Speaker 1: All right, it's your back to back classics today on
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Marcus said marriage therapist should play these segments during
Speaker 3: sessions then ask their clients if they really want to
Speaker 3: go back into the dating pool or work things out.
Speaker 2: It's not where I thought that was.
Speaker 4: Wow, it's like taking your cat to a shelter and
Speaker 4: being like, see, all these kids could be you.
Speaker 2: It really is.
Speaker 5: You're lucky. I love it.
Speaker 2: Marcus.
Speaker 1: All right, you're back to back classics for whatever therapy
Speaker 1: session you're in right now.
Speaker 2: Start well, right now.
Speaker 6: We've heard of a lot of creative ways to cut
Speaker 6: a date short.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's the classic.
Speaker 6: Emergency phone call from your best friend purposely eating food
Speaker 6: you're allergic to to give yourself a reaction.
Speaker 2: One person that yeah.
Speaker 6: I remember that, or Alexis's favorite, brutal honesty right to
Speaker 6: their face.
Speaker 7: What she ever?
Speaker 6: Eve're just talking about honesty, make sure uncomfortable.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's like, I kind of.
Speaker 5: Want to leave.
Speaker 7: He's like, what, She's like, I love you?
Speaker 1: That's actually that was actually a replay yea.
Speaker 6: But today one of our listeners was ditched mid date
Speaker 6: in a more brazen way. And normally those people don't
Speaker 6: answer their phones when we call them, but with this
Speaker 6: one we get answers.
Speaker 5: Answers.
Speaker 6: I don't think anybody saw coming. You're gonna hear it
Speaker 6: in a second date update.
Speaker 2: Next broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.
Speaker 6: Not sure if you remember this, but a few months ago,
Speaker 6: one of our listeners, Michael, did an awkward Tuesday phone
Speaker 6: call because he had this female friend who was complaining
Speaker 6: to him about how lonely she was.
Speaker 5: All the time.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so he wanted to convince his best friend to
Speaker 6: date her just to get miss sad Face out of
Speaker 6: his hand.
Speaker 7: I do remember that.
Speaker 2: I can't remember how it turned out, but I remember.
Speaker 5: It doesn't really matter.
Speaker 6: I guess we did a good enough job helping him
Speaker 6: with that situation that Michael now trusts us completely so
Speaker 6: much so that almost a year later, he wants us
Speaker 6: to do a second date update.
Speaker 5: Michael, it's good to have you back on the show. Dude.
Speaker 8: Hey, it's great to be back.
Speaker 1: Thanks for Does it feel to lower your standards of
Speaker 1: advice this love?
Speaker 8: Well, I think you guys are going to help me out.
Speaker 5: Okay. It is our honor and privilege to be able
Speaker 5: to assist you with your love life today, Michael, So
Speaker 5: tell us what's going on.
Speaker 8: I want you to know that before I start dating,
Speaker 8: even before I had you guys help me advice with
Speaker 8: my friend, I was in a long relationship before then
Speaker 8: it ended messy, so I was definitely taking a long
Speaker 8: break from dating. But now I'm back out there.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Steel, I'm still all right.
Speaker 8: I mean, I'm finally got on the apps. But why
Speaker 8: I need your advice is somebody I met in real life,
Speaker 8: not on the app.
Speaker 2: Oh that's fun. How'd you do that?
Speaker 8: Well? Her name's Meghan and I met her at the
Speaker 8: grocery store.
Speaker 7: Dude, that's like such a stereotype. People say the best
Speaker 7: place to meet a jig? Did they really say?
Speaker 2: I don't know why, but they say that I wearing
Speaker 2: a pods to the grocery store.
Speaker 6: It's so romantic at the grocery store, especially when they
Speaker 6: have the thunder over by the produce section in the rainstorm.
Speaker 5: Dude, how did you meet Meghan? There?
Speaker 8: Just we caught each other's eyes, and then we kept
Speaker 8: finding each other in almost every eye.
Speaker 2: Oh you need bread too, I needed bread. Okay, that's
Speaker 2: kind of cute.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and to the point where, like she jokingly had
Speaker 8: to ask me, are you following me? With a smile,
Speaker 8: I looking.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you when women say that, it's like joking, but.
Speaker 6: Also one hand on the spray.
Speaker 8: Yeah all right, you know, I asked her right back though,
Speaker 8: are you following me? And that started off with a
Speaker 8: small conversation. We just talked about what was in our car,
Speaker 8: you know.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're gonna make tacos tonight?
Speaker 9: Huh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys went deep on that first convo. My god.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and that led to me asking for her number
Speaker 8: I love Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got her number. Wow.
Speaker 6: Well, that must make you feel really confident after, like
Speaker 6: you said, you went through that tough breakup for like
Speaker 6: a year ago, Finally going out into the world and
Speaker 6: meeting somebody that you connect with instantly.
Speaker 2: What have people been complaining about this.
Speaker 1: Is so easy?
Speaker 5: It didn't lead to an actual date?
Speaker 1: It did, Yeah, and there was no ghosting involved.
Speaker 6: Yeah, look how jaded we all are in this room,
Speaker 6: Like you really met again?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Well.
Speaker 8: You're jumping ahead. There was some ghosting, so okay, yeah,
Speaker 8: I mean we we did meet up. I suggested we
Speaker 8: go out for dinner, like at a restaurant, just to get
Speaker 8: to know her more. But she countered with just like,
Speaker 8: I don't feel like going out. Can we just watch
Speaker 8: a movie? And I said sure? And she suggested my place?
Speaker 7: Your place? Great sign?
Speaker 8: Is it? Or?
Speaker 2: I like you?
Speaker 1: Because I feel like it's a good sign for just
Speaker 1: like a one night hangout situation.
Speaker 2: It's not a good sign if you're I just meant
Speaker 2: it's a.
Speaker 7: Good sign that she's comfortable enough to come to you.
Speaker 5: She stole Brooks line. I think it's a very So
Speaker 5: how did it go?
Speaker 8: I felt very comfortable and relaxed. We just all we
Speaker 8: ended up doing was just watching a movie, had a
Speaker 8: couple of drinks.
Speaker 7: Oh that's the way you guys. Didn't fool around.
Speaker 8: That's no, didn't lead any of that.
Speaker 2: That's okay. It's the first hangout.
Speaker 5: Okay, this isn't Brooks hang out.
Speaker 2: You're not wrong, Jeff.
Speaker 8: So then I thought the night would go a little longer,
Speaker 8: but she said she had to go and get something
Speaker 8: from her car real quick. She's like, I got to
Speaker 8: run in my car real quick. I didn't even think
Speaker 8: of it. I was having a good time. And that's
Speaker 8: when she just never came back.
Speaker 9: Whoa.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something Alexis would do, Like she
Speaker 1: just doesn't know how I really would literally dip out like,
Speaker 1: oh wait, I.
Speaker 3: Loved it a whing someone at a second bar, like
Speaker 3: a restaurant to a bar, like see you there.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a little concerning though. Did you reach out
Speaker 6: to her afterwards?
Speaker 8: Yeah? I was concerned. I'm like, I hope no one
Speaker 8: snatched her up or something I did.
Speaker 5: I called.
Speaker 8: I even called the number, I mean, no reply for
Speaker 8: quite a bit, and then she finally got back to me,
Speaker 8: and all she just sent a text over and it
Speaker 8: just said, hey, sorry, it's not going to work out
Speaker 8: between us. That was it.
Speaker 7: And we're so jaded. You're right, because I think that's polite.
Speaker 7: I'm like, oh I ever heard but into his face.
Speaker 6: But it's weird that there's no explanation for why exactly
Speaker 6: after she invited herself to hang out at your apartment.
Speaker 2: But I don't feel like your own explanation after only
Speaker 2: one hangout. Jeff like that.
Speaker 7: That's a good point too.
Speaker 2: It's not like that's the same. But we want it.
Speaker 2: Do you want do you want to see her again?
Speaker 8: I just want to know what was the turnoff because
Speaker 8: I'm confused. Was it my apartment? Was it something I did?
Speaker 8: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I like that you're blaming yourself. That's a good start.
Speaker 8: Okay, this might to me being embarrassed. Who cares. Let's
Speaker 8: find out what I did so I can you know you're.
Speaker 6: If there's something wrong that you're doing, it's good to
Speaker 6: know it up ahead of time.
Speaker 5: So let's come back. We're gonna call Meghan for you. Michael. Oh,
Speaker 5: so weird Brooks husband and Brook's best friend's name. Don't
Speaker 5: think about that when we do our next year.
Speaker 7: And you took her live.
Speaker 5: Second day update right after this hold on.
Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date update.
Speaker 6: It was the comeback after the romantic setback followed by
Speaker 6: a slight drawback. Okay, because our listener Michael finally got
Speaker 6: back into the dating game after going through a tough
Speaker 6: breakup about a year ago. Didn't find his match online though,
Speaker 6: found her in the grocery store holding two big candialopes.
Speaker 6: That's Jose's dream of how they met, but her name
Speaker 6: was Megan and eventually they arranged a little Netflix and
Speaker 6: chill night back at Michael's apartment, which went really well and.
Speaker 2: Was her idea that was very important to.
Speaker 6: Things kind of fell apart though, when she said she
Speaker 6: had to grab something from her car and never return.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm wondering if she was hoping for something more
Speaker 1: that never was materializing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, watched the whole movie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was. He had to grab something from the car.
Speaker 6: Thing a lie, Alexis says, yes, from experience, But we.
Speaker 5: Don't know that.
Speaker 2: Yes, we do.
Speaker 8: We don't know.
Speaker 6: Anything for sure. We do know it's not a good sign.
Speaker 6: As on what a lie is.
Speaker 2: She didn't want to be there, Okay, she lied, yes.
Speaker 5: But again we don't know.
Speaker 6: We just know it's not a good sign. Also, not
Speaker 6: a good sign, Megan texted him days later confirming it's
Speaker 6: not going to work.
Speaker 2: That's why I know after all those things, Jeff, I
Speaker 2: think it's.
Speaker 6: Very we needed to be impartial people in the middle here,
Speaker 6: Isn't that right, Michael? You want an impartial audience.
Speaker 8: Like I am very hopeful that I'm going to get
Speaker 8: something positive out of this. It will be an easy
Speaker 8: correction to make.
Speaker 2: I think your positivity is really sweet.
Speaker 8: Thanks. If you hear the condescension, Yeah, I'm not hopeful
Speaker 8: to get another date out of this. It's not like
Speaker 8: trying to get her with me. I just want.
Speaker 5: Okay, And that's sweet, sweet that you think you can
Speaker 5: get better. Okay, We're all.
Speaker 6: Going to try our best for you here, Michael, Let's
Speaker 6: call Meghan for you and see if she answers and what.
Speaker 5: She has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hi, we're
Speaker 5: looking to talk with Meghan speaking.
Speaker 10: Oh Meghan, Hey, Hello, a.
Speaker 7: Group phone call.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I don't know if you realize you're on
Speaker 6: the radio right now with a show called Brook and
Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 10: Are you serious?
Speaker 2: Yes, show Meghan?
Speaker 6: Hi, guys, I guess okay, I don't know how to
Speaker 6: deal with this positivity.
Speaker 5: On the other end, we don't normally get this.
Speaker 2: We got two positive people that we've talked to.
Speaker 5: That's true.
Speaker 6: You don't know this Meghan, but earlier, the other positive
Speaker 6: person we spoke to with a guy named Michael that
Speaker 6: you went on a date with.
Speaker 10: Are you serious?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: We love his energy too.
Speaker 10: Yeah, Oh my.
Speaker 5: Gosh, you sound excited, but well I don't know what.
Speaker 10: Okay, wait, you said Michael, like Michael called you.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, because we're doing something called a second date update,
Speaker 6: we're trying to help him figure out if when you
Speaker 6: two hung out and did Netflix over at his apartment,
Speaker 6: if something went wrong during that night, cause.
Speaker 2: Well he knows something went wrong because you left and
Speaker 2: didn't come back.
Speaker 6: Well, we don't know what the problem was, if it
Speaker 6: was on your end, if it was something he did.
Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, I cannot believe this is happening.
Speaker 5: A limited times. So we need to have you believe sooner.
Speaker 5: So start to believe. You're on the radio now.
Speaker 2: Are you excited to hear Michael's name again?
Speaker 10: I don't know if i'd say excited, Okay, embarrassed? Absolutely?
Speaker 2: Why I thought it was what happened?
Speaker 10: Okay, I don't even know where to begin at. I
Speaker 10: really don't even know if I.
Speaker 1: Tell you, no, we love humiliating stories.
Speaker 2: We are walking embarrassments to everyone that we know, like
Speaker 2: you were in the right company.
Speaker 6: We're really just trying to help out Michael because he's
Speaker 6: really concerned feeling like he did something wrong on the date.
Speaker 10: So let me just say, I've never done anything like
Speaker 10: this before.
Speaker 8: What do you mean?
Speaker 5: Alexi says that on the first date too.
Speaker 10: Seriously, guys, I'm a good person, I promise.
Speaker 2: What are you talking about with anything?
Speaker 10: Okay, So I kind of didn't bump into Michael at
Speaker 10: the grocery store, like, not by accident.
Speaker 2: What do you mean what?
Speaker 10: I don't know if he told you, like we met
Speaker 10: in a grocery store or not.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he said, you guys like randomly kept bumping into
Speaker 6: each other kind of multiple times in the store.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Well, I'm kind of like I know his ex girlfriend.
Speaker 10: What Yeah, Like we're in a book club together, so
Speaker 10: you know, we're girl pals. We chill, we talk, you know.
Speaker 1: And wait, so you saw him in the grocery store
Speaker 1: by chance or you went there because you knew he
Speaker 1: was gonna be there.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I kind of followed him there because oh why
Speaker 10: he basically was like vancing one day and she was like,
Speaker 10: my ex boyfriend won't give me back my guitar. So
Speaker 10: my thing leads to the next and yeah, so we
Speaker 10: kind of set up to, you know, run into Michael.
Speaker 1: The whole thing was a setup so you could go
Speaker 1: in and steal her guitar back head, you.
Speaker 10: Leave with the I didn't steal anything, that's her Oh.
Speaker 6: Yeah, if that's what she says, is this what really
Speaker 6: happens at book club?
Speaker 5: You don't read any books.
Speaker 1: Yes, you do the book for like fifteen twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: you discuss it.
Speaker 5: And then you put revenge against all of your exes
Speaker 5: for the rest of the time.
Speaker 1: I mean, if it needs to happen, it needs to
Speaker 1: happen to anything. I mean, she's not getting revenge, she's
Speaker 1: just trying to get her guitar back. That's different. I
Speaker 1: have had reconnaissance missions like this myself.
Speaker 6: I know that's like another twenty minute long story that
Speaker 6: we don't need to get into. We need the important
Speaker 6: thing that we need to get to. Here, Megan is
Speaker 6: letting you know that Michael is actually on the other
Speaker 6: line right now listening to this conversation.
Speaker 1: Way, it's fine, I mean, it's not like you're ever
Speaker 1: going to see him again.
Speaker 5: Well, no, it kind of ruins your plan what.
Speaker 2: Do you mean didn't she already get the guitar?
Speaker 5: Michael, are you hearing this?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I do not know what to say right now.
Speaker 10: It's minefel Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, I really am.
Speaker 8: That's unbelievable. Tell me is a guitar and from my house? Gone?
Speaker 10: Yeah, I slipped it outside the door when I went
Speaker 10: to the bathroom.
Speaker 5: That's so, I mean, devious coming.
Speaker 2: But Jeffery is like, does you're stunned?
Speaker 5: I'm I'm shocked.
Speaker 6: I didn't see this coming because I mean, what is
Speaker 6: the history of the guitar? Whose guitar is it?
Speaker 8: It's my exes? Yeah, Like, why the hell would on it?
Speaker 8: It was a gift. I just held on ship.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 8: It was a messy end. I don't want to get
Speaker 8: into it at all, but I'm trying to try.
Speaker 10: To get better.
Speaker 2: Say it's a messy breakup. This makes it a messy
Speaker 2: You're not helping, like you were the issue.
Speaker 6: Some woman Like some woman hold like onto the sweaters
Speaker 6: from their ex boyfriends and cry. He holds onto his
Speaker 6: ex girlfriend's guitar and cries and do it which.
Speaker 2: Is expensive, dirty old sweatshirt.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm sorry, man, she just said, like basically kept
Speaker 10: making excuses, so I wanted to help her out.
Speaker 8: I just do want to see her kind of thing.
Speaker 8: It wasn't really about keeping it out of Spider or anything.
Speaker 10: I will say, like, you are a really nice guy,
Speaker 10: Like you were really fitable, you were really cordial, You
Speaker 10: didn't try anything crazy, and you're not even.
Speaker 6: Mad hearing about this like elaborate plan to get the
Speaker 6: guitar back out from under your nose.
Speaker 8: It's more amazing that you pulled it off than why
Speaker 8: would I be angry about.
Speaker 2: That you didn't notice missing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, well he doesn't. He doesn't.
Speaker 6: But is there still like, was there ever a romantic
Speaker 6: connection between YouTube.
Speaker 5: Megan and Michael.
Speaker 2: You're going to make that happen.
Speaker 5: Isn't that the goal of this call?
Speaker 12: Uh?
Speaker 10: Sorry, Michael, I was actually engaged, So.
Speaker 7: You went because you're engaged about.
Speaker 10: Yeah, he knows all about it, and he thinks it's
Speaker 10: it's hilarious.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, kind of funny.
Speaker 8: I'm happy I didn't make a move.
Speaker 6: So yeah, okay, Well, clearly there's no connection between the
Speaker 6: two of you. But Megan, Michael did want to get
Speaker 6: some dating advice out of this segment. Do you have
Speaker 6: any that you want to share with him to maybe
Speaker 6: help him out going forward.
Speaker 10: Yeah, Michael, you definitely got to be more aware of
Speaker 10: your surroundings and don't bring people to your house.
Speaker 3: Okay, you notice someone stopped you to a grocery store.
Speaker 6: Just assume everybody wants to steal something from you.
Speaker 2: Oh man, Wow, that is a hard real first date.
Speaker 5: Michael.
Speaker 6: Back in the dating world after a year. This is
Speaker 6: set up to get your guitar out of your apartment.
Speaker 8: Lesson learned here. Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Man, at this point, if you're him, do you trust
Speaker 6: any buddy in the dating worlds going forward?
Speaker 5: At this point?
Speaker 6: Are you just go straight to online dating with criminals
Speaker 6: in prison?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 2: Man? I mean, is there trust left in the dating world?
Speaker 7: I don't think.
Speaker 2: I mean I think that he.
Speaker 1: You know, he was the one last shred of hope
Speaker 1: that we had and that's gone.
Speaker 6: But that happened to me and I met somebody and
Speaker 6: found out it was all just a scam to steal
Speaker 6: from my apartment. That's where I'd be headed. Fellonflings dot com.
Speaker 6: I'm logging on and taking the easy way out.
Speaker 4: You're gonna steal from me anyway, might as well just
Speaker 4: tell you.
Speaker 1: I want to just know I ended that feeling like
Speaker 1: it was all his fault.
Speaker 2: Well, he should have returned her stuff. Yeah that was
Speaker 2: a lesson.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that for sure was a problem.
Speaker 6: But it's also not great to like create a whole
Speaker 6: ruise about a romantic date and lead a guy on
Speaker 6: just to steal from him.
Speaker 1: Well, if he's not giving a guitar back, I say,
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do.
Speaker 6: That's what I say, justified according to.
Speaker 7: For themselves out of that's right, Jose.
Speaker 6: The good news is he didn't seem devastated by it.
Speaker 6: He was actually impressed that they were able to pull
Speaker 6: it off.
Speaker 5: So he laughed.
Speaker 7: He was like, well, I mean I don't even play guitar.
Speaker 2: It's like, why wasn't he giving it back?
Speaker 6: Something good came of it in the very end, and
Speaker 6: hopefully we can bring some positivity to your dating life.
Speaker 6: If you email us, we'll call that person who's not
Speaker 6: calling you back. Go check out all of our second
Speaker 6: date updates wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 6: Brooke and.
Speaker 9: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: You can tell a lot about a first date by
Speaker 6: how you leave things at the very end of the night,
Speaker 6: such a huge hell did you end it with a
Speaker 6: tender kiss, double fist bump maybe? Or possibly a lingering
Speaker 6: wet willie e. Each one of those sends a pretty
Speaker 6: clear message about where you stand.
Speaker 7: You should be wearing earplugs ladies.
Speaker 5: That's for sure.
Speaker 6: But what does it mean when you end the night
Speaker 6: with a multi person group hug?
Speaker 7: What I did not see that all question?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's the reason one of our listeners is so
Speaker 6: confused after his date ended in maybe the weirdest way possible. Ah,
Speaker 6: he still does have some interest, so it couldn't have
Speaker 6: been that bad.
Speaker 5: Will No, it wasn't that. You'll hear what went down
Speaker 5: in your second Date update right.
Speaker 13: After this Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 6: We've been doing these calls for a while now and
Speaker 6: found it's not unusual for a woman to bring one
Speaker 6: of her friends along with her on a first date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's normally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, normally you tell someone beforehand, then you're gonna we'll
Speaker 1: tell me.
Speaker 2: Where she sits at the place too.
Speaker 6: Sometimes they're upfront about it and just very open. Sometimes though,
Speaker 6: they keep it a secret where they have them hide
Speaker 6: somewhere in a nearby booth or inside of a decorative plant,
Speaker 6: spying with binoculars to make sure everything's kosher.
Speaker 2: I'm sure you won't get noticed that.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So, yeah, it's a giant plant doing in this McDonalds.
Speaker 5: Why is it moving? So we definitely heard that before.
Speaker 6: But is it unusual if the friend that she brings
Speaker 6: with her.
Speaker 5: Is a guy?
Speaker 2: Oh man?
Speaker 6: Apparently that happened to one of our listeners recently. Leo,
Speaker 6: is that true your date showed up with another dude?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I can't. I mean, I have guy best friends,
Speaker 2: like you know, that could be fine.
Speaker 1: Did she tell you beforehand that that was what was
Speaker 1: going to happen?
Speaker 13: No?
Speaker 5: No, actually, And by.
Speaker 6: The way, Brooke has hooked up with almost all of
Speaker 6: her guy best friends.
Speaker 5: So I don't know if it's a great thing because.
Speaker 1: You got to just try it out and see if
Speaker 1: that's how you like each other.
Speaker 2: And then you're like, nah, that didn't work.
Speaker 7: Looks like you're bringing a friend another target.
Speaker 5: Can't run us through how this all happened, Like, start
Speaker 5: with how you met her?
Speaker 8: So, like I met this girl, Christie.
Speaker 13: I mean, it's this bike club, it's like a group
Speaker 13: on Facebook and people get together and we like ride
Speaker 13: every like up of weekends.
Speaker 12: And I started talking to her.
Speaker 13: Yeah no, it's actually awesome. And I've met a lot
Speaker 13: of people, but I met Chrissy and I just really
Speaker 13: liked her. And I asked her out.
Speaker 1: Cude, what a great way to ask somebody out to
Speaker 1: like you already have shared interests.
Speaker 13: Yeah, no, and she's amazing and I was so excited.
Speaker 13: And I show up and she's there, but she's sitting
Speaker 13: at the table with this other guy and she's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 13: this is David. Oh you know a title for David
Speaker 13: or distinction like not my brother or my friend or
Speaker 13: my poor.
Speaker 4: How was the vibe like between them? Did you feel
Speaker 4: like they had chemistry? Did it feel friendly? Did it
Speaker 4: feel sexual?
Speaker 5: Good question?
Speaker 13: I mean they were definitely really comfortable with each other.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is my first thought.
Speaker 1: It is either she is in a open relationship and
Speaker 1: thought you maybe knew could that be it?
Speaker 13: Well, did not get a heads up by any means
Speaker 13: on that?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: Okay, and like, don't me wrong, Like David is.
Speaker 13: A nice guy, but like there would be moments where
Speaker 13: they would just talk with each other or make obviously
Speaker 13: like inside jokes that.
Speaker 2: You paid for the whole. That's what I was gonna ask.
Speaker 13: I paid for the dinner, and it seemed like he
Speaker 13: was just part of the package. And I'm still not
Speaker 13: sure how to unpack that.
Speaker 7: I think I could see why naturally, you're like, I'm
Speaker 7: on a date. I offered to pay.
Speaker 2: Of a guy friend. Though, to be okay, why would
Speaker 2: a guy friend want to sit in on you on
Speaker 2: a date?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 3: That really could best Like my best guy friends would
Speaker 3: tell me that's weird.
Speaker 11: I get it that, like women want to make sure
Speaker 11: that there's someone around, and like I can understand that,
Speaker 11: but I was just so shocked that it was the sky.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, and typically it's like you want security if
Speaker 1: it's somebody you've never met before. You've already met this person,
Speaker 1: you meet up with them once a month. But during
Speaker 1: a bitedown, like yeah, you should have suffer before.
Speaker 13: I think I gave a pretty good impression that I'm
Speaker 13: not a serial killer, but I respect that boundary.
Speaker 2: Wait did you ever find out.
Speaker 8: Who he was? End? No?
Speaker 13: Okay, So we were there for like an hour and
Speaker 13: a half. We did flirt, like we all had like
Speaker 13: collective conversation.
Speaker 5: Oh so you were flirting with David too, not just jealous.
Speaker 13: I mean, I wasn't gonna be rude, but it was
Speaker 13: so weird that when I left, I I sort of
Speaker 13: just almost jokingly like reached out and gave them both
Speaker 13: a group hug.
Speaker 2: Wait you together, Well.
Speaker 13: They were going to leave together, so I just hugged
Speaker 13: them both.
Speaker 8: I was like, we should all hang out again sometime.
Speaker 13: And I don't know why the hell is so.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because if that is her best even he'll
Speaker 4: be like, oh he.
Speaker 7: Was a nice guy.
Speaker 2: You hug us yeah, or you just friend zoned yourself.
Speaker 7: Yeah, And that's the risk you take when you're on
Speaker 7: a triple date. You weren't playing.
Speaker 5: That's so where are we at now with you and Christy?
Speaker 9: Oh yeah?
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 9: So the way I handled that gets me into this
Speaker 9: situation where I'm the one that's not responding and she
Speaker 9: has been calling me and texting me and they want
Speaker 9: to know when.
Speaker 13: We should all hang out together.
Speaker 11: And I don't know why I said it, but now
Speaker 11: I'm like, I really don't want to hang out with David.
Speaker 6: Yeah, obviously you gave him a hug, like you basically
Speaker 6: let him on.
Speaker 2: As she's setting you up with him, right now, what
Speaker 2: do you want us to do?
Speaker 11: My goal is to have a one on one date
Speaker 11: with her, so I wanted originally, and I don't know
Speaker 11: if that's even possible anymore.
Speaker 6: So you want with our call here, for us to
Speaker 6: surgically remove David from the situation and have it just
Speaker 6: be a one on one with you and Christy.
Speaker 13: Got him out of it, Okay, okay.
Speaker 6: In the most respectful way possible. We need to figure
Speaker 6: out how to convince her.
Speaker 8: To do that.
Speaker 2: You even got to go. I mean nothing on David.
Speaker 13: No, it's a cool dude, but he did. I don't
Speaker 13: want to hang out. I don't want to date David.
Speaker 5: Okay, but he's really handsome though, right no comment?
Speaker 12: Oh my god, oh god.
Speaker 6: The more handsome he is, the harder this is gonna be.
Speaker 6: We're gonna find out when we call Christy and try
Speaker 6: and get you your second date update coming up right
Speaker 6: after this hold on Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: In the morning. Second date update.
Speaker 6: In the dating world, it can be hard to get
Speaker 6: just one person wanting to hang out with you. But
Speaker 6: our listener, Leo is a lucky man who has interests
Speaker 6: from two people at the same time.
Speaker 7: It weird.
Speaker 5: That's the situation.
Speaker 6: One is his date, Christy, the other is the random
Speaker 6: dude that Christy came to the restaurant with that night
Speaker 6: named David.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we can't even say, because I guess we didn't
Speaker 4: get larger.
Speaker 5: That's the thing we don't know.
Speaker 6: Is David her friend, her brother, her lover, her dad.
Speaker 6: We don't really know. That was never made clear the
Speaker 6: entire night.
Speaker 2: David got free meal David.
Speaker 7: And potentially meant the step dad.
Speaker 5: It's possible.
Speaker 6: The thing is, it's awkward because Christie's been asking if
Speaker 6: all three of them can hang out together again, but
Speaker 6: Leo isn't really up for that.
Speaker 5: He wants to cut David out of the pit. Yeah,
Speaker 5: so that's why he's asked us for help. No, you're Leo.
Speaker 2: Sorry. This is why I can't juggle more than one
Speaker 2: at a time.
Speaker 11: Yeah, you didn't even consider the step dad option.
Speaker 5: Did you.
Speaker 2: I think it's so wild.
Speaker 1: You went through an entire dinner and you still couldn't
Speaker 1: figure out how David was connected to your friend Christian Christy.
Speaker 11: I know, like it was awkward and I just didn't
Speaker 11: know how to play that.
Speaker 7: Like, so, who were you get it. You're just going
Speaker 7: with the flow.
Speaker 2: Conflict.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Wait to hear how David feels about
Speaker 1: the group hug.
Speaker 5: That's right, they did have the three way hug.
Speaker 2: So buy our boy Leo.
Speaker 5: Yeah, out of panic. It sounded like.
Speaker 13: I didn't know what to do. I did panic a little.
Speaker 13: It was weird.
Speaker 7: Group hugs are not a bad thing.
Speaker 5: I think you hand it.
Speaker 6: Wait for this call, but we're going to try and
Speaker 6: help you out. Just get a date with only Christy.
Speaker 6: If she's even up for that.
Speaker 5: I don't know. It might be your style.
Speaker 2: Is only David an option?
Speaker 8: I don't think.
Speaker 2: No offense, but no, everybody has their own likes.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but Christy might take offense. So let's call her
Speaker 6: and see how she feels about it. Hopefully she picks up.
Speaker 6: Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Christy? Yeah, Hey Christy?
Speaker 6: How you doing today? You're on a radio show right
Speaker 6: now called Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: In the Morning.
Speaker 12: Okay, Yes, I'm confused, but I know it's okay.
Speaker 6: We're doing a segment right now, call the second Date Update.
Speaker 6: We're calling on behalf of one of our listeners and
Speaker 6: friends of the show that you went out with recently
Speaker 6: named Leo.
Speaker 12: Yeah, Leo. I mean I've been texting Leo.
Speaker 5: Right, we heard a little bit about your hangout, and
Speaker 5: I don't know the right way to say this.
Speaker 1: This is different than we normally do. It is different
Speaker 1: because we know that you're interested in seeing him again.
Speaker 6: He said that there's been communication about setting up another
Speaker 6: hangout between you, Leo, and the other guy that was
Speaker 6: there that night, named David.
Speaker 12: It was it was a fun night.
Speaker 6: I mean it sounds like totally there's a little bit
Speaker 6: of a question mark though around you know, basically what's
Speaker 6: going on?
Speaker 2: Why is hard?
Speaker 6: Well, it's we're trying to figure out what the dynamic
Speaker 6: is between the three of you.
Speaker 12: Right, Okay, Well I'll explain it. But first, like, do
Speaker 12: you think there's any way you can like help me
Speaker 12: convince Leo to go out with me again? I mean
Speaker 12: I really liked him and I kind of liked me too, Like.
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, with you. I don't think we'll have any
Speaker 5: problem getting him to agree to go out with you.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I think it's like sold.
Speaker 5: The problem that Leo has is with the David part.
Speaker 12: No, No, you have to go out with me and David.
Speaker 2: What are you guys like a package or something.
Speaker 6: Why is it so important that it has to be
Speaker 6: all three of you going out at once?
Speaker 12: Actually it's more than three of us. There's a fourth.
Speaker 2: What's hold on?
Speaker 5: Wait, wait, there's more a love square.
Speaker 2: Now the guys aren't connected. Is it another guy or
Speaker 2: is it a girl?
Speaker 12: Okay, so it is another guy, but it's not what
Speaker 12: you think.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you got to clear this up for us. Christ
Speaker 5: we're really confused because.
Speaker 7: It has to be what we think.
Speaker 12: No, no, it really isn't. Okay. So the third guy,
Speaker 12: the fourth person, he was actually filming secretly. He was
Speaker 12: filming our dates in the restaurant too. He was just
Speaker 12: at another table, kind of pretending he wasn't doing what
Speaker 12: he was doing.
Speaker 7: Why?
Speaker 12: Because I am really doing well on TikTok right now.
Speaker 12: And there's this trend.
Speaker 1: It's called two dates one night, two dates one like
Speaker 1: a challenge.
Speaker 12: Yeah, two date one night challenge.
Speaker 1: So wait, so you set up a date with David
Speaker 1: and set up a date with Lee at.
Speaker 2: The same time, all for TikTok.
Speaker 12: Yeah, and it's really really well my video, it's like
Speaker 12: it's totally going viral.
Speaker 2: Why don't you guys, why didn't you tell him.
Speaker 12: Because then it wouldn't be the changing and everyone would
Speaker 12: know what stage.
Speaker 6: So part of the challenge is going on a date
Speaker 6: with two guys at the same time and neither of
Speaker 6: them knows about it.
Speaker 12: Yeah, but I'm interested in both. I like both.
Speaker 4: So wait, that means in the comments section they must
Speaker 4: be voting for who they liked the moment.
Speaker 12: My god, exactly, there's so many people voting. O.
Speaker 1: My god, are you some like wizard that you're able
Speaker 1: to get these two guys to stay that?
Speaker 5: Yeah, be careful, your jealousy is showing.
Speaker 7: I think that's crazy.
Speaker 1: You must be like so lovely and like such a personable,
Speaker 1: charismatic person and convinced two dudes to hang around.
Speaker 12: Why don't about that? But I'm not that looking.
Speaker 3: Everyone had a fun night, they said, Yeah, I don't
Speaker 3: know if Leo's having as much fun though, listening and
Speaker 3: hearing all of this, because Christy, you should know Leo
Speaker 3: is on the phone right now, but.
Speaker 2: She's not videotaping job.
Speaker 5: Well, we're recording this for our podcast. Took Okay, I'm sorry,
Speaker 5: I apologize for that, but Leo, man, are you still there.
Speaker 13: I'm just trying to process what I just heard O Boddy.
Speaker 13: I didn't know what to expect. It was weird to
Speaker 13: begin with, but this was like, I'm honestly weirdly impressed
Speaker 13: in a way.
Speaker 7: But okay, I.
Speaker 1: Feel like I went through the same emotions and yeah,
Speaker 1: she's impressed too.
Speaker 13: All the social media thing, yes, but I do like you.
Speaker 6: She likes that you get her lots of views, that's
Speaker 6: for sure, social experience.
Speaker 1: I mean, what are you going to do at the
Speaker 1: second date with Leo and David?
Speaker 6: Again, like that's the best thing to have a part
Speaker 6: two of your video, But like, was that going to
Speaker 6: be the big reveal?
Speaker 2: Was that when you were going to tell him?
Speaker 12: Oh, I was going to do a speaquel first obviously.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, she was.
Speaker 6: Going to reveal at the double marriage when they're both
Speaker 6: on the altar at the same time. By the way, guys,
Speaker 6: it talks, they still don't know who each other are.
Speaker 7: Who will show up at the wedding. We'll see you
Speaker 7: when the door's open.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if I'm Leo, I would question whether or not
Speaker 5: your feelings were valid.
Speaker 12: That's fair. But we did go on a day. It
Speaker 12: was a good time, and I do like him, oh
Speaker 12: my god.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But if the tables were turned and you showed
Speaker 1: up to a dude and he had another girl sitting there.
Speaker 12: That's different. I mean it's different when you're a girl.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because she's hot broke. Remember that's probably every other
Speaker 5: rule in the book.
Speaker 6: So, Leo, you've been listening here, you've kind of heard
Speaker 6: what Christy has to say.
Speaker 5: Do you believe her?
Speaker 13: I don't think it's not don't believe you. I don't understand.
Speaker 8: What this is or.
Speaker 13: Why you would do it, Leo.
Speaker 6: All of social media is hard to understand why things
Speaker 6: are the way that they are and why.
Speaker 5: Things get popular. It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1: This feels like explaining any TikTok trend to Jeffrey exactly.
Speaker 6: I think it's just crazy and weird and people want
Speaker 6: to watch it. So we would like to arrange that
Speaker 6: second meetup if you're still open to it, Leo.
Speaker 2: For one plate, Wait, why are we asking him?
Speaker 6: Well, things have changed because now that Leo knows more
Speaker 6: about the whole situation and the motives, I think it's
Speaker 6: only fair, since he's our listener, to get the okay
Speaker 6: from him first.
Speaker 2: Oh, I can't believe you want to?
Speaker 5: Well, let's find out.
Speaker 6: So Leo, I'm just gonna go ahead and ask you,
Speaker 6: would you be willing to go out again with Christy
Speaker 6: or Christy and David or maybe just David.
Speaker 1: Come on, there's options, jeff I mean, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of different ways you can work.
Speaker 2: I don't forget about him.
Speaker 5: Any interest on the other side.
Speaker 13: That's not going to work, not for me.
Speaker 12: No, okay, okay, Well, I mean I'm a little disappointed,
Speaker 12: and I don't want this to sound weird. It's kind
Speaker 12: of awkward. But do you know anyone that looks like.
Speaker 1: You would.
Speaker 12: Wait for the video I'm really doing?
Speaker 13: Well?
Speaker 2: You can't trick the Leo fans.
Speaker 13: You're crazy?
Speaker 8: Who does that?
Speaker 12: I'm crazy. I'll be crazy famous pretty soon. So you
Speaker 12: missed out?
Speaker 1: Oh man, Famous and infamous are two different things.
Speaker 5: Leo.
Speaker 6: You're gonna look back at this call as the moment
Speaker 6: that both of your ones got away.
Speaker 2: Oh that doesn't add to it too right.
Speaker 5: I don't know how it works either.
Speaker 13: David.
Speaker 5: I would watch that TikTok video for sure, Brook.
Speaker 9: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Well that was unexpected.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I feel like there's so many other options
Speaker 1: that would have been better.
Speaker 6: Yeah, better answers couldn't have predicted the two dates, one
Speaker 6: night TikTok challenge?
Speaker 2: And where's David? Where's David's outrage at this? Is he
Speaker 2: just going along with? Does you know?
Speaker 6: I think exactly, maybe he appreciates all the fame that
Speaker 6: he's getting from TikTok.
Speaker 2: I feel I think he's out there wondering who the
Speaker 2: hell Leo is.
Speaker 5: Maybe that's possible.
Speaker 6: Also, I'm kind of offended that none of us have
Speaker 6: been involved in a two dates, one night TikTok challenge?
Speaker 6: Where is our invites to be in one?
Speaker 2: You can d m Jeffy, you don't know it?
Speaker 6: Yeah, Jeff, Oh yeah, I should go check out the
Speaker 6: four you page and see if you're on. But look,
Speaker 6: I understand Leo's stance. It's just sometimes I think you
Speaker 6: need to put your standards and your self respect to
Speaker 6: the side.
Speaker 5: In the name of social media infamy. It's a small
Speaker 5: price to pay.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, it says the guy who barely posts
Speaker 1: a picture of his dogs.
Speaker 4: Exactly, Jeff, you could be famous online right now and
Speaker 4: you wouldn't know.
Speaker 5: I could be famous, but I don't feel like it
Speaker 5: right now.
Speaker 2: That's what it is.
Speaker 5: That's where I stay.
Speaker 6: I'll be there one day though, and you could be
Speaker 6: in a nice threattle or maybe in just like a
Speaker 6: one on one relationship if that's what you want, whatever
Speaker 6: you want exactly, email the show. We'll call that person
Speaker 6: who's not calling you back, and go check out all
Speaker 6: of our Second Day podcast wherever you get yours at
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey