: So would you rather be hot or cold? Which one? 173 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 5: Too hot? 174 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 1: Hot? 175 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 7: Hot? 176 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 8: No? 177 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: I'd rather be hot. Yeah. That cold a whole different base. 178 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 9: You know, we trop your bone. We tropical people pick 179 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 9: heat everything it. 180 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 5: Gets all the way in your bone. 181 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: Cold create a lot of other problems, you know, cold 182 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: you get frost bite, shivers, sick. 183 00:12:49,720 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 10: Oh, sickness cold and yeah you got yeah a cold. 184 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:05,559 Speaker 1: Now you got your dig he could be ye. 185 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 11: Man, Yeah, just turn on the fan in the air. 186 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: You can't you can't freeze to them. 187 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah you can. 188 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: Just don't go outside. Yeah you can have a heat stroke, 189 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: but I'm probably gonna go in before that happen. Tight outside, 190 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: you go stand under, go inside something. We're gonna do something, 191 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: all right, guys. 192 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 193 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 6: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back 194 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 6: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 195 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining fourteen's battle to make the championship 196 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 7: in the most physical, fears and competitive basketball league in 197 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 7: the world. The action starts with the Big Three Monster 198 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 7: Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwight Howard and his La Riot 199 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 7: take on montesz Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. The finale, 200 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 7: we'll see popular Miami three h five, which starts MVP 201 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 7: Michael Beasley and Lan Stevenson take on Nancy Lieberman's Dallas 202 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 7: Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship. 203 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 7: The action start Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific 204 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 7: only on CBS. 205 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 6: It is time now for the nephew to run that 206 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 6: brank back. What you got for his nest, We're running 207 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 6: it back. 208 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: We're dealing with the ushers down at the church. 209 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 7: Usher, down at the church, y'all remember the usher, the 210 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 7: old usher, All right, start from the back place. 211 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: You know who I'm talking about, one. 212 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 7: That look over their glasses through that little window and 213 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 7: won't let you in the dough until pass to get through. 214 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: Yes, Usher, let's go church Usher. 215 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 8: Hello. 216 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister. 217 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 12: How you doing. 218 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: Good evening to you, ma'am. 219 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 7: I don't mean to be giving you a call this 220 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 7: late in the evening, but I am the new youth 221 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 7: minister I have. But uh, my name is Sean Williams 222 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 7: over at Missionary Baptist Church which mine is. 223 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 12: Going which youth Minnesota. What happened? 224 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: Uh, he's no longer with the church anymore? 225 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 3: Man? 226 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 12: No, oh my, now, well. 227 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm not at liberty to speak upon that. 228 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 7: But but what I was doing is getting around and 229 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 7: making sure I met everyone because I haven't met everyone yet, 230 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 7: and I wanted to reach out to. 231 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: Everyone at the church. 232 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 7: But listen, let me let me get down to some 233 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 7: more business, because I've I've spoken with the pastor. 234 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 12: Uh we spoke bishop. 235 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 7: Bishop, Okay, I spoke with him on yesterday, and we 236 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 7: have narrowed some things down of a few changes we're 237 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 7: going to be making at the church, and what we 238 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 7: want to do is one of the major subjects that 239 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 7: have come up, sister, is that we're wanting you, if 240 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 7: at all possible, and the deacons we're in on this 241 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 7: meeting as well, but wanting you to change your attitude 242 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 7: when people are coming in and you're seating them. From 243 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 7: my understanding, it's gotten to the point where they think 244 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 7: you're wait wait. 245 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 12: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait a minute wait, I had 246 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 12: a meeting on me. 247 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't a meeting. 248 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 12: Listen here, I've been ushering on that usher board for 249 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 12: forty seven years. I am the singor usher on that 250 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 12: uncher board, and I've been trying to be nuts about it. 251 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 12: But I don't understand how y'all don't have a meeting 252 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 12: without me. First of all, but now you won't call 253 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 12: here and tell me that you won't have you having 254 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 12: a meeting on me about me being nice, always nice. 255 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: Well, ma'am, that doesn't seem. 256 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 7: To be the problem with that son twenty seven. 257 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 12: Manna some boy to call me, don't make no. 258 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 3: What is it? 259 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: Well? 260 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 7: What that's actually my call, ma'am, is that maybe we 261 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 7: figured if I would call and speak with you about 262 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 7: the matter, that maybe we can get to some type 263 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 7: of uh rectifying this situation the. 264 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: Where we can. 265 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 12: We're gonna rectify here. I'm gonna rectify you calling me 266 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 12: this time of night, tell my some meat. This don't 267 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 12: make no time. And I don't appressionate you calling me 268 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 12: any time of night, but away, Bishop, I need to 269 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 12: speak the bishop. 270 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 1: Bishops. 271 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 12: I've been at this church for forty seven years. I've 272 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 12: been saying, oh, my life, this don't make no type 273 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 12: of sense. You calling me here with this mess. Now, 274 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 12: this of gonna make me cuss. I'm trying to be 275 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 12: a question, but y'all not gonna lost me be a Christian. 276 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 12: She's just gonna just gonna agitate me with this mess 277 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 12: telling me about something. 278 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 3: Be nice. 279 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 7: Well man, that sir, that they're having problems when you're 280 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 7: seeding the people, and that's all that we're trying to 281 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 7: get rectified. 282 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 12: People don't want to sit down they want to go 283 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 12: over here, they want to go over there, they want 284 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 12: to have the children run a to and throw It's 285 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 12: like a bunch of demons while he's just bucking around 286 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 12: in the truch like they ain't got no sense. And 287 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 12: I'm not gonna have it in my section. My section 288 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 12: is going be strife, and. 289 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: I understand it. 290 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 7: Let you know what, sister, I think if we did this, 291 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 7: if you would do me a favor and hold your phone, 292 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 7: and if you would just bow your head right now 293 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 7: for me, maybe we can come to to get to 294 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 7: get the man up. 295 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 12: What am I my head? If if we can flows 296 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 12: as clean as hospital coffee, it don't make no trap 297 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 12: be about what I buy my head. 298 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 7: If you could, maybe if you could close your eyes, sister, sister, 299 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 7: I want. 300 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 12: I said, you called me and woke me up out 301 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 12: of my fleet with this mess. Come on, come meet. 302 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 12: I am very an it as this and I don't 303 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 12: appreciate it, and I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna 304 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 12: speak to this now. 305 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 1: Father. 306 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 7: We asked that you look down upon sust We asked 307 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 7: that you look down upon her right now, right now, 308 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 7: asking that you put a smile on her face. On 309 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 7: Sunday morning, asking that you put some joy in her 310 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 7: heart on Sunday morning, that you draw all the pain 311 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 7: that she in, the anguish that she might be going through, 312 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 7: what the demon there is inside. 313 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: We asked that you draw that demon out. We asked 314 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 1: that you poured that demon away from sister. Right now. 315 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: Any of your name, We asked all of these. 316 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 12: Blessings to come, because I don't appreciate this boy. I 317 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 12: don't even know who you is. All of my what 318 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 12: is you? 319 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 4: Number? 320 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 7: Pastor gave me the number one and asked me to 321 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 7: call I am like I said, I'm Sean Williams. 322 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: We haven't met yet, and I am the. 323 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 12: New You know he don't he don't act that way. 324 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 12: And if Bishop, for the third time, I have told 325 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 12: your boy, Bishop, be respectful of the folks. 326 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: See that's what miss Let me let me let me 327 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: say this right. 328 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 7: Here's sister, and maybe this will shed some light on things. 329 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: A little bit. 330 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 12: Clear up, I'm trying to listen to you. 331 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: Boy. 332 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 7: This is nephew Timmy from a Steve Harvey morning show. 333 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 7: You just got pranked by sister who is also an 334 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:54,719 Speaker 7: usher at the church for Mission there a Bauptists. 335 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 12: This is a messing, but we already yes, yees, this 336 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 12: don't make no sense lost him, but this is embarrassing. 337 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 12: Oh my god, this is this. 338 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 7: Is by show, Yes, ma'am. That's that's that's that's my uncle. 339 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 7: This this is just a joke though. 340 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 12: Manimming yes, oh lord, how you doing timing? 341 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: Sister? 342 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 12: I am so this is I am? I am in body? 343 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show? 344 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 12: Every I never would accept my lf be on that. 345 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 12: Oh lord, oh my god, got me on this radio? 346 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: Sister? 347 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 8: Did this here to you? 348 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 12: Well? How about it? H y'all call me back and 349 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 12: we get sisters? How we do that? We do we 350 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 12: we would do a blank on her on her bill 351 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 12: and a couple of bills, you know, because you shove 352 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 12: a little. They gotta say all her business? 353 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 7: What is the baddest show in the land. 354 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 12: The Steve Harvey Morning Show? And look Thomas and Hall 355 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 12: the mother look cheerlem look dead. She is so cute. 356 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 12: I love uh lor This is so y'all. I'm so sorry. 357 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 12: Please forgive me, Gord, Jesus. 358 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 1: You already know back in our same stupid, same time. 359 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 1: It don't nothing. 360 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 5: Change, thank you, you silly up. 361 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 6: It is as the CELO or Chief Love Officer Steve 362 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 6: Harvey in the building. 363 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 364 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining fourteens battle to make the championship 365 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 7: in the most physical, fears and competitive basketball league in 366 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 7: the world. The action starts with the Big Three Monster 367 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 7: Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwight Howard and his La Riot 368 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 7: take on Monteze Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. The finale, 369 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 7: we'll see Popular Miami three h five would start MVP 370 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 7: Michael Beasley and Lan Stevens and take on Nancy Lieberman's 371 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 7: Dallas Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship. 372 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 7: The action starts Sunday at three pm Eastern twelve Pacific 373 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 7: only on CBS. 374 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 5: Coming up at the top of the hour. 375 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 6: In Entertainment news and training headline news, Texas Democrat Nicole 376 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 6: Collier is getting into good trouble. Tamar Braxton revealed she 377 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 6: almost died two days ago, and actress Sharon Stone said 378 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 6: she dated Nellie. Okay, we'll talk about we'll talk well 379 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 6: the stories at the top of the hour, but right 380 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 6: now it is time, yeah to ask the CLO our 381 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:43,640 Speaker 6: chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. All right, Colo, here we go. 382 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 6: Regina in Phoenix writes, I have hot flashes and mood swings, 383 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 6: and my husband thinks it's cool to make jokes about 384 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 6: me around his male friends. I'm twelve years older than 385 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 6: my husband, and the jokes often crossed the line. Why 386 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 6: does he think it's so funny to talk about me? 387 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: Well, you could make him stop some jokes about him. 388 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 5: To in front of her girlfriends or his friends. 389 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: In front of his friends, he's not gonna be able 390 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: to like what. Well, I might be hot, but it 391 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: ain't causing nothing you did. 392 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 6: Oh you're going in for to kill clap Bagay? 393 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 1: I like it. 394 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 3: I like it. 395 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. What you don't do is 396 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 1: back up off me. 397 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 3: Uh. 398 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 5: His boys would be falling over. 399 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: Right with that. Oh there'd be hollid. 400 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. 401 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 5: Hut him back, all right, Regina. 402 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 1: Uh. 403 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 6: Moving on to Alice in Wilmington, Alice writes, I'm almost 404 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 6: sixty years old and I'm still sexually active, but that's 405 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,239 Speaker 6: all these old men think about. I would love to 406 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 6: go on a few dates before we jump in bed. 407 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 6: Would also love to get married again. Where do I 408 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 6: go to meet my future husband? Steve, you can't tell 409 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 6: you that. I can't tell you that a direct question. 410 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: You're almost sixty, I'm still sexually active. That ain't no news. 411 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: There's a lot of people anybody, anybody gave up at 412 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: fifty eight and then all they and all these old 413 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: men won't is that they almost out of time. 414 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 5: So get it in. 415 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: They pushing. I don't know where you going to meet 416 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: date people, but I do know this. Uh, you still 417 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: have to have standards and. 418 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 5: You know, requirements. 419 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, you still have to have that regardless, you just 420 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: haven't met the right person. What circle of people are you? 421 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: What is your pool that you're selecting from? What does 422 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: that look like? Are you in the same place looking 423 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: for him? You know? And then maybe maybe hunting isn't 424 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: your thing? You know, maybe just maybe that's not it. 425 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: So listen a recommendation. Well, I can't find where do 426 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 1: I find you? 427 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 5: Don't find you? 428 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've very rarely seen a woman go out time 429 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: man I. 430 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,679 Speaker 5: Go to meet Yeah, she just wants to go somewhere. 431 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: I think what you need is to be set up 432 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: by one of your friends who has an older gentleman 433 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: who thinks you would be you would be best on 434 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: a set up date because you're not good at picking 435 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 1: block is ticking. 436 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 6: Well, She says, she just wants to go on a 437 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 6: few dates before she jumps in bed with these guys. 438 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's on you. You know that's on you. Yeah, 439 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: it isn't. I don't know why women don't think you 440 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: don't have control of. 441 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 5: That, right exactly, That's what I wanted to do. 442 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, she's almost sixty weekly Golden Corral. We got 443 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: to get it in. 444 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, she just wants to go at least to 445 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 6: Golden Corral first. 446 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 5: Before they do all of that. Yeah, all right. 447 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 6: Moving on to Charlotte in Valdosta, Charlotte writes, I was 448 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 6: sitting in my car putting on makeup for a date 449 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 6: when I saw my preacher creeping with the young woman. 450 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 6: I've been trying to get my granddaughter into the church daycare, 451 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 6: but it's full. 452 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 5: Is it wrong to. 453 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 6: Use this as leverage to secure her spot? 454 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 5: We're talking blackmail? 455 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: Come on, clo, So let me ask you a question. 456 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: You think after spotting your past to creeping with and 457 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 1: your granddaughter can't get in there? Churches daycare, church, church daycare. 458 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: You think this would be a good way to use 459 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 1: as blackmail. I think you have a deeper issue. 460 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 5: What's hers? 461 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: Is this the type of shepherd you want to follow? 462 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: So now, how good is that daycare? How good is 463 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: that church under that leadership? If you done already busted him, 464 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: what you don't think is more behind the scenes than that. 465 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 1: That's the part you busted him off. Ain't not telling 466 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 1: what else is going on. So if I were you, 467 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be a consideration of mine. Don't worry 468 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: about your granddaughter getting into daycare? Why are you at 469 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: the church? 470 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,920 Speaker 5: Okay, all right at the top saying yeah. 471 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just so understand why you you just 472 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: skipped over all the other stuff just to get your 473 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: baby in the daycare. That don't make no sense. He 474 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 1: out here just running these tricks. Let me get this 475 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: baby in this daycare? You know, your trick running past her? 476 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 5: Who is she gonna tell though? 477 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, who's she gonna tell him? 478 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 5: And then he's gonna. 479 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna go up to him and go, hay 480 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: past I saw you creeping. And I'm gonna keep this 481 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: to myself, but you need to put my grandbaby in 482 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: this daycare. 483 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know it's full, but playing. 484 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: Wow, and then you know you need to let me 485 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: get the rest of this makeup on and tell me 486 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: what you think about me. How wha. There's a whole 487 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: lot of levels to this. 488 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 5: You went there with it. 489 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, once again, we live in this 490 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: world where all these crazy things has happened that people 491 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: just normally. I saw my pastor creeping try to get 492 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: my grand baby in the daycare. Yeah, you think I 493 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: could use that to bribe him to get him a 494 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: baby in daycare? 495 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 5: Wait? 496 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: Wait, you skipped all of see. 497 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 5: That she did? 498 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: She did? 499 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, but she says that's wrong to use this as 500 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 6: leverage to secure. 501 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: Is it wrong? 502 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 3: What do you mean? 503 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: Is it wrong? You even you considering it right? But 504 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: you're not looking at the rest of it. That's your 505 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: pastor you saw creeping. 506 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 5: Okay, she knows what's wrong, So all. 507 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 1: Right, No lady, I don't care. 508 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 6: Last one, last one, Steve. This is from Jones and Syracuse. 509 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 6: Jones right to my wife's twenty four year old son 510 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 6: is about to catch these hands. He takes my tools 511 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 6: without asking, and he's always borrowing my wife's car. Yesterday, 512 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 6: I was working in the garage and I needed my fan. 513 00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 5: It's at his house. How do I get this to stop? 514 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 1: I mean, it's real simple. You got to pull him 515 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: to the side and say, hey, listen, man, you can't 516 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: touch my stuff without asking me. Period. These ain't your 517 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 1: mama's tools, none of this hip. You got to anything 518 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: in this house. You got to come to me as 519 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: a man and ask me for it. Don't just walk 520 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: out of here with nothing else or else. All right, 521 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: that's a want. That's your warnings. 522 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 5: Thank you, CLO. 523 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 524 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 6: some entertainment news for you right after this. 525 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 5: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 526 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 6: According to AP News and the Black Information Network, President 527 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 6: Trump is pushing GOP state officials to tilt the map 528 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 6: for the twenty twenty six mith terms more in his 529 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 6: favor to preserve the GOP's House majority. Democratic House Representative 530 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 6: Nicole Collier was confined in the capitol overnight. We saw 531 00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 6: it all over the news after she refused a police 532 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 6: escort that Republican leaders imposed on Democratic lawmakers who participated 533 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 6: in the two week walkout. Representative Collier said, in part quote, 534 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 6: I refuse to sign away my dignity as a duly 535 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 6: elected representative, just so Republicans can control my movement and 536 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 6: monitor me with police escorts. She went on to say, 537 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 6: when I press that button to vote, I know these 538 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 6: maps will harm my constituent. I won't just go along 539 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 6: quietly with their intimidation or their discrimination. We need to 540 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 6: shake things up and make some good trouble to have 541 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 6: good change. 542 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 5: Okay. You know a lot of people were wondering why. 543 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 6: She was in there, and that's why. That's how she felt. 544 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 3: Now. 545 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 6: According to the Texas Tribune, former Vice President Kamala Harris 546 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 6: called Representative Collier to express her support for her protest. 547 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 5: So what do you guys think? What do you thinks 548 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 5: to you? 549 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a hero quote. She's gonna get it done 550 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: by herself. 551 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 3: Period. 552 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: Sure, the problem we have if we have two parties. 553 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: The Republicans lawmakers have turned into a party of cowards, 554 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: and then the Democrat lawmakers they don't have a plan, 555 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: they don't know what to do. See the problem with 556 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: Democrats that they keep reacting to what the Republicans are doing. 557 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: They're not spearheading anything. You know, what if they want 558 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 1: to one more of them get on TV and say 559 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 1: we need to start talking about what people really want 560 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: to talk about, the cost of living, the price of food. 561 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 1: The Epstein files, man, they not finish. Show y'all nothing 562 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: in them Epstein files because he in it. So you 563 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: ain't gonna see nothing in that because he in Now 564 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: too many pictures with him with this dude and too 565 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 1: many so he can't have at it. You ain't finnah 566 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: see that. Y'all talking about the cost of food. But 567 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing nothing. 568 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 9: At least out of Texas, she's doing something where the 569 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 9: rest of Democrats are staying with. 570 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: Her, not all on want a card, there's no plan. 571 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: She's a hero to me. 572 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 11: I stay with her because at least she's doing. 573 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 6: Something something, and she's thinking about her constituents as well. 574 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 6: She is thinking about the people who put her in office. 575 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 6: She's representing those people as well. 576 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 10: Always those of Parks, always those of Parks. 577 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: Didn't get out of the seat on the bus that 578 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: sparked it. But guess what, everybody stopped riding the busy? Yes, sir, yes, sir, history, Yes, Okay. 579 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: Now that she's done this, what the hell is everybody 580 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 1: else gonna do? 581 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 5: Yeah? 582 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: And that's my frustration with watching this. I appreciate Kama 583 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: has calling her, supporting her and all this. Hell, well 584 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: where everybody else? 585 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 5: You know, where's the Democratic leadership? That's what I'm saying. 586 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 1: Where and what y'all gonna do? 587 00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 3: Man? 588 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 1: Stop complaining by the Republicans? What are you going to do? 589 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 1: They know what they're doing. Whatever Trump tells you, do 590 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: they about that. 591 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 5: They have their leadership in place, Yes, what they do? 592 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,879 Speaker 1: Right? All right? 593 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 5: Thanks guys. 594 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 6: Switching gears and other entertainment news, Sixty seven year old 595 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 6: legendary actress Sharon Stone admitted on Watch What Happens with 596 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 6: Andy Cohen that she once dated Nelly, who happens to 597 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 6: be seventy seventeen years younger than her, but they only 598 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 6: went on one date, she says, just one date. Now, 599 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 6: we all know that Nelly is now married to Ashanti 600 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:42,280 Speaker 6: and Sharon Stone is currently single. So here's the question, guys, 601 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 6: if you could go on one date with a celebrity, 602 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 6: all right, who would it be? Well back in the day, 603 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 6: of course, when you weren't married, So who would it be? 604 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: Can you say I'll follow your kids back in the day? 605 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 7: This is this is this is scared to say but 606 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 7: go ahead, Stey comes back back in the day. 607 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 1: Well, why we're talking about it now? Long enough? Not 608 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: if you're still tripping on so and so back in 609 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:17,399 Speaker 1: the day. 610 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 6: All right, let's go with Bernadette's Bernadette standards back in 611 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 6: the day. Oh time, just one date? 612 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 11: That was good enough, good enough for you. 613 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,719 Speaker 1: But that's how y'all gave me one day, So I'm 614 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 1: good with that. 615 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,919 Speaker 6: Well that's all Sharon Stone and Nelly had was one date? 616 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: Did she throw that leg open like she did? 617 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 9: And I don't think she looked like that no. 618 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:54,839 Speaker 13: More because Michael Douglas, he was all the way in. 619 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 13: You got to lose his job. 620 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:05,240 Speaker 6: All right, tell me you said Bernadette Stanis from Good Times, 621 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 6: Thelma from Good Times. Today, it would be we know, 622 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 6: it would be halle Berry today. 623 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's been upsetting me lately, but it's still heavy. 624 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, what upsetting you? 625 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 1: We're just so shappy with this man. She just. 626 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 9: Yeah, you don't want your crush happy. Don't understand she 627 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 9: should be happy? 628 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: Right, I know I'm throwing shade. 629 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 6: Yeah right, Steve, you still haven't answered. We've given you 630 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 6: enough time. 631 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, nothing to answer that question. You 632 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,800 Speaker 1: go back to the Pymbria days. Don't jump big. 633 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 7: Dog coffee here, exactly what do you say, Marilyn McCoo. 634 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 5: Dimention, Okay, she's beautiful. 635 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: Dang Carollo, Beuty Folk Paine god Is left is aband? 636 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 6: Guys, out of the dreams out Designer college dorm room trends. 637 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 5: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve 638 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,319 Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show. 639 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining fourteen's battle to make the championship 640 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 7: in the most physical, fierce, and competitive basketball league in 641 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 7: the world. The action starts with the Big Three Monster 642 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 7: Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwight Howard and his La Riot 643 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 7: take on Montes Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. The 644 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 7: finale we'll see popular Miami three oh five would start. 645 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 7: MVP Michael Beasley and Land Stephenson take on Nancy Lieberman's 646 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 7: Dallas Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship. 647 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,240 Speaker 7: The action starts Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific 648 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 7: only on CBS Designer Dorms. 649 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 5: Designer Dorms, things have changed in college dorm life. 650 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 8: Guys. 651 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 6: Parents are spending a lot, a lot of money to 652 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 6: decorate their kids college dorm rooms now like they're on 653 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:13,399 Speaker 6: an HGTV makeover show or something. In fact, it's become 654 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 6: such a trend now that a woman in Mississippi quit 655 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 6: her job as an elementary school teacher and now has 656 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 6: a business where she decorates dorm rooms and she charges 657 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,720 Speaker 6: up to twenty thousand dollars to do it. Twenty thousand dollars, 658 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 6: so it could be a lucrative. 659 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,799 Speaker 5: It's a lucrative business for her. 660 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: Right But to get down to Walmart, get you some 661 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 1: colored sheets in the throw room all day, and then 662 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: learn yourself. 663 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 6: So that's kind of the leads into the question, Steve, 664 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 6: what were your dorm rooms like when you were in college? 665 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 5: I had cold designer room. 666 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm signed it oh Man. So first of all, yeah, 667 00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: we had a super boy Rico. We had a super 668 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 1: double because we was in a quad, but we ran 669 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: our roommates out so it was just me and him. 670 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 1: So he had a bedroom. I had a bedroom with 671 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: bunk beds in it. He had a bedroom with bunk 672 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 1: beds in it, and we each had a door, and 673 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 1: then we had a little common area and then we 674 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,359 Speaker 1: shared a bathroom with the sweet next door. It had 675 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 1: two sinks in it, one toilet in it, and one shower. 676 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: So what I did was each each each person had 677 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 1: a desk. I took the desk and stacked the desk 678 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: on top of each other to make an entertainment center. 679 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:44,240 Speaker 1: I put money. Where was you studying at? Study? 680 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 11: Desk was for for homework? 681 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 1: Deep Oh no, no, no, no, no, you did that 682 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: right there. Then I had me a bean bag chair, 683 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 1: and then I went to the student center one night 684 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 1: they had a luminum framed cow. I put that on 685 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,240 Speaker 1: my head and walked that to my room. 686 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 11: From the student center at the university to put. 687 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: I used the couch that I set on at the 688 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: student center to sit on it in my room. 689 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,840 Speaker 11: Did you have permission to take that? 690 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 7: No? 691 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: But the other other students was allowed to come in 692 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:27,399 Speaker 1: my room and sit on it. Hit a cold part, 693 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: I took some oxyd dog bleaching soap powder, mixed a 694 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,600 Speaker 1: little water in it, made a past because it had 695 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 1: the blue bleaching crystals. And I took a spoon and 696 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: threw it all over the ceiling, splashed it. And then 697 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: I took a fish net and pinned it on that 698 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 1: and inside the fish net I put Ohio player and 699 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: other album covers. And then at night I had a 700 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 1: lava lamp and a blue light. When I cut the 701 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 1: blue light on the oxy dog bleaching crystals sparkl like 702 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 1: stars in the sky. 703 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 5: You go ahead and decorate, or. 704 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: You couldn't tell me that. Everybody trying to figure out 705 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,800 Speaker 1: how I put it. I wouldn't tell nobody that was 706 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 1: oxygo Nobody. 707 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 11: College Days. Happy college Day. 708 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,879 Speaker 6: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll 709 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 6: talk marital advice. 710 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. 711 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 6: We have to say happy anniversary to our very own 712 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:37,240 Speaker 6: Carlo Farrell Tash. Yeah, the Pharaohs, the pharaoh Universary. Happy anniversary, Corloge. 713 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 6: So how many years now have you guys been married? 714 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 3: Thank you? 715 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,839 Speaker 1: Twenty one twenty one? 716 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 5: All right, congratulation is we're. 717 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 1: Going to have a parade for Toash. I don't have 718 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 1: special for Tash. Yeah for Tash because I don't know 719 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 1: how he did it twenty one years with you. We 720 00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:06,160 Speaker 1: need to see him. Make me ill, So Cigar carn 721 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:11,760 Speaker 1: y'all good on podcast. My soul looks back at wonder, 722 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: make me sick. Thank you all right? 723 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 11: So well. 724 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 6: En route to their wedding, in Phoenix. Another couple not 725 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,400 Speaker 6: Tash in Carla on this one. This is another couple. 726 00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 3: Uh. 727 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 6: They received a touching surprise when Alaska Airline staff invited 728 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 6: passengers to share a marriage advice on napkins and notes. 729 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 6: Here's some of the heartfelt tips the couple received. Communicate, 730 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 6: never go to bed angry, cherish the little things. Always 731 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 6: acknowledge small gestures, maintain intimacy, give genuine compliments. Genuine compliments. So, 732 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 6: Steve Tommy, any advice you want to add to this? 733 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 6: You guys have been married long as well. 734 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: If we start aging a little third of her to hell, 735 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 1: we ain't going to bed man And that's crazy, just 736 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 1: as mad as she was when she went to sleep. 737 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: That's what I never understood, because I'll go to bed 738 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,840 Speaker 1: and wake up. I don't forgot, No, we won't. Baby, 739 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: What you mean? 740 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 3: Hey? 741 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 1: Baby? I still you say last night? 742 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,320 Speaker 6: Don't let the sun set on your anger? What about 743 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 6: the acknowledging the small gestures? Sometimes you just be tired. 744 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 5: You don't want to. 745 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 11: Must have been giving tips to mad people out there. 746 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,760 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you it was vir genuine. Ain't nobody 747 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 1: finna do all that? Because if you've been married long enough, 748 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 1: ask caller, has she ever went to bed mad? Oh? Yeah, 749 00:43:53,680 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: yeah the other day. Yes, yeah, you know, I mean 750 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 1: all that's great advice, but you're gonna do all of that. 751 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, tell me you asked about the genuine statement. It 752 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:12,960 Speaker 6: was give genuine compliments, genuine compliment. You still can compliment 753 00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,440 Speaker 6: your wives, right, No? 754 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes no, sometimes that compliment can't be genuine exactly 755 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do. You just have to give the 756 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,719 Speaker 1: company you like what I got on Oh baby, that's nice. 757 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:33,720 Speaker 1: Genuine lies, that's what you do. That's what you're lying 758 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: and lies genuine. 759 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 5: No, what about communicating, You got to do that in 760 00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 5: a marriage. 761 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 4: You have to go. 762 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:51,240 Speaker 1: You got all you have to communicate, but a large 763 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: percentage that it's gonna have to be lies. 764 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 14: See lying. 765 00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: Just if you want to stay married, you tell the 766 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,520 Speaker 1: truth all the time, you're not gonna stay married. So 767 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: put that down, lion helps the relationship. 768 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 5: I'm not putting that down. 769 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 1: Selective line. You must know when it's time. 770 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 5: But that's for you, that's not for your wife. 771 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:22,640 Speaker 1: That's right. Everybody that wants to stay married, you have 772 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,800 Speaker 1: got to learn how to selective lie. And I'm not 773 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: playing with your especially with your spouse, your best friend, 774 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 1: and sometimes you can't your best friend everything. And that's 775 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 1: why we're best friend till death do us part. 776 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 3: There. 777 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 1: I don't know who wrote that. I don't know who 778 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 1: wrote that. Problem and a problem. I can do that too, 779 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: however long you need this line to last to do you? 780 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 1: I got a problem with that. I can tell you. 781 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,320 Speaker 1: If you want to stay married, you're gonna have to 782 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 1: have select the lying in the think game. You can't 783 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: tell the truth about everything. 784 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Kyle, Happy anniversary. 785 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 11: You're going to ask him right now you've been lying 786 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:11,279 Speaker 11: to me. 787 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 6: Coming up, nephew with a frank phone call right after this. 788 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 789 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 6: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. 790 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 6: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is 791 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 6: patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get 792 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,800 Speaker 6: into it, find out what it's all about in just 793 00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,800 Speaker 6: a few because right now the nephew is here with 794 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,120 Speaker 6: today's frank phone call. 795 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 5: What you got for his nept for y'all? 796 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 4: Tell me? 797 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 1: You know, I mean, how stupid y'all wanted to be 798 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 1: this moment how stupid do you want? Just let me know. 799 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 5: You know what I mean, there's the levels to your stupid. 800 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: There's levels of you know, from one to ten. I'll 801 00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,799 Speaker 1: be trying to figure out. You know sometime I can't 802 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: get a right. So on this. 803 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 5: You answer that, Steve, I want on this Thursday. 804 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna give you what you won't. Just 805 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 1: tell me what it level? You want? How much? How many? 806 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 5: He says one to ten you can go from. 807 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 7: I can go from one to twenty. Really, I can 808 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 7: actually pass him. But I'm talking about that stupid. 809 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, oh oh he's unmatched. 810 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,839 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's off. 811 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 1: He's he's unmatched. I don't know. I don't even know 812 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 1: why we're trying to put hes gonna go past whatever 813 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:30,840 Speaker 1: number you got. 814 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 5: Exactly, it's off the charts all the time. 815 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 11: You're gonna break the rich. 816 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 5: You blow our minds without stupid, you can. 817 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,319 Speaker 7: Be Let me see if I can blow your mind 818 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 7: this morning. This one right here is can your wife 819 00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 7: help me with my thesis? 820 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:48,759 Speaker 1: See? 821 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 7: Then your wife help me with my thesis. That's what 822 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,320 Speaker 7: I'm talking about, cat dog, We're all on our way, too, stupid. 823 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: Let's go. 824 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:03,799 Speaker 8: Hello, I'm trying to reach h yeah, who, well, who 825 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 8: is it? 826 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 4: Hey, mone ain't ellis man? Is this is this Dallas 827 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 4: is a husband? 828 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, yeah this me. 829 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 4: Hey listen, my mother is mystery man. She goes to 830 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:18,160 Speaker 4: church with with with your wife's moms, uh, with mother 831 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,759 Speaker 4: and uh I'm actually in med school, man, And they 832 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 4: told me your your wife, she's a she's a nurse. 833 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 4: Is that right? 834 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,440 Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's a nurse. But you say, 835 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,360 Speaker 8: you say your mama go to. 836 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 4: Church with my wife's mama, right right, my mother, she 837 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 4: goes to church with with with with mother. 838 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 8: Okay, then I, uh what I was telling you off 839 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 8: for damn. 840 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,839 Speaker 4: Man, If you didn't mind, I wanted to I'm going 841 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 4: I'm getting ready to do my thesis. Man, I'm doing 842 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,600 Speaker 4: my thesis for the end of the year, uh, end 843 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 4: of the semester, man for med school. And they told 844 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 4: me your wife, you know that might be able to 845 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:55,960 Speaker 4: help me out. So I was hoping I could talk 846 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:56,760 Speaker 4: to her for a second. 847 00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,920 Speaker 8: If you're on mind, yeah, hold on real quick, hold on, Okay, 848 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,200 Speaker 8: you want to talk to you mama, So you want 849 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 8: to talk to you? 850 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 4: Hello? 851 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 8: Hello, hey, yes, hey, how you doing? 852 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 4: My name is Ellis my mother? Did you go to 853 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 4: church with your with your mother and they gave me 854 00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 4: your number that you might be able to help me 855 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 4: out with some stuff. I'm in man's school right now, 856 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 4: I'm starting to be a gynocologist and uh that you 857 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 4: might be able to help me out with some things. 858 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,439 Speaker 4: I wanted to reach out to you if it was cool. 859 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 8: Okay, what's your name? 860 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 4: Against Ellis? 861 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 8: And your mom goes to church. 862 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 4: With my mom's right? 863 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 8: Okay, right, okay? 864 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 4: What what? 865 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:35,400 Speaker 12: What? 866 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 4: What I'm doing is, I'm doing my thesis and you know, 867 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 4: this is the this is my big end of the 868 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 4: year exam. And what I'm doing is I'm making my 869 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 4: thesis a video and opposed to a report, so everything 870 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 4: is gonna be on video. So what I'm trying to 871 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 4: do is actually get a time where I can hook 872 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 4: up with you and maybe examine you and get all 873 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:55,080 Speaker 4: that on video. 874 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 1: So you want to video tape. 875 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,680 Speaker 4: I will be giving you, uh you know, and I 876 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,320 Speaker 4: put you, you know, your legs in the stirrups and 877 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 4: all that and just video me doing the actual examination 878 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:06,640 Speaker 4: on you. 879 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 8: You want a video name? 880 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 12: You want to video ta him giving me all? 881 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 8: Hey, like what you're talking about you want to do 882 00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 8: what again? 883 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,800 Speaker 4: Do well? See, I'm working on my thesis, man, and 884 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 4: what I'm doing my thesis is gonna be a video. 885 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,399 Speaker 4: So I'm actually video myself giving your wife. 886 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 8: What can come away? You want a video? Came my 887 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 8: wife in. 888 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 4: You. Hey, hey, hey, brother, this right here from my grade. Man. 889 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 4: You know this ain't nothing on a personal tip, man, 890 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 4: this is for the grade. You know, your wife being 891 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 4: in the medical field. 892 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 8: I told my wife you talking about you? Okay, you 893 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 8: want a video came of my wife that we got 894 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 8: to look at it. Man, you want you can't say no. 895 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 4: Man, listen, this from my grade and this ain't but 896 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,879 Speaker 4: I mean only the professor is going to walk phone. 897 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,360 Speaker 8: I'm concerned. You better go find somebody else. My wife 898 00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 8: this again, man, My name is Ellis. 899 00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 4: Man. I told you know my mama. 900 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 8: Missed she go to church with Come on, I'm man. No, 901 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,239 Speaker 8: we don't know who you was. 902 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 1: Man. 903 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 8: We ain't never seen your mama. Man, what you're trying 904 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 8: to do you ain't gonna do no, my wife. 905 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 4: Man, All y'all, hey, okay with y'all, let me ask 906 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 4: you something. Don't you go in there and get anyway 907 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 4: at least once or twice a year. 908 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, nobody no hedo cage son video take my 909 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 8: wife like that? But man, this it brother, we gonna 910 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 8: find somebody else. Man that man, there's all that. Man, 911 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,800 Speaker 8: I don't know you an'll know your mama dollar y'all. 912 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 4: Man, okay, okay, can you put me on speaker PHONPS, 913 00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:34,879 Speaker 4: I can talk to both y'all. 914 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:39,479 Speaker 8: No, he now you ain't gonna talk back to my wife. Okay? 915 00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:40,600 Speaker 4: Can I say one more thing? 916 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,360 Speaker 8: Come about video taking my wife? 917 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 4: Now? 918 00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 8: D yeah, you ain't talking to my wife. 919 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,520 Speaker 4: Come up. I just want to say this. Man, this 920 00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 4: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You 921 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,600 Speaker 4: just got breaked by your homeboy Doug. 922 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 8: Baby tell my talking about video taking my wife? 923 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 4: Yet you got a boy named Doug. 924 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,320 Speaker 8: Don't you hold? 925 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 4: Wait? 926 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:09,040 Speaker 8: Man, what you say? 927 00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:09,520 Speaker 12: Who did that? 928 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: Doug? 929 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 8: Doug and Tony? I won't kick it man, that's man. 930 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 8: Don't con a by this og man. You had me 931 00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,839 Speaker 8: hot dude? Oh man, y'all all right, man, my heart 932 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 8: was being fair. 933 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,279 Speaker 4: Man, Hey, man, hey, put what on the mo? Y'all 934 00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 4: at heils man? 935 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 8: Okay, hold all right, I seek hold on uh go ahead, man. 936 00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:40,319 Speaker 4: Okay, Now what I got one thing. I gotta ask y'all, 937 00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,560 Speaker 4: what is the baddest radio show in the land? 938 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:47,879 Speaker 8: Man say? 939 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:48,160 Speaker 3: Man? 940 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 8: Next time my wife goes back up in there, man, 941 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 8: get up, I'm going up in there. Man up in there. 942 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 7: And there you have it, fairly, and Carl, I expect 943 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,319 Speaker 7: some praise from y'all this morning. 944 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 1: That's what I expect. Now. 945 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 11: I expect some praise dranking people's husbands, but it does. 946 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 11: Why do you think that is cool? Why do you 947 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 11: think it's cool to do that? 948 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: I think that's what pranking business is about. I'm sorry. 949 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 7: It's drinking husbands, is dranking wives, it's dranking ministers, it's 950 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 7: dranking kids. 951 00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: I don't care. 952 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 7: Ain't nobody, No, I don't draw the line. I don't 953 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,239 Speaker 7: Why are we drawing it? Whoever thought about? Who did that? 954 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,560 Speaker 1: Anyway? Who got damn drew the line? What is that about? 955 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 1: I never understood that anyway? 956 00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,680 Speaker 7: The nephew, it's the week zero Week zero Comedy Week 957 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 7: zero Comedy Jam's coming up Labor Day weekend August and 958 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 7: twenty ninth, That is Friday night at the Botwell Auditorium 959 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,719 Speaker 7: in Birmingham, Alabama. All right, big weekend for football, y'all 960 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 7: don't want to miss at Valdosta State versus Clark Atlanta, 961 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 7: University of West Alabama versus Fort Valley and it's all 962 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 7: going down Labor Day weekend. Okay, tickets are on sale 963 00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 7: right now, but you're gonna jump it off Friday Night 964 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:17,000 Speaker 7: with Nephew tie me, Bill Bellamy, mss V and Moore 965 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,440 Speaker 7: August twenty ninth. Well, lot of toy tickets on sale 966 00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,799 Speaker 7: right and now, okay, that's how we're doing it. That's 967 00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 7: exactly how we're doing Okay, right, all right, landing the cut? 968 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,480 Speaker 7: What's in September? September nineteenth and twenty the Nephew're coming 969 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 7: to Huntsville, Alabama, all right at Liberty Live Comedy Club 970 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 7: and Nephew will be there. 971 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,320 Speaker 1: So all my friends from the Own. 972 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 9: Network yea loving Marville, Yeah coming, y'all. 973 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,480 Speaker 7: Wait, man, my nephew is coming y'all way, so y'all 974 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:51,080 Speaker 7: get ready and Friday night, don't forget it gets a 975 00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:54,319 Speaker 7: little sexy on Friday, it does. You want to tune 976 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:55,840 Speaker 7: into the Own Network. 977 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 1: Where you can catch how are you talking like that? 978 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,720 Speaker 7: Uh? Just you know you want to catch Thomas hosting 979 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,359 Speaker 7: Hit TV show Ready to Love. Where we are, I'm 980 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 7: making sure you can find what you're looking for. You 981 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, fall off, you don't want to 982 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,840 Speaker 7: miss it. Ready to Love Baby ten seasons deep. I 983 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:22,840 Speaker 7: cannot complain. 984 00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 11: Well, thank you. 985 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,240 Speaker 6: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry letter. The subject 986 00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 6: is patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We're 987 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 6: going to get into it right after this. 988 00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,840 Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining four teams battle to make the 989 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 7: championship in the most physical, fears and competitive basketball league 990 00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 7: in the world. The action starts with the Big Three 991 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,880 Speaker 7: Monster Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwight Howard and his La 992 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,640 Speaker 7: Riot take on montesz Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. 993 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,799 Speaker 7: The finale we'll see popular Miami three oh five would start. 994 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:58,080 Speaker 7: MVP Michael Beasley and Lan Stevenson take on Nancy Lieberman's 995 00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,960 Speaker 7: Dallas Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship. 996 00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,040 Speaker 7: The action starts Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific 997 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:05,240 Speaker 7: only on CBS. 998 00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 1: You have no idea what it is. This is Carlos 999 00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,919 Speaker 1: Miller less self, It's DJ Cavin. 1000 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,799 Speaker 5: This is Jenny IM's going on This tem Hardy. 1001 00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:14,919 Speaker 14: Coming on next is the Strawberry Letter. 1002 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:23,600 Speaker 6: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1003 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 6: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationship, dating, work, sex, parenting, 1004 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 6: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM 1005 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,399 Speaker 6: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 1006 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,520 Speaker 5: We could be reading your letter live. 1007 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,719 Speaker 6: On the air, just like we're gonna read this one 1008 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 6: right here, right now, and you never know, it could 1009 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:42,760 Speaker 6: be yours. 1010 00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,399 Speaker 7: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type 1011 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 7: to guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 1012 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 6: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject to patiently waiting for 1013 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 6: my man to settle down. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm seeking advice, 1014 00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,480 Speaker 6: but I know what you are going to tell me. 1015 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:00,839 Speaker 6: I have a man in my life that I've been 1016 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,400 Speaker 6: with for three years. I say that I've been with 1017 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 6: him because he has not been with me, well, not 1018 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,719 Speaker 6: the whole time. I have seen him out with other 1019 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 6: women a few times while we were supposed to be dating. 1020 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 6: I also made sure he saw me, and then I 1021 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,800 Speaker 6: go home and wait for him to call or come 1022 00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 6: by and lie to me about what I saw it 1023 00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 6: bothered me. 1024 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 5: At first, but I'm used to it now. 1025 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:28,000 Speaker 6: At first, I messed up and told my friends and 1026 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,000 Speaker 6: family how his actions hurt me. 1027 00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:31,200 Speaker 5: Big mistake. 1028 00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 6: I'm a lot wiser now and I act like things 1029 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 6: are going great in my relationship, so they don't judge me. 1030 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,200 Speaker 6: They can't stand my man because of me. My sister 1031 00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 6: in law works with a woman that he was seeing 1032 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 6: around Christmas time. The lady bought him a TV for Christmas, 1033 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 6: and he gave it to me for my bedroom. I 1034 00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:52,320 Speaker 6: wanted to thank the lady for her contribution. I like 1035 00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 6: to take lemons and make lemonade. I have told my 1036 00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,640 Speaker 6: friends and family that nothing they tell me will ever 1037 00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,800 Speaker 6: make me hate my man. I don't condone his cheating, 1038 00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 6: but the way he makes it up to me makes 1039 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:09,040 Speaker 6: all of the agony worthwhile. I am sure this is 1040 00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 6: where you start judging me, but when I weigh the 1041 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,920 Speaker 6: pros and cons, I am winning. I have access to 1042 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,120 Speaker 6: one of his accounts and he spends all of his 1043 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,560 Speaker 6: money on me. My sister in law even confirmed that 1044 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,080 Speaker 6: he doesn't spend any money on the lady that boughts 1045 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 6: us the TV. I don't want to start over with 1046 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 6: a new man, only to find out that he cheats too. 1047 00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:32,520 Speaker 6: Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around and 1048 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 6: I'll be here waiting. Is it a full proof plan 1049 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,440 Speaker 6: or am I wasting my time? 1050 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:39,920 Speaker 3: Uh? 1051 00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 6: Full proof plan? No wasting your time yet. But I 1052 00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 6: got to ask you, why are you writing Steve? And 1053 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 6: I You know you're not going to listen to anything 1054 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:53,080 Speaker 6: we tell you. Your folks have already tried that. Your 1055 00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,640 Speaker 6: friends have tried that to tell you about him. You 1056 00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 6: didn't listen to them because you don't want our advice. 1057 00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 6: You just want us to tell you you're right and 1058 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 6: that yes, he will eventually settle down with you and 1059 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,920 Speaker 6: only you one day. That seems to be how you've 1060 00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,160 Speaker 6: worked it out in your head anyway. And this man 1061 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:13,560 Speaker 6: is trash because he has no respect for you or 1062 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:14,480 Speaker 6: your relationship. 1063 00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 3: This is sad. 1064 00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:18,080 Speaker 6: And I know deep down you really don't want a 1065 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,240 Speaker 6: man who cheats, but you've convinced yourself that this is 1066 00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,439 Speaker 6: the best you can do. In other words, it's better 1067 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,720 Speaker 6: to have a man that cheats than no man at all. 1068 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 6: You cannot really believe that. I mean, so what, he 1069 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 6: gave you a TV and has given you access to 1070 00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 6: his bank account. He still cheats on you, and he's 1071 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,160 Speaker 6: been doing it for years? How is this okay in 1072 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 6: your mind? Because of the money. You said, this is agony, 1073 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 6: and I know this has to be agony for you. 1074 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,200 Speaker 6: He's never going to stop cheating on you because he 1075 00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:53,760 Speaker 6: knows you're never going to leave him. He has no 1076 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:57,920 Speaker 6: incentive to stop because he knows you'll always take him back. 1077 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:00,120 Speaker 6: And this has been going on for three years now. Well, 1078 01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 6: you say you're winning, You're not winning. You are losing 1079 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,040 Speaker 6: to a loser. 1080 01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 1: Steve Lady surely said something really smart. Shirley said, I 1081 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:15,280 Speaker 1: don't know why you wrote us, because you're not gonna 1082 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:19,560 Speaker 1: listen to anything we say, because you just told us 1083 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:27,400 Speaker 1: that your family can't tell you nothing about him that 1084 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 1: would make you leave him. So I don't know what 1085 01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 1: you think we're gonna do, but I'm gonna tell you 1086 01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 1: something from the male perspective. I'm gonna give you this 1087 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,160 Speaker 1: letter from the male perspective. Let me see how you 1088 01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: feel after you hear this. You say I'm seeking advice, 1089 01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,240 Speaker 1: but I know what you're going to tell me. That 1090 01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 1: means that you already know what's best, but you've somehow 1091 01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 1: ignored it. I have a man in my life that 1092 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:54,840 Speaker 1: I've been with for three years. I say that i've 1093 01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: been with him because he's not been with me. Okay, cool, 1094 01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:02,880 Speaker 1: Then you don't have a man. You don't have a 1095 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 1: man if you're going to allow me to do what 1096 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:07,560 Speaker 1: I want to do whenever I want to do it, 1097 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 1: and I can get away with it, there are no consequences. 1098 01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 1: You're not my woman. You this peace I'm dealing with 1099 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,160 Speaker 1: that I can run over. You're a doormat to me, 1100 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,160 Speaker 1: and I'm come in here and wipe my feet off 1101 01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 1: on you and scoot up under the table whenever I 1102 01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 1: want to. I've seen him out with other women a 1103 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:29,640 Speaker 1: few times while we were supposed to be dating. You've 1104 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:34,320 Speaker 1: seen him out with women plural a few times while 1105 01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,520 Speaker 1: y'all was dating. You saw it for yourself. Didn't nobody 1106 01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:38,800 Speaker 1: come and tell you? So, you saw it for yourself. 1107 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Always made sure he saw me, And then I go 1108 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: home and wait for him to call and come by 1109 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:51,160 Speaker 1: and lie to me about what I saw. Well, that's brilliant, 1110 01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 1: Oh man, What a great way to spend an evening. 1111 01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,560 Speaker 1: What a great way to be in a relationship with 1112 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 1: a per if I'm out as a man with another woman, 1113 01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,560 Speaker 1: and we're supposed to be dating, and you make sure 1114 01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 1: I see you, and then you go home and wait 1115 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 1: to see what I'm gonna say. I ain't got to 1116 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: say nothing, Yeah you saw me? 1117 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:17,520 Speaker 2: What? 1118 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,320 Speaker 1: So at first I messed up and told my friends 1119 01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: and family how his actions hurt me. Big mistake. I'm 1120 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,960 Speaker 1: a lot wiser now and I act like things are 1121 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 1: going great in my relationship so they can't judge me. 1122 01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:34,040 Speaker 1: Did you what you're just saying? You did a total contradiction. 1123 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,400 Speaker 1: You used to tell your friends how he hurt you. 1124 01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 1: That was a big mistake because now they judge you. 1125 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:43,840 Speaker 1: So now you act like things are going great in 1126 01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:48,000 Speaker 1: your relationship, just so they won't judge you, and you 1127 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: won't have to hear how big a fool you are. 1128 01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:56,400 Speaker 1: They can't stand my man because of me. You ought 1129 01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:58,480 Speaker 1: not be able to stand you, the one. I don't 1130 01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:00,960 Speaker 1: know how you can't stand in me the right. 1131 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:02,440 Speaker 5: Hang on, Steve, hang on. 1132 01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,800 Speaker 6: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1133 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,520 Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject 1134 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:12,080 Speaker 6: patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get 1135 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:16,200 Speaker 6: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 1136 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:16,840 Speaker 6: Morning Show. 1137 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:25,280 Speaker 1: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away 1138 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 1: with the deal so right it almost feels wrong. 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Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1147 01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:58,960 Speaker 6: The subject is patiently waiting for my man to settle down. 1148 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,320 Speaker 1: A woman who has a plan that is so far 1149 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: gone it's never going to happen, especially waiting on my 1150 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,400 Speaker 1: man to settle down. You've been with a man for 1151 01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,480 Speaker 1: three years. You've caught him out cheating on you several 1152 01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 1: times with other women. You've seen it for yourself. You 1153 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,400 Speaker 1: made sure he saw you, and then your plan was 1154 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,680 Speaker 1: to go back home and wait home to call or 1155 01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 1: come over and lie to you about what you saw. 1156 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,640 Speaker 1: You said it bothered me at first, but I'm used 1157 01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 1: to it now. Wow, So how have you conditioned yourself 1158 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:34,280 Speaker 1: to be subpar. So what you've done is you've gotten 1159 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,840 Speaker 1: used to the fact and condition yourself that I'm not 1160 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 1: number one, I'm not worthy of being respected and treated right, 1161 01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 1: and I'm okay with that. Lady, you need to feel 1162 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: better about yourself because it's obvious you don't feel that 1163 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,240 Speaker 1: way about yourself, and so he ain't. He ain't gonna 1164 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 1: treat you that way. Then you said, first, you messed up. 1165 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 1: You told your friends and friends and family how his 1166 01:04:56,640 --> 01:05:01,120 Speaker 1: actions hurt you. Big mistake. I'm a lot wiser now 1167 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,680 Speaker 1: and I act like things are going greater in my relationship. 1168 01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:09,320 Speaker 1: That's not wiser. That doesn't make you wiser. You're more 1169 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:14,080 Speaker 1: conditioned to accept bad behavior. You're more conditioned to allow 1170 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:16,920 Speaker 1: this man to treat you any kind of way he 1171 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:22,120 Speaker 1: wants you. You allow him to use you as a doormats. 1172 01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:26,480 Speaker 1: So they can't stand my man because of me. No, lady, 1173 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,680 Speaker 1: they can't stand your man because of how he treats you, 1174 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 1: and you told them that, so they hate him for 1175 01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 1: you because you're too stupid to hate him yourself. Because 1176 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:46,400 Speaker 1: you have degraded yourself down to some second, third class 1177 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 1: citizen that's not worthy to be treated like a woman 1178 01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,680 Speaker 1: and a lady. My sister in law works with a 1179 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:56,240 Speaker 1: woman that he was seeing around Christmas time. The lady 1180 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 1: brought them a TV Christmas and he gave it to 1181 01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:00,960 Speaker 1: me from my bedroom. I wanted to thank the lady 1182 01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 1: for her contribution. Okay, so what else is wrong with you? 1183 01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:11,120 Speaker 1: This woman gave your man a TV for Christmas? He 1184 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:15,400 Speaker 1: thought enough of you. Well wow, now I ain't got 1185 01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:20,680 Speaker 1: to buy her nothing. I'm a Greek. Gift her a 1186 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 1: TV that my other chick gave me, So that was 1187 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,680 Speaker 1: your Christmas gift. I wanted to call her and thank 1188 01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:33,680 Speaker 1: the lady for her contribution. Wow, where are you and 1189 01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,280 Speaker 1: all of this? Man? Where is the real you? Because 1190 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:39,760 Speaker 1: you just I mean, this is not even funny to me. 1191 01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:42,920 Speaker 1: This is really sad. If you were my daughter, if 1192 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:46,920 Speaker 1: you were my daughter, girl, we're not doing this right here, 1193 01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:49,920 Speaker 1: because I'm telling you right now, you don't have I 1194 01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:55,040 Speaker 1: like to take lemons and make lemonade. But your lemonade 1195 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 1: ain't good though. No, you don't even know how to 1196 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 1: take lemonade. Your lemons is rotten. See you taking rotten 1197 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:07,040 Speaker 1: lemons and you making lemonade with rotten lemons that's what 1198 01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:10,400 Speaker 1: you're doing. I've told my friends and family that nothing 1199 01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,680 Speaker 1: they can tell me would ever make me hate my man. 1200 01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:14,120 Speaker 1: So well, I don't know what you want me and 1201 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,560 Speaker 1: surely to do. Like she said, I don't condone his cheating, 1202 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,520 Speaker 1: but the way he makes it up to me makes 1203 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:24,040 Speaker 1: all the agony worthwhile. There is no making up for 1204 01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:31,760 Speaker 1: agony to me. So y'all he's sleeping with you that good. Well, 1205 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:37,080 Speaker 1: you have this temporary moment of ecstasy and it justifies 1206 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 1: him doing what he want to do. That's gonna get old, lady. 1207 01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 1: I am sure this is where you start judging me. 1208 01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:47,960 Speaker 1: I'm not judging me. You's something wrong with you. I 1209 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:52,680 Speaker 1: have access, but when I weigh the pros and cons, 1210 01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 1: I'm winning. 1211 01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:54,720 Speaker 3: No you're not. 1212 01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:01,760 Speaker 1: You're losing. In every aspect. He's winning, but you're losing. 1213 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: I have access to one of his accounts, and he 1214 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,840 Speaker 1: spends all of his money on me. You know, the 1215 01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,600 Speaker 1: the account that you have access to that has very 1216 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:15,040 Speaker 1: little inn it. My sister in law even confirmed that 1217 01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:17,639 Speaker 1: he didn't spend any money on the lady that bought 1218 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:23,040 Speaker 1: us the TV. I don't want to start over with 1219 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: a new man. You don't have a man you ain't 1220 01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 1: starting over. You ain't got one in the beginning he's 1221 01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:31,000 Speaker 1: not your man, only to find out that he cheats. 1222 01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:33,719 Speaker 1: What difference do it make the one you got cheating? 1223 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:38,439 Speaker 1: Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around, and 1224 01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:40,960 Speaker 1: I'll be here waiting. Is it a food poof playing 1225 01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:43,120 Speaker 1: on my wasting my time? Let me explain something to you. 1226 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:47,880 Speaker 1: Eventually your boyfriend will get tired of running around. But 1227 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,400 Speaker 1: when he settled down, it's not gonna be with you. 1228 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:59,400 Speaker 1: Very seldom do the other chick win, and right now 1229 01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:06,839 Speaker 1: you the other chick. He has no intentions of settling 1230 01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:12,519 Speaker 1: down anytime soon because every first of all, everything he 1231 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,280 Speaker 1: does with you has no consequences. He can get busted 1232 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,439 Speaker 1: with other women. He can give you a TV that 1233 01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 1: another lady gave him. He ain't got to buy you 1234 01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:26,080 Speaker 1: nothing for Christmas. He gets no consequences. You done decided 1235 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,760 Speaker 1: that's nothing anybody can tell you about him, And then 1236 01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,040 Speaker 1: all the agony he sends you through, he makes it 1237 01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:38,719 Speaker 1: up to you, and it's all worthwhile. You have got 1238 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:46,120 Speaker 1: to stop being ignorant and start thinking more of yourself 1239 01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 1: than him, because he thinks plenty of himself and very 1240 01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,439 Speaker 1: little of you, you lady, to stop this. 1241 01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve BARBFM, 1242 01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:01,120 Speaker 6: on Instagram and on Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter 1243 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:03,679 Speaker 6: podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. 1244 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:05,960 Speaker 5: For it never sounded so good. You can download it 1245 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:06,880 Speaker 5: today now. 1246 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,280 Speaker 6: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we 1247 01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:11,720 Speaker 6: got Tommy in for Junior and Sports Talk. 1248 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:15,519 Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1249 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,760 Speaker 1: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away 1250 01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 1: with the deal so right it almost feels wrong right now. 1251 01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,120 Speaker 1: Get huge savings on our popular models, including our venture 1252 01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:35,280 Speaker 1: ready SUV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all 1253 01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:39,600 Speaker 1: electric with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic 1254 01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,639 Speaker 1: five or Ionic six. 1255 01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 7: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1256 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 7: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sale event. 1257 01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:49,719 Speaker 7: Visit HONDAIUSA dot com for details. 1258 01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,160 Speaker 6: All right, here we are, guys, time for Sports Talk. 1259 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:56,160 Speaker 6: Junior's out, Tommy's in. What you got for is Tommy? 1260 01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:57,120 Speaker 1: All right? 1261 01:10:57,160 --> 01:10:59,120 Speaker 7: We're gonna talk about one that's a little dear to 1262 01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 7: my heart. Now, Steve, check this out you've been, you've 1263 01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,800 Speaker 7: been watching the Little League World Series, all right? 1264 01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,920 Speaker 1: Love it a bit of a right. It's a controversy 1265 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,639 Speaker 1: going on this year, all right. 1266 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:13,080 Speaker 7: Some fans are demanding a big change because they see 1267 01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:14,800 Speaker 7: the game as unfair. 1268 01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 1: All right. 1269 01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:17,920 Speaker 7: The pictures have gotten so big, They got so big 1270 01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:21,759 Speaker 7: and so strong that they throwing pitches now eighty miles 1271 01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:25,479 Speaker 7: per hour while the distance between the mound and home 1272 01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:29,240 Speaker 7: plate is still forty six feet, and that is actually 1273 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:33,320 Speaker 7: equivalent to Major League battles facing one hundred and seven 1274 01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:34,599 Speaker 7: miles per hour. 1275 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:36,640 Speaker 1: Fast. Yeah, So the. 1276 01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:40,360 Speaker 7: Solution would be to increase the size of the field, 1277 01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,519 Speaker 7: which means that would probably you got a bag down, 1278 01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:47,600 Speaker 7: move and move that mind back. But now if you 1279 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:51,120 Speaker 7: do that, it's got to change lily all over the world. 1280 01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,759 Speaker 7: You got to change everything. And that's the big problem. 1281 01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 7: And I've been at games, dog, Well, I'm sitting there 1282 01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:59,360 Speaker 7: in the stands looking like that mound too close, that 1283 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,280 Speaker 7: ball it's humming up in here, it's coming too fast. 1284 01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:05,439 Speaker 1: I watched the Little Boy last night. Little boy struck 1285 01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 1: out ten batters in the row. How fast was he 1286 01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,800 Speaker 1: throwing the ball? He struck out ten people in the row? 1287 01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:12,360 Speaker 1: I don't know how fast he was throwing it. What 1288 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,960 Speaker 1: ibody hitting that. I was sitting in the car. I 1289 01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:18,040 Speaker 1: sitting in that show. Glad I ain't up there. That 1290 01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:21,439 Speaker 1: hell A white boy was scared me. I said, I'm 1291 01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: in timberdating this little fat. 1292 01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:25,160 Speaker 14: Boy. 1293 01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:27,600 Speaker 1: He had a little high. It's on him too, you know. 1294 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,599 Speaker 1: Hard to see a little white boy with a hot 1295 01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:33,720 Speaker 1: normally they flat. He had a high, That little boy 1296 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:44,000 Speaker 1: cocky leg. I wouldn't smoke on it, fright. I agree 1297 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 1: with I agree with spread. I just want that mind 1298 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,280 Speaker 1: to be moved back a little bit because it's just 1299 01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:51,160 Speaker 1: too close. It's too close. Forty seven. It's too close. 1300 01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell you something else to us Like 1301 01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 1: the w n B A. If they would lower that 1302 01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:59,360 Speaker 1: rim six inches six inches, that game would be so 1303 01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:01,200 Speaker 1: much money. I'm gonna tell you something, man, The w 1304 01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 1: n B A is good basketball to watch. And I 1305 01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 1: would venture to say, you know, I heard this high 1306 01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,519 Speaker 1: school team tell about man, we'll crush them. Girls know 1307 01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:11,840 Speaker 1: you wouldn't know, you wouldn't, boy? 1308 01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:12,719 Speaker 5: Oh some boys. 1309 01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:15,120 Speaker 1: No, it's a high school team. 1310 01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:18,760 Speaker 11: Yeah, high school boy. The high school girls said that. 1311 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:22,679 Speaker 1: No high school girls down stairs? Chance a high school 1312 01:13:22,720 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 1: boys team. I'm gonna tell you right now, you would 1313 01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,720 Speaker 1: have a tough time beating them, beating them women. Man, 1314 01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:32,800 Speaker 1: And because you don't understand, Yeah, you're more athletic, you 1315 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:37,639 Speaker 1: can jump higher, and you're faster, but they gonna move 1316 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:41,880 Speaker 1: that ball around because they shoot three pointers better than men. 1317 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:46,720 Speaker 1: They're gonna outsmart you. If if the realm was six 1318 01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: inches smaller man, the w NBA would be hell of 1319 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:51,679 Speaker 1: basketball to watch. 1320 01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:54,160 Speaker 3: All right. 1321 01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,519 Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you guys. 1322 01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 6: A man on social media needs some advice to He says, 1323 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,640 Speaker 6: word has it. My girl girlfriend wants me to propose. 1324 01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,360 Speaker 6: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 1325 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,040 Speaker 6: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1326 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:12,000 Speaker 5: All right, Steve, here we go. 1327 01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:15,799 Speaker 6: TJ on Steve BARBFM says, one of my girlfriend's friends 1328 01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:19,519 Speaker 6: told me that my girlfriend is expecting me to propose soon. 1329 01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 6: I don't know where that came from because it's not 1330 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:24,920 Speaker 6: something I've ever said or that we've discussed. It really 1331 01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:29,000 Speaker 6: got me thinking about the relationship and where it's going. Honestly, 1332 01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 6: I love her and we've had a great time, but 1333 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:35,479 Speaker 6: I've never wanted to get married. Now that I know 1334 01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:38,080 Speaker 6: that she really wants to get married. I'm wondering if 1335 01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:41,120 Speaker 6: it's fair to appear to be stringing her along, but 1336 01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 6: I don't want to break up. What's the right way 1337 01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:46,040 Speaker 6: to handle this? I guess I should find out if 1338 01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,840 Speaker 6: it's even true first, right. 1339 01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:50,920 Speaker 1: Oh, it's true. I can tell you that right now. 1340 01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 1: It's true. A lot of women want to be married 1341 01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,560 Speaker 1: when they think they had the right guy. And you 1342 01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 1: do love this girl, and you really having a wonderful time, 1343 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:05,720 Speaker 1: and she's thinking, man, this could be it. I hope 1344 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 1: he asked me to marry him. Now, the fact that 1345 01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:11,479 Speaker 1: you don't want to get married is a conversation you 1346 01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:15,160 Speaker 1: need to have. But see now, if you want to 1347 01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:20,120 Speaker 1: snow her, then keep acting like it's a consideration of yours, 1348 01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 1: knowing full well you don't want to get married. I 1349 01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:26,080 Speaker 1: think you should have a conversation with this young lady 1350 01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:29,800 Speaker 1: in all fairness, and let me tell you something, young man. 1351 01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:32,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are, but don't you 1352 01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,880 Speaker 1: mess up and let a good one get away? And 1353 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,519 Speaker 1: then two years later you decide you want to get married, 1354 01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:41,320 Speaker 1: and now you got to go find another her and 1355 01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:46,679 Speaker 1: it might not happen. Homie, what you get through because 1356 01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:51,479 Speaker 1: a lot of them think that what about it? Why 1357 01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:52,639 Speaker 1: she want to get married? 1358 01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:59,000 Speaker 7: Why why wouldn't she want to get married and have 1359 01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,400 Speaker 7: it understands she wants to get married. Why is it 1360 01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:03,839 Speaker 7: in your head that you think he's about to propose? 1361 01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:06,240 Speaker 7: But and y'all ain't even be causing at all. 1362 01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,960 Speaker 1: Because Tommy, when a woman is sitting in the room 1363 01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 1: by herself, her mind free to go wherever she want, 1364 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 1: this is what she won't And she. 1365 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,360 Speaker 11: Told her girlfriend that. She told her girlfriend, Yeah, this, 1366 01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:17,880 Speaker 11: this is what. 1367 01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:20,240 Speaker 1: She ain't said. This is what I think he want 1368 01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,680 Speaker 1: to do. I think I think he's gonna propose to me. 1369 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:26,479 Speaker 1: So she'd have worked that up in her head and 1370 01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:30,000 Speaker 1: she giddy about it. Tommy, the girlfriend that went to 1371 01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:33,519 Speaker 1: hear and the girlfriend, what hell she get that from? 1372 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:34,479 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1373 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:37,080 Speaker 11: Exactly, that's exactly what he's saying. 1374 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:39,120 Speaker 14: Steve, where does she get that from? 1375 01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:39,840 Speaker 8: Say that. 1376 01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:44,120 Speaker 5: And tell me you're married? So I don't even know 1377 01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 5: why you're mad about this. All right, let's move on. 1378 01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:51,240 Speaker 5: We have time for another one. 1379 01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:51,559 Speaker 1: Steve. 1380 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:53,800 Speaker 5: This is CEC on Steve Harvey FM. 1381 01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:57,160 Speaker 6: CEC says, I recently found out that my boyfriend has 1382 01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,800 Speaker 6: a second phone while he was in the shower. His 1383 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,880 Speaker 6: phone was on the dresser. But then I heard ringing 1384 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:06,080 Speaker 6: coming from his pants on the floor. I pulled out 1385 01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:09,639 Speaker 6: another Yeah, I pulled out another phone from his pants 1386 01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:12,880 Speaker 6: with a missed call from an unknown number. At first 1387 01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:16,439 Speaker 6: I convinced myself it was either someone else's phone or 1388 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,720 Speaker 6: maybe a work phone. So I didn't say anything. But 1389 01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:22,439 Speaker 6: now my mind won't stop going to the worst place 1390 01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:24,840 Speaker 6: that he's hiding a whole secret life. 1391 01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,639 Speaker 5: That was about three weeks ago. Should I say something 1392 01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 5: or is it too late? 1393 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:31,560 Speaker 1: She said, this is her boyfriend. 1394 01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:35,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, her boyfriend has a second phone. 1395 01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, well he got two phones? What yeah? 1396 01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:40,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, so she wants to know what's. 1397 01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 1: Going on in LA and you work with me every morning. 1398 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:44,400 Speaker 1: How many phones did I have? 1399 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:45,599 Speaker 5: Maybe three? 1400 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 1: It was a lot. I had three phones back, yeah, 1401 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:53,400 Speaker 1: three three phones. Yeah, three phones. One was for business. 1402 01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 1: Uh huh, one was for personal, and one was for 1403 01:17:57,920 --> 01:17:58,320 Speaker 1: the wife. 1404 01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 5: Wait wait wait, personal and the wife should be one. 1405 01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:10,360 Speaker 5: That should be one that should be white. Personally, yeah, 1406 01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:13,280 Speaker 5: personally and your wife should be the same. 1407 01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:17,480 Speaker 1: Phone, right, I'm not. She wasn't personal. 1408 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:22,599 Speaker 6: She was my wife, okay. And the difference is because 1409 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,240 Speaker 6: you're not making any sense right now? 1410 01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:34,240 Speaker 1: That makes sense? Your nerves with this lot of sense. 1411 01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:37,759 Speaker 5: Sorry, we gotta leave. 1412 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:41,920 Speaker 1: This about to ask me nothing about happiness. 1413 01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:43,719 Speaker 11: I'm sorry. 1414 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:45,920 Speaker 14: This on the table. 1415 01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:49,160 Speaker 6: We'll get more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1416 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:49,719 Speaker 6: up at twenty. 1417 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:54,120 Speaker 5: We'll bring it back then right after this. You're listening 1418 01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:55,960 Speaker 5: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1419 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:01,840 Speaker 6: All right, Steve, So before we went to break, you 1420 01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:07,040 Speaker 6: were talking about you had two phones, okay three three phones, 1421 01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:09,639 Speaker 6: I mean three. You had a business phone, a personal phone, 1422 01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,120 Speaker 6: and a phone for your wife. Okay, back in then, 1423 01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:16,120 Speaker 6: so I'm thinking your personal phone and the phone for 1424 01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:17,840 Speaker 6: your wife should just be one phone. 1425 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:18,799 Speaker 5: Correct. 1426 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:23,360 Speaker 1: That wife, I just said, she had her own phone, 1427 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,400 Speaker 1: special white, special her phone. 1428 01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:30,280 Speaker 5: But personal though that I don't understand what makes this 1429 01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:31,120 Speaker 5: make sense to me? 1430 01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:31,559 Speaker 3: Please? 1431 01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:39,840 Speaker 1: It is for friends, friends and bs. Your wife get 1432 01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:44,640 Speaker 1: her own personal phone. Not that second off that was 1433 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,240 Speaker 1: you know, that was back in that second marriage was 1434 01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:49,320 Speaker 1: a little rough and I had to find a way 1435 01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 1: to maintain and how to overcome what I was going through. 1436 01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:57,200 Speaker 5: But let me just say this, So when you were. 1437 01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,559 Speaker 1: On that business phone rarely ever wrong. 1438 01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:03,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, So your personal phone, when you're talking to your 1439 01:20:03,400 --> 01:20:04,200 Speaker 6: friends and your. 1440 01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:05,559 Speaker 1: Wife called that thing was hot? 1441 01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:08,080 Speaker 5: Can you just hang up with your friends and talk 1442 01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:08,599 Speaker 5: to your wife? 1443 01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:11,120 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no no. That stayed 1444 01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:15,840 Speaker 1: under the flow mat in the bounty, which the flow 1445 01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:20,000 Speaker 1: mat with the personal phone stayed under the folk flow mat. 1446 01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:23,519 Speaker 5: Okay, so who's calling you on the personal phone? 1447 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:35,320 Speaker 14: Friends, Shirley, you're yelling, Steve, no friends? 1448 01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 5: All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey 1449 01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:44,040 Speaker 5: Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 1450 01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:45,160 Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show. 1451 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:52,960 Speaker 1: Get into the hun Day Getaway Sales event and get 1452 01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:56,280 Speaker 1: away with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong. 1453 01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:59,839 Speaker 1: Right now, Get huge savings on our popular models, including 1454 01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:04,240 Speaker 1: venture ready s u v's like the Hyundai Santa fe Off. 1455 01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:08,280 Speaker 1: Go all electric with America's most awarded EV lineup like 1456 01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:11,160 Speaker 1: the Ionic five or Ionic six. 1457 01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:13,719 Speaker 7: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1458 01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:16,639 Speaker 7: with a great deal only during the Hondaid Getaway sell event. 1459 01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:19,240 Speaker 7: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details. 1460 01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,679 Speaker 6: It's time now, guys, for a round of would you rather? 1461 01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:28,439 Speaker 6: Would you rather detect every lie you hear? Or would 1462 01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:30,559 Speaker 6: you rather get away with every lie you tell? 1463 01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:36,519 Speaker 1: To this? Yeah, we know with my all my line 1464 01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:37,200 Speaker 1: Scott's free. 1465 01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 5: But people lie to you. That's okay too. 1466 01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:46,880 Speaker 1: Now I'm lying right back to you. Well all right, yeah. 1467 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:49,640 Speaker 1: Plus plus I know when you line anywhere, I'm so 1468 01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:53,200 Speaker 1: gone good at it was because because once you lie 1469 01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,439 Speaker 1: to me, I in my mind, I go, oh we line. 1470 01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:59,439 Speaker 11: Now it's a two way street. You're happy. 1471 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 5: You want someone that's as good as you are at it. 1472 01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:05,519 Speaker 1: You can't out you can't. No, no, no, no, no, no, 1473 01:22:05,880 --> 01:22:09,639 Speaker 1: surely I'm sixty eight. No that ain't gonnall. That ain't 1474 01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,880 Speaker 1: gonna happen. That's not going to happen. 1475 01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:14,360 Speaker 5: I don't believe that, all right. 1476 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't believe what you don't believe. They can 1477 01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:17,640 Speaker 1: outlie you. 1478 01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:18,759 Speaker 11: There is someone. 1479 01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:21,120 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you can 1480 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:25,599 Speaker 1: out lie me. Okay, we're good. Yeah, I'm just gonna 1481 01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:29,240 Speaker 1: know it. It's a whole lot of people can outlie 1482 01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:33,880 Speaker 1: me because I don't lie all the time. Just enough. 1483 01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:35,320 Speaker 3: Just a lot. 1484 01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:40,320 Speaker 5: Don't get that the truth? 1485 01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:40,800 Speaker 1: All right? 1486 01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:41,800 Speaker 5: Would you rather? 1487 01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:44,920 Speaker 6: Would you rather have your first child when you're nineteen 1488 01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:46,880 Speaker 6: or when you're fifty. 1489 01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:50,560 Speaker 1: Well, all of my kids was a surprise anyway. So 1490 01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:55,040 Speaker 1: you always say that I felt the same way at 1491 01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: twenty five and again at forty. So I ain't really. 1492 01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:03,280 Speaker 11: Take health health class. 1493 01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:06,559 Speaker 1: Playing parenthood. 1494 01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,160 Speaker 11: Health science in school. 1495 01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:14,240 Speaker 1: That took all that you know. I ain't every supply 1496 01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:15,080 Speaker 1: I had. 1497 01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 3: Guess the honey. 1498 01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:22,719 Speaker 1: I ain't doing it at fifty though, I'm sorry. 1499 01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:25,760 Speaker 5: Fifty okay, all right? 1500 01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:28,240 Speaker 1: Would you got money? All right? 1501 01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:32,799 Speaker 5: Would you rather be half your height or or double 1502 01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:35,920 Speaker 5: your weight? Who wrote this? 1503 01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:36,800 Speaker 1: I want to know? 1504 01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:37,000 Speaker 9: Who? 1505 01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:38,320 Speaker 5: Want me to keep going? 1506 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:40,639 Speaker 3: Yes? I did. 1507 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:42,640 Speaker 11: I'm very proud of it. 1508 01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:46,759 Speaker 1: One more time, Shirley, double my weight. I waited for farting. 1509 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:50,920 Speaker 5: Would you God either half or double your weight? 1510 01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? Going down there? Did half my height? I'm god 1511 01:23:56,360 --> 01:24:01,880 Speaker 1: dog three foot one? Then double this, wait and get 1512 01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:02,800 Speaker 1: back to the gym. 1513 01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:07,000 Speaker 7: Though I know we get I can't be I'm not 1514 01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:09,600 Speaker 7: gonna be that heavy. I can't i'ma be half my 1515 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:13,880 Speaker 7: hand can't be shut, you can show, can't be short. 1516 01:24:13,920 --> 01:24:16,599 Speaker 7: I'm gonna just tell you that I'm gonna be already. 1517 01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:19,880 Speaker 7: You already can't get nothing off top refrigerator. 1518 01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:24,240 Speaker 1: I don't know that's today. You ain't gonna be refrigerated 1519 01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:28,960 Speaker 1: handled though you know that handle refrigerate. You don't love 1520 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:30,479 Speaker 1: your way, right, back, and you ain't gonna be a 1521 01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 1: get refrigerator today. And I can't get nothing but pot 1522 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:37,960 Speaker 1: because the food is up too hot. With the one 1523 01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:40,679 Speaker 1: and only Steve Ford behalf. 1524 01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:44,479 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1525 01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:51,560 Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining fourteen's battle to make the championship 1526 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:54,560 Speaker 7: in the most physical, fears and competitive basketball league in 1527 01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:57,200 Speaker 7: the world. The action starts with the Big Three Monster 1528 01:24:57,360 --> 01:25:00,360 Speaker 7: Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwhite Howard and his La Riot 1529 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:04,280 Speaker 7: take on Montane Harrold and Doctor Jay's Chicago Triplets. The finale, 1530 01:25:04,439 --> 01:25:07,439 Speaker 7: we'll see popular Miami three h five would start MVP 1531 01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:11,120 Speaker 7: Michael Beasley and Land Stephens and take on Nancy Lieberman's 1532 01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:14,000 Speaker 7: Dallas Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship. 1533 01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:17,080 Speaker 7: The action start Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific 1534 01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:18,320 Speaker 7: only on CBS. 1535 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,080 Speaker 5: All right, guys, here we go, last break of the 1536 01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:23,800 Speaker 5: day on this Thursday. It's been a fun day. 1537 01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:27,000 Speaker 6: We got to say happy twenty first anniversary to Carla 1538 01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:30,240 Speaker 6: and Tash again the Pharaohs, Gerald, thank you. 1539 01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:30,840 Speaker 4: Thank you. 1540 01:25:32,720 --> 01:25:36,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, twenty one years o shah yeah, yeah. 1541 01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:39,360 Speaker 6: A lot of love, my heart work, yeah, a lot 1542 01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:41,840 Speaker 6: of heart work, love my husband, love my man. 1543 01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:44,720 Speaker 11: Alright, those closing remarks. 1544 01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:47,639 Speaker 1: I had a question for you, Steve. Okay, okay, I'll 1545 01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:47,920 Speaker 1: take it. 1546 01:25:49,560 --> 01:25:53,439 Speaker 11: What are the things that you think you should let 1547 01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:53,840 Speaker 11: go of? 1548 01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:59,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow, what are the things I think I would 1549 01:25:59,840 --> 01:26:05,400 Speaker 1: let well? First of all, and this is gonna sign 1550 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:12,719 Speaker 1: sound kind of wide spread, but you've got to release worry. 1551 01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:20,439 Speaker 1: Worry is a dangerous thing because it occupies time and 1552 01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:26,200 Speaker 1: it robs you of the gift of the present. Worry 1553 01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:30,320 Speaker 1: is a dangerous component because it robs you of the 1554 01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:35,840 Speaker 1: gift of the present. If God allows you to have 1555 01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:39,160 Speaker 1: today as a gift, and he wakes you up, it 1556 01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:42,320 Speaker 1: allows you exist in it and this is yours and 1557 01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:46,200 Speaker 1: He still has something for you. But you spend that 1558 01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:54,240 Speaker 1: day worry about one of two things tomorrow or yesterday. 1559 01:26:54,960 --> 01:26:56,880 Speaker 1: And I got news for you. You can't do You 1560 01:26:57,040 --> 01:27:01,280 Speaker 1: cannot do anything about either one of those. Worry is 1561 01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:09,400 Speaker 1: time consuming. Worry destroys the act of faith, which is 1562 01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:13,559 Speaker 1: a requirement to have a really, really great relationship with God. 1563 01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:17,600 Speaker 1: God really just wants you to do simple things. Just 1564 01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:23,599 Speaker 1: believe in him. God wants you to trust in him, 1565 01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:27,840 Speaker 1: but you got to have a relationship with him. But 1566 01:27:28,160 --> 01:27:34,000 Speaker 1: worry cancels out that relationship because it has you focused 1567 01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:36,960 Speaker 1: on things you can't control. And it also puts you 1568 01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:40,360 Speaker 1: in the position of you're not talking to God about this. 1569 01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:45,400 Speaker 1: I can assure you, if you're worrying about something repeatedly, 1570 01:27:45,520 --> 01:27:48,000 Speaker 1: over and over and over, you haven't turned it over 1571 01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:51,479 Speaker 1: to God. I know people say yes, Steve, but you 1572 01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:56,040 Speaker 1: still got to think about stuff. I said worry. I 1573 01:27:56,120 --> 01:28:01,360 Speaker 1: didn't say think. Anybody told you not to think. I 1574 01:28:01,520 --> 01:28:06,479 Speaker 1: said worry. I would let go of worry because worry. 1575 01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:09,559 Speaker 1: Does you know how many times have you worried about 1576 01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:12,320 Speaker 1: something tomorrow and when tomorrow got here it ain't or 1577 01:28:12,400 --> 01:28:18,640 Speaker 1: nothing like that. I mean, zilch ah man oh man, 1578 01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:22,400 Speaker 1: no man, I mean. And it can go both ways. Man. 1579 01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:24,599 Speaker 1: I thought tomorrow when I woke up, I was gonna 1580 01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:29,439 Speaker 1: get some great news, only to find out that celebration 1581 01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:32,720 Speaker 1: need to be put on hold. Homie, you ain't got 1582 01:28:32,880 --> 01:28:37,360 Speaker 1: no good news today. Or I was expecting some bad 1583 01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:40,960 Speaker 1: news tomorrow and I was worrying about this bad news. 1584 01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:42,960 Speaker 1: And then when I showed up, God and worked it 1585 01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:46,479 Speaker 1: completely out another way and it was over with. So 1586 01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:51,040 Speaker 1: guess what I did. I wasted my yesterday I ruined 1587 01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:54,479 Speaker 1: my moment of present peace worrying about something I had 1588 01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:57,240 Speaker 1: no control over. I would get rid of worry. The 1589 01:28:57,360 --> 01:28:59,640 Speaker 1: other thing I would get rid of I would get 1590 01:28:59,720 --> 01:29:02,599 Speaker 1: rid of people who bring me nothing but bad news. 1591 01:29:04,000 --> 01:29:07,040 Speaker 1: Life is already difficult. The last thing you need is 1592 01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:10,800 Speaker 1: somebody had every time you see them, something wrong, something 1593 01:29:10,880 --> 01:29:13,160 Speaker 1: going on. Did you see what they said about you 1594 01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:16,559 Speaker 1: on the internet? Man, did you read this? It's this true. 1595 01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:18,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how you do it. I was at 1596 01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:20,920 Speaker 1: the barber shop and they was just talking about you. 1597 01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 1: I be just sitting there, hey hey, hey man, hey, 1598 01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:28,360 Speaker 1: hey hey stop stop stop stop bringing that to me, 1599 01:29:28,640 --> 01:29:32,240 Speaker 1: because guess what I'm having another day of perfect peace, 1600 01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:37,200 Speaker 1: and now here you come with that. Take people out 1601 01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:41,160 Speaker 1: your life that are not praying for you, pulling for you, 1602 01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:45,320 Speaker 1: cheering for you, and helping you. If you are the 1603 01:29:45,479 --> 01:29:48,920 Speaker 1: one that's always has to do something for them, you 1604 01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:53,280 Speaker 1: are being used and manipulated and you don't need that. 1605 01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:56,439 Speaker 1: The other thing I would get rid of is the 1606 01:29:56,600 --> 01:30:01,280 Speaker 1: fear of saying no. It's okay to say no. Man. 1607 01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:04,000 Speaker 1: Stop wondering what people gonna think about you if you 1608 01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:07,720 Speaker 1: say no. Let me tell you what say no? Yes, 1609 01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:09,479 Speaker 1: they gonna feel what they want to feel about you 1610 01:30:09,560 --> 01:30:11,479 Speaker 1: anyway you can give it to them, and they talk 1611 01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:11,920 Speaker 1: about you. 1612 01:30:12,760 --> 01:30:12,960 Speaker 3: You know what. 1613 01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:15,400 Speaker 1: I many times you've helped somebody and then later on 1614 01:30:15,560 --> 01:30:17,519 Speaker 1: they forgot you help them, and you hear them talking 1615 01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:23,000 Speaker 1: about you somewhere. Man, lose your fear of saying no, no, man, 1616 01:30:23,040 --> 01:30:26,000 Speaker 1: I can't do that. I just got a text this morning. 1617 01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:30,200 Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm in town. Man, I got this going on, 1618 01:30:30,439 --> 01:30:33,000 Speaker 1: that going on. I need about ten minutes of your time. 1619 01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:36,120 Speaker 1: I say, I ain't got it, man, I'm busy. You 1620 01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:38,760 Speaker 1: ain't got ten minutes. No, no, no, not for you. 1621 01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't not for you, because I know the ten 1622 01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:45,759 Speaker 1: minutes is gonna break my peace. You not my child. 1623 01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:49,760 Speaker 1: If my child need ten minutes, I have an obligation 1624 01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:52,320 Speaker 1: to them. I still feel obligated to my children, even 1625 01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:55,439 Speaker 1: though the youngest one is twenty eight. If they say, Dad, 1626 01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:58,240 Speaker 1: I need to talk to you, I'm finna give them 1627 01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:03,120 Speaker 1: some time. But other than that, man, lose your fear 1628 01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:08,000 Speaker 1: of saying no, no, it's good man. Protect your peace, 1629 01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:15,280 Speaker 1: protect your happiness, protect your space, get away from those people. 1630 01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:19,120 Speaker 1: So those are the things I would lose my fear, worry. 1631 01:31:19,640 --> 01:31:23,960 Speaker 1: I would lose my fear of people. I would lose 1632 01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:26,840 Speaker 1: people around me who bring me no good, and I 1633 01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:31,840 Speaker 1: would lose my fear of saying no, no, no thank you. 1634 01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,439 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, put thank you with it, 1635 01:31:34,240 --> 01:31:36,599 Speaker 1: Hey man, can you loan me five hundred dollars? 1636 01:31:37,000 --> 01:31:37,040 Speaker 4: No? 1637 01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:40,479 Speaker 1: Thank you? No, no, thank you. 1638 01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:41,240 Speaker 4: No. 1639 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:45,360 Speaker 1: It affects them differently. Try it. Try it today. Somebody 1640 01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:47,360 Speaker 1: gonna ask you for some money, Just say no, thank you. 1641 01:31:47,960 --> 01:31:51,320 Speaker 1: Y'all have a great day today, and remember everybody talk 1642 01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:55,120 Speaker 1: to God today. He would absolutely love to hear from you. 1643 01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:57,840 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, have a good will see all. God's 1644 01:31:57,880 --> 01:31:58,799 Speaker 1: will will see y'all. 1645 01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:06,240 Speaker 6: For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1646 01:32:06,280 --> 01:32:09,760 Speaker 6: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1647 01:32:09,920 --> 01:32:14,760 Speaker 6: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1648 01:32:15,160 --> 01:32:17,840 Speaker 6: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show