WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Secret Mission + Three Wheelin' It 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.040 All right, it's your back to back classics today on 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:04.240 your Second Date podcast. 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:07.960 That's where we play to previously loved Okay, is that 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:09.880 what they say at thrift stores like that. 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:14.640 Second day so that you just get a bit, a 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:16.239 little bit longer of a segment here. 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:18.760 So thank you so much for being here, and we 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:19.200 love it. 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:22.120 If you subscribe, it does really truly make a difference 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:24.320 in the eyes of our bosses. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.560 So thank you for doing that. But first your comments. 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:31.720 Yeah, Marcus said marriage therapist should play these segments during 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.519 sessions then ask their clients if they really want to 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:36.760 go back into the dating pool or work things out. 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:39.680 It's not where I thought that was. 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:44.839 Wow, it's like taking your cat to a shelter and 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.600 being like, see, all these kids could be you. 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:47.720 It really is. 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.640 You're lucky. I love it. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:51.280 Marcus. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:54.000 All right, you're back to back classics for whatever therapy 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:55.080 session you're in right now. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:56.600 Start well, right now. 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.080 We've heard of a lot of creative ways to cut 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:01.960 a date short. 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:04.240 Yeah, there's the classic. 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:08.680 Emergency phone call from your best friend purposely eating food 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:11.160 you're allergic to to give yourself a reaction. 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.039 One person that yeah. 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:18.360 I remember that, or Alexis's favorite, brutal honesty right to 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:19.080 their face. 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:21.559 What she ever? 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.640 Eve're just talking about honesty, make sure uncomfortable. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:28.039 Yeah, she's like, I kind of. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:28.440 Want to leave. 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.640 He's like, what, She's like, I love you? 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.920 That's actually that was actually a replay yea. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:37.520 But today one of our listeners was ditched mid date 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:40.679 in a more brazen way. And normally those people don't 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:42.880 answer their phones when we call them, but with this 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.200 one we get answers. 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:46.840 Answers. 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.920 I don't think anybody saw coming. You're gonna hear it 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:51.840 in a second date update. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:54.960 Next broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:58.600 Not sure if you remember this, but a few months ago, 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:02.440 one of our listeners, Michael, did an awkward Tuesday phone 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:05.919 call because he had this female friend who was complaining 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:07.600 to him about how lonely she was. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:08.200 All the time. 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.160 Yeah, so he wanted to convince his best friend to 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:14.080 date her just to get miss sad Face out of 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:14.480 his hand. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:15.560 I do remember that. 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:17.680 I can't remember how it turned out, but I remember. 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:18.600 It doesn't really matter. 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.480 I guess we did a good enough job helping him 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:25.000 with that situation that Michael now trusts us completely so 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.560 much so that almost a year later, he wants us 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.360 to do a second date update. 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:33.919 Michael, it's good to have you back on the show. Dude. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:35.880 Hey, it's great to be back. 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.880 Thanks for Does it feel to lower your standards of 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:39.840 advice this love? 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.639 Well, I think you guys are going to help me out. 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:47.280 Okay. It is our honor and privilege to be able 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.560 to assist you with your love life today, Michael, So 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:50.600 tell us what's going on. 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:53.120 I want you to know that before I start dating, 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:55.760 even before I had you guys help me advice with 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:58.760 my friend, I was in a long relationship before then 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:02.360 it ended messy, so I was definitely taking a long 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:04.639 break from dating. But now I'm back out there. 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:07.079 Okay, Okay, Steel, I'm still all right. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.880 I mean, I'm finally got on the apps. But why 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:11.320 I need your advice is somebody I met in real life, 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:12.079 not on the app. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:15.079 Oh that's fun. How'd you do that? 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.800 Well? Her name's Meghan and I met her at the 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:19.760 grocery store. 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.200 Dude, that's like such a stereotype. People say the best 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.200 place to meet a jig? Did they really say? 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.560 I don't know why, but they say that I wearing 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:29.800 a pods to the grocery store. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:34.160 It's so romantic at the grocery store, especially when they 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:38.880 have the thunder over by the produce section in the rainstorm. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:44.360 Dude, how did you meet Meghan? There? 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.200 Just we caught each other's eyes, and then we kept 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.440 finding each other in almost every eye. 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:54.320 Oh you need bread too, I needed bread. Okay, that's 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:55.080 kind of cute. 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.760 Yeah, and to the point where, like she jokingly had 0:03:57.760 --> 0:04:00.800 to ask me, are you following me? With a smile, 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:01.920 I looking. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:05.600 I'll tell you when women say that, it's like joking, but. 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:11.080 Also one hand on the spray. 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:14.320 Yeah all right, you know, I asked her right back though, 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:16.839 are you following me? And that started off with a 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:20.480 small conversation. We just talked about what was in our car, 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:21.080 you know. 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:24.479 Oh yeah, you're gonna make tacos tonight? 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:24.720 Huh. 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:28.320 Yeah, you guys went deep on that first convo. My god. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.320 Yeah, and that led to me asking for her number 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:35.560 I love Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got her number. Wow. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.600 Well, that must make you feel really confident after, like 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:41.480 you said, you went through that tough breakup for like 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:44.360 a year ago, Finally going out into the world and 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:46.359 meeting somebody that you connect with instantly. 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:48.360 What have people been complaining about this. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:49.239 Is so easy? 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:53.159 It didn't lead to an actual date? 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:57.760 It did, Yeah, and there was no ghosting involved. 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.800 Yeah, look how jaded we all are in this room, 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.080 Like you really met again? 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.920 Oh my god, Well. 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:11.080 You're jumping ahead. There was some ghosting, so okay, yeah, 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:13.719 I mean we we did meet up. I suggested we 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:15.560 go out for dinner, like at a restaurant, just to get 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.920 to know her more. But she countered with just like, 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.120 I don't feel like going out. Can we just watch 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:24.120 a movie? And I said sure? And she suggested my place? 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:26.480 Your place? Great sign? 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.719 Is it? Or? 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:28.920 I like you? 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:30.800 Because I feel like it's a good sign for just 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.039 like a one night hangout situation. 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.280 It's not a good sign if you're I just meant 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:35.640 it's a. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:37.560 Good sign that she's comfortable enough to come to you. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:44.240 She stole Brooks line. I think it's a very So 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:45.040 how did it go? 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:48.640 I felt very comfortable and relaxed. We just all we 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:50.880 ended up doing was just watching a movie, had a 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:51.680 couple of drinks. 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:53.560 Oh that's the way you guys. Didn't fool around. 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.679 That's no, didn't lead any of that. 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.080 That's okay. It's the first hangout. 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.240 Okay, this isn't Brooks hang out. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:01.240 You're not wrong, Jeff. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.640 So then I thought the night would go a little longer, 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:06.440 but she said she had to go and get something 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.800 from her car real quick. She's like, I got to 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.680 run in my car real quick. I didn't even think 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.400 of it. I was having a good time. And that's 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.240 when she just never came back. 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:19.280 Whoa. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:21.599 I feel like that's something Alexis would do, Like she 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:27.440 just doesn't know how I really would literally dip out like, 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:27.880 oh wait, I. 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.159 Loved it a whing someone at a second bar, like 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:31.680 a restaurant to a bar, like see you there. 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:34.240 Yeah, it's a little concerning though. Did you reach out 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:35.160 to her afterwards? 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.560 Yeah? I was concerned. I'm like, I hope no one 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.839 snatched her up or something I did. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:42.080 I called. 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.560 I even called the number, I mean, no reply for 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:48.440 quite a bit, and then she finally got back to me, 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.800 and all she just sent a text over and it 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.320 just said, hey, sorry, it's not going to work out 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:56.240 between us. That was it. 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:58.800 And we're so jaded. You're right, because I think that's polite. 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:06.240 I'm like, oh I ever heard but into his face. 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.960 But it's weird that there's no explanation for why exactly 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:13.080 after she invited herself to hang out at your apartment. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.720 But I don't feel like your own explanation after only 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:17.520 one hangout. Jeff like that. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:18.760 That's a good point too. 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:22.080 It's not like that's the same. But we want it. 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:24.480 Do you want do you want to see her again? 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:28.480 I just want to know what was the turnoff because 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:31.720 I'm confused. Was it my apartment? Was it something I did? 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:32.240 I don't know. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.760 I like that you're blaming yourself. That's a good start. 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:38.840 Okay, this might to me being embarrassed. Who cares. Let's 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.560 find out what I did so I can you know you're. 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:43.760 If there's something wrong that you're doing, it's good to 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.120 know it up ahead of time. 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:49.080 So let's come back. We're gonna call Meghan for you. Michael. Oh, 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:52.640 so weird Brooks husband and Brook's best friend's name. Don't 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:55.080 think about that when we do our next year. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:56.560 And you took her live. 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:01.800 Second day update right after this hold on. 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:05.000 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date update. 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:12.360 It was the comeback after the romantic setback followed by 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:16.560 a slight drawback. Okay, because our listener Michael finally got 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.640 back into the dating game after going through a tough 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:22.560 breakup about a year ago. Didn't find his match online though, 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:27.480 found her in the grocery store holding two big candialopes. 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:33.240 That's Jose's dream of how they met, but her name 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.280 was Megan and eventually they arranged a little Netflix and 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:39.800 chill night back at Michael's apartment, which went really well and. 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:43.520 Was her idea that was very important to. 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:45.800 Things kind of fell apart though, when she said she 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.160 had to grab something from her car and never return. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.000 Yes, I'm wondering if she was hoping for something more 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.000 that never was materializing. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:56.079 Yeah, yeah, watched the whole movie. 0:08:56.240 --> 0:09:01.760 Yeah, I was. He had to grab something from the car. 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:05.640 Thing a lie, Alexis says, yes, from experience, But we. 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:06.559 Don't know that. 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:07.760 Yes, we do. 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:09.240 We don't know. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:12.920 Anything for sure. We do know it's not a good sign. 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.080 As on what a lie is. 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:20.120 She didn't want to be there, Okay, she lied, yes. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:23.280 But again we don't know. 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.280 We just know it's not a good sign. Also, not 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:28.000 a good sign, Megan texted him days later confirming it's 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:28.600 not going to work. 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:31.480 That's why I know after all those things, Jeff, I 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:32.079 think it's. 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:34.600 Very we needed to be impartial people in the middle here, 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:37.840 Isn't that right, Michael? You want an impartial audience. 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:40.199 Like I am very hopeful that I'm going to get 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:43.200 something positive out of this. It will be an easy 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:44.320 correction to make. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.559 I think your positivity is really sweet. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:51.640 Thanks. If you hear the condescension, Yeah, I'm not hopeful 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:53.240 to get another date out of this. It's not like 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.840 trying to get her with me. I just want. 0:09:57.200 --> 0:10:01.319 Okay, And that's sweet, sweet that you think you can 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.880 get better. Okay, We're all. 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:06.600 Going to try our best for you here, Michael, Let's 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:09.000 call Meghan for you and see if she answers and what. 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:20.040 She has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hi, we're 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.600 looking to talk with Meghan speaking. 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:29.920 Oh Meghan, Hey, Hello, a. 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:33.120 Group phone call. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.880 Yeah, because I don't know if you realize you're on 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:37.800 the radio right now with a show called Brook and 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:38.680 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:40.479 Are you serious? 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:42.840 Yes, show Meghan? 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:48.440 Hi, guys, I guess okay, I don't know how to 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:49.720 deal with this positivity. 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:51.559 On the other end, we don't normally get this. 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:54.640 We got two positive people that we've talked to. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:55.439 That's true. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.160 You don't know this Meghan, but earlier, the other positive 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.040 person we spoke to with a guy named Michael that 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:02.000 you went on a date with. 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:05.040 Are you serious? 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:05.680 Yeah? 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:07.960 We love his energy too. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.360 Yeah, Oh my. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:15.880 Gosh, you sound excited, but well I don't know what. 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:20.280 Okay, wait, you said Michael, like Michael called you. 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:20.960 Yeah. 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:24.560 Yeah, Well, because we're doing something called a second date update, 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:27.760 we're trying to help him figure out if when you 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:30.120 two hung out and did Netflix over at his apartment, 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:34.520 if something went wrong during that night, cause. 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:36.360 Well he knows something went wrong because you left and 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:37.120 didn't come back. 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.840 Well, we don't know what the problem was, if it 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.400 was on your end, if it was something he did. 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:46.319 Oh my gosh, I cannot believe this is happening. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:49.920 A limited times. So we need to have you believe sooner. 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:53.160 So start to believe. You're on the radio now. 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.600 Are you excited to hear Michael's name again? 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:06.760 I don't know if i'd say excited, Okay, embarrassed? Absolutely? 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:11.199 Why I thought it was what happened? 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.720 Okay, I don't even know where to begin at. I 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:15.760 really don't even know if I. 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:19.600 Tell you, no, we love humiliating stories. 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:23.560 We are walking embarrassments to everyone that we know, like 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:25.000 you were in the right company. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.760 We're really just trying to help out Michael because he's 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:31.520 really concerned feeling like he did something wrong on the date. 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:35.160 So let me just say, I've never done anything like 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:35.760 this before. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:37.199 What do you mean? 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:39.240 Alexi says that on the first date too. 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:47.640 Seriously, guys, I'm a good person, I promise. 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:52.520 What are you talking about with anything? 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:58.800 Okay, So I kind of didn't bump into Michael at 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.920 the grocery store, like, not by accident. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:03.520 What do you mean what? 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:05.840 I don't know if he told you, like we met 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:06.880 in a grocery store or not. 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.680 Yeah, he said, you guys like randomly kept bumping into 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:12.960 each other kind of multiple times in the store. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:14.000 Yeah. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:17.440 Well, I'm kind of like I know his ex girlfriend. 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.440 What Yeah, Like we're in a book club together, so 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:24.440 you know, we're girl pals. We chill, we talk, you know. 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:27.200 And wait, so you saw him in the grocery store 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.760 by chance or you went there because you knew he 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:30.480 was gonna be there. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:35.640 Yeah, I kind of followed him there because oh why 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:39.200 he basically was like vancing one day and she was like, 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.360 my ex boyfriend won't give me back my guitar. So 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:48.720 my thing leads to the next and yeah, so we 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:52.760 kind of set up to, you know, run into Michael. 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:56.440 The whole thing was a setup so you could go 0:13:56.480 --> 0:13:59.240 in and steal her guitar back head, you. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:03.480 Leave with the I didn't steal anything, that's her Oh. 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:08.200 Yeah, if that's what she says, is this what really 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:09.319 happens at book club? 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:10.400 You don't read any books. 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.800 Yes, you do the book for like fifteen twenty minutes, 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:14.680 you discuss it. 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:17.080 And then you put revenge against all of your exes 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:18.160 for the rest of the time. 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.200 I mean, if it needs to happen, it needs to 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:22.840 happen to anything. I mean, she's not getting revenge, she's 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:25.680 just trying to get her guitar back. That's different. I 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.480 have had reconnaissance missions like this myself. 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:32.200 I know that's like another twenty minute long story that 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:34.400 we don't need to get into. We need the important 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.560 thing that we need to get to. Here, Megan is 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.720 letting you know that Michael is actually on the other 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:41.600 line right now listening to this conversation. 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:46.760 Way, it's fine, I mean, it's not like you're ever 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:47.600 going to see him again. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:50.880 Well, no, it kind of ruins your plan what. 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:52.360 Do you mean didn't she already get the guitar? 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.000 Michael, are you hearing this? 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:54.840 Yeah? 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:58.160 I do not know what to say right now. 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:02.760 It's minefel Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, I really am. 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:10.360 That's unbelievable. Tell me is a guitar and from my house? Gone? 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.280 Yeah, I slipped it outside the door when I went 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:15.040 to the bathroom. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:18.640 That's so, I mean, devious coming. 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.840 But Jeffery is like, does you're stunned? 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:22.960 I'm I'm shocked. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:25.480 I didn't see this coming because I mean, what is 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.520 the history of the guitar? Whose guitar is it? 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:32.320 It's my exes? Yeah, Like, why the hell would on it? 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.120 It was a gift. I just held on ship. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:34.520 You know. 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.600 It was a messy end. I don't want to get 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:39.680 into it at all, but I'm trying to try. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:40.000 To get better. 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:42.600 Say it's a messy breakup. This makes it a messy 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:45.520 You're not helping, like you were the issue. 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:48.400 Some woman Like some woman hold like onto the sweaters 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:51.200 from their ex boyfriends and cry. He holds onto his 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.760 ex girlfriend's guitar and cries and do it which. 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.840 Is expensive, dirty old sweatshirt. 0:15:56.920 --> 0:16:00.240 Yeah, I'm sorry, man, she just said, like basically kept 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.840 making excuses, so I wanted to help her out. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:06.920 I just do want to see her kind of thing. 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.800 It wasn't really about keeping it out of Spider or anything. 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:14.200 I will say, like, you are a really nice guy, 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:17.160 Like you were really fitable, you were really cordial, You 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.680 didn't try anything crazy, and you're not even. 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:22.840 Mad hearing about this like elaborate plan to get the 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.600 guitar back out from under your nose. 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:27.680 It's more amazing that you pulled it off than why 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.040 would I be angry about. 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:31.200 That you didn't notice missing? 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.280 Yeah, well he doesn't. He doesn't. 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.600 But is there still like, was there ever a romantic 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.680 connection between YouTube. 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:41.960 Megan and Michael. 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:43.120 You're going to make that happen. 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:44.520 Isn't that the goal of this call? 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:45.640 Uh? 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.880 Sorry, Michael, I was actually engaged, So. 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:54.240 You went because you're engaged about. 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:59.960 Yeah, he knows all about it, and he thinks it's 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:03.440 it's hilarious. 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:04.440 Oh my god, kind of funny. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:05.720 I'm happy I didn't make a move. 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:09.320 So yeah, okay, Well, clearly there's no connection between the 0:17:09.359 --> 0:17:12.280 two of you. But Megan, Michael did want to get 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.840 some dating advice out of this segment. Do you have 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:17.680 any that you want to share with him to maybe 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:18.879 help him out going forward. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.159 Yeah, Michael, you definitely got to be more aware of 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:24.560 your surroundings and don't bring people to your house. 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:32.160 Okay, you notice someone stopped you to a grocery store. 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:36.200 Just assume everybody wants to steal something from you. 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:40.600 Oh man, Wow, that is a hard real first date. 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:41.000 Michael. 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:45.560 Back in the dating world after a year. This is 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:48.320 set up to get your guitar out of your apartment. 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:56.000 Lesson learned here. Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.520 Man, at this point, if you're him, do you trust 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:02.320 any buddy in the dating worlds going forward? 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:02.800 At this point? 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.200 Are you just go straight to online dating with criminals 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:05.679 in prison? 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:06.280 Oh? 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:09.000 Man? I mean, is there trust left in the dating world? 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:09.680 I don't think. 0:18:10.480 --> 0:18:11.480 I mean I think that he. 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.600 You know, he was the one last shred of hope 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:15.959 that we had and that's gone. 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.159 But that happened to me and I met somebody and 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.760 found out it was all just a scam to steal 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:25.520 from my apartment. That's where I'd be headed. Fellonflings dot com. 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:28.160 I'm logging on and taking the easy way out. 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:30.320 You're gonna steal from me anyway, might as well just 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:31.240 tell you. 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:34.280 I want to just know I ended that feeling like 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:35.280