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I will know he's giving me advice on 24 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: many occasions. In the case you didn't notice, I'm not broke, 25 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: you know he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs and industry 26 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: decision makers. It's what he likes to do. It's what 27 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: he likes to share. Now it's time to hear from 28 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: my man, Rashan McDonald money Making Conversations. Here we come. 29 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversation. I am your host, ra 30 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: Sean McDonald. Every week I tell every by this time 31 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: to stop reading other people's success stories and start writing 32 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: your own. Also tell people when you talk about your 33 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,399 Speaker 1: gifts your passion to leave with your gifts and don't 34 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: let your age, friends, family, or co workers stop you 35 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: from planning or living your dreams. My interviews that I 36 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: have on money Making Conversations involved celebrities, CEOs, entrepreneurs, and 37 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 1: what I like to call industry decision makers. My next 38 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: guest is truly an industry decision makers. Dr Steve Perry, 39 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: Doctor PARR, is a national leader in the education revolution, 40 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: a change agent who is tireless in his fights for 41 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: providing equal and competitive opportunities for children who otherwise will 42 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: not have a voice. His mission is to provide high 43 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: quality education with college bound opportunities for children in poverty. 44 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: In Dr Steve Perry opened his fifth school campus in Bronx, 45 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: New York, and all students are admitted to the schools 46 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: by random lottery in order to ensure equal access to 47 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: all students regardless of socio economic status academic history. Dr 48 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: Steve Perry's mission is to provide historically disadvantaged students with 49 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: the college and career readiness skills needed to become responsible, 50 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: engage citizens for social justice and offering a rigorous college 51 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: prof curriculum and the collective variety of athletic programs, project 52 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: based learning, and multi prong faculty support. Please work with 53 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: the money making conversation. Dear friend by man, Dr Steve Perry, 54 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: how are you doing, sir? Having the time of my life? Brother? 55 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: Really genuinely, I am and forgive me. I am in 56 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Harlem so you will hear the sounds of the city. 57 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: I have no control over that, well, the sounds of 58 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: the city. If you're New York. I always tell people 59 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: like I think basically seven million people living New York 60 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: proper in Manhattan proper, and on a given day, seven 61 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: to eight million will enter New York. So you can 62 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: look at from Twitter to fifteen million people on that island. 63 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:57,119 Speaker 1: So when you say noise in New York, I say, okay, right, 64 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: I have to say that everybody as familiar with our 65 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: home as as you are, so, uh, you you know 66 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: from your time here at the Apollo that this is 67 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: allowed little place we know. It's like Steve Erry, it's 68 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 1: really interesting that you know New York. I moved to 69 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: New York like an eight first time I went up 70 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: to New York and lived there, and it was in transition. 71 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: I remember I couldn't catch a cab if I was 72 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: in Lower New York to come to If you say 73 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: you're going across the hundred fiftree, they wasn't gonna you 74 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: might were not even getting the cab because they weren't 75 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 1: gonna take you. And then we went through this, you know, 76 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: the Central Park Joger, you know situation where the five 77 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: being were convicted and and then we then we transitioned 78 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: into they pick you up and take you up there. 79 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,799 Speaker 1: And then you look at New York a hundred street 80 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: and white people at two am are walking their dogs. 81 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: And so this morning trip tripping me out, like it's 82 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: just really tripping me out. And so would you in there? Now? 83 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 1: What is why is it important? Because we're talking a 84 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: different hall of now, not the hall of my new 85 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: not the hall of you reading the newspaper? What hall 86 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: of are you working in? Now? What's the environment of 87 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: hall that you're tied to? Now? That's that's interesting, Um, 88 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: I am Our school is currently located on a hundred 89 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: and fourth and fifth Avenue, which, if you know anything 90 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: about New York, is right across the street from Central Park. 91 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 1: I mean I can see the botanical garden right outside 92 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: my window. And um, excuse me. We are on what's 93 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: called a museum mile, which is just what you just 94 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: aptly named. Behind me is the African American Museum. Beneath 95 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: me is a musel all the way down to the 96 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: Museum of Natural History. So this area is a gorgeous 97 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:52,919 Speaker 1: area as areas go. Similarly, um, you are seeing a 98 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:58,119 Speaker 1: conversion of the Brownstones purchased by mainly. Uh, we can't 99 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: just be middle class, you gotta be upper middle as 100 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: to wealthy folks, many of whom appear to be white, um. 101 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: And for them, Harlem is a place of a cultural experience. 102 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: They come, many of them come to be immersed in 103 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: what they believed to be the culture of Harlem. But 104 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,679 Speaker 1: there's still that group right over there in the Union 105 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:27,119 Speaker 1: housing projects, which is on the other block. So again, 106 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: if you're not from New York, what I'm explaining to 107 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: you would seem unconscionable that so much happens in in 108 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: so few square feet. But in the h two yards 109 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: that this block is. On one side you have some 110 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: of the wealthiest real estate arguably in America, and then 111 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: just two yards on the other side you have a 112 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: couple of housing projects, um. And then then the other 113 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: high you have a new high rise. So butchers between these, 114 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: uh are stuck between these two pretty expensive pieces of property, 115 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: you have housing projects and rant controlled places. One of 116 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: my colleagues lives in approximately, I want to be polite, ex. 117 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: Seven hundred square feet. It feels like five d seven 118 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: hundred s graare feet efficiency and she pays twenty seven 119 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: that's my right, that's right. So you're not scaring me 120 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: with those numbers. See I that was in the five 121 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: hundred square feet and I was happy. I was happy. 122 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: But but but so that's what it looks like. But 123 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: what I worked with, I worked with some of the 124 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: poorest kids in America. I worked with some, um, some 125 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: of the most talented, beautiful, awesome, poor black Latin children. 126 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: UM who wow around them? There is uh call it renaissance. 127 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: I don't know as you call it a renaissance. We're 128 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: not going backwards, um, but it is a a resetting 129 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: on I don't know if you remember what the path 130 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: mark used to be that place, Yeah, so the path 131 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: mark used which is just which is just a block 132 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: away from, um, the train station. That building was just 133 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: torn down. They're about to build They're about to be 134 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: excuse me, a very very very nice uh set up there. However, 135 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: on the ground level, it's like the Land of the Dead. 136 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: Bunch of zombie people walking up and down looked, it's rough. 137 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if they're homeless, I don't I wouldn't 138 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: know what they do at night, so I can only 139 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: see what they do during the day. Um. But people 140 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: who most would consider or believed to be homeless, are 141 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: walking um and stacked. Uh just in the shadow of this. 142 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 1: You know, the thing about it is that to make 143 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: people understand the relatability of what he's saying, is that 144 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: because I lived in New York three times, and what 145 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: always threw me off was that you can't walk from 146 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: wealthy to poverty in a block. I mean, you can 147 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: walk on the same block. Is the same way whereas 148 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: in if you're a traditional city, you drive to it. 149 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: You drive, you drive to a housing project in New 150 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: York City, you walk past it. You know, you you 151 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: walk past the doorman who secured building, and you go 152 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: to the next block, and you're like, okay, where's my security. 153 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: Where's my doorman to get me through this block? So 154 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: there's a right there, that building right there as a security. 155 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,719 Speaker 1: I think that the condos in there and they have 156 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: to start in the load ones millions like right there 157 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: and right there, separated by two hundred uh two in 158 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: the yards is public housing that just separates. Just that's 159 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: what it is. And so it is a tale of 160 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: two nations that we're in. 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And here we are in the middle 206 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: attempting to carve a new door. Because, as you know, 207 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 1: Carter G. Wilson said that if you send a man 208 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 1: to the back door now and there is no back door, 209 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: when he gets there, he will cut one for himself. 210 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: M hmmm. So we're trying to teach our children to 211 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: go through a different door, really, the children and parents simultaneously. 212 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 1: We've been doing this for a long time. Do you 213 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: ever get what what frustrates you about the process of 214 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: what you're trying to do. What really frustrates me, uh 215 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: and really trips me out is that I thought we'd 216 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: be done by now. Honestly, I thought when I thought 217 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 1: when charter school started to open and we were able 218 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 1: to show that you could take the same Black children, 219 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: same Latin children, in the same address, from the same 220 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: families and put them in a different school and those 221 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: children would be able to read on grade level, right 222 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: on grade level, do math on grade level, go to 223 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: college at the rates anywhere from ninety upon graduation. Again, 224 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: I told you you canna hear us um it is. 225 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: I figured this country, and for what it's worth, the 226 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: president who got us started down that road was President 227 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: Bush too, but the person who really kicked it into 228 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: um full gear was President Obama. So I figured, as 229 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: soon as we show that you can take children from 230 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: wherever they come and help them ascend to the highest 231 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: highs that I mean both sides of our I figured 232 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: maybe the Republicans of triped because they're not as committed 233 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: to black and brown people as the Democrats say they are, 234 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: so maybe there'll be some rub there. But other than that, 235 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: we should be cool because their freedom loving people, and 236 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: they want the freedom of school choice. That's what I thought. 237 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: I could not be more wrong. The Democrats have been 238 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: the most ardent opponents of the very escape route that 239 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: we need to use to get out of the poverty 240 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: that in many cases there policies have plunged us into. Sadly, 241 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: the Republicans are so uh in apt around issues of 242 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: class and race that anything that comes out of their 243 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: mouths people think is racist, even when they're making headway 244 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: and policies of school choice. So what frustrates me is 245 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: that I find myself with these lying politicians all the time. 246 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: I mean, they get on my nerves. I'm not even 247 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: replying to you. Just some of them are people who 248 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: I know, like friends, people in my house. It is. 249 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: It is a peculiar paradox that I find myself in 250 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: because I you know, I just didn't walk through and 251 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: one of our schools here in Harlem and had to, 252 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: you know, tighten up some kids about not being a 253 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: uniform the way that's supposed to be doing that very 254 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: micro thing. But then from there I have to have 255 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: a macro conversation with the legislator about something that's just 256 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: it's just foolish, man. I don't even it sickens me 257 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: that we're still having these conversations. It is. And I 258 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: might add where I really, really, really really really was 259 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: wrong was I felt like if I, as a black 260 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: man committed to the black community, came to members of 261 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: the black community and I'm being completely transparent because you're 262 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: my god, I felt like I would be able to 263 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: get from black legislators, um, black wealthy people the kind 264 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: of support that our children need and let me be clear, 265 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: they're not putting any money in my pocket. They're not 266 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: increasing my salary. They don't make my house bigger at all. Actually, 267 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 1: when they give money to us, when they create legislation 268 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 1: that creates more opportunities for schools like ours to open, 269 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 1: my salary does not move, you know, despite my wife's 270 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: interest and son's interest in my salary moving. In fact, 271 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: one of my sons, one of my sons, goes to 272 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: school with a person who runs a large charter network 273 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: and she makes a considerable amount more than I do. 274 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 1: And he said, he said, see me all time. Do 275 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: you ever get frustrated by that? I don't. I didn't 276 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: get into this that I got in because I feel 277 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: so blessed to be a part of our children's lives. 278 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: I can't believe that God wakes me up all the 279 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: people others. I'm telling you, I can't and you know this, 280 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: and this is what we talked about. When there's no 281 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: cameras on, nobody watching, there's no bs anything, I can't 282 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: believe that God wakes this to uh it part of 283 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: like I just like in this way, it's just the 284 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 1: most awesome experience. So, I mean, do I enjoy earning 285 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 1: a living. I do, but I want to make it clear. 286 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: And and and if I made sixty billion dollars doing 287 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: it because I help kids, would that be a bad thing? 288 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,959 Speaker 1: Be people who do great things? But that's not what happens. 289 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 1: What actually happens is when they give money, when they 290 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 1: create legislation, it presents opportunities for us to be able 291 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: to serve more children. What that means is I can 292 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 1: hire more peak, but who can create more classrooms so 293 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: that we can have more children? That's it, Dr Perry. 294 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: When we talk about the five schools that you have, 295 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: this is from my audience who's listening and who also 296 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: are watching, And basically, what is the attendance size of 297 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 1: the school? What is the age rain of the curriculum 298 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: schacle the new one that you have and in the bronx, 299 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: how does that work? Because we know about the lottery 300 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: system to get in. Are they all located in the 301 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,719 Speaker 1: New York Connecticut area? Where they located these five schools 302 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: they are? Thank you so much for asking a u 303 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: thoughtful question like that, because most people don't um. So 304 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: we have we have two sites in Connecticut and Bridgeport. 305 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 1: We actually three, So I went in Hartford. I'm not 306 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 1: affiliated with that one anymore. I'll explain to you at 307 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: a moment um that was the first school. And then um, 308 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: we have two sites in Bridgeport, Connecticut and they're about 309 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: four hundred apiece. And then we have uh in horror 310 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: Um we have one that will be about eight hundred, 311 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: and then we have one in the Bronx that will 312 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: be about eight hun So the one we did in 313 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: Hartford is what was around eight hundreds, so, and then 314 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 1: some of them are broken into multiple sites. So that's 315 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: where the numbers are. Roughly three thousand m look and 316 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: so when you when you reach them, there's a's three 317 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: thousand students that because you you can the hard student, 318 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: poverty driven students, so three thousand students that you're given 319 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 1: a different way of life. They wouldn't have that different 320 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: way of life academically if you didn't have a vision 321 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: or feel blessed to get up. It's not about the money. 322 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 1: It's about providing an opportunity and escape to a better life. 323 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: Basically what you're doing with these students and their families too, 324 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 1: because the kids benefait they they do the things they're 325 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: supposed to go to college, hopefully can pay it forward 326 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: and co pick their family and move them forward as well. 327 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: That's your dream, politicians. People who think they are undertones 328 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: of greed tied to this, what do you what do 329 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: you do want out of it? Those those frustrating lanes. 330 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: But then you see the results, the students who have 331 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: left your school. How does that make you feel? Again? 332 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: So this weekend, great question? Great question. So this weekend 333 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: I went to two graduation parties, college graduation parties and 334 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: they have have those parents one one graduation I went 335 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: to UM then Way to graduated from Cton Hall and 336 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: UM to have the parents who are no longer together 337 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: actually recently divorced, to have them each separately come over 338 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 1: to me and thank me. I don't feel worthy. Um, 339 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: it's what I honestly feel when dad came over to 340 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: me and he said, you know, she couldn't have done 341 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: around you as a brother. Come on, I'm just a 342 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: spectator and this and like, no, you know, school, and 343 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: I appreciate it, and I'm gonna I'm gonna thank you 344 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: for the flowers that you're giving me while I'm still 345 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: up here, and I'm gonna appreciate that. But I current, 346 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: come on, this is this no person can do this, 347 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: This is not what people can do. This is God. 348 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: So um but what you know, Dr Parry, Dr Perry, 349 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: I can stop you right there because I know it 350 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:26,199 Speaker 1: a long time, because you are and I've always criticized 351 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: you for your humbleness. You know, you know you are 352 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: a vessel. It is God's work. But you get up. 353 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: I know your wife, I know your boys. They sacrifice. Okay, 354 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 1: it's at a time you're going the road to speak 355 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: to kids that you don't know. I've seen it. You 356 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: go to camps hot in the summer talking to boys 357 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: you don't know, trying to just give them a nugget 358 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: of information that would change their life. And so I 359 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: got the humbleness. But they are right, you're that blessing. 360 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: You're that You're You're the kid, You're the kid who 361 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: grew up become a man and say no, somebody want 362 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: to make a difference, and that difference has to be 363 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: in other people. So what triggered that? That's what I 364 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,440 Speaker 1: need to know. What triggered that? I appreciate that I 365 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: as you know, I'm I'm wickedly competitive. I understand somebody 366 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: has to lose. It just never has to be made. 367 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: So um, so for me, I want to be the 368 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: when this thing is done, when when the box is 369 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: mine and the dirt drums on top of it, I 370 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 1: want to be the best who's ever done. I don't. 371 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I want to. That will be evidence that 372 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: I took what a little bit that I came into 373 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: the game with and and I flipped it. You know, 374 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: I look at cats who who are comparably positioned in 375 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: their industries, who do things differently different than I do. 376 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: Who earned you know, who do something different than I do, 377 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: Because you mean, I see where they are, and I 378 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:06,159 Speaker 1: think I want to be even them. Yes, but but 379 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: the beating part is less about ego and more about service, 380 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: meaning that when I win, we win. But one of 381 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: the things I've always appreciated about you, Jean, is that 382 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: you are committed to extending blessings to other people, to 383 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: give and give opportunities to other cats, and identify talented 384 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 1: individuals and help them build whatever it is that they 385 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,120 Speaker 1: have and and have that turn into something meaningful. Um. 386 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: When when you are that kind of person, you build 387 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 1: a team of people who will always be there for you. 388 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 1: And so to your point, um My farewell wells comments 389 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 1: to the first school that we were at, the school 390 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: that we founded. Uh, when I left, what I said, 391 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 1: my sons attend my schools, and um, what I said 392 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 1: was thank you to them for all of the nights 393 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 1: that you went to bed and I wasn't there, all 394 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 1: the morning that you woke up and I wasn't there. 395 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: And that my hope and prayer is that one day, 396 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: when you feel like I'm the worst human being on earth, 397 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: you would come across somebody who will take the time 398 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: to say thank you for the time that you contributed 399 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: to my life by allowing your father to help us 400 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,959 Speaker 1: to build the schools in our community. 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Daughter 435 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: is bringing up the rear. Oh but the diaper bag 436 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: wasn't closed. Diapers and toys are everywhere. Oh but mom 437 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: has just nailed the perfect car seat buckle for the toddler. 438 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: And now the eldest daughter, who looks to be about 439 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 1: nine or ten, has secured herself and the booster seat. 440 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: Dad zips the bag clothes and they're off. Ah, but 441 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: looks like Mom doesn't realize her coffee cup is still 442 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: on the roof of the car and goes That's a 443 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: shame that mug was a fan favorite. Don't sweat the 444 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 1: small stuff. Just nailed the big stuff, like making sure 445 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: your kids are buckled correctly in the right seat for 446 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: their agent's eyes. Learn more than n h t s 447 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: A dot gov slash the right Seat visits n h 448 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: s A dot gov slash the Right Seat brought to 449 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: you by NITZA and the AD Council. Well, you know 450 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 1: the beauty of you, Dr Steve Berry, When of the 451 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 1: leading voices. Uh, you know when he says that by 452 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: his sons, I remember it was a run dad. Every year. 453 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: I watched them grow, you know. I watched them grow everything, 454 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: pop up your annual sophomore year, you know, you know, 455 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,239 Speaker 1: and go to the camps and Steve Harvey and then 456 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: go to the Dreams Academy. So at least twice I 457 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 1: watched them grow up, you know. And the beauty of 458 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: that is that respect. They understood their dad, They understood 459 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 1: the small Then they knew the value of effort. They 460 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: knew the value of making a difference. And when I 461 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: look at you and I look at the progress that 462 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: you made as a person, I have to honestly made 463 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: it is that you know, we we the television round 464 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: has been made available to you. You just did the 465 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: Fix My Life episode series, Uh last season? Where is 466 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: that in your life? Is being on television a need priority? 467 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: Or what's going on in your life from a television perspective? 468 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 1: Dr Stephen, You know, television for me is a vehicle 469 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: to tell the story of the work that we're doing 470 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: in the community, as you know, and what your viewers 471 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: are getting access to is the kind of conversation that 472 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: you and I have had two or three hundred times. 473 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: It's the same conversation where you know you've seen people 474 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: present me with TV projects and I've never I don't 475 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: turn them down. It's not my thing, but my focus 476 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 1: is primarily on running the schools. I know that's crazy 477 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 1: for some people who whose air is to be seen 478 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: by people, but I know that there's another side to that, 479 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: and there's a cost to that as well as you 480 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: well know. And you can't undring that bell. Uh So, 481 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: I am so grateful to uh Ayana and Oprah for 482 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: the opportunity and the opportunities. You also know this. You 483 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 1: never know what's gonna happen with televisions. So the conversation 484 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: is I'll put it this way, and you know you 485 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: understand this as well. I'll be as specific as I 486 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: can without getting myself jammed up. Um. There is fevered 487 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: conversation between a number of entities as to what to 488 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: do because there's there's been a there's been a long 489 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: interest from our backs when we did save my son, 490 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: of extending that work. There are people who are still 491 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: very interested in that. Some of those people in positions 492 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: of power networks, some of them are at streaming services, 493 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:03,719 Speaker 1: and I think that they wanted to see how how 494 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 1: the most recent you know, I don't want to see 495 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: if I still got it, but they they wanted to 496 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: see it again in person, so they got to see 497 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: that again. And UM, I think that I think that 498 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: the open win Free Network, among others. I'm gonna be 499 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: really frank with you, I think that the Oprah Win 500 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 1: Free Network, among others. UM. I saw the Universal University 501 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: positive reaction to the work. I think that people were 502 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: I think I'll just tell you what people said. The 503 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 1: internet was a buzz with very very very high positive 504 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: and you know how hard that is to achieve this, 505 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: you know, because we know where we're going. Everybody sees 506 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 1: you serious. You are a fun guy. You know we 507 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: were realisted. You smile, you know, you like you know, 508 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: you know what the party is. So so I know 509 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: that you you gotta keep in looping this because I'm 510 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: telling you, man, I cannot let them not see the 511 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: three the full three sixty of you. You know, yes, 512 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 1: your passionate, yes you're driven to change, but man, come on, now, 513 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: can we see you smile on TV? Dry Can we 514 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: see that? Can see that? You know when it's just 515 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: that you know what it is is it's hard to smile. 516 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 1: What I'm trying to save the kids, and that's usually 517 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: what you get to see me do. Um. But they 518 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: don't get to see They don't get to see uh 519 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: us in hot ass Texas, just sitting back cooking meat 520 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: and laughing for hours, literally trying not to get eaten 521 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: by every on earth. Um. They don't see that because 522 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: it's just not an opportunity. But listen to me when 523 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: I say that. When I say that, the reason I'm 524 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: dropping that into your conversation because that's you, Because see 525 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: what happened, what happens with producers see things a certain 526 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 1: way because that's their mind. I'm telling you you change 527 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: lives on the different levels. You can smile and change 528 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 1: a child's life. I've seen you do that on a 529 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: regular basis. I've seen you at Disney, I've seen you 530 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: at Camp. I've seen you an others speaking opportunities. We smile, 531 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: we walked in the room, we make a decision. I'm 532 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: just telling you, if that television opportunity presents herself, please 533 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:29,480 Speaker 1: be you at all levels. And I appreciate you saying that. 534 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: One of the challenges, So again, let's just have a 535 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: real conversation. So one of the reasons why the TV 536 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: one thing didn't work out is because I couldn't do 537 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: what I think they wanted me to do, which is 538 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:49,239 Speaker 1: to get up in boys chests and and set your 539 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: ass down. Love. I don't talk to kids like that. 540 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't talk to kids like that. I'll 541 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 1: talk to mine like that sometimes, but not everybody else's. 542 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: And I can take liberties of mine because the mind, 543 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 1: but I don't and take I'll try to avoid take 544 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: them even with them, because nobody responds really well to that. 545 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 1: I say all that to say, one of the challenges 546 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: there is about capturing that part of the nuances of 547 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: my personality. They wanted something I didn't have. Similarly, when Fox, 548 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: when I was doing the daytime piece with Fox, then 549 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: they it's it's like the pole. They either won the 550 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: the you know, like I'll bush kind of uh Joe 551 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:32,240 Speaker 1: Clarkey guy. The other one they want is this goofy 552 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: Wayne Brady character. And I'm not disan Wayne Brady, but 553 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying, Like it's just this goofy 554 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 1: uh amorphous you know, you can tell he's African American, 555 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 1: but you're not gonna hear anything about his cultural underpinnings 556 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 1: as they relate to him come through. They wanted me 557 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 1: to be something that almost was Kelly Clarkson slash l 558 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 1: ensk And sure we can have those kinds of conversations, 559 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: no doubt that's what you w I would do. We 560 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 1: have those kinds of conversations. But I'm not silly. You 561 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying, Like, I'm not a silly person. 562 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,759 Speaker 1: That's I'm just not, never have been, never will be. Um, 563 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: there are different ways in which we can laugh and 564 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: be relatable that are still respectful of who we are 565 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 1: a man. You're not a silly I don't anybody want 566 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 1: to say rashan silly like that? Just ridiculous. You know 567 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 1: if you laugh, you joke any are you silly? Serious cat? 568 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: It's been a lot of time in making people laugh 569 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 1: for a living, but it's serious about your business absolutely. 570 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 1: You know. The thing about it we're gonna wrap up 571 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: here is that because I want to talk to some 572 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: stuff offline as well about this, because you're right, that's 573 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: my life. My life is about shaping people's opportunities. My 574 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 1: life is about giving you some stuff that may not 575 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: even benefit me. And when I look at you, you've 576 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: always been a benefit not only to me, but the 577 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: people around me and the people that I invited you 578 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: into the world to make a change. Like to Steve Perry, 579 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 1: You're a blessing. Brother, family's a blessing, and the fact 580 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: you have five schools is going to be more. And 581 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 1: when you leave this earth, you will be that game changer. 582 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 1: You will be that competitive guy that said I made 583 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 1: a difference. And then people will show up and show 584 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,760 Speaker 1: you as they line up and walk past that casket 585 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: and tell you thank you and cry and and remember 586 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: that he made a difference in my life, my children's life, 587 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: and my grandparents life and made created a nixt lefigacy 588 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 1: of growth and the opportunity for kids who didn't have it. 589 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,919 Speaker 1: And just seeing you, man, I'm just telling your brother, 590 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 1: you're special. You've always been special to me. Man, And 591 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: we don't talk enough. I will tell you that I 592 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 1: will be I will be remissing not saying that, and 593 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 1: we need to start talking more. 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