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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,

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Speaker 1: giving them just like theming bus things and it's not good.

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Speaker 1: Steve Hartley, I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn.

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Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn

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Speaker 1: them out to turn the water the water. Y'all come,

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Speaker 1: come on your back. Uh huh, I sure will. Good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on now,

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Speaker 1: dig me want and only Steve Harvey, God, what radio

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Speaker 1: show man? What you're doing with it? Trying to do

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Speaker 1: the very very best I can with it? I really am.

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Speaker 1: You know, I get tired sometimes on my journey. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna kid you. UM. Trying to make something about

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Speaker 1: yourself is a task. UM. If you want to attempt

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Speaker 1: to do something and and and understand going in that

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Speaker 1: that the if the thing you're trying to do is

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Speaker 1: to improve yourself, to better your position, to better your relationship,

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Speaker 1: your family, anything, you're trying to be a better you.

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Speaker 1: You're trying to make more money, you're trying to get

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Speaker 1: it together, you're trying to change if any of those

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Speaker 1: things are in your hopes and dreams. Know this right here,

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Speaker 1: you are about to face some challenges. But you might

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Speaker 1: as well go ahead anyway and face those challenges, because

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Speaker 1: if you don't, you have a whole other set of

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Speaker 1: challenges to face. You know, it's a it's a it's

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Speaker 1: an amazing thing. Man. How people sit around and they

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Speaker 1: watch other people strike out to become successful. They sit

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Speaker 1: in the stands watching these people play out these games,

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Speaker 1: and they and they, and they criticize, They boo, they

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Speaker 1: laugh at their efforts and everything, and they talk about

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Speaker 1: the fairies. He missed that game when it shot. Boy,

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Speaker 1: he sucked. Man, he did this. He ain't worth that.

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Speaker 1: I hear people who sit in stands who criticize people

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Speaker 1: who are out there on the playing field. Now, when

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Speaker 1: people who are talking about you. Now here's the upside

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Speaker 1: to being the player on the field that's facing all

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Speaker 1: the challenges, to criticisms, the laughing, the joke, to being

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Speaker 1: talked about he has something going for him. This person, boy, woman, child, girl,

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Speaker 1: man has an opportunity to win. They have an opportunity

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Speaker 1: to win. And then the game of life. Just because

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Speaker 1: you lose one of the games, or you lose one

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Speaker 1: of the matches, it don't mean you've lost. You don't

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Speaker 1: here's the upside. You have the opportunity to win. And

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Speaker 1: but guess what, You're gonna win some of the matches.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna win some of the points. You're gonna make

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Speaker 1: some of the dunks. You're gonna hit some of them

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Speaker 1: the park. You're gonna score some goals. You will if

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Speaker 1: you're playing the game. Here's the problem with the people

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Speaker 1: who don't face criticism, who nobody boos or cheers for,

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Speaker 1: who sits in the stands and knows neither victory nor defeat.

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Speaker 1: Those people, without realizing it, are facing a set of

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Speaker 1: challenges also. And the challenges they're facing is how I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna live with myself, What I'm gonna do? Now? What

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Speaker 1: direction am I going in? Where am I gonna live?

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Speaker 1: Wonder what job will hire me? Wonder if I can

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Speaker 1: get paid for criticizing all woe is me. I can't

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Speaker 1: find the purpose in my life. And man, I'm just

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Speaker 1: waking up in a state of confusion. I don't know

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Speaker 1: one of them said, of challenges you rather be faced with.

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Speaker 1: Because if I'm on the flow playing, if I'm on

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Speaker 1: then guess what I got a chance at winning? But

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Speaker 1: guess what I'm doing every day while I'm playing. I'm strategizing.

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Speaker 1: I'm waking up with a purpose. I'm waking up trying

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Speaker 1: a goal every single day. Versus the people in the

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Speaker 1: Face the challenges. Better yourself, better your wife, better your children,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes Sometimes I just I get Forbes magazine or Money magazine,

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Speaker 1: or sometimes I still grab a copy of rob Report.

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Speaker 1: I just flipped through it just to see get I

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Speaker 1: used to get these this book called Unique Homes. Unique

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Speaker 1: Homes is a magazine that just has a lot of

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Speaker 1: extravagant houses that's on sale across the country, across the world.

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Speaker 1: Stop watching other people become successful when you could very

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Speaker 1: easily be you if you make the decision. But when

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Speaker 1: a series of challenges. I think it's more difficult not

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Speaker 1: to wake up and just see how life gonna go today,

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Speaker 1: because man, it could just deal you any kind of

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Speaker 1: hand today. You understand, I don't like, you know, spades.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk a card game, folks, the game of spades. Really, man,

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Speaker 1: it ain't a whole lot you can do if you

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Speaker 1: don't get no spades. Really, it's a little couple of

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Speaker 1: little strategies you're gonna do. But you can have all

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Speaker 1: Be it whist different game. You can create what's in

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Speaker 1: your hand. You got dealt a hand too, But you

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Speaker 1: can create a hand. You can call a trump. You

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Speaker 1: can make diamonds your spades. You can make it hard

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Speaker 1: different game, man. You can strategize. I would rather have

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Speaker 1: I think it's more difficult to sit around and not

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Speaker 1: be nothing. I think it's harder to watch everybody's life

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Speaker 1: life just may go. Okay, just a thought today you're

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Speaker 1: I don't even don't know where that comes from. Joas

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Speaker 1: when they I heard that coming back, Junior boy, I

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Speaker 1: to ladies and JENNI let's get to electric sliding up

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Speaker 1: in here. Steve my girl calling good morning, Steve. What's

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Speaker 1: happing the crew? Happy Friday? Jody sees president on their

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Speaker 1: bit to j Anthony Brown. Yeah, I love that King

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Speaker 1: Planks nephew Tommy Top Top is pride to Steve. That's

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Speaker 1: what it is. Friday. Yeah, that's right, another man on Friday. Right,

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Speaker 1: nobody's having a fright. You ever had a meeting that's

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Speaker 1: don't want to go? Yeah, every every day, every meeting

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Speaker 1: show yeah, Court, A lot of them are at Court.

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Speaker 1: I definitely didn't want to go down. I'm meeting good news.

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Speaker 1: There's some money meetings out there. That's some good meeting,

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Speaker 1: money making meetings, money making, good meetings out there. But

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Speaker 1: this one the day. You know you got a meeting today? Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: in person, in person. And you know what's crazy, h

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy about this meeting? What I know

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Speaker 1: that they're going to lie in the meeting. I don't

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Speaker 1: good to see you. That's a lie. And then after that,

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Speaker 1: you know, because it because if my lawyer gonna say, okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's just get to the meat of it. As

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Speaker 1: soon as they open mouth, it's just gonna be alive.

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Speaker 1: It's no I'm not in legal trouble or nothing like.

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Speaker 1: This is just man, y'all, who said the lawyer? When

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Speaker 1: All right? Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steven show all right?

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Speaker 1: Time for ask the CLO. Steve Harvey is the Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer. This one is from Ronda in New Orleans.

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Speaker 1: Ronda says, I have a new boyfriend that lives in Florida,

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Speaker 1: and I put forth the effort to see him on

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Speaker 1: the weekends. And when I get there, he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: sitting home every weekend if I did that. I told

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Speaker 1: called me spoiled. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

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Speaker 1: Should I rolls be reversed? Well, First of all, y'all

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Speaker 1: have a long disim relationship. You make the effort to

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Speaker 1: go down to Florida? What do you got to do?

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Speaker 1: You've taken the lead, and so now he in the

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. What is the benefit in it for you? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: He don't even come see you know him? Right? You

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Speaker 1: gonna see him? And and you know why. He ain't

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Speaker 1: got nothing planning because he don't care if you come

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Speaker 1: an you really do do you? Can? I tell you

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Speaker 1: something about men. If a man ain't treating you special,

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Speaker 1: it's because he don't thank you special. Hello. If a

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Speaker 1: a man ain't treating you special, it's because you ain't special. Hello,

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Speaker 1: that's period. Men treat you the way they think you are.

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Speaker 1: If you're getting special treatment from a man, it's because

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Speaker 1: he thank you special. Yeah, so you've done? Now you

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Speaker 1: want special? What? So? I ain't got to fix nothing

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Speaker 1: for you? Ain't got a hand none ready, I ain't

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Speaker 1: because I don't care if you come. Yeah, hell see

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Speaker 1: your next weekend bringing eat. Yeah, I mean on your

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Speaker 1: way down here to Florida, stopping else. When you get

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Speaker 1: grab grab me some of the plane. All that. Let's

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Speaker 1: a USA system give a man a chance to change

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Speaker 1: his world around well. Reactions to his take on the

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Speaker 1: verdict were met with backlash, and he took to Twitter

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Speaker 1: once again to set the record straight. Just to be clear,

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Speaker 1: I'm not the R. Kelly fan here, adding that his

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Speaker 1: actions were criminal. Now the tweet continues, My apologies if

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Speaker 1: the wings of perception loomed beyond the words on this

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Speaker 1: slave app Okay, he got deep there at the end.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean, but you get the gist check D.

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Speaker 1: Justice for the victims period. I can't. I can't go

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Speaker 1: with none of that. I mean, look, oh yeah, defend

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Speaker 1: our black women as he I Turner did. How much

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Speaker 1: time he said? He said, eighteen months in prison and

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Speaker 1: rightfully so for abusing Tina Turner his wife. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: his wife. And that's when you physically abuse a person,

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Speaker 1: you got to do some time. We talk about kids here, yes,

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Speaker 1: we talked about kids and sexual start, sexual trafficking, racketeering.

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Speaker 1: But but listen to me. I understand, I understand what

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Speaker 1: Chuck D was trying to say, but that ain't high

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Speaker 1: I got took. Yeah, but it came off like he

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Speaker 1: was defending our colley. That's everybody got out of there.

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Speaker 1: I'm not fit to be confused about that. That's when yeah, everything,

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Speaker 1: But you know, look he what Chuck D said when

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Speaker 1: he said, when does a man get a light to

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Speaker 1: the chance to write his life? He had the chance

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Speaker 1: when he was first acquitted, and he walked out that

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Speaker 1: court room with that big giant cigar. God had given

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Speaker 1: you a chance right there, dog to go to go

446
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Speaker 1: either get yourself from help straighten your life up. Man

447
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: or star dating grown women of their own will. But

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Speaker 1: you could and you went worst off. You wouldn't got

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Speaker 1: some more kids. No, man, hold up, that's it. That's

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Speaker 1: the problem I got. And it's a tragedy talking as

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Speaker 1: straight b as and you know, man, look it's a

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Speaker 1: tragedy on all levels. These victims, first of all, and

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Speaker 1: you have no idea to damage that's done to them,

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Speaker 1: and there's no way to measure it. It's also a

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Speaker 1: tragedy that a man didn't take the want in shot

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Speaker 1: and do something with the want in shot. Brother, You

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Speaker 1: ask most people, they will tell you. You know, man,

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Speaker 1: I did this before, and I should have stopped. I

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Speaker 1: did that, I shouldn't have did that other one. And

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Speaker 1: if I don't, only just went on the mouse. Most

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Speaker 1: people get a warning shot. Man got a big shot.

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Speaker 1: Most people get a one thought. When he kept getting

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Speaker 1: arrested for all them abuse calls them them was OJ's

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Speaker 1: warning shots? That woman called the police nine one one?

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Speaker 1: How many times went down there with bruises on herself?

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Speaker 1: How many times pictures I heard? Yeah, bro, that ain't

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Speaker 1: you you? You go away with it now? Finally here

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Speaker 1: you go? Yeah, okay, man, Some of those people think

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Speaker 1: they're invincible, they're untouchable. You know, they use their celebrity

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Speaker 1: all of that. But anyway, up, Chuck D. If somebody

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Speaker 1: related to Chuck D, he would be thinking differently and

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Speaker 1: speaking different that's a good time. Yeah, point, that's right,

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Speaker 1: that's right, that's a point. That's very well. I think

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Speaker 1: he cleared it up, Chuck D. I think he put

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Speaker 1: it up, and I understand why he was trying to say.

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Speaker 1: But like he didn't come out and tried to say

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Speaker 1: the wings of perception. Yeah, he tried to get zeep

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Speaker 1: at the end. My apologies if the wings of perception

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Speaker 1: loomed beyond the words on this slave app. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what the slave on there though. You don't you

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Speaker 1: don't use loom that all. You can't call it a slave. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you're on it, right, you're on the slave app

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Speaker 1: right with the first message. What did you say, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: He don't use loom. He trust a regular word. But

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Speaker 1: that's the word he yelled out for give me a

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Speaker 1: big word, loom. All right, We're gonna try to move forward,

487
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 1: crazy people. Because in other trending news, YouTube has announced

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Speaker 1: they announced this yesterday that it will block all anti

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Speaker 1: vaccine content, taking their ban on false information about COVID

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Speaker 1: vaccines and expanding it to include content that includes misinformation

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Speaker 1: about other approved vaccines. The move comes as tech companies

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Speaker 1: like YouTube and Facebook are being criticized for not doing

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Speaker 1: enough to stop the spread of false health information on

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Speaker 1: their site. That's here you go, Yeah, that is that's

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Speaker 1: really good. That's really good. And take down Trump one,

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Speaker 1: take that down to you. I mean, congratulations, that's great.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, since we now we've got something we

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Speaker 1: can all agree on, why can't we agree on he

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Speaker 1: hate groups? I think all the information for the clan

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Speaker 1: and the skin heads and anybody that hates another group,

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Speaker 1: I think that ought to be taken down too, you know,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Yes, don't reason be doing that now. It's

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Speaker 1: because day kids are sick. To see soon as something

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00:35:55,440 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: happened today kids. Yeah, all right, all right, we're moving on.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll look into the mind of Jay Anthony Brown. Right after.

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Speaker 1: I don't know you're listening, all right, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: it's your buddy. Introduce him, please, ladies and gentlemen. J

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Speaker 1: Anthony Brown? What up? Everybody? It's the Wedding of all times.

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Speaker 1: On the twenty first of October twenty seven, twenty third

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Speaker 1: Atlanta Comedy Theater and twenty nine and thirty, I'll be

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Speaker 1: at the Island Comedy Lounge in Silver Springs weeken to Maryland. Baby,

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm gonna be. Now. A lot of you

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Speaker 1: Auntie's uncle's, mom's, dad's, cousins, friends. Because of COVID people

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Speaker 1: have moved back in and that's okay. And you've lost

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Speaker 1: control of your house and that's not good. Well, I'm

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Speaker 1: here to set you up with some rules that will

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Speaker 1: let you get more control of your house if you

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Speaker 1: decide to let somebody move in. First of all, money

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Speaker 1: up front. No, we don't pay when we get paid.

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Speaker 1: We paid for we move with damn boxing. We paid

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Speaker 1: straight up front. Okay. And you gotta make it uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: You only get a bed in your room. You can't

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Speaker 1: have a computer, a TV, a chair. Sit your ass

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Speaker 1: on the edge of the bed. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: help you out, okay, Sit, sit sit on it. No chair, no, no,

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Speaker 1: why are you lounging in my room? You lounging? No,

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Speaker 1: that's not what we do. Now. If you can't afford

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Speaker 1: a small refrigerator. Okay, you can use the big refrigerator,

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Speaker 1: but you gotta put your stuff in that bottom being

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Speaker 1: the bottom being stuff gold in the bottom. Because I

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Speaker 1: don't want to look in that thinking it's mind. Then

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Speaker 1: I eat it. Now. I got to hear your mouth.

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Speaker 1: Why why I don't need to hear that. These are

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Speaker 1: for people who move in. We need harsher rules so

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Speaker 1: that you understand whose house still is. I love your house.

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Speaker 1: No company, oh hell no, no company, no, no, no, nobody,

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Speaker 1: and nobody can drop you off. You can't sit in

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Speaker 1: front of my house in the car and talk. No, no, don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know your friends. Pick your ass up at

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Speaker 1: the corner because I don't want people to know where

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Speaker 1: I live. You know these people, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: these people, right, No, ain't gonna be no man. This

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00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 1: is very important if you don't want an older person.

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Speaker 1: Most older people might get up between four, five, six,

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Speaker 1: and seven. Some may sleep to twelve, so which means

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Speaker 1: your bathroom hours seven, eight and nine. And you don't

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Speaker 1: need to be in there when I got the pe

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Speaker 1: I mean really, because yeah, you don't This is everything? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you? Jay More of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at thirty four minutes after. Right

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00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to say Morning show. Uh, what

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00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: is going on? Then? NBA is looking to get all

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00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: of its players vaccinated. That's a good thing before the

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00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: start of the season. Amid new executive orders in San

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Speaker 1: Francisco and New York City, any unvaccinated NBA players who

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00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: cannot play will now have to forfeit their pay. Okay,

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00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: I makes four hundred and thirty five thousand dollars a game.

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00:39:54,920 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: What he's saying he's not taking a vaccine. Okay, look, man, brothers,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say this to all y'all. This your livelihood.

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00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: Y'all sitting up in here tripping about the research done

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Speaker 1: on the vaccine, which is ample enough for them to

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Speaker 1: make it worldwide. I don't know what you're tripping on.

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Speaker 1: And you can talk about this my choice. It's your choice.

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Speaker 1: But when your choice affects the livelihood and welfare of

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Speaker 1: other people, it's not just your choice. You're in a

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Speaker 1: locker room in close quarters every day with these group

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Speaker 1: of guys, and what you can't do is coming there

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Speaker 1: sick and then affect their livelihood and their money. It's

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Speaker 1: a team sport. Now, brothers, get this damn vaccine and

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Speaker 1: carry your ass on. Kay remakes four hundred and thirty

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Speaker 1: five thousand. What do he let three up? Give me?

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Speaker 1: Y'all three up? Lebron got vaccinated. Yeah, I should tell

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Speaker 1: y'all lead by example. There you go. I got the

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Speaker 1: vaccine before Lebron. I'm not a follower. I don't need

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Speaker 1: nobody's permission to take care of me and my damn family, right,

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Speaker 1: And I don't want to hear your theory. Right. Oh yeah,

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00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:23,359
Speaker 1: and listen, it's my choice. It is until it affects me. Right.

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Speaker 1: It's your choice to be in the clue klux Klan.

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00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: But if you come over in my house with your

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Speaker 1: sign and your hood on, I got something for your ass.

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00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: Now your decision it is fit to affect something. Now

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Speaker 1: your rights actions have consequences. Thank you, caller for red

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Speaker 1: An employees to have the right to try to protect

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Speaker 1: all their employees. And that's what they're trying to do here.

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Speaker 1: And we don't know what the hell you got man, either.

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00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: You take the shot, get tested up Tuesday, you ass

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Speaker 1: home and forfit your money. Here's the way that's a

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00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,320
Speaker 1: lot of money to force a lot of pay. But

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00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 1: what about regular jobs? So people in the airline industry. Ye,

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00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: but you know what, see calling it's all relative. See

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Speaker 1: just caused Kyrie make four hundred and thirty five thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars a game. I've heard that number before. But when

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Speaker 1: you make four thousand dollars a month and somebody telling

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Speaker 1: about you can come get this four thousand or you

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Speaker 1: get nothing, I'm gonna go get this shot because it's

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Speaker 1: four thousand. That's my four thirty five games. Yesterday, yesterday

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Speaker 1: United Airlines fired over five hundred employees yesterday they refused

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Speaker 1: to get vaccinated by the company's deadline. A federal judge

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Speaker 1: can mandate the New York City teachers get the vaccine

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Speaker 1: as well. So I mean getting fired or getting the vaccine,

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Speaker 1: these are your choices, and you choose to get fired.

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Speaker 1: You're sitting on this plane with all these people and

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Speaker 1: you ain't vaccinated, working around you know, baggage claim getting

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Speaker 1: this shot, that's that's that still If weed smoking ass

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Speaker 1: people talking about they're not taking the vaccine, you don't

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00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: know what's in that bag. You don't know when they

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00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: to sprinkle something on it. You don't know what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: But we buy dope, y'all kidding me. You buy dope.

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Speaker 1: You don't know what's in it. You're just taking it.

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00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: Have to go with weed, smokers, though you could. I

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00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: wanted to jay because I wanted to hurt you that

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Speaker 1: I tried to hurt you. I led with weed because

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Speaker 1: I know how you feel about it. You couldn't done

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Speaker 1: something up. I still have to go back. You don't

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Speaker 1: know what's in the soup that you got to eat

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Speaker 1: at the apple bitzer in the damn soup. That's what's

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Speaker 1: all right. Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears, and

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Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy is here with today's prank phone call. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

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Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, the

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Speaker 1: subject it's time for a change. But right now the

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Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you

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Speaker 1: got for a snap? It is time for a prank call?

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Speaker 1: All right, All mind's clear, heads about, eyes closed. You

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Speaker 1: prayed for a job. That's what you did. You prayed

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Speaker 1: for a job. Cat dog. If you would Hello, I'm

629
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Speaker 1: trying to reach a Carolin. Please listen, call hi, callen, listen.

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Speaker 1: My name is Lawrence. Lawrence. I actually go to the

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Speaker 1: same church you do. I saw you last Sunday where

632
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Speaker 1: you stood up in the church and I heard that

633
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Speaker 1: you were talking about you going through some bad times

634
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Speaker 1: or your job supposedly got rid of the department that

635
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Speaker 1: you're in and you were now seeking a new type

636
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Speaker 1: of work. Am I right? Just just work period, because

637
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: you're looking for a new occupation and you I was

638
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: there when you asked everybody to pray for you. Have

639
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: you Have you found anything yet? I have an I've

640
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: been praying up. We prayed again today. I asked for

641
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: the churches prays again today. And there are things gonna

642
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: work out, because you know he said you take one, Steff,

643
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: You're gonna take two. That's right. I'm propping and I

644
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen. I know. Well, listen, I

645
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 1: think I may be able to be of some help

646
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: to you. I actually owned my own company, and I'm

647
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: thinking that you could be the perfect person for a

648
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: position that I have available. Now, what what type of

649
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: work were you doing in the past? Give me some

650
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: of your qualification. I'm executive secretary administrative assistance. Anything like

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Speaker 1: that type ever will is a minute y even take

652
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Speaker 1: the old star shorthand often do at all. You just

653
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: said what you need and I can do it. Take

654
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 1: care of your executives to come through the office, anything

655
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Speaker 1: that's needed, travel expenses, That's what I do. Okay, not

656
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Speaker 1: good to What type of hours are you used to

657
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: working nine to five? Sometimes I'll come in at hey,

658
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem becoming at eight. I'm coming

659
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: even earlier if you need me to come in earlier.

660
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: Are you opposed to working at night? No, I don't

661
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: know I'm working at night, but I mean it just

662
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: it just depends, you know, right, No, Burgers can't be

663
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Speaker 1: choosing I ask and I being given to me. Okay, well,

664
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Speaker 1: what kind of hours we looking at? I have a

665
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,479
Speaker 1: I have a an offer for you that it would

666
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: be Thursday, Friday and Saturday night. You will only be

667
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: working three days a week for me, okay, just from know,

668
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 1: I was looking for several female hours of a female

669
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: days any like full time. I have a family well

670
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: to day right right, I understand, but listen, I think

671
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: the actual amount will suffice for that. Now, I'm going

672
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: to offer you seven hundred and fifty dollars per night

673
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: for three nights a week. That's that's two thousand, two

674
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars for for for those three days,

675
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: for one week, seven hundred and fifty dollars a night,

676
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 1: and around you're making a week, man. And if you

677
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 1: do the math on that, that adds up to about

678
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: nine thousand dollars for a month. I'm so good to

679
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: be true. But now I put a living within I

680
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: turned it earlier. That's we expected it. I do it

681
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:46,320
Speaker 1: in seven hundred fifty dollars a nine. I mean the books,

682
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 1: you know, because I do have the accounting too. Well,

683
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: let me say this now. The reason why I say

684
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: it's at night is because I own a nightclub, and

685
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: and you would be working at the nightclub for me,

686
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,879
Speaker 1: And so you will put in about four or five

687
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: hours every night, and and for three nights a week

688
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: like I stayed at Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and and of

689
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: course i'll play your seven hundred and fifty mint. Of fact,

690
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: I'll actually pay you your first two weeks in advance.

691
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: And I know I'm sure you you know you've you've

692
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: lost your balance. You need to get back on your

693
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: feet and everything. Yes, yes, yes, okay, um, so so

694
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: you know I'll be doing it to I'm sure like

695
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: I can do office work. I'm good like accounting. You

696
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: tell me a clip front. I can keep your books

697
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: going right? Well, no, not necessarily. I don't need you

698
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: to work the front door. Um. I'm actually gonna have

699
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: you in the club working. Okay. So, um, I mean

700
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: how are you? How's your physical condition? Are you able

701
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: to get around? And you don't get tired quick? Do you? Now?

702
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: Are you in good physical shape? Yes, don't get tired

703
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: quick at all. You need to do something like being

704
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 1: able to bar tenders or something to work to the

705
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: board to make sure the money nobody's stilling money from

706
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 1: you or something. No, no, no, you're not at the

707
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: bar either. See because what I'm gonna do now, have

708
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: you ever done anything like, you know, anything close to

709
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: dance or anything like that? Have you done that in

710
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 1: the past? I do live ballet when I was younger.

711
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: Uh drill sat cheering. I mean do you ever watching

712
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: the while you do the dancing here and there? Okaying around? Okay,

713
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: Well that's good because see what what I wanted you

714
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: to do is I want you to do a little

715
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 1: bit of dancing in the club. You have something like

716
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 1: ball dancing or something that you need me to teach you.

717
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to do the ballroom. I can't work

718
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: with nobody on that stuff like that. No, I'm not

719
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 1: asking you to do any ballroom dancing anything like that.

720
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: What I need you to do I want you to

721
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: dance on the pole on the post. See I have

722
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: a strip club. I want you to dance on the

723
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: pole pot dancing party. Well, actually I own um the

724
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: silk Stocking, which is a strip club. I'm not a

725
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 1: strip stock. Look that have mean? You don't want me drugs?

726
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: About the mother? Listen, you must watch your man. I

727
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: don't bring my poet and nobody you can say that

728
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: play listen with that room name. You can shut that

729
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: pole up here? What's watch your mine? But don't you

730
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: want to make this money? I got seven hundred and

731
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: fifty dollars a night for you. I don't need some money.

732
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: Tell you right now you're a polar bear. You can

733
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: put that polar shove it up the being. You want

734
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: no business calling me about no birth and on no

735
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: pardon I believe got no church. I'm trying to get

736
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: you a job. Baby. They told me that you was

737
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: in need of a job, so I'm just trying to

738
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: need it. I'm not a need a return, Joe, I'm

739
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: not a need more rows. I'm taking off my beard.

740
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: I'm running some more. Brought one bar at birth on

741
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: the day Pols wanted you. Okay, what if I bumped

742
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: up to a dollar allars? I don't take two three

743
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: ft five thous Now I'm taking my jows out the no.

744
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 1: I want you that pole. You know you ain't gonna

745
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: see my n che in church. I re me free.

746
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 1: Let's tall. You need to be out of me talking

747
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 1: about your guys. You know, just when I see you

748
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 1: bad church next Sunday coming to bush room, I'm a

749
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 1: coming as you and win there where you get your

750
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: butt on the pole man? What let me say this

751
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: to you? Are you listening to me? I don't listen

752
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: to wait just a minute, Caroly, I want to say this.

753
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: This is nephew timing from the harm In morning show.

754
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your cousin, Ravina, my cousin.

755
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: I need some money, you give me, give me Come there.

756
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: You got her right, that's all I want to know

757
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: that I get it. I'm draws off. I don't care

758
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: if you jumping up to three five thousand dollars in

759
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: that we still call hill screaming that hard to get

760
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: on the pole. Oh my god. One, I don't know

761
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: no ballroom dancer, but I can learn. Yeah, did a little,

762
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: a little better, A little drill. I was a drill

763
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,720
Speaker 1: major real chinn. I know I don't drill too folk.

764
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: You know no pay seven hundred major retch. You know

765
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: I type eight of something words. I mean I do

766
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: shorthand eighty from words of a minute. I ain't. I

767
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: don't know who do that. Oh I can type, Oh

768
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: you can type eighty eight words of me. Man, I'm

769
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: took typing in school. I'm type thirty four words a minute.

770
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: Little mistakes. I ain't attack more than that, but they'd

771
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: be spelt wrong. Every dog I'm talking about, man, And

772
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: you remember the slogan you had the type to touch

773
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: all the cubes only yellow some moon. The quick brown

774
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: fox jumped over the lazy dog's back. Yeah, oh wow,

775
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: the quick fox jump over the lazy dogs back. That

776
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: made you touch all the keys thirty folwards a minute,

777
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: committiate Kate else, Thank you guys. All right, coming up

778
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters, subject It's time for a change. We'll

779
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to Steve

780
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

781
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: if you you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

782
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letters Steve HARVEYFM

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Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

784
00:53:56,400 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 1: reading your letter live. That's for Jay on the Like.

785
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Speaker 1: We're doing this one right here, right now. Never know,

786
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: it could be yours could be Buckle up and hold

787
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is

788
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: a Strawberry letter. Subject It's time for a change. Dear

789
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a board certified registered nurse, and I

790
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 1: was raised in public housing by my aunt because my

791
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: mother had me when she was sixteen. After I graduated

792
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: from high school, I found out my aunt was sleeping

793
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend, so I beat her up and spent

794
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 1: time in juvenile detention. From that point on, I was

795
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: told that I wouldn't amount to anything. I beat the

796
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 1: odds and I got a nursing degree. I'm thirty years old.

797
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: And I just bought my first house not far from

798
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: where I grew up. All of my female friends from

799
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: high school are still fighting over the same men and

800
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: working two and three jobs to pay the bills. We

801
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: still have house parties and go on vacations, but I

802
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 1: usually pay most of the expenses when we plan anything.

803
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: I have been dating the same guy for ten years,

804
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 1: and I'm really out of the man he's become. I've

805
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: been patient with him while he completes his degree, but

806
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: I don't think he's taking classes right now. When I

807
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: evaluate where I am and who I associate with, I

808
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: get sad. At work, I'm a different person. I got

809
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: to talk to the other shift nurses and doctors, and

810
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 1: it's a different world than what I live. And when

811
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: I go home, my boyfriend loves to say I'm different,

812
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: and I talk proper. When I'm at work, I am

813
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: aware that I'm two different people, and I enjoy the

814
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: progressive side of life more so than the one I

815
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: grew up in. The more I hang with my girls

816
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: on the weekend and we drink till three am, the

817
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: more i know that I'm not growing them. I'm ready

818
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,919
Speaker 1: to walk away from everything that's familiar. In my life.

819
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: But I can't do this anymore? Am I being a sellout?

820
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 1: If I pull away from my friends? Am I supposed

821
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: to keep waiting for my boyfriend to get himself all

822
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: the way together? Is there a way to distance my

823
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: self receptactfully? Wow? If anyone needs a change in their life,

824
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: I would say it would be you and those of

825
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,919
Speaker 1: us who have lived and have some experience at life,

826
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: we will definitely tell you that the one constant in

827
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: life is change and we can't avoid it because it's

828
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: going to happen whether we want it to or not.

829
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: And guess what you're feeling and what you're going through

830
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: right now. That's a good thing. You distance yourself by

831
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 1: trying new things, different things, and staying busy. That's how

832
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: you do it respectfully. And you can say no. It's

833
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: okay to say no if you don't want to do

834
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: stuff with them, like hanging out and drinking till three am.

835
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: You know that's not what you do anymore. Change means growth,

836
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 1: and you already said that you are out growing them.

837
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: You feel it, you see it, and that's okay. Trust me,

838
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: you will not be the first one to get a

839
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: new circle of friends it's nothing wrong with that. You

840
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,800
Speaker 1: should accept and embrace it where it's taking you. This

841
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,760
Speaker 1: is your path, now your journey. You're on your journey.

842
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: You're not a sellout, and don't let them try to

843
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 1: make you think you're a sellout because you want to

844
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: move up and move on and move differently. They just

845
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 1: they just don't want you to outshine them, all right,

846
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: that's where that hate would be coming from. You're thirty.

847
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,879
Speaker 1: Now what is your man doing besides putting you down,

848
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: talking about you talk proper and you're different? Now you

849
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: said he's not even in school taking classes, so you

850
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: have no idea when or if he's gonna finish. I say,

851
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: stop wasting your time, go ahead and live your life. Please,

852
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: don't waste any more of your time with your hating friends.

853
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: You have to pay for everything with them anyway. What

854
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: is that about that says to me that they're users

855
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: letting you pay for everything? That's not right. So if

856
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: they don't appreciate the change in you, that doesn't ignite

857
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: like something in them to be better, I think there

858
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: are plenty of other people out there that will. I

859
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: just say, go on, live your life, be great. Steve,

860
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: all right, the subject is this time for change. Let

861
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: me say this about Shirley's response. Every single word Shirley

862
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: Strawberry just said was one thousand percent true. Period. There's

863
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: no getting around what she told you. Nothing like this.

864
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to hear it a different way. Now,

865
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: what Shirley did was she told you exactly right. I

866
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: hope you hear that because she told you almost in

867
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: a way where your new, better and more improved side

868
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: could understand and take it in. So, since Shirley has

869
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: so eloquently done that for the new, improved, new you,

870
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you as to old you so

871
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: you can get both sides. You can pick which one

872
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: you now. I want you to understand. I'm gonna say

873
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: the exact same thing Shirley just said, but we're gonna

874
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: take the other route. Let's break the letter down. Here

875
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: we go. I'm a boyed, certified registered nurse. I was

876
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: read in public housing by my aunt because my mother

877
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 1: had me when she was sixteen. After I graduated from

878
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: high school, I found out my aunt was sleeping with

879
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, so I beat her up and I had

880
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: to spend time in juvenile detention. Okay, great, let's break

881
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: this down. Your mama had you allie. You moved in

882
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 1: with your aunt. Your aunt was you know, tricky. You

883
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: found out she slept with your boyfriend, and you whip

884
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: your aunt ass. Ye did what happened? Now you jumped

885
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: on her real good because you got charges pressed. And

886
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 1: now you then went down to juvie. Now you were

887
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: told that you would never amount to anything, and then

888
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: you beat the odds. You got out. You rose above

889
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: your circumstances. You did exactly that. You have a nursing degree.

890
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,919
Speaker 1: You're thirty years old, and you just bought your first

891
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: house not far from where I grew up. That was

892
00:59:56,280 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 1: the mistake. You bought your first this house not far

893
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: from where you grew up. That was your first mistake.

894
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: Because now it has kept you too close to your past.

895
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: And I hate to tell y'all this, but the anti

896
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: in the hood, you got to keep it real, the

897
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: real anti should be. You got to keep it moving.

898
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: Hang with why Yeah, hang on. We'll have part two

899
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

900
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter subject It's time for a change. We'll

901
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to show,

902
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: all right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

903
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: The subject It's time for a change. Young girl had

904
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 1: a very who's thirty ye old woman is writing this

905
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 1: letter had a very similar past to a lot of people.

906
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: Her mother was young when she had a that's not

907
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: a problem or sin. Are you raised by your aunt?

908
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: And then you found out when you graduate in high school, y'

909
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: aren't sleeping with your boyfriend. So you beat the ass

910
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: and you had spend some time down in Julie. And

911
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: from that point on you was told you wouldn't amount

912
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: to anything. And then you did what so many of

913
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: us have done. You beat the odds. You got a

914
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: nursing degree, You're thirty years old, you just bought your

915
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: first house. Here's a problem not far from where I

916
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: grew up, right around them, very same people that said

917
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: you would never amount to anything. All your female friends

918
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: from high school are still fighting over the same end

919
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: and working two and three jobs to pay the bills.

920
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: All my female friends from high school are still fighting

921
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: over the same end and working two three jobs pay

922
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: the bills. I'm gonna save my next statement. We still

923
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 1: have house parties, go on vacations, but I usually pay

924
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,919
Speaker 1: most of the expenses when we playing anything. Surely said

925
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 1: it this way. You need a new group of friends.

926
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: Why it's your ass trying to hang on to something

927
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: that is not providing a benefit to you. You know why,

928
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: because you are suffering from what so many people you

929
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: as an emotion that has turned out to be the

930
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: most useless emotion in the world, and it is called guilt.

931
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: Stop suffering from guilt because it's a useless emotion. It

932
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: serves nobody any purposes. U the person who's applying the guilt,

933
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: and the guilt is being applied by your friends since

934
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: they can't afford to do nothing and you can. You

935
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: got to pay for You need some new damn friends.

936
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: Here we go, but I usually pay for most of dispressive.

937
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: I have been dating the same guy for ten years,

938
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: and I'm really proud of the man he's become. I've

939
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: been patient with him while he completes disagreeving. I don't

940
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: think he's taking classes right now. And when I elevate

941
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: what I am and who I associate with, I get sad.

942
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: You are now sad with where you've gotten yourself, because

943
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:51,439
Speaker 1: where you've gotten remains to stay too close to where

944
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 1: you're from once again, the antigen, the hood. If you

945
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: got to keep it real, the antig is really you

946
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: got to keep it moving, so you have time to

947
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 1: try to stay true to your roots. When your roots

948
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:08,959
Speaker 1: is sick, your roots are poisoned, your root is gonna

949
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: hinder and throught the development of your growth as a

950
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: plant because you're trying to stay true to your roots. Well,

951
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: your roots ain't moving, they ain't an't good soul, they

952
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: ain't being fertilized or nothing. Now you got the same

953
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 1: guy for ten years. You're proud of the man he's become,

954
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 1: but you don't think he in classic right. You don't

955
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: even know what he's doing. So now your association, if

956
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: you continue to associate, you remember the saying association brings

957
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: on participation. If you keep hanging with him, guess what

958
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: you keep doing what them is doing. So now you're

959
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: through on the house parties and you're drinking. What what's

960
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 1: the benefit at work? I'm a different person. I get

961
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 1: to talk to the other shift nurses. Oh, you get

962
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 1: to talk with the people who are like minded. Oh okay,

963
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 1: you could talk to other shift nurses and doctors. And

964
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 1: it's a different world than when I live in When

965
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: I go home, that's because you bought your home in

966
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: the wrong place. You know, you ain't gotta keep it real,

967
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: you gotta keep it moving. And this is not an

968
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: anti hood statement, because all the great things in my

969
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: life is from the hood. I couldn't stay there and

970
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 1: elevate at the same time. So Number one, you need

971
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 1: to think about that. My boyfriend loves to say I'm

972
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: different and I talk proper when I'm at work. I'm

973
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: aware that I'm two different people, and I enjoy the

974
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 1: progressive side of my life more than one. I grew

975
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: up here. It's because you're there's time for you to

976
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 1: grow up and to move on. Some people are in

977
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 1: your life for a season. There are a lot of

978
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: people in your life that are seasonal people. Everybody come

979
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: with you can't go with you. You got to stop

980
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: trying to hang onto your past when it's throating your future.

981
01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:00,080
Speaker 1: You can't keep hanging out with what you used to

982
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 1: be when God has something clearly he wants you to be.

983
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: But you have the power of choice, so hanging on

984
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: to what you used to be is prohibiting you from

985
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: fully reaching the potential of what you could be. I'm

986
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:16,480
Speaker 1: not ready to walk away from everything that's familiar in

987
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: my life. Then cool stayed out throughout your growth, continue

988
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: not to grow, go to house party, drink to three

989
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning. Day the man that ain't moving forward,

990
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 1: that's tripping on you because you're different and you enjoy

991
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: the difference, But you ain't ready to walk away from

992
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: everything that's familiar with you. If you stay in your

993
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: comfort zone, that's where you're gonna fail. That's true again.

994
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 1: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's where you

995
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: will fail. Success is not in your comfort zone. It's

996
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: on the other side. And if you want to be successful,

997
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 1: you got to get out your comfort zone and prepare

998
01:05:55,560 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: yourself to get uncomfortable. Am I being a sellout if

999
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 1: I pull out from my friend? Now? Hell? Now, you

1000
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: ain't being a sellout. It's called moved out. Yeah, you

1001
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: ain't no sellout. You moved out. Am I supposed to

1002
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: keep waiting for my boyfriend to get himself all the

1003
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 1: way together? Is that way to distance myself respectfully? No?

1004
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 1: The way you distance yourself respectfully is that you you

1005
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 1: stopped hanging with them. Stop, lady, you know them nothing

1006
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: they're going to say, keep it real to you. They're

1007
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: gonna say you a sellout. All you can stay there

1008
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 1: and regret it the rest of your life, or you

1009
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: can go and move on and see what God has

1010
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: for you. You ain't gonna be less. Black. Strubberry Letter

1011
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: at Steve Brvey FM, on Instagram and Facebook. Check out

1012
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 1: the Strubbery Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty

1013
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: six minutes after the hours. Junior, right after this, you're

1014
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 1: listening Steve Morning Show. Here we go, Junior is here

1015
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: with sports Talk. What you got, Junior? I need my man, Pipper.

1016
01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: This ain't about just Junior. This is about biding. What's

1017
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 1: going on? Anybody? Go ahead? Junior was hot last week

1018
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: fourteen to two New Picks Pepper, Yeah, tennesseew York Jets

1019
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: pip used me say it again? Tennessee at New York Jets. Oh,

1020
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 1: Tennessee Jets ain't going to win the game. Oh Man,

1021
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: Kansas City at Philly, Kansas City not gonna lose three

1022
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 1: in a Kansas City. It is Carolina Panthers at the

1023
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys. No, Man, that's gonna be hard because Jim

1024
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: Panthers just playing man and I do not like them,

1025
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 1: but they are starting to win my heart, man, Cowboys.

1026
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 1: I don't even like picking them, but I got to

1027
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: tell the truth though. Yeah, New York Jazz at the

1028
01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: New Orleans Saints, New or In Saint Jamison make a comeback.

1029
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: Oh he would go. Detroit at Chicago. Ooh, that's a

1030
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:12,280
Speaker 1: go nowhere a game. I'm gonna go with Detroit. If

1031
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:17,200
Speaker 1: the Motor City hit you on, I'm gonna be with

1032
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: you on this. Pick right here. Pepper Houston at Buffalo Bills. Oh,

1033
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 1: Buffalo man, I don't know what to stop this here

1034
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: now quickly. Indianapolis, Indianapolis coat at the Miami Dolphins. That

1035
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: black dude that replaced Tonka Luga, whatever his name, Kobe said, yeah,

1036
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 1: I can't say his name either. Yeah, over the Indianapolis coach.

1037
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go with Miami man, just the supplies

1038
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:51,759
Speaker 1: and met Washington football team at Atlanta foal, Oh, Washington

1039
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: gonna make a comeback. Nice game last week. Hawks. Whatever

1040
01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:58,759
Speaker 1: you donna name your birds. They always name their teams

1041
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 1: after birds around name somebody something else. Damn gonna hear

1042
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: you at San Francisco. Oh, it's gonna be crazy, man,

1043
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: because I russelled them lost last week and Frisco lost

1044
01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 1: too and Bass Minute and Russell them struggling. I'm gonna

1045
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 1: have to go with San Francisco, man, even though I

1046
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: won't Russell to win eversold at the Los Angeles Rams. Oh,

1047
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a monster game like them, man, Rams Rams.

1048
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Speaker 1: It is Green Bay and Pittsburgh. Oh man, green Bay, Baby,

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01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: come on, I hate this still. It's ain't no win nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, that's gonna be rough. But I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: with Lamar Baltimore for the win. Yeah, okay, Temple Bay

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01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: at New England. Oh he oh he going back up there.

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01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 1: He gonna beat Bill Bellichicken as the Cleveland Crowns And

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Speaker 1: I don't give it that who you say? Who a Minnesota?

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Speaker 1: Minnesota finding you will all right, Thank you, Junior, Thank you, Pempin.

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Speaker 1: Coming up in the top of all my picks top

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Speaker 1: dot com Brown's comedy Roulette. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to the show time now for Jay Anthony Brown's comedy Roulette.

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Speaker 1: Take it away, Jay and set it up for us. Please.

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Speaker 1: So simple. It is just so simple. You take three subjects,

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01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:34,759
Speaker 1: any three subjects you want to put them on a wheel.

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Speaker 1: Word stop. We will make it funny, damn it. All right,

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01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 1: here are today's category. Things millennials will say to let

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01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:54,680
Speaker 1: you know they're having a bad day. Okay. Way as

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01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: you say to the family, your date is not that attractive?

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01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 1: Oh really? Or the last one TV shows you don't

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01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 1: like to admit that you watch? All right? Oh it

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Speaker 1: stopped on. Ways you say to the family your date

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01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: is not that attractive. Oh no, here we go, commedy roulette.

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Speaker 1: Ways to let your family know your date is not

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Speaker 1: that attractive. Don't try to look into that wandering act

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Speaker 1: because it won't be looking at you. Okay, don't throw

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Speaker 1: yourself off trying to look at it. Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Things you say that the family to let you know

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01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: that your data is that attractive. You know what, I

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Speaker 1: really think it's great we have matching headlines. I really

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Speaker 1: do think that. Ways to say your date that isn't

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Speaker 1: really that attract you know what, she looked like her daddy,

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Speaker 1: But she got a good spirit, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Spirit see nice. Ways to say to your family your

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Speaker 1: date ain't that attractive. Okay, listen, we met at church. Yes,

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01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: it's we met at church. Ways to let your family

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01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 1: know that your date is not not that attractive. Okay,

1084
01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 1: he's gonna have to take his jacket off because his

1085
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Speaker 1: hump sweats. Okay, so when he gets in the house.

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01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 1: Ways to say to the family that your date is unattractive.

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01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:47,719
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, Grandma, you don't use all your TVs.

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01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 1: Ways to say to your date that isn't that attractive.

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01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 1: Look family. Way to say to your family, I'm sorry

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01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: that your date is really not that attractive. Listen from

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01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 1: the neck down? She cold? Though cold? Neck down? Tho cold.

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01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:18,639
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you who for good. Ways to say

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01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: to your family your date ain't that attractive. Listen, it

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01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 1: was a car accident. See what you're talking about? When

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01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 1: she get him, just listen, it's a car accident. I

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01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: ain't coming to Roulette. Wait to let your family know

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Speaker 1: your date is not that attractive. He has a neck, Okay,

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01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 1: he has a neck. Neck behind. Ways to tell your

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01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 1: family your date is not that attractive. Listen when she

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Speaker 1: come in here, I'm gonna eat all these lights off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and she liked talking in the dog. She don't like lights. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Ways the thing of your family, your date just isn't

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01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 1: that attractive. Listen, Listen, the lord works in mysterious ways.

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01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He just works in mysterious ways.

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01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 1: That's all I can say. But y'all get rid of ways. Safety,

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01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 1: your family, It is your date. It's not that all right.

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01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 1: When she get here, be not nobody say nothing. That's it.

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01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you when she come in here that

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01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 1: not nobody say a damn fast. That's pretty damn and

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Speaker 1: I mean nothing nothing all all our heavy breathing nothing,

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01:14:54,920 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 1: all right. That's comedy roulette. Janthony's Janthony Brown's comedy Roulette.

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01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,880
Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and trending

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Speaker 1: viral video news. Did you guys see a black military veteran.

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Speaker 1: His name is Eugene Bozzo Bozzi, Eugene Bozzi. He's a

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Speaker 1: Philly native and has only lived in Florida for one year. Well.

1118
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: He officially became a local hero when he successfully used

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Speaker 1: a trash can a trash can to fight off and

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Speaker 1: capture a six foot alligator just loitering in a neighbor's

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01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:43,799
Speaker 1: front yard. This was crazy, right in some flip flops.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to trap our alligator. First thing, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: do a gippy damn flip flops. All cannot get this

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Speaker 1: foot hull up at no moment in this attempt. Flip

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01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: flops are known to do that. He got over firstful

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01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 1: he was with the trash can. Who would have I

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01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: would have run the other way for sure. Noah, Sure,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going over there. I'm good at giving instructions.

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Speaker 1: I don't say I give instructions were a trash came

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Speaker 1: like use the trash came from the alligating. My trash

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01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 1: can would have had trash in it. If I go

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Speaker 1: outside to get this alligator, he gonna be dinner and

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Speaker 1: a belt. I'm shooting. Yeah, Navy Yard, good name as

1134
01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: a brave dude. He really is. Yeah, yeah, black Dundee.

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01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this,

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01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:57,599
Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Uh, what is going on? Then?

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Speaker 1: NBA is looking to get all all of its players vaccinated.

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01:17:01,640 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Before the start of the season.

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01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,719
Speaker 1: Amid new executive orders in San Francisco and New York City.

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01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:13,600
Speaker 1: Any unvaccinated NBA players who cannot play will now have

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01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 1: to forfeit their pay. Okay, Barry Irvitt makes four hundred

1143
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 1: and thirty five thousand dollars a game. What he's saying

1144
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 1: he's not taking a vaccine. Okay, look, man, um, brothers,

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01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say this to all y'all. This your livelihood.

1146
01:17:36,360 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 1: Y'all sitting up in here tripping about the research done

1147
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,880
Speaker 1: on the vaccine, which is ample enough for them to

1148
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 1: make it worldwide. I don't know what you're tripping on,

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Speaker 1: and you can talk about this my choice. It's your choice.

1150
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 1: But when your choice affects the livelihood and welfare of

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01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:56,640
Speaker 1: other people, it's not just your choice. You're in a

1152
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 1: locker room in close quarters every day with these group

1153
01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 1: of guys, and what you can't do is coming there

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01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: sick and then affect their livelihood and their money. It's

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01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:10,880
Speaker 1: a team sport. Now, brothers, get this damn vaccine and

1156
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: carry your ass on. How ky rebax four hundred and

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01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:26,880
Speaker 1: thirty five thousand. What let three three up lebron got vaccinated? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I should tell you something. Lead by example. There you go.

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01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 1: I got the vaccine before Lebron. I'm not a follower.

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Speaker 1: I don't need nobody's permission to take care of me

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01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: and my damn family. And I don't want to hear

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01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 1: your theory. Oh yeah, and listen, it's my choice. It

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01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: is until it affects me. Right, it's your choice to

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01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 1: be in the clue klux Klan. But if you come

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01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 1: over in my house with your sign and your hood on,

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01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:01,880
Speaker 1: I got something for your aunts. Now your decision, it's

1167
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 1: finn affect something. Now your rights actions have consequences, thank you,

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01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 1: caller for rever And employees have the right to try

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01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:14,479
Speaker 1: to protect all their employees, and that's what they're trying

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01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:17,920
Speaker 1: to do. Safe work environment. Come in here and we

1171
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 1: don't know what the hell you got. Now you take

1172
01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:23,040
Speaker 1: the shot, get tested, or you stay your ass home

1173
01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:25,800
Speaker 1: and forth your money. Here's the way. That's a lot

1174
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 1: of money to force a lot of paper. But what

1175
01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 1: about regular jobs, so people in the airline industry. But

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01:19:34,280 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 1: you know what, see call it it's all relative. See

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01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: just caused Kyrie make four hundred and thirty five thousand

1178
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 1: dollars a game. I've heard that number before. But when

1179
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 1: you make four thousand dollars a month and somebody telling

1180
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: about you can come get this four thousand or you

1181
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 1: get nothing. I'm gonna go get the shot because it's

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Speaker 1: four thousand. That's my four thirty five games coming up.

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01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:00,879
Speaker 1: It is our last break of the day on this Friday.

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01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 1: You're joking, right, Actually, yeah, it's a leste damn looking

1185
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Speaker 1: for another break. But okay, coming up in forty nine

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Speaker 1: minutes after closing remarks from our one and only fearless

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Speaker 1: leader Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are our

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Speaker 1: last break of the day of the week. It's Friday. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is m first day of October, October. It is yes,

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Speaker 1: every birthday to my brother Dial, my dog, Happy birthday man,

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Speaker 1: my brother seventy five today. Whoa that's my youngest brother,

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Speaker 1: my young brother. Oh okay, okay, that's October is also

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Speaker 1: Breast Cancer Awareness Months. Yes, it's the Mess of Violence

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01:20:56,000 --> 01:21:02,519
Speaker 1: Awareness Months. That's right, Chirlts Halloween, Halloween, Carlo's birthday, Marjorie

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Speaker 1: Harvey's birthday. Jesus, A lot of stuff going on. You

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Speaker 1: gotta buy something birthday, don't you? Bar Hell? Yeah, you mean,

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Speaker 1: we can't hear you? Hell yeah, I bet not. I

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Speaker 1: act like I bet like can't I forgot that? I

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Speaker 1: don't forget No way, I tall. Here we go. This

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Speaker 1: is my closes remarks It day. I was I was

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01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 1: watching TV actually last night, and um and you know

1203
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 1: that show that comes on A and E called Intervention

1204
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 1: where they where they try to intervene and get their

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01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 1: family members off drugs or alcohol or whatever, you know.

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01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:51,200
Speaker 1: And I was watching it and this girl on the

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01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:54,599
Speaker 1: show was twenty four years old. And then they had

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01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: another episode where this man was fifty, the girl was

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01:21:59,040 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 1: on rugs meth, and the guy was an alcoholic but

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01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:06,040
Speaker 1: he was fifty and she was twenty three. And I

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01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:09,439
Speaker 1: was watching this and both of them said the same

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Speaker 1: thing which prompted my closing remarks today. Both of them said,

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01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 1: what could my life have been? Both of them said

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01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:24,800
Speaker 1: that at one point, man, I've messed up. What could

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01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 1: my life have been? Now? That's really hard, man, when

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01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:32,360
Speaker 1: you hear a twenty three year old say that, But

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Speaker 1: for me, as equally as hard when I hear a

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Speaker 1: fifty year old say that. Because what I want to

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01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: say to everybody out there is talking about what could

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Speaker 1: your life have been. I want you to realize that

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01:22:43,880 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 1: that's a trick, y'all. Don't let the devil fool you

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Speaker 1: with the thought of what could my life have been?

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Speaker 1: That's a trick. Your life is not over. I don't

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01:22:56,840 --> 01:23:00,200
Speaker 1: care what you've done. If God wakes you up, it's

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01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 1: because He ain't through with you. Your life is never

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01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:06,240
Speaker 1: over until it's over. Don't let the devil fool you

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01:23:06,360 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 1: with the thought of what could my life have been?

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01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 1: It's a trick. We all make mistakes, every last one

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01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 1: of us. We will continue to make mistakes until we

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Speaker 1: lead as world. Now listen, one of the mistakes that

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01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:26,920
Speaker 1: we all make is sometimes we make decisions that are

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Speaker 1: contrary to what God actually wants for us. We've all

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Speaker 1: done this. We all make mistakes that cause us to

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01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:45,680
Speaker 1: take and make detours in our life. And the detours

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01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 1: that we take in our life are oftentimes leads us

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Speaker 1: into another direction counter to the one that God had

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01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: planned for us. Because God's original plan for you is

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01:23:56,520 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 1: to prosper. But we make decisions along the way that

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01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 1: causes detours. And because something that is delayed doesn't mean

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01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 1: that it's denied. And I want you all to stop

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01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,679
Speaker 1: thinking and allowing the devil to food you talking about

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01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:17,560
Speaker 1: what could my life have been? Your life still has opportunities, chances,

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01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 1: decisions that can be made. Your life is still valuably

1244
01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 1: because God keeps giving you life. Don't let this devil

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01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:29,560
Speaker 1: do his masterful trick. His only mission in life is

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01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:31,800
Speaker 1: to rob you of your destiny. You can't let this

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01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:35,040
Speaker 1: happen by allowing the negative thought to come in what

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01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,640
Speaker 1: could my life have been? Your life can still be.

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Speaker 1: Everybody makes detours. I was looking on the line the

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Speaker 1: other day and I saw Cardi B an offset over

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Speaker 1: in Paris, right for fashion week, and Cardi B was

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Speaker 1: decked out. This girl bad in the fashion game. But

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Speaker 1: I was listening to my assistant tell me Cardi B

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Speaker 1: story how she used to work out a grocery store

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't make ends meet to her talked her

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Speaker 1: into another profession, which was to become a stripper. Now,

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Speaker 1: God ain't never told nobody to strip. You can believe that,

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Speaker 1: But we make decisions. But anyway, long story short, Cardi

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Speaker 1: B saved her money, went and met a radio personality

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Speaker 1: and did a track, made a song. This was the

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Speaker 1: story he told me. How true that is? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I loved it right. Cardi B now is famous

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Speaker 1: as an artist, but she took a detour. She was

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Speaker 1: a stripper. God never had intention for Cardi B to

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Speaker 1: be a stripper. Cardi B was to be a mother,

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Speaker 1: Cardi B was to be a global star. And Cardi

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Speaker 1: B this is her career. Her mission is still being unfolded.

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Speaker 1: What Cardi B is going to be? She ain't even

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Speaker 1: reached it yet. What Beyonce he's going to be? She

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Speaker 1: made out, I've reached it yet. What I'm going to be?

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Speaker 1: I'm getting there. I took some detours in life. I

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Speaker 1: made some decisions and some marriages. I made some decisions

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Speaker 1: with my career. I ended up homeless. I took some

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Speaker 1: detools man to get here. Don't let the devil fool

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Speaker 1: you with that statement of what could my life have been?

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Speaker 1: Everybody makes mistakes that cause it detools that are contrary

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Speaker 1: to God's plan. But don't you let the devil fool

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Speaker 1: you with what couldn't your life have been? Your life

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Speaker 1: is always processing. We are all in the process, even

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Speaker 1: when you make a mistake, even when you cause a delay.

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Speaker 1: But because it's delay, don't mean it's denied. We are

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Speaker 1: all in the process. Don't get tripped out because your

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Speaker 1: process then took a detool. God ain't through with you yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, your life can still be great

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Speaker 1: at fifty. Your life can be great at twenty three.

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Speaker 1: Don't be fooled with the trick of what your life

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Speaker 1: can be. Trust in God. Talk to God, call on him,

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Speaker 1: and let him show you what your life can be

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Speaker 1: because He got one. See your money. For all Steve

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