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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to let my

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Speaker 1: husband's infertile friend nam our son.

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Speaker 2: If she infertile, then she don't deserve a turtle? That's right.

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Speaker 1: If you can't, if you can't squirtle, then you're infertile.

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Speaker 2: Then you're a hurdle.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, So my husband, male thirty three's best friend,

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Speaker 1: male thirty seven, will is infertile.

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Speaker 2: How's that common knowledge?

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Speaker 1: It's funny, yeah, bus when people just walk around like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know old Willy, his his will don't

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Speaker 1: work because will he ain't work.

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Speaker 2: It's so hot, ain't it.

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Speaker 1: He got divorced two times because of it, because he

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Speaker 1: lied and hid his infertility two times.

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Speaker 3: Wait, so he's like thirty seven now, yeah, thirty seven

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Speaker 3: and lying about his Willy.

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's way too much. Like come on, I

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Speaker 1: get it sucks, but you can't lie about it to

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Speaker 1: your partner of all people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to be long term?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Ah. And his life was not the same the day

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Speaker 1: he was told he couldn't have kids. He'd always had

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Speaker 1: a soft spot for children, and when he found out

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Speaker 1: that my husband and I are expecting, he was so thrilled.

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Speaker 1: He started buying his gifts and making decore pieces from

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Speaker 1: his woodwork for the baby.

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Speaker 3: That's super cute, which is shaking woodworking decore pieces like.

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Speaker 2: Man, I do like that? Yeah, man's Karen, He's caring. Allegedly,

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Speaker 2: we'll see.

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Speaker 1: My husband thinks that those are real nice gestures. But

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Speaker 1: I couldn't help but feel uncomfortable, especially.

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Speaker 2: With how much he keeps mentioning the baby. I don't

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Speaker 2: know if there's any reason to feel uncomfortable now right.

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Speaker 1: Trying to garner some sort of rumpel Stiltskin situation my

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Speaker 1: would work for your child. No, that was a good reference.

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, my husband and I found out

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Speaker 1: the gender of the baby. The minute we told Will,

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Speaker 1: he started calling the baby a random name he had picked,

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Speaker 1: the one that he would give to his baby if

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Speaker 1: he wasn't infer a little weird. That's strange, weird, Will.

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Speaker 1: He then started begging us to use this name, and

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Speaker 1: my husband said, hey, buddy, it's a done deal.

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Speaker 2: What yes? What I mean? What's the name? Though? Like?

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Speaker 2: What is it? Is it wrong?

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Speaker 1: Classic? I refuse, but my husband called me heartless and

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Speaker 1: asked me to do this.

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Speaker 2: One small eats, tiny.

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Speaker 3: Nice gesture. That's a whole less name. That's like a

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Speaker 3: huge decision. That's a big gesture.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for his friends struggling to give him closure and

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Speaker 1: honor him after all the things he's done for us.

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Speaker 2: He has done a lot. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Imagine though the kids like, you know, mommy, where did

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Speaker 1: I get my name from?

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, you see, uncle Will, his penis doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: So because his penis doesn't work, we were like, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's name.

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Speaker 2: Him the name. Name you the name he wants. What

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Speaker 2: is that name? Though?

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Speaker 1: That's true, they need to tell O tell us. I

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Speaker 1: flipped out and said it's my baby, not his. True

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Speaker 1: Will heard this and he left immediately. My husband yelled

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Speaker 1: at me, saying it's his baby too, and my behavior

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Speaker 1: towards Will was abhorrent. He left after him and didn't

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Speaker 1: come back until the morning. He kept saying the same

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Speaker 1: thing and pressuring me to agree on the name.

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Speaker 2: But I refuse.

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Speaker 1: Am I the ahole for choosing this hill to die on?

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Speaker 2: I mean no, but what if?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's like if the husband likes the name,

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Speaker 3: that's one thing, like, you know, just very strange the name,

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Speaker 3: Like choosing a name should be a joint decision.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, of of the parents.

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Speaker 3: Like maybe like like friends can have input and give suggestions,

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Speaker 3: but it's ultimately the parents that get to chan.

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Speaker 1: Or like, let's say there was someone who was like

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Speaker 1: really like was like this guy was like a brother

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Speaker 1: to OPI, and then he like passed away, Like maybe

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Speaker 1: that's more.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot more of his dation don't work. It's

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Speaker 2: really just a William, So yeah, he's not the a

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Speaker 2: hole